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Let's Talk About MoneyLet's Talk About Bankruptcy and Reframing "Failure" with Erica RankinIn this episode, I sit down with Erica Rankin to talk about the highs and lows of entrepreneurship, personal branding, and the power of embracing failure. Erica shares her journey from working a traditional job to launching Brodo, a protein-packed cookie dough brand that took off on social media—only to face the harsh realities of business challenges, the COVID-19 pandemic, and ultimately, bankruptcy.But her story didn’t end there. Erica opens up about how this experience became a catalyst for self-discovery, leading her to a new path as a content creator and podcast host. We dive...
2025-04-0527 min
Let's Talk About MoneyLet's Talk About Bankruptcy and Reframing "Failure" with Erica RankinIn this episode, I sit down with Erica Rankin to talk about the highs and lows of entrepreneurship, personal branding, and the power of embracing failure. Erica shares her journey from working a traditional job to launching Brodo, a protein-packed cookie dough brand that took off on social media—only to face the harsh realities of business challenges, the COVID-19 pandemic, and ultimately, bankruptcy.But her story didn’t end there. Erica opens up about how this experience became a catalyst for self-discovery, leading her to a new path as a content creator and podcast host. We dive...
2025-02-2627 min
Dallas, Texas: What’s Good? Lessons from your Local Entrepreneurs and Small Business OwnersTransformative Business Ventures with Hyacinth Tucker and Ericka McKimIn this What's Good Podcast episode, host Brianna Jovahn introduces Hyacinth Tucker, owner of The Laundry Basket LLC, and Erica McKim, founder of And I Like It. Hyacinth discusses her mobile laundry and dry cleaning delivery business, inspired by a friend's overwhelming chore. Ericka shares her journey of creating a low-carb bakery after health issues led her to explore gluten- and sugar-free baking. Both entrepreneurs highlight their involvement with the Veterans Women Enterprise Center and emphasize the importance of community and resources for business success. The episode concludes with advice on balancing business tasks and leveraging networking opportunities.
2024-09-1110 min
Gray Area Stories28. Getting Uncomfortable with Anna AkanaErica and Johanna lay down on the floor with content creator Anna Akana to discuss changing the narrative of sexual violence and allyship. How do we approach a world without rape culture? By holding each other accountable - which is uncomfortable work! Lean into the discomfort with us! [Content Warning]: This is a podcast where survivors share stories of sexual assault, sexual violence, and r*pe. Follow @annaakana on Instagram Follow us @grayareastories and visit www.grayareastories.com Hosted by Johanna Middleton and Erica M. Hart Edited by Sa...
2022-12-0851 minGray Area Stories27. The Profundity of Pleasure with EbonyJanice MooreErica and Johanna are joined by special guest EbonyJanice for a party of passion and pleasure. From using vibrators that suck (in a good way!) to feeling all of our feelings, how do we connect to our embodied sensuality after sexual trauma? EbonyJanice discusses strategies for loving ourselves out of shame. [Content Warning]: This is a podcast where survivors share stories of sexual assault, sexual violence, and r*pe. EbonyJanice is a hip hop womanist, scholar, and a black girl dream expert. Follow EbonyJanice at @ebonyjanice on Instagram Follow us @grayareastories and...
2022-11-1051 min
Gray Area Stories24. Joy Episode with Nailah Middleton-Haynes aka Nailah Hunter Join us for our first ever Joy Episode - a series of episodes all about cultivating joy! Erica and Johanna sit down with a super special guest, Johanna’s sister and all-around magical human, Nailah Middleton-Haynes aka Nailah Hunter!!! Nailah takes us through her joyful morning - dropping into a flow state while practicing music and choosing stillness. Nailah Hunter is an experimental sound artist from Los Angeles. She combines harp, synth, found sounds, and voice to create reflective sonic landscapes. Follow @nailah.hunter on Instagram for more information. Follow us @gray...
2022-02-2433 minGray Area Stories23. Finding the Right Words with Vilna BashiThis week Johanna and Erica welcome survivor guest Vilna Bashi to share her stories. They discuss the inadequate, or, as Vilna puts it, the “horrible and stupid-ass” terms used to describe acts of sexual violence. Later, Vilna helps us dive into visioning a world where all people can walk safely and proudly, with their chests held high. Join us by dunking your feet in some water while we honor Vilna’s story. [Content Warning]: This is a podcast where survivors share stories of sexual assault, sexual violence, and r*pe. Survivor Vilna Bashi is (in no parti...
2022-02-1038 min
Gray Area Stories22. Listener Story: Michelle's StoryErica and Johanna reflect on a listener-submitted story from Michelle, leading to a very “gray area” conversation. This week’s Blanket Burrito is any small object you can fiddle with in your hands. ! So grab something petite and prepare for dialogue about reporting sexual assault and also reacting to an extraterrestrial if they moved in next door. [Content Warning]: This is a podcast where survivors share stories of sexual assault, sexual violence, and r*pe. Follow us @grayareastories and visit www.grayareastories.com Created and hosted by Johanna Middleton and Erica M. Hart Edited...
