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Liberator124. How Betrayal Affects the Body with L&CChelsea and Layton delve into the profound effects of betrayal on the brain and body. They explore the symptoms of betrayal trauma, the importance of understanding these responses, and the journey towards healing. The conversation emphasizes the need for compassion, support, and effective strategies for recovery, highlighting the role of counseling and the brain's capacity for healing.
2026-02-1224 minLiberator122. Lot's Wife with L&CChelsea and Layton explore the biblical story of Lot's wife from Genesis 19, discussing themes of nostalgia, longing for the past, and the challenges of moving forward after experiencing betrayal and addiction. They reflect on personal experiences and the importance of understanding God's heart in the midst of struggles, emphasizing the need for gratitude and mindfulness as one navigates the wilderness of life.
2026-01-2924 minLiberator121. Sexual Illiteracy with L&CChelsea and Layton examine the link between pornography and sexual illiteracy. They explore how adolescents absorb sexual scripts from pornographic content, leading to misconceptions about real-life sexual experiences. The conversation emphasizes the importance of reclaiming sexuality within the church and equipping parents to have open, honest discussions with their children about sex. Birds-Bees.com SexEdReclaimed.com Awkward by Bonnie Pue Good Pictures Bad Pictures by Kristen A. Jenson Study on Sexual Illiteracy in Adolescents Study on Where Adolescents Look for Sexual Information
2026-01-2220 minLiberator120. Relapse with L&CChelsea and Layton share how relapse affected their individual healing and the path of their relationship. They unpack both of their perspectives from the event as well as the challenges that resulted. The episode includes advice and messages of hope.
2026-01-1522 minLiberator118. Get Moving with L&CIn this episode, Chelsea and Layton discuss the critical role of exercise in recovery and healing, emphasizing the importance of movement for both physical and mental health. They explore the science behind how exercise boosts brain resilience, enhances mood, and helps break cycles of temptation. The conversation also touches on the significance of setting goals, being mindful in recovery, and the necessity of doing hard things to foster growth and discipline.
2026-01-0126 minLiberator117. Liberator Christmas 2025 with L&CIn this Christmas episode of Liberator, hosts Chelsea and Layton discuss the complexities of the holiday season - including the struggles of isolation and the high consumption of pornography during this time. They emphasize the meaning of Christmas as a time for belonging with God, and Jesus' pursuit of us despite our failings.
2025-12-2514 minLiberator116. King David with L&CChelsea and Layton explore the legacy of King David, delving into themes of brokenness, redemption, and the importance of a contrite heart. They discuss David's complex life, his mistakes, and how his relationship with God exemplifies true surrender and humility.
2025-12-1826 minLiberator115. Bonnie PueChelsea and Layton welcome Bonnie Pue back to the show to discuss her new book! 'Awkward' aims to equip parents to have the difficult conversations with their children around sexuality and culture. Bonnie shares her journey of writing the book, the importance of gospel-centered discussions, and the need for parents to engage in these conversations despite their fears. The conversation covers various topics, including the foundations of sexuality, the role of fathers, and the significance of community support in parenting. Awkward by Bonnie Pue The Union Movement website
2025-12-1146 minLiberator114. Red Lines with L&CChelsea and Layton discuss the concept of "red lines" in relationships, emphasizing the importance of setting boundaries to foster trust and accountability. They draw upon their own story to explore how these boundaries can help rebuild trust after betrayal, the necessity of open dialogue, and the shared responsibility in maintaining a healthy marriage.
2025-12-0429 minLiberator113. How Do I Accept Encouragement? with L&CChelsea and Layton dive into a deeply overlooked part of healing from betrayal: learning how to receive encouragement, affirmation, and love again—especially from the very person who caused the pain. Chelsea shares vulnerably about years of brushing off compliments, both before and after betrayal, and how that heart posture revealed a deeper spiritual reality: if we reject the words of those closest to us, we may also be rejecting what God is trying to say about us.
2025-11-2727 minLiberator112. Be Present with L&CChelsea and Layton unpack the discipline of being fully present in the recovery journey from porn. The conversation analyzes the roadblocks created by unhealthy focus on our past mistakes or future anxieties. Personal stories and Biblical text are used to give real-life applications throughout the discussion.
2025-11-2029 minLiberator110. Is It Okay to Replace Porn with Images of My Spouse? with L&CChelsea and Layton have one of their most nuanced conversations yet — tackling a question that many couples quietly wrestle with: "Is it okay to replace pornography with images or videos of my spouse?" This episode dives deep into the gray areas of sexuality, desire, and healing — exploring where connection becomes consumption, and how couples can pursue intimacy that's rooted in love, honesty, and holiness. Chelsea and Layton share openly from their own journey through betrayal, healing, and rebuilding trust. Together, they unpack: The difference between lust and desire — and why motive matter...
2025-11-0635 minLiberator109. You'll Never Understand with L&CHave you ever felt like your spouse or partner couldn't possibly understand the damage that porn has created in your life? In Episode 109, Chelsea and Layton sit down to unpack the wounds and struggles that have been some of their greatest sources of frustration. Through sharing their individual experiences as a porn consumer and a betrayed spouse, they offer insights that helped them heal and work together towards true empathy and compassion.
2025-10-3043 minLiberator108. Woman At The Well with L&CChelsea and Layton explore the story of Jesus and the woman at the well, discussing themes of sexual brokenness, personal transformation, and the healing power of faith. They emphasize how Jesus meets individuals in their struggles, offering them hope and a new identity through His grace. The conversation highlights the significance of living water as a metaphor for true satisfaction and fulfillment, contrasting it with the emptiness of addiction and sin.
