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Unlearning Patterns PodcastEP 45: A Conversation with the Hmong Women PodcastEpisode 45 is a collaboration with Ariel, Douchi and Emily - the hosts of The Hmong Women Podcast. We invited them to join us in a conversation about the roles we play in our families and the patterns that they are unlearning.If you aren’t already following the Hmong Women Podcast, make sure you visit our show notes for their links! You don’t want to miss out on the insightful conversations that they are creating, especially within the Hmong community. We also recorded an episode on their podcast where we talked about anger and emotional regulation, go c...2024-08-051h 20Unlearning Patterns PodcastEP 44: Healing Through Music with Pagnia XiongToday's episode features Pagnia Xiong, a Hmong-American music artist. Tune in to hear Pagnia share her personal journey with music and how music can be used for self-expression and healing.
We can all probably recall a few songs that remind us of a challenging or meaningful time. A song that helped us feel deeper or gave us the message we needed. We hope this conversation inspires you to reflect on your journey and the music that carried you through.
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https://www...2024-07-221h 38Unlearning Patterns PodcastEP 43: A Conversation about Sexual Assault with BelindaTRIGGER WARNING - This episode contains discussions of sexual assault. Listeners discretion is advised.
In this episode, Belinda joined us in a conversation about sexual assault. Part of this podcast's mission is to create open and honest conversations in hopes that it'll make someone feel less alone on their journey. Belinda's story is just that. She graciously shared the challenges that came from her assault and the resilience she's gained as she started her healing journey.
We hope you will tune in with an open mind and heart. Please be kind and take care of yourself.
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The Hmong Women PodcastAnger and Emotional Regulation With Unlearning Patterns!When we think about our emotional headquarters - what emotion do we typically lead with? How does our response to what's happening around us shape the relationships that we form? And how does this affect our personal growth? Emotional Regulation is a skill that everyone should have and learn from a young age. In this episode, we invite specials guests from Unlearning Patterns, Charlotte and Thony, to join us in this conversation. They give us their amazing insights and steps on moving forward. You can find Unlearning Patterns' podcast on all podcast platforms and on Facebook, Instagram, and Tiktok.
...2024-07-011h 50Unlearning Patterns PodcastEP 42: A Conversation with Koua YangToday's episode features a very influential person in Thony's life. His teacher, coach, mentor, friend and like an older brother, Koua Yang. Koua shared his story of becoming an educator and the different barriers he broke out of. You'll hear his passion for
working with students and how he cultivates different networks and circles to support his evolving self.2024-06-171h 23Unlearning Patterns PodcastEP 41: Workshop ReflectionsBack in March and April, we spoke with the students at UW-EC and University of St. Thomas about vulnerability; how you can use it as a tool to connect and lead. We reflected on the lessons we learn while creating the workshop and how our presentation went. It was an unforgettable experience!
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Jouapag helped us understand generational and historical trauma and how it can be passed on. We also talked how you can break the cycle for generations to come.
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Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/unlearningpatternspodcast2024-05-281h 05Unlearning Patterns PodcastEP 39: We're engaged!Hi Pattern Breakers! Today we are sharing our proposal story and we answered a few questions received from our listeners. We’re excited for this new journey and are looking forward to sharing the lessons and patterns we learn and unlearn through it all. Thank you for all the love and support, we truly appreciate it!
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Thank you again to Pa Chee for sharing her knowledge with us and our listeners! Stay tuned for a future episode with Pa Chee where she will be helping us understand depression.
If you reside in Wisconsin...2024-05-0759 minUnlearning Patterns PodcastEP 37: Therapy 101 with Pam Yang, LMFTA few months back, we asked you to submit any questions you may have about therapy. Today we are giving you those answers!
