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Assisted Living InvestingBuild the Team, Live Free: The Brutal Truth About Scaling in Assisted LivingTired of doing everything yourself?In this raw and real episode, Brett and Laura Chotkevys reveal the secret to escaping the day-to-day grind in your assisted living business: building a powerhouse leadership team.Learn how they went from burnout to time freedom, why most investors fail to scale, and what it really takes to become the visionary—not the operator.If you want to grow without losing your life in the process, this is your blueprint.#AssistedLivingInvesting #ScaleYourBusiness #TeamFreedom #RealEstateEntrepreneur #BuildToExit #BusinessWithoutBurnout #VisionaryLeadership 2025-06-1235 min

The Donkey and The BeeSex & Money: How to Have Tough Conversations for Relationship Goals | Donkey & The Bee Podcast - Ep 67In this episode of The Donkey and The Bee Podcast, Bret and Laura dive deep into the uncomfortable but essential conversations about sex and money—the two topics that can make or break relationships. Learn how to set meaningful New Year goals as a couple, tackle vulnerable discussions, and align on expectations to strengthen your partnership.We share insights from our own experiences, practical tips for breaking the ice, and how to create an open dialogue about meeting your partner’s needs. Whether you're married, in a long-term relationship, or just looking to improve your communication skills, this...2025-01-0826 min

The Donkey and The BeeCrossFit Your Way to Success: Health, Wealth, and Productivity Secrets | The Donkey and the Bee Podcast - Ep 66Ready to unlock the secrets to health, wealth, and success? In this episode of The Donkey and the Bee, Brett and Laura Chotkevys explore how CrossFit and fitness principles fuel productivity, enhance discipline, and drive financial growth. They share how building physical strength translates into stronger business strategies, better relationships, and a wealthier mindset.Learn how CrossFit builds mental toughness that can be applied to business challenges, the powerful connection between fitness, focus, and financial success, and the habits that help balance health, wealth, and happiness. Whether you're chasing health goals, entrepreneurial dreams, or looking to level...2024-12-0411 min

The Donkey and The BeeQuitting Our Jobs to Start a Business: Why It Doesn’t Feel Like Work - Ep 65In this episode, Brett and Laura share their journey of starting their own business after quitting their jobs and taking the leap into entrepreneurship. They discuss the fears, risks, and uncertainties that come with leaving the safety of a 9-to-5 job to pursue a passion for building something of their own. Reflecting on how they transformed failure into a learning experience, Brett and Laura offer practical tips and tricks for those considering how to become an entrepreneur. From identifying market opportunities to building a supportive team and taking massive action, they encourage listeners to reframe “work” as a game they...2024-11-2013 min

The Donkey and The BeeHow One Criminal Hire Almost Took Down Our Business | Protecting Your Business from Disaster - Ep 64In this episode of "The Donkey and the Bee," Brett and Laura reveal how hiring mistakes—including one involving a criminal hire—nearly ruined their business. They share firsthand stories about trusting the wrong people, missing red flags, and the hard lessons learned from employees who nearly destroyed their company. Through these challenging experiences, they’ve developed strategies for protecting their business, from keeping critical areas like payroll and finances under their direct control to conducting deeper background checks and trusting gut instincts when it matters most.For anyone in business, this episode is packed with insights on avo...2024-11-1318 min

The Donkey and The BeeKeeping Expenses Low | The Secret to Long-Term Business Success - Ep 63In this episode of The Donkey and the Bee, Brett and Laura discuss the importance of keeping personal expenses low while growing a business. They share personal experiences on resisting lifestyle inflation—even in the face of business success—and highlight the long-term benefits of reinvesting profits back into the business instead of splurging on high-cost liabilities.They share practical examples, from choosing affordable housing to managing expenses like vehicles and vacations, and the impact of staying financially disciplined. Brett and Laura also talk about when it might make sense to make large personal purchases and how busi...2024-11-0611 min

The Donkey and The BeeBudgeting Like a Business: Steps to Increase Your Income and Savings - Ep 62In this episode of The Donkey and the Bee, Brett and Laura Chotkevys get into the topic of escaping the middle-class trap and achieving financial freedom. They share two actionable steps that anyone can use to start building their financial future: budgeting like a business and increasing your income. They explain how treating your family finances like a business can help you keep track of your expenses, save more money, and avoid financial pitfalls that often keep people stuck in the middle class.The video covers important topics such as why budgeting is key to building financial...2024-10-1616 min

The Donkey and The BeeThe Two Most Important Steps To Having A Happy Marriage | Sex And Money - Ep 61In this episode of The Donkey and The Bee, Brett and Laura Chotkevys tackle two major topics that most couples find difficult to discuss—sex and money. With 19 years of marriage under their belts, they get into the reasons why these two areas often become wedges in relationships and how open communication can turn them into strengths. They explore how to get on the same page with your spouse when it comes to sexual expectations, intimacy, and finances, even when it feels awkward or uncomfortable.Brett and Laura share personal stories about our own journey, the importance of...2024-10-0919 min

The Donkey and The BeeHow to Become Healthy and Happy | The Link Between Growth and Success - Ep 60In this episode of The Donkey and the Bee, Brett and Laura explore the critical role growth plays in leading a fulfilling life. Drawing from a recent trip to a small town in Texas for a triathlon, they reflect on the contrast between individuals striving for their best and those stuck in a rut, often battling symptoms of depression. They dive into how stagnation affects happiness and why constant growth is necessary for living a fulfilling life. If you’re feeling stuck or unmotivated, this episode will inspire you to take action.Brett and Laura discuss how se...2024-10-0216 min

