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Wanderlust Swingers - A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle StoriesLondons Hottest Halloween Swingers Party – Le Boudoir Swingers Club LondonWanderlust Swingers – A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle Stories
EP209 – Londons Hottest Halloween Swingers Party – Le Boudoir Swingers Club London
What really happens inside a Halloween swingers party in central London? In this episode we share our two-night Halloween weekend at Le Boudoir Swingers Club. From Friday’s single-male night to Saturday’s couples-heavy chaos, plus a very hot dungeon “wine cellar” soft swap.
We talk club vibes, playroom etiquette, and the not-so-sexy realities (hello BV) that can kill the mood, along with practical tips for getting more out of your swinger club nights.
In this epis...
2025-11-1939 minWanderlust Swingers - A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle StoriesAre Dirty Vanillas A Swingers Lifestyle Epidemic?Wanderlust Swingers – A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle Stories
EP208 – Are Dirty Vanillas a Swingers Lifestyle Epidemic? (Sexy Parties vs Swinger Parties)
Bonus Episode: HotTakes with Wanderlust Swingers
Are “dirty vanillas” ruining swinger parties… or are we just old and grumpy?
In this HotTakes bonus episode, we unpack the rise of sexy parties vs swinger parties — couples who love the lingerie, lights, drugs and dance floor, but have zero intention of swapping or playing. From empty playrooms at Dutch “takeovers” to US events that feel more MDMA than moaning, we ask: is this evolution, dilution, or jus...
2025-11-1439 minWanderlust Swingers - A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle StoriesHow to Not Get Laid at Swingers EventsWanderlust Swingers – A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle Stories
EP207 – How to Not Get Laid at Swingers Events (aka: are you “social-sexual”ing your way out of play?)
Ever left a lifestyle party with a sore throat from talking…and nothing else? In this episode we unpack why being a charismatic, chatty social butterfly can accidentally cock-block your own fun. Social sexual vs. DTF energy, how mixed signals stall momentum, and the exact moves to shift from talk to touch, without being creepy. Yes, there are wombat and platypus facts. No, we’re not sorry.
Social V's Sexy: wh...
2025-11-0542 minWanderlust Swingers - A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle StoriesCap D Agde V2 + Recent Swingers PartiesWanderlust Swingers – A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle Stories
EP206 – Cap d’Agde & Recent Swingers Parties
Is Cap d’Agde still the planet’s wildest swingers playground… or did we just hit it on extra-chaotic mode? In this on-the-road episode (recorded from a very “upgraded” Las Vegas suite), we recap our second 2025 run at Cap d’Agde — from Babylone poolside antics to a Le Glamour Beach foam party so packed you could crowd-surf — plus two very different European events: Flamigo Events in Belgium and the SDC 25th Anniversary World Party in the Netherlands.
We talk wins, fails, costs, dr...
2025-10-2032 minWanderlust Swingers - A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle StoriesCap D'Agde Swingers Vacation 2025 : Champagne Pussies, Foam Parties & Beach OrgiesWanderlust Swingers – A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle Stories
EP204 – Cap d’Agde Swingers Vacation 2025: Champagne Pussies, Foam Parties & Beach Orgies
Is Cap d’Agde still the world’s most infamous swingers paradise — or is it just overpriced rosé, half-empty nightclubs, and sunburnt nudists with GoPros?
We’re back from France with 69 sexy humans in tow, ready to spill the champagne (literally) on what really went down at Europe’s biggest lifestyle playground. From Paris club nights to poolside anal, missed connections, VIP beach beds, and a finale party involving German neighbors, cheese, and pop rocks blowjobs — this t...
2025-08-2056 minWanderlust Swingers - A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle StoriesSolo Hotwife Play DateWanderlust Swingers – A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle Stories
EP202 – Solo Hotwife Play Date: From Lingerie Nerves to a CU-soaked Finish
Welcome to a juicy bonus episode of Wanderlust Swingers! In this unscheduled, unfiltered conversation, Cate takes us behind the scenes of her most recent solo hotwife play date—a sexy, nerve-wracking, pounding-filled night that left everyone hot, wet, and just a little bit awkward.
From lingerie mishaps to ben wa balls, awkward flirting to explosive orgasms, this episode is a raw (sometimes hilariously chaotic) look at what it’s really like to go on a solo h...
2025-07-3055 minWanderlust Swingers - A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle StoriesHotwife Glory Hole Experience & 3 New Swingers Clubs in 3 WeeksWanderlust Swingers – A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle Stories
EP200 – Hotwife Glory Hole Experience & 3 New Swingers Clubs in 3 Weeks
In our 200th episode, Cate and Darrell reflect on a decade in the lifestyle — and ask: can old swingers learn new tricks? From awkward dress-downs and single-guy overloads to sexy vibes, secret blowjobs, and diverse party crowds, this one is packed.
We hit up three different swingers clubs in three weeks, including CitySwingers in Copenhagen (a real let down), Party Players in the Netherlands (a sexy swingers club but not a swingers event), and finally the X Club i...
2025-07-0935 minWanderlust Swingers - A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle StoriesSpontaneous vs. Responsive Desire in the Swingers LifestyleWanderlust Swingers – A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle Stories
EP199 – Spontaneous vs. Responsive Desire in the Swingers Lifestyle
In this episode, Cate and Darrell dive into the psychology and practicality of spontaneous vs. responsive desire — and how this can make or break your experiences in the lifestyle. Whether you're the one who’s ready to go at the first flash of lingerie or someone who needs the right mood, connection, or even lunch before feeling sexy, we explore what it all means for swingers navigating clubs, hotel takeovers, and multi-day events.
We also update you on the noto...
2025-06-2532 min
Wanderlust Swingers - A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle StoriesCap D Agde Desires, What’s in the Box and How to Small TalkWanderlust Swingers – A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle Stories
EP198 – Cap D Agde Desires, What’s in the Box and How to Small Talk
Cate’s fresh back from Miami (just her this time!) and while we only touch on that wild weekend, we’re diving deep into what’s really heating things up: our return to Cap d’Agde in 2025, a brand new sex toy, and Darrell’s spicy fantasy.
In this episode, Darrell receives a mystery box that leaves Cate both suspicious and very curious. Spoiler alert: it’s a new toy — but it’s not one we’ve e...
2025-05-2853 minWanderlust Swingers - A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle StoriesSexual Trauma and the Swinger Lifestyle: What You Need to KnowHow does sexual trauma affect your lifestyle journey?
Trigger warning: This episode includes discussion of sexual trauma, abuse, and emotional triggers. Please take care while listening.
In this vulnerable and powerful episode, Cate is joined by trauma-informed coach Meshai from Expansive Connection to explore what happens when past trauma meets lifestyle play. Cate also shares her personal experience with sexual trauma — opening up publicly for the first time.
Whether you’re navigating your own healing, supporting a partner, or just want to be a more compassionate and informed member of the lifestyle, this conv...
2025-05-1442 min
Wanderlust Swingers - A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle StoriesRediscovering Soft Swap at a Swingers Club Fun4Two NetherlandsWanderlust Swingers – A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle Stories
Cate and Darrell revisit soft swap play for the first time in seven years — and it happened at none other than Fun4Two, the iconic swingers club in the Netherlands. What started as a night out turned into a wildly sensual experience filled with connection, chemistry, a six-handed massage… and yes, some cum on the floor.
We explore the dynamics of soft swap play, the assumptions people make about it, and whether full swap couples are missing out by skipping over these intimate encounters. Cate also makes a hila...
2025-05-0857 min
Wanderlust Swingers - A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle StoriesFighting for Freedom: Wicked Fun Club vs. the Town of PlymouthIn this important episode, Cate speaks with Steve Gagne, owner of Wicked Fun Club, a private members-only lifestyle venue in Connecticut that has recently been issued a cease and desist order by the Town of Plymouth.
