Clara Artschwager - Podcast Details

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I Think I Like You How do we sit with the desire for a relationship while also not knowing when it will happen? | Ep 123This is a question I dance with, and often, with clients. How do we sit with our desire for something, and attempt to work towards it, but not know if or when or how it's going to come to fruition? How do we do so while we watch it happening for other people around us?In this episode I'm addressing both how to sit with the unknown and tangible ways to move us closer to relationship. These are the exact practices I've walked my clients through over the past six years.I'm specifically covering:...

2024-09-2048 min

I Think I Like You How making a list of all the things you want in a partner is working against you, not for you | Ep 102In today's episode, I'm digging into a recent question from a listener:Hey Clara! What are your thoughts on a long list of requirements for a partner?Oooh this is *such* a good one, and while I'm all for getting clarity on what you desire and need in a partner, I find when we start talking lists (and very specific ones), they're not that helpful.A list can give us a false sense of clarity and control. It can also keep us from the deeper work we're being called to do that will...

2024-04-0244 min

I Think I Like You What to do with all the feelings of, "I'm behind in life. I'm never going to meet someone." And so forth. | Ep 92Do you feel behind in life? Do you wrestle with feelings of...if I just had:That jobThat houseThat relationshipThat moneyThen I'd be....golden (insert sunglasses emoji).I wrestle with these feelings consistently, and while they've waned in nature as I've gotten older, I'm still every so often hit with that swirl of anxiety, fear and shame, that my life just won't ever look like how I want it to look. But more so, that it won't take a shape that others deem good and successful. I've touched on this subject before, b...

2024-01-3140 min

I Think I Like You The holidays are effing hard, a casual chat w/ my husband James | Ep 85A fun episode for your holiday travels or time in the kitchen. xx ClaraWork with me PrivatelyConnect on InstagramWebsitePodcast Production by James Jorge

2023-11-1943 min

I Think I Like You Why it's so damn hard to build confidence + self trust in dating, relationships + sex (and how we actually go about doing it) | Ep 81Recently a listener reach out with the following question:"Hey Clara — I'm 35 and have never been in a relationship or had sex. I find most content around self confidence and self trust to be over simplified, somewhat condescending, and bordering on toxic positivity. Do you have a way you work through this with your clients?"The short answer, yes. In this episode I dig into:How I help my clients build more self confidence and self trust in the space of dating, sex, and beyondHow I help my clients understand why they lac...

2023-11-0127 min

I Think I Like You It’s not your fault. It’s nearly impossible to leave a situation-ship. | Ep 78While in more modern times we've coined the term 'situationship,' these types of relationships — ones where our desire something or someone to be something we know it never will — are nothing new. Modern culture would also advise us to "just drop" these individuals. Let them go. Move on. It's that simple.But it isn't.In today's episode I'm breaking down:What drives situation-ships — i.e. our obsession with or attachment to specific peopleWhy these scenarios are so challenging to let go ofThe litany of emotions and romantic blueprinting that rests within who we choose...

2023-10-0341 min

I Think I Like You On stepping into marriage and motherhood in your 40s | Ep 77In today's enlightening episode, join me as I have a deep conversation with Kerri Keaton, a corporate executive turned human design specialist, a devoted mother, a thought leader, and a change maker. Kerri's unique journey is a testament to the possibilities that exist beyond societal norms, as she entered into marriage at 41 and embraced motherhood at 45. Her story is a beacon of hope for the many women in their late 30s and 40s who yearn for the experiences of partnership and parenthood, but rarely see these paths modeled beyond their mid-30s.In this episode, we explore:

2023-09-261h 31

I Think I Like You Most dating advice is doing a bang up job of making us feel like we're not doing enough | Ep 76Have you ever read a bit of dating advice, only to implement what it said and have it either a) not work, or b) make you feel worse about yourself? #raiseshandTo be clear, this episode is not about throwing anyone under the bus, nor saying that MY advice is perfect. Hardly. Rather, it's to illuminate the landscape of dating wisdom, how most of it only scratches the surface of our intimacy and romance obstacles, but delivers big promises. You'll meet you person! All will work out! And then you don't and tell yourself you're doing it...

2023-09-0437 min

I Think I Like You My husband and I chat about our childhoods, how those experiences show up in our marriage now, and how we navigate the differences | Ep 75I'm delighted to bring my husband, James, back on the podcast today for an open conversation around what I believe to be one of the most crucial areas of understanding within a relationship — your varied background and history. Your childhood, yes, but we pull the lens out a bit father than that. This is one of many conversations I hope to have of this kind. For me, when I was seeking a partner, one of the most crucial elements I desired in another individual was someone who had an introspective relationship with themselves. Could be through therapy, cou...

2023-09-041h 04

I Think I Like You *Fall Teaser* Here's what's coming in Sept! 🍁🍁🍁A short preview of what's coming this fall.Work with me PrivatelyConnect on InstagramWebsitePodcast Production by James Jorge

2023-09-0106 min

I Think I Like You When you *know* there's something standing in the way of your growth but you can't put your finger on it | Ep 74When my dear friend Katherine came to me a few months back and said "I did mushrooms and I need to tell you what came up," it wasn’t the mushrooms that had me going; it was the way this modality fit within the larger frame of her work on herself.So often I speak with folks about how tired they are — tired of reading all the books and doing all the therapy and trying all the things. They do and don’t want to keep working on themselves. It’s just….where is it getting them? Is it reall...

2023-08-161h 21

I Think I Like You Kris Wylder on Navigating Relationships + Motherhood Not Looking Like What You Thought It Would | Ep 73I've had the pleasure of knowing Kris for over a decade, and boy have our lives changed within that timespan. What began as two fellow food bloggers bumping into each other at events in the city (pre-Instagram days), has transitioned into a know ya from afar digital connection, with those early influencer roots.Recently turned 40, Kris has had her fair share of ups and downs in relationships (which we dig into in the episode). Her life looks nothing like what she thought it would, but she embraces it — and the growth and evolution — with such grace....

2023-08-091h 03

I Think I Like You 4 Common Pitfalls in Dating Where I See People Getting Stuck | Ep 72On a recent walk with my pups, I was marinating on the shared habits and characteristics of my clients who are now in long term relationships. It got me thinking about the inverse behavior — less of what people actually do and more of what people don't do that blocks them from growth and change. Not just in relationships, but in any area of their life. In todays episode I'm digging into those four common pitfalls.They center around:Circumventing your painBeing obsessed with the how of dating (i.e. how to meet someone) versus looking closely at t...

