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Marriage Is Tougher Than Woodpecker LipsIntentionality Around Creating Your Best MarriageToday on the pod you'll hear us talk about building your best marriage. This conversation was spurred from the loss of someone close to Paul. We felt it appropriate to pay homage to a man who gave so much to his community.We hope you enjoy!Please reach out to us at:marriageistougher.comfacebook.com/MarriageIsTougherinstagram.com/marriageistougher/Let us know if you would like to be a guest on the show or share topic ideasDon't forget to rate, review and subscribe!!!2024-04-0231 minMarriage Is Tougher Than Woodpecker LipsAcknowledging Your Wife's ContributionsHave you ever struggled to see exactly what it is your wife has been doing to keep the family moving forward? For that matter, what she's been doing to keep your world moving forward? We know, Bryan shares a story about how this affected him and where he is now.We hope you enjoy!Please reach out to us at:marriageistougher.comfacebook.com/MarriageIsTougherinstagram.com/marriageistougher/Let us know if you would like to be a guest on the show or share topic ideas2024-01-2322 minMarriage Is Tougher Than Woodpecker LipsWhat Guides Your Marriage?What is the beacon that dictates the direction of your marriage? Are you feeling lost? This week we ask and answer this question. We have a great conversation about external influence and seeking God's guidance.We hope you enjoy!Please reach out to us at:marriageistougher.comfacebook.com/MarriageIsTougherinstagram.com/marriageistougher/Let us know if you would like to be a guest on the show or share topic ideasDon't forget to rate, review and subscribe!!!This goes a long way to...2023-12-1925 minMarriage Is Tougher Than Woodpecker LipsSuccessful, But Are We Enough?By most measures a man can be successful and still feel like he is not enough. Is it a comparison game or is there more work that needs to be done?We hope you enjoy!Please reach out to us at:marriageistougher.comfacebook.com/MarriageIsTougherinstagram.com/marriageistougher/Let us know if you would like to be a guest on the show or share topic ideasDon't forget to rate, review and subscribe!!!This goes a long way to help us get our...2023-12-1325 minMarriage Is Tougher Than Woodpecker LipsThrowback - Giving Without ExpectationsDo you have a heart to give? What is the true reason you decide to give? Can you be truly selfless?We had these questions and explore whether or not it is even possible to give without expectations.We hope you enjoy!Please reach out to us at:marriageistougher.comfacebook.com/MarriageIsTougherinstagram.com/marriageistougher/Let us know if you would like to be a guest on the show or share topic ideasDon't forget to rate, review and subscribe!!!This...2023-12-0629 minMarriage Is Tougher Than Woodpecker LipsVision Planning For Your MarriageWhen is the last time you have a conversation with your wife about planning for the future? When is the last time you had that conversation and included God? This week we talk about the importance of both.We hope you enjoy!Please reach out to us at:marriageistougher.comfacebook.com/MarriageIsTougherinstagram.com/marriageistougher/Let us know if you would like to be a guest on the show or share topic ideasDon't forget to rate, review and subscribe!!!This goes a...2023-11-2823 minMarriage Is Tougher Than Woodpecker LipsBetrayalHow do we handle being or feeling betrayed? This week we discuss this topic and also discuss what happens when we feel betrayed by God. Fair warning, this could be a little heavy for some.We hope you enjoy!Please reach out to us at:marriageistougher.comfacebook.com/MarriageIsTougherinstagram.com/marriageistougher/Let us know if you would like to be a guest on the show or share topic ideasDon't forget to rate, review and subscribe!!!This goes a long way to...2023-11-2226 minMarriage Is Tougher Than Woodpecker LipsManaging The Details - 2022 ThrowbackWHOA!! Sometimes it's the small things that help us get better. I remember a time when I was looking for all the grand gestures and acts and improvements to help push me over the edge to being a great husband. The reality is, it takes practice being consistent with the little things.We hope you enjoy!Please reach out to us at:marriageistougher.comfacebook.com/MarriageIsTougherinstagram.com/marriageistougher/Let us know if you would like to be a guest on the show or share topic...2023-11-1526 minMarriage Is Tougher Than Woodpecker LipsAppropriate Vs. InappropriateDefining appropriate and inappropriate in this episode. How are we having conversations when we feel our spouse is inappropriate. What are we doing to set boundaries?We hope you enjoy!Please reach out to us at:marriageistougher.comfacebook.com/MarriageIsTougherinstagram.com/marriageistougher/Let us know if you would like to be a guest on the show or share topic ideasDon't forget to rate, review and subscribe!!!This goes a long way to help us get our message out to more men...2023-11-0719 minMarriage Is Tougher Than Woodpecker LipsService And SacrificeWhat is the true cost of a life of service. How does does that affect your family? Do you even think about it before giving your time?We hope you enjoy!Please reach out to us at:marriageistougher.comfacebook.com/MarriageIsTougherinstagram.com/marriageistougher/Let us know if you would like to be a guest on the show or share topic ideasDon't forget to rate, review and subscribe!!!This goes a long way to help us get our message out to more...2023-10-3123 minMarriage Is Tougher Than Woodpecker Lips365 HusbandAre you a 365 husband? Is it even possible? If you're thinking what in the world does that mean, then have a listen. Don't forget to rate the show!We hope you enjoy!Please reach out to us at:marriageistougher.comfacebook.com/MarriageIsTougherinstagram.com/marriageistougher/Let us know if you would like to be a guest on the show or share topic ideasDon't forget to rate, review and subscribe!!!This goes a long way to help us get our message out to...2023-10-2419 minMarriage Is Tougher Than Woodpecker LipsFriends That Level You UpDo the people who influence your life most build you up or do they bring you down? We believe you should put some focus into making sure to surround yourself with those who level you up.We hope you enjoy!Please reach out to us at:marriageistougher.comfacebook.com/MarriageIsTougherinstagram.com/marriageistougher/Let us know if you would like to be a guest on the show or share topic ideasDon't forget to rate, review and subscribe!!!This goes a long way...2023-10-1716 minMarriage Is Tougher Than Woodpecker LipsTruly CompatibleAre you truly compatible with your wife? Did you ever