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Coming Inside OUT: An LGBTQ podcast uplifting gay fathers, men, and those exploring their sexuality.Ep 15 - Gay Fathers - Mark Dembo interviewed by Rick Clemons - 40 Plus Gay Men, Gay Talk podcast.In this powerful episode of 40 Plus, Gay Men, Gay Talk Rick Clemons sits down with Mark Dembo to talk about coming out later in life, the messy beauty of self-discovery, and the liberating (and terrifying) freedom that comes with being unapologetically you. They cover: Guilt, anxiety, and codependence in late-life coming out Why authenticity is a leadership superpower Couples counseling, redefining relationships, and facing your truth Coaching vs. fixing: helping people find their own answers The reality of political “allies” who aren’t really allies at all Whether you’re on the brink of change or deep...2025-07-2239 min
Coming Inside OUT: An LGBTQ podcast uplifting gay fathers, men, and those exploring their sexuality.Ep 14 - Gay Fathers, Gay Parents - Happy Pride. Open Hearts, Open Relationships. Love Isn’t LinearIn this episode of the Coming Inside Out podcast, hosts Mark and Brian celebrate their 50th episode while reflecting on personal experiences and current events affecting the LGBTQ+ community. They discuss the significance of Pride Month, the importance of community support, and the complexities of navigating relationships, including open and polyamorous dynamics. The conversation emphasizes the need for vigilance in the face of adversity while also recognizing the beauty and joy in life. The episode concludes with a heartfelt discussion about healing relationships and the unexpected moments of connection that can arise. Coming inside OUT is a...2025-06-1044 min
Coming Inside OUT: An LGBTQ podcast uplifting gay fathers, men, and those exploring their sexuality.Ep 13 - Gay Fathers, Gay Parents - Celebrating Pride: Time for Reflection. LGBTQ Self Care & GrowthIn this episode of the Coming Inside Out Podcast, hosts Brian Janes and Mark Dembo discuss various themes surrounding Pride Month, including personal updates, reflections on safety at Pride events, the significance of coming out, and the current political climate affecting the LGBTQ+ community. They also explore the importance of self-reflection and healing journeys, sharing profound questions to ask oneself for personal growth. Coming inside OUT is a safe space where listeners can find solidarity, inspiration, and the courage to embrace their true selves. Whether you're a gay father, gay parent, a person exploring your identity, or...2025-06-0232 min
Coming Inside OUT: An LGBTQ podcast uplifting gay fathers, men, and those exploring their sexuality.Closeted Gay Fathers, Gay Dads, Gay Parents - Sharing our coming out journey and life in the closet.Coming inside OUT is a safe space where listeners can find solidarity, inspiration, and the courage to embrace their true selves. Whether you're a gay father, gay parent, a person exploring your identity, or an ally seeking to understand the experiences of the LGBTQ community, this podcast is for you. Tune in for heartfelt conversations, insight and a sense of belonging that we all crave. Join your hosts, Brian and Mark, as they candidly share their own journeys out of the closet while navigating the joys and challenges of parenthood as openly gay fathers. In each episode, 2025-05-2003 min
Coming Inside OUT: An LGBTQ podcast uplifting gay fathers, men, and those exploring their sexuality.Ep 12 - Gay Fathers, Gay Parents - Navigating Fatherhood and Gay Culture: An Emotional LGBTQ JourneyIn this episode of the Coming Inside Out podcast, hosts Mark and Brian share personal updates, including Mark's recent move and the emotional challenges that come with it. They discuss the complexities of coming out, financial struggles, and the importance of embracing change. The conversation shifts to listener questions about pride events and experiences in the gay community, revealing both the joys and challenges faced. They reflect on fatherhood, share songs that resonate with their coming out journeys, and celebrate the growth of their podcast and its impact on listeners. Coming inside OUT is a safe space...2025-05-0648 min
Coming Inside OUT: An LGBTQ podcast uplifting gay fathers, men, and those exploring their sexuality.Ep 11 - Gay Fathers, Gay Parents - From Silence to Strength: Coming Out Courageous and ResilientIn this episode of Coming Inside Out, hosts Brian and Mark welcome their first guest, Shaun Williams, who shares his powerful journey of coming out as a gay man after decades of living a different life. Shaun discusses the challenges he faced, including mental health struggles and the importance of seeking help. He emphasizes the significance of community and connection among men, particularly those who identify as LGBTQ+. The conversation highlights the need for safe spaces where individuals can express their feelings without judgment. Shaun's story serves as an inspiration for others navigating similar paths, showcasing the resilience and...2025-04-2958 min
Coming Inside OUT: An LGBTQ podcast uplifting gay fathers, men, and those exploring their sexuality.Ep 10 - Gay Fathers, Gay Parents - Past Relationships and Emotional Healing in the LGBTQ+ ExperienceIn this episode of the Coming Inside Out podcast, hosts Mark and Brian explore themes of gratitude, self-discovery, and the complexities of relationships within the LGBTQ+ community. They reflect on their personal journeys of coming out, the struggles of feeling stagnant in life, and the importance of self-love. The conversation delves into the dynamics of open relationships, the impact of past relationships, and the evolving norms of love and connection. Listeners are encouraged to engage with the community and share their experiences as the hosts prepare for future discussions.Coming inside OUT is a safe space where...2025-04-2245 min
