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Baransu Balance PodcastSuspect ADHD? Now What? With Dr. Nekeshia HammondProblems concentrating? Your child can't stay still? How do you diagnose ADHD and how to advocate for your child if your child is diagnosed? Stay tuned to hear ADHD and mental health epert Dr. Nekeshia Hammond. Listen to the end for inspirational thoughts about balance. See helpful references and bio. Timestamp 00:00 Introduction 03:32 Early signs of ADHD 05:37 Diagnosis process, at least 6 months of symptoms 07:25 Contributing factors 09:38 Diet and lifestyle 11:51 Step-by-step support for parents 15:27 School support process, know your rights 16:55 ADHD support beyond h...2025-05-2629 min
Fintech HuntingFinTech Hunting Featuring Christine Beckwith: The Truth About Today’s Market, Coaching, Rising AgainThe FinTech Hunting Podcast | Featuring Christine Beckwith: The Truth About Today’s Market, Coaching, and Rising Again🔥 In this jam-packed episode of the FinTech Hunting Podcast, host Michael Hammond welcomes back a true industry legend—Christine Beckwith, Founder & CEO of 20/20 Vision for Success.From breaking down current market conditions to sharing game-changing strategies for loan officers, Christine delivers raw, real, and relevant insights every mortgage and real estate professional needs to hear.🎯 What You'll Learn:Why the biggest challenge today isn’...2025-03-2625 min
Inner Source - Healing from Toxic Abuse41. Interview with Christine Hammond of Understanding Today's Narcissist
Exploring the Narcissistic Mind: An Interview with Christine Hammond"
In this episode I speak with another expert in the field of mental health about the complex world of narcissism. Join in on the conversation with renowned therapist and author, Christine Hammond, from 'Understanding the Narcissist.' We embark on an enlightening journey to try to gain a deeper understanding of healing from toxic abuse.
Christine Hammond, a leading expert in the field, offers unparalleled insights into the intricacies of narcissistic personalities and how they can profoundly impact the lives of those in their...2023-10-2053 min
Understanding Today's NarcissistDr. Crystal Hollenbeck - The Truth About Narcissistic Traits and Denial in Sex AddictionChristine Hammond interviews Dr. Crystal Hollenbeck, a licensed mental health counselor, about sexual addiction and narcissistic traits. They discuss the signs of sex addiction, how narcissistic traits show up in denial, and the difference between being an actual narcissist and somebody who's an addict with narcissistic traits. They also talk about what it's like to be in a relationship with somebody who might have a sex addiction with narcissistic traits. Dr. Hollenbeck emphasizes that not every addict is a narcissist, but some narcissists can become addicts due to their belief that they are invincible.Advertising Inquiries...2023-04-2811 min
Divorce and Mortgage StrategiesEp: 4.2023 - The Importance of Mental Health in Divorce with Christine Hammond and Don Moll, CDLP®Divorce is stressful! It's both emotionally and mentally draining. It's important to take care of your mental health so you can focus on the tasks at hand, managing your way through the divorce to come out healthy and on the road to recovery.Listen to an interview of Christine Hammond by Don Moll, Certified Divorce Lending Professional with the Divorce Lending Association.Christine Hammond is a leading mental health influencer, author, and guest speaker. As an author of the award-winning “The Exhausted Woman’s Handbook,” and more than 500 articles, Christine has more than one million people...2023-03-0912 min
The Respectful Divorce PodcastChristine HammondOn today’s edition of the Respectful Divorce Podcast, we are talking with Christine Hammond a leading mental health influencer, author of Abuse Exposed: Identifying Family Secrets That Breed Dysfunction and the Exhausted Woman’s Handbook.
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Understanding Today's NarcissistPart 3 of an interview with Dr. Nadine Macaluso, LMFTPart 3 of an interview with Dr. Nadine Macaluso, LMFT
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Restoring Resilience
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Understanding Today's NarcissistPart 2 of an interview with Dr. Nadine Macaluso, LMFTPart 2 of an interview with Dr. Nadine Macaluso, LMFT
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Restoring Resilience
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Understanding Today's NarcissistPart 1 of an interview with Dr. Nadine Macaluso, LMFTPart 1 of an interview with Dr. Nadine Macaluso, LMFT
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Restoring Resilience
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Understanding Today's NarcissistThe Narcissistic Cycle of Abuse Among SiblingsAs sisters, Nicole and Sofi grew up in a two-parent, middle class family. From the outside looking in, things appeared normal and healthy. But for Sofi, life was very difficult. Her sister bullied her, stole prized possessions, would lie and blame Sofi for things that went wrong, physically hit her, and destroyed some of Sofi’s things. Yet, Nicole seemed to charm their parents, constantly making Sofi out to look like the dangerous one.
