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Maximalist LifeEp 36 - Why Sex Over 30 is BetterEpisode Summary:Sex after 30 just hits different. If you’ve lived through your 20s and crossed into this new era, you know the vibes shift in the best ways. We’re talking confidence, communication, and actual knowing what you want (and how to get it 😏).✨ Confidence is everything — you stop obsessing over how you look and start focusing on how it feels 💬 You get way better at speaking up about what you want and what’s not working 🔥 You actually know your body now, and that makes everything more satisfying 🧬 Hormones change the ga...2025-06-3056 minMaximalist LifeEp 35 - What’s Working in Business This YearEpisode Summary:Brianna’s pulling back the curtain on how 2025 became her most profitable year ever—and we’re only halfway through. 😏 She’s spilling the actual strategies that took her photography biz to the next level (no gatekeeping here).📱 Doubled down on Instagram ads after realizing they were our highest-converting platform 👯♀️ Expanded from 4 to 7 days a week by hiring and training the right team 📊 Started tracking real metrics so decisions weren’t based on vibes or panic 💸 Raised prices and confidence—no more playing small or second-guessing 🎨 Made the brand feel seamless from first cli...2025-06-261h 16Maximalist LifeEp 33 - You Can Love Your Kids and Still Miss the Old YouEpisode Summary:Brianna and Tamika get real about how easy it is to lose yourself in motherhood—and how to reclaim your identity without the guilt. 👯♀️👶 Mom groups and playdates can start to feel like your whole world revolves around your kids (and only your kids) 🛑 Setting boundaries with your kids is everything—you're their parent, not their therapist 💭 That guilt for needing alone time? Totally normal… but totally unnecessary. You can love your babies and crave space 🕰️ Bedtime routines and clear “grown-up time” = a lifesaver for your sanity (and your relationship) 💬 Regular c...2025-06-2351 minMaximalist LifeEp 32 - Networking Without the Awkward VibesEpisode Summary:We’re diving into what it really feels like to show up confidently in networking spaces — especially when you're surrounded by people who seem more successful (even if they’re not). Imposter syndrome loves to creep in, but we’ve got thoughts on how to shut it down. 💥✨ Confidence starts with owning your worth — no matter how your business stacks up next to someone else’s. 🙅🏽♀️ Shrinking yourself is so common, especially for women entrepreneurs — but you deserve to take up space. 🎨 Creative businesses often get side-eyed by people in more “traditional” fields… but th...2025-06-191h 23Maximalist LifeEp 31 - Say What You Want (Before You’re Pissed Off)Episode Summary:We dive into the messy, magical world of expectations in relationships—because let’s be honest, nothing kills the vibe faster than a silent “you should’ve known” moment.✨ Setting sky-high expectations (especially around birthdays and holidays) is a fast track to disappointment 🧠 People aren’t mind readers—if you want something, say it out loud 💖 Love languages matter—how we give and receive love can look very different 🙃 Trying to change people never works—accepting them as they are = more peace 🎁 Holidays have become performance art thanks to marketing—let's calm do...2025-06-1654 minMaximalist LifeEp 30 - Getting Lost (Literally) in HobbiesEpisode Summary:Tamika and Brianna take you on a wild ride through their hobby adventures, from watercoloring to mountain biking (with plenty of laughs and mishaps along the way). They talk about how finding the perfect hobby is really all about trial and error—and sometimes discovering things you never expected to love.🎨 Brianna’s attempt at trying a new hobby every month last year—watercoloring, hiking, pickleball, and line dancing 🔁 The "three-time rule" for trying new activities before deciding if you really don’t like them 🚵♀️ Brianna’s disastrous mountain biking adventure in the Ari...2025-06-091h 18Maximalist LifeEp 29 - Sex Myths We’re Sick of HearingEpisode Summary:We’re busting sex myths wide open in this episode 🔥 From cringey misconceptions to straight-up hilarious beliefs, we’re breaking down what society gets wrong about intimacy—and replacing it with truth, laughs, and zero shame.👶 That whole “looseness after childbirth” thing? Total B.S.—and don’t even get us started on the “husband stitch” 🍆 Size does matter… just not the way you think (spoiler: most people prefer somewhere in the middle) 🎥 Real sex ≠ porn. Period. It’s not all stamina marathons and perfect lighting 💦 Vaginal wetness + erections? Not always tied to arousal—so...2025-06-0546 minMaximalist LifeEp 28 - Nothing to Wear? Let’s Fix That with Tamika’s Styling SecretsEpisode Summary:We’re so excited because in this episode, Tamika is officially sharing her new business venture as a personal stylist for the everyday woman 👠✨ She’s spilling her best tips for feeling confident in what you wear—whether you’re heading to brunch, a branding shoot, or just trying to avoid a closet meltdown.Your personal style isn’t just about clothes—it’s about confidence and how you show up in the world 💁🏽♀️ From everyday outfits to special events, feeling good in what you wear changes everything.