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Dear Future HusbandYou May Feel STUCK in a Waiting Season, But God is NOT Punishing You ft. Pastor DawnCheré WilkersonWhat is the waiting producing within you? A thought-provoking question that Pastor DawnCheré Wilkerson explores with us as we talk about how we can allow the waiting season to work wondrous things within us WITHOUT having to fake a smile or pretend our desires don't matter. Tune in and tell us what you got from this conversation!Don't wait to get your $40 off your Good Ranchers subscription with our code "DFH" at https://go.goodranchers.com/dfhGet DawnCheré's new book "Slow Burn" everywhere books are sold and check out Vous Church if you're in...2025-05-0835 minDear Future HusbandThe REAL Type of Confidence Men Should Have | Guided Prayer for Your Future HusbandMen, we don't want you to be cocky we need you to be humble! In this episode, we explore the difference and what marks a man made through a confidence that is long lasting and not self-seeking.Godly Confidence Prayer for Your (Future) Husband:"Lord, I pray for my future husbands confidence that he would be found in You. Show him how to walk in humility. Tether his self-assurance to Your design. Like young David with his slingshot, grant him confidence in what YOU have placed in his hands. I rebuke insecurity and fear of man...2025-05-0111 minDear Future HusbandCan Women Make the First Move?Will he or won't he?! The battle of waiting to finding out if he is going to ask you out. It's led some to wonder if women can make the first move. Let's chat about that and these topics:•The difference in showing interest vs. initiating•Who should make the first move?•What to do if a guy is being slow or shy to ask you out.•How to show your available without coming across as desperate.Make the first move toward better food—use my code "DFH" to get $40 off your quality me...2025-04-2421 minDear Future HusbandTHIS Will Effect Your (Future) Marriage More Than You RealizeIs prayer a sweet blessing or a potent tool in your marriage? In this episode, featuring Tori Masters, we share the ways we've seen power in praying over our husbands, as well as when we have not. This is something you can start doing if you have not AND even start during singleness.Connect with Christian or find her book "Break Up with What Broke You" at ChristianBevere.com2025-04-1743 minDear Future HusbandThe Reason I Almost Ended My Engagement😳Are we in the clear from doubt or hesitancy after we move from dating to engagement? For me, I didn't experienced either until AFTER he proposed😳But there was a (now) obvious reason for what I felt and I want to share it with you so that you don't go through the same things I did when I nearly ended my engagement to my incredible husband.Connect with Christian or find her book "Break Up with What Broke You" at ChristianBevere.com2025-04-1032 minDear Future Husband3 Things Men Are Looking for In a WifeOf all the ways you can be investing in yourself, which areas will stand out to your future husband? Back by popular demand, my husband, Arden, shares 3 things Christian men may be looking for in a wife. How are you growing in these qualities throughout the season you're in?Speaking of qualities, get your quality meat from our sponsor at www.GoodRanchers.com! Use code "DFH" for $40 off your first meat subscription.Connect with Christian or find her book "Break Up with What Broke You" at ChristianBevere.com2025-04-0330 minDear Future HusbandBeing A Strong Woman of God While Also Wanting to Be MarriedSometimes in our fight to be strong women, we create a plight for brokenness... Where we think we have to have it all together and be completely independent. But what if I told you there was a way to be powerful yet poised? Prayerful for our dreams and talents and prayerful for our (future) husbands?In this episode, Courtney Garrett, renowned artist, mother and wife, shares how she's learned to embrace her authentic strength and use it as a tool for connection rather than friction.Connect with Christian or find her book "Break Up with...2025-03-2759 minDear Future HusbandAre Single Women Allowed to Pray For A Husband?My thoughts on this controversial question as someone who did!Connect with Christian or find her book "Break Up with What Broke You" at ChristianBevere.com2025-03-2023 minDear Future HusbandThe Challenges You'll Face in Your 1st Year of Marriage (And How to Win Them)Even if you dream of marriage and can't wait to say "I Do", you may not fully know what you'r signing up for... In the first year of marriage there is an undoing in yourself as the two become one. You'll face challenges and trying conversations as you begin to understand how to love this person you have vowed to love the rest of your life.In this episode, evangelist Keenan Clark shares what he and his wife faced and how they leaned in to allow it to better their marriage.Connect with Christian or find...2025-03-1342 minDear Future HusbandQuestions to Ask Your Partner (And Self) From Singleness to MarriageWondering what you need to know about the person you're seeing in each season? Or what to discover during your dating and engagement season to make sure marriage lasts? Then you don't want to miss this episode.In his book Single, Dating, Engaged, Married, Ben Stuart, Author and Lead Pastor of Passion City Church DC, shares practical tips and takeaways you can use in every relationship season.Connect with Christian or find her book "Break Up with What Broke You" at ChristianBevere.com2025-03-0625 minDear Future HusbandTHIS Secret Could Help Your Man Become More Successful and Less Anxious!I don't think we understand just how greatly patience can benefit our lives!!Patience is a fruit of the Spirit and attribute of love. It can bring a list of benefits including career success, peace, better relationships and MORE.Use this prayer prompt to start blessing your future husband in this area!Connect with Christian or find her book "Break Up with What Broke You" at ChristianBevere.com2025-02-2715 minDear Future HusbandNot ALL Christian Dating Advice Will Work For YouTwo dating podcasts should give the same Christian dating advice, right? The truth is not every believer will give the same advice because no two love stories are exactly the same. In this