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The Brannon Patrick Show#53: 2 Secrets To Navigate Your Partners Faith CrisisIn this episode, Brannon talks about navigating faith transitions in relationships—especially when one partner begins to question or expand spiritually while the other stays rooted in their beliefs. He shares two powerful, practical tools to help couples avoid unnecessary conflict and build stronger connections, even amidst spiritual differences. This conversation offers insight, compassion, and clarity for anyone facing the complexities of a faith shift in a high-demand religious context.   To join the upcoming free webinar on May 20th, click the link below: https://us06web.zoom.us/j/83852026493   List...
2025-05-1427 minThe Brannon Patrick Show
The Brannon Patrick Show#52: 7 Myths About Healthy BoundariesIn this episode, Brannon talks about the deeper meaning of healthy boundaries—not just as tools for saying no, but as a reflection of your values, integrity, and authenticity. He unpacks common myths about boundaries, explores why they’re essential for mental health, and explains how setting true boundaries can actually attract healthier relationships (while disrupting toxic ones). Whether you’re new to boundaries or wanting to understand them more fully, this episode will challenge your assumptions and offer a powerful reframe.   To join the upcoming free webinar, register by clicking the link below: https...
2025-05-0627 minThe Brannon Patrick Show
The Brannon Patrick Show#51: Why Grief Is Essential To Heal From BetrayalIn this episode, Brannon talks about the powerful connection between grief and emotional suffering. He shares how early experiences working in hospice taught him that our ability—or inability—to grieve impacts how we navigate pain, betrayal, and loss throughout life. Brannon explains how resistance to reality creates suffering, and how moving through grief, rather than avoiding it, leads to healing and peace. Whether it’s a deep betrayal or something as everyday as a traffic jam, learning to feel and process our emotions is key to living with acceptance and resilience.   Register for the webinar...
2025-04-2928 minThe Brannon Patrick Show
The Brannon Patrick Show#50: Does Betrayal Trauma Treatment Work?In this episode, Brannon talks about his personal journey through the evolving world of betrayal trauma treatment—what he learned in the early days, how the field has changed, and why some popular approaches might be missing the mark. He shares stories from his own professional development, unpacks the limitations of both the old codependency model and the newer, sometimes extreme, betrayal trauma frameworks, and offers insight into what truly helps people heal. Register for the webinar by clicking the link below: https://us06web.zoom.us/webinar/register/WN_FyRSclHzTfmOB6WXz6lCxg   ...
2025-04-2234 minThe Brannon Patrick Show
The Brannon Patrick Show#49: The Healing Power Of PresenceIn this episode, Brannon explores the power of presence as a path to healing. He breaks down how being fully present can release trauma, ease anxiety, and deepen relationships. Drawing from therapy techniques like EMDR and insights from experts like Eckhart Tolle and Bessel van der Kolk, Brannon shares why letting go of the ego and embracing the moment is key to true emotional freedom.   Listen on Apple Podcast: https://apple.co/3J6jrmb   Find More Content at:Instagram: @brannon_patrickTikTok: @brannonpatrickshowYouTube: @thebrannonpatrickshow
2025-02-2630 minThe Brannon Patrick Show
The Brannon Patrick Show#48: The Hidden Truth About Jodi HildebrandtIn this episode, Brannon opens up about his experience training under Jody Hildebrandt and the harmful impact of her teachings. He explores the rigid belief systems she promoted, the fear and shame they created, and the ways they affected individuals and relationships. Brannon shares what led him to challenge these ideas and seek a healthier approach to healing and connection.   Listen on Apple Podcast: https://apple.co/3J6jrmb   Find More Content at:Instagram: @brannon_patrickTikTok: @brannonpatrickshowYouTube: @thebrannonpatrickshow
2025-02-2230 minThe Brannon Patrick Show
The Brannon Patrick Show#47: Is My Comfort Zone Holding Me Back?In this episode, Brannon talks about the dangers of getting too comfortable in life and how it can lead to stagnation, depression, and a lack of purpose. He explores the importance of stepping outside your comfort zone, taking risks, and embracing discomfort as a pathway to growth and self-discovery. Through personal stories, powerful quotes, and practical advice, Brannon shares how living "on the edge" can unlock infinite possibilities and help you align with your true purpose.   Listen on Apple Podcast: https://apple.co/3J6jrmb   Find More Content at:Instagram: @bran...
2025-01-2927 minThe Brannon Patrick Show
The Brannon Patrick Show#46: What Are Mormons Like?In this episode, Brannon talks about the challenges of working with clients from the Mormon community, joined by therapist Lauren Klosz. They discuss issues like perfectionism, secrecy, and faith struggles, along with the supportive aspects of Mormon culture and the role of non-Mormon therapists.   Listen on Apple Podcast: https://apple.co/3J6jrmb   Find More Content at:Instagram: @brannon_patrickTikTok: @brannonpatrickshowYouTube: @thebrannonpatrickshowBrannon's Website: thebrannonpatrickshow.com
2024-12-1825 minThe Brannon Patrick Show
The Brannon Patrick Show#45: Can You Disagree But Not Dehumanize?In this episode, Brannon talks about the complex art of disagreeing without dehumanizing, especially in today’s polarized climate. He dives into the psychology behind dehumanization, exploring how our language and interactions can either foster empathy or create harmful divides. Brannon shares practical strategies to set boundaries, maintain respect, and stay compassionate, even when we disagree on fundamental issues. This conversation illuminates ways to prioritize both integrity and humanity in every dialogue, making it a timely guide for more constructive discourse.   Listen on Apple Podcast: https://apple.co/3J6jrmb   Find More...
2024-11-0527 minThe Brannon Patrick Show
The Brannon Patrick Show#44: Where You Get Your Worth MattersIn this episode, Brannon talks about the importance of understanding where you derive your self-worth and how it can impact your relationships. He explores the pitfalls of seeking validation from others, especially partners, and the dangers of codependency. Brannon also delves into the dynamics of independence, codependence, and interdependence, offering insights on how to build healthier connections.   Listen on Apple Podcast: https://apple.co/3J6jrmb   Find More Content at: Instagram: @brannon_patrick TikTok: @brannonpatrickshow YouTube: @thebrannonpatrickshow Brannon's Website: thebrannonpatrickshow.com
2024-10-2320 minThe Brannon Patrick Show
The Brannon Patrick Show#43: Do Rigid Beliefs Create Weak Men?In this episode, Brannon Patrick talks about how rigid beliefs and shame can undermine masculinity, leading to codependency and inauthenticity in relationships. He explores the balance between healthy masculinity and femininity, the impact of weak masculinity on intimacy, and offers practical steps for men to reclaim their strength through courage, authenticity, and healing from trauma.   Listen on Apple Podcast: https://apple.co/3J6jrmb   Find More Content at: Instagram: @brannon_patrick TikTok: @brannonpatrickshow YouTube: @thebrannonpatrickshow Brannon's Website: thebrannonpatrickshow.com
2024-10-1622 minThe Brannon Patrick Show
The Brannon Patrick Show#42: Finding Freedom in Letting GoIn this episode, Brannon talks about the profound freedom that comes from embracing life's insignificance. He explores how understanding our fleeting existence can help us let go of societal pressures, anxieties, and the need for constant validation. Through personal stories, a men's retreat experience, and the wisdom of a Kacey Musgraves song, Brannon encourages listeners to live authentically, break free from shame, and create meaningful connections by simply being themselves.   Listen on Apple Podcast: https://apple.co/3J6jrmb   Find More Content at: Instagram: @brannon_patrick TikTok: @bra...