Only five months into a three-year lease, the club is now in the midst of a legal and political battle that raises serious questions about privacy, zoning laws, and stigma against non-monogamous communities.
Steve shares what really happened, how it’s affecting the club and its members, and what the community can do to support. This episode goes beyond lo...
2025-04-2330 min
Wanderlust Swingers - A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle StoriesSwingers and Scarcity: Overcoming FOMO, Settling, and Playing SmartWanderlust Swingers – A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle Stories
In this thought-provoking episode of Wanderlust Swingers, Cate and Darrell dive deep into the Scarcity vs. Abundance mindset in the swinger lifestyle. Are your decisions driven by FOMO, settling, or a fear of limited options? From personal stories to juicy Reddit replies, we’re unpacking how scarcity might be shaping your lifestyle journey—and how to play smarter.
Here’s what you’ll hear:
Scarcity in Action: We explore real-life examples of scarcity driving decisions, like late-night hookups or compromises in smaller communities. Is it really scarcity...
2024-12-3035 min
Wanderlust Swingers - A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle StoriesHotwife Adventures - Darrells secret to navigating FEELD for hotwives in the Swingers LifestyleWanderlust Swingers – A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle Stories
Join us for a cheeky bonus episode of Wanderlust Swingers! Darrell has been up to mischief, creating a Feeld dating profile as Cate, and now he’s sharing all the juicy details. This hilarious and insightful episode uncovers the secrets to navigating Feeld for hotwives in the swinger lifestyle.
Here's what you’ll hear:
The Feeld Experiment: Darrell dives into his surprise project, managing Cate’s profile on Feeld and filtering through over 1,300 likes. Learn how he whittled down the matches and what got some users instantly unmatched.
Top Tips...
2024-12-2350 min
Wanderlust Swingers - A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle StoriesLibertine Events Unveiled: Host Stories, Playroom Favorites, and Coaching SecretsWanderlust Swingers – A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle Stories
Join us for a jam-packed episode of Wanderlust Swingers as we dive into the highlights from the Libertine Events San Antonio Senses takeover! This episode features three incredible interviews with special guests who share their unique perspectives and experiences from the event.
Jason and Sarah: Midwest-based hosts who joined Libertine for the first time as guest hosts. Hear about their role in hosting mingle games, how Sarah embraced a daring electric play demonstration with over 100 participants, and their tips for resetting energy at high-energy lifestyle events.
...
2024-12-161h 19
Wanderlust Swingers - A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle StoriesAre Down to Fuck Couples Just More Fun?Wanderlust Swingers – A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle Stories
The DTF Spectrum: Are Down to F*ck Couples Just More Fun?
In this solo episode, Cate dives into a hot debate among swingers today: the phenomenon of “DTF” couples. Inspired by a lively discussion on Reddit, Cate unpacks the various interpretations of being “down to fuck” and how it impacts connections in the lifestyle. From couples who prefer a straight-to-the-fun approach to those with a selective DTF style, Cate explores why some embrace the label while others feel it’s misunderstood.
Episode Highlights:
What Does...
2024-11-1125 min
Wanderlust Swingers - A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle StoriesHaving Sex In A Maze, Swingers Cafe + Kama Sutra BeursWanderlust Swingers – A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle Stories
Having Sex In A Maze, Swingers Café + Kama Sutra Beurs
In this adventurous episode, Cate and Darrell finally attend the sex-positive Kama Sutra Beurs in their hometown of Utrecht, diving into an experience that’s both eye-opening and outrageous! After years of planning to attend, they explore every part of the convention, from a bustling Swingers Café to a surprise maze encounter that gets steamy. Cate and Darrell share each hilarious and unexpected moment as they navigate this European sex convention and its anything-goes vibe.
Episod...
2024-11-0433 min
Wanderlust Swingers - A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle StoriesFailures at Being a Swinger; Failed Pool Parties, Ghosting, and MoreWanderlust Swingers – A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle Stories
Episode Title: Failures at Being a Swinger; Failed Pool Parties, Ghosting, and More
In this playful yet candid episode, Cate and Darrell tackle the less-than-glamorous side of the swinger lifestyle, where best-laid plans don’t always work out! From a last-minute pool party flop to a local single who ghosted us on a date, we’re digging into what happens when expectations don’t match reality. Join us as we explore how swinging can sometimes go sideways, and how to handle those “swinger fails” with humor and gra...
2024-10-2934 min
Wanderlust Swingers - A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle StoriesGuilty By Association In The Swingers LifestyleWanderlust Swingers - A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle Stories
Guilty By Association In The Swingers Lifestyle
In this eye-opening episode, Cate teams up with Mickey and Mallory from Casual Swinger to dive deep into the lesser-known pitfalls of the swinger lifestyle. Ever wondered how social media connections or your choice of friends could impact your reputation in the community? This episode covers it all. From unknowingly outing yourself on Facebook to navigating the fine line between finding your tribe and being guilty by association, we explore how your social circle can shape your swinger...
2024-09-2458 minWanderlust Swingers - A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle StoriesCocksucking Train, Electrical Play and More with Jason and SarahWanderlust Swingers - A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle Stories
Cocksucking Train, Electrical Play & More with Jason and Sarah
Cate sits down with Jason and Sarah, a couple from the Upper Midwest, who share their bold journey into the swinging lifestyle after ten years of monogamy. From a surprising encounter with a stripper in Las Vegas to getting yanked into their first threesome, this episode covers all the bases of a wild and memorable adventure. Jason and Sarah get candid about how they embrace sensory play, including electrical stimulation, and why Jason calls himself an overthinker...
2024-09-1654 min
Wanderlust Swingers - A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle StoriesUnicorn Hall Pass Spicy IslandWanderlust Swingers - A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle Stories
Unicorn Hall Pass Spicy Island
In this episode, Cate takes us on a wild adventure as she heads to Spicy Island for a full island takeover in Croatia, embracing her role as a unicorn with a hall pass. From cheeky playroom encounters to naked swims under the stars, this episode is packed with fun stories, poolside masturbation, and flirty moments. But was Cate as slutty as she and Darrell had hoped? Let’s find out!
Episode Event Highlights:
Poolside Fun: Masturbation, cheeky playroom kisses, and a...
2024-09-0954 min
Wanderlust Swingers - A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle StoriesUK Swingers Vanilla Alternative TakeoverWanderlust Swingers - A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle Stories
UK Swingers Takeover Vanilla Alternative
In this electrifying episode, Cate takes you inside the unforgettable UK Swingers Takeover at the Vanilla Alternative, a night bursting with neon vibes, sultry playrooms, and a dance floor that didn't quit until the early hours. Cate recounts every detail of the weekend, sharing the highs, the laughs, and the tips to make the most out of such a thrilling event.
Event Highlights:
Neon Dreams: From a packed dance floor to playful antics in the UV-lit playrooms, the night was...
2024-09-0240 min
Wanderlust Swingers - A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle StoriesKilling Kittens Mansion Party UK Swingers ReviewSwinging Lifestyle + Hotwife Lifestyle Podcast - Wanderlust Swingers Podcast
In this episode, we dive deep into the experience of attending the exclusive Killing Kittens Mansion Party in April 2024, a highly anticipated event known for its luxury, sophistication, and sensual ambiance. Did it live up to the hype?
We're spilling all the tea, from the venue's opulence to the social dynamics, costs, and whether we think it was worth the money. Plus, we'll share Darrell's solo play experience and offer tips for those considering attending such events in the future.
Venue & Atmosphere + Attendees & Social Dynamics: Explore the...