episode, Christian sits down with Kait and JJ from Heart of Dating to discuss the dating topics that matter, see if they agree on them, and what the Bible has to say!Connect with Christian or find her book "Break Up with What Broke You" at ChristianBevere.com2025-02-2048 minDear Future HusbandGood Friends Judge Your BoyfriendLovers and friends—Who comes first? What do you do if one doesn't like the other? In this Valentine's episode with author Grace Valentine, we discuss the importance of quality friendships and how they can impact our relationships.GALentine's Day is TOMORROW! RSVP to join us for our virtual event: www.christianbevere.com/galentinesFind Grace's new book, The Better Friend, everywhere books are sold!Connect with Christian or find her book "Break Up with What Broke You" at ChristianBevere.com2025-02-1334 minDear Future HusbandDoes God Select Your Spouse For You? ft. John BevereHere's a question that's been debated for a while! Just how much of selecting your spouse is free will vs. God led? For this topic I wanted to bring on a trusted voice, so I asked my father-in-love, John Bevere.What do you think about this prerogative? And how are you trusting/have seen God direct and speak to you through dating?Are you a single woman praying for your future husband and want community to come alongside you? Join us for the 4th Annual Galentines Virtual Event where we gather, dream, and laugh together on...2025-02-0632 minDear Future HusbandWhy You Should Stop Dating to Find LoveDoes dating today feel like a headache trying to figure out what stage your relationship is in or how long you should date? Even as Christians, we can get lost in the nuances of modern dating and find ourselves confused and frustrated. How can we get back to that old-school love? You know when courting was intentional and clear?Here's my suggestion: get rid of dating! Let me explain why....Be sure to listen and let me know what you're going to be doing differently in dating this year! Subscribe so you never miss an episode. 2025-01-3023 minDear Future HusbandHow to Move On When You Don't Want To ft. Madi Prewett TrouttHave you ever been in a relationship that you knew wasn't right but didn't want to give up? In that moment it can be hard to get your head and your heart on the same page.In this episode, Madison Prewett Troutt shares the lessons she's learned from overcoming heart break and trusting God's "yes"s and "no"s in dating. Find answers for common questions such as "Can you stay friends with an ex?" and "How do you move on?"Connect with Christian or find her book "Break Up with What Broke You" at ChristianBevere...2025-01-2337 minDear Future Husband5 Reasons People Regret Getting Married... And How to Avoid Them😳This month Arden and I celebrate our 6th wedding anniversary! But as we celebrate our marriage, we know that not every couple makes it the distance. So why do people seperate or say they regret getting married?Perhaps there are thoughts and traps we can avoid that are designed to dismantle relationships. Even if you're not yet married, dive into this topic so you're better equipped to protect and enjoy your spouse and your commitment!Connect with Christian or find her book "Break Up with What Broke You" at ChristianBevere.com2024-11-2131 minDear Future HusbandGod, I'm Sick of Waiting For Your PromisesWe may tire of hearing dating referred to as a "waiting period" but that's often what we feel in the in-between. This is one of those messy, challenging topics that if we can embrace it and learn from it will do exceedingly more in and for us than we can yet see. Our guest, Ebie Hepworth, shares her testimony and the powerful lessons and gifts that waiting in the hard seasons has given her. Whether you are waiting on your future spouse or have been believing for a miracle—there is a way to wait, or in som...2024-11-1441 minDear Future HusbandPrayer for Your (Future) Husband's CharacterIt's a no-brainer that we want to help our husbands become their best when we're married, but have you ever thought, "Could I be doing something to aid him now even before we're together?"The power of prayer transcends time and understanding. You can begin praying for your future husband's character now with the key verses in this episode!Connect with Christian or find her book "Break Up with What Broke You" at ChristianBevere.com2024-11-0712 minDear Future HusbandThe Scary Easy Way Relationships Turn Toxic ft. Ashley Henriott"Most people don't know they're in a toxic relationship until they're out of it." That's a scary reality! If you've been in an emotionally or physically toxic relationship, or want to learn how to avoid falling into one, our guest, Ashley Henriott, shares how to spot the warning signs and make a change!There IS better ahead for you. What will you choose today to make that next action, relationship or behavior different? Find Ashley's new book, "Confidence Is an Inside Job" here: https://www.amazon.com/Confidence-Inside-Job-Conquer-Self-Doubt/dp/0593601017Connect with Christian or find her...2024-10-3140 minDear Future HusbandShould Christian Woman "Put Themselves Out There?" ft. Chloe MackConnect with Christian or find her book "Break Up with What Broke You" at ChristianBevere.com2024-10-2448 minDear Future HusbandPray for Your (Future) Husband’s SexualityCountless obstacles and temptations are coming after our men's sexuality today. They're constantly teased and pulled into areas of compromise or confusion from pornography to unfaithfulness. But what should we do, criticize, and turn away? Not on my watch.Your marriage is worth fortifying, and if the enemy is fighting to taint your (future) husband's sexuality then let us fight even harder to bless it!!Use this prayer over your spouse or future spouse to come alongside him and ask God to steward his sexuality in a way that betters him and benefits you both!2024-10-1710 minDear Future HusbandDon't Take Your Husband for Granted ft. American Sniper's Taya KyleWe long to be married, but what legacies from your marriage will last long after you say I do? As wives, or future wives, we want to make sure we don't just find a husband but cherish him without forgetting the gift our spouse is!Before her husband, American Sniper Chris Kyle, passed away, Taya and her husband created patterns and principles