👗 Create "outfit recipes" so...2025-06-0250 minMaximalist LifeEp 27 - Foreplay as a Lifestyle: Beyond the BedroomEpisode Summary:We’re diving into the idea of making foreplay a lifestyle, not just something that happens right before sex, while sharing our unfiltered thoughts on celebrity crushes and intimate routines. 💋 Foreplay as a Lifestyle – It’s about creating moments of connection and anticipation all day long. 🕯 Setting the Mood – Lighting, cleanliness, and a cozy atmosphere can totally transform the vibe. 🛁 Self-Care & Confidence – Taking relaxing baths or rocking those outfits that make you feel amazing totally enhances desire. 🗣 Communication is Key – Talking about your fantas...2025-05-2227 minMaximalist LifeEp 26 - Things My Mom Never Told MeEpisode Summary:We’re diving into all the life skills that a lot of our moms never had the chance to teach us (or maybe just didn’t know to!). From financial literacy to navigating relationships and managing our homes, these gaps weren’t out of malice—just a result of survival mode. 📚 The power of learning and growing every single day—maximize your life, honey! 🔄 Breaking generational cycles and filling in the knowledge gaps for the next generation 💖 Dating and relationships, but without the savior complex—how to show up for yourself first💸...2025-05-1949 minMaximalist LifeEp 25 - Travel, Tensions, and Turning Controversy into ConversationEpisode Summary:Brianna and Tamika dive into travel stories, cultural reflections, and some deep community convos that started as vacation fun but quickly turned into real talks about race and inclusion.🎢 Tamika spills the tea on her VIP experience at Disneyland with the exclusive “plaid tour” service, which costs $700/hour with a minimum of six hours. Yup, that kind of luxury. 💸 The perks of splurging on those premium experiences – when it actually makes your vacation way more relaxed and enjoyable. 🌸 Brianna takes us through her trip to Charleston, South Carolina, and the ethical dil...2025-05-1245 minMaximalist LifeEp 24 - Confessions of a Million Dollar StudioEpisode Summary:Brianna and Tamika dive into the unfiltered, hilarious, and sometimes wild moments of running their million-dollar photography studio, specializing in boudoir and branding photography. They’re sharing it all, from the challenges to the successes, and everything in between!💰 More money = more responsibility. The stress of knowing your team's families are relying on your success. 🚫 Setting crucial boundaries, like cutting out family photography and saying no to certain difficult clients. 🔫 Wild client stories—like the one who brought a gun to their boudoir shoot and men who just didn’t get it. 💡...2025-05-081h 11Maximalist LifeEp 23 - Why Have One Job When You Can Have Three?Episode Summary:Brianna and Tamika get real about intimate moments, entrepreneurial fears, and their exciting new ventures in this candid conversation about juggling multiple business pursuits and finding balance.💋 Personal stories about sex, boundaries, and those embarrassing intimate moments. 💦 A frank discussion about squirting and the science behind it (no shame!). 👗 Tamika’s deep passion for fashion styling and her plans to turn it into a full-blown business. 📈 Brianna’s intention to relaunch her business coaching services and help others level up. 💼 Details on their upcoming Women on Top networking...2025-05-051h 12Maximalist LifeEp 22 - Swingers, Sex Clubs, and DatingEpisode Summary:Brianna and Tamika are back from vacation and diving into everything—from sun-soaked getaways to dating drama that’ll make you gasp, laugh, and maybe text your therapist. Their trips couldn’t have been more different, and their love lives? Buckle up. It’s a ride.Here’s what’s going down in this episode:✨ Tamika spills all the tea on her surprise 40th birthday trip to Scottsdale—think fancy resorts, wild jeep tours, and dancing like nobody’s 40🌺 Brianna survived a chaotic Hawaii family vacay where her mom t...2025-05-011h 17Maximalist LifeEp 21 - Everything Sucks...Now What?Episode Summary:Running a small business means rolling with the punches—especially when your whole week goes sideways out of nowhere 😵💫📵 Getting your social media accounts disabled with zero warning over some bogus violation🔒 Your entire team locked out of all Instagram accounts—personal and business—at the same time 🙃💅 Trying to enjoy a peaceful pedicure... only to get stuck next to people who don’t understand volume control🙄 Clients ghosting their appointments (yep, that’s why we have cancellation policies!)💸 Dealing with shady chargeback fraud from people who straight-up steal your services...2025-04-281h 05Maximalist LifeEp 20 - Where My Girls At? Making Friends As An AdultEpisode Summary:Making friends as an adult is hard—but not impossible. It takes intention, a little bravery, and being down to feel awkward AF sometimes 😅. But the connections? So worth it.💬 Real adult friendships take courage and a willingness to actually be vulnerable 👩👧👦 Parent friendships often revolve around your kids... which is great—but sometimes you just want friends of your own 🚫 Opposite-sex friendships can get weird when you're in a committed relationship 📱 Bumble BFF, Meetup, and all the apps can help—but they’re a lot of work 😬 Friend "dating" can feel a...2025-04-141h 08Maximalist LifeEp 19 - Are You Living Your Life or Just Documenting It?We’re diving into comparison culture this week—how social media messes with our heads, sets totally unrealistic standards, and what it actually looks like to appreciate your journey while still dreaming big.