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That Based Dating Podcast044 Safisfizers and MaximizersOften in life, we are challenged to avoid making mistakes, to not own up to our mistakes if we make them, and certainly we lean on our reputation for forgiveness in the unavoidable wake of being mistaken. It seems like the crushing weight of not choosing the right partner, early on, weighs heavy on many of us. On today’s show, I suggest letting go of the fear that you are unworthy of the love that you long for. I believe that everyone is a personal magnet for the love they deserve. Sometimes we get the love tha...2023-09-0121 minThat Based Dating Podcast043 Masculinity OverloadRelationship dynamics in the 21st-century are difficult to navigate. While fragile and soy-fed men and women continue to fill up the dating pool until it reeks of toxic waste, many humans are still trying to sort through what to expect from their counterparts. On today's show I talk about the disparity between supply and demand of masculine ability. So many women find themselves working hard and pursuing excellence- which makes them uninteresting to the high performing masculine who seek nearly pure feminine traits. Will men breach this gap emotionally so they can be evenly yolked...2023-08-0741 minThat Based Dating Podcast042 Barbie in ReviewOn today's show I address the plotless dystopian movie Barbie that I unfortunately paid to see. While assuming the film would be a nostalgic and probably left leaning film about pink and feminism- I was quickly surprised to find no plot line and a lot of misandrist mocking of men and traditionalist world views. While the expectation that this movie would be conservative is laughable, I expected at least a veiled pursual of extreme anti-male propaganda which ended up being the forefront plot. While the males in the movie were sad, pathetic losers- Barbie and the two...2023-07-2421 minThat Based Dating Podcast041 Almost ChristianOn today's show, I discuss my history growing up in a Baptist church, and how that molded my religious views. While my intellectual knowledge of Christian theology is not some thing I happily ditch, I also can't claim to be someone who wants to label "Christian". I have developed virtue, not by knowing about a guy who died and rose again- but by realizing the deeper, richer meaning of Christ- and how we must all take up our cross and find responsibility in our lives by chasing meaning and truth. Enjoy the listen!2023-07-1116 minThat Based Dating Podcast036 V is for VoluntaryI've finally made a political episode- vaguely! Ha! On today's show, I explain the evolution of my beliefs. While I started as a very conservative Republican, I found my way to all out communism for a couple weeks, and then the rubber band went back to normal, and I found liberty amongst the rubble. Have you undergone a political change in your life? Have your politic shifted since you were a young adult? Do you share your parents political ideology? I love to hear your feedback as alw...2023-06-0816 minThat Based Dating Podcast034 Skeptical Government SkepticHappy Memorial Day - and we've got a doozy of an episode where I unravel my inherent skepticism of even my own world view! While, I've been a proud Anarchist/Voluntaryist for a while, I've run into a lot of folks who seem to miss the importance of respecting individuals and not institutions. That means we have to also respect humans WITHIN institutions who genuinely want what's best for their community (even if it's misguided.) My experience with government workers is that most do want to help, serve, and care for the...2023-05-3011 minThat Based Dating Podcast033 Female FriendshipsDedicated to my own Best Friend Today's episode is a reminder to all women how important it is to have female friendships. Not only is it more satisfying to live each day full of feminine energy, love, and folks who truly relate to your lived experience -- it is an essential practice to being in balance for other relationships. I am closer to myself than I have ever been, simply, because I have a friend to vent to and be witnessed by! I am more open to a romantic rel...2023-05-2717 minThat Based Dating Podcast031 Attention as CurrencyOn this episode, I address a common misconception among folks in the "red pill" community. While evolutionary biology does dictate so much of male and female behavior the generalization that only women see attention as currency is a pretty big miss. On the whole, all humans need attention and all humans fight for attention. As babies, we cry for attention to survive. As we age we become more sophisticated. This means that women will cast a wide net for validation in hopes that one of those men will want to meaningfully invest. Men cast a si...2023-05-1712 minThat Based Dating Podcast029 Internet PersonasOn today's show, I discussed the importance of not to miss categorizing, or miss characterizing someone based on their Internet persona. While it's fun to get to know someone on the Internet that you would never have the chance to meet in real life, we all have to be careful not to confuse that with a genuine connection. Even I am guilty of finding a super high-status hottie's Instagram, and thinking that I had a connection with him that I truly didn't have. Even when you are on the Internet has a personality, you can...2023-05-1214 minThat Based Dating Podcast028 The Origin StoryOn today's show I make it weird for folks who don't know me, since my back story is a wild one. I've decided to share it with as much transparency as feasible for a twenty minute show. We start at my family history, describe the abuse and poverty that gripped my past, and work forward into my major life events. Where we come from often defines where we end up, but I am hoping to change the stars for myself and future generations. Do you relate to my origin story? Share @d...2023-05-1119 minThat Based Dating Podcast027 YogaOn today's show I discuss the deep spiritual impact yoga has had since approaching it is a holistic wellness practice. While functional movement and exercise have always been on my radar, the deep meditative practice of yoga is new to my life post marriage. Connecting to God in this new way and my inner consciousness (Christ consciousness) has improved my experience on earth greatly. Have you done the DEEP yoga or just the exercise? let's chat @dailydoseofbpod or @brittanie jay