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BE[different] PodcastOne Day At A Time To SobrietyOn today's episode, we celebrate a big day within our marriage story and in Bryan's story. Just a couple of days ago on January 30th, we celebrated 14 years of sobriety for Bryan. We share what the journey was like before Bryan was healed from his alcohol addiction and the pain that Shayla experienced. Bryan shares how he surrendered his addiction and encourages those battling an addiction with three practical ways to fight off the temptation. If you or a loved one are battling an addiction, we are here to help you and we believe in sobriety for you or...
2022-02-011h 11BE[different] Podcast3 Ways To Improve Communication In Your MarriageOn today's episode, we share three ways to improve communication in your marriage. Whether you find yourself struggling to connect as a couple or you feel your communication is pretty solid, we share how you can begin having deeper conversations. We begin our relationships by spending hours upon hours talking to each other, learning about each other, and connecting with each other. As the years past in a marriage, often times communication suffers and it is easy to point fingers at the other spouse. Take a listen to this week's conversation to overcome that wedge that is common and...
2022-01-2547 minBE[different] PodcastThe Spiritual Battle Is RealOn today's episode, we talk about the ongoing spiritual battle that we all face. Sin is crouching at our door, waiting to attack us when we let our guard down. We have to acknowledge that the battle is real and then fan the flame of the Holy Spirit to help us in the battle.Genesis 3:1Genesis 4:1-92 Timothy 1:6-7BE[different] Weekend Marriage Experience: If you are a pastor or a church leader, we would welcome the opportunity to talk with you about our weekend marriage experience. The intent of the Weekend Marriage...
2022-01-1828 minBE[different] PodcastIs It Possible To Be Content?On today's episode, we talk through what it means to feel content and how to get there. Life is sometimes like the hokey pokey. We put one foot in of being content while one foot is is out. Sometimes both feet are in and sometimes both feet are out. We share examples of how we overcame seasons of discontent to find contentment.Psalm 55:22BE[different] Weekend Marriage Experience: If you are a pastor or a church leader, we would welcome the opportunity to talk with you about our weekend marriage experience. The intent of the...
2022-01-1238 minBE[different] PodcastThings To Stop Doing, Things To Start Doing - Part 2On today's episode, we begin 2022 by concluding our two part discussion. With the beginning of the year here, it's a time of fresh starts. We share three practical ways to make 2022 the best year yet for you, your family, and your career. Last week we talked about things we need to stop doing and this week we talk about things we need to start doing. If we stop habits that are detrimental to our well-being and begin habits that contribute to our well-being, we can look back at the end of 2022 and see change.2 Corinthians 4:16-192...
2022-01-0441 minBE[different] PodcastThings To Stop Doing, Things To Start Doing - Part 1On today's episode, we finish out 2021 with a two part discussion. With the end of year here, it's a time of reflection and a time of new beginnings. For many of us, there are things we need to stop doing and there are things we need to start doing. The end of the year has a different feel to it than the end of each month. We can use this time as a closure and end to things we need to eliminate from our lives. Take a listen to part 1 and be sure to come back week when we...
2021-12-2837 minBE[different] PodcastThe Most Wonderful Time Of The Year: LoveOn today's episode, we conclude our series titled, "The Most Wonderful Time Of The Year". Christmas is this week but for many, it's the most stressful time of the year. The focus for today's episode is love. We celebrated 22 years of marriage this past week and shared thoughts about our journey. Are you looking for love in all the wrong places? Is it possible to find love that is everlasting? Take a listen to hear how true love saved our marriage, restored our broken love, and provided a foundation of love that is still standing strong 22 years later. This...
2021-12-2141 minBE[different] PodcastThe Most Wonderful Time Of The Year: JoyOn today's episode, we continue our series titled, "The Most Wonderful Time Of The Year". Christmas season is upon us but for many, it's the most stressful time of the year. The focus for today's episode is joy. How do we find joy when darkness seems to rob us of any light? What is the difference between joy and happiness? Where can we find and experience joy? We talk about these things and more.John 15:11John 15:1-2Acts 16:25-34The biblical definition of joy says that joy is a feeling of good pleasure...
