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Fearless Tips and Talks with Christy BoulwareTalk 59: Church Hurt, Healing and ProgressSend us a textIn this powerful and honest conversation, Christy Boulware is joined by her husband Troy and pastors Devin and Dustin Thacker to explore what the Church should be—and where it’s gone wrong. Together, they dive into personal experiences, spiritual abuse, unhealthy leadership models, and the corporate mindset that has crept into many churches. From the pain of being discarded to the misuse of titles and programs over people, this episode holds space for real talk and real healing.They also cast a hopeful vision of restoration: one rooted in discipleship, roun...2025-04-2948 minFearless Tips and Talks with Christy BoulwareTalk 53: Silence the EnemySend us a textDiscerning God's Voice from LiesIn this episode, we explore how to discern God's voice amidst the noise of fear, lies, and anxiety that the enemy often plants in our minds. Building on the foundational truth of John 10:27, that God's sheep hear His voice, we dive into John 10:10 to uncover how the enemy's agenda is to steal, kill, and destroy our peace and trust in God.Christy shares her personal journey with anxiety, fear, and an autoimmune diagnosis, revealing how the enemy’s lies have tried to steal her pe...2025-02-0122 minFearless Tips and Talks with Christy BoulwareTalk 52: Navigating DisagreementsSend us a textNavigating Disagreements: Finding Peace and Reducing AnxietyEven God’s people experience conflict—and that’s okay. In this video, I share lessons from Acts 15:36-41 about the disagreement between Paul and Barnabas and how we can navigate conflicts in a way that reduces anxiety and fosters peace.You’ll learn:✨ Disagreement doesn’t mean failure—it’s part of being human.✨ How to avoid taking sides and focus on grace.✨ The difference between peacemaking and peacekeeping.✨ Practical steps like speaking truth in love, setting boundari...2025-01-2526 min
Fearless Tips and Talks with Christy BoulwareSoul Rest 1: Psalms Meditation (example)Send us a textExperience a peaceful moment with this Psalms Meditation, an example of our new Soul Rest audio series designed to help you unwind, connect with God, and prepare for restful sleep.This sample features scripture meditation, grounding techniques, and prayer, giving you a taste of what the full Soul Rest audio offers. It’s perfect for anyone seeking calm and restoration at the end of a long day.Want the full Soul Rest audio? Sign up now to get it delivered FREE to yo...2025-01-1805 min
Fearless Tips and Talks with Christy BoulwareSoul Rest LaunchSend us a textIntroducing Soul Rest: Your Guide to Peaceful SleepPrayer for sleep and anxiety!We are excited to share our new Soul Rest audio series, now available for FREE to our Fearless community! This calming resource is designed to help you find peace and rest at the end of the day, no matter what might be keeping you awake.Housed on our Fearless Tips and Talks podcast platform—available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and our Fearless Unite YouTube channel—Soul Rest...2025-01-1612 minFearless Tips and Talks with Christy BoulwareFearless Comeback: Why We Took a Break and What's NextSend us a textWe’re back! After nearly three months off social media, we’re ready to share why we hit pause and what God has been teaching us during this time. Join us as we unveil the exciting new things we’re working on, how this season of rest transformed our vision, and what’s coming next for Fearless Unite. If you’ve ever wondered about the power of stepping away to step into God’s plan, this LIVE is for you! We can’t wait to catch up and share the journey with you.Ep...2025-01-1516 min
Fearless Tips and Talks with Christy BoulwareTalk 51: Loneliness with Kristen StrongSend us a textAre you feeling the weight of loneliness or struggling to find meaningful friendships? You’re not alone. In this episode, we sit down with Kristen Strong, beloved author and seasoned voice of encouragement, to discuss the growing crisis of isolation and how women can find connection and community in today’s disconnected world.Drawing from her latest 90-day devotional, Kristen shares heartfelt stories of women navigating seasons of loneliness and offers hope-filled wisdom for finding your way back to meaningful relationships. With two decades of experience as a constantly relocating military spou...2024-12-1029 min
Fearless Tips and Talks with Christy BoulwareTalk 50: Fearless Felon with Alisha GlasgowSend us a textIn this powerful episode of the Unite Series: Connecting our Wellness; Body, Soul & Spirit, I’m honored to introduce a truly remarkable woman, Alisha Glasgow (I call her Lish). With over two decades of experience working with individuals facing mental illness and developmental disabilities, she is a fierce advocate for the Deaf community, fluent in American Sign Language, and a creative soul who finds joy in crafting, softball, and all things sparkly.But Lish’s journey is not just about her professional life—it's a story of redemption, grace, and tra...2024-11-2147 minFearless Tips and Talks with Christy BoulwareTip 36: HEALTHY MARRIAGESend us a textIn our upcoming series of Fearless Tips, we're diving deep into the keys to cultivating a thriving and healthy marriage. Unhealthy marriages often lead to increased anxiety, but there's hope. Troy and Christy Boulware are passionate about nurturing marriages with both Godly wisdom and practical insights.Join them as they unpack the powerful acrostic, HEALTHY MARRIAGE, sharing tips that can transform your relationship:H - Become the Healthiest version of yourself (body, soul, and spirit)E - Encourage hobbies and support each other's passionsA - Always believe the best in...2024-11-1214 min
Fearless Tips and Talks with Christy BoulwareTalk 49 Unite with Dr. Megan MaloneSend us a textIn today’s episode, I’m honored to welcome Dr. Megan Malone to our Unite Series. Dr. Malone, a Logan University graduate, is a leading expert in women’s health, blending chiropractic care with functional medicine, nutrition, and pediatric care to create a holistic path to wellness. Drawing from her personal experience with endometriosis and her sister’s health journey, Dr. Malone is passionate about empowering women to heal naturally and overcome complex medical challenges.We dive into an insightful conversation about Medical Hurt and how it parallels the emotiona...2024-11-0749 minFearless Tips and Talks with Christy BoulwareTip 35: HEALTHY MARRIAGESend us a textIn our upcoming series of Fearless Tips, we're diving deep into the keys to cultivating a thriving and healthy marriage. Unhealthy marriages often lead to increased anxiety, but there's hope. Troy and Christy Boulware are passionate about nurturing marriages with both Godly wisdom and practical insights.Join them as they unpack the powerful acrostic, HEALTHY MARRIAGE, sharing tips that can transform your relationship:H - Become the Healthiest version of yourself (body, soul, and spirit)E - Encourage hobbies and support each other's passionsA - Always believe the best in...2024-10-2913 min