Pam Yang is a Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist, and she sat down with us to give you the basics of therapy. We touched on insurance, the intake process, receiving a diagnosis, what to look for in a therapist, when to go to therapy, and more!! This is only episode one of a three-part series. Stay tuned! 🤭
If you have a question you’d like us to ask Pam in our next episodes, feel free to send it to...2024-04-021h 06Unlearning Patterns PodcastEP 36: Nurturing the Eldest Daughter Within & Hmong Womxn Thriving with ArielThis episode is for all the eldest daughters!! We see you and we thank you for your service 🫡
Today’s conversation is with Ariel Her, who is also the host is the amazing new podcast, Hmong Womxn Thriving 💖 Go follow her podcast now! She’s a big sis and if you follow Ariel online, you know she’s been intentional about her self-love journey.
In this episode, Ariel shared stories of nurturing the eldest daughter within in and healing her inner child. There are so many nuances when it comes to the healing journey and we appreciated the vulnerability Ariel brough...2024-03-251h 19Unlearning Patterns PodcastEP 35: Attachment StylesLearning about our attachment styles has been a helpful tool to have in our relationship. We've been able to understand each other on a deeper level by having open and vulnerable conversations about how our attachment styles are affecting us during conflict or even day to day interactions. If you consider looking into your attachment style, we hope it helps you understand yourself or your loved ones also!
As always, thank you to Guerrilla Pastures for sponsoring our podcast. Don't forget to use code "UPP10" for 10% off your order. See their links below!
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1...2024-03-1849 minUnlearning Patterns PodcastEP 34: Sobriety & Self-healing with TiaIn this episode, we had a conversation with Tia about her journey with sobriety and self-healing. We wanted to highlight Tia’s story because sobriety is an uncommon lifestyle and self-healing is not an easy task. But you don’t have to do it alone!
We hope this episode gives you more insight into sobriety and can help you support and navigate interactions with those who are on their sobriety journey.
We are also on our own sobriety journey and have hit one year recently! If you have any questions you’d like us to answer in a future episode about...2024-03-121h 11Unlearning Patterns PodcastEP 33: Acting, Modern Shaman & Self-Care with Gregory YangTune in to hear Gregory share his journey of becoming an actor, creating modern shaman, and the importance of self-care. We hope this episode will leave you feeling inspired to chase after your dreams and to reframe self-care to work FOR you rather than against you. Big thanks for Greg for being on this podcast, we are looking forward to seeing you in Hells Canyon and all the amazing things you'll do after.
Gregory is in the world premiere of Hells Canyon which kicked off on February 24 and will be shown through March 7 at Jungle Theater in Uptown, Minneapolis...2024-02-261h 05Unlearning Patterns PodcastEP 32: Processing GriefTune in to hear Thony share his journey with grief after one year of his dad’s passing. He touches on how his perception of grief has evolved, how grief impacted his life/relationships, his coping mechanisms, and his advice for those who are experiencing loss.
Grief can be a hard topic to talk about, but we hope this episode shines a light on the importance of grief and seeking for what you need. Whether that’s professional help or leaning on your community. You are not alone.
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Hmong Womxn ThrivingEpisode 3: Thriving Through Unlearning - Navigating Therapy and Growth with Charlotte from 'Unlearning Patterns🎙️ Get ready for an inspiring rendezvous in Episode 3 of "Hmong Womxn Thriving" as we welcome a special guest, Charlotte from the Unlearning Patterns Podcast! 🌟 Join us in a heartfelt conversation where we delve into the motivations behind starting her podcast alongside her partner, Thony.
🤩 Charlotte opens up about the profound inspiration that led to the creation of Unlearning Patterns. Discover how this dynamic duo uses their platform to navigate life's twists and turns, finding strength and wisdom in shared experiences.
💖 Unpack the transformative power of podcasting as a tool for self-discovery and personal growth. Charlotte shares her jou...2024-02-1548 minUnlearning Patterns PodcastEP 31: Reflecting on Four Years**TRIGGER WARNING: conversations about suicidal thoughts**
Tune in to hear us reflect on our four years of dating! In this episode, we share the joy, challenges and cringy moments that has brought us to our fourth year. We also touch on the topic of marriage and how we’re navigating between two different perspectives. We hope you enjoy this episode!
