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SEX COMMUNICATIONEpisode 124: "She Is A Screamer" Audio PornA new audio porn contributor has joined the fold! Today's clip comes from another hot married couple; here is the description that accompanied the submission:"This recording has a bit of everything, blowjob, pussy licking, me fucking her & her tapping out only to get on top to have an explosive orgasm!"All right then! I know I could use some explosive orgasms in my life, maybe you could as well? Enjoy ;)And hey, why not submit your own recording? Especially to my non-hetero folks, poly peeps and anyone else getting busy...2020-08-2018 min
SEX COMMUNICATIONEpisode 123: Safi And Fifi, Two Twentysomethings Talk Polyamory, Gender And KinkAn interview with Safi and Fifi... Safi and Fifi are two twentysomething LGBTQ polyam commentators and spouses to be. They host a YouTube channel offering sex-positive conversation and education from their perspective as young people of color.Much like this show and GRAPHICPAINT, their mission is to offer a safe, judgment-free space for the exploration of sexuality. They cover everything from gender identity, kink, polyamory and more. Today's conversation covers those same topics while also getting into their backgrounds and experiences that led to them being the people they are today. How were they introduced...2020-08-1455 minSEX COMMUNICATIONEpisode 122: Phone Sex With Sultry SitaraAn interview with Sultry Sitara, a phone sex operator on NiteFlirt. She describes herself online as the "dominant nerdy Indian girlfriend" you're looking for. We discuss the nuances and challenges of offering a virtual girlfriend experience, providing sensual domination over the phone, and why phone sex is so important right now, during this pandemic. We also dive into what it’s like being an Indian woman of color in the sex industry and the racism she faces at work and in life.Find out more about Sitara:♥ Website: https://sultrysitara.net/♥...2020-08-0752 minSEX COMMUNICATIONEpisode 121: Talking About Sex With Partners And ChildrenToday's episode features Malva Gasowski, international best selling author, business coach, trainer, family counselor and parenting coach. Malva is also the creator of Coaching - Mother and All, an online resource for parents and caregivers.In today’s interview, we discuss the very practical need for open communication about sex with partners and with children. As a mother, wife and experienced coach in all matters of family relationships, Malva has a great deal of expertise to share about how biology and socialization play into our understanding of sex. And of course, as...2020-07-3145 min
SEX COMMUNICATIONEpisode 120: Forced Edging And Rope Play Audio PornIt's the audio porn episode for July! Today's audio submission is from "Anonymous Couple #2" who you may remember from Episode 101: A Couple Uses Toys (And Oral, And Oil, And Toe Sucking...) Said couple included a handy description along with their recording to give some context:"Hello Brianne. It's us again from episode 101. We had some fun today and I actually remembered to hit record, lol. I have become very interested in rope play lately so I've been reading and researching it. Today was our first attempt at bringing it into p...2020-07-2329 minSEX COMMUNICATIONEpisode 119: BSWC Event Part 5, The Creation Of The Black Sex Worker CollectiveThe final episode in our 5-show series produced in collaboration with The Black Sex Worker Collective. Next week, July 22nd, the collective will host a 22-hour event called Who’s Allowed To Make Money? Workers In Solidarity, to support sex workers and other freelance artists directly impacted by COVID-19. Please pick up some tickets to the events now if you haven’t already done so. Today’s interview is with the founder of The Black Sex Worker Collective, Akynos. July 22nd is also Akynos’ 43rd birthday, hence the 22 hours of events and $43,0...2020-07-1642 minSEX COMMUNICATIONEpisode 118: BSWC Event Part 4, Sex Work Organizing, Misconceptions, And Visions For the FutureThis is the fourth episode in our 5-show series produced in collaboration with The Black Sex Worker Collective. On July 22nd, the collective will host a 22-hour event called Who’s Allowed To Make Money? Workers In Solidarity, to support sex workers and other freelance artists directly impacted by COVID-19. Starting with Episode 115, each weekly episode up until the event will feature some of the many performers and activists who are scheduled. You can catch up on this series, and all of our episodes, at anytime on sexcompod.com. The...2020-07-101h 00SEX COMMUNICATIONEpisode 117: BSWC Event Part 3, Sex Work and Feminism Vs. PatriarchyToday is the third episode in our 5-show series produced in collaboration with The Black Sex Worker Collective. On July 22nd, the collective will host a 22-hour event called Who’s Allowed To Make Money? Workers In Solidarity, to support sex workers and other freelance artists directly impacted by COVID-19. As of June 18th, each weekly episode up until the event will feature some of the many performers and activists who are scheduled. You can catch up on this series, and all of our episodes, at anytime on sexcompod.com. T...2020-07-0354 minSEX COMMUNICATIONEpisode 116: BSWC Event Part 2, Sex Work Activism And "Transcending Kink"Today is the second episode in our 5-show series produced in collaboration with The Black Sex Worker Collective. On July 22nd, the collective will host a 22-hour event called Who’s Allowed To Make Money? Workers In Solidarity, to support sex workers and other freelance artists directly impacted by COVID-19. As of June 18th, each weekly episode up until the event will feature some of the many performers and activists who are scheduled. You can catch up on this series, and all of our episodes, at anytime on sexcompod.com. I...2020-06-2658 minSEX COMMUNICATIONEpisode 115: BSWC Event Part 1, Sex Work, Kink And Life In BerlinToday is the first of a series of episodes I’m doing with The Black Sex Worker Collective to promote their upcoming fundraiser next month. On July 22nd, the collective will host a 22-hour event called Who’s Allowed To Make Money? Workers In Solidarity. It is both a celebration and grassroots fundraising campaign to support sex workers and other freelance artists directly impacted by current circumstances, who are all too often Black, and people of color.This collaboration is but one of the many ways the SEX...2020-06-1959 min
SEX COMMUNICATIONEpisode 114: "C" And "H" Audio PornSome audio porn for the month of June -- here's hoping this crowdsourced clip will bring some much-needed levity and light to the world.This episode features "C" and "H" who you may remember from Episode 91: When "C" Met "H" And Then Got "Freaky" "C" appeared earlier on this show when we discussed differing opinions about the importance of dick size; catch up with Episode 65: The Great Tiny Penis Debate Till next week...Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/sex-communication/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands2020-06-1119 minSEX COMMUNICATIONEpisode 113: The Sound Of A ProtestIn honor of George Floyd's memorial, I am using the platform of this show to support those protesting systemic racism around the world. Today's episode features a segment of audio recorded at a peaceful protest in New York City followed by 8 minutes and 46 seconds of silence dedicated to George Floyd. This fight needs your support. Below is a list of organizations battling racial injustice; please donate your time and funding.The Bail Project: A national non-profit organization designed to combat mass incarceration by disrupting the money bail system, one...2020-06-0451 minSEX COMMUNICATIONEpisode 112: Young And Queer And Exploring EverythingMy conversation with Jonas, a grad student and photographer who has already come to know more about himself sexually at the age of 24 than most people do in a lifetime. We talk about what being queer means to him and all the many many things he's explored so far. If you'd like to connect with Jonas, here are his social profiles and links to his photography:FetLife ProfileInstagramPhotography Til next week!Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/sex-communication/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com...2020-05-2843 min