Fearless Tips and Talks with Christy BoulwareTalk 48: Unite, Living Authentically with Dr. Merry C. LinSend us a textIn this powerful off-script conversation, part of the Unite Series on Fearless Tips and Talks, Christy Boulware is joined by Dr. Merry C. Lin for an episode that dives deep into what it means to live as your God-authentic self. Together, they explore the importance of understanding your shadow side, navigating crucial conversations, and taking a closer look at how you spend your time. Dr. Merry brings profound insights on how to align your life with your God-given purpose, making this episode a truly transformative experience. Don’t miss this empowering discussion!2024-10-2455 minFearless Tips and Talks with Christy BoulwareTip 34: HEALTHY MARRIAGESend us a textIn our upcoming series of Fearless Tips, we're diving deep into the keys to cultivating a thriving and healthy marriage. Unhealthy marriages often lead to increased anxiety, but there's hope. Troy and Christy Boulware are passionate about nurturing marriages with both Godly wisdom and practical insights.Join them as they unpack the powerful acrostic, HEALTHY MARRIAGE, sharing tips that can transform your relationship:H - Become the Healthiest version of yourself (body, soul, and spirit)E - Encourage hobbies and support each other's passionsA - Always believe the best in...2024-10-1511 min
Fearless Tips and Talks with Christy BoulwareTalk 47: Unite, De-escalation with Tyler CzarnowskySend us a textIn this insightful episode of the Unite Series: Connecting our Wellness; Body, Soul & Spirit, Christy Boulware sits down with Tyler, a seasoned expert with a distinguished career in mental health, law enforcement, and youth initiatives. Together, they delve into the complexities of de-escalation, offering practical advice on how to handle teen mental health crises effectively. They also explore the spiritual do's and don’ts, guiding parents and leaders on how to offer support that balances compassion with boundaries. If you're looking for grounded wisdom on navigating these sensitive situations, this episode is a mu...2024-10-1048 minFearless Tips and Talks with Christy BoulwareTip 33: HEALTHY MARRIAGESend us a textIn our upcoming series of Fearless Tips, we're diving deep into the keys to cultivating a thriving and healthy marriage. Unhealthy marriages often lead to increased anxiety, but there's hope. Troy and Christy Boulware are passionate about nurturing marriages with both Godly wisdom and practical insights.Join them as they unpack the powerful acrostic, HEALTHY MARRIAGE, sharing tips that can transform your relationship:H - Become the Healthiest version of yourself (body, soul, and spirit)E - Encourage hobbies and support each other's passionsA - Always believe the best in...2024-10-0115 min
Fearless Tips and Talks with Christy BoulwareTalk 46: Unite, Aligned with Kasey ShulerSend us a textIn this episode, part of our Unite Series: Connecting our Wellness; Body, Soul & Spirit, Kasey Shuler dives into the importance of intuitive eating, exploring how to develop a healthy relationship with both exercise and diet. She unpacks the deeper meanings behind cravings and offers insight into how they connect to our body's needs. Kasey also shares a powerful tip for overcoming worry, providing listeners with practical tools to cultivate peace and balance in their wellness journey. This conversation will inspire you to embrace a more mindful and intuitive approach to health....2024-09-2643 minFearless Tips and Talks with Christy BoulwareTip 32: HEALTHY MARRIAGESend us a textIn our upcoming series of Fearless Tips, we're diving deep into the keys to cultivating a thriving and healthy marriage. Unhealthy marriages often lead to increased anxiety, but there's hope. Troy and Christy Boulware are passionate about nurturing marriages with both Godly wisdom and practical insights.Join them as they unpack the powerful acrostic, HEALTHY MARRIAGE, sharing tips that can transform your relationship:H - Become the Healthiest version of yourself (body, soul, and spirit)E - Encourage hobbies and support each other's passionsA - Always believe the best in...2024-09-1712 min
Fearless Tips and Talks with Christy BoulwareTalk 45: Unite The Church Should Be A Safe Place with Kayleigh ClarkSend us a textIn this enlightening episode of Fearless Tips and Talks, host Christy Boulware continues the Unite Series, exploring the intricate connections between mental, spiritual, and emotional health within the church. Joined by Kayleigh Clark, an ordained elder and ThD candidate, they delve into the profound impact of collective trauma on congregational health and flourishing.Kayleigh shares insights from her research on how trauma—particularly collective and religious trauma—affects the body of Christ, often leading to a guarded and fearful community. They discuss the importance of recognizing and diagnosing unhealed trauma within chur...2024-09-1158 minFearless Tips and Talks with Christy BoulwareTip 31: HEALTHY MARRIAGESend us a textIn our upcoming series of Fearless Tips, we're diving deep into the keys to cultivating a thriving and healthy marriage. Unhealthy marriages often lead to increased anxiety, but there's hope. Troy and Christy Boulware are passionate about nurturing marriages with both Godly wisdom and practical insights.Join them as they unpack the powerful acrostic, HEALTHY MARRIAGE, sharing tips that can transform your relationship:H - Become the Healthiest version of yourself (body, soul, and spirit)E - Encourage hobbies and support each other's passions2024-09-0310 min