2024-08-2652 min
Wanderlust Swingers - A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle StoriesGirlfriends Host A Swingers Hotel Takeover - Behind the scenes with Mallory Casual SwingerSwinging Lifestyle + Hotwife Lifestyle Podcast - Wanderlust Swingers Podcast
Behind the Scenes with Mallory from Casual Swinger: Miami Swingers Hotel Takeover
Get ready for a fun, sexy, and behind-the-scenes look at the Miami Swingers Hotel Takeover with special guest host Mallory from the Casual Swinger Podcast! We spent a few wild days in an Airbnb before the event, filled with swimming, drinking, dancing, and karaoke.
In this episode, we dive into:
Pre-Event Adventures: Our crazy time together in the Airbnb.
During the Event: Highlights including the playroom, dancing, blaze the male dancer and Mallory licking Cate's...
2024-07-0856 min
Wanderlust Swingers - A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle StoriesMiami Swingers Hotel Takeover: Behind the Scenes and BeyondMiami Swingers Hotel Takeover: Behind the Scenes and Beyond
Get ready for an inside look at the Miami Swingers Hotel Takeover! Join us as we share the excitement, fun, and unique experiences from this unforgettable event. We start with an overview of what made the Miami takeover special, followed by a break to tell a sexy story from the event, and wrap up with our top tips for newcomers and future events.
In this episode, we dive into the planning and logistics, the vibrant atmosphere, and the standout fashion and activities. Plus, hear personal stories and memorable...
2024-06-2148 minWanderlust Swingers - A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle StoriesDoxyPEP Sti Prevention - Swingers Health Vol 7Swinging Lifestyle + Hotwife Lifestyle Podcast - Wanderlust Swingers Podcast
DoxyPEP STI Prevention - Swingers Health Vol 7
In this episode of Swingers Health, we delve into the world of sexual health and explore a groundbreaking method for preventing sexually transmitted infections (STIs) within the non-monogamous community: DoxyPEP. Join us as we unravel the science behind DoxyPEP, its application as a post-exposure prophylaxis (PEP), and its implications for modern sexual health practices.
What is DoxyPEP?
DoxyPEP, short for doxycycline post-exposure prophylaxis, is a revolutionary approach to STI prevention. Our discussion begins with a...
2024-05-0645 minWanderlust Swingers - A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle StoriesLet's Get Spicy Swingers Island Takeover Chat BONUS EPSwinging Lifestyle + Hotwife Lifestyle Podcast - Wanderlust Swingers Podcast
Let's Get Spicy
Welcome to a Bonus Episode of the Wanderlust Swingers Podcast featuring our friends Mr and Mrs H from the bed hoppers Podcast in the UK.
Spicy Island Takeover by Spicy Match
We're heading to the Spicy Match Swingers Island takeover in July called Spicy Island for week 2 of their takeover. We have been before but this is Mr and Mrs H first time in Croatia, first time at a swingers event this size and first time at a Spicy Match takeover.
...
2024-05-0138 min
Wanderlust Swingers - A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle StoriesPants On / Off Swinger Friends: The Pros and ConsSwinging Lifestyle + Hotwife Lifestyle Podcast - Wanderlust Swingers Podcast
Swinger Friends
In this episode, we delve into the intricacies of "Pants On / Off Swinger Friends," a dynamic that blurs the lines between friendship and sexual exploration within the swinging lifestyle.
Pants On / Off Friendships The Pros
Explore the freedom and excitement of maintaining close friendships while also enjoying the benefits of sexual intimacy.
Foster a deeper level of trust and understanding between partners and friends.
Experience heightened sexual pleasure through the comfort and familiarity of established relationships.
Pants On / Off Friendships The Cons
Navigate potential emotional...
2024-04-221h 01
Wanderlust Swingers - A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle StoriesSwingers Date + Foursome in AmsterdamSwinging Lifestyle + Hotwife Lifestyle Podcast - Wanderlust Swingers Podcast
Swingers Date Ideas
Get ready to spice up your dating game with swingers date ideas. Firstly, we share what we think a date in the swingers lifeestyle is, then we take a break and tell a sexy story before sharing our top 5 tips to creating sexy swingers dates.
In this episode, we're dishing out hot tips for picking the perfect date spots, from quirky outings to steamy soirées, join us as we reveal the secrets to sizzling swingers' adventures.
Swingers Foursome Pl...
2024-03-2836 min
Wanderlust Swingers - A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle StoriesSwingers Mental Health - Swingers Health Vol 6 - Part 1Swinging Lifestyle + Hotwife Lifestyle Podcast - Wanderlust Swingers Podcast
Swingers Health Vol 6 - Mental Health
The Swingers Lifestyle is exciting, there are all these fun parties, costumes and new emotions to play with. But there is also the reality that with these new emotions and new experiences we need to consider what impact this might have on us, our primary relationship and the other people. In today's epsiode we're diving into the fascinating world of nonmonogamy,we’re going to dig into communication, boundaries, conflict resolution and more. She wants something, he doesn’t… how the f...
2024-03-0851 min
Wanderlust Swingers - A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle StoriesSwinging Saved Our Relationship - UK SwingersSwinging Lifestyle + Hotwife Lifestyle Podcast - Wanderlust Swingers Podcast
Today we’re interviewing Jem and Daz, UK Swingers that seem like any other couple. They have kids, they go to the gym together, they lead normal lives. But that relationship was broken according to Jem and Daz and Swinging Saved Their Relationship.
Swinging Saved Our Relationship - UK Swingers
We’ve all heard creators, bloggers, podcasters… random swingers on the sidewalk give the advice not to enter the lifestyle if your relationship or relationship is suffering ‘’don’t swing unless you have a good foundat...
2024-02-1654 min
Wanderlust Swingers - A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle StoriesSwingers Hotel Takeover Miami - Libertine Events CarnivalSwinging Lifestyle + Hotwife Lifestyle Podcast - Wanderlust Swingers Podcast
Get ready for an intimate and revealing episode as Darrell, your host, turns the tables and interviews Cate about hosting a Swingers Hotel Takeover in the sizzling city of Miami.
Tune in now for a conversation that goes beyond the surface and into the heart of the Swingers Hotel Takeover experience.
Swingers Hotel Takeover Miami
In this candid conversation, delve into the ins and outs of organizing the Libertine Events Carnival Swingers Hotel Takeover in 2023. From the initial inspiration to the unexpected...
2024-02-0944 min
Wanderlust Swingers - A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle StoriesBDSM, Health Journey, TikTok, SwingTok, OH MY w/ That Hot Couple In GASwinging Lifestyle + Hotwife Lifestyle Podcast - Wanderlust Swingers Podcast
Today I'm interviewing Ash and Russ aka That Hot Couple In GA on all social media platforms. We're going to be talking about their jouney and how they met at 22, started in a DOM / SUB relationship and eventually found the swingers lifestyle and now live out and proud with their faces on social media.
BDSM and The Swinging Lifestyle
What do you know about the Dom/Sub relationship? Have you heard couples discuss their contracts and boundaries? Today we dig deep into As...
2024-02-0147 min
Wanderlust Swingers - A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle StoriesSwinging In Europe with Mr DutchieSwinging Lifestyle + Hotwife Lifestyle Podcast - Wanderlust Swingers Podcast
Today I'm interviewing Mr Dutchie, one half of an amazing couple that live in the Netherlands that we met through reddit of all places.
We're talking about the different approaches to nonmonogamy in Europe and how Mr and Mrs Dutchie have navigated their lifestyle journey.
Swinging In The Netherlands
Mr Dutchie walks us through their experience visiting one of the biggest clubs in Europe (Fun4Two), how culturally diverse this club is and what to expect.
We share a st...
2024-01-0544 min
Wanderlust Swingers - A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle StoriesUK Swingers Hotel TakeoverSwinging Lifestyle + Hotwife Lifestyle Podcast - Wanderlust Swingers Podcast
We share all the details about our recent event in the UK for the first ever Swingers Hotel Takeover, Floor Crawl and Swingers Club Takeover of Penthouse Playrooms
UK Swingers Hotel Takeover
We took over an entire 87 room hotel and share the details from the event in a mash up podcast called the Wanderhoppers Podcast (a PennyYoko Production)
Find part 2 on the bed hoppers podcast https://www.bedhoppers.co.uk/
Parties, buses, a floor crawl... what could go wr...