SEX COMMUNICATIONEpisode 111: Audio Porn And Q&A For Masturbation MonthFor those of you who are unaware, May has come to be known as Masturbation Month. In honor of this, I am sharing with you 4 brief clips personal, masturbation audio porn. But first! I answer the most frequently asked questions I've gotten about masturbation, and specifically, masturbation during quarantine.Enjoy! Til next week...Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/sex-communication/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy2020-05-2228 minSEX COMMUNICATIONEpisode 110: Intimacy, Relationships And Sex -- Do They All Go Together?An interview with a woman in her late 20s... Do intimacy, relationships and sex all go together? Does one negate the other? Does waiting to have sex really matter? Is a deep connection more important than sexual compatibility and vice versa? We talk about all these things and more.And just a reminder, whatever your opinion, and however you live your life, if it works for you, then that's all that matters.Til next week!Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/sex-communication/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands2020-05-1558 minSEX COMMUNICATIONEpisode 109: Brain Injuries, Mental Health And Sexual ConnectionMy interview with Tom, a gentleman with a traumatic brain injury who struggles with maintaining sexual health. We talk about the challenges that come from living with a disability, the toll of mental stress, and the importance of sharing one's story.Sex and disability are both spoken about far too little -- if you are struggling with your own challenges, reach out to the show at sexcompod@gmail.com and let's talk about it...Til next week Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/sex-communication/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com...2020-05-0846 minSEX COMMUNICATIONEpisode 108: How I Was Sexually AssaultedHey! Guess who just found out that April is Sexual Assault Awareness Month? It's me... I guess it was good ol' serendipity that prompted my publishing an interview with an LCSW who focuses on sexual assault awareness last week! Anyway!Today I read (yes read) two essays I wrote within the last few years detailing a handful of the sexual assaults I've experienced so far and then give some candid background and followup after each. The links for the essays are below along with a 3rd bonus essay detailing some more assault but also some thoughts on...2020-05-0136 minSEX COMMUNICATIONEpisode 107: Taboos And Sexualized Violence With Andrew Pari, LCSWAn interview with Andrew Pari, LCSW, a licensed clinical social worker, and psychotherapist. He is also the founder of Sexual Assault Awareness, an organization dedicated to treating and raising awareness of sexualized violence. I met Andrew earlier this year at the Positive Sexuality Conference in California where he gave a presentation titled Guided Rape Exposure Treatment, A Proposed Model.Andrew focuses his work on the controversial & taboo topics that most in his field won’t address, including specialized populations in the sex trade and human trafficking. He is also writing the first book on...2020-04-241h 06
SEX COMMUNICATIONEpisode 106: Butt Plug Audio PornToday's audio porn episode features masturbation with a butt plug (and a vibrator, and a squirting orgasm). My inspiration for this episode was a couple I interviewed a few months ago, C & H. Listen to their episode, Episode 91: When "C" Met "H" And Then Got FreakyThe episode that inspired C & H: Episode 101: A Couple Uses Toys (And Oral, And Oil, And Toe Sucking...)PSA: We need more audio porn!! Please help!***Also! Our new home on the interwebs! www.sexcompod.com - and...2020-04-1626 minSEX COMMUNICATIONEpisode 105: Is Porn Bad?An interview with a 20-something guy about his feelings on pornography. Is it addictive? Is it bad? We get into all the things! Along with personal sex stuff because that’s how we do here. Enjoy!And here is a great post with lots of links to independent, ethical and feminist porn — give it a look!Till next week…Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/sex-communication/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy2020-04-101h 16
SEX COMMUNICATIONEpisode 104: Poly Coach Effy Blue Gets PersonalMy interview with local sex-positive hero, Effy Blue. We discuss relationship and sexual histories, trauma, healing, and the work she does around relationships and sex.Effy Blue is a relationship expert specializing in non-monogamy and other alternative structures. Her coaching philosophy, Relationship by Design, abandons the one-size-fits-all relationship structure that is heavily prescribed by our society. Instead, it advocates conscious and active design of relationships in service of those in it. Effy guides and facilitates this creative process by fearlessly asking the tough questions while constructively offering thoughtful insights. Besides coaching, Effy builds a growing community of...2020-04-0257 min
SEX COMMUNICATIONEpisode 103: How I'm Getting Off During CoronapocalypseHey folks! Special edition of “How I Got Off” to share some helpful tips on sexual satisfaction in the time of Coronavirus AND a link to a Zoom interview I’m doing later tonight (3/26 at 7pm EST).UPDATE Interview ended - link removed***Here are some tips for how to enjoy sex and to avoid spreading COVID-19 from nyc.govKnow how COVID-19 spreads.You can get COVID-19 from a person who has it.The virus can spread to people who are within about 6 feet of a person with COVID...2020-03-2614 min
SEX COMMUNICATIONEpisode 102: Transparency, Communication, OptimismMy interview with Dr. Kerry Kott… join us for a conversation about discovery, communication, healing, experimentation and optimism in the face of trauma.Afterward, check out my guest’s podcast: The Universe Made Me Do ItTo find out more about her work, visit her website and check out her InstagramTill next week, stay safe!Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/sex-communication/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy2020-03-191h 01
SEX COMMUNICATIONEpisode 101: A Couple Uses Toys (And Oral, And Oil, And Toe Sucking...)Listen to a woman cum many, many times as her partner licks her feet, sucks her toes, massages her with oil, eats her out and uses multiple vibrators over the course of 20+ minutes…Btw, this is a couple married for 28 fucking years. Don’t even try to say married sex can’t be hot AF!Many thanks to the sexy listeners who submitted this clip!Here are the two toys used in the audio:Njoy Pure WandMagic Wand**Update on SXSW: the event was cancelled (thank you to all...2020-03-1227 min
