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Broken TilesKyle Thiermann: One Last Question Before You GoSend us a textA surf session sets the scene, but the real swell arrives when Kyle Thiermann walks us through the most important interview most of us will ever do: the one with our parents. We dig into why audio carries truth better than text or video, how a single saved voicemail can become an heirloom, and what happens when you trade the role of child for the role of journalist. The shift is simple and brave—ask specific questions, stop litigating memories, and let people talk long enough to show who they are.Ky...
2025-11-251h 18Broken TilesStacey Apologizes to Venezuela.Send us a textA courthouse makes it legal—but a room full of people who love you? That’s what makes it feel like a marriage.In this episode of The Broken Tiles Podcast, Stacey and Brian return from Syracuse, where their son’s eleven-year love story turned into one of the most joy-filled, grounded celebrations they’ve ever experienced—grandmas waving glow sticks. Cousins laughing like no time had passed. Two families folding into each other in a way that felt both official and beautifully easy.Brian had the honor of officiatin...
2025-10-1846 min
Broken TilesThe 30,000 Foot Lightning Bolt of InspirationSend us a text
What happens when a lightning bolt of inspiration hits you at 30,000 feet? For Russ Rogers, it transformed him from landscaper and personal trainer into a children's book author and movement creator dedicated to reconnecting families through physical activity.
In this heartfelt conversation, Russ takes us from his childhood on a Modesto farm to his college baseball career at Cal Poly Pomona, where influential coaches helped shape his life philosophy. His journey winds through coaching softball at Bethany University, where he learned a powerful lesson: his least talented team won the most...
2025-05-161h 05Broken TilesThe 30,000 Foot Lightning Bolt of InspirationSend us a textWhat happens when a lightning bolt of inspiration hits you at 30,000 feet? For Russ Rogers, it transformed him from landscaper and personal trainer into a children's book author and movement creator dedicated to reconnecting families through physical activity.In this heartfelt conversation, Russ takes us from his childhood on a Modesto farm to his college baseball career at Cal Poly Pomona, where influential coaches helped shape his life philosophy. His journey winds through coaching softball at Bethany University, where he learned a powerful lesson: his least talented team won the most...
2025-05-161h 05Broken TilesBidet’s Up The B-Hole , Banzai Pipeline & Zen RageSend us a text
Filmed right from Marco’s home on the North Shore of Hawaii—right in the middle of the Pipe Masters competition—this special video episode of Broken Tiles gives us a rare, behind-the-scenes look at a 34-year marriage, all sparked by three deceptively simple questions.
The first one—"What would you never have done without me?"—opens the door to some eye-opening confessions. Brian admits he might never have fully "gotten his shit together" without Stacey’s influence, while she realizes she would never have experienced the slower pace of northern New York—an...
2025-03-1633 minBroken TilesBidet's Up The B-Hole , Banzai Pipeline & Zen RageSend us a textFilmed right from Marco’s home on the North Shore of Hawaii—right in the middle of the Pipe Masters competition—this special video episode of Broken Tiles gives us a rare, behind-the-scenes look at a 34-year marriage, all sparked by three deceptively simple questions.The first one—"What would you never have done without me?"—opens the door to some eye-opening confessions. Brian admits he might never have fully "gotten his shit together" without Stacey’s influence, while she realizes she would never have experienced the slower pace of northern New York—an...
2025-03-1633 minBroken TilesLetting Go, “Oops” Babies & LEGO’sSend us a text
What happens when you stop trying to control everything and start setting boundaries for yourself? Join us on the Broken Tiles Podcast as we explore the nuanced journey of personal growth and therapy, seasoned with our signature humor and introspection. Discover the delicate dance between guiding and letting go, especially from a parental perspective, while pondering the motivations behind our need to control outcomes. Engage with us in a discussion that blends heartfelt insight and playful banter, encouraging reflection on compassion, self-preservation, and the art of establishing boundaries.
