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Way of the Heart PodcastWay of the Heart PodcastSonship, Fatherhood & Marriage w/ Dominic PolitoJake & Brett welcome their friend Dominic to the show and explore the complexities of marriage, personal growth, and the foundational role of sonship. They discuss intentionally fathering children, self-reliance, and the importance of a deep prayer life.   Resources: Fathering Sons by Dominic and Christine Polito (available for purchase on Amazon by the end of 2024)    Key Points: When both spouses are committed to growth, marriage gets richer over time Insecurities in marriage are opportunities for growth and healing Sonship is foundational for understanding one's identity and purpose as a husband and fat...2024-11-141h 20Way of the Heart PodcastWay of the Heart PodcastGoing Beneath the SurfaceJake and Brett are back to discuss the importance of real, unfiltered, and authentic conversations between men about matters of the heart. In this episode, they share why many men struggle to have meaningful conversations, the role of emotions in human connection, and how to train our thoughts and emotions to become more mindful. Whether you feel emotionally regulated or uncomfortable jumping into deep places of the heart, Jake and Brett have practical thoughts, tools, and examples to help you build more meaningful relationships in your life.   Key Points: The lack of authentic conversations b...2024-06-261h 47Way of the Heart PodcastWay of the Heart PodcastMoving ForwardJake & Brett have some big announcements to share about the future of the podcast. They share about some exciting endeavors that have begun in their lives & reminisce about some of the best moments, guests & insights from the five years of Way of the Heart. Thank you for listening! If you would like to stay connected with us and stay up to date on these new projects, check out the links below. References -Big Yellow Coffee-Brett’s Life Compass Website-Brett’s Website-Life Restoration Website Connect with...2023-12-131h 49Way of the Heart PodcastWay of the Heart PodcastLeadershipJake & Brett have worked together with organizations to help solve some of their issues & grow in some places that needed improvement. In this episode, they share these leadership & relational skills with us! Whether you are a leader at your job, your Church or in your home, this episode has tools to help you lead well. Jake & Brett will challenge you & give you the tips & shifts in mindset that you need to be successful in all that God has called you to.   Key Points Sharing key issues that most organizations have in common. 2023-11-291h 03Way of the Heart PodcastWay of the Heart PodcastYeshua RetreatJake & Brett just returned from their annual men’s retreat with beautiful reflections on what the Lord did. They discuss the power of praying together, falling back in love with Jesus & how interactions with Christ may not always be what we expect but are always loving. Key Points Returned from the annual men’s retreat with reflections (and a lost voice) Brett got a rare opportunity to participate in a retreat without having to lead it or speak and it was freeing. The power of praying with other guys....2023-11-1546 minWay of the Heart PodcastWay of the Heart PodcastJordan PetersonDr. Jordan Peterson has been in the news recently so Jake & Brett discuss the situation and what they appreciate about Dr. Peterson. They share the lessons they have learned from Jordan in regards to culture, faith, fathering & more. While Dr. Peterson isn’t perfect, our hosts share that he is still one of the best thought leaders we have in our modern day. Key Points Jordan Peterson has been in the news because the regulatory body that governs counselors in Ontario is sanctioning him based on complaints they received. He is fighting against th...2023-11-0143 minWay of the Heart PodcastWay of the Heart PodcastCan We Get Serious Now?Brett shares a quote from the movie “Sully” that really struck him: “Can we get serious now?” He and Jake discuss that as a culture and as men, we need to start focusing on what really matters and not the frivolous matters that often keep our attention. This leads to tackling issues such as being too hard on ourselves, not challenging ourselves enough and learning from our mistakes. It’s a great conversation for any man who struggles with stress, self-doubt & complacency. Key Points “Can we get serious now?” is a quote from the movie Sull...2023-10-181h 06Way of the Heart PodcastWay of the Heart PodcastMen & FeelingsJake & Brett are together in person to discuss men & feelings. There is a common narrative that men don’t have emotions but that just simply isn’t the case. Our hosts discuss how this common misconception affects men in their everyday lives, including within the Church. Men’s mental health issues and lack of emotional regulation are rampant so today the guys discuss the importance of addressing men’s emotions in order to become better men. Key Points Suppression of emotions is common in men’s culture and even men’s ministry Men’s mental healt...2023-10-0445 minWay of the Heart PodcastWay of the Heart PodcastLetting Our Masculinity GoJake & Brett are back from their summer break! They share the highlights of their summer & dive into a new season by discussing what happens when you let your masculinity grow. They talk about the importance of discipline in our spiritual, physical, family and work lives & share how to find environments and practices that challenge you to be a better man.  Key Points Jake & Brett share the highlights of their summer  Jake’s surprising best place to pray What happens when we have let key aspects of being a man go2023-09-2043 minWay of the Heart PodcastWay of the Heart PodcastSummer Break | Rest, Reflect & RechargeJake and Brett are taking time off for summer vacation and want the listeners of the podcast to enjoy the break as well. They also remind us that you can take this time as an opportunity to catch up on all the episodes of the show that you may have missed. Have a blessed Summer. We will see you in the Fall!    