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The Confident Woman PodcastDiscovering Self-Love: The Foundation of Fulfilling Relationships with Chengi TobunIn this episode of The Confident Woman Podcast, host Rachel Brooks interviews Chengi Tobun, founder and CEO of the Black Swan Relationship Academy. Chengi shares her powerful journey from a painful marriage to becoming a relationship expert, helping women find love within themselves and cultivate fulfilling relationships.Together they discuss:Finding purpose through painThe importance of self-love and self-compassionRecognizing yourself as your own soulmateUnderstanding core needs in relationshipsThe role of faith in personal healing and growthTime Stamps: [00:01:00] - Chengi's personal story and journey [00:15:00] - Common relationship...
2024-08-2154 min
The emPOWERed Half HourDiscovering Your Inner Soulmate with Dating and Relationship Expert Chengi TobunSend us a textWhat if the love you've been searching for in others was always within you?In this transformative episode of The EmPOWERed Half Hour, Becca welcomes Chengi Tobun, the dynamic Founder and CEO of The Black Swan Relationship Academy. With her unique blend of spiritual insight and practical wisdom, Chengi has empowered countless women to find love within themselves and build fulfilling relationships. Join us as Chengi shares her journey of heartbreak, self-discovery, and the powerful lessons she learned along the way.Key Moments Y...
2024-06-1229 min
THE BLACK SWAN LIFE33- TRANSFORMING LOVE: THE POWER OF RELATIONSHIP INVESTMENTSJoin Chengi and the team for their latest podcast episode as they delve into the inspiring narrative of "Transforming Love: The Power of Relationship Investments." In this thought-provoking discussion, they draw insights from the final module of the Soul Mate Attraction System, Module 7, to explore the profound impact of investing in relationships. Discover valuable perspectives and real-life stories that illuminate the transformative potential of nurturing and cultivating love. Tune in for practical advice and a deeper understanding of how to enrich your connections through intentional investments in your relationships.VIP Soulmate Attraction System Course:https...
2023-09-281h 01THE BLACK SWAN LIFE32- EMBRACING YOUR JOURNEY AND CULTIVATING DEEP, MEANINGFUL CONNECTIONSJoin Chengi and the team for their latest podcast episode as they explore the transformative theme of "Embracing Your Journey and Cultivating Deep, Meaningful Connections." In this engaging conversation, they delve into the content of Module 6 from the Soul Mate Attraction Course, offering valuable insights on how to wholeheartedly embrace your personal journey while seeking meaningful relationships. Tune in for practical tips and a deeper understanding of building lasting, soulful connections.VIP Soulmate Attraction System Course:https://blackswanrelationshipacademy.com/discover/vip-soulmate-attraction-system/Soulmate Attraction Self-Study for Womenhttps://blackswanrelationshipacademy...
2023-09-211h 18THE BLACK SWAN LIFE31- CULTIVATING LOVE THROUGH UNLEASHING YOUR DREAMSJoin Chengi and the team in their latest podcast episode as they dive into the transformative topic of "Cultivating Love Through Unleashing Your Dreams." This engaging discussion centers around Module 5 of the Soul Mate Attraction Course, exploring how the act of dreaming can pave the way for a deeper connection with both your love life and your soul mate. Tune in to gain insights on how harnessing the power of your dreams can lead you toward a more fulfilling and meaningful romantic journey. VIP Soulmate Attraction System Course:https://blackswanrelationshipacademy.com/discover/vip-soulmate-attraction-system/
2023-09-141h 28THE BLACK SWAN LIFE30- THE LOVE STORY ROADMAP: DECODING THE DYNAMICS THAT BLOCK LOVE'S PATHEmbark on a journey through 'The Love Story Roadmap: Decoding the Dynamics that Block Love's Path,' a seamless extension of Soul Mate Attraction Course: Module 3. Join us as Pam, another remarkable Black Swan, shares her intimate love story with Chengi and the team, highlighting the pivotal role the Soul Mate Attraction Course played in helping her rediscover love. In this episode, we unravel the intricate dynamics that can obstruct love's path and uncover the transformative power of breaking these barriers. Tune in now to explore the enchanting world of personal growth and rekindled love.VIP Soulmate...