2025-10-2317 minLiberator106. Take Your Partner's Pain Seriously with L&CChelsea and Layton discuss the importance of taking your partner's pain seriously and the role of validation in relationships. They explore how emotional responses can impact communication and the significance of mirroring feelings to foster understanding. The conversation emphasizes proactive steps to support partners, the importance of love languages in healing, and the need for compassionate communication.
2025-10-0920 minLiberator105. Exploring the Roots with L&CChelsea and Layton discuss the complexities of addressing root problems related to pornography and emotional struggles. They cover the importance of self-analysis, inviting God into the healing process, and the role of community and mentorship in personal growth. The conversation emphasizes the need for honesty and commitment to change, providing practical steps for listeners to embark on their own journeys of healing and freedom.
2025-10-0227 minLiberator104. Have Fun Together with L&CChelsea and Layton discuss their relationship mantra, "Have fun together!" They emphasize the importance of taking breaks from grief, being intentional about building intimacy, and rediscovering joy in everyday moments. The phrase has been especially helpful while navigating challenges in betrayal and addiction. Practical steps are provided for couples to reconnect and have fun, highlighting the significance of shared experiences and the need for both partners to feel valued and pursued.
2025-09-2520 minLiberator102. A.I. Relationships with L&CChelsea and Layton explore the rise of romantic relationships between humans and Artifical Intelligence, discussing the dangers of emotional attachment to AI. They highlight the counterfeit nature of AI relationships, the illusion of emotional support it provides, and the importance of genuine human connection and growth. The discussion also touches on the spiritual implications of relying on AI for emotional fulfillment, urging listeners to seek authentic relationships.
2025-09-1120 minLiberator101. Made for More with L&CJoin Layton and Chelsea as they explore how pornography disrupts the true purpose that we are all called towards. The conversation expounds on the idea that we are God's handiwork, created for good works, and that there is always hope for us to walk our path in freedom. "Made for More" by Josh Baldwin, featuring Jenn Johnson
2025-09-0421 minLiberator100. Swimsuit Season with L&CChelsea and Layton celebrate their 100th episode by discussing the challenges of swimsuit season, body image pressures, and the importance of communication and trust in relationships. They explore how societal expectations can affect self-worth and the need for preparation and boundaries to navigate temptations. The conversation emphasizes the significance of understanding and supporting each other in marriage, as well as the importance of taking control of one's thoughts and feelings.
2025-08-2832 min
The Inner ChiefMini Chief: AI in the workplace: enabling curiosity and capability, with Kate Newey"If you think your people aren't using AI, you would be in denial." This is a special episode only available to our podcast subscribers, which we call The Mini Chief. These are short, sharp highlights from our fabulous guests, where you get a 5 to 10 minute snapshot from their full episode. This Mini Chief episode features Kate Newey, HR Chief of Adaptalift Group. Her full episode is titled The secret life of HR professionals, having it all and AI in the workplace. You can find the full audio and show...
2025-08-1814 minThe Inner ChiefMini Chief: AI in the workplace: enabling curiosity and capability, with Kate Newey"If you think your people aren't using AI, you would be in denial." This is a special episode only available to our podcast subscribers, which we call The Mini Chief. These are short, sharp highlights from our fabulous guests, where you get a 5 to 10 minute snapshot from their full episode. This Mini Chief episode features Kate Newey, HR Chief of Adaptalift Group. Her full episode is titled The secret life of HR professionals, having it all and AI in the workplace. You can find the full audio and show...
2025-08-1814 minLiberator97. How Can I Support Someone Affected by Pornography Use? With L&CChelsea and Layton discuss how to be community for individuals affected by pornography. The episode explores how to approach the conversations with tact, compassion, and empathy - implementing practical steps that the hosts have learned from their own story. Authentic Intimacy Harvest USA
2025-08-0728 minLiberator96. Does It Get Any Easier? with L&CThis episode explores the personal and shared journey of healing from pornography addiction and betrayal trauma within marriage. The hosts, Chelsea and Layton, discuss the question they often receive: "Does it get easier?" They respond with honest reflections, spiritual insights, scientific support, and practical steps for healing, growth, and transformation.
2025-07-3123 min
The Inner Chief#370 The secret life of HR professionals, having it all, and AI in the workplace, with HR Chief of Adaptalift Group, Kate Newey"HR is such a diverse role. At any given time we see people at their worst, and people at their best. We're expected to be lawyers and are constantly making commercial decisions." In this episode of The Inner Chief podcast, I speak to Kate Newey, HR Chief of Adaptalift Group, on The secret life of HR professionals, having it all and AI in the workplace. 🎧👉 chiefmaker.com/370 👂 IS YOUR PROGRESS BLOCKED BY DIFFICULT STAKEHOLDERS? Download this step-by-step guide to build trust, get buy-in and turn difficult stakeholders into ambassadors: chiefmake...
2025-07-281h 03The Inner Chief#370 The secret life of HR professionals, having it all, and AI in the workplace, with HR Chief of Adaptalift Group, Kate Newey"HR is such a diverse role. At any given time we see people at their worst, and people at their best. We're expected to be lawyers and are constantly making commercial decisions." In this episode of The Inner Chief podcast, I speak to Kate Newey, HR Chief of Adaptalift Group, on The secret life of HR professionals, having it all and AI in the workplace. 🎧👉 chiefmaker.com/370 👂 IS YOUR PROGRESS BLOCKED BY DIFFICULT STAKEHOLDERS? Download this step-by-step guide to build trust, get buy-in and turn difficult stakeholders into ambassadors: chiefmake...