2023-08-0331 min

I Think I Like You The unique struggles overachievers face in dating + relationships | Ep 71I meet so many women —often in their later 30s— who say something along the lines of "I focused on my career, that's why I'm single." They're no stranger to hard work. They're the quintessential over achiever and they've been that way for as long as they can remember.But is their "focus on work," really the reason they're still single? This isn't about pointing fingers or laying blame, this is about getting curious to the consistent pattern and narrative.In this episode, I'm digging into the learned behaviors of overachievers and how that actually come...

2023-07-261h 00

I Think I Like You The practice that is *actually* helping w/ my sex life (and so much more) w/ Ishtara Founder, Tracy Harward | Ep 70I've spent the past decade trying everything from traditional sex therapy to "yoni massage," (yes, that's a thing), to bring more pleasure and freedom not just into my sexual experience, but my body. Nothing has been as transformative as Ishtara. Join me for an intimate conversation with the founder to learn more about the practice, her story (what brought her to this work), and how it's played such an integral role in my own healing.Join me for a retreat in the Hudson Valley!~2 spots left~September 12th to the 16thSet in a g...

2023-07-191h 12

I Think I Like You Nancy Levin drops the knowledge on relationships for overachievers | Ep 69On today's podcast I'm chatting with author and master life coach, Nancy Levin. I was introduced to Nancy by my own coach years ago, via her best selling book Setting Boundaries Will Set You Free. I have purchased this book — I sh*t you not— 22 times for 22 different clients. And I have to be honest, I'm sitting here thinking: I know there are more clients— why haven't I sent it to them all?! It's THAT good.Here's what we dig into in this episode:A really simple way to understand codependencyThe connection between being codependent and strugg...

2023-07-121h 10

I Think I Like You A dating Q+A w/ Amy Nobile | Ep 68Amy Nobile is the founder of Love, Amy, a dating coaching service that marries the holistic view of human-to-human energy and connection with the technology of modern-day dating. We had so much fun when I was guest on her podcast, we decided to do it again, but this time as a listener Q+A episode. Here are the questions we dig into: What's our perspective on manifesting soulful, romantic love into your life and purely focusing on that versus getting onto apps and swiping away?How do you deal with shame around feeling like you haven't bee...

2023-07-051h 10

I Think I Like You Everyone is IN it and here's the deal w/ Psychological Astrologer Dani Beinstein | Episode 67" Real love stories are inconvenient. As a culture we’ve thrown away romanticism in favor of extreme practicality. "Earlier the year, on the heals of my convo w/ Dani Beinstein, we said "Let's connect in August and record again late summer!" And left it at that.But then, in the last few months, the consistencies arising in myself and my clients was so profound, I had to reach out again. Those consistencies weren't just housed in relationship but in this grander evolution of safely. Namely:The death of our "good girls"Breaking from conditioning in...

2023-06-281h 18

I Think I Like You 3 clients who have found flow in their dating lives | Episode 66In light of some new one to one coaching spots opening up (pssst, I'd love to work with you!), in today's episode I'm walking you through the three consistent patterns and habits I see in clients who are finding flow in their dating life. By flow I mean,They're finding ease in the process of datingThey're not wracked with a scarcity mindset or fear of never meeting someone — they've truly surrendered to the process and the timing of their own romantic journey They're able to make sense of their dating trajectory and larger romantic historyThe...

2023-06-2149 min

I Think I Like You Episode 65: Should I settle for this? How do I know?SETTLING. We're so rattled by it. We want rules and directions. Just tell me what I should and shouldn't ok in a partner in order to have it all work out perfectly! In order to meet someone sooner rather than later!The thing is, knowing what we do and don't need in a partner is such an inside job. The more we look elsewhere for the answers, the more we drive ourselves crazy. If you often find yourself in dating wondering: Am I doing this right? How do I know if this person is or i...

2023-06-1441 min

I Think I Like You Episode 64: How to meet met who actually want to commit.On the heels of last week’s episode that blew the pants off everything we know to be true about anxious attachment style, this week’s episode is very much a part two. Why is it that those of us who are most hungry for partnership, most hungry to connect deeply with someone, keep finding ourselves in brief, one off, go nowhere scenarios, or relationships where we completely lose ourselves?It all has to do with our capacity for receiving. I.e. our capacity to let someone in and let them actually love us. You might be thin...

2023-06-0646 min

I Think I Like You Episode 63: How I drastically mitigated my anxious attachment style.Nearly a decade ago, on a the heels of life-altering breakup, swimming in self help, I landed upon the book Attached. Like many people, I was eager to take the quiz and find out "What was my attachment style???" But more so, how could knowing this information release me from my pain? I don't think I really needed the quiz to confirm I had an anxious attachment style, but even once it did — it didn't give me much to then do. I was aware, sure, of what was creating a lot of havoc in my dating life, but wtf wa...

2023-05-301h 13

I Think I Like You Episode 62: On the crushes we just can't quit.Do you have a crush you just can't let go of? It's as if they've got their proverbial teeth sunk soooooo far into you? Maybe they live in another state, maybe they're already coupled up, maybe you don't have the same life goals— and STILL, you're so into them! It's almost as if they haunt you in a way.In this episode, I'm digging into not just the nature of this type of crush, but also the greater language of our crushes in general. What does who we're drawn to and how we're drawn to them say ab...

2023-05-2543 min

I Think I Like You Episode 61 (Bonus!) *Special Announcement*Register for I Think I Like You the course, here.Work with me PrivatelyConnect on InstagramWebsitePodcast Production by James Jorge

2023-05-2115 min

I Think I Like You Episode 60: What your adolescent + teen identity have to do with your dating + relationship life NOW.I Think I Like You, the course (save $100 if you register by 5/22)Register for my Free Webinar on 5/19— The 6 Things That Made All the Difference When I Was DatingHow did you identify as a kid? Better yet, in middle school, high school, and so on? We're you rife with young crushes and boyfriends? Did you go to school dances? Did you feel like you could just hang— with anyone and everyone? I certainly didn't. And most of my clients sit in a similar position, but completely unaware of how that sense of self is playing out i...

2023-05-1645 min

I Think I Like You Episode 59: How social stalking is hurting more than helping (and what your tendencies say about YOU).I Think I Like the Course: Peep the Curriculum6 Things That Made All the Difference When I was SingleDo you get the urge to stalk? Maybe he's linked his Instagram to his dating profile, or maybe you just know enough to suss out his account (and it happens to be public!) because, well, it's 2023.Here's the tricky thing though: The information we glean from stalking ends up consisting more of our limiting beliefs, insecurities and projections than it does any actual helpful information about our potential suitor. Even more so, if we've got s...

