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Life Coaching with Christine HasslerHow to Know Your Next Step with ChristinaIn this soulful and courageous session, Christine coaches Christina—a woman in her mid-40s navigating a season of heartbreak, transformation, and rediscovery. After years of deep personal work, Christina finds herself between two worlds: the part that longs to repair a relationship marked by betrayal and the part that knows it may be time to let go. Through their conversation, Christine helps Christina uncover how childhood patterns of betrayal and instability shaped her adult relationships—and how her current challenge is an invitation to reclaim trust, safety, and self-worth from within. Together, they explore how to disc...
2025-10-1543 min
Life Coaching with Christine HasslerHow to Get Your Needs Met in a Long-Term Relationship with KevinIn this powerful coaching session, Christine works with Kevin, a husband of 21 years, as he explores the delicate balance between healthy relational needs and unresolved childhood wounds. Kevin opens up about longing for deeper intimacy and appreciation from his wife—and wondering if those desires are truly valid or rooted in his past. Together, they unpack how unmet childhood needs often show up in our adult relationships, especially when we expect a partner to fulfill what our parents couldn’t. Christine helps Kevin distinguish between the “little boy” who seeks attention and the “grown man” who can communicate...
2025-10-0842 min
Life Coaching with Christine HasslerWhat May Be Stopping You From Pursuing Your Dream with JessicaIn this episode, Christine coaches Jessica, a multi-passionate entrepreneur who struggles to follow through on her vision. Jessica shares how she often throws herself into new ideas with enthusiasm, only to lose momentum when life shifts or self-doubt creeps in. Although she feels deeply called to help mothers raising children in challenging family systems, she wrestles with limiting beliefs about whether people actually want what she offers. Christine helps Jessica reframe her so-called “career ADHD” as a strength—multi-passionate creativity—and uncovers the deeper fears that keep her from committing fully to her dream. They discuss the power of...
2025-10-0140 min
Life Coaching with Christine HasslerMaybe There Isn’t a Problem at All with SJIn this tender and powerful coaching session, Christine works with SJ—a single mother who has done tremendous inner work but still wonders if something is blocking her from partnership. Together, they explore the difference between apathy and protection, generational patterns, and the fear of letting someone see you at your most vulnerable. As SJ opens up about her history, caregiving responsibilities, and longing for connection, Christine reflects back the progress she’s already made and challenges the belief that there’s “a problem” to be solved. Instead, this conversation shows how surrender, self-love, and reframing our stories ca...
2025-09-2448 min
Life Coaching with Christine HasslerShould You Keep Going After Your Dreams or Go Back to What’s Safe with AndiIn this candid coaching session, Christine works with Andi, a coach who left a stable engineering career to pursue her true calling—but is now questioning whether to keep going or retreat back to what feels “safe.” After years of effort without financial stability, Andi wonders if she’s chasing a pipe dream. Christine helps her uncover the deeper dynamics at play: how childhood conditioning, generational fear, and the belief that success must follow a formula are holding her back. Together, they explore what it means to believe in your dreams even when external results lag, and how coac...
2025-09-1735 min
Life Coaching with Christine HasslerStop Being Afraid of Being Afraid with WendyIn this inspiring session, Christine coaches Wendy, who has felt stuck and frozen by fear—especially when it comes to making decisions in her relationships and career. Wendy shares her history of physical challenges, overprotective parenting, and bullying, which shaped her belief that fear and love always go hand in hand. Christine helps her see that fear doesn’t have to be a problem. Together, they explore how to release the “something is wrong with me” belief, reframe fear as an old protective pattern, and step into a new chapter defined by intention rather than paralysis. If you...
2025-09-1038 min
Life Coaching with Christine HasslerHow to Feel Connected After Feeling Disconnected with ElleIn this heartfelt coaching session, Christine supports Elle, who has done years of personal growth work but still struggles with feeling disconnected—especially in intimate relationships. Despite building a chosen family and strong friendships, Elle worries she may never find a romantic partner she feels both safe and attracted to. Past experiences of abuse and neglect have created protective strategies that now interfere with intimacy and connection. Christine helps Elle see that she is further along than she realizes, guiding her to release self-judgment and reframe her experiences. They explore how protective parts, body-based healing, and inviting th...
2025-09-0338 min
Life Coaching with Christine HasslerIncreasing Self-Worth and Confidence with ErinIn this deeply supportive session, Christine coaches Erin, who has struggled with self-worth, self-trust, and confidence throughout her life. Recently assessed as neurodivergent, Erin has experienced both relief and grief—relief in finally having clarity, but grief in recognizing how much self-criticism and self-betrayal she carried for years. Christine guides Erin through understanding how childhood modeling, people-pleasing, and bypassing emotions have impacted her confidence. Together, they explore how building self-worth comes not from external validation, but from radical self-acceptance, emotional release, and advocating for one’s needs in daily life. If you’ve ever felt “differen...
2025-08-2734 min
Life Coaching with Christine HasslerStepping Into Your Gifts, Even If It Scares You with TessaIn this powerful coaching session, Christine supports Tessa, a psychic medium navigating the challenges of fully owning her intuitive gifts after leaving a successful engineering career. While her spiritual sensitivity has deepened, she still struggles with confidence, financial consistency, and the fear of stepping fully into her calling. Christine helps Tessa uncover how early life choices for safety and belonging influenced her path, why money is a sacred energetic exchange, and how to embrace confidence without falling into imposter syndrome. This session is especially resonant for anyone who has felt torn between a “practical” career and their true...
2025-08-2041 min
Life Coaching with Christine HasslerNavigating Regret with LuciaIn this tender and eye-opening session, Christine coaches Lucia through the heartbreak and confusion of a breakup she now regrets. While the relationship was loving and emotionally safe, differences in values, lifestyle, and follow-through led to a mutual decision to part ways. Now, Lucia is wrestling with second-guessing herself and holding on to hope—while also remembering what wasn’t working. This conversation goes far beyond one relationship story. It’s about learning to trust your choices, release regret, and grieve while keeping the love. Christine helps Lucia explore self-forgiveness, avoid over-responsibility, and understand the deeper imprints from h...
2025-08-1338 min
Life Coaching with Christine HasslerGetting Clarity on a Decision That Feels Blurry with CatherineIn today’s real-time coaching session, Christine works with Catherine, who is navigating a pivotal life decision about whether to continue a long-distance relationship that is heading toward a significant next step—or to step away. As someone who struggles with indecision and fears making the “wrong” choice, Catherine is looking for clarity, confidence, and security in her next steps. Through their conversation, Christine helps her uncover a powerful truth: clarity often comes after we take action, not before. What unfolds is a healing dialogue around people-pleasing, fear of mistakes, and the patterns that keep us disco...
2025-08-0636 min
Life Coaching with Christine HasslerMoving Out of an Anxious-Avoidant Relationship Dynamic with ChloeIn this vulnerable session, Christine coaches Chloe, who finds herself caught in a painful loop of anxious and avoidant attachment patterns within her marriage. Chloe’s husband is navigating a midlife crisis and exploring his own healing journey, leaving Chloe feeling uncertain, hyper-vigilant, and emotionally stuck. As they unpack Chloe’s longing for clarity and security, Christine gently guides her to examine the deeper soul lesson at play: reclaiming her own truth, needs, and emotional expression without waiting for external validation. If you’ve ever dimmed your emotions to “keep the peace,” or found yourself anxiously...