SEX COMMUNICATIONEpisode 100: Lydia—Artist, Sex Worker, Trans Femme, And So Much More!100 EPISODES CAN YOU BELIEVE IT?!?!?Today’s show is one of my all-time favorite conversations — an interview with Lydia, an artist, content creator, sex worker, trans woman, etc… She has so many wonderful experiences to share and does so with such insight and humor that I just know you’ll love this episode as much as I do.And stay tuned till the very end when I share some very important updates regarding this show!!!Till next week…Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/sex-communication/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: h...2020-03-061h 16
SEX COMMUNICATIONEpisode 99: Getting Over Getting Off With An AudienceHey folks! Welcome to the audio porn follow-up to last weeks’s interview, Episode 98: All About Attending Sex PartiesNOTE: this is not a recording of a sex party, but of my guest from the last episode, “BlackKnight,” masturbating in front of an audience for the first time.Till next week!Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/sex-communication/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy2020-02-2749 min
SEX COMMUNICATIONEpisode 98: All About Attending Sex PartiesToday’s interview is Part 1 of a 2-part series — next week’s episode will be audio porn featuring the same guestThe conversation I have with “BlackKnight” centers around the reality of attending sex parties. It just so happens my guest has been to quite a few and as a self-identified shy and anxious person, I think a lot of folks out there will relate to his perspective.Our talk also covers race play; the first event my guest attended was an interracial swingers party. Race also factors into his personal explorations and porn use.Till...2020-02-2155 min
SEX COMMUNICATIONEpisode 97: Season 2 Is Here!Welcome to Season 2!Updates on what’s new for the season ahead — new intro, new schedule format, etc…Also! Two speaking engagements coming up REAL SOON! My topic is “Using Sex And Porn Online To Change The World IRL”The first, the Positive Sexuality Conference, February 21-23, 2020I am speaking Sunday, February 23, at 10:15am — registration closes February 19!The second, SXSW!!!! March 13-22, 2020I am speaking Friday, March 13, at 12:45pmAlso also!! GRAPHICPAINT is relaunching in March! Have you signed up yet for a chance to win a free month o...2020-02-1312 min
SEX COMMUNICATIONEpisode 96: [QUICKIE] Season 1 Wrap-UpA look back at Season 1 and a look ahead at what’s in store for Season 2… a special thank you to everyone who participated in the content for the last 96 episodes - this show wouldn’t exist without you!Happy New Year everyone :)***If you’d like to show your support with a financial donation, please visit our donation page on GRAPHICPAINT***Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/sex-communication/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy2019-12-3002 min
SEX COMMUNICATIONEpisode 95: Post-Holiday Husband And Wife AudioThe last audio porn of the year! This month’s selection could be considered wholesome given that it is a recording made by a VERY loving couple. Enjoy!I’ll be back Monday with the last episode of Season 1…Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/sex-communication/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy2019-12-2624 min
SEX COMMUNICATIONEpisode 94: [QUICKIE] How I Got Off 12/16 - 12/22/19Guess who beat off most days this past week?!?!?!? That’s right, I’ve finally overcome my mental block and gotten down with my bad self successfully and without porn four out of the last seven days. But this positivity is not without some downsides! I would tell you more here but you’ll just have to listen to find out details.Till Thursday — our last regular episode of both the season and year… and Happy Festivus!Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/sex-communication/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPri...2019-12-2314 min
SEX COMMUNICATIONEpisode 93: Throwback To "The Brit"Throwback episode featuring archival sound footage of a pre-play conversation with “The Brit,” who has appeared in four other episodes from the early days of this show:Episode 3: Yes Daddy Audio—A Husband Dominates His WifeEpisode 7: Interview 1—”The Brit”Episode 13: Play Session 1—”The Brit”Episode 27: Play Session 2—”The Brit”This recorded discussion documents two people navigating the terms of an internet-based Dom/sub (D/s) relationship as well as a reverse interview of sorts… here “the Brit” asks me the types of probing, private questions I typically ask of guests in other episodes…Till Monday!2019-12-1955 min
SEX COMMUNICATIONEpisode 92: [QUICKIE] How I Got Off 12/9 - 12/15/19This week I was heavy-duty cranky pants, battling a cold and in no mood for anyone’s shit BUT I somehow beat off two days in a row! So impressive, which is not what I can say about the porn I watched the second day which was all shitty shit and I am in a real porn-hating space right now. Anyway! Holidays! Ugh.Also: FestivusBoob-Heavy Porn I DO NOT Recommend:Two Asian girls, too much noiseCheerleader and girl, too much talking, too stupid, no buildup or sensitivityMeh guy-on-girl fake, gi...2019-12-1709 min
SEX COMMUNICATIONEpisode 91: When "C" Met "H" And Then Got "Freaky"An interview with “C” and “H” about all the sexy sex stuff happening in their new relationshipYou may remember “C” from Episode 65: The Great Tiny Penis Debate — he kept in touch after the recording to let me know that after all his pessimism about finding a sexually compatible partner, the miracle finally happened and so here we are today…And, here are the two orgy-describing episodes mentioned:Episode 60: [QUICKIE] How I Got Off 8/19 - 8/25/19Episode 86: [QUICKIE] How I Got Off 11/18 - 11/24/19Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/sex-communicat...2019-12-121h 24
SEX COMMUNICATIONEpisode 90: [QUICKIE] How I Got Off 12/2 - 12/8/19Improved sexual activity! I masturbated Thursday and watched someone else masturbate Saturday… Also! The bad porn I watched while beating off Thursday has inspired a new segment: “UNSOLICITED ADVICE.” Do with it what you will because it may very well be bad advice as it is based solely on my own opinion and personal feelings. But also it may just save you from some future embarrassment so give it a listen?As to the subject of said segment of “UNSOLICITED ADVICE,” the topics at hand are: sunglasses on naked people doing sexy thing...2019-12-0914 min
SEX COMMUNICATIONEpisode 89: The Self-Education Of KarenAn interview with Karen, a listener I connected with on Instagram and who agreed to do an interview to share all the juicy stories of her life so far… We talk about how she basically educated herself when it came to sex, a story all too common. So many of us grow up like Karen, where sex isn’t spoken about openly at home or in school and much of our knowledge about the act comes from the media. Some other topics include, what makes sex good? what makes a partner good? and the value of o...2019-12-0554 min
SEX COMMUNICATIONEpisode 88: [QUICKIE] How I Got Off 11/25 - 12/1/19No sex, no orgasms, just stress, stress, STRESS! Too stressed to do anything, but for good reason! I’ve been grinding out the architecture and design of the new, custom GRAPHICPAINT.com which will be launching January 31, 2020!!! Of course, I’m stressed because I procrastinated, but that’s kind of my M.O. — I swing between the same extremes of stress/work/activity and relief in nearly every area of my life but why? I believe it is because amplified stress equals amplified reward, i.e., relief, but maybe that’s just me?Anywa...2019-12-0312 min