Coming Inside OUT: An LGBTQ podcast uplifting gay fathers, men, and those exploring their sexuality.Ep 9 - Gay Fathers, Gay Parents - Loneliness, Connection, and Self-Discovery in the LGBTQ+ JourneyIn this episode, Brian Janes and Mark Dembo explore the complexities of life changes, loneliness in the gay community, and the challenges of meeting new people. They discuss the impact of dating apps, the pain associated with coming out, and the ongoing journey of self-discovery. The conversation highlights the importance of community support and the reflections on personal growth amidst the challenges of living authentically.Coming inside OUT is a safe space where listeners can find solidarity, inspiration, and the courage to embrace their true selves. Whether you're a gay father, gay parent, a person exploring your...2025-04-1442 min
Coming Inside OUT: An LGBTQ podcast uplifting gay fathers, men, and those exploring their sexuality.Ep. 8 - Gay Fathers, Gay Parents - Empowerment Through Coming Out and Navigating the LGBTQ Journey.In this episode of the Coming Inside Out podcast, hosts Mark and Brian discuss various themes surrounding the LGBTQ community, including the impact of their podcast, personal coming out experiences, and the importance of building community. They explore the representation of gay men in media, the political climate affecting LGBTQ rights, and the significance of authenticity in personal and professional lives. The conversation also touches on generational differences in coming out, the role of vulnerability, and the journey of self-discovery. Mark shares his experiences with a naked drawing meetup, emphasizing body positivity and self-acceptance. The episode concludes with a...2025-04-0842 min
Coming Inside OUT: An LGBTQ podcast uplifting gay fathers, men, and those exploring their sexuality.Ep 7 - Closeted Gay Fathers, Gay Parents - Embracing Vulnerability: The Power of Personal Stories.In this episode, hosts Brian and Mark discuss their personal journeys of coming out, the importance of community support, and the challenges faced by the LGBTQ+ community. They explore the significance of vulnerability, political diversity, and the need for authentic expression in leadership. The conversation also touches on the emotional complexities of navigating relationships and the journey of self-discovery. Listeners are encouraged to embrace their identities and support one another in their journeys. Mark Dembo: https://www.linkedin.com/pulse/from-suppressing-leading-journey-wholeness-mark-dembo-1ewke/?trackingId=Ep9IQtrESfOGGXesF67TdA%3D%3D Jim Fielding: https://jimsfieldnotes.beehiiv.com/p...2025-04-0149 min
Coming Inside OUT: An LGBTQ podcast uplifting gay fathers, men, and those exploring their sexuality.Ep 6 - Gay Fathers & Parents - Navigating LGBTQ Rights in Today's Politics. Joy in a Divisive WorldIn this episode, Brian and Mark discuss the importance of love and acceptance in the LGBTQ community amidst a divisive political climate. They explore the challenges faced by LGBTQ individuals, particularly in relation to the Republican party and its stance on LGBTQ rights. The conversation touches on the distractions created by culture wars, the impact of misinformation, and the importance of finding joy and support within the community. They also share personal anecdotes and insights on navigating these complex issues while maintaining a positive outlook. Coming Inside OUT is a safe space where listeners can find solidarity...2025-03-2738 min
Coming Inside OUT: An LGBTQ podcast uplifting gay fathers, men, and those exploring their sexuality.Ep 5 - Gay Fathers, Gay Dads, Gay Parents - Guest co-host Mark Dembo. Living Authentically LGBTQ+In this episode, Brian and Mark discuss the journey of coming out as gay men, the challenges they faced, and the importance of living authentically. They share their experiences with therapy, support groups, and the emotional rollercoaster that often accompanies the process of coming out. The conversation emphasizes the significance of community, self-acceptance, and the ongoing journey of personal growth and empowerment. Coming Inside OUT is a safe space where listeners can find solidarity, inspiration, and the courage to embrace their true selves. Whether you're a gay father, gay parent, a person exploring your identity, or an...2025-03-2339 min
Coming Inside OUT: An LGBTQ podcast uplifting gay fathers, men, and those exploring their sexuality.Ep 5 - Gay Fathers, Gay Dads, Gay Parents - The Power of Listener Stories and Support LGBTQ peopleIn this episode, host Brian Janes reflects on personal struggles and the importance of community support during challenging times. He shares heartfelt emails from listeners, discussing their journeys of coming out and the complexities of navigating relationships and self-identity. The conversation emphasizes the significance of sharing experiences and supporting one another within the LGBTQ community, especially during difficult periods. Coming Inside OUT is a safe space where listeners can find solidarity, inspiration, and the courage to embrace their true selves. Whether you're a gay father, gay parent, a person exploring your identity, or an ally seeking to...2025-02-0409 min