The Donkey and The BeeHow to Set and Achieve Big Financial Goals | Financial Planning Tips - Ep 59Welcome back to "The Donkey and the Bee" with your hosts, Brett and Laura Chotkevys. Today, we’re tackling the topic of setting huge financial goals and the steps you need to take to achieve them. If you’re asking yourself, what is a good financial goal or looking for financial goal examples to guide your journey, this episode is for you.In this episode of "The Donkey and the Bee," Brett and Laura Chotkevys dive deep into setting ambitious financial goals and the actionable steps to achieve them. If you've ever wondered "What is a good fina...2024-09-2516 min

The Donkey and The BeeNow Is The Time To Start Your Dream Business! Why It’s The Perfect Time! - Ep 58Welcome back to "The Donkey and the Bee" with hosts Brett and Laura Chotkevys! In this episode, we're exploring why now might be the perfect time to start your own business. Thinking about escaping the 9-to-5 or turning a passion into a profession? You’re in the right place.Curious about what it takes to transition from a stable job to entrepreneurship? We break down the reasons why today's environment is ideal for budding entrepreneurs, from unprecedented access to free resources to global hiring options that weren’t available just a decade ago. Plus, we tackle the comm...2024-09-1813 min

The Donkey and The BeeBe Obsessive! - How The Rich And Wealthy Hit Their Goals! - Ep 57Welcome back to another episode of The Donkey and The Bee. Today we’re talking about the key to reaching true financial freedom: being obsessed with your goals. We’re not talking about a casual interest—this is about becoming a total freak for what you want in life.What does it take to be exceptional? To stand out and achieve the kind of success that others might scoff at? We break down how being obsessed with your goal, whether it’s financial freedom, building a business, or just becoming the best version of yourself, can change everythi...2024-09-1116 min

Assisted Living InvestingHow I Got Time Freedom Operating Assisted Living! - The Secret Gem Of Real Estate - Ep 62What’s up, Mansion Builders! In today’s episode of Assisted Living Investing, I want to get into a major trap that many entrepreneurs fall into—becoming a hostage to their business. When we first opened our assisted living, I found myself trapped in the day-to-day operations, sacrificing my time freedom. But here’s the deal: making great money on paper doesn’t mean you’re truly free if you’re stuck working in the business instead of on it.Have you ever felt like you can’t let go of a bad hire because you don’t know the ins and...2024-09-0608 min

The Donkey and The BeeWhat We Gave Up To Become Wealthy! - Sacrificing For Growth! - Ep 56In this episode of The Donkey and the Bee with Brett and Laura Chotkevys, we're discussing a topic that isn't talked about enough—what you need to give up to become wealthy and achieve financial freedom. We’re sharing our personal journey from over a decade ago when we made the commitment to transform our lives and our finances. But here's the real question: What are you willing to sacrifice to make your dreams a reality?Ever wondered what it really takes to break free from the conventional path and pursue entrepreneurship? We’ll tell you, it’s not ea...2024-09-0419 min

The Donkey and The BeeHow You Can Become Successful - What You NEED To Do! - Ep 55Are you struggling to find success in your marriage, business, or finances? In this episode of The Donkey and the Bee, we get into what it really takes to push through the ups and downs of life. How do you make those crucial decisions early on that will set you up for long-term success? Laura and I open up about the sacrifices we made, from cutting back on expenses to staying committed when the rewards seemed distant. We’ll explore why consistency is key and how you can keep going when it feels like you’re not getting anywhere.2024-08-2809 min

The Donkey and The BeeWhy Being Stressed Is A Good Thing! - The Best Tool For Your Growth! - Ep 54In this episode of The Donkey and the Bee, we're getting into a topic that often gets a bad rap—stress. But is stress really the enemy? Or could it actually be a powerful tool for growth? We're exploring how stress plays a critical role in pushing us beyond our comfort zones and helping us succeed both in business and in life.Have you ever wondered if stress is trying to tell you something? Maybe you’ve questioned whether that overwhelming feeling means you’re on the wrong path. In this episode, we flip the script on those...2024-08-2112 min

The Donkey and The BeeCreating A Plan To Become Rich! - Achieving Financial Freedom With Your Spouse! - Ep 53In this episode of The Donkey and The Bee, Laura and I tackled a crucial question: How can couples create a unified financial plan to get rich and achieve financial freedom together? If you’ve ever found yourself struggling to align your financial goals with your spouse, this episode is for you. We discuss the common disconnects between savers and spenders, and how these differences can prevent couples from reaching milestones like early retirement or even affording end-of-life care. Have you considered whether you and your spouse are on the same page about these long-term financial goals? What steps ca...2024-08-1417 min

The Donkey and The BeeHow to Ask for More Sex in a Relationship: Honest Tips for Men & Women - Ep 52How do you ask for more sex in a relationship without feeling awkward or making your partner uncomfortable? This episode of The Donkey and the Bee gets into the sensitive topic of increasing intimacy in a marriage, particularly from the perspective of men. We explore common questions like: How can a man communicate his sexual needs without seeming demanding? What are the right words to initiate a conversation about frequency and desire? This episode is full of practical advice on how to approach this delicate subject with respect and understanding, ensuring both partners feel heard and valued....2024-08-0724 min

The Donkey and The BeeHere Are The 8 STEPS To Become Financially Free! - Ep 51How can you achieve financial freedom and create a life where you choose how to spend your time? In this episode of The Donkey and the Bee, Laura and I share the eight essential steps to reach financial independence. If you're looking to surpass your active income with passive income and gain the freedom to decide when to work and when to relax, this video is for you.What does financial freedom mean to you? How do you set a realistic financial freedom number? We start by breaking down the concept of financial freedom and offering a...2024-07-3122 min

The Donkey and The BeeHow To Use Social Media To Make MASSIVE Profit! - Social Media Tips For Business - Ep 50In this episode of The Donkey and the Bee, Laura and I explore a game-changing strategy: cutting out social media to achieve financial freedom. Have you ever wondered how social media might be impacting your finances? Are you curious about how a married couple can navigate the world of entrepreneurship and finances more effectively? We share our personal journey, explaining how we shifted from being passive consumers to active producers in social media. This decision not only boosted our productivity but also accelerated our path to financial independence and net worth growth.Have you considered how much...2024-07-2614 min

