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Men, Sex & Pleasure with Cam Fraser#255 Rewriting Masculinity: Talking Circles, Rites of Passage, and Real Change (with Michael Brasher)Key PointsOn this episode of #mensexpleasure, I chat with Michael Brasher, a passionate men's work facilitator and community organizer. Michael’s journey began while working at a domestic violence shelter, where his exposure to a men’s education program transformed his understanding of masculinity and violence. Since then, he has devoted his life to violence prevention and creating spaces for men to heal, grow, and reconnect with their emotional lives. Michael shares insights from years of running men’s groups, talking circles, and rites of passage experiences for men and boys. We explore the challenges of engagi...2025-07-041h 00Men, Sex & Pleasure with Cam Fraser#254 Men and Porn: Breaking Shame, Building Awareness (with Elle Thielke)On this episode of #mensexpleasure, I chat with Elle Thielke. Elle is a Melbourne-based sexologist and former sex worker with a passion for men’s health and wellbeing. Drawing on her lived experience in the industry, Elle brings a unique and deeply informed perspective to conversations around masculinity, porn, and authentic sexual expression. Together, we explore the barriers that prevent men from being open about their desires, the impact of shame and gendered socialisation, and how to reframe common narratives around porn “addiction.” Elle also shares insights on ethical and embodied porn consumption, the importance of media literacy, and the ur...2025-06-2759 minMen, Sex & Pleasure with Cam Fraser#253 Ethical Porn and Teen Curiosity: Rethinking Sex Ed (with Giselle Woodley)On this episode of #mensexpleasure, I chat with Dr. Giselle Woodley. Giselle is a recent PhD graduate and researcher whose work focuses on young people’s perspectives on relationships, sex education, and online harms such as image-based abuse and sextortion. Her research centers youth voices and aims to develop youth-led strategies for navigating digital sexuality and relationships. In our conversation, Giselle shares the nuanced and often-overlooked views that teens hold about pornography, including their desire for ethical, educational content and their frustration with risk-heavy, adult-led education. We also explore the implications of censorship, the importance of listening to young pe...2025-06-2052 minMen, Sex & Pleasure with Cam Fraser#252 Porn, Parenting & Pleasure: Raising Boys in a Media-Saturated World (with Marc Zen)Key Points:Introductions and backgroundMarc Zen introduces himself as a PhD candidate at Curtin University researching explicit media literacy education, particularly focusing on parent perspectives. He discusses his personal experiences with education growing up and how that motivated his research interests.Defining "explicit media literacy" Marc explains why he uses the broader term "explicit media literacy" rather than just focusing on . He notes that parents were more concerned about the influence of media on their children's future relationships than just the content of itself.2025-06-1356 minMen, Sex & Pleasure with Cam Fraser#251 Pleasure, Innovation & the Ethics of AI: Redesigning Desire (with Brian Sloan)Key Points:Introduction to Brian Sloan and AutoblowBrian Sloan introduces himself as the creator of the Autoblow brand of male pleasure products. He discusses how he got into this industry, starting with selling latex fetishwear and then realizing there was a need for better male toys. He has been working on developing the Autoblow and VacuGlide products for over 16 years.Passion for Male PleasureBrian explains that his initial interest in this industry was more of a business decision, but over time he developed a genuine passion...2025-05-0955 minMen, Sex & Pleasure with Cam Fraser#250 Play, Presence, and Pleasure: Reclaiming Connection Beyond Performance (with Zari)Key Points: Introductions and Zari's backgroundZari introduces himself as an artist, illustrator, and traveler who is currently exploring the topic of authentic connection and pleasure. He shares his passion for travel, authentic connections, and finding new ways to cultivate presence and embodied experiences.Challenges with modern connection and performance Zari discusses the issues he sees with modern connection and intimacy, including the pressure to perform, the influence of social media and media portrayals, and the tendency to get caught up in playing roles rather than being authentic...2025-05-0253 minMen, Sex & Pleasure with Cam Fraser#249 Masculinity, Love, and Liminal Space (with Triss Tashi)Key Points:Defining love and its many facetsTriss and Cam discuss the concept of love, its various meanings and expressions, and how it can be experienced on emotional, physical, and spiritual levels. They explore the limitations of language in capturing the full essence of love, and the importance of acknowledging the diversity of love's manifestations.Navigating masculinity and gender normsCam shares his personal experiences and reflections on the societal narratives and prescriptive ideas around masculinity, and how they can create barriers for men to engage in...2025-04-2554 minMen, Sex & Pleasure with Cam Fraser#249 Resilience, Receiving & Realness: Redefining Strength Through Emotional Intelligence (with Aasha LaCount)Key Points:Aasha's background and passions Aasha introduced herself as a certified emotional intelligence expert, shamanic practitioner, hypnotherapist, and CEO of a tech startup. She is passionate about helping people ignite their souls and authenticity, and stop hiding who they are. Aasha shared her personal journey of overcoming health challenges and trauma to find self-acceptance and empowerment.Emotional resilience and leadershipAasha discussed her approach to emotional resilience, emphasizing the importance of feeling emotions deeply without abandoning one's post as a leader. She shared insights from losing her...2025-04-1857 minMen, Sex & Pleasure with Cam Fraser#248 Beyond Erections: Softness, Pleasure, and the Power of Presence (with Mish Middelmann)Key Points:Mish's background and book Mish introduces himself as a 60-something man who has shifted his health work from a focus on cancer to a broader focus on men's health and wellness. He has recently written a book about embracing and finding pleasure in a "soft " rather than fixating on erections.The need for a new perspective on maleMish explains that he was motivated to write the book because he realized there was a lack of resources and information available about enjoying intimacy...2025-04-1859 minMen, Sex & Pleasure with Cam Fraser#248 Why Condom Size Matters (with Milla Impola)Key points:Milla's background and passion for condom educationMilla Impola is the Marketing Director at Global Protection, the parent company of One Condoms. She is passionate about condom education and has a background in peer health counseling and working in the LGBTQ+ health space. She is particularly interested in addressing the shortcomings of