2021-12-1434 minBE[different] PodcastThe Most Wonderful Time Of The Year: PeaceOn today's episode, we continue our series titled, "The Most Wonderful Time Of The Year". Christmas season is upon us but for many, it's the most stressful time of the year. We discuss what it looks like to find peace in the middle of the stress. When we go through seasons of stress, anxiety, or darkness, it can be extremely difficult to experience peace. We share how to find peace even when it seems impossible.Philippians 4:7-9Isaiah 9:6Ephesians 6:15BE[different] Weekend Marriage Experience: If you are a pastor or a church leader...
2021-12-0746 minBE[different] PodcastThe Most Wonderful Time Of The Year: HopeOn today's episode, we begin our new series titled, "The Most Wonderful Time Of The Year". Christmas season is upon us but for many, it's the most stressful time of the year. We discuss what it looks like to find hope in the middle of the stress. Some of us are struggling through the darkness but we share how to find hope that is everlasting and well beyond just the Christmas season.Romans 15:13Shayla's blog titled, "The Most Wonderful Time Of The Year?BE[different] Weekend Marriage Experience: If you are a pastor or...
2021-11-3032 minBE[different] PodcastWhen It's Okay To Say YesOn today's episode, we talk through when it's okay to say "yes" to our kids. For us, we tend to say "no" or "maybe later" more often than "yes". However, we are working on this and have become better by applying four questions when faced to make a decision. By asking ourselves these four questions, we are now able to answer "yes" more often to create memories for our kids. We are confident that they will help you in your parenting too. Bryan shares a story about how not buying cotton candy for our kids made a lasting impact...
2021-11-2649 minBE[different] PodcastA Season Of ChangeOn today's episode, we kick off season 5 of the podcast! We talk about the season of change. The leaves are falling, Thanksgiving is around the corner, and Christmas will be here in just a few short weeks. Change is inevitable. When change happens, we can embrace the change or resist the change. We talk about how to navigate change and how to have one constant through any season of change. Hebrews 13:8BE[different] Weekend Marriage Experience: If you are a pastor or a church leader, we would welcome the opportunity to talk with you about...
2021-11-1648 minBE[different] PodcastCelebrate With UsOn today's episode, we celebrate Bryan's incredible marathon from this past weekend. Over the past 15 years, Bryan has run marathons all across the United States. On Saturday, he completed his 50th state in our hometown of Kansas City, Missouri. It was the perfect day with so many things coming together better than we could have scripted. We invite you into our celebration and talk through what the day was like. When you focus on something, even when things become difficult, you can achieve exactly what you set your mind to.This episode wraps up season 4. We will...
2021-10-1950 minBE[different] PodcastRunning The Right DirectionOn today's episode, we talk about Bryan's upcoming marathon in Kansas City. 15 years ago this month, he made the decision to run a marathon. He shares the reason for making that decision and then how he decided to run a marathon in each state. The Kansas City Marathon will be his final state to reach his goal. For the longest time, Bryan was running after things that were temporary but now is running with purpose.Hebrews 12:1-3Kristian Stanfill | Jesus Paid It AllTo support Addyson, Bryan and Shayla's daughter, change the world by...
2021-10-121h 08BE[different] PodcastOne Year LaterOn today's episode, we celebrate the one year anniversary of our podcast. It's been an interesting journey as we have been stretched and challenged to record and produce a podcast each and every week. Through technology challenges and lack of margin at times, we have persevered to put out new content that encourages the listener. Our desire is to have a podcast that is different so you can be different in your life.BE[different] Weekend Marriage Experience: If you are a pastor or a church leader, we would welcome the opportunity to talk with you about...
2021-10-0633 minBE[different] PodcastFrom Chapter To ChapterOn today's episode, we talk about navigating the different chapters in life. Sometimes chapters can seem like they go on and on while other chapters seem to come to a conclusion quickly. Friends come and go, experiences come and go, but we can embrace each chapter and enjoy the moment while we can.BE[different] Weekend Marriage Experience: If you are a pastor or a church leader, we would welcome the opportunity to talk with you about our weekend marriage experience. The intent of the Weekend Marriage Experience is to have marriages be different as a result...