2024-10-0917 minThe Brannon Patrick Show
The Brannon Patrick Show#41: Are We Taught To Be Anxious? PART 2In this episode, Brannon Patrick and Valerie Hamaker delve into the roots of scrupulosity in church culture, sharing personal stories and discussing how missionary service can exacerbate anxiety. This is part 2 of their insightful exploration, offering practical insights on fostering self-awareness, mindfulness, and a healthier approach to spirituality.   Listen on Apple Podcast: https://apple.co/3J6jrmb   Find More Content at: Instagram: @brannon_patrick TikTok: @brannonpatrickshow YouTube: @thebrannonpatrickshow Brannon's Website: thebrannonpatrickshow.com
2024-06-1949 minThe Brannon Patrick Show
The Brannon Patrick Show#41: Are We Taught To Be Anxious? PART 1In this episode, Brannon Patrick and Valerie Hamaker discuss the impact of religious scrupulosity on their lives, share personal stories, and explore inner child healing. They emphasize the need for compassionate support from religious communities to help individuals move beyond trauma and embrace purpose, passion, and pleasure.   Listen on Apple Podcast: https://apple.co/3J6jrmb   Find More Content at: Instagram: @brannon_patrick TikTok: @brannonpatrickshow YouTube: @thebrannonpatrickshow Brannon's Website: thebrannonpatrickshow.com
2024-06-1246 minThe Brannon Patrick Show
The Brannon Patrick Show#40: Are The Churches Teachings About Sex Harmful?In this episode, Brannon Patrick explores whether church teachings about sex are harmful. Drawing from his experience treating sexual addiction in the LDS community, he critiques shame-inducing doctrines and advocates for healthier, more accepting approaches to sexuality.   Listen on Apple Podcast: https://apple.co/3J6jrmb   Find More Content at: Instagram: @brannon_patrick TikTok: @brannonpatrickshow YouTube: @thebrannonpatrickshow Brannon's Website: thebrannonpatrickshow.com
2024-06-0644 minThe Brannon Patrick Show
The Brannon Patrick Show#39: Why Courage Heals TraumaIn this episode, Brannon talks about the profound impact of courage on healing trauma. He delves into how our belief systems, shaped by past experiences, influence our life outcomes and how embracing vulnerability is crucial for breaking these cycles. Brannon shares personal anecdotes and explains the importance of experiential healing methods, such as retreats and plant medicine journeys, to foster genuine transformation.   Listen on Apple Podcast: https://apple.co/3J6jrmb   Find More Content at: Instagram: @brannon_patrick TikTok: @brannonpatrickshow YouTube: @thebrannonpatrickshow Brannon's Web...
2024-05-2920 minThe Brannon Patrick Show
The Brannon Patrick Show#38: Why Risk Taking Is EssentialIn this episode, Brannon discusses the importance of risk-taking for personal growth and fulfillment. Drawing from personal experiences, he highlights how fear of the unknown can lead to stagnation in jobs and relationships. Brannon shares stories of individuals who took bold risks, emphasizing the potential for both success and failure. He encourages listeners to embrace risk-taking as a path to learning, resilience, creativity, and fulfillment in life.   Listen on Apple Podcast: https://apple.co/3J6jrmb   Find More Content at: Instagram: @brannon_patrick TikTok: @brannonpatrickshow Yo...
2024-05-1025 minThe Brannon Patrick Show
The Brannon Patrick Show#37: Please Don’t Assume Why I LeftIn this episode, Brannon candidly explores his departure from the church, drawing parallels with David Archuleta's experience and addressing the judgmental attitudes often encountered by those who leave religious institutions. He delves into the complexities of faith and personal integrity, critiquing rigid belief systems and emphasizing the importance of empathy and understanding in navigating individual spiritual journeys   Listen on Apple Podcast: https://apple.co/3J6jrmb   Find More Content at: Instagram: @brannon_patrick TikTok: @brannonpatrickshow YouTube: @thebrannonpatrickshow Brannon's Website: thebrannonpatrickshow.com
2024-05-0130 minThe Brannon Patrick Show
The Brannon Patrick Show#36: Our Belief System Determines Our Life OutcomesIn this episode, Brannon and Michael delve into the profound influence of belief systems on our life outcomes. They explore how our beliefs shape our reality, often confining us to limited options. Through discussions on psychedelics and spirituality, they illuminate the potential for transformative shifts in perspective. Discover how music acts as a guiding force during psychedelic journeys, facilitating emotional healing and personal growth.   Listen on Apple Podcast: https://apple.co/3J6jrmb   Find More Content at: Instagram: @brannon_patrick TikTok: @brannonpatrickshow YouTube: @thebrannonpatrickshow B...
2024-04-0428 minThe Brannon Patrick Show
The Brannon Patrick Show#35: Something Needs To ChangeIn this episode, Brandon reflects on the complexities of mental health treatment prompted by his cousin's struggle with bipolar disorder. He questions the effectiveness of current approaches and advocates for a holistic model like Finland's.   Listen on Apple Podcast: https://apple.co/3J6jrmb   Find More Content at: Instagram: @brannon_patrick TikTok: @brannonpatrickshow YouTube: @thebrannonpatrickshow Brannon's Website: thebrannonpatrickshow.com  
2024-03-1316 minThe Brannon Patrick Show
The Brannon Patrick Show#34: Why You Must Go Back To Move ForwardIn this episode, Brannon discusses the vital link between healing and manifestation. He explores how addressing the wounded inner child and confronting past trauma can break recurring patterns, empowering listeners to manifest their true desires. Through insights on courage and introspection, Brannon offers practical strategies for transformative growth.   Listen on Apple Podcast: https://apple.co/3J6jrmb   Find More Content at: Instagram: @brannon_patrick TikTok: @brannonpatrickshow YouTube: @thebrannonpatrickshow Brannon's Website: thebrannonpatrickshow.com
2024-02-2824 minThe Brannon Patrick Show
The Brannon Patrick Show#33: The Process Of Faith ReconstructionIn this episode, Brandon discusses the journey of faith reconstruction, breaking it down into 10 stages. From initial doubts to finding peace, Brandon shares insights and personal experiences, guiding listeners through the process of questioning beliefs and finding resilience.   Listen on Apple Podcast: https://apple.co/3J6jrmb   Find More Content at: Instagram: @brannon_patrick TikTok: @brannonpatrickshow YouTube: @thebrannonpatrickshow Brannon's Website: thebrannonpatrickshow.com
2024-02-0825 minThe Brannon Patrick Show
The Brannon Patrick Show#32: Should I Care What Others Think About Me?In this episode, Brannon discusses the upcoming plant medicine retreat in Peru before delving into a thought-provoking exploration of the fine line between caring about others' opinions and the potential impact on life purpose. Drawing on personal experiences and insightful quotes, he emphasizes the importance of not deriving self-worth from external judgments.   Listen on Apple Podcast: https://apple.co/3J6jrmb   Find More Content at: Instagram: @brannon_patrick TikTok: @brannonpatrickshow YouTube: @thebrannonpatrickshow Brannon's Website: thebrannonpatrickshow.com
2024-01-3123 minThe Brannon Patrick Show
The Brannon Patrick Show#31: Myths About RelationshipsIn this episode, Brannon tackles relationship myths, advocating for healthy disagreement, individual strength, and embracing diverse spiritual journeys. He explores relationship killers like dishonesty and resentment, offering insights on building trust through honesty, boundaries, curiosity, and vulnerability.   Listen on Apple Podcast: https://apple.co/3J6jrmb   Find More Content at: Instagram: @brannon_patrick TikTok: @brannonpatrickshow YouTube: @thebrannonpatrickshow Brannon's Website: thebrannonpatrickshow.com
2024-01-2430 minThe Brannon Patrick Show
The Brannon Patrick Show#30: How Our Beliefs Create Our LivesIn this episode, Brannon explores the transformative potential of the new year, sharing insights from a hunting experience. He delves into the impact of trauma on core beliefs and introduces the concept of affirmative questioning to shift mindset. Discover the importance of working backward from life outcomes, embracing pain for growth, and acting opposite to harmful beliefs. Brannon offers practical tools for positive change and emphasizes the profound influence of mindset on creating a fulfilling life.   Find More Content at: Instagram: @brannon_patrick TikTok: @brannonpatrickshow YouTube: @thebrannonpatrickshow B...
2024-01-1733 minThe Brannon Patrick Show
The Brannon Patrick Show#29: Why Do You Believe?In this episode, Brannon discusses the reasons why people believe in God and religion. He explores topics like conditioned beliefs, fear-based motivations, and the importance of authenticity in one's spiritual journey. Brannon encourages listeners to question their beliefs without fear and emphasizes the value of living in truth and integrity.   Find More Content at: Instagram: @brannon_patrick TikTok: @brannonpatrickshow YouTube: @thebrannonpatrickshow Brannon's Website: thebrannonpatrickshow.com  
2024-01-1031 minThe Brannon Patrick Show
The Brannon Patrick Show#28: Is Sex Only For Marriage?In this episode, Brannon challenges the idea that sexuality is only meant for marriage. He explores the diverse facets of sex, emphasizing its connection to identity, creativity, and spirituality. Brannon encourages listeners to embrace their unique arousal templates, advocating for open communication and self-acceptance. Come join me in the Reclaim Your Heart Women's Group! For more information and to apply, visit thebrannonpatrickshow.com or simply tap the link below. https://thebrannonpatrickshow.com/healing-journey/   Listen on Apple Podcast: https://apple.co/3J6jrmb Find More Content at: Instagram: @br...