2023-11-2846 min
Wanderlust Swingers - A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle StoriesCap En Sicile + Solo Orgy Play with Spicy MatchSwinging Lifestyle + Hotwife Lifestyle Podcast - Wanderlust Swingers Podcast
We share all the details about our recent event in Sicily with the team at Spicy Match. We shares the ins and outs of the event, some useful tips on how to make an event a success, what types of people attended this event and all the juicy details.
We also share a story about Darrell playing solo in an orgy.... check it out.
Cap En Sicile
Cap En Sicile is inspired by the famous Cap D'Agde in Southern France. Spicy Match...
2023-10-091h 08
Wanderlust Swingers - A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle StoriesVaginal Health and BV - Swingers Health Vol 5Swinging Lifestyle + Hotwife Lifestyle Podcast - Wanderlust Swingers Podcast
Swingers Health Vol 5 - Vaginal Health and BV
Keeping your Vaginal health at optimum levels is one of the most difficult things about the swingers lifestyle. Vulva owners need to deal with potential risks that extend outside of Sti’s and into general wellness and health which include Yeast Infections, Uti’s, BV, Thrush & more
Vaginal Health
You might not think these are sexy topics to talk about AND that is part of the problem, we’re too shamed to discuss this taboo...
2023-09-181h 03
Wanderlust Swingers - A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle StoriesBeing Swinger Fit - Swingers Health Vol 4Swinging Lifestyle + Hotwife Lifestyle Podcast - Wanderlust Swingers Podcast
Swingers Health Vol 4 - Being Swinger Fit
Let’s talk about being Swinger Fit, Insufficient activity kills 1.6 million people around the world each year, according to the World Health Organization. Cardiovascular and respiratory disease, cancer and diabetes is responsible for 81 per cent of all noncommunicable diseases globally, which accounts for 70 per cent of the world's deaths.
Swinger Fit
What is Swinger Fit, we break it down through the episode and you'll be surprised to hear it's NOT about your physical appearance.
Be...
2023-09-0457 min
Wanderlust Swingers - A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle StoriesHow To Survive Swingers Island Takeover with Spicy MatchWe went to a Full Swingers Island Takeover with Spicy Match
Swingers Island
Yep, it's a brand new thing! Spicy Match took over an entire island in Croatia and filled it with 600 swingers for an event like no other.
We break down how to survive the island, what we experienced, who went and who we think the event would suit.
Who are Spicy Match?
Spicy Match are a Swingers Dating site based out of Europe and they also host global events (mostly in Europe), they are synonymous with Cap...
2023-08-2847 min
Wanderlust Swingers - A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle StoriesHerpes HSV Diagnosis and Disclosure - Swingers Health Vol 3Swinging Lifestyle + Hotwife Lifestyle Podcast - Wanderlust Swingers Podcast
Swingers Health Vol 3
It is estimated that 4 billion 191 million people have some form of herpes (67% have HSV1 and 13% have HSV2). This is a very common STi, it is not curable but is treatable.
Herpes HSV Diagnosis
Courtney is HSV positive, operates a not for profit ''SPFPP'' and is nonmonogamous. We use Courtney's personal experience being diagnosed with HSV and the impact this had on his personal life, sex life and nonmonogamous journey. We talk about transmission rates, the increase in HSV1 and h...
2023-07-2553 minWanderlust Swingers - A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle StoriesFoursome Swingers Play, Yoni & Nuru MassageSwinging Lifestyle + Hotwife Lifestyle Podcast - Wanderlust Swingers Podcast
Welcome to a new episode all about our play session with our Netherlands friends Mr and Mrs Dutchie
Foursome Swingers Play
We share details about our recent play session, saunas, 6 handed massages, yoni massage, nuru massage and how Mr Dutchie fucked Cate 10 ways from Sunday
We share the pitfalls of swingers play and why we need to step up our game.
Swingers Events
We've got a brand new webpage with the global swingers events listed that we are hosting, attending o...
2023-07-1349 min
Wanderlust Swingers - A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle StoriesAgeless Sex, Hormones, Libido, Arousal in the Swingers Lifestyle - Swingers Health Vol 2Swinging Lifestyle + Hotwife Lifestyle Podcast - Wanderlust Swingers Podcast
Swingers Health Vol 2
Get ready as we explore all things about sexual, physical and mental health in the swingers lifestyle. In today’s episode we have a fantastic guest joining us (Susan Bratton) and we’re going to dig into some very important topics in the swingers lifestyle
Hormones, Intimacy and Sex
Are our hormones really the root cause of bad sex or low libido?
In females, the main sex hormones are estrogen and progesterone. Hormones control heart rate, sleep cycl...
2023-06-2752 min
Wanderlust Swingers - A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle StoriesSTi’s and Erectile Dysfunction in the Swingers Lifestyle - Swingers Health Vol 1Swinging Lifestyle + Hotwife Lifestyle Podcast - Wanderlust Swingers Podcast
Swingers Health Vol 1
Get ready as we explore all things about sexual, physical and mental health in the swingers lifestyle. In today’s episode we have 2 fantastic guests joining us and we’re going to dig into some very important topics in the swingers lifestyle
Erectile Dysfunction
Is extremely common inside and outside of the swingers lifestyle and we’re going to dig into how and why this happens and ways you can support your partner and how you can support yourself throug...
2023-06-011h 12Wanderlust Swingers - A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle Stories190 Swingers at Penthouse Playrooms Swingers ClubSwinging Lifestyle + Hotwife Lifestyle Podcast - Wanderlust Swingers Podcast
We takeover the Penthouse Playrooms Swingers Club for our RED Hot Party in February 2023 co-hosted with the bed hoppers podcast.
In this episode we're going to share our experiences at the event BUT more importantly, we're going to share and discuss 6 audio clips sent in from attendees.
From newbies to naked dancing, glory holes and hot tub fun, listen in as we try to remember our ''firsts'' from 8 years ago when we joined the lifestyle.
A big thank you to Penthouse Playrooms Swi...
2023-03-211h 00Wanderlust Swingers - A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle StoriesSteamy Romantics, Live Porn & Compersion PlaySwinging Lifestyle + Hotwife Lifestyle Podcast - Wanderlust Swingers Podcast
What does compersion mean to you? In today's bonus episode we are talking with Mik and Nik from Australia who created and star in a new play called ''Compersion''. They mix live sex acts with educational content, talk about consent and walk you through their real life stories about being nonmonogamous
Compersion
Noun. compersion (uncountable) Vicarious joy associated with seeing one's partner have a joyful romantic or sexual relation with another.
Compersion The Play
"Compersion" follows a real-life husband and wif...
2023-02-2735 minWanderlust Swingers - A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle StoriesEnsuring Success at Swingers Lifestyle EventsSwinging Lifestyle + Hotwife Lifestyle Podcast - Wanderlust Swingers Podcast
Ensuring Success at Swingers Lifestyle Events, you've picked the event you're going to, booked your ticket.. now what
Today's episode is all about how you can get the most out of the swingers event that you're attending. We give you over 10 tips on how to ensure success at Swingers Lifestyle events.
This episode was originally recorded and published on the bed hoppers podcast but we found the information so valuable that we wanted to share it here too. Find their links below and head o...
2023-02-2057 minWanderlust Swingers - A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle StoriesSwinging Into BDSMSwinging Lifestyle + Hotwife Lifestyle Podcast - Wanderlust Swingers Podcast
Are you in the Swingers Lifestyle and curious about BDSM? Maybe you've dabbled in a little kink play at a Swingers Club or want to explore what being ''Kinky'' really means.