Connect with Way of the Heart: Facebook: @wayoftheheartpodcast Instagram: @wayoftheheartpodcast Website: www.wayoftheheartpodcast.com   Never miss out on an episode by hitting the sub...2023-06-1405 minWay of the Heart PodcastWay of the Heart PodcastLife Compass (Part 2) | Values, Virtues, Purpose & Key RelationshipsIn part 2 of our “Life Compass” series, Jake and Brett dive further into discussion about personal values, virtues & leaving a legacy. They talk about “eulogy virtues” and what they mean for how we conduct ourselves today. They also touch on charisms, perfectionism & regulating our emotions. Key Points Exploration of personal values & charisms  Having eulogy virtues, not only resumé virtues What kind of legacy do you want to leave for your family? Integrating our virtues and values “Perfection becomes the obstacle to progress” -Brett Having emotion...2023-05-3132 minWay of the Heart PodcastWay of the Heart PodcastLife Compass (Part 1) | Values, Virtues, Purpose & Key RelationshipsBrett has a project called the “Life Compass” that he has been working on for many years. Jake invites him to share where this idea came from & how it has transformed his life. In this two part series, Jake & Brett discuss how to integrate your personal & professional life, live based on your virtues and so much more. Enjoy! Key Points An exploration of Brett’s new venture/retreat called “Life Compass” Where this idea originated in Brett’s life What are the most important things in your life? Integrati...2023-05-1731 minWay of the Heart PodcastWay of the Heart PodcastA Prophet’s Perspective of the Church with Ralph MartinJake and Brett interview Ralph Martin, the president of Renewal Ministries, which is an organization devoted to Catholic renewal and evangelization. Ralph is also the host of the long running television show "The Choices We Face." This conversation discusses the state of the Catholic church in the United States today and explores the role of modern men in today’s world, culture and Church.   Key Points Key moments in developing your heart as a man for the Lord Giving our “yes” to the Lord An overview of “Fulfillment of All Desir...2023-05-031h 01Way of the Heart PodcastWay of the Heart PodcastChurch, Culture & Masculinity with George WeigelIn this conversation with prolific author and renowned educator George Weigel, Jake and Brett talk through a number of extremely important topics regarding modern man, faith & culture. George shares his deep knowledge and understanding of the Church and its connection with the ever-changing cultures through his lifetime. They also discuss what was actually taught at Vatican II & the wisdom found in the teachings of Pope St. John Paul II. Key Points How the landscape of Catholicism in culture has changed during George’s life The Catholic view of sexuality vs. the modern th...2023-04-1951 minWay of the Heart PodcastWay of the Heart PodcastWhat is the Good Life: Some Final ThoughtsJake and Brett wrap up the season reflecting on all that they heard from their great guests throughout this series about the Good Life. They discuss the themes that tied many of the episodes from this season together like the importance of brotherhood & seeking truth. At the end, they give a sneak preview of what to look forward to next season. Key Points Revisiting the highlights from the guests this season The importance of brotherhood for living the Good Life Living according to truth, no matter what the culture is telling...2023-04-0552 minWay of the Heart PodcastWay of the Heart PodcastWhat is the Good Life with Fr. Boniface Hicks, OSBJake and Brett talk with Father Boniface Hicks, a monk who serves as the director of The Institute for Ministry Formation at St Vincent Seminary in Latrobe, Pennsylvania. He is also Jake’s spiritual director. :) This conversation dives deep into this season's topic of "the Good Life?" from the perspective of a monk. The guys talk about the different ways to be a man and how the lives of the saints contrasts with how society tells us to live.  Key Points What the good life looks like in the priesthood/religious life. ...2023-03-2257 minWay of the Heart PodcastWay of the Heart PodcastWhat is the Good Life with Peter White, RCCIn this episode of Way of the Heart, Jake & Brett are joined by long time friend, Peter White. Peter is a Registered Clinical Counselor that has known Jake professionally for years and watched Brett hoop during his prime basketball years. They discuss a wide variety of topics including the beauty and difficulties of marriage, how men and women respond differently to conflict, how conflict can lead to great things & the importance of good fathers. This is one of our deepest conversations yet and we hope that it speaks to your heart. Key Points ...2023-03-081h 18Way of the Heart PodcastWay of the Heart PodcastWhat is the Good Life with Dr. Christopher WestIn this episode of Way of the Heart, Jake and Brett are joined by a close friend of the show, Dr. Christopher West. Christopher is a renowned Catholic author and speaker on the topic of human sexuality. This conversation touches on many topics that appear in our everyday lives. The guys also address the temptations of worldly desires and how they give a false sense of what is considered good. Dr. West shares several examples from his life experiences about what “the good life” has meant to him and the lessons he has learned in his personal life and prof...2023-02-2259 minWay of the Heart PodcastWay of the Heart PodcastWhat is the Good Life with Dr. John BergsmaJake and Brett sit down this week and speak with Dr John Bergsma. Dr. Bergsma is a professor at Franciscan University and one of the leading Scripture scholars in the nation. The guys talk about “The Good Life” and how it relates to Dr. Bergsma’s personal faith and professional expertise. They touch on how the Catholic faith allows people to connect with the Father through both Scripture & Tradition and what cultivating a deeper relationship with the Lord might look like. Key Points Why we need more than just the Bible as Catholics. How Script...2023-02-0851 minWay of the Heart PodcastWay of the Heart PodcastIntro to the Good LifeJake & Brett begin Season 13 with the primary question of “Are you happy?” They discuss where they will be headed in their new season about “the good life.” The guys open up about their personal lives and dive into the matters of the heart on what truly makes them happy and fulfilled. They explain how this season they will be laying out the groundwork for a life worth living. Get ready to explore how we can all live more peaceful, loving and fulfilling lives this season. Key Points Are you happy? We have to take a step back and...2023-01-1156 minWay of the Heart PodcastWay of the Heart PodcastSeason 13 Teaser | The Good LifeJake & Brett tease they’re upcoming season called “The Good Life.” They share how excited they are and Brett calls it their most important series yet! Some great conversations, guests and life lessons are coming to you starting January 11th. Be sure to subscribe so you don’t miss it!  