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REFINEAdult Friendships Through Changing Seasons: Our Story, Our Mistakes & God's GraceTogether, we revisit how our circle formed through prayer, fasting, and Thursday-night intercession, then test those roots against the weight of real life: early marriage, babies, ministry demands, career pivots, and the long, hidden seasons where God asks for everything and explains almost nothing.We talk candidly about purpose in friendship and why it matters for more than warm feelings. Each of us carries a distinct grace—prophetic insight, teaching, leadership, service—and learning to honor those gifts changes the entire group. Think of Saul meeting prophets and suddenly prophesying; proximity activates. When we treat relationships as “kingdo...
2026-02-241h 07
Wisdom & Wellness with Mpoomy LedwabaConversations Women AvoidHow Did We Get Here? is Mpoomy Ledwaba's best-selling coming-of-age story. Looking back on her upbringing, major milestones and the challenges she’s faced, Mpoomy takes us on her journey of self-discovery. Order your copy here👉:https://www.amazon.co.za/How-Did-We-G...Sign up for the Wisdom & Wellness Private Membership: https://sales.wisdomwellness.co.za/si…Unlimited WalkFest Durban is on the way! Join us on 2nd May at Durban’s Ocean’s Mall, grab your ticket here: https://www.howler.co.za/events/unlimited-walkfest-durban-e2c4…This week on the podcast, Mpoomy is joined b...
2026-02-241h 29REFINEConflict Without Casualties - Let's Rewrite The Marriage Conflict CodeFights happen. What you do next decides whether your home becomes a greenhouse for trust or a hallway of slammed doors. We open up about the “good fight” and the systems that keep a covenant strong—practical tools, real stories, and a Spirit-led approach that helps couples repair fast and build lasting unity.We start by resetting the order: reconciliation before worship. From there, we explore how the atmosphere of a home shapes everything, why unresolved tension breeds resentment and misalignment, and how “longevity isn’t luck”—it’s structure. You’ll hear seven clear tools: keep doing the good you...
2026-02-1757 min
REFINEForgiveness as Obedience, Freedom as the RewardForgiveness sounds noble until your body tenses at a name, a memory, or a room. We go straight to the core: why unforgiveness quietly locks you out of peace, progress, and the presence you’re praying to feel. Drawing from Ephesians 4:31-32 and Matthew 6:14-15, we explore how spiritual principles operate like laws—break them and you feel the weight, keep them and your heart breathes again. This isn’t theory. It’s how to stop carrying what’s crushing you.We map the real signs you haven’t forgiven—avoidance, instant heart drops, advice filtered through pain—and show...
2026-02-1048 min
That Husband PodcastWhen A Wife's Love Becomes Lazy Without Her Noticing | Buli MakhuboVisit https://www.thathusband.com for merch, live event tickets, and other resources
[S3] EPISODE 4: MARRIAGE ON AUTOPILOT
This Valentine’s season, That Husband Podcast flips the script. Instead of centering romance around wives alone, this episode creates space to ask a powerful and often overlooked question: how do wives intentionally celebrate and honour their husbands? In this conversation, we’re joined by Buli Makhubo who brings honesty, depth, and practical wisdom as she shares what it looks like to show up for her husband in ways that go beyond clichés.
Together, we ex...
2026-02-041h 57
REFINEYou’re Not Late—You’re Being Made, And That Changes EverythingWhen the calendar shouts “show up,” what if wisdom whispers “slow down”? Today we open a raw, timely conversation about hidden seasons—those stretches where God forms character away from the spotlight—and why they’re not punishment but protection. With Pastor Koketso Molaolwe, we unpack the difference between being intentionally hidden and being stuck in obscurity, and we explore how early success can amplify unhealed wounds, distort identity, and quietly sabotage calling.We get honest about the traps of applause, the way likes can drown out conviction, and how social media can inflate the ego while starving the s...
2026-02-0334 minREFINEEVERYONE NEEDS THIS IN 2026: TO BE LED BY THE HOLY SPIRITMissed closers, fresh start, real talk. We kick off 2026 by owning last year’s lessons and setting a new standard: be led by the Holy Spirit in what you plan, how you show up, and the choices you make. No more mismatched motives or goals borrowed from the loudest voice in the room—this is about heart work that fuels real fruit.I share five personal nuggets from 2025 that reframed everything: God cares more about the state of your heart than the size of your output; caring for people can’t outrank clear direction; you don’t need to...
2026-01-2720 minREFINEConsecration Before the Promise: Why Obedience Precedes BreakthroughPromises don’t break; people do—when we skip the prerequisite that unlocks them. Today we get honest about consecration: what it is, why it matters now, and how to practice it without turning faith into a checklist. We anchor in Joshua 3:5—“Consecrate yourselves, for tomorrow the Lord will do amazing things among you”—and explore the gap between revelation and realization, where obedience becomes partnership and purity protects power.We make it practical. Think of consecration like marriage: setting yourself apart isn’t prison; it’s how intimacy thrives. We tackle the soul-level habits that quietly corrode your wal...