Coming Inside OUT: An LGBTQ podcast uplifting gay fathers, men, and those exploring their sexuality.Ep 4 - Gay Fathers, Gay Dads, Gay Parents - Navigating the Journey of Coming Out. LGBTQ+ CommunityIn this episode, Brian reflects on the evolution of his podcast, the importance of community connections, and the current state of diversity, equity, and inclusion within the LGBTQ community. He shares personal experiences and insights on consumer choices that impact the community, encouraging listeners to engage and share their own journeys. Coming Inside OUT is a safe space where listeners can find solidarity, inspiration, and the courage to embrace their true selves. Whether you're a gay father, gay parent, a person exploring your identity, or an ally seeking to understand the experiences of the LGBTQ community, this...2025-01-2811 min
Coming Inside OUT: An LGBTQ podcast uplifting gay fathers, men, and those exploring their sexuality.Ep 3 - Gay Fathers, Gay Dads, Gay Parents - Navigating the Journey of Coming Out.In this episode, Brian discusses the challenges of recording solo, the impact of wildfires in Southern California, and shares personal reflections on his coming out journey. He emphasizes the importance of support networks for LGBTQ individuals and highlights listener stories that resonate with the themes of self-acceptance and community. Brian also mentions the upcoming podcast-a-thon and the Trevor Project, encouraging listeners to engage with supportive organizations.Coming Inside OUT is a safe space where listeners can find solidarity, inspiration, and the courage to embrace their true selves. Whether you're a gay father, gay parent, a person exploring...2025-01-2108 min
Coming Inside OUT: An LGBTQ podcast uplifting gay fathers, men, and those exploring their sexuality.Ep 2 - Gay Fathers, Gay Dads, Gay Parents - Sharing our coming out journey Complexity & IntimacyIn this episode, Brian and John discuss the challenges faced by gay men during the holidays, the complexities of intimacy beyond sexual encounters, and the importance of caution in online dating. They delve into the dangers of sharing personal information on dating apps, explore new social media platforms like Blue Sky, and reflect on the impact of political climates on mental health within the LGBTQ community. The conversation also touches on feelings of loneliness, the struggles of coming out, and the rejection faced by individuals from their religious communities. Finally, they highlight resources available for the LGBTQ community, including...2025-01-1441 min
Coming Inside OUT: An LGBTQ podcast uplifting gay fathers, men, and those exploring their sexuality.Kicking Off Season Two: Gay Father, Gay Parent, Gay Men - A New Beginning. Coming Out of the ClosetIn this episode, Brian and John kick off Season Two of their podcast with reflections on their journey, family interactions during the holidays, and the importance of coming out conversations. They discuss personal growth, navigating relationships, and the exploration of polyamory. The episode culminates in a humorous recounting of a 'Naked Game Night' experience, emphasizing themes of self-acceptance and openness. Transgender Suicide Hotline (877) 565-8860Coming Inside OUT is a safe space where listeners can find solidarity, inspiration, and the courage to embrace their true selves. Whether you're a gay father, a person exploring your identity, or an...2025-01-0738 min
Coming Inside OUT: An LGBTQ podcast uplifting gay fathers, men, and those exploring their sexuality.Ep. #35 - Gay Fathers, Reflections on 2024. Navigating the Journey of Gay Self-AcceptanceIn this final episode of 2024, hosts John Duerler and Brian Janes reflect on their podcasting journey, discuss personal growth and New Year's resolutions, and navigate the complexities of coming out and relationships. They share insights on loss, acceptance, and the importance of authenticity while also addressing the challenges faced by LGBTQ individuals. The conversation emphasizes the significance of self-kindness, connection, and the power of positive thinking. Agapelive.com / 369project.comComing Inside OUT is a safe space where listeners can find solidarity, inspiration, and the courage to embrace their true selves. Whether you're a gay father, a...2024-12-3142 min
Coming Inside OUT: An LGBTQ podcast uplifting gay fathers, men, and those exploring their sexuality.Ep. #34 - Gay Fathers - Christmas Reflections. Coming Out Stories and Listener SupportIn this engaging conversation, Brian and John reflect on their favorite Christmas memories, share personal stories about coming out and navigating relationships, and discuss their experiences in the real estate market. They also address listener letters, offer support for friends going through transitions, and announce their participation in a charity podcast. The episode concludes with heartfelt holiday wishes and encouragement for listeners to reach out to loved ones during the festive season. HOW-support.orgComing Inside OUT is a safe space where listeners can find solidarity, inspiration, and the courage to embrace their true selves. Whether you're...2024-12-2441 min
Coming Inside OUT: An LGBTQ podcast uplifting gay fathers, men, and those exploring their sexuality.Ep. #33 - Gay Fathers, Finding Light in the Darkness: A Journey of Self-Discovery LGBTQ +In this episode, Brian and John discuss various themes surrounding the LGBTQ+ community, including the importance of support and connection, the power of affirmations, personal struggles in real estate, and the significance of intimacy in relationships. They also touch on mental health, particularly during the holiday season, and the journey of emerging from dark times to find purpose and empathy for others. Coming Inside OUT is a safe space where listeners can find solidarity, inspiration, and the courage to embrace their true selves. Whether you're a gay father, a person exploring your identity, or an ally seeking...2024-12-1742 min