The Donkey and The BeeHow To Overcome Your Limiting Beliefs! - Stop Sabotaging Yourself And Take Action - Ep 49Ever feel like something is holding you back from reaching your goals? How can you identify and break through those limiting beliefs? Join us in this episode of The Donkey and The Bee with your hosts, Brett and Laura Chotkevys, as we explore the power of overcoming self-doubt and pushing past mental barriers.What does it mean to have a limiting belief, and how is it different from just being insecure? How can surrounding yourself with the right people help you reach your goals? We talk about our personal experiences with limiting beliefs, from financial fears to...2024-07-1721 min

The Donkey and The BeeWhy It’s Okay To Start Poor - Go From Being Broke To Financially Free! - Ep 48Ever wondered how to turn financial struggles into a stepping stone for success? Join us on this episode of The Donkey and The Bee with your hosts, Brett and Laura Chotkevys, as we get into our journey from being broke college kids to achieving financial freedom. We want to tell you why it is okay to start poor.How do you build grit and resilience through tough financial times? What can early financial struggles teach you about budgeting and saving? We'll share our personal experiences of starting from zero, navigating through the muck, and the valuable lessons...2024-07-1020 min

The Donkey and The BeeEnding Toxic Relationships! - How To CUT Bad Influences Out Of Your Life! - Ep 47In today's episode, we discuss a very personal topic. Laura and I have met a lot of people and have built a lot of relationships. Sometimes, you outgrow these relationships and need to move on. Other times, these relationships can be harmful to not just you, but your whole family. We talk about what to do when you find yourself in these situations. How do you cut contact with someone that you were once friends with? What are signs and red flags in relationships that could lead to them harming you in some way? We discuss ways w...2024-07-0320 min

The Donkey and The BeeWhy Billionaires Love To Work! - Playing The Entrepreneur Game! - Ep 46Have you ever wondered why multi-millionaires and billionaires still work? They have all the money they could ever need, so why don't they just hang out on a beach all day? We used to think that was the end goal as well. However, as we continued to grow and learn, we discovered the answer to this question. In this episode, we aim to show you how to play the entrepreneurship game.What do we mean by saying that entrepreneurship is a game? How do you create your own game of entrepreneurship? We’ll show you how we tr...2024-06-2616 min

The Donkey and The BeeHow To Win The Game Of Finances! Easy To Follow Steps On Becoming Financially Free! - Ep 45In this episode, we talk about our favorite game, the game of Financial Freedom. To be able to play this game, you have to know that it’s a game. Our goal with this conversation is to reframe what financial freedom is in your head. We want you to start playing the system and start your own game of achieving financial freedom instead of just being a pawn in someone else’s game. Curious about the steps to transition from being an employee to becoming financially independent? We share our personal journey and discuss how you can shift...2024-06-1926 min

The Donkey and The BeePushing Your Kid’s Limits! - How Your Children Can Be Successful And Beat Adults! - Ep 44Welcome back to The Donkey and the Bee with your hosts, Brett and Laura. In today's episode, we're talking about some important questions about raising awesome kids and giving them a head start in life. Ever wondered how pushing your kids to their limits can help them grow? Or what the real benefits are when kids face obstacles and even fail sometimes? We're here to chat about how you can build resilience and confidence in your little ones.We'll share practical tips and strategies for helping your kids excel in all sorts of fields, from business to...2024-06-1217 min

The Donkey and The BeeHow To Have A Great Sex Life! - Keeping Your Marriage Exciting And Healthy! - Ep 43Welcome to another episode of The Donkey and The Bee! Have you ever wondered how to create opportunities for intimacy in your busy schedules? Or why open conversations about sex are so important in a relationship? What about how prioritizing sex can even prevent divorce? In this episode, we talk about these crucial questions and provide practical tips for maintaining attraction and balancing responsibilities in marriage.Have you ever been curious about how mutual effort in the bedroom can lead to a happier marriage and better sex? I share my own personal experiences and frustrations while offering...2024-06-0528 min

The Donkey and The BeeWhat Is Real Success And Wealth? - The Difference Between Looking Good And Being Good - Ep 42Ever wonder if you should focus on looking successful or actually being successful? In this episode of The Donkey and The Bee, we dig into how trying to look good on the outside can mess up your finances. Have you felt pressured to keep up appearances but know it's hurting your bank account? We share our own story of going broke and what we learned about setting real financial priorities.Do you feel like you’re always spending money to keep up with others? Are you missing out on saving and investing because you're too busy trying to...2024-05-2917 min

Assisted Living InvestingWhat Are The Biggest Challenges In Assisted Living? - How To Overcome Obstacles To Open Up Your Assisted Living! - Ep 47Ever wondered what it really takes to manage a successful Assisted Living Business? Feeling nervous about starting your own life-changing deal? In this episode of Assisted Living Investing, I’m chatting with my wife and business partner, Laura, about just that. We talk about overcoming initial fears, the importance of mindset, and how to handle the biggest challenges.Curious about balancing real estate and operations? Need tips on dealing with staffing issues, especially during tough times like COVID-19? We share our experiences, talk about the importance of having a solid plan, and discuss how to systematize staff ro...2024-05-2435 min

The Donkey and The BeeBuilding A Team For A Winning Relationship! - The Co-Captain & Cheerleader Roles In A Marriage - Ep 41In this episode of "The Donkey and the Bee" podcast, Laura and I chat about the tricky balance between marriage, entrepreneurship, and financial goals. Ever wonder how to juggle your business and family life without dropping the ball? Curious about how you and your spouse can truly support each other while chasing big dreams? What’s the deal with the cheerleader and co-captain roles in a relationship, and how can they help you both succeed?We'll dive into how figuring out whether you're the cheerleader or co-captain can make things clearer and stronger between you two. How do...2024-05-2220 min