2023-05-1235 min

I Think I Like You Episode 58: What our mom's careers have to do with our dating lives.This episode was specifically recorded in follow up to the following reel I posted earlier this month. In the reel I talked about how if, in your family, your mom shifted her career (either took a step back or fully gave it up) in order to take care of the family — even if she didn't express any disdain for this, the experience can impact your dating life today. This episode breaks down the latter impact and how you can thoughtfully manage your beliefs to shift your dating patterns.This episode will resonate with anyone:Whose mother's ca...

2023-04-3018 min

Beyond Balance A Frank Convo About Having Kids with Clara ArtschwagerCath & Clara are back in their frank conversation series, this time talking about the decision to become a parent (or not). Clara asks Cath pointed questions about her own journey into motherhood. And as usual, Cath's approach is to hopefully bust some of the myths of "stress culture" that lead parents to burnout and keep us from being present as parents. This episode provides some honest insight into a mindful and empowering approach to motherhood. And gives you the tiniest peak -- whether you're a mother or not, whether you're considering parenthood or not -- in...

2023-04-2747 min

Beyond Balance Busting Marriage Myths with Clara ArtschwagerJoin Cath & Clara Artschwager for a frank conversation series, this time talking about marriage and relationships and how to avoid the myths that "stress culture" keep us feeling bad when things aren't "perfect." Cath interviews Clara in this episode to talk vulnerably about Clara's new marriage and her realization that not having a "honeymoon period" was actually OK and how her relationship serves as a mirror to her relationship to herself. This episode gives you the tiniest peak -- whether you're married, partnered, or single -- into the "Remembering You" women's retreat that Clara and Ca...

2023-04-2749 min

I Think I Like You Episode: 57: On letting go of the ones who can't give you all you need.Why do we love to obsess over men who are nice, fun, kind, maybe there's a lot on paper that's just so damn good— and yet it just isn't fully there. I know that dance and I know it well. In follow up to Tuesday's ep from two weeks back all about my journey with emotionally unavailable men, this week I'm digging into:Why it's so hard to let go of these almost there connectionsWhat we fear slipping back into if we let someone goHow the hanging on hinders are long term pursuit of partnership And how, when you'r...

2023-04-2540 min

I Think I Like You Episode 56: I Never Had a Honeymoon Phase & Busting Other Myths About MarriageWhere do you share your deepest truths? Where are you able to breathe life into the things you feel but are afraid to utter? When my retreat co-captain, Catherine Zack and I, were discussing, "How do we explain to people what this retreat is about? What it's meant for?" we realized we had to bring it life by having our own deep, revealing, heart-felt conversations. So for our first one, we're digging into my experience in marriage. Namely, a lot of the over-romanticizing I didn't experience, but the beauty I did instead.Here are the retreat details...

2023-04-1859 min

I Think I Like You Episode 55: My journey with emotionally unavailable men.We tend to think just because we want a relationship that we're emotionally available. But one does't automatically equate to the other.Most women I work with, despite their deep-seated desires for partnership, aren't emotionally available themselves. What we typically pin on men who, "don't want to settle down," exists in trickier ways within ourselves. If you find you consistently attract men who:Say they're not looking for a serious relationshipAre flaking about following upSeem wishy washy on their desiresOr you simply endure experience after experience where things just dissolve, this episode i...

2023-04-1153 min

I Think I Like You Episode 54: Dani Beinstein on what we desire versus what we actually need.Dani Beinstein has been a long time follow favorite of mine, largely for her unparalleled wisdom and grace, steeped in astrology and so much more. This episode begins with the question: Why do our conscious desires (I want a relationship!) always clash with our subconscious need (I fear intimacy)? And why can that be so hard to see?In this episode we get into:How Dani's rich life is exactly her— but looks nothing like her 20 something self thought it wouldHow a near death experience propelled a series of realizations and events that lead to deep fu...

2023-04-041h 05

I Think I Like You Episode 53: How achievement does not lead to fulfillment and so much more w/ Megan HellererThis conversation with brilliant career coach Megan Hellerer was so rich, I found myself having to hold back from scribbling notes whilst recording. Megan specializes in helping under-fulfilled overachievers build work and lives that are deeply aligned. In this episode she takes us behind the scenes of her own story and journey which is rife with so much wisdom!In this episode we get into:The way something can get hard before it gets better—and how that's okThe power of following our curiosityMegan's signature approach of directional living versus destinational living (it's going to feel lik...

2023-03-281h 25

I Think I Like You Episode 52: Three of the most consistent practices I use with my clients + myself.As we land on the spring equinox— a time rife with rebirth and renewal— I thought it a fitting time to walk you through three practices and principles I use often in work with my clients, as well as on myself when it comes to navigating the nuances of life.These practices work really well if you:Find yourself fixated on a particular outcome– be it in love, life, money, relationship, body, etc— and can't shake the feeling of "I just need this thing to happen!!"Find yourself in a big life lull— where everything feels HARD. Ther...

2023-03-2145 min

I Think I Like You Episode 51: When you feel utterly and completely stuck (3 things to do)There's a moment in time where you feel as if you have done—or are doing— all the things, and yet nothing is changing. The job, the partner, the house, the life you so deeply desire is nowhere near, and it feels harder and harder to keep believing (or doing any form of work) to bring you closer to that thing. It hasn't arrived yet, so why keep going?In this episode I'm sharing three practices to help mitigate the frustration and fear we might be feeling at these points in life.This episode will reso...

2023-03-1446 min

The Modern Independent The Launchpad: On Dating and Relationships w/ Clara ArtschwagerSend us a textWelcome to The Modern Independent -- a podcast dedicated -- to inspiring, equipping, and empowering -- top independent workers to supercharge their careers -- and build more balanced lives.Today, our Head of Community Jan Almasy is joined by Clara Artschwager. Join them as they unpack some of the key "aha moments" Clara realized along her journey of self-discovery, how releasing articles using her true voice pushed her into the world of dating and relationships, and what it was like the first time she ever had to pitch her services as...

2023-03-0651 min

I Think I Like You Episode 50: What a real sexual journey looks like (opening up about mine).Why do I still have to work on this sh*t in myself?This is a question I face often in session. But without a doubt, most certainly, to a T, in myself. In this episode, I go into great detail around one of the greatest areas of work in my life— my sexuality. This entails my relationship with my partners, my own sexual pleasure and the dynamic with my partners. It has not been a straight and narrow road. This episode will resonate with anyone who:Is exhausted by the process of "working on t...

2023-02-2849 min

I Think I Like You Episode 49: We all just want to meet the one person that will deliver us from our shame and pain.We all just want the whole *thing*— whether the thing is a person or a house or a job or a something to work out. To happen. To just....be there. And so we load ourself up with how tos and programs, hoping to skirt the timeline of life in some fashion. But it's the very timeline itself that helps us evolve into the person who will be the partner or the owner or the placeholder of a new position.In this episode I go into:A specific dating experience of mine from 2020 ( deep in a si...