abstinence-only education.Condom sizing and the importance of fitMilla explains that One Condoms offers 52 different condom sizes to accommodate a wide range of anatomical differences. She emphasizes the importance of...2025-04-1150 minMen, Sex & Pleasure with Cam Fraser#247 Embracing Self-Love: Healing, Masculinity, and Pleasure (with Toby Whittington)Key Points:Toby's background and journey to coaching Toby shares his background, including being an open intersex person, his diagnosis with Kleinfelter's syndrome, and his transition into the coaching and counseling space. He discusses how his own self-discovery and openness about his identity led him to want to support others in similar ways.Toby's philosophy on self-love and whole-person approach Toby explains his holistic, "whole person" approach to coaching, emphasizing the importance of self-love, self-acceptance, and changing one's internal narrative as the foundation for growth and fulfillment. He...2025-04-0449 minMen, Sex & Pleasure with Cam Fraser#247 Cultivating Self-Love and Body Acceptance (with Toby Whittington)Key points:Toby's background and journey to coachingToby shares his background, including being an open intersex person, his diagnosis with Kleinfelter's syndrome, and his transition into the coaching and counseling space. He discusses how his own self-discovery and openness about his identity led him to want to support others in similar ways.Toby's philosophy on self-love and whole-person approachToby explains his holistic, "whole person" approach to coaching, emphasizing the importance of self-love, self-acceptance, and changing one's internal narrative as the foundation for growth...2025-04-0448 minMen, Sex & Pleasure with Cam Fraser#245 From Trauma to Empowerment: Emotional Resilience, Feminine Leadership, and Authentic Expression (with Aasha T. LaCount)Key points:Aasha's background and passionsAasha introduced herself as a certified emotional intelligence expert, shamanic practitioner, hypnotherapist, and CEO of a tech startup. She is passionate about helping people ignite their souls and authenticity, and stop hiding who they are. Aasha shared her personal journey of overcoming health challenges and trauma to find self-acceptance and empowerment.Emotional resilience and leadershipAasha discussed her approach to emotional resilience, emphasizing the importance of feeling emotions deeply without abandoning one's post as a leader. She shared insights...2025-03-2157 minMen, Sex & Pleasure with Cam Fraser#244 Rewriting Masculinity: Vulnerability, Intimacy, and the Power of Unlearning (with Johnny Cole)Key Points:Johnny Cole's background and passion for men's work Johnny Cole shares his personal story and explains how his father's traumatic military experiences and rigid views on masculinity deeply impacted his own upbringing and understanding of manhood. This led him to discover the field of men's work and start his organization Hey Brother Co. to help men and boys unlearn harmful patriarchal messaging and redefine masculinity on their own terms.The power of vulnerability and emotional leadershipCam shares his own experiences with rigid masculinity norms growing...2025-03-141h 09Men, Sex & Pleasure with Cam Fraser#243 Unmasking Masculinity: Embracing Authenticity, Healing from Religious Shame, and Redefining Gender (with Ann Russo)Key Points:Exploring identity and authenticity Ann and Cam discuss the importance of understanding and embracing one's authentic identity, whether related to gender, , spirituality, or other aspects of the self. They emphasize the need to move beyond prescriptive societal norms and labels, and instead focus on self-discovery and self-acceptance.Unpacking religious trauma and shameAnn explains her work helping clients who have experienced religious trauma, particularly from high-control religious groups. She discusses how this can lead to anxiety, depression, and shame around and relationships. Cam shares his own...2025-03-0755 minMen, Sex & Pleasure with Cam Fraser#242 Reclaiming Authenticity: Emotional Expression, Vulnerability, and Letting Go of Societal Expectations (with Justin Nault)Key Points:Introductions and PassionsCam asks Justin to introduce himself, share what he does, and discuss his passions. Justin describes his journey of shedding societal programming to embrace radical authenticity, including his work as a certified nutritional therapist and influencer. He is passionate about human biology, communication, healing trauma through intimacy, and exploring the limits of human potential.Letting Go of Societal Narratives Justin shares how he had to let go of the societal narrative that being an exceptional musician would lead to love and validation. He...2025-02-281h 08Men, Sex & Pleasure with Cam Fraser#241 Speaking Desire: Navigating Communication, Vulnerability, and Connection in Relationships (with Laura Lee)Key Points:Introductions and backgroundLaura introduces herself as a psychologist and sexologist who works at the intersection of mental health and relationships. She shares her passion for art, the outdoors, and living near the ocean. Cam and Laura also discuss their astrological signs and the esoteric symbolism of water.The importance of communication in relationshipsCam and Laura discuss the importance of communication in relationships, especially when it comes to topics like desire and satisfaction. They note that while communication is often cited as important, people often...2025-02-2159 minMen, Sex & Pleasure with Cam Fraser#240 Breaking Stigmas: Embracing Empowered Intimacy (with George Goulburn)Key Points:George's background and servicesGeorge introduces himself as a 52-year-old male escort who provides a "sensual and caring" connection for women, often those who have not had intimacy for a long time. He explains that his services go beyond just physical intimacy, and that he aims to provide tenderness, affection, and a safe space for his clients.Addressing the loneliness epidemic Cam notes that George's services seem to address a significant need, as many women experience loneliness, especially those living alone. George agrees, stating that his...2025-02-1456 minMen, Sex & Pleasure with Cam Fraser#239 Authenticity, Boundaries, and Real Connections: Navigating Dating in the Digital Age (with Dr. Frankie Bashan)Key Points:Dr. Frankie's background and passionDr. Frankie introduced herself as a clinical psychologist, board-certified therapist, and the CEO and founder of Little Gay Book and Little Black Book matchmaking services. She shared that her passion is helping people have healthier, happier relationships with themselves and others, and being a conduit to bring people together.Challenges with dating appsDr. Frankie discussed common themes she sees with her clients using dating apps, including feeling stuck in a "hamster wheel" of swiping without making real connections, misrepresenting themselves...2025-02-071h 00Men, Sex & Pleasure with Cam Fraser#238 Supporting Men's Mental Health (with Tim Fisk)On this episode of Men, Sex & Pleasure, I chat with Tim Fisk from Complete Men.