2023-09-071h 14THE BLACK SWAN LIFE29- BREAKING THE CYCLE: UNVEILING LOVE'S PATTERNS FOR A HEALTHIER RELATIONSHIP JOURNEYJoin Chengi and the team as they engage in a thought-provoking conversation about 'Breaking the Cycle: Unveiling Love's Patterns for a Healthier Relationship Journey.' In this episode, they are joined by Panyin, a client who experienced the transformative power of the Soul Mate Attraction Course. Panyin shares her journey of breaking old patterns and fostering a healthier approach to life and relationships through the insights gained from the course. Tune in to gain valuable insights from Module 3 of the Soul Mate Attraction Course into the intricate dance of love and growth.VIP Soulmate Attraction System Course:
2023-08-311h 12THE BLACK SWAN LIFE28- UNLOCKING LOVE: HOW EMBRACING A FULFILLING LEADS TO FINDING YOUR PERFECT PARTNERJoin Chengi and the team in this episode titled 'Unlocking Love: How Embracing a Fulfilling Life Leads to Finding Your Perfect Partner.' This episode seamlessly continues from the Soul Mate Attraction System Course Module 2, delving into the crucial concept of enriching one's life to prepare for a soulmate connection. Discover how embracing fulfillment and personal growth can pave the way for a meaningful relationship. Tune in now to gain valuable insights into the journey of unlocking love and being primed for a profound soulmate connection.VIP Soulmate Attraction System Course:https://blackswanrelationshipacademy.com...
2023-08-241h 19THE BLACK SWAN LIFE27- SOULS ALIGN: THE ULTIMATE SOULMATE ATTRACTION SYSTEMDive into an insightful conversation with Chengi and the team as they explore the profound concepts of "Souls Align: The Ultimate Soulmate Attraction System." Uncover the remarkable impact and transformative journey that the Soul Mate Attraction System course offers to its participants. Joined by special guest Nonto, who experienced the course firsthand, they unravel how this transformative experience can reshape lives. Tune in now to catch their discussion on Module 1 of the Soul Mate Attraction Course.VIP Soulmate Attraction System Course:https://blackswanrelationshipacademy.com/discover/vip-soulmate-attraction-system/Soulmate Attraction Self-Study for...
2023-08-171h 07THE BLACK SWAN LIFE26- ESCAPE RELATIONSHIP FATIGUE: 4 STEPS TO TAKING CONTROL OF YOUR HAPPINESSAre you feeling exhausted and overwhelmed by the challenges in your relationship? In this episode, discover "Escape Relationship Fatigue: 4 Steps to Taking Control of Your Happiness." Join Chengi and the team as they share practical steps to reclaiming your emotional well-being and finding fulfillment in your relationships. Tune in now and take the first step towards a happier and healthier love life. VIP Soulmate Attraction System Course:https://blackswanrelationshipacademy.com/discover/vip-soulmate-attraction-system/Soulmate Attraction Self-Study for Womenhttps://blackswanrelationshipacademy.com/courses/soulmate-attraction-smas/Soulmate At...
2023-08-101h 28THE BLACK SWAN LIFE25- THE TOXIC MYTH WHY WOMEN SHOULD NOT DELETE THEIR SOCIAL MEDIA TO GET A MANJoin Chengi and the team in this episode of the podcast, where they debunk the toxic myth suggesting women should delete their social media to find love. Explore the complexities of modern relationships and discover the truth behind authentic connections in the digital age.VIP Soulmate Attraction System Course:https://blackswanrelationshipacademy.com/discover/vip-soulmate-attraction-system/Soulmate Attraction Self-Study for Womenhttps://blackswanrelationshipacademy.com/courses/soulmate-attraction-smas/Soulmate Attraction Self-Study for Menhttps://blackswanrelationshipacademy.com/courses/soulmate-attraction-smas-m/JOIN BLACK SWAN...