As we continue sharing details of our private life, we truly appreciate the respect and grace you’ve given us. We never think the way we navigate our relationship is the only way. We simply want to share in hopes that...2024-02-0559 minUnlearning Patterns PodcastEP 30: Intentions for 2024Happy New Year! Tune in to hear us chat about resolutions vs intentions, our values for 2024, and what experiences we hope to have. We are feeling hopeful in this new year! Wishing you all a year of joy, health & abundance!
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Do you have a question for Thony or the Unlearning Patterns couple? Feel free to send them to us, we’d love to hear from you!
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Instagram:h...2024-01-2229 minUnlearning Patterns PodcastEP 28: Get to know CharlotteIn this episode, Thony interviews Charlotte to help you get to know her more. Thony asks Charlotte to reflect on her childhood dream, a significant personal experience, music that resonates with her, and what does this podcast mean to her?
We hope this episode gave you more insight to who Charlotte is. Stay tuned for Charlotte’s interview with Thony next week!
Do you have a question for Charlotte or the Unlearning Patterns couple? Feel free to send them to us, we’d love to hear from you!
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Unlearning Patterns PodcastTherapy Reflections: leaning into vulnerability, asking for help & taking care of ourselvesThis episode was recorded back in July 2023. This will be the last “outdated” episode we share. Tune in to hear us reflect on; Thony’s journey of grief, mental health, vulnerability and Charlotte’s journey of ending therapy/life coaching, and being honest about her struggles.
After listening to this episode, it’s so clear how important asking for help and leaning on our community is. Healing on our own is needed but healing in community with others is so powerful. We are so grateful for everyone who has supported us in this last year.
If you enjoyed this episode, please sha...2024-01-0835 minUnlearning Patterns PodcastEP 27: What are we leaving in 2023?In this episode, we reflect on what we're leaving behind in 2023. A few themes we touched on were limiting beliefs, grief, being away from family, and our overall growth. We also pulled a few cards to answer from the We're Not Really Strangers: self-reflection edition pack.
This year has not been easy but it pushed us to question how true our self-talk has been. The journey is not linear but it always makes sense in the end. Cheers to surviving another year - now let's prepare to thrive, see you in 2024! Happy New Year!
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Unlearning Patterns PodcastTherapy Reflections: grief, people pleasing & learning how to forgive our past selvesSURPRISE! We are back with new episodes :)
This episode was recorded from April 2023. Although it’s pretty dated, we felt it was important to share as it shows our journey with therapy during a mentally challenging time. Listening to this episode gives us so much gratitude for all the past versions of us that got us to where we are today. And thank you to those who held us up when the days felt extra hard. You know who you are ❤️
Join us as we try to destigmatize conversations about mental health and normalize therapy.
Disclaimer: This new series is not in...2023-12-2238 min
Modern MinoritiesMita Mallick’s (Re)imagining Inclusion (RE-AIR)“Inclusion starts at our kitchen tables. If you aren't building cross-cultural relationships - actively learning about a lived experience that is not your own - how do you expect to show up at work differently as an inclusive leader?”Mita Mallick is a returning FrieMMd of the pod, who came back to talk about her upcoming book — Reimagine Inclusion: Debunking 13 Myths To Transform Your Workplace (Pre-order now =). This is a re-airring of a past episode to support our pal Mita’s new book.Mita’s a corporate change-maker with a track record of transfo...2023-09-2553 min
Modern MinoritiesMita Mallick’s (Re)imagining Inclusion“Inclusion starts at our kitchen tables. If you aren't building cross-cultural relationships - actively learning about a lived experience that is not your own - how do you expect to show up at work differently as an inclusive leader?”Mita Mallick is a returning FrieMMd of the pod, who came back to talk about her upcoming book — Reimagine Inclusion: Debunking 13 Myths To Transform Your Workplace (Pre-order now =)Mita’s a corporate change-maker with a track record of transforming businesses. She’s an outspoken sharer of innovative - and thought provoking ideas in the area of inclusion...2023-06-0553 min
Unlearning Patterns PodcastTherapy Reflections: intro to therapy, pros & cons, comfortability with cryingHello friends! We are starting a new series on our podcast called “Therapy Reflections” and this is the first of many episodes. Our biggest goal is to destigmatize conversations about mental health and that starts with us! Aside from our mental health check-ins on our regular episodes, we'd like to give our listeners an inside scoop of what happens in our therapy sessions. We'll share our learnings and answer any of your questions along the way.