Connect with Way of the Heart: Facebook: @wayoftheheartpodcast Instagram: @wayoftheheartpodcast Website: www.wayoftheheartpodcast.com   Never miss out on an episode by hitting the subscribe button right now! Help other people find the show and grow as holy me...2022-12-2806 minWay of the Heart PodcastWay of the Heart PodcastMen in the Arena: Reflections on Season 12Jake & Brett close out Season 12 with a conversation about Teddy Roosevelt’s "Citizen in a Republic" speech commonly known as the “Man in the Arena” speech. They discuss how to deal with critics(including your internal one), strive for excellence and battle in the arena of sexuality. Key Points Only voices in the arena matter. Don't listen to external critics. Sometimes the critic is our internal one. In a world of critics, we should be encouraging each other Excellence honors God but it cannot take His place We should be using our charisms to honor God and bu...2022-12-141h 08Way of the Heart PodcastWay of the Heart PodcastBONUS EPISODE: Ignatian Discernment with Fr. Timothy GallagherHave you ever wondered which of your every day thoughts are from God, and which are not? Or have you ever contemplated, “What’s God’s will?” when faced with a decision, big or small? A series of simple principles called the Ignatian Rules of Discernment can bring clarity to these questions and more. They are a 500-year-old playbook to understanding the spiritual movements of our everyday lives and in this bonus guest episode, Jake and Brett unpack the Fourteen Rules of Discernment with the modern master of discernment, Fr. Timothy Gallagher. Fr. Timothy has written countless books on St. Igna...2022-11-301h 17Way of the Heart PodcastWay of the Heart PodcastMen in the Arena: Simon KyneToday, Jake and Brett welcome their last guest of Season 12, Simon Kyne, to the podcast. You may not recognize his name, but Simon is the ‘friend’ mentioned in many stories throughout our episodes. In fact, Way of the Heart would not be here without Simon, since he introduced Jake and Brett years ago. For more than two decades, Simon has walked with Brett and Jake individually as a foxhole friend, at different times feeling called to pray for each of them for one hundred days straight. Simon joins the conversation to tackle the absolute necessity of brotherhood, loneliness and what...2022-11-1659 minWay of the Heart PodcastWay of the Heart PodcastMen in the Arena: Fr. John RiccardoIn this episode, Jake and Brett sit down with Fr. John Riccardo, a priest from the Archdiocese of Detroit who leads a ministry called Acts 29 which helps ordained and lay leaders in this apostolic age. Fr. Riccardo is passionate about preaching the Gospel, responding to the crisis of fatherhood in the priesthood, and being authentically human. Pull up a chair and get comfortable because Fr. Riccardo is about to share a pulse on the Church like you’ve never heard it. Discussion Questions What stood out to you in this episode? How did Fr. Riccardo’s comm...2022-11-021h 03Way of the Heart PodcastWay of the Heart PodcastMen in the Arena: Fr. Raymond de SouzaEmploying true critical thinking in our current cultural environment requires no small measure of courage. Our guest today, Fr. Raymond de Souza, is no stranger to making his thoughts known in the public sphere as one of the longest standing columnists for the National Post (among countless other titles and accolades). Father de Souza shares with Jake and Brett his proudest commentaries published by the paper, how his critical thinking was developed at the family dinner table, and the importance of reading books by those you do not agree with.    Discussion Questions   Wha...2022-10-191h 09Way of the Heart PodcastWay of the Heart PodcastMen in the Arena: Sam BlairHave you ever wondered what it’s like to be a Navy SEAL? How do SEALs stay the course under the most brutal circumstances and what can we learn from them as men living in our own arenas? In this episode, Jake and Brett sit down with Sam Blair, a trained and experienced SEAL who shares the importance of being called to your work, how excellence comes down to training, and why knowing your why is the secret to persevering when things get tough.     Guiding Quote:   He who has a why to liv...2022-10-0554 minWay of the Heart PodcastWay of the Heart PodcastMen in the Arena: Peter HerbeckDo you feel disillusioned by the state of the world? Are you feeling lukewarm in your faith? Jake and Brett talk to Peter Herbeck of Renewal Ministries about judgment, the grinding down of truth, redemption and hope. Peter shares pieces of his own story and how he is unafraid of dark places and hard things because of what Christ has done for him. Peter Herbeck is the Executive Vice President of Renewal Ministries, a leading voice in evangelization and renewal throughout the world.   Guiding Quote:   “I am a sick man...2022-09-2159 minWay of the Heart PodcastWay of the Heart PodcastMen in the Arena: IntroductionJake and Brett share their highs and lows of the summer, and introduce the theme for Season 12: Men in the Arena. Over the next few weeks, we’ll hear from five men who are living ‘in the arena,’ including a Navy SEAL, a priest and columnist for a major publication, a ministry leader, a priest engaged in parish renewal, and a high-level business executive. Jake and Brett explain what made them choose to interview each man, and tease some surprising turns in the conversations.    Guiding Quote:   “It’s not the critic who counts. T...2022-09-0758 minWay of the Heart PodcastWay of the Heart PodcastSummertimeIn this final episode of Way of the Heart before a summer hiatus, Jake and Brett discuss the feelings that the summer evokes for them and what this says about the Father’s heart.   Key Points   Brett recounts a hilarious story about a mistake at the hair salon The feelings that summer brings up for Jake Brett’s experience of family and summer at his friend’s cabin The Father wants us to enjoy and live a full life The deeper things that Jake connects with through riding his motorcycle The importance of margi...2022-06-2728 minWay of the Heart PodcastWay of the Heart PodcastCentre of the UniverseIn a recent conversation, Jake had an image come to mind of planets revolving around the sun, except instead of planets they were people, and instead of the sun, Jesus was at the centre of everything. Jake and Brett spend the episode breaking open that analogy and putting into perspective why saying that ‘you’re not the centre of the universe’ is an invitation to a rightly-ordered life rather than a judgement.    