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How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell BarrettTextual Healing: The New Way to Text and Get Dates—Play, Play, Play… Pull the Trigger (Part 1 of 3)Do you struggle with texting women? Do you feel like you’re always one boring message away from getting ghosted? Dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett reveals his powerful new texting framework to make your messages magnetic: “Play, Play, Play, Pull the Trigger.” You’ll learn how to confidently flirt over text so you get a lot more dates. Plus, you’ll hear how one woman went from rejecting Connell to asking HIM out—just from a short text exchange.Episode Highlights Include:01:15: Connell Sings! (Be Very Afraid)02:35: The “Play, Play, Play, Pull the Trigger” T...2025-07-2930 min
How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell BarrettTextual Healing! Connell’s 4-Part Texting Formula to Stop Getting Ghosted and Start Getting DatesDo you get ghosted on the apps and don’t know why? Do you freeze up on dates because you’re not sure what to talk about? Would you love to meet women at the gym, but you’re worried you’ll seem creepy? In this episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett gives you step-by-step solutions to all of these issues. Plus, you’ll discover his simple texting formula that will make it easy to spark attraction with wonderful women.You’re About to Learn:03:34: Why You Get Ghosted & How to...2025-06-171h 01
How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell BarrettFrom Lonely to Lining Up Dates: 6 Simple Moves that Make Women Swipe Right on the Apps (Part 3)If you struggle on the apps, it can make you feel like you’re just not what women want. But the problem isn’t you—it’s your profile! Dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett can help. In Part 3 of his special series on online dating, Connell shares the second half of his 12 Essentials of an Irresistible Profile, so you can finally meet bright, beautiful women on Hinge, Bumble or any app.Highlights Include:01:33: Why Your Lack of Matches is Not About Your Looks02:19: How Connell Went from Struggling to Thriving on the Apps2025-05-0153 min
How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett‘I Went from Lonely to Dating Like Crazy!’ How Kyle Attracted His First Girlfriend in Years, and How You Can Too (Live Coaching)A proud veteran with a big heart, Kyle was lonely and struggling to get dates—until dating coach Connell Barrett showed him how to approach women with real confidence and charm. “It’s amazing, but authenticity really does work,” Kyle says in this live coaching call. Soon he was going on two dates a week and had landed a girlfriend. Now newly single, he’s ready to level up again. Listen as Connell reviews Kyle’s Hinge profile and shares 3 simple ways to get more matches today.The Moments You Don’t Want to Miss:07:11: From Lonely to “Dat...2025-04-1757 min
How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell BarrettAsk the Dating Coach: ‘I Don’t Think I’m Good-Looking. Do I Even Have a Chance with Women?’Do you worry that you’re just not good-looking enough to date the kinds of women you’re into? In this episode, dating coach Connell Barrett helps a man who wonders if any women will ever want him because he thinks he’s “ugly.” Connell breaks down what actually makes a man attractive—and it’s not male-model looks. Plus, another listener asks why women agree to dates and then cancel last minute, and Connell shares an easy fix.Episode Highlights:05:30: “Connell, Am I Not Good-Looking Enough to Attract Women?”15:15: “I Cried During ‘Titanic’ and She Ghosted Me—Was I...2025-04-1535 min
How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell BarrettTired of Struggling on Tinder and Bumble? Try the Innovative Dating App that Helps Men and Women Connect IRL!Tired of endless swiping that never leads to dates? Want to meet wonderful women in real life? Dating coach Connell Barrett welcomes David Vermeulen, founder of Inner Circle, a different kind of dating app. Inner Circle helps singles skip the small talk and make meaningful connections, both online and offline. As Vermeulen explains in this encore episode, Inner Circle hosts real-world events so its members can stop wasting time on flaky matches and connect with singles who genuinely want to date.With Connell and David as your guides, you’ll discover:4:46: The Dating Horror Story that In...2025-04-1040 min