2025-07-3033 min
Life Coaching with Christine HasslerUnhooking from Perfectionism with MaryIn this session, Christine coaches Mary, a high-achieving working mom who feels stuck in an anxious loop of striving, self-pressure, and “never-enoughness.” Underneath her drive for excellence is a deep fear of falling behind or being seen as “not good enough.” Together, they unpack the childhood roots of her perfectionism and explore how nervous system patterns have reinforced the belief that love and safety must be earned through overachievement. If you’re someone who struggles to be present, always feels like you have to “do more,” or battles guilt for not being the perfect parent or partner, th...
2025-07-2338 min
Life Coaching with Christine HasslerStop Being the Savior with TiffanyIn this powerful and emotionally honest session, Christine coaches Tiffany—a gifted, intuitive woman who’s been living inside the identity of caretaker, rescuer, and savior. As someone raised in a family marked by addiction, loss, and emotional chaos, Tiffany learned early on to take responsibility for others’ well-being, often at the expense of her own. Now, with a brother spiraling and a deep longing to create a family of her own, Tiffany finds herself stuck in an exhausting cycle of overgiving, people-pleasing, and spiritual burnout. Christine gently but firmly guides her toward a redefinition of love—one that...
2025-07-1635 min
Life Coaching with Christine HasslerWhen Life Just Keeps Throwing Challenge After Challenge at You with LaurenWhat happens when you’re doing “all the right things”—and yet life just won’t give you a break? In this vulnerable coaching session, Christine supports Lauren, who finds herself stuck in a difficult season marked by frustration, stagnation, and unmet desires. From canceled dates to cockroach infestations and business disappointments, Lauren feels blocked on multiple fronts—despite years of doing the inner work. What unfolds is a compassionate deep dive into the exhaustion of “efforting” without reward, the hidden cost of spiritual performance, and the powerful shift that comes when we release the idea that life m...
2025-07-0946 min
Life Coaching with Christine HasslerI’m So Frustrated with Feeling Fearful with HollyIn this deeply tender session, Christine works with Holly, who’s navigating the exhausting grip of fear and the inner conflict that arises when she tries to override it. Holly describes the frustration of knowing she’s done the inner work—yet still feeling paralyzed by fear when it comes to speaking up, setting boundaries, or simply sending a message to a friend. What emerges is a powerful reframe: fear is not the enemy. It’s a messenger from past pain, particularly childhood wounds of abandonment and emotional neglect. Christine guides Holly through a shift from judgment to compa...
2025-07-0231 min
Life Coaching with Christine Hassler10 Years Later with AnnekeIn this heartfelt, full-circle session, Christine reconnects with Anneke—the very first person she coached on the podcast ten years ago. What unfolds is a deeply moving reflection on growth that isn't measured by external milestones, but by the quiet, powerful shifts that happen on a soul level. Anneke opens up about her journey through addiction recovery, burnout, grief, unexpected caregiving, and stepping into true self-love. Over the last decade, she’s released people-pleasing, healed from codependency, and discovered what it means to care for herself without performance or guilt. This episode challenges the cultural obse...
2025-06-2535 min
Life Coaching with Christine HasslerHow to Regulate Your Nervous System in Ways You Probably Haven’t Thought Of with LisaIn this insightful and milestone 500th episode, Christine coaches Lisa, a woman actively working to recalibrate her nervous system after decades of living in survival mode. Through their work in Christine’s Be the Queen program, Lisa has become increasingly aware of how her high productivity and people-pleasing patterns were actually rooted in hypervigilance developed from childhood emotional abandonment and a toxic past relationship. Christine helps Lisa move beyond traditional nervous system tools like breathwork by exploring one of the most overlooked regulators: the mind. They discuss how belief systems, people-pleasing masks, and unconscious behaviors can keep th...
2025-06-1836 min
Life Coaching with Christine HasslerBreak Patterns of Jealousy and Comparison with BridgetIn this raw and revealing coaching session, Christine Hassler coaches Bridget, a woman navigating the painful territory of jealousy, comparison, and unmet desires. Bridget candidly opens up about her long-standing struggles with being single and childless—two areas that trigger deep feelings of not being “good enough” when she sees others with what she longs for. The coaching session explores not only the emotional roots of these feelings but also how deeply ingrained patterns from childhood can skew how we view ourselves in relation to others. Christine guides Bridget to understand that jealousy isn’t a...
2025-06-1137 min
Life Coaching with Christine HasslerStop Doing Everything on Your Own and Learn How to Receive with KateIn this deeply insightful and emotional coaching session, Christine Hassler works with Kate, a courageous woman who has spent much of her life relying solely on herself. While Kate has achieved personal and professional success, she finds herself feeling stuck when it comes to romantic intimacy. Her high-functioning independence has become a barrier to receiving love—and allowing herself to be truly supported by others. Together, Christine and Kate explore the roots of hyper-independence, including childhood dynamics, family roles, and the need to feel “in control” in order to feel safe. Christine gently unpacks the difference between streng...
2025-06-0440 min
Life Coaching with Christine HasslerEP 497: How to Stop Pushing Intimacy Away with DarlethaIn this heartfelt and eye-opening coaching session, Christine Hassler supports Darletha as she bravely opens up about her struggles with intimacy, abandonment, and the fear of emotional vulnerability. Despite years of personal growth, therapy, and conscious dating efforts, Darletha finds herself in a recurring pattern of attracting men who aren’t aligned with her values—and pushing them away when things get too close. Christine guides Darletha to explore the deeper emotional roots of her relationship dynamics, including childhood wounds, generational trauma, and the nervous system’s response to perceived threats in intimacy. Together, they highlight the differ...
2025-04-1631 min
Life Coaching with Christine HasslerHealing Your Relationship with Money with KarinIn this insightful coaching session, Christine works with Karin, who has repeatedly found herself in cycles of earning and losing money, leading to a persistent struggle and anxiety around finances. Karin shares her experiences of attempting various methods—from manifesting practices to lifestyle adjustments—to improve her financial stability, yet continually finds herself back in scarcity. Christine helps Karin uncover deep-seated generational patterns and subconscious beliefs around money that perpetuate this cycle. They discuss the nervous system’s role in financial stability and how chronic anxiety and fear can block abundance, even when consciously pursuing financial goals. ...
2025-04-0932 min
Life Coaching with Christine HasslerMoving On and Trusting Yourself After a Long Relationship with SarahIn this inspiring and heartfelt coaching session, Christine works with Sarah, who is navigating life after the dissolution of a 20-year marriage. While Sarah has processed much of her grief and feels more grounded, she finds herself in an in-between space—caught between who she was in the relationship and the new version of herself that she is becoming. Christine helps Sarah explore the deeper roots of her feelings of being held back, which stem from earlier life experiences where she felt disempowered. Through their conversation, they discuss the challenges of moving forward when parts of your ol...