If you're interested in supporting our men's mental health initiative Men, Mates and Mentors, check out the following links:
Website | Feb 24 Showcase | March 22 Event
Key points:
Tim's background and passion for men's work
Tim introduces himself as a 66-year-old man living on the Gold Coast, and shares how he became involved in the Complete Man Foundation and the Rights of Passage program, which focuses on supporting teenage boys and their families through rites of...2025-01-301h 01
Men, Sex & Pleasure with Cam Fraser#237 Wrap It Up: Condom Sizing for Better Sex (will Milla Impola)On this episode of #mensexpleasure, I chat with Milla Impola. Milla is a Senior Size Specialist at Global Protection. She excels in educating about sexual health and promoting body positivity. Milla's work with the FDA approval for anal-safe condoms, which was featured in The New York Times, highlights her knack for bringing significant changes to public health conversations.
Key points:
Milla's background and passion for condom education
Milla Impola is the Marketing Director at Global Protection, the parent company of One Condoms. She is passionate about condom education and has...2024-10-2750 min
Men, Sex & Pleasure with Cam Fraser#236 The Benefits of Reading and Writing Erotica (with Avalon Lust)On this episode of #mensexpleasure, I chat with Avalon Lust, the provocative name behind scorching hot erotica that ignites passion and desire. With a focus on short, tantalizing reads, Lust's stories are crafted to arouse and captivate, perfect for those seeking to spice up their intimate moments. But beware, these tales come with a trigger warning, ensuring readers are prepared for the steamy journey ahead. So, whether you're indulging alone or with a partner, dive into Lust's world and let your imagination run wild.
Key points:
Avalon's background and writing journey
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Men, Sex & Pleasure with Cam Fraser#235 Cultivating Pleasure and Presence: A Holistic Approach to Intimacy (with Jenna Switzer)On this episode of #mensexpleasure, I chat with Jenna Switzer. Jenna is a Holistic Sex Coach who helps you rediscover intimacy, playfulness, and sensuality in long-term relationships. With a unique blend of science, energetic practices, and real-life advice, she makes connection more fun and exciting. Jenna’s approach empowers couples to embrace deeper intimacy and rekindle passion in ways that feel authentic and enjoyable, both in and out of the bedroom. When she’s not supporting her clients, you’ll find her cuddling her Frenchie or chasing her next outdoor adventure.
Key points:
Intro...2024-10-1352 min
Men, Sex & Pleasure with Cam Fraser#233 Navigating ADHD and Intimacy in a Relationship (with Dr. Ari Tuckman)On this episode, I chat with Ari Tuckman, PsyD. Ari is a psychologist, international presenter, author, and ADHD thought leader. He has given more than 650 presentations and podcast interviews and routinely earns excellent reviews for his ability to make complicated information understandable and useful. He is the author of four books, including his most recent, “ADHD After Dark: Better Sex Life, Better Relationship”, "Understand Your Brain, Get More Done”, “More Attention, Less Deficit” and “Integrative Treatment for Adult ADHD”. He is a co-chair of CHADD’s conference committee and was awarded the 2023 Hall of Fame award for his significant contributions to the...2024-09-2957 min
SexplicitS2E4-Sexual Confidence for Heterosexual Men with Cam FraserIn this episode of Sexplicit, join Anisa as she dives deep into the topic of sexual confidence for heterosexual men with Cam Fraser, a Certified Professional Sex Coach and Certified Sexologist. Together, they explore the barriers men face when it comes to sexual confidence and provide practical strategies to overcome them.Topics Covered:Insecurities and anxieties men commonly experience in the bedroomThe influence of social norms and masculine identity on sexual confidenceHow sexual education (or lack thereof) shapes men's sexual experiencesPractical tips and resources to build lasting sexual confidenceAbout Our Guest:2024-09-2233 min
Men, Sex & Pleasure with Cam Fraser#231 Sex Work, Disability, and the Deaf Community (with Katia Schwartz)On this episode of #mensexpleasure, I chat with Katia Schwartz. Katia is a disability and sex worker rights activist, with a career in the sex industry spanning over 16 years. As a profoundly deaf, queer sex worker, Katia navigates unique intersections and is passionate about advocating for the destigmatisation and inclusion of marginalised groups.