How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell BarrettForget Pickup Lines: Why Vulnerability is Your Dating Superpower (with Lisa Hickey of the Good Men Project)Do you struggle to attract the kinds of women you want to date? Chances are, you’re making some big mistakes that turn women off, and you don’t even realize it. Help is here! Lisa Hickey, CEO of the Good Men Project, joins dating coach Connell Barrett to identify—and fix—the hidden dating mistakes men make. You’ll learn how to connect with women authentically, flirt with charm, and boost your confidence. Plus, Lisa shares invaluable wisdom on modern masculinity. (Check out the Good Men Project for a treasure trove of practical advice, and to read Connell’s dating advic...2025-03-181h 04
How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell BarrettDoes Love (and Life) Feel Like a Grind? The ‘3 Classes of Experience’ Will Set You FreeEver feel like dating—and life—is just a grind? This episode will change how you experience both so you can feel much more fulfilled. Dating coach Connell Barrett introduces the 3 Classes of Human Experience, a powerful self-improvement framework that Connell and his clients use to make dating fun. (What? Dating can be fun? Who knew!) And nothing’s more attractive to women than a guy who actually enjoys life.You’re About to Learn:01:10: The Mindset Shift that Transformed Connell’s Entire Life06:37: The 3 Classes of Human Experience: How to Go from Coping to Thrivin...2025-02-2544 min
How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell BarrettLIVE Approaches: Hear Me Chat Up Cuties IRL—Listen NOW to Get Numbers and Dates Tonight! (Part 4)It’s Valentine’s Weekend—get ready to flirt with women and get dates! In the last of a 4-part series about attracting women IRL, dating coach Connell Barrett shares the final steps in becoming a 1 Percent Man—the rare guy who can confidently approach women without weird pickup lines. You’ll hear ACTUAL AUDIO of Connell meeting and flirting with bright, beautiful women, for an inside look at how simple and powerful it is when you approach with authenticity. Plus, you’ll get great openers for 10 situations, and also learn the 5 biggest approaching mistakes to avoid.Highlights of the Episo...2025-02-151h 56
How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell BarrettTired of Being Ignored on Dating Apps? Steal My 10 Best Flirty Openers: #1 Works 81% of the Time!Sick of sending openers that women ignore? Not sure what to write on Hinge, Tinder, or Bumble? In this episode, dating coach Connell Barrett shares his top 10 best flirty online-dating openers—tested and proven to get responses. You’ll get copy-and-paste openers for every type of woman to get them writing you back and going on dates with you. Plus, Connell reveals his no. 1 opener that works on ANY woman … and gets him replies 81% of the time!You’re about to learn:05:30: Connell’s Lowest Online-Dating Moment06:45: His Comeback: 3 Great First Dates in 3 Nights—All from the...2025-02-0954 min
How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell BarrettHow to Read Women, Know What to Say, and Get Her Asking YOU Out: Hayley Quinn’s Secrets to AttractionAre you just not sure how to talk to women, either on the apps or in real life? Top UK dating expert Hayley Quinn is here to show you how to flirt effortlessly, confidently read women, and get them asking YOU out. She knows exactly what creates attraction—and how you can get better results fast. You’ll learn how to talk to women in a way that feels authentic and sparks real connection, without overthinking or using weird “pickup” moves.Hayley and dating coach Connell Barrett will teach you:2:55: How to Overcome Your Fear of Rejectio...2025-02-0554 min
How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell BarrettHow to Meet Your Dream Woman—and How Jason Dated a Lakers Cheerleader! (Live Coaching)You see a stunning woman across the room and want to talk to her… but what do you say? How do you start a conversation without fear of rejection? In this episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” dating coach Connell Barrett helps his client Jason master this skill—live on air. Plus,hear how Jason conquered crippling approach anxiety and dated an L.A. Lakers Cheerleader! Connell shares actionable strategies to help Jason (and you!) connect with women. No cheesy “pickup artist” tricks. Just authentic confidence that works.You’re about to learn:8:40: The #1 Shift to Overc...2025-02-041h 01