2023-08-031h 32THE BLACK SWAN LIFE24- WHY WOMEN SHOULD NEVER CHANGE WHO THEY ARE TO IMPRESS A MAN: EMBRACING AUTHENTICITY IN RELATIONSHIPSWelcome to this episode of our podcast titled "Why Women Should Never Change Who They Are to Impress a Man: Embracing Authenticity in Relationships." Join Chengi and the Black Swan team as they dive deep into the significance of embracing your true self and the reasons why you should never compromise who you are in order to impress a man. In this thought-provoking conversation, they shed light on the importance of authenticity in relationships and provide invaluable insights for women to cultivate self-love, confidence, and genuine connections. Tune in to discover how embracing your authentic self can lead to...
2023-07-271h 19THE BLACK SWAN LIFE23- FINDING LOVE WITHOUT DATING APPS: THE ULTIMATE GUIDE TO MEETING YOUR PERFECT MATCHWelcome to this exciting episode of our podcast titled "Finding Love Without Dating Apps: The Ultimate Guide to Meet Your Perfect Match." Join Chengi and the Black Swan team as they delve into the intriguing topic of finding love without relying on dating apps. In this engaging conversation, they explore the question: Is it possible to find true love without the help of digital matchmaking? Tune in to discover their insights, experiences, and tips for navigating the world of offline connections in search of your perfect match.JOIN BLACK SWAN NATIONhttps://blackswanrelationshipacademy...
2023-07-201h 06THE BLACK SWAN LIFE22- THE GIRLFRIEND TRAP: HOW TO BECOME HIS WIFEWelcome to this episode of our podcast where Chengi and the Black Swan team discuss the "girlfriend trap". In this insightful conversation, they delve into the nuances of this situation, where a woman is in a long-term relationship with a man who is not ready to commit to a serious future together.JOIN BLACK SWAN NATIONhttps://blackswanrelationshipacademy.com/discover/black-swan-membership/choose-your-membership/BOOK A DISCOVERY CALLhttps://blackswanrelationshipacademy.com/discover/discovery-call/YouTube Channelhttps://www...
2023-07-131h 28THE BLACK SWAN LIFE21- REASONS WHY PRENUPS ARE NOT JUST FOR CELEBRITIES - JOIN THE DEBATE!In this podcast episode of "Reasons why prenups are not just for Celebrities!" Chengi and the members of the Black Swan Team delve into the reasons why prenuptial agreements are not exclusive to celebrities. They discuss whether individuals should consider getting a prenup, its importance, and present different perspectives on the matter. Join the engaging debate and explore whether you agree or disagree with the idea of getting a prenup.JOIN BLACK SWAN NATIONhttps://blackswanrelationshipacademy.com/discover/black-swan-membership/choose-your-membership/BOOK A DISCOVERY CALLhttps://blackswanrelationshipacademy...
2023-07-061h 12THE BLACK SWAN LIFE20- DATING COACHES: ARE THEY A SCAM? HOW TO FIND THE RIGHT ONEWelcome to "The Black Swan Life," the podcast where the members of the Black Swan Team gather to offer their distinctive viewpoints on a fascinating array of subjects. In this episode, titled "DATING COACHES: ARE THEY A SCAM? HOW TO FIND THE RIGHT ONE," join Chengi and the team as they delve into the world of dating coaches. We explore the burning question—are dating coaches legitimate or just a hoax? And, most importantly, we provide valuable insights on how you can identify and choose the right dating coach for your needs. Tune in for an enlightening discussion that mi...