2021-12-1626 min
Bougie BanterGreasy Bitch!Brianna and Erica discuss the final episodes of Married At First Sight Houston. WOW...there were a few shockers that these two weren’t expecting. Tune in to hear all the tea and what a greasy bitch is!
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Gray Area Stories21. Your Truth is Still Your Truth with Candace Nicholas-LippmanErica and Johanna are pleased to welcome survivor guest Candace Nicholas-Lippman. Light a strawberry shortcake-scented candle and join us as we witness Candace’s truth and discuss the magical qualities of journaling. [Content Warning]: This is a podcast where survivors share stories of sexual assault, sexual violence, and r*pe. Survivor Candace Nicholas-Lippman is an artist, actress, and spoken-word poet. She stars as Janelle in the STARZ series Blindspotting. She is the author of the three-part series Purpose in Poetry and the creator of the one-woman show A Rose Called Candace. Follow Candace at @candace.nicho...
2021-12-0229 min
Bougie BanterThe Great Debate: Do you make the plate?To make the plate or not...that is the question! Brianna and Erica discuss this very topic. B & E want to hear from you...hit them up on IG [@bougiebanter] and let them know your take on it.
Also in this episode, the pair discuss dreams and those that confuse us for reality. And lastly, you'll get a peek into Brianna's dark humor when annoying noises interrupt podcast recording!
2021-11-1953 min
Gray Area Stories20. Welcome to Season 2 (We Have Seasons Now!)At long last, Johanna and Erica are back, and this time, there’s SEASONS! Join them as they remember the summer (all things Travis Barker) and introduce the upcoming JOY SERIES (as well as introducing Johanna's NEW DOG!!!!) Welcome to Season 2, friends! Follow us @grayareastories and visit www.grayareastories.com Hosted by Johanna Middleton and Erica M. Hart Edited by Erica M. Hart Theme Song by Nailah Hunter Show logo by Brianna Guerra
2021-11-1829 minBougie BanterExcuse Me, Mr. OfficerWelcome back! In this episode, Brianna & Erica are catching up on life. While Brianna discusses the Covid vaccine experience for her little one, Erica shares a colorful story of what happened in a beauty salon parking lot and how that ended up with a visit from a handsome police officer! Tune in for all of the details!
2021-11-1236 minBougie BanterBut, I’m WiseBrianna & Erica provide a brief update on the sad state of the world, a Spanky update that might leave your jaw on the floor and revisit Dave Chappelle’s The Closer for part two of their previous discussion.
2021-11-0557 minBougie BanterCan the horse take it?Brianna & Erica recap the recent episodes of Married at First Sight: Houston, sans any lusting (on Brianna’s part anyway).
2021-10-291h 29Bougie BanterRelax, Watch Some Porn!Welcome Back! In this week's episode, Brianna & Erica chat about dentist visits, a special little girl's birthday celebration at the spa, the new Dave Chappelle special, and yes....PORN.
Tune in to hear all the craziness!!
2021-10-221h 05Bougie BanterSpanky’s Back!Brianna's baby girl has informed her mother of what she wishes to do for her birthday. Brianna shares their plans with us. That's one special little girl!
It's been a long time coming....Erica gives us a Spanky update. This update includes a flash from the past!
Tune in for all the fun!
2021-10-1551 minBougie BanterDandelion FluffsHappy Fall, Y'all!
Brianna's favorite season is here! Fall is such a beautiful season; however, there is one thing that can make fall challenging....dandelion fluffs. Of course these two chicks aren't 100% certain of it's name, but these fluffs come up several times in this episode!
Erica is recalling a horrible concert she attended plus Brianna seems to have a hard time controlling her belches.
They are a hot mess...tune in to hear all the giggles!
2021-10-0850 minBougie BanterTo Pay Or Not To PayTo pay or not to pay....that is the question in this episode of Bougie Banter.
Brianna and Erica first discuss participating in fund raisers and who may have a heart to participate and who may not. Next up, would you be offended if you received an invoice from newlyweds for NOT attending their wedding AFTER you RSVP'd YES? Please see link below for full story that B & E are discussing. The two wrap up with a discussion on rebooting tv shows and movies. Good idea or nah?
Link to story regarding newl...
2021-10-0152 minBougie BanterYou’re a RacistBrianna & Erica give non-Lifetime and non-Bravo sponsored recaps of the MAFS Houston season thus far and Below Deck Mediterranean in the way only they can!
2021-09-2456 minBougie BanterRest!It's been busy since Brianna and Erica last chatted. As they discuss what's been going on in their lives, one thing is very apparent. They both need to REST! The two discuss the importance of needing to rest and not feeling like a failure at life when they do. Erica needs to get over her FOMO and learn how to say 'No'. She's been living her best life with some of her crazy church members! Tune in to hear about all the fun!
**Erica got her Covid test result...it was NEGATIVE!**
2021-09-1730 minBougie BanterEarth Is GhettoPeople.....Earth is so ghetto right now! Please see link below for Brianna's new theme song!