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Understanding Today's Narcissist5 Ways to Survive Narcissistic In-LawsIt was a second marriage for Clark and Claudia so they were both prepared for a difficult first couple of years as they blended their families together. But what they did not expect was the added difficulty of Clark’s parents. He knew that they were narcissistic and even prepared Claudia for their limited encounters. However, the holidays brought out an intensity that Clark did not expect. It also was Clark’s birthday and his mother invited them by saying, “Only I know how to properly celebrate our special day.” The passive-aggressive comment was just the beginning of the strange...2021-10-1513 min
Understanding Today's NarcissistChristine Hammond Interviews Chris and Lisa, Part 2Christine Hammond Interviews Chris and Lisa, Part 2Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy2021-07-3018 min
Understanding Today's NarcissistChristine Hammond Interviews Chris and Lisa, Part 1Christine Hammond Interviews Chris and Lisa, Part 1Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy2021-07-2319 min
Understanding Today's NarcissistHow to Talk to your Narcissistic BossAfter years of speculation, you have finally come to the realization that your boss is a narcissist. Since this is not the type of economy where you can just leave your job and expect to get another one quickly, you find yourself stuck and miserable in a job that normally you would like except for your narcissistic boss.
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Understanding Today's Narcissist12 Traits of a Narcissistic BossThere are bad bosses. The type that gets promoted without any managerial, interpersonal, or organizational skills. There are even scary bosses. The type that is unnecessarily threatening, overly aggressive, or ignorant to the point of causing others harm. But then there are the dark, sinister, or ominous bosses. This type is in a category all by themselves.
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Hope when there was noneHow not to raise a narcissistic child with Christine HammondChristine Hammond, MS, LMHC, and Author of "The Exhausted Woman's Handbook" as we discuss the very important subject of, "How not to raise a narcissistic child", tips and suggestions to help you and your family.
Ms. Hammond specializes in psychotherapy with families in transition, trauma, personality disorders, and addictions. She provides family and individual therapy using evidence-based psychotherapy methodology. She provides Parenting Coordination, mediation, and functions as collaborative mental health neutral. Ms. Hammond writes blogs, articles, newsletters, videos, webinars, podcasts, and a book.
Her website is GrowWithChristine.com. Her professional blog is the Exhausted Woman...2021-06-0530 min
Understanding Today's NarcissistNarcissistic MirroringTry to point out a narcissist’s mistakes and the attack is likely to be returned with force. Expect a narcissist to show understanding during a difficult time and the conversation will quickly be turned back towards the narcissist. Ask a narcissist to forgive an error in judgement and a detailed accounting of all blunders will be recounted.
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Understanding Today's NarcissistHow to Counteract Parental AlienationSince writing an article about parental alienation (What Parental Alienation Is and Is Not), several readers have asked for a follow-up article on how to prevent to minimize the damage of any alienation they have experienced. While others have said that parental alienation doesn’t happen, that it is pop-psychology, and it is not real.
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Understanding Today's NarcissistThe Love-Bomb Entrapment of NarcissismKatrina couldn’t believe how her friend was treating her husband at dinner. She was demanding, controlling, domineering, belittling, unrelenting, sarcastic, and unnecessarily rude. For some time now, Katrina suspected that her friend was narcissistic and after the evening they spent together, she was even more convinced.
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Understanding Today's NarcissistDon’t Argue: Use These 9 Rules of EngagementIt was clear that after 7 years of marriage, Jack and Jill still loved each other. But they way they solved problems, or rather, the way they didn’t solve problems, was destroying their marriage. The last argument ended in a physical altercation and a wrestling match that left them ashamed and humiliated. Neither had ever engaged in this manner before so the shock of how quickly they escalated took them by surprise.
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Understanding Today's Narcissist7 Steps to Emerging from the Abuse FogIt finally hit. After years of wondering what was wrong, who was crazy, and how this could have happened, the reality of abusive behavior hits like a ton of bricks. The insight is simultaneously overwhelming, shocking, frustrating, disgusting, and demeaning. But there it is the answer that was longed for but may never have been fully considered until this moment. Then everything became clear.
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Understanding Today's NarcissistHow a Narcissist Treats a COVID-19 SpouseKathy woke-up startled to hear her phone ring so at 5 am, with COVID-19 and a stay-at-home order in place, she was immediately worried. On the line calling her was her narcissistic dad, which he hadn’t done since she left home, so she was immediately on high alert.
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Understanding Today's Narcissist17 Deceptive Excuses for Abusive BehaviorHaving grown up in an abusive family and now in a relationship with an abusive wife, Bradon believed the excuses constantly dished out to him by his abusive mother and wife. Beaten down, confused, hazy, and exhausted, he sought out help from a therapist. At first, he could not comprehend that he was the victim of abuse. He believed the lies that he was to blame. He thought abuse was only physical. But then Brandon learned it could also be verbal, emotional, mental, sexual, spiritual, and financial.
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Understanding Today's NarcissistLies Abusers Tell Their VictimsEver wondered what abuse sounds like? What do abusers say to their victims to get them to acquiesce? Some of the statements listed below might even sound acceptable in certain environments, but they are not. Abusive behavior is pervasive and without awareness, it will continue.
