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The Sandwich Generation Survival GuideNavigating Solo Aging with Dr. Gerda MaisselJoin host Candace Dellacona in this insightful episode of The Sandwich Generation Survival Guide, featuring Dr. Gerda Maissel, founder of My MD Advisor. Candace and Dr. Maissel discuss “solo agers” and the unique challenges they face. Learn about critical strategies for single people as they age, including building community, ensuring proper medical care, and legal planning to navigate aging independently or with limited family support. This episode provides valuable insights for both solo agers and their loved ones!00:00 Introduction and Guest Welcome00:30 Dr. Gerda Maissel's Background and My MD Advisor01:07 Personal Story: The Catalyst for My M...2025-06-1632 min
The Sandwich Generation Survival GuideCareYaya: A Revolutionary Approach to Elder CareIn this episode of the Sandwich Generation Survival Guide, host Candace Dellacona is joined by Neal Shah and Sydney Rosbury from CareYaya, an innovative platform transforming the elder care industry.Neal shares his journey from Wall Street to full-time caregiver to founder of CareYaya. The CareYaya on-line platform connects university students with seniors in need of companion-level care, offering a cost-effective and reliable alternative to traditional home care. Sydney, a pre-med senior at the University of Michigan, discusses the intergenerational experiences and the invaluable skills she gained as a caregiver with CareYaya. Additionally, Neal introduces Counterforce Health...2025-05-1533 min
The Sandwich Generation Survival GuideUnderstanding Senior Living Options with Beth WeeksIn this episode of The Sandwich Generation Survival Guide, host Candace Dellacona interviews Beth Weeks, a registered nurse and co-founder of Senior Living Consultants of New York.Beth discusses the complexities of senior housing, including options such as aging in place, independent living, and assisted living facilities. She shares her personal journey that led her to specialize in senior care, as well as the mission of her consultancy to bring clarity, transparency, and advocacy to families navigating these decisions. The conversation covers the importance of safety, financial planning, and the evolving landscape of senior housing that is...2025-04-1530 min
The Sandwich Generation Survival GuideFinancial Planning Tips for the Sandwich Generation with Sherry Finkel MurphyIn this episode of The Sandwich Generation Survival Guide, host Candace Dellacona is joined by financial planner and author Sherry Finkel Murphy. They discuss the unique challenges of the 'Triple Decker Sandwich Generation,' a term coined to describe the multitasking demands of caring for aging parents, children, and grandchildren simultaneously. Sherry shares her experiences and strategies for managing these responsibilities, emphasizing the importance of stopping self-reproach, advocating for oneself and planning wisely.Highlights include the significance of 'radical flexibility,' the concept of a 'Forget You Fund' for financial independence, and ways to find joy and...2025-03-2832 min
The Sandwich Generation Survival GuideThe Entrepreneur's Journey with Kass and Mike LazerowIn this episode of The Sandwich Generation Survival Guide, host Candace Dellacona welcomes entrepreneurial power couple Kass and Mike Lazerow. They discuss their book Shoveling $h!t: A Love Story, which details how to successfully build your business, and shares the harsh realities and joys of entrepreneurship.During the episode, Kass and Mike delve into their origin story, the importance of picking the right partner in business as in life, and how they support the entrepreneurial community through investments and mentorship. They reveal their four-part approach—vision, communication, mindset, and workload—and the creation of their Go-Gauge™ to hel...2025-03-1435 min
The Sandwich Generation Survival GuideEmpowering Children in the Online Era with Katie SchumacherIn this episode of The Sandwich Generation Survival Guide, host Candace Dellacona welcomes Katie Schumacher, founder of Don't Press Send, to discuss the challenges and responsibilities faced by the sandwich generation when managing children's internet usage, the emotional disconnect fostered by screens, and the importance of teaching empathy.Katie shares her journey of creating Don't Press Send, offers tips for parents and teachers on promoting digital wellness, and underscores the crucial role of mindful social media usage. She also dives into practical strategies for dealing with cyberbullying and the negative impact of social media on children's mental...2025-02-1436 min