Guiding Quote:   “You are not the centre of the universe” - Jake Khym   Key Points   W...2022-06-1340 minWay of the Heart PodcastWay of the Heart PodcastThe Value of AsceticismJake and Brett have a rich conversation covering everything from the principle of asceticism, to how true self-actualization is found in Christ, to what it means for us to be living in what George Weigel describes as the ‘Age of Witness’. The hosts challenge us to consider what captures our attention and time, and reveal how giving up good things to pursue something greater can offer us freedom and intimacy in our friendship with Christ.   Guiding Quote:   It would seem that Our Lord finds our desires not too strong, but too weak...2022-05-3042 minWay of the Heart PodcastWay of the Heart PodcastCelebrating One Hundred (and Getting Below the Surface)Jake and Brett look back at one hundred episodes of the Way of the Heart by sharing favourite episodes, what they wish they’d talked about more, and how they’ve watched each other grow over the past four years. The show wraps up with some unscripted feedback as the men offer each other words of encouragement and observations about potential blindspots. As always, the show is a window into the brotherhood the two share, and a blueprint to help navigate the way of the heart. To celebrate our 100th episode, would you leave us a rating and review? Than...2022-05-1659 minWay of the Heart PodcastWay of the Heart PodcastWay of the Heart Jargon 101If you’ve ever listened to the podcast and wondered, “What on earth do they mean by ‘orphan mentality’ or ‘foxhole friends’?” then this episode is for you. Jake and Brett zoom out to explain some of the vernacular they use regularly on the show. Whether you’re a faithful listener or new to the Way of the Heart, this episode is full of a-ha moments as they provide context to terms like the foxhole, wounds, scripts, performance orientation, and orphan.    Key Points   The foxhole: in wartimes, a trench that you would dig yourself for sa...2022-05-0248 minWay of the Heart PodcastWay of the Heart PodcastDefining Our Personal ValuesWhy does it matter to know and define our personal values? Jake and Brett argue that discovering our personal value system can help us understand and live God’s unique design for our lives. Whether we have taken the time to define our core values or not, we all live out of an unspoken code. The more we seek to live a well-ordered life and come to understand what makes us tick, the better we can fulfill our unique mission in the world..   Guiding Quote:   But let your word 'yes be 'yes...2022-04-1852 minWay of the Heart PodcastWay of the Heart PodcastHow Cancel Culture and the Digitization of Everything Impact the HeartJake and Brett continue the conversation from last episode about what’s going on in the culture. The topics on the table are “cancel culture” and the digitization of everything, but most importantly how these trends affect the way of the heart.   Guiding Quote:   “The Church has always had the duty of scrutinizing the signs of the times and interpreting them in light of the Gospel.” - Gaudium Et Spes (4)     Key Points Shoutout to Forte Catholic - thanks for editing our show! Why we are called to...2022-04-0445 minWay of the Heart PodcastWay of the Heart PodcastWhat’s Going On In the Culture with Bishop Scott McCaigBishop Scott McCaig, CC is back to share what he sees happening on a heart-level in our culture today. If we want to truly live the way of the heart, we have to understand the culture we’re living in instead of burying our heads in the sand. Then, we must engage there from a place of love. Join us for an enlightening conversation that closes with a challenge and a dose of hope.    Guiding Quote: Faith and Reason are like two wings of the human spirit by which it soars to the trut...2022-03-2137 minWay of the Heart PodcastWay of the Heart PodcastLiving from the Heart with Bishop Scott McCaigShow Notes:   Jake and Brett welcome Bishop Scott McCaig, CC back onto the podcast to revisit a quote from the Catechism of the Catholic Church that addresses the way of the heart. They each share reflections on the heart as a place of authenticity, decision and encounter. The Catechism describes the heart as “the dwelling-place of where I am.” If we want to live in full freedom, we must understand our own hearts. This episode is a great place to start.   Guiding Quote:   The heart is the dwellin...2022-03-0737 minRestore The Glory PodcastRestore The Glory PodcastHealing and Leadership (Part 5) w/ Brett PowellIn this episode, Jake and Bob host Brett Powell on the podcast. Brett is co-host with Jake on Way of the Heart Podcast, a conversion for men about journeying through life with a heart fully alive. Brett has extensive experience in leadership within the church and a passion for men’s ministry and fatherhood. Brett gets real about the heart of leadership: relationship with others and relationship with God, and why our relationships at home matter more than anything else as leaders. Thank you, Brett, for the gentle reminder to re-evaluate what we’re prioritizing in light of what’s most...2022-03-021h 07Way of the Heart PodcastWay of the Heart PodcastHow to Engage With Relational DriftJake revisits his low from the last episode, which revolves around friendship dynamics and his shortcomings. Brett presses into the recent and humbling experience Jake had with an old friend, and the two launch into a discussion about the power of self-awareness, safety and virtue when you’re experiencing relational drift with a friend. This is heart-level stuff, but as Jake says, it’s important to engage at this level if you don’t want to be an asshole (plus, Navy SEALs aren’t afraid of talking about their weaknesses for the sake of their team).    Key Poin...2022-02-0743 minWay of the Heart PodcastWay of the Heart PodcastThe Internal CriticBrett’s low this week leads to an extended conversation about the internal critic, a diminishing voice that tends to show up when we least want it to: during a work meeting, right before an important exam or in an important conversation with a loved one. Where does the diminisher come from and how can we tell the voice of the enemy from the voice of God? Brett and Jake share their reflections and offer suggestions about how we can react maturely in ways that draw us back to reality and our sonship in the Father.    