The Donkey and The BeeWhy Debt Free IS NOT That Great! - What Should Be Your REAL Financial Goal? - Ep 40In this episode of "The Donkey and The Bee," Laura and I discuss the topic of debt. You've probably seen those "Debt-Free" parties and posts all over social media, where getting out of debt seems like the ultimate goal. But we're here to shake things up a bit and say that's not the only thing you should be aiming for. Instead, why not shoot for bigger financial wins?We've got a lot of questions to tackle in this episode: Why is getting out of debt seen as the end-all goal for so many, and why do we...2024-05-1718 min

Assisted Living InvestingWhy Debt Free IS NOT That Great! - What Should Be Your REAL Financial Goal? - Ep 40In this episode of "The Donkey and The Bee," Laura and I discuss the topic of debt. You've probably seen those "Debt-Free" parties and posts all over social media, where getting out of debt seems like the ultimate goal. But we're here to shake things up a bit and say that's not the only thing you should be aiming for. Instead, why not shoot for bigger financial wins?We've got a lot of questions to tackle in this episode: Why is getting out of debt seen as the end-all goal for so many, and why do we...2024-05-1518 min

The Donkey and The BeeSkills That YOU NEED To Become Rich! - How To Leverage Your Experience To Earn More Money! - Ep 39How can you transform your career trajectory and increase your earnings by not just settling for a small pay increase but by acquiring skills that make you indispensable in the marketplace? In this episode of "The Donkey and The Bee," we explore the pivotal question: What skills do you need to significantly boost your income? Oftentimes, we see people remain content with using basic, entry-level skills to transition from one minimal wage increase to another, rather than trying to learn new skills that could elevate their financial status substantially. Our goal in this episode is to help you realize...2024-05-0823 min

The Donkey and The BeePicking Up The Slack For Your Spouse! - Why Relationships ARE NOT 50/50! - Ep 38In this episode, we talk about how marriages aren’t always 50/50. We are made to believe that marriages should be perfectly equal. Each partner should put the same amount of effort into the relationship. While that is good to strive for, it is heavily unrealistic to be 50/50 at all times. There can even be years of a relationship where it seems one partner is making way more effort than the other. Laura and I discussed times when our relationship was not 50/50 and how we got through those times with patience and communication.It is important to know wha...2024-05-0122 min

The Donkey and The BeeHow This Codeword Changed My Life! - Supporting Your Spouse Through Rough Times - Ep 37In this episode of "The Donkey and the Bee," Laura and I discuss the importance of being there for each other. We reflect on a time in our marriage when we were younger and still immature. I struggled with alcohol, which had a significant hold on me. I used to feel like I had to get drunk every time we were with friends, at a party, or attending an event. Having now matured, I am able to talk about how I broke free from that cycle with Laura supporting me every step of the way.It all...2024-04-2320 min

Assisted Living InvestingHow You Can Have The Best Assisted Living Business! - Learn The Three P’s! - Ep 42In this episode, we break down what makes an Assisted Living business successful. This allows me to pay more than the industry standard to my caregivers, make $40,000 a month, and only work a few hours a week. This is because of my Three P’s. In this episode, I talk about the Product, Process, and People that go into an Assisted Living and how these three things have helped me create the best Assisted Living business possible.First, it all comes down to the Product. My product is a luxury assisted living mansion. We have all the ca...2024-04-1912 min

The Donkey and The BeeCreating A Financial Plan! - Create A Plan To Replace Your Income And Retire Early! - Ep 36In this episode, we talk about the importance of having a financial plan. This conversation was brought up because one of our friends' spouses is ready for retirement. However, unfortunately, their spouse hasn’t really saved anything or invested despite having a very high income for many years. They have no assets or anything. This is why creating a financial plan is important. Even if you have a low income, you can plan for retirement and financial freedom.Laura says the most important thing is being financially literate. By taking the time to study your finances and le...2024-04-1715 min

The Donkey and The BeeHow You Can Become Rich! Learn The Priorities Of Wealthy People! - Ep 35In this episode of The Donkey and the Bee, we talk about setting your priorities for your financial goals. There are three main financial priorities we discuss: security, comfort, and riches. Throughout our financial freedom journey, we have prioritized all of these, and we noticed that it correlates a lot to where you are financially. Laura and I go through each of these stages and priorities and break down what it means to prioritize each of these.For example, if you don’t make a ton of money, and you are what people consider poor, your main pr...2024-04-1031 min

The Donkey and The BeeShould Your Kids Come Before Your Spouse? - Great Marriage Leads To Great Kids! - Ep 34In this episode of The Donkey and the Bee, Laura and I talk about putting the marriage first. It's widely understood that parenting involves significant sacrifices. As a parent, you should always make sure your kids are healthy, safe, and loved. However, this shouldn’t come at the expense of the marriage. A rock-solid marriage is the most important thing when it comes to raising great kids. This is why Brett and Laura say they base their parenting on this principle and why their children's needs don’t come before each other's needs.As parents, the goal is t...2024-04-0312 min

The Donkey and The BeeWhat Happens When You Outgrow Your Friends - Finding People That Help Your Growth - Ep 33In this episode, Brett and Laura talk about growing away from their friends. This is something that we’ve all gone through. Maybe after high school or college, you slowly drift away from your close friends and don’t really communicate with them anymore. A lot of times, people see this as a sad thing. However, Brett and Laura say this isn’t inherently a bad thing. If anything, it can be a great thing.Brett and Laura say that it’s all about growth. It’s not that your old friends are changing; it’s that you are chan...2024-03-2711 min