Episode transcript: CLICK HERE
Key points:
Introductions and background
Katia introduces herself as a deaf, disabled sex worker who lives on Gadigal land in Sydney and does advocacy work for the disabled an...2024-09-1554 min
Men, Sex & Pleasure with Cam Fraser#230 Pleasure-Centred Sex Education and Self-Pleasure Experimentation (with Danielle Bezalel)On this episode of #mensexpleasure, I chat with Danielle Bezalel, MPH, aka DB (she/her/hers). Danielle is the Creator, Executive Producer, and Host of the Sex Ed with DB podcast, a feminist podcast bringing you all the sex ed you never got, centering LGBTQ+ and BIPOC experts. Danielle earned a Master of Public Health with expertise in sexuality, sexual, and reproductive health from Columbia University. Danielle lives in Oakland, CA. Go to www.sexedwithdb.com to learn more about the podcast and get discounts on DB’s faves here. You can listen to the podcast on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Soundclou...2024-09-081h 06
Men, Sex & Pleasure with Cam Fraser#229 Navigating Trauma, Consent, and Masculinity (with Jimanekia Eborn)On this episode of #mensexpleasure, I chat with Jimanekia Eborn. Jimanekia Eborn is a Queer Sexual Assault & Trauma Expert, Trauma Media Consultant, and Comprehensive Sex Educator. She is the host of Trauma Queen - a podcast working to normalize conversations about life's most challenging experiences, from sexual assault to mental health and beyond. Jimanekia is the Founder of Tending The Garden- a nonprofit in service of sexual assault survivors who have been marginalized; offering retreats, online summits, community and education. She is also the co-founder of Cintima, bringing increased representation to the field of Intimacy Coordination in the film...2024-09-0155 min
Concerts That Made UsCam Fraser: From Touring with Nirvana to Boulder FieldsIn this episode of "Concerts That Made Us," Brian sits down with Cam Fraser from Boulder Fields to delve into the intricacies of his debut album, "With All the Other Ghosts." Cam opens up about his artistic journey, detailing his transition from the high-energy world of punk bands to the more introspective realm of acoustic music, a shift that was catalyzed by the global lockdown. He provides an in-depth look at the creative process behind his album, sharing how the isolation period allowed him to explore new musical landscapes and refine his sound.Cam also highlights...2024-08-2947 min
Men, Sex & Pleasure with Cam Fraser#227 Enhancing Intimacy (with Magda Kay)On this episode of #mensexpleausure, I chat with Magda Kay. Magda is an Intimacy Expert, Tantra Teacher & Conscious Relating Coach, author, and founder of the School of Intimacy. More than 10 years ago she quit her corporate job, and embarked on a journey that led her through ashrams, yoga trainings, Tantric communities, and ceremonies. through hours of daily devotion and practices into her deepest parts, facing the wounds and fears, and it also revealed her highest calling: to share and teach others how to access their deepest desires and ability to create transformative intimacy in their lives. Her work combines...2024-08-181h 01
Men, Sex & Pleasure with Cam FraserQuicky #70 The Innocent Phallus (with Chloe Adriana)From episode #70 with Chloe Adriana.
More from that episode:
- Chloe shares about her transformative journey
- How Chloe defines radiance
- How Cam defines radiance
- The power of travel and exploration
- Masculinity and dark masculine energy
- Relationship with penises
- How penises are portrayed in media
- Rewriting sexual scripts
- Loving your genitals2024-07-2404 min
Men, Sex & Pleasure with Cam FraserQuicky #69 Kinky Confessions Card Game (with Cam Fraser)From the solo episode #69 with Cam Fraser. More from that episode:
- The stigmatization of male sex toys
- Celebrating men’s self-pleasuring
- Fifty Shades of Grey Relentless Vibrations Couples Vibrator
- We-Vibe X Lovehoney Clitoral and G-Spot Vibrator
- Blowmotion Warming Vibrating Male Masturbator
- Blowmotion Warming Pulsating Vibrating Male Masturbator
- Blowmotion Real Feel Vibrating Male Masturbator
- Blowmotion Blow Job Real Feel Vibrating Suction Male Masturbator
- Desire Luxury Male Vibator
- De...2024-07-1803 min
The Naked Connection: Master Sex, Dating & RelationshipsThe Truth About Premature Ejaculation, Erectile Dysfunction & TRT with Cam FraserTired of everyone assuming that ALL you want is sex? This week, tune in for world-renowned sexologist Cam Fraser joins the show to share the myths that are destroying your sex life and what you can do to change it all. Cam and Kirsten discuss the role of testosterone on your sex drive, testosterone replacement therapy, adjusting how you view sexual experiences, arousal versus consent, what to do when you aren’t in the mood for sex and so much more! Key Topics: 00:10 Decoding Masculinity and Sexuality 2024-04-1654 min
Men, Sex & Pleasure with Cam Fraser#209 Semen Retention Debunked (with Cam Fraser)On this episode of #mensexpleasure, I discuss and debunk some of the major claims made by semen retention practitioners. I also share some opinions about semen retention as well as my own personal experiences and the approach I take with clients.
Key Points:
- Testosterone
- Depression
- Zinc
- Nutrition
- The body
- Premature aging
Relevant links:
Cam's blog: https://cam-fraser.com/blog/2024-04-141h 08
Men, Sex & Pleasure with Cam FraserQuicky #52 A Thought Experiment About Porn (with Cam Fraser)From episode #52, a solo episode with just Cam.
More from that episode:
Introduction to and intentions for the conversation
I understand the harm some porn has caused
Anti-Porn vs Pro-Porn vs Anti-Anti-Porn
What is porn? The problem with definitions
The problem with the “porn is a drug” analogy
Thought experiment: Where do you draw the line
Operation Spanner and private sex groups
Mainstream vs Ethical (Feminist) porn
Messages, escalation, addiction, exploitation
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Men, Sex & Pleasure with Cam Fraser#203 Presence and Masculine Sexuality (with Cam Fraser)On this episode of #mensexpleasure, I share an audio recording of one of my sexuality seminars. The title of this sexuality seminar is, "Presence and Masculine Sexuality. If you're interested in learning more, head to my website and check out what else I have on offer.
