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Selective Ignorance with Mandii B If You Don't Have Nothing Nice To Say.... feat. Carla Wilmaris | Bonus EpisodeIn this bonus episode of Selective Ignorance, Mandii B is joined by friend of the show Carla Wilmaris for a raw and thought-provoking conversation about abortion, parenting, relationships, and the cultural pressures that shape these decisions. The episode opens with [00:00] an introduction and book promotion, before shifting to [01:51] current events and personal opinions that set the stage for a deeper dive. The hosts candidly address [04:57] abortion views and personal experiences, unpacking the stigma, complexities, and emotional realities of reproductive choices. From there, the discussion moves into [11:31] conversations around unprotected sex, highlighting the societal double standards and consequences t...

2025-10-0359 min

Selective Ignorance with Mandii B Ep. 31 | Public Outrage: Freedom of Speech, Superbowl & Tylenol feat. Carla WilmarisIn this episode of Selective Ignorance, host Mandii B is joined by special guest Carla Wilmaris for a thought-provoking conversation that weaves together freedom of speech, friendship dynamics, faith, and cultural identity. The discussion opens with a celebration of five years of voices and the platform’s growth [00:00], before diving into the challenges surrounding freedom of speech in today’s climate [00:55]. From there, Mandii and Carla reflect on the dynamics of friendship and how differing perspectives can create both friction and growth [02:49], as well as how contrasting upbringings shape personal views [05:58]. This leads into a candid exploration of n...

2025-09-301h 19

So What Now? with Carla and Dex EP 37: Are You Too Comfortable? Here's What That Could Be Telling YouHey Bestie, We're back! Listen… jetlag and schedule conflics are real. This week's episode is a catch-up at the house. I just got back from Bali, had a full-blown spiritual awakening (yes, there were tears in the ocean), and maybe met the love of my life… but he said he's not coming back to America soooo that's that. 😅 Dex has been going through it too. When it rains, it pours, okay? She took a little break from social because the doom scroll had her in a chokehold. She opens up about that, plus her qui...

2025-07-0944 min

So What Now? with Carla and Dex EP 25: Dex Is a Liar & Carla's in Denial — 25 Questions for 25 Episodes!We made it to 25 episodes, y'all! Our little podcast baby is all grown up, and to celebrate, Carla and I decided to do something fun (and slightly chaotic): 25 questions to help you get to know us on a whole new level. No rules, barely any filters—just vibes, hot takes, and some lowkey oversharing. Carla went in on cancel culture, mental health, and the whole open relationship thing 👀. I opened up about monogamy, childhood stuff, and a few things I've been too scared to try (yet). It's been a wild ride getting here, and whether you'v...

2025-04-141h 06

So What Now? with Carla and Dex EP19: Dex is Messy, Carla is Cutting People Off, & the Internet is WildHey Friend! Its me, Carla! Whew, this episode was a ride! Dex is officially a Cowboy Carter ticket holder (Beyhive, stand up!), and I've been auditing my top five closest people—we'll see who makes it and who's getting cut real quick. Our Woman of the Week is the one and only Joy Reid—because duh, she's amazing and I really want her to win. And shameless plug, I'd LOVE to work with her!!! Meanwhile, Dex, who was supposed to be focused on creating this episodes outline, went down a whole Neyo rabbit hole (thank you, Shaderoom), and...

2025-03-0351 min

So What Now? with Carla and Dex EP13: Beyoncé Cancels, Carla Confesses, and LA's CrisisIn this week's episode Carla and Dex to catch you up on all the current events. We kick things off with Beyoncé's surprising move to cancel her highly anticipated announcement, leaving fans buzzing. Plus, we reflect on recent actions from political leaders and the messages they're sending. The conversation heats up as we discuss the devastating LA fires and how natural disasters continue to disproportionately impact marginalized communities. Carla makes a surprising confession about her recycling habits (or lack thereof), sparking a meaningful discussion on environmental responsibility. And finally, the ultimate question: is it e...

2025-01-2051 min

THIS TOO SHALL PASS EP 25: Being A Bum Is Contagious Feat. Carla WilmarisFeeling weighed down by invisible burdens? Join me and my guest, Carla Wilmaris , as we share stories of releasing the "dead weight" in our lives—whether it’s relationships, jobs, or overconfidence that no longer serve us. Through honest reflections, including my experience with a difficult first marriage, we discuss how letting go creates space for personal growth and well-being. We also explore the complexities of setting boundaries in friendships and evolving relationships, using my friendship with Carla as an example. From clear communication to addressing changes before they turn toxic, we highlight the importance of mai...

2024-12-0357 min

So What Now? with Carla and Dex EP 6: Burnout Diaries: Navigating Motherhood and Rediscovering JoyIn this lively episode of The So What Now Podcast, Carla and Dex tackle everything from neighborhood drama to the emotional rollercoaster of motherhood. Carla shares her escalating battle with the local "cat lady," sparking a hilarious yet relatable discussion about boundaries and suburban chaos. Meanwhile, the duo dives into mom guilt—whether it's Carla juggling life with a toddler and a grown daughter or Dex navigating communication in a long distance relationship with her daughter. With raw honesty and a touch of humor, the hosts reflect on burnout, personal growth, and finding unex...

2024-12-0251 min

So What Now? with Carla and Dex EP 236: Breaking the Mold (Ft Ariana Gonzalez aka Ari ADHD)What if your quirks were your superpower? Join us as we journey through ADHD and autism spectrum traits with the vibrant Ariana, known as Ari ADHD on Instagram. We embrace the humor in impulsivity, from spontaneous adventures to a quirky Florida man story involving urns. Our conversation touches on parenting with neurodivergence, balancing authenticity with structure, and the challenges of ADHD medication. We also address the systemic hurdles black and brown boys face in education and healthcare, highlighting the need for proper support. As we explore personal growth and the complexities of relationships, we discuss o...

2024-10-021h 32 $Let\'s Try This Again with B. Simone$

Let's Try This Again with B. Simone Find Your Zone of Genius with Jazmin Mercado & Carla WilmarisHey LTTA Family! Y'all ever tried working while juggling phone calls and family chaos? Today, I have Jaz and Carla with me to share our best tips to stay focused, from using "Do Not Disturb" to managing the madness of daily scheduling. We also get real about entrepreneurship—why passion trumps profit and how to balance creativity with organization. Whether you're starting out or leveling up, this episode is packed with gems for your journey!KEEP UP WITH US:WEBSITE: http://www.Letstrythisagain.comINSTAGRAM - @LetstrythisagainTIK...