2023-02-2138 min

I Think I Like You Episode 48: What's the difference between coaching and therapy? How do we feel about matchmakers? And more.I consistently receive the following questions in my conversations with clients and coaching discovery calls:What's the difference between coaching and therapy?What are your thoughts on matchmakers?I heard this rule or formula (like "Wait three dates to sleep with someone")...what are your thoughts on that?While these might seem like completely disparate subjects, they actually all overlap in a pretty helpful way. A hint: they're rooted in self trust. How we deny it and how we foster it.In addition, I go more in depth in this episode on my recently launched...

2023-02-1451 min

I Think I Like You Episode 47: How your relationship with your job impacts the state of your romantic life.Often the only air time that work gets in the space of dating is the notion that we've devoted so much time to our work and therefore can't date, didn't focus on the relationship, etc. Work, for myself included, can be a lovely place to hide and numb, and also a place to sit on necessary changes that feel too difficult to make. What feels easier is staying in the discomfort we know. But is it? And how the hell is that connected to dating? In this episode I explore:The correlation between the state of o...

2023-02-0539 min

I Think I Like You Sunday Stories II: Dating Without Texting is the Absolute BestOriginal EssayI Think I Like YouWork Together One on One2/6 Free MasterclassWork with me PrivatelyConnect on InstagramWebsitePodcast Production by James Jorge

2023-02-0520 min

Happenstance 32: I think I Like You with Clara ArtschwagerClara Artschwager is the founder of I Think I Like You, a coaching and content company and community dedicated to helping women build romantic relationships—but not at the expense of themselves. She works with women all over the world, from New York to Australia, LA to tiny beach towns off the coast of Massachusetts. Here work has been featured in the Cut, Mind Body Green, well + good, girl boss, and more. She's also the host of the weekly podcast of the same name (I Think I Like You) where she shares content and conversations dedicated to helping listeners li...

2023-02-0346 min

I Think I Like You Episode 46: How alignment in career connects to depth of partnership, and confronting the ongoing stress of a long term relationship w/ Catherine ZackConscious Dater Masterclass: Understand Your Patterns in Order to Date LessA beautiful thing happened by way of the pandemic: all of these amazing people moved to my neck of the woods (the Hudson Valley), Catherine Zack being one of them.Catherine is equal parts breath of fresh air, and like a living, breathing weighted blanket (listen and you'll know what I mean). In this episode we cover:How she left her career as a corporate lawyer and transitioned to what she does now, also putting to rest some of those "...

2023-01-311h 10

I Think I Like You Episode 45: Your marriage and the Enneagram (among other things...)Christa Biegler and I first crossed paths just about a year ago. I was least interested in her work as a dietician, though she’s quite incredible in that regard, and most interested in the fact that her life appeared to be somewhat of an inverse of mine: She’d had her first child at 18, got married in her early 20s (shortly following college), across her 20s had two more children, and now in her mid 30s found herself looking at colleges with her first daughter and, in many ways, on the other side of her motherhood journey. Or at t...

2023-01-241h 38

I Think I Like You Sunday Stories: Volume IThis is the start of a new podcast series! Each Sunday I'm going to be reading and revisiting a piece of writing. This week's is the following essay: No, He Doesn't Want to Get Back Together. Each week I'll be reading the essay aloud and then sharing my perspective now, considering most of my essays share romantic experiences that were many years prior. It was really fascinating to see what came up.I Think I Like YouOther Podcast EpisodesWork with MeI Think I Like You on Instagram...

2023-01-2219 min

I Think I Like You Episode 44: A deeper dive on life timelines— what's at the root of feeling "behind."Curious to work with me one on one? Schedule some time to chat.I Think I Like You on Instagram I've yet to meet a client, follower or listener who doesn't feel behind on life in some capacity. More often than not we're focused on the area of relationship, but that often entails family, the state of our homes, how much money sits in our bank account, and so on and so forth.In this episode, I'm zeroing in on the patterning I see around two periods of life where those feelings of "being...

2023-01-1751 min

I Think I Like You Episode 43: On healing from cheating and coming home to ourselves.This week I'm sitting down with fellow entrepreneur and Instagram friend turned real life friend, Diana Davis. While we touch on the work she does, we mostly cover her recent relationship journey— namely, weathering a major breakup in your early 30s, the wisdom of our bodies around cheating, and how to actually date casually (i.e. in a way that serves us) when we're not actually seeking a relationship.In this episode we cover:How we must (in many ways) lose ourselves in order to come back to ourselvesWeathering a big breakup in your early 30sThe gi...

2023-01-101h 07

Rekindi Podcast Episode #31 - How to Meet Someone, Build a Relationship or Know if it's Toxic - Clara Artschwager“The challenges of finding love are highly complex, seldom systematically explored, and relatively new.” - Alain de Botton Relationships play such an important role in the quality of our life's experience. Therefore, it is so important to learn more about them through questions such as: How do I meet that special someone? How do I know I am ready to begin a relationship? How to build a good relationship with another? How do I know I am in the right relationship? Join in as we answer all these questions and more with the well-renowned dating and relationships coach - Clara Arts...

2023-01-0456 min

I Think I Like You Episode 42: If I were starting the year single, here's the approach I would take.Happiest of New Year's! This episode came to me in the quiet I allowed myself (and am still reveling in) over the holiday. This episode will resonate with anyone who:Is feeling the anxiety of "making partnership happen," as we enter the New YearFeels burnt out with dating but obligated to do soWants concrete, nourishing action they can take to embolden their pursuit of partnership— but not punish themselves while doing soInterested in a focused effort? Sign up for one of my 2 hour deep dive coaching sessions. Slots are open for January! Register for the January Group Ses...

2023-01-0349 min

I Think I Like You Episode 41: A look back at 2022 and a look into 2023 with psychological astrologer Sofia Adler.2023 Weather Report Readings: https://sofiaadlerastrology.thrivecart.com/your-2023-weather-report/Book a session: https://www.sofiaadler.com/astrology-readings?category=Individual%20%26%20RelationshipsGift a session: https://www.sofiaadler.com/astrology-readings?category=Gift+CertificatesWork with me PrivatelyConnect on InstagramWebsitePodcast Production by James Jorge

2022-12-271h 02

I Think I Like You Episode 40: When you feel like you've "done all the work," and the relationship still hasn't happened.I met Jeanne Grabowski in one of the most tumultuous times of your life. I've spoken of said time on the podcast— it happens to be one of the most popular episodes. As with all periods where we feel like our lives couldn't get any worse, Jeanne was a gift. She gave me strength and carried me in ways I wasn't able to carry myself. Since then, our relationship and friendship has blossomed into so much more.I wanted to have her on the podcast because, like many, she found herself in her later 30s, having done mu...