Fearless Tips and Talks with Christy BoulwareTalk 44: Unite Disconnect from an Interconnected World with Cassie HuttonSend us a textIn this episode of Fearless Tips and Talks, host Christy Boulware introduces the Unite Series, a special segment dedicated to exploring how we can connect our wellness through the integration of body, soul, and spirit. Joined by special guest Cassie Hutton, they delve into the challenges of disconnecting from an overly interconnected world and the impact it has on our mental and emotional well-being.Cassie shares her deeply personal journey of overcoming the shame associated with abortion, offering a powerful testimony of how she found healing and freedom. Through this candid...2024-08-2937 minFearless Tips and Talks with Christy BoulwareTip 30: HEALTHY MARRIAGESend us a textIn our upcoming series of Fearless Tips, we're diving deep into the keys to cultivating a thriving and healthy marriage. Unhealthy marriages often lead to increased anxiety, but there's hope. Troy and Christy Boulware are passionate about nurturing marriages with both Godly wisdom and practical insights.Join them as they unpack the powerful acrostic, HEALTHY MARRIAGE, sharing tips that can transform your relationship:H - Become the Healthiest version of yourself (body, soul, and spirit)E - Encourage hobbies and support each other's passions2024-08-2014 min
Fearless Tips and Talks with Christy BoulwareTalk 43: Steadfast with Brooklynn GlasgowSend us a textIn this powerful episode of the Fearless Tips and Talks podcast, we conclude our Steadfast series with a special guest, Brooklynn Glasgow. Fresh off her high school graduation in May, Brooklynn is about to embark on a new chapter at Graceland University, where she'll be studying pre-occupational therapy and playing collegiate softball.Brooklynn opens up about her personal journey, sharing how anxiety and depression have shaped her life, especially following a significant family event that left her at rock bottom. She discusses the impact of the rumor mill and the importance...2024-08-1542 min
Fearless Tips and Talks with Christy BoulwareTalk 42: Steadfast with Nolan and Landon BoulwareSend us a textIn this special episode of Fearless Tips and Talks, Christy hands over the mic to her sons, Nolan and Landon for the Steadfast series, for an honest and heartfelt discussion about their personal experiences with anxiety. Join us as they delve into the challenges of being Christian in a public school, navigating faith in the face of teachings about evolution and the Big Bang, and how Landon managed to reconcile these conflicts.The conversation takes a deeper turn as they explore the impact of comparison in sports and personal behavior on...2024-08-0133 minFearless Tips and Talks with Christy BoulwareTip 29: I Want To Be Different - Part 3Send us a textIn this episode you will get a partial replay of the message "I Want to Be Different," that features Christy's powerful testimony of overcoming fear and anxiety through faith. Christy shares how she debunked lies she once believed, emphasizing the importance of surrendering to God rather than relying solely on oneself. This messages aims to inspire women to confront their fears, seek God's truth, and embrace their purpose with confidence.Key Points:Christy's struggles with fear in 2011, 2014, and 2017.God's reassuring messages to Christy during her journey.T...2024-07-3018 minFearless Tips and Talks with Christy BoulwareTalk 41: Steadfast with Sydney JonesSend us a textWelcome to the Steadfast Series: A Student's Guide to Anxiety. In this insightful episode, we delve into the compelling story of a young woman who bravely shares her battle with anxiety and OCD. She opens up about the challenging time when her medication stopped working, sending her into a tailspin and leading her through a dark season.Through her candid account, she reveals how leaning on God became her beacon of hope and strength, guiding her through the darkest moments. We also explore the intricate connections between pride, anxiety, and control...2024-07-2551 minFearless Tips and Talks with Christy BoulwareTip 28: I Want To Be Different-part 2Send us a textIn this episode you will get a partial replay of the message "I Want to Be Different," that features Christy's powerful testimony of overcoming fear and anxiety through faith. Christy shares how she debunked lies she once believed, emphasizing the importance of surrendering to God rather than relying solely on oneself. This messages aims to inspire women to confront their fears, seek God's truth, and embrace their purpose with confidence.Key Points:Christy's struggles with fear in 2011, 2014, and 2017.God's reassuring messages to Christy during her journey.T...2024-07-1614 min
"But Jesus Drank Wine" & Other Stories That Kept Us StuckEp. 85 Christy Boulware | Nervous Breakthrough: Parenting Teens, Navigating Social Media and Finding Peace in ChaosFear and anxiety are rampant in our world, weighing us down and leading to profound physical consequences. Our misaligned priorities and superwoman tendencies often lead us to believe that hustle is honorable when it's actually harmful. For Christy Boulware, a severe panic and anxiety disorder diagnosis was the wake-up call she needed. Today, our conversation delves into the critical importance of community, discipleship, and faith in overcoming fear and anxiety while celebrating the audio release of Christy's powerful book, "Nervous Breakthrough: Finding Freedom from Fear and Anxiety in a World That Feeds It.” Together, we expl...2024-07-1546 min
Fearless Tips and Talks with Christy BoulwareTalk 40: Steadfast with Reid CompSend us a textWelcome to the Steadfast Series: A Student's Guide to Anxiety, where we explore the real-life challenges faced by students today. In this compelling episode, we hear from a young man who courageously shares his personal journey through the struggles of pornography, depression, and the unique pressures of being a pastor's kid.He opens up about the dark moments and the difficult road to recovery, offering a raw and honest look at his experiences. Along the way, he discusses the transformative lessons he's learned about the importance of rest, the necessity of...2024-07-1141 minFearless Tips and Talks with Christy BoulwareTip 27: I Want To Be Different-part 1Send us a textIn this episode you will get a partial replay of the message "I Want to Be Different," that features Christy's powerful testimony of overcoming fear and anxiety through faith. Christy shares how she debunked lies she once believed, emphasizing the importance of surrendering to God rather than relying solely on oneself. This messages aims to inspire women to confront their fears, seek God's truth, and embrace their purpose with confidence.Key Points:Christy's struggles with fear in 2011, 2014, and 2017.God's reassuring messages to Christy during her journey.T...2024-07-0215 min