The Donkey and The BeeHow Much Money Do You Need To be Financially Free? The Trick To Replacing Your Income! - Ep 32In this episode, Brett and Laura talk about their financial freedom number. When people hear "financial freedom," their first thought is being rich. However, that’s not what being financially free means at all. The whole point of financial freedom is to reach a point where you don’t have to sacrifice your time for money. If you have a very high-paying salary job, you’re still forced to work those hours to grow your wealth. When Brett and Laura talk about financial freedom, they are referring to replacing all your expenses with passive income. By doing this, Brett and La...2024-03-2028 min

Assisted Living InvestingHow To Train Your Managers For Your Assisted Living! - Gain Financial Freedom Through Our Management System! - Ep 37In this episode, Brett Chotkevys talks about training your managers for your Assisted Living. As he’s talked about in previous episodes, his managers are one of the most important components of his business model. By having a two-manager system, Brett ensures that he never has to deal with the day-to-day work in his Memory Care Mansion. In fact, Brett and Laura only have to work about 4 hours a week, making their Assisted Living business almost passive. In this episode, Brett walks us through the steps he takes when training a new manager. There are three main cat...2024-03-1523 min

The Donkey and The BeeHow To Raise Good Adults! - Teaching Your Kids Responsibility At An Early Age! - Ep 31In this episode, Brett and Laura discuss teaching their kids responsibility. The most important thing Brett and Laura do as parents is that they treat their kids like adults. By treating them as such, they are able to grow and adapt quickly to the responsibilities and tasks given to them. A very common thing Brett says is, "A parent's duty is to teach your kids to be good adults, not to teach them to be good kids." With that goal in mind, Brett and Laura stress how important it is to give your kids responsibilities early in their lives...2024-03-1327 min

Assisted Living InvestingKicking Residents Out Of Your Assisted Living! - The Process and Steps To Do It Right - Ep 36In this episode of Assisted Living Investing, Brett Chotkevys brings his wife, Laura, onto the show! Laura handles a lot of the operations at their Memory Care Mansion. Because of that, Brett thought it would be beneficial to have her on the show to talk about a very tough issue when running an assisted living. The issue is when you have to kick out a resident. Kicking out a resident can be rough. It never feels good to turn someone away. However, there are times when you have to consider the safety of everyone in the house, including the...2024-03-0826 min

The Donkey and The BeeBreaking Out Of A Dead-End Job! - How To Invest In A New Niche - Ep 30In this episode, Brett and Laura Chotkeys talk about starting a new niche! It is very common for people to feel like they are stuck with their professional careers. Maybe they think they don’t have the skills or knowledge to explore a new niche. Maybe they think the barrier of entry is too high. However, Brett and Laura fully disagree with the sentiment that you can’t learn a new niche. Right now, it is the easiest it has ever been to start learning and moving into a new niche; all you have to do is start.Br...2024-03-0624 min

The Donkey and The BeeLimit Your Children’s Screen Time! - How Social Media Is Hurting Your Kids! - Ep 29In this episode, Brett and Laura Chotkevys discuss screen time! If you have kids, you know how much social media has integrated with their lives. Social media apps like TikTok and Instagram's largest demographic of users are under the age of 18. Nowadays, it’s their way of sharing pop culture and learning about world events. However, a very scary realization for Brett and Laura is that the average screen time for a kid is over 7 hours long. This is why Brett and Laura wanted this episode to be about why you should heavily limit your children’s screen time.2024-02-2821 min

Assisted Living InvestingGenerate INFINITE Leads For Your Assisted Living! - How To Keep Your Beds Full! - Ep 34This episode comes from one of our Free Virtual Assisted Living Workshops that we host every month. In this episode, Brett talks about marketing, more specifically, how to get infinite leads for your Assisted Living without spending a dollar on marketing. This is a custom marketing strategy that Brett and Laura created when they learned how bad marketing is in the Assisted Living industry. The cornerstone of their success is ensuring that they have full occupancy every month for their Assisted Living. Their custom marketing strategy not only ensures that but also has helped them create a waitlist of...2024-02-2319 min

The Donkey and The BeeStop Celebrating Valentine's Day! - How To Show REAL Love To Your Partner! - Ep 28In this episode, Brett and Laura talk about Valentine’s Day. Brett points out early on that Valentine’s Day is just a way for big companies to charge you more money, social media to put stress on the relationship, and other outside factors trying to tell you how you should love your partner. That is why Brett and Laura have never celebrated Valentine’s Day. The important question that they bring up multiple times in this episode is why should you wait to do something nice for your partner just one day a year when you can serve and lo...2024-02-2117 min

The Donkey and The BeeStarting Investing Your Time & Money! - Real Estate Investing Made Easy! - Ep 27In this episode, Brett and Laura talk about investing. People often think that you have to have a lot of money in savings to begin investing. This isn’t true at all. Brett and Laura started investing when they worked at restaurants waiting tables. If you aren't able to invest your money in a deal, then you should instead invest your time. We’ve talked about in this past that you should take the time to learn a niche that you want to invest in. In this conversation, Brett and Laura take this concept of investing your time a step...2024-02-1421 min

The Donkey and The BeeWhy Making Money Isn’t A Bad Thing: Debunking Root Of All Evil Myth! - Ep 26In this episode, Brett and Laura Chotkevys talk about money. A lot of people sometimes feel like the act of chasing money and wealth can be greedy and immoral. Especially in our modern political climate where it seems a lot of people want to move away from capitalism. However, Brett and Laura disagree with this. They think that the act of building wealth is actually a good thing. Money by itself isn’t inherently good or evil; it’s just a tool that helps you be yourself.Brett explains how people who start a business contribute to soci...2024-02-0729 min