Coming Inside OUT: An LGBTQ podcast uplifting gay fathers, men, and those exploring their sexuality.Ep.#32 -Gay Fathers; Thanksgiving Reflection: Acceptance, Family Dynamic, Embracing Change & FreedomIn this conversation, Brian and John reflect on their Thanksgiving experiences, discussing themes of family acceptance, the journey of coming out, and the complexities of relationships. They share personal anecdotes about their families, the challenges of maintaining friendships post-coming out, and the importance of self-acceptance. The discussion also touches on the dynamics of community, sexuality, and the evolving nature of relationships as they navigate their identities. Coming Inside OUT is a safe space where listeners can find solidarity, inspiration, and the courage to embrace their true selves. Whether you're a gay father, a person exploring your identity...2024-12-1040 min
Coming Inside OUT: An LGBTQ podcast uplifting gay fathers, men, and those exploring their sexuality.Ep. #31 - Gay Fathers - Coming Out: A Journey of Healing. Breaking Myths: The Truth About Being GayIn this episode, Brian and John engage in a candid conversation about their experiences as gay men, touching on themes of personal trauma, the importance of coming out, and the misconceptions surrounding the LGBTQ community. They share personal stories of abuse and healing, discuss generational differences in attitudes towards sexuality, and debunk common myths about being gay. The conversation also highlights the significance of representation in sports and media, and the use of humor as a coping mechanism. The episode concludes with trivia and light-hearted banter, emphasizing the importance of community and support. Coming Inside OUT is...2024-12-0333 min
Coming Inside OUT: An LGBTQ podcast uplifting gay fathers, men, and those exploring their sexuality.Ep. #30 - Gay Father, Gay Parent, Gay Men - A New Beginning. Coming Out of the Closet. LGBTQIn this engaging conversation, Brian and John explore various themes surrounding family dynamics, acceptance, and personal growth within the LGBTQ community. They share personal stories about their relationships with their children, the importance of self-expression, and the challenges of navigating divorce. The discussion also touches on health and safety in sexual encounters, community engagement, and the significance of compassion during the holiday season. Through humor and heartfelt reflections, they emphasize the importance of love, acceptance, and understanding in all aspects of life. Coming Inside OUT is a safe space where listeners can find solidarity, inspiration, and the...2024-11-2641 min
Coming Inside OUT: An LGBTQ podcast uplifting gay fathers, men, and those exploring their sexuality.Ep #29 - Gay Fathers, Navigating Love in the LGBTQ+ Community. The Dynamics of Dating and HookupsIn this episode of 'Coming Inside Out', hosts John Duerler and Brian Janes explore various themes surrounding the LGBTQ+ community, particularly focusing on dating and hookup culture. They share personal anecdotes, discuss the dynamics of sexual preferences, and delve into the importance of safety when meeting new partners. The conversation also touches on the significance of owning one's identity, the experience of prostate health, and the humorous yet serious aspects of navigating dating apps. The episode concludes with a light-hearted list of things to do before you die as a gay man, emphasizing the diversity and richness of experiences...2024-11-1945 min
Coming Inside OUT: An LGBTQ podcast uplifting gay fathers, men, and those exploring their sexuality.Ep #28 - Gay Fathers, Celebrating Pride: A Journey of Self-Discovery. Power of the LGBTQ CommunityIn this episode, John and Brian discuss their experiences at Pride, reflecting on personal growth, identity, and the importance of community support. They share emotional moments from the parade, the liberating feeling of being oneself, and the significance of vulnerability in friendships. The conversation also touches on listener engagement and the journey of coming out, emphasizing the need for support and connection within the LGBTQ community.Coming Inside OUT is a safe space where listeners can find solidarity, inspiration, and the courage to embrace their true selves. Whether you're a gay father, a person exploring your identity...2024-11-1239 min
Coming Inside OUT: An LGBTQ podcast uplifting gay fathers, men, and those exploring their sexuality.Ep. #27 - Gay Fathers - Sports, Pride, Connection and LGBTQ + Spaces. The Trevor ProjectIn this episode of 'Coming Inside Out', hosts Brian and John engage in a lively conversation that spans various topics, including their experiences watching sports in LGBTQ+ spaces, the importance of community resources for both youth and older adults, and the ongoing challenges of coming out. They also delve into trivia about LGBTQ+ history and culture, share personal anecdotes, and discuss upcoming events, all while maintaining a humorous and relatable tone.Coming Inside OUT is a safe space where listeners can find solidarity, inspiration, and the courage to embrace their true selves. Whether you're a gay father...2024-11-0540 min