2024-09-3056 min

So What Now? with Carla and Dex EP 235: Breaking Rules and Breaking BarriersJoin me, Carla, for an engaging solo episode of Pivot with Purpose! We kick off with a laugh-worthy yet cautionary tale of a Florida corrections officer caught altering a handicap sticker for better parking. This story sparks a deeper conversation on the legal and moral consequences of cutting corners, while I share my own relatable struggles with ADHD and the overlooked challenges it brings. I then dive into the emotional journey of juggling my career and motherhood, focusing on my son Psalm's recent autism diagnosis. From navigating insurance hurdles to preparing for an IEP meeting, I reflect o...

2024-09-2654 min

So What Now? with Carla and Dex EP 234: Law, Politics, and the Power of Informed Voting Pt 2. (Ft Attorney James Smith)Attorney James Smith is back for another insightful episode! This time, we dive into the complex world of political criticism, starting with Kamala Harris's time as a prosecutor. We break down the misinformation campaigns—many fueled by foreign actors like Russia—aimed at distorting her record and influencing U.S. opinions. We also discuss the ongoing federal case in Tampa involving the Uhuru Movement, debunking exaggerated claims about Kamala's role, including the myth that she jailed 1,200 men for nonviolent marijuana offenses. By examining probation violations and judicial decisions, we reveal the truth behind these allegations. Next...

2024-09-181h 08

So What Now? with Carla and Dex EP 233: Law, Politics, and the Power of Informed Voting Pt 1. (Ft Attorney James Smith)Join us on this eye-opening episode of "Pivot With Purpose Y'all" as we reunite with our favorite legal expert and dear friend, Attorney James Smith. Together, we peel back the layers of our early podcast memories while James demystifies the often convoluted legal language. You'll gain fascinating insights into the future of law, where AI might handle consultations, yet some human aspects of legal practice could remain irreplaceable. Ever wondered how elections shape the Supreme Court? We tackle the weighty influence of upcoming elections on the Court's conservative majority, revisiting the contentious 2000 presidential election and t...

2024-09-1055 min $Let\'s Try This Again with B. Simone$

Let's Try This Again with B. Simone Our New Reality as Autism Moms with Carla Wilmaris & DayybellaWelcome back LTTA Family! This week I sit down with two incredible moms, Carla Wilmaris and Dayybella. They are navigating their lives of being single mothers after their children were recently diagnosed with autism. We dive deep into their personal journeys—the initial shock, the countless appointments, and the reality of raising children with special needs while doing it on their own. Carla and Dayybella are sharing the raw, unfiltered emotions that come with this diagnosis: the fears, the uncertainties, but also the moments of joy and growth.This conversation isn't just about the challenges though; it's ab...

2024-09-0952 min

So What Now? with Carla and Dex EP 232: Humor in the Hustle: Entrepreneurial Wins (Ft. Didi Ramos)Welcome back to another exciting episode of Pivot With Purpose! This week, we bring you a mix of humor and practical advice, starting with a hilarious yet concerning Florida man story. Our special guest, Didi, steps into the spotlight! Through personal anecdotes, we illustrate how hard work behind the scenes often leads to visible achievements. We share stories about meeting and collaborating with dedicated individuals like Felix and Jenna, highlighting the importance of initiative and patience. This chapter is packed with practical takeaways on how proactive engagement and commitment can help you stand out and seize opportunities.

2024-09-031h 03

So What Now? with Carla and Dex EP 231: Running On CrazyThis week Carla and Dexty are joined by Christina from Running on Crazy. Christina shares her personal journey with bulimia and depression. Christina's story is a powerful one about body image, self-love, and her road to recovery. Watch Full Episode and Subscribe on YouTube ‌ Thank you to our Sponsors: BetterHelp - Get 10% off your First Month www.betterhelp.com/pwp Idea to Launch Podcast - Get $100 Off our signature course using code 'PIVOT' - LAUNCH YOUR PODCAST IN 30 DAYS Ready to start your own podcast? Sched...

2024-08-271h 02

So What Now? with Carla and Dex EP 230: Dealing with ConflictJoin Carla & Dexty this week as they discuss conflict in the workplace, relationships, as well as friends and family. Find out about their first and only major fight as friends and how they got through it. The ladies also discuss how they have dealt with conflict in the past and how they are changing to do better and improve themselves. Watch Full Episode and Subscribe on YouTube ‌ Thank you to our Sponsors: BetterHelp - Get 10% off your First Month www.betterhelp.com/pwp Idea to Launch Podcast - Get $...

2024-08-2052 min

So What Now? with Carla and Dex EP 229: Overcoming Challenges with Hope and HumorWelcome back, my loves! As summer winds down, join me for an engaging check-in where we cover a lot of ground. From recent experiences with Florida's hurricane season to the peculiar incident of a million dollars' worth of cocaine washing up on a Miami shore during Hurricane Debbie, Switching gears, I open up about my mental health journey and the challenges of virtual therapy. My trips to Miami and Mexico with Dex provided a much-needed break, but the struggle continues as I search for a more accessible therapist. Additionally, you'll hear about my son Psalm's daycare experiences, from potty...

2024-08-1441 min

So What Now? with Carla and Dex EP 228: Miami Madness and Real Talk (Feat Dexty)Guess who's BACK! My girl Dex is here on the Pivot with Purpose couch, and Oh sh*t, she's 40! It's a celebration! Join us as we recap our amazing trip to Miami for Dexty's birthday. Apparently, there's a thing about not going on a girls' trip to Miami, but we quickly found out why. We'll also touch on a few key things happening with the presidential election, encouraging listeners to find reputable sources to stay informed and vote thoughtfully, rather than relying on social media clips. In Florida news, you won't be...

2024-08-071h 12

So What Now? with Carla and Dex EP 227: Intersection of Mental Health and Security (Feat. Ariel B)Welcome back to another exciting episode of "Pivot With Purpose"! After a three-month hiatus, I'm thrilled to return to the Hi Hello Labs studio with my dear friend Ariel. Together, we reflect on the chaos and joy of our hectic lives, filled with family drama and demanding schedules. We share the importance of having relatable conversations, supporting one another, and the need for mentors and business coaches to help navigate uncharted career territories. Plus, there's a hint of an exciting, secret project that might take me offline for six weeks, so stay tuned! La...