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Understanding Today's Narcissist10 Traits That May Indicate a Personality DisorderAs a general rule, people with personality disorders can be difficult to get along or maintain a healthy relationship with. They can be argumentative, stubborn, and frustrating if there is a lack of understanding about what a PD really means or how it manifests itself in an individual. A person with a PD has an inaccurate perception of reality which is pervasive in every environment and is not diagnosed until 18 years old. However, there always is a previous history of five years giving indications that a person has a PD before their formal diagnosis that can still help those...2020-07-0210 min
Understanding Today's NarcissistWhat is a personality disorder?Eventually, as is the case in everyone’s life, whether it be a family member, co-worker, neighbor, or friend, you will come across a person with a personality disorder (PD). Although it can usually be hard to discern if a person has a PD at the beginning of the relationship, its presence will soon come to light. Having an accurate understanding of both what a personality disorder is and where it may be coming from is essential to keep the frustration of navigating them to a minimum.Read moreAdvertising Inquiries: ht...2020-06-1713 min
Behind The Smiles: With Dr. Gina DorfmanPatient Point of View with Christine HammondIn this episode of Behind The Smiles, our guest Christine Hammond joins Dr. Gina to talk about Christine's experience working as a dental scheduling coordinator for seven and a half years, as well as working for YAPI for two years. Christine clearly has a lot of experience working in the dental office and outside of the dental office to provide solutions for dentists and their teams. Christine talks about how the little details matter in a dental office, strategies to gain online reviews, and how to avoid broken appointments and communicate with patients. 2020-06-091h 01
Understanding Today's NarcissistHow to Survive When Quarantined with a NarcissistAfter being married to a narcissistic wife for over 10 years and quarantined at home with her for the last several weeks, Ben had enough. His whole body started to reject his spouse’s self-centeredness by plaguing him with intense pain and repeated anxiety attacks that he could no longer ignore. He wanted to go to the doctor but his symptoms didn’t constitute an office visit. Instead via Telehealth, his doctor concluded that the pain and anxiety were psychosomatic. This, of course, infuriated him even more. Read more...Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com...2020-05-2110 min
Understanding Today's NarcissistHow a Narcissist Treats a COVID-19 SpouseKathy woke-up startled to hear her phone ring so at 5 am, with COVID-19 and a stay-at-home order in place, she was immediately worried. On the line calling her was her narcissistic dad, which he hadn’t done since she left home, so she was immediately on high alert. He skipped any niceties and immediately started with what a terrible daughter she was. He explained that her mother was sick with COVID-19 and it was all her fault. He gave no details about her mom’s illness and when Kathy tried to inquire, he abruptly hung up the phone...2020-05-0712 min
Understanding Today's Narcissist6 Ways a ‘Silent Treatment’ Is AbusiveMatt knew he messed up but he wasn’t sure how. His wife’s complete silence towards him over the last few days was a signal that he made some sort of mistake. The problem was, according to his wife, Matt made daily errors in judgment, so he was completely in the dark. Did he drink too… (more…)Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy2020-04-1611 min
Understanding Today's NarcissistWhat is gaslighting?A man obsessed with stealing valuable jewels murders one woman and attempts to drive the other one (his wife) crazy. His single-mindedness, driven by selfish motives, caused him to deceive and manipulate in order to obtain what he wanted regardless of the cost to others. Bit by bit, he torments his wife until she believes… (more…)Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy2020-04-0214 min
Understanding Today's NarcissistAm I Becoming a Narcissist?Alice woke up crying. The reality of a previous night of fighting, slamming doors, and breaking plates came into full view. The house was a mess, her husband of eight years was gone, and she felt as broken as the plates. She could hardly recognize herself anymore. In the middle of the screaming last night,… (more…)Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy2020-03-1811 min
Understanding Today's NarcissistShould I Stay or Should I Go?David wondered if it was time for his relationship with Stephanie to end. In the beginning, things were great, and he thought that he found the love of his life. She was charming, helpful, generous, and gentle. But as time passed, new problems emerged. The ease of their relationship was now tumultuous. The excitement and… (more…)Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy2020-03-0513 min
Understanding Today's NarcissistCan Narcissism Be Fixed?Stacey was frustrated by her adult 35-year-old son with two failed marriages (everything was the ex’s fault), five career changes (his bosses hated him and wanted to get rid of him), a couple of DUIs, and now living back at home. No matter what happened, other people were to blame for his relationship and career failures. Stacey was sympathetic but exhausted from the constant drama in her son’s life. Read more...Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy2020-02-2013 min
Understanding Today's Narcissist5 Ways to Survive Narcissistic In-LawsIt was a second marriage for Clark and Claudia so they were both prepared for a difficult first couple of years as they blended their families together. But what they did not expect was the added difficulty of Clark’s parents. He knew that they were narcissistic and even prepared Claudia for their limited encounters. However, the holidays brought out an intensity that Clark did not expect. It also was Clark’s birthday and his mother invited them by saying, “Only I know how to properly celebrate our special day.” The passive-aggressive comment was just the beginning of the strange...2020-02-0611 min