Key points:
- Who am I?
- What do I mean by "presence"?
- Practical tools for being more present
- What does "masculine sexuality" mean?
- Practical tools for embodying your masculinity
- An invitation...2024-03-031h 06
Can't Host: Gay, Bisexual, and Queer Men’s Sex and RelationshipsEp.33: Masturbation Techniques for Men with Cam FraserDownload my FREE 'Dick Magnet Subliminal Affirmations' at https://georgelizos.com/dickmagnetIn this episode, men’s sex coach Cam Fraser shares how to move away from goal- and performance-oriented sex and masturbation, and towards exploratory sexual experiences. You’ll learn how to overcome shame around self-pleasure, ways of releasing toxic masculinity narratives and find freedom in your sex life, the difference between self-pleasure and masturbation, and 5 masturbation techniques you probably haven’t tried before! About Cam FraserCam Fraser is a Certified Professional Sex Coach and Certified S...2023-11-171h 07
Moore StyleA Deeper Understanding of Male Sexuality with Cam FraserWhen it comes to masculinity, we’ve all heard the surface-level locker room talk centered around gratification and penis size. After experiencing this himself in his early 20s, Cam Fraser knew that there needed to be deeper conversations around male sexuality. Now as a professional sex coach and certified sexologist, Cam helps men go beyond surface-level sex into full-bodied sexual experiences. If you’re curious about the deeper side of men's sexuality, this episode will open your eyes to the discussions we need to be having and how it’s not as straightforward as we’ve been led to b...2023-09-251h 01
She Can Humanise BusinessLet's talk about sex BABY 🎵 .. and a man’s masculinity! with Cam FraserLet's talk about sex BABY 🎵 .. and a man’s masculinity! Exciting news! Episode 15 of 'She Can Humanise Business' is now LIVE, featuring Australia's Leading Men's Sex Coach, Cam Fraser. We dive into important discussions about sexuality, consent, and communication. Discover why it can be challenging for men to understand their sexuality and how to explore their sexual self, and the profound impact of a negative relationship with sexuality on everyday life. Plus, learn why men need the right vocabulary to express their emotions and much more! ...2023-09-1959 min
Men, Sex & Pleasure with Cam Fraser#172 Giles Brindley, the Needle, and the Penis (with Callum Fraser)On this special episode of #mensexpleasure, I welcome with my brother, Callum, and we do something a little different. I regale him with a story about British physiologist, Giles Brindley. This is our foray into the history/comedy genre of podcasting. As such, we have a few drinks and a bit of fun.
Key points:
- Welcome Callum
- Who is Giles Brindley?
- Visual prostheses and eye experiments
- Spinal prostheses and side effects
- The hour lecture that changed sexual medicine
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Evolving LoveEp. 10. Cam Fraser - Purity Culture, Sex Education & Stepping away from Toxic MasculinityIn this episode we talk to Australia’s Leading Men’s Sex Coach, Cam Fraser. We discuss Purity Culture, Sex Eduction & Stepping away from Toxic Masculinity.https://cam-fraser.com/Australia’s leading Men’s Sex Coach, current Deputy Chair of the Society of Australian Sexologists, and one of Lovehoney’s resident Sexperts, Cam is a Sex Coach, Relationship Counsellor, Sexologist and Tantric Yoga Teacher.Cam hosts a weekly men’s health podcast called Men, Sex & Pleasure and has a contributed to numerous print and digital publications as an expert on sexuality and masculinity.http...2023-06-0354 min
Men, Sex & Pleasure with Cam Fraser#158 How to Become a Multiorgasmic Lover (with Jim Benson)On this episode of #mensexpleasure, I chat with Jim Benson. Jim has dedicated his life to helping men of all ages and backgrounds love themselves more fully. For the past 20 years, he has been coaching guys to “breakthroughs in the bedroom.” Jim's Awakened Masculine program blends best practices across disciplines to create a powerful transformative environment for men to experience more personal pleasure and relationship satisfaction. He has trained as a professional coach at the Coaches Training Institute and held the PCC (Professional Certified Coach) credential from the International Coach Federation for many years. He has 7000 hours of individual, rela...2023-04-0658 min
Men, Sex & Pleasure with Cam Fraser#157 Exploring the Erotic Blueprints (with Ian Ferguson)On this episode of #mensexpleasure, I chat with Ian Ferguson, he is the co-creator of The Erotic Blueprint Breakthrough™ and co-founder of The Blueprint Breakthrough, Inc., a company dedicated to Erotic Liberation for All.
Our company mission is to realize a vision of global sexual wellness, putting an end to the perpetuation of sexual trauma, empowering every person to have the healthy relationships they desire and to claim the consensual and fulfilling pleasure they deserve.