SEX COMMUNICATIONEpisode 87: GratitudeTHANK YOU to each and every one of you have listened, shared the show, shared audio, agreed to interviews, commented, subscribed and taken the time to write me about how this project has affected you.Our publishing schedule will remain the same over Christmas but we will be taking the entire month of January off for a much needed break before launching Season 2!While we are on hiatus in January, please share any feedback, thoughts or requests regarding topics, guests, or anything else that you’d like to hear in our ne...2019-11-2903 min
SEX COMMUNICATIONEpisode 86: [QUICKIE] How I Got Off 11/18 - 11/24/197 orgasms for the week! 2 at the mid-week orgy, 2 with #57, 3 masturbating with toys sans porn…So that orgy — pretty sure this was my last one. Listen to find out why and how playing separately later in the week with #57 [masturbation party guy] was actually more satisfying. But! Neither was satisfying to my soul and I have been left with an even bigger craving for a real partner so how about that.Catch up on what happened at the first orgy I attended back in August with Episode 60 and the essay, Attending My First Orgy, SoberTi...2019-11-2522 min
SEX COMMUNICATIONEpisode 85: "Meh" Sex Audio PornRemember the mention of Mr. Baggy Magnum Condom? [Episode 56] Well here is the audio of me going two rounds with that guy, showing up like a champ to get mine as best I could despite the underwhelming material I had to work with. A big plus: this guy is VERY vocal and enthusiastically expressive so that was fun. He’s a good kid just not the one for me. Take a listen.Do you have underwhelming experiences of your own to share? Hit me up: sex@graphicpaint.comOn a more serious and urgent note, th...2019-11-2129 min
SEX COMMUNICATIONEpisode 84: [QUICKIE] How I Got Off 11/11 - 11/17/19One orgasm to report! And lucky you, I recorded the event. BUT, it was extremely brief and underwhelming, though still true and real and all that so give it a listen. I’ve included the clip at the end of my rambling about the past week and my hopes and dreams for the orgy I’ll be attending this Wednesday.And hey! It’s Trans Awareness Week and it just so happens that Episodes 81 and 83 detail the journey of one woman’s transition and all that the experience entails. Check out Parts 1 and 2 of my interview with “C” as she...2019-11-1809 min
SEX COMMUNICATIONEpisode 83: "C" Comes Out As A Woman, Part 2The conclusion of my 2-part interview with “C.” Please listen to Episode 81 before diving into this one so that you’ve got some context for the conversation.“C” is in her early 50s and only recently came out as a trans woman — which means she spent decades struggling to come to terms with herself; her identity, orientation and sexual pleasure.In Part 2 we discuss the specifics of coming out to her family, especially to her son. We talk about social media, the physical details of her transition, body dysmorphia, the paradox of appearance, the idea of being a g...2019-11-141h 02
SEX COMMUNICATIONEpisode 82: [QUICKIE] How I Got Off 11/4 - 11/10/19My notes for the past week: RAGE. The end.Ok fine, there were other things like STRESS and INSECURITY. Listen for the details on how feeling like shit about my outsides keeps my insides sex free! Specifically what it was like attending a fancy schmancy event while feeling like a hideous troll and how this all connects to my shaved head and vanity and needing outside validation to make up for the lack of internal validation. Blah blah blah!OH WAIT! Actually something amazing did happen but I had so much rage I forgot! SXSW...2019-11-1120 min
SEX COMMUNICATIONEpisode 81: "C" Comes Out As A Woman, Part 1Today is the first portion of my 2-part interview with “C.”“C” is in her early 50s and only recently came out as a trans woman — which means she spent decades struggling to come to terms with herself; her identity, orientation and sexual pleasure.In Part 1 we discuss her personal history: how she was introduced to sex, what her first experiences were like, what her 2 marriages were like and so on. In the later portion of the episode, “C” describes what the process of coming out has been like. We talk about the timing, the reactions, the...2019-11-071h 02
SEX COMMUNICATIONEpisode 80: [QUICKIE] How I Got Off 10/28 - 11/3/19Masturbated once and only once — no porn, no partner sex, no other anything but rage for the remainder of the week. Why am I so angry? That’s exactly my question, WHY? There are some details relating to my sobriety and the work of recovery; things perhaps difficult for anyone outside of the 12-step space to identify with but affecting all the same. It’s personal inventory time once again and as such a lot of scabbed over and still fresh wounds are poked and prodded and generally painful.Aside from those specifics, rage is human, common, normal...2019-11-0408 min
SEX COMMUNICATIONEpisode 79: New Partners Describe Their Poly-ish RelationshipAn interview with John and “Lotta” about what their relatively new relationship is like and how they navigate ethical non-monogamy when one partner is poly and the other is poly-friendly…Previous episodes with these two:Episode 75: Sex Magic Audio PornEpisode 51: Sex Magic And Pussy WhisperingEpisode 41: “Alotta” Experience, Love And Acceptance**ExtrasArticle detailing all the foibles that come with traveling and sexThe Ollie toy referencedSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/sex-communication/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands2019-10-311h 06
SEX COMMUNICATIONEpisode 78: [QUICKIE] How I Got Off 10/21 - 10/27/19Heyyyyy — new partner sex! Plus oodles of masturbation… in other words, it was a pretty great week.Porn links:Some typical Japanese nipple stuffSome meh cuckholding porn [could the cuckhold be any more bored??]Some slightly better cuckholding porn [only tolerable for me with the sound OFF]Some satisfying cheesy nipple porn with a plumber themeSupport the podcast! I launched a small GoFundMe to cover the recent costs of upgrading the podcast equipment; please consider donating in support of the project! Check out the fundraiser or visit the ‘suppor...2019-10-2824 min
SEX COMMUNICATIONEpisode 77: Andre Shakti, Sexual SuperheroIn this episode, I speak with Andre Shakti, an absolute badass and sexual inspiration. Here is Andre’s bio as described on her site, IAmPoly.net…Andre Shakti is a journalist, educator, performer, activist, and professional slut. She is devoted to normalizing alternative desires, de-stigmatizing sex workers and their clients, and not taking herself too seriously. Andre wrestles mediocre white men into submission and is the weekly sex columnist for Slixa.com. In addition to her Ask Andre column, she writes about sex work, queerness and non-monogamy for Cosmopolitan, Rewire, Thrillist, MEL, Vice, Autostraddle, and more. She can...2019-10-241h 04
SEX COMMUNICATIONEpisode 76: [QUICKIE] How I Got Off 10/14 - 10/20/19Guess who has a crush? It’s me and it’s a pleasant, warm and fuzzy type of crush which has inspired a different type of fantasy [the warm and fuzzy kind duh]. There appears to be mutual attraction but for now I’m just enjoying the idea of the person and the possibilities that come with the appearance of a new person.Also last night someone told me that I was their crush so that was a fun twist to the week. However, the fact that they anonymously texted makes me super skeptical about the worthiness of thi...2019-10-2213 min