2021-09-2833 minBE[different] PodcastDo You Need A Miracle? - Part 5On today's episode, we conclude our talk about miracles. This is one topic that is probably more real than most of us want to believe or admit. For some, things are difficult. Maybe it’s your marriage. Maybe it’s a loss of a loved one. Maybe it’s a dark secret you’ve lived with for most of your life or an addiction that just won’t stop attacking you. For many, you desperately need a miracle.We talk through the last miracle that Jesus performed in the book of John. We are going to have a real con...
2021-09-2140 minBE[different] PodcastDo You Need A Miracle? - Part 4On today's episode, we continue our talk about miracles. This is one topic that is probably more real than most of us want to believe or admit. For some, things are difficult. Maybe it’s your marriage. Maybe it’s a loss of a loved one. Maybe it’s a dark secret you’ve lived with for most of your life or an addiction that just won’t stop attacking you. For many, you desperately need a miracle.We talk through one more of the miracles that Jesus performed in the book of John. We are going to have a...
2021-09-1446 minBE[different] PodcastDo You Need A Miracle? - Part 3On today's episode, we continue our talk about miracles. This is one topic that is probably more real than most of us want to believe or admit. For some, things are difficult. Maybe it’s your marriage. Maybe it’s a loss of a loved one. Maybe it’s a dark secret you’ve lived with for most of your life or an addiction that just won’t stop attacking you. For many, you desperately need a miracle.We talk through two more of the miracles that Jesus performed in the book of John. We are going to have a...
2021-09-0747 minBE[different] PodcastDo You Need A Miracle? - Part 2On today's episode, we continue our talk about miracles. This is one topic that is probably more real than most of us want to believe or admit. For some, things are difficult. Maybe it’s your marriage. Maybe it’s a loss of a loved one. Maybe it’s a dark secret you’ve lived with for most of your life or an addiction that just won’t stop attacking you. For many, you desperately need a miracle.We talk through two more of the miracles that Jesus performed in the book of John. We are going to have a...
2021-08-3143 minBE[different] PodcastDo You Need A Miracle? - Part 1On today's episode, we talk about miracles. This is one topic that is probably more real than most of us want to believe or admit. For some, things are difficult. Maybe it’s your marriage. Maybe it’s a loss of a loved one. Maybe it’s a dark secret you’ve lived with for most of your life or an addiction that just won’t stop attacking you. For many, you desperately need a miracle.We talk through some of the miracles that Jesus performed. We are going to have a real conversation in our living room as we...
2021-08-2540 minBE[different] PodcastBack To School TimeOn today's episode, we talk about the rush of back to school and all that comes with this season. When time seems to speed up and life moves at record speeds, we can still lead our kids with a routine that builds trust and comfort. We talk about ways to be prepared, ways to be consistent, ways to be active, and ways to be different.BE[different] Weekend Marriage Experience: If you are a pastor or a church leader, we would welcome the opportunity to talk with you about our weekend marriage experience. The intent of the...
2021-08-1735 minBE[different] PodcastCelebrate The MilestonesOn today's episode, we talk about the importance of celebrating milestones within your story. It's easy to get caught up in the the next big thing and always looking ahead. However, it's important that we look back to celebrate victories along the way. When we do this, we can see how God has worked in the past and we can be encouraged that he will work again in the present and in the future.BE[different] Weekend Marriage Experience: If you are a pastor or a church leader, we would welcome the opportunity to talk with you...
2021-08-1031 minBE[different] PodcastWhen Life Comes Crashing DownOn today's episode, we kick off Season 4 talking about a recent storm that we had to battle. Life seems to come crashing down all at once but it's how we respond to the trials that can help us get through whatever we are facing. There are times in life that you can sense the danger ahead of you, sense the danger chasing you down, and wonder if there is a safe place to take cover. Take a listen to hear about our storm and how we fought through the battle with the help of others.Hillsong UNITED | A...