Today's episode is all about Swinging Into BDSM with 2 fantastic interviews with passionate and fun sexperts
Mistress Leah - Swinging Into BDSM
First up, we're joined by Mistress Leah, author of Swinging Into BDSM. We talk about common misconceptions, how to get started, terminology used and so much more. Mistress Leah l...
2023-02-071h 06Wanderlust Swingers - A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle StoriesFun4Two Swingers Club & Foursome SexSwinging Lifestyle + Hotwife Lifestyle Podcast - Wanderlust Swingers Podcast
Our Swinger New Years eve started with a literal bang in the playrooms on site at Fun4Two swingers club, today's episode is all about our New Years eve, what we got up to and who with. Looking for a swingers club in the Netherlands, we highly recommend Fun4Two near Rotterdam.
Fun4Two Swingers Club
We kick off the episode by briefing re-doing our tour of the Fun4two Swingers Club Netherlands as we missed 2 very large areas on our previous review.
2023-01-2351 minWanderlust Swingers - A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle StoriesSinParty, Foot Fetish and Adult Content CreationSwinging Lifestyle + Hotwife Lifestyle Podcast - Wanderlust Swingers Podcast
This episode is all about adult content creation, foot fetish and adult content platforms like SinParty.
We kick things off by interviewing Jo from SinParty, a relatively new adult content creation site that is trying to break down the stigmas of what content is deemed sexy or appropriate. They launched their site in 2022 and since then have been supporting online sex workers and adult content creators with their open arms / open door polilcy.
Cate puts Jo on the hotseat and asks "Why create another s...
2023-01-1855 minWanderlust Swingers - A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle StoriesOasis Aqualounge Swingers Club Toronto + Feeling TriggeredSwinging Lifestyle + Hotwife Lifestyle Podcast - Wanderlust Swingers Podcast
Today we're talking all about the Oasis Aqualounge in Toronto, a Swingers Club with a twist and a focus on being all things pool, hot tubs and fun.
We start the episode off with a cautionary tale about using butt plugs to simulate double penetration and then move into a full review of Oasis Aqualounge Swingers Club.
Oasis is based in the central area of Toronto city, we rate this club 3.5 black rings out of 5.
As we're getting ready to wrap up, w...
2023-01-0955 minWanderlust Swingers - A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle StoriesOur Week At Hedonism Swingers ResortSwinging Lifestyle + Hotwife Lifestyle Podcast - Wanderlust Swingers Podcast
We review our full week at Hedonism Swingers Resort in Jamiaca.
In this episode we're going to talk about our time on site and what we got upto in the week we spent at Hedonism Resort. We will also share some rather interesting lessons learned.
If you want to listen to a full review of Hedonism Swingers Resort Jamaica, head over to episode 158 for a breakdown of the facilities, resort, food and more.
Links
Casual Swinger Week at Hedonism Resort
Jerk Chicken from The...
2023-01-0550 minWanderlust Swingers - A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle StoriesSwingTok - Swinging In The Media
Swinging Lifestyle + Hotwife Lifestyle Podcast - Wanderlust Swingers Podcast
The Swingers Lifestyle is often portrayed poorly in mainstream media and SwingTok can often be used as clickbait. After a recent SwingTok TikTok video went viral we received the attention of a number of news outlets around Europe and in the UK. This bonus episode is a behind the scenes recording of the interview with a UK journalist.
SwingTok
Is a term used by content creators on TikTok who are in the Swingers Lifestyle, 4 years ago when I started my first account we used #SwingerTok (with 412 m...
2022-12-1336 minWanderlust Swingers - A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle StoriesHedonism Resort ReviewSwinging Lifestyle + Hotwife Lifestyle Podcast - Wanderlust Swingers Podcast
Ever been curious what Hedonism Resort is like? What a full review of Hedonism Swingers Resort?
We ventured to Hedonism in October for the 1st time and as requested on twitter, we do a full run down of what to expect, what the facilities were like, what some common misconceptions are, how to make the most out of your stay and why going with a group is critical in our opinion.
Next episode we will talk about our time and experience on site, this ep...
2022-11-1553 minWanderlust Swingers - A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle StoriesFoursome BDSM Swingers + Le Club L Montreal ReviewSwinging Lifestyle + Hotwife Lifestyle Podcast - Wanderlust Swingers Podcast
We share our recent journey to Ottawa and Montreal in Canada and boy o boy was it well worth the trip away. We share our BDSM story in an Airbnb in Montreal and our visit to a fabulously sexy swingers club called Le Club L in Montreal.
We start off with a journey to the Honeyspoon residence and a meeting of BED (plural for swingers we've found out) at a restaurant. Honeyspoon invited us to meet their local swinger friends in Ottawa and we were so...
2022-11-051h 12Wanderlust Swingers - A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle StoriesSwinging Lifestyle In The Media InterviewSwinging Lifestyle + Hotwife Lifestyle Podcast - Wanderlust Swingers Podcast
The Swinging Lifestyle is often portrayed poorly in mainstream media. After a recent TikTok video went viral we received the attention of a number of news outlets around Europe and in the UK. This bonus episode is a behind the scenes recording of the interview with a UK journalist.
Get behind the scenes and listen in as we talk about the swinging lifestyle and do our best to portray it positivley and accurately. It's not all rainbows and lollipops being a swinger after all.
R...
2022-10-1952 minWanderlust Swingers - A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle StoriesA Night At The Glitz, Hedonism Resort Expectations + MoreCate goes solo again for this episode and chats about the recent London Swingers Club experience at Le Boudoir and hosting A Night At The Glitz takeover.
If you've been curious on some ups and downs of hosting an event, what happened at A Night At The Glitz, some lessons learned and more... listen in.
Afterwards, I get into what some of my expectations of our upcoming visit to Hedonism Resort are, recent dates we've been on and why you shouldn't say NO to some lifestyle experiences.
I finish up on some swinger...
2022-10-0345 minWanderlust Swingers - A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle StoriesAmsterdam Swingers Club Fata Morgana ReviewAmsterdam Swingers Club Fata Morgana
Cate comes along solo for this episode and reviews the Amsterdam Swingers Club Fata Morgana, Cate also shares a cautionary tale of how she broke the night and play was not happening.
If you're keen to visit a swingers club in Amsterdam, we highly recommend Fata Morgana, it is so far the sexiest playrooms we've seen! Yes, we said it, the sexiest playrooms we've seen around the world (so far).
Head here to check out Fata Morgana
Other Links
Cate’s new TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@wander...
2022-09-2832 minWanderlust Swingers - A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle StoriesSwinger Questions part 2 with bed hoppers PodcastAll your swinger questions answered with the bed hoppers podcast. This is part 2 in the series and if you wanna wrap your ears around part 1, head on over to the bed hoppers podcast (link below).
We dig into your swinger questions that you want answered and cover everything from jealousy, long distance swinger friends, agressive flirting and how to store your magic wand (aka vibrators) when you're visiting a swingers club.
Big thumbs up and thanks to the bed hoppers podcast for joining us, LIVE in our studio (aka our loungeroom floor) right here in...
2022-08-2252 minWanderlust Swingers - A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle StoriesSwingers Foursome and Erotic PoetryWhat a night, O what a night, a swingers foursome for the books.
We spent the night with swinger friends from the USA whilst they transited through Amsterdam. We grabbed a hotel room, caught up and had a lot of swingers foursome fun.
Before we get into the fun though, we get you all warmed up with some erotic poetry from the one and only Pussy Preacher Duchess Cashmere (links below).
We share all the foursome details, what went down in the hotel room including some face sitting, double blowjobs and more. We...
2022-08-1555 minWanderlust Swingers - A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle StoriesSwingers Lifestyle Confidence with Expansive ConnectionHow can we have more confident in the swingers lifestyle?
We all say that confidence in swinger couples is sexy but how does one 'just be confident'?