really put any thought into that notion? This week we force you to think about just that.We hope you enjoy!Please reach out to us at:marriageistougher.comfacebook.com/MarriageIsTougherinstagram.com/marriageistougher/Let us know if you would like to be a guest on the show or share topic ideasDon't forget to rate, review and subscribe!!!This goes a long way to help us get our message out to more...2023-10-1031 minMarriage Is Tougher Than Woodpecker LipsThe Power Of ConnectionPlease help us welcome our special guest Kenston Henderson Sr. to the pod. The Chief Empowerment Officer of Live With Lyfe, offers a unique blend of motivational speaking, leadership development, resilience training, and diversity and inclusion advocacy.You can "connect" with him at the link below:http://livewithlyfe.comAlso, search live with lyfe through favorite social media platforms.Listen in while we speak with Kenston about connection and marriage.We hope you enjoy!Please reach out to us at:marriageistougher.comfacebook.com/MarriageIsTougher2023-10-0344 minMarriage Is Tougher Than Woodpecker LipsTeamwork Makes The Dream WorkWhat a world of difference working as a team makes. We talk about some first hand experience and hope that you get inspired.We hope you enjoy!Please reach out to us at:marriageistougher.comfacebook.com/MarriageIsTougherinstagram.com/marriageistougher/Let us know if you would like to be a guest on the show or share topic ideasDon't forget to rate, review and subscribe!!!This goes a long way to help us get our message out to more men ready to be...2023-09-2627 minMarriage Is Tougher Than Woodpecker LipsDealing With The Time SuckHello great husbands and fathers of the world. Have you felt that all you do is for others? Specifically your wife and children. Maybe you are struggling to find time for yourself. Maybe you are okay with where you are right now. That's where we find ourselves at this stage of life.We hope you enjoy!Please reach out to us at:marriageistougher.comfacebook.com/MarriageIsTougherinstagram.com/marriageistougher/Let us know if you would like to be a guest on the show or share topic...2023-09-1226 minMarriage Is Tougher Than Woodpecker LipsBeware The Safety NetHave you ever allowed your life to blow up? Are you not afraid of the bottom or maybe even comfortable there?We hope you enjoy!Please reach out to us at:marriageistougher.comfacebook.com/MarriageIsTougherinstagram.com/marriageistougher/Let us know if you would like to be a guest on the show or share topic ideasDon't forget to rate, review and subscribe!!!This goes a long way to help us get our message out to more men ready to be better husbands!2023-09-0524 minMarriage Is Tougher Than Woodpecker LipsAuditing Your TimeDo you ever check if you're spending your time on the things you say are most important to you? Does your wife?We hope you enjoy!Please reach out to us at:marriageistougher.comfacebook.com/MarriageIsTougherinstagram.com/marriageistougher/Let us know if you would like to be a guest on the show or share topic ideasDon't forget to rate, review and subscribe!!!This goes a long way to help us get our message out to more men ready to be better...2023-08-2926 minMarriage Is Tougher Than Woodpecker LipsStating Your IntentionsThis week we talk about making sure your spouse knows exactly what you want. It seems we tend to protect ourselves but also shoot ourselves in the foot in the same move.We hope you enjoy!Please reach out to us at:marriageistougher.comfacebook.com/MarriageIsTougherinstagram.com/marriageistougher/Let us know if you would like to be a guest on the show or share topic ideasDon't forget to rate, review and subscribe!!!This goes a long way to help us get...2023-08-2221 minMarriage Is Tougher Than Woodpecker LipsHealthy Marriages Aren't Cool?This week we respond to a negative comment. Does the comment deserve the acknowledgment? In short no, but we got a laugh out of it.We hope you enjoy!Please reach out to us at:marriageistougher.comfacebook.com/MarriageIsTougherinstagram.com/marriageistougher/Let us know if you would like to be a guest on the show or share topic ideasDon't forget to rate, review and subscribe!!!This goes a long way to help us get our message out to more men ready...2023-08-1522 minMarriage Is Tougher Than Woodpecker LipsAll In Your FeelingsThis week on the pod we are talking about being on the other side of learning to communicate about our feelings.We hope you enjoy!Please reach out to us at:marriageistougher.comfacebook.com/MarriageIsTougherinstagram.com/marriageistougher/Let us know if you would like to be a guest on the show or share topic ideasDon't forget to rate, review and subscribe!!!This goes a long way to help us get our message out to more men ready to be better husbands!2023-08-0833 minMarriage Is Tougher Than Woodpecker LipsCommunication ChampionIs there a communication champion in your marriage? Is it you? Should it be?We hope you enjoy!Please reach out to us at:marriageistougher.comfacebook.com/MarriageIsTougherinstagram.com/marriageistougher/Let us know if you would like to be a guest on the show or share topic ideasDon't forget to rate, review and subscribe!!!This goes a long way to help us get our message out to more men ready to be better husbands!Thank You,Bryan and...2023-08-0130 minMarriage Is Tougher Than Woodpecker LipsConversational LearningAre you using your relationships and conversations to learn and better yourself?We hope you enjoy!Please reach out to us at:marriageistougher.comfacebook.com/MarriageIsTougherinstagram.com/marriageistougher/Let us know if you would like to be a guest on the show or share topic ideasDon't forget to rate, review and subscribe!!!This goes a long way to help us get our message out to more men ready to be better husbands!Thank You,Bryan and Paul2023-07-2524 minMarriage Is Tougher Than Woodpecker LipsPersonal Vs. Relational GrowthIf you've been working on your personal development solely, it may not serve your marriage.We hope you enjoy!Please reach out to us at:marriageistougher.comfacebook.com/MarriageIsTougherinstagram.com/marriageistougher/Let us know if you would like to be a guest on the show or share topic ideasDon't forget to rate, review and subscribe!!!This goes a long way to help us get our message out to more men ready to be better husbands!Thank You,Bryan...2023-07-1931 minMarriage Is Tougher Than Woodpecker LipsBut What If Its AmazingThis is one of those times where we must say make sure you listen to the entire episode. There is a simple idea shared by Paul. "But what if it's amazing"? What if you've been convincing yourself out of the amazing?We hope you enjoy!Please reach out to us at:marriageistougher.comfacebook.com/MarriageIsTougherinstagram.com/marriageistougher/Let