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Birds and Bees Don't FckSex(y) Therapy (w/ Ify Nwadiwe)Ify Nwadiwe is a Comedian, Actor, Writer and Thot Dad originally from Los Angeles, CA where his Catholic School taught him religion instead of health and his public School made him sign up for sex ed as an elective as if learning about your body was the same thing as learning photography or Roman history. In this episode we talk about: 04:31 LA vs. New York 14:42 Sex Education in School 18:05 ADHD and Mental Health 21:38 Therapy and Sexuality 28:54 Successful Non-Monogamy 45:13 Trampling Over Boundaries 47:06 Problematic Relationship Coaches 50:22 Co-Creation and Personal Boundaries in relationships 51:48 Understanding Kitchen Table Polyamory 56:38 Monogamous Reactions...2023-12-201h 01Birds and Bees Don't FckSex Witches (w/ Joy Wolfe)Joy Wolfe is a Writer, Director and Spiritual Comedian originally from Hollywood, CA and Albuquerque, New Mexico where they had a rotating door of teachers for the kids to torture with bad jokes instead of learning every week. In this episode we talk about: 01:42 Journey with Sex and Astrology 03:08 The Importance of Boundaries in Sex 06:16 Misconceptions about BDSM 07:01 The Influence of Religion on Sexuality 08:23 The Power of Words and Spells 16:16 The Myth of Virginity and Hymens 25:38 The Connection Between Witchcraft and Sexuality 34:14 Meeting Each Other and the Connection 43:20 Jocelyn Elders and Progress in Sex Education 44:33 Repression...2023-12-131h 07Birds and Bees Don't FckCervical Orgasms Are A Thing (w/ Wendy Perkins)Wendy Perkins is an Orgasm and Neuro Pleasure Coach originally from North Hollywood, CA where she was simply told not to have sex because you will get a disease and die… yikes! In this episode we talk about: 01:11 Becoming an Orgasm and Neuro Pleasure Coach 03:06 The Role of the Nervous System in Sexual Experiences 13:20 The Need for Self-Regulation Skills 14:45 The Impact of Shame and Guilt on sex and pleasure 26:00 Navigating Boundaries in Coaching and Therapy 35:16 Balancing Stress and Pleasure in Life 38:02 The Importance of Sensory Activation and Pleasure Practices 41:11 The Flawed Approach to Sex Education 46:16 Exploring Pe...2023-12-0658 minBirds and Bees Don't FckSex Is Messy (w/ Michele Farmery)Michele is the CEO and Co-Founder Squirtopia, originally from San Diego, CA where going Catholic School meant that Jesus was her homie who she didn’t want to disappoint. In this episode we talk about: A warning, we are two excited Leos. This conversation is passionate! How she and her co-founder / husband wound up living in Amsterdam An orgasm and a business idea…. Witches & Sex magic! Dismantling beliefs about ourselves and our partners How women and people with vulvas explore when we’re young The power of being honest with your kids about sex and drugs The ca...2023-11-2955 minBirds and Bees Don't FckThe Slipperier, The Better (w/ Rena Martine)Rena Martine is a Women’s Intimacy Coach, Speaker and Author originally from LA where she learned more about sex from breaking into her dad’s secret cabinet then she ever did in a classroom. In this episode we talk about: The adventure that exists within a container of boundaries vs. the overwhelm that exists with no boundaries The power of planning for sex Arousal for people with vulvas Learning about sex through her dad’s porn collection What your preferred porn says about you Her transition from Sex Crimes DA to Intimacy Coach Working through sexual...2023-11-1554 minBirds and Bees Don't FckC*m To Clear Your Head (w/ Braxton Holme)Braxton Holme is an adult film Production Designer originally from Grand Rapids, Michigan where he had nothing more than flower babies in Home Ec class to teach them about sex. In this episode we talk about: The cowboy fever dream pool party where we met How he got into the art of clothing naked people (aka costuming for porn) How working with adult performers changed his view of the profession The differences, and similarities, in filming scenes with actual sex vs. simulated sex What age appropriate sex education *really* looks like What actually goes into styling...2023-11-0852 minBirds and Bees Don't FckDestigmatizing Sex Through Comedy (w/ Subhah Agarwal)Subhah is a Comedian, Actor and Writer originally from the suburbs of Chicagos where everything was innuendo and the high school was split like a prison gang. In this episode we talk about: Sex workers vs. comedians, who has it better? Germany’s sex work stipend! 80s innuendo, the pinnacle of public school sex ed Teachers who clearly don’t fuck teaching kids about sex... and what their perspective might have been The exploding tampon! They used saline instead of blood to determine tampon capacity?! Her journey from Indian comedy to comedy that destigmatized sex Our colle...2023-11-0150 minBirds and Bees Don't FckCreating Space (w/ Bet Heykoop)Bet Heykoop is a Stunt Driver originally from Whittier, CA where the girls are prettier is literally on t-shirts and also she was home schooled so sex ed was up to dear ole mom and dad. In this episode we talk about: Arielle falling in love with an MGB in Bet’s hometown How two babes in classics me (thanks @cncpics and The Motoring Club!) How she dreamt up her show, Hot Shift Creating space for women and people who look like her where they otherwise feel like they don’t belong First rule of driving clas...2023-10-251h 00Birds and Bees Don't FckIt's Not Like A Penis (w/ Dr. Dee Hartmann)Dr. Dee Hartmann is a Women’s Health Physical Therapist, Educator and Author originally from South Central Illinois where questions simply weren’t asked. In this episode we talk about: The importance of exploring your own body to discover how your pleasure works Pelvic floor isn’t just about getting rid of pain, it’s about experiencing pleasure too The penetration problem in women’s health The clit may get erect, but it’s not like a penis! Finding pleasure in the every day Foreplay is forever How her family’s approach to love differed from h...2023-10-1855 minBirds and Bees Don't FckSex, Astrology and fcking Chad (w/ Nadège)Nadège is a Sex Scholar, Astrologist, Author and Coach originally from Los Angeles, CA where nuns taught sex ed and brought in the actress who held up an STI sign in a Good Charlotte video as a guest speaker. In this episode we talk about: How Nadège became a Sex Scholar Growing up as a curious, extroverted child who knew they wanted to be on birth control… just in case Being sexy meant being loved (not true) Chad. So much talk about Chad. All the Chads. Mixed messaging about sex and worth Eroti...2023-10-1155 min