In today's episode we're covering all about being confident and having confidence in the swingers lifestyle. Cate is interviewing Catherine from Expansive Connection about the psychology and ins and outs of having confidence.
We're going to share some helpful guides on how to acknowledge your confidence or lack thereof, what you can do to prop yourself up, how this might be impacting your partner and more.
...
2022-08-0858 min
Wanderlust Swingers - A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle StoriesSwinger Neediness, Q&A & Myths about Swinger Podcasts with Casual Swinger PodcastWelcome to a mash up episode featuring Casual Swinger Podcast
We recorded this live from my bed in NOLA, get ready to pour a drink and listen to the ramblings of 3 friends talking about all things swinging lifestyle.
Our first stop is a follow on from the recent episode about affirmation that Casual Swinger Podcast posted, I put them on the hot seat and ask about when affirmation requirements become swinger neediness.
We than take a left turn down Swinger Q&A lane and answer some recent questions I've had about the lifestyle.
2022-07-2048 min
Wanderlust Swingers - A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle StoriesFun4Two Swingers Club + Annoying SwingersWe visit Fun4Two, a local swingers club in the Netherlands.
Fun4Two Swingers Club has been voted the best swingers club in the Netherlands and we thought it was time to check out clubs in our own back yard.
Join us as we talk about our visit to Fun4Two Swingers Club, we share the details of what we thought, an annoying swinger couple ruining our night and our play session together.
Fun4Two Swingers Club is located near Rotterdam in the Netherlands.
Mentioned in this episode
Fun4Two Netherlands https://www...
2022-07-1351 min
Wanderlust Swingers - A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle StoriesPodcast-A-Palooza PCAP2022 Best and Worst MomentsAnother Podcast-A-Palooza Swingers Hotel Takeover is complete!
Curious what a PCAP event looks like or what to expect at a swingers hotel takeover? In this episode Cate runs through her 7 best and worst moments of PCAP2022 in sunny Palm Springs.
Cate is joined by 13 PCAP2022 attendees who share their thoughts, journey and time at PCAP2022 and what their swingers hotel takeover experience was like.
PCAP2022 Hosts
Casual Swinger Podcast
bed hoppers Podcast
The Monogamish Marriage Podcast + Blog
2 Hot Wives Podcast
4OURPLAY Podcast
Swinger University Podcast
Life Of Spice
Black N Kinky Lifestyle Podcast
Average Swing...
2022-06-161h 12
Wanderlust Swingers - A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle StoriesLe Boudoir London Swingers ClubWe visit London and attend Le Boudoir Swingers Club in London City.
We're going to share some sexy and fun times with you and talk about how we've almost gone back to Newbie Swinger Rookie status in the lifestyle.
Incorrect clothing, broken lube bottles and condoms, flirting skills completely gone and fucking in public... come join in the fun as we explore the Le Boudoir Swingers Club in London City.
Links Mentioned
YouTube Walkthrough Le Boudoir Swingers Club London
Le Boudoir Swingers Club Website
Other Links
Cate’s new TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@wande...
2022-05-1646 minWanderlust Swingers - A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle StoriesConsidering Polyamory with Leveled Up LoveAre you considering Polyamory or are you currently in a Polyamorous relationship and want to learn tools on dealing with baggage, trauma and how to navigate the relationship style?
In today’s episode we conduct 2 interviews, the first with Shai and Lea from Leveled Up Love on their relationship style and how they have navigated away from monogamy and to Polyamory.
The 2nd interview is with Dr Jay on the psychological impacts that altering your relationship style has and how we can overcome some boundaries.
Polyamorous Links
https://www.leveleduplove.com/
https://go.leveleduplove.co...
2022-03-281h 01Wanderlust Swingers - A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle StoriesSex Worker Legal Issues with Adult Biz LawToday's episode is all about sex workers and legal issues (aka when things go wrong)
How does the Sex Worker and Adult Entertainment industry seek legal support for issues surrounding their work?
With the increasing number of people joining the online sex worker community and more nonmonogamous couples and singles setting up profiles we thought it was time to create some bonus content that might be useful to you or a friend.
We've had personal friends be outed, children at school be bullied and more since they joined the online sex worker community...
2022-03-2337 min
Wanderlust Swingers - A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle StoriesSex Worker Mental Health with Pineapple SupportToday's episode is all about sex workers and mental health.
How does the Sex Worker and Adult Entertainment industry seek mental health support?
With the increasing number of people joining the online sex worker community and more nonmonogamous couples and singles setting up profiles we thought it was time to create some bonus content that might be useful to you or a friend.
We've had personal friends be outed, children at school be bullied and more since they joined the online sex worker community. Join me in today's bonus episode as I interview t...
2022-03-1830 min
Wanderlust Swingers - A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle StoriesSwinger Questions Quickie Vol 2Curious questions about Swingers? Want to know more about being a Swinger and the Swinging Lifestyle?
In today's episode we do a Swinger Question Q&A Quickie, welcome to Volume 2 as we intend to do these at least monthly on our swinger podcast. Feel free to DM or email us a question and we will answer it for you in a future episode.
Swinger Questions
Here are the questions we answer on today's Swinger Questions Quickie Volume 2 episode.
Swinger Hotel Takeovers, what room type?
How much is too much alcohol?
My beard smells like pus...
2022-03-1437 min
Wanderlust Swingers - A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle StoriesHow to Host a Sex PartyHave you ever considered hosting a sex party?
Hosting a Sex Party
A lot of effort and thought goes into hosting a sex party, the location, the right mix of people, what theme to have, drinks / food / music and more.
In this episode we use the Swingers Help Wicked Guide to Hosting Sex Parties as our base, we explore the chapters in the guide and talk through how we would approach hosting a sex party or swingers house party.
We share your thoughts on what the most important thing is about sex parties (s...
2022-02-2455 min
Wanderlust Swingers - A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle StoriesSwinging In NashvilleWanna know more about Swinging in Nashville?
Swinging In Nashville
Cate recently took a trip to Palm Springs and Nashville in a mix of business and pleasure. During the Nashville trip Cate visited Red Room Swingers Club Nashville (previously The Theater Group), this is the newest lifestyle / swingers club in Nashville.
In this episode Cate shares some news about where they are moving to next, what happened during her trip, a club review of Red Room Swingers Club Nashville and some litrotica all about female glory holes.
Links and Resources used in this epi...
2022-02-1449 min
Wanderlust Swingers - A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle StoriesWe Broke Our #1 Swinging RuleHave you ever broken a rule in the Swinging Lifestyle? We did and today we share all about it.
Swinging Rules
The lifestyle is full of rules & boundaries, we put them there more often than not to safeguard our relationship but what happens when you break a rule? Today we’re talking about breaking our #1 swinging rule, we’re going to share the ups and downs, the emotional discussion afterwards and what it means for us moving forward.
We share some exclusive patreon content that we recorded within days after the rule was broken.
Has...
2022-01-2857 min
Wanderlust Swingers - A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle StoriesCuckold with Venus CuckoldressCuckold is a form of NonMonogamy and under the big umbrella of NonMonogamy but what is it really?
Cuckold
In today's episode we interview the amazing Venus Cuckoldress from the Venus Cuckoldress Podcast as well as the CEO and creator of Venus Connections a match making site just for people interested in cuckold
Join us for a deeper look into the world of cuckold from people who are living the lifestyle!
After our interview with Venus we talk with Travis who identifies as a cuck, Travis takes us through how he joined the c...
2022-01-1254 minWanderlust Swingers - A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle StoriesSwinger Questions Quickie Vol 1Curious questions about Swingers? Want to know more about being a Swinger and the Swinging Lifestyle?
In today's episode we do a Swinger Question Q&A Quickie, we're calling this Volume 1 as we intend to do these at least monthly on our swinger podcast. Feel free to DM or email us a question and we will answer it for you in a future episode.