SEX COMMUNICATIONEpisode 75: Sex Magic Audio PornSome magical audio porn in honor of Spooktober! Ok it’s not spooky or magical like witches magical but still…Anyway! Here’s the recording description from the submitters, both of whom have been interview guests of the podcast:“The intention behind this was sex magic — kind of a manifestation thing as well as a test of concept. There is light race play, primal sex, roleplay, things like that.”Well there you go… If you would like to hear more from these two, check out their individual episodes:Episode 51: Sex Magic And P...2019-10-1734 min
SEX COMMUNICATIONEPISODE 74: [QUICKIE] How I Got Off 10/7 - 10/13/19A sloooooowwwww week… i.e., little to no sexy time. Ok, there was one time I actually self satisfied, Tuesday night, and it was successful (I came) but underwhelming (used porn, and a clip I’ve seen and used before).Aside from the inactivity with my nether regions, I did get some exciting news yesterday! I’ve been accepted as a speaker at my first conference!!! I will be presenting on the topic “Using Sex And Porn Online To Change The World IRL” at the Positive Sexuality Conference 2020 in Burbank CA!I’ve been battling some roller...2019-10-1413 min
SEX COMMUNICATIONEpisode 73: A 20-Something's Sexual MetamorphosisWhat is it like being 27 and in the middle of a sexual metamorphosis, or “awakening”?Current stats: 6 partners over 15 yearsHe remembers first being introduced to sex via a VHS porn tape introduced by his cousin. He was later raped by an older woman when he was 13 and she was 19. Following that experience, he had sexual/romantic relationships with single partners for several years at a time.Some specific details: he was a pro wrestler for a few years (which comes with a fair amount of debaucherous activity), a former girlfriend has come out...2019-10-101h 09
SEX COMMUNICATIONEPISODE 72: [QUICKIE] How I Got Off 9/30 - 10/6/19I had a pretty shitty week. Or rather, I took some actions that left me feeling pretty shitty. And out of sorts. And like I’d been hit by a truck. And like I could sleep forever.I only beat off once this week; Monday night. I wound up watching some pretty disturbing porn, which at the time seemed like a natural evolution from the topics I’d been searching recently, but in light of this week’s events, I’m starting to wonder if it’s more than that. Then there was the surprise visit from the mastur...2019-10-0724 min
SEX COMMUNICATIONEpisode 71: Sexual Trauma And HealingAn interview with Alex about her sexual journey; starting with early sexual assault and trauma, the work she’s done to manage her experiences, and the current state of her sex life…Some specific topics covered:Early experimentationTrauma, molestationThoughts on sex work, legislation, agency, sex trafficking, lady boysPersonal gender identification; the masculine and feminine energy in herself and partnersDealing with sex trauma in relationshipsCommunication as it relates to trying new things that might make her appear weak, i.e., submissive stuf...2019-10-031h 01
SEX COMMUNICATIONEpisode 70: [QUICKIE] How I Got Off 9/23 - 9/29/19Well I missed the orgy for this month; my roommate needed my assistance and so I spent the evening helping him instead… But! I did masturbate everyday — aside from one night of porn watching, I fantasized about specific scenarios at future orgies [details in the recording].Saturday night an ex did pop up out of nowhere but I did not meet up with him which is probably for the best…Besides those things, two different men asked for my assistance, one was looking for counsel and wisdom regarding sexual performance struggles and the other looking for me...2019-09-3018 min
SEX COMMUNICATIONEpisode 69: "10 Full Minutes Of Her Orgasms" Plus...It’s audio porn time! We’re closing out the month with a recording recently submitted by a female listener of her getting down with her younger male lover…Paraphrased description from the female participant/submitter of the audio:- Making out- Dick sucking- More making out- Pussy eating - 10 full minutes of her orgasms & squirting - Fucking- Pulling out - More squirting- More fucking- His orgasm- The end- Happy girl. 😊[and happy boy!]Support...2019-09-2626 min
SEX COMMUNICATIONEpisode 68: [QUICKIE] How I Got Off 9/16 - 9/22/19This week I had partner sex! Except… meh.Sleeping with a real life human being was certainly a high point as far as interesting events of the week, but the best orgasms of the last seven days were at my own hand thankyouverymuch. Still loving my Fun Factory Tiger vibe when it’s TURNED ON. If you have no idea what I’m talking about you should really listen to more of these How I Got Off episodes!Porn links from the week:It began with nipple pornThen led to this a...2019-09-2422 min
SEX COMMUNICATIONEpisode 67: A Mother Of Three Opens Up About Opening Her MarriageWhat is it really like to open up a relationship? What does having kids do to your body, sex life, priorities, and marriage? How does sexuality evolve over a lifetime?Today’s interview with Jamie, a mother of three and wife in a 22-year marriage, opens up about the good and bad realities of all these experiences and choices. We discuss:-The notion of promiscuity changing from childhood to adulthood-Biology and experience as influences on sexuality and sex drive-Post-partum. The effects of having children; the difference in experience for a...2019-09-191h 04
SEX COMMUNICATIONEpisode 66: [QUICKIE] How I Got Off 9/9 - 9/15/19It was slow going this week as I recovered from the emotions of the last [QUICKIE] episode, but! I managed to pull it together enough to beat off twice yesterday so yay me!Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/sex-communication/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy2019-09-1612 min
SEX COMMUNICATIONEpisode 65: The Great Tiny Penis DebateThe origin of today’s interview is this specific critique from a listener:“Hello I’ve recently been listening to your podcast and I like it - I’m very sex positive, I’m a sensual man. Like you, I seek higher and better orgasms although I have been kink shamed in past relationships and turned down for having a high sex drive but I’m dealing with that - here is my issue, your podcast says it is sex positive and non shaming yet I’ve heard you speak in a negative way of men not having a big d...2019-09-1248 min
SEX COMMUNICATIONEpisode 64: [QUICKIE] How I Got Off 9/2 - 9/8/19Mammograms and a sex conference! So much fun!I’m lying, the mammograms were awful. But the conference was wonderful!Hear all about both in this week’s episode.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/sex-communication/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy2019-09-1016 min
SEX COMMUNICATIONEpisode 63: Listener Questions And CommentsThis one is all about you! At least it is if you wrote me or commented on something or otherwise engaged…Here are the categories and questions/comments I cover in the episode:GENERALHave you ever played one of those sex simulation games?Could i be nude bound and displayed while you interview me?I feel as though there is a very negative stigma around pegging and that alot of guys dont feel comfortable trying it as a result (at least in my experiences) , but do you find/th...2019-09-0550 min
SEX COMMUNICATIONEpisode 62: [QUICKIE] How I Got Off 8/26 - 9/1/19Lots of toy play and porn this week, but no partner stuff…Thankfully I’ll be spending the weekend at a sex conference hosted by the hotel where I’m booked so I have faith next week will be a different story!Porn [all bondage-nipple porn] links:Bondage-nipple tickling, not terrible Decent all around but the lighting is awful and it’s way too slow Absurd “bondagette” 1, redhead Absurd “bondagette” 2a, blond Absurd “bondagette” 2b, same blond Absurd “bondagette” 3, brunetteThis one looks great but it’s too short!Another super-ap...2019-09-0213 min