Understanding Today's Narcissist13 Types of Relationship AffairsWhat is an affair? It is a sexual encounter, romantic comrade, or obsessive attachment between two people without a significant other’s knowledge. It can come in many forms but all of them have the underlying issue of a betrayal of trust, unfaithfulness to a commitment, and infidelity of the relationship. Sometimes it destroys the initial relationship and other times the relationship can survive. Read more...Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy2019-12-0513 min
Understanding Today's NarcissistNarcissistic Abuse: Cyberbullying and CyberstalkingShirley thought that the abuse from her narcissistic husband would be over after the divorce was finalized. But it wasn’t. Instead, he found a new way to harass, embarrass, and torment her. He began to cyberbully and cyberstalk. Read more...Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy2019-11-2113 min
Understanding Today's NarcissistMy Spouse is a Narcissist, Now What?After reading several articles on narcissism, Kaitlyn realized that her husband was one. She knew that something was off for years but couldn’t put her finger on it. She fell in love immediately with him and within months, they were married. She thought she met the perfect person, he was charming, attentive, and sensitive. But shortly after the marriage, things changed. Read more...Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy2019-11-2114 min
Understanding Today's NarcissistThe Rules of Living in a Narcissistic FamilyEvery family has unspoken rules like: don’t wake mom when she is taking a nap, no matter what it tastes like say dad’s cooking is good, or always clean before grandma comes to the house. These guidelines are followed without question to keep the family running smoothly. However, when a narcissist is added to the mix, the rules take on more intensity. Read more...Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy2019-11-0712 min
Women Kick AssWomen Kick Ass: Christine AdamsWomen Kick Ass. Danielle talks to Actress Christine Adams about her current role in the hit TV show Black Lightening. They talk about how the this character has had an impact because of the strength of character and not because of powers. https://www.instagram.com/officialchristineadams/ https://twitter.com/ChristineAdams https://www.danielleburgio.com/ https://twitter.com/DaniBurgio1111 https://www.artemismotionpictures.com/ Produced by Hammond Chamberlain @jhammondc on twitter for information about his work www.jhammondc.com2019-10-1543 min
Understanding Today's NarcissistHow Do Deceptive People Get Away with It?David was the charismatic leader of a large not-for-profit organization which gave aid and care for the homeless. Over the past ten years, his organization, under his energetic leadership, grew substantially as donations increased, new shelters were formed, and thousands of people were assisted. On the surface, things seemed to above board and working well. But it wasn’t. Read more...Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy2019-10-0311 min
Understanding Today's NarcissistNarcissistic Rescuers: Beware of the BacklashThe narcissist appears at the optimal time. A grieving family is destroyed over the death of a parent and is in desperate need of emotional stability. A spouse is torn apart by divorce and is starved for normal amounts of positive attention. A friend is destroyed by the betrayal of another and is craving a close relationship for support. Now, enter the narcissist. Hidden by a veil of perfection, the narcissist immediately endears themselves to the needy person (pets included) and navigates any personality differences with ease. They are charming, caring, generous, kind, and seem to have i...2019-09-1913 min
Understanding Today's Narcissist7 Indicators of a Narcissistic FriendDawn ran into the grocery store to grab a few things after a long day of work when she bumped into a friend. “Where have you been? It’s so good to see you?” her friend inquired. “You know … work, family, kids. We’ve been so busy lately,” Dawn quickly replied while knowing that what she said was wrong. Unable to examine it at that moment she put the thought out of her head until she was alone in her car. Read more...Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https...2019-09-0511 min
Understanding Today's NarcissistNarcissists and Their Flying MonkeysArt imitates life and so it is with “Flying Monkeys”. The term was coined from the movie “The Wizard of Oz” in which the Wicked Witch dispatches monkeys to fly and get Dorothy and her dog. The monkeys obey her command, doing her dirty work for her, taunting and terrorizing Dorothy as she tries in vain to get back home. And so it is with narcissists and their flying monkeys. Read more...Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy2019-08-1611 min
Understanding Today's NarcissistWho is the Most Narcissistic Generation?Millennials are known as the most narcissistic generation of our time. The overindulge attention, special treatment for nothing special, and excessive emotional tolerance that parents gave their kids have not resulted in a more productive generation but rather one that seems apathetic. It’s a toss-up between who is more confused: Millennials because the world does not work the way they envision it should or other generations because they don’t understand how Millennials think. How did this happen? Some research has suggested that the lack of severe economic downturn during the childhood of millennials is to blam...2019-07-0311 min