2022-12-201h 10

I Think I Like You Episode 39: The correlation between love, money and receiving (w/ my personal coach!)Today's episode is an interview with my longtime business coach and, in many ways, transformational healer, Meg Markey. I wanted to have and share this conversation with Meghan to really pull back the curtain on the nature of my own internal growth. The work we did together, which translated to tremendous growth in my work as a coach, meeting my now husband and so much more, was not at all what I anticipated.This episode will resonate with anyone who:Wants to better understand the nature of our energy of what the universe is mirroring back t...

2022-12-131h 22

I Think I Like You Episode 38: If you moved to another place, would is be easier to meet someone?Have you ever thought or wondered, "If I lived it would be so much easier to meet someone"? This is a conversation and conundrum I cross with most clients. And it's one I, too, struggled with. I was fixated on the idea I had to live in New York City to meet someone — that I'd never meet someone upstate. Lo and behold, I met my husband upstate. In this quick episode I'm walking through how to unearth the location that best serves you, best aligns with your unique needs as a human, which in turn translates to meeting someone mos...

2022-12-0913 min

I Think I Like You Episode 37: When, deep down, you don't believe a relationship is ever going to happen for you.Sip + Swipe: How to Date More Intuitively (12/15 Masterclass)Join ITILY's Free Community Group— Register for our January SessionRegister for The Conscious Dater (save over $500 by joining before 12/31/22)Sign Up for the NewsletterWork with me PrivatelyConnect on InstagramWebsitePodcast Production by James Jorge

2022-12-0628 min

I Think I Like You Episode 36: A quick thought on ghosting (i.e. what do when someone does it)A client recently informed me of something she did when a guy ghosted her after a first date and I had to share it here. I thought the tactic was so brilliant, and really helpful in processing those feelings of frustration and disappointment.The January 2023 Program--> Get on the list!Follow I Think I Like You on InstagramSubscribe to the NewsletterWork with me PrivatelyConnect on InstagramWebsitePodcast Production by James Jorge

2022-12-0409 min

I Think I Like You Episode 35: The holidays are hard as sh*t. Let's talk about that.On the heels of my Thanksgiving holiday with family, which was equal parts blissful and challenging, I wanted to share how distinctly different those two sides can be. How we can have holidays and familial experiences that from the outside looking in appear so joyful, but from the depths of our interior, can paint quite a different experience.This episode will resonate with anyone who:Struggles with the realities of their holiday/holiday seasonWishes they could make things look or feel different— for themselves, for their family, etcHungers for greater acceptance of their familyHungers to find th...

2022-12-0240 min

I Think I Like You Episode 34: On dating intuitively (but for real).This episode welcomes Anna Gannon, Energy Work and Intuitive Development Coach and Psychic. This episode will resonate if you:Struggle to hear your intuition in datingFeel like you have gut feelings in dating, but then they lead you astrayWish you had a better way to navigate the apps by using your intuitionWant to be able to most rely on yourself in dating, versus polling outside resourcesThe January 2023 Program— Get on the list!Anna Gannon's WebsiteAnna on InstagramClara on InstagramWork with me PrivatelyConnect on InstagramWebsite

2022-11-221h 20

I Think I Like You Episode 33: How Googling when to text back or polling our friends around whether or not we should entertain a second date is doing more harm than good.2022 has been a year of growth for me, and a massive (consistently uncomfortable) one at that. One of the things that's coming up big for me is how I've put my direction, my next steps, my knowing, in the hands of other people. How I positioned myself as "not knowing," what to do when it came to my business, my life, and so much more. This happens consistently in the space of dating. We peg ourselves as "not knowing," or search outside ourselves for the answer to something that we either already know or are avoiding knowing. Like most t...

2022-11-1538 min

I Think I Like You Episode 32: Jealousy towards ex-partners, anxious attachment style, the core issue around common dating advice, and more.This episode here is like a holiday grab bag with legit goodies. Not one of those bullsh*t grab bags where you open it up and you're like "I really didn't need this keychain but ok." I've had a smattering of dating related things on the brain and today we're GOING there.You'll be into this episode if:You've struggled (or still struggle) with feeling jealous towards other women, specifically ex-partnersYou don't know how you'll ever feel less anxious around your partner or in the process of datingYou tend to build resentment in relationshipsI...

2022-11-0856 min

I Think I Like You Episode 31: On meeting in your 30s vs your 20s. Is it *that* different?Recently a listener wrote in with a question regarding meeting and forming a relationship in your 20s vs. your 30s. We tend to adopt the notion that meeting and developing a relationship in your 20s involves more "growing together," versus blending two more "complete" lives ( a product of your 30s).In this episode I explore:Why we attach to these types of generalizationsMy own personal experience based on the relationships of my 20s and 30sThe level of growth that we didn't know existed and, subsequently, regardless of age, surfaces by way of *any* relationshipThe element of...

2022-11-0139 min

I Think I Like You Episode 30: The breakup that isn't a breakup. When they just ghost.Many of us have been there, the guy that comes in hot, wants to label the relationship from the get go, even expresses how intimacy is a challenge for him but he's working on it (!)....it all sounds so good! He's in it! He's acknowledging his sh*t! And then....the bottom falls out.In this episode we explore:What leads people to "leave" a relationship in this wayHow the tendency to do so isn't a core issue with men (or women), it's a dynamic between two peopleWhat we can consider within ourselves if we experience...

2022-10-1131 min

I Think I Like You Episode 29: On the tendency to mute ourselves when we're around someone we like."Just be yourself!" has got to be one of the most grating phrases known to mankind. At least it is to me. And not just grating, but wildly unproductive.Recently a listener DM'ed me with the following: I clam up when I don’t want a guy to think I’m interested.The muting then left her feeling hollow and uninspired. What gives? Why do we do this?In this episode we explore:The roots of these edited versions of ourselves, be they a type of muting or some other performanceWhy we tend...

2022-10-0442 min

I Think I Like You Episode 28: On being the martyr in my own relationship.I have a story, and it goes like this:I have to do everything on my own.In this episode I'm joined by my fiancé James to discuss my long held tendency to play the martyr in my relationship. The traditional definition of a martyr is someone who victimizes themselves for the benefit of others.But in the context of romantic relationships it can look like:Overextending yourself (i.e. by what you do for the other person) as a means to maintain controlA deep rooted undeserving-ness that manifests as playing the c...