2023-12-2230 minThe Brannon Patrick Show
The Brannon Patrick Show#27: Beliefs In God That Will Improve Your Mental HealthIn this episode, Brannon talks about how believing in a mainly masculine God can affect mental health. He shares some surprising stats and suggests a new idea—believing in the divine feminine could make us feel better. Brannon also says it's important to follow natural cycles, spend time in nature, and express feelings for good mental health. Listen in for an interesting chat and a challenge to try connecting with the divine feminine in your own way. Come join me in the Reclaim Your Heart Women's Group! For more information and to apply, visit thebrannonpatrickshow.com or si...
2023-12-1334 minThe Brannon Patrick Show
The Brannon Patrick Show#24 Brannon Tackles The Tough QuestionsIn this episode, Brannon explores a wide range of thought-provoking questions and topics. He delves into the dynamics of healthy masculinity, the use of plant medicine for trauma healing, the intriguing idea of knowing everything but still choosing to believe, and the complexities of accepting one's own and a partner's sexuality. Join Brannon for an engaging and nuanced discussion that challenges traditional viewpoints and encourages open, honest conversations about these important subjects.
2023-10-2532 minThe Brannon Patrick Show
The Brannon Patrick ShowHow does trauma effect what we manifest?In this episode Brannon illustrates how our trauma turns into our perspective, which leads to our beliefs, our behaviors and ultimately what we manifest. He talks about how shifting perspective and doing deep trauma work can change the outcomes of your life. He works you backwards from recognizing the outcomes in your life today to understanding the life experiences that have shaped your reality.   If you want to watch video of this interview go to TheBrannonPatrickShow youtube channel here Also follow brannon on instagram @brannon_patrick
2023-04-0442 minThe Brannon Patrick Show
The Brannon Patrick ShowStaying Sex Positive as a Woman Despite a Rigid Upbringing and Betrayal.In this episode Brannon interviews his good friend and former co-host Ashlynn Mitchell.  They talk about sexual development for a girl in a religious setting.  Also they break down struggles of feeling safe and comfortable when there has been betrayal in the relationship.  Ashlynn opens up about all of her progress and learning through the years from all of her many experiences.  She is bold, brave and very vulnerable.  Find her "This is Ashlynn" podcast here and follow her on instagram @this.isashlynn   Find More Content at: Instagram:  @brannon_patrick TikTok: thebrann...
2023-03-2149 minThe Brannon Patrick Show
The Brannon Patrick ShowHow rigid beliefs about sex lead to sexual compulsion and shame?In this episode Brannon interviews a good friend and colleague Steve Moore. Steve shares his personal and unique story about shame, rigidity, and sexual development. He also shares his professional experience about sexual development. He outlines how we get caught in webs of shame and self rejection. You can find Steve over at his program "Dare to Connect" https://www.daretoconnectnow.com/blank Steve helps people struggling with sexual compulsive behaviors find recovery. If you want to watch video of this interview go to TheBrannonPatrickShow youtube channel here Also follow brannon on instagram @brannon_patrick
2023-03-1438 minThe Brannon Patrick Show
The Brannon Patrick ShowWhy Psychedelics/Plant Medicine Work for Healing TraumaIn this episode Brannon interviews his wife Jenny about the healing effects of plant medicine/Psychedelics.  They also talk specifically why traditional talk therapy does not work to heal trauma and how to actually get at the root of the problem.  Brannon outlines how we focus too much on the symptoms of our life and do not address the actually energy that manifests the outcomes of our life.   If you want to watch video of this interview go to TheBrannonPatrickShow youtube channel here Also follow Brannon on instagram @brannon_patrick and TikTok @thebrannonpatrickshow
2023-03-0738 minThe Brannon Patrick Show
The Brannon Patrick Show#1: How my "Sinful Sexuality" helped me find my SpiritualityIn this episode Brannon talks with Michael about how his sexuality helped him better understand himself and his relationship with God. He talks about how being Gay pushed him to really look within from a young age and how that helped him stay connected to a higher power. He relied on music to feel connection. Brannon and Michael also talk about the nature of Christs teachings as it pertains to knowing theyself. Find More Content at: Instagram:  @brannon_patrick TikTok: thebrannonpatrickshow Youtube: The Brannon Patrick Show
2023-02-2838 minThe Betrayed, The Addicted, The Expert
The Betrayed, The Addicted, The Expert#169: Is There Life After Divorce? ( + A Big Announcement )*ANNOUNCEMENT* This is the last time we'll be posting the Real Talk Recovery episodes to the BAE podcast feed. If you'd like to listen to more of the Real Talk Recovery podcast and hear the full episodes, you can find us by searching for "Real Talk Recovery" on your favorite podcast streaming service (you can click one of the links below) or go to https://realtalkrecovery.com and subscribe there. Apple Podcasts Spotify Audible Google Podcasts Brannon and Tyler host a special guest, Ashlynn Mitchell (@this.isashlynn + ThisIsAshlynn.com). Together they talk about Ashlynn's life and w...
2022-09-2811 minThe Betrayed, The Addicted, The Expert
The Betrayed, The Addicted, The ExpertSEXtember: Let's Talk About Masturbation With Therapist Brannon Patrick Today I welcome Brannon Patrick, the "Expert" in Betrayal Trauma & Sex Addiction healing & recovery.  He is a clinical therapist with massive amounts of training & experience. He believes that everyone has the opportunity for healing, growth & connection, if they want it enough.  You can find him on his podcast, https://www.therapybros.com & at Therapy Utah. Ashlynn Mitchell kicks divorce & betrayal in the teeth. With her real world example of what’s possible after betrayal & how to live boldly with compassion & forgiveness while being boundaried & free from the past. She is an advocate for women who want t...
2022-09-2141 minThe Betrayed, The Addicted, The Expert
The Betrayed, The Addicted, The Expert#166: Am I A Bad Person Or Is It Just My AddictionCaller Andrew's Question: "My behavior regarding my addiction was so different than the rest of my life. How do I tell what was addiction/avoidance attachment and what was really me and is in my dna/personality?" Brannon Patrick, "The Expert", is co-founder of Therapy Utah (therapyutah.org). You can follow Brannon on Instagram @brannon_patrick. He has some really great online courses available at brannonpatrick.com like his Boundary Bootcamp course. Brannon has a program called L.I.F.T. for betrayal trauma and addiction recovery available online starting soon. Go to https://www.liftforrecovery.com/ for more i...
2022-09-1902 minThe Betrayed, The Addicted, The Expert
The Betrayed, The Addicted, The Expert#164: What Do I Do If My Partner Refuses To Own Their Own StuffThe 2 brothers talk about the power of self-reflection and what to do when your partner is not accountable to themself. Brannon Patrick, "The Expert", is co-founder of Therapy Utah (therapyutah.org). You can follow Brannon on Instagram @brannon_patrick. He has some really great online courses available at brannonpatrick.com like his Boundary Bootcamp course. Brannon has a program called L.I.F.T. for betrayal trauma and addiction recovery available online starting soon. Go to https://www.liftforrecovery.com/ for more info!     Tyler Patrick, "The Wandering Therapist", is co-founder of Love Strong (lovestrong.com...
2022-09-1205 minThe Betrayed, The Addicted, The Expert
The Betrayed, The Addicted, The Expert#162: I Hold Prominent Positions At Church And At Work, I Have A Pornograpy Problem, And The Shame Is Eating Me AliveThe 2 brothers discuss the shame cycle that can come from having a problem with pornography, especially for those who have an expectation of being perfect.  Brannon Patrick, "The Expert", is co-founder of Therapy Utah (therapyutah.org). You can follow Brannon on Instagram @brannon_patrick. He has some really great online courses available at brannonpatrick.com like his Boundary Bootcamp course. Brannon has a program called L.I.F.T. for betrayal trauma and addiction recovery available online starting soon. Go to https://www.liftforrecovery.com/ for more info!     Tyler Patrick, "The Wandering Therapist", is co-founder o...