2025-04-0228 min
Life Coaching with Christine HasslerWhen Your Fear of Being Alone Keeps You in Unhealthy Relationships with ElenaIn this honest and empowering coaching session, Christine works with Elena, who is navigating the emotional aftermath of ending a seven-year relationship. Although the breakup initially seemed mutual, deeper fears have surfaced—particularly around abandonment, self-worth, and what it means to be alone. Christine helps Elena explore the deeper roots of these fears, which stem from unresolved childhood trauma and modeled behavior from her mother. This episode addresses why we often stay in relationships that aren't healthy, the difference between true forgiveness and repression, and how to break free from generational patterns. Through this conversation, li...
2025-03-2622 min
Life Coaching with Christine HasslerHow To Forgive Yourself for a Mistake with SaraIn this deeply personal and transformative episode, Christine Hassler coaches Sara through the difficult journey of self-forgiveness. Many of us have experienced the weight of regret—dwelling on decisions we wish we had made differently and struggling to let go of the past. This episode offers a path toward healing, self-acceptance, and true forgiveness. Christine helps Sara navigate the emotions of guilt, self-judgment, and the pressure to "fix" herself, while also uncovering the deeper wounds that have shaped her self-worth. Together, they explore the impact of childhood conditioning, the importance of self-compassion, and how to break free fr...
2025-03-1936 min
Life Coaching with Christine HasslerHow to Heal Old Wounds With Exes, With VenusIn this insightful coaching session, Christine Hassler helps Venus navigate deep emotional wounds related to past relationships. Venus struggles with feelings of being replaced and not being chosen, which stem from childhood neglect, abuse, and enmeshment. She finds herself caught in patterns of comparison and pain over an ex possibly moving on with someone else. Together, Christine and Venus unpack these core wounds, working toward reclaiming empowerment, self-worth, and emotional sovereignty. This episode is for anyone who has ever felt stuck in the past, struggled with self-worth after a breakup, or wants to heal old relationship wounds...
2025-03-1234 min
Life Coaching with Christine HasslerNew Beginnings & Back to BasicsIn this week’s episode, Christine Hassler revisits the very first episode of Over It and On With It, taking us back to where it all began. As we move through a new moon in Pisces, a time of fresh starts, Christine invites us to reflect on our own new beginnings. She shares her journey of launching this podcast despite doubts and external discouragement, offering a powerful reminder to trust our intuition—even when things don’t make sense on the surface. Whether you're embarking on something new, re-evaluating your values during this Venus retrograde, or simply lookin...
2025-03-0542 min
Life Coaching with Christine HasslerHow To Let Go of Control When You Really Like Control with CatoThis coaching call is about feeling out of control when being in control is how we have compensated for not getting what we needed as children. Today’s caller, Cato, is pregnant and her lack of control is creating panic. She asks Christine for guidance on how to be okay with the changes in her life and her fear of feeling insignificant. As children, we need to belong. We need love. And we need to feel safe. So, whatever we need to do and whoever we need to become to get those things, we do. The...
2025-02-2636 min
Life Coaching with Christine HasslerHow to Trust Your Choices with YasminIn this week’s coaching session, Christine Hassler works with Yasmin, who is struggling with self-doubt when it comes to making life decisions. She questions whether she made the right choice in ending a long-term relationship and in reducing her work hours to pursue her art business. Christine helps her recognize patterns of over-personalization, self-blame, and the need for external validation, guiding her toward self-trust and clarity. This episode isn’t just about relationships or career—it’s about learning to trust yourself and your decisions. Christine provides Yasmin with tangible ways to move forward with confidence, helping...
2025-02-1931 min
Life Coaching with Christine HasslerHow Do You Know If You're Ready for a Relationship?In this week’s coaching session, Christine Hassler works with Ashlee, who is struggling with a question many people face: how do you know if you’re healed enough to enter a relationship? Ashlee shares her experiences with past relationships, childhood wounds, and codependent tendencies that have shaped her fears about choosing the right partner. This episode isn’t just about dating—it’s about learning to trust yourself and shifting from fear-based decision-making to a place of wisdom and self-awareness. Christine helps Ashlee identify where her fear is coming from, how to recognize patterns, and what it really...
2025-02-1231 min
Life Coaching with Christine HasslerHow to Make a Decision from Faith and Not Fear with MorganIn this heartfelt coaching session, Christine Hassler guides Morgan through an emotional crossroads: deciding whether to have another child. While Morgan has always envisioned a big family, fear stemming from a traumatic birth experience, postpartum depression, and complex family dynamics with her stepchildren has left her feeling uncertain. This episode isn’t just about parenthood—it’s about the power of making choices from faith rather than fear. Christine helps Morgan shift from fear-based decision-making to a place of trust and possibility, offering insights that apply to anyone struggling with a big life decision. Consi...
2025-02-0531 min
Life Coaching with Christine HasslerThe In-Between Phase with JulieIn this heartfelt and insightful episode, Christine Hassler coaches Julie through the challenges of navigating life’s "in-between" phases. Julie opens up about being in a transitional period, torn between trusting the natural flow of life and taking control to make things happen. This episode explores the delicate balance of surrender and action, and the deep fears and patterns that arise when we’re on the brink of transformation. Christine compassionately helps Julie unpack the subconscious blocks that come from past traumas, including a sudden divorce and a harrowing school shooting her daughter experienced. Together, they dive into...
2025-01-2236 min
Life Coaching with Christine HasslerGetting Over a Massive Expectation Hangover with AubreaIn this heartfelt and transformative episode, Christine Hassler coaches Aubrea, who opens up about facing significant life challenges all at once. Aubrea shares her journey of navigating a job loss, the end of a long-term relationship, fertility struggles, and the passing of her last grandparent—all within a short period. These events have left her feeling untethered and engulfed by grief and anger. Christine compassionately guides Aubrea through the concept of an "expectation hangover," exploring how life’s curveballs can be opportunities for deeper healing and growth. Together, they unpack the roots of Aubrea's prolonged anger, her rela...
2025-01-1529 min
Life Coaching with Christine HasslerOvercoming the Fear of Being Incapable of Relationships with StaceyIn this transformative episode, Christine Hassler coaches Stacey, who opens up about living with misophonia, a neurological condition that causes extreme sensitivity to certain sounds, triggering fight-or-flight responses. Stacey shares how this condition has impacted her relationships, including her family and romantic connections, leaving her feeling isolated and doubtful about her ability to maintain long-term intimacy. Christine compassionately guides Stacey to explore the interplay between her condition, beliefs about herself, and fears around relationships. Together, they delve into the deeper layers of guilt, shame, and self-worth that have influenced Stacey's ability to open herself to love and...
2025-01-0835 min
Life Coaching with Christine HasslerThe Difference Between Being Selfish and Self-Care with AlecksIn this insightful episode, Christine coaches Alecks, who is navigating the fine line between self-care and selfishness. Alecks shares her struggles with balancing her own needs and feelings of guilt when caring for her family, particularly her mother. Together, they dive deep into inner child work, exploring how unresolved childhood wounds and patterns of self-abandonment can manifest in adult relationships and personal choices. Christine guides Alecks to connect with her inner child, offering tools to repair the sense of abandonment and foster a secure attachment within herself. This heartfelt conversation sheds light on how we can honor...
2025-01-0135 min
Life Coaching with Christine HasslerThe Roots of Feeling a Lack of Confidence with MarieIn this heartfelt episode, Christine coaches Marie, who is navigating transitions in both her career and personal life. As Marie opens up about feelings of inadequacy and fear stemming from her childhood, Christine helps her uncover the deeper roots of her lack of confidence and offers powerful tools for healing. Together, they explore how childhood wounds manifest in adult relationships and career dynamics, and how embracing vulnerability can lead to greater self-worth and confidence. If you’ve ever felt held back by old patterns or struggled with confidence in relationships or at work, this episode will provide cl...