Ian, an internationally recognized speaker, has appeared on Netflix’s ‘Sex, Love and Goop,’ as well a...2023-03-301h 07
Men, Sex & Pleasure with Cam Fraser#156 Cliteracy for Men (with Dr. Laurie Mintz)On this episode of the #mensexpleasure podcast, I chat with Dr. Laurie Mintz, a Professor at the University of Florida where she teaches Human Sexuality to hundreds of undergraduates yearly. She has published over 55 academic works. She is the author of two popular press books—both with published studies demonstrating their effectiveness: Becoming Cliterate: Why Orgasm Equality Matters and How to Get It and A Tired Woman’s Guide to Passionate Sex. Mintz has a private practice, working with clients on general and sexual issues. She is a Fellow of the American Psychological Association, indicating that her work has had a pos...2023-03-2358 min
Men, Sex & Pleasure with Cam Fraser#155 Feeling Pleasure After Trauma (with Lorraine Pentello)On this episode of #mensexpleasure, I chat with Lorraine. She is a Somatic Therapist, Pleasure Coach and Bodyworker based in the Western Suburbs of Melbourne. She has been working in the field of sexuality for the past 25 years. Starting out in the strip clubs of the UK and moving into therapy and bodywork in 2015. She works with all genders, specialising in working with people who have experienced sexual and physical trauma and people recovering from surgery and illness. Helping them to feel more pleasure and restore sexual function. She works both online and in person offering 1:1 sessions and group...2023-03-161h 04
Men, Sex & Pleasure with Cam Fraser#154 The Beauty of Surrender (with Kute Blackson)On this episode of #mensexpleasure, I chat with Kute Blackson. A beloved inspirational speaker and transformational teacher, Kute offers a fresh, bold look at spiritual awareness for a whole new generation. Born in Ghana, West Africa, Kute’s multicultural upbringing as the child of a Japanese mother and a Ghanaian father has spanned four different continents. His unique lineage lay the foundation for his approach to breaking down barriers and unlocking an individual’s true gifts and greatness. He is a national best-selling author of You.Are.The.One. and his new book, The Magic of Surrender, is a guid...2023-03-0952 min
Men, Sex & Pleasure with Cam Fraser#153 Female Pleasure: From Islam to Kunyaza (with Habeeb Akande)On this episode of #mensexpleasure, I chat with Habeeb Akande. Habeeb is a British-Nigerian sex educator, erotologist, and author. Habeeb has authored several books on Islamic erotology and African sexual practices to empower women and couples. His bestselling book, Kunyaza: The Secret to Female Pleasure, explores the ancient African practice of squirting and sexual pleasure. He recently helped produce and feature in the BBC documentary, The Orgasm Gap exploring female sexual pleasure in Rwanda. He is passionate about female sensuality and aims to close the gender orgasm gap. Primarily based in the UK, Habeeb has given intimacy workshops and...2023-03-021h 10
For The Love With Jen Hatmaker PodcastDismantling Toxic Masculinity Toward Better Sex with Sex Coach and Therapist Cam FraserFor this episode of the Sex series, we’re getting some adult sex education we wished we had learned when we were younger. Specifically around messages young men received around sex, and how this now manifests with toxic masculinity which unfortunately, seeps into the bedroom. Our guest today helps us find ways we can change these sexual narratives. While not all of us are in sexual relationships with men, the reality is that the way in which men perceive their status in the bedroom affects their roles outside of the bedroom. And when toxic masculinity is driving that inner mo...2023-03-011h 01
Men, Sex & Pleasure with Cam Fraser#150 Male Sexuality: Fluidity, Fear, & Fantasies (with Finn Deerhart)On this episode of #mensexpleasure, I chat with Finn Deerhart. Finn is an AASECT Certified Sexuality Counselor. Through his courses, workshops, retreats, and private sessions, men learn tools to confront their limitations, unravel internal narratives of shame, and spark deeper human connections—grounding themselves into a deeper experience of life. Finn also creates educational erotic content and provides on-site erotic coaching for various organizations, including Himeros TV, an online service that provides explicit educational content for queer men. He co-hosts the weekly Himeros Backstage podcast which can be heard on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and Google Podcasts. As a Sex an...2023-02-0959 min
Men, Sex & Pleasure with Cam Fraser#146 Hidden Disabilities and Dating (with Jennie Williams)On this episode of #mensexpleasure, I chat with Jennie Williams, the founder and CEO of Enhance The UK, a user-led charity campaigning to change public perceptions of disability. Enhance The UK provide face to face and virtual training to businesses and organizations on a variety of different topics surrounding disability awareness. All of their training is delivered by disabled trainers, utilizing a powerful combination of expert knowledge, and lived experience.
Jennie is very passionate about the charity’s Undressing Disability campaign, which focuses on the sexual rights of disabled people. The two of us talk about the in...2023-01-1257 min
Men, Sex & Pleasure with Cam Fraser#144 Deconstructing Erectile Dysfunction (with Cam Fraser)This is another solo episode of #mensexpleasure. In this episode, I share my thoughts about erectile dysfunction. I thought it might be interesting and useful to have an entire podcast episode dedicated to erectile dysfunction so that it could potentially be used as a resource for others. Feel free to share this around if you have someone asking about erection issues.
Key Points:
Welcome back
Defining erectile dysfunction
Unrealistic expectations
Difficulty getting an erection
Arousal non-concordance
Safety and masturbation patterns
Viagra and ED medication
Can we trust prevalence rates?
Emotional erections
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Men, Sex & Pleasure with Cam Fraser#143 Unpacking Premature Ejaculation (with Cam Fraser)This is another solo episode of #mensexpleasure, where I share my thoughts about premature ejaculation. I thought it might be interesting and useful to have an entire podcast episode dedicated to premature ejaculation so that it could potentially be used as a resource for others. Feel free to share this around if you have someone asking about premature ejaculation issues.
Key Points:
Welcome
Defining Premature Ejaculation
Intravaginal Ejaculation Latency Time (IELT)
Premature ejaculation in the media
Ejaculation as a survival response
Sympathetic nervous system
The sponge analogy
Stop-start method and other practices
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Men, Sex & Pleasure with Cam Fraser#142 Queer Spirit: Celebrating Fluidity (with Dabaco Sunset)On this episode of #mensexpleasure, I chat with Dabaco Sunset (he/him). Dabaco is an embodiment counsellor helping you connect deeper with your body, sexuality and sensuality.