Gu...2022-01-2436 minWay of the Heart PodcastWay of the Heart PodcastThe Masculine Healing Journey with Dr. Bob SchuchtsAs men, we often find it difficult to look at our woundedness and need for healing. Why is that, and what can we do to engage the process better in this important area? In this episode, renowned Catholic psychologist Dr. Bob Schuchts joins Jake and Brett to discuss healing in a deeply personal way. The three men share examples of healing in their own lives, and Dr. Bob helps Jake work through a childhood memory live on the episode. You can hear more from Dr. Bob and Jake on their podcast, Restore the Glory. Don’t forget to check th...2022-01-101h 01Way of the Heart PodcastWay of the Heart PodcastNavigating Life In the Trenches With BrothersLoneliness is epidemic among men today. The thing is, we’re not meant to live without deep friendship. Join Jake and Brett as they get real about the strength they’ve found in their own friendship and how they have intentionally invested in it over time. They share why every man needs true brothers who will walk with them through the trenches of life, and how to go about building friendships like that.     Key Quote: Be a son. Love the process. Close the gap.    Key Points Jake asks Brett a v...2021-12-2758 minWay of the Heart PodcastWay of the Heart PodcastThe Downward Trend in Religious AffiliationIn today’s episode, Brett and Jake engage with deep questions of the heart as they discuss the shrinking church. While they begin by citing Canadian stats, this trend is evident in other Western countries. Brett and Jake address why it is that culturally speaking, Jesus isn’t seen as relevant anymore. They also share some thoughts on why it’s crucial that the Church as a whole accepts a share in the responsibility of this downward trend. The following episode does not seek to provide all the answers to these difficult topics, but rather to engage in a meaningful conver...2021-12-131h 05Way of the Heart PodcastWay of the Heart PodcastWhere Do You Go For Life?How often do we pause to think about how we’re spending our time? Are the things that are taking up our attention truly making us feel alive? In this episode, Jake and Brett explore a list of the things they turn to for life. Naturally, prayer, close relationships and sports make the list, but there are also a few surprises!   Key Quote: “I am the way, and the truth, and the life.” - John 14:6   Key Points What we mean when we say, “What gives you life?” The misunderstan...2021-11-2947 minWay of the Heart PodcastWay of the Heart PodcastThe Shift From Christendom to Apostolic MissionNow is not a very popular time to be a Catholic. The culture which was once steeped in Christian ideals is now hostile to those same ideals and beliefs. In this episode, Jake and Brett discuss a book that’s currently taking the Catholic world by storm which can help us understand this shift. “From Christendom to Apostolic Mission” is a short and pithy book that’s easy to read and extremely relevant, giving us a lens through which to understand how the Church fits into the current culture. The return to an Apostolic age presents it’s own opportunit...2021-11-1552 minWay of the Heart PodcastWay of the Heart PodcastHow Benevolent Detachment Can Help You Get Your Life BackOur lives are increasingly distracted, and our constantly connected state can threaten to overwhelm us. Jake and Brett discuss how the art of benevolent detachment can help you ‘get your life back’ and stay focused on what’s most important. Benevolent detachment allows us to re-prioritize our time to be more loving and frees us from self-reliance. It can help us to live happier and holier lives.   Guiding Scripture: "Cast all your cares on Him for He cares for you.” 1 Peter 5:7   Key Points The downsides of relentless connection through te...2021-11-0242 minWay of the Heart PodcastWay of the Heart PodcastDomination or Dominion and the Tendency to ControlWe all have times in our life where the stress piles up and the tasklist seems endless. This week, Jake and Brett go down an unscripted route as they dive a little deeper into the reasons behind our desire to control as men. They talk about how to handle busy seasons as a man of God, how to find some sanity and learn the important difference between domination and dominion.    Connect with Way of the Heart: Facebook: @wayoftheheartpodcast Instagram: @wayoftheheartpodcast Website: www.wayoftheheartpodcast.com   Subscribe/Rat...2021-10-1823 minWay of the Heart PodcastWay of the Heart PodcastRelics, Motorcycles and CovidThis week, Jake and Brett take a special, extended look at their highs and lows. They both share great stories of what God is doing for them in their families and what new adventures they’re tackling at the moment. They also share about challenges due to Covid, election season and returning to school. We are all still dealing with the difficulties of a stressful and disunified time in our world and we hope this conversation reminds you that you're not alone.    Connect with Way of the Heart:- Facebook: @wayoftheheartpodcast  - Instagram: @wayof...2021-10-0459 minWay of the Heart PodcastWay of the Heart PodcastThe Battle of the Mind with Fr. Richard Conlin (Part 2)In this second part of a conversation with Fr. Richard Conlin about winning the battle of the mind, Jake and Brett discuss how to prepare for the battle of the mind before it even begins. Preparations include spending time in prayer, immersing yourself in scripture and surrounding yourself with allies. The three men share common scenarios that men find themselves in and how to change thought patterns during these crucial moments.   