Understanding Today's Narcissist7 Ways to Protect Your Kids from Your Narcissistic ExSabrina was at her wit’s end. Her narcissistic ex-husband hit an all-time low. During their marriage, she was the target for his angry rants, verbal assaults, gaslighting, and guilt-tripping. But now his attacks seemed to center around just one of their two kids. Unfortunately, it was their ten-year-old child who most resembled Sabrina’s personality that was his new target. Their twelve-year-old child seemed to escape his scrutiny despite the recent in-school suspension and two failing grades. But it was the ten-year-old who was quiet, generally compliant, and rarely got into trouble that Sabrina’s ex attack...2019-07-0313 min
Understanding Today's NarcissistWhat It’s Like to be the Daughter of a Sociopath“I hate him, with every fiber of my being, I hate him,” Marie said as she looked back on her day. “But while I hate him for this moment, I won’t let the hate linger because I’m not going to give him that power over me.” After years of silence, her bio dad sent a package of weight loss tea to her work. It was his way of saying, “Happy Mother’s Day, I see you. I’m watching you. You need to lose weight.” This was not the first package of its kind. Over the 30 years of no c...2019-06-0716 min
Understanding Today's Narcissist7 Steps of Change for a Positive Narcissistic Mid-Life CrisisChuck knew he was a jerk. He cheated on his wife several times, put his work before his family, rarely went to his kid’s activities, drank heavily on the rare occasions that he was home, and verbally berated anyone who challenged him. And yet, he was a highly successful businessman, intelligent about a wide range of topics, had numerous friends, and was charming (when he wanted to be). Nonetheless, despite getting his way most of the time, Chuck was miserable. He toyed with counselors in the past, going only when needed to preserve his marriage, but no...2019-06-0715 min
Understanding Today's NarcissistRoad to Recovery from Narcissistic ParentingIda realized her mother was a narcissist in her early 20’s. But what she didn’t expect was the developmental impact on her childhood. Normally, a child is given the freedom to explore and express their individuality so they can develop into a confident and well-balanced adult. This nurturing environment prioritizes the needs of the child over the parent without overindulgence. But this did not happen for Ida. Instead, Ida is hypersensitive to what other people might think about her. Her mother emphasized appearance and demanded perfection. When Ida would gain a few pounds, her mother would bera...2019-05-0914 min
Understanding Today's Narcissist11 Signs of a Toxic RelationshipLooking back, Jack could see that his relationship with Amanda was over several months ago, perhaps even years. But he was in denial and didn’t want to confront the painful issues that were left unresolved. What was once overlooked, minimized, explained away, or discounted is now an obvious sign of his deteriorating relationship. At first, she seemed so charming, helpful, generous, innocent, and gentle but then things turned, and an entirely different picture became apparent. Charming converted into controlling, helpful developed into obstructive, generous transformed into manipulative, innocent turned into culpable, and gentle grew into turbulent. He...2019-05-0813 min
Understanding Today's NarcissistHow to Talk about Narcissism without Saying NarcissismIt was during Tim’s divorce from his wife of 18 years that he realized she had Narcissistic Personality Disorder. She had been a vindictive woman towards others in the past, cutting people off permanently when they accidentally or intentionally embarrassed her. But for some reason, he thought his 18-year marriage commitment would inoculate him from similar treatment. It did not. Even though she agreed to get a divorce, Tim’s filings of the papers seemed to set her off to an entirely different level. In the past, she said that he was a good father. Now to ever...2019-03-2614 min
Understanding Today's NarcissistThe Addiction of NarcissismOne of the hardest types of people to deal with is a narcissist in the middle their addiction. They are completely exhausting. The combined selfishness of narcissism and addictive behavior is overpowering, relentless, callous, and frequently abusive. This destructive blend of arrogant thinking in that they are always right and that they do not have a problem leads to devastating consequences. There are many parts to the addicted narcissist and their road to recovery. The point of this article is to recognize the injurious behavior so more reasonable expectations can be established during the process and for...2019-03-2613 min
Understanding Today's NarcissistHow Narcissists Keep You from Grieving Margie was devastated when her mother passed away. Her mom was diagnosed with cancer one month and then gone by the next. She had a close relationship with her mom and frequently leaned on her for support in her marriage, parenting her kids, and balancing family and work. The loss left a huge hole in her heart that she tried to grieve but couldn’t. The day of her mom’s funeral, her husband complained about being sick and asked Margie to go to the pharmacy for him. His “sickness” prevented him from helping her get the k...2019-03-1813 min
Understanding Today's NarcissistHow to Deal with Narcissistic GrandparentsAt a family gathering, Susie’s 2-year-old son was happily running around until her mother-in-law pulled out her cane and tripped him. Susie looked on in horror as the grandmother laughed while her son cried from the fall. Then the grandmother yelled at the boy for crying, calling him a crybaby. Susie swept up her son and took him away. Later her husband asked what happened. Apparently, his mother reported that Susie was being overprotective of their son, she was coddling him, and even gave the mother an evil eye for no reason. Susie’s husband listened to a...2019-03-1811 min