He combines somatic psychology, pillars of awareness and yogic principles in his practice. Dabaco also draws on meditation techniques, intuitive movement and creative mediums to empower participants to explore untapped areas of themselves. Dabaco is the co-founder of personal development project (and app) Time To Decompress, he holds a Diploma of Counselling and is currently undertaking post-grad studies in Gestalt Therapy. He also facilitates workshops and retreats for NAKEDMAN and...2022-12-1656 min
Men, Sex & Pleasure with Cam Fraser#139 Ecosexuality and Masculine Regeneration (with Devin Fredericksen)On this episode of #mensexpleasure, I chat again with Devin Fredericksen. Devin joined me first on episode #11 of the podcast and I have the pleasure of welcoming him back. Devin helps people reconnect to themselves, each other, and Mother Earth in a heart centered path. He supports the Regeneration of the Masculine, with the intention to reunite the global brotherhood. He specializes in sacred sexuality, conscious intimacy, permaculture, and is an ecstatic chef and regenerative farmer. The two of us talk about regeneration, from the very literal sense to the more esoteric and energetic sense. We also discuss the...2022-11-2755 min
Men, Sex & Pleasure with Cam Fraser#138 Fatherhood: Navigating Intimacy & Connection (with Tully O’Connor)On this extra long episode of #mensexpleasure, I chat with my good friend Tully O’Connor. Tully is a committed father and husband who has a deep passion for supporting people to access their full creative potential in life, love and leadership. Through his transformational coaching programs and events, Tully supports men to cultivate more confidence, depth and fulfillment in every area of their lives. He also works with couples to support them in developing rock solid foundations for a secure, connected and intimate relationship. The two of us talk about being fathers and how our lives have changed si...2022-11-171h 59
Men, Sex & Pleasure with Cam Fraser#137 How to Set Boundaries (with Justine Ang Fonte)On this episode of #mensexpleasure, I chat with Justine Ang Fonte (she/they). Justine Ang Fonte, M.Ed, MPH is the child of Philippine immigrants and award-wining intersectional sex & health educator, consultant, and professor based in New York City. On Instagram, she's known as "Your Friendly Ghostwriter" composing the texts you avoid sending about setting your boundaries. The two of us talk about their social media page _good.byes_ and their work as a ghostwriter for boundaries. We discuss the importance of setting and recognizing boundaries and the reasons why so many of us aren’t very good at th...2022-11-101h 05
Men, Sex & Pleasure with Cam Fraser#136 A Critical Look at Sacred Sexuality (with Lucy Rowett)On this episode of #mensexpleasure, I chat with Lucy Rowett, CSC CS ACS. Lucy is a certified sexologist and sex coach who is passionate about helping women and people with vulvas let go of sexual shame and hangups and embrace pleasure to create the passionate relationships they've always desired. She uses a combination of mind body tools with evidence-based sexuality education to create a fun and open space for womxn to explore their full erotic potential. Her speciality is working with women and people with vulvas who come from Faith backgrounds who are struggling to let go of sexual...2022-11-041h 06
Camille Parle Sexe# 9 Cam Fraser : understanding men’s sexualityEPISODE EN ANGLAIS“People seek help either at a place of desperation or inspiration”-------Le tout premier épisode en anglais avec mon confrère australien, Cam Fraser.Dans cet épisode, Cam nous aide à mieux comprendre la sexualité des hommes : des scripts difficiles à challenger aux conseils pour s'ouvrir émotionnellement et être plus en lien avec ses sensations.Nous discutons de :La sexualité des hommes d'aujourd'huiLa Déception érectileDu "mauvais" langage pour décrire la sexualité des hommesRemettre en question les scripts3 conseils pour s'ouvrir émotionnellementMore abo...2022-10-1752 min
Men, Sex & Pleasure with Cam Fraser#132 Erectile Dysfunction and Masculinity (with Daniel Di Pietro)On this episode of #mensexpleasure, I chat with Daniel Di Pietro. Daniel is a Melbourne-based sexologist with a Masters in Sexology and provisional psychotherapist with several certifications in sex therapy; including how to treat mismatched sexual desire between couples and navigating issues of sexuality and sexual difficulties. Daniel has a keen interest in male sexual health, behaviour, pleasure and function and has presented his thesis on male sexual health for the Queensland Society of Australian Sexologists branch. Daniel enjoys working collaboratively with binary and non-binary people of all ages, cultural backgrounds, beliefs and sexual orientations. The two of us...2022-10-0656 min
Fundamental Feminine Wisdom#42 Healing Erectile Dysfunction & Premature Ejaculation w. Cam FraserListen in on this conversation with the man rewriting a new script for male sexuality. Cam Fraser is the leading sex coach in Australia. From a personal journey in his youth being questioned in his masculine and healing the sexual trauma within himself, Cam studied sexology on an academic level to help men feel empowered as the sexual beings they are. It is his mission is to heal men experiencing a lack of connecting with their sexual organs so they can improve not just their lives, but remove the western ideology from the intimate parts of their life. Listen...2022-09-271h 25
Oh F*ck Yeah with Ruan WillowMen's Sexuality & Pleasure with Sex Coach Cam FraserSend us a textEp 184: Men's Pleasure & Sexuality with Sex Coach, podcaster, and Australia's leading men's sex coach Cam Fraser. In this episode, we get all the experience, knowledge, and wisdom on sexuality and relationships from the amazing sex coach Cam Fraser. He's out of Australia so he has that awesome kickass accent! I loved our chat. I learned a lot from Cam. We chatted about how curiosity should be our approach to our sexuality as well as open-mindedness, rather than being judgmental and assumptive. Many of our assumptions about sex that we have learned are incorrect a...2022-08-261h 36
Room to Grow Podcast with Emily GoughBreaking Down the Myths of Male Sexuality with Cam FraserCam Fraser is a Men’s Sex Coach who teaches men how to have better sex. I mean, he literally teaches a course called “Out Perform a Porn Star.” But not surprisingly, learning better sex has nothing to do with the typical male metrics of penis size and sexual duration. Instead, Cam’s sex coaching comes down to increasing pleasure and deepening the physical and emotional relationship men have with their partner. Because believe it or not, men statistically want better sex, whether they talk about it with their buddies or not. By the w...2022-07-281h 04
The Sexual Wellness SessionsUnpacking Masculinity And Sex Lives With Cam FraserOur sex lives are subject to many gendered messages and narratives which shape how we think that our sex lives 'should' look. Engrained messages about masculinity, manhood and how men should act in sexual situations can influence sex lives both consciously and unconsciously, in what today's guest Cam Fraser describes as the idea of 'Man Box Culture'.