Fearless Tips and Talks with Christy BoulwareTalk 39: Steadfast with Lilliana GinneverSend us a textWelcome to "Steadfast: The Student’s Guide to Battling Anxiety," an eye-opening podcast series diving into powerful and honest conversations about the struggles youth face in today's challenging world. Today we interview Lilliana Ginnever. Christy's Book on Amazon Signed copy of Christy's book with personal message shop here What is a Soul Shepherd/Mental Health Advocate? Learn here Do you want to see the video from this podcast? Check it out here: Get Christy's weekly anxiety tips emails, cli...2024-06-2739 minFearless Tips and Talks with Christy BoulwareTip 26: More of a ChallengeSend us a textIn episode 38 of "Steadfast: The Student’s Guide to Battling Anxiety," Layla highlighted the profound need for teens and young adults to feel seen and loved. In today's episode, Christy presents a challenge: think about the teen or young adult in your life who might need your support.Who can you remind, encourage, and love today? Inspired by Maya Angelou's powerful words, "I've learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel," Christy encourages listeners to ma...2024-06-1805 min
Fearless Tips and Talks with Christy BoulwareTalk 38: Steadfast with Layla ThorntonSend us a textWelcome to "Steadfast: The Student’s Guide to Battling Anxiety," an eye-opening podcast series diving into powerful and honest conversations about the struggles youth face in today's challenging world. Join us as we kick off our Steadfast Series with Layla Thornton, an 18-year-old youth pastor at Bridge Church with a passion for discipleship and a desire to see GenZ transformed by the gospel. Layla believes she is called to be the hands and feet of Jesus, bringing His kingdom to earth both in the US and around the world.Topics covered in...2024-06-1350 minFearless Tips and Talks with Christy BoulwareTip 25: Five helpful questionsSend us a textAudiobook Launch Team Form In today's Tip, Christy dives into a crucial topic for adults handling teens or young adults with anxiety. Recognizing anxiety in younger individuals can be challenging, as it's often masked by other symptoms. Christy offers valuable insights on identifying these hidden signs, such as anger outbursts, isolation, and persistent physical complaints like stomachaches or headaches.Christy emphasizes the importance of love and support in helping teens navigate their anxiety. She provides practical advice on addressing mild anxiety through open conversations and highlights the necessity of...2024-06-0411 min
Fearless Tips and Talks with Christy BoulwareTalk 37: Grief for Patriarchy with Dr. Christopher Hutson (part 2)Send us a textIn this powerful two part episode of Fearless Tips and Talks, we conclude our "Resilience in the Pews" series with a special interview featuring Dr. Christopher Hutson, a Yale-educated professor at Abilene Christian University. Dr. Hutson, also known as Chris, shares his insights on the complex and often contentious debate surrounding women's roles in the church.We explore Chris's journey from complementarianism to egalitarianism, discuss his commentary on 1 Timothy, and delve into the historical context of women's leadership in the early church. Chris also shares a poignant story...2024-05-3049 min
Fearless Tips and Talks with Christy BoulwareTalk 37: Grief for Patriarchy with Dr. Christopher Hutson (part 1)Send us a textIn this powerful two part episode of Fearless Tips and Talks, we conclude our "Resilience in the Pews" series with a special interview featuring Dr. Christopher Hutson, a Yale-educated professor at Abilene Christian University. Dr. Hutson, also known as Chris, shares his insights on the complex and often contentious debate surrounding women's roles in the church.We explore Chris's journey from complementarianism to egalitarianism, discuss his commentary on 1 Timothy, and delve into the historical context of women's leadership in the early church. Chris also shares a poignant story about a college...2024-05-2324 min
Fearless Tips and Talks with Christy BoulwareTalk 36 Othered with Jenai AumanSend us a textIn today’s poignant episode of the Resilience in the Pews series, we delve into the profound experiences captured in Jenai Auman's book, Othered: Finding Belonging with the God Who Pursues the Hurt, Harmed, and Marginalized. Jenai’s work stands out for its raw and revealing examination of what it means to feel 'othered' within the context of faith communities.In this episode, Jenai defines what it means to be ‘othered’ and discusses the significant role of naming one's ache as a crucial step towards healing. She challenges listeners to confron...2024-05-161h 15
Fearless Tips and Talks with Christy BoulwareTalk 35 Your View Isn’t Their View with Jessica TaylorSend us a textIn this compelling episode of the Resilience in the Pews series, Christy sits down with her good friend and fellow Enneagram 8 friend, Jessica Taylor to explore the theme "Your View Isn’t Their View", focusing on tackling anxiety and healing from church wounds. As co-pastors, Jessica and her husband have turned their past church wounds into a mission of healing and understanding within their own ministry.Jessica discusses the importance of loyalty—a trait deeply ingrained in her and something she values immensely in both personal and spiritual contexts. She sh...2024-05-0956 min
Fearless Tips and Talks with Christy BoulwareFearless Talk 34: Unexpected Miracles with Hilda Bih MuluhSend us a textIn this inspiring episode of the Resilience in the Pews series, we dive into the remarkable life of Hilda, whose story of faith and determination unfolds in unexpected ways. Our episode, titled "Unexpected Miracles," explores how Hilda, despite being physically limited to a tricycle and later a wheelchair, overcame immense challenges and societal stigmas from her upbringing in Cameroon to finding her true community and calling in journalism.Hilda’s journey began with her family seeking help from a witch doctor, a common practice in her culture for those deemed "cursed" du...2024-05-0247 min
Fearless Tips and Talks with Christy BoulwareTalk 33: God is Good with Brant HansenSend us a textJoin us on a heartfelt journey with Brant Hansen in the latest episode of the Fearless Tips and Talks podcast, part of our resilience-in-the-pews series. This episode, titled "God is Good," features Hansen, an author and radio personality known for his engaging storytelling and insightful doodles. In his latest book, "Life is Hard. God is Good. Let’s Dance," Brant explores the complexities of faith with simplicity and humor, offering a fresh perspective on walking with Jesus without getting lost in dogma.In this episode, Brant discusses the themes of...2024-04-2555 min
