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Behind the BJ podcast27. New Year, Same old F**king ME!We are BACK! After breaking for the Holidays and some other things… Brandye & Jason are back, and so excited to catch you all up on what’s been going on for the past few weeks. We’ll catch everyone up on what’s been going on and where we’ve been. We talk about our NYE celebrations to say “Bye Bitch” to 2020, and of course get into our 2021 resolutions. Now we want to hear what YOUR resolutions are, and what fun / sexy times your New Years Eve brought you! Find us on Peloton ...
2021-01-1139 minBehind the BJ podcast25. Coming Out On Top with Todd SiddonsAfter months of trying, Brandye and Jason finally have had the opportunity to speak to Todd Siddons, network marketing guru, motivational speaker, and, just like Jason, die hard Philadelphia Eagles fan! As our first gay guest, Todd will talk to us about what his coming out experience was like, and just some of his storied relationships. Find Todd at www.toddsiddons.com, on Instagram @Todd.siddons and on Facebook at Todd Siddons. Follow us @BehindtheBJPodcast on Instagram, @BehindtheBJ on Twitter and email us at info@BehindtheBJ.com
2020-11-091h 28Behind the BJ podcast24. A Relationship Casualty of Covid with Arthur DonovanIn this week’s episode, Brandye and Jason interview the founder of the non profit organization Adulting 1101, Arthur Donovan to talk about another ugly side of Covid life. Arthur discuses how the pressures of quarantine exposed some of the real issues that existed between he and his now ex-fiancee, and how all of this transpired while being forced to quarantine away from the outside world. We will also look at life after death (of a relationship), and find out if Instagram is the new Tinder… All this and more… listen now! Find Arthu...
2020-10-2652 minBehind the BJ podcast23. Building Mature Love and Intimacy with Thomas WestenholzBrandye and Jason welcome relationship expert, author, and founder of zensensa.com, (and fellow red head) Thomas Westenholz on the show (All the way from London!) this week. Thomas discusses some of the keys to a mature love and mature intimacy including Thomas’s 3 steps to intimacy & love. Next, we discuss the 4 attachment styles and the 5 love languages and how understanding these can help you relate better with your partner. Find Thomas on www.zensensa.com and on Instagram @zen_sensa Follow us @BehindtheBJPodcast on Instagram, @BehindtheBJ on Twitter and email us at in...
2020-09-141h 16Behind the BJ podcast18. Ending the Love Triangle with Donna ChinThis week Jason and Brandye welcome another exciting guest onto the podcast! Donna Chin lives in LA where she finds herself immersed in the inner circles of the rich and sometimes famous. She discusses with us the LA dating scene, what it was like going on a date with her childhood celebrity crush, and struggling with her latest romantic challenges - dating a man who is less than available and coming to terms with the fact that he just won’t choose only her. Follow us @BehindtheBJPodcast on Instagram, @BehindtheBJ on Twitter and email us at inf...
2020-06-2254 minBehind the BJ podcast15. Are we Just Friends?In these crazy quarantine times, it can be hard to fulfill certain… needs! While you may not want to start breaking social distance rules with total strangers, it can be tempting to act on the unspoken sexual chemistry between you and your friend. In today’s episode Brandye and Jason look at the age old situation of being “Friends with Benefits”. It can be a difficult road to navigate. What if you or the other person catches feelings? How do you keep it truly just casual. Do you keep things on the DL or not? We’ll look at ways to e...
2020-05-1848 minBehind the BJ podcast14. We’re Going the DistanceBrandye and Jason attempt to use technology to their benefit in their first ever Zoom podcast recording. In this week’s episode they’ll tackle the subject of “Long Distance Relationships”. Having both experienced the ups and downs of LDRs in the past, B&J will discuss the tips, tricks, and challenges of trying to maintain a relationship with miles in between! Luckily, some advancements in technology (Hello FACETIME!) has made things slightly easier, but make no mistake… the LDR takes some careful maneuvering and isn’t for everyone! Follow us @BehindtheBJPodcast on Instagram, @BehindtheBJ on Twitter and e...
2020-05-111h 06Behind the BJ podcast13. Are We Going Crazy?As we creep into our 7th week of quarantine, Brandye & Jason are starting to go a little stir crazy! In this episode, we give updates on our own lives, our relationships, and our current mental states. The reality of being cooped up with our significant others without a break has set in, and we discuss how we are dealing with it. We also have a big surprise update on a previous BTBJ guest! Follow us @BehindtheBJPodcast on Instagram, @BehindtheBJ on Twitter and email us at info@BehindtheBJ.com
2020-04-2739 minBehind the BJ podcast12. Do you have a type?In this episode Brandye and Jason delve into dating “types”. As in, do you have a type (spoiler alert: most of you do), why do you have a type, and is it wise to try and date someone who matches what you think you want in a partner, or maybe expand your horizons just a bit? We’ll also reflect on life today vs. just one month ago, and how much things have changed, etiquette while on video calls, Follow us @BehindtheBJPodcast on Instagram, @BehindtheBJ on Twitter and email us at info@B...