Swinger Questions
Here are the questions we answer on today's Swinger Questions Quickie Volume 1 episode.
Implied consent at Cap D'Agde and Dark Playrooms
Porn Theatres in Swingers Clubs
Condom use on...
2021-12-2946 minWanderlust Swingers - A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle StoriesSexual Fantasy & Object of DesireHave you ever shared your sexual fantasies with your partner? What if your sexual fantasy is narcissistic or you're a bit ashamed of it.
Sexual Fantasy
In this episode Cate shares a new sexual fantasy with Darrell and they talk about what makes a women feel desired, how this might impact flirting at swinging lifestyle events & why we change ourselves in sexual fantasies.
We talk through the fantasy and reveal how it makes Cate feel, we follow up with some of your responses to your own sexual fantasies an if you feel guilt. We talk t...
2021-12-2052 minWanderlust Swingers - A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle StoriesPodcast-A-Palooza Encore Swingers Event RecapCate goes Solo and talks about Podcast-A-Palooza Encore Dallas in a PCAP Recap Episode
What are the highlights and lowlights of a Swingers Event?
Firstly we start off with a cultural tid bit about prostitution in Turkey as Cate gets caught in a 24 hour layover in the Istanbul airport.
Then get ready for the highlights and lowlights of Podcast-A-Palooza Encore held in Dallas, Texas this November 2021. This was a 3 night 4 day full hotel takeover with 76 couples on site and 5 podcast hosts.
Cate shares her top highlights which include Mankini's, Shibari, Being Witty and why...
2021-12-0152 min
Wanderlust Swingers - A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle StoriesWe‘re Just Not That Into YouThere are certain things that exist in sex, sexuality and the swinging lifestyle that just don’t make me wanna go hmmmmmm….. things that are supposed to be sexy but I’m just not that into it.
Things that are supposed to be sexy but just... aren't
We bust on into some of the things in the swinging lifestyle that are supposed to be sexy, nude sushi ladies, porn in swingers clubs, food related things. We aren't yucking anyone's yum here, you do you but just remember that your turn on or 'sexy' might be someone else's turn o...
2021-10-2832 min
Wanderlust Swingers - A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle StoriesSwinging Women Have No TypeWhy is it that Swinging Women have no type? Why are women so picky when it comes to choosing partners to swing / swap with?
Swinging Women Have No Type
It is extremely hard to be the right kind of wing person for your significant other when you don’t know their TYPE. Do women actually have a type or is it really all in the personality, in today’s episode we’re going to explore if men and women have a type, what you said about your type and then share OUR types.
We share our pe...
2021-10-1350 min
Wanderlust Swingers - A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle StoriesCap D‘Agde Swingers Vacation Part 2Cap D'Agde is a nudist village in the south of France and home to some of the largest swingers vacations and swingers events in the world. Welcome to part 2 of our swingers vacation at Cap D'Agde
Cap D'Agde
Part 2 is here! If you haven't yet listened to part 1 of our Cap D'Agde experience make sure you head on over and listen.
In this next part we talk about our final few days of our swingers vacation, then we run through some more tips to surviving Cap D'Agde and finally wrap up the episode with who...
2021-09-221h 04
Wanderlust Swingers - A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle StoriesCap D‘Agde Nudist VillageCap D'Agde Nudist Village & Swinger Mecca has been an unknown destination for too long. We peel back the real Cap D'Agde in our 2 part series
Cap D'Agde
If you've ever been curious what Cap D'Agde is about or how to find likeminded swingers couples at this predominantly nudist village we're going to walk you through how.
Join us in our 2 part series talking about our recent experience at the famous Cap D'Agde takeover by SpicyMatch.com, we dig in and share our first few days on site, navigating this new adventure and set the scene fo...
2021-09-1148 minWanderlust Swingers - A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle StoriesOwning Your Big O w/ Monogamish MarriageDo you own your orgasm? Monogamish Marriage helps us dissect how to own your orgasm, close the orgasm gap and be more vocal with your sexual desires and interests.
Guest Monogamish Marriage
We're joined by Kate & Liam of the Monogamish Marriage Blog, a couple based in Toronto with a swinging lifestyle blog. They share their journey and talk candidly about the orgasm gap that exists in their lifestyle journey and why it might not be such a bad thing. Kate is officially owning her orgasm and we share her personal journey on the episode.
...
2021-08-281h 02
Wanderlust Swingers - A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle StoriesOnlyFans Purge, Alternatives to OnlyFans + Sales TipsOnlyFans announces that it's banning sexually explicit content from October 1st, 2021. We dig into what we're calling the OnlyFans purge, we give you alternatives to OnlyFans, tips on moving your fans across to your new platform and what you can do now.
OnlyFans might be removing sex workers from placing sexually explicit content on the site but there are ways we can work together and smarter before the purge officially starts.
Join us as we explore what is happening with OnlyFans, provide some insight into what we're doing and D comes along to give some...
2021-08-2239 min
Wanderlust Swingers - A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle StoriesAnaconda Swingers Club ReviewCurious what it's like in a Swingers Club? We give a full run down on our time at a Swingers Club here in Croatia called Anaconda Swingers Club,
First we hit you with a cultural tid bit on nudism in Rovinj, a few updates to our swinging lifestyle and then we get into the mix talking about this well laid out swingers club.
Anaconda Swingers Club
This swingers club operates seasonally and we attended a big takeover event at the club with more than 500 people. We run you through what the club looks...
2021-08-0345 min
Wanderlust Swingers - A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle StoriesMFM Threesome, Double Penetration and Hotwife CompersionMFM Threesome, Double Penetration and Hotwife Compersion
This episode has a little bit of everything! We catch up with our single bull for a hotwife date and double penetration is on the cards but first we talk about what compersion means to us in the hotwife lifestyle.
Compersion is supposed to be the opposite of jealousy and a feeling of joy when you see your partner happy. We talk about how there might be a slight imbalance as we're getting ready for our hotwife date.
Double Penetration
Curious how we prepare...
2021-07-231h 03Wanderlust Swingers - A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle StoriesSwingers Party in a CastleWe went to a Swingers Party inside of a Castle right here in Croatia!
In this swingers podcast episode we talk about what it's like at this type of swingers party, we run you through this 2 night event with it's ups and downs.
There were some swinger fails experienced including some language barriers and miscommunication between us and another couple. We missed an opportunity for swingers play boooo.
Cate pauses and discusses how some swingers events or clubs have a dress down requirement at a certain time and discusses how the community responded t...
2021-07-1249 min
Wanderlust Swingers - A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle StoriesThe Worst (and Best) moments of Podcast A Palooza 2021What is Podcast-A-Palooza? It's a 3 night full swinging lifestyle hotel takeover touring around various cities in the USA. We break down the top 8 WORST and BEST things about attending Podcast-A-Palooza in Miami May 2021.
Curious what went wrong and what went right? Attending and running a swinging hotel takeover event is tough work & we wanted to lift the skirt, spill the tea on what it's like at a Podcast-A-Palooza events.
Wanna join us at a Podcast-A-Palooza event? Sign up to the newsletter, new events are about to be announced https://podcast-a-palooza.com/newsletter/
Wanna h...
2021-06-2548 min
Wanderlust Swingers - A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle StoriesiCandy Parties Review and Houston Bang Bang Swingers MeetThis episode in Houston we head to an iCandy Party to review what the iCandy Parties are all about. We head to the Alien Invasion iCandy Party and talk about our own Houston meet and greet.
Our meet and greet was held at Bang Bang Social Club in Houston, with about 40 couples, Cate talks about hosting on her own with a drunken J from Average Swingers Podcast as well as a very lovely Angie.
Saturday we head over to the alien invasion at Colette Houston Swingers Club and to the decked out iCandy Parties event. C...