2025-07-281h 03Liberator94. Sexual Stunts with L&CChelsea and Layton explore the cultural implications of extreme sexual stunts, particularly in the context of platforms like OnlyFans. They discuss the impact of porn culture on societal views of sexuality, the ethical considerations surrounding adult content, and the importance of recognizing the sacredness of sexual intimacy.
2025-07-1719 minLiberator93. Longing For Eternity with L&CChelsea and Layton explore the concept of eternal desires and how they contrast with the instant gratification provided by pornography. They discuss the implications of pornography on personal relationships and emotional health, emphasizing the importance of introspection and seeking true fulfillment beyond superficial pleasures.
2025-07-1019 minLiberator92. Messengers with L&CChelsea and Layton unpack the concept of "messengers" — individuals who can influence and support loved ones struggling with issues like pornography. They explore the importance of praying for these messengers, the burden of trying to change others, and the role of conviction and preservation in relationships.
2025-07-0319 minLiberator89. Words of Life or Death with L&CChelsea and Layton explore the profound impact of words, particularly in the context of relationships and healing from pornography addiction. The discussion delves into the science behind encouragement, the challenges of communication in emotionally charged situations, and the biblical perspective on the power of the tongue. They conclude with practical advice on how to choose words wisely to foster healing and connection.
2025-06-1218 minLiberator88. I Don't Want To Expose My Partner's Porn Struggle with L&CChelsea and Layton discuss the challenges faced by spouses dealing with their partner's porn use - specifically in the context of how much they should share with others. They emphasize the importance of community support, the need for intentional communication, and the biblical approach to disclosure and restoration. The conversation also highlights valuable resources for those affected by betrayal, encouraging listeners to seek help and not feel isolated in their struggles. Hopequest Sarah Society Happily Even After
2025-06-0516 minLiberator86. Moral Absolutes with L&CChelsea and Layton discuss the complex relationship between pornography, moral absolutes, and the pursuit of happiness. They explore the societal shift towards individualism and the implications of defining personal truths. The conversation emphasizes the importance of discipline and accountability in achieving true freedom and joy, contrasting it with the fleeting nature of superficial happiness.
2025-05-2217 minLiberator85. Why Are They Still Checking Out Other People? with L&CChelsea and Layton explore the complexities of temptation, particularly in the context of lust and pornography addiction. They discuss the nature of beauty, the struggles individuals face, and the influences of the World, Flesh, and Devil on these temptations.
2025-05-1531 minLiberator84. No Condemnation with L&CChelsea and Layton explore the themes of condemnation, forgiveness, and identity in Christ. They discuss the lack of condemnation for those in Christ, the journey of forgiveness, and the importance of understanding one's true identity as a child of God. The conversation emphasizes the freedom that comes from recognizing that one's past does not define them and the transformative power of God's love and mercy.
2025-05-0817 minLiberator82. How Could I Have Missed It? with L&CChelsea shares her personal journey of dealing with betrayal and the emotional turmoil that followed. She discusses the common feelings of self-doubt and guilt that arise after being blindsided by a partner's actions, particularly in the context of pornography. The conversation emphasizes the importance of forgiveness, both for oneself and for the partner, and the need to let go of the illusion of control over others' choices.
2025-04-2414 min
Restored 2 MoreHealing Together: Chelsea and Layton's Story from Liberator PodcastIn this inspiring episode, we interview Layton and Chelsea, the visionary couple behind The Liberator Podcast. They share their transformative journey of overcoming pornography and betrayal, illustrating how their healing has deepened and strengthened their relationships and faith.They share how their story of brokenness has transformed into a mission of hope for others facing this struggle. With passion, they express their motivations for the podcast, their love for outdoor adventures, and their commitment to making a positive impact on the global church.Through open and honest conversations about vulnerability and the intricacies of their...
2025-04-2238 minLiberator81. What's Forming You? with L&CChelsea and Layton unpack the concept of formation and how our daily choices shape our lives and futures. The conversation touches on the importance of being intentional about what we consume, especially for those recovering from addiction or trauma. The discussion covers the impact of music, movies, and other media on our mental and spiritual well-being, advocating for a mindful approach to content consumption.
2025-04-1718 minLiberator80. Bangkok with L&CChelsea and Layton discuss their recent trip to Bangkok, where they witnessed the stark realities of the sex industry and its impact on workers and customers. They reflect on the importance of perspectives gained through travel, the deep sin nature of humanity, and the compassion shown by those who have escaped the sex trades. The conversation emphasizes hope and redemption, highlighting the transformative power of God even in the darkest places.
2025-04-1023 minLiberator79. Craig MarshallChelsea and Layton welcome Craig Marshall to the show! Together they explore the complex relationship between beauty, embodiment, and the impact of cultural standards and pornography. Seeing and Seeking Embodied Beauty by Craig A. Marshall
2025-04-0348 minLiberator78. Triggers with L&CChelsea and Layton unpack the deep physical and emotional reactions that porn consumption and betrayal create. They share personal stories of their own struggles navigating triggers, and explore the importance of vulnerability, relationships, and communication in healing.
2025-03-2726 minLiberator77. Layton's StoryLayton shares his journey of overcoming pornography consumption and the transformative power of Christ. He emphasizes the importance of community, accountability, and the role of God in his healing and redemption. The talk also touches on the impact of sin on his relationships, his call to ministry, and the significance of sharing personal stories to help others.
