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Choosing Us110. The Power of Thanksgiving and GratitudeIn this episode, Brad and Michaela discuss the impact and power of having gratitude. Being the week of Thanksgiving, they felt it was imperative to discuss having love and gratitude within the home and in your relationship.Now, If you find this episode valuable, please share with your significant other, friends, and family. We love you!Listen in!Thank you for listening to this episode of Choosing Us.
2025-11-2622 minChoosing Us109. Intentional Intimacy in Life's Biggest Transitions: Staying Connected When Everything ChangesHonestly, the most powerful thing about this episode might be what happens when two exhausted people choose to show up for each other anyway. The Drapers are navigating the final days before their baby arrives while simultaneously restarting their business after fourteen months—and they're pulling back the curtain on what intimacy actually looks like when life gets messy.Here's what might surprise you: they're not talking about romance in the traditional sense. Instead, they break down how true intimacy encompasses emotional, spiritual, and energetic connection that extends far beyond the bedroom. (Foot rubs and extended cuddles count, ap...
2025-11-1922 minChoosing Us108. Love is a Verb: The Work Behind ForeverWhat does it really mean to love someone?The Drapers flip the script on romance by arguing that love isn't a feeling you fall into—it's an active verb demanding consistent effort. Through a bicycle analogy, they explain how relationships need constant pedaling (continuous work and intentional energy) or they'll inevitably coast to a stop. While many couples believe they've "fallen out of love," the Drapers challenge this phrase entirely, insisting love is an internal choice rather than an external force.After twelve years of marriage, Brad and Michaela practice what they preach. They ma...
2025-11-0523 minChoosing Us107. Strong Together: Why Independence Makes Marriage StrongerWhat if the secret to a strong marriage isn't being inseparable, but learning when to stand on your own?The Drapers dive deep into the delicate balance between independence and interdependence in marriage, sharing raw insights from their 11-year journey together. Starting as a 19-year-old wife who waited by the door for her husband's return, Michaela reveals how her early codependency nearly destroyed their relationship. The couple discusses the crucial difference between leaning on your partner versus dumping your entire emotional load on them.Through honest examples—from constant work complaints to 18 months of no...
2025-10-2922 minChoosing Us106. Sacred Time: Prioritizing Marriage and Family in the Chaos of LifeDiscover how busy parents can prioritize their relationship without leaving home in this intimate episode recorded from the Drapers' living room.At 34 weeks pregnant with their third child, Michaela and her husband share their approach to maintaining connection during life's busiest seasons. Instead of a traditional babymoon, they opted for a local staycation while their boys stayed with grandparents - proving that meaningful moments don't require expensive trips or elaborate plans.The couple opens up about establishing sacred family time from 6-8 PM that even their business partners respect, emphasizing that children...
2025-10-2221 minChoosing Us105. United Front: "We" Language, Consistency, and No-Empty-Threat ParentingEver wonder why your kids seem to ignore your threats but listen to other parents?Brad reveals the eye-opening moment when his six-year-old's friend rolled his eyes at empty parental warnings—but immediately complied when warned that Brad actually follows through.In this candid episode of Choosing Us, Michaela and Brad get real about the messy reality of parenting as a team. From navigating brutal pregnancy symptoms to discovering their pre-marriage parenting plans didn't survive first contact with actual children, they share hard-won wisdom about different parenting styles.The couple reveals their "mom says go...
2025-10-1523 minChoosing Us102. Finding Heavenly Winks: Navigating Chaos, Self-Care, and Relationship Reality ChecksWhat happens when life throws you into survival mode just weeks before your third child arrives?The Drapers open up about their current chaotic season with Michaela on bed rest at 30 weeks pregnant and Brad overwhelmed with juggling everything solo. While admitting they're barely completing 75% of their daily tasks, they've discovered the power of "heavenly winks" - those unexpected beautiful moments like spontaneous toddler cuddles that shine through the darkness.This raw conversation dives deep into relationship dynamics during stressful times, emphasizing that **perfection isn't the goal - connection is.** They tackle the dangerous...
2025-09-2420 minChoosing Us101. Play, Serve, Work — The 3-Part Formula for Unbreakable RelationshipsWhat happens when a couple builds their relationship through three powerful pillars while expecting their next baby?Michaela and Brad Draper share their blueprint for unbreakable bonds from their cozy setup—complete with contractions and bed rest humor.The Drapers reveal their relationship formula: working together builds a relationship, adding service creates friendship, and incorporating play forms an unbreakable bond. They live this philosophy through mountain biking adventures, competitive arcade dates (where Brad's rare piano game victories meet Mikayla's skeeball dominance), and gym sessions that keep them connected amid parenting chaos.Their practical approach in...
2025-09-1721 minChoosing Us99. Growth Through Parenthood and PartnershipFinding Purpose Through Prison Programs and Personal GrowthDiscover how a simple volunteer opportunity transformed into a life-changing mission as Michaela and Brad Draper share their remarkable journey of developing a communications program for incarcerated women. In this powerful episode, the couple reveals how they crafted a 50-course curriculum despite limited resources, proving that impactful change often starts with a single step.The conversation delves deep into balancing family life with ambitious dreams, as the Drapers navigate new beginnings and embrace challenges head-on. They discuss practical strategies for overcoming fear, including leveraging modern tools like ChatGPT...
2025-09-0321 minChoosing Us98. Words Matter: Building Strong Bonds Through Positive LanguageThe Power of Words: Transforming Relationships Through Positive LanguageDiscover how the simple act of choosing our words carefully can revolutionize our relationships and shape our children's self-perception. In this compelling episode of "Choosing Us," Brad and Michaela Draper dive deep into the transformative power of positive language in family dynamics.The Drapers share personal insights about their journey through parenthood, including a touching moment when their child's innocent perspective on beauty prompted a profound self-reflection. They explore how daily affirmations and conscious word choices can build resilience and self-esteem in children, while also strengthening...
2025-08-2721 minChoosing Us97. Breaking the Taboo: Navigating Sex and Hormones in RelationshipsUnlocking the Taboo: A Candid Conversation About Sex and Hormones in RelationshipsDive into a refreshingly honest discussion about one of the most challenging aspects of relationships - sexual intimacy and hormone health. Michaela and Brad Draper break down the barriers surrounding libido differences between partners, challenging the notion that low sexual desire is just "normal," especially for women.The episode reveals how hormone imbalances can significantly impact relationships, with the Drapers sharing their personal journey with testosterone therapy and its transformative effects on their marriage. They tackle common misconceptions about gender-based desires and exhaustion, offering...