Connect with Way of the Heart: Facebook: @wayoftheheartpodcast  Instagram: @wayoftheheartpodcast Website: www.wayoftheheartpodcast.com   Subscribe/Rate Never miss out...2021-09-2036 minWay of the Heart PodcastWay of the Heart PodcastThe Battle of the Mind with Fr. Richard Conlin (Part 1)This is the first of a two-part conversation with Fr. Richard Conlin about winning the battle of the mind. Fr. Richard, Jake & Brett discuss how managing our thoughts is critical to opening ourselves to grace, and why it’s impossible to stay neutral in this battle. They share how turning to Scripture in times of struggle is modelled by Jesus, and can seal us in truth to combat the lies of the enemy. Editing by ForteCatholic.com2021-09-0631 minWay of the Heart PodcastWay of the Heart PodcastWild at Heart (Part 2) - An Adventure to LiveThis week, Jake and Brett break open the second of three core desires of the masculine heart, based on John Eldredge’s book, “Wild at Heart”: an adventure to live. In order to embrace adventure and live as we were created to, we have to have a certain amount of risk in our lives. Editing by ForteCatholic.com2021-08-0947 minWay of the Heart PodcastWay of the Heart PodcastWild at Heart (Part 1) - A Battle to FightThis week kicks off Jake & Brett’s new three part series based on John Eldridge’s "Wild At Heart". They explore the three key desires of every man’s heart: A Battle To Fight, An Adventure to Live & a Beauty to Rescue. This week is all about the most important battles we face and how to fight them. Enjoy!2021-07-2652 minWay of the Heart PodcastWay of the Heart PodcastThe Compass vs. the ClockOn the anniversary of Stephen Covey’s death, Jake & Brett discuss the immense impact he’s had on their lives. They focus on one of his key quotes, “Live your life by the compass, not the clock." They discuss how hard it can be to truly live by our values and compass, and why it’s important to regularly stay connected to what matters most. 2021-07-1248 minWay of the Heart PodcastWay of the Heart PodcastMan Fully AliveIn celebration of St. Irenaeus’s feast day, Brett & Jake break down his famous quote: “The glory of God is man fully alive.” Taking inspiration from the life of St. Irenaeus and his fight against heresy in the early Church, they dive into what it means for us to live an abundant life and how we should use our freedom.2021-06-2836 minWay of the Heart PodcastWay of the Heart PodcastFatherhoodWith Father’s Day right around the corner, Brett & Jake spend an episode discussing fatherhood and the call to sacrificial love shown to us by Christ on the cross. A major theme in fatherhood is making the right choices for our family even if this means sacrificing our own desires. Growing in spiritual maturity allows us to become the fathers that God intended as we learn more and more to love without counting the cost.2021-06-1445 minWay of the Heart PodcastWay of the Heart PodcastSt. Joseph (Part 3) - Creative CourageJake & Brett take a deep dive into their highs and lows before continuing the conversation about how we, as men, can learn from the example of St. Joseph. This week, they focus on the “creative courage” that St. Joseph exemplified as he led the Holy Family through difficulties. They address the redemption that God can bring from difficult circumstances in our histories, and how the sacrifices we make can bring about new and greater possibilities for us and those we love.2021-05-3140 minWay of the Heart PodcastWay of the Heart PodcastSt. Joseph (Part 2)This week, Jake and Brett explore the topic of work and responsibility through the lens of St. Joseph the Worker. How does his example help us to grow as men in our work? How we handle our work reveals our character and our hearts. We can find profound meaning in responsibility. How does responsibility help us to mature, and how can St. Joseph help show us the way? The hosts provide insight into these essential questions, helping us identify how we can mature from boys into men.2021-05-1736 minWay of the Heart PodcastWay of the Heart PodcastSt. Joseph (Part 1)This week kicks off a series on St. Joseph. Brett shares his experience of doing the consecration to St. Joseph and Jake shares how St. Joseph was probably not an old man like we’ve often been told. They have a discussion on the implications of St. Joseph being a young man and also take lessons from him being the patron saint of workers. How does our work help to orient us towards the Lord? Tune in to learn about masculinity by focusing on one of the greatest men of all time: St. Joseph.  2021-05-0331 minWay of the Heart PodcastWay of the Heart PodcastPastoral LeadershipBrett & Jake are rejoined by Fr. BJ Hamilton to continue their conversation from the last episode. This week, the focus is on two of Father BJ’s primary passions: basketball & pastoral leadership. So many in Church leadership, whether lay or priests, haven’t had adequate training in how to be a leader. This has led to some very difficult situations in parishes/ministries. Fr. BJ shares how he has sought out growth as a leader and pleads for others to do the same.   2021-04-1936 minWay of the Heart PodcastWay of the Heart PodcastA Father's LoveBrett & Jake are joined by Fr. BJ Hamilton for a conversation on the importance of sharing and showing love as a father. They discuss the similarities between the heart of a dad and that of a priest. They share hardships and triumphs and what they have learned about how to love better as a man.    2021-04-0549 minWay of the Heart PodcastWay of the Heart PodcastMarriage: Part 2 (with Heather Khym and Andrea Powell) The wives are back for part 2 of their discussion continued from last episode. This week, Jake & Brett invite their wives to share the feminine perspective on masculine heart. Andrea & Heather share how their husbands have led them well and also how they have challenged and encouraged them to grow when they weren’t at their best. This conversation is helpful not only for married couples but also any man who one day wants to be married and any man who wants to heal broken parts of his heart.   Connect with Way of the Heart: Facebook: @wayoftheheartpodcast (https://www.facebook.com/way...2021-03-221h 03Way of the Heart PodcastWay of the Heart PodcastMarriage: Part 1 (with Heather Khym and Andrea Powell)This week, Jake and Brett have on the most special guests in the history of the show: their wives! They have a lovely conversation about how they met, how they’ve grown as a couple in their years of marriage and how they’ve handled and learned from their wounds and hardships of marriage. Both couples have a depth of knowledge and experience with the heights and depths of marriage and the conversation is rich with laughter, insight and love.2021-03-0837 minWay of the Heart PodcastWay of the Heart PodcastSpiritual Growth (with Bishop Scott McCaig)Jake and Brett are joined by Bishop McCaig: the Bishop of the Canadian Military and member of the Companions of the Cross. They discuss the five areas of self-knowledge that are key to spiritual growth and the four primary ways that God speaks to us. There is a treasure