✨ Here’s what we’re chatting about:🤯 The mental spiral of "How can someone afford that?" and how comparison steals your peace 🧦👠 Side hustles you might not expect—from selling socks to OnlyFans—and unpacking the judgment around how people make their money 📸 Why Brianna stopped following other photographers early in her career (and how that decision helped her stay in her lane) 📖 The dif...2025-04-101h 02Maximalist LifeEp 18 - Unpopular Opinion: Hustle Culture Isn't Always ToxicBrianna and Tamika are keeping it real in this episode as they unpack the truth about hustle culture — and why it actually takes years of consistent work to build a business that commands premium prices and freedom.They’re not here to glamorize burnout — but they are here to challenge the idea that working hard is always toxic. 👀Here’s what they’re diving into:⚖️ The difference between toxic hustle culture and the necessary grind when you're just starting out💸 Why new entrepreneurs can’t expect premium prices without putting in the reps and building trust📊 How th...2025-04-071h 06Maximalist LifeEp 17 - Your Sunday Scaries Survival GuideEpisode Summary:We’re here to kick those Sunday Scaries to the curb – you know, that pre-Monday anxiety that makes the end of your weekend feel more stressful than relaxing. Let’s turn that feeling into a “Sunday Reset” that actually leaves you feeling refreshed and ready for the week ahead.👗 Plan ahead for outfits, meals, and your schedule without letting it overwhelm you.🧘♀️ Create simple, enjoyable Sunday rituals that help you embrace the end of the weekend instead of dread it.🌿 Make your "Sunday Reset" a calm, intentional routine that brings peace, not stress.🏡 Set up your spac...2025-03-3144 minMaximalist LifeEp 16 - Were We Really ‘Fine’? Rethinking Our Childhoods in ParenthoodEpisode Summary:On this episode of Maximalist Life, Brianna and Tamika take a trip down memory lane, talking about how our childhood experiences shaped the way we parent (or think about parenting). We’re diving into the contrast between the "tough love" parenting style of the 80s and 90s and today’s more open, communication-focused approach—because let’s be real, things have changed.In this episode, we chat about:🎮 All the nostalgic 90s childhood vibes—Tamagotchis, Sanrio, and the things that raised us🤐 How "because I said so" parenting shaped our emoti...2025-03-1057 minMaximalist LifeEp 15 - Orgasm Gaps & Women’s Pleasure: Why Are We Still Faking It?In this episode, we’re getting real about the orgasm gap—why it exists, why so many women feel the need to fake it, and how we can start changing the narrative. We’re diving into the stats, the social conditioning, and the personal stories behind this all-too-common experience.📊 The surprising (and frustrating) truth about orgasm inequality🎭 Why faking it does more harm than good (but why so many still do it)💬 How communication can make or break your sex life🔥 Practical tips for having real conversations about pleasure❤️🔥 Why mutual satisfaction matters way more than checking a box✨ A little nudge to expl...2025-03-0638 minMaximalist LifeEp 14 - The Confidence Code: Owning Your Worth in Every Area of LifeLife’s too short to play small. In this episode, we’re talking about how to step into your power, trust yourself, and build the kind of confidence that makes you unstoppable. Whether you’re tired of second-guessing yourself, struggling with imposter syndrome, or just ready to start showing up like the badass you are, we’ve got you.✨ What confidence actually is (and what it’s not)🧠 Rewiring negative self-talk & ditching imposter syndrome👗 The power of a “hell yes” outfit & dressing like your highest self🗣 Speaking up, setting boundaries, and owning your worth🚀 Pushing past fear a...2025-03-0351 minMaximalist LifeEp 13 - Breaking the “Good Girl” Myth: Embracing Your Inner SeductressEpisode Summary:In this episode, we’re breaking down the good girl myth and giving you the green light to fully embrace your desires. We’re talking about the societal pressures women face, how double standards mess with our sexual agency, and why it’s so important to dress for your confidence, not for validation.💥 Challenging the outdated “good girl” image and embracing your true self🔥 How sexual expression and fantasies show up in relationships (and why that’s okay)🙅♀️ Navigating the double standards women face when it comes to their bodies and desires👗 The power of clothing to boost...2025-02-2746 minMaximalist LifeEp 12 - How To Manifest Your Dream LifeEpisode Summary:Dreaming big is great, but actually making it happen? That’s where the magic is. In this episode, we’re talking all about turning those dreams into reality—through visualization, goal-setting, and daily affirmations that keep you focused and fired up. Because let’s be real, manifesting isn’t just about hoping—it’s about doing.Writing down goals (big and small) to make them realVisualizing your dream life & what that actually looks likeDaily affirmations to stay motivated (even when it’s hard)Vision boards: creative inspo & tips to make yours workKeeping your friends acc...2025-02-2449 min