SEX COMMUNICATIONEpisode 61: Handcuffed By No. 54Heyyyyy! Guess who spent hours editing an interview only to have it lost in a program crash? So much fun and not at all frustrating on the eve of my 40th birthday. Anyway!To save the publishing schedule, I have turned to another recording with #54; this is a briefer total session because there was no little blue pill involved but still a good time was had by all! There were handcuffs, a belt, some spanking, orgasms; all the good stuff.If you’d like to hear more from me and this guy, check out this 3-e...2019-08-2928 min
SEX COMMUNICATIONEpisode 60: [QUICKIE] How I Got Off 8/19 - 8/25/19So I went to my first orgy this past week. It happened Wednesday; there was a lot of nervous anticipation, a lot of lingering thoughts afterwards, and I will definitely attend again, if not host one myself.I’m not going to describe it here, you’ll have to listen for the juicy parts, but know that I will be writing a detailed account in a new piece titled “Baby’s First Orgy,” coming later this week.Aside from that specific sex bonanza, I masturbated later that same night, my mind aflutter with dirty thought and memori...2019-08-2735 min
SEX COMMUNICATIONEpisode 59: Barebacking With No. 54, Part 3Welcome to the third and final installment of the epic 2.5 hour session I recorded with No. 54! You can catch up on parts 1 and 2 here: Episode 9 / Episode 17If you’d prefer to just jump in with today’s episode, we pick up just a few minutes after the anal sex in Episode 17. My partner had taken a little pill which allowed him to maintain his impressive erection for as long as he did; in this clip he finally cums. I had been cumming the whole time but the orgasms I had in this last part were probably the best...2019-08-2229 min
SEX COMMUNICATIONEpisode 58: [QUICKIE] How I Got Off 8/12 - 8/18/19How did I get off this week? I DIDN’T. No masturbation, no partner sex, no nothin’.I went into this week fully expecting to be driven towards finding and attracting a better partner [or partners] and instead, I was so put off by the absolutely shitty sex I had last week that just the idea of pursuing physical satisfaction left a bad taste in my mouth.Ok, also there was the incident of not seeing the shitty sex partner in person but being propositioned by him via text, attempting to gently decline, tactfully [but vagu...2019-08-1917 min
SEX COMMUNICATIONEpisode 57: Straight Talk With A Bisexual ManI finally get to sit down with a bi man who is more than happy to openly discuss all the ins and outs of his sexual practice, history and experience, hallelujah! Consider this a contribution to the [bullshit] #analaugust as we talk a lot about butt fucking — you’re welcome ;)There’s so much to discuss, how it started, how he meets people, who he dates, how he dates, what he fantasizes about, porn, group sex, physical ideals…We also discuss the ridiculous stigma of bisexuality in men versus bisexuality in women; one being majorly taboo an...2019-08-1552 min
SEX COMMUNICATIONEpisode 56: [QUICKIE] How I Got Off 8/5 - 8/11/19Porn porn porn porn and more porn. Started with some bullshit produced stuff then lead to facesitting rabbithole. It all started with typical masturbation research, but continued into facesitting after pulling together all the blowjob audio from the last episode, “The Sound Of A Blowjob.” I was both jealous and inspired; jealous of my own lack of oral sex receiving and inspired to give a blowjob to one favorite cock in particular. These thoughts and feelings are what lead me to the actions and attempts of the following day; reaching out to #54 and after failed schedule alignment, settling for a ne...2019-08-1220 min
SEX COMMUNICATIONEpisode 55: The Sound Of A BlowjobIt’s audio porn time!!!This episode is all about blowjobs and all the sucky, slurpy sounds that come with ‘em. I’ve got 6 clips to share with you — a combination of submitted audio and audio sourced from “amateur” online porn, also a mix of queer and straight recordings for a broad listen to the experience.Listen in for the differences in approach, the variations in expression. Is the giver making sounds of pleasure? Is the receiver? Are they speaking or just making noise? What are they saying? You may be surprised by the similarities, or maybe by...2019-08-0854 min
SEX COMMUNICATIONEpisode 54: [QUICKIE] How I Got Off 7/29 - 8/4/19The biggest news this week is how the “great dildo experiment of 2019” went, and well, it failed :( The angles, positioning, logistics, whathaveyou, were all against me and in the end I got up and went back to my usual position and placement and of course some nipple play porn.Some partner longing feelings came up, both before this experiment and during, so I get into that… Also the two other instances of orgasm this week [both toy-only sessions, pretty decent].And hey! There’s a young lad [of age!!!] in the midst so I describe his part...2019-08-0517 min
SEX COMMUNICATIONEpisode 53: Motherhood, Domination, Squirting, Polyamory, Etc., Etc.An interview with SinAstasya, a kinky BnB host, mother, dominatrix, polyamorous experimentalistWith all her kinky interests, Sin is actually in a vanilla relationship for the last 9 years (male). However, she has other partners outside that relationship, including a regular girlfriend is submissive. Basically, she’s poly and her partner is not…So what is it like being a sexually open woman raising a daughter? Does she show about your profession? What is the sex education like at home? She leaves squirting books around, condoms; very open. What about masturbation? She puts a lot of thin...2019-08-011h 00
SEX COMMUNICATIONEpisode 52: [QUICKIE] How I Got Off 7/22 - 7/28/19Well this week was a first: I got so hot and bothered putting the porn links together for last Monday’s show that I beat off to them right after I finished recording! Plus one more that came up that day… see below for all of the clips from last week plus the new one.Speaking of those clips, one commenter took issue with my included “reviews” in the text of the porn links:**Aine: “It really makes me sad that you are so negative about breast implants and augmentations. Women and men get implants for a vari...2019-07-2911 min
SEX COMMUNICATIONEpisode 51: Sex Magic And Pussy WhisperingAn interview that starts with sex magic and turns to pussy whispering, much to my surprise.First of all, what the f*ck is sex magic?? John describes the philosophy and practice of it but it basically sounds a lot like being intentional and using language and focus to manifest something. Like “The Secret” perhaps?John came from a repressive and born-again Christian background and some time in his late teens he turned to reading and studying as a means of comfort. This research led him to discover texts about mindset and action.Whic...2019-07-261h 03
SEX COMMUNICATIONEpisode 50: [QUICKIE] How I Got Off 7/15 - 7/21/19So much porn! Well, at least on Monday [see below for links]The very next day I wound up playing with a real-life person! One of the recurring dudes from the masturbation party — good times were had by all but still no penetrative sex…Next, I continued photographing erections for the male body series I’ve been working on. Saturday I shot a gentleman who I’ve been in touch with for a while; captured the before, during and after while playing the selection of porn clips he had sent me prior to his visit.The...2019-07-2210 min