School is back in session and Brianna is discussing the adventures with her baby girl's new teacher. In addition to what seems to be an on-going discussion on Covid, B & E are discussing Haiti and Afghanistan. We need a breakthrough!
*Spoiler Alert* The episode lightens up and the two have a lively chat about the new season of Married At First Sight.
B's new theme song: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vr2xMRSObto
#prayersforHAITI
2021-08-231h 01Bougie BanterLong SighThis whole episode is full of long sighs….literally and figuratively! Brianna & Erica discuss Covid, the Cuomo brothers, and PPE protests and the impacts these topics have on our lives. Take a long sigh and tune in for the discussion. #maskup #HappyBirthdayKayla
2021-08-1639 minBougie BanterLawd Have Mercy!In this episode, Erica recalls a weekend full of debacles. It starts with a ghetto fashion show and ends in the church bathroom. Tune in to hear about the madness! “Tall, thin, curvy, short – whatever you are, you are beautiful.” ~ Demi Lovato
2021-08-0927 minBougie BanterBut, Really, Put Your Mask On!So much to cover, so little time! First & most importantly….PLEASE MASK UP! Covid cases are on the rise and it seems as though we may be headed for a rough patch. Let’s all do our part! This episode of Bougie Banter is packed full of goodness! Brianna & Erica are discussing the Olympics, politics, & reality TV. What a combo! Please be safe, people…and wear your masks!
2021-08-0251 minBougie BanterIt’s Our Anniversary!!Erica is singing: "It's our anniversary!" That's right!!! The Bougie Banter Podcast is officially 1 year old!!! Brianna & Erica would like to thank you all for your love and support! It means the world to them! Bonus: Some lucky listeners should be on the lookout for a special 'thank you' token!
B & E took a mini summer break and are back like they never left! In this episode, there are discussions of concerts, space, and a tissue crumble that sounds similar to running water! Tune in to hear the latest of the B & E adventures!
2021-07-2644 minBougie BanterChristmas in JulyWell helllloooo BB fam & fans!! Here’s a little gift for you all as Brianna & Erica enjoy their last week of summer break. Stay tuned for new content next week!
2021-07-1939 minBougie BanterSummer Break VibesHey BB fans and fam!! We are taking a short summer break this week, but never fear…we’ve left you with a “rerun” of one of our fan favorites. Enjoy and try not to miss us too much!
2021-07-1243 minBougie BanterMicro P vs. Little DIn this episode of Bougie Banter, Brianna & Erica discuss Bill Cosby’s release from prison and the aftermath of the announcement. Then the conversation turns to micro P’s and little D’s. What is that, you say? You’ll have to tune in to find out!
2021-07-0548 minBougie BanterJust Let Us Be GreatThe sky is falling…
Brianna & Erica discuss the Derek Chauvin sentencing, the COVID Delta variant, returning to the workplace, and the Miami condo collapse! What is REALLY going on???? #notwinning
*Our thoughts and prayers are with all of the victims and families of those impacted by the Miami condo building collapse. We also want to thank all of the first responders and volunteers for their rescue efforts!*
Last, but certainly not least....We would like to wish our BRIANNA a very HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!!! We love you!!!
2021-06-2843 minBougie BanterSpanky Updates Galore!!Happy Juneteenth! Happy Emancipation Day!
In this episode, Brianna gets a taste of St. Louis and Erica has a couple of Spanky updates!!! This one includes women's hips, thirsty pics, and murses!
Side note: What is the proper pronunciation of 'Quesadilla'? Brianna and Erica sound it out!
2021-06-2149 minBougie BanterMAFS Atlanta Final ThoughtsWe’ve made it to the end of Married At First Sight Atlanta! Brianna & Erica have plenty of opinions on the results of Decision Day and the reunion show. Tune in to hear their final thoughts!!
2021-06-1456 minBougie BanterLive Your Best Life! Who Cares What The Haters Say?!Bonnets, toe sex, dirty old men, and lemon chicken caesar salad….what a combination! Brianna & Erica cover all of these topics in their usual crazy & nutty style! Head over to BB IG: @BougieBanter and give your opinions on these topics.
2021-06-0847 minBougie BanterGive Them An Inch, They Stick A ToeBrianna & Erica are sipping the tea that is RHOA’s Porsha Williams and her recent announcement. Their conversation takes an interesting turn to toes and an activity that can be performed with them!
2021-05-3141 minBougie BanterA Spotty SituationBrianna & Erica are BACK! The ladies took a mini-break to deal with life and be with family. Tune in for the latest & greatest. And check out the Bougie Banter IG for the visual of a spotty situation! IG: @bougiebanter
2021-05-2443 min
Sisters in Loss Podcast: Miscarriage, Pregnancy Loss, & Infertility StoriesBONUS Episode - COVID Vaccine with our partners Ava WomenToday's episode is a Bonus Episode where we discuss the COVID Vaccine in detail with our sponsor Ava Women. We discuss with Brianna Goodale, PhD scientist and Managing Director of AVA-COVID. In this episode we share: Guidelines and recommendations for COVID-19 vaccinations for pregnant birthing people and those Trying to Conceive How the COVID-19 Vaccine works Existing data on how each vaccine has affected pregnant birthing people, their babies, and those TTC COVID-19 vaccination while pregnant, breastfeeding, and antibodies affect baby How black people and people of color being affected by COVID-19 and the vaccination efficacy O...