2025-08-2023 minChoosing Us96. Big T Vs. Little T: Transforming Struggles into StrengthsWhat Really Matters in Communication: Intent vs ImpactEver wondered why your well-intended messages sometimes miss the mark? This enlightening episode of Choosing Us dives deep into the fascinating disconnect between what we mean and how our words are received. The Drapers masterfully explore how our past experiences shape our perceptions and impact our relationships today.Through personal stories and expert insights, they introduce the powerful concepts of "little t truth" and "big T truth," demonstrating how different interpretations of shared experiences can lead to either connection or conflict. Michaela shares vulnerable moments from her childhood...
2025-08-1321 minChoosing Us95. Priorities: Humor and Harmony in Household ChoresEver wondered why your partner's way of loading the dishwasher drives you crazy? The Drapers dive deep into the fascinating world of relationship priorities and household dynamics!In this enlightening episode of "Choosing Us," hosts Michaela and Brad Draper celebrate Michaela's birthday month while tackling the universal challenge of managing different priorities in relationships. Through their personal experiences as parents of two young boys (ages 3 and 5), they explore how couples can navigate contrasting approaches to household tasks without letting it spark conflict.The episode highlights the importance of:- Respecting individual priorities and methods- Understanding...
2025-08-0623 minChoosing Us94. Building a Nursery and Nurturing RelationshipsFrom Hesitant to Hero: A Husband's Journey into Nursery DesignDiscover how one couple's journey of preparing for their new baby becomes a testament to partnership and growth. When Brad steps out of his comfort zone to tackle nursery renovations - from painting to wallpapering - what emerges is more than just a beautiful room; it's a story of love, compromise, and shared vision.The episode dives deep into the importance of maintaining joy and friendship in relationships, especially during life's major transitions. Through candid conversations, the speakers share valuable insights about:...
2025-07-3021 minChoosing Us93. Embracing the Now: Finding Joy Amidst Life's ChallengesLiving in the Present: Finding Joy Amidst Life's ChallengesDiscover how embracing the present moment can transform your relationship and mental well-being. In this powerful episode of "Choosing Us," the Drapers dive deep into the delicate balance between supporting a partner through difficult times and maintaining personal boundaries.Through their experiences, including volunteering at Utah State Prison and navigating stressful family moments, Michaela and Brad reveal how anxiety and depression often stem from our relationship with time.They share candid insights about:The impact of negative moods on family dynamics- Giving partners...
2025-07-2323 minChoosing Us91. Impeccable Words: Building Trust in RelationshipsUnlocking the Power of Words in RelationshipsIn this compelling episode of "Choosing Us," Michaela and Brad Draper dive into the life-changing principles of the "Four Agreements" by Miguel Ruiz, focusing on the crucial concept of being impeccable with your word. Their candid discussions reveal the transformative impact clear communication and integrity can have on relationships.With humor and vulnerability, they share personal stories that underscore the importance of accountability and honesty. The Drapers emphasize that effective communication begins with oneself and that mindful exchanges can build trust and strengthen connections. Their insights into handling constructive...
2025-07-0923 minChoosing Us90. Nurturing Self-Care: Balancing Personal Joys in RelationshipsCan being selfish actually strengthen your relationship?In this enlightening episode of Choosing Us, Brad and Michaela Draper dive deep into the counterintuitive wisdom of prioritizing self-care within partnerships. The couple shares their personal journey of navigating conflicting needs - from Brad's essential morning workouts to Michaela's desire for extra sleep. Through candid stories and practical insights, they reveal how supporting each other's individual pursuits has actually deepened their connection.Key highlights include:- Finding balance between personal needs and partnership- The role of communication in managing different routines- How self-care enables better c...
2025-07-0222 minChoosing Us89. Embracing Change: Navigating Summer Chaos and the Art of ReceivingLearning to Receive: A Journey Through Love, Growth, and Summer ChaosEver wondered why accepting help or compliments feels so challenging? The Drapers dive deep into the art of receiving gracefully, sparked by their experiences during a challenging pregnancy and the chaos of summer parenting. In this heartfelt episode, Michaela and Brad share their personal transformation from being reluctant receivers to understanding the beauty of accepting others' generosity. They explore how the simple act of receiving - whether it's help, compliments, or constructive criticism - can strengthen relationships and foster personal growth.The conversation w...
2025-06-2622 minChoosing Us89. Embracing Change: Navigating Summer Chaos and the Art of ReceivingLearning to Receive: A Journey Through Love, Growth, and Summer ChaosEver wondered why accepting help or compliments feels so challenging? The Drapers dive deep into the art of receiving gracefully, sparked by their experiences during a challenging pregnancy and the chaos of summer parenting. In this heartfelt episode, Michaela and Brad share their personal transformation from being reluctant receivers to understanding the beauty of accepting others' generosity. They explore how the simple act of receiving - whether it's help, compliments, or constructive criticism - can strengthen relationships and foster personal growth.The conversation w...
2025-06-2523 minChoosing Us88. Growing Through Change: Embracing Family Dynamics and AccountabilityFrom Baby News to Building Better Relationships: A Journey of Growth and AccountabilityExciting changes are on the horizon as the hosts announce they're expecting a baby girl, adding a new dynamic to their family of two energetic boys! This episode of Choosing Us takes listeners on an intimate journey through the complexities of family life and relationship building.The conversation weaves through critical relationship principles, focusing on the power of accountability and the importance of matching words with actions. Drawing from personal experiences, the hosts share how seemingly small actions - like consistently taking out...
2025-06-1820 minChoosing Us87. Navigating Love and Money: Lessons in Communication and GrowthMoney, Marriage, and Making It Work: A Journey of Financial GrowthDiscover how one couple transformed their relationship with money, going from just $100 in their account to building a thriving financial partnership. In this compelling episode of "Choosing Us," Brad and Michaela Draper candidly share their journey of navigating financial differences in marriage. Learn how they overcame challenges stemming from different money mindsets - Michaela's spender background versus Brad's saver mentality - to create a harmonious financial partnership. The couple reveals their practical strategies, including:Creating designated savings accounts for specific goals- Implementing automated saving s...
2025-06-1123 minChoosing Us85. Navigating Family Dynamics: Building Traditions and Boundaries in MarriageEver wonder how to juggle family traditions without dropping your own marriage in the process?In this compelling episode of Choosing Us, Michaela and Brad dive deep into the delicate dance of managing family dynamics in marriage.Through a candid and sometimes humorous discussion, they share their personal journey of balancing extended family commitments while building their own traditions. A particularly enlightening story about a challenging family move highlights the crucial need for strong boundaries and mutual support between partners.Key takeaways include:- The importance of pre-marriage conversations about family attachments- Creating...