SEX COMMUNICATIONEpisode 49: Talking Evolving Sexuality With A GirlfriendAn interview with a longtime friend about personal sexual evolutions… actually, less of an interview and more of “recorded girl talk”We start by recounting the start of our friendship and openness among the two of us and others regarding the discussion of sex.Jenny grew up as a preacher’s kid, with conservative values and many restrictions — no dating, no sex before marriage, no pants, no short hair — and now she’s open and exploring her sexuality with abandon!How did this evolution occur? She was determined after adult sex sans orgasms for years. Now...2019-07-191h 00
SEX COMMUNICATIONEpisode 48: [QUICKIE] How I Got Off 7/8 - 7/14/19Toys, toys, toys and some exciting extracurricular activities…So, I watched a couple have sex on Skype Tuesday… I went into it thinking that the experience wouldn’t be much different from watching porn but it really was. It was very surprising how affecting it can be just being able to communicate in real time with the “performers.” Going into it, I wasn’t certain that I would masturbate while I watched, but in preparation for the video call, I was asked to at least be naked so that really set the odds in favor of my beating off...2019-07-1512 min
SEX COMMUNICATIONEpisode 47: Making Convo With The ManwhoreInterview with Billy Procida, stand-up comic and host of The Manwhore PodcastHow is his “quest for love” working out? Apparently not so well because his partners always want to keep it casual and not explore a relationship with him. Is it his personality? Is he bad at dating? Why do women not want to date him but are happy to screw him? He thinks it is mostly just bad timing.How about his orientation? Straight but identifies more as “coming out as something else in the next five years.”As an aside, if a wom...2019-07-1259 min
SEX COMMUNICATIONEpisode 46: [QUICKIE] How I Got Off 7/1 - 7/7/19I was really trying to make masturbation a part of my daily self-care practice but only managed to get off three times this week; the weather and period cramps got the better of me. Pretty uneventful play: once with just toys (decent orgasm; this was following my attempt to make myself squirt so the play was longer than usual thus bigger buildup thus bigger orgasm), once with just porn (SO quick, so very meh) and once with porn and toys (convulsions but nothing special).Early in the week I did an interview with a woman I consider...2019-07-0812 min
SEX COMMUNICATIONEpisode 45: Making The Anal SexYay! Audio porn!!!! Welcome to a lovely recording of a couple having anal sex! AND THEN all the practical tips for butt stuff you could ever want!Seriously, after the deliciously dirty audio, I share all the ins and outs and dos and don’ts of playing with the butt. Hygiene, prep, setting, mindset, props, etc…But, let’s not ignore some important lessons from the recording:Ask first: can I put my finger in your ass?Start small: fingers!Check in with your partner about their comfort and pleasure: do you...2019-07-0527 min
SEX COMMUNICATIONEpisode 44: [QUICKIE] How I Got Off 6/24 - 6/30Soooo, I’ve got some lingering embarrassment over the emotions I shared in last week’s [QUICKIE] but it was the truth so I went with it. Anyway!I wouldn’t go so far as to say my dryspell is over, but I did get off once… Sheer force of will? I think I was so put off by my own wallowing and emotions during the weeks before, that I did it out of pure determination.This last session was porn-free; I got my mind right by thinking about being manhandled by two different people at once...2019-07-0112 min
SEX COMMUNICATIONEpisode 43: Feet And FemDomsAn interview with Shane, another friend found on FetLife. Shane is into feet and femdoms and was an absolute delight to speak with. We talk about how is interests developed, his struggles with acting upon them and how family and culture have influenced his identity and sexuality.First off, how did his foot fetish begin, and how do you act upon it? Does it combine with femdom interest? Like, pain applied by feet? Being stepped on? How far do you go?Next we talk about intercourse and how often it comes into the picture. Also...2019-06-2854 min
SEX COMMUNICATIONEpisode 42: [QUICKIE] How I Got Off 6/17 - 6/23Well this episode was a doozy; did not expect to start crying but I did and that also terrified me so I just went with it and kept recording.No one ever speaks about the emotional toll of investing in yourself — it’s not very easy! It brings up all sorts of unfortunate feelings of self doubt and lack of faith and fear of the unknown and failure and on and on.Perhaps you’ll be disgusted by emotion or perhaps comforted to know it’s not just you, if you too have gone through similar...2019-06-2410 min
SEX COMMUNICATIONEpisode 41: "Alotta" Experience, Love And AcceptanceAn interview with Lotta, also known as "Alotta” on FetLife…Lotta identifies as both pansexual and a sensualist so we talk first about what these words mean to her and how they represent her identity. Also how that identity formed through early exposure to the LGBT community and an incredibly accepting open-minded and accepting family. Re: sensualist, Lotta is not into pain but into all aspects of sensory pleasure…She is poly / non-monogamous, but “non-slutty” and focused on love. In fact, many of her relationships may be intimate and loving but not inclusive of sex. She enjoys...2019-06-2156 min
SEX COMMUNICATIONEpisode 40: [QUICKIE] How I Got Off 6/9 - 6/16/19New posting day! Mondays from now onAnd heads up, the posting date of the regular episodes will be switching to Thursdays soon - probably around Episode 49So. I didn't get off this past week even one single time - even with the extra day! But, now I have the opportunity to speak about the effect of my depression and hormones on my mood and subsequent interest, or lack thereof, in anything sex. Also stress! Stress remained a big factor for me this past week.More about my approach to depression (hint, I...2019-06-1714 min
SEX COMMUNICATIONEpisode 39: Love, Burlesque And Anal SexA conversation with perhaps the most romantic, sex-positive couple I've ever known, Brendan and Erika. We talk about all the stuffs and they are each so open and enthusiastic and so at ease sharing all the juicy details that I just know you'll enjoy every minute.Some highlights!Vaginal vs. anal sex — they now almost exclusively have anal sex and share a wealth of tips and insight into how they make it a great shared experience…Brendan and Erika met in the burlesque world and we talk about the inherit sex and body posi...2019-06-141h 10
Thank You Heartbreak with Chelsea Leigh Trescott115: Don't Censor Yourself with Brianne McGuireFormer sex furniture designer, Brianne McGuire is the podcast host of Sex Communication and the Founder of Graphic Paint, a utopian idea of a platform where people are encouraged to share and express everything about their sexuality without shame or judgment. This isn’t erotica either, this is a place for people to be super filthy. Joining Chelsea 10:30 minutes in, Brianne talks about what blazing this new trial looks and sounds like and how being so explicitly human in her work has created a rift being her mom and her and makes dating challenging. In addition to sex talk, Brianne ge...2019-06-141h 02
SEX COMMUNICATIONEpisode 38: [QUICKIE] How I Got Off 6/2 - 6/8/19Fuckkkkkk meeee! I only came once this week!But as long as this project is about communication, I figured I’d tell you about a shitty date and the shitty shit leading up to it and the shitty shit that came after. Also, about a series of failed attempts at a date and general scheduling woes…To sum up the lesson from both the shitty date and the failed, attempted date: LISTEN TO THE UNIVERSE. If something is a struggle, LET THAT SHIT GO. Friction, rejection, etc., these things are generally indications that something is not...2019-06-1015 min