The Sandwich Generation Survival GuideNavigating Divorce: How a Coach Can Transform Your ExperienceIn this episode of The Sandwich Generation Survival Guide, host Candace Dellacona welcomes Karen Covy, a distinguished divorce coach and attorney dedicated to helping her clients navigate the divorce process.Karen shares her journey from a traditional matrimonial lawyer to a divorce coach, emphasizing the importance of understanding one's options when preparing for divorce. She discusses the role of a divorce coach, the stages of divorce decision-making, and the cost-effectiveness of hiring a coach.The conversation covers the collaborative approach involving lawyers and coaches, mediation versus litigation, and the preparation required for an amicable divorce...2025-01-1528 min
The Sandwich Generation Survival GuideFinding the Humor with Phil CallawayIn this episode of The Sandwich Generation Survival Guide, host Candace Dellacona is joined by award-winning author Phil Callaway. Phil shares his inspiring journey into surviving the Sandwich Generation by finding the humor and discovering the vital role that laughter plays in navigating life's family challenges as a caregiver.Phil discusses his acclaimed book, “Family Squeeze,” detailing his experiences as a caregiver for his aging parents while also raising his own children, highlighting the unique hurdles faced by the sandwich generation. He provides insights on family dynamics and the importance of professional care, while offering encouragement for care...2024-12-1627 min
The Sandwich Generation Survival GuideWidows Support NetworkIn this episode of The Sandwich Generation Survival Guide, host Candace Dellacona welcomes Dawn Nargi, Executive Director and founder of The W Connection, a nonprofit organization supporting widows through connection, encouragement, education, and empowerment. Dawn shares her personal story of loss and the inception of The W Connection. The discussion highlights the unique challenges of widowhood and underscores the importance of peer-led support and social connections in the healing process. The conversation further explores the need for widows to redefine their lives and establish a "new normal" while providing practical advice for friends and family on offering m...2024-11-2051 minThe Sandwich Generation Survival GuideEmpowering Families: Critical Caregiving ConversationsIn this episode of The Sandwich Generation Survival Guide, host Candace Dellacona is joined by Dr. Ashwini Bapat, a hospice and palliative care physician from EpioneMD, who brings a wealth of knowledge from her training at Tufts, Yale, and Harvard. Dr. Bapat delves into the complexities of caring for loved ones with serious illnesses, highlighting the vital importance of engaging in meaningful conversations about living with such conditions. She clarifies the distinction between palliative care, which provides an extra layer of support at any illness stage, and hospice care, focused on holistic support during the final months of life...2024-10-1440 min
The Sandwich Generation Survival GuideConnecting with Care: Effective Communication Strategies for Loved Ones with DementiaWelcome to the Sandwich Generation Survival Guide with your host, Candace Dellacona. In this insightful episode, Candace is joined by Denise Scruggs, the Director of Education at the National Council of Certified Dementia Practitioners (NCCDP). Together, they explore effective communication strategies for interacting with loved ones experiencing dementia. Denise shares invaluable tips on how to engage meaningfully, address nonverbal cues, and provide comfort amidst cognitive challenges. From understanding the impact of sensory changes to fostering patience and empathy, this episode offers practical advice for caregivers seeking to enhance their interactions and support their loved ones with dignity and compassion...2024-09-1645 min
The Sandwich Generation Survival GuideAuthor Kate Feiffer’s Journey Through Caregiving, Creativity, and Her Book “Morning Pages”In this episode of The Sandwich Generation Survival Guide, Candace Dellacona sits down with accomplished writer, illustrator, and editor Kate Feiffer. Kate opens up about her career journey, from working in TV production to becoming an author, and how her mother’s dementia influenced her latest novel, Morning Pages. The novel explores the emotional and practical challenges faced by those in the Sandwich Generation—people caring for both aging parents and children.Kate discusses the themes of invisibility and identity loss that caregivers often experience, emphasizing how writing became a vital outlet for her during her caregiving journe...2024-08-1340 min
Off the Fence with Karen Covy: Mastering Decision Making, Divorce & MoreCandace Dellacona: Protecting Wealth Without Worry in the Sandwich GenerationHow do you protect your family's wealth and legacy while juggling the responsibilities of the "sandwich generation"? In this episode, high-powered estate planning attorney Candace Dellacona shares her extensive expertise in estate planning, asset protection, elder law, and special needs advocacy to help answer some of the most pressing questions about managing the emotional and financial pressures that come with being “stuck in the middle.”Candace explains how proper estate planning can be used to safeguard your assets and protect your wealth. From advanced directives to trusts, we discuss the various instruments clients can use to ensure fina...2024-07-3135 min