Fearless Tips and Talks with Christy BoulwareTalk 32: Healthy Fear of God with Angel WilliamsSend us a textJoin us on for a powerful episode with Angel Williams, a beacon of faith and resilience, as she shares her journey of overcoming excruciating abuse and finding a "Healthy Fear of God." Angel's story, set against the backdrop of a childhood marred by physical and sexual abuse at the hands of her father—a leader in her church—offers a raw, unfiltered look into the complexities of faith, fear, and forgiveness. In this episode, part of our "Resilience in the Pews" series, we delve into how Angel navigated her anxie...2024-04-1155 min
Fearless Tips and Talks with Christy BoulwareTalk 31: Pastors' Wives Tell AllSend us a textIn this episode of Resilience In the Pews, we explore the authentic and often challenging journeys of the hosts behind "Pastors Wives Tell All." From confronting the stigma of being tatted-up women of faith to tackling imposter syndrome and the complex dynamics within church communities, Stephanie, Jessica, and Jenna share their personal stories and the lessons they've learned. They discuss the resilience required to navigate criticism, the courage to challenge conventional religious spirits, and the intimate struggles that come with their unique positions. The conversation delves into the widespread issues faced by churches...2024-04-0557 min
Fearless Tips and Talks with Christy BoulwareTalk 30: Calling Out Truth with Julie RoysSend us a textOur guest today is a veteran investigator reporter and founder of The Roys Report.Christy asked Julie these questions and more! What are the three top common themes of bad behavior/unhealth that you see within the churches you are reporting on? I often see that the churches you are reporting on, decline to comment. Why do you think that is? How do you conduct an investigation fairly? Has your reporting ever been wrong? If so, what action steps did you take? How would you...2024-03-281h 20
Fearless Tips and Talks with Christy BoulwareTalk 29: Leadership: Too Heavy to Carry with Lance FordSend us a textIt’s an intriguing title, why would leadership be too heavy to carry? In this episode Christy asks Lance Explain the idea of the starfish and spider in terms of your chapters on leadership. Talk about how you went “from being the spider, to being the one caught in the spider web”? Why is the current way Churches are doing leadership too heavy to carry? What happened in the mid 1990’s in regards to the church growth movement that changed the landscape of local churches? “The Church is a business and...2024-03-2158 min
Fearless Tips and Talks with Christy BoulwareTalk 28: Reimagining The American Church with Laura BarringerSend us a textChristy got to sit under Laura’s teaching at the Restore Conference, and her wisdom, and humble approach to addressing the issues the American Church is facing brought peace to her soul.In this episode Christys asks Laura: Why did you team up with your Dad to write?How do church wounds affect your soul and create anxiety? Can you expand on resisting loyalty, celebrity and leader culture more? “We are more concerned with who is coming to church than who these people are becoming.” Why was that quote so important...2024-03-1447 min
Fearless Tips and Talks with Christy BoulwareTalk 27: Women's Voices Being Silenced with Natalie RunionSend us a textThere is hope for healing when you walk with humility. Do not give up on a perfect God because the church is made up of imperfect people. In this episode Christy asks Natalie;Why are women's voices are being silenced in the American church?If you are a women in the church what should you do if you are feeling oppressed, held back, or silenced?How do you know when to stay and fight and when to leave peacefully?What does submission look like in your ho...2024-03-0737 min
Fearless Tips and Talks with Christy BoulwareTalk 26: Understanding Abuse in the Church with Remy DiederichSend us a textToday's episode starts a new series called: Resilience in the Pews: Tackling Anxiety and Church Wounds.The goal of this series is to explore the often-overlooked aspects of anxiety, trauma, and emotional wounds that many individuals experience in their church communities. Christy asks Remy Why do you think there is such a rise in abusive behavior in church settings? What is the difference between bad leadership or mistreatment and abuse in the Church?“Toxic faith is the soil from which spiritual abuse grows.” Explain that qu...2024-02-2953 minFearless Tips and Talks with Christy BoulwareTip 24: Tackling Anxiety and Church WoundsSend us a text Join me on a journey of resilience and faith in my upcoming series, "Resilience in the Pews: Tackling Anxiety and Church Wounds," starting Feb 29th!I'll be sharing my own experiences and interviewing incredible guests to address important questions: How can we navigate anxiety and emotional pain on our spiritual journey?What steps can churches take to be places of healing and support for mental health?How can we build resilience within ourselves and our faith communities?"Resilience in the Pews" empowers you with hope and understanding. Even if yo...2024-02-2005 min
Fearless Tips and Talks with Christy BoulwareTalk 25: Surrender In Grief with Shaunna CoinSend us a textIn the final episode of our Surrender Series, Shaunna Coin beautifully articulates how to navigate through grief and tips to surrender. This is a powerful episode to share with anyone you know who is struggling with grief. Mentionshttps://www.breesgift.com/In the Waiting Support Group Things that helped Shaunna through griefLife Coaching with Jenna Counseling Christy's Book on Amazon Signed copy of Christy's book with personal message shop here What is a...2024-02-1558 minFearless Tips and Talks with Christy BoulwareTip 23: Surrender ExperiencesSend us a text Fearless Tip 23 Last week's powerful interview with Sydney Jones on surrendering with OCD is a must-listen (Talk 24)! Share it with someone who needs it!Today, Christy is sharing her Surrender Experiences:1️⃣ Quitting corporate sales in 20122️⃣ Closing my photography company in 20163️⃣ Leaving a local church in 2023 (more on this in two week for Tip 24)Common thread? Peace after surrender. Remember, being in God's will doesn't mean no challenges, but there's grace and peace in surrender. What are you holding onto that God is asking you...2024-02-0605 min