2024-07-3059 min

So What Now? with Carla and Dex EP 226: Laughter, Loss, and Spiritual GrowthJoin us on Pivot with Purpose as we welcome back our resident guest, Paola, for an engaging and insightful discussion on various topics, starting with a unique Florida news story. We kick things off with Governor Ron DeSantis's new law banning the intentional release of balloons, highlighting the surprising details and exemptions for scientific purposes and children under six. Paola and I explore the humorous and serious aspects of this legislation, including potential community service punishments and the environmental implications of balloon releases. In the latter part of our episode, we explore deeply personal and e...

2024-07-221h 07

So What Now? with Carla and Dex EP 225: Heartbreak to Healing: Love's TurbulenceEver wondered why fast-moving relationships often end in heartbreak? In this episode of Pivot With Purpose, we uncover the whirlwind saga of Jeannie Mai and rapper Jeezy. From the highs of their passionate romance to the lows of an unexpected divorce and custody battle, we break down the emotional rollercoaster of rapid life decisions. Jeannie's journey from a firm stance against motherhood to embracing it wholeheartedly for her love, only to face unforeseen turmoil, illuminates the perilous nature of making swift, life-altering choices. We tackle the heavier side of relationships and parenting with heartfelt discussions o...

2024-07-171h 05

So What Now? with Carla and Dex EP 219: I'm Not a Victim..But Sure Felt Like It All Over AgainStep into the shadows of resilience as we navigate the treacherous waters of trauma and abuse recovery. The authenticity of my personal struggles is laid bare, alongside the haunting echo of financial manipulation by an ex-partner, which resonates with the disturbing tales of high-profile abuse cases. We peel back the layers of public figures like Diddy, revealing the stark contrast between their dazzling persona and the unseen scars of abuse This episode doesn't gloss over the discomfort; it plants a flag firmly in the heart of the matter, challenging you to recognize the true character r...

2024-05-2238 min

ACross Generations with Tiffany Cross Mother Wounds and Boundaries: Embracing Authenticity in Forgiveness and Self-Protection with Glennis Crosby & Carla WilmarisThis is one of the most emotional broadcasts I’ve ever done: “mommy issues.” We hear this phrase a lot as it relates to men. And we hear the phrase “daddy issues” when discussing women. But rarely do we explore the challenging relationship dynamics that exist between mothers and daughters. The intricately woven connection that comes from once sharing a body to the challenges and hurdles that come with sharing our lives. Whether you’re a mother or a daughter, or have either in your life, you will want to tune in. I explore the issues that grip us in childhood...

2024-05-071h 00

So What Now? with Carla and Dex EP 217:Breaking Barriers in Business with Denise WoodardDiscover the entrepreneurial spirit that is reshaping the world of allergy-friendly treats with Denise Woodard of Partake Foods. Join us as we venture into the reality of starting and scaling a business, particularly as a woman of color, where every day is a lesson in grit, innovation, and the sweet taste of success. You're invited to a candid conversation where we not only savor Partake's delectable cookies but delve into the strategies that transformed a mom's concern into a thriving brand. This episode is a close look at real-world wisdom for anyone navigating their career p...

2024-04-0256 min

So What Now? with Carla and Dex EP 216: Loud Budgeting and Financial Freedom with Giovanna GonzálezUnlock the secrets to financial freedom and take control of your money narrative with the wisdom of TikTok financial guru Giovanna, aka Gigi thefirstgenmentor. Our conversation illuminates the intriguing concept of "loud budgeting," a proactive, vocal approach to managing money that's shaking up the status quo. Delve into the heart of financial literacy with us as we discuss the profound influence of family on our money mindsets and the journey from paycheck-to-paycheck living to building lasting wealth. Gigi's insights into the financial realities of immigrant families and her tips for financial empowerment through social media offer a fresh perspective...

2024-03-261h 12

So What Now? with Carla and Dex EP 215: Life Update: Personal Struggles and Professional TriumphsNavigating through a storm of personal challenges and triumphant professional wins, I, peel back the curtain on the silent battles that often go unnoticed. Struggling with ADHD and facing a shortage of my essential medication. I find myself grappling with the highs of creative breakthroughs and the lows of emotional blocks. The episode is a raw exploration of this dichotomy, providing an intimate glimpse into the resilience needed to stand firm amidst family betrayal and legal trials, all while celebrating those moments of professional acclaim that remind us of our potential. Whether you're a parent, a...

2024-03-1525 min

So What Now? with Carla and Dex EP 213: Dinero, a Prenup, and How to be FNF! feat Jannese TorresToday's guest is Jannese Torres , host of "Yo Quiero Dinero Podcast". Jannese discusses entrepreneurship and how she found success as a food blogger. Then, she tells a bizarre story about her husband's mistress confronting her mom about their affair and why she decided to get a divorce. Jannese also drops some major gems on how to start a business and the ladies connect over their love for Puerto Rico. This week's listener letter is a question about lending money to family and the scripture of the week is Ecclesiastics 5:10. ‌ Connect with Jannesse: Instagram: @yo...

2024-02-261h 13

So What Now? with Carla and Dex EP 211: Juggling the Highs and Lows of Love, Finances, and Self-DiscoveryEver found yourself laughing through a challenge over dinner? This week on Pivot with Purpose, I'm joined by Paola, as we discuss life's curveballs with a side of laughter. Get ready to explore personal evolution, relationship rollercoasters, and the blend of family dynamics we all navigate. Money and love—two things that should work in harmony but often end up clashing like titans. Throughout this episode we tackle the issue of financial manipulation in relationships. From the audacious requests for money to shaming over financial incapabilities, we've seen it all and lived to tell the tale...

2024-02-161h 06

So What Now? with Carla and Dex EP 210: Embracing Identity, Building Boundaries, and Paternity Tests feat DextyI've always believed that if opportunity doesn't knock, build a door. This episode with Dex swings that door wide open as we revel in the tales of our entrepreneurial spirit, which took root in childhood candy sales and blossomed into career advancements achieved through sheer tenacity. We share a laugh over our methods of carving out our own spaces and touch on the not-so-secret ingredients to success: emotional intelligence and networking. A simple reminder that playing the cards we're dealt with strategic thinking and assertive action can lead to creating the opportunities we seek. we...