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2024-10-1654 minBroken TilesLetting Go, “Oops” Babies & LEGO'sSend us a textWhat happens when you stop trying to control everything and start setting boundaries for yourself? Join us on the Broken Tiles Podcast as we explore the nuanced journey of personal growth and therapy, seasoned with our signature humor and introspection. Discover the delicate dance between guiding and letting go, especially from a parental perspective, while pondering the motivations behind our need to control outcomes. Engage with us in a discussion that blends heartfelt insight and playful banter, encouraging reflection on compassion, self-preservation, and the art of establishing boundaries. Relationships are complex, a...
2024-10-1654 min
Unpacked In Santa CruzEpisode 35: Stacey Upton: Navigating the Spiritual Journey of Marriage: Connections, Growth, and Future GenerationsMarriage as a spiritual journey, the unique bond of limbic resonance, and the complexities of modern parenting—these are just some of the topics that Stacey Upton and I explore in this thought-provoking episode of the "Unpacked and Naked Podcast." As a producer and co-host of the "Broken Tiles" podcast, Stacey brings a wealth of insight to our conversation, drawing from her own long-term relationship with her husband, Brian. Together, we dissect the profound connections that couples can build through shared experiences and mutual growth, and how these connections can create a nurturing environment for their children.Th...
2024-10-151h 04Broken TilesStacey Trashes Mother Teresa & Outs Brian’s OCDSend us a text
Ever thought about how a Nerf gun fight could actually bring you and your partner closer? Well, in the latest episode of the Broken Tiles Podcast, we kick things off with some exciting news—brand-new, professionally produced music and a top-notch recording setup to make your listening experience even better. Plus, we’re celebrating a major health milestone that’s made a huge difference in our lives. Join us as we look back on how this podcast went from a fun scratch-off challenge to a regular date night ritual, with nearly 20,000 downloads. Oh, and we...
2024-10-021h 00Broken TilesStacey Trashes Mother Teresa & Outs Brian's OCDSend us a textEver thought about how a Nerf gun fight could actually bring you and your partner closer? Well, in the latest episode of the Broken Tiles Podcast, we kick things off with some exciting news—brand-new, professionally produced music and a top-notch recording setup to make your listening experience even better. Plus, we’re celebrating a major health milestone that’s made a huge difference in our lives. Join us as we look back on how this podcast went from a fun scratch-off challenge to a regular date night ritual, with nearly 20,000 downloads. Oh, and we...
2024-10-021h 00Broken TilesSPECIAL : ”The Uber Mega Guest Jackpot Show”Send us a text
When family gathers around the table, the conversation often turns to stories that tug at the heartstrings. Our latest episode is a tapestry of such tales, woven with threads of forgiveness, personal growth, and the evolving dynamics of relationships. With our son Bailey sharing his journey to self-forgiveness in the unforgiving job market, and Kenzi opening up about coming to terms with her father's actions, we bring you intimate narratives that resonate with the challenges many of us face. Guest appearances from cousin Megan and her husband Ryan enrich the dialogue with varied...
2024-05-2655 minBroken TilesSPECIAL : "The Uber Mega Guest Jackpot Show"Send us a textWhen family gathers around the table, the conversation often turns to stories that tug at the heartstrings. Our latest episode is a tapestry of such tales, woven with threads of forgiveness, personal growth, and the evolving dynamics of relationships. With our son Bailey sharing his journey to self-forgiveness in the unforgiving job market, and Kenzi opening up about coming to terms with her father's actions, we bring you intimate narratives that resonate with the challenges many of us face. Guest appearances from cousin Megan and her husband Ryan enrich the dialogue with varied...
2024-05-2655 minBroken TilesFinding Balance, Covid 47 & 1922 Attic Life in MoscowSend us a text
As Stacey unveils the chapters of her wellness journey, overcoming Mal de Debarquement, we're reminded that health is a dance requiring precision and grace. She shares how a blend of medication, therapy, and lifestyle changes has turned her life's tempo from chaotic to harmonious. Brian and I also lay our cards on the table—quite literally—with "The And" game, sparking raw and honest conversations about our mutual concerns. It's like peering into a mirror together, facing the reflections of our deepest worries and finding strength in the vulnerability of our shared truths.