Fearless Tips and Talks with Christy BoulwareTalk 24: Surrender In OCD with Sydney JonesSend us a textSydney was diagnosed with OCD (Obsessive Compulsive Disorder) three years ago, and is passionate about decreasing stereotypes and stigmas that are around those who are fighting their own battles with Obsessive Compulsive Disorder and with mental health. She is currently on the path of publishing my first poetry collection: Tuesday, which is the story of her spiritual journey through OCD. You will be surprised to learn how closely related anxiety and OCD are. Christy's Book on Amazon Signed copy of Christy's book with personal message shop he...2024-02-0150 minFearless Tips and Talks with Christy BoulwareTip 22: Struggles with SurrenderSend us a textChristy shares a struggle she has with surrender.Where are you not trusting God? What if you let go, and let God be God? How much would that change your life? What are you white-knuckling right now thinking it will bring you peace? Christy's Book on Amazon Signed copy of Christy's book with personal message shop here What is a Soul Shepherd/Mental Health Advocate? Learn here Do you want to see the video from this...2024-01-2305 min
Fearless Tips and Talks with Christy BoulwareTalk 23: Surrender Starts with You with Wendy BlightSend us a textSurrender Starts with You, a Mom’s Story of Trying Something New!In this episode;How does childhood affect surrenderParenting surrender storiesWays to surrender Passages that help you surrenderso much more! Get Wendy's Book here: Rest For Your Soul Christy's Book on Amazon Signed copy of Christy's book with personal message shop here What is a Soul Shepherd/Mental Health Advocate? Learn here Do you want to see the video from this podcast? Check it out here: 2024-01-1847 minFearless Tips and Talks with Christy BoulwareTip 21: Control is an IllusionSend us a textHow do you know if you are struggling with surrender? See if any of these statements ring true for your life:· I think I can change people.· I worry more often than I’m at peace.· I like to hover over people and make sure they are doing things to my expectations.· I have a hard time being in the passenger seat.· I have confidence in myself but not in others.· I trust myself more than I trust God. · I often tell peop...2024-01-0907 min
Fearless Tips and Talks with Christy BoulwareTalk 22: Surprise Surrender with Lacey O'BannonSend us a textWe are kicking off our new series called Fearless Surrender. In this episode we talk about the incredible moment Lacey had at our Wisdom retreat and how her life looks different now that she is truly walking in surrender. We cover:her miracle storydefinition of surrenderhow difficult is it to surrenderpassage that helps so much more! Find out about our events, impact resources and connecting with Christy linked. Christy's Book on Amazon Signed copy of Christy's book with personal message shop here Wha...2024-01-0442 minFearless Tips and Talks with Christy BoulwareTip 20: What's ComingSend us a textChristy's Book on Amazon Signed copy of Christy's book with personal message shop here What is a Soul Shepherd/Mental Health Advocate? Learn here Do you want to see the video from this podcast? Check it out here: Get Christy's weekly anxiety tips emails, click purple "get anxiety tips" box On Social Media? Connect with Christy and on Instagram: @christymboulwareConnect with Fearless Unite and on Instagram: @fearlessunite Send us...2023-12-2608 min
Fearless Tips and Talks with Christy BoulwareTalk 21: Freedom From Your Phones with Caitlin KasbergSend us a textDiscover practical tips on how to regain control if you find yourself glued to your phone. From setting time limits to cultivating mindful habits, we outline the top actions you can take right now to break free from the grip of digital dependency.For teenagers, who are often more vulnerable to the allure of digital spaces, we explore the unique challenges they face. Experts weigh in on strategies to set healthy boundaries on phone usage, striking a balance between staying connected and avoiding the pitfalls of excessive screen time. P...2023-12-2143 minFearless Tips and Talks with Christy BoulwareTip 19: Rest IdeasSend us a textToday Christy gives you ideas for rest. A little tip, they may not be what you expect either! Christy's Book on Amazon Signed copy of Christy's book with personal message shop here What is a Soul Shepherd/Mental Health Advocate? Learn here Do you want to see the video from this podcast? Check it out here: Get Christy's weekly anxiety tips emails, click purple "get anxiety tips" box On Social Media? C...2023-12-1209 min
Fearless Tips and Talks with Christy BoulwareTalk 20: Fear of Politics with Blake GuichetSend us a textIn this episode, we explore why so many people have anxiety over politics. Christy asks Blake; Why does she feel so called to speak out?How does she remain fearless in the face of criticism ?Political stances, especially in the Christianity circles, have become so polarizing. Why do you think that is? How can we do a better job loving and listening to both sides?What are some great resources to get news? The pour overWhat is your best advice to someone who is feeling a massive amount of anxiety abou...2023-12-0756 min
Fearless Tips and Talks with Christy BoulwareTalk 19: Bible Anxiety with Mary DeMuthSend us a textWe are unresponsive to the most important tool that can bring us peace. The Bible. Join Christy and Mary for this episode of Bible anxiety. We cover:Join the Fearless Scripture Pursuit: 90 Day Challenge here.Why did Mary write the 90 Day Bible Reading Challenge. How has reading the Bible changed her life, specifically as it relates to fear and anxiety?What is her daily routine in reading the Bible?What do you do about the hard parts of the Bible that don't make sense?What i...2023-11-3039 minFearless Tips and Talks with Christy BoulwareTIP 18: You Can Believe In Miracles While Taking Practical Steps Toward HealingSend us a textIn this episode we tackle this big question. Does God approve of medication to treat mental health conditions? Christy's Book on Amazon Signed copy of Christy's book with personal message shop here What is a Soul Shepherd/Mental Health Advocate? Learn here Do you want to see the video from this podcast? Check it out here: Get Christy's weekly anxiety tips emails, click purple "get anxiety tips" box 2023-11-2811 minFearless Tips and Talks with Christy BoulwareTip 17: Build Your Faith MusclesSend us a textIn today's Tip, I explain how we are more than just a body. We have to build our soul and spirit to overcome anxiety too. Here are 7 more Scriptures that help me build my faith and overcome fear. · “Even when I walk through the darkest valley, I will not be afraid, for you are close beside me. Your rod and your staff protect and comfort me.” (Ps. 23:4 nlt)· “So be strong and courageous! Do not be afraid and do not panic before them. For the Lord y...2023-11-1406 min