2021-05-0744 minBougie BanterBBG 3: What About Your Friends?🎶Grocery shopping adventures and the BBG series finale!! What a combo!!
Welcome back for the final installment of the BBG series! B & E are talking about friends in this episode [singing: "What about your friends"]. They discuss stories of bad friendships and even share some of their own wrong-doings.
But first, you will learn more than you probably wanted to know about the proper line up of your groceries on the conveyor belt! Tune in and listen to these crazy ladies!
2021-05-0357 minBougie BanterThe BBG Series Part 2: Cheating & CommunicationIt's Part 2 of the Bad, Bad, Good series. In this episode, Brianna & Erica discuss two major topics that contribute to bad relationships/friendships. Cheating and Poor Communication. B & E also discuss benefits of therapy. It's nothing to be ashamed of! If you feel like you want/need to talk with someone....PLEASE DO! Below is one resource for finding a therapist:
Therapy For Black Girls: https://therapyforblackgirls.com/
2021-04-261h 11
Gray Area Stories19. Listener Story: Tara's StoryWith tears and laughter, Joh and Erica discuss grief and the loss of a dear friend as well as the excitement of an upcoming wedding! This week’s listener submission story comes from Tara who says “when thinking about what story to share, my first thought was ‘which one should I share?’” Tara’s story reflects the healing aspect of sharing your story in a safe container to a trusted person when you’re ready. [Content Warning]: This is a podcast where survivors share stories of sexual assault, sexual violence, and r*pe. This episode includes additional discussion around grief and deat...
2021-04-2217 minBougie BanterJust Give Her The D!We interrupt your regularly scheduled programming to bring you breaking news! Brianna & Erica have received their second COVID shots!! That's right, the ladies are fully vaccinated! You already know there is humor involved and it includes fruit baskets and humming strangers!
B & E also discuss the latest Married At First Sight drama. *SPOILER ALERT* If you are not caught up, please be warned that this episode is full of spoilers!
Last, but certainly not least, Erica has a Spanky update! This one left Brianna speechless (that NEVER happens)!! Please tune in and enjoy this bonus sized e...
2021-04-191h 39
The Erica Diamond PodcastBrianna Greenspan: How Creating a Morning Routine Can Change Your Whole LifeEpisode Summary Welcome back to Season 3 of The Erica Diamond Podcast! Today's topic is something so close to my heart. It's very close to my expertise too which makes it a sure slam dunk! We are going to start feeling better after listening to today's interview my friends! We are changing our lives, starting today! We're talking morning routines and the power of mindset! In This Episode Take me back to the beginning. To understand where you are today is go back to your childhood. You lived with an invisible chronic...
2021-04-1939 minBougie BanterBad, Bad, Good Series: Bad RelationshipsIn this first episode of the Bad, Bad, Good Series, Brianna & Erica discuss bad relationships. First item up for discussion: How do you define a bad relationship? Tune in for their thoughts. **If you or someone you know is a victim of domestic violence, please contact the National Domestic Violence Hotline: https://www.thehotline.org or call 1.800.799.SAFE (7233)**
2021-04-1243 minBougie BanterDisappointment After DisappointmentDamn right we’re disappointed! Brianna and Erica break down the latest dramas on Married At First Sight.
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Gray Area Stories18. Why Are We Doing This?This week, Johanna and Erica reflect on their motivation to do this work and their strategically joy-filled process of collectively visioning a future beyond r*pe culture. Join them as they explore how we can mine the expertise of our own stories for healing wisdom and as they investigate the cat call in the time of Covid. [Content Warning]: This is a podcast where survivors share stories of sexual assault, sexual violence, and r*pe. Follow us @grayareastories and visit www.grayareastories.com Hosted by Johanna Middleton and Erica M. Hart Edited by E...
2021-03-2526 minBougie BanterHey, We Need That Hour Back!!Stop messing with the clocks!! It’s making people crazier!!
2021-03-2224 minBougie BanterGreetings, From Across The PondCheerio and the happiest of birthday wishes to our dear, dear Erica!! **SPOILER ALERTS** If you have not watched Oprah’s interview with Harry & Meghan OR Bridgerton, proceed with caution. 😉
2021-03-1555 min
Gray Area Stories17. KPFA International Women's Day Special: Restorative Justice and Releasing ResponsibilityTune in for this bonus episode which first aired on KPFA as part of the KPFA International Women's Day programming. Join us as Johanna shares her saga of waiting for a new vibrator to be delivered and Erica shares her joy in getting in touch with her body. This episode contains our interview with Kyra Jones from Episode 6. [Content Warning]: This is a podcast where survivors share stories of sexual assault, sexual violence, and r*pe. In this episode, Kyra’s story includes instances of r*pe as well as mentions of harm done to additional survivors. In...
