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The Queen Of PleasureEp. 13 The One Where Resentment Killed Our MarriageThere are so many messy middle parts of marriage that NO ONE talks about. Well, luckily for you, I DO!
I struggled silently for many years because I didn’t
want to look bad and be judged.
Until one day, I did the bravest thing and shared with my friends that I thought my marriage was over.
In March 2023, my husband and I were planning our separation. Who would stay at the house, care for the dog, etc.?
I wish I could say it was heartbreaking, but that would be...2024-06-2741 minThe Queen Of PleasureEp. 12 The One With The Play PartyThe one with the play party is Jose and my story of attending our first Temple Party in Los Angeles.
Told in front of our best friends for dramatic flare.
I apologize in advance for the background noise; it proved difficult for four people to sit quietly.
In this episode, Jose and I talk about our most recent experience attending a Temple Party.
We explain what a Temple Party is and the difference between that and a Sex Party or an Orgy.
We share what happens at these parties, how w...2024-06-191h 09The Queen Of PleasureEp. 11 Bali, Perimenopause & Learning To Love This BodyHello from Bali!!
Where I am halfway through my solo trip to Bali, (which was inspired by Perimenopause)
In this mini-episode, I share why I am in Bali, what it took to give myself this trip, and how I am learning to love this body.
I also share about my perimenopause journey.
XO, CJ
PS. Have questions or want to share about your experience? Email me at Withpleasure@Carlijo.com or DM me @pathtopleasure2024-05-2623 minThe Queen Of PleasureEp 10. Sex After MiscarriageCarli Jo is joined by two of her best friends, Alex & Evin Terranova, to have a real & raw conversation about their experience of having a miscarriage and how they navigated it as a couple. Being one of Evin's best friends, I was in awe of how they stayed connected in communication and reconnected sexually.
In this episode, we discuss:
- Less pressure, more play when bringing sex back
- The power of sharing your truths with your partner
- Navigating feeling rejected
- How to communicate what is on y...2024-05-011h 18The Queen Of PleasureEp 9. The One With Live Couple's Coaching Rachel and Kelsey join Carli Jo for coaching on their feelings about raising a child together, leading vs. following, masculine and feminine polarity, and supporting each other through their obstacles.
**Want to know about Carli Jo's events and offerings?! Get on the list here*** Want to be coached on the podcast?! Apply here2024-04-171h 04The Queen Of PleasureEp 8. The one with the lost clitHave you ever thought men were idiots because they couldn't locate your clit?Like, really, dude, how hard is it to find?!
Well, I discovered while doing a practice called Orgasmic Meditation that locating the clit is much harder than you think! It's very sneaky!
Which gave me a newfound appreciation and compassion for men.
What you'll get in this episode:
Discover what I learned stroking a vulva
Hear Jose's reaction being told for the very first time
Learn about orgasmic meditation
**Want to kn...2024-04-0447 minThe Queen Of PleasureEp 7. The One Where Carli Jo treats Jose like a sex objectIn this impromptu episode recorded on a cell phone, Carli Jo drops some truth bombs on Jose.
It is proven that communication is the access point to connection and intimacy
So get talking!
Discuss the following:
Are you taking, giving, receiving, or allowing in your relationship?Is it consensual?Is this dynamic working?If not, what needs to change?Which role DO you want to play?
Are you treating your partner like a sex object?Is it hot or not?
If...2024-03-2026 minThe Queen Of PleasureEp 6. The one where Jose rain checks sex on my birthdayThe one where Jose rain checks sex on my birthday is a real and raw conversation between Jose and me about my request for sex on my birthday, his response, and the promise of future sex.
You'll soon discover that the title of this episode is incorrect. Jose did not rain check me, but rather.. listen and learn for yourself.