2024-12-2537 min
Life Coaching with Christine HasslerReframing a Decision You’re Doubting with LauraIn this powerful episode, Christine coaches Laura, who is wrestling with resentment and uncertainty after making a big decision for her relationship. Through a deeply honest conversation, they explore the roots of Laura’s feelings—how past childhood experiences influence current dynamics—and discover the healing opportunities that can emerge from leaning into love. If you’ve ever felt conflicted about a choice, especially one made for someone else, this episode will inspire you to trust your journey, release old patterns, and step into growth. Consider/Ask Yourself: Have you made a decision...
2024-12-1838 min
Life Coaching with Christine HasslerWhat to Do When You Feel Like Time's Running Out on Your Dreams with MouetteIn this heartfelt episode, Christine coaches Mouette, a 43-year-old woman feeling the weight of time as she longs for partnership and motherhood. Christine offers guidance on releasing fear, embracing trust, and navigating the space between longing and manifestation. Whether you're longing for a relationship, financial stability, or achieving a cherished dream, this episode provides powerful insights to help you shift from striving to trusting. Consider/Ask Yourself: Are you clear about what you want in a relationship or other area of your life, but it just isn’t showing up? Have you tried both surrendering and ta...
2024-12-1134 min
Life Coaching with Christine HasslerEP 479: How to Call in Your Partner Without Suffering and Without Doing Anything with JohnnyIn this episode of Over It and On With It, Christine Hassler coaches Johnny, a man seeking clarity in his journey to attract his future partner. Johnny shares how he’s moved through deep personal growth and breathwork practices to reach a place of self-love, but finds himself wrestling with the balance between desire and detachment. Christine guides Johnny to embrace the concept of longing without suffering, encouraging him to move from a place of pushing and striving to one of trust and being. Together, they explore how embodying trust and gratitude can shift his ener...
2024-11-2738 min
Life Coaching with Christine HasslerGetting Clarity on Whether to Leave a Relationship or Not with ValentinaIn this episode of Over It and On With It, Christine Hassler coaches Valentina, a listener at a crossroads in her relationship and living situation. Valentina shares the challenges of navigating her partner’s sudden decisions and their impact on her sense of self. This episode dives deep into how family-of-origin patterns influence current relationships, and offers profound insights for anyone questioning their life direction. Christine helps Valentina explore her feelings, confront patterns of compliance and codependency, and move toward clarity and empowerment. Together, they unpack the importance of honoring one’s truth, and voice in rel...
2024-11-2036 min
Life Coaching with Christine HasslerHow to Believe Without a Shadow of a Doubt That You Are Lovable with SarahIn this transformative coaching session, Christine guides Sarah, a 39-year-old single woman, through releasing guilt, healing her self-worth, and letting go of codependent patterns in relationships. Sarah shares the profound guilt she feels after leaving an abusive marriage, particularly since her ex-husband later passed away. Struggling with feelings of responsibility, she’s found herself repeating self-sacrificing patterns and attracting emotionally unavailable partners. Christine helps Sarah uncover how her childhood experiences of emotional neglect and caretaking shaped her beliefs about love and self-worth. As they delve deeper, Sarah realizes that her guilt and sense of responsibility are...
2024-11-1334 min
Life Coaching with Christine HasslerEP 476: Getting Over Guilt When It Comes to Your Parents with ArianaIn this episode of "Over It and On With It," Christine Hassler coaches Ariana, who struggles with guilt related to her relationship with her mother and aunt. Ariana grew up in an emotionally challenging environment with caregivers who struggled with alcohol dependency. As an adult, she experiences guilt around maintaining boundaries, especially as her mother and aunt react negatively to her attempts to stand up for herself. Christine helps Ariana understand that her guilt is tied to deep-rooted patterns from her childhood and supports her in releasing feelings that no longer serve her well-being. Through t...
2024-11-0635 min
Life Coaching with Christine HasslerHealing From Childhood Neglect with KimIn this episode of Over It and On With It, Christine Hassler coaches Kim, who opens up about her struggles with self-worth, trust, and negative self-talk stemming from childhood emotional neglect. Through the session, Christine guides Kim in exploring how childhood neglect shaped her present-day beliefs and behaviors, emphasizing the importance of connecting to a higher power for healing and self-acceptance. Christine introduces a spiritual perspective to help Kim release the weight of her past and reconnect with unconditional love from the universe, offering her a powerful reframe to live a more fulfilled, connected life. This episode se...
2024-10-3033 min
Life Coaching with Christine HasslerEP 474: How to Be Anxious and Confident with GloriaIn this episode of Over It and On With It, Christine coaches Gloria, who grapples with balancing anxiety and confidence. Gloria's core wound stems from childhood abandonment, which causes her to feel unsafe in expressing herself fully, especially in public settings. Although she has a supportive partner and is pursuing trauma-informed coaching, her fears of rejection and failure in her new career keep resurfacing. Christine helps Gloria navigate her anxiety and step into her confidence by guiding her to detach from the narrative she tells herself about being "too much." Consider/Ask Yourself: Do yo...
2024-10-2333 min
Life Coaching with Christine HasslerHow Not to Feel So Much as an Empath with HyeshaIn this episode of Over It and On With It, Christine Hassler speaks with Hyesha, who seeks advice on managing her empathic tendencies, especially the overwhelming emotions she feels when witnessing suffering. Christine helps Hyesha navigate the delicate balance between feeling deeply and maintaining emotional boundaries, particularly when her empathic abilities make her overly sensitive to the pain of others. Hyesha opens up about her experiences of being triggered by everyday situations involving children or animals, which leads her into "worst-case-scenario" thinking. Christine assists Hyesha in understanding how her heightened sensitivity stems from unhealed childhood wounds and l...
2024-10-1643 min
Life Coaching with Christine HasslerHeal Your Body Versus Trying to Fix Your Body with AnnaIn this episode of Over It and On With It, Christine Hassler dives into a heartfelt and profound coaching call with Anna, discussing the difference between healing the body and trying to fix it. Christine emphasizes the importance of understanding that when we focus too much on "fixing" ourselves, we often remain stuck in a mindset that something is inherently broken. Instead, she encourages Anna and listeners to approach the body with love, acceptance, and gratitude, viewing physical symptoms as opportunities for emotional and spiritual growth rather than burdens. Anna opens up about her experiences with PCOS a...
2024-10-0942 min
Life Coaching with Christine HasslerHow to Deal with Things You Don't Like About Your Partner with KatieIn this episode of Over It and On With It, Christine Hassler coaches Katie, who is struggling with her husband's undiagnosed ADHD and its impact on their relationship. Christine helps Katie reflect on how her husband's behaviors trigger old wounds from her childhood and offers insights into how couples can navigate challenges when their brains and emotional needs function differently. The episode dives deep into relationship dynamics, particularly how unresolved past wounds can surface in present-day partnerships. Christine encourages listeners to think about their own relationships, especially when they are generally good but contain aspects t...