2024-02-081h 09

So What Now? with Carla and Dex EP 209: How ADHD Became Our SuperpowerImagine untangling the complexities of love and digital entrepreneurship while also juggling the nuances of ADHD. That's exactly what we're doing as I sit down with Isis Brianna, the digital sales guru and business coach, to explore the magnetic digital marketplace and its impact on our personal lives. We pull back the curtain on the dance of relationships, the resilience needed in the face of health challenges like endometriosis, and the profound emotional journey toward motherhood—a path fraught with societal expectations and our own shifting identities. Our conversation doesn't shy away from the spiritual and emotional pi...

2024-01-301h 31

So What Now? with Carla and Dex EP 207: New Year, New Pivot - I GOT FIRED? AGAIN?Ever feel like life's thrown you a curveball you just didn't see coming? Join us as we confess our own stories of transformation and tackle the balancing act between work and personal joy. We're peeling back the layers on the corporate world's sometimes harsh truths and revealing the silver linings that come with owning your content and career path. So, whether you're looking for a heart-to-heart on life's pivotal moments or just a good laugh about the stress of parenting and dating ,Tune in and join the conversation—you're bound to walk away with a fre...

2024-01-021h 02

So What Now? with Carla and Dex The Best of 2023 - Going Down Memory LaneIn this week's episode were listening to highlights of 2023 from episodes EP 157 Time over Money, Vasectomies, and Deadbeats EP 161 Soft Life vs Hyper-Independence, Sassy Men, Hinge Chronicles Ft Krysta Monet EP 162 Gratitude Is My Superpower FT Alisia Adamson Profit EP 170_Finding Your Soulmate and Leaving Toxic Relationships Ft. Laron Profit EP 171 The Family Secret- A Mother's Lie About Adoption ft Ariel Brown EP 176 He's Aware That He's A Narcissist Feat. Lee Hammock EP 187...

2023-12-281h 01

So What Now? with Carla and Dex EP 205: Necole Kane Pivoting LIFE After a Failed Blind Date - From Gossip Queen to Happy FloIn this pivotal episode, Necole Kane discusses her start as a gossip blogger (Necole Bitchie) to realize her purpose as a different type of social media platform. Her journey started with a blind date and led her to sell all of her things off and move to Arizona. During her time there, she created her successful businesses (xoNecole and My Happy Flow) and moved on to creating other platforms that fulfill her with happiness. Listen in as Necole and Carla break down how you can be successful in the world of media while still maintaining your peace.

2023-12-181h 32

So What Now? with Carla and Dex EP 204: The Pursuit of Purpose: Navigating Activism and Advocacy feat Tiffany D LoftinCould your content consumption habits be shaping your outlook and actions more than you realize? Join me,as I sit down with Tiffany Dean Loftin the host of "How We Get Free," for a mind-opening discussion about the power of content consumption. We dive into the creation of podcasts and the impact they have on their creators. ‌ Are you ready to navigate the complex world of advocacy, voting, and social justice? We share our personal experiences on the challenges of leaving jobs, setting boundaries, and dealing with tough dynamics. We discuss the significance of your vo...

2023-12-041h 27

So What Now? with Carla and Dex EP 203: Reflecting on Five Years of EntrepreneurshipJoin me on a journey of reflection as I recount five years of entrepreneurial endeavors - the triumphs, the hardships, and the invaluable lessons. I'll let you in on the five key things I've learned over my half-decade venture, including the art of active listening, the importance of valuing all voices, and the necessity of doing your homework before stepping onto any podcast. Additionally, I contemplate hosting an in-person event for our podcast's six-year mark – an exciting milestone that feels both humbling and surreal. As we venture deeper into the realm of entrepreneurship, I share my experiences wi...

2023-11-0941 min

So What Now? with Carla and Dex EP 202: 7 Kids and 7 Baby Mamas Ft. Comedian TK KirklandIn this episode, comedian TK Kirkland wants you to understand his story but learn from his mistakes. From losing most of his immediate family (parents and siblings) to creating 7 kids of his own, TK has learned to accept things as they are. This comedian entrepreneur sits down with Carla to discuss how everyone has their own journey and we all have to allow each other the space to grow wiser as we grow older. (06:18) - Carla introduces TK Kirkland (07:38) - "Carla On Air: Love is Blind" (Hot Take) (21:32) - The Personal Li...

2023-10-231h 16

So What Now? with Carla and Dex EP 201: It's Step Daddy Season - Navigating Parenting and Dating with Ariel BEver wondered how to navigate the intriguing journey of parenting while also trying to keep your personal life active? Join us as we talked with Ariel Brown, host of Too Shall Pass, who shares her Inspirational and often humorous experiences. Ariel opens up about her son's evaluation at school due to concerns about his development and energy levels, and how modern technology impacts children's behavior. We move on to a lighter note, exploring dating life and the role humor plays in relationships. Also touching on the critical need for any potential partner to provide a s...

2023-10-1655 min

So What Now? with Carla and Dex EP 198: From Addiction to Motherhood with Jessica RoseJessica Rose ("She Really Had a Baby") is a woman with a successful brand that has millions of followers and reach across the internet…but it has been far from easy. Growing up, Jessica had no one to turn to. A domestic dispute with father and her negligent mother caused her to turn to a life of drug and alcohol addiction. After realizing she was going to be a mom, Jessica decided to begin the journey of turning her life around. Tune into this week's podcast as Jessica and Carla discuss changing the cycle of mother-daughter trauma and learning to...

2023-09-131h 18

So What Now? with Carla and Dex EP 197: The Struggles of Back To School Life as a Single Mother and Creating Your TribeCarla and Paola are back to chat about the craziness that is back to school and many other topics. Their convo begins by discussing Carla's tell-all on her recent guest appearance on the "Know For Sure" podcast and leads into body positivity for all body types. Finally, the ladies dive into the struggles of sending their kids back to school as a single-mom and having a license to carry in a house with children. Join the duo in this informative yet fun episode filled with laughs and understanding that you are not alone in your motherhood journey.