The Sandwich Generation Survival GuideDecluttering with Compassion: A Guide to Senior Downsizing with Tracy McCubbinIn this episode of the Sandwich Generation Survival Guide, host Candace Dellacona interviews Tracy McCubbin, founder of dClutterfly®, who shares her expertise on managing personal belongings and downsizing for aging family members. With 17 years of experience, Tracy emphasizes the importance of framing decluttering conversations around aging goals, such as aging in place or moving to a smaller home, rather than criticizing the amount of stuff. She highlights the benefits of starting these discussions early, getting professional valuations for items, and respecting the emotional connections people have to their belongings. Tracy's compassionate approach helps families navigate the challenges of downsizing w...2024-07-1042 min
TeaTime Midlife Edition PodcastThe Power, the Pen and the Final PlanSend us a textResources for this episode:Today's Tea is Moroccan Lemon VerbenaGuest Speaker - Candace Dellacona Websites: FB Page: https://www.facebook.com/TheSandwichGenerationSurvivalGuideInstagram : @sandwichgenerationpodcastThe Sandwich Generation Survival Guide podcast links are here: Spotify: https://lnkd.in/eT5S2pB5Apple Podcasts: https://lnkd.in/e3J5NbdXOffit Kurman: https://lnkd.in/eyHjtfU7See my favorite must-have list now on th...2024-05-0530 minThe Sandwich Generation Survival GuideProactive Planning Strategies with Geriatric Care Managers with Christine DavisIn episode 12, "Part 2: Proactive Planning Strategies with Geriatric Care Managers," The Sandwich Generation Survival Guide's Candace Dellacona continues her conversation with Christine Davis Richmond, LMSW, CMC, CDP, the co-founder of Care Collective Nursing Care & Management. The episode delves into the importance of planning ahead for care and discusses how to initiate conversations with loved ones about setting up a care plan before a crisis occurs. Candace and Christine emphasize the significance of documents like the health care proxy, living will, and medical orders for life-sustaining treatment in outlining one's medical wishes and ensuring they are carried out eff...2024-04-3027 min
Financially Ever After WidowhoodTerminal Illness and Long-Term Care with Candace DellaconaDo you know what steps to take and how to keep yourself secure in the face of a devastating medical diagnosis? In this episode of Financially Ever After Widowhood, host Stacy Francis talks to Candace Dellacona, a family lawyer who helps older adults plan for their future. They discuss how to prepare for long-term care and protect your assets, such as ensuring you have a healthcare proxy and power of attorney and considering long-term care insurance. They also dive into why you should have a team of experts, including a geriatric care manager, who can help you find the...2024-04-3039 minThe Sandwich Generation Survival GuideGeriatric Care Managers with Christine DavisIn episode 11, "Part 1: Geriatric Care Managers," The Sandwich Generation Survival Guide's Candace Dellacona welcomes Christine Davis Richmond, LMSW, CMC, CDP, the co-founder of Care Collective Nursing Care & Management. The episode delves into the pivotal role of geriatric care managers, professionals adept in nursing, social work, or gerontology, specializing in aiding older adults with healthcare management. Christine, drawing from her social work background, elaborates on care managers' responsibilities, which encompass orchestrating diverse aspects of care for clients.The discussion explores critical scenarios where care manager intervention proves indispensable, such as discharge planning from medical facilities and orchestrating home ca...2024-04-1726 minThe Sandwich Generation Survival GuideDeath and Dying with Eileen SpillaneIn episode 10, "Death and Dying," The Sandwich Generation Survival Guide's Candace Dellacona welcomes Eileen Spillane, the founder of Befriending Death. Eileen discusses her background and how growing up in a family that normalized discussions around death influenced her perspective. She shares her experiences as a critical care nurse, particularly at Sloan-Kettering Cancer Center in New York City, gaining a unique perspective on life and death.Eileen explains how her encounters with death prompted her to start Befriending Death. The organization aims to facilitate open conversations about death and dying, providing people with the tools to approach these to...2024-03-0432 minThe Sandwich Generation Survival GuideFinancial Planning with Ryan RosegartenIn episode 9, "Financial Planning," Jodi Argentino and Candace Dellacona of The Sandwich Generation Survival Guide interview Ryan Rosegarten, a Senior Wealth Strategy Associate and Certified