2024-10-0237 min
Life Coaching with Christine HasslerA Reminder to Prioritize Self-Care and RestIn this episode of Over It and On With It, Christine Hassler delivers a heartfelt reminder about the importance of self-care, rest, and prioritizing our well-being over external obligations and people-pleasing tendencies. Christine shares her own recent experiences as a busy mom and life coach, explaining how taking time for herself—even when it meant canceling podcast recordings—has been a powerful practice in maintaining integrity with her own needs. Christine encourages listeners to reflect on the ways they may be abandoning themselves by prioritizing the expectations of others over their own health and happiness. She highlights the...
2024-09-2512 min
Life Coaching with Christine HasslerEP 469: How to Handle Being Attacked, Bullied, Shamed, Criticized, or Ostracized with MarlaIn this episode of Over It and On With It, Christine Hassler coaches Marla, a professional singer who bravely shares her experience of being publicly shamed and attacked after performing the national anthem at a major rugby event. Marla opens up about the intense wave of negative reactions she received from the press and social media, as well as the personal toll it took on her and her daughter. Christine helps Marla process the deep wounds this experience triggered, drawing connections to childhood trauma and longstanding beliefs of unworthiness and fear of rejection. Through the co...
2024-09-1838 min
Life Coaching with Christine HasslerWhat Believing You Don't Deserve Love Is Costing You with CharlotteIn this episode of Over It and On With It, Christine Hassler coaches Charlotte, a woman grappling with feelings of unworthiness and a deep-seated fear of being seen. Charlotte's inner struggle stems from a belief that she does not deserve love and attention, which leads her to hide her true self in many of her relationships. During the coaching session, Christine helped Charlotte uncover how her childhood experiences of growing up with siblings with special needs and feeling responsible for minimizing her own needs contributed to her pattern of people-pleasing. This has resulted in Charlotte often putting o...
2024-09-1133 min
Life Coaching with Christine HasslerEP 467: How Being the One That Everyone Can Count on Is Costing You with MarcusIn this episode of "Over It and On With It," Christine Hassler coaches Marcus, who is grappling with the emotional aftermath of a breakup. Marcus has a long-standing pattern of being the dependable "rock" everyone can rely on, but this role costs him dearly in his relationships. During their coaching session, Christine helps Marcus see how his childhood experiences, particularly taking on the role of the "man of the house" from a young age, have influenced his adult relationships. Marcus often finds himself in situations where he is taking care of others' emotional needs at his own...
2024-09-0441 min
Life Coaching with Christine HasslerHow to Deal with the Fear and Doubt that Comes Up in Regards to Your Dreams with TinaIn this episode of "Over It and On With It," Christine Hassler coaches Tina, who struggles with fear and doubt regarding her dreams of finding a partner and starting a family. At 41, Tina has done significant personal work to connect with herself and remain grounded in her feminine energy. However, she often experiences panic and doubt, mainly when influenced by external messages about age and time. Through their coaching session, Christine helps Tina explore the root causes of her panic and teaches her how to form a deeper connection with her inner child. This approach enables Tina t...
2024-08-2832 min
Life Coaching with Christine HasslerWhy You're Drifting Instead of Committing with CassandraIn this episode of "Over It and On With It," Christine Hassler coaches Cassandra, who struggles with indecision. She often feels stuck, drifting through various aspects of her life rather than fully committing. At 39 years old, Cassandra is beginning to confront the deep-rooted patterns that have held her back, stemming from a traumatic and dysfunctional childhood. Christine helps Cassandra understand that her indecision is not a personal flaw but a survival strategy developed during her chaotic upbringing. Through their coaching session, Christine encourages Cassandra to reconnect with her inner child, offering her the safety and nurturing she...
2024-08-2139 min
Life Coaching with Christine HasslerTransform Your Relationship with Anxiety Rather than Trying to Get Rid of It with AngelaIn this episode of "Over It and On With It," Christine Hassler coaches Angela, who is struggling to connect with her inner child while grappling with anxiety. Angela's journey is marked by a history of complex PTSD, making it difficult for her to feel safe within her own body. Christine guides Angela in understanding that instead of trying to manage or eliminate anxiety, she can transform her relationship with it by embracing it with compassion and care. Through a powerful coaching session, Christine helps Angela uncover the underlying fears and beliefs fueling her anxiety. The s...
2024-08-1433 min
Life Coaching with Christine HasslerStop Talking Yourself into an Unhealthy Relationship with SarahIn this episode of “Over It and On With It,” Christine Hassler coaches Sarah, who struggles with the complexities of a relationship that appears both deeply meaningful and deeply troubling. Sarah's situation involves a partner who alternates between emotional closeness and sudden, unexplained withdrawal, triggering Sarah's abandonment fears. Christine helps Sarah recognize the unhealthy patterns and offers guidance on finding the strength to set necessary boundaries. Christine's compassionate yet direct approach aims to support listeners who may find themselves rationalizing toxic behaviors in their relationships due to unresolved childhood wounds. Consider/Ask Yourself: Do you...
2024-08-0732 min
Life Coaching with Christine HasslerIt's Not Your Fault with MiaIn this episode of Over It and On With It, Christine Hassler coaches Mia, who struggles with self-blame and guilt following a challenging divorce. Mia's feelings of inadequacy and self-loathing stem from a history of emotional abuse and neglect in her childhood, compounded by her recent breakup. Christine provides a compassionate and insightful discussion, helping Mia recognize that her pain is not her fault and offering strategies to address deep-seated beliefs and patterns. The episode aims to support listeners who might feel responsible for their suffering and struggle to break free from negative self-perceptions.
2024-07-3133 min
Life Coaching with Christine HasslerNew Year’s Process Part TwoThis is the second part of my annual ritual to complete this year and step forward into 2023 with intention! In this episode, I guide you through a receiving process and meditation to start 2023 with steps to get clear about what you want to call in. Be sure to listen to the 2022 release episode to prepare you to receive freely. We are $30 off on our breathwork and meditation series. Go to ChristineHassler.com/breathwork and use the promo code HOLIDAY. And, January 10th is the first virtual group coaching night of 2023! Go to...
2023-01-0430 min
Life Coaching with Christine HasslerHer Story: Part 1 of a three-part Couples Coaching Series with ClaireThis episode is the first of a three-part couples coaching series. Christine coaches Claire and Jimmy separately, and then together in Part 3. In today’s call, Claire reveals she would like Jimmy to make plans with her and make her a priority in his life. Christine uncovers some childhood patterns that may be at play in Claire’s current relationship. [For show notes, go here: Christinehassler.com/episode374] When there is something that is bothering us and we are unable to shift it, we need to dig deeper. It is normal for us...
2022-11-0926 min
Life Coaching with Christine HasslerCC: Reair: EP 63: How to Beat Fear and Self-Sabotage with JakeCollectively we are all going through a rebalancing of masculine and feminine energies, not only in what it means to be a man or a woman, but what it means to be human. We are just moving into rebalancing this energy so masculine and feminine energies can be in flow together. While women struggle to find their place in the masculine energy, men struggle to fit into more feminine things, such as being vulnerable or pursuing more creative endeavors that may feel less manly. This is not a time to be discouraged. We are all longing for belonging and...