Fearless Tips and Talks with Christy BoulwareTalk 18: Freedom From Toxic Relationships with Stephenie CombsSend us a textWe have all walked through toxic relationships, but how do we navigate them well? In this episode LPC Stephenie Combs answersHow do you know when a relationship is toxic?How do you give grace but be firm as the same time? Aren’t we supposed to unconditionally love everyone? There is a time to speak and a time to remain silent. What are some ways to know when to do each?And more!Emotion Wheel: https://www.dropb...2023-11-0950 minFearless Tips and Talks with Christy BoulwareTip 16: Not a Believer and Have AnxietySend us a textToday, Christy answers what to do if you are helping someone that has anxiety but is NOT a believer. Christy's Book on Amazon Signed copy of Christy's book with personal message shop here What is a Soul Shepherd/Mental Health Advocate? Learn here Do you want to see the video from this podcast? Check it out here: Get Christy's weekly anxiety tips emails, click purple "get anxiety tips" box On Social Media? 2023-10-3106 min
Fearless Tips and Talks with Christy BoulwareFreedom Focus: Talk 17 Fear of Ruining your Kids: Lauren GainesSend us a textIn Lauren Gaines book Unshakable Kids she unpacks how to prepare your kids to live in the real world by equipping them with a sound mind and strategies for establishing a foundation of faith.In this episode we talk about how to overcome the fear of not ruining your kids. Hold onto the end, she tells an amazing story about not walking in a victim mindset too. Find Lauren on InstagramChristy's Book on Amazon Signed copy of Christy's book with personal message shop...2023-10-2643 minFearless Tips and Talks with Christy BoulwareTip 15: Body, Soul, SpiritSend us a textOur hospital systems are pretty good at identifying the physical symptoms we experience and prescribing medications to fix them, but they fail to recognize that our thoughts also lead to physical symptoms. Could there be a correlation between mental, physical, and spiritual wellness that a balanced approach could measure? What if we began to treat the entire person instead of just the physical body?That's what today's tip is all about. Christy's Book on Amazon Signed copy of Christy's book with personal message shop here What i...2023-10-1707 minFearless Tips and Talks with Christy BoulwareTalk 16: Freedom From Shame with Sandi BrownSend us a textIn this episode, Sandi Brown walks us through finding freedom from shame.we cover:defining shamefear and shame going togetheremotions as our alliesfear of counseling? the difference between broken and woundedbiggest practical and spiritual things you can do to overcome shameIf you want to walk through more healing, go get your copy of her book; Healing Out LoudChristy's Book on Amazon Signed copy of Christy's book with personal message shop here What is a Soul Shepherd/Mental Health Advocate? Learn here...2023-10-1230 minFearless Tips and Talks with Christy BoulwareTip 14: Amazed and OffendedSend us a textWhy are the closest people to you sometimes the hardest to reach or communicate with? What do you do when this happens? That's what this tip is all about. Christy's Book on Amazon Signed copy of Christy's book with personal message shop here What is a Soul Shepherd/Mental Health Advocate? Learn here Do you want to see the video from this podcast? Check it out here: Get Christy's weekly anxiety tips emails, click pu...2023-10-0304 min
Fearless Tips and Talks with Christy BoulwareFearless Talk 15: Guilt of Postpartum: Rachael ElmoreSend us a textRachael's Book: https://www.amazon.com/dp/1400233992?_encoding=UTF8&psc=1&ref_=cm_sw_r_cp_ud_dp_TFH5YAB0TXENX1KQE1FF&dplnkId=532163cc-96bf-44e9-8df1-d2e5facef781&ref=d6k_applink_bb_dlsDownload Rachael's 21 Day Challenge Three-Minute Self-Care: https://view.flodesk.com/pages/6434552171c069faf7824bbeIG: https://instagram.com/rachaelhuntelmore?igshid=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==Christy's Book on Amazon Signed copy of Christy's book with personal message shop here What is a Soul Shepherd/Mental Health Advocate? Learn here 2023-09-2843 min
Fearless Tips and Talks with Christy BoulwareI Won't Go Speechless: Women's Roles In The ChurchSend us a textPeriodically, in place of a Tip I am going to use my voice to advocate for injustices. I’ll be calling these episodes, “I Won't Go Speechless” This episode is: Women's roles in the churchLinks: Speechless SongQuestions for Church Leaders Do you have clear, studied, and compassionate communication that defends your stance if you limit women? Have you communicated that stance to your staff and congregation? Men and Women in ChurchesDo you kno...2023-09-1907 min
Fearless Tips and Talks with Christy BoulwareFreedom Focus: Talk 14 Fear of Leading with Tara WelnickSend us a textIn this episode we will cover getting over the fear of leading. Christy's Book on Amazon Signed copy of Christy's book with personal message shop here What is a Soul Shepherd/Mental Health Advocate? Learn here Do you want to see the video from this podcast? Check it out here: Get Christy's weekly anxiety tips emails, click purple "get anxiety tips" box On Social Media? Connect with Christy and on Instagram: @c...2023-09-1427 min
Fearless Tips and Talks with Christy BoulwareBonus: Missunderstood Manhood-Will GoodSend us a textToday I’m interrupting our Tip/Talk flow. It’s time to release Tip 14 to you, but we are going to throw you a curveball and deliver bonus content instead. If you haven’t heard, we started Podcast Plus. This is exclusive bonus content that we release to you each month that ONLY podcast plus subscribers get. If you love our Fearless Talks you will LOVE our bonus interviews and content even more! We wanted you to get a taste of what our bonus content is like, so we are...2023-09-0528 min