that led to a legacy of love. Now she helps other couples grow closer together and overcome life's hardest obstacles.To learn more about Taya and her foundation, visit https://www.tackf.org/2024-10-1041 minDear Future HusbandWhat To Do With A Broken Heart? ft. Stefanie RouseAre you allowing your heart to properly heal after a heartbreak?We're often tempted to brush this pain off or push it under the surface... maybe buried beneath a pint of ice cream. Be it a breakup, loss, longing, or a traumatic event, we HAVE to give our hearts what they need when we're hurting.In this episode, Stefanie Rouse and I discuss how addressing pain-points authentically and timely allows us to grow through the hurt and into hope.Connect with Christian or find her book "Break Up with What Broke You" at...2024-10-0339 minDear Future HusbandPray for Your (Future) Husband's DirectionPrayer is powerful. Why wait to bless your marriage and your spouse until after you tie the knot?With so many distractions, options, and attacks against our men today, we have the powerful honor of interceding on their behalf. Let this prayer guide you in aiding his direction and believing that the call on his life is esteemable and achieveable!!Ladies, you can pray this over your husband if you're married, or over your future husband if you haven't met him yet.Prayer for His Direction—Lord, I pray over my fu...2024-09-2608 minDear Future HusbandYou Might Be Overlooking the Right Guy"Where are all the good Christian guys?" is a question we hear often. I brought my husband, Arden Bevere, onto the podcast to answer this question and offer advice on how you can interact with high caliber men and what you can do to enhance your likelihood of recognizing the right guy when you meet him—IF you haven't already!Connect with Christian or find her book "Break Up with What Broke You" at ChristianBevere.com2024-09-1931 minDear Future HusbandPain Free Birth IS Possible! Prepare NOW!There's no shortage of birth horror stories... I'm sure you can easily think of one you've heard or a horrendous scene from a movie now😬. But could it be possible that in our God-given marriages, we can have God-led births?? Our guest, Karen Welton, of Pain Free Birth suggests we should start to ask ourselves now, "What if it is?"NOW is the time to prepare for labor! Even if you're single and not actively trying to have children yet, this episode is so inspiring to what God can do when we believe He can move through us...2024-09-1259 minDear Future HusbandDo I Love Jesus More Than My (Future) Husband?Of course we want to answer this question with "yes" instantly. But how are we showing our love for Jesus as our first love? We express our love to a spouse or boyfriend through romance, touch and words. But let's fully assess how we are showing our love to Christ and how often🤔 Today's guest, Mikalah Williams, shares how she fell completely in love with Jesus and how this relationship has radically changed her dating life.Connect with Christian or find her book "Break Up with What Broke You" at ChristianBevere.com2024-09-0539 minDear Future HusbandStart Praying for Your Husband While You're SINGLESome say praying for your husband while you're single is idolizing marriage... But is it?In this episode, we confront HOW and WHEN you should pray over your future spouse and marriage. My guest, Hope Harvard, shares what she's experienced praying for her husband while single. Has this been "hopeless" for Hope, or make single women in the same place as her naive? Find out by listening AND then let us know what you thought below👇Season 3 releases every Thursday morning—make sure to subscribe!Connect with Christian or find her book "Break Up wit...2024-08-2944 minDear Future HusbandFor the Woman Tired of Praying and Waiting... Let THIS Bring New Hope❤️How much simpler would it be waiting for the marriage we pray for if we had a tracking number. But God is not Amazon; and where would our faith be produced if we never had questions? There is hope in the waiting and faith from the praying. I hope this episode encourages you, reminding us all why we pray, how vital the component of faith truly is, and that God's nature and His will are good indeed.Love you and grateful you're here!! —Xoxo, ChristianConnect with Christian or find her book "Break Up with Wha...2024-05-2320 minDear Future HusbandWhat To Do After A Bad Date 😬There are mainly 2 scenarios that occur after going on a date: 1). You enjoy it and look forward to getting to know them more or 2.) You believe you have a clear "not for me" after the date is over. So what do you do? As women, we tend to want to avoid this guy/conversation or "kindly" reject them slowly into the friend zone. But KINDESS is not the best solution following a date, rather, it's CLARITY! Listen as my husband Arden and I share why it's important to communicate after a—good or bad—date and how you should prog...2024-05-1632 minDear Future HusbandIs Your Diet Affecting Your Dating? ft. Nutritionist Cara ClarkWhenever we feel our best we're more prone to show up as our best. On the contrary, when we feel physically, emotionally, or spiritually burnt out, we're more likely to burn out in our romantic and platonic relationships. Today Cara Clark, Integrative Nutritionist, CN, IHP, shares the intricate correlation between our overall health and our relational health AND how you can strengthen both!Find Cara's recipes and classes at https://caraclarknutrition.com/Connect with Christian or find her book "Break Up with What Broke You" at ChristianBevere.com2024-05-0944 minDear Future HusbandShould Christian Couples Get Prenups or Split Finances? 