2022-08-2042 min
Life Coaching with Christine HasslerCC: Reair: EP 157: Trust Yourself, Stop Caring What Others Think and Feel your Feelings with SteveThe heart of this coaching session is about self-compassion. Steve has been in his masculine and repressing his pain for much of his life. Another level of his pain is surfacing and that’s because his unconscious knows he is ready to deal with it. If you are at a point in your life where you feel like you have done a lot of personal growth work but pain is resurfacing in your life you do not want to miss this episode. It takes a lot of energy to repress pain. And, that’s why it feels hard...
2022-06-1847 min
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2022-06-0453 min
Life Coaching with Christine HasslerLet Go of People-pleasing So You Can Truly Enjoy Being Around Others with EmilyThis episode is about overcoming people-pleasing patterns and getting into alignment with who you truly are. Today’s caller, Emily, recognizes she has people-pleasing patterns but finds herself withdrawing from others. She is exhausted by the effort it takes to socialize and doing what other people expect of her. If you are a people pleaser and an introvert, this is an important call for you to listen to. [For show notes go here: Christinehassler.com/episode225] Resources: Christine Hassler — Join the Free Over It and On With It Com...
2020-01-0129 minLife Coaching with Christine HasslerRelease the Fear Around Being Yourself, Especially in Dating, with BiancaThis episode is about being yourself, loving yourself, and allowing yourself not to push through fear. Today’s caller, Bianca wants to date but when an opportunity arises she gets scared. She developed a way to become a chameleon which gave her a false sense of confidence but after personal development work she is removing the masks she used to wear and now feels fear about others seeing her for who she really is. What we uncover is that what is driving her patterns around dating stems from her childhood. [For show notes go here: Chr...
2019-12-2538 minLife Coaching with Christine HasslerGo For Your Dreams with JessicaThis episode is about releasing things that are in the way of going for your dreams. Today’s caller, Jessica feels trapped and unable to take risks or make decisions about her future. She wants to find her purpose but isn’t giving herself permission to dream. We work through how she can find a balance, be curious, and learn by way of experience. [For show notes go here: Christinehassler.com/episode223] Sponsor: Better Help — allows you to connect with a professional, licensed counselor or therapist in a safe an...
2019-12-1829 minLife Coaching with Christine HasslerStop Taking Things So Personally with BrookeThis episode with Brooke is about taking things personally. We tend to allow ourselves to be impacted by what other people say or don’t say or how they respond to us. Part of growing into becoming an emotionally healthy person is not taking things personally. And, being able to receive feedback without spiraling out into self-doubt, upset, and giving your power away by letting other people impact what you think of you. [For show notes go here: Christinehassler.com/episode222] Sponsor: AWAY — makes the perfect luggage and...
2019-12-1138 minLife Coaching with Christine HasslerOverthinking Decisions and Perfectionism with QuigleyThis episode is about releasing your inner overachiever and fully feeling your emotions. Today’s caller, Quigley, has a pattern of overachieving and being a bit of a perfectionist. This pattern has served her and made her successful in many ways but deep down she feels unfulfilled and guilty. It is amazing how patterns and personality structures can take control of our lives. In this call, I share tools and techniques you can use if you relate to having similar traits. [For show notes go here: Christinehassler.com/episode221] Spon...
2019-12-0453 minLife Coaching with Christine HasslerGetting Over Jealousy with MattieThis episode is about releasing self-judgment and embracing self-acceptance. Today’s caller, Mattie, has a pattern of feeling jealous of other women, even friends. It’s not because she is a jealous person, it is because she has childhood wounding. A lot of us beat ourselves up when we are feeling jealous. Because we judge it as an unenlightened emotion we judge it as selfish and petty and it feels crappy. There is a way out. Jealousy isn’t bad. So if you are beating yourself up, listen to this episode for the way through it. ...
2019-11-2752 minLife Coaching with Christine HasslerStop Going for Emotionally Unavailable People with OnaleeThis episode is about releasing someone who is only supposed to be in your life for a season. Today’s caller, Onalee, has a pattern of going for emotionally unavailable men. If you have a pattern of going for emotionally unavailable people, it could be in friendships or romantic relationships or you could still be chasing the love of a parent who has always been emotionally unavailable. This episode provides you with guidance on how to shift out of behavioral patterns you may have had since childhood. [For show notes go here: Christinehassler.com/ep...
2019-11-2034 minLife Coaching with Christine HasslerHow to Stop Being So Hard on Yourself with JenniferThis episode is about replacing self-judgment with compassion and seeing yourself for who you really are. Today’s caller, Jennifer, felt like she was unwanted and a burden as a child. As an adult, she judges herself for judging herself. We work through her childhood wounds and conditioning with compassion and understanding. If you relate to being hard yourself, your criticism is a reflex and a habit. It is not who you are. [For show notes go here: Christinehassler.com/episode218] Sponsor: BIOCLARITY — Do you want beautiful, naturally glowing skin? Bioclarity’s plant-based, green s...
2019-11-1340 minLife Coaching with Christine HasslerThe Impact of an Unsupportive Parent with SaraThis episode is about working through the unconscious resistance that is keeping you from fully integrating healing work. Today’s caller, Sara, wants to bring love into her life and feels that she has done so much work. She is wondering why the work isn’t working. If you can relate to doing a lot of work but not seeing the impact or you have a lot of awareness but are not seeing the results, this call will help you to understand it and move forward. [For show notes go here: Christinehassler.com/episode217]
2019-11-0641 minLife Coaching with Christine HasslerBreaking Codependency with GabbyThis episode is about making your own decisions without seeking approval. Today’s caller, Gabby, is in a codependent relationship with her mom. Regardless of your own relationship with your mother, or if you deal with codependency, you will get a lot out of today’s episode. Mother-daughter relationships are one of the toughest relationships to navigate. But, if you can do so with love and success it can be one of the most beautiful relationships. [For show notes go here: Christinehassler.com/episode216] Sponsor: Birchbox — Beauty and grooming products delive...
2019-10-3030 minLife Coaching with Christine HasslerI’ve Done So Much Work So Why Do the Same Triggers Keep Happening with KelseyThis episode is about why things may not be changing even after you’ve done a lot of self-awareness work. Today’s caller, Kelsey, is in a new relationship but is still being triggered even though she is aware it is happening. We work through how she can get out of her head and release her self-protective behaviors. [For show notes go here: Christinehassler.com/episode215] Sponsor: Rothy’s — Rothy’s makes everyday flats for women and girls on the go. They are stylish, classic, and comfortable with new colors launching all the time. Thes...
2019-10-2334 minLife Coaching with Christine HasslerStop Stressing Out About Being Single with JessicaThis episode is about self-acceptance. Today’s caller, Jessica, is longing for a relationship but doubting it will ever happen. She is having a hard time accepting herself and her current relationship status. This is a great call to listen to no matter what your relationship status because so much of what we talk about is about self-acceptance and self-compassion. [For show notes go here: Christinehassler.com/episode214] Partners: Better Help — allows you to connect with a professional, licensed counselor or therapist in a safe and private online environment. You can change counselors anyt...
2019-10-1643 minLife Coaching with Christine HasslerHow Your Fear of Failure is Sabotaging Your Success with LindseyThis episode is about moving past your fears to take a risk, make a change, or pursue something you love. I coach today’s caller, Lindsey, on how to move from awareness to implementation. She knows the next steps to take but cannot figure out why she isn’t taking them. She thinks her problem is about time management, productivity, and balance but, as you will hear in the call, it’s not about that at all. [For show notes go here: Christinehassler.com/episode213] Sponsor: LOLA — offers a modern approach to feminine care that...