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2024-05-2352 minBroken TilesFinding Balance, Covid 47 & 1922 Attic Life in MoscowSend us a textAs Stacey unveils the chapters of her wellness journey, overcoming Mal de Debarquement, we're reminded that health is a dance requiring precision and grace. She shares how a blend of medication, therapy, and lifestyle changes has turned her life's tempo from chaotic to harmonious. Brian and I also lay our cards on the table—quite literally—with "The And" game, sparking raw and honest conversations about our mutual concerns. It's like peering into a mirror together, facing the reflections of our deepest worries and finding strength in the vulnerability of our shared truths....
2024-05-2352 minBroken TilesHonesty, Lies, Dance Moves, and Lessons in ChemistrySend us a text
Ever felt ensnared in a relationship dispute and wished you had the perfect resolution strategy at your fingertips? Or found yourself struggling to comfort a loved one in their darkest hour? We're back on the airwaves after a hiatus, and ready to share our explorations into these complex topics, offering you insights and practical advice to navigate these tricky terrains. Join Brian and Stacey as we relive cherished childhood memories, share updates on Stacey's health journey with Mal de Debarquement syndrome, and even delve into a riveting review of the feminist-themed TV show "...
2023-12-0556 minBroken TilesHonesty, Lies, Dance Moves, and Lessons in ChemistrySend us a textEver felt ensnared in a relationship dispute and wished you had the perfect resolution strategy at your fingertips? Or found yourself struggling to comfort a loved one in their darkest hour? We're back on the airwaves after a hiatus, and ready to share our explorations into these complex topics, offering you insights and practical advice to navigate these tricky terrains. Join Brian and Stacey as we relive cherished childhood memories, share updates on Stacey's health journey with Mal de Debarquement syndrome, and even delve into a riveting review of the feminist-themed TV show "...
2023-12-0556 minBroken Tiles”MDDS, Scheduling Sex & Secret Alarms”Send us a text
Stacey & Brian climb back in front of the mics for a wavy episode.
Topics range from Stacey's battle with Mal De Debarquement Syndrome, choosing a single song to be played during intimacy for the rest of eternity, looking deeply into each others eyes.
Musical Guests : A-Ha , Lewis Capaldi & Lady GaGa
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2023-04-2045 minBroken Tiles"MDDS, Scheduling Sex & Secret Alarms"Send us a textStacey & Brian climb back in front of the mics for a wavy episode. Topics range from Stacey's battle with Mal De Debarquement Syndrome, choosing a single song to be played during intimacy for the rest of eternity, looking deeply into each others eyes. Musical Guests : A-Ha , Lewis Capaldi & Lady GaGa Support the show
2023-04-2045 minBroken TilesGavin Says ”Fuck You Cancer” : A Broken Tiles InterviewSend us a text
Brian sits down in the middle of the Pacific Ocean with his closest friend and discusses a terminal cancer diagnosis, Denver Broncos Football, raising kids, marriage, faith, masturbation, the apocalypse, strip clubs, poker, Paris, Tahiti and the unforeseen gift and perspective that the terminal diagnosis has provided.....
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2023-03-062h 00Broken TilesGavin Says "Fuck You Cancer" : A Broken Tiles InterviewSend us a textBrian sits down in the middle of the Pacific Ocean with his closest friend and discusses a terminal cancer diagnosis, Denver Broncos Football, raising kids, marriage, faith, masturbation, the apocalypse, strip clubs, poker, Paris, Tahiti and the unforeseen gift and perspective that the terminal diagnosis has provided.....Support the show
2023-03-062h 00Broken Tiles"Grade School Crushes & The Explosive Danger of Grey Meat" Episode 15 : Effects of choices that create positive changeSend us a textSeason 2 ! Stacey & Brian are back at it for a second season of the podcast. Questions : Do you have any friends you would consider family ? What decisions have you made that have had positive outcomes on your life ? What do you now that you wish you had learnt earlier in life ? This question Stacey read incorrectly and broke the time space continuum that stops the flow of the show for a solid 8 minutes. Brian discusses the hidden dangers of grey meat. ( Related Topics...