Coming Inside OUT: An LGBTQ podcast uplifting gay fathers, men, and those exploring their sexuality.Ep. #26 Gay Fathers - Social Dynamics as a Gay Man. Our Barricades and Our Authenticity. Will and HarperIn this episode, Brian and John explore various themes surrounding coming out, LGBTQ+ identity, and the importance of community and acceptance. They discuss the significance of Movember in raising awareness for men's health issues, reflect on the Netflix film 'Will and Harper', and share personal experiences of fear, shame, and the joy of being seen as their true selves. The conversation emphasizes the need for empathy and understanding within the LGBTQ+ community and the importance of being truthful about one's identity. Coming Inside OUT is a safe space where listeners can find solidarity, inspiration, and the courage...2024-10-2936 min
Coming Inside OUT: An LGBTQ podcast uplifting gay fathers, men, and those exploring their sexuality.Ep. #25 - Gay Fathers - Global Fight for LGBTQ Rights. Fun with LGBTQ Trivia and HistoryIn this episode, Brian and John discuss various topics related to LGBTQ awareness, health, and rights. They promote pride events and Movember, emphasizing the importance of men's health. The conversation shifts to the necessity of honest health discussions, particularly regarding sexual health and preventive measures. They also touch on the global challenges faced by the LGBTQ community, including criminalization in many countries. The hosts explore the dynamics of open relationships within the gay community and engage in trivia about LGBTQ history and rights. The episode concludes with political commentary and humorous insights into social issues. Coming inside...2024-10-2238 min
Coming Inside OUT: An LGBTQ podcast uplifting gay fathers, men, and those exploring their sexuality.Ep.#24 Gay Fathers - Building Relationships Beyond Hookups. Importance of Community in LGBTQ LivesIn this episode of 'Come In Inside Out', hosts Brian and John discuss various themes surrounding the LGBTQ community, including the importance of community engagement, health awareness initiatives like Movember, and the challenges faced by LGBTQ individuals today. They share personal stories, listener feedback, and insights on navigating relationships and family dynamics while coming out. The conversation also touches on the political landscape affecting LGBTQ rights and the importance of supporting one another in both personal and professional realms.Coming inside OUT is an LGBTQ Podcast. Calling all Gay fathers. Gay dads. Gay men. This is a...2024-10-1535 min
Coming Inside OUT: An LGBTQ podcast uplifting gay fathers, men, and those exploring their sexuality.Ep. #23 - National Coming Out Day - Touching coming out story. Gay Fathers, Gay Parents, Gay MenIn this heartfelt conversation, Brian and John celebrate National Coming Out Day with their guest Debbie, who shares the touching story of her son Cody's coming out experience. The discussion explores the challenges and triumphs of coming out, the importance of parental support, and the role of community in fostering acceptance. Debbie reflects on her initial reactions, the dynamics within her family, and offers valuable advice to parents and children navigating similar journeys. The episode emphasizes love, acceptance, and the courage it takes to be true to oneself.Coming inside OUT is an LGBTQ Podcast. Calling all...2024-10-1133 min
Coming Inside OUT: An LGBTQ podcast uplifting gay fathers, men, and those exploring their sexuality.Ep #22 - Gay Fathers - Building Community: Finding Your Tribe. Rejection from ChildrenIn this episode, John and Brian discuss various topics relevant to the LGBTQ community, including upcoming Pride events, Movember, and National Coming Out Day. They share personal reflections on coming out, listener letters addressing rejection from children, and the importance of building community and support. The conversation is filled with humor, personal anecdotes, and insights into the challenges faced by gay fathers and individuals navigating their identities. Join your hosts,Brian and John, as they candidly share their own journeys out of the closet while navigating the joys and challenges of parenthood as openly gay fathers. In...2024-10-0835 min
Coming Inside OUT: An LGBTQ podcast uplifting gay fathers, men, and those exploring their sexuality.Ep. 21 - Gay Fathers, Gay Parenting in the LGBTQ+ Community. The Power of Community and Acceptance.In this episode, Brian and John discuss the upcoming Palm Springs Pride 2024 (come march with us), reflecting on their experiences as gay fathers and the importance of community. They delve into the complexities of coming out later in life, the significance of acceptance, and the challenges faced by individuals in the LGBTQ+ community. The conversation also touches on personal stories of parenting, navigating identity and having no regrets of not coming out sooner. Coming inside OUT is an LGBTQ Podcast. Calling all Gay fathers. Gay dads. Gay men. This is a gay fathers journey out of the...2024-10-0136 min
Coming Inside OUT: An LGBTQ podcast uplifting gay fathers, men, and those exploring their sexuality.Ep.20 - Saugatuck Gay Fathers Retreat. The Power of Connection and Support. Humor and Heart in Gay FatherhoodIn this episode of Coming Inside Out, hosts Brian and John discuss their experiences at the Gay Fathers Worldwide retreat, reflecting on the connections made and the impact of their podcast. They explore the importance of community support for gay fathers, share personal stories about coming out, and emphasize the love and acceptance found within their community. The conversation highlights the challenges and triumphs of navigating identity and relationships in the LGBTQ+ space.Coming inside OUT is an LGBTQ Podcast. Calling all Gay fathers. Gay dads. Gay men. This is a gay fathers journey out...2024-09-2434 min