2022-09-0704 minThe Betrayed, The Addicted, The Expert
The Betrayed, The Addicted, The Expert#160 How Can Sex Addiction And Recovery Create An Unhealthy Power Dynamic In Our Relationship?The 2 brothers talk about how sex addiction and recovery can affect the power dynamic in a relationship.  Brannon Patrick, "The Expert", is co-founder of Therapy Utah (therapyutah.org). You can follow Brannon on Instagram @brannon_patrick. He has some really great online courses available at brannonpatrick.com like his Boundary Bootcamp course. Brannon has a program called L.I.F.T. for betrayal trauma and addiction recovery available online starting soon. Go to https://www.liftforrecovery.com/ for more info!     Tyler Patrick, "The Wandering Therapist", is co-founder of Love Strong (lovestrong.com), a Christian-based R...
2022-08-2903 minThe Betrayed, The Addicted, The Expert
The Betrayed, The Addicted, The Expert#158 To Share Or Not To Share? That Is The Question! Caller Sam's question:  I have been in recovery for the past 3.5 years. I am 41 with a wife and 5 kids. I was in a very dark place before finding recovery. One of the things that helped pull me from that dark place was hearing a podcast of someone who had a very similar story to mine and who had the courage to be honest and come forward to make changes in his life. I was serving as EQ President in my ward at that time while acting out regularly. So my question is this: how should I think about sharing my...
2022-08-2210 minThe Betrayed, The Addicted, The Expert
The Betrayed, The Addicted, The Expert#156: What Is Covert Incest And How Has It Affected My Addiction?Caller Claire's Question: "I am 8 months into recovery and doing really well. Can you discuss the difference between PTSD, anxiety and shame and how they manifest in the body? I am still not fully processing these things consciously due to my addict reaction to bury and run from hard emotions. This leaves me vulnerable to relapse, something I came close to doing a few weeks ago. What is the best way to face and process these?"   Brannon Patrick, "The Expert", is co-founder of Therapy Utah (therapyutah.org). You can follow Brannon on Instagram @brannon_patrick. He h...
2022-08-1504 minThe Betrayed, The Addicted, The Expert
The Betrayed, The Addicted, The ExpertAnswering Your Question: Should I Open My Relationship With Expert Brannon PatrickToday I welcome Brannon Patrick, the "Expert" in Betrayal Trauma & Sex Addiction healing & recovery. He is a clinical therapist with massive amounts of training & experience. He believes that everyone has the opportunity for healing, growth & connection, if they want it enough. You can find him on his podcast, https://www.therapybros.com & at Therapy Utah Ashlynn Mitchell kicks divorce & betrayal in the teeth. With her real world example of what’s possible after betrayal & how to live boldly with compassion & forgiveness while being boundaried & free from the past. She is an advocate for women who wa...
2022-08-1035 minThe Betrayed, The Addicted, The Expert
The Betrayed, The Addicted, The Expert#152: What Valuable Lesson Did Garth Brooks Teach Brannon About Life?Brannon shares some stories and background about how Garth Brooks has impacted his life in a positive way. This one might seem squirrely but has some really good principles about living life fully. Tyler Patrick, "The Wandering Therapist", is co-founder of Love Strong (lovestrong.com), a Christian-based Recovery + WHOLEHEARTED living therapy practice. If you'd like to work with Love Strong via telehealth or in-person, reach out to us at connect@lovestrong.com or go to our website: https://lovestrong.com. We have a great online Foundations Of Recovery Class starting soon. This class is for sex...
2022-08-0802 minThe Betrayed, The Addicted, The Expert
The Betrayed, The Addicted, The Expert#154: I Feel Like My Recovery Is Improving But My Relationship Is Struggling. What Now?Caller Ben's Question: "How do I hold space for my betrayed partner when they continue to respond with anger and distancing?" Tyler Patrick, "The Wandering Therapist", is co-founder of Love Strong (lovestrong.com), a Christian-based Recovery + WHOLEHEARTED living therapy practice. If you'd like to work with Love Strong via telehealth or in-person, reach out to us at connect@lovestrong.com or go to our website: https://lovestrong.com. We have a great online Foundations Of Recovery Class starting soon. This class is for sex addiction recovery and healing from betrayal trauma. Go to https://lovestrong.com...
2022-08-0807 minThe Betrayed, The Addicted, The Expert
The Betrayed, The Addicted, The Expert#150: How Do I Break The Chain And Not Raise Addicts Myself?Caller Jesslyn's Question: "How do I stay healthy and make good boundaries, as well as stop unhealthy mentality and cycles during family, get togethers with people who confuse rigidity for righteousness and not get triggered when they say hurtful/judgemental things?"  Tyler Patrick, "The Wandering Therapist", is co-founder of Love Strong (lovestrong.com), a Christian-based Recovery + WHOLEHEARTED living therapy practice. If you'd like to work with Love Strong via telehealth or in-person, reach out to us at connect@lovestrong.com or go to our website: https://lovestrong.com. We have a great online Foundations Of Recovery Cl...
2022-08-0106 minThe Betrayed, The Addicted, The Expert
The Betrayed, The Addicted, The Expert#148: Are There Certain Ideologies In Addiction Treatment That Are Barriers To Recovery?Caller Adam's Question: "Hey! I'm a recovering SLA and by day I'm a physiotherapist. I was really intrigued when listening to an episode and B got really worked up when he talked about his first mentor in couples therapy. It made me realize that well, of course, there are schools and 'ideologies' in treatment of sexual addiction and betrayal trauma just as there are a lot of ideologies in physical therapy (I'll gladly rant about those) And so I thought, well what are those ideologies and how can I identify if my therapist is following a certain ideology? Now i...
2022-07-2118 minThe Betrayed, The Addicted, The Expert
The Betrayed, The Addicted, The Expert#146: How Do I Live Day To Day But Still Visualize Change For The Future?Brannon and Tyler discuss the dialectic of Being vs Becoming and how to find the proper balance between the 2.    Tyler Patrick, "The Wandering Therapist", is co-founder of Love Strong (lovestrong.com), a Christian-based Recovery + WHOLEHEARTED living therapy practice. If you'd like to work with Love Strong via telehealth or in-person, reach out to us at connect@lovestrong.com or go to our website: https://lovestrong.com. We have a great online Foundations Of Recovery Class starting soon. This class is for sex addiction recovery and healing from betrayal trauma. Go to https://lovestrong.com/services/foundations-group/ to...
2022-07-1803 minThe Betrayed, The Addicted, The Expert
The Betrayed, The Addicted, The Expert#144: What Is A Bid For Connection And How Do I Meet It In My Relationship?The Patrick brothers talk about ideas to answer the question: What Is A Bid For Connection And How Do I Meet It In My Relationship? Tyler Patrick, "The Wandering Therapist", is co-founder of Love Strong (lovestrong.com), a Christian-based Recovery + WHOLEHEARTED living therapy practice. If you'd like to work with Love Strong via telehealth or in-person, reach out to us at connect@lovestrong.com or go to our website: https://lovestrong.com. We have a great online Foundations Of Recovery Class starting soon. This class is for sex addiction recovery and healing from betrayal trauma. Go...
2022-07-0402 minThe Betrayed, The Addicted, The Expert
The Betrayed, The Addicted, The Expert#142: As A Man In Recovery How Do I Integrate My Masculine and Feminine Parts?Caller James' Question: "As A Man In Recovery How Do I Integrate My Masculine and Feminine Parts?"   Tyler Patrick, "The Wandering Therapist", is co-founder of Love Strong (lovestrong.com), a Christian-based Recovery + WHOLEHEARTED living therapy practice. If you'd like to work with Love Strong via telehealth or in-person, reach out to us at connect@lovestrong.com or go to our website: https://lovestrong.com. We have a great online Foundations Of Recovery Class starting soon. This class is for sex addiction recovery and healing from betrayal trauma. Go to https://lovestrong.com/services/foundations-group/ to learn more a...