Fearless Tips and Talks with Christy BoulwareFreedom Focus: Talk 13 Misunderstood Manhood with Will GoodSend us a textWill’s Venn Diagram parts:1. Godly “How to Human”2. Unique image in which we are made (male or female, along with our distinct personality traits and natural giftings)3. Gifting (think gifts of the Spirit in scripture)4. Our story (which can seem to punish us away from being who God made us to be or promote us towards living from our true selves)Daily PrayerBegin your day with prayer. Don’t just ask. Declare Truth over your life. Rec...2023-08-3152 minFearless Tips and Talks with Christy BoulwareTip 13: What Is Peace?Send us a textWhat if peace is a state of being that starts with surrendering to the Prince of Peace?Christy's Book on Amazon Signed copy of Christy's book with personal message shop here What is a Soul Shepherd/Mental Health Advocate? Learn here Do you want to see the video from this podcast? Check it out here: Get Christy's weekly anxiety tips emails, click purple "get anxiety tips" box On Social Media? 2023-08-2206 minFearless Tips and Talks with Christy BoulwareFreedom Focus: Talk 12 Mental Overload with Justin StewartSend us a textToday’s topic is: Setting our minds free from mental overload. Contact The Guild; Mens Fellowship: http://www.guildfellowship.com/?fbclid=IwAR1CbDpMsduV0k2URyo9z3u76bYAmDu7YKRi0KzkF0fXDA9-3ffpa5BWGE0The Guild on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/GuildFellowshipChristy's Book on Amazon Signed copy of Christy's book with personal message shop here What is a Soul Shepherd/Mental Health Advocate? Learn here Do you want to see the video from this podcast? Check it out...2023-08-1738 minFearless Tips and Talks with Christy BoulwareTip 12: Lets Talk About ControlSend us a textAccording to WebMD, “People with anxiety disorders feel a need to control everything around them in order to feel at peace." What are you controlling ways? Do you always have to be right?· Do you try to determine outcomes in advance to move things in your favor?· Do you rarely take the blame?· Do you like being the center of attention?· Do you rarely seek advice from others?· Do you like t...2023-08-0808 min
Fearless Tips and Talks with Christy BoulwareFearless Talk 11: Ms. Patti- Firm foundations, friendships and how those help or hurt anxiety.Send us a textIn this episode, we delve into the intricate dynamics of friendships and how they can either alleviate or exacerbate anxiety. Also, three reasons why our world is struggling with anxiety so badly and what to do about. Christy's Book on Amazon Signed copy of Christy's book with personal message shop here What is a Soul Shepherd/Mental Health Advocate? Learn here Do you want to see the video from this podcast? Check it out here: Get Christy's weekly anxiety tips ...2023-08-0329 minFearless Tips and Talks with Christy BoulwareFearless Tip 11: Dangers Of Self HelpSend us a textMany self-help books, even those referred to as Christian, present lies as truths that contradict the Bible. For example, Proverbs 28:26 is crystal clear on self-help: “Those who trust in themselves are fools, but those who walk in wisdom are kept safe” (niv). Let’s be honest: a “surrendered-life-to-Jesus-help” isn’t as popular as self-help. In fact, there isn’t even a sale category for it in the book store or podcast section. So here if your fearless tip of the day: self-help i...2023-07-2510 min
Fearless Tips and Talks with Christy BoulwareTalk 10: Dwain Sliger: An invitation to look into the soul plus vulnerabilitySend us a textCould anxiety be circumvented through vulnerability and caring for our souls better? This conversation with Christy's counselor will help you ask yourself those important questions. Questions Dwain asks when dealing with anxiety. What specifically is the problem?What part of this can I control? What part of this can I not control? Is this a problem I can solve? If so, do I want to? If I can solve the problem and want to, what am I going to do next? Christy's Book on Amazon Sig...2023-07-2042 minFearless Tips and Talks with Christy BoulwareFearless Tip 10: Fighting for My LifeSend us a textIf you are struggling with thoughts of suicide please get help. You are loved. Your life has purpose. We pray this episode brings you hope in the darkness. Christy's Book on Amazon Signed copy of Christy's book with personal message shop here What is a Soul Shepherd/Mental Health Advocate? Learn here Do you want to see the video from this podcast? Check it out here: Get Christy's weekly anxiety tips emails, click purple "get anxiety tips" box 2023-07-1109 min
Fearless Tips and Talks with Christy BoulwareFearless Talk 9: Jenna Barbosa - Abandonment, Control, and Breakthrough.Send us a textThis episode will help you overcome the fear of abandonment, control and so much more! To connect with Jenna click here Christy's Book on Amazon Signed copy of Christy's book with personal message shop here What is a Soul Shepherd/Mental Health Advocate? Learn here Do you want to see the video from this podcast? Check it out here: Get Christy's weekly anxiety tips emails, click purple "get anxiety tips" box On So...2023-07-0641 minFearless Tips and Talks with Christy BoulwareFearless Tip 9: Shift your focus higherSend us a textSo much fear and anxiety come from our worldly, human ideas. What if we stop to ask questions from a godly viewpoint?· God, what are you doing here?· How can I grow and learn from this?· Where are you, God, in this?· How can I consider this trial a joy?What if we shifted our focus higher? Christy's Book on Amazon Signed copy of Christy's book with personal message shop here What is a Soul Shepherd/Mental Health Advocate...2023-06-2709 min
Fearless Tips and Talks with Christy BoulwareFearless Talk 8: Charity Barbosa overcoming fear of death & letting the Lord fight for you.Send us a textHave you ever been afraid to die? Has that caused anxiety in your life, maybe even the fear of suffering? This episode will give you practical and spiritual tips to help you. Fear Scriptures mentioned in the episode. · “For God hath not given us the spirit of fear; but of power, and of love, and of a sound mind.” (2 Tim. 1:7 kjv)· “There is no fear in love. But perfect love drives out fear, because fear has to do with punishment. The one who fears is not made per...2023-06-2238 min
Fearless Tips and Talks with Christy BoulwareFearless Tip 8: Don’t Ignore Anxiety Warnings, Press Into ThemSend us a textLearn and understand the symptoms of anxiety better. Medical professionals say panic attacks don’t last long. That’s true, but each one leaves a permanent imprint on your soul, especially if you’re enduring what seems like a never-ending cycle.Your Fearless Tip for today: Don’t ignore anxiety warnings, press into them. Mental Health Resource pageChristy's Book on Amazon Signed copy of Christy's book with personal message shop here What is a Soul Shepherd/Mental Health Advocate? Learn here 2023-06-1308 min
Fearless Tips and Talks with Christy BoulwareFearless Talk 7: Katie Bynum Perfectionism and control and how that creates anxietySend us a textPerfectionism and control & how it leads to anxiety— a moms story of letting go and learning to surrender to God. Christy's Book on Amazon Signed copy of Christy's book with personal message shop here What is a Soul Shepherd/Mental Health Advocate? Learn here Do you want to see the video from this podcast? Check it out here: Get Christy's weekly anxiety tips emails, click purple "get anxiety tips" box On Social Media? 2023-06-0828 min