us know if you would like to be a guest on the show or share topic ideasDon't forget to rate, review and subscribe!!!...2023-07-1226 minMarriage Is Tougher Than Woodpecker LipsWho Decides Where To Grow?Who wears the pants in your marriage? That's a little aggressive, what I mean to ask is can you accept when you wife tells you changes are needed? In this episode we talk about when growth is needed, how we go about that in our marriages.We hope you enjoy!Please reach out to us at:marriageistougher.comfacebook.com/MarriageIsTougherinstagram.com/marriageistougher/Let us know if you would like to be a guest on the show or share topic ideasDon't forget to...2023-07-0430 minMarriage Is Tougher Than Woodpecker LipsCompromise Is Best w/ Anthony SaundersRecorded in New Orleans, Louisiana we sit down with our longtime friend Anthony Saunders. He drops lots of knowledge and if I do say so myself we did an ok job fighting off the background noise. We hope you enjoy!Please reach out to us at:marriageistougher.comfacebook.com/MarriageIsTougherinstagram.com/marriageistougher/Let us know if you would like to be a guest on the show or share topic ideasDon't forget to rate, review and subscribe!!!This goes a long way...2023-06-2739 minMarriage Is Tougher Than Woodpecker LipsWho Relaxed First?Are you comfortable in your marriage? Are you too comfortable? Or, is the comfort something to celebrate?We hope you enjoy!Please reach out to us at:marriageistougher.comfacebook.com/MarriageIsTougherinstagram.com/marriageistougher/Let us know if you would like to be a guest on the show or share topic ideasDon't forget to rate, review and subscribe!!!This goes a long way to help us get our message out to more men ready to be better husbands!Thank You,2023-06-2121 minMarriage Is Tougher Than Woodpecker LipsCreate Opportunity For Growth With Other CouplesThis episode focuses on connecting with other couples to create growth within your marriage. We all know that couple that we admire and would like know how they make it look so easy. Listen to this episode if you're looking to create connections with that couple and make your marriage better.We hope you enjoy!Please reach out to us at:marriageistougher.comfacebook.com/MarriageIsTougherinstagram.com/marriageistougher/Let us know if you would like to be a guest on the show or share topic ideas2023-06-1427 minMarriage Is Tougher Than Woodpecker LipsFeeling Stressed?Are you feeling stressed? Considering where your stress is coming from? Wondering if your wife can help relieve the stress? This week's episode is for you.We hope you enjoy!Please reach out to us at:marriageistougher.comfacebook.com/MarriageIsTougherinstagram.com/marriageistougher/Let us know if you would like to be a guest on the show or share topic ideasDon't forget to rate, review and subscribe!!!This goes a long way to help us get our message out to more men...2023-06-0725 minMarriage Is Tougher Than Woodpecker LipsMaking The Changes StickThis week on the pod Bryan tells a story from a marriage therapy experience. What you'll find in this episode is a little bit accountability, a little bit discovering slathered in reflection. It's a good listen, and we hope it helps!We hope you enjoy!Please reach out to us at:marriageistougher.comfacebook.com/MarriageIsTougherinstagram.com/marriageistougher/Let us know if you would like to be a guest on the show or share topic ideasDon't forget to rate, review and subscribe!!!...2023-06-0123 minMarriage Is Tougher Than Woodpecker LipsChat GPT Created Our Date NightThis week we talk about using Chat GPT to create a date night or find ideas for dining and activities while traveling.We hope you enjoy!Please reach out to us at:marriageistougher.comfacebook.com/MarriageIsTougherinstagram.com/marriageistougher/Let us know if you would like to be a guest on the show or share topic ideasDon't forget to rate, review and subscribe!!!This goes a long way to help us get our message out to more men ready to be better...2023-05-2430 minMarriage Is Tougher Than Woodpecker LipsLetting GoThis week we talk about letting go of the things that cannot be. Not your marriage of course but the things that may be holding you back from a flourishing marriage.We hope you enjoy!Please reach out to us at:marriageistougher.comfacebook.com/MarriageIsTougherinstagram.com/marriageistougher/Let us know if you would like to be a guest on the show or share topic ideasDon't forget to rate, review and subscribe!!!This goes a long way to help us get our...2023-05-1725 minMarriage Is Tougher Than Woodpecker LipsLayers Of TrustThis week we dive into a topic idea which was derived from a tangent during a previous episode. Layers of trust can exist within your marriage, friendships, work relationships and beyond. Have a listen while we talk our way through the topic.We hope you enjoy!Please reach out to us at:marriageistougher.comfacebook.com/MarriageIsTougherinstagram.com/marriageistougher/Let us know if you would like to be a guest on the show or share topic ideasDon't forget to rate, review and subscribe!!!2023-05-0924 minMarriage Is Tougher Than Woodpecker LipsDo Husbands Need Security?Hey everybody, we are back as promised with some new episodes. This week we are talking about whether or not husbands need security in a marriage. We hash out what that looks like and talk about what differences may exist between the type of security men and women seek.We hope you enjoy!Please reach out to us at:marriageistougher.comfacebook.com/MarriageIsTougherinstagram.com/marriageistougher/Let us know if you would like to be a guest on the show or share topic ideas...2023-05-0223 minMarriage Is Tougher Than Woodpecker LipsIntellectualizing Your Feelings 2022 ThrowbackWe're still on break but we promise there will be some fresh content next week. Until then please have a listen to this episode from 2022.We hope you enjoy!Please reach out to us at:marriageistougher.comfacebook.com/MarriageIsTougherinstagram.com/marriageistougher/Let us know if you would like to be a guest on the show or share topic ideasDon't forget to rate, review and subscribe!!!This goes a long way to help us get our message out to more men ready...2023-04-1826 minMarriage Is Tougher Than Woodpecker LipsConfronting Yourself 2022 ThrowbackThis one is a throwback to March 2022. While we take a short break please enjoy this past episode.Thanks,Bryan and Paul2023-04-1127 minMarriage Is Tougher Than Woodpecker LipsKings Or ClownsHow do you want to be remembered? How do you behave? What will your legacy be? These are the questions to be explored in this episode.We hope you enjoy!Please reach out to us at:marriageistougher.comfacebook.com/MarriageIsTougherinstagram.com/marriageistougher/Let