2022-06-2709 minThe Betrayed, The Addicted, The Expert
The Betrayed, The Addicted, The Expert#140: How Can Trauma Be Good For Us?The Patrick brothers discuss How Can Trauma Be Good For Us.   Tyler Patrick, "The Wandering Therapist", is co-founder of Love Strong (lovestrong.com), a Christian-based Recovery + WHOLEHEARTED living therapy practice. If you'd like to work with Love Strong via telehealth or in-person, reach out to us at connect@lovestrong.com or go to our website: https://lovestrong.com. We have a great online Foundations Of Recovery Class starting soon. This class is for sex addiction recovery and healing from betrayal trauma. Go to https://lovestrong.com/services/foundations-group/ to learn more and sign up.   Brannon Patrick, "The Expert", is...
2022-06-2003 minThe Betrayed, The Addicted, The Expert
The Betrayed, The Addicted, The Expert#138: I’m Full Of Anger And Resentment. How Do I Let It Go?Caller Tami's Question: "A couple of mths ago I'd responded to a podcast where you'd role played, mentioning that I felt the "betrayer" seemed they were portraying avoidant behavior likely to cause a betrayed to feel there's more secrecy. I am a huge proponent of the betrayed asking anything they want. It has helped me immensely (anxious type- I'll make up and fill holes if I don't know - which is usually worse than the truth!). Anyway, you'd asked about coming on - I'm completely open to it realize that. Also, a more pressing question for me - a...
2022-06-1305 minThe Betrayed, The Addicted, The Expert
The Betrayed, The Addicted, The Expert#136: What Are Some Seemingly Good Beliefs That Actually Harm Your Recovery?The Patrick brothers discuss answers to the question: What Are Some Seemingly Good Beliefs That Actually Harm Your Recovery?   Tyler Patrick, "The Wandering Therapist", is co-founder of Love Strong (lovestrong.com), a Christian-based Recovery + WHOLEHEARTED living therapy practice. If you'd like to work with Love Strong via telehealth or in-person, reach out to us at connect@lovestrong.com or go to our website: https://lovestrong.com. We have a great online Foundations Of Recovery Class starting soon. This class is for sex addiction recovery and healing from betrayal trauma. Go to https://lovestrong.com/services/foundations-group/ to l...
2022-06-0606 minThe Betrayed, The Addicted, The Expert
The Betrayed, The Addicted, The Expert#135: How Do I Know When It’s Time To Rebuild Trust Or Say That It’s Enough?Caller Beth's Question: "How do I process, heal, and trust my husband again after there has been a betrayal that has devastated our family and our lives? The betrayal is a camera that was found in our downstairs bathroom that is used by my daughter and her friends. We separated when the camera was discovered but are currently living together. He seemed remorseful for a while but now he is refusing to go to counseling with me and he is not taking action towards recovery."   Tyler Patrick, "The Wandering Therapist", is co-founder of Love Strong (lovestrong.com), a Christian-based R...
2022-05-3003 minThe Betrayed, The Addicted, The Expert
The Betrayed, The Addicted, The Expert#134: My Marriage Started With Trauma And Has Continued To Be Traumatic What Do I Do?Caller Kathryn's Question: "Married 41 years. Separated 3.5. On New Year’s Day, he said he wanted to show me sobriety ( from fantasy and masturbation) and he was going to begin with a new CSAT and he wanted us to get together twice a week and start marriage counseling too. None of this has happened. I asked him in a text two weeks ago how his sobriety was going. He said he couldn’t say it was going well. His excuses for not moving back home are his resentment and his lack of sobriety. He has never let me help him yet...
2022-05-2306 minThe Betrayed, The Addicted, The Expert
The Betrayed, The Addicted, The Expert#133: We Are Finding Recovery. What Does That Look And Feel Like?Caller Rachel's Question: "I’ve been in Alanon since 2006, Sanon since 10/26/21. My husband has been sober for almost 4 years. We have been together off and on over 18 years. I’ve heard that addictions can come in three and I was warned early on that I had a long road with my husband. We’ve both grown independently but not together- it’s been really tragic- two people that are supposed to be professing christians and working programs? If God is in center, why arent we coming together? He told our pastor that he has never been faithful to me, does not...
2022-05-1613 minThe Betrayed, The Addicted, The Expert
The Betrayed, The Addicted, The Expert#132: I Know It’s Right To Let Go Of My Relationship... But How Do I Actually Do It?Caller LuAnn's Question: "I am having difficulty in letting go. My husband of 7 years was “found out”. He has hooked up with men, online, and met 4 different people that have been admitted to me. I’ve forgiven; he acts like he doesn’t think he needs forgiveness. What is wrong with me that I can’t let go!?"   Tyler Patrick, "The Wandering Therapist", is co-founder of Love Strong (lovestrong.com), a Christian-based Recovery + WHOLEHEARTED living therapy practice. If you'd like to work with Love Strong via telehealth or in-person, reach out to us at connect@lovestrong.com or go to our webs...
2022-05-0911 minThe Betrayed, The Addicted, The Expert
The Betrayed, The Addicted, The Expert#131: How Do I Stay Out Of Shame When My Partner Needs Me To Just Listen?Caller Dave's Question: "I attempted to have an affair and was caught. My spouse and I have been working through my addiction recovery and her betrayal trauma recovery. At times she is triggered and talks to me about it to keep communication open and transparent. How do I keep from shaming myself for what I have done to her when she needs me to just listen."   Tyler Patrick, "The Wandering Therapist", is co-founder of Love Strong (lovestrong.com), a Christian-based Recovery + WHOLEHEARTED living therapy practice. If you'd like to work with Love Strong via telehealth or in-person, reach out t...
2022-05-0205 minThe Betrayed, The Addicted, The Expert
The Betrayed, The Addicted, The Expert#130: Does Addiction Increase The Intensity Of Abuse?Caller Adriene's Question: "This question is for your last podcast regarding what works and doesn’t work in betrayal trauma recovery. I do agree with everything that was said in there. However, as someone who has been through betrayal trauma, addiction with her spouse, and abuse with her spouse I just wish the abuse part could be validated a little bit more. I agree that the abuse model can keep us stuck so we need to change up the model a little bit. However, once I learned about abuse and put a name to what I was experiencing that wa...
2022-04-2506 minThe Betrayed, The Addicted, The Expert
The Betrayed, The Addicted, The Expert#129: Why Does It Feel Like When I Got Better My Partner Got Worse?Pam's Question: Why does it feel like when I got better my partner got worse? We're publishing 2 episodes a week on our Real Talk Recovery Podcast Feed (1 per week on BAE feed). You can find those bonus episodes and subscribe to our Real Talk Recovery channel here Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/real-talk-recovery/id1500794877 Spotify Podcasts (Video + Audio): https://open.spotify.com/show/6SDuQFy88qSD2ytuRP5oEB?si=b1082398a1bc4834 We would love to help answer your questions related to sex addiction recovery and betrayal trauma healing. Go to realtalkrecovery.com to...
2022-04-1808 minThe Betrayed, The Addicted, The Expert
The Betrayed, The Addicted, The Expert#128: Does Will Smith Lack Masculinity?With the recent ridiculous scene from the Oscars, Tyler and Brannon break down the absurdity and talk about where toxic masculinity was showcased instead of real masculinity.  We're publishing 2 episodes a week on our Real Talk Recovery Podcast Feed (1 per week on BAE feed). You can find those bonus episodes and subscribe to our Real Talk Recovery channel here Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/real-talk-recovery/id1500794877 Spotify Podcasts (Video + Audio): https://open.spotify.com/show/6SDuQFy88qSD2ytuRP5oEB?si=b1082398a1bc4834 We would love to help answer your questions related to...
2022-04-1108 minThe Betrayed, The Addicted, The Expert
The Betrayed, The Addicted, The Expert#127: My Partner Is Sober But My Relationship Is Not Healing. Now What?Caller Emily's Question: "I’ve been through most of the models over the past 15 years. I agree that the model needs constant growth… are you familiar with Vicki Tidwell Palmer? Her moving being betrayal book and courses are some of the best I’ve seen. It is so refreshing to have a therapist who understands and validates betrayal and whose goal is to MOVE you BEYOND it. We are still married, 21 years and still trying to gain connection and closeness in marriage. One piece that I feel you may be missing (or maybe I just haven’t heard you speak to...