Financial Planner'™ at UBS Katz Wealth Management. The conversation explores challenges faced by the "Sandwich Generation" with a focus on financial planning, including saving for children's education while simultaneously saving for retirement.Ryan emphasizes the expanded role of financial planners, going beyond traditional investment management. He highlights their involvement in considering a client's overall financial situation, aiding in the creation of both short and long-term wealth-building and risk-management strategies.Jodi an...2024-02-1430 minThe Sandwich Generation Survival GuideEpisode 9: Financial Planning featuring Ryan RosegartenIn episode 9, "Financial Planning," Jodi Argentino and Candace Dellacona of The Sandwich Generation Survival Guide interview Ryan Rosegarten, a Senior Wealth Strategy Associate and Certified Financial Planner™ at UBS Katz Wealth Management. The conversation explores challenges faced by the "Sandwich Generation" with a focus on financial planning, including saving for children's education while simultaneously saving for retirement. Ryan emphasizes the expanded role of financial planners, going beyond traditional investment management. He highlights their involvement in considering a client's overall financial situation, aiding in the creation of both short and long-term wealth-building and risk-management strategies. Jodi an...2024-02-0530 minThe Sandwich Generation Survival GuideCommunication Strategies in High Conflict SituationsIn episode 8, "Communication Strategies in High Conflict Situations," The Sandwich Generation's Jodi Argentino and Candace Dellacona discuss effective communication in high-conflict situations, particularly relevant to the Sandwich Generation dealing with family issues.Jodi and Candace emphasize the pivotal role of communication across various aspects of life. They highlight a communication method called "B.I.F.F.," which stands for Brief, Informative, Friendly, and Firm. The hosts discuss the challenges of written communication, such as text messages, cautioning against blame, unsolicited advice, admonishments, and unnecessary apologies to sustain a constructive dialogue.Resources referenced in this episode:2023-12-0128 minThe Sandwich Generation Survival GuideThe Blind Side of GuardianshipsWe're back! In episode 7, "The Blind Side of Guardianships," The Sandwich Generation's Candace Dellacona and Jodi Argentino delve into the complex topics of guardianships and conservatorships. The hosts discuss these topics in the context of two high-profile cases: Michael Oher and Britney Spears.Candace and Jodi explain the legal distinctions between adoption, guardianship, and conservatorship as they highlight the importance of understanding these legal processes, especially in cases involving individuals with mental health or capacity issues.The discussion emphasizes the need for advanced planning, such as setting up power of attorney and healthcare proxies, to...2023-11-0129 min
Let's Talk DementiaHealthcare POA, General Durable POA, Living Will - It Can Be ConfusingUnderstanding the need for a Healthcare POA, General Durable POA, and Living Will can be confusing. However, today's interview with Candace Dellacona, Attorney at Law, will simplify all that information. You can reach her at candace.dellacona@offitkurman.com. By phone at 212-545-1900. Tell her Carol sent you!
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Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/lets-talk-dementia/support2023-08-2021 minThe Sandwich Generation Survival GuideAging in PlaceIn episode 6, "Aging in Place," The Sandwich Generation's Candace Dellacona and Jodi Argentino discuss the topic of aging in place and the importance of understanding the care options available for aging parents, family members, and loved ones. Aging in place refers to the concept of older adults continuing to live in their own homes or communities as they age and their care needs increase, rather than moving to assisted living facilities or nursing homes. The goal of aging in place is to enable seniors to maintain their independence, autonomy, and quality of life while remaining in a familiar environment...2023-08-1731 minThe Sandwich Generation Survival GuideMiss Independence: Talking prenuptial agreements, postnuptial agreements, and planningIn episode 5, "Miss Independence- Talking prenups, postnups, and planning," The Sandwich Generation's Candace Dellacona and Jodi Argentino discuss the importance of agreements to set you up for success. They emphasize the need for a comprehensive agreement, premarital or otherwise, that covers various aspects of a person's life, such as home, savings, children, and financial obligations. Jodi shares her experience drafting a prenuptial agreement and the common conversation starters, sticking points, and issues people should discuss before making a significant commitment to another person (or persons). Candace and Jodi talk about acknowledging