2025-05-2821 minChoosing Us84. Embracing Change: Navigating Pregnancy and PartnershipExciting News Alert: The Drapers Are Expecting!In this heartfelt episode, Brad and Michaela Draper share their joyful announcement of expecting a new addition to their family. Through candid conversation, they open up about the challenges of early pregnancy, with Michaela battling severe morning sickness while Brad steps up to manage additional responsibilities.The couple reflects deeply on the precious nature of time with their children and the importance of maintaining strong family bonds during life's transitions. Their discussion touches on everything from managing household duties to navigating emotional changes, all while emphasizing the crucial role...
2025-05-2124 minChoosing Us83. Navigating Expectations: The Art of Communication in RelationshipsDancing in the Rain: Finding Joy in Imperfect RelationshipsEver wondered how successful couples navigate the messy reality of everyday life? Join the Drapers as they unveil their secret to building a thriving relationship - embracing imperfection with grace and humor.In this candid episode, Brad and Michaela tackle real-life challenges, from grocery shopping mishaps to conflicting Mother's Day expectations. They share how treating their relationship like a sport that requires constant practice has transformed their marriage. Through entertaining anecdotes about morning routines and holiday celebrations, they demonstrate how communication and adaptability are key to navigating...
2025-05-1420 minChoosing Us82. Empowering Pleasure: The Open Dialogue on Women's Orgasms**Did you know that many women in long-term relationships have never experienced an orgasm?** This eye-opening episode of "Choosing Us" with the Drapers tackles the often-overlooked topic of female pleasure and sexual wellness in relationships.Michaela and Brad dive deep into:- The surprising statistics about women's orgasms- The importance of open communication about sexual needs- Understanding female anatomy and pleasure- Breaking taboos around intimacy discussions- The role of sexual health in maintaining strong relationshipsThe hosts emphasize that healthy intimacy distinguishes thriving partnerships from mere cohabitation. Through candid conversation, they explore how couples can enhance...
2025-05-0724 minChoosing Us81. The Power of Commitment and Adventure in LoveLove as a Daily Choice: Beyond Just FeelingsDiscover how spontaneous adventures and intentional choices can transform your relationship from mundane to magnificent! In this compelling episode of "Choosing Us," Brad and Michaela reveal how treating love as a daily commitment rather than just a feeling can prevent couples from becoming mere roommates. They share their personal experience of a 24-hour getaway to St. George, proving that even brief escapes can reignite relationship sparks.The hosts dive deep into the power of shared experiences - from mountain biking to snorkeling with stingrays - and how these...
2025-04-3021 minChoosing Us80. Support, Teamwork, and Sweet Gestures: Nurturing RelationshipsWhen Life Hits Hard: The Power of True PartnershipEver wondered what makes a relationship truly resilient? Dive into this heartfelt episode where Michaela and Brad unpack the essence of genuine partnership through their own experiences. When Michaela fell ill, Brad's seamless handling of everything from school runs to household chores became a powerful testament to real teamwork in action.The episode explores:- Why stepping up during tough times matters- How daily responsibilities shift based on circumstances- The danger of relationship complacency- The impact of small acts of support- The role of gratitude in...
2025-04-2321 minChoosing Us78. The Joy of Serving and Playing TogetherFinding Joy Through Service and Play in RelationshipsDiscover how a couple transformed their relationship by combining the power of playful connection and meaningful service - from jamming to Linkin Park with their kids to teaching in prisons. Michaela and Brad Draper share their inspiring journey of building an extraordinary relationship through simple yet profound practices.In this heartwarming episode, they reveal:- How incorporating play strengthens relationships- Ways to serve together that create deeper bonds- The unexpected opportunities that arise from serving others- Their transformative experience volunteering in prisons- Simple strategies for finding joy...
2025-04-0920 minChoosing Us75. Prioritizing Your Relationship in Busy SeasonsDiscover the Power of Small Moments in Building Lasting LoveWant to keep your relationship thriving in today's fast-paced world? Join Michaela and Brad Draper as they reveal how simple, intentional moments can transform your connection with your partner. From longer hugs to surprise love notes, learn practical strategies for maintaining intimacy despite busy schedules.The Drapers share their personal experiences and warn against the dangerous "we'll do it later" mindset that can slowly erode relationships. They emphasize how skipping even one date night can impact their bond, highlighting the importance of consistent investment in your...
2025-03-1920 minChoosing Us74. Navigating Relationships in the Digital Age: Balancing Social Media, Intimacy, and Authentic ConnectionsBreaking Free from Social Media's Grip on RelationshipsDiscover how a couple's contrasting approaches to social media - from complete detox to strategic usage - revealed surprising insights about modern relationships. Brad and Michaela Draper candidly explore how digital distractions affect genuine connection and share their journey to finding balance in an increasingly connected world.The episode challenges popular misconceptions about "perfect" relationships portrayed in media and pornography, offering refreshing perspectives on embracing imperfect moments. Through personal anecdotes, including a revealing Disneyland experience, the Drapers demonstrate how external expectations can derail authentic family experiences....
2025-03-1223 minChoosing Us73. Becoming a Giver: The Art of Selfless PartnershipTransform Your Relationship: The Power of Giving Over TakingWant to revolutionize your relationship? Discover why being a giver rather than a taker could be the game-changer you've been looking for. In this compelling episode of "Choosing Us," hosts Michaela and Brad dive deep into the transformative power of prioritizing your partner's needs and finding joy in making their life better.They explore crucial insights about: Shifting focus from what you're not getting to what you can give Embracing your partner's efforts, even when they're not perfect The importance of receiving love and help gracefully How...
2025-03-0522 minChoosing Us72. Intimacy Matters: Keeping the Spark AliveReigniting the Spark: Why Intimacy Matters More Than You ThinkDiscover why physical intimacy is the vital force that transforms a relationship from "just roommates" to passionate partners. Best friends Michaela and Brad Draper dive deep into the often-overlooked importance of maintaining a healthy sex life, especially after life's major transitions like parenthood.The episode explores how hormonal changes and busy schedules can impact libido, but emphasizes that intimacy is about more than just physical gratification – it's about emotional connection and relationship longevity. The Drapers share personal insights on building trust, maintaining vulnerability, and keeping the sp...
2025-02-2622 minChoosing Us71. The Power of Physical Connection: Small Gestures, Big ImpactThe Power of Small Moments: Building Connection Through Physical TouchDiscover how taking just 20 seconds for a meaningful hug or kiss can transform your relationship! In this intimate episode, Michaela and Brad reveal their morning ritual of physical connection and how it sets the tone for their entire day. They share powerful insights about the impact of intentional physical touch and affection in maintaining a strong partnership.Learn why these small moments of connection matter more than you might think, and how they can:- Strengthen your emotional bond- Model healthy relationships for...