💸When a subscriber asked me my thoughts on prenups from a Christian perspective, I became curious as to what most others thought. Learning that 1 in 5 millennial couples today are getting prenups and opting to keep their finances separate in marriage, I knew we had to have a conversation around this. Whether you're on the trail to engagement or prepping for the future, let's talk about how christian couples should approach these conversations.Connect with Christian or find her book "Break Up with What Broke You" at ChristianBevere.com2024-05-0230 minDear Future HusbandBe With A Man Who Heightens Your Femininity... Let Us ExplainHow does the right relationship allow us to embrace our divine femininity? In a union flowing in God's design, we as women can find freedom to be our true selves, safety to flourish in new ways and acceptance and love acting as the women we were created to be without striving. In this episode I brought back my dear friend Nava to have girl talk about first dates, femininity & faith.Connect with Christian or find her book "Break Up with What Broke You" at ChristianBevere.com2024-04-2534 minDear Future HusbandBirth Control Should NOT Be On Your Honeymoon ListWhether it's because of acne, weight, upcoming wedding or period pain, most women in the US are offered birth control as a quick-fix oral solution. But what physicians such as Dr. Jennifer Mercier are finding today is that these synthetic hormones are not advisable for long-term fertility and health, nor the best answer to problems or circumstances many women face today. So before you add BC to your honeymoon packing list, listen to this episode and see if there's a better route for you as you're planning your life with your dear future husband.Connect with Jennifer...2024-04-1825 minDear Future HusbandHow My Husband and I Moved From Dating to Engagement with ClarityThere comes a point in your dating when you ask, "How committed are we and should we take the next step?" There can be many evaluation strides you need to cover well to have clarity and peace in your decision. Whether that's bringing up the sometimes daunting expectations and timelines topics or navigating long-distance like my husband and I had, here's a glimpse into how we made that move with clarity.Connect with Christian or find her book "Break Up with What Broke You" at ChristianBevere.com2024-04-1129 minDear Future HusbandThe One Person Who Can Always Tell If You Should Marry The Guy You're SeeingTrying to explain to someone exactly how they'll know if a guy is THE guy or not is a lot like trying to solve a puzzle blindfolded... It's hard to know until the pieces are in front of you. BUT there is one person who will never lead you astray and who's advice you can always voice, even in dating. Join me and Juli Bevere as we share the best advice we can on "discernful" dating!Connect with Christian or find her book "Break Up with What Broke You" at ChristianBevere.com2024-04-0419 minDear Future Husband3 Areas to Master Right Now Before Meeting Mr. RightSo you're praying for Mr. Right and have all this time on your hands until he comes. SO what are you going to do? If you're looking to grow yourself and start marriage off on the best possible foot, then set out to master these 3 areas that will help you become your best, thrive where you are, and be better prepared for where you're going! Connect with Christian or find her book "Break Up with What Broke You" at ChristianBevere.com2024-03-2819 minDear Future HusbandShe Went From One Night Stands to Finding The OnePurity is, well depending on your background, either confusing, shaming or plain weird. But that is not its true nature!! There is a protection and blessing that comes from enjoying our sexuality within God's design and that's simply what the purity message's goal is—enjoyment! In this episode, Nicole Ivanov shares what led her as a non-believer embracing hook-up culture to think, "There must be a better way!"Connect with Christian or find her book "Break Up with What Broke You" at ChristianBevere.com2024-03-2145 minDear Future HusbandCountering The Attack Against Our (Future) Husbands 👊There is a lethal threat our (future) husbands are facing. One that has become overtly subtle and sneaky over the last few decades. As women of faith, we can become praying wives even now! In this episode, I'm joined by Emmanuel and Bekah of Team Vulnerable. They expose the truth on p*rn addiction and how communication and prayer can free us from any sin that hinders us as individuals and/or couples. Find their resources at https://www.teamvulnerable.com/Connect with Christian or find her book "Break Up with What Broke You" at ChristianBevere.com2024-03-1431 minDear Future HusbandThe Trick to Not Wasting Your Singleness ft. Riley Sewell"If you wanna be my lover, you gotta be that friend!" A little spin on a classic but what an idea, right? Can being a good friend actually enable us to become a better future spouse? And is contentment in singleness just soemthing people say or something you can do? In this episode, our friend Riley Sewell Kehoe shares how she saw God develop her as a wife by focusing on the blessings in singleness and being a better friend.Connect with Christian or find her book "Break Up with What Broke You" at...2024-03-0726 minDear Future HusbandShould Dating Couples Pray Together? with Scott KedershaWe are not shy about this movement to pray for your future spouse! But there is a question floating around—when you meet that someone, should you begin praying together during dating? Prayer is powerful and our guest, Scott Kedersha, created a devotional for engaged and (SPOILER ALERT) dating couples to use to enhance their relationship. P.S. - Find "Ready or Knot" at www.scottkedersha.comConnect with Christian or find her book "Break Up with What Broke You" at ChristianBevere.com2024-02-2926 minDear Future HusbandGetting Out of the Friend Zone ft. Allie Schnacky"I started to wonder if I was waiting on God's timing or if guys simply didn't like me." —Allie Schnacky. Phew! Okay if you too have ever thought that you were only ever seen as the friend, the last one single or the girl who's simply only an option, this episode is a reminder that you are NOT second tier and you are NOT forgotten! In this episode, the joyful and encouraging Allie Schancky shares how she went from friend to girlfriend and the way the Lord's instruction was vital to her story.Follow Allie's community @chosenandfreeco for...2024-02-2230 minDear Future HusbandWhat If the Guy You're Seeing has Struggled with P0RN? ft. Joshua Broome"I'd never go out with someone who has watched p0rn," I thought when I was single. However, then I had no idea how rapidly young men, boys, and even women were being exposed to this addictive trap. In our part one episode on the topic, Joshua Broome shares his testimony as a former porn star transformed into a devoted preacher. We discuss how you can respond if your partner shares their past or current struggle