2021-08-0348 minBE[different] PodcastIt's Not What You Think: Your PastOn today's episode, we continue our series titled "It's Not What You Think". This week we talk about your past. We all have a past. Things that happened to us, things that we did, or things that we did to others that can hold us back. Rather than let our past define us, we can use the past to motivate us to make a change. In order to look forward to the future, we can reflect on the past to not make the same mistakes.BE[different] Weekend Marriage Experience: If you are a pastor or a...
2021-06-2936 minBE[different] PodcastIt's Not What You Think: GivingOn today's episode, we continue our series titled "It's Not What You Think". This week we talk about giving and living with open hands of generosity. Often times we get it wrong. We think or believe that the church just wants our money. That is anything but the truth. God doesn't want your money, he wants your heart. When we begin to live with open hands of generosity, invest in the local church, and experience real change within our hearts, we can give with faith which turns into giving faithfully.2nd Corinthians 9:7: do not give reluctantly...
2021-06-2233 minBE[different] PodcastIt's Not What You Think: ChurchOn today's episode, we continue our series titled "It's Not What You Think". This week we talk about the impact of the local church. The church is more than just four walls and a building. The church is the group of people inside the building, gathering together, and passionately following Jesus. This week builds off of last week's episode, "It's Not What You Think: Jesus". The church can be a place of healing and purpose for you. You can find authentic friendships with people who truly care for you and care about you. Many of us have been burned...
2021-06-1539 minBE[different] PodcastIt's Not What You Think: JesusOn today's episode, we begin a new series titled "It's Not What You Think". This week we talk about why following Jesus changes everything. The name brings different emotions for different people. For some, the name Jesus brings comfort and peace. But for many, the name Jesus brings questions and hesitation. Our desire is that the name of Jesus stirs something deep within you and a desire to learn more about him. He is waiting for you to turn to him with every breath, every thought, and every action.Galatians 5:13-16: living by the Spirit, not by...
2021-06-0843 minBE[different] PodcastEliminating Roles Within Your MarriageOn today's episode, we talk roles within a marriage. When roles are defined, it can often times form a wedge in your relationship. Should the wife always do the laundry and the husband always mow the yard? The answer is no. You need to do things together, intertwined, and without roles set in stone. Take a listen to hear how to avoid this within your marriage so you are on the same page when it comes to tasks within your marriage.Romans 12:2Genesis 2:18The Dark Reality of Postpartum Depression: Season 2, Episode 9 // Shayla shares her struggle...
2021-06-0230 minBE[different] PodcastCreating A Culture For Your FamilyOn today's episode, we talk about creating a culture within your family. Culture is talked a lot about within the workplace and within organizations but do we talk about it enough within our families? We have been very intentional and specific when creating the culture within our family. We share real life examples on how you can begin to create a culture in yours. It's one of the most important things you can do as you parent your kids.BE[different] Weekend Marriage Experience: If you are a pastor or a church leader, we would welcome the...
2021-05-2545 minBE[different] PodcastGuarding Your Marriage From BehaviorsOn today's episode, we continue our conversation about guarding your marriage. Today we talk specifically about guarding our marriages from behaviors. Things like work behavior, hobbies, substance abuse, and pornography. We must be intentional and aware when creating boundaries with our behavior to minimize tension and increase communication with our marriage. This is one boundary that many couples overlook. Take a listen to see where you can apply healthy boundaries to have the marriage you've always wanted.Ephesians 5:33: Loving our wife and respecting our husband. James 1:13-15: Temptation is not from God but from our own...
2021-05-181h 00BE[different] PodcastGuarding Your Marriage From The Opposite Sex - Part 2On today's episode, we continue our conversation about guarding your marriage. Today is Part 2 to last week where we specifically talk about putting boundaries in your marriage to guard from the opposite sex. From text messages, to lunch meetings, to social media, we must be extremely careful, intentional, and transparent when creating boundaries and communicating with your spouse when it comes to interaction with the opposite sex. Our hope is that today's episode reinforces boundaries that you already have in place and also challenges to look at areas within your marriage that you could create new boundaries....