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Unlearning Patterns PodcastEP 26: Let's Chat!In this episode, we reflected on 2022, our goals for 2023, and shared some life updates. We also answered a question we received from a listener. We're excited to be back and we hope you enjoyed this episode.
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Unlearning Patterns PodcastEP 25: Making Space for Ourselves as We Evolve with Pheng & BarbaraWe are excited to welcome back our first returning guests on the podcast, Pheng and Barbara, from Guerrilla Pastures! In this episode, we had a conversation with Pheng and Barbara about what they’ve struggled with in their 20s, intentions for their 30s, making time for the different identities they hold, and areas of their lives that they want to focus on more. We also shared an amazing opportunity with Guerilla Pastures at the end of the episode! Head over to this episode to hear more about their passions and how you support their growing business.
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Unlearning Patterns PodcastEP 24: Motherhood & Postpartum Depression with StephanieIn episode 24, Stephanie shared her stories about becoming a mom, postpartum depression, how she is seeking help, her identity outside of being a mom, the advice she has for parents and those who are part of their village. We hope this episode will help spark new conversations for you and your community. Don't be afraid to talk about mental health and the challenges of parenthood, ask for help, offer a helping hand when you have capacity, and check in with your loved ones. We should never have to go through life alone.
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Unlearning Patterns PodcastEP 23: Getaway with UsBack in June, we stayed at a Getaway location in MN. It was a much needed break from our routines. As we sat by the campfire, we decided to record a quick episode with a couple questions that Charlotte has been wanting to ask Thony. We hope you enjoyed the sounds of nature in this episode! It's short & sweet.
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Music Production: LAZYASSKID2022-10-0311 min
Unlearning Patterns PodcastEP 22: Showing up Authentically with SandyIn this episode, we spoke with Sandy who is a beauty, fashion and lifestyle content creator. Sandy gave us the full scoop on what her journey has been like with content creating, how it impacts her mental health and her tips on how to start on social media. Sandy recently decided to not pursue medical school and shared how she came to that decision. We were inspired with Sandy's vulnerability and how she shows up authentically as herself. You'll hear about all of the amazing things she does aside from content creating. Be sure you follow Sandy on instagram...2022-09-191h 03
Unlearning Patterns PodcastEP 21: A Bittersweet GoodbyeWe’re saying hello as we say goodbye to our first apartment together. This change has been so bittersweet. You may have been here when we started living together (episode 9) and heard how challenging it was to adjust, we didn’t think we’d become so attached to it. As we laid on the floor of our apartment after hours of deep cleaning, we started reflecting on the last year here and decided to press record for memories. We’ve experienced many growing pains here and we’re so grateful to have a space of comfort. Change takes time. Allow your...2022-09-0612 min
Unlearning Patterns PodcastEP 20: Father’s DayIn this episode, we reflected on our relationship with our fathers. Thony shared his understandings of his father and the similarities his parents share. Charlotte shared her amending relationship with her biological father and her realizations with her father who stepped in when she was only four years old. We reflected on our relationship as a child and how it changed as we became adults. We also shared what we would like to tell our fathers one day. There’s still so much we don’t know about our parents but we hope we can start creating moments of curi...2022-06-2739 min
Unlearning Patterns PodcastEP 19: Confessions of a Serial Dater - Ila MouaIn this episode, Ila Moua joins us in a conversation about serial dating, dating patterns, learning how to give and accept healthy love, how family impacts our identities, and living a shame free life. We also talked about Love is Blind and who we relate with the most. Reflecting on our past and creating awareness is such a powerful tool to have on our journey. When we know better, we do better! Please be sure to follow Ila’s links listed below!