How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell BarrettIntroducing ‘It’s Rom-Complicated!’ How to Find Love by Watching Rom-Com Movies (Seriously!) Episode 1: ‘Groundhog Day’What if watching so-called “chick flicks” could make you a chick magnet and bring romance into your real life? It may sound far-fetched, but dating coach Connell Barrett has learned a lot about finding love—what works and what doesn’t—from rom-com movies. Introducing “It’s Rom-Complicated,” a new series that reveals the dating wisdom hidden in Hollywood’s most beloved comedies. In the first episode, Connell and his special guest—his charming, witty girlfriend Jessamin—analyze “Groundhog Day,” the 1993 time-loop comedy starring Bill Murray and Andie MacDowell.Episode Highlights:4:05: What’s the One Day from Your Life You Would Rel...2025-02-031h 08
How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett“I Went from Zero to 83 Matches in a Week!” The 6 Essential Photos You Need for Dating App SuccessNot getting enough quality matches on Hinge, Bumble or Tinder? Here’s the problem: Your photos aren’t making the right impression. But there’s a simple fix. Dating coach Connell Barrett reveals the 6 essential photos that he and his clients use to consistently get good matches on the apps. Connell’s client Ben puts it best: “I went from zero good matches on Hinge to getting 83 matches in one week. Suddenly I had too many dates!” Connell also reveals the 5 photo mistakes that make women swipe left—so you don’t sabotage your own success.You’re about to get the b...2025-01-3030 min
How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell BarrettExclusive! How to Win on Dating Apps—Secrets from the Man Who Invented Swiping, Tinder’s Jonathan BadeenReady to finally get great matches on Tinder? Who better to guide you than the man who invented swiping and changed dating forever: Tinder’s visionary co-founder, Jonathan Badeen. Back in the day, Jonathan was struggling to meet women and get dates. (Sound familiar?) He launched Tinder in part to help his own love life, and the world has never been the same. In this exclusive interview with dating coach Connell Barrett, Badeen shares the lightbulb moment when he came up with the swiping idea, reveals the biggest mistakes men make on the apps, and explains why he would absolutely sw...2025-01-2353 min
How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell BarrettWhat to Write on Your Bio: 7 Secrets for Way More Matches! Plus: Steal These 10 Funny, Flirty PromptsDo the apps frustrate you because you just don’t get many good matches? Here’s the problem: Your bio is boring women! Let’s fix this fast. In this episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” dating coach Connell Barrett shares his 7 secrets for writing an online-dating bio that womenlove—and that’s authentic to YOU. Using his simple formula, you’ll finally get good matches on Tinder, Bumble, or Hinge. Plus, his 10 funniest bio prompts will get women giggling… and swiping right.You’re about to learn:02:40: Why Authenticity is Your Online-Dating Superpower2025-01-1629 min
How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell BarrettAsk the Dating Coach: ‘HELP! She Wants Me to Baa Like a Sheep During Sex. What Do I Do?’It’s time to “Ask the Dating Coach!” as Connell Barrett takes your questions. If you struggle with what to say on dates, Connell shares three essential flirting moves to help you spark romantic connections. (Farewell, Friend Zone!) He also reveals why women prefer nice guys over so-called alpha males. And a listener has a “sheepish” question about talking dirty in bed.Highlights from this episode:01:51: Andrew Asks: “A Woman Wants Me to Baa Like a Sheep in Bed. What Do I Do?”03:19: How to Talk Dirty Without Feeling Awkward08:57: Zach Asks: “Am I Too Nice? D...2025-01-1442 min
How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell BarrettDating Apps Are Broken—Inner Circle is the Fix! Find Love Using this Innovative App (Featuring David Vermeulen)Burnt out on dating apps? The endless swiping, the lack of quality matches, the fake profiles—it’s exhausting! But Inner Circle is changing the game. Equal parts social club and dating app, Inner Circle is built for ambitious singles who want to swipe less and connect more, forming real, meaningful relationships. In this episode, dating coach Connell Barrett welcomes Inner Circle’s founder David Vermeulen. He shares how his innovative platform helps successful, driven men and women connect authentically—first online and then IRL at fun, exclusive events in cities like New York, London, Paris and Rio.With Con...2025-01-0940 min