2023-06-291h 01THE BLACK SWAN LIFE19- PASSPORT BROS: LOVE BEYOND BORDERS. EXPLORING INTERRACIAL DATING EXPERIENCESWelcome to 'The Black Swan Life,' podcast where the members of the Black Swan Team come together to share their unique perspectives on a wide range of captivating topics. In today's exciting episode, titled Passport Bros and their perspective regarding Love Beyond Borders | Exploring interracial dating experiences, Chengi and the team take a deep dive into the fascinating realm of interracial dating.JOIN BLACK SWAN NATIONhttps://blackswanrelationshipacademy.com/discover/black-swan-membership/choose-your-membership/BOOK A DISCOVERY CALLhttps://blackswanrelationshipacademy.com/discover/discovery-call/
2023-06-221h 25THE BLACK SWAN LIFE18- WHERE'S MY DREAM MAN HIDING? HOW TO MEET YOUR PERFECT PARTNER IN REAL LIFEWelcome to "The Black Swan Life," where the members of the Black Swan Team share their unique perspectives on diverse topics. In this episode, titled "Where's My Dream Man Hiding? How to Meet Your Perfect Partner in Real Life," join Chengi and the team as they uncover the elusive whereabouts of men.JOIN BLACK SWAN NATIONhttps://blackswanrelationshipacademy.com/discover/black-swan-membership/choose-your-membership/BOOK A DISCOVERY CALLhttps://blackswanrelationshipacademy.com/discover/discovery-call/YouTube Channelhttps://www...
2023-06-151h 04THE BLACK SWAN LIFE17- THE VANISHER IS BACK: UNVEILING THE MISTERY BEHIND THE DISAPPEARANCEWelcome to this episode of our podcast, where the Black Swan Coaches discuss a topic that many people have experienced: when the "vanisher" returns. Whether you're currently facing the return of a "vanisher" or want to be prepared for the possibility, this episode offers valuable insights to help you make informed decisions about your relationships. Stay tuned to hear this important topic of when the "vanisher" returns.JOIN BLACK SWAN NATIONhttps://blackswanrelationshipacademy.com/discover/black-swan-membership/choose-your-membership/BOOK A DISCOVERY CALLhttps://blackswanrelationshipacademy.com/discover/discovery-call/
2023-06-081h 15THE BLACK SWAN LIFE16- REASONS MEN LEAVE AFTER YOU SLEEP WITH THEMWelcome to this episode of our podcast, where Chengi and the Black Swan Coaches tackle a question that many women have asked themselves: why do men disappear after they sleep with you? In this honest and insightful conversation, they explore some of the reasons why men might behave this way and provide practical advice on how to navigate this situation. Stay tuned to hear Chengi and the coaches discuss this important topic.JOIN BLACK SWAN NATIONhttps://blackswanrelationshipacademy.com/discover/black-swan-membership/choose-your-membership/BOOK A DISCOVERY CALL...
2023-06-011h 44THE BLACK SWAN LIFE15- HOW A FEMININE WOMAN MAKES THE FIRST MOVEWelcome to this episode of our podcast, where Chengi and the Black Swan Coaches discuss a fascinating topic: how a feminine woman can make the first move and signal a man the Black Swan way. They provide practical advice on how to read and respond to a man's signals, and how to communicate your interest in a way that respects your values and boundaries.Stay tuned for informative information on how a feminine woman can make the first move, the Black Swan way.JOIN BLACK SWAN NATIONhttps://blackswanrelationshipacademy.com/discover/black-swan-membership/choose-your-membership/
2023-05-291h 23THE BLACK SWAN LIFE14- WOULD YOU DATE A BUS DRIVERChengi and the Black Swan Coach will be discussing a topic that has been circulating on social media lately: "Would you date a bus driver?" This upcoming episode will provide diverse perspectives on the matter and allow for a thorough examination of the question. Tune in to join the insightful discussion with Chengi and the coaches.JOIN BLACK SWAN NATIONhttps://blackswanrelationshipacademy.com/discover/black-swan-membership/choose-your-membership/BOOK A DISCOVERY CALLhttps://blackswanrelationshipacademy.com/discover/discovery-call/YouTube Channel