2021-05-1137 minBE[different] PodcastGuarding Your Marriage From The Opposite Sex - Part 1On today's episode, we continue our conversation about guarding your marriage. Today we specifically talk about putting boundaries in your marriage to guard from the opposite sex. Let us be very clear. This is the most important boundary you can put around your marriage. There is no gray area. This is not the boundary to bump up against. You will destroy your marriage if you are not extremely intentional about this. Take a listen to Part 1 and learn how to implement boundaries from the opposite sex.Matthew 5:27-30BE[different] Weekend Marriage Experience: If you...
2021-05-0431 minBE[different] PodcastGuarding Your Marriage From FriendshipsOn today's episode, we continue our conversation about guarding your marriage. Today we specifically talk about putting boundaries in your marriage to guard from friendships. Often times within a marriage, friendships can cause tension within a marriage. There are both positive friendships and negative friendships. We must be intentional to guard our marriage against both. We share insight why this is important and how too much of a good thing can turn into a bad thing.BE[different] Weekend Marriage Experience: If you are a pastor or a church leader, we would welcome the opportunity to talk...
2021-04-2723 minBE[different] PodcastGuarding Your Marriage From Extended FamilyOn today's episode, we continue our conversation about guarding your marriage. We recap what boundaries are, why they are important, and how to implement them. Today we specifically talk about putting boundaries in your marriage to guard from extended family. Often times, parents and in-laws can cause tension and conflict within a marriage. We share insight on how to navigate those relationships so it is a win/win for everyone involved compared to a lose/lose that it often can be.Mark 3:24-25BE[different] Weekend Marriage Experience: If you are a pastor or a...
2021-04-2043 minBE[different] PodcastThe Importance Of Guarding Your MarriageOn today's episode, we discuss the importance of guarding your marriage. Boundaries keep sacred what is intended to be kept sacred...your marriage. Today we specifically talk about what boundaries are and why we must have them. Over the next few weeks, we will talk about putting boundaries in your marriage to guard from extended family, friends, work, addictions, and much more.We are excited to be back for Season 3! Thank you for your continued support. Hit that subscribe button if you haven't already!Genesis 2:15-17Genesis 4:6-7Proverbs 4:23-27BE...
2021-04-1331 minBE[different] PodcastIt Just Doesn't Make SenseOn today's episode, we discuss how to navigate life when you find yourself thinking, "it just doesn't make sense". We break down three groups of people who might find themselves saying this phrase. There is a constant spiritual battle going on within our minds and we want to encourage you to keep the faith, keep grinding, and keep following Jesus.This episode concludes Season 2! Thank you for being a part of our community. If you haven’t listened to both seasons, now is the time to catch up. We are taking a 3-week break (we said 2-week br...
2021-03-2338 minBE[different] PodcastFight For Your Marriage, Not In Your Marriage - Part 2On today's episode, we continue our conversation from last week. We are talking about tension within a marriage. Today is part 2 as we finish talking through the list of “when things get tough within a marriage, the world says…”. We give real-life, practical ways to work through conflict within your marriage. By taking these steps, you can begin to eliminate the tension and start having the marriage you've always wanted.James 4:1-12Matthew 4:1-11BE[different] Weekend Marriage Experience: If you are a pastor or a church leader, we would welcome the opportunity to talk w...
2021-03-1654 minBE[different] PodcastFight For Your Marriage, Not In Your Marriage - Part 1On today's episode, we talk about tension within a marriage. Today is part 1 as we talk through a list of “when things get tough within a marriage, the world says…”. There must be an emphasis on “we” within your marriage rather than “me” within your marriage. Today’s episode can be a game-changer for your marriage. Begin to look at fighting together, for your marriage rather than fighting against each other, in your marriage. It's vital to have this mindset in order to have the marriage you were destined to have.BE[different] Weekend Marriage Experience: If you are a pastor...
2021-03-0937 minBE[different] PodcastThe Dark Reality Of Postpartum DepressionOn today's episode, we talk about the dark reality of postpartum depression. After having our first child, Shayla battled postpartum depression for 18 months. She shares how her identity was stripped from her when we made the decision to have her leave the workplace and become a stay-at-home mom. We will talk through how she was able to overcome the long, dark season. Plus, she shares practical steps to help you avoid the same struggles that she did.Romans 12:121 Peter 5:7Psalm 55:22To download the free resource, "Truth vs Lies", that we discussed on today's...