The Donkey and The BeeShould You Have A Joint Bank Account With Your Partner?: Achieve Financial Unity - Ep 25In this episode, Brett and Laura talk about shared bank accounts. This is a relatively controversial topic. If you look up whether it is better to have separate or joint bank accounts, you’ll find a lot of conflicting information. However, Brett and Laura have a strong opinion on this. They believe that the only way to be truly united together is to be on the same page with your finances. For that, the best way to ensure that is to have a joint bank account.Brett and Laura speculate that the reason the divorce rate is so...2024-01-3131 min

The Donkey and The BeeHow To Play Financial Football! - Saving and Investing Made Easy! - Ep 24In this episode, Brett and Laura talk about finances. Learning about savings and investing can be a little intimidating. That’s why Brett created a simple way to follow. He created his analogy of Financial Football. This is what brought Brett and Laura to financial freedom. He looks at his finances as three different teams: Offense, defense, and special teams, just like in a football match. All three of these teams are working their way to financial freedom.Brett’s defensive team is the act of saving money. He says that the first step everyone should take is t...2024-01-2423 min

The Donkey and The BeeStop Lying To Yourself! - Learn How To Grow And Forget Self-Doubt! - Ep 23In this episode, Brett and Laura talk about how people often lie to themselves. You see it often; you probably do it yourself. When we lie to ourselves, that is us putting our own mental limitations, keeping ourselves from succeeding. This is a passionate topic for both Brett and Laura because they see too often people doing this both professionally and physically.Laura talks about how these self-imposed limitations could be a side effect of how someone was raised. Brett talks about how this mindset that someone can adopt when they are young can be with them...2024-01-1723 min

The Donkey and The BeeInvesting In Your First Property - What We Wished We New As Beginners! - Ep 22In this episode, Brett and Laura talk about investing. In a previous episode, they discussed how your first investment should be in yourself. Whether through reading, taking classes, learning a new trade, or finding a mentor. In this episode, Brett and Laura discuss what to do after that. Once you've explored all the free learning opportunities and are ready for the next step, what do you do next?Brett and Laura explain the path they took to get where they are. To maximize their learning, they found a knowledgeable mentor. From there, they plunged into the deep...2024-01-1019 min

The Donkey and The BeeThe Best Way To Create And Complete Your Goals: The 5 Categories For Your Growth - Ep 21Happy New Year! In this episode, Brett and Laura talk about New Year's Resolutions. However, not in the way you may think. Brett and Laura have a negative connotation when it comes to New Year's Resolutions. Too many times, they see people give up on them early in the year when it gets challenging. Also, Brett talks about how often people will only set up a couple of resolutions instead of multiple. This is why instead of Resolutions, Brett and Laura have a goal system that they operate by.Brett and Laura have essentially set up five...2024-01-0320 min

Assisted Living InvestingHow To Find And Hire The Best Caregivers For Your Assisted Living! - Ep 26In this episode, Brett Chotkevys has a special guest. He interviews his wife and business partner, Laura Chotkevys. Laura handles a lot more of the operational side of things when it comes to running their Assisted Living Memory Care Mansion. Because of this, Laura has a lot of experience in hiring and finding the perfect staff for their Assisted Living.Laura talks a lot about what makes the perfect caregiver. A common misconception is that you have to hire a nurse, someone with a medical degree, or someone with a ton of experience. However, this isn’t tr...2023-12-2938 min

The Donkey and The BeeShould You Wait To Have Sex Until Marriage? - Benefits and Drawbacks - Ep 20In this episode, Brett and Laura talk about the topic of intimacy. In today's culture, it's commonplace for individuals to engage in sexual activity before marriage or explore relationships with multiple partners. However, Laura shares a unique perspective, revealing that she has only ever been with one person—Brett. Curious about her choice, Brett asks Laura why she chose to wait.Laura explains that she made this decision during her teenage years, deciding to wait until marriage. For her, sex represents a profound connection, it’s like giving a part of oneself to a partner. Laura believed that...2023-12-2721 min

The Donkey and The BeeHow We Broke Gender Roles In Our Relationship - The Best Way To Work Together In Marriage - Ep 19In this episode, Brett and Laura challenge traditional gender roles, a common occurrence in many marriages where individuals often conform to rigid expectations of what a man and a woman should be in a relationship. Traditionally, the man is expected to be the breadwinner, while the wife takes care of the kids and manages household chores. Brett and Laura have chosen to approach these responsibilities differently. Brett takes pleasure in handling the cooking, while Laura prefers working on yard maintenance. Rather than complying with fixed roles and tasks, they adapt their responsibilities based on what needs to be done...2023-12-2025 min

Assisted Living InvestingHow To Hire The Best Managers For Your Assisted Living - Learn This Method To Gain Time Freedom - Ep 24In this episode, Brett talks about finding the perfect managers for your Assisted Living. Brett has created a business model that lets him work only 3-4 hours a week in his Assisted Living Business. The only way this is possible is because he created a system to have the best possible managers who can operate his Assisted Living Memory Care Mansion without him or Laura constantly needing to be working in the business.The trick here is having a manager with heart. Brett stresses the importance that you, as the owner, have to be able to do...2023-12-1516 min

The Donkey and The BeeWhy You Shouldn’t Want Work Life Balance - Choose Growth Life Balance Instead! - Ep 18We hope you are doing well! Today we have a new episode of The Donkey And The Bee! Listen in as Brett and Laura Chotkevys discuss their controversial take on work-life balance! Most people, especially younger people, constantly strive for Work-Life Balance. People often quit jobs, change careers, or their mental health spirals out of control due to work-life balance. However, Brett and Laura do not agree with the idea of striving for a healthy work-life balance. Instead, they believe in what they call “Growth Life Balance.”The issue that Brett and Laura discuss with Work...2023-12-1321 min