2020-04-2051 minBehind the BJ podcast11. Keeping BusyAs we all slide into our 4th week of being quarantined and socially distanced, Brandye and Jason discuss their thoughts on the current state of the world, how they are feeling about everything, and some of the different ways they have been trying to pass the time. We give updates on our current TV lineups, tips on staying sane while staying inside (mostly), and of course… sex lives during the quarantine! While we are all struggling at the moment, Behind the BJ is here to hopefully provide some comic relief during the pandemic! Stay home, stay h...
2020-04-1359 minBehind the BJ podcast10. Family MattersYou’ve started dating someone and you think they’re great! But do they pass the friend test? What about when it gets a little more serious and you think you want them to meet your family? These are big steps in a relationship and in this episode, Brandye and Jason tackle this subject. When is the right time to make the introductions? What settings should you avoid? What topics should you avoid? Preparation is the name of the game here! Follow us @BehindtheBJPodcast on Instagram, @BehindtheBJ on Twitter and email us at info@Behindthe
2020-04-0657 minBehind the BJ podcast9. Hanging out to DryThe world is in lock down / self quarantine. Your dating apps may be blowing up, and your exes may be sliding into your DMs, but it doesn’t mean much if you can’t see them, right? Those of you who are single are bound to end up in a bit of a dry spell during this pandemic! In this episode, Brandye and Jason interview a guest who is no stranger to dry spells - she’s been on one for quite some time now. We’ll get into why it’s been so long, how to cope wit...
2020-03-2355 minBehind the BJ podcast8. Love in the Time of Corona(Virus)We are in unprecedented times! The zombie apocalypse, err… Coronavirus may be upon us! Store shelves are empty as people are hoarding… toilet paper? And while some may want to practice social distancing, what does all of this mean for our dating lives and sex? In this week’s episode, Brandye and Jason think about how to use this social distancing thing to our advantage, because… who want’s to stay celibate in quarantine? Brandye also tells us about some Miami shenanigans and how she’s now a lesbian. Plus, we’ll give our own recap...
2020-03-1651 minBehind the BJ podcast7. Let’s just be friends!Let’s stay friends, okay? Is that ever a good idea? Brandye and Jason do a deep dive into whether or not it is possible to be friends with your ex, when it is, and when it definitely isn’t, and they also go over some basic tips for how to make a friendship work with someone who you used to see naked on the regular! Spoiler alert… take a lot of time to recover first! Follow us @BehindtheBJPodcast on Instagram, @BehindtheBJ on Twitter and email us at info@BehindtheBJ.com
2020-03-0949 minBehind the BJ podcast6. The DoppelBängerWhat’s the best way to get over someone? Get under someone who looks exactly like them! Brandye and Jason interview Chris and A, creators of the I’d App That Podcast (https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/id-app-that-podcast/id1460434471 ), and learn all about how they came to meet and develop their hit show. A tells us about how easy it is to get kicked off of Tinder and Chris shares a no-holes barred one night stand experience that leaves everyone in tears laughing. Plus… we talk doppelbängers! We are so excited to have our first gu...
2020-03-021h 37Behind the BJ podcast4. Is it Time to Define?In our fourth episode, we get all into that potentially nerve wracking topic of the D.T.R., or Defining The Relationship! What exactly does it mean, when is a good time to do it, how to do it, and some of the reasons why it’s so hard to do! We, of course share some of our personal stories of being on both sides of the “Defining Wall”. We’ll also hear about Brandye’s crazy Super Bowl weekend, and someone from Jason’s past is trying to make a comeback… but will he let her? Follow us @B...
2020-02-1757 minBehind the BJ podcast1. No Birthday Sex for YouDating these days can be a mess, and it tends to come with its fair share of crazy stories! Behind the BJ Podcast is here to unpack all of those tales. In their premier episode, Brandye and Jason introduce themselves, discuss how they met, and that one time that Jason thought he was getting laid, just to have Brandye shut him down! We find out who Brandye and Jason may or may not be dating these days, and talk about navigating the ups and downs of dating in Chicago. Follow us @BehindtheBJPodcast on Instagram!
2020-01-2531 min