2025-02-1923 minChoosing Us70. Supporting Your Partner Through Tough TimesSupporting Your Partner: The Art of Being There Without Fixing EverythingEver wondered why sometimes your well-intentioned advice falls flat when your partner is struggling? This enlightening episode dives deep into the delicate balance of supporting your spouse through difficult times. Hosts Michaela and Brad share authentic insights about the crucial difference between being a listener and a fixer in relationships.Learn why validating emotions is more powerful than dismissing them, and discover practical ways to create a safe space for your partner to process their feelings. The conversation explores how different coping mechanisms - from...
2025-02-1222 minChoosing Us66. Uncovering the Hidden Causes: Hormones, Mental Health, and ResilienceDid you know hormone imbalances could be silently affecting your mental health?In this powerful episode of "Choosing Us," the Drapers tackle the critical connection between hormonal health and mental wellbeing, sharing their personal journey of hormone testing and its life-changing results.The conversation delves into the alarming rise in male suicide rates and the importance of breaking down barriers around mental health discussions. The hosts emphasize how society's current challenges - from economic pressures to social media comparisons - can impact our psychological wellbeing in unprecedented ways.Key takeaways:- Regular hormone...
2025-01-1522 minChoosing Us65. Prioritizing Your Partner: The Key to a Thriving RelationshipMaking Your Marriage a Priority: A Love Language JourneyDiscover how understanding and speaking your partner's love language can transform your relationship! Join The Drapers as they dive deep into the art of prioritizing your marriage through intentional actions and quality time together.They share their personal "FFF" philosophy - putting fitness, family, and faith first - and why self-care is crucial for maintaining a healthy relationship. Through candid conversations, they reveal how simple acts like head rubs or dedicated date nights can make a profound impact on your connection.Learn from Michaela and...
2025-01-0824 minChoosing Us64. Cultivating Intentional Relationships: A Path to Personal and Relational GrowthBuilding Stronger Relationships: The Power of Intentional ConnectionDiscover how a friend's tragic loss inspired the Draper's to revolutionize their approach to relationships and personal growth. In this heartfelt episode, Michaela and her husband share intimate insights on transforming your relationship from mere coexistence to a thriving partnership.Key Takeaways:- Creating meaningful morning routines through habit stacking- Setting achievable relationship goals beyond typical resolutions- Nurturing partnerships through technology-free dates- Supporting each other's "big, hairy, audacious goals"- Balancing self-care with family commitmentsThe Drapers emphasize the importance of being intentional in...
2025-01-0120 minChoosing Us63. The True Spirit of Christmas: Love, Connection, and PresenceThe Magic of Christmas Beyond PresentsDiscover how to reclaim the true essence of Christmas as the Drapers share their heartfelt perspective on creating meaningful holiday experiences. In this illuminating episode, they reveal why scaling back on gifts actually enhanced their family's Christmas celebration, focusing instead on the priceless currency of presence and connection.Learn practical tips for:- Creating lasting family traditions without breaking the bank- Shifting focus from material gifts to meaningful moments- Choosing thoughtful presents that truly matter- Managing holiday expectations for the whole family...
2024-12-2520 minChoosing Us62. Tomorrow Isn't GuaranteedLife's Fragility: A Wake-Up Call to Live Fully TodayWhat would you do differently if you knew your time was limited? This powerful episode delves into life's unpredictability through heart-wrenching stories of sudden loss, including the unexpected passing of young, healthy individuals. Michaela and Brad share intimate reflections on mortality and the critical importance of not postponing joy.The conversation covers practical aspects of end-of-life planning - from creating digital wallets for important documents to having crucial conversations with loved ones. But beyond the logistics, this episode delivers a profound message about living intentionally...
2024-12-1820 minChoosing Us61. Show Up As Your Best SelfMaking Your Relationship Thrive During the Holiday Rush!Discover how to keep your relationship strong and vibrant during the hectic holiday season with Michaela and Brad Draper. In this heartfelt episode of "Choosing Us," they share personal insights on being each other's best friends while maintaining individual self-care routines.The Drapers tackle the common challenge of "letting yourself go" during the holidays, offering practical strategies for staying motivated and committed to personal wellness. They emphasize how early-day decisions impact our energy levels and relationship quality, making a strong case for prioritizing self-care activities like exercise and grooming.
2024-12-1125 minChoosing Us60. Are You Good?In this week's episode of Choosing Us, Brad and Michaela talk about helping your spouse feel both seen and heard. Brad and Michaela tackle the topic of being different and that exact thing being a good thing within a relationship. discuss the importance of strong, supportive relationships, emphasizing the value of being best friends with your partner. They highlight the benefits of taking naps for energy and share their experience of not hosting Thanksgiving, which allowed them to appreciate others' ways. They address the impact of social media on self-worth and the new Australian law restricting social media for under-16...
2024-12-0422 minChoosing Us59. Holiday ExpectationsIn this week's episode of Choosing Us, Brad and Michaela tackle the topic of holidays within your family. Afterall, it is the season. What expectations do you place on the holiday festivities? Where is your energy at? Where is your focus? Whatever you are presenting, you children and family are reflecting. Is there choas or peace? Is there joy and laughter, or yelling? Brad and Michaela also speak about traditions of your extended family, growing up, and making some of your own. They take on all the topics around holidays and how to make them the best ones yet. Now...
2024-11-2724 minChoosing Us58. Flex for Your Marriage with Greg and AmyIn this week's episode of Choosing Us, Brad and Michaela have Greg and Amy Williams on the podcast. They quickly jump into The Williams and their SIX KIDS. They were high school sweethearts that have made it work for 20 years. They speak heavily to fitness and how it has played a vital role in their relationship today. They speak to having kindness and empathy for each other, as well as the vast level of communication required for a healthy and optimal relationship. This is a super fun episode to join in on and share with others. Now, If you find t...
2024-11-2045 minChoosing Us57. Change Starts TodayIn this week's episode of Choosing Us, Brad and Michaela talk about goals and changing yourself today. With just under 60 days left in the year, that is still nearly 18% of the year in the tank to achieve your goals and push for new highs. Why wait until NYE when you can make changes and significant strides, now. Growth is a continual process that waits for no one. You are either growing or decaying. The choice is your. Now, If you find this episode valuable, please share with your significant other, friends, and family. We love you!Listen...
2024-11-1322 minChoosing Us56.It Is a Choice with Matt and BonnieIn this week's episode of Choosing Us, Brad and Michaela have Matt and Bonnie join them with a roller coaster of a conversation that covers many areas. Matt and Bonnie speak to their atheletic past, every increasing of self, and having the wigglies. There are more nuggets within this podcast episode than could ever be predicted. Matt and Bonnie drop bombs on being there for your partner, how they need it, and truly doing things for yourself. A new concept to Brad and Michaela is shared about the peaks and troughs of life, similar to a saw blade. They are...