2021-03-0254 minBE[different] PodcastSpiritual Growth Through ServingOn today's episode, we have a conversation around serving within the church and how it can be a catalyst for spiritual growth. We share examples from within our own story and experiences. We talk about what holds people back from serving, the importance of serving, and how your willingness to serve can be a breakthrough for someone else within their story. At the end of the podcast, we give a key takeaway to help you find a spot to serve within your own church.1 Corinthians 12:12-14, 21-23Matthew 20:28 1 Peter 4:9-11BE[different] Weekend...
2021-02-2348 minBE[different] PodcastLeading The Next Generation (with James Meehan of Life.Church)On today's episode, we are joined by James Meehan of Life.Church. James is a student pastor, communicator, and content developer for Switch. Switch is the student ministry for one of the most influential churches across the globe. James is a dynamic speaker with a heart for the next generation within the Church. James is a father to a newborn son, a husband of almost five years, and a fully devoted follower of Jesus. During our discussion, we talk about why Life.Church is so intentional about leading the next generation. There are so many voices speaking...
2021-02-1641 minBE[different] PodcastTwo Statements That Will Change Your MarriageOn today's episode, we share two statements that will change your marriage. If you find your marriage in a dry season, we discuss ways to bring life back to your relationship. Marriage can become very routine and mundane because we get up, do the same thing, go to bed, and do it all over again the next day.We also talk about the challenge of buying gifts, especially for Valentine's Day. However, we have the perfect gift for you this year. Invest in your marriage by registering for our Marriage Mentoring program. If you and your spouse...
2021-02-0941 minBE[different] PodcastLiving As An Addict, Living With An AddictOn today's episode, we continue our conversation from last week about addictions. Bryan talks about what it's like living as an addict. Shayla talks about what it's like living with an addict. Today's episode will help those battling an addiction and those who have a loved one battling an addiction. Just a few short days ago on January 30th, we celebrated 13 years of sobriety for Bryan from his alcohol addiction. We believe that healing from an addiction is possible for you and your loved one too.If you need help with your addiction, please contact us. We...
2021-02-0327 minBE[different] PodcastFreedom From An AddictionOn today's episode, we talk about the destruction of addictions. Whether it is alcohol, drugs, pornography, or a different substance, an addiction destroys you from the inside out. Often times, an addiction will also destroy those around you. We celebrate 13 years of sobriety and freedom for Bryan from his alcohol addiction. This episode will encourage those in the middle of an addiction and also those who know someone battling an addiction.Previous Episode | Reclaim A DateJeremy Riddle | Sweetly BrokenIf you need help with your addiction, please contact us. We believe in you.
2021-01-2649 minBE[different] PodcastWhat's So Amazing About Grace?On today's episode, we talk about grace. Grace is one of those words that is thrown around Christian culture quite a bit. It’s easy to talk about it but is it easy to receive it? We break down the lyrics of the old hymn “Amazing Grace” to answer the question, “What’s so amazing about grace?” You might find yourself lost. You are aimlessly searching for something to fulfill a deep longing. Or you might be aimlessly running away from your past. We talk about being found by Jesus, our eyes opened by Jesus, and our longing fulfilled by Jesus.
2021-01-1933 minBE[different] PodcastYour Story Matters (with Jonathan Meisner of Life.Church)On today's episode, we are joined by Jonathan Meisner of Life.Church. Jonathan is the Sr. Director of Digital Experiences for one of the most influential churches across the globe. From producing videos for the YouVersion app to filming music videos for the Life.Church band Switch, Jonathan is one of the best story tellers in the Christian industry.More importantly, he’s a father of two boys, a husband for the past 13 years, and a fully devoted follower of Jesus. During our discussion, we talk about recognizing God-given talents and stewarding those gifts for God’s king...