2022-09-271h 05

I Think I Like You Episode 27: What does your gut imbalance have to do with the state of your relationships?The first time I met Abby Hueber, founder of Above Health Nutrition, was over artfully roasted cauliflower and punchy green juices at True Food Kitchen in Scottsdale, Arizona. In hindsight I can't fathom us meeting any other way. Here is a sneak peek at what we get into in this episode: "When we have gut symptoms, SIBO, IBS etc., we often have a breakdown in our gut lining, which is a breakdown in our own boundaries as a human. That is often reflective in our outside lives, relationships, self-worth, people pleasing, codependancy, etc. Through healing out gut w...

2022-09-231h 02

I Think I Like You Episode 26: What if he says he's not sure about kids?A client of mine recently faced the following dilemma: Things were going swimmingly with the guy she's seeing, but then he, very kindly so, dropped the following: I'm on the fence about kids.He might want them. He might not. When we ourselves want then or think we want them but aren't ready for them, which way do we turn?In this episode we touch on:What to do in those early days of getting to know someone when you're really into one another but unsure if your values or long term life plans a...

2022-09-2032 min

I Think I Like You Episode 25: On falling in love with women when you've historically only been with men.Exactly three years ago, Lauren McBrayer and I crossed paths at a writer's retreat in rural Connecticut lead by Dani Shapiro. It was an intimate 48 hours, and in the midst of it all, a seed was planted for two things: Me revealing to her that my first romantic relationship had been with woman, her revealing to me she was in love with a woman but married (to a man) with three kids. In the weeks and months following the retreat, we talked endlessly on the phone, left long and windy voice notes, and started to build a friendship around...

2022-09-1654 min

I Think I Like You Episode 24: It's comfortable being single. Is dating worth disrupting my life?Back in August a listener reached out with a question so rich, so spot, so chock full of pretty much every single conundrum and obstacle I address with every single client, that my immediate response was, "This has to be an episode." This episode hits on:The fear of dating when your single life feels really, really stableThe assumption that online apps are terrible and you're better off not succumbing to them at all (and remaining single)The idea that all men (of a certain age) who are secure, solid, partnership-worthy human beings are already taken— and...

2022-09-1342 min

I Think I Like You A psychological astrologer on the purpose of our relationships.A true seer, the biggest of hearts, the wisest of words, and a tad witchy— Sofia Adler is all of these things and more. Forget what you know (or think you know) about astrology and love and listen in and up. Even though I've known Sofia for over four years, I learned things in our conversation that blew my mind. Blew my mind and then gave me such a new level of depth around my own relationship. If you find yourself Googling, "what sign goes well with what sign," or consistently turning to a weekly horoscope to se...

2022-09-051h 04

I Think I Like You Episode 22: How to survive the grey area of dating.The grey period primarily signifies the period in dating when you're seeing someone, things are going quite well, but you don't yet know where the relationship stands. Is it even a relationship at all?This episode was inspired by an article Clara wrote back in 2019, of the same title, but with a new twist: https://thestripe.com/how-to-survive-the-grey-area-of-dating/This episode will resonate with you if:You find yourself incredibly anxious in the early stages of dating someone you actually likeYou fear doing something or saying something to “mess up,” the potential for a relationshipYou fear...

2022-08-2348 min

I Think I Like You Episode 21: An exercise for getting back into alignment with yourself and your work.In this episode of the podcast, Clara is running through her decision around shifting the structure and timing of her one to one coaching practice. This episode is great for anyone either looking to explore one to one coaching OR looking for insight into the exercise Clara did to bring her work more into alignment so she could better serve her clients while creating new opportunities. This would be a great exercise for anyone craving a fall refresh.The next start date is September 19th. In order to secure your space you need to book a discovery...

2022-08-1926 min

I Think I Like You Episode 20: A get to know you with my fiancé James + the story of how we met.In this week's episode of the pod, Clara is joined by her fiancée, James. The two share:James's background and schooling for the 20 years before he met Clara— from working at Applebee's one summer to save up money to move out West to selling digital billboards in Times Square and running trail rides in the CatskillsHow they met via Hinge and how there was a 6 week gap between their first digital interaction and their first dateWhere they were both at in their lives when they met and how this clarity made the dating process much easierYou...

2022-08-161h 07

I Think I Like You Episode 19. Why we *think* dating is a number's game—but why it actually ISN'T.Ever been stuck in that cycle where you go on a bunch of dates (you’ll literally say yes to anyone), feel like they all go horribly, swear off dating for some number of time, find yourself yearning to find someone again and then say, “Well, it is a numbers game so I better just start dating again?” Here’s why it’s not a numbers game, though; the people we bring into our world - whether we simply cross paths with them or find ourselves drawn and attracted to them - is driven by old patterns that thread...

2022-08-0932 min

I Think I Like You Episode 18: Am I *actually* feeling this in my gut? Or is this just old conditioning?It's fairly safe to say that we've all had a gut feeling about someone or some situation before. But what makes a gut feeling different than a feeling based on old patterns? And how can you break the cycle if an old pattern (a subconscious thought) is informing that feeling? In this episode, Clara explores how to differentiate between the two, and sheds light on how to start detangling the subconscious "web" and underlayer of our past.Clara discusses how these subconscious tendencies thread their way throughout multiple areas of our lives (in romantic and family relationships, f...

2022-08-0240 min

I Think I Like You Episode 17: On our obsession with healing.Blocks, rewiring our subconscious, healing childhood wounds....are we all just too obsessed with fixing all this stuff? And is the fixation on fixing, just leading us to perpetuate the belief that we're broken? That's where I'm digging in this week. I discuss the larger conundrum around personal development work and the self help industry (while also actively participating in it) and how to answer more of these existential questions for ourselves.Links mentioned:Forever35 Episode: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/episode-229-interrogating-beauty-culture-with-jessica/id1329229319?i=1000570564190Jessica DeFino: https://www.instagram.com/j...

2022-07-2741 min

I Think I Like You Episode 16: What I'm Working on Within Myself + Wedding Planning ConundrumsComing to ya'll with a breakdown today of the work I'm doing on myself— how it reflects my greater, life long, journey with control, and how I give myself grace to grapple with that in an ongoing fashion. I'm explaining, too, how this shows up in all areas of my life, from relationship to work and everywhere in between. I'm also going into the conundrum that is wedding planning for someone that does, and doesn't, give a sh*t about this event. It's more complicated than just, "I don't want to fall prey to familial pressure clichés." And I m...