2024-11-0646 minChoosing Us55. Marriage and MiscarriageIn this week's episode of Choosing Us, Brad and Michaela tackle the difficult topic of trials and miscarriage. Michaela is in active recovery from a miscarriage from the previous weekend and they discuss the recovery processes. They talk about being there for each other and being present. They discuss the hard conversations they had and how to communicate through those stressful times. Michaela relates the requirment to tell Brad exactly what she wants because he can not read her mind. They cover the growth mindset required in trials and how to navigate those storms. Now, If you find this episode...
2024-10-3022 minChoosing Us54. Let's Not FightIn this week's episode of Choosing Us, Brad and Michaela revist the topic of fighting, arguements, and disagreements, with a twist and new take. This topic has been somewhat of a hot button in the world and is one that needs to be revisited. Brad and Michaela have NEVER had a fight in the 11 years they have been together. Can you believe that? Does fighting exist in your relationship? Tune in to find their tips and tricks for how to acquire this in your relationship. Now, If you find this episode valuable, please share with your significant other, friends, and...
2024-10-2323 minChoosing Us53. Interview with MichaelaIn this week's episode of Choosing Us, Michaela is interviewed by Brad. The purpose of this episode and the week following is to understand Brad and Michaela a bit more. Understanding them both allows to further comprehend where they came from, what drives them, and how to they got to where they are. The bases of how was their childhood, parent interaction, sibling interaction, and much more were touched. View through their individual lenses as they dive down some rabbit holes. Now, If you find this episode valuable, please share with your significant other, friends, and family. We love you!
2024-10-1625 minChoosing Us52. Interview with BradIn this week's episode of Choosing Us, Brad is interviewed by Michaela. The purpose of this episode and the week following is to understand Brad and Michaela a bit more. Understanding them both allows to further comprehend where they came from, what drives them, and how to they got to where they are. The bases of how was their childhood, parent interaction, sibling interaction, and much more were touched. View through their individual lenses as they dive down some rabbit holes. Now, If you find this episode valuable, please share with your significant other, friends, and family. We love you!
2024-10-0923 minChoosing Us51. Cheat SheetIn this episode of Choosing Us, Brad and Michaela talk about really showing up for each other and checking in on each other. How often are you asking your partner where they energetically are at? How often do you show them love in the best way they feel it? How often are. you asking what you can do to improve as a partner? These are important questions that Brad and Michaela dive down. Brad relates a story from their trip on Florida that is one for the books and his decision to do better and raise his energetic state. Now...
2024-10-0224 minChoosing Us50. On The Same Team with Brad and Angel BrockbankOn this week's episode of Choosing Us, Brad and Michaela have very special guests with them, Brad and Angel Brockbank. They go down the very difficult topic path of infertility and how they grew closer together. Brad and Angel speak about they struggles and trials of growth while striving to grow their very own family. Angel goes in depth of her processing and personal advancement as she struggled with conceiving. Further, Brad shares the male side of infertility and how to overcome. For those struggling with infertility, this is worth listening to. If you know someone struggling, it is worth...
2024-09-2546 minChoosing Us49. Squish The ANTsIn this week's episode of Choosing Us, Brad and Michaela talk about hanlding the little things in your relationship, and life, as they come up. Brad gives the acronym, ANTs, which stands for Automatic Negative Thoughts. It is not about whether you had the thoughts or not, but what you do with the thoughts. They reference drifting within your marriage, one small annoyance at a time versus doing something dramatic within your relationship out of nowhere. Now, If you find this episode valuable, please share with your significant other, friends, and family. We love you!Listen in!
2024-09-1824 minChoosing Us48. I'm Not Your MomIn this week's episode of Choosing Us, Brad and Michaela talk about congruence, alignement, and getting on the same page with each other. They speak to the prevalence required for mutual understanding and agreement. They relate several intances where agreement was planned and needed, but not necessarily desired in the moment. They speak to parenting styles, who rules the roost, and what steps they took to get to where they are today. Now, If you find this episode valuable, please share with your significant other, friends, and family. We love you!Listen in!Thank...
2024-09-1122 minChoosing Us47. I'll Be Your RockIn this week's episode of Choosing Us, Brad and Michaela talk about being there for each other and helping each other through difficult times. They speak about being a team and a team is only as strong as its weakest link. They both discuss recent events of loading stress within their lives and the outcome of temporary, acute pain. Further, they talk about changing their time structure within the home and how they are managing the shift. Brad has begun futures trading and Michaela has had to pick up his slack while they make it through this season of life...
2024-09-0424 minChoosing Us46. Out of the Darkness with Tyler and Katelyn ElyIn this episode of Choosing us, Brad and Michaela are joined by Tyler and Katelyn Ely. This is a very special episode and one of hope and the power of decision. Tyler and Katelyn were a successful marriage and family by the worlds standards for 16 years. Then, everything came crumbling down and they found themselves putting the idea of divorce on the table. They take us through their heart wrenching journey of going from the absolute bottom of their marraige to the thriving top. They share what worked for them and how they went from despair to true joy. They...
2024-08-2854 minChoosing Us45. It's My BirthdayIn this week's episode of Choosing Us, Brad and Michaela talk about holidays and birthdays. Being a very timely day of release, Michaela's birthday, they discussed how they managed to merge the two opposite styles of celebration. While being raised, Michaela's mom made a grand deal about every holiday and birthday. On the other hand, Brad's dad ensured no holiday was made a big deal and they were coined the name "hallmark holidays". Find out how they have merged the two over the years. We bet it is not quite what you think. Now, If you find this episode valuable...
2024-08-2125 minChoosing Us44. It Is ImportantIn this week's episode of Choosing Us, Brad and Michaela revisit the topic of date night and the vital imprortance of prioritizing them in your relationship and placing your relationship in the highest position. There should be nothing greater the your relationship. This is demonstrated by what your day looks like and how you show up. Brad and Michaela relate the difficulty of week prior and the date night that STILL took place. They relate that experience with the date night where they had their first kiss. Now, If you find this episode valuable, please share with your significant other...
2024-08-1422 minChoosing Us43. The Silent KillerIn this week's episode of Choosing Us, Brad and Michaela discuss the influence of social media and what type of effect that has on relationships today. They discuss how they manage social media and what their life looks like because of their choices. Beyond that, they discuss joy in all its facets and how to best let joy serve you. They also discuss the difference between happiness and joy. Now, If you find this episode valuable, please share with your significant other, friends, and family. We love you!Listen in!Thank you for listening...