Coming Inside OUT: An LGBTQ podcast uplifting gay fathers, men, and those exploring their sexuality.Ep. 19 - Gay Fathers - The Impact of Bad Therapy. The Journey of Coming Out of the ClosetIn this episode of Coming Inside Out, hosts Brian and John discuss their experiences as gay men who came out later in life. They read listener letters that touch on the challenges of finding the right therapist, the struggles of coming out, and the complexities of divorce. The conversation emphasizes the importance of community support, personal growth, and creative expression, while also sharing lighthearted anecdotes and reflections on their podcast journey. Coming inside OUT is an LGBTQ Podcast. Calling all Gay fathers. Gay dads. Gay men. This is a gay fathers journey out of the closet. We...2024-09-1732 min
Coming Inside OUT: An LGBTQ podcast uplifting gay fathers, men, and those exploring their sexuality.Ep. 18 - Gay Fathers - Receiving Gifts and Expressing Gratitude. Sharing our Coming Out Journey'sIn this conversation, Brian and John discuss various topics including their recent podcast appearances, receiving gifts from listeners, the feedback they've received, coming out stories, the challenges of being accepted by religious communities, and the importance of being receptive to receiving. They express gratitude for the support they've received and the opportunity to help others through their podcast. Coming inside OUT is an LGBTQ Podcast. Calling all Gay fathers. Gay dads. Gay men. This is a gay fathers journey out of the closet. We will explore our personal coming out journeys. We will interview fellow gay fathers...2024-09-1030 min
Coming Inside OUT: An LGBTQ podcast uplifting gay fathers, men, and those exploring their sexuality.Ep. #17 - Brian appears as guest on - Out Late With David podcast and shares his coming out journeyAs a guest on Out late With David #18 - Brian Janes shares coming out after 26 years of marriage, now finding his place in his new community.Summary: Brian Janes, a successful real estate broker, came out as gay at age 50 after 26 years of marriage. He loved being married and had a strong connection with his wife, but deep down, he had a sexual desire that didn't match up with her. After years of therapy and self-help, his wife eventually told him she wanted a divorce. Brian knew he was gay from a young age but...2024-09-0330 min
Coming Inside OUT: An LGBTQ podcast uplifting gay fathers, men, and those exploring their sexuality.Ep. 16 - Gay Fathers - Navigating the Divorce Process as a Gay Father Dealing with Grief and Loss.In this conversation, Jim Kennedy shares his experiences as a gay father and the challenges he faced during his coming out journey and divorce. He emphasizes the importance of finding support and community, as well as seeking professional help during difficult times. Jim also discusses the process of divorce and the emotional impact it had on him. He shares his thoughts on dating and relationships after coming out, including the need for a period of time before introducing a new partner to his children. In this conversation, Jim and Brian discuss their experiences with divorce and the challenges they...2024-08-2737 min
Coming Inside OUT: An LGBTQ podcast uplifting gay fathers, men, and those exploring their sexuality.Ep. #15 - Gay Fathers - Rebuilding Life After Loss. The Challenges of Coming Out for Gay DadsIn this episode of 'Coming Inside Out', hosts John Duerler and Brian Janes share their personal journeys of coming out as gay, the impact of divorce on their identities, and the challenges of navigating family dynamics post-separation. They discuss the emotional turmoil of losing a spouse and the struggle to rebuild their lives while seeking new relationships. The conversation also touches on the loneliness often felt within the LGBTQ+ community and the importance of intimacy and connection in new relationships. The hosts emphasize the need for planning when coming out and the significance of self-discovery and personal growth in...2024-08-2042 min
Coming Inside OUT: An LGBTQ podcast uplifting gay fathers, men, and those exploring their sexuality.Ep. #14 - Gay Fathers - The Power of Listener Engagement. Creating a Safe Space for LGBTQ+ VoicesIn this episode, Brian and John discuss their experiences as gay fathers, the importance of listener engagement, and the vulnerability involved in sharing personal stories. They reflect on the impact of their podcast on listeners, particularly those who are navigating their own coming out journeys. The conversation highlights the joy and connection found within the LGBTQ+ community, as well as the ongoing process of identity and acceptance. Coming inside OUT is an LGBTQ Podcast. Calling all Gay fathers. Gay dads. Gay men. This is a gay fathers journey out of the closet. We will explore our personal...2024-08-1335 min
Coming Inside OUT: An LGBTQ podcast uplifting gay fathers, men, and those exploring their sexuality.Ep. #13 - Gay Fathers - Being True to Oneself. Dealing with Guilt and Shame assoc. with Coming OutIn this conversation, Brian and John discuss their upcoming guest therapist and encourage listeners to send in questions. They also talk about a Facebook group for gay fathers and the support they find there. Brian shares his experience of coming out and the guilt and shame he felt for cheating on his wife. They discuss the fear of rejection from loved ones and the financial challenges of divorce. They emphasize the importance of being true to oneself and finding support during the coming out process. Coming inside OUT is an LGBTQ Podcast. Calling all Gay fathers. Gay...2024-08-0632 min