2019-10-0939 minLife Coaching with Christine HasslerWhy Our Parents Trigger Us, No Matter What Our AgeThis episode is about getting over what you didn’t get from a parent (or parents). Today’s caller, Samantha, uses self-criticism to protect herself from her pain. She is still holding on to her childhood anger over not feeling loved and acknowledged by her father. We work through her responsibility to re-parent herself, free herself through spiritual practice, and look at her father with compassionate eyes. [For show notes go here: Christinehassler.com/episode212] Sponsor: Better Help— allows you to connect with a professional, licensed counselor or therapist in a safe and privat...
2019-10-0235 minLife Coaching with Christine HasslerLetting Go of “Mistakes” as a Parent with CathyThis episode is about breaking the cycle of generational patterns. Today’s caller, Cathy, experienced corporal punishment as a child and finds herself doing the same thing to her daughter. As you listen to the call, I hope you are able to separate her character from her behavior. Her behavior is a reaction to her past. [For show notes go here: Christinehassler.com/episode211] Sponsor: Rothy’s — Do you use and abuse your feet by walking around in heels, flip-flops, or uncomfortable shoes? Your feet are one of your most important body parts. So muc...
2019-09-2544 minLife Coaching with Christine HasslerDealing with Pain and Health Concerns with AmberThis episode is about releasing shame about health issues and accepting ourselves without judgment. Today’s caller, Amber, was not nurtured as a child when she had an illness or injury. She has carried shame and unworthiness into her adult life. We discover that healing opportunities are available to her if she stops fighting and accepts them. [For show notes go here: Christinehassler.com/episode210] Sponsor: Better Help— allows you to connect with a professional, licensed counselor or therapist in a safe and private online environment. You can change counselors anytime with no addit...
2019-09-1828 minLife Coaching with Christine HasslerBreaking Down Walls with DaisyThis episode is about feeling shut off and struggling with vulnerability. Today’s caller, Daisy, has created a behavioral pattern based on losing her faith in the universe at age 14. She thinks she is too much in her masculine ego, she is too judgmental and too cynical. But we discover she isn’t any of those things. [For show notes go here: Christinehassler.com/episode209] Resources: Christine Hassler — Join the Free Over It and On With It Community. To watch episodes of coaching sessions, go to Youtube.com/christinehassler Christ...
2019-09-1138 minLife Coaching with Christine HasslerBreaking the Cycle of Abuse with JoeThis episode is about breaking the cycle of abuse. Today’s caller, Joe, just got out of a relationship where he abused his ex-girlfriend mentally, emotionally, and physically and she wasn’t the first. Compassion is key as you listen to this call. Being a human being is tricky. We never know someone’s backstory when we judge them. [For show notes go here: Christinehassler.com/episode208] Sponsor: LOLA — offers a modern approach to feminine care that is for women by women. It is the best way to get 100% natural tampons, pads, and other pr...
2019-09-0445 minLife Coaching with Christine HasslerBreak Free of Your Fear of Being Seen with TeemaThis episode is about a fear of being seen and a deep longing to be seen and have more intimate relationships. Today’s caller, Teema, is looking for guidance on how she can get over her fear of loss. But like many sessions, the call takes a different direction when we peel back what is at the true root of Teema’s question. [For show notes go here: Christinehassler.com/episode207] Sponsor: Rothy’s— Your feet are one of your most important body parts. So much of what happens in our bodies can be impac...
2019-08-2843 minLife Coaching with Christine HasslerRemoving Yourself From a Work Relationship with AmyThis episode is about how to share your feelings in an empowered way. Today’s caller, Amy, is conflicted about trying to decide if she wants to get out of a work relationship she has with her dad. I coached her through how to have a tough conversation and offered her options on how she can get support on setting boundaries and empowering herself. [For show notes go here: Christinehassler.com/episode206] Sponsor: Better Help— allows you to connect with a professional, licensed counselor or therapist in a safe and private online environment. You c...
2019-08-2145 minLife Coaching with Christine HasslerHow to Take the Next Step with KatrinaThis episode is about how to disempower your inner critic and use acknowledgment to motivate yourself forward. Today’s caller, Katrina, has a lot of old stories from her past about having to do it all on her own. She is in a place where she wants to move forward but she is also feeling a lot of overwhelm. There were a lot of different directions I could have focused on but I honed in on two key areas, acknowledging herself and asking for help from others. [For show notes go here: Christinehassler.com/episode205] Sp...
2019-08-1443 minLife Coaching with Christine HasslerBeing OK with Not Knowing Even When You Really Want Answers with RachaelThis episode is about not having all the answers and being OK with it. Today’s caller, Rachael, has always been a planner and likes to be in control. She brings forward great questions and is beautifully coachable. If you are a planner who likes knowing things, overthinks things, and likes to have things figured out, this call may help you to know and trust that the universe has your back. [For show notes go here: Christinehassler.com/episode204] Sponsor: Skillshare — is an online learning community for creators. They have more than 25,000 classes in d...
2019-08-0736 minLife Coaching with Christine HasslerStop Running and Rebelling with JazThis episode is about breaking old patterns of running, rebelling, or shutting down. Today’s caller, Jaz, grew up in a chaotic household with no soothing or comfort. Growing up in a non-comforting environment can lead us toward unhealthy coping strategies when we get triggered. We discuss ways she can bring calm and consistency into her life. [For show notes go here: Christinehassler.com/episode203] Sponsor: LOLA — offers a modern approach to feminine care that is for women by women. It is the best way to get 100% natural tampons, pads, and other products you...
2019-07-3140 minLife Coaching with Christine HasslerLetting Go of Certainty to Pursue Your Calling with KristenThis episode is about becoming free from pursuing external things to make us feel happy, validated, or loved. Today’s caller, Kristen, grew up in a household where her accomplishments were perceived as her value. During the call, we identify what is keeping her from moving forward to pursue her calling. And, work through ways she can overcome her fear of uncertainty. [For show notes go here: Christinehassler.com/episode202] Sponsor: Amour Vert— is a sustainable clothing brand committed to making versatile and thoughtfully designed clothing that’s good for you and the planet...
2019-07-2435 minLife Coaching with Christine HasslerDealing With and Healing Anxiety with VeruschkaThis episode is about acknowledging and working through anxiety and panic attacks. Today’s caller, Veruschka, grew up in a fear-based household and for the last 20 years has experienced massive anxiety on both a physical and a mental level. We talk about the physical and emotional, psychological aspects that are causing her anxiety. And, the ways she can holistically manage the stress hormones released by her body with acceptance and compassion. [For show notes go here: Christinehassler.com/episode201] Sponsor: Function of Beauty — offers customized shampoos and conditioners individually filled just for you. Choo...
2019-07-1735 minLife Coaching with Christine HasslerBreaking Out of the Pattern of Not-Enoughness with SaraThis episode is about learning to meet your own needs to find fulfillment. Today’s caller, Sara, is not where she wants to be in life. Old programming makes her feel judged and unworthy. Sara, maybe like you, has a soul contract that she is here to learn how to parent herself. She chose parents who didn’t know how to meet her needs and didn’t know how to love her in the way she needed to be loved. We discuss ways she can empower herself to get everything she needs from within. [For show notes go her...