us know if you would like to be a guest on the show or share topic ideasDon't forget to rate, review and subscribe!!!This goes a long way to help us get our message out to more...2023-04-0424 minMarriage Is Tougher Than Woodpecker LipsClarity Is Not ConnectionThis week we talk about the difference between clarity and connection. We often use what we know to get by. I mean, who could blame you. There are many times we need to learn new skills. Have a listen to learn a great lesson. We borrow a clip from "The Basement with Tim Ross"We hope you enjoy!Please reach out to us at:marriageistougher.comfacebook.com/MarriageIsTougherinstagram.com/marriageistougher/Let us know if you would like to be a guest on the show or...2023-03-2828 minMarriage Is Tougher Than Woodpecker Lips2 Year ReflectionThis week we reflect on how it has been two years since our first episode. We talk about what the podcast meant to and done for our marriages. We are so incredibly thankful for all who have listened and hope you gotten some of the same benefits as we have.We hope you enjoy!Please reach out to us at:marriageistougher.comfacebook.com/MarriageIsTougherinstagram.com/marriageistougher/Let us know if you would like to be a guest on the show or share topic ideas2023-03-2133 minMarriage Is Tougher Than Woodpecker LipsThere's No Magic PillThis week we talk about getting to a solution when we have issues in our marriages.We hope you enjoy!Please reach out to us at:marriageistougher.comfacebook.com/MarriageIsTougherinstagram.com/marriageistougher/Let us know if you would like to be a guest on the show or share topic ideasDon't forget to rate, review and subscribe!!!This goes a long way to help us get our message out to more men ready to be better husbands!Thank You,...2023-03-1426 minMarriage Is Tougher Than Woodpecker LipsWho Supports Your Marriage?This week we talk about having people who can support your marriage. That can be a best man, a friend, a pastor or whomever you choose to give access to.We hope you enjoy!Please reach out to us at:marriageistougher.comfacebook.com/MarriageIsTougherinstagram.com/marriageistougher/Let us know if you would like to be a guest on the show or share topic ideasDon't forget to rate, review and subscribe!!!This goes a long way to help us get our message...2023-03-0729 minMarriage Is Tougher Than Woodpecker LipsDoes She Think I'm Weak?This week we have a discussion about how many men think it is a sign of weakness to ask for help.We hope you enjoy!Please reach out to us at:marriageistougher.comfacebook.com/MarriageIsTougherinstagram.com/marriageistougher/Let us know if you would like to be a guest on the show or share topic ideasDon't forget to rate, review and subscribe!!!This goes a long way to help us get our message out to more men ready to be better husbands!2023-02-2822 minMarriage Is Tougher Than Woodpecker LipsWhat Does It Mean To Be Married?This week we discuss what it means to us to be married. It's really that simple! Also, this is episode 100We hope you enjoy!Please reach out to us at:marriageistougher.comfacebook.com/MarriageIsTougherinstagram.com/marriageistougher/Let us know if you would like to be a guest on the show or share topic ideasDon't forget to rate, review and subscribe!!!This goes a long way to help us get our message out to more men ready to be better husbands!2023-02-2129 minMarriage Is Tougher Than Woodpecker LipsHow Do We Show Love?This week we talk about how we show love to our wives. Here's a hint: be mindful of how your wife wants to receive love.We hope you enjoy!Please reach out to us at:marriageistougher.comfacebook.com/MarriageIsTougherinstagram.com/marriageistougher/Let us know if you would like to be a guest on the show or share topic ideasDon't forget to rate, review and subscribe!!!This goes a long way to help us get our message out to more men ready...2023-02-1422 minMarriage Is Tougher Than Woodpecker LipsEstablishing ExpectationsThis week on the pod we talk about how we can best portray what it is we need in our marriages. We find that if these key conversations are left unspoken problems in your relationship may go unsolved for years.We hope you enjoy!Please reach out to us at:marriageistougher.comfacebook.com/MarriageIsTougherinstagram.com/marriageistougher/Let us know if you would like to be a guest on the show or share topic ideasDon't forget to rate, review and subscribe!!!This...2023-02-0726 minMarriage Is Tougher Than Woodpecker LipsStop Comparing Your MarriageSince you read the title and are here reading this, would you agree you might have some work to do in this area. We don't expect this to be our most popular episode but we will speak the truth. We hope you enjoy!Please reach out to us at:marriageistougher.comfacebook.com/MarriageIsTougherinstagram.com/marriageistougher/Let us know if you would like to be a guest on the show or share topic ideasDon't forget to rate, review and subscribe!!!This goes...2023-01-3128 minMarriage Is Tougher Than Woodpecker LipsBetter Than We Think?Ok, so this episode may hit many of you hard. We talk about seeking acknowledgment and giving it as well. We talk about looking at our past accomplishments and realizing that they not only happened but are now a part of us going forward.We hope you enjoy!Please reach out to us at:marriageistougher.comfacebook.com/MarriageIsTougherinstagram.com/marriageistougher/Let us know if you would like to be a guest on the show or share topic ideasDon't forget to rate, review...2023-01-2432 minMarriage Is Tougher Than Woodpecker LipsHeart Of Not DeservingMindset changes are not always the easiest thing to accomplish. However finding and adopting the correct mindset can do wonders for your world. This week we talk about having the mindset of not deserving the gift God has given us.We hope you enjoy!Please reach out to us at:marriageistougher.comfacebook.com/MarriageIsTougherinstagram.com/marriageistougher/Let us know if you would like to be a guest on the show or share topic ideasDon't forget to rate, review and subscribe!!!This...2023-01-1727 minMarriage Is Tougher Than Woodpecker LipsAll Defensive TeamAre your defenses up in your marriage? Are you yearning to get past yourself? Well we know how you feel and we talk about it this week.We hope you enjoy!Please reach out to us at:marriageistougher.comfacebook.com/MarriageIsTougherinstagram.com/marriageistougher/Let us know if you would like to be a guest on the show or share topic ideasDon't forget to rate, review and subscribe!!!This goes a long way to help us get our message out to more...2023-01-1028 minMarriage Is Tougher Than Woodpecker LipsTackling Health Issues w/ Joe DietrichHave you or your