the past, protecting your present, and planning for...2023-07-1533 minThe Sandwich Generation Survival GuideAging with Visibility: Advocating for Our Elderly LGBTQ+ Loved OnesIn episode 4, “Aging with Visibility: Advocating for Our Elderly LGBTQ+ Loved Ones,” The Sandwich Generation’s Candace Dellacona and Jodi Argentino are joined by special guests, Sadiya Abjani, Director of Training and Instructional Design, and Nicholas Watson, Managing Director of Social Enterprises, from SAGE, the leading LGBTQ+ aging experts, to discuss the unique issues and challenges that LGBTQ+ older adults face, as well as some of the resources and services that SAGE provides across the United States.SAGE is America's oldest and largest non-profit organization dedicated to improving the lives of LGBTQ+ older adults. If you are or kno...2023-06-2834 minThe Sandwich Generation Survival GuideI’m Coming Out! "I'm Coming Out!" When your child comes out as LGBTQIA+, it takes a village to support, love, and affirm them in the best possible ways. Jodi and Candace talk about how you can support your child through their LGBTQIA+ journey! 2023-06-1336 min
Caregiver SOS On AirElder Law with Candace DellaconaElder Law with Candace Dellacona by Caregiver SOS On Air2023-06-0126 minThe Sandwich Generation Survival GuideSurvival of the FittestJodi and Candace discuss the concept of true self-care...of putting on your own oxygen mask first so that you can take care of those around you2023-05-3035 min
Caregiver SOSMental Health with Candace DellaconaCandace Dellacona joins hosts Ron Aaron and Carol Zernial to talk about mental health on this edition of Caregiver SOS.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.2023-05-2726 minThe Sandwich Generation Survival GuideWhat is the Sandwich Generation?Welcome to the Sandwich Generation Survival Guide! Jodi and Candace talk about what the sandwich generation is, how this idea came about, and how this survival guide will help you!2023-05-1224 min
Grow Your Business and Grow Your WealthFan Favorite Replay with Attorney Candace Dellacona🎉 Get ready to relive one of the most popular episodes of the "Grow Your Business and Grow Your Wealth" podcast! Host Gary Heldt is joined by special guest Attorney Candace Dellacona for a discussion about the importance of asset protection, and their conversation is packed with valuable insights and advice.👉 Here are some key takeaways from their discussion that you won't want to miss:✅ A will may not address all your asset protection needs.✅ A will can lead to probate.✅ It's important to speak to an estate pl...2023-04-2626 min
Grow Your Business and Grow Your WealthAttorney Candace DellaconaGrow Your Business Grow Your Wealth Podcast Show Notes The Grow Your Business and Grow Your Wealth podcast with Gary Heldt Episode 111 Attorney Candance Dellacona For the last 20 years, Offit Kurman Principal Candace Dellacona has focused her law practice on Estate Planning, Asset Protection Planning, Elder Law, Estate Administration, Special Needs Planning and advocacy. Ms. Dellacona maintains a robust Elder Law practice in which she advises families whose loved ones require long-term care while protecting their life savings. As an advocate for the elderly, Candace strives...2022-09-2126 min
Different Ways Watch Out for Elder Abuse,Elder Lawyer, Candace DellaconaJoin dave Nassaney and Adrienne Gruberg as they interview, Candace Dellacona, who has been an elder care attorney for the last twenty years. Her practice is concentrated in elder law, tax planning, trusts and estates, and advocacy, including public benefits law. She also has a keen interest in non-profit law and social justice issues.2022-05-0338 min
CaregiverDave.comDifferent Ways to Watch Out for Elder Abuse, Elder Lawyer, Candace DellaconaJoin Dave Nassaney and Adrienne Gruberg as they interview, Candace Dellacona, who has been an elder care attorney for the last twenty years. Her practice is concentrated in elder law, tax planning, trusts and estates, and advocacy, including public benefits law. She also has a keen interest in non-profit law and social justice issues.2022-05-0337 minDifferent Ways to Watch Out for Elder Abuse, Elder Lawyer, Candace DellaconaJoin Dave Nassaney and Adrienne Gruberg as they interview, Candace Dellacona, who has been an elder care attorney for the last twenty years. Her practice is concentrated in elder law, tax planning, trusts and estates, and advocacy, including public benefits law. She also has a keen interest in non-profit law and social justice issues.2022-05-0338 minDifferent Ways Watch Out for Elder Abuse, Elder Lawyer, Candace DellaconaJoin Dave Nassaney and Adrienne Gruberg as they interview, Candace Dellacona, who has been an elder care attorney for the last twenty years. Her practice is concentrated in elder law, tax planning, trusts and estates, and advocacy, including public benefits law. She also has a keen interest in non-profit law and social justice issues.2022-05-0338 min