Cam and I unpack some of the myths of masculinity and sex that are impacting men. We also talk about how the language that we use can be influential and how opening up our definitions of sex and se...2022-05-201h 12
Men, Sex & Pleasure with Cam Fraser#111 Authentic Dating Advice for Men (with Samuel Shin)On this episode of #mensexpleasure, I chat with Samuel Shin. Samuel is an ex-psychotherapist now working as an Authentic Dating Coach. He's also a certified men's work facilitator. Samuel offers an alternative to the pick-up industry by helping men open up to their authenticity, masculinity & sexuality to naturally improve their dating & relationships. His work includes 3 components: developing masculinity, working on the root cause of insecurities, and learning what he calls "conscious pick-up.” After recording this episode, Samuel wanted to add a disclaimer for listeners. Though he shares his criticisms of the Western mental health system in the interview and wh...2022-05-121h 08
Real Talk With NinaReal Talk With Nina - Episode 22: Cam Fraser on Male Sexuality and the Taboo of Anal Play on Straight MenCam Fraser, Australia's leading men's sex coach, drops some gems in this episode! From his toxic "college locker room talk" days, to growing into the enlightened sexual man he is now, Cam vulnerably shares his journey. Although all genders can (and do) benefit from his work, men will undoubtedly feel seen and heard when Cam speaks about his experiences. Cam gives us a glimpse into what it's like to coach with him, and the process he takes men through when exploring anal play for the first time. We share laughs and candid breakthroughs about our personal views of masculinity, and...2022-05-101h 36
Men, Sex & Pleasure with Cam Fraser#109 Pregnancy, Birth Trauma, and Fatherhood (with Claire Eccleston)On this episode of #mensexpleasure, I chat with Claire Eccleston. Claire is a mother of three beautiful children, an experienced registered midwife, a Spinning Babies® approved trainer and a biodynamic craniosacral therapist. Claire has been supporting women’s transitions since 2000. Attending births, offering childbirth education, pregnancy yoga and providing bodywork sessions. Claire is a dynamic facilitator offering national, international and online workshops and speaking at conferences and events around the globe. Claire is passionate about the ancient and sacred arts of birth work, bodywork and where they meet. Claire has a deep reverence for our bodies, the rhythms of our...2022-04-261h 00
The Passion Podcast8~ Erectile disfunction, masturbation, porn, and how to navigate and communicate about all kinds of challenges with cocks and sex. With Cam FraserThis episode is jam packed with helpful information. Saora Love is chatting with Cam Fraser about all the things to do with men, their cocks and sex.
They explore how men and women can navigate things that men can struggle with sexually. There's a lot of advice for women around how to navigate challenging terrain with men and how to communicate more effectively.
02:50 Cam introducing himself
10:38 What are the main problems men go through?
16:01 Correlation between trouble with ejaculating (not being able to) and pornography
19:18 Advice...2022-04-191h 11
Men, Sex & Pleasure with Cam Fraser#102 From Slut-Shaming to OnlyFans (with Kashira Whiteley)On this episode of #mensexpleasure, I chat with Kashira Whiteley. Kashira is a life coach. In her work she supports her clients on their path toward personal alignment and healing through unlearning old trauma responses and patterned behaviour that no longer serves them, as well as holding space for their self exploration and integration, so that they’re able to unlock the codes to rewiring their inner narrative and self-talk through developing new tools for their emotional, mental, physical, and spiritual health. Her methods are holistic in nature, integrating science, the study of human psychology and behaviour, ancient practices su...2022-03-031h 19
Men, Sex & Pleasure with Cam Fraser#96 Overcoming Vaginismus and Educating Teens (with Grace Alice O’Shea)On this episode of #mensexpleasure, I chat with Grace Alice. Grace has been a Sex and Relationships Educator for 6 years, and is the author of 'Sex Educated'. She is from Kerry (Ireland), and originally trained as an Occupational Therapist before completing her Masters in Health Promotion, with a focus on sexual health and body image. She is super passionate about playing her part in creating a more sex-positive Ireland, free from shame, stigma and secrecy. Grace is training with the Somatica Institute to become a Sex and Relationships Coach. In 2022, she will be registering as the first Occupational Therpist...2022-01-201h 01
Mission ActivatedTransforming Men from the Bedroom to the Boardroom; with Cam Fraser - #50In this episode we welcome Cam Fraser to the podcast! Cam is a true leader in his industry, as he helps men to become the best version of themselves from the bedroom to their boardroom.This discussion was a wonderful trip into Cam’s world and how he’s navigating the hurdles of his industry whilst helping this generation - and the next - to be far more in touch with who they really are.A fascinating story by a fabulous person doing incredible things to help men everywhere. Enjoy!...2022-01-1857 min