spouse been battling health issues? Have you also been fighting the good fight for your marriage? This week we speak with Joe whom has dealt with this battle and so much more.We hope you enjoy!Please reach out to us at:marriageistougher.comfacebook.com/MarriageIsTougherinstagram.com/marriageistougher/Let us know if you would like to be a guest on the show or share topic ideasDon't forget to rate, review and subscribe!!!This goes a...2023-01-031h 11Marriage Is Tougher Than Woodpecker LipsMarriage N Finance w/ Jon SullivanHAPPY HOLIDAYS ALL!This week please listen in as we welcome Mr. Jon Sullivan to the pod. We talk finances, marriage and a living without debt. We hope you enjoy!Please reach out to us at:marriageistougher.comfacebook.com/MarriageIsTougherinstagram.com/marriageistougher/Let us know if you would like to be a guest on the show or share topic ideasDon't forget to rate, review and subscribe!!!This goes a long way to help us get our message out to...2022-12-271h 19Marriage Is Tougher Than Woodpecker LipsWhen It Doesn't Come NaturallyDo you always get it done when it needs doing? Yeah, me neither. This week we talk about fighting through the urge to put things off.We hope you enjoy!Please reach out to us at:marriageistougher.comfacebook.com/MarriageIsTougherinstagram.com/marriageistougher/Let us know if you would like to be a guest on the show or share topic ideasDon't forget to rate, review and subscribe!!!This goes a long way to help us get our message out to more men...2022-12-2026 minMarriage Is Tougher Than Woodpecker LipsGiving Without ExpectationsDo you have a heart to give? What is the true reason you decide to give? Can you be truly selfless?We had these questions and explore whether or not it is even possible to give without expectations.We hope you enjoy!Please reach out to us at:marriageistougher.comfacebook.com/MarriageIsTougherinstagram.com/marriageistougher/Let us know if you would like to be a guest on the show or share topic ideasDon't forget to rate, review and subscribe!!!This...2022-12-1329 minMarriage Is Tougher Than Woodpecker LipsThankful / From Good To GreatAwaiting you is an off the cuff sort of episode. You'll see we bring you into a conversation we were having about how thankful we are to be where we are from where we were. God has provided so much for us and it still feels like we are just getting started.We hope you enjoy!Please reach out to us at:marriageistougher.comfacebook.com/MarriageIsTougherinstagram.com/marriageistougher/Let us know if you would like to be a guest on the show or share topic...2022-12-0631 minMarriage Is Tougher Than Woodpecker LipsA Single Man's Perspective w/ Paul Montalvo from The Paul N Palz PodcastThis week we take a little turn from our normal style and interview a single man whom doesn't see himself getting married. Do we change his mind? Listen to find out!We hope you enjoy!Please reach out to us at:marriageistougher.comfacebook.com/MarriageIsTougherinstagram.com/marriageistougher/Let us know if you would like to be a guest on the show or share topic ideasDon't forget to rate, review and subscribe!!!This goes a long way to help us get our...2022-11-2959 minMarriage Is Tougher Than Woodpecker LipsSterilization, Vasectomy Or Whatever You Want To Call ItHave you ever considered getting snipped? Well both of us have taken that leap. So, if you're curious about what to expect then this is the episode for you.We hope you enjoy!Please reach out to us at:marriageistougher.comfacebook.com/MarriageIsTougherinstagram.com/marriageistougher/Let us know if you would like to be a guest on the show or share topic ideasDon't forget to rate, review and subscribe!!!This goes a long way to help us get our message out...2022-11-2228 minMarriage Is Tougher Than Woodpecker LipsManaging The DetailsWHOA!! Sometimes it's the small things that help us get better. I remember a time when I was looking for all the grand gestures and acts and improvements to help push me over the edge to being a great husband. The reality is, it takes practice being consistent with the little things.We hope you enjoy!Please reach out to us at:marriageistougher.comfacebook.com/MarriageIsTougherinstagram.com/marriageistougher/Let us know if you would like to be a guest on the show or share topic...2022-11-1526 minMarriage Is Tougher Than Woodpecker LipsHave You Asked For Accountability?Who is your accountability partner? Who do you allow to speak into your marriage? We focus on this topic and provide tips on leaning on your experiences to move forward in a positive manner within your marriage.We hope you enjoy!Please reach out to us at:marriageistougher.comfacebook.com/MarriageIsTougherinstagram.com/marriageistougher/Let us know if you would like to be a guest on the show or share topic ideasDon't forget to rate, review and subscribe!!!This goes a long...2022-11-0831 minMarriage Is Tougher Than Woodpecker LipsIntellectualizing Your FeelingsDo you convince yourself you don't have feelings? We at times find ourselves doing the same. Listen in while we discuss getting through.We hope you enjoy!Please reach out to us at:marriageistougher.comfacebook.com/MarriageIsTougherinstagram.com/marriageistougher/Let us know if you would like to be a guest on the show or share topic ideasDon't forget to rate, review and subscribe!!!This goes a long way to help us get our message out to more men ready to be...2022-11-0126 minMarriage Is Tougher Than Woodpecker LipsHearing Your Wife's VoiceIncluding your wife's voice in decisions can be a tricky thing to get right. This week we discuss it so listen in.We hope you enjoy!Please reach out to us at:marriageistougher.comfacebook.com/MarriageIsTougherinstagram.com/marriageistougher/Let us know if you would like to be a guest on the show or share topic ideasDon't forget to rate, review and subscribe!!!This goes a long way to help us get our message out to more men ready to be better...2022-10-2528 minMarriage Is Tougher Than Woodpecker LipsDouble Edged SwordThis week we talk about those things we used to do when we were dating. You know, when we would go all out to prove that we were the best choice in a mate. Fellas, did we shoot ourselves in the foot, did life get in the way or are we just slacking? We'll let you be the judge.We hope you enjoy!Please reach out to us at:marriageistougher.comfacebook.com/MarriageIsTougherinstagram.com/marriageistougher/Let us know if you would like to be a...2022-10-1834 minMarriage Is Tougher Than Woodpecker LipsEnding The ConversationHow important is ending a conversation with your wife? I know for me, all too often I've left things unsaid and conversations unfinished leaving both of us wanting. We hope you enjoy!Please reach