2025-03-2020 minLiberator76. Finding Joy with L&CChelsea and Layton explore the complex journey of finding joy amidst suffering, grief, and addiction. They discuss the difference between joy and happiness, the importance of intentionality in our low points, and the necessity of community support during difficult times. The conversation emphasizes the significance of taking breaks from grieving, redefining one's identity beyond pain, and the power of trust in finding joy.
2025-03-1326 minLiberator74. Generational Impact with L&CChelsea and Layton explore the concepts of generational sin and redemption, discussing how these themes impact personal growth and family dynamics. They delve into the science of addiction, particularly focusing on epigenetics, and how our choices can affect not only ourselves but also future generations.
2025-02-2734 minLiberator72. Dating and The Porn Conversation with L&CChelsea and Layton Boeve delve into the complexities of dating and the often-taboo subject of pornography. The conversation emphasizes the need for both partners to be honest about their feelings and experiences with pornography, and how it can impact their relationship dynamics. They also explore the significance of personal healing and the necessity for individuals to address their own struggles with pornography before entering or continuing a relationship.
2025-02-1328 minLiberator71. One Piece of Advice with L&CChelsea and Layton share the best advice they each personally received during the healing journey. The conversation hits on the importance of confronting personal and familial secrets as a means of growth and recovery, as well as the centrality of grace, honesty, and courage in addressing our sin.
2025-02-0614 minLiberator70. Rationalization with L&CChelsea and Layton explore the damaging effects of pornography on the brain, the rationalizations people make to cope with addiction, and the importance of self-honesty in recovery. They discuss the cost of following Christ, the influences of media on personal behavior, and the challenges of healing from betrayal and insecurity. The dialogue emphasizes the need for deep introspection and the courage to confront difficult truths in order to find true freedom and growth.
2025-01-3025 minLiberator69. Caitlin McCaffrey (Harvest USA)Chelsea and Layton are joined by Caitlin McCaffrey, the Director of Women's Ministry at Harvest USA. They explore the mission of Harvest USA, God's heart towards those struggling with betrayal and sexual sin, and the significant need for support among women facing these challenges. Caitlin shares insights on betrayal trauma, the importance of acknowledging pain, and the role of church leaders in providing care. The discussion also delves into the science of pornography addiction, neuroplasticity, and the hope found in Christ for healing and restoration. https://www.covenanteyes.com/blog/silence-the-sound-of-female-sexual-shame/ https://harvestusa.org/christian-women-and-masturbation-whats-really-going-on/
2025-01-2348 minLiberator68. The Church (Beyond The Porn Phenomenon Part 4) with L&CChelsea and Layton wrap up Liberator's Beyond the Porn Phenomenon series by diving into Barna's research on pornography and the church. They discuss the importance of community support for both congregants and leaders, the generational perspectives on pornography, and the challenges faced by church leaders in addressing these issues. The conversation emphasizes the need for compassion, understanding, and proactive measures within the church to foster a healthier environment for all members. The Healing Church: What Churches Get Wrong about Pornography and How to Fix It by Sam Black
2025-01-1626 minLiberator67. Generations (Beyond The Porn Phenomenon Part 3) with L&CChelsea and Layton continue their Barna series, exploring the impact of pornography across different generations. The conversation compares differing attitudes around porn, while emphasizing the importance of communication and mentorship between different age groups.
2025-01-0922 minLiberator64. Motivations (Beyond The Porn Phenomenon Part 2) with L&CChelsea and Layton delve into the motivations behind pornography consumption, exploring how factors like boredom, stress, and personal arousal influence individuals' choices. They discuss the differences in motivations between men and women, the impact of technology on access to pornography, and the need for the church to engage in discussions about sexuality and provide guidance.
2024-12-1920 minLiberator63. The Widening Gap (Beyond the Porn Phenomenon Part 1) with L&CChelsea and Layton introduce a new series based from Barna's research on pornography usage in the U.S., discussing the growth of consumers and frequency of use across the country. They also explore the themes of substance versus shadow in life, particularly in relation to pornography and its impact on society.
2024-12-1227 minLiberator62. Jamie Gordon (Screen Sanity)Chelsea and Layton speak with Jamie Gordon from Screen Sanity about the challenges parents face in managing technology use among children. Jamie shares the mission of Screen Sanity, and shares practical strategies for establishing boundaries, addressing difficult topics like pornography, and fostering open communication with kids. ScreenSanity.org The Gabb Phone Bark Tech
2024-12-0548 minLiberator61. Refining Fire with L&CChelsea and Layton discuss the themes of pain, suffering, and God's role in our lives during difficult times. They explore the biblical concept of the 'refiner's fire' and how it relates to personal growth and healing. Through the stories of Job, Peter, and Judas, they emphasize the importance of understanding God's character and the hope that can be found even in the midst of pain. The conversation encourages listeners to seek God in their times of need, reminding them that they are not alone in their journey.
2024-11-2122 minLiberator60. The Right Questions with L&CChelsea and Layton discuss the complexities of communication around pornography use, particularly focusing on the questions that can hinder healing after betrayal. They emphasize the importance of trust and avoiding assumptions, as well as the impact of genuine curiosity. The conversation also highlights the significance of constructive dialogue and seeking divine guidance in understanding oneself and one's partner.