trove of insight to the spiritual life from the good Bishop that led to a lot of “ah-ha” moments for our hosts. This episode can help you prepare for Lent in some real and tangible ways.2021-02-2258 minWay of the Heart PodcastWay of the Heart PodcastBe YourselfThis week, Jake and Brett discuss the true meaning of being yourself. God created us in a particular way and we need to live in that truth. There’s a balance to be had between thinking too little or too highly of ourselves. Men are often afraid to show how strong they really are because they’re afraid they will hurt someone, but we were sent to be representatives of a powerful God and so we need to carry ourselves accordingly. Holding all these things in balance can be difficult, but this conversation will help in achieving that goal. 2021-02-0841 minWay of the Heart PodcastWay of the Heart PodcastWord of the YearJake and Brett kick off the show with their highs and lows involving conversations about being a Grandparent, empathy, presence over productivity and big news for Life Restoration Ministries.    The topic this week is the Word of the Year. This is a practice that has become popular in recent years. Many use a Word of the Year generator to find their word but Jake and Brett share how they prayerfully discern their word and invite you to use the same process.2021-01-2533 minWay of the Heart PodcastWay of the Heart PodcastMan Husband Father (with Patrick Sullivan)Lay evangelist and author Patrick Sullivan joins the show to share a key things that have been on his heart recently. The founder of Evango and father of nine talks with Jake and Brett about dealing with the stress of the pandemic, personal prayer and fatherhood from a breadth of experience. Each of the guys open up about a way they have been struggling as a man, husband or father. They share how they have tackled these issues while encouraging and challenging one another. If you’ve had a tough time over the last ten months and want to take th...2021-01-111h 01Way of the Heart PodcastWay of the Heart PodcastRest (with Fr. Simon Lobo, CC)Fr. Simon Lobo, CC returns to share about his water polo achievements, but more importantly, joins the guys for a deep and thought-provoking conversation on rest. Many men struggle to rest because of stress, our many responsibilities & consistent desire to achieve our goals. This episode will help you enter into rest in a way that leaves you feeling restored physically, mentally and spiritually. We hope this conversation equips and challenges you to adapt how you are able to rest and be restored by the Lord.2020-12-281h 00Way of the Heart PodcastWay of the Heart PodcastAdvent (Part 2)Jake and Brett finish a series on Advent and discuss the importance of being aware of how much we relate to God for what He has instead of who He is. 2020-12-1427 minWay of the Heart PodcastWay of the Heart PodcastAdvent (Part 1)Jake and Brett start on series on Advent and discuss how Advent is a call to wake up and return to Jesus. The season might seem soft but it’s actually a radical call to humility and surrender.2020-11-3027 minWay of the Heart PodcastWay of the Heart PodcastRelearning Masculinity with Morgan SnyderJake and Brett are joined by Morgan Snyder, author of Becoming a King and host of the blog and podcast Become Good Soil. Morgan, Jake, and Brett talk about sonship, how we have learned and can relearn masculinity, the role of adversity, and the restoration of the Church.2020-11-161h 01Way of the Heart PodcastWay of the Heart PodcastImportance of CharacterJake and Brett discuss the vital importance of character in men. Despite the negative cultural messages, authentic masculinity is good and needed. As men, we must decide who we will be before we decide what we will do. Articulating our values is necessary.2020-11-0228 minWay of the Heart PodcastWay of the Heart PodcastMen Who Shaped UsJake and Brett share about men who have shaped them in their masculine journey. There are men who mentor us (Paul's), men who are our peers (Barnabas'), and men we pour into (Timothy's). Acknowledging the influence these men have in our lives is valuable. 2020-10-1937 minWay of the Heart PodcastWay of the Heart PodcastEulogy VirtuesAfter sharing about an experience of attending a funeral, Jake and Brett talk about what some call the eulogy virtues, which are ways of living life that emphasize the character of a person more than their skills.2020-10-0534 minWay of the Heart PodcastWay of the Heart PodcastMasculinity (with Corey Robinson)Jake and Brett are joined by Corey Robinson, a former Canadian Olympic wrestler, who speaks to young people about how to overcome adversity. After discussing Corey’s start in elite athletics, the three discuss numerous topics including masculinity, strength, addiction, mediocrity, marriage, and friendship.2020-09-211h 20Way of the Heart PodcastWay of the Heart PodcastCrucial Conversations (with Fr. Simon Lobo)Jake and Brett are joined once again by their friend Fr. Simon Lobo, pastor at St. Benedict’s Parish in Halifax. They discuss the concept of crucial conversations. Our relationships develop one conversation at a time and growing in the ability to have crucial conversations is an important part of the masculine journey.2020-09-071h 00Way of the Heart PodcastWay of the Heart PodcastLeadership (with Fr. Simon Lobo)Jake and Brett are joined by their friend Fr. Simon Lobo, pastor at St. Benedict’s Parish in Halifax. They all discuss the dynamics of the heart that make a good leader in a parish as well as in the family and world.2020-08-2435 minWay of the Heart PodcastWay of the Heart PodcastDigital DistractionJake and Brett are joined by their friend Jeff Graham, a businessman for over twenty years who has a passion for raising awareness about the impact of digital media and its capacity to distract us from what really matters. We discuss the alarming frequency of digital use as well as practical ways to return to what really matters both individually and as families.2020-08-1047 minWay of the Heart PodcastWay of the Heart PodcastHigh Low: A Deeper CutJake and Brett return to a staple in the podcast and share their highs and lows of the past few weeks. They talk about navigating marriage as well as addressing the self-life.2020-07-2728 minWay of the Heart PodcastWay of the Heart PodcastFathered By God | Book Study Part 6: SageJake and Brett finish their book study series on Fathered By God and discuss the Sage and offer some final thoughts. Good questions