out to us at:marriageistougher.comfacebook.com/MarriageIsTougherinstagram.com/marriageistougher/Let us know if you would like to be a guest on the show or share topic ideasDon't forget to rate, review and subscribe!!!This goes a long way to help us get our message out to...2022-10-1124 minMarriage Is Tougher Than Woodpecker LipsSituational Anxiety And MarriageWelcome back everyone, and Hello to the newcomers! This week we talk about situational anxiety in our marriages. This is something we learned can be holding you back from having huge breakthroughs in your marriage. You're not here to read about it so go ahead and get back to listening.We hope you enjoy!Please reach out to us at:marriageistougher.comfacebook.com/MarriageIsTougherinstagram.com/marriageistougher/Let us know if you would like to be a guest on the show or share topic...2022-10-0423 minMarriage Is Tougher Than Woodpecker LipsIs ALL Too Much?This week we have a discussion about the expectations we place on our wives. There is already so much that they naturally carry in their day to day lives being a wife, parent, employee, teacher, community member etc. Is it fair for them to have to carry our stuff as well?We hope you enjoy!Please reach out to us at:marriageistougher.comfacebook.com/MarriageIsTougherinstagram.com/marriageistougher/Let us know if you would like to be a guest on the show or share topic ideas2022-09-2722 minMarriage Is Tougher Than Woodpecker LipsAddressing The IssueHey everyone, Bryan here. I share an experience in this episode that I hope will make you laugh as we did. We had a lot of fun recording this episode but there is also a bunch to learn here. My hope is through the fun we had you get this message because it is a strong one. Thanks for listening.We hope you enjoy!Please reach out to us at:marriageistougher.comfacebook.com/MarriageIsTougherinstagram.com/marriageistougher/Let us know if you would like to be...2022-09-2025 minMarriage Is Tougher Than Woodpecker LipsControlling The OutcomeIn this week's talk you'll notice we do much self reflection. We want to be known as a take action type of podcast. What does that mean? It means that it is one thing to listen and retain a little bit of knowledge. It is an entirely different level to put what you learn here to action. We want to be better. We hope to help make you better. Our wives deserve for us to be the best we can be! Let's get to work!We hope you enjoy!Please reach out to us at:2022-09-1328 minMarriage Is Tougher Than Woodpecker LipsFreedom Or Mastery w/ "Concise the Barber" aka Nate WilliamsThis week we play a video and discuss how we can apply what we learned from it to our marriages. We welcome "Concise the Barber" back to the show and as always he spits his knowledge.https://www.instagram.com/concisethebarber/?hl=enhttps://www.instagram.com/trusoul87/?hl=enWe hope you enjoy!Please reach out to us at:marriageistougher.comfacebook.com/MarriageIsTougherinstagram.com/marriageistougher/Let us know if you would like to be a guest on the show or...2022-09-0646 minMarriage Is Tougher Than Woodpecker LipsFriendsWhat is a friend? This week we talk about what a friend really is, how they affect our marriages and much more. This was a great chat and left us with some clarity.We hope you enjoy!Please reach out to us at:marriageistougher.comfacebook.com/MarriageIsTougherinstagram.com/marriageistougher/Let us know if you would like to be a guest on the show or share topic ideasDon't forget to rate, review and subscribe!!!This goes a long way to help us...2022-08-3031 minMarriage Is Tougher Than Woodpecker LipsStop Playing DefenseThere is a lot happening in this episode. Fair warning, it may leave you looking internally.We hope you enjoy!Please reach out to us at:marriageistougher.comfacebook.com/MarriageIsTougherinstagram.com/marriageistougher/Let us know if you would like to be a guest on the show or share topic ideasDon't forget to rate, review and subscribe!!!This goes a long way to help us get our message out to more men ready to be better husbands!Thank You,...2022-08-2326 minMarriage Is Tougher Than Woodpecker LipsObject Of Our AffectionThis week we consider how we can be better at showing and telling our wives they are the object of our affection. We are good in some areas and need help in others. What are you good at and where do you need improvement?We hope you enjoy!Please reach out to us at:marriageistougher.comfacebook.com/MarriageIsTougherinstagram.com/marriageistougher/Let us know if you would like to be a guest on the show or share topic ideasDon't forget to rate, review...2022-08-1626 minMarriage Is Tougher Than Woodpecker LipsCheck-In And Re-evaluationWelcome back! This week we discuss the process of checking in and then if need be re-evaluating our marital goals. Targets are only useful if you hit em! Nah, that's wrong, but it's fun to say.We hope you enjoy!Please reach out to us at:marriageistougher.comfacebook.com/MarriageIsTougherinstagram.com/marriageistougher/Let us know if you would like to be a guest on the show or share topic ideasDon't forget to rate, review and subscribe!!!This goes a long way...2022-08-0926 minMarriage Is Tougher Than Woodpecker LipsBalanceThis week we have a conversation about balance. We have many expectations placed on us by family and the world. On top of that we place our own expectations on ourselves. Listen in as we discuss some ways to manage a healthy balance in our lives.We hope you enjoy!Please reach out to us at:marriageistougher.comfacebook.com/MarriageIsTougherinstagram.com/marriageistougher/Let us know if you would like to be a guest on the show or share topic ideasDon't forget to...2022-08-0223 minMarriage Is Tougher Than Woodpecker LipsMarriage Mindset w/ Eric Magic MinaWe've got an epic episode for you this week! I get to sit down with my long time friend Eric Mina. He is an author, speaker, magician, hypnotist, father and husband amongst other things. I hope you have your minds open and ready to learn.That's it, there's your warning, don't miss it!You can find Eric:instagram.com/ericmagicmina/tiktok.com/@ericmagicminaericmina.comLINK TO BOOK: From Blurry to Brilliant: Creating Clarity in Our ADHD WorldWe hope you enjoy!2022-07-2649 minMarriage Is Tougher Than Woodpecker LipsDo The Kids Come First?This week we have a conversation about placing and keeping our marriages first. Obviously the kids are a priority, but what should be the priority? We have our opinion, listen and let us know if you agree over on Instagram.We hope you enjoy!Please reach out to us at:www.marriageistougher.comwww.facebook.com/MarriageIsTougherwww.instagram.com/marriageistougher/Let us know if you would like to be a guest on the show or