2025-10-0737 minREFINEThe Cost of the Cross: Releasing What You Love To Fully Pursue ChristFollowing Christ demands more than aesthetic Christianity; it requires the difficult journey of allowing Jesus to be not just our Savior but the Lord of our entire life.• Praise Mwelase shares her background growing up in a Christian household and her path to the entertainment industry• The difference between acknowledging Jesus as Savior versus surrendering to Him as Lord• How career success and good relationships can still leave us feeling spiritually "stuck"• Finding true identity through difficult obedience and letting go of good things• The challenge of yielding completely to God when it means relea...
2025-09-2335 minREFINEDouble Dates & Separation: Navigating Couple FriendshipsWhen was the last time you thought about the complex dance of couple friendships? Those relationships that form when marriages intertwine, creating communities that laugh together, pray together, and sometimes even weather the storm when one marriage doesn't survive.In this raw, honest conversation, we dive deep into the beautiful mess of couple friendships – exploring everything from the strength these relationships bring during our lowest moments to the uncomfortable reality of comparison that can poison even the closest bonds. As one guest powerfully shares, "When me and mine are at our lowest point, we have a community th...
2025-09-1639 minREFINEFathers are parents too: Redefining What It Means to Be a DadWhat does it truly mean to be a present father? Beyond showing up at occasional soccer games or providing financially, the depth of fatherhood remains murky territory for many men—especially those who grew up without strong father figures themselves.This eye-opening conversation with Sbu Zikalala takes us on a journey across continents as he shares how moving from South Africa to Taiwan completely transformed his understanding of what engaged fatherhood looks like. The cultural differences revealed a startling truth: many fathers don't realize how much more they could be bringing to their families."Being wi...
2025-09-0938 minREFINEWhose Voice Is Steering Your Life?We're in a critical season of shifting where the voices we listen to will determine our direction and decisions. Guard your heart, for out of it flow the decisions that will steer your entire life.• When things reach our ears, they affect our heart, and our decisions are a result of what we hear• The voice of distraction pulls our attention away from God's mandate without being inherently bad• Misdirecting voices lure us away from our God-given purpose, causing us to invest in wrong directions• Our inner voice (flesh) cannot be trusted until it's fully al...
2025-09-0230 minREFINEYour marriage bed doesn't have to be a battlefield.Movies portray an idealized version of marriage where the honeymoon phase never ends, but real intimacy often includes unexpected challenges that couples aren't prepared to discuss openly.• Sexual compatibility isn't automatic but requires active cultivation through communication and effort• Understanding each other's desires and expectations is fundamental to building a healthy sex life• Knowledge about hormonal cycles helps couples navigate libido differences without taking them personally• Emotional connection plays a crucial role in physical intimacy, especially for women• Supplements and medical advice can help address libido issues when appropriate• Difficult seasons like grief or str...
2025-08-2634 minREFINENavigating Seasons of Shift: When God Says "It's Time to Move"Navigating seasons of shift requires understanding the difference between stewarding what God gives versus owning it as our identity. When God leads us through transitions, we must learn to recognize the signals and trust His provision for what comes next.• The biblical story of Elijah at the brook illustrates how God provides in one season before calling us to move• Spiritual maturity develops when we learn to yield to God's timing rather than clinging to comfortable seasons• Intimacy with God through consistent prayer and Bible study helps us recognize divine signals of upcoming transitions• Success...
2025-08-1946 minREFINEMarriage Beyond the Social Media FeedMarriage is a divine institution designed by God, not a performance measured by social media standards or external validation. We explore how to navigate relationships in today's digital landscape where "couple goals" are often defined by superficial displays rather than substantive connection.• Social media creates unrealistic expectations of perfect relationships• Most marriages aren't roses all the time - challenges are normal• Behind every perfect post is an imperfect reality• The blueprint for marriage comes from God, not Instagram• Character refinement happens through difficulties, not aesthetics• Respecting the uniqueness of your relationship prevents harmful comp...
2025-08-1245 minREFINEGod doesn't want your comfort, He wants your obedience.Are you burying your talents in the ground because of fear? That's exactly what today's powerful conversation with Tamia Nontsikelelo, founder of Tol-Thema, a modest fashion brand, challenges us to examine.Tamia's journey from accounting student to successful fashion entrepreneur didn't follow the expected path. While still in university, she felt an inexplicable divine urgency to pursue her purpose rather than waiting for the "right time" after graduation. Despite being labeled "delusional" by those around her, she began methodically building her brand through strategic content creation, growing to 10,000 followers in just three months without financial capital.
2025-08-0433 min
Living In Fullness with NakiS2:E13 Stop Settling in Relationships! | Exploring Friendships and Content Creator Life w/ Buli Makhubo
In this episode with the incredible a wife, mother, a content creator and architect - we touch on a number of topics that impact life in general. We kick the conversation off with how people should stop settling for relationships that are not adding value to them. Watch to know Buli's experience around this.
Topics:
00:00 Childhood & Relationship with Father
01:39 Stop Settling in Relationships
09:13 TIPS: Working With Brands & Content Creation
17:36 Drawing Inspiration
19:05 Christ Centered Life
26:14 Motherhood, Forgiveness & Love
30:05 Social Media Friendships
35:14 Coping with Resistance [Purpose]
2023-12-1447 min