2022-04-0404 minThe Betrayed, The Addicted, The Expert
The Betrayed, The Addicted, The Expert#124: Can It Be Betrayal Trauma Even If It's Not Sex Addiction?Caller Chelsea: "My husband has used some porn as a form of escapism, but never really an addiction. His real addiction has been alcohol. He is currently 3 months sober, but it seems like his goal in this is to show me that the alcohol was never really the problem in our marriage, but that the real problem was/is me. He makes zero effort to move toward the relationship, giving me the silent treatment. When I force him to talk, or at minimum listen to what I have to say, he refutes most everything I say that I am...
2022-03-2807 minThe Betrayed, The Addicted, The Expert
The Betrayed, The Addicted, The Expert#126: I'm Miserably Safe In My Marriage. Help!The 2 Brothers meet this week to talk about "safe" marriages where there is no real fulfillment or growth within the relationship. Our Radiant Dawn Women's Conference is coming up soon. This conference is focused on the process of healing from trauma and positive growth through symbolic experiences coupled with proven therapy principles and most critically, God. t's going to be incredible and completely unique. All Food and lodging for the 3 days are covered in the expense. There will be Art, Live Music, Nature, Stories, Sisterhood, Connection, and Life-Changing Breakthroughs. You can learn more and purchase your pass...
2022-03-2107 minThe Betrayed, The Addicted, The Expert
The Betrayed, The Addicted, The ExpertWhat Do I Do If My Betrayal Trauma is Lingering From A Past Relationship, With Expert Brannon Patrick Always fun to have Brannon back podcasting with me as the expert as we worked together for 4 years as a team.  Find Brannon on his podcast HERE Ashlynn Mitchell kicks divorce & betrayal in the teeth. With her real world example of what’s possible after betrayal & how to live boldly with compassion & forgiveness while being boundaried & free from the past. She is an advocate for women who want to live a life full of adventure & freedom. Come listen to her perspectives while she has conversations with those she loves & respects who share their #bethebuffalo moments tha...
2022-03-1627 minThe Betrayed, The Addicted, The Expert
The Betrayed, The Addicted, The ExpertBonus Ep: What Do They Get Wrong About Boundaries?Our Radiant Dawn Women's Conference is coming up soon. This conference is focused on the process of healing from trauma and positive growth through symbolic experiences coupled with proven therapy principles and most critically, God. t's going to be incredible and completely unique. All Food and lodging for the 3 days are covered in the expense. There will be Art, Live Music, Nature, Stories, Sisterhood, Connection, and Life-Changing Breakthroughs. You can learn more and purchase your pass here: Radiant Dawn Women's Conference: https://radiantdawnconference.com. We're publishing 2 episodes a week on our Real Talk Recovery Podcast Feed (1 per we...
2022-03-1603 minThe Betrayed, The Addicted, The Expert
The Betrayed, The Addicted, The Expert#122: As A Woman, How Do I Know If I Struggle With Sex Addiction?Caller Claire's Question: "My husband and I have been listening to your podcast for a couple of weeks now and appreciate your insight into this difficult subject. We are at the beginning of recovery but find ourselves in the position of having our roles swapped. I, the wife have the sex addiction and my husband is working through the betrayal trauma. My question is whether you have any insight into female sex addiction or any resources that would be helpful for us. I am finding it difficult to find accurate information that I can relate to. It took nearly...
2022-03-1411 minThe Betrayed, The Addicted, The Expert
The Betrayed, The Addicted, The Expert#121: What Is Brannon's Perspective On The Betrayed, The Addicted, And The Expert?This episode is focused on sharing some of the unspoken thoughts, feelings, and perspective held by Brannon ("The Expert") about the dissolution of the BAE podcast and the unhealthy elements that permeated that process. Brannon shares this knowing it's a challenging episode to listen to but he does so with the intention of serving the people who have followed the journey. He hopes this will bring some resolution for those who recognized a sudden lack of transparency near the end of the original project. It's intended only as his real insight into a very difficult situation. This comes in res...
2022-03-0707 minThe Betrayed, The Addicted, The Expert
The Betrayed, The Addicted, The Expert#118: What Is A Healthy Disclosure?Brannon & Tyler talk about some of the work they do as therapists and delineate the dos and don'ts of healthy disclosure. Our Radiant Dawn Women's Conference is coming up soon. As of the day of releasing this episode, we still have a few more passes available. It's going to be incredible. learn more and purchase your pass here: Radiant Dawn Women's Conference: https://radiantdawnconference.com. We're publishing 2 episodes a week on our Real Talk Recovery Podcast Feed (1 per week on BAE feed). You can find those bonus episodes and subscribe to our Real Talk Recovery ch...
2022-02-2804 minThe Betrayed, The Addicted, The Expert
The Betrayed, The Addicted, The Expert#116: Why Are We So Afraid Of Our Sexuality?The Therapy Brothers are amped up for a discussion around the topic of fear and individual sexuality. Why Are We So Afraid Of Our Sexuality? We're publishing 2 episodes a week on our Real Talk Recovery Podcast Feed (1 per week on BAE feed). You can find those bonus episodes and subscribe to our Real Talk Recovery channel here Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/real-talk-recovery/id1500794877 Spotify Podcasts (Video + Audio): https://open.spotify.com/show/6SDuQFy88qSD2ytuRP5oEB?si=b1082398a1bc4834 We would love to have you as a guest on the po...
2022-02-2104 minThe Betrayed, The Addicted, The Expert
The Betrayed, The Addicted, The Expert#114: My Partner Is Using Sex To Cope With His Anxiety. How Do We Move Forward?Caller Rachel's Question: "My husband has PTSD and has been using sex as a coping mechanism. The last 2 years have been traumatic and we are on a verge of a divorce. He doesn’t see it and is blaming me for his unhappiness. We can’t seem to move forward."   We're publishing 2 episodes a week on our Real Talk Recovery Podcast Feed (only 1 per week on BAE feed). You can find the bonus episodes and subscribe to our Real Talk Recovery channel here Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/real-talk-recovery/id1500794877 Spotify Podcasts (Video + Audio): ...
2022-02-1408 minThe Betrayed, The Addicted, The Expert
The Betrayed, The Addicted, The Expert#112: What Works And What Doesn't Work In Treating Betrayal?This week the 2 brothers talk about what works and what doesn't work when treating betrayal.  We're publishing 2 episodes a week on our Real Talk Recovery Podcast Feed (1 per week on BAE feed). You can find those bonus episodes and subscribe to our Real Talk Recovery channel here Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/real-talk-recovery/id1500794877 Spotify Podcasts (Video + Audio): https://open.spotify.com/show/6SDuQFy88qSD2ytuRP5oEB?si=b1082398a1bc4834 We would love to have you as a guest on the podcast. Go to realtalkrecovery.com to submit your question and sch...
2022-02-0703 minThe Betrayed, The Addicted, The Expert
The Betrayed, The Addicted, The Expert#110: How Do I Deal With My Partner's Denial?Rahul's Question: "I'm listening to your episode right now about how to rebuild trust and I'm really struggling with that issue. I have a specific question about that topic, and I would also love a chance to talk to you more about the situation I'm in.  My question is: how do I trust my wife when she wants time to herself and refuses to provide any information about where she's going, who she's going to see or when she's coming back?" We would love to have you as a guest on the podcast. Go to realtalkrecovery.com to...
2022-01-3110 minThe Betrayed, The Addicted, The Expert
The Betrayed, The Addicted, The Expert#108: How Do I Distinguish Healthy Behavior VS Unhealthy Behavior With My Partner In Recovery?Crystal's Question: "My partner and I are 6-ish months into treatment for porn addiction and betrayal trauma. I know very little about his triggers and preferences with his porn addiction. I haven't asked and he hasn't shared. I think I like not knowing. But I wonder if I'm in denial and avoidance or if I'm wise to protect myself from developing more of my own triggers. Are there things I need to know or can I do my recovery work without certain knowledge? When do I know I need a question answered to help me move forward vs how...
2022-01-2406 minThe Betrayed, The Addicted, The Expert
The Betrayed, The Addicted, The Expert#106: I Am Frequently Exposed To My Partner’s Affair Partner How Do I Handle The Triggers?Caller Susan: "I had never heard of Betrayal Trauma before listening to your podcasts. Four months ago I discovered my partner was in an emotional affair with a single female lady from our dance class group. Even though l stopped it continuing and I believe and have been assured that NOTHING physically sexual happened, I am stuck because this person is still in our dance class and very much involved with our social circle of friends and just seeing her triggers me. My Partner has disclosed all the messages from messenger to me as he believed he did nothing...