share topic ideasDon't forget to rate, review and...2022-07-1926 minMarriage Is Tougher Than Woodpecker LipsA Day In Her ShoesVery good episode for you this week. We discuss what it means to walk a day in your wife's shoes. We touch on meeting her where she is at and Paul drops 5 steps on how to do so.We hope you enjoy!Please reach out to us at:www.marriageistougher.comwww.facebook.com/MarriageIsTougherwww.instagram.com/marriageistougher/Let us know if you would like to be a guest on the show or share topic ideasDon't forget to rate, review and subscribe!!!...2022-07-1232 minMarriage Is Tougher Than Woodpecker LipsBenefits Of CounselingThis week we follow up the topic of the stigma of getting help with the benefits of seeking help. A quick list includes:ability to communicatetools to listenself awareness and improvementcoping skillsconflict resolutionperspectivedeeper intimacy and connectionWe hope you enjoy!Please reach out to us at:www.marriageistougher.comwww.facebook.com/MarriageIsTougherwww.instagram.com/marriageistougher/Let us know if you would like to be a guest on the show or share topic ideasDon't forget to rate, review and subscribe!!!This goes...2022-07-0532 minMarriage Is Tougher Than Woodpecker LipsMental Health StigmaHey podcast fam! This week we talk about the stigma of seeking help. We men need to step up like we were taught as kids and work to be better. Even if it means seeking counseling.We hope you enjoy!Please reach out to us at:www.marriageistougher.comwww.facebook.com/MarriageIsTougherwww.instagram.com/marriageistougher/Let us know if you would like to be a guest on the show or share topic ideasDon't forget to rate, review and subscribe!!!This goes...2022-06-2129 minMarriage Is Tougher Than Woodpecker LipsIs Marriage The Goal?What is life? What will happen in the future? Is marriage the goal? All meta questions. We discuss the later.We hope you enjoy!Please reach out to us at:www.marriageistougher.comwww.facebook.com/MarriageIsTougherwww.instagram.com/marriageistougher/Let us know if you would like to be a guest on the show or share topic ideasDon't forget to rate, review and subscribe!!!This goes a long way to help us get our message out to more men ready to be...2022-06-1427 minMarriage Is Tougher Than Woodpecker LipsVulnerability VS. HumilityIn this week's episode we talk about what it means to be vulnerable or humble. We discuss which is more appropriate for a successful marriage.We hope you enjoy!Please reach out to us at:www.marriageistougher.comwww.facebook.com/MarriageIsTougherwww.instagram.com/marriageistougher/Let us know if you would like to be a guest on the show or share topic ideasDon't forget to rate, review and subscribe!!!This goes a long way to help us get our message out to...2022-06-0830 minMarriage Is Tougher Than Woodpecker LipsGrowing PainsThis week on the pod we are talking growing pains. It could be explained here but you're obviously here to listen not read. So, have at it!We hope you enjoy!Please reach out to us at:www.marriageistougher.comwww.facebook.com/MarriageIsTougherwww.instagram.com/marriageistougher/Let us know if you would like to be a guest on the show or share topic ideasDon't forget to rate, review and subscribe!!!This goes a long way to help us get our message...2022-05-3130 minMarriage Is Tougher Than Woodpecker LipsTo Mayor Or Not To Mayor?This week on the pod we talk about when it is and isn't appropriate to be the mayor of the town. Most of us men know that our wives can crave our attention. Is it worth taking that away from them just show that you know people?We hope you enjoy!Please reach out to us at:www.marriageistougher.comwww.facebook.com/MarriageIsTougherwww.instagram.com/marriageistougher/Let us know if you would like to be a guest on the show or share topic ideas2022-05-2520 minMarriage Is Tougher Than Woodpecker LipsComplimenting/ Praising Your WifeIn this week's episode we talk about what we can do to compliment our wives. We cover whether or not it becomes insincere. We landed in a good area with some great realizations so have a listen and don't forget to rate and review the show. We appreciate you and hope you're getting what you need from the show.We hope you enjoy!Please reach out to us at:www.marriageistougher.comwww.facebook.com/MarriageIsTougherwww.instagram.com/marriageistougher/Let us know if you would like...2022-05-1727 minMarriage Is Tougher Than Woodpecker LipsSpite? I Thought You Love Her...This week on the pod we talk about taking spiteful actions in your marriage. Some food for thought: Considering the definition of spite, What's one thing that triggers a spiteful action in you? What are you willing to do to change?We hope you enjoy!Please reach out to us at:www.marriageistougher.comwww.facebook.com/MarriageIsTougherwww.instagram.com/marriageistougher/Let us know if you would like to be a guest on the show or share topic ideasDon't forget to rate, review...2022-05-1026 minMarriage Is Tougher Than Woodpecker LipsCan Being Direct Go Wrong?This week we talk about being direct in our conversations with our wives. When different communication styles butt heads what do you do?We hope you enjoy!Please reach out to us at:www.marriageistougher.comwww.facebook.com/MarriageIsTougherwww.instagram.com/marriageistougher/Let us know if you would like to be a guest on the show or share topic ideasDon't forget to rate, review and subscribe!!!This goes a long way to help us get our message out to more men...2022-05-0326 minMarriage Is Tougher Than Woodpecker LipsMeeting Our Emotional NeedsThis week we talk about who's responsibility is it to meet our emotional needs? Also, is it our job to make sure our wive's emotional needs are met? We get into being aware of your emotions and how that can play out.We hope you enjoy!Please reach out to us at:www.marriageistougher.comwww.facebook.com/MarriageIsTougherwww.instagram.com/marriageistougher/Let us know if you would like to be a guest on the show or share topic ideasDon't forget to rate...2022-04-2628 minMarriage Is Tougher Than Woodpecker LipsMost Valuable Skill? (Getting Or Keeping Your Woman)This week is a fun little episode. We talk some hypotheticals but mostly just want to know...What makes you the real MVP? Maybe the Most Valuable Husband for that matter.We hope you enjoy!Please reach out to us at:www.marriageistougher.comwww.facebook.com/MarriageIsTougherwww.instagram.com/marriageistougher/Let us know if you would like to be a guest on the show or share topic ideasDon't forget to rate, review and subscribe!!!This goes a long way...2022-04-1926 minMarriage Is Tougher Than Woodpecker LipsWhat's Your Place Of Recovery?This week on the pod we talk about making rest a priority. We all