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Sex Chat for Christian WivesNo Desire, Wedding Night Preparation, and Can't Reach Climax (Listener Questions)We tackle listener questions today from a wife who doesn't even want to want sex, a woman wanting to know how to prepare for her wedding night and marriage, and a wife who can't seem to get all the way there with orgasm. Sponsor Mismatched desire in your marriage? Let’s talk about what it means, why it happens, and how to grow closer through it. Sign up for our new masterclass on Sexual Desire Differences today! From the Bible That is why a man leaves his father and mother and is...2025-07-2523 minSex Chat for Christian WivesSex Drive Conversation (Quickie)This week's quickie is from Bonny Logsdon Burns about how to have a conversation about mismatched sex drives. Follow-up with our webinars and/or stay tuned for more full episodes and quick tips about sex in marriage!2024-10-2202 minSex Chat for Christian WivesMismatched Drives #1 (Quickie)This week's quickie is from Bonny Logsdon Burns about things to consider when you and your spouse have mismatched sex drives. Follow-up with our webinars and/or stay tuned for more full episodes and quick tips about sex in marriage!2024-10-1602 min
Hope For WivesConsent and Sexual CoercionWith your co-hostesses: Pam Blizzard from RecoveredPeace.com Lyschel Burket from HopeRedefined.org Bonny Burns from StrongWives.com Help Us Help Others Listen now: The next two episodes we are tenderly discussing topics around sexual abuse in marriage. So, we invite you to assess whether you are in a grounded enough state to listen to this conversation. If you are not, please come back another time and listen. If you choose to stay, please take some grounding breaths and hold yourself in compassion and love, knowing Jesus is sitting with you right now. It’s hard to consider that s...2024-05-2837 minSex Chat for Christian WivesSeasoned Wives' Wisdom for Young WivesEarlier on in our podcast, we had an episode in which we gave advice to our newlywed selves. Today we want to revisit that topic a bit, but rather than talking to ourselves, we want to share the wisdom we've gained with young wives. Sponsor Thanks to Married Dance, a Christian marital aid and sex toy store, for sponsoring this episode. From the Bible Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking...2024-04-2519 minSex Chat for Christian WivesSex Drive & Genetics, Erectile Problems, and Missing Sleep for Sex (Listener Questions)Today, we tackle listener questions about whether low sex drive might be genetic, as well as how to address lack of desire; dealing with a husband's erectile problems; and what to do about a husband who disrupts a wife's sleep for sex. Sponsor Share the Soap goat milk aromatic bath and body skin care Sex Chat Special: Order Face Serum, get Lip Balm for free! Enter code FCWSPRING at checkout (through March 31, 2024). From the Bible Do not arouse or awaken love until it so desires. Song of Songs 2:7, 3:5, 8:4 2024-03-1426 min
Knowing Her SexuallyStruggling with Orgasm J is joined by Bonny Burns, cohost of Sex Chat for Christian Wives and author of Unlock Your Orgasm, to discuss why wives struggle with orgasm and how to help her reach climax. And a reminder: If you can help Chris Taylor financially, head to the GoFundMe page set up in honor of the passing of her husband, Doug. Any amount is appreciated and will help to defer funeral expenses and assist her with transition. Resources Strong Wives - Bonny Burns's Ministry Unlock Your Orgasm: Through a Christian Lens by...2023-12-2124 minSex Chat for Christian WivesPractical Tips for Reaching Orgasm About this episode One of the most frequent questions we hear is how can we more easily achieve the ultimate moment with our husbands in the bedroom. So today, we are talking about practical tips to reach orgasm. Sponsors Venus Pearls This episode is also sponsored by Married Dance, an online Christian sex toy store From the Bible Let him kiss me with the kisses of his mouth— for your love is more delightful tha...2023-05-1732 minSex Chat for Christian WivesThe Orgasm IcebergWhen God created women, He gave us an amazing gift—the clitoris! Its only purpose is our sexual pleasure, but many of us don’t know too much about this part of our body. In this episode, we’re going to help you learn about the wonderful clitoris. Sponsor Learn more about Venus Pearls! From the Bible For you formed my inward parts; you knitted me together in my mother's womb. I praise you, for I am fearfully and wonderfully made. Wonderful are your works; my sou...2022-06-1528 minSex Chat for Christian WivesFoundations of Sexual IntimacyOur listeners have varied experiences, and some may value knowing some basic principles from a physical and emotional perspective. So today, we're getting back to the foundations of sexual intimacy, including what we wish we'd known going into marriage. Sponsor Check out our special offer for women-owned businesses. From the Bible But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, forbearance, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self-control. Against such things there is no law. Galatians 5:22–23 Be devoted to one another in love. Honor one another above yoursel...2022-04-1937 minSex Chat for Christian WivesFlirting with Your Husband, with Lisa Jacobson and Phylicia MasonheimerWith Bonny out again, we’re down one wife today, but we’ve invited not one but two other wives to join us at today’s virtual kitchen table. We’re so happy to have Lisa Jacobson and Phylicia Masonheimer, co-authors of The Flirtation Experiment, with us to discuss how flirting with your husband can lead to greater intimacy in marriage and the bedroom. Be sure to check out their book! Sponsor This episode was sponsored by Venus Pearls, from Burns Logsdon Therapeutics. This episode is also sponsored by Married Dance. Fro...2022-04-0636 minSex Chat for Christian WivesIs Your Sex Life Boring?About this episode We’ve heard from many women that their sex life sometimes feels boring. Today, we talk about boredom in the bedroom and what to do about it. Sponsor This episode was sponsored by Venus Pearls, from Burns Logsdon Therapeutics. From the Bible The mandrakes send out their fragrance, and at our