2024-08-0720 minChoosing Us42. Finding Yourself After Divorce with Chip HopperIn this week's episode of Choosing Us, Brad and Michaela are joined by Chip Hopper. Chip is the first single person on the series and what a joy it was to spend this time with him. Chip shares personal stories of what it was like being married 21 years and then divorced, followed by long term relationship, and finally single at 50 years old. Chip is a master story teller, known as the Book Jedi, and takes us on a wild roller coaster of emotion. Being wise beyond his years and the experience to back it up, Chip demonstrates a masterclass on...
2024-07-3148 minChoosing Us41. Divine MotherhoodIn this week's episode of Choosing Us, Brad and Michaela speak about the divinity of motherhood. They relate all that comes with being a mother and the energy it takes to truly show up. They cover the hormonal swings with both monthly cycles and pregnancy and the additional efforts needed by the husband during those times. They speak about how to best support the wife and what is needed to make each experience as best as it can be. Now, If you find this episode valuable, please share with your significant other, friends, and family. We love you!
2024-07-2422 minChoosing Us40. We're In This TogetherIn this week's episode of Choosing Us, Brad and Michaela discuss their dynamic and handling their kids within their wild and awesome life. They relay the experience they had with a friend visiting from out of town and seeing their world through his eyes. They speak about how much their learned through his lens. They discuss the need to ensure the other partner's needs are met and they are able to expand and experience life for themselves. This is definitely an episode you want to listen to. Now, If you find this episode valuable, please share with your significant other...
2024-07-1722 minChoosing Us39. Be WITH ThemIn this week's episode of Choose Us, Brad and Michaela discuss the great importance of showing up for you kids and doing the things they want to do. They recount speaking with friends that have great relationships with their teenagers and what they did to cultivate such a bond. They further discuss about their experience with going to the local amusement park, regardless of the financial hardship. They speak about decisions and experiences in life. Now, If you find this episode valuable, please share with your significant other, friends, and family. We love you!Listen in!
2024-07-1021 minChoosing Us38. Words of LifeIn this week's Episode of Choosing Us, Brad and Michaela speak about words. More specifically, they discuss the importance of the words used when speaking about your partner. Are they resourceful or unresourceful? What about the evnironment you tend to hang around? Is the environment one of growth and bolstering of your relationship, or one of detriment? What actions are you taking, with your words, to build up, or tear down, your relationship? Where are you placing energy? All of these things are of great importance when it comes to the health of your partnership. Now, If you find this...
2024-07-0325 minChoosing Us37. Spotlight with Sam and DeeIn this week's episode of Choosing Us, Brad and Michaela are joined by Sam and Dee Taggart. Sam and Dee are wonderful people with a great dynamic, which can be felt by the listener. Sam and Dee were both previously married before their relationship, bringing with them their own kid(s). They have managed to create a beautiful relationship with a blended family and entrepreneurship. Both Sam and Dee drop nuggets all throughout the episode, sharing invaluable insight for how to curate an amazing relationship. Now, If you find this episode valuable, please share with your significant other, friends, and f...
2024-06-2645 minChoosing Us36. Play TogetherIn this week's episode of Choosing Us, Brad and Michaela relate their experience with their ten year anniversary trip. This trip is usually a milestone trip for any relationship and this trip was nothing short of memorable for both Brad and Michaela. The tell about all the pivoting that took place in order to even get to their destination. Further, they discuss the importance of taking trips without the kids and simply letting go and playing together. Now, If you find this episode valuable, please share with your significant other, friends, and family. We love you!Listen in!
2024-06-1923 minChoosing Us35. Sexual EnergyIn this week's episode of Choosing Us, Brad and Michaela go, again, down the rabbit hole of sexual intimacy within your relationship and the energy therein. They relate the concept of having sex for the purpose of connection and unity versus the selfish desires of getting off. There is a growth process that occurs within a relationship. They discuss the importance of having physical attraction, and expanding beyond that into something more. They openly speak about being married nearly 10 years and continuing to have the best sex they have ever had. Now, If you find this episode valuable, please share...
2024-06-1225 minChoosing Us34. Spotight with Britt and JustinIn this week's episode of Choosing Us, Brad and Michaela have Britt and Justin Critchfield. This is a masterclass for how to discover yourself. From discovering yourself, you can truly show up for both yourself and your partner. We are always, or should always, be evolving. This evolution brings with it a roller coast of learning. Britt and Justin walk us through how they truly learned who they are, what they believe, and how they want to lead their lives. This is an absolute must listen to and one worth sharing. Britt can be found on IG @brittcritch and Justin...
2024-06-0548 minChoosing Us33. Partnered For SuccessOn this week's episode of Choosing Us, Brad and Michaela discuss the importance of choosing the right partner. Understanding the concept and idea your partner is the greatest catalyst for success or failure is extremely important. As stated in previous episodes, it is pointed out to push your partner and help them in the direction they desire to go. How often are you being an advocate for your spouses dreams and aspirations, even in the face of their own carnal desires? Picking the right partner for where you want to go will be the single greatest determinant for if you...
2024-05-2924 minChoosing Us32. Spotlight with Cole and Sanja HatterIn this week's episode of Choosing Us, Brad and Michaela are joined by Cole and Sanja Hatter. There is no time wasted in getting into the details of life as a roller coaster. This is a true masterclass on overcoming adversity and seeing extreme beauty on the other side. An undertone topic of the conversation is geared towards holding a standard for yourself and being an example to your partner. Cole and Sanja are no strangers to adversity and demonstrate what overcoming it with grace looks like. Lastly, Cole shares how being galvanized through adversity truly makes the relationship into...
2024-05-2249 minChoosing Us31. Hold My StandardIn this week's episode of Choosing Us, Brad and Michaela discuss the importance holding each other's goals and standards for their spouse. We strive to have open communication and with that comes the conversation of goals. When one partner starts to become week in their drive, it is the other partner's job to hold the line. This has the ability to cause great friction within a relationship. Now, If you find this episode valuable, please share with your significant other, friends, and family. We love you!Listen in!Thank you for listening to this episode...
2024-05-1524 minChoosing Us30. Jealous Much?In this week's episode of Choosing Us, Brad and Michaela talk about jealousy and insecurity. They discuss the great importance of looking inward if there are jealous feelings and having true and open dialogue. Brad is questioned how he handles complete and open dialogue and his day from the man's persepective. Michaela is pushed in the direction of the women's perspective and how to handle when Brad speaks to people of the opposite sex. Now, If you find this episode valuable, please share with your significant other, friends, and family. We love you!Listen in!...
2024-05-0822 minChoosing Us29. Soar to New HeightsIn this week's episode of Choosing Us, Brad and Michaela discuss the topic of limiting beliefs. They dive down the details of how limiting beliefs could be holding your relationship from reaching its true potential. They relay a story of supporting each other through growth periods and encouraging for new heights. Now, If you find this episode valuable, please share with your significant other, friends, and family. We love you!Listen in!Thank you for listening to this episode of Choosing Us.