2024-11-1423 minLiberator59. King Solomon with L&CChelsea and Layton explore the life of King Solomon, examining his rise to greatness and subsequent fall from grace. They discuss the importance of vigilance in leadership, the dangers of temptation, and the need for contentment and stewardship in relationships. The conversation serves as a cautionary tale about the consequences of straying from one's values and the hope for redemption through repentance and gratitude.
2024-11-0728 min
The Covenant Eyes PodcastDealing with Pornography in Your Marriage with Layton & Chelsea BoeveIn this episode, we welcome Chelsea and Layton Boeve, co-hosts of The Liberator Podcast, to share their story of healing, growth, and resilience as a couple navigating addiction recovery. Together with our hosts, they discuss the unique impact of addiction on relationships, how gender influences healing journeys, and the importance of honest communication, faith, and mutual support. This heartfelt conversation offers insight and hope for couples facing similar challenges, providing listeners with practical advice and inspiring encouragement from those who have walked this difficult path.Key Points Discussed:Introduction to Chelsea and Layton’s...
2024-10-3024 minLiberator57. Humble Beginnings with L&CChelsea and Layton discuss the early days of their personal story of porn use, betrayal trauma, and healing. They explore the struggles of confessing to a partner, the journey towards sobriety, and the impact of addiction on self-worth and trust. The conversation emphasizes the need for open dialogue, understanding, and support in overcoming challenges together, ultimately leading to hope and renewal.
2024-10-2436 min
The Couch Next DoorPornography & Mental Health (Chelsea & Layton Boeve)Layton and Chelsea Boeve are co-hosts of the podcast, Liberator. Liberator is a discussion of pornography’s hard truths. The show was created to remove the barriers of shame and embarrassment that stifle conversations and community around the effects of pornography. Chelsea and Layton hit us with some truth bombs and remind us that this is a brain issue, not a moral issue. Be sure to subscribe to their podcast Liberator where ever you listen to podcasts.Follow Liberator @liberator.podcastLiberator PodcastRecommended ResourcesDopamine Nation
2024-10-241h 23Liberator55. Sextortion with L&CChelsea and Layton discuss the alarming rise of sextortion, a form of blackmail particularly affecting young people. They explore the mechanics of sextortion, the emotional impact on victims, and the importance of open communication between parents and children. The conversation emphasizes the need for awareness, practical safety measures, and the role of faith in overcoming the fear and shame associated with these threats.
2024-10-1020 min
Sex Addiction Recovery PodcastCastimonia Purity Podcast Episode 114 – Chelsea and Layton Boovie of Liberator PodcastToday I’m interviewing Chelsea and Layton Boovie of liberator podcast. Chelsea and Layton are on mission to help couples understand the impact of pornography and equip those couples to find restoration in their marriages. To learn more about Chelsea and Layton and their resources, go to liberatorpodcast.com. Through their podcast and mission, you will find […] The post Castimonia Purity Podcast Episode 114 – Chelsea and Layton Boovie of Liberator Podcast appeared first on CASTIMONIA.
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Sex Addiction, Pornography, and Sexual Purity -- Castimonia.orgCastimonia Purity Podcast Episode 114 – Chelsea and Layton Boovie of Liberator Podcast
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Today I’m interviewing Chelsea and Layton Boovie of liberator podcast. Chelsea and Layton are on mission to help couples understand the impact of pornography and equip those couples to find restoration in their marriages. To learn more about Chelsea and Layton and their resources, go to liberatorpodcast.com. Through their podcast and mission, you will find truths through the lens of stories, science, and Scripture. I love this quote from their website which reads, “Your mind will not give up easily that which you have fed so regularly.” You can also fin...
2024-10-0800 minLiberator54. Rahab with L&CIn this episode, Chelsea and Layton discuss the themes of shame, redemption, and the story of Rahab from the Bible. They explore how shame can distort our identity and how faith can lead to freedom. The conversation highlights Rahab's role as an unlikely heroine and the importance of obedience in the face of risk. They emphasize that God values everyone, regardless of their past, and that true freedom can have a ripple effect on families and communities.
2024-10-0319 minLiberator53. Kori Trierweiler (New Hope Community Church)In this conversation, Chelsea and Kori explore the themes of identity, beauty, and freedom in Christ. They discuss the struggles women face regarding self-worth and outward appearance, emphasizing the importance of finding identity in God's love rather than societal standards. The conversation highlights the power of community, confession, and the journey towards embracing true beauty and liberation from core lies.
2024-09-2751 minLiberator51. Uncontrolled Anger with L&CIn this conversation, Chelsea and Layton discuss the emotions and struggles that arise after betrayal, even years after confession. They explore the importance of cultivating a safe community for confession and the shame that the betrayed person may carry. They share their own experiences and offer insights on how to cope with intense emotions and navigate difficult conversations. They emphasize the need for self-awareness, communication, and reliance on God's truth to find healing and restoration.
2024-08-0827 minLiberator49. Interceding For The Saints with L&CIn this last and final epsidoe of The Armor of God Series, Chelsea and Layton discuss the importance of intercession in the context of spiritual warfare and healing. They emphasize the need for community and the power of prayer in supporting and uplifting one another. They also highlight the role of prayer in bringing comfort, peace, and hope to those who are struggling. The conversation concludes with a reminder that God equips and empowers us to fight against sin and that we are not alone in our battles.