2021-01-1354 minBE[different] PodcastIs Church Important?On today's episode, we discuss the importance of being involved in the local church. For many, a negative church experience in the past impacts your view of church. This leads to people pushing church away and not understanding the importance of church. We talk through three groups of people when it comes to church attendance and also share five guidelines to help you find a church home. Acts 2:42-47Ephesians 2:19-22Marriage Mentoring: If you and your spouse are looking to invest in your marriage, our 7-week Marriage Mentoring Experience is the perfect...
2021-01-0655 minBE[different] PodcastFrom Anguished To Healed - Part 2On today's episode, we share Part 2 of our story. If you missed Part 1, pause this episode and go listen to Part 1. As we stated last week, our story is gross, messy, and includes a ton of pain and brokenness. But it's our story. And it's full of grace, healing, hope, and restoration. If you or someone you know needs a miracle in their marriage, family, or life, this episode is for you and for you to share. A miracle happened in our story and it can happen in your story too.This episode wraps up Season 1 of t...
2020-12-152h 07BE[different] PodcastFrom Anguished To Healed - Part 1On today's episode, we share our story. It's gross, messy, and includes a ton of pain and brokenness. But it's our story. And it's full of grace, healing, hope, and restoration. Our hope is that it encourages you and challenges you to look at your own story to experience hope and healing. Today is part 1 and next week will be part 2. Be sure to hit the subscribe button if you do not already so you don't miss part 2!Season 1 of the podcast will be wrapping up on December 15th. But don't worry, we will be back with...
2020-12-0958 minBE[different] PodcastEven In The WaitingOn today's episode, we talk about the advent season. Regardless of when you begin to celebrate Christmas each year, we can all agree that it's December 1st and it’s Christmas time. Today we are going to talk about expectations even in the waiting and inviting Jesus into whatever you are going through. Shayla shares a real-life example of how she encouraged our daughter by inviting Jesus into the worry.Advent simply means arrival. The arrival of something. The arrival of Jesus as a baby born in a manger. However, we can also anticipate the arrival of Je...
2020-12-0129 minBE[different] PodcastThings To Be Thankful ForOn today's episode, we share a list of things that we are thankful for. Before we do that, Shayla shares a sweet treat recipe that will be loved by all during your Thanksgiving Day feast. This great Thanksgiving snack hack is easy and tasty! We then talk through our thankful list. This is a powerful exercise to do as we often go through life, trying the best we can to get by, and we forget to pause long enough to be thankful. Take some time this week to make a list of things you are thankful for and then...
2020-11-2430 minBE[different] PodcastLiving A Life Of Surrender (with Jerrad Lopes of Dad Tired)On today's episode, we have our first guest! Jerrad Lopes of Dad Tired joins us in our virtual living room. He is the author of the best-selling book, “Dad Tired: Stumbling Your Way to Spiritual Leadership” and “Stop Behaving: A Gospel-Centered Devotional for Men. His podcast has been downloaded over 2.5 million times as he has partnered with thought-leaders like Bob Goff, Gary Chapman, David Platt, Paul David Tripp, Jefferson Bethke, and many more to help equip men for the sake of the Gospel. He has a powerful story of how he used his own struggle as a m...
2020-11-1849 minBE[different] PodcastDon't Waste It With WorryOn today's episode, we talk about how most of us fall into one of two categories. I am a professional worrierWorrying isn't something I lose much sleep overBefore we jump into that discussion, we talk about last week's election and the unsteady state of our country. During such times, we must find joy in little things like Shayla does in Almond Joy candy bars. We share the joy we found in a day of geocaching with the kids. We then share the hope we found in Psalm 46:10 through Sunday's message by our pastor, Craig Groeschel at L...
2020-11-1048 minBE[different] PodcastTurn On The LightOn today's episode, we begin our conversation talking about the best Halloween costume of 2020, election Tuesday, and how we need to love each other through this time of our country being divided. We share a powerful quote from our lead pastor, Craig Groeschel. "No matter which party holds the office, our God still holds the world." We then talk through how to turn on the light when you find yourself in complete darkness. We share four ways to battle your own darkness to find hope, experience hope, and to share hope with others.Life.Church | In God...