Understanding Today's NarcissistObsessed: Narcissists and Their FoodIt wasn’t until Tabitha had dinner at a friend’s house as a teenager that she realized there was something odd about how her family handled food. At her friend’s, there was food with a variety of healthy and even some unhealthy snacks. Her mother didn’t have a lock on the “special food” so no one could have access. Their mealtime was engaging and fun with everyone participating in the conversation. There were no snide remarks about eating too much or being forced to eat seconds. It was an enjoyable experience. But it wasn’t until years late...2019-01-2915 min
Understanding Today's NarcissistThe Dark Tetrad: Possibly THE Scariest BossNo matter what the profession, if a boss has this personality combination, they are terrifying. The Dark Tetrad is composed of four parts: narcissism, Machiavellianism, psychopathy, and sadism. Sadism is the addition to the Dark Triad which has narcissism, Machiavellianism and psychopathy. For either condition, this means a person possesses the characteristics of all of these personalities. The Dark Tetrad shares two major characteristics: extreme selfishness and a lack of empathy for others. This combination affords the ability to cause harm and abuse others in a variety of ways without any regard for the feelings, safety, or...2019-01-2916 min
Understanding Today's NarcissistThe Dysfunctional Bond Between Narcissists and Co-DependentsMegan and Ryan decided to go to marriage counseling after their last fight resulted in the police being called. After being married for 7 years, the marriage was falling apart, and Ryan now had a police record for domestic violence as a result. The conflict did not start with Ryan hitting his wife, as the arrest record portrayed. Rather Megan was aggressive towards him – throwing things, hitting him, and physically blocking his only exit. In an effort to defended himself and get away from her, he shoved her. But when the police arrived they saw a 6’ tall man, Ryan...2018-12-0716 min
Understanding Today's NarcissistParental AlienationThere is hardly a day that doesn’t go by in my counseling practice where someone brings up the concept of parental alienation. The problem is that the term is frequently misused. For some, it is a catch phrase used to describe any and all poor parent/child relationships. After all, it is far easier to blame the ex-spouse for the child’s poor behavior than it is to look at one’s self. This article is an attempt to clear up some confusion and answer some basic questions about alienation. What is parental alienation? Parental alienation occurs...2018-12-0715 min
Understanding Today's Narcissist5 Tips for Surviving Narcissistic In-Laws over the HolidaysAs the holidays approached, Heather began to worry about the next encounter with her in-laws. Last Thanksgiving was a complete disaster. After spending days getting their new house ready for the visit, her narcissistic mother-in-law walked in the house and announced, “It’s not that bad.” Heather tried to brush it off, but the comments kept coming. “Let me help you fix the table,” she said next. Then she proceeded to reorganize the silverware, napkins, and other accessories. She grabbed the flower arrangement that was carefully done and took it apart, changing the vase and rearranging the flowers. “Y...2018-11-0717 min
Understanding Today's NarcissistThe Sociopathic Art of DeceptionAs a science teacher in a public high school, Amanda was well liked by her students. Not only was she young, beautiful, and a good communicator, but she also had a way of interacting with the students that was a bit different yet very effective. Everyone loved her – teachers, administrators, students, and parents – which, in many ways, made her feel like she was above following the rules. Then one day, when a parent accused her of improper texting with their teen son, some of her comments were found to be sexually suggestive in nature. Even though Amanda was...2018-10-3120 min
Understanding Today's NarcissistStockholm SyndromeWhat is Stockholm Syndrome? Usually the term is reserved for hostage situations referencing a bank robbery that occurred in 1973 in Stockholm Sweden. After spending 6 days in a bank vault, the four hostages refused to testify against their captors and instead raised money for their defense. The term refers to the trauma bond developed between the captor and the hostages in which the hostages feel positive feelings such as empathy for the person that is causing them harm. This allows the captor to not feel remorse for their actions as the hostages don’t hold them responsible. What are...2018-10-1714 min
Understanding Today's NarcissistHealing from a Narcissistic ParentThe moment Brian first really understood the term Narcissistic Personality Disorder, a light bulb went off in his brain. He spent most of his life thinking he was crazy, lazy, and stupid – three words his father often said about him to other family members and friends. His father also severely and harshly disciplined him, set-up unnecessary competitions in which his dad was the winner, never apologized, showed no empathy even when Brian was hurt, and treated everyone like they were inferior. For years, Brian struggle with insecurity, anxiety, depression, and feelings of inadequacy. After his business failed, Br...2018-10-1015 min
Understanding Today's NarcissistStrategies for Coping with an Adult Narcissist ChildChristine reviews the tips and techniques for coping with an adult narcissist child. Live in the present. One of the biggest temptations is to look backwards and wonder, “what if,” or “if only”. Second to that is to look too far ahead and try to predict the action of the ANC. Neither of these is productive. Narcissism is part biology, environment, and choice, so as circumstances change, so can the shape of the narcissist. Living in the present requires a bit of disciple but it is worth it. Even when the ANC has chosen the silent treatment...2018-09-2016 min
Understanding Today's NarcissistHow Not to be Your Boss' Scapegoat Understand what a scapegoat is. The purpose of a scapegoat is to pass responsibility onto someone else. Usually this person is unsuspecting at first and agrees because they are trying to get along with others. This technique of passing the buck is very common with narcissists, sociopaths, and addicts. Narcissists can’t allow their ego to be tarnished by an error. Sociopaths do it for the sport of it. And addicts do it because accepting fault in one area of their life means being accountable in another. Don’t accept liability. Looking back on the two events, Monica had an opport...2018-09-2016 min