Coming Inside OUT: An LGBTQ podcast uplifting gay fathers, men, and those exploring their sexuality.Ep. #12 - Gay Fathers - Ralf Schumacher's Coming Out. Political Humor. Transgender EqualityIn this episode of 'Coming Inside Out', hosts Brian and John engage in a lively discussion that covers a range of topics including listener feedback, the importance of therapy, political commentary surrounding the recent Republican National Convention, personal coming out stories, and the significance of support within the LGBTQ+ community. They also celebrate LGBTQ+ figures who have come out, discuss the reclamation of language within the community, and emphasize the importance of empathy and understanding. The episode concludes with a promise of future guests and continued discussions. Coming inside OUT is an LGBTQ Podcast. Calling all Gay...2024-07-3035 min
Coming Inside OUT: An LGBTQ podcast uplifting gay fathers, men, and those exploring their sexuality.Ep. #11 - Gay Fathers - Identity, Mental Health, and Personal Experiences as Gay Men Coming OutIn this episode, hosts John Duerler and Brian Janes discuss various themes surrounding identity, mental health, and personal experiences as gay men. They share stories about identity theft, the importance of mental health awareness, and the impact of personal relationships. The conversation also touches on self-expression, body image, and the significance of compliments in social interactions. The episode concludes with book recommendations and a reminder to be cautious about personal information. Coming inside OUT is an LGBTQ Podcast. Calling all Gay fathers. Gay dads. Gay men. This is a gay fathers journey out of the closet. We...2024-07-2341 min
Coming Inside OUT: An LGBTQ podcast uplifting gay fathers, men, and those exploring their sexuality.Gay fathers. Gay Dads. Gay men. Our journeys out of the closet as divorced gay dads.John has something to share. Want to find out what it is? Full episodes available with new shows every Tuesday. Coming inside OUT with Brian Janes and John Duerler #gay #lgbt #lgbtq #pride #gayman #gaypride #love #gaymen #gayguy #loveislove #gaylife #lesbian #queer #gaylove #follow #trans #gaybear #men #transgender #gayworld #gaycouple #gayfathers #gaydad #comingout2024-07-2300 min
Coming Inside OUT: An LGBTQ podcast uplifting gay fathers, men, and those exploring their sexuality.Ep. #10 - Gay Fathers - Loneliness and Connection. Reflections on Community: The Velvet Rage bookIn this episode of 'Coming Inside Out', hosts Brian and John share a humorous yet serious conversation about a recent spider bite incident that led to a hospital visit. They discuss themes of loneliness, empowerment, and authenticity, drawing from listener emails and personal experiences. The conversation also touches on the book 'The Velvet Rage', exploring the 3 stages gay men go through as outlined in the book by Alam Downs, Ph.D. The hosts reflect on their Fourth of July experiences and the importance of community, while also teasing upcoming guests for future episodes. Coming inside OUT is...2024-07-1633 min
Coming Inside OUT: An LGBTQ podcast uplifting gay fathers, men, and those exploring their sexuality.Ep. #9 - Gay Fathers - Understanding PrEP and DoxyPEP. Responsible Sexual Practices and HealthIn this engaging conversation, hosts Brian and John discuss various aspects of sexual health, coming out, and the dynamics of relationships within the LGBTQ community. They emphasize the importance of regular health checkups, understanding medications like PrEP and DoxyPEP, and the responsibility that comes with sexual activity. The discussion also touches on the challenges of coming out, parenting, and the nuances of dating in the gay community, all while maintaining a light-hearted and humorous tone. Coming inside OUT is an LGBTQ Podcast. Calling all Gay fathers. Gay dads. Gay men. This is a gay fathers journey out...2024-07-0934 min
Coming Inside OUT: An LGBTQ podcast uplifting gay fathers, men, and those exploring their sexuality.Ep. #8 - Gay Fathers - The Courage to Come Out. Dating in the LGBTQ+ World In this episode, Brian and John discuss their recent travels, personal experiences with coming out, and the challenges of navigating depression and loneliness. They explore the dynamics of dating in the LGBTQ+ community, the importance of support systems, and the role of spirituality in their lives. The conversation highlights cultural shifts within the LGBTQ+ community, emphasizing the growing acceptance and visibility of gay men in various aspects of life. Coming inside OUT is an LGBTQ Podcast. Calling all Gay fathers. Gay dads. Gay men. This is a gay fathers journey out of the closet. We will explore...2024-07-0236 min
Coming Inside OUT: An LGBTQ podcast uplifting gay fathers, men, and those exploring their sexuality.Ep. #7 - Gay Fathers - Pride Month Celebrations. Exploring Intimacy in LGBTQ+ Relationships after Coming OutIn this episode, hosts Brian and John celebrate Pride Month by sharing their personal experiences at the WeHo Pride parade and discussing the importance of community support for LGBTQ+ individuals. They engage with listener feedback, particularly from a young lesbian, and reflect on their own coming out journeys, emphasizing acceptance and love from friends and family. The conversation also touches on intimacy, relationships, and the evolving nature of gay culture, with a focus on the importance of self-love and support within the community. They conclude by discussing future guests and the desire to hear more diverse stories from the...2024-06-2533 min