2023-02-0753 minBroken Tiles”Grade School Crushes & The Explosive Danger of Grey Meat” Episode 15 : Effects of choices that create positive changeSend us a text
Season 2 !
Stacey & Brian are back at it for a second season of the podcast.
Questions :
Do you have any friends you would consider family ?
What decisions have you made that have had positive outcomes on your life ?
What do you now that you wish you had learnt earlier in life ? This question Stacey read incorrectly and broke the time space continuum that stops the flow of the show for a solid 8 minutes.
Brian discusses the hidden dangers of grey meat. ( Related Topics...
2023-02-0753 minBroken Tiles"Stutz" SPECIAL REVIEW EPISODE - Getting Unstuck & Other ToolsSend us a textBrian & Stacey drop a special episode reviewing Jonah Hill's documentary "Stutz". Stutz's tools offer a solution to the biggest complaint patients have about therapy: the wait for change to begin. Netflix Summary : "In Stutz, Hill talks at length about how his therapist's ideas and teachings changed his life. The process wasn't linear and, Hill says, his work will never be over, but once he learned the Tools, he says he could finally enjoy, accept and confront anything that came at him in this life."
2022-12-1337 minBroken Tiles”Stutz” SPECIAL REVIEW EPISODE - Getting Unstuck & Other ToolsSend us a text
Brian & Stacey drop a special episode reviewing Jonah Hill's documentary "Stutz".
Stutz's tools offer a solution to the biggest complaint patients have about therapy: the wait for change to begin.
Netflix Summary :
"In Stutz, Hill talks at length about how his therapist's ideas and teachings changed his life. The process wasn't linear and, Hill says, his work will never be over, but once he learned the Tools, he says he could finally enjoy, accept and confront anything that came at him in this life."
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2022-12-1337 minBroken TilesFighting, The Book of Mormon, & Watching Movies NakedSend us a textBrian & Stacey work through a recent fight. Questions range from what main improvements they have made in the relationship over the years and what path they need to take to improve going forward. They review "Book of Mormon" eleven years late. Brian has a question that eliminates two southern states ...Musical Guests : Stick Figure, The Wrecks & A-Ha Support the show
2022-12-0545 minBroken TilesFighting, The Book of Mormon, & Watching Movies NakedSend us a text
Brian & Stacey work through a recent fight. Questions range from what main improvements they have made in the relationship over the years and what path they need to take to improve going forward.
They review "Book of Mormon" eleven years late.
Brian has a question that eliminates two southern states ...
Musical Guests : Stick Figure, The Wrecks & A-Ha
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2022-12-0545 minBroken Tiles"Finding Teddy Bear Squeeze" Working Through Conflict in RelationshipsSend us a textStacey & Brian are back and the questions range from how they work through conflict, special places they want to show each other and if they are actually comfortable talking to each other. Stacey talks survival of her first California Earthquake and the date challenge has Brian thinking he is going to use sidewalk chalk to graffiti their complexes parking lot. The Broken Tiles Review is "The Watcher" on Netflix. Musical guests include : Stick Figure, A-Ha, Big Joe Turner Support the show
2022-10-2655 minBroken Tiles”Finding Teddy Bear Squeeze” Working Through Conflict in RelationshipsSend us a text
Stacey & Brian are back and the questions range from how they work through conflict, special places they want to show each other and if they are actually comfortable talking to each other.
Stacey talks survival of her first California Earthquake and the date challenge has Brian thinking he is going to use sidewalk chalk to graffiti their complexes parking lot.
The Broken Tiles Review is "The Watcher" on Netflix.
Musical guests include : Stick Figure, A-Ha, Big Joe Turner
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2022-10-2655 minBroken Tiles"The Scumbag/MetroSexual Conundrum" Episode 11 : Tips on overcoming annoying habits in relationshipsSend us a textBrian & Stacey talk birthdays, fourteeners, gin rummy and the double edge sword that flying Frontier Airlines presents. The questions range from favorite memories of their relationship and Brian being overconfident on their wedding night and wanting to have six kids. They discuss the necessity of heartache to feel joy. Brian is proud that he found a super retro Pan Am commercial. The moment they felt closest to each other is very surprising to both. Stacey again assaults Brian's bad hygiene and he mounts his Horse of Stonewalling to...