and how to cover them in prayer for protection from it's effects.Joshua's new book 7 Lies that Will Ruin Your Life...2024-02-1539 minDear Future HusbandStop Flirting NOW and Thank Me LaterThis may be my most controversial episode to date. Flirting? Bad? "What am I supposed to do with someone I'm interested in, Christian?" Okay buckle up because I want to give you 3 reasons overtly flirting could be stifling your relationships.Connect with Christian or find her book "Break Up with What Broke You" at ChristianBevere.com2024-02-0822 minDear Future HusbandDate the Boring Guy 🤔 ft. Kait Tomlin from Heart of DatingSo you've waved goodbye to dating the "bad boys" but you're not exactly looking forward to dating the boring good guy either... Well, our guest Kait Tomlin Ward from the Heart of Dating has a few reasons why your heart and head will thank you if you do, AND how you will be delightfully surprised sooner than you think.Find more from Kait and JJ at www.heartofdating.com.Connect with Christian or find her book "Break Up with What Broke You" at ChristianBevere.com2024-02-0135 minDear Future HusbandHave Better Dates and Find Your Husband ft. Advice from a Dating CoachLet's make 2024 your year for successful dating!!Our guest, Bela Gandhi, is a dating Coach who is sharing her secrets for succeeding on your next date. Whether it's your first, second, tenth, or FIRST EVER date, these practical tips will help you be confident in how you present yourself and what you're looking for.Find more from Bela at www.smartdatingacademy.com.Connect with Christian or find her book "Break Up with What Broke You" at ChristianBevere.com2024-01-2522 minDear Future HusbandHow to Answer When Your Family Asks If You're Finally Dating🤭Are you tired of people asking you why you're still single or when you're finally going to start dating someone? Do you want to react and say, "I WISH I KNEW!" Well, what do you do? Can you control this situation or avoid it altogether? In this episode we give three practical tips for answering this question honestly and happily!Be sure to subscribe so you don't miss an episode!Connect with Christian or find her book "Break Up with What Broke You" at ChristianBevere.com2023-11-1614 minDear Future HusbandSettling Is NEVER Worth It ft. Madi Prewett TrouttNever say never, unless it's about settling! Relationships are dynamic connections but when we settle we trade dynamic for potentially dangerous... In this episode, Madi Prewett Troutt and I share testimonies and tips for avoiding settling.Connect with Christian or find her book "Break Up with What Broke You" at ChristianBevere.com2023-11-0226 minDear Future HusbandAre Christians Dating Wrong?! ft. Arden BevereDoes dating as a Christian come with too much pressure? Could we potentially be doing this whole dating thing in a better, les complicated way? To answer that, I brought on my husband, Arden Bevere, to share what did and didn't work for him dating as a christian male.Be sure to review the podcast and leave a comment letting us know what you will be implementing into your dating experience from this podcast.Connect with Christian or find her book "Break Up with What Broke You" at ChristianBevere.com2023-10-2626 minDear Future HusbandA Therapist Helps You Get Past Your Past ft. Jason Van RulerThere are many ways, both big and small, that unresolved tension, pain or fears of our past can rob our futures. BUT the good news is, that growth and healing are anecdotal and possible. What in your past could you heal that would make way for a better future? Jason gives us a guide to discovering. His latest book, "Get Past Your Past" is now available everywhere books are sold.Connect with Christian or find her book "Break Up with What Broke You" at ChristianBevere.com2023-10-1920 minDear Future HusbandWhy You Can't Be Unequally Yoked During DatingThe Bible puts it plainly, "Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers." (2 Corin. 6:14) but WHAT does that mean and WHY is this a word of wisdom? Let's gain a better understanding of this verse so we can head this instruction in singleness to journey toward fruitful marriages.Connect with Christian or find her book "Break Up with What Broke You" at ChristianBevere.com2023-10-1214 minDear Future HusbandAre You An Emotional Wreck in Dating?! ft. Debra FiletaEmotions are an important and integral part of any relationship, and they can greatly affect the dynamics between partners. Professional counselor and author, Debra Fileta, shows how owning your thoughts and emotions allows us to better function as individuals and partners.Connect with Christian or find her book "Break Up with What Broke You" at ChristianBevere.com2023-10-0533 minDear Future HusbandTalking About S*X with My Mother-In-Law?! ft. Lisa BevereConnect with Christian or find her book "Break Up with What Broke You" at ChristianBevere.com2023-09-2824 minDear Future HusbandDumped By Her Fiancé on Valentines Day😮 ft. Stefanie RouseNo one, I mean absolutely no one, likes the feelings rejection brings. Whether it's from a heartbreaking relationship or not being picked for sports in grade school, rejection can urge the question: "Was I not enough?" In this episode, relationship counselor and rejection overcomer, Stefanie Rouse, shares how she found her foundation in God when faced with those same questions.Connect with Christian or find her book "Break Up with What Broke You" at ChristianBevere.com2023-09-2132 minDear Future HusbandCan You Manifest Your Future Husband!? 