door is every delicacy, both new and old, that I have stored up for you, my beloved. – Song of Song...2022-03-2224 minSex Chat for Christian WivesNew Year, New Sexual YouWe’re back! It was an eventful December and early January for us and will share what we have been doing. Today, we’re talking about a new sexual you. What does that mean? What does it look like? And how can you achieve it? What does it mean to have a new sexual you? Are we saying just more sex or something else? What would it look like to make goals for improving sexuality? What kinds of goals can wives set for themselves and their marriage? Once you’ve set some goals, how can you track your progre...2022-01-1129 minSex Chat for Christian Wives10 Best Things About SexWhat are the best things about sex? We compiled a list of ten and hope it will inspire you to pursue better and deeper intimacy in your marriage. Sponsor Black Friday sale: 13% off store-wide! Visit Married Dance HERE. Also check out Make My Own Soap! Use coupon code 10off for $10 off the one-pound loaf starter kit. Use coupon code 20off for $20 off the LOAF starter kit. From the Bible What does the Bible say about the best things about sex? I belong to...2021-11-0924 minSex Chat for Christian WivesThe Most Pleasurable Sex PositionsAbout this episode Today’s episode has a tantalizing title, but what we’re really talking about are positions that work especially well for a wife, ones that don’t work, and positions might give you a better opportunity to orgasm. Let’s revisit some basic concepts first and discuss why sexual positioning matters. What are some of the more comfortable or pleasurable sex positions for the wife? Now how about what Bonny has called #positionfail? That is, positions you or others have tried that Did Not Work Out? What are some sex posi...2021-08-1725 minSex Chat for Christian WivesYour Sexual SelfToday we are exploring the term “sexual self.” Your sexual self is an unfolding aspect of who you are, woven into the fabric of your being. What is identity and how would it relate to a sense of a wife’s sexual self? Or in other words, how does your sexual self fit into the whole of who you are as a woman? What affects how comfortable you are with accessing this part of yourself? How do we integrate biblical principles into our sexual selves? What can a wife do to discover or rediscover her sexual self? Sponso...2021-06-2227 minSex Chat for Christian WivesListener QuestionsIn this episode, we answer a few of your questions. “What are other ways to relax and enjoy my husband guilt free?” “I don't like feeling like it’s just sex.... Do I have a block? Was I wrong to be upset? How do I get myself [past] feeling like it's cold and not love?” “I was hoping you could share some wisdom of what it's like moving in with your husband for the first time… what to expect…how to talk to one another about our soon to be sex life, and tips for a soon to be pastor's wife...2021-04-2731 min
Sex Chat for Christian WivesSexless MarriagesAbout the Episode Around 20% of marriages are sexless. That is, the couple has sexual activity ten or fewer times per year. About ten years ago, a New York Times study indicated that 15% of couples haven’t had sex in at least six months. Sexlessness in a marriage can be a source of deep pain—and if often reflects pain as well. Today we’re going to talk about sexless marriages and what you can do about it if you’re in one. Sponsor Click Here to Learn More...2019-10-3042 minSex Chat for Christian WivesSexless MarriagesAbout the Episode Around 20% of marriages are sexless. That is, the couple has sexual activity ten or fewer times per year. About ten years ago, a New York Times study indicated that 15% of couples haven’t had sex in at least six months. Sexlessness in a marriage can be a source of deep pain—and if often reflects pain as well. Today we’re going to talk about sexless marriages and what you can do about it if you’re in one. Sponsor Click Here to Learn More...2019-10-3042 min
Sex Chat for Christian WivesListener QuestionsAbout the Episode We tackle listener questions about gifts for a virgin bride, sex positions, and predicting sex drive. My friend is getting married this year, and she is a virgin. What kind of gifts would you recommend to help her have a more comfortable transition into losing her virginity, and loving sex? My husband and I are newly married and I feel like we repeat the same three positions and we have discussed getting a book to figure out new positions! I'm getting married in a few weeks. Is there any way to know before...2019-05-1527 minSex Chat for Christian WivesListener QuestionsAbout the Episode We tackle listener questions about gifts for a virgin bride, sex positions, and predicting sex drive. My friend is getting married this year, and she is a virgin. What kind of gifts would you recommend to help her have a more comfortable transition into losing her virginity, and loving sex? My husband and I are newly married and I feel like we repeat the same three positions and we have discussed getting a book to figure out new positions! I'm getting married in a few weeks. Is there any way to know before...2019-05-1527 min
Delight Your Marriage17-Be A Warrior In The Bedroom with Bonny Logsdon BurnsHi there! Belah here. This is Part II of my talk with Bonny about her story. Bonny Logsdon Burns of oysterbed7.com made a choice to fight for her marriage. She grew and learned about what her husband needed her to be as a wife. Be a warrior in the bedroom and learn how to increase your sex drive too!
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The FREE webinar is coming up soon! Sign up at delightyourmarriage.com/peniwebinar2015-04-0234 minDelight Your Marriage16-Sex Addiction Should Have Broke Them with Bonny Logsdon BurnsHi there! Belah here. Today I have Bonny talking about her story. Bonny of oysterbed7.com has been married for 20+ years. Her story is about God’s redeeming power of something that could have broke them. Bonny was raising 3 kiddos almost single-handedly when she learned of a secret that caused her so much pain.
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& Sign Up for free webinar Specifics of Amazing Peni (aka oral sex; Wives only!) delightyourmarriage.com/peniwebinar2015-03-3135 min