The Donkey and The BeeWhy We Stopped Drinking: How Alcohol Can Hurt Your Health And Family - Ep 17In this episode, Brett and Laura discuss their relationship with alcohol. Alcohol is a heavy topic for many people. It is very easy to fall into the habit of drinking too much. The challenging part is, that sometimes it’s even hard to tell if you have a problem or not. People believe that just because they don’t get drunk, that means they are having a healthy amount of alcohol and they don’t have a problem. Brett and Laura believed this as well until they realized just how bad just a couple of drinks a day were affect...2023-12-0622 min

The Donkey and The BeeHow Pornography Ruins Relationships: Discussing Porn And Sex With Your Spouse - Ep 16In this episode, Brett and Laura talk about the heaviest topic yet that they’ve discussed on The Donkey and The Bee. Pornography is a very controversial topic. While many people think that it isn’t a big deal and it’s just for fun, porn is one of the largest addictions. People don’t realize how much watching porn can seep into their relationship. Brett and Laura discuss this very idea.There are a lot of issues porn can cause in a relationship. Laura mentions one of these issues, and that’s insecurity. If one member of the rel...2023-11-2921 min

The Donkey and The BeeOur Kids Bought A House! - How Our Daughters Bought Their First Rental Property! - Ep 15In this episode, Brett and Laura’s kids are back! Brooklyn and Blakely, two young entrepreneurs, have just bought their first property! Brett and Laura explain exactly how their children were able to do this at such a young age.Through the savings they have accumulated from their jewelry business, Brooklyn and Blakely had $50,000 dollars ready to spend on a house. This house is their first asset that will help them produce more money. Brett and Laura partnered with their daughters in this deal to help them with every step of the way so they can learn ho...2023-11-2222 min

The Donkey and The BeeThe Shocking Santa Lie - Why We Refuse To Deceive Our Kids - Ep 14In this episode, Brett and Laura Chotkevys talk about something that they’ve gotten a lot of judgment and hate from. A lot of parents constantly have to lie to their children about Santa Claus. Maintaining this lie just for the sake of keeping up a facade for your kids and eventually having to break the news to them is extremely taxing. That is why Brett and Laura decided to skip this entirely, by saying to their kids that Santa isn’t real!Brett and Laura bring up two main reasons why they decided not to make thei...2023-11-1515 min

The Donkey and The BeeSacrificing Short-Term Pleasures for Long-Term Success: Unraveling the Spending Culture - Ep 13In this episode, Brett and Laura Chotkevys discuss an issue that many people bring up. Oftentimes, you will hear people saying that they don’t make or have enough money. Brett and Laura decide to challenge this way of thinking. In this episode, they’ll cover topics such as the choices we make with our money, the culture of spending, and how to secure a better financial future for yourself and your family.There are two main ways that Brett and Laura say that can help you lower your spending and increase your savings. These two concepts are...2023-11-0820 min

The Donkey and The BeeFrom Lemonade Stands to Rental Properties: Teaching Your Children Financial Literacy - Ep 12In this episode, hosts Brett and Laura Chotkevys interview two special guests, their daughters Brooklyn and Blakely. They explore the vital topic of teaching kids how to manage money from a young age. The conversation delves into their family's journey in introducing financial literacy and financial independence to the next generation. They discuss practical techniques, such as cash flow management and the envelope system for budgeting, as well as the crucial lessons learned from their entrepreneurial endeavors, which started with a lemonade stand and evolved into a successful jewelry business. The episode also highlights the si...2023-11-0113 min

The Donkey and The BeeRaising Kid Entrepreneurs - From Lemonade Stand To Thriving Business - Ep 11In this episode, Brett and Laura continue their discussion on kid entrepreneurship and this time they have invited their own daughters as special guests. Brett and Laura interview Blakely and Brooklyn, who share their journey from starting a lemonade stand to establishing a jewelry business with products available in multiple stores. Our hosts guide us through their children's entrepreneurial experiences.It all begins with a lemonade stand. Brett and Laura ask their daughters to reflect on the lessons they've learned from launching a lemonade stand. Even from such a simple venture, they grasped the fundamentals of business...2023-10-2527 min

The Donkey and The BeeMaximizing Assisted Living Profits: The Path To Six-Figure Monthly Income - Ep 16In this episode, Brett Chotkevys has his sights set on making some serious six-figure monthly income. At his memory care mansion, He is able to bring in a profit of $500K a year with his business model. And now, he's here to let you in on the secrets to achieve similar results. Sure, you can cut costs, but he firmly believes that the magic lies in increasing income. You can only cut your expenses so low, but you can always increase your income.First and foremost, Brett emphasizes the importance of choosing the right location. He's talking...2023-10-2014 min

The Donkey and The BeeThe Business of Parenting: Teaching Kids Financial Literacy and Entrepreneurship - Ep 10In this episode, Brett and Laura Chotkevys explore the essential role of parents in teaching their children financial literacy and guiding them on the path to becoming young entrepreneurs. They emphasize the crucial role parents play in nurturing financial intelligence in their kids. Brett and Laura explain how, just like a hike, parents initially carry most of the load, taking on roles as visionaries, owners, and employees of the business. However, as their children grow and mature, the parents gradually hand off responsibilities, allowing the kids to take the lead.This episode highlights the importance of starting...2023-10-1821 min

The Donkey and The BeeEmpowering Young Entrepreneurs: Teach Your Kids Financial Literacy and Life Lessons - Ep 09Welcome to The Donkey and The Bee! In this episode, we embark on a remarkable journey through the world of kid entrepreneurship. We share the incredible story of our daughters, who started with a humble lemonade stand at ages four and six and are now aspiring entrepreneurs on a mission to achieve self-made millionaire status by their early twenties.This enlightening conversation emphasizes that their entrepreneurial journey was never solely about money. Instead, we delve into the profound life lessons they've gained along the way. Discover how running businesses at such a young age has empowered them...2023-10-1124 min