2023-05-181h 19THE BLACK SWAN LIFE13- HOW TO AVOID THE STARTER WIFE/GIRLFRIEND TRAPChengi and Coach Unique discuss the starter wife/girlfriend trap. Is it wise to be that starter wife/girlfriend trap, and is there a specific age to be this? Is it okay to be one, and is it good in the long run? This is what Chengi and Coach Unique will be discussing in this episode.JOIN BLACK SWAN NATIONhttps://blackswanrelationshipacademy.com/discover/black-swan-membership/choose-your-membership/BOOK A DISCOVERY CALLhttps://blackswanrelationshipacademy.com/discover/discovery-call/YouTube Channel
2023-05-112h 05THE BLACK SWAN LIFE12- MOM VS. WIFE: WHO DESERVES THE MAN'S LOYALTY AND FINANCESIn Chengi's upcoming episode with other coaches, they will delve into the story of a man who gave all his money to his mother, leaving nothing for his wife. The discussion will revolve around the question of loyalty - should it be directed towards the mother or the wife? The coaches from Black Swan will explore this topic in depth.JOIN BLACK SWAN NATIONhttps://blackswanrelationshipacademy.com/cf/all-access-signup/BOOK A DISCOVERY CALLhttps://blackswanrelationshipacademy.com/discover/discovery-call/
2023-05-051h 33THE BLACK SWAN LIFE11- THE BLAME GAMEFinding the balance between holding other people accountable for the damage they did to us and becoming a victim that fuels blame culture can be very difficult. Where does one start and the other stop? This is what Chengi will be discussing in her solo episode.JOIN BLACK SWAN NATIONhttps://blackswanrelationshipacademy.com/cf/all-access-signup/BOOK A DISCOVERY CALLhttps://blackswanrelationshipacademy.com/discover/discovery-call/YouTube Channelhttps://www.youtube.com...
2023-03-1218 minTHE BLACK SWAN LIFE10- WHAT WE NEED TO UNLEARN ABOUT SEXSex is something we talk about very little in religious circles. There is a lot of guilt, shame and fear leaving many men and women feeling alone and desperate. Sex Coach Heather shares her story about 12yrs in a sexless marriage and how this changed. We can learn a great deal from this interview. Enjoy!JOIN BLACK SWAN NATIONhttps://blackswanrelationshipacademy.com/cf/all-access-signup/BOOK A DISCOVERY CALLhttps://blackswanrelationshipacademy.com/discover/discovery-call/YouTube...
2023-02-261h 00THE BLACK SWAN LIFE9- UNLEARNING HOW WOMEN SEE MENThe modern world has created many shifts in what it is to be a man or a woman and there can be many misunderstandings as we move forward. In this episode, we will explore ways of viewing men that may give us greater insight so we can have loving relationships with the opposite sex.JOIN BLACK SWAN NATIONhttps://blackswanrelationshipacademy.com/cf/all-access-signup/BOOK A DISCOVERY CALLhttps://blackswanrelationshipacademy.com/discover/discovery-call/YouTube Channel
2023-02-0222 minTHE BLACK SWAN LIFE8- UNLEARNING HOW MONEY IS MADEIf you have struggled with money or want to make more money you have to first disengage in the mindset and positions that block the flow of money in your life. We will explore this together on this podcast.JOIN BLACK SWAN NATIONhttps://blackswanrelationshipacademy.com/cf/all-access-signup/BOOK A DISCOVERY CALLhttps://blackswanrelationshipacademy.com/discover/discovery-call/YouTube Channelhttps://www.youtube.com/c/ChengisWorld/
2023-01-2617 min
Kowalski AnalysisAttracting The Love You Crave & DesireChengi Tobun, better known as "The Black Swan" is a Christian Dating & Relationship Expert, International Best Selling author, and Speaker, that is on a mission to help 1 billion women create healthy love lives. Chengi helps women unlock their femininity, attract high-quality men, and position themselves for the love they crave and deserve. She is the Founder and CEO of the BLACK SWAN RELATIONSHIP ACADEMY and Her popular YouTube channel with the same name has garnered over 4.5MM views.
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2022-11-2959 minTHE BLACK SWAN LIFE7- HOW TO UNLEARN MASCULINE ENERGY BEHAVIOURIn today’s episode, I am speaking to Anita Stroudmire who will be sharing her unlearning journey from masculine to feminine energy and how having masculine energy made her invisible to men for at least 5yrs. I hope you enjoy your unlearning journey with us here at the Black Swan Relationship Academy.JOIN BLACK SWAN NATIONhttps://blackswanrelationshipacademy.com/cf/all-access-signup/BOOK A DISCOVERY CALLhttps://blackswanrelationshipacademy.com/discover/discovery-call/YouTube Channel...