💍Aladdin had his magic genie but now we get manifestation?! This concept is a hot topic these days with many people dabbling in the idea that we can wish something into the universe and it will respond accordingly. But that's not plausible anddd that's not actually what manifestation really is! Tune in for this chat about how we can correctly nurture our heart desires in a time of waiting.Connect with Christian or find her book "Break Up with What Broke You" at ChristianBevere.com2023-09-1411 minDear Future HusbandA Love Doctor's Advice for Dating As A Christian ft. Dr. Morgan CutlipWe asked Psychologist and Relationship Consultant, Dr. Morgan Cutlip, "What should a Christian woman be looking for when dating?" Her answer may surprise you! Through her field experience and as a wife and mom, she has advice for helping couples BEGIN on the right foot.Connect with Morgan at My Love Thinks or pre-order her book "Love Your Kids Without Losing Yourself" before its release this Fall.”Connect with Christian or find her book "Break Up with What Broke You" at ChristianBevere.com2023-09-0741 minDear Future HusbandBeauty Standards, Botox, and Why Boys Cannot Be Our ValidationThe standards for beauty today are widely varied, ever-changing, and quite frankly—unattainable. Even the woman we'd think is the most beautiful in the room, may be picking herself apart in the mirror. How can we find a genuine and secure self-admiration that isn't fleeting or fictitious? We hope this episode, with my friend Nava, will inspire your beautiful self.Connect with Christian or find her book "Break Up with What Broke You" at ChristianBevere.com2023-08-3122 minDear Future HusbandShe Was "Too Much" For A Guy To Like Her ft. Nicole RenardHave you ever been told you're too ___ to find someone? Maybe someone's told you that you're too ambitious or successful, perhaps they said you're too pretty, oh or too religious?! If someone has said who you are means you have to lower your standards, then friend you're in good company.In this episode, Nicole Renard (a.k.a Nicole the Nomad) shares how she could have let her God-given abilities make her downplay herself but why she's glad she didn't take that advice and settle.Connect with Christian or find her book "Break Up with What...2023-08-2425 minDear Future Husband3 Reasons You Could Be Self-Sabotaging Your RelationshipsFinding "the one" won't matter if we are not ready to keep the relationship. Self-sabotaging your relationships looks like avoiding emotion or conflict, ending without reason, comparing or compromising. If you've been there, this episode is to bring you awareness and hope!!If you're looking for a resource to help you overcome shame, regret or fear, get your copy of my new book, Break Up with What Broke You, today and let's go on this healing journey together.Connect with Christian or find her book "Break Up with What Broke You" at ChristianBevere.com2023-08-1711 minDear Future HusbandIs Self-Love Selfish?! ft. Hannah CrewsEvery woman enjoys a little R&R but have we over-indulged in the idea of self love? Hannah Crews comes on to show how we can find a healthy fusion with loving ourselves and loving selflessly like Jesus. As a mother, wife, author, and hilarious human, she will stir you to think and cause you to laugh.Be on the look for her devotional launching March 2024!Connect with Christian or find her book "Break Up with What Broke You" at ChristianBevere.com2023-08-1024 minDear Future HusbandIs He Showing You Attention Or Intention!? ft. Georgia BrownA like on our photo or "good morning" text sounds like grounds for brownie points today, but have we lowered our standards to much for how a guy shows his interest? In this episode, Georgia Brown urges us ladies to raise the bar back in dating! Know how to decide if a guy is showing you mere attention or purposeful intention.Connect with Christian or find her book "Break Up with What Broke You" at ChristianBevere.com2023-08-0335 minDear Future HusbandWhen You Feel Stuck In A Waiting Period, Try THIS! ft. Jenessa WaitWho better to speak to this topic than my friend, author, and business entrepreneur, Jenessa Wait. Not only is her last name complimentary to the subject, she has keen wisdom on how a waiting period can go from a setback to a setup!Connect with Christian or find her book "Break Up with What Broke You" at ChristianBevere.com2023-07-2830 minDear Future HusbandHow to Surrender Your Story and Trust God ft. Tara SunTrusting God can be easier said than done. What do you do with bad news? How do you stay patient in the waiting? Podcast host, author and new friend, Tara Sun, shares the way she's learned to surrender her story and developed a steady trust in God and His Word.Get Tara's book, Surrender Your Story, wherever books are sold or at www.tarasun.comConnect with Christian or find her book "Break Up with What Broke You" at ChristianBevere.com2023-07-2030 minDear Future Husband4 Indicators You May Not Be Ready for Marriage ft. Chelsea HurstThere may be habits or areas in your life making you unprepared for marriage—Ouch! But here's the good news: we all have areas to grow in AND can become better from if we embrace the process. For this episode, Chelsea Hurst, author of "Marriage Minded" shares patterns we can overcome that will allow us to enter into marriage more whole and prepared.Connect with Christian or find her book "Break Up with What Broke You" at ChristianBevere.com2023-07-1325 minDear Future HusbandWhat Does "Content in Singleness" Even Look Like? ft. Ashley HetheringtonIf you're single, there's about a 110% chance you've heard that you should be content in singleness. But what does that mean? Or better yet, what does that look like?I brought on a girlfriend who is embodying the idea beautifully, Ashley Hetherington, and she gave us an inside look at how she trusts God in the waiting while not waiting to thrive where she is planted!Connect with Christian or find her book "Break Up with What Broke You" at ChristianBevere.com2023-07-0725 minDear Future HusbandStewarding Your Sexuality in Singleness ft. a Christian Sex Therapist"Woah woah, Christian, did you just use sex and singleness in the same sentence?" Yes, I did! When we pursue purity, it can feel like a minefield—how do we dodge all the temptations, shame, or desires? In this episode, I brought on Christian sex therapist Danisa Suarez to enlighten us on how we can nurture God's gift of sexuality in a manner that doesn't leave us exposed but prepared.You can find more from Danisa at https://www.ccicounseling.com.Connect with Christian or find her book "Break Up with What Broke You" at...2023-06-2931 min
Sons and DaughtersI Wouldn't Marry My Fiancé If They Were Doing ThisOkay it's the night before one of the most magical days of your life, your wedding day, how are you spending it? Bachelor/bachelorette parties are a time-honored tradition, but these days it seems like they're getting out of hand. We’re now seeing these celebrations turn into “ragers” or unprincipled escapades. Is there a way to enjoy them without overdoing it? Or does it really even matter? Find out in this episode!