2021-03-1157 minBougie BanterPardon The InterruptionErica and her damn home phone! It is always interrupting things!!! Does anyone even still have a home phone?!!!! Despite the interruption, Brianna and Erica have a great girlfriend chat life, food, and sex toys! Tune in for more detail!
2021-03-0826 minBougie BanterSLAP!SLAP = Sounds Like A Plan! The weather is warming up in ATL which has given Brianna & Erica a fresh outlook for the spring season! This discussion may have veered left a bit to a brief chat about erotic massages. You’ll have to tune in to find out! SLAP!!
2021-03-0131 minBougie BanterBouncy Catfish BabiesBrianna & Erica discuss everything from Mardi Gras to Shewees to bear attacks and more...come along for the ride!!
2021-02-2234 minBougie BanterThe Toxicity! The Audacity!!SPOILER ALERT!! Brianna & Erica discuss the newest MAFS season taking place in Atl. Pastor Cal has got some splaining to do because the audacity of the new MAFS cast is appalling!!!
2021-02-1544 minBougie BanterSuper Bowl...Take TwoAfter our fair share of technical difficulties...Brianna & Erica are back to discuss the Super Bowl and all it left to be desired.
2021-02-1213 minBougie BanterSpanky Update-Pink Fuzzy SlippersIt's about that time y'all, time for a Spanky update. Erica has another online dating adventure to share. Like the others, this one does not disappoint (and YES, pink fuzzy slippers play a role)! Plus, Brianna and Erica share a dating update from a fellow listener and Bougie Banter fan!
2021-02-0142 minBougie BanterA Mild RobberyBrianna & Erica discuss their holiday experiences and how unique they were due to the pandemic. One member of the Bougie Banter family even had an interesting encounter...aka a Mild Robbery...with Geoffrey. Tune in to learn who Geoffrey is and what the hell happened. Then head over to our IG (@BougieBanter) to see some holiday pics!
Please check out @jcholdingthecam and support this amazing artist! Thanks again for the new theme music!!
Bougie Banter is screaming: "HAPPY BIRTHDAY, MAY!" We pray that this is a year full of blessings for you! We love you!!
2021-01-2539 minBougie BanterThe Inauguration SpecialPlease enjoy this BONUS episode as Brianna & Erica discuss the Inauguration of President Joe Biden and Vice President Kamala Harris!
Special shout out to Amanda Gorman, the poet laureate! She rocked it! #blackgirlmagic
If you would like to read the transcript of her poem, 'The Hill We Climb', please click on this link:
https://www.cnn.com/2021/01/20/politics/amanda-gorman-inaugural-poem-transcript/index.html
2021-01-2453 min
Gray Area Stories16. Sharing Our Survivor Story with Desdemona DallasJohanna and Erica are back in 2021 and thrilled to welcome survivor Desdemona Dallas. Sip on some tea while listening to Dallas’ journey of recognizing their trauma and reclaiming their survivor story. [Content Warning]: This is a podcast where survivors share stories of sexual assault, sexual violence, and r*pe. Dallas details how returning to the place where harm was done was the turning point in identifying the trauma they experienced. This turning point was the start of Dallas’ healing journey and their long effort to advocate for themselves and advocate for their case within the NYPD. According to Da...
2021-01-2150 minBougie BanterWell Hellooo & Welcome to Season 2Well Hellooo 2021 & WELCOME to SEASON 2 of Bougie Banter! We’ve been waiting for you! HOLD UP...the start of the new year has not been as joyous as we’d hoped. There has already been a boatload of shit happening and Brianna & Erica are hyped up and ready to discuss!
*A mention of Black Seed and options for mucus control take place in this episode. Please check out the below for more information
Black Seed: https://www.webmd.com/vitamins/ai/ingredientmono-901/black-seed
Soursop: https://www.webmd.com/food-recipes/health-benefits-soursop#1
Sea Moss: ...
2021-01-1829 min
Gray Area Stories15. Goodbye 2020!This week, Johanna and Erica reflect on what they’ve learned about themselves and this podcast in 2020, while looking ahead to continued co-creation of this healing space with you (our listeners!) in 2021. Please visit the website to find our end-of-year survey and share how you’ve felt while listening to Gray Area Stories. We value your ideas and your stories! Happy New Year, listeners, and see you in 2021! [Content Warning]: This is a podcast where survivors share stories of sexual assault, sexual violence, and r*pe. Follow us @grayareastories and visit www.grayareastories.com Hosted by Jo...
2020-12-3123 minBougie Banter2020 Wrap Up2020....what a year! Join Brianna and Erica as they go through a timeline of events of this crazy year! Timeline source: https://www.onthisday.com/date/2020 **COVID Vaccine** Brianna and Erica chat about the newly released COVID vaccines. They both have expressed hesitation about taking the vaccine. One of Bougie Banter's biggest fans Kayla, shared a source which discusses the vaccine and vaccine hesitancy, especially in communities of color. Please check out doctor.darien on IG for more information. Specifically, his December 6, 2020 discussion with Jessica Malaty Rivera, a Science Communication Lead for @covidtrackingproject Thanks for this great information, Kayla!!