know we need it! I couldn't imagine if I weren't able to get just a little down time from all of my responsibilities. This down time can come in many different forms.Something we need to keep in mind while we search for this time for ourselves is to make sure our wives are also getting their fair share of rest and rejuvenation. If you can think back to a space when she simply didn't have the energy for you then maybe take...2022-04-1233 minMarriage Is Tougher Than Woodpecker LipsHow Many Mistakes Do We Get?This week we chose to talk about how we learn from our mistakes. We get grace from our wives. Then we make more mistakes! Many times the same mistakes. Why do we do that and how can we stop? Listen for our take on the situation and feel free to add to the conversation over on Instagram or Facebook.We hope you enjoy!Please reach out to us at:www.marriageistougher.comwww.facebook.com/MarriageIsTougherwww.instagram.com/marriageistougher/Let us know if you w...2022-04-0526 minMarriage Is Tougher Than Woodpecker LipsBonus* Protecting Family w/ Nate Williams aka Concise The Barber (The Will Smith Slap)Here is a bonus episode that discusses the events at the Oscars in 2022. If you have a pulse, that's probably all I need to say for you to know where this conversation is headed. So, without further ado.We hope you enjoy!Please reach out to us at:www.marriageistougher.comwww.facebook.com/MarriageIsTougherwww.instagram.com/marriageistougher/Let us know if you would like to be a guest on the show or share topic ideasDon't forget to rate, review and subscribe!!!...2022-04-021h 07Marriage Is Tougher Than Woodpecker LipsKaizen MarriageThis week's episode heavily focuses on the improvement of your marriage. We talk about the term Kaizen, which is a business term, but the principles can technically be applied to anything you'd like to improve.Have a listen and be ready to get to work!!We hope you enjoy!Please reach out to us at:www.marriageistougher.comwww.facebook.com/MarriageIsTougherwww.instagram.com/marriageistougher/Let us know if you would like to be a guest on the show or share topic ideas2022-03-2925 minMarriage Is Tougher Than Woodpecker LipsConfronting YourselfThe one year mark is finally here! Thank you to all of our listeners. We truly hope you are receiving value and entertainment from this podcast. If you've listened to the first episodes you will know that we have come a long way in making this podcast the best it can be. We know we still have room to grow and we are striving to make it even better.This week we focus on taking a long hard look at ourselves in the mirror to not only confront ourselves but also to take action on those things...2022-03-2227 minMarriage Is Tougher Than Woodpecker LipsFight or FlightWeek 51 babaayyy! I'm so excited to think that we are just one week away from completing a year. We have made a conscious decision to work on our marriages for a solid...whoa whoa whoaI'm a week ahead of myself. Either way, thank you to all who have been listening this long and also thank you to any new comers.This week we dive into how we might go into fight or flight mode in our marital confrontations. I think acknowledging this as an issue has opened up my eyes to some solutions that are long...2022-03-1540 minMarriage Is Tougher Than Woodpecker LipsPower Tools No InstructionsOUR 50TH EPISODE!!!!We are so grateful to all of you who have been listening. We are more than a year in the making and quickly approaching a year worth of episodes published.This week we talk about how we as men think that we can just pick something up that we've seen someone else use and think that we can do the same. Some of us think that because we've seen relationships happen that we must be able to do it too.However, we don't always see the work that goes into...2022-03-0834 minMarriage Is Tougher Than Woodpecker LipsEmpowered Questions For Empowered SolutionsThis week we talk about bringing empowered questions to your marriage. We know life is hard. Having the life you want and seeing others with the things you want are both tough scenarios. So, choose your hard scenario.Be willing to put some effort into changing your mindset. You will find that it will work wonders in all aspects of your life. Whether that be in your marriage, professionally or in some other arena. When you start to realize that you can have most things as long as you are willing to put the work in f...2022-03-0130 minMarriage Is Tougher Than Woodpecker LipsHow To End An ArgumentDo you ever choose to end an argument or do you just hope that time will pass and issues will resolve themselves?I think some of us live this life without even realizing it. In this week's episode we gain some tools in order to deal with what we may be feeling in the moment. We come to the realization that our wives are learning to adjust to our new reality of growth. We learn there will need to be continued efforts in that growth in order to prove that this is not temporary.T...2022-02-2230 minMarriage Is Tougher Than Woodpecker LipsPurpose In MarriageThis week we talk about finding purpose not only for yourself but in and for your marriage. These days it is all too easy to hop into a marriage without a thought of what your marriage has the potential to bring to the world. You might even be thinking at this moment that is an absurdly audacious statement to make.If that is indeed the case I would challenge you to listen to the conversation we have. You might change your mind or simply gain some perspective. Well, at least I hope you will.We...2022-02-1533 minMarriage Is Tougher Than Woodpecker LipsHusbands, Own Your OutcomeToday's episode I hope will leave you inspired. We talk about taking more control over your life, your actions and your mindset.We think that this will ultimately help to propel you towards your true potential not only as a man but as a husband. Do you know what happens when you hit your stride? What is really possible when your husbandry potential is reached?We plan to expose all the tools to help you find out!We hope you enjoy!Please reach out to us at:www.marriageistougher...2022-02-0830 minMarriage Is Tougher Than Woodpecker LipsMandatory Date Night w/ Guest Damon SumnerBrothers, I don't know what to tell you. We are all here for a reason. That reason may be different for each of us, but one thing will ring true for all. We NEED to make date night a priority.Yeah, that's right I said NEED and PRIORITY. Stop making excuses and get down to the business of connection.In this episode you will hear lots of information on how you can accomplish this no matter what stage of your marriage you are in from our guest Damon Sumner.Damon is a fellow...2022-02-0149 min