2022-01-1710 minThe Betrayed, The Addicted, The Expert
The Betrayed, The Addicted, The Expert#105: How Do I Balance Showing Empathy And Humility While Maintaining Masculinity?The 2 Brothers dive into the dialectic of masculinity and where many people get hung up. We would love to have you as a guest on the podcast. Go to realtalkrecovery.com to submit your question and schedule your call!     Tyler Patrick, "The Wandering Therapist", is co-founder of Love Strong (lovestrong.com), a Christian-based Recovery + WHOLEHEARTED living therapy practice. If you'd like to work with Love Strong via telehealth or in-person, reach out to us at connect@lovestrong.com or go to our website: https://lovestrong.com. We have a great online Foundations Of Recovery Class starting...
2022-01-1004 minThe Betrayed, The Addicted, The Expert
The Betrayed, The Addicted, The Expert#104: How Can I Be More Empathetic To My Wife?Byran's Question: "After listening to the "How do I break my walls down and trust him again" episode I would like to ask a question... In mine and my wife's situation I am the one who broke trust with her, obviously, but I would like some "pointers" on how to remain empathetic and steady. I am not very good with handling "rejection", and I know that I can come off really douchie toward her when, for example, I ask her to be intimate and she says no... then I ask her "why" and she gets upset because I'm not...
2022-01-0314 minThe Betrayed, The Addicted, The Expert
The Betrayed, The Addicted, The Expert#103: How Long Should I Wait For My Partner's Recovery?Caller Question: "My question is about intimacy avoidance. My husband and I have been separated for 16 months now and 12 months of that has been in separate countries with the inability to see each other due to Covid. We have a now 2-year-old. He has been sober for 5 months now. He is still unable to say if he wants the marriage or not. I have been accepting, patient, and hopeful but I feel in the last week I have reached apathy. He is due to come over to Australia in 2 weeks and I don't know how I feel anymore. I...
2021-12-2707 minThe Betrayed, The Addicted, The Expert
The Betrayed, The Addicted, The Expert#102: How Do You Move Forward If Your Partner Doesn't Acknowledge The Depths Of Your Pain?Caller Question: "How do you move forward in your relationship when the SA tries to compare their addiction to your mental health struggles and make you equal perpetrators? I am so done and fed up with this relationship, but it is not feasible for me to be able to leave for probably a year or two. What am I supposed to do in the meantime?" We would love to have you as a guest on the podcast. Go to realtalkrecovery.com to submit your question and schedule your call!   Join us for one of our "Lif...
2021-12-2011 minThe Betrayed, The Addicted, The Expert
The Betrayed, The Addicted, The Expert#101: I'm Worried That My Husband's Femininity Is Attractive To Other WomenCaller Question: "I just listened to your latest episode, and I was left with a question. My husband had a pretty in-depth emotional affair. To the point that he and this woman had fantasized about leaving their families and running away together. We have been in recovery for 8 months now and our marriage has seen amazing improvement in all areas. We are working really hard to be vulnerable and boundaried and to do our own work. My question is this- my husband leans far to the feminine side but he is big and strong and looks very manly. He...
2021-12-1307 minThe Betrayed, The Addicted, The Expert
The Betrayed, The Addicted, The ExpertREAL TALK RECOVERY #100: My Husband Is Acting Out With Other Men. How Do I Get Past That?Caller Question: "My husband has acted out with men in the past, does that mean he is Gay? How can I move past the “ick” feeling that comes with that knowledge if I decide to stay in the relationship?"   We would love to have you as a guest on the podcast. Go to realtalkrecovery.com to submit your question and schedule your call!   Join us for one of our "Life-Changing" retreats. therapybros.com/events   Tyler Patrick | "The Wandering Therapist": Tyler is a co-founder Love Strong (lovestrong.com). Check out the Love Strong YouTube Channel...
2021-12-0606 minThe Betrayed, The Addicted, The Expert
The Betrayed, The Addicted, The ExpertREAL TALK RECOVERY #99: My Partner Has Lusted After My Friends. How Do I Manage Those Relationships Now?Caller Question: "My husband disclosed three months ago that he is a sex addict. Specifically pornography and masturbation. We are in the thick of the work, and I acknowledge it’s early still. Here’s where I’m stuck: while he never physically cheated on me, he admitted that a large aspect of his addiction was a sexual fantasy- he provided me with a list of 25 of my female friends and neighbors he has fantasized about and masturbated to. I believe he is repentant, I believe he wants to heal, and that he’s working hard. But part of my work...
2021-11-2908 minThe Betrayed, The Addicted, The Expert
The Betrayed, The Addicted, The ExpertREAL TALK RECOVERY #98: My Partner's Words Don't Meet Up With His Actions. What Do I Do?Caller Question: "Hi. I am struggling with this concept. If my husband really wanted to change and stop looking at porn/ talking to women, wouldn't he? I see him working with his counselor and 12 step but the pattern remains. I keep giving him the benefit of the doubt in his recovery but then o get stuck in moving forward in mine."   We would love to have you as a guest on the podcast. Go to realtalkrecovery.com to submit your question and schedule your call!   Join us for one of our "Life-Changing" retreats. therapybros.com/events   Tyler Patrick | "The Wan...
2021-11-2207 minThe Betrayed, The Addicted, The Expert
The Betrayed, The Addicted, The ExpertREAL TALK RECOVERY #97: Is Fear Holding Me Back From Doing The Thing That I Know Is Right?Caller Question: "I am in the process of filing for divorce. I feel it was the right decision, however now that I have been out of the situation that caused a nervous system overload, and as the hurt caused is starting to fade, I am more clearly able to see my role/issues/shortcomings I played a role in in the marriage (critical, expecting him to live up to my husband “manual”, layering shame on top of his already existing shame) the list goes on … this is leaving me with conflicting feelings… and it hurts. It isn’t fun to see tha...
2021-11-1507 minThe Betrayed, The Addicted, The Expert
The Betrayed, The Addicted, The ExpertTHIS IS ASHLYNN Part 2 EP 16: What Else Do You Need Besides Time To Heal From Betrayal With Expert, Brannon PatrickAshlynn Mitchell kicks divorce & betrayal in the teeth. With her real world example of what’s possible after betrayal & how to live boldly with compassion & forgiveness while being boundaried & free from the past. She is an advocate for women who want to live a life full of adventure & freedom. Come listen to her perspectives while she has conversations with those she loves & respects who share their #bethebuffalo moments that may just help you shift your own journey in a beautiful way. Join her on her new podcast THIS IS ASHLYNN Follow her on social media at @thisis.ashlynn Mentor wi...
2021-10-2733 minThe Betrayed, The Addicted, The Expert
The Betrayed, The Addicted, The ExpertTHIS IS ASHLYNN Ep 14: Do I Have Shame Around Righteousness with Brannon PatrickAshlynn Mitchell kicks divorce & betrayal in the teeth. With her real world example of what’s possible after betrayal & how to live boldly with compassion & forgiveness while being boundaried & free from the past. She is an advocate for women who want to live a life full of adventure & freedom. Come listen to her perspectives while she has conversations with those she loves & respects who share their #bethebuffalo moments that may just help you shift your own journey in a beautiful way. Join her on her new podcast HERE Follow her on social media at...
2021-10-2025 minThe Betrayed, The Addicted, The Expert
The Betrayed, The Addicted, The ExpertREAL TALK RECOVERY Ep 11: I'm In Limbo Land And I Don't What To DoI don't feel like i have a really clear question to ask, i've just been in limbo for 3 years. Knowing God will bring me and my spouse back together and it happening feel like two alien forces working against eachother. As my counselor says, "i am the only one who can determine how long I can live this way." After 3 years of separation, i would say he is still doing things for recovery, but he doesn’t know why he’s not safe, why I don’t trust him, and I’m not convinced he believes he needs “recovery.” He had 3 aff...