2020-12-281h 18Bougie BanterReality TV Recaps & ReviewsAn in-depth look back at the recent seasons of Married at First Sight and RHOP....and the debauchery
2020-12-2159 min
Gray Area Stories14. Listener Story: Carissa's StoryJoin Erica and Johanna for this week’s listener story, coming in from Carissa of Los Angeles, CA. Carissa says, “Sharing this story is difficult and so is liberation.” E & J also discuss their experiences in their bodies during this tumultuous 2020 including Erica’s experience with pregnancy loss. [Content Warning]: This is a podcast where survivors share stories of sexual assault, sexual violence, and r*pe. This episode includes additional discussion around pregnancy loss and eating disorder recovery. Follow us @grayareastories and visit www.grayareastories.com Hosted by Johanna Middleton and Erica M. Hart Edited...
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Gray Area Stories13. Survivor Self-Defense with Nicole SnellThis week E+J sit down with Nicole Snell to talk about her experience with street harassment and her journey becoming a self-defense instructor and skilled solo adventurer. [Content Warning]: This is a podcast where survivors share stories of sexual assault, sexual violence, and r*pe. Nik describes starting on her journey of self-defense after play-wrestling with a partner and realizing when pinned to the floor, she wouldn’t know how to keep herself safe if it were real. That realization led her to immersion in self-defense. Nik also shares her love of the outdoors and how empo...
2020-12-0350 minBougie BanterTis The SeasonThe holiday season is here! Bougie Banter would love to hear all of your favorite holiday memories, stories, and/or recipes! Hit us up on IG: @bougiebanter or email us: bougiebanter@gmail.com We plan to share some of your memories on the podcast! Brianna and Erica are also chatting about Patti Pies and Stacey Abrams. Come on in and join us!
2020-11-3041 minBougie BanterGe*GeBougie Banter tries to be as transparent as possible. For this reason, Brianna and Erica wanted to share an update. There has been a great loss to the Bougie Banter family. Please tune in for the update about a beautiful soul. #GeGe #BeautifulSoul #NumberOneFan
2020-11-3019 minBougie BanterGolden SlugsWhat in the hell are golden slugs??? Erica answers this question as she gives an update on her online dating journey. And of course Brianna comes through with her colorful commentary! Buckle up and join them for another adventure in the online dating chronicles!
2020-11-2351 min
Gray Area Stories12. Saying ‘Enough’ with Aaron RicciardiJoin Erica and Johanna in discussion this week with survivor Aaron Ricciardi who shares his survivor story in the form of a crown of sonnets detailing the many years of abuse he survived at the hands of his drama teacher. Aaron speaks on the power of being ruthlessly honest, naming his abuser, and saying ‘Enough!’ As a male survivor, Aaron sheds light on how boys and men are at risk for abuse and assault. [Content Warning]: This is a podcast where survivors share stories of sexual assault, sexual violence, and r*pe. In this episode, Aaron’s story includes pedophi...
2020-11-1951 minBougie BanterElection Results...kindaThe 2020 Presidential Election... We showed up, we voted, the ballots have been counted (at least once), and the damn thing still ain’t over! Brianna & Erica discuss all of the shenanigans surrounding the election. For those Bougie Banter fans who live in states where there will be special elections, WE STILL HAVE WORK TO DO! Please remember to vote!
2020-11-1629 min
Charla con amigxsTercera temporadaCharla con Brianna CallumKarina Costa Ferreyra, escritora argentina también conocida por su seudónimo, Brianna Callum, nació el 20 de marzo de 1975 en Capital Federal. Desde el año 2006 reside en Capilla del monte, Córdoba, Argentina. Es autora de relatos y de novelas románticas: contemporáneas e históricas.
Con relatos de su autoría, resultó entre los ganadores en certámenes de Literatura tanto en Argentina como en España. Se desempeñó como jurado en diferentes concursos literarios. Participó en varias antologías.
En 2017, su novela "Huellas en el alma" ganó el Fondo incentivo a la Actividad Edito...
2020-11-151h 35
Gray Area Stories11. How Has R*pe Culture Affected Your Understanding of RomanceThis week Johanna and Erica check-in around the topic of r*pe culture and its effect on their understanding of romantic relationships. E+J find they have very opposite early understandings of romance and dating but unite in the fact that r*pe culture has affected these views, with neither approach being immune from or victorious against the patriarchy. [Content Warning]: This is a podcast where survivors share stories of sexual assault, sexual violence, and r*pe. Follow us @grayareastories and visit www.grayareastories.com Hosted by Johanna Middleton and Erica M. Hart E...
2020-11-0526 minBougie BanterShits & GigglesBrianna & Erica LITERALLY have a banter session about farts & shitting. And then LITERALLY giggle their way through the whole conversation! Tune in for the madness!!
2020-11-0230 minBougie BanterCelebrating in the Age of CoronaIt’s Fall, y’all! Brianna & Erica talk about their celebratory plans for the Fall season. Like what is a Golden Birthday? And what does that have to do with ‘The Twelve Days of Christmas’ song? Tune in to find out!