2024-05-0123 minChoosing Us28. Let's FlirtIn this In this week's episode of Choosing Us, Brad and Michaela talk about the topic of flirting, why it is so important beyond dating, and how each person does it. They discuss how everyone does it differently and most people do not actually "know how" to flirt. What is the purpose of flirting? Why is it naturally done in a relationship? Brad and Michaela dive down the tunnel of this topic to find what is on the other side. Now, If you find this episode valuable, please share with your significant other, friends, and family. We love you!
2024-04-2424 minChoosing Us27. Work Life BalanceIn this week's episode of Choosing Us, Brad and Michaela discuss the reality of what it means to have a work life balance. We all know this does not mean to have equal amount of time for each category in life. However, this does mean setting boundaries, standards, and priorities. Priorities are palced on those things you find most important. What do your actions say about your priorities? Now, If you find this episode valuable, please share with your significant other, friends, and family. We love you!Listen in!Thank you for listening to this...
2024-04-1723 minChoosing Us26. The Father's RoleIn this week's episode of Choosing Us, Brad and Michaela dive down the rabbit hole "if he can do it, so can I". They speak about the differences with parents in a child's life and the pivotal role each parent makes. Mothers and fathers each play a vital part with the development of the mind of a child. They speak about their experiences with their children and how the dynamic shifts from one parent to the other. Brad and Michaela speak about the power struggle between men's rights and women's rights in our ward today. Now, If you find this...
2024-04-1024 minChoosing Us25. Spouse > KidsIn this week's episode of Choosing Us, Brad and Michaela speak about the importance of the relationship sanctity. They discuss how your partner should and must be above all else, especially your children. For a relationship to truly grow, emphasis and focus must be placed on the relationship. As they always say, where you focus, you find. This statement could not be more true than in your marriage. Now, If you find this episode valuable, please share with your significant other, friends, and family. We love you!Listen in!Thank you for listening to this...
2024-04-0322 minChoosing Us24. Spotlight with Chad and BrittnyIn this week's episode of Choosing Us, Brad and Michaela have Chad and Brittny Hart on the Spotlight series. Chad and Brittny share valuable insight for how to navigate being both a married couple and successful business partners. They disucss tips and tricks, on a granualr level, for how to encourage your relationship and how to navigate the difficulties of an every changing and evolving relationship. Now, If you find this episode valuable, please share with your significant other, friends, and family. We love you!Listen in!Thank you for listening to this episode of...
2024-03-2748 minChoosing Us23. Love Me Every DayIn this week's episode of Choosing Us, Brad and Michaela discuss the importance of consistancuy within your relationship. They quote Simon Senik in the need to show up for your spouse every day, in small ways, like brushing your teeth. They point out that it is not possible to know the exact moment when you knew you loved your spouse, but it happened, slowly, over time. Day in and day out, showing up, allowed for love and growth to prosper. More specifically, showing up for your partner in the way they feel love, ie their love language, it vastly important...
2024-03-2024 minChoosing Us22. Stronger Through the FireIn this week's episode of Choosing Us, Brad and Michaela cover the topic of battling adversity together. They relate lessons learned together and how being a foundation for the other is pivotal to an ever growing relationship. Further, they discuss how standing strong for your partner only brings the couple closer together. Lastly, they discuss the vital importance to holding space for eachother to release energy, specifically men releasing energy and crying when needed. They state how important it is to feel. Now, If you find this episode valuable, please share with your significant other, friends, and family. We love...
2024-03-1325 minChoosing Us21. Why am I Happy?In this week's episode of Choosing Us, Brad and Michaela talk about happiness. They discuss the importance of doing activities each day that make you happy. Form that happiness is energy capacity made. They dive down the hole of what it takes to bring happiness and satisfaction to a relationship. You must first work on yourself in order to have the capacity to work on the partnership. Now, If you find this episode valuable, please share with your significant other, friends, and family. We love you!Listen in!Thank you for listening to this episode...
2024-03-0623 minChoosing Us20. Spotlight with Ben and AndreeaOn this week's episode of Choosing Us, Brad and Michaela have very special guests on the new mini series, SpotLights. Ben and Andreea are an amazing couple with a wealth of knowledge. Not only does their knowledge go deep, but wide. They share so many tactical nuggets to be used in your relationship. This is a must listen episode full of riveting stories from fleeing a communist country, living as immigrant kids in the USA, true conviction, and how they blend it all together to make one seriously strong power couple. Now, If you find this episode valuable, please share...
2024-02-2849 minChoosing Us19. It's Not REALIn this week's episode of Choosing Us, Brad and Michaela discuss social media and how it can affect your relationship. They discuss the ever toxic nature of movies, social media, and pornography. They speak about how a façade is created of what a relationship should be, versus reality. They discuss what real looks like for them and how they had to learn that the hard way. They talk about the trials of early in marriage and overcoming the adversity created by media. Now, If you find this episode valuable, please share with your significant other, friends, and family. We l...
2024-02-2123 minChoosing Us18. Triggered Much?In this Episode of Choosing Us, Brad and Michaela discuss the ever important topic of being triggered. They discuss how Brad loves that words so much, and why. They talk about not taking offense from your partner and learning to understand one another on a new level. They also discuss not placing past experiences and trauma on current situations. It was noted to see your spouse for who they are today and not who they were in the past. Now, If you find this episode valuable, please share with your significant other, friends, and family. We love you!...
2024-02-1422 minChoosing Us17. The Power of WordsIn this week's episode of Choosing Us, Brad and Michaela talk about the power of words. They relate words to bullets and how to tackle when one of the partner's messes up. Brad relates a time when he messed up and how thy became stronger as a couple because of it. Michaela shares the vulnerable side of her story and how she proactively responded to the situation. They discuss how no one is perfect and things will happen along your journey together, but will ultimately become better because of the harder times. Now, If you find this episode valuable, please...
2024-02-0723 minChoosing Us16. Let's Talk About SEXIn this week's episode of Choosing Us, Brad and Michaela tackle the taboo topic of sex. They discuss the importance of intimicy within a relationship and how they revolutionized their sex life, and ultimately they relationship. They cover, in a friendly way, and break down the walls of sex conversations wihtin a relationship. They talk about having communication with each other about sex both while engaged and not engaged intimately. Now, If you find this episode valuable, please share with your significant other, friends, and family. We love you!Listen in!Thank you for listening...