2021-10-0410 minThe Betrayed, The Addicted, The Expert
The Betrayed, The Addicted, The ExpertREAL TALK RECOVERY Ep 10: How Do I Handle My Partner With Love When They Treat Me Like A Monster?"I loved the Podcast I listened to on Boundaries. So much great info, tools and principles discussed. I appreciated the podcast because of the difficulty I had with a group my wife got involved in that did a lot of the things you talked about and then some. I'm willing to bet they've destroyed more families that they have actually helped. They broke so much of my own trust and actually caused me a lot of trauma. I had to do multiple therapy sessions of EMDR to get over that. My wife (soon to be ex) is stuck in...
2021-09-2716 minThe Betrayed, The Addicted, The Expert
The Betrayed, The Addicted, The ExpertREAL TALK RECOVERY Ep 9: Do We Manufacture Addicts?Caller Question: "Does society manufacture Lust addicts through shame? i'm seeing more in myself and my fellows in SAL how damaging shame is to recovery. this mentality of "I'm a sexaholic, an addict" whilst i personally feel necessary in the start of recovery, is causing a lot of shame-train and relapse. I see shame still being this huge driving force that is impeding my growth. i'd love to discuss with you guys your thoughts on if Lust actually is the problem, or if it's this pressure that we have put on ourselves due to our morals, shame on not...
2021-09-2008 minThe Betrayed, The Addicted, The Expert
The Betrayed, The Addicted, The ExpertTHIS IS ASHLYNN Ep 10: Why Am I Always Late? With Brannon PatrickAfter producing 200 episodes together. The Hosts of the Betrayed, The Addicted, and the Expert have expanded to 3 separate podcasts still supporting those healing in there journeys of life. Sundays join the "Grow with Coby" show for the tools to grow and heal from the challenges of life. Monday join Brannon and his brother for "Real Talk Recovery" Podcast with of not 1 but 2 expert therapists. Wednesdays check out "This is Ashlynn" as Ashlynn Mitchell reveals the people and process that support her in living her life to the fullest! Each of these...
2021-09-1531 minThe Betrayed, The Addicted, The Expert
The Betrayed, The Addicted, The ExpertREAL TALK RECOVERY Ep 8: How Can I Be A Sex Addict...And Really Not Want Sex?Caller Question: "How can I be a Sex Addict and a Sexual Anorexic? In a recent podcast about increasing sex drive, sexual anorexia was mentioned, and I looked into it. As a sex addict it seems confusing that I would also be a sexual anorexic, but the criteria seems to fit. My wife and I were physical while dating, but as soon as we got married the desire for sexual intimacy disappeared. The pornography addiction remained, but despite my wife's desire for sex, I struggled to be intimate with her. I assumed it was the addiction, but 3 years of...
2021-09-1313 minThe Betrayed, The Addicted, The Expert
The Betrayed, The Addicted, The ExpertREAL TALK RECOVERY Ep 7: How Do We Navigate The Messy Middle of Recovery?Scott & Melissa join from Canada. They allowed us to dig into some of the ups and downs of their journey in recovery. The hard parts including D-day, miscarriage, and feeling disconnected from God. The highlights including rebuilt trust, overcoming sexual anorexia, and Love. We had some beautiful moments filled with emotion. Thank you for sharing this with us Scott & Melissa.   We'd love to have you as a guest. You can submit your question and have a real and honest conversation with 2 experienced therapists on realtalkrecovery.com. If you're looking for insight into real recovery, you can...
2021-09-0609 minThe Betrayed, The Addicted, The Expert
The Betrayed, The Addicted, The ExpertREAL TALK RECOVERY Ep 5: What Does Healthy Masculinity Have To Do With Recovery?Caller Question: "What Does Healthy Masculinity Have To Do With Recovery?" Brannon and Tyler talk with guest Jon about his recovery and the different periods of growth that he's experienced and what the obstacles have been. Brannon and Tyler both know Jon and have had the chance to watch him develop into the man that he is today.  Join us and 29 other men at our Rising Son Men's Conference this September from the 23rd - 25th at Bear Lake. This experience is designed for Christian men seek to build a deeper connection to God, Self, and Others w...
2021-08-2306 minThe Betrayed, The Addicted, The Expert
The Betrayed, The Addicted, The ExpertREAL TALK RECOVERY Ep 3: How Do I Increase My Sexual Desire?Caller Question: "How Do I Increase My Sexual Desire While I'm Working My Recovery?" We hope you found something meaningful in this episode. If you're looking for insight into real recovery, you can find more stories and conversations like this on The REAL TALK RECOVERY Podcast hosted by The Therapy Brothers (Brannon Patrick LSCW "The Expert" and Tyler Patrick LMFT "The Wandering Therapist").    We'd love to have you as a guest. You can submit your question and have a real and honest conversation with 2 experienced therapists on realtalkrecovery.com or therapybros.com. Check out the ep...
2021-08-0907 minThe Betrayed, The Addicted, The Expert
The Betrayed, The Addicted, The ExpertWhere You Can Find Brannon, Ashlynn and CobyMoving forward, Brannon, Ashlynn and Coby will be hosting their own podcasts so you can see how they face life in a way that demonstrates recovery without the context of betrayal and addiction.  If you have not already, please listen to Episode 200 You can find Brannon here at Therapy Utah Find Ashlynn here Find Coby here
2021-07-1423 minThe Betrayed, The Addicted, The Expert
The Betrayed, The Addicted, The ExpertHow Do I Build a Sexual Relationship After a Breach of Trust with Kristin Hodson?Brannon, Ashlynn and Coby are joined by Kristin Hodson who is a sex therapist and they discuss how to establish sex in a relationship after a breach of trust.   Kristin Hodson is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker and an AASECT Certified Sex Therapist. She has a unique ability to break down the topics of sexuality into easily digestible pieces empowering people to further develop their sexual identity. https://www.kristinbhodson.com IG: @kristinbhodson The Betrayed, The Addicted, and the Expert is a podcast production of Beyond Enough. This all started out a...
2020-07-2846 minThe Betrayed, The Addicted, The Expert
The Betrayed, The Addicted, The ExpertHow the Loss of a Man's Heart Contributes to Sex Addiction with John EldredgeHow does a man lose his heart?  How does he lose his identity and his way?  How can that be related to sex addiction?  This is the topic of today's episode.   Find John Eldredge at https://wildatheart.org The Betrayed, The Addicted, and the Expert is a podcast that started out as an opportunity to open up the discussion of how to move forward after infidelity, or an affair. We discuss the heavy stuff and share Coby and Ashlynn's real-life experience of recovery after sex addiction and betrayal trauma. All this is done alongside an expe...
2020-06-1640 minThe Betrayed, The Addicted, The Expert
The Betrayed, The Addicted, The ExpertCan We Survive a Faith Crisis?The Betrayed, The Addicted, and the Expert is a podcast that started out as an opportunity to open up the discussion of how to move forward after infidelity, or an affair. We discuss the heavy stuff and share Coby and Ashlynn's real-life experience of recovery after sex addiction and betrayal trauma. All this is done alongside an expert in sex addiction Brannon Patrick. Thomas McConkie is the founder of Lower Lights School of Wisdom and has a passion for the world's Wisdom traditions. Raised LDS, at 18 years old he discovered Buddhism, which remains a wellspring of inspiration...
2020-04-0752 minThe Betrayed, The Addicted, The Expert
The Betrayed, The Addicted, The ExpertDo You Know What Brannon's Brother Does?Brannon and his brother are both therapists who treat sex addiction and betrayal trauma but how did that happen?  For the first time, they are in the studio to discuss how they both ended up in the same field with the same specialty.  Listen as they discuss some of the key issues they face as therapists from the perspective of brothers.   You can also catch more recent episodes on the podcast where Brannon and his brother break down many great questions on healing relationships. We are glad you found our season 2 episodes where we continued the journey of l...
2019-11-1230 minThe Betrayed, The Addicted, The Expert
The Betrayed, The Addicted, The ExpertWhat You Don't Know About The Expert Brannon PatrickWhy did Brannon decide to become a therapist?  What was behind his decision and how did he become so specialized?  Listen as Coby and Ashlynn ask all kinds of questions to reveal the man behind the expertise.   We are glad you found our season 2 episodes where we continued the journey of learning from more experts on so many topics that relate to relationships.  If you would like support in healing from betrayal we’d invite you to look at our program https://www.beyond-enough.com/beyondbetrayal It is not a program about staying togethe...
2019-10-2220 min