2022-09-2455 minBroken Tiles”The Scumbag/MetroSexual Conundrum” Episode 11 : Tips on overcoming annoying habits in relationshipsSend us a text
Brian & Stacey talk birthdays, fourteeners, gin rummy and the double edge sword that flying Frontier Airlines presents.
The questions range from favorite memories of their relationship and Brian being overconfident on their wedding night and wanting to have six kids.
They discuss the necessity of heartache to feel joy. Brian is proud that he found a super retro Pan Am commercial. The moment they felt closest to each other is very surprising to both.
Stacey again assaults Brian's bad hygiene and he mounts his Horse of Stonewalling to...
2022-09-2455 minBroken Tiles"Shut Up & Do Some Laundry" Episode 10: Perspective on Avoiding a Break UpSend us a textQuestions range from what emotion Brian and Stacey would permanently get rid of, things that they would want the other to do more of and if they ever thought of leaving each other. The Broken Tiles Review: Game of Thrones "House of the Dragon" Musical Guests : A-Ha / Mac Miller & Post Malone Intelligent Change Intelligent Change creates products that help you realize your potential and live a happier life.Disclaimer: This post contains affiliate links. If you make a purchase, I may receive a commission at no...
2022-09-1755 minBroken Tiles”Shut Up & Do Some Laundry” Episode 10: Perspective on Avoiding a Break UpSend us a text
Questions range from what emotion Brian and Stacey would permanently get rid of, things that they would want the other to do more of and if they ever thought of leaving each other.
The Broken Tiles Review: Game of Thrones "House of the Dragon"
Musical Guests : A-Ha / Mac Miller & Post Malone
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2022-09-1755 minBroken Tiles”Four Horseman Walk into a Ninja Sex Party” Episode 9: How to Stay Emotionally Close In a RelationshipSend us a text
Brian and Stacey try to figure out what is going on with their Venezuelan audience... Questions range from first loves, what their next tattoos might be.
Analyzing dreams has Stacey being Aqua Woman and Brian in an alternate universe....
Other questions : Do we feel emotionally close ?
Broken Tile Reviews :
"Blackbird" on Apple TV
"Nine Perfect Strangers" on Hulu
Spotify Musical Guest : Nation Of Language
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2022-08-3152 minBroken Tiles"Four Horseman Walk into a Ninja Sex Party" Episode 9: How to Stay Emotionally Close In a RelationshipSend us a textBrian and Stacey try to figure out what is going on with their Venezuelan audience... Questions range from first loves, what their next tattoos might be. Analyzing dreams has Stacey being Aqua Woman and Brian in an alternate universe....Other questions : Do we feel emotionally close ? Broken Tile Reviews : "Blackbird" on Apple TV "Nine Perfect Strangers" on Hulu Spotify Musical Guest : Nation Of Language Support the show
2022-08-3152 minBroken Tiles”It’s the Circle of Life....or not.” Episode 8 : Why Feeling Appreciated MattersSend us a text
Lebron James makes a ton of money playing basketball and Stacey thinks that's insane...
Stacey has no memory of any of the questions she has asked in any of the podcasts and Brian keeps buying tickets for amazing events that they end up not going to or forgetting to go...
Questions range from how they make each other feel appreciated, what they do right in the relationship and are they even listening to each other when they are talking...
Brian & Stacey both share the hardest goodbye they've e...
2022-08-1951 minBroken Tiles"It's the Circle of Life....or not." Episode 8 : Why Feeling Appreciated MattersSend us a textLebron James makes a ton of money playing basketball and Stacey thinks that's insane... Stacey has no memory of any of the questions she has asked in any of the podcasts and Brian keeps buying tickets for amazing events that they end up not going to or forgetting to go...Questions range from how they make each other feel appreciated, what they do right in the relationship and are they even listening to each other when they are talking...Brian & Stacey both share the hardest goodbye they've e...
2022-08-1951 minBroken Tiles”You’re A Slow Processor....I’m Just Pissed” Episode 7: Giving Space During an ArgumentSend us a text
Brian & Stacey break down their trip to Florida..