2022-11-2838 minTHE BLACK SWAN LIFE6- UNLEARNING SPIRITUAL BYPASSINGSpiritual bypassing is something we have learned in spiritual or religious communities and it has crippled many of us by hindering movement in the direction of our desire. In this podcast, Chengi Discusses how and why to unlearn spiritual bypassing. JOIN BLACK SWAN NATIONhttps://blackswanrelationshipacademy.com/cf/all-access-signup/BOOK A DISCOVERY CALLhttps://blackswanrelationshipacademy.com/discover/discovery-call/YouTube Channelhttps://www.youtube.com/c/ChengisWorld/
2022-11-2134 minTHE BLACK SWAN LIFE5- UNLEARNING SOME PERSONAL DEVELOPMENT HALF TRUTHSAs a personal development junkie, I was able to create the Black Swan Life I enjoy daily. I owe a lot and contribute a great deal to the conversation as a way to give back but I also developed ways of spiritual bypassing and putting immense pressure on myself to make my dreams come true no matter what. I wish someone could have told me what I am sharing in this podcast.JOIN BLACK SWAN NATIONhttps://blackswanrelationshipacademy.com/cf/all-access-signup/BOOK A DISCOVERY CALL
2022-08-3024 minTHE BLACK SWAN LIFE4- UNLEARNING HOW TO HANDLE PAINCoach Nadine and I discuss how we are unconsciously taught to handle pain. Coach Nadine shares her story and journey and teaches us how to handle pain in a way that is powerful and healing so that our relationships. If you are done with how you handle pain then this episode is for you.JOIN BLACK SWAN NATIONhttps://blackswanrelationshipacademy.com/cf/all-access-signup/BOOK A DISCOVERY CALLhttps://blackswanrelationshipacademy.com/discover/discovery-call/YouTube Channel
2022-08-2447 minTHE BLACK SWAN LIFE3 - UNLEARNING BODY STANDARDSIn Episode 3 Coach Unique and I discuss what we both had to unlearn to embrace our curves. Loving ourselves means loving the skin we are in yet when it comes to loving our body it really is a problem for us women. We had to unlearn a great deal to begin the journey towards self acceptance and better self care of our bodies. This episode will be life altering for anyone needing to find peace with their body shape and looks enough to create a Black Swan Life.JOIN BLACK SWAN NATION
2022-08-0953 minTHE BLACK SWAN LIFE2 - 3 THINGS WE NEED TO UNLEARNIn this episode the Black Swan Coaches discuss what they believe are three things we all need to unlearn to be in successful relationships with our spouses. This episode is for men and women but there will be some topics that are leaning towards women. As we unpack these learnings and why they simply need to be challenged and eradicated from our relational space we hope this will start you off on the right journey to unlearning the ideas, thoughts, beliefs and concepts that hold you back.You can book Coach Yvonne or Unique...
2022-08-0237 minTHE BLACK SWAN LIFE1 - HOW TO UNLEARN TO CREATE YOUR BLACK SWAN LIFE- CHENGI TOBUNThis first episode of the Black Swan Life is the beginning of a new life journey. Whether it is relationships, money, faith or health we all need to take out some paradigms and old ways of thinking to accommodate the new and in this podcast I will give you the best steps to do this and important reasons this is a non-negotiable.I share my stories to illustrate the power of letting go of mindsets that no longer serve us for ones that do.To book a call with Chengi or any of her coaches
2022-07-2650 min
P.S. Younger SelfHow to Communicate Your Standards as a High Value PersonYou identify as a high value person and have standards. But how do you communicate your standards without setting expectations and with grace? We talk to Chengi Tobun, an international best selling author, a relationship and love coach with a popular YouTube channel called Chengi’s World where her videos have garnered over 2.7MM views. Her approach with relationship advice combines life and performance coaching, theological training and personal experience to share both the female and male perspectives. Chengi says that when we state our standards, we are giving ourselves permission to lose the other per...
2021-02-0848 min