2024-01-3122 minChoosing Us15. Can't Change MeIn this week's episode of Choosing Us, Brad and Michaela discuss the topic of trying to change your partner. They discuss the fact that it is not possible to change your partner, but to meet them where they are at. They speak about loving your partner and gently guiding your spouse in positive directions by example. Love them where they are. They speak heavily on fitness and the role it has played in their lives. Now, If you find this episode valuable, please share with your significant other, friends, and family. We love you!Listen in!
2024-01-2423 minChoosing Us14. Love Thy SelfIn this week's episode of Choosing Us, Brad and Michaela discuss the importance of loving yourself in a relationship before you can love your significant other. How can this be? How selfish! They discuss this is IMPORTANT and absolutely not selfish, but selfless. They talk about how one can show up their best self once they have shown up for themselves. You must first understand and find yourself before you can truly give yourself. They discuss tools and tactics fow how to implement loving yourself. Now, If you find this episode valuable, please share with your significant other, friends, and...
2024-01-1724 minChoosing Us13. Show Me the MoneyIn this week's episode of Choosing Us, Brad and Michaela discuss finances and the importance of having that conversation OFTEN. It is vitally important to talk about your financial identity where where you both stand in your relationship. They discuss the ever growing issue with divorce and in the top causes for divorce is financial stress and miscommunication. They are not financial advisors and are not giving advice, but merely giving their own experiences. Now, If you find this episode valuable, please share with your significant other, friends, and family. We love you!Listen in!...
2024-01-1025 minChoosing Us12. Love Me RightIn this week's episode of Choosing Us, Brad and Michaela speak about the proper way to love your signifanct other. They discuss the importance of knowing both your love language and your spouse's love language. They given tactical examples of how to love eachother, and yourself, in the correct way. They demonstrate that loving your spouse in the way you feel love may or may not work the way you hope. Now, If you find this episode valuable, please share with your significant other, friends, and family. We love you!Listen in!Thank you for...
2024-01-0324 minChoosing Us11. #GoalsIn this episode of Choosing Us, Brad and Michaela discuss the extrreme importance of setting goals individually and as a couple. They deep dive how to support each other with individual goals, as well as the mutual goals. They tackle to hard topic of what to do when your significant other or spouse in the relationship does not support you in your goals. It is the end of 2023 and the topic dicussed is of vital importance. Now, If you find this episode valuable, please share with your significant other, friends, and family. We love you!Listen in!
2023-12-2720 minChoosing Us10. Deposits vs WithdrawsIn this week's episode of Choosing Us, Brad and Michaela relate your relationships to a bank account. How often are you putting money into your account or taking money out of the account? Even further how often are you receiving the inputs from your significant other? They discuss the affects from always doing one or the other and not having a give and take in your relationship. They get personal with some situations that happened early on in their relationship and the pitfalls to avoid in your relationship today. Now, If you find this episode valuable, please share with your...
2023-12-2021 minChoosing Us9. Respond with IntentionIn this week's episode of Choosing Us, Brad and Michaela share the importance of responding with intention vs instinctively reacting from emotion. They share the simple understanding that emotions are not facts and how intentionally thinking and acting can and will change the dynamic of any situation. They also share some day of stories about practicing this in their daily lives. Brad and Michaela also share how important it is to have focus on this both in the unresourceful situations as well as the resourceful situations. If you find this episode valuable, please share with your significant other, friends, and...
2023-12-1321 minChoosing Us8. Real and RawIn this week's episode of Choosing Us, Brad and Michaela share why it is important to be real and raw with your partner and yourself. They share funny memories of embarrassment and how they coped with the growth that comes from being your authentic self. They reflect on the importance of showing up as your true self and that God placed in this particular space in time to have an impact of others - God needs you to be you... not who you think will impress others. If this message resonates with you, please share with your friends, family, and...
2023-12-0621 minChoosing Us7. The Hard TalkIn this episode of Choosing Us, Brad and Michaela discuss the important topic of having difficult conversations early and often. They reflect on their third date and how they set the standard for their entire relationship within 72 hours of meeting. They share nuggets on how to begin having hard conversations right now, beginning today. Further, they share on how vitally important it is to have open lines of communication. If this episode resonates, please share with your friends, family, and significant other.Listen in!Thank you for listening to this episode of Choosing Us.
2023-11-2921 minChoosing Us6. The Four AgreementsIn this episode of Choosing Us, Brad and Michaela share the incredible value found from the book "The Four Agreements" from Miguel Ruiz. They discuss at length the gravity of each agreement and how they are pivotal to your success in your partnership. They discuss how most couples do not follow the four agreements and the issue that may cause. Further, they discuss what following the four agreements can do for your relationship. Follow along as this conversation will revoilutionize your life. How this conversation with your partner or spouse.Listen in!Thank you for...
2023-11-2223 minChoosing Us5. Where is Your FocusIn this week's episode, Brad and Michaela share the importance of how you talk about your partner when they are not around, as well as in the conversations of your own mind. They share placing your focus on resourceful traits only brings out more noticed resourceful traits, while focusing on the negatives in someone will exclusively do the opposite. Tune in to learn what happens when you allow toxicity within your thoughts and conversations.Listen in!Thank you for listening to this episode of Choosing Us.
2023-11-1522 minChoosing Us4. Fight Vs. ArgumentIn this week's episode, Brad and Michaela share their interpretation and definition of a fight and a disagreement. They share one being healthy and the other being unhealthy. Brad and Michaela share they have been together over 10 years and have never had a single fight - not ever will. Listen into this episode to learn both how this is possible for you and why it is so important!Listen in!Thank you for listening to this episode of Choosing Us.
2023-11-0820 minChoosing Us3. Date NightIn this week's episode, Brad and Michaela share the importance of DATE NIGHT. They share why it is vital to your relationship to continue dating after marriage. They share the game doesn't start until you get married, which is contrary to what the world thinks. They share experiences of dating and different dates of their own.Listen in!Thank you for listening to this episode of Choosing Us.
2023-11-0121 minChoosing Us2. Intro to UsIn this episode of Choosing Us, Brad and Michaela share how they met and a bit about them. This episode was originally recorded as the first episode, but was then decided it was best to have the first episode deliver a nugget of gold. They dive into the early parts of their relationship and the foundation for where everything originates. Listen into this relationship building, yet fun episode of how Brad and Michaela started it all!Listen in!Thank you for listening to this episode of Choosing Us.
2023-11-0116 minChoosing Us1. Choosing UsIn this Episode, Brad and Michaela Draper officially introduce themselves, the purose for this series, and why you should tune in. They cover a variety of topics, but wanted to give at least one single relationship nugget to take away and implement from the get go. They express the extreme importance of a choice and always using team lingo like "we and us" instead of "you or I". Listen in!Thank you for listening to this episode of Choosing Us.
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