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Unlearning Patterns PodcastEP 18: Setting BoundariesIn this episode, we explore boundaries and how we’re learning to set them. Boundaries are a big part of creating a healthy relationship. We were taught that boundaries are not for your loved ones, which isn’t true! It’s actually a great way to build a strong foundation of a relationship. Boundaries help us love each other the way we need. It creates connections and understanding of one another. We’re unlearning and relearning how to set boundaries in our every day lives; at work, with our families/friends, with each other, and ourselves! The goal isn’t to get i...2022-05-3150 min
Unlearning Patterns PodcastEP 17: Mother's DayIn this episode, we reflected on our relationship with our moms. Charlotte's mom had her young and was a single mother for a period of time. Thony's mom raised him in a traditional household. As we got older, our relationship naturally evolved. We've learned to humanize our moms by listening to their stories and seeing the many roles they play. We are grateful for the sacrifices they've made and for the life they have given us. The relationships we have with our moms aren't perfect but we wouldn't want to go through this process of unlearning without them. Our...2022-05-1638 min
Unlearning Patterns PodcastEP 16: The Point of Awareness w/ Gloria ChavvezOn this episode, Gloria Chavvez joins us to chat about all things healing, codependency, and being an introvert. Gloria is a mental health advocate and a Latinx creative that enjoys sharing perspectives that inspire and help others on their healing journey. We appreciate the time, stories, wisdom, and advice Gloria shared with us. This episode is just a glimpse of the amazing content Gloria makes on TikTok for her 39.7K followers. Please be sure to follow Gloria on the links listed below and support her merch!
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Unlearning Patterns PodcastEP 15: HealingIn this episode, we shared what we’re trying to heal from and how it looks like for us. As a couple who are own their separate healing journey, we are still figuring out how we can support one another. One thing we’ve learned is to just meet each other where we are and respecting the differences we have when it comes to healing. Whether it’s giving each other the space to practice our self-care or creating time/capacity to listen and validate. We hope this episode makes you feel less alone as you’re processing your healing...2022-04-1133 min
Unlearning Patterns PodcastEP 14: Get Ugly with MaileeOn this episode, Mailee interviews us…. but no really, how did she turn the tables on us? Mailee is many things but what we love most about her is that she is unapologetically herself. Her raw honesty of the “ugly” sides of healing was a reminder to us that we never have it all figured out but it doesn’t mean we aren’t healing. Creating the awareness of the “ugly” is what helps us bloom. She made us dig deeper, laugh and learn more about each other. This episode is a perfect example of what a conversation with Mailee is like. Don’t...2022-03-291h 08
Met het Mes aan TafelCharlotte Molenaar over hemorrhoiden en ondernemenMet het Mes aan Tafel is terug voor seizoen 3! De komende maanden zullen onder andere endovasculaire chirurgie, geriatrische heuppaden, leiderschap, het MMT en longchirurgie de revue passeren. En last but not least .. “gestopt en nu?!”Maar eerst vandaag chirurg Charlotte Molenaar met praktische tips over aambeien en het opzetten van een onderneming. Charlotte zette namelijk de proctoskliniek op, een succesvolle kliniek die inmiddels bekend is in heel Nederland. We horen waar je aan moet denken, de prille start en hoe onderhandelingen met een zorgverzekeraar verlopen. Zaken waar we in het ziekenhuis weinig mee te maken krijgen!2022-03-1557 min
Unlearning Patterns PodcastEP 13: the time we almost broke upIn this episode we reflected on the time we almost broke up. Sometimes the best way to heal a relationship is by taking the focus off the relationship and to start looking within ourselves. We spent a lot of time reflecting on how we contributed to the challenges and the work we need to do to heal our past in order to move forward. One thing we’ve learned is there’s not a wrong choice when it comes breaking up or staying together. We all have different capacities when it comes to the things we can tolerate and grow from...2022-03-1438 min
Unlearning Patterns PodcastEP 12: Embrace, Expand & Explore w/ Nakita VangOur first guest of 2022 is the one and only, Nakita Vang! We think you’ll immediately feel the warmth and honesty that she embodies. Nakita shared her experiences and reflections about relationships, self-love, single-hood, how we show up and much more. She also helped us understand each other more, something we didn’t expect but it just goes to show how amazing Nakita is. We hope you enjoy all the gems and laughs we shared with Nakita.