P.S. There's also a funny bit about how I handle earthquakes.
xo,Carli Jo2024-03-1324 minThe Queen Of PleasureEp 5. The one with an audienceJose and I talk through a real and raw conflict for the FIRST time in front of a live audience. I highly recommend listening to this one with your partner!2024-03-0747 minThe Queen Of PleasureBonus 001: Anniversary Sex and Orgasm DigestListen if you want to here our anniversary Recap: Including very sensational sex on a massage table, a rippling orgasm story, and choosing pleasure over pressure.2024-03-0313 minThe Queen Of PleasureEp 4. The one with our love storyHave fun listening to how Jose had a getaway plan in case our first kiss went bad, the hilarious way he said "I love you" for the first time, and how we argued during his proposal.2024-02-2850 minThe Queen Of PleasureEp 3. The one where Jose doesn't get Carli Jo iceJose and CJ go on a trip to the desert. They hit some obstacles and are here to clean it up. https://www.bhaktifest.com/2024-02-211h 19The Queen Of PleasureEp 2. The one where Carli Jo asks Jose to seduce her BodyWelcome to the first episode with Jose and CJ. CJ shares that Jose's initiation for sex makes her feel weird in her body. They talk about optional methods and a possible resolution going forward. 2024-02-1441 minThe Queen Of PleasureEp 1. The one where Carli Jo introduces herselfYo yo yo, it's Carli Jo, known on the internet streets as the Queen of Pleasure! Comin' at ya on a sunny Thursday afternoon from my backyard giving you a teaser of what's to come. (Husband 'Jose' says my intro is totally awesome!)2024-01-1018 min
Courage to Create with Claudia WhitneySex & Cannabis, Career Pivots, and Starting a Self Pleasure Practice With Carli Jo | Episode 18I'm super excited to bring you this week's CTC interview with one of my LA besties! Carli Jo Cabrera is a speaker, author, and trusted Self-Pleasure Guide and Intimacy Coach to high-achieving women in committed relationships. Women seek her support when burnt out, disconnected from themselves, their partners, and personal pleasure. Through her informative framework "The Arousal Cycle," hundreds of women have gained a brand-new understanding of their core needs and sexual turn-ons, resulting in them getting out of their heads and into their bodies. And The New York Times and Cosmopolitan featured her pioneering work around connected and...2022-08-091h 01
Any Way You Want ItEp 34: Learning to Receive inside of Sisterhood with Carli Jo CabreraI've been wanting create an episode about sisterhood for awhile, and I was just waiting on the perfect resonant moment! Which is why when I started having some truthful, deep, conversations about sisterhood with my friend Carli Jo, I knew that we needed to share it with the world! Carli Jo is an amazing coach who helps women in relationships have turned-on, alive sex. Together in sisterhood, we are both committed to saying the truth, finding the resonant thing, and taking full responsibility for our desire.Listen into this conversation as we bare it all - the...2021-07-0654 min
Desire on FireOur Path to Pleasure with Carli Jo and Jose CabreraHaving challenges in the bedroom? If you and your partner are struggling with sex - you are not alone! In today’s episode, we are diving in with sensuality coach Carli Jo and her husband Jose Cabrera, to talk all about their sexual partnership. They get vulnerable about the challenges they have faced in the bedroom, honoring each other’s process for healing, and finding their true path to pleasure - together. We get deep into: Carli Jo and Jose’s story - from the first kiss to the challenges and turning point in their sex! The end...2021-06-161h 19
¿Me estás jodiendo?Debatimos #1 ¿Arte igual Artista?Micaela Kronenberg, Alejandra Cataldi, Violeta Larralde, Tomás Durazzo, Matías "El Pampa" Kinkel y yo, Tomás Agustín Carli, abrimos un debate complejo. En el primer episodio de esta nueva sección de "¿Me estás jodiendo?", debatimos la separación del artista respecto de su arte, la cultura de la cancelación, y miles de tangentes más, sin un orden específico y con una intensidad tal que terminó saliendo el tema Yao Cabrera.
Encontranos en Instagram! @meestasjodiendopodcast2020-05-181h 32