SEX COMMUNICATIONEpisode 37: Talking With BlakSyn About Life As A Black, Queer And Kinky TrailblazerAn Interview With BlakSyn…We jump in with how they distinguish between the function of the labels they identify with; queer vs. pansexual vs. non-binary and how identity differs from orientation. They mention body dysphoria so we talk about how that plays into their identification as non-binary; what does it mean to have a penis? We dive deeper into the expectations that come with a body with male genitalia and how that affects identity and pleasure. What is it like to have sex with a penis? How does physical presentation affect the experience and expression of sexual pl...2019-06-0758 min
SEX COMMUNICATIONEpisode 36: [QUICKIE] How I Got Off 5/26 - 6/1/19Up until yesterday, this episode was set to be about 5 minutes because ABSOLUTELY NOTHING HAPPENED.So what turned the tide? Well first of all I was busy and cranky all fucking week; I someone cancel last minute and then another just completely blow me off with no apology or explanation. Aside from those irritations, this has just been a very legwork-heavy 7 days. Lots of reaching out and following up and planning and recording, etc… I felt drained every single day and not all interested in “rubbing one out.” And then — I was back in contact with a younger...2019-06-0313 min
SEX COMMUNICATIONEpisode 35: Vaginal Masturbation, A Personal HistoryDid you know that babies touch themselves? For reals it’s true, and if that doesn’t normalize masturbation, I don’t know what can. Now I’ve had fantasies and sexual inclinations for as long as I can remember, but sadly I don’t recall my own baby beat off sessions to recount for you.However! I do recall a wealth of other details regarding my rocky journey to become the open, self-lovin’ woman you now know.My earliest memory of touching myself is putting my hand between my legs, cupping my vagina, while trying to fa...2019-05-3130 min
SEX COMMUNICATIONEpisode 34: [QUICKIE] How I Got Off 5/19 - 5/25/19Well I certainly wound up beating off more this week than last. It did help that I’ve been using the recorded audio from some one-on-one sessions as episode material because that led to reliving the events which led to sexy thoughts which led to communication with the parties which led to more sexy thoughts and on and on.Also there was porn again! I did watch some gangbang stuff as I had planned, but only one clip. There was one scene in particular where this group of guys picks the girl up and they’re all grop...2019-05-2620 min
SEX COMMUNICATIONEpisode 33: Ball-Play Masturbation Plus SurpriseSo one evening I had plans to record an interview with the other male attendee of my initial masturbation party and then all of a sudden I’m recording audio of him jerking off instead.How does this happen? Well it starts with the unexpected reveal that said interviewee is too fearful of his voice being recognized to participate in said interview without vocal distortion. What to do instead? It didn’t take long to figure that one out so a few minutes later, the gentleman was on my bed, my podcast mic now directed his way.2019-05-2435 min
SEX COMMUNICATIONEpisode 32: [QUICKIE] How I Got Off 5/12 - 5/18/19The week started off with high hopes for some freaky shit and ended with none… I was scheduled to attend a private orgy on Wednesday, however, after the combination of not receiving the email with the location and the unexpected emotional fallout over recent political events relating to the legislation of women’s bodies, I wasn’t exactly in the mood. I took the email mishap to be a sign for the universe that my time was in fact, NOT best spent fucking a bunch of probably mostly white guys, and decided instead to mope, write, cry and eat.T...2019-05-2011 min
SEX COMMUNICATIONEpisode 31: Mutual Masturbation With #57Some audio porn of mutual masturbation in honor of May being Masturbation Month wheeeee! Here’s a recording done after the masturbation event I hosted in April; the other participant is one of the two gentleman who attended in person. I’ve decided to refer to this guy as #57 even though we have not had penetrative sex… yet? Who knows! Anyway, during the party I only touched him with my toes so we kind of made up for what was not done then by touching each other during this session. What kind of touching??? Well for starters, he took hold o...2019-05-1738 min
SEX COMMUNICATIONEpisode 30: [QUICKIE] How I Got Off 5/5 - 5/11/19Sadly no masturbation this week other than some foreplay stuff during partner sex on Wednesday. Let’s hear it for penetration! Anyway, so yes I got laid this week and that was a plus, but also complicated. Oh yeah, and after all the prep and planning, I had to cancel the masturbation party for Saturday night.I’m on a new birth control which has fucked with my cycle and so I’ve been bleeding for well over a week which has curtailed my self-love inclinations considerably. A lot of it is practical concerns; I don’t want to...2019-05-1209 min
SEX COMMUNICATIONEpisode 29: Sexual Slavery, Race And PerceptionAn interview with MasterNeefFirst up, the difference between tone of profile versus tone of personality which leads to a reading of his FetLife profile which is delightfully specific. Next we dive into his experience having slaves and how his kink developed. Discussion about the challenges of exploring the slave kink in public — race and gender make it a dangerous game. Then we talk about specific acts he’s engaged in as his kink has evolved. Introduction to the subject came from porn.We discuss whether or not he is open about this interests with frie...2019-05-101h 00
SEX COMMUNICATIONEpisode 28: [QUICKIE] How I Got Off 4/28 - 5/4/19It was a slooooooowww week folks.Sunday or Monday I beat off trying to get to sleep, was especially difficult and turned to porn to finish the job [see clips below]. I was already close with the toys so it took very little, hence only two clips and not very exciting clips at that.Thursday > I had an interview scheduled with one of the male attendees from the party but he didn’t tell me until he arrived that he required some sort of vocal distortion in order to feel comfortable. While that issue and ca...2019-05-0511 min
SEX COMMUNICATIONEpisode 27: Play Session 2, "The Brit"Heyyyy! So this episode contains the audio of when I hit a shame boundary! Here’s the first cyber play session with “The Brit” which involved video, and also EXTREME self consciousness on my end… I had to turn on all the lights in my room (blegh overhead lighting) so that I was illuminated enough for him to see me on his end and that shit made me very, very uncomfortable. I didn’t feel sexy at all and it was a big mental push to keep going.The recording covers a range of his attempts to “break me,” s...2019-05-041h 00
SEX COMMUNICATIONEpisode 26: [QUICKIE] How I Got Off 4/21 - 4/27/19Two one-on-one sessions!!! 1) Spontaneously on Monday I was texting with one of the party attendees, the self-labeled heteroflexible one, and we made impulsive plans for him to come by in the late afternoon after our texting got a bit hot and heavy. Turns out we were both thinking about the possibility of a MM group sex situation and so we went into some of those details… Once we were in the same room, we went into more details and helped each other get off. 2) The other male party attendee happened to text me that same Monday with the proposal th...2019-04-2811 min