2024-06-2821 minLiberator48. Sword of The Spirit with L&CWhat does the Sword of the Spirit have to do with pornography? Porn is a destructive trap, but we have been given the power to fight back. In this episode Layton and Chelsea highlight the importance of the spoken word of God and the ability to use Scripture against the lies of the enemy. Every piece of armor before this has been defensive in nature, but the sword is explicitly for offense; tune in to find out why.
2024-06-2126 minLiberator47. Helmet of Salvation with L&CChelsea and Layton unpack the Helmet of Salvation as part of their Armor of God series. They explore the significance of the helmet in protecting the mind and controlling our thoughts, while emphasizing the importance of understanding our identity as children of God and the assurance of salvation. The connection between the breastplate of righteousness and the helmet of salvation is drawn, both of which are freely given to us by Jesus. The episode concludes with encouragement to listeners to stand firm in their belief and authority as children of God, even in the face of temptation and struggles w...
2024-06-1325 minLiberator45. Sandals of Peace with L&C In this episode, Chelsea and Layton discuss the significance of having 'sandals fitted with the Gospel of peace' as part of the Armor of God. They explore the concept of peace as an active and powerful state, the metaphor of feet for scaling mountains, and the battle against sin and brokenness. They also share personal experiences and reflections on finding peace in the Gospel message.
2024-05-3126 minLiberator44. Breastplate of Righteousness with L&CIn the second episode of The Armor of God Series, Chelsea and Layton discuss righteousness and it's relationship with porn and healing. They contrast positional and conditional righteousness and how both are related to our walk with Jesus. The episode concludes with prayer and an encouragement to put on the Breastplate of Righteousness every day.
2024-05-2323 minLiberator43. Belt of Truth with L&CIn this episode, Layton and Chelsea introduce their new series on The Armor of God. They discuss the importance of truth as the foundation of the armor and how it applies to various aspects of life, including overcoming porn addiction and betrayal. They explore the lies of the world and the flesh, and the power of God's truth to combat them. They emphasize the need to challenge negative thoughts and replace them with God's truth. The episode ends with a prayer for strength and guidance in living according to God's truth. Scripture: Ephesians 6:10-18
2024-05-1630 min
Pirate Monk Podcast416 | Layton and Chelsea Boeve | Couples on a Journey, Healing TogetherOn this episode: Nate and Aaron debate one day for p@rn. Nate updates us on his speaking engagements.
Our Guest: Nate and Aaron interview our guests, Chelsea and Layton Boeve. Chelsea and Layton host the Liberator podcast. The Michiganders share their journey that brought them to their passion for strong and healthy relationships. Layton grew up without TV and became a voracious reader which started his journey into fantasy and later porn. Chelsea brings us to an understanding of how trust is broken with image consumption. The couple shares how healing in a relationship happens as...
2024-04-1854 minLiberator41. Can There Be Sobriety Without Jesus? with L&CThis week's conversation explores the possibility of finding freedom and sobriety from pornography without a belief in God. Chelsea and Layton discuss their different perspectives on the topic, while emphasizing the importance of Jesus in true healing. They also address the challenge of waiting for someone to find sobriety and the power of prayer in the process. The conversation concludes with a prayer and a reminder to trust in God's work in the lives of loved ones.
2024-04-1114 minLiberator40. Betrayal with L&CIn this conversation, Chelsea and Layton discuss the concept of betrayal and how Jesus can empathize with those of us who have experienced it. They explore different examples of betrayal in the Bible, including Judas, Peter, and the Pharisees. The goal of the conversation is for listeners to rely on Jesus and understand that he truly understands their pain and emotions.
2024-04-0415 minLiberator39. Strongholds with L&CIn this episode, Chelsea and Layton discuss the concept of strongholds, specifically focusing on Psalm 9:9 which states that the Lord is a stronghold for the oppressed in times of trouble. They explore different perspectives on strongholds, including the idea of reclaiming them and making Jesus the ultimate stronghold. They also discuss the importance of recognizing and repenting of sin strongholds, seeking revelation and accountability, and trusting in God's promise of a way out. The episode concludes with a prayer for freedom.
2024-03-2926 minLiberator37. Overcoming Fear with L&CIn this episode, Chelsea and Layton discuss how to navigate fear in relationships, particularly when there has been a history of betrayal. They emphasize the importance of trusting in God's goodness and surrendering control. They also discuss the need to question feelings and challenge irrational thoughts. Applying biblical truth and communicating openly in relationships are key to overcoming fear. The episode concludes with a reminder that God has not given us a spirit of fear, but of power, love, and a sound mind.
2024-03-1419 minLiberator36. Dopamine Culture with L&CIn this conversation, Chelsea and Layton discuss the impact of dopamine on addictive behavior, particularly in relation to pornography and sexual addiction. They explore how engaging in addictive behavior can lead to temptation and sin, as well as the dangers of dopamine addiction. They also discuss the influence of big tech and the need to be present in order to hear from God. Practical steps for overcoming addiction and healing from unhealthy self-image are also shared. Overall, the conversation highlights the importance of understanding the role of dopamine in our culture and taking intentional steps to break free from...
2024-03-0725 minLiberator34. Fighting Fair with L&CIn this episode of Liberator, Chelsea and Layton discuss the importance of fighting fair in the context of pornography and relationships. They draw from their own experiences and share insights on how to navigate conflict without bringing up past hurts. They emphasize the need for humility, forgiveness, and taking thoughts captive. The episode highlights the power of vulnerability and communication in resolving conflicts and building stronger relationships.