How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell BarrettForget Resolutions! Here's Your New Year's REVOLUTION: 5 Game-Changing Dating Strategies to Attract Your Ideal Girlfriend in 2025The new year is here, and now’s the time to attract your dream girl. But not knowing where to start can feel overwhelming. You need a clear, tested plan for success. In this episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” dating coach Connell Barrett shares 5 proven strategies that practically guarantee you’ll find love in 2025. These aren’t flimsy resolutions you’ll abandon by February. They’re bold, revolutionary daily rituals to authentically connect with wonderful women.Using Connell’s tested moves, you’re about to learn:01:30: Why Resolutions Fail—and How to Build Rituals that Get Dating Resu...2025-01-071h 17
How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell BarrettFrom 10 Years of Loneliness to Landing His Dream Girl Allie: How Jake Found Love—and How You Can, Too!Feeling stuck in a dating dry spell? So was Jake. At 30, this shy, nerdy engineer (and proud Creed fan) felt too afraid to talk to women. And he hadn’t had a girlfriend in a decade. But with personalized guidance from dating coach Connell Barrett, Jake learned how to confidently connect with women on the dating apps and IRL. In one whirlwind week, Jake went on five first dates. “That’s more than I’d had the entire previous year,” he said with a laugh. Then he met bright, bubbly Allie, who’s now his girlfriend. “I knew she was the one.”2025-01-021h 05
How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell BarrettWhich Dating App is Right for YOU? The Top 7 Apps to Swipe Right on Love and Find Your SoulmateWith over 1,000 dating apps out there, it’s hard to know which one is right for you—and which will waste your time and money. In this episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett reveals his top 7 apps that he and his clients used in 2024. Whether you’re looking for meaningful connections or fun, casual dates, this guide will help you find the perfect app to help you get matches and dates… and even find your soulmate!Here’s what Connell covers in this episode:1:30: Why Choosing the Wrong App Costs You...2024-12-3129 min
How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell BarrettYikes! 5 BIG Dating Mistakes Women Hate—and 5 Fast Fixes to Find Love (with Lisa Hickey of the Good Men Project)Do you struggle to attract the kinds of women you want to date? Chances are, you’re making some big mistakes that turn women off, and you don’t even realize it. Help is here! Lisa Hickey, CEO of the Good Men Project, joins dating coach Connell Barrett to identify—and fix—the hidden dating mistakes men make. You’ll learn how to connect with women authentically, flirt with charm, and boost your confidence. Plus, Lisa shares invaluable wisdom on modern masculinity. (Check out the Good Men Project for a treasure trove of practical advice, and to read Connell’s dating advic...2024-12-261h 04
How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell BarrettBummed About NO Good Matches on the Apps? These 15 Quick Fixes Will Turn Your Profile into a Match Magnet (Live Coaching with Zach)It’s Christmas, and Santa Connell has a gift for you: Matches galore on the dating apps! Because endless swiping and ZERO matches makes you say, “ho, ho, NO!” It’s getting old, right? In this episode of the “How to Get a Girlfriend” podcast, dating coach Connell Barrett helps his client Zach fix the same issues that frustrate you. Zach—a personal trainer and 40-year-old single dad—learns 15 proven online-dating moves to turn his phone into a date-generating machine. And hey, the more good matches you have, the sooner you can attract a wonderful girlfriend who loves you for you....2024-12-241h 12
How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell BarrettFrom Lonely to Locking Lips: My 25 Tested Approach Moves to Kiss a Total Cutie on New Year’s EveAre you facing a lonely New Year’s Eve? Just you, Ryan Seacrest, and the ball—along with your romantic hopes—dropping. (More like New Year’s ROTTEN Eve…) Guess what: 2024 doesn’t have to end that way! In this episode of the “How to Get a Girlfriend” podcast, dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett shares 25 powerful, practical approach moves to help you land that magical midnight kiss with someone special. You’ll learn how to defeat approach anxiety, confidently talk to women, and maybe ring in the new year with a new love—or at least a sexy make-out. And you’ll...2024-12-1929 min