and conversations can draw out the wisdom of older men. The masculine journey is a quest arranged by God for your initiation. Stay with it!2020-07-1324 minWay of the Heart PodcastWay of the Heart PodcastFathered By God | Book Study Part 5: KingJake and Brett continue their book study series on Fathered By God and unpack the stage of the King. Despite seeming like a place of honour and power, being a king is about being a secure son who is a servant of all using authority to bless and bring life to those around him. 2020-06-2930 minWay of the Heart PodcastWay of the Heart PodcastFathered By God | Book Study Part 4: Warrior & LoverJake and Brett continue their book study series on Fathered By God and unpack to next stages in the masculine journey: warrior and lover. Learning that there are things worth fighting for and how to maturely engage beauty are essential to the heart of every man.2020-06-1536 minWay of the Heart PodcastWay of the Heart PodcastFathered By God | Book Study Part 3: Boyhood & CowboyJake and Brett continue their book study series on John Eldredge’s Fathered By God. Today, they unpack boyhood and cowboy by discussing how knowing we are loved is foundational to the masculine journey but always seeking childish comfort is not the path to real masculinity.2020-06-0130 minWay of the Heart PodcastWay of the Heart PodcastFathered By God | Book Study Part 2: Father & SonJake and Brett continue their book study series on Fathered By God by John Eldredge by discussing the richness of the masculine journey and being a son of God the Father.2020-05-1832 minWay of the Heart PodcastWay of the Heart PodcastFathered By God | Book Study Part 1: IntroductionUsing a current, real, and personal struggle as a backdrop, Jake and Brett start a book study about one of the most influential books in their lives, Fathered By God by John Eldredge.2020-05-0429 minWay of the Heart PodcastWay of the Heart PodcastLiving EasterAfter checking in about the ongoing COVID-19 pandemic, Jake and Brett talk about how Jesus’ resurrection is the greatest event in human history. They end with a special announcement about a future series.2020-04-2033 minWay of the Heart PodcastWay of the Heart PodcastSt. John Paul the Great (with special guest Archbishop J. Michael Miller)Jake and Brett are joined by special guest, Archbishop J. Michael Miller, Archbishop of Vancouver, to discuss the life and legacy of St. John Paul II.2020-04-061h 04Way of the Heart PodcastWay of the Heart PodcastNavigating COVID-19Jake and Brett have a conversation about the COVID-19 pandemic. They share how it has affected them as well as practical ways to navigate our hearts and relationships during these difficult times.2020-03-2537 minWay of the Heart PodcastWay of the Heart PodcastAn Imperfect LentJake and Brett conclude a three part series on Lent and discuss how having an imperfect Lent can open us to receive God's abundant mercy.2020-03-2321 minWay of the Heart PodcastWay of the Heart PodcastHow to do LentJake and Brett continue a series on Lent and discuss the value of spiritual disciplines and how to have a fruitful Lent.2020-03-0932 minWay of the Heart PodcastWay of the Heart PodcastWhy Lent?Jake and Brett start a series on the next liturgical season and ask the question, “Why Lent?” concluding that Lent is about the restoration of sonship.2020-02-2427 minWay of the Heart PodcastWay of the Heart PodcastMovies We LoveJake and Brett talk about how movies are modern day parables that reveal the deeper themes in life. They also discuss some of their all time favourites.2020-02-1031 minWay of the Heart PodcastWay of the Heart PodcastConversionFollowing the Feast of the Conversion of St. Paul, Jake and Brett discuss the importance and centrality of personal conversion in Christianity and in our own lives.2020-01-2734 minWay of the Heart PodcastWay of the Heart PodcastResolutions that StickSummary Jake and Brett discuss how setting New Years resolutions is actually about growth in virtue. They share from their professional experience about how to make your resolutions become reality. Guiding Scripture “When the days drew near for him to be received up, he set his face to go to Jerusalem.” (Luke 9:51)   Key points Live as though when you wake up the enemy says, “Oh crap, she’s (he’s) awake.” Growing in benevolent detachment Is great for the way of the heart Discipline leads to freedom If you are working f...2020-01-1333 minWay of the Heart PodcastWay of the Heart PodcastWord for the YearEpisode 37 - Word of the Year Summary: Jake and Brett discuss the practice of praying about a word for the year and how this practice is about having a prophetic vision from God for your year. Guiding Scripture: “Without prophetic vision, people abandon restraint, but those who obey the Law are happy.” (Proverbs 29:18) Key points: - Jake first heard about praying for a word for the year from his wife Heather and the Abiding Together Podcast - The word of the year is about hearing about a personal and spec...2019-12-3031 minWay of the Heart PodcastWay of the Heart PodcastHolidaysAfter sharing their high/low, Jake and Brett discuss the reality of the Christmas season and how, upon deeper examination, the holidays can expose important dynamics in our hearts.2019-12-1628 minWay of the Heart PodcastWay of the Heart PodcastMen are Called (Part 3) - Burning BuildingsJake and Brett, joined again by their friend and ally Sean O’Brien, finish the three part series on Fr. Joe Fitzgerald’s powerful homily from the Men’s Retreat in September 2019.2019-12-0234 minWay of the Heart PodcastWay of the Heart PodcastMen are Called (Part 2) - Becoming the FatherJake and Brett, joined again by their friend and ally Sean O’Brien, continue a three part series unpacking a powerful homily that was given by Fr. Joe Fitzgerald at the Men’s Retreat in September 2019.2019-11-1834 minWay of the Heart PodcastWay of the Heart PodcastMen are Called (Part 1) - Called and QualifiedJake and Brett, joined by their friend and ally Sean O’Brien, start a three part series that unpacks a powerful homily that was given by Fr. Joe Fitzgerald at the Men’s Retreat in September 2019.2019-11-0445 minWay of the Heart PodcastWay of the Heart PodcastPrivilege or Sacrifice: Living Authentic MasculinityIn this episode, Jake and Brett talk about masculinity in modern culture and how the heart of masculinity isn’t privilege, bravado, passivity, or power. Rather, authentic masculinity is dangerous, good, and sacrificial.2019-10-2128 min