2020-11-0357 minBE[different] PodcastSame Name, Same TeamOn today's episode, we have a discussion about why we must be on the same team within our marriage. For many marriages, it becomes a game of playing against each other. We agree that marriage is incredibly hard but we also believe that it can be incredibly rewarding and fun. We share practical ways to grow together as a team, fighting for the name on the back of your jersey.Genesis 2:18 Marriage Mentoring: If you and your spouse are looking to invest in your marriage, our 7-week Marriage Mentoring Experience is the perfect way to reconnect with each other. We are now scheduling couples for Nove...
2020-10-2825 minBE[different] PodcastWhat's The Deal With Popcorn & Brownies?On today's episode, we explain why popcorn and brownies mean so much to us and why it should be a part of your life too. This sweet and salty combination represents so much more to us than just a great snack. We talk about the danger of isolation and the importance of community. To live in community with others, you have to invite them in. Do you have a 2am friend? Are you a 2am friend for someone else? Join us as we talk about what a 2am friend is and why it's a must for each one of...
2020-10-2145 minBE[different] PodcastWhat Does It Mean To Be Different?On today's episode, we talk about the idea and concept of BE[different] and why it's the name of the podcast. Are you blending in with your surroundings or are you being a light in the darkness? We break down three ways that you can be different in your own story and encourage others. It only takes a small shift in order to be different.Do you desire your marriage to be different? Partner with us and we will lead you through 7-weeks of intentional content to have the marriage God designed for you to have. Visit...
2020-10-1341 minBE[different] PodcastThe Stress Of Everything VirtualOn this episode, we talk about the stress of everything virtual and how it impacts our kids and their emotions and actions. When stress comes, we are allowed to have the feelings, but we can't stay there. We must work through how we are feeling in order to navigate the stress together as a couple and in order to lead our kids. Hear why Shayla felt like she failed this past week as a wife and mom. We also share a "not so shining" parenting moment and how we recovered to use it as a teaching moment....
2020-10-0638 minBE[different] PodcastReclaim The DateOn today's episode, we talk about why we are launching the podcast on October 2nd. We reclaimed the date because 14 years ago today, our marriage was destroyed. All of us have painful memories associated with certain dates on the calendar. Today we share three ways to reclaim a date on the calendar. You can turn a date of destruction into a date of celebration.Isaiah 43:18-19Get two free resources at www.anguishedhearts.com/hope.Like us. Follow us. Connect with us!
2020-10-0234 minBE[different] PodcastBE[different] with Bryan & Shayla Moffitt - TrailerBryan and Shayla Moffitt have been married for over 21 years. From divorce papers drawn up to now sharing hope with others, they have been through it all within their marriage. They are now inviting you into their living room to have real conversations about people being different. So grab your popcorn and brownies and get ready to be challenged and encouraged! Visit www.anguishedhearts.com to learn more about their story.
2020-09-3003 min
Growing Home Together PodcastThe Power of God to Rescue a Marriage in Crisis Part 2Bryan and Shayla Moffitt, co-founders of Anguished Hearts, are speakers, writers, parents to the two most adorable kids, and followers of Jesus. Shayla loves coffee and Bryan loves running marathons. Their marriage story proves the power of God to rescue a marriage in crisis. They use their own life experiences to show that hope can be found no matter the situation, struggle, or sin you're facing. Anguished Hearts exists to lead broken people into a powerful relationship with Jesus. Their desire is to share the hope of Jesus so others can experience the same forgiveness and freedom that t...
2020-09-1546 min
Growing Home Together PodcastThe Power of God to Rescue a Marriage - Part 1Bryan and Shayla Moffitt, co-founders of Anguished Hearts, are speakers, writers, parents to the two most adorable kids, and followers of Jesus. Shayla loves coffee and Bryan loves running marathons. They have been best friends for over 22 years and husband and wife for over 20 years. They share their story of the power of God to rescue a marriage, as their own life experiences show that hope can be found no matter the situation, struggle, or sin you're facing. Anguished Hearts exists to lead broken people into a powerful relationship with Jesus. Their desire is to share the...
2020-09-0834 min