Understanding Today's NarcissistNarcissist Awareness GriefChristine introduces the concept of "NAG" with a story of her own client, Sam. She unpacks the symptoms and the 6 stages of NAG which all need to be faced and understood. www.growwithchristine.comAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy2018-08-0515 min
Understanding Today's NarcissistWhat You Can Do If Your Teen Seems NarcissisticChistine makes suggestions - What You Can Do If Your Teen Seems Narcissistic www.growwithchristine.comAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy2018-08-0315 min
Understanding Today's NarcissistShame Based ParentingChristine talks about "shame-based" parenting. www.growwithchristine.comAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy2018-06-2617 min
Understanding Today's NarcissistParents of Narcissist? - It's Not Your FaultChristine explores the challenges facing parents of narcissistic children, and how to cope. www.growwithchristine.comAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy2018-06-2613 min
Understanding Today's NarcissistPassive Aggressive Personality TraitOn this edition, Christine unpacks the Passive-Aggressive Personality Traits - they are much like a personality disorder and often show up similar to narcissism www.growwithchristine.comAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy2018-03-2814 min
Understanding Today's NarcissistAbuse Fog www.growwithchristine.comAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy2018-03-2216 min
Understanding Today's NarcissistTrauma BondingChristine covers trauma bonds, what they are, how to identify them, and how they can effect us in a relationship with a narcissist. www.growwithchristine.comAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy2018-03-1518 min
Understanding Today's NarcissistDating Apps and NarcissismChristine visits with her colleague Nate Webster to discuss dating apps and narcissists, the relationship between this social technology and the behavior of them, and what to watch out for if you are using these apps to find a mate. www.growwithchristine.comAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy2018-03-0711 min
Understanding Today's NarcissistShaming tacticsNarcissists use shame to control people around them. It is a very real form of emotional abuse. By recognizing these tactics (there are 11 different examples) you will be better equipped to manage through these tactics. www.growwithchristine.comAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy2018-03-0615 min
Understanding Today's NarcissistSmear TacticsHow does a narcissist control you? Christine covers the 5 ways, the tactics they use in a relationship to smear you - understanding these tactics can help you out-maneuver the narcissist. www.growwithchristine.com Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy2018-02-2716 min
Understanding Today's NarcissistHidden ShameHidden shame can show up in the strangest ways, and at unexpected times in any relationship. Christine shares how an individual might lie to cover up their own hidden shame, bury the truth in an effort to protect themselves. www.growwithchristine.comAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy2018-02-2014 min
Understanding Today's NarcissistAbuse Part 8-LegalIn this ongoing series, Christine Hammond reveals the toxic ways that narcissists can be abusive in relationships and how you can protect yourself from these tactics. www.growwithchristine.comAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy2018-02-0808 min
Understanding Today's NarcissistAbuse Part 7-SpiritualIn this ongoing series, Christine Hammond reveals the toxic ways that narcissists can be abusive in relationships and how you can protect yourself from these tactics. www.growwithchristine.comAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy2018-02-0111 min
Understanding Today's NarcissistAbuse Part 6 -FinancialIn this ongoing series, Christine Hammond reveals the toxic ways that narcissists can be abusive in relationships and how you can protect yourself from these tactics. www.growwithchristine.comAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy2018-01-2511 min
Understanding Today's NarcissistAbuse Part 5-SexualIn this ongoing series, Christine Hammond reveals the toxic ways that narcissists can be abusive in relationships and how you can protect yourself from these tactics. www.growwithchristine.comAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy2018-01-1822 min
Understanding Today's NarcissistAbuse Part 2-PhysicalIn this ongoing series, Christine Hammond reveals the ways that narcissists can be abusive in relationships and how you can protect yourself from these tactics. www.growwithchristine.comAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy2018-01-0614 min
Understanding Today's NarcissistAbuse Part 3-VerbalIn this ongoing series, Christine Hammond reveals the ways that narcissists can be abusive in relationships and how you can protect yourself from these tactics. www.growwithchristine.comAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy2018-01-0613 min
Understanding Today's NarcissistAbuse Part 4-EmotionalIn this ongoing series, Christine Hammond reveals the ways that narcissists can be abusive in relationships and how you can protect yourself from these tactics. www.growwithchristine.comAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy2018-01-0615 min
Understanding Today's NarcissistAbuse Part 1-MentalIn this ongoing series, Christine Hammond reveals the ways that narcissists can be abusive in relationships and how you can protect yourself from these tactics. www.growwithchristine.comAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy2018-01-0615 min