2020-10-2627 min
Gray Area Stories10. Listener Story: Abi's StoryThis week’s listener story comes from Abi from Tucson, AZ who shared her very poignant observations on intergenerational trauma and boundary setting. [Content Warning]: This is a podcast where survivors share stories of sexual assault, sexual violence, and r*pe. In this episode, Abi’s story includes instances of partner assault. The story is told between the 6 minute and 8 minute mark but is referred back to throughout the episode. Follow us @grayareastories and visit www.grayareastories.com Hosted by Johanna Middleton and Erica M. Hart Edited by Erica M. Hart Them...
2020-10-2221 minBougie BanterOne Nation Under FraudBrianna & Erica discuss the injustices surrounding the Breonna Taylor case. They also get into some of the shenanigans going on in the White House. #pineapples
2020-10-1222 min
Gray Area Stories9. The BREATHE Method with Malika WilliamsJohanna and Erica are joined by Malika Williams who shares her story of a harrowing ride with a tow-truck driver and takes listeners through the BREATHE method, a helpful framework for processing trauma. [Content Warning]: This is a podcast where survivors share stories of sexual assault, sexual violence, and r*pe. According to Malika, she created the BREATHE method to be a “series of steps for processing microaggressions, ‘Me Too’ moments, and misunderstandings--when something happens to you that’s out of your control and you need to figure out how to deal with it. Instead of suppressing whatever e...
2020-10-0849 minBougie BanterGet Your Flu ShotIt’s flu season! Brianna & Erica discuss the flu shot: to get one or not to get one. Plus B & E recall a medical emergency that turned into a shit show! Tune in now to hear all about it.
2020-10-0532 minBougie BanterMindlessness, or Whatever They SaidBrianna & Erica discuss ways they escape the intensity of the pandemic. In true Bougie Banter fashion, there are plenty of laughs along the way!
2020-09-2825 min
Gray Area Stories8. Why Is It Our “Job” to Prevent R*pe? with Natalie LimaThis week E+J sit down with Natalie Lima as they discuss the many “jobs” it feels young girls are assigned in an effort to keep themselves safe. [Content Warning]: This is a podcast where survivors share stories of sexual assault, sexual violence, and r*pe. In this episode, Natalie’s story includes instances of sexual manipulation and coercion as well as mentions of rape. The stories are told between the 18 minute and 34 minute mark but are referred back to throughout the episode. Natalie talks through her childhood and teen years in her creative nonfiction essays, which dive int...
2020-09-2449 minBougie BanterHot TopicsRest In Peace, Mr. Chadwick Boseman! Brianna & Erica chat it up about a few current events...from their perspectives. Even macaroni & cheese gets a deep dive in this episode!
2020-09-2221 minBougie BanterListener LoveWe LOVE, LOVE, LOVE our listeners! In this episode, Brianna & Erica discuss some stories and feedback received from the listeners. If you thought Erica had an ordeal with Spanky & Spanky 3.0, you ain’t heard nothing yet!
2020-09-2222 minBougie BanterThe Struggle Is RealIt’s was a rough day full bloopers and blunders for Brianna & Erica. Congestion, throat burps, and choking. B & E are full of giggles talking about bodily issues during a recent taping of Bougie Banter! PLUS Brianna experiences a MAJOR technical issue with her precious pre-production notes!
2020-09-1424 min
Gray Area Stories7. Restorative Justice and Releasing Responsibility with Kyra JonesJohanna and Erica snack on some fruit while speaking with survivor Kyra Jones who shares her experience participating in a restorative justice process with Malcolm London, the man who r*ped her. Kyra takes us through her contrasting experiences following reporting sexual assault -- one in the carceral system and one a restorative justice process --and how she's practicing releasing responsibility. [Content Warning]: This is a podcast where survivors share stories of sexual assault, sexual violence, and r*pe. In this episode, Kyra’s story includes instances of r*pe as well as mentions of harm done to additional su...
2020-09-101h 12Bougie BanterVirtual NightmaresIn our BEST Madonna 'Material Girl' singing voices: WE ARE LIVING, IN A VIRTUAL WORLD!
Brianna & Erica discuss their experiences living in the virtual new normal. Plus, Erica gives an update on Spanky 3.0 and BONUS....Brianna's hubby has some words of advice for Erica!
2020-09-0745 min
Gray Area Stories6. When Did You First Consider Yourself a Survivor?Check in with Johanna and Erica as they discuss their own journey of identifying as survivors of sexual assault. Hear from J+E about their fears (cockroaches and big ocean waves), and Johanna’s new post-it note slogan “I’m doing it afraid.” And hear the brand new Gray Area Stories theme song by Nailah Hunter! [Content Warning]: This is a podcast where survivors share stories of sexual assault, sexual violence, and r*pe. Follow us @grayareastories and visit www.grayareastories.com Hosted by Johanna Middleton and Erica M. Hart Edited by Erica M. Hart
2020-09-0328 min
Gray Area Stories5. Listener Story: Marissa's StoryThis week's listener story comes from Marissa who describes how a sign in a bathroom stall impacted her experience with assault. [Content Warning]: This is a podcast where survivors share stories of sexual assault, sexual violence, and r*pe. In this episode, Marissa's story includes sexual assault at a party. The story is told between the 2 minute and 4 minute mark but is referred back to throughout the episode. Follow us @grayareastories and visit www.grayareastories.com Hosted by Johanna Middleton and Erica M. Hart Edited by Erica M. Hart Theme Song by...