on Facebook 2023-05-0515 minThat Based Dating Podcast026 Feminine and SoftOn today's show I explore what is meant by some of the language around attraction. This subject has felt elusive to me for many years, but I've been looking inward at what sides of me are "feminine and soft" and what parts have generated the most attraction. While many women project their own ideas (in regards to masculinity) and try to be the opposite - making themselves small or needy- to catch a man with what they believe are their feminine wiles, I am uncovering that this projection is a misstep. The...2023-05-0414 minThat Based Dating Podcast025 Male vs Female AbuseOn this episode, I bring my best friend on the pod to discuss a topic we both have experience in to varying degrees. Abuse is a huge problem in relationships, according to self reporting and vital statistics, but it is scary to think that people may not truly understand when they are abusing just as much as they are being abused. Female techniques for abusing their male partners is very different than the angry male counterpart, so we discuss all types of abuse to flesh out what that even means. Are wo...2023-04-2726 minThat Based Dating Podcast024 Internet CloutWelcome back to the show! On today's episode I discuss the problems I've faced recently around my "public presence" and how I've chosen to deal with folks who criticize me. Whether it's in real life, or it's on the Internet, it's always best to take anything. Someone is saying with a grain of salt. I have learned to not take judgment from someone who's not doing better than me or who's not coming in good faith to discuss ideas. How do you deal with this stuff if you've got a...2023-04-2612 minThat Based Dating Podcast022 Conservative Again?On today's show, we go back through the annals of my political disposition. While my initial politics and social preferences were conservative to please my conservative Christian family, I quickly gained a tremendous amount of respect for the liberal views held by my public school teachers. After deconstructing political ideology and many areas where I had tossed the baby out with the bath water (when it came to social values)- I ended up in a position tightly held by many evolutionary biologists which also happens to coincide with many historically Christian ideals. ...2023-04-2118 minThat Based Dating Podcast020 Boss Babe DropoutIn a world where women can do everything that men can do, I decided to explore whether they should... While I have always considered myself to be an egalitarian feminist- I believe that women should have all of the same rights under the law that men do - I can't help but wonder how our western world has changed as women grew in economic staying power. My personal goals have always been centered around the care for my family, which has now narrowed to my children, but that has clearly become a more dif...2023-04-1417 minThat Based Dating Podcast019 Gut Health and HealingOn today's episode I talk about why many of us did not get the best start for optimal gut health and how gut health can still be accomplished. While many folks turn to fad diets, juicing, smoothies, pills, and wraps-- it's important to see how health can be achieved through knowledge and nutrition. While I give you my 3 biggest tips for changing your gut for the better, each person should really look at their history and take a fully individualized approach. If you need that - schedule a free consult on my website! getfoodtherapy.com2023-04-1215 minThat Based Dating Podcast018 What is a Good Woman?Despite my longing for a good man and my recent break up- I've often found myself wanting. Where men know what a good woman is intuitively- many women are not set up with proper expectations for themselves. On today's episode I dive into what the Internet, the Bible, and my anecdotal experiences are on the topic with what makes a good woman. I am still fleshing it out and learning. Drop any feedback or pointers. @dailydoseofbpod or Brittanie jay on Facebook! 2023-04-1111 minThat Based Dating Podcast017 Break-ups and WisdomBreak-ups are hard and on today's show I tell you the inner workings of my most recent break ups. There is always wisdom to gain and rejection is certainly redirection. Being a human is messy and it is worse if we refuse to take accountability for the things we mess up or overlook. I hope you enjoyed my breakdown of these recent life events and can give yourself a break if you are struggling to get through a break up. let's chat on instagram @dailydoseofbpod or F...2023-04-1015 minThat Based Dating Podcast014 Growing into Present AwarenessOn today's episode we talk about what it means to be truly present. Although many of us think we are alive and living our lives in our bodies- it is harder than we think to not disassociate and live internally. While our minds are always trying to guide us inside for criticism and introspection, we often miss out on meaningful experiences. I mentioned my favorite book The Untethered Soul by Micheal Singer (highly reccomend you read it asap and commit it to memory) in the episode. Follow me on IG @dailydoseofbpod...2023-04-0313 minThat Based Dating Podcast012 Fertility AwarenessOn today's episode, we get a nitty-gritty on a subject that really pertains to the experience of a woman who is in her fertile phase of life. Fertility awareness, method, and the overall return to more natural family planning solutions is a big passion of mine! I want to see more women become self responsible in terms of their menstruation. Hope you enjoy the episode- Join the convo with me at @dailydoseofbpod or @Brittanie Jay on Facebook 2023-03-2815 minThat Based Dating Podcast006 Peaceful ParentingToday, I discuss conscious and peaceful parenting. From my own sordid history with violent and permissive parents, to living out my own non-coercive ideals-- enjoy this deep dive with me. Facebook @Brittanie Jay Instagram Anarcho_milf2023-03-1719 minThat Based Dating Podcast005 My thoughts on Russell Brand and his LIVE showSaw Russell Brand perform live in early March and enjoyed his show. He was funny, poignant, and always brings a level of vocabulary that is unmatched. Heres a link to a photo with him-https://www.facebook.com/photo.php?fbid=194367473209538&set=pb.100079088596314.-2207520000.&type=3 It was so nice to meet him in person! Follow me- @anarcho_milf or Brittanie Jay on Facebook2023-03-1615 min