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Interested in Christian's book she mentioned? Get it here 40% off! https://bakerbookhouse.com/products/4921042023-06-2822 minDear Future HusbandEmotional Trauma and Its Effects on S*XWhat would you do if on your wedding night, you found out you couldn't have sex with your spouse? This was the reality of author and dear friend, Mackenzie Briel Nelson. Through a seven-year healing journey, she was finally able to be emotionally and physically intimate with her husband. Now she's sharing her testimony and valuable lessons so other women can be healthy in their mind, spirit, and body.Find her new book "Why Orange" everywhere books are sold.Connect with Christian or find her book "Break Up with What Broke You" at ChristianBevere.com2023-06-2524 minDear Future HusbandPlease Stop Shaming Yourself ft. Tori MastersShame is a complex emotion that can happen to any of us for a handful of reasons: regret, trauma, rejection, insecurity, etc. Any lingering shame will affect the way we see ourselves, handle our relationships, and move forward in the future. Take it from two girls who have had their own battles with shame... it's something you want to break free from TODAY!In this conversation, we discuss how shame affects us and why we must combat it. My friend, encourager and YouTube personality, Tori Masters, and I share what helped us and what we wish we...2023-06-2436 minDear Future HusbandAre You Dating or Baiting?! ft. Caden FabrizioThere are plenty of fish in the sea, but do we really want to be baiting and luring in our spouse? I sat down with our friend, Caden Fabrizio, and asked him how he approaches dating as a single Christian male. He shares his red flags, guardrails, and methods for navigating dating with clarity and vision.Be sure to check out his podcast, Questions with Caden, or if you're in the LA area join him and other young adults for YONA nights.Connect with Christian or find her book "Break Up with What Broke You"...2023-06-2431 minSons and DaughtersKnow This Before Long Distance DatingWelcome to the FIRST episode of our re-imagined podcast, Love Unscripted with Arden and Christian Bevere, where we talk from the heart for the heart. This season, we'll discuss dating, friendships, and other relational dynamics and topics.
We're kicking off this episode chatting about a much anticipated one—LONG DISTANCE DATING. After doing long distance both our entire dating and engagement seasons, we learned a thing or two we're sharing for couples in the same boat or anyone wondering if dating with distance is possible!2023-06-1829 minSons and DaughtersThe Joy of FriendshipAre you being compromised by the company you keep? Do you struggle to feel connected to a community? If you're like most people, building solid, life-giving, mutually encouraging friendships can be, well, complicated. Today on Let's Talk About It, Arden Bevere and Tracy Campbell bring this season's conversations to a close by unpacking the virtues of godly friendship. Great friendships don't happen by accident. They are the fruit of intentional investment over time. Tune in today to hear powerful insights about developing healthier and more fulfilling friendships and get equipped to build deeper community in yo...2022-07-2128 minSons and DaughtersPractical Ways to Create Self-DisciplineDo you feel stuck? Perhaps a bit unsure of your next step in life? In today's world, it can often feel like we have endless options at our fingertips—but with so many paths before us, deciding where to direct our energy can be challenging.Today, on the Sons and Daughters Podcast, Arden and Addison Bevere inspire us with a practical route in pursuing future endeavors. They share many powerful ways to create self-discipline that will fit into any direction you might feel God calling you!It’s time to move from amateur to expe...2022-07-0723 minSons and DaughtersGenerosity as a LifestyleDo you have a desire to live more expansively? Are you craving a life of greater influence but don't know where to begin? If so, you're in good company!In this episode of the Sons & Daughters podcast, Arden and Christian Bevere dive into one of the primary keys to enlarging your world—generosity. There are so many ways to be generous today. You can be generous with your time, talents, and treasures, but however you choose to give, we believe generosity is a key to unlocking your potential and calling. If you want to step into mo...2022-06-2324 minSons and DaughtersDisagreeing Without DividingDo you struggle with loving people who constantly disagree with you? Or perhaps you’re afraid to voice your opinion in the first place?It feels increasingly impossible to have healthy confrontational and/or controversial conversations. Emotions rise, fingers point, and people get hurt.In this episode of Sons & Daughters, Addison and Juli Bevere dive into how we can connect with people who hold different opinions and the balance between variance and commonality in the body of Christ.Don’t miss out on the wisdom needed to navigate this cultural moment.
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Sons and DaughtersLoving Yourself More Than Your ImageThe statement, “I am loved, so I love without reservation” requires us to remove all constraints on the way we love. If you’re prone to withholding love until certain expectations are met—whether that’s toward yourself, your spouse, or others—you’ll fail to enter into the life of love God intends for you to experience. In this episode, mama Lisa Bevere shares how God taught her to live loved and how that empowered her to overcome a six-year eating disorder and the fear of abandonment.2021-10-2026 minSons and DaughtersThe Tension in Trusting GodTrusting God can often seem like a rollercoaster experience, but it doesn’t have to be that scary! In this episode, Christian and Juli share personal stories and the lessons they’ve learned as they’ve navigated trusting God in different seasons.
2021-05-0535 minSons and DaughtersThe Labels that Limit Us with Arden BevereHave you ever been labeled in a negative way? Maybe you’ve been called things like: entitled, broken, or lost? In this episode, Christian hosts Arden to discuss how we can redefine the negative labels spoken over us so that we can awaken to our God-given callings.2021-01-2029 minSons and Daughters100% Man and 100% GodHave you ever stopped and wondered how Jesus was 100% man and 100% God? In this episode, Arden and Christian have a conversation around the son of man's supremacy and how His holiness plays into our lives as Sons and Daughters.2020-12-0928 minSons and DaughtersGod-Sized DreamsChasing dreams may be one of the last things on our minds after navigating 2020. Many of us have felt discouraged, ill-equipped, or unmotivated to even begin asking God, "What have you called me to?"
In this episode, Christian hosts Tori Bolt as she shares how she has chased God-sized dreams through the highs and lows of the seasons.2020-11-2525 minSons and DaughtersThe Shame GameThe Devil comes to steal, kill and destroy. Often the lies He speaks are to keep us hindered by shame and far from where God is calling us.