How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell BarrettMake Her Your Girlfriend in Just 3 Dates (Seriously!) Live Coaching with JackMaybe you’ve been in Jack’s shoes. He goes on a few dates, and everything seems fine. Then—bam! She says, “I’m just not feeling a connection.” Frustrating? Absolutely. “It happens a lot, and I don’t know what I’m doing wrong,” Jack, a 33-year-old sales rep., admits to dating coach Connell Barrett at the start of their first session. By the end of their call, Jack has a proven 3-date plan to make the right woman see him as boyfriend material. Listen as Connell uncovers Jack’s hidden flirting weaknesses (Jack’s aha moment hits at 52 minutes) and turns them...2024-12-171h 12How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell BarrettStop Settling TODAY! How to Crush Self-Doubt and Attract the Special Woman You Deserve — Featuring Garrain JonesHave you ever settled—in love, life, or both? It can leave you feeling stuck. Garrain Jones knows what it means to be stuck. He grew up poor without a father, who was murdered, then served time in prison on drug charges. But he refused to settle. Garrain transformed his life, becominga bestselling author and renowned coach who now inspires millions. Oh, and along the way he landed his dream girl—his wife, Blair! In this episode, Garrain joins dating coach Connell Barrett to help you become the best version of yourself. “To attract a high-value woman,” he says, “y...2024-12-131h 07
How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell BarrettStuck in Your Head at the Bars? How to Confidently Approach and Talk to Women—Even if You’re Shy (Live Coaching with Eric!)Are you shy? Do you want to approach attractive women at bars, but you freeze up, unsure of what to say? So you stand there and do nothing, while outgoing guys chat up the women you wish you could meet. You’re not alone. For shy guys, starting a conversation can feel impossible. In this live-coaching episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” dating coach Connell Barrett helps his introverted client Eric get out of his head and confidently talk to women in bars. Discover proven techniques to start conversations, dodge awkward silences, and become the guy others watch approaching—and char...2024-12-111h 31
How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett1,000 First Dates Later: My Top 7 Easy Moves to Escape the Friend Zone and Get Her Asking You for Date No. 2Dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett knows how frustrating first dates can be, especially when you’re unsure what to talk about or how to flirt. You’ve heard it before: “I didn’t feel a connection, but we can be friends.” Frustrating, right? Let’s change that! In this episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” Connell—who’s been on over 1,000 first dates—shares seven of his best first-date moves. These proven strategies help him and his clients ignite genuine, confident connections with women, without relying on weird, manipulative tactics that fall flat.Dating coach and bestselling...2024-12-0455 min
How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell BarrettLive Coaching Session: Connell’s Client Matt Conquers His Fear of Approaching—and Gets 2 Phone Numbers!Do you see women you’d love to talk to, but you’re just not sure what to say—and you’re afraid you’ll get rejected? You’re not alone. Matt, 25, was battling “approach anxiety.” He wasn’t sure how to talk to women in places like bars and coffee shops. Well, his struggles are over! In this episode of the How to Get A Girlfriend Podcast, dating coach Connell Barrett pulls back the curtain and shares a 1-1 coaching session he did with his client Matt. Armed with practical tips he calls “outside the box,” a newly confident Matt immediately went o...2024-11-271h 04
How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell BarrettThe New Way to Confidently Approach and Connect with Women (Part 4 of 5)Odds are, you see women you’d love to meet at bars, grocery stores or the gym, but you never approach them. Fear holds you back. You don’t know what to say, and you don’t want to seem creepy. It’s frustrating… but fixable! In this episode, host Connell Barrett—who has approached thousands of women in his 12 years as a dating coach—shares a new way to confidently meet women IRL. His Authentic Approach Technique will teach you exactly what to say to women, so you can get numbers and dates and find an incredible girlfriend. And you’ll talk to...2024-11-2149 min