2019-07-1049 minLife Coaching with Christine HasslerDon’t Quit! Break Your Pattern of Starting and Stopping Things with JillThis episode is about follow-through and commitment. Today’s caller, Jill, has a pattern of giving up on everything she begins. She recently quit her job, but she fears she won’t follow through with her new endeavor, based on her past patterns. Coaches, this episode includes valuable insights to use with your clients who are challenged in the area of accountability and building momentum. [For show notes go here: Christinehassler.com/episode199] Sponsor: Rothy’s — Your feet are one of your most important body parts. So much of what happens in our bodies c...
2019-07-0340 minLife Coaching with Christine HasslerStop Pleasing People with LauraThis episode is about reassurance. Laura is a people pleaser. She goes above and beyond for people and doesn’t get it back in return. She then feels disappointed. People pleasing is dangerous; we can become resentful and we are not being our authentic selves. I work with her on understanding why she people-pleases, why it’s selfish to be a people pleaser, and how to shift out of the pattern. [For show notes go here: Christinehassler.com/episode198] Resources: Christine Hassler — Join the Free Over It and On With It Community. To w...
2019-06-2629 minLife Coaching with Christine HasslerGet Unstuck and Move Forward With SaraThis call is for you if you relate to feeling stuck in any area of your life. Usually, when we feel stuck it is because we feel conflicted inside. In this episode, as I coach Sara, you will learn how to work with both parts of you so you no longer feel stuck. Sara wants to pursue her dreams, but there is a part of her that is protecting her from taking the risk. She is living a “safer existence” by sticking with the job she dislikes, but by protecting herself she is preventing herself from really going after what...
2019-06-1240 minLife Coaching with Christine HasslerNavigating Uncertainty and Breaking Patterns with JasmineThis episode is about breaking childhood patterns. Today’s caller, Jasmine, feels trapped in her current situation. She feels she has to stick it out at her job because it is her only option. But, as you will hear in this call, it is not her only option. In fact, what she thinks is her only option is only keeping her in a lifetime of an enduring pattern that isn’t giving her what she wants and isn’t opening her up to all the amazing opportunities that could come her way when she becomes untrapped. [For show n...
2019-04-1739 min
Life Coaching with Christine HasslerEP 88: Getting Unstuck and Over Feeling Lost with LenaThis episode is about getting over feeling lost, and getting yourself unstuck. During the coaching session with Lena, we uncover some past trauma and guilt which is causing her to feel as if she is living in a black hole. [For show notes go here: Christinehassler.com/episode88] If you can identify with Lena and are feeling stuck yourself, know that you are headed in the right direction towards getting yourself unstuck. Some people just go through life just going through the motions, and not being inspired. If you are aware of it, you are...
2017-05-1738 min
Life Coaching with Christine Hassler64: Rebel or Control Freak? Why We Bounce from Being Overly Strict with Ourselves to Giving Up with AmandaToday’s caller, Amanda, wants to know how to stop obsessing about calorie counting, her physical appearance, and working out. Like many of the sessions, you hear on this podcast, the focus of our conversation takes a different direction. Amanda acknowledges she felt controlled by her parents growing up. And, the biggest thing I taught Amanda is how we often pair certain behaviors with love. For example, we know our parents are supposed to love us, so the way they parent us is what we think is love. In Amanda’s case, it was being strict because she knew her...
2016-11-3037 min
Life Coaching with Christine Hassler63: How to Beat Fear and Self-Sabotage with JakeCollectively we are all going through a rebalancing of masculine and feminine energies, not only in what it means to be a man or a woman, but what it means to be human. We are just moving into rebalancing this energy so masculine and feminine energies can be in flow together. While women struggle to find their place in the masculine energy, men struggle to fit into more feminine things, such as being vulnerable or pursuing more creative endeavors that may feel less manly. This is not a time to be discouraged. We are all longing for belonging and...
2016-11-2342 min
Life Coaching with Christine Hassler60: Feel Self-Worth and Acceptance Even When You Want to Change Something About Yourself (Like Your Physical Appearance or Weight) with GabbyAre you hard on yourself, especially when it comes to your appearance? Do you do something, and then immediately wish you had done it differently? Many of us allow our inner critics to expend energy on low-frequency, physically exhausting, nasty, self-defeating self-talk. You may not realize it, but your self-talk influences the way other people receive you. If you are happy and filled with self-acceptance, you send out a good vibe. If you are negative or hard on yourself, you can suck the life right out of the room. Today’s caller, Gabby, is struggling with her weight and se...
2016-11-0238 min
Life Coaching with Christine Hassler56: Figuring Out Next Steps Along Your Career Path with TrishToday’s caller, Trish, thinks she is calling in for career advice but during the session, she discovers her own self-doubt is the barrier to her growth. It takes courage to look inward and see our biggest roadblock is ourselves. We must deal with these roadblocks with compassion and truth. Truth with love, compassion and gentleness is how we must deal with ourselves when we doubt ourselves, question our own worth or create our own suffering. You must not buy into the belief you must be stern or harsh with yourself in order to shift. Judgment only reinforces a dis...
2016-10-0529 min
Life Coaching with Christine Hassler48: Getting Clear During Times Of Uncertainty with ElleI talk a lot on this show about Expectation Hangovers - how they are the disappointments and curve balls that teach us and grow us. But, it’s also important to acknowledge the unexpected surprises that delight us and support us in magical ways. That’s why it is important not to plan every little thing, to make space for the unexpected, and to leave more time for soul food. In order to be in this place of space and possibility, we have to come into right relationship with uncertainty. What is a right relationship? Realize that we never have...
2016-08-1029 min
Life Coaching with Christine Hassler46: Should You Stay or Go? When to End a Relationship with CorinnaToday’s caller, Corinna, is deciding whether or not to stay in her marriage. Many of us often struggle with whether to stay or go in a relationship. Sometimes the answer is clear, but often it is not. First, there is the love and the history of a relationship including shared assets, children and pets. Second, there is the uncertainty that goes along with making the decision. Ending any type of relationship is not easy and making the choice to do it is hard. We often look for reasons to blame the other person. We collect evidence against them so...
2016-07-2728 min
Life Coaching with Christine Hassler45: Stop Living a Checklist Life with FrankieToday’s caller, Frankie is in the midst of her quarter-life crisis. Her life is not going according to her checklist and she is dealing with some Expectation Hangovers. She has defined herself by external things and she’s a bit addicted to control and validation. Control is something we all struggle with. We think we have 100% control over life, but we don’t. We do have choices and dominion but we don’t have total control. Our egos like to have certainty and to have a plan, which is rooted in fear. It is scary not to know what is c...
2016-07-2134 min
Life Coaching with Christine Hassler38: Social Anxiety: How to Overcome It for GoodThe number one reason social anxiety is so painful is because it reinforces the illusion of separation. We are all connected, we are all one but we live in a world which makes this so hard to remember. The illusion of separation starts when we are young and we get teased or separated based on our grades, behavior or gender. It continues through our lives and makes us feel not part of something. Understanding that you are not alone, you are not separate and you are no less than anyone else is imperative to your emotional well-being and health...
2016-06-0130 min