2024-02-1520 minLiberator33. Navigating Opposite Sex Relationships with L&CIn this episode, Chelsea and Layton discuss how to navigate friendships of the opposite sex in the context of healing and rebuilding trust after experiencing betrayal. They emphasize the importance of being vulnerable with the right people and being cautious of oversharing. The conversation covers topics such as seeking accountability, setting boundaries, including spouses in conversations and interactions, and the role of emotional connections in relationships. They also highlight the significance of building trust through scripture, open communication, and embracing community and friendships.
2024-02-0826 minLiberator27. Who Is This Hurting? with L&CIs watching porn really that big of a deal? It seems like it's a lot better than some of the alternatives, and it feels especially harmless if I'm single. Join Chelsea and Layton as they take a closer look at one of the most common questions they receive. Fight The New Drug Truth About Porn
2023-12-2118 minLiberator26. Galatians 5:1 with L&CJoin us as we take a closer look at one of the key verses that helped Layton on his journey towards healing. We'll explore the themes of freedom and our identity in Christ. "For Freedom Christ has set us free. Stand firm, therefore, and do not submit again to a yoke of slavery."
2023-12-0714 minLiberator24. Season 3 Q&A: Layton & Chelsea BoeveIt's time for our Season 3 Q&A! Please join us as we open up the inbox and answer listener's questions from Instagram and Liberator.com. Thank you for another fantastic season and entrusting us with your time and attention. We look forward to connecting with you soon. Be well and God Bless! Resources Layton & Chelsea mentioned: Defend Young Minds, Birds & Bees Instagram Page, Screen Sanity, and Dr. Meg Meeker Website.
2023-10-1351 minLiberator14. Mo Isom Aiken (5th Wheel Missions)Mo (Isom) Aiken is a New York Times bestselling author, speaker and blogger. Not only an accomplished writer, Mo was an All-American goalkeeper for the Louisiana State University soccer team, as well as the first female to train with and tryout for an SEC men's football team. Mo speaks nationally and internationally on a variety of faith-based topics and facilitates a faith-centered blog that has garnered millions of views to date. Mo joins us to tell the incredible story of God's intervention in the midst of her pain, and the fierce joy of knowing Jesus through our struggles.
2023-06-221h 04Liberator12. Danny Ray & Kimberly Thompson (We Do Whatever it Takes)Danny Ray and Kimberly Thompson have been married for 26 years and are devoted to doing whatever it takes for their marriage. Danny is one of the world's premier illusionists and has amazed thousands of audiences worldwide. Yet, he is far more than entertainment — Danny and his team bring the powerful and transforming message of the Gospel to every show he performs. Kimberly has worked behind the scenes partnering in Danny's act for over two decades. She recently obtained her Masters in Counseling Psychology and began working as an Associate Marriage and Family Therapist. Together they host the "We Do Wh...
2023-06-0844 minLiberator11. Sam Black (Covenant Eyes)Sam Black is a former journalist and current Director of Recovery Education for Covenant Eyes; he understands the stronghold pornography can have on an individual's life. His new book The Healing Church actively addresses these issues and provides clear guidance for ministry leaders as they support those who seek to live in freedom. Sam joins us to discuss his motivations for writing the book, as well as resources he recommends to equip the church in the battle against porn. Resources Sam Mentioned: The Healing Church: What Churches Get Wrong about Pornography and How to Fix...
2023-06-0148 minLiberator10. Jessica Harris (Beggars Daughter)Jessica Harris is the founder of the Beggars Daughter ministry and author of the books Beggars daughter, and Quenched: Quenched: Discovering God's Abundant Grace for Women Struggling with Pornography and Sexual Shame released in 2023. Sharing her story has grown to encompass much more than just one woman's struggle with pornography. She writes and speaks about pornography, online safety, and how to talk about sex in the church. Resources Jessica Mentioned: Quenched, by Jessica Harris Every Woman a Theologian website with Phylicia Masonheimer Jessica's website: Beggar's Daughter
2023-05-2548 minLiberator9. Bob & Dannah Gresh (Pure Freedom)Bob and Dannah Gresh are bestselling authors and leaders of the Pure Freedom, True Girl, and Born to Be Brave ministries. They join us to talk about Dannah's newest book, Happily Even After, and the incredible redemption story of their marriage. Resources Dannah mentioned: Healing Your Marriage When Trust Is Broken, by Cindy Beall Dannah's website: Dannah Gresh, Pure Freedom Ministries
2023-05-1852 min
The Heart AF Podcast30. #AprilActivation Fun Ways to Elevate our Energetic FrequenciesAttitude is literally everything. Our attitude creates our experience and our thoughts create our reality.
In this week’s Heart AF episode I dive into the importance of our energetic frequencies and what it means to be high vibe. And why it's important we want to work at raising our frequencies to be more ‘high vibe.’
This month me and my friend Stef Layton have put together an April Challenge we are calling #AprilActivation encouraging you all to have fun and move your body at least once each day this April. As moving our bodies is one...
2023-03-3120 minThe Heart AF Podcast30. #AprilActivation Fun Ways to Elevate our Energetic FrequenciesAttitude is literally everything. Our attitude creates our experience and our thoughts create our reality.
In this week’s Heart AF episode I dive into the importance of our energetic frequencies and what it means to be high vibe. And why it's important we want to work at raising our frequencies to be more ‘high vibe.’
This month me and my friend Stef Layton have put together an April Challenge we are calling #AprilActivation encouraging you all to have fun and move your body at least once each day this April. As moving our bodies is one...