The Donkey and The BeeDiscovering Your Greatest Asset: The First Investment on Your Journey To Financial Freedom - Ep 08In this episode, hosts Brett and Laura Chotkevys explore a crucial topic: your first and greatest investment. With humor and candidness, they discuss the foundations you need to build for a brighter future, focusing on what truly matters in life.Brett and Laura are no strangers to the world of finance and entrepreneurship, and today, they promise to share a unique perspective on investments—one that may surprise you. Throughout the episode, they emphasize the significance of this initial investment, the investment of yourself. By investing time and money into yourself, you can set yourself up for su...2023-10-0420 min

The Donkey and The BeeHow To Be Financially Free: Managing Multiple Income Sources For Financial GrowthIn this insightful podcast episode, hosted by Brett and Laura Chotkevys, you'll discover the key to financial freedom through the power of multiple streams of income.They start by addressing the common misconception that climbing the corporate ladder is the only way to achieve financial success. Brett and Laura challenge this notion, emphasizing that anyone can create additional income streams, regardless of their background or age. They share practical tips and strategies for adding active income streams, such as finding opportunities within your current job and embracing side hustles.Brett and Laura explain how investing...2023-09-2731 min

The Donkey and The BeeTake Control Of Your Finances: Pay Yourself First MethodIn this episode Brett and Laura Chotkevys discuss how they utilized the power of paying themselves first not only in their business ventures but also in their personal lives, allowing them to reshape their financial future. They will be sharing insights from their journey, from financial struggles to consistent prosperity, and how you can replicate their success.Learn the crucial steps to implement this game-changing financial strategy, including automating your savings, setting aside a percentage of your income for your future self, and tracking your financial progress. Brett and Laura open up about their real-life experiences, blunders...2023-09-2036 min

The Donkey and The BeeSecuring Your Retirement: A Blueprint for Financial Stability - Ep 05In this episode, hosts Brett and Laura Chotkevys challenge conventional retirement planning advice. They advocate for a pragmatic approach centered around monthly expenses, real estate investments, and substantial savings. Drawing from their experience owning an assisted living and memory care facility, they stress the importance of recognizing the high costs of end-of-life care.Brett and Laura share their strategy of financial security, emphasizing the need to replace regular income with passive income generated through real estate investments. Their message underscores the significance of planning for retirement by assessing current monthly expenses, diligently saving, and building a...2023-09-1330 min

The Donkey and The BeeHouse Hacking 101: Creative Ways To Boost Your Income - Ep 04In this engaging podcast, Brett and Laura Chotkevys explore the concept of house hacking, a proven strategy that allows you to purchase a property and transform it into a cash-flowing asset. Our experienced hosts break down the essential steps, sharing their own success stories and practical advice to help you make informed decisions on your path to becoming a savvy real estate investor.Our hosts explore advanced house hacking techniques, like multi-unit properties, where you can transform a fourplex into a self-sustaining investment that pays for your living expenses and then some. Our episode also touches on...2023-09-0634 min

The Donkey and The BeeHow To Have The Money Conversation: Investing and Growing Finances with Your Partner - Ep 03In this episode, hosts Brett and Laura discuss their journey toward financial freedom as a married couple. They share their personal experiences and challenges, highlighting the importance of commitment and alignment in achieving shared dreams.Money is extremely important when it comes to being in a relationship. Sometimes it can be a touchy subject and hard to really get on the same financial mindset. Brett and Laura share their tips on how they were able to overcome this awkward transition into becoming aligned with their financial mindset so you can also begin to communicate with your partner...2023-08-3035 min

The Donkey and The BeeShifting Your Money Mindset: From Default to Financial Freedom - Ep 02In this episode, Brett and Laura share their personal journey from embracing default money beliefs to cultivating a growth-oriented financial mindset. In this candid conversation, they reveal how they transitioned from living paycheck to paycheck and being caught in the middle-class trap to discovering a path toward financial freedom.Through the power of education and shared aspirations, Brett and Laura embarked on a transformative journey. They detail the shift from focusing solely on increased income to setting ambitious goals that involved eliminating debt, investing in assets, and ultimately achieving financial independence. By aligning their financial values and...2023-08-2334 min

The Donkey and The BeeAligning Money Mindsets: Navigating Financial Success as a Couple - Ep 01Welcome to the first episode of The Donkey and The Bee Podcast, your go-to source for insightful discussions on marriage, entrepreneurship, and finance. Join your hosts Brett and Laura Chotkevys as they delve into the fascinating intersection of these three crucial aspects of life.In this episode, the dynamic duo takes a deep dive into a topic that resonates with couples everywhere: "Aligning Money Mindsets." Discover how to bridge the gap in financial perspectives with your partner and cultivate a shared understanding of wealth-building. Brett and Laura explore strategies to foster mutual growth, nurture a healthy money...2023-08-1622 min

7 Figure Flipping with Bill Allen[554] $40,000 Per Month Net Profit From 1 BuildingMy friends Brett and Laura Chotkevys are pioneering a crazy real estate investing strategy that NO ONE ELSE is doing right now……and they’re making $40,000 net profit PER MONTH from just 1 building.Now they’re building an entire neighborhood of these buildings.And the potential for more is almost unlimited…I brought Brett on the 7 Figure Flipping Podcast today to break down what he’s doing and how they stumbled on this strategy.Listen in now… and take notes!!!Links and Resources 2022-06-0133 min

7 Figure Flipping with Bill AllenHFHQ 109: How Two “Beginners” Did 14 Deals in 18 Months: Interview With Brett and Laura ChotkevysListen to This EpisodeHey everyone! Hope you’re ready to ring in the new year… 2016 is going to be your best year yet! In today’s episode, I interview Brett and Laura Chotkevys, a husband-and-wife house flipping team making deals happen here in Southern California!Brett and Laura haven’t been in this business all that long… just a few years… but they’ve already had some incredible success. And they just recently joined the 7 Figure Flipping program with the goal of making 2016 their first 7-figure income year!They have some awe...2015-12-3141 min