**We apologize for the echos. You also may want to turn the volume down for this episode, we got a little loud...2022-02-281h 16
Unlearning Patterns PodcastEP 11: FriendshipNo more seasons, just new episodes every other Monday! In today’s episode, we discussed friendship. What kind of friend were we, did we consider ourselves a good friend, how are we redefining friendship, and what kind of friend do we hope to become? We hope you’ll give us grace as we’re still learning and unlearning what it takes to be a good friend to ourselves and others.
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Music Production: LAZYASSKID2022-02-1433 min
Unlearning Patterns PodcastEP 10: Relationship, Podcast, & Self-ReflectionsIn honor of our two year anniversary and season finale, we chose to answer some questions from our listeners! We hope you enjoyed this last episode of the season. Make sure you subscribe/follow so you’ll be updated when we come back for season two. Happy Holidays and Happy New Year from us!
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1:00 - what advice would we give to our past selves?
13:08 - what have we learned about ourselves?
17:50 - what have we taught each other?
21:30 - wh...2021-12-2029 min
Unlearning Patterns PodcastEP 9: Life UpdateAfter a long break, we are back with a life update! There has been a few changes and we wanted to share how we've been processing them. Please remember that rest is not earned but something we simply deserve. Take time to rest and find gratitude for yourself. We're all trying our best and that's enough!
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1:07 - the move in process and grieving period
10:02 - how did we adjust to each other’s habits?
14:45 - Thony’s journey to his new...2021-12-0647 min
Unlearning Patterns PodcastEP 8: Mental HealthThis episode is your mental health check-in point! May is Mental Health Awareness Month and we hope you're doing well. We are discussing our opinions about Mental Health and sharing our personal experiences with anxiety and depression. Mental Health looks different for everyone and it's so important to respect other's needs and boundaries around it. Please continue to educate yourself on Mental Health, check in with your loved ones, and be kind to yourself.
Thank you for over 700 downloads! We loving hearing the conversations you're having with loved ones after listening to our episodes. We appreciate your...2021-05-2444 min
Unlearning Patterns PodcastEP 7: Pheng and BarbaraIn this episode, we have on our first couple! Pheng and Barbara have been together for 14 years and have a daughter together. We are so honored that they allowed us to share their story with our listeners. Pheng also shared a passion and business he has started called Guerrilla Pastures. Don’t miss out on getting to know these two! Thanks again to Pheng and Barbara for being on our podcast. We admire you both and can’t wait to see where your adventures takes your family!
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Unlearning Patterns PodcastEP 6: Pressures of AdulthoodWe are back from our short break! In this episode, we are chatting about Adulthood. We have entered our “late 20s” and wanted to reflect on the pressures of marriage, kids, personal growth, the Hmong culture and more. As always, these are our own personal experiences and expectations. We respect that our listeners may not agree or understand. We just hope that by listening to our conversations, you may learn something helpful. Remember that your journey is unique to you and that we’re all on different timelines. How beautiful is it that although our journeys are different, they still...2021-04-2045 min
Unlearning Patterns PodcastEP 5: The Enneagram Part TwoWelcome back! In Part Two of The Enneagram, we reflected on our partner's enneagram type. We also had conversations about what it's been like to work with Lynda and using the enneagram as a tool in our relationship. See below for links on how to follow/contact Lynda and for free enneagram tests if you want to learn what your enneagram type is.