Coming Inside OUT: An LGBTQ podcast uplifting gay fathers, men, and those exploring their sexuality.Ep. #6 - Gay Fathers - Navigating Religion and Identity. Building Community as Out Gay DadsIn this episode, Brian and John discuss their experiences with coming out, the challenges faced within religious contexts, and the importance of mental health. They share personal stories about acceptance, family dynamics, and the evolution of their relationships since coming out. The conversation highlights the significance of community support and the ongoing journey of self-acceptance. Coming inside OUT is an LGBTQ Podcast. Calling all Gay fathers. Gay dads. Gay men. This is a gay fathers journey out of the closet. We will explore our personal coming out journeys. We will interview fellow gay fathers / dads and hear...2024-06-1835 min
Coming Inside OUT: An LGBTQ podcast uplifting gay fathers, men, and those exploring their sexuality.Ep. #5 - Gay Fathers - Mental Health, Overcoming Despair, Suicide, Our Personal Journeys OutIn this episode of 'Coming Inside Out', hosts Brian and John engage with their listeners, sharing heartfelt stories and feedback that highlight the struggles and triumphs of coming out and self-acceptance. They discuss the significance of Pride Month, the impact of mental health on their lives, and the importance of fatherhood and relationships. The conversation emphasizes the need for support within the LGBTQ community and the journey towards finding purpose and connection in life. Coming inside OUT is an LGBTQ Podcast. Calling all Gay fathers. Gay dads. Gay men. This is a gay fathers journey out of...2024-06-1132 min
Coming Inside OUT: An LGBTQ podcast uplifting gay fathers, men, and those exploring their sexuality.Ep. #4 - Pride 2024 - Gay Fathers - The Journey of Self-Discovery. Navigating Life After Coming OutIn this episode of Coming Inside Out, hosts John Duerler and Brian Janes share their personal journeys of coming out as gay after long marriages to women. They discuss the challenges and triumphs of navigating their identities, relationships, and family dynamics in a changing world. The conversation touches on the significance of Pride Month, experiences at Pride events, and the evolving acceptance of LGBTQ+ individuals in society. They also reflect on their military service and the impact of coming out on their personal and professional lives, emphasizing the importance of self-acceptance and the ongoing journey of discovering one's true...2024-06-0635 min
Coming Inside OUT: An LGBTQ podcast uplifting gay fathers, men, and those exploring their sexuality.Ep. #3 - Gay Fathers Embracing Your True Self. The Courage to Come Out and Be YourselfIn this episode of 'Coming Inside Out', hosts Brian and John delve into the complexities of coming out as gay fathers, focusing on themes of shame, embarrassment, and the impact on family dynamics. They share personal stories about their experiences, the reactions of their children, and the support systems that helped them navigate their journeys. The conversation also touches on the societal pressures and religious influences that can complicate the coming out process, ultimately emphasizing the importance of self-acceptance and community support. Coming inside OUT is an LGBTQ Podcast. Calling all Gay fathers. Gay dads. Gay men...2024-06-0232 min
Coming Inside OUT: An LGBTQ podcast uplifting gay fathers, men, and those exploring their sexuality.Ep. #2 - Gay Fathers - Love is Love: Embracing Our Truths. The Role of Community in Coming OutIn this episode of Coming Inside Out, hosts Brian and John share their personal stories of coming out as gay fathers later in life. They discuss the challenges and triumphs of navigating family dynamics, particularly with their children, and emphasize the importance of open communication and acceptance. The conversation also touches on the impact of societal changes on the LGBTQ+ community and the significance of community support for those still in the closet. Through humor and honesty, they aim to break the cycle of shame and foster a more accepting environment for future generations. Coming inside OUT...2024-05-2442 min
Coming Inside OUT: An LGBTQ podcast uplifting gay fathers, men, and those exploring their sexuality.Ep. #1 - Gay Fathers - Coming Out: A Personal Journey. Finding Strength in VulnerabilityIn this episode of 'Coming Inside Out', hosts Brian and John delve into their personal journeys of coming out as gay fathers. They discuss the challenges they faced, including bullying, self-harm, and the importance of support within the LGBT community. The conversation highlights the healing process, empowerment through reflection, and the significance of sharing their stories to help others. They also touch on the topic of coming out to their children and the resources available for those navigating similar experiences. Coming inside OUT is an LGBTQ Podcast. Calling all Gay fathers. Gay dads. Gay men. This is...2024-05-2426 min
Coming Inside OUT: An LGBTQ podcast uplifting gay fathers, men, and those exploring their sexuality.Coming inside OUT - TrailerBrian Janes talks about coming out as gay after being married to a women and raising a family. 2024-05-2324 min