Understanding Today's NarcissistWorking with a NarcissistA new episodeAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy2017-11-3012 min
Understanding Today's NarcissistSmear AttacksA new episodeAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy2017-11-3013 min
Understanding Today's NarcissistThe Addict NarcissistA new episodeAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy2017-11-3014 min
Understanding Today's NarcissistMale & Female Narcissists: What are the Differences?A new episodeAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy2017-11-3011 min
Understanding Today's NarcissistThe Holidays with a NarcissistA new episodeAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy2017-11-3013 min
Understanding Today's Narcissist10 Tips for Working with a NarcissistA new episodeAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy2017-11-3014 min
Understanding Today's NarcissistE011: Mommie Dearest - Daughters of Narcissistic MothersMommie Dearest: Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers: The 1981 movie, Mommie Dearest, has the infamous wire hanger scene where Joan rages over a single wire hanger in her daughter’s closet caused a stir with Joan’s physically abusive behavior. Daughters of narcissistic mothers report similar rages over small incidents. The constant shifting standards of perfectionism designed to elevate the narcissistic mother at the expense of the child defies the customary nurturing maternal instincts. www.growwithchristine.com Sponsored by: www.psychcentral.com Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/pr2017-11-2217 min
Understanding Today's NarcissistE010: Danger Ahead - The Delusional NarcissistDanger Ahead: The Delusional Narcissist: How does a narcissist go from appearing so charming and innocent to becoming harmful and dangerous? Most narcissists utilize verbal abusive tactics to get what they want in fits of rage, some do long-term mental and emotional abuse, and still fewer escalate to murderous acts. Yet, there is a very small population of narcissists that do commit heinous acts of violence like homicide, murder/suicide, mass murder, or familicide. So how does this happen? www.growwithchristine.com Sponsored by: www.psychcentral.com Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands2017-11-2216 min
Understanding Today's NarcissistE09: How to Survive a Divorce with a NarcissistDivorce is difficult. But divorcing a narcissist can feel impossible. The surprise abusive attacks followed by the desperate pleas to remain together create confusion, frustration, and anxiety. Here are a few of their tactics. For more help, join us for a 4 week live webinar on how to Survive a Divorce with a Narcissist. Register here: http://growwithchristine.com/narcissism/narcissism-copy-2/. Sponsored by www.psychcentral.comAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy2017-11-0714 min
Understanding Today's NarcissistE08: Ways Narcissists Retaliate Through ChildrenDivorcing a narcissist doesn’t solve everything. The next party on the victimization list is often the children. But really, the narcissist is just using the children to attack the ex-spouse. Learn how. For more help, join us for a 4 week live webinar on how to Survive a Divorce with a Narcissist. Register here: http://growwithchristine.com/narcissism/narcissism-copy-2/. Sponsored by www.psychcentral.comAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy2017-11-0714 min
Understanding Today's NarcissistE07: How to Divorce a NarcissistDivorcing a narcissist is grueling because they refuse to be on the receiving end of someone leaving them. It takes careful planning to avoid complete exhaustion. Follow these steps before confronting your narcissistic spouse. For more help, join us for a 4 week live webinar on how to Survive a Divorce with a Narcissist. Register here: http://growwithchristine.com/narcissism/narcissism-copy-2/. Sponsored by www.psychcentral.com.Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy2017-11-0715 min
Understanding Today's NarcissistE06: Can A Narcissist Be Remorseful?Have you ever wondered if narcissists are capable or remorse and even empathy? Discover the answer in this episode. To learn more, visit www.growwithchristine.com Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy2017-07-1716 min
Understanding Today's NarcissistE05: Covert NarcissistsWhat is a covert narcissist? And how do they differ from other types of narcissists? Discover the answer in this episode. For more information, visit www.growwithchristine.com Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy2017-06-0814 min
Understanding Today's NarcissistE04: What's In A Name?Discover the different personality disorders and how they are different and similar to narcissistic personality disorder. To learn more, visit www.growwithchristine.com Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy2017-06-0715 min
Understanding Today's NarcissistE03: Narcissistic Mothers and Their DaughtersNarcissistic mothers are often portrayed in popular culture and Disney movies. Discover the hallmark traits of narcissistic mothers and their daughters, and a case study that illustrates the dynamic between them. For more information, visit www.growwithchristine.com Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy2017-02-2513 min
Understanding Today's NarcissistE02: Narcissistic Cycle of AbuseIn this episode, you'll discover the narcissist cycle of abuse; what it is and how to deal with it effectively. Learn how to avoid verbal assaults and how the narcissist uses the cycle of abuse for their own benefit. To learn more, visit www.growwithchristine.com Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy2017-02-2513 min
Understanding Today's NarcissistE01: What Is Narcissism?Narcissism is not going away- we see in our political environment and in society in general. In this episode you'll discover what narcissism is, the origin of the term narcissism and what motivates a narcissist. For more information, visit www.growwithchristine.com Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy2017-02-2511 min