2023-09-0546 min

So What Now? with Carla and Dex EP 196: Manifesting Friendships as Adults and Creating Healthy Boundaries feat May TsehayIn this chaotic and crazily fun episode, Carla sits down with May Tsehay; her long-time friend and producer who helped take Carla's brand and company to the next level. Their discussion leads to topics that range from setting healthy boundaries, mental breakdowns, and how much love you have for someone if you pick them up from LAX. Tune into this episode as the duo have honest dialogue surrounding what it means to be a good friend while making sure to take time for yourself. (14:05) - Friendships and Alignment (28:24) - Creating Spaces to Be Y...

2023-08-301h 10

So What Now? with Carla and Dex EP 195: AN Unexpected and Unpredictable Life from Parental Separation to Medical Diagnosis feat Kay-Lani (viva_glam_kay)Having tried reaching out to this guest for years to join the podcast, Carla was finally able to sit down with make-up artist Kay-Lani (viva_glam_kay) at the perfect moment. Kay-Lani has been in the spotlight for years but today she sat down with us to discuss her upbringing, her start in make-up, and the life she has built for herself and her family. Throughout all of her hardships growing up, Kay-Lani and Carla shed light on how therapy and her relationship with her family and children has shaped her into the person she is today. ...

2023-08-221h 25

So What Now? with Carla and Dex EP 194: "They Always Say The Ex is Crazy" Feat. THE EXYou've also probably been told that THE EX IS CRAZY…Well lets talk to the ex! Now we have to navigate the tricky waters of "co-parenting" ourselves. Today's episode of Pivot with Purpose offers a raw and authentic conversation with my special guest, Erica - my son's brother's mom - as we share our personal journey towards co-parenting. Our commitment to nurturing a bond between our boys may have been fraught with challenges, but it has led to a healthy relationship that we're proud to share. A crucial part of our journey involved hea...

2023-08-1554 min

In Totality with Megan Ashley Rebuilding Boundaries After Abuse Ft. Carla WilmarisWe knew when we started this journey, that podcasting was more than just turning on the mic and talking. It was about crafting content that resonates deeply, consistently engaging with our listeners, and making our brand unforgettable. This week B.Simone and Megan Ashley are join by the women behind the scenes of KFS Podcast Strategist Carla Wilmaris! Carla's gems of wisdom guide us through these challenges, and she shares why many podcasts don't make it past their seventh episode. The conversation takes a personal turn when we talk about relationships; the importance of open-mindedness, setting healthy boundaries, and the...

2023-08-081h 11

So What Now? with Carla and Dex EP 193: Focusing on Self-growth After Break-ups with Mandii B.Mandii B. (See, The Thing Is…and WHOREible Decisions Podcasts) is in Orlando and of course she had to come by the studio! Both women have been through very tough break ups that were so different yet so similar. If you've heard the term " she wont leave him until she is ready" then you will understand why they stayed in their relationships longer than they should have. Mandii has decided to become celibate after this breakup and her and Carla discuss how celibacy Is different between the both of them because it has been over a year and...

2023-08-071h 00

So What Now? with Carla and Dex EP 192: The Story of Realtor Linda Jokbengboon: Refugee Camps, Gambling Addiction, and Growing up AsianImagine not belongin anywhere, no real home, no identity, no country that you can legally call home. Linda Jokbengboon aka Linda Sells Orlando started life in a Thai Refugee Camp. After moving to America, she struggled to assimilate with every community including her own. In this episode, Carla and Linda discuss Linda's upbringing filled with gambling addiction, raising her siblings during college, and how a misdemeanor stopped her from gaining citizenship. They shed light on how Linda was able to overcome her hardships and become successful in real estate. (5:59) Carla and Linda discuss ho...

2023-08-011h 09

So What Now? with Carla and Dex EP 191: The Impact of Liars, ADHD and Bipolar Medication Struggles, and Finding Strength in FaithListen in as we dissect the intricate web of lies and their implications, both for the individual and those around them. This exploration also extends to the consequences of fake kidnappings, attention-seeking behavior, and their possible link to mental health issues. Prepare for a lively debate about the characteristics that define high-value men and women. We explore the importance of a strong moral code, leadership values, faith, and discipline. This conversation also highlights the dangers of an overemphasis on superficial success and material possessions, and the need to strive for internal success. Additionally, we shed...

2023-07-251h 13

So What Now? with Carla and Dex EP 190: Behind the Laughter: A Heart-to-Heart with Kristen and J-Rod about Marriage, Blended Family, and Children with AutismJoin us on a journey filled with laughter, real-life experiences, and powerful insights as we welcome Kristen and J-Rod, the couple behind the hit podcast 'And Then We Had Sex'. These two share an incredible story about how they launched a successful podcast, and their unique approach to navigating relationships and intimacy when you're older. This episode is a deep dive into the idea of 'Pivot with Purpose' and how Kristen and J-Rod carved their path on their own terms. As we dig deeper, we engage in an enlightening discussion about common reasons for failed r...

2023-07-171h 04

So What Now? with Carla and Dex EP 188: Ask And It Shall Be Given ft Fabianna FerrariniThis week, Carla is joined by fitness mogul Fabiana Ferrarini, join them as they dive deep into their personal journeys of resilience and growth, from challenging relationships and overcoming abuse to finding strength through motherhood, they share their powerful stories of transformation. Topics like the importance of self-love, the impact of faith, and the power of embracing one's purpose were also discussed along with: ‌ (3:01) Carla gives a hack on sliding in DMs (12:10) Fabiana shares her experience as a teen mom, (21:00) Carla shares why she would rather physical abuse than verbal/emotional abu...

2023-06-261h 36

The Samantha Marie Podcast 15. Overcoming Fear and Anxiety with Purposeful Living - With Carla WilmarisThis week on Single Status, Samantha welcomes special guest Carla Wilmaris. Together they explore topics like faith, podcasting, and navigating dating. They also discuss the benefits and challenges of being single, as well as ways to sustain oneself and children in case a relationship doesn't work out. Samantha and Carla’s personal experiences with pivots and making choices with purpose are also shared, as well as her journey to discovering her purpose and living it out. In this episode:Personal Finance And Giving Back To The ChurchFinding Purpose Through Podcasting And Pivoting In LifeDealing With Fear And AnxietyGratitude An...