2022-07-1943 min

I Think I Like You Episode 15: Your breakup Qs answered.This episode expands upon episode 14. I cover the following listener questions:How do you know when it is time to break up? What do you do when your relationship is in a standstill / the guy is afraid to commit?What is healthy communication after if any? How does one regulate themselves without needing the other person? Tips to stay present vs mucking around in the past or future casting.Is it possible/advisable to stay friends after a breakup? not just friendly but actually friends? even when physical attraction is still there...tho...

2022-07-1529 min

Less Stressed Life: Helping You Heal Yourself #244 I think I like you with Clara Artschwager, having a relationship without losing yourself, reading the room, seeking permissionSend us a textThis week on The Less Stressed Life Podcast, I am joined by Clara Artschwager we dive into all things relationships like having a relationship without losing yourself and how relationships affect how we present in the world.KEY TAKEAWAYS:"Your mess becomes your message."Reading the room & the effects of being an empathCommon denominators in things around relationshipsHow relationships with people and emotions keep us stuckNeural pathways in how we exhibit things in our behaviorRelationships are about perfecting you.GUEST SHARED HELPFUL TIPS ON:R...

2022-07-1335 min

I Think I Like You Episode 14: On the way you miss someone post-breakup (and what to do with those feelings).Brrrreeeeeaaaakups. And not even just official breakups, where you actually were in a relationship with the person your heart desires, but any sort of situation where the person you hoped to be with is no longer a healthy component to your life. That's where we're digging in today. I'm specifically getting into the slew of feelings that come post breakup, and not just the disappointment or loneliness, but the real NUACE. Nuance in all caps, because I really don't think we make space for it.This episode will be helpful if:You've recently gone through a...

2022-07-1238 min

I Think I Like You Episode 13: Are we really dating right now?In the webinar I ran last week, a very thoughtful and wise participant posed the following question (I'm paraphrasing):Given the state of the world right now, and how it's weighing on us, do we really have the space for putting ourselves out there?A.men. While her question was directed at dating, in this episode I speak more globally about the limited bandwidth we're all feeling (myself very much included), and how to make ourselves the expert in what we are and aren't capable of right now. I also touch on the scarcity mindset...

2022-07-0627 min

I Think I Like You Episode 12: Dating isn't something to be "figured out." But what do we do when it feels that way?What do we do in periods where we know we shouldn't be dating (and boy do those exist), but we still yearn for a relationship? This question was prompted by a listener note, sent in a few weeks back. It was specifically phrased as, "What do I do in the waiting and HOW do I not feel like I'm waiting?" Such a good, real and profound question. And one I know all of us face or have faced, be it in relationships or anything else, at some point in life. More simply put, what do we do in the...

2022-06-2850 min

I Think I Like You Episode 11: On the comfort of being single.We can want a relationship and also be resistant to intimacy, in ways that are really hard to see within ourselves. That's the crux of this week's episode. In it, I dive deeper into a period in my life (circa 2017) where I was "dating," someone. Really, we were just sleeping together. And while if you had asked me "Do you want a relationship?" I would have eagerly exclaimed, "Yes!" my internal world, my subconscious beliefs, were screaming the exact opposite. Largely because at the time, intimacy felt incredibly threatening. I didn't dare let another really see me. I wasn't...

2022-06-2144 min

I Think I Like You Episode 10: How sibling dynamics impact our romantic relationships.We talk endlessly about our parents. Their marriage, their divorce, their relationship with us, their relationship with each other, but our siblings tend to get a little less air time. This has only become more and more apparent to me. Pretty much every single client I've support over the last few years has had a challenging sibling. From a younger sister with substance abuse issues to a life threatening illness, to simply an older brother who was deemed the "difficult one," such that everyone had to tiptoe around his moods and everything in between. In this environment, m...

2022-06-1436 min

I Think I Like You Episode 9: It *is* possible to meet people in person. It's just time to shift your beliefs.This week I dive deep, like real deep, into the process of meeting people in person— romantically speaking. As I relay early on in the episode, this is 99.99999% (if not 100%...) a mindset thing. I've written extensively about my experience and journey over the last decade, working to debunk the belief that one could only meet someone online or after several drinks at a bar. But this is the first time I really break down the mechanics and energetics when it comes to:Why we don't believe meeting someone in person is possible in this day and age...

2022-06-0751 min

I Think I Like You Episode 8: The pain of female friendship.Those middle/high school school wounds run deep, and very much still show up today. I remember a client once saying to me: Omg, I realized I STILL see myself as the 12 year old chubby girl with braces— and that’s what’s showing up in dating.But it’s not just about dating, or the boyfriends/girlfriends we did or didn’t have as an adolescent. Those female to female dynamics play just as big of a role.In the past few weeks I felt a shifting in some of my female friendships— some good, some c...

2022-05-3137 min

I Think I Like You Episode 7: When all your friends are getting married and it's just you that's single (and other later bloomer, woes).I didn’t have sex until I was 21 years old, but does that make me a late bloomer? And does it really even matter?Recently, a listener emailed in, saying she, too, was a late bloomer, and that struggle was still manifesting in her life (well into her 30s).Today’s episode is all about that — shaking loose the identity of being a late bloomer, but even more so, understanding how these identities that date way back still directly impact the way we live right now. From the job we have to our relationship status to the...

2022-05-2441 min

I Think I Like You Episode 6: What dating (and relationships) looked like for me 18 months before getting engaged.Lori Gottlieb's Maybe You Should Talk to Someone was a smash hit for damn good reasons. We relish knowing how the "expert," the person that seemingly "has it all together," actually lives. Is it that easy? Is it just different? Do they just float through life? Even though we know-ish that they don't, it certainly feels like they do. It's always both a relief and delight to know the nuances of their own struggle and suffering, largely as a means by which to feel more ok about our suffering. More human. Less alone.That's the meat of t...

2022-05-1750 min

I Think I Like You Episode 5: The relationship that broke me in all the ways I needed to be broken.This episode marks a story— a relationship story— I've been wanting to share for quite some time in its entirety. I've had two relationships in my life that I thought would lead to marriage and didn't. This one is the latter. Really, it's the more significant one. I was 34, and when things fell apart, my last attempt at making marriage and babies by 35 fell apart, too. I was more heartbroken over that reality and all I made it mean about me, versus losing this person in my life.This episode is ideal for anyone:Struggling with stat...

2022-05-1054 min

I Think I Like You Episode 4: What if going on the date wasn't always the actual goal?We tend to think the only way we're either moving towards partnership or putting ourselves out there is to date. I.e. go on the dates (I suppose we could include swiping in there, too). That not only creates a lot of pressure, but this notion isn't true at all. There are so many more concrete things we can do (and I'm not just talking about journaling furiously in your manifestation journal) to foster a better understanding of ourselves, as well as create a better relationship with ourselves, which in turn drives our ability to share our lives with s...