2020-09-0109 minBougie BanterGood TroubleBrianna & Erica take a moment to reflect on our beloved civil rights leaders who have handed the baton to the next generation. What are we going to do with it? Let’s get into some Good Trouble!
2020-08-3132 min
Gray Area StoriesKnowing Your Truth with Rebecca Ume CrookLight a crackling wood wicked candle and join Erica and Johanna in conversation with guest Rebecca Ume Crook, joining all the way from Nairobi, Kenya. [Content Warning]: This is a podcast where survivors share stories of sexual assault, sexual violence, and r*pe. In this episode, Rebecca's story includes partner r*pe and other acts of sexual assault. The story is told between the 15 minute and 22 minute mark but is referred back to throughout the episode.] Rebecca describes her journey of knowing her own truth--from feeling pride in the creation of her photography work to...
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Gray Area StoriesSurprising Vulnerability with Katie O'BrienThis week Erica and Joh speak with Katie O'Brien as she shares her survivor story and her journey to becoming more vulnerable. After a suggestion from her therapist, Katie challenged herself to be more honest when expressing her emotions, combatting the shame she felt when being vulnerable. Katie speaks to the surprising friendships and opportunities she's experienced since becoming more vulnerable. And how she's learned to listen to her inner "ping." [Content Warning]: This is a podcast where survivors share stories of sexual assault, sexual violence, and r*pe. In this episode, Katie's story includes a man ex...
2020-08-2046 minBougie BanterHome Sweet HomeErica travels home to see her family amidst the pandemic. Tune in to hear how this lovely trip turned dramatic...all because of a cell phone!
2020-08-1728 min
Gray Area StoriesRadical Acceptance with Yasi AkerJoin Johanna and Erica in conversation with Yasi Aker as she shares how radical acceptance and feeling her feelings has shaped her survivor journey. After a nervous breakdown years ago, Yasi went on a journey--a trip to the Vatican, getting baptized, an Ayahuasca ceremony, becoming a Buddhist--and she describes this as a journey "back to health rather than healing." [Content Warning]: This is a podcast where survivors share stories of sexual assault, sexual violence, and r*pe. In this episode, Yasi's story includes sexual abuse as a child, r*pe in teenaged years, and drug-facilitated r*pe. T...
2020-08-1349 minBougie BanterWork Your Shit Out!!Life in general can be challenging. But life during a pandemic has been next level! Get a mental health check-up and work your shit out! Bougie Banter supports you!!
2020-08-1125 min
Gray Area StoriesWhat is the Gray Area?Erica and Johanna check-in around their definitions of the "gray area" and their goals for the podcast moving forward. [Content Warning]: This is a podcast where survivors share stories of sexual assault, sexual violence, and r*pe. Follow us @grayareastories and visit www.grayareastories.com Hosted by Johanna Middleton and Erica M. Hart Edited by Erica M. Hart Theme Song by Nailah Hunter Show logo by Brianna Guerra
2020-08-0614 min
Bougie BanterDumpster Fire*TRIGGER WARNING* This episode includes conversation around sensitive topics including pedophilia, rape, and sexual assault. We stand with the victims and survivors!
The United States is a dumpster fire!We’ve got some serious issues in the world, people! #speakout #speakup
For more information and support, contact RAINN:
The National Sexual Assault Hotline 1.800.656.4673
https://hotline.rainn.org/online
2020-08-0424 min
Bougie BanterSpanky 3.0Erica continues her online dating journey. She’s met a man who is looking for his wife! Is he too good to be true? Tune in to find out!
2020-07-2727 min
2020-07-2141 min
Bougie BanterBlack Lives MatterBlack Lives Matter!! #BlackLivesMatter #NoJusticeNoPeace #JusticeforBreonnaTaylor #JusticeforGeorgeFloyd
Brianna & Erica discuss the social injustices facing black people in America and the current BLM movement from their unique perspectives.
2020-07-2127 min
Bougie Banter'Corn-tine' ChroniclesLife in quarantine is hard enough without your added foolishness, but at least it gives us something to laugh about.
2020-07-2136 min
Rumble StripSix Parents. Six DCF StoriesLast winter I made a show about working for the Department of Children and Families and I’d promised to make a show about what it’s like to be a parent whose had to work with this state agency, which is responsible for the safety of Vermont children. It’s no secret that DCF is currently understaffed and overworked. The opiate epidemic is one major factor in the growing number of kids taken into temporary custody by the state, and the growing number of TPR’S, or terminations of parental rights.
This show offers a close look at...
2016-05-2038 min