2023-06-2147 min

So What Now? with Carla and Dex EP 187: From Crack Baby to Superstar Comedian feat Akeem WoodsThis week, Carla is joined by comedian Akeem Woods. Join them as they dive into a discussion about work ethic, and the sacrifices required for success. Carla opens up about her experience as a CEO emphasizing the importance of loving what you do. Akeem shares his journey as a comedian, including his decision to come out later in life. The conversation touches on topics such as authenticity, family dynamics, and the impact of personal experiences on one's comedic style. Tune in as Carla and Akeem explore the power of resilience, and finding one's purpose amidst life's trials. (5:01...

2023-06-201h 09

So What Now? with Carla and Dex EP 186: Falling Into Satan's TrapCarla is joined by Paola for an episode full of good energy. The ladies talk about Carla's psychic reading and how it affected her spiritually. This episode is all about trusting God and having the discipline to let toxic energy out so that the blessings can come down. Carla also gives us insight on all the new bae's in her life. This week's scripture of the week is 2 Timothy 3:2 5:00- Carla's Psychic Reading 15:00- Sarah Jakes Roberts Sermon 27:00- Money Coming in and Money Coming Out 34:00- Carla was a...

2023-06-121h 06

So What Now? with Carla and Dex EP 185: My First Psychic Reading Almost Destroyed MeThis week, Carla candidly shares her struggles with anxiety, self-doubt, and her curiosity with various spiritual practices and alternative methods of guidance. Yet, through her unwavering faith and connection with God, Carla ultimately finds solace, realizing that true peace resides in her spiritual journey. (4:30) Carla shares why liquor is no longer her friend (11:35) She celebrates her BIRTH anniversary and shares what its like mothering a teenager (16:50) She lost herself in this past year and this TWEET resonated with her (21:20) She dives into her first psychic reading (36:15) How cutting off ce...

2023-05-3150 min

So What Now? with Carla and Dex EP 184: Tulum, Shroom Trips, & Cougar SeasonJoin Carla as she recounts all the shenanigans from her Synergy Wellness Retreat! From the sun-kissed beaches of Tulum to the exhilarating highs and lows of their personal lives. This episode is packed with unexpected twists and outrageous moments. Tripping on shrooms, captivating cacao ceremonies, and heartfelt connections add an ethereal touch to their journey. After listening to this episode you'll want to sign up for the next one! (5:40) Carla reveals her hilarious cosmetic procedure mishap (15:45) Boat party drama, steamy encounters with a mysterious 27-year-old man, and a car ride to remember (25:12) Carla...

2023-05-151h 03

So What Now? with Carla and Dex EP 182: My Therapist Ghosted MeCarla is joined by Paola for another episode! Carla starts by sharing how triggered she is that her therapist ghosted her and Paola digs deeper into Carla's breakup trauma. This is a venting episode where Carla gets a lot off of her chest about unappreciative friends and not feeling supported by her peers in the industry. Carla teaches Paola what CHATGPT is and they have a conversation about how dangerous artificial intelligence is. The ladies do a deep dive on relationships and Carla shares what she wants in a man. This is a jammed packed episode full of content...

2023-05-011h 07

So What Now? with Carla and Dex EP 181: I Found God Through Astrology feat GigiThis week on Pivot With Purpose, Carla is joined by intuitive Astrologist "Gigi". They start by discussing Gigi's background and why she decided to move to Mexico. Then, The ladies bond over motherhood when GiGi describes how she's able to put her daughter through college. Gigi shares how a broken marriage inspired her to start researching astrology and how her christian mother came to accept her career path. Gigi even reads Carla's natal chart live on the podcast! Today's bible verse is Proverbs 19:21. 10:00- Gigi explains her background and how she got to Mexico 17:00...

2023-04-181h 10

So What Now? with Carla and Dex EP 180: God Will Humble You feat. Justin GatlinThis week on Pivot With Purpose, Carla is joined by Track-star Justin Gatlin. The duo starts by discussing the LSU Girls Basketball controversy and how Jill Biden put her foot in her mouth. Then, Justin explains how difficult it was for him to pivot from being a professional athlete and how he handles the pressure. Justin also details a time in his career that he got suspended because of a spiteful trainer. Carla describes how God will humble you in life when you think you're the one in control. Our listener's question is, "Does finding your career heal your...

2023-04-101h 14

So What Now? with Carla and Dex EP 179: Baby Daddy NewsletterCarla is taking it back with an old school at home episode! Joined by Paola and Wendy, the ladies do a full Love Is Blind Recap. The ladies also discuss Lamar Odom and they share their hate for being hugged and touched. They end the episode by talking about the power of praying for others. Scripture Of The Day Exodus 1:1. 5:00- Lamar Odom acquires three rehabilitation centers 10:30- Is Carla Autistic Or Neurodivergent? 15:32-Love Is Blind Recap 31:00 Carla Wants To Host The Official "Love Is Blind" Podcast 32:00...

2023-04-0546 min

So What Now? with Carla and Dex EP 178: It's Time To Pivot AgainPaola is back for another jam packed episode. First, Carla and Paola are both feeling a shift in their lives and think it's time to pivot. Then, Carla shares her concern about her forgetfulness and thinks that it comes from the trauma in her life. Carla shares her Tulum surprise and both ladies do a Love Is Blind recap. This week's scripture is 2 John 1:8. 5:45: Carla And Paola Both Feel It's Time For A Shift In Their Lives 11:00- Carla Is Sick From A Stomach Bug 13:45- Carla Speaks About Her Forgetfulness

2023-03-291h 02

Brown Ambition BA Q&A: Girl, Raise Your Prices ft. Carla WilmarisMandi is joined by Carla Wilmaris for this week's BA Q&A. First, listener Kayla wants to leave her 9-5 to become a lash artist but feels guilty leaving her job. Carla gives her a marketing plan to start her lash business and encourages her to keep he job in the meantime. Then, a listener is nervous about raising her prices and Mandi gives a breakdown on how to raise prices while honoring your loyal clients. Both ladies stress the importance of making your value clear as a business owner.Drop us a note at brownambitionpodcast@gmail...

2023-03-2418 min

Brown Ambition Ep 351: Podcasting and Pivoting ft. Carla WilmarisMandi is joined by podcast extrordinaire, Carla Wilmaris. Carla starts by sharing her journey and pivot from accounting to podcast guru. Then, the ladies deep dive into what inspired Carla to start her podcast and teach others how to start their own as well. They discuss the best podcast equipment for beginners, the best editing practices, how to monetize, and sacrificing fun for your dreams. Carla also tells a funny story about how her interview with Charlemagne Tha God went absolutely crazy. This is a jam packed episode and it's full of gems!Drop us a note...