Episode Timestamps:
1:28 - what Lynda’s reflection of a type four
9:26 - Thony and Charlotte’s reflection of Lynda
13:03 - Thony’s reflection of Charlotte as a type four
18:21 - Charlo...2021-03-2636 min
Unlearning Patterns PodcastEP 4: The Enneagram Part OneIn part 1 of the Enneagram, you will be hearing from our first guest! Her name is Lynda YG and she is an enneagram coach. Lynda has helped guide us through our enneagram types and shown us how we can use it to better understand ourselves and our relationship. See below for links on how to follow/contact Lynda and for free enneagram tests if you want to learn what your enneagram type is.
1:14 - Who is Lynda
2:29 - What is the Enneagram?
3:52 - How did we learn about the Enneagram?
5:33 - What is the...2021-03-2333 min
Unlearning Patterns PodcastEP 3: How The Pandemic Affected UsIn this episode, we wanted to take this opportunity to be vulnerable and reflect on how the pandemic affected us. Thony shared how he lost a sense of self when he was unemployed. And Charlotte shared how she reached what felt like her rock bottom.
This pandemic has taught us how to be more empathetic and open minded while everyone is processing all the loss and the unpredictable future. As always, we hope by listening, you start to reflect on your journey. Remember to give yourself grace and also celebrate how far you've gotten during this tough time.
Y...2021-03-0847 min
Unlearning Patterns PodcastEP 2: The Start of Something NewGrab your cup because we are spilling the tea! In episode 2, we’re inviting you all to take a trip down memory lane with us.
We shared our initial attraction, platonic friendship, why it took so long for us to date, and some conflicts we experienced as a new couple.
You can find us on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/unlearningpatternspodcast
Also on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/unlearningpatternspodcast
Music Production: LAZYASSKID2021-02-2651 min
Unlearning Patterns PodcastEP 1: Get to know usWelcome to our very first episode! Get to know who we are as individuals and a couple. You'll quickly learn that we have two very different stories, but it's really what has balanced our connection. We also shared our intentions with this podcast, which ultimately is creating a space for all of us to feel supported on this journey of unlearning patterns.
You can find us on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/unlearningpatternspodcast
Also on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/unlearningpatternspodcast
Music: Prod. LAZYASSKID
2021-02-2218 minUnlearning Patterns PodcastUnlearning Patterns TrailerWe are so excited to start this podcast journey. You can expect to hear open conversations between us. We are here to be vulnerable and share our experiences that pushed us to unlearning patterns that were not helpful. Also the steps it took for us to star our growth and the growing pains as individuals and a couple. We hope by listening, you feel that you've gained validation and support on your journey of unlearning patterns.
You can find us on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/unlearningpatternspodcast
Also on Instagram: https://www.instagram...2021-02-2100 min
Main Street Actu - Podcast DisneyEpisode 18 : Attention au verglas! (News et review de la Reine des Neiges 2!)Dans ce dix-huitième épisode, on parle d'actu (comme environ un épisode sur deux :P) et surtout de celle qui a fait fondre nos cœurs en 2013 (oui déjà, on a vérifié :D), Elsa aka la Reine des Neiges!
Est-ce que ce nouvel opus quelle nous délivre (et oui, je vous remet un poil la chanson en tête, libérée... délivrée... tout ça tout ça...) est meilleur que le premier, aussi bon ou moins bien? On vous donne notre avis (et vous nous donnez le vôtre grâce à la magie...2019-12-181h 19
Main Street ActuEpisode 18 : Attention au verglas! (News et review de la Reine des Neiges 2!)Dans ce dix-huitième épisode, on parle d'actu (comme environ un épisode sur deux :P) et surtout de celle qui a fait fondre nos cœurs en 2013 (oui déjà, on a vérifié :D), Elsa aka la Reine des Neiges!Est-ce que ce nouvel opus quelle nous délivre (et oui, je vous remet un poil la chanson en tête, libérée... délivrée... tout ça tout ça...) est meilleur que le premier, aussi bon ou moins bien? On vous donne notre avis (et vous nous donnez le vôtre grâce à la...2019-12-181h 19