The questions range from giving space when upset or talking it out, what the next chapter is in their relationship and what common values are shared.
The Spotify Blend game is interrupted....by the winner.
"Only Murders In the Building" is reviewed using the new "Tile" scale.
Brian's question has them both solving all the world's most pressing issues.
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2022-08-1149 minBroken Tiles"You're A Slow Processor....I'm Just Pissed" Episode 7: Giving Space During an ArgumentSend us a textBrian & Stacey break down their trip to Florida..The questions range from giving space when upset or talking it out, what the next chapter is in their relationship and what common values are shared. The Spotify Blend game is interrupted....by the winner. "Only Murders In the Building" is reviewed using the new "Tile" scale. Brian's question has them both solving all the world's most pressing issues. Support the show
2022-08-1149 minBroken TilesGolden Doodles are Terrible PodcastersSend us a text
Stacey & Brian literally sweat out an episode in hot & humid Florida while visiting the kids.
Questions range from what makes us feel loved, classes we would retake in high school and the craziest thing everyone did in their youth.
Brian confesses he started drinking and smoking at an absurdly young age.
Annoyingly , it turns out everyone on the planet has cheated except Stacey & Kenzi.
Someone in the family has arrested a serial killer and Brian thinks the killer is now listening in Folsom prison.
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2022-08-0347 minBroken TilesGolden Doodles are Terrible PodcastersSend us a textStacey & Brian literally sweat out an episode in hot & humid Florida while visiting the kids. Questions range from what makes us feel loved, classes we would retake in high school and the craziest thing everyone did in their youth.Brian confesses he started drinking and smoking at an absurdly young age. Annoyingly , it turns out everyone on the planet has cheated except Stacey & Kenzi. Someone in the family has arrested a serial killer and Brian thinks the killer is now listening in Folsom prison. ...
2022-08-0347 minBroken TilesSmack Dab in the Middle of 3 DudesSend us a textBrian & Stacey talk about the sad state of San Francisco, hidden restaurant gems in the Tenderloin. The game questions have them fantasizing about far away locations, favorite rituals and Stacey's adventures dating three guys in a 12 month period before giving Brian the final rose....Guests : Aynsley Upton ( Famous Denver Theatre chick AKA: youngest daughter ) is on shamelessly promoting her her new musical "Into The Woods" and also finds time to tell the whole world how broke her dad was. Support the show
2022-07-1949 minBroken TilesSmack Dab in the Middle of 3 DudesSend us a text
Brian & Stacey talk about the sad state of San Francisco, hidden restaurant gems in the Tenderloin. The game questions have them fantasizing about far away locations, favorite rituals and Stacey's adventures dating three guys in a 12 month period before giving Brian the final rose....
Guests : Aynsley Upton ( Famous Denver Theatre chick AKA: youngest daughter ) is on shamelessly promoting her her new musical "Into The Woods" and also finds time to tell the whole world how broke her dad was.
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2022-07-1949 minBroken TilesThe Big Energy EpisodeSend us a text
Brian & Stacey recap a spontaneous weekend in Vegas and drop their views in on the recent shootings.
Brian get's in deep trouble when he lands on the wrong song to start the Spotify game.
The "Let's Get Closer" questions range from what inspires them, why they are in each others lives to quirks that they love about each other. Fair Use Musical guests: a-ha, Michael Jackson, Latto, Charlie Cunningham and Morrissey and Azuki, their Shiba Inu, continues to disrupt the broadcast.
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2022-07-0751 minBroken TilesThe Big Energy EpisodeSend us a textBrian & Stacey recap a spontaneous weekend in Vegas and drop their views in on the recent shootings. Brian get's in deep trouble when he lands on the wrong song to start the Spotify game. The "Let's Get Closer" questions range from what inspires them, why they are in each others lives to quirks that they love about each other. Fair Use Musical guests: a-ha, Michael Jackson, Latto, Charlie Cunningham and Morrissey and Azuki, their Shiba Inu, continues to disrupt the broadcast. Support the show
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