2023-03-3120 minLiberator8. Season 1 Q&A: Richie HensonRichie Henson has over a decade of experience working in youth ministry and currently serves as the Senior High Pastor at New Hope Community Church. Today he joins us to field questions about pornography submitted by students aged from Junior High to College. Questions Covered in This Episode: What constitutes porn and is there porn that is ok? Does the Bible have anything to say about porn other than the basics about sex and lust? What do I do if I find out my siblings watching porn? I feel shame and want out but don't trust my...
2023-03-3051 minLiberator7. Chelsea & Layton BoeveJoin us as we unpack more of our journey and detail some of the initial steps we took towards healing. Your story might not look exactly like ours, but it can be redeemed like ours has.
2023-03-2349 minThe Heart AF Podcast29. Spring Intentions- How to Bloom with a Spring MindsetThis week's Spring inspired episode is all about planting seeds of intention in order to watch yourself bloom into this new season.
This season is a time for renewal, to feel re-energized for what's possible for you.
The increased warmth and sunshine provides the energy and hope to believe in ourselves in what's possible.
Believe in you, and affirm your mind with this Spring Mindset Affirmations PDF that you can download for yourself here.
Watch Stef's Spring Inspired Yin Yoga stretches for hamstring, glutes, and groin here.
Find Stef Lay...
2023-03-2120 minThe Heart AF Podcast29. Spring Intentions- How to Bloom with a Spring MindsetThis week's Spring inspired episode is all about planting seeds of intention in order to watch yourself bloom into this new season.
This season is a time for renewal, to feel re-energized for what's possible for you.
The increased warmth and sunshine provides the energy and hope to believe in ourselves in what's possible.
Believe in you, and affirm your mind with this Spring Mindset Affirmations PDF that you can download for yourself here.
Watch Stef's Spring Inspired Yin Yoga stretches for hamstring, glutes, and groin here.
Find Stef Lay...
2023-03-2120 minLiberator6. Phylicia Masonheimer (Every Woman A Theologian)Phylicia Masonheimer is a bestselling author, Bible teacher, and host of the Verity podcast. Her blog and shop, Every Woman a Theologian, exists to teach Christians how to know what they believe and live that out boldly. Phylicia walks us through her story of being introduced to erotica at a young age and the importance of finding her true identity in Christ. We also discuss the advantages of accountability and fellowship in our lives. Resources: Podcast Phycilia Referenced: Verity Podcast with Phylicia Masonheimer Books Phylicia Referenced: A Gospel Primer for Christians by Milton...
2023-03-1640 minLiberator5. Jeff CarterJeff Carter, PT, MBA, is the Owner of Apogee Therapy Center (atcforme.com), a Functional Medicine and Integrative Health Therapy Center. Jeff will draw on his years of experience and passion for research to unpack how pornography creates addiction in the brain, as well as steps we can take to break free. Resources Jeff Referenced: The Hacking of the American Mind:The Science Behind the Corporate Takeover of Our Bodies and Brains by Robert H. Lustig (Neuro-Endocrinologist) How an Addicted Brian Works: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RZ5LH634W8s
2023-03-0945 minLiberator4. Jeremy BilderbackJeremy Bilderback MA, LLPC is a close friend and mentor. He has earned his Masters in Counseling from Grand Rapids Theological Seminary. Jeremy will be talking with us about how pornography acts as a damaging imitation of real relational connection. Books Jeremy referenced: Sex and the Supremacy of Christ by John Piper & Justin Taylor, and Every Young Man's Battle: Strategies for Victory in the Real World of Sexual Temptation by Stephen Arterburn, Fred Stoeker, & Mike Yorkey.
2023-03-0242 min
Liberator3. Kimi MoodyKimi Moody is a student at Anderson University and has served as a camp counselor and youth leader for over four years in northern Michigan. She is giving voice to the importance of building trust with kids and students. Books Kimi referenced: Live Original by Sadie Robinson and Beth Clark, and Not Yet Married by Marshall Segal. Bible study plan Chelsea referenced: Finding Freedom Workshop with Alyssa Bethke and Sadie Robertson.
2023-02-2349 min
The Happy Hour with Jamie IveyHH#565 Liberator Preview with Chelsea and Layton BoeveI am so excited to introduce ya’ll to a new podcast joining Ivey Media! This podcast is special to us as this couple went through our podcast course where we team up and support people who have a passion for podcasting. At the end of the course we chose one student to be part of Ivey Media and that leads us to Chelsea and Layton Boeve with Liberator Podcast. Chelsea and Layton currently reside in Michigan where they love their dog and are avid hikers. Layton lives and dies with Michigan football while Chelsea loves a str...
2023-02-1750 min
Liberator2. Tim ManzerTim Manzer is the Care Pastor at New Hope Community Church in Northern Michigan. Tim has decades of experience in counseling and mentorship. Books Tim referenced: Winning The Battle Within, Pure Desires, *Note: The Betrayed Heart book that Tim mentions is out of print.
2023-02-1643 min
Liberator1. Meet The HostsWe're so happy you're here! Please join us as we share our goals for this series and discuss why we wanted to start the conversation about the effects of pornography. We're here for you. Podcast reference: Walking Lessons for Christians Who Sometimes Fall Down, By Nate Larkin
2023-02-0948 min
LiberatorIntroducing LiberatorJoin Chelsea and Layton as they discuss pornography's hard truths through the lens of stories, science, and Scripture. Liberator Podcast was created to remove the barriers of shame and embarrassment that stifle conversations and community around the effects of pornography. We look forward to earning your trust.
2022-11-2802 min