2021-06-1740 minWanderlust Swingers - A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle StoriesEvolution, Shame and Future Swinging Lifestyle PredictionsThe swinging lifestyle often comes with a certain amount of evolution and shame. In this episode we are joined by Average Swingers Podcast and John and Jackie Melfi of OpenLove101 and Colette Swingers Clubs.
We talk about how the swinging lifestyle has changed and adapted over the years, the differences of expectations on swingers clubs, event hosts and public facing lifestyle people. We delve into shame and what impact that has on the lifestyle overall and then we talk about future predictions for the Swinging Lifestyle.
This episode has a little bit of everything for...
2021-05-2855 min
Wanderlust Swingers - A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle StoriesVaxxed and Waxed in DallasWe are official vaxxed and waxed and ready to mingle! A swinging unicorn is on the loose in Texas and we talk about a myriad of things in today's episode
What is the difference between bisexual and pansexual, our hairdresser brings up the question and ponders if all bisexual people are indeed pansexual.
Do you ever experience a 'coming down' after you've had a sexy fantastic swinging experience? We share comments from listeners and talk about our experiences.
Finally we share details about what we've been up to around Texas over the past fe...
2021-05-1453 min
Wanderlust Swingers - A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle StoriesSwingers Selection CriteriaHow to find other swingers? Swingers Dating Sites, Selection Criteria and finding swinging play partners are some common questions asked but... how do these change based on your environment
Do you change your desires, wants and criteria when you're searching for a swinging couple on an online swingers dating site versus a club environment? What if you're just after a one night stand or perhaps looking for a more polyamorous or pants on/off friendship.
Are you pickier at a club or online? We discuss this and more during today's episode.
We would lo...
2021-04-2136 minWanderlust Swingers - A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle StoriesSwinger Questions - What do you wanna know about SwingingWhat questions do you have about Swinging? Is Swinging 'normal' for our age bracket? What about joining a session at a Swinger club?
In this episode we dig into your swinger questions and answer all our recent voicemails, emails, twitter DM's and more. Join in as we answer these swinger questions with our usual Aussie humor and a little bit of sideways stepping.
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2021-04-0750 min
Wanderlust Swingers - A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle StoriesSoft Swap Swinging LifestyleThere are many ways to approach the swinging lifestyle and one of the playstyles that some couples have is soft swap. Soft Swap Swingers are people too! In this episode we interview a fantastic couple who identify as soft swap swingers as their preferred swinging play style.
We share details about navigating the boundaries conversation, how to share your preferred swinger play style and what being a soft swap swinging couple means to them.
Featured in this episode
Mr and Mrs RedNReady - Twitter
Mentioned in this episode
Monogamish Marriage Blog "My Wife Wants a Girlfriend"
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2021-03-0247 min
Wanderlust Swingers - A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle StoriesStunt Cock MFM ThreesomeHotwife swinger lets loose in Croatia! In this episode we talk about Swinging and Hotwing in Croatia, arranging a stunt cock for an MFM threesome and more
We share some saucy details about the threesome, we talk about the wasted price on stockings, getting a hotel room, being a hotwife and taking some sexy footage of the evening
This MFM threesome was in a hotel room on a school night! That's a total hotwife move... sign me up for my hotwife podcast badge!
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2021-02-1248 min
Wanderlust Swingers - A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle StoriesThe Foursome Butt Plug ExperienceOur recent swinging foursome experience contains some new-ness for our play sessions. We share our recent foursome swinging experience which involved butt plugs!
We run through setting up the swinging date, how to transition from the loungeroom to the bedroom and how the use of VR porn could be next level swinger transitions of 2021 and beyond.
Cate also shares some audio on how future foursome sessions could be more puppy pile focused.
We would love you to consider supporting us on Patreon from only $1 a month & you’ll get access to exclusive content and liv...
2021-01-2730 min
Wanderlust Swingers - A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle StoriesCuckolding with Dr Justin LehmillerWhat is Cuckolding? What is Cuckqueening? Many people incorrectly assume that this fetish involves only humiliation.
We interview Dr Justin Lehmiller a PHD and Social Psychologist about Cuckolding and the psychology behind this fetish and desire of being cucked.
In the second half of this podcast we talk about the taboo behind using sex toys and using sex toys as a male.
Links for Dr Lehmiller
Dr. Justin Lehmiller Sex and Psychology Blog https://www.lehmiller.com/
Dr Lehmiller Twitter Account
Dr Lehmiller Instagram Account
Tell Me What You Want Book
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2021-01-1543 min
Wanderlust Swingers - A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle StoriesIntroducing Wanderlust SwingersSwinging Downunder Podcast is taking a (potentially) indefinite hiatus! We have so many changes coming for 2021 and we're excited to finally let the cat out of the bag.
Swinging Downunder Podcast is moving to Europe so we can cover more of the swinging lifestyle experience in Europe and we're announcing our new name, Wanderlust Swingers! It's finally time to hang up the Swinging Downunder bag and move on to new things.
We want to take a moment and thank all of our listeners, sponsors, supporters and friends who have supported us over the past 5 years of our podcasting journey. We're l...
2020-12-2912 min
Wanderlust Swingers - A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle StoriesShifting Swinger BoundariesHow have your swinger boundaries or swinger rules changed over the years? We delve into our changes from our 5-6 years in the swinging lifestyle and talk about how we've organically changed our swinger boundaries.
We run through some responses we received from our community on social media and share a tale or two from listeners on how their swinging boundary changes led them to exploring more about themselves and their sexuality journey.
We finish up with the 12 Days of 2020 Pandemic gave to us jingle, we hope you enjoy
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2020-12-2336 min
Wanderlust Swingers - A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle StoriesThe Game Of Lifestyle for Swinging Lifestyle FunCurious how to transition from Swinging Lifestyle dates to some sexy fun? Just want to know more about your dates or want to have some fun with your partner? We’ve been a big fan of swinging lifestyle games & on this special episode we play The Game Of Lifestyle for a bit of light-hearted fun.
You’ll learn a thing or two about how we like to engage in the swinging lifestyle, what turns us on or off & what role play we’ve done (or not)
A big thank you to our Patrons for joining us liv...
2020-10-0654 min
Wanderlust Swingers - A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle StoriesSwinger Transitions, Full Swap and MFM DatesHave you ever wondered how swinging couples transition from a swingers date to sexy fun in the bedroom? What about when the full swap is exactly how you hoped it will turn out?
In today's episode we're sharing some of our recent experience with a slightly awkward transition we had on a swingers date.
We will also dig in to some recent sexy full swap with another couple, an MFM threesome date that didn't quite go to plan and finally Cate gets personal with something she's nervous to share!
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2020-09-0159 min
Wanderlust Swingers - A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle StoriesEP102 - Gay Men & NonMonogamyHey friends,
We talk with Cate's oldest school friend Nate about being a Gay Best Friend (GBF), coming out stories of non-monogamy and sexual desires + is there a stigma of gay relationships and monogamy?
We swap some banter about our history, we bask in the awesomeness that is Nate and J marriage to each other & talk about our recent trip to Thailand. We finish off the episode with a story about Nate's recent trip to the Gold Coast strip clubs. All a bit of lighthearted fun and a look into long term friendships and coming...
2020-03-231h 05
Wanderlust Swingers - A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle StoriesEP100 - Secrets Hideaway Resort, Swingers Resort OrlandoHey friends,
Thanks for joining us for another Swinger Podcast episode by Swinging Downunder. Have you ever wondered what it's like to visit a Swingers Resort? Curious what happens at a clothing optional adults playground?
In this episode Cate interviews Aerin from Secrets Resort in Orlando, Florida and we talk all about the resort, what to expect, how much it costs and why it's a great opportunity to visit a Swingers Resort without breaking the bank.
Every wondered what it’s like to be a non-monogamous couple? Looking for more information about how to...
2020-02-2056 min