2023-03-2250 min

So What Now? with Carla and Dex EP 177: What Does Rest Even Mean?This week, Carla is joined by Paola and it happens to be Paola's birthday! First, Carla recaps her Mexico trip and the struggle she has to actually get rest.She shares all of the cool people she met and how she thought she was going to Jail for a moment. Then, Paolo gives a full breakdown on how to take PTO and study your company handbook. The ladies discuss people shaming Ashanti for being single and why people judge single women negatively. Carla also reads a listener letter about a girl sad about getting older and being single and...

2023-03-211h 08 $Fly Morning Wakeup With Lil\' Shawn and Carla$

Fly Morning Wakeup With Lil' Shawn and Carla DON'T SHOOT THE MESSENGER - Pool Contractor Needs to Get PaidDON'T SHOOT THE MESSENGER - Pool Contractor Needs to Get Paid

2023-03-1705 min

So What Now? with Carla and Dex EP 176: He's Aware That He's A NarcissistThis week, Carla is joined by Lee Hammock aka @MentalHealness " A self aware narcissist". They start by talking about his upbringing and what led to his narcissism diagnosis. Lee and Carla also discussed how he navigates marriage with his personality disorder. Then, they discuss parenting and how to navigate narcissism while having kids. Lastly, the duo talks about using religion for manipulation. 9:00- Lee's Wife Calls Him A Narcissist 16:50- How to Navigate Marriage As A Narcissist 24:20- Verbal Abuse Was the worst 32:00- Levels to Narcissism

2023-03-131h 12

So What Now? with Carla and Dex EP 175: Airport Lounge Access Granted feat Dexty Dex is back in the hot seat and the ladies laugh for the entire episode! They start by reminiscing on their girl's trip to New York and break down the rules of a successful girl's trip. Then, they shared how they were too tired to go to "The Read's" after party and were so happy that they were both on the same page. Next, Carla and Dex talk about Carla's solo trip and Dex has some interesting suggestions for what activities Carla should do. The ladies also share funny stories on raising their teenagers and how this n...

2023-03-061h 01

So What Now? with Carla and Dex EP 174: Yo Quiero Dinero, a Prenup, and to be FNF! feat Jannese TorresToday's guest is Jannese Torres , host of "Yo Quiero Dinero Podcast". Jannese discusses entrepreneurship and how she found success as a food blogger. Then, she tells a bizarre story about her husband's mistress confronting her mom about their affair and why she decided to get a divorce. Jannese also drops some major gems on how to start a business and the ladies connect over their love for Puerto Rico. This week's listener letter is a question about lending money to family and the scripture of the week is Ecclesiastics 5:10. ‌ ‌ 4:30- The ladies talk abou...

2023-02-271h 12

So What Now? with Carla and Dex EP 172: 'm Committed to Being Single AFIt's Valentine's Day and this is the first year EVER that she has been single. How is that even possible? Well this year she is making a commitment to being single and being INTENTIONAL about it. After a heavy therapy appointment she now has a plan for finding herself and loving herself more than ever. ___________________ 5:36- Being Recognized At Church 14:00- Carla's First Solo Vacation 23:00- Carla wants to find her sexy 35:00 Last Valentines Day Experience 50:00: Scripture Of The Day John 16:33 Vote For "H...

2023-02-1453 min

So What Now? with Carla and Dex EP 171: The Family Secret - A Mother's Lie About Adoption ft Ariel BrownThis week, Carla is back with Ariel Brown for part 2. Join them as they discuss single motherhood, healing, a shocking adoption story, and the laws surrounding child support. 8:18- Overcoming Imposture Syndrome 18:17- Toxic Co-parenting/ Child Support 34:28- Giving Yourself Grace While Raising kids 47:48: Bizarre Adoption Story 1:05:40: Ariel Finds Her Birth Mother 1:20:24: Bible Verse Romans 12:12 Vote For "Holding Court" 54th NAACP Image Awards Fan Choice Vote "Set Boundaries, Find Peace" https://www.amazon.com/Set-Boundaries-Find-Peace-Reclaiming/dp/0593192095‌ Boundaries Updated and Expanded Edition: When to Say...

2023-02-071h 26 $Fly Morning Wakeup With Lil\' Shawn and Carla$

Fly Morning Wakeup With Lil' Shawn and Carla DON'T SHOOT THE MESSENGER - Fiance Gets Caught Cheating on National TVDON'T SHOOT THE MESSENGER - Fiance Gets Caught Cheating on National TV

2023-01-0405 min $Fly Morning Wakeup With Lil\' Shawn and Carla$

Fly Morning Wakeup With Lil' Shawn and Carla DON'T SHOOT THE MESSENGER - Girlfriend's Stinky SituationDON'T SHOOT THE MESSENGER - Girlfriend's Stinky Situation

2022-12-2005 min $Fly Morning Wakeup With Lil\' Shawn and Carla$

Fly Morning Wakeup With Lil' Shawn and Carla DON'T SHOOT THE MESSENGER - I Used to Be Your Dad's Sugar BabyDON'T SHOOT THE MESSENGER - I Used to Be Your Dad's Sugar Baby

2022-12-1406 min $Fly Morning Wakeup With Lil\' Shawn and Carla$

Fly Morning Wakeup With Lil' Shawn and Carla DON'T SHOOT THE MESSENGER - Call of Shame - I Tested Positive for Chlamydia

2022-12-1405 min $Fly Morning Wakeup With Lil\' Shawn and Carla$

Fly Morning Wakeup With Lil' Shawn and Carla DON'T SHOOT THE MESSENGER - Soccer Mom's Daughter Did NOT Make the Team

2022-12-0706 min $Fly Morning Wakeup With Lil\' Shawn and Carla$

Fly Morning Wakeup With Lil' Shawn and Carla DON'T SHOOT THE MESSENGER - Girlfriend Confesses She Is a Well Known Pornstar to her BoyfriendDON'T SHOOT THE MESSENGER - Girlfriend Confesses She Is a Well Known Pornstar to her Boyfriend

2022-09-2606 min $Fly Morning Wakeup With Lil\' Shawn and Carla$

Fly Morning Wakeup With Lil' Shawn and Carla DON'T SHOOT THE MESSENGER - Woman Reveals to Her Husband She Had 13 Plastic Surgeries before Marrying HimDON'T SHOOT THE MESSENGER - Woman Reveals to Her Husband She Had 13 Plastic Surgeries before Marrying Him www.fly1031orlando.com