2022-05-0336 min

I Think I Like You Episode 3: Dating Apps Makes Me Wanna #%$FCBJKH&@!Nothing about online dating—despite what Hinge, Tinder, and the like may claim— is intuitive or seamless. That's not to say it's impossible, but it most certainly is an emotionally challenging and complicated environment (and that's putting it lightly). But there is hope. Yes, hope! And it has less to do with/nothing to do with how to tweak your profile or perfect the algorithm and so much more to do with developing a deep self awareness around the nature of these tools, how the digital environment impacts how we relate to one another, and how our own sh*t aro...

2022-04-2640 min

I Think I Like You Episode 2: You don't need to be good at flirting.A few weeks ago, my editor at mindbodygreen reached out about an article related to flirting. She was curious to get my thoughts on it as it related to new ways of flirting (as we slowly rise from the pandemic), old ways that needed to go and so forth. It got me thinking about the act in general. Was it learned or inherent? Could someone become better at flirting by way of words or content? I never even thought of myself, a Dating and Relationships Coach, as skilled at flirting, and yet I’d had successful relationships….so what give...

2022-04-1928 min

I Think I Like You Episode 1: You're....a dating coach?Welcome to the podcast! I’m kicking things off with some background around how I got into this work. It was by no means a clear path, and one which was largely informed by taking my own intuitive but messy action. From being labeled a ‘dating expert’ by friends, when that felt so far from the truth, to meeting lovely individuals with ease whilst grabbing my morning coffee (and the internal reckonings that motivated all of that), I’m sharing what really motivated this transformation. I also go into a bit about how I work with clients, why I think mo...

2022-04-1946 min

I Think I Like You I Think I Like You: The TrailerComing April 12th, 2022. Hosted by Clara Artschwager, I Think I Like You is a podcast for the woman who is worn out by traditional dating advice. She's hungry for a conversation that explores questions like: What has made dating so hard? Why, despite all the therapy I've done, am I still in the state I'm in? How do I co-create a life with another without losing myself? What if I'm not even sure if I *want* a relationship in the first place? And so much more. Work with me PrivatelyConnect on Instagram

2022-04-0104 min

Experible with Krati Mehra Dating As A Work In Progress with Clara ArtschwagerEpisode #11 covers dating in the age of social media and dating as we actively work on ourselves. The Guest, Clara Artschwager is a dating and life coach. She has written a number of articles that have resonated a lot with the people learning to date without getting caught-up in the all messy, emotionally damaging issues that come with each new relationship. We are talking about dating as an imperfect human, dating when life is messy, and dating when we may or may not be in the right place for it. This episode is especially meant for people...

2020-11-0250 min

ROOTED with Cassandra Eldridge Miers THE BEST OF SERIES: Ep 76 - Modern Dating and Relationships, What Ghosting Really Means and Why Self Awareness is Key in Partnership with Clara ArtschwagerTHE BEST OF SERIES: Recapping on all of your favorite episodes until Season 4 launches this September. // In this episode with the brilliant and down to earth Clara Artschwager, we'll uncover: • Teaching what you're learning to heal • How finding partnership in this day in age is different • Ghosting 101 - what it really means • Feminism and Dating - is chivalry really dead? • Texting vs. Phone calls within partnership • Self Worth and Self Love - do you have to be all the way complete before entering into relationship...

2020-08-181h 24

You Can Trust Yourself Clara Artschwager: Dating patterns and how to find the love you wantHey Friends! So glad you're here! On today's episode we are diving into the complicated world of dating with dating coach Clara Artschwager!Clara's voice on dating is refreshing and inspiring as she challenges us to look at the ways modern dating may not be serving us. In her coaching, Clara helps facilitate change, namely in the form of giving you more agency (a sense of ownership and control) over your pursuit of partnership. She says that dating isn't just about knowing what to text back or how to avoid being ghosted -- it's about transforming y...

2020-08-0454 min

The Blair Badenhop Show Using Storytelling to Build Clout & Credibility with Clara ArtschwagerClara Artschwager is a Modern Dating & Partnership Coach who specializes in helping career-driven women shift their approach to pursuing long term partnership. In this episode, we discuss why she’s always been fascinated by relationships but was embarrassed by the desire to become a dating coach, what it was like to shift from a career in tech and cut her salary by 60%, how she landed writing gigs for major publications, why brands with small audiences are more likely to bring in clients, and more! To learn more about Clara Artschwager and the resources men...

2019-06-301h 11

LET IT OUT 264 | Resetting Our Nervous System, Neediness & Jealousy in Relationships, Love, Sex & Dating, First Date Tips, + More with Clara Artschwager Part 2Notes from the Show: -Clara Artschwager website | instagram -Clara's articles for The Cut -Clara's 3 most impactive books as a life coach: Broken Open by Elizabeth Lesser The Gifts of Imperfection by Brene Brown Untethered Soul by Michael Singer Likes & Learns: -Smash the Wellness Industry: Why are so many smart women falling for its harmful, pseudoscientific claims? By Jessica Knoll -Fresh Air episode with Lizzo -Dax Sheperd's Armchair Expert episode with Erin Lee Carr -Fresh Air episode with Erin Lee Carr -Erin Lee Carr's new book, Al...

2019-06-131h 26

LET IT OUT 263 | Dating, Chivalry in the Me Too Era, How to Like Yourself, Pivoting Careers with Writer and Dating Coach Clara Artschwager Part 1 + Interview with Darin Olien of Barukas NutsNotes from the Show: -Clara Artschwager website | instagram - Clara's articles for The Cut Likes & Learns: -Yoke Lore and his song "Good Pain" -Andrew Bird's newest album "My Finest Work Yet" -Off Camera episode with Andrew Bird -My learn for this week: nothing is certain! -"Your task is not to seek for love but merely to seek and find all of the barriers within yourself that you have built against it." All original music composed by Carolyn Penn...

2019-06-061h 41

ROOTED with Cassandra Eldridge Miers Ep. 34 - Modern Dating and Relationships, What Ghosting Really Means and Why Self Awareness is Key in Partnership with Clara ArtschwagerIn this episode with the brilliant and down to earth Clara Artschwager, we'll uncover: • Teaching what you're learning to heal • How finding partnership in this day in age is different • Ghosting 101 - what it really means • Feminism and Dating - is chivalry really dead? • Texting vs. Phone calls within partnership • Self Worth and Self Love - do you have to be all the way complete before entering into relationship? • Heartbreak and triggers • Being the "fixer" - what this means and how to find out if this is you ...

2019-05-221h 24