In this episode, Arden hosts Christian and Emmy to uncover common shame tactics we can fall for and in turn miss out on our true identity.2020-09-3026 minSons and DaughtersCreated to Create with Bethel MusicCreativity is a gift from God that He readily gives, yet there are several creative expressions that we can miss if we limit what we define, or who we determine, as 'creative.'
In this episode, Arden and Christian sat down with Jeremy Riddle and Steffany Gretzinger to discuss the different facets of creativity that we can all tap into as children of God.2020-08-1913 minSons and DaughtersAddressing AnxietyAnxiety can rob us of our peace if we allow it to set up camp in our minds. Yet there is a way to master your thoughts and treat anxiety with the purest antidote—Jesus.
Tune into this episode, as Arden hosts Christian and Austin to discuss their journeys to mastering anxious thoughts.2020-08-0527 minSons and DaughtersDating: Red Flags and Frustrations Pt. TwoThe dating game is full of frustration and affects both parties in different ways. In this episode, Arden and Christian discuss common dating frustrations from both a guy and a girl’s perspective. Grab your pen, take some notes, and tune in to part two of Red Flags & Frustrations!2020-07-2229 minSons and DaughtersImproving Instagram Pt. Two with Jeanine AmapolaHow can we know if we are using social media for good? In this episode, Christian hosts Jeanine Amapola, and together, they discuss how social media can actually connect us to what and who truly matters!2020-06-1029 minSons and DaughtersImproving Instagram Pt. One with Madi PrewettIs Instagram a vessel for good, or is it producing conflict? In this episode, Christian hosts Madi Prewett, and together, they discuss how to block out negativity and post positivity. We’re positive you’re going to want to hear this one!2020-05-2720 minSons and DaughtersDealing With ConflictHard conversations are . . . hard! But are we supposed to avoid conflict or face it head on? In this Episode, Arden hosts Christian and Alec to discuss healthy ways to deal with conflict.2020-04-1526 minSons and DaughtersSpill the Tea, Sis!Let's be real, dating would be a lot easier if there was a step-by-step manual. But with so many stereotypes and misconceptions about finding "the one," we wanted to simplify the process. In this episode, Christian is joined by Juli and Brooke to demystify the clichés of dating.
2020-02-1325 minSons and DaughtersThe Good Life of a SaintIn this first episode of 2020, Arden is joined by older brother Addison Bevere who talks about his new book, SAINTS, and why the good life isn't something we find . . . it's someone we become. Make sure you tune in and grab a copy of SAINTS!To pre-order Saints and claim your free goodies, please visit: messengerpodcasts.com/offer
2020-01-1628 minSons and DaughtersPolitics & Honoring AuthorityThere are many hard conversations around politics today, and sometimes it can be difficult to know how we should engage them. In this episode, Arden Bevere is joined by Sara Fernandez to discuss how she navigated working in politics as a young female believer, and how we should be operating as Sons and Daughters of God in today’s politically charged world.2019-11-2119 minSons and DaughtersThe Enneagram - Is It Worth the Hype?It seems like everyone is talking about the Enneagram these days. There's been some back and forth on how the enneagram should be used or if it even should be used by believers. So our host, Arden, sat down with Christian and Brooke to dive into this hot topic and discuss how they use the Enneagram as a tool in their faith journey.2019-10-1714 minSons and DaughtersHow to Have Hard Conversations About SinIt’s hard to not sound judgy (not a word) when we have conversations about sin. But we believe there is a way to navigate difficult topics with both grace and truth. In this episode, Arden and Addison Bevere explore how we can love and challenge our friends through every season of life.2019-09-1218 minSons and DaughtersDepression & HopeThere is no question that our generation faces depression and anxiety more than ever before . . . but why is this happening? In this episode, Arden and Austin Bevere tackle this difficult conversation.
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2019-08-2217 minSons and DaughtersSummer RomanceLooking for some summer romance? In this episode, Arden Bevere is joined by Julianna and Addison Bevere as they tell the story of how God weaved their lives together while offering practical advice on flings, romance, and relationships.
2019-06-1323 minSons and DaughtersAfter Graduation—What Do I Do Now?Are you graduating and don’t know what to do with your life? With so many options and opinions out there, it can be hard to find your way. In this episode, Arden Bevere is joined by his wife, Christian, and friend Brooke Herzog to talk about the different paths they took and how they navigated that big question: What are you doing next?
2019-05-1627 minSons and DaughtersMoney, Money, Money!Money can be confusing. How do I budget? How do I invest? Why should I give? In this episode, Julianna Bevere is joined by Addison and Austin to tackle these questions and demystify money.
2019-04-1923 minSons and DaughtersAbortion & Identity ft. Lisa BevereIt is no secret that the topics of identity and abortion are both extremely important, but how do we, as sons and daughters of God, address them in truth and love? In this episode, Arden Bevere is joined by Lisa Bevere to tackle this difficult topic.
2019-03-2128 minSons and DaughtersSuccessful Relationships—Part Two"First comes love, then comes . . ." Just talking about marriage can be terrifying to millennials. But we should we excited about this milestone, not afraid! In Part Two of our Successful Relationships series, Austin and Arden host John and Lisa Bevere to discuss navigating engagement and marriage.
2019-02-2122 minSons and DaughtersSuccessful Relationships—Part OneAre you single? Dating? Just wanting to know how on Earth to love "well"? In Part One of our Successful Relationships series, Austin and Arden host John and Lisa Bevere to talk about how to love well in each season.
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