2022-09-2606 min $Fly Morning Wakeup With Lil\' Shawn and Carla$

Fly Morning Wakeup With Lil' Shawn and Carla DON'T SHOOT THE MESSENGER - Man Fires Brother's Girlfriend From High End Family Restaurant for Not Showing Up to Staff MeetingDON'T SHOOT THE MESSENGER - Man Fires Brother's Girlfriend From High End Family Restaurant for Not Showing Up to Staff Meeting

2022-09-2205 min $Fly Morning Wakeup With Lil\' Shawn and Carla$

Fly Morning Wakeup With Lil' Shawn and Carla Carla's Gossip DropTIFFANY HADDISH: Lost All Her Jobs Over Molestation Suit KHLOE KARDASHIAN BREAKS DOWN IN TEARS OVER TRISTAN'S AFFAIR As They Awaited Birth Of Second Baby Brad Pitt Has a New Skincare Line That Uses Grapes from His Vineyard BOSTON CELTICS COACH IME UDOKA FACES SUSPENSION FOR IMPROPER CONSENSUAL RELATIONS WITH FEMALE STAFFER

2022-09-2207 min $Fly Morning Wakeup With Lil\' Shawn and Carla$

Fly Morning Wakeup With Lil' Shawn and Carla DON'T SHOOT THE MESSENGER - Best Man Gets Uninvited From the Wedding by Fiance for Breaking the Bachelor Party RulesDON'T SHOOT THE MESSENGER - Best Man Gets Uninvited From the Wedding by Fiance for Breaking the Bachelor Party Rules

2022-09-2105 min $Fly Morning Wakeup With Lil\' Shawn and Carla$

Fly Morning Wakeup With Lil' Shawn and Carla DON'T SHOOT THE MESSENGER - Lesbian's Sperm Donor Shoots BlanksDON'T SHOOT THE MESSENGER - The Confession: Lesbian's Sperm Donor Shoots Blanks

2022-09-2006 min $Fly Morning Wakeup With Lil\' Shawn and Carla$

Fly Morning Wakeup With Lil' Shawn and Carla DON'T SHOOT THE MESSENGER - Wife Loses Heirloom Wedding Ring and Husband Thinks It's Being CleanedWife Loses Heirloom Wedding Ring and Husband Thinks It's Being Cleaned

2022-09-1905 min

The Pieces Podcast EP55: Break Every Chain (feat. Carla Wilmaris of Pivot with Purpose Podcast)Another episode of The Pieces Podcast is here to enjoy! On this podcast we hope to facilitate opportunities to convene and learn more about God through music led devotionals. Let’s get excited to enjoy our love for music and Christ in one place. Today we welcome Carla Wilmaris. Host and Creator of the Pivot with Purpose Podcast as well as Founder of Idea to Launch Academy and Agency. Before Carla evolved into a passion-driven Podcast Guru, she was a corporate girl crunching numbers behind a desk. She worked as an accountant and although she was...

2022-05-0355 min

Your Self Care Prescription EP 58: She Made It Happen! ft Carla Wilmaris"Every time you shift, make sure there's a purpose, a good purpose behind it, not just the chase of money, not just the chase of a man, not just the chase of just temporary happiness or a temporary satisfaction." -Carla Wilmaris Happy Monday! What a BEAUTIFUL weekend in New Orleans! The French Quarter Festival came back after a 2-year hiatus. The weather was gorgeous and good vibes were everywhere. In this week's episode: Find out what I did for self-care, What I'm looking forward to, AND HOW I got this podcast started in 30 days! Carla Wilmaris MADE...

2022-04-251h 02

The Wealthy Place Podcast Carla Wilmaris: The Pursuit of Purpose through PodcastingLattrice is joined by podcast strategist, Carla Wilmaris Discussing what to do when you realize you’re not living in your purpose. You can either A) stay in the place that keeps you stagnant and stunts your growth or you can B) pivot and lean into the skills that make you unique and fulfilled. ABOUT: Carla Wilmaris, Founder of ‘Idea to Launch Academy’ and the host of the ‘Idea to Launch Podcast.’ Before evolving into a passion-driven Podcast Guru, Carla was a corporate girl crunching numbers behind...

2021-10-2629 min

Comfortably Toxic Overcome by the Cheeks- S3E5Angel is blessed to be joined by the one and only One Take No Chaser!! This episode was destined to happen because they jumped through all kind of hoops to be able to record during a power outage. They discuss the question of the season and One Take answers like no one else can. Tune in and learn what it means to be “Overcome by the Cheeks”!!!!!Follow One Take on Instagram:https://instagram.com/1takenochaser?igshid=478nm5gmrnykDo you want to Start or Improve your Podcast???Checkout My Coach...

2020-09-2323 min

The Need to Know Podcast SH*T I'M 30! Podcast EP 125: The "So...What Are We?" Talk (with Carla Wilmaris, SaVon, and Alex)Why are we so afraid to have the "define the relationship" talk? On this episode: SaVon & Alex join Carla Wilmaris on SH*T I'M 30! Podcast to discuss being petty on the internet, dating as a millennial during COVID, and so much more! LIKE COMMENT SUBSCRIBE theneedtoknowpodcast.com.

2020-09-1400 min

The Need to Know Podcast SH*T I'M 30! Podcast EP 121: Food, Body Image, and Learning Patience (with Carla Wilmaris & Steph Styuhls)On this episode: Steph Styuhls joins the amazing Carla Wilmaris on SH*T I'M 30! Podcast to discuss quarantine eating, body image, an 8-year situationship, and what it's like working with men! Carla & Steph give advice on how to set boundaries with a narcissistic sibling as well as tips on how to politely decline invitations during the COVID-19 pandemic. A quote from this episode: "You have to remember you have an internal inherent worth regardless of how much money you're making or how productive you think you are."

2020-09-1000 min

Dating But Nothing Serious EP 44: POLITICAL AS USUAL ft. Carla WilmarisGary and Natasha starts the episode touching on the current state of America with the killing of George Floyd and the protest.(25:15) We also have a very special guest on this week's episode. From the Shit I'm 30 podcast we have Carla Wilmaris.

2020-06-0250 min