How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell BarrettHow to Write Irresistible Openers on the Apps + The Easy Way to Text and Get Dates (Part 3 of 5)Do you struggle to write good openers? Do the women you text tend to ghost you? Help is on the way! In part 3 of this week’s special series on how to get a great girlfriend, your host—dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett—teaches you how to write irresistible openers on the apps that women reply to. Then he shares his simple, 4-step texting framework so you’ll always know what to message women, leading to more dates. And you’ll do all of this with authentic charm—no weird pickup tricks needed.In this episode, dat...2024-11-2049 min
How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell BarrettYou’re Flirting Wrong: The New Way to Talk to Women + 5 Flirting Fails to Avoid (Part 2 of 5)Chances are, you struggle with flirting. You’re not sure how to talk to women, and you run out of things to say. It hurts your confidence and your dating results. But what if you knew exactly how to talk to girls in a way they love, leading to great dates and deep connections? In part 2 of his 5-part series to help you get you a great girlfriend, dating coach Connell Barrett teaches you a new way to flirt. You’re about to harness the power of Man-to-Woman Communication, a simple way to confidently talk to women with charm and authe...2024-11-1955 min
How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell BarrettHow to Attract Your Dream Girlfriend by Dating with Radical Authenticity—Part 1 of a Special SeriesDo you want a great relationship with a wonderful woman, but you struggle with flirting and dating? It can make you feel frustrated, lonely and low in confidence. Let’s change that! Introducing the new How to Get a Girlfriend Podcast, which launches this week with a 5-part series about how to attract your soulmate. In this first episode, dating coach and author Connell Barrett shares his groundbreaking dating philosophy—Radical Authenticity—to help you confidently flirt, get dates, and find love. Your dream girlfriend is out there, and she wants to meet the authentic you. Listen now!I...2024-11-181h 03
How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell BarrettHow to Know Exactly What to Say When You Approach… & NEVER Get RejectedSo you want to talk to women you notice IRL—in bars, coffee shops, at the gym—but you just know what to say without seeming creepy. In this episode of the How to Get a Girlfriend podcast, your host—dating coach Connell Barrett—shares his 3-step approaching framework so you’ll know exactly what to say to break the ice in a charming way. The great news? Connell’s approaching method is virtually rejection-proof! And you don’t need to memorize weird pickup-artist lines. You can confidently talk to women anywhere, while being spontaneous and in the moment. Stop struggling wit...2024-10-2426 min
How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett3 Dating App Mistakes to Avoid! Plus: Steal the Flirty, 12-Word Opener that Gets Women ReplyingDo you struggle to get women writing you back on the apps? Do you get ghosted on Tinder, Bumble, or Hinge… and don’t know why? It’s frustrating, and can make you want to delete the apps. But help is on the way! In this episode of the How to Get a Girlfriend podcast, your host—dating coach Connell Barrett—identifies 3 dating app mistakes that you make when writing openers. Plus, Connell shares the flirty, 12-word opener that gets him a 77% percent response rate on the apps with wonderful women. Stop getting ghosted and start sending openers that women love! List...2024-10-2132 min
How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell BarrettThe 7 Deadly Dating Myths to AvoidDo you feel like you’re just not good-looking or not tall enough to attract wonderful women and find a great girlfriend? Well, think again! Those are two of the 7 deadly dating myths that can hurt your confidence and make it difficult to connect with women. Never fear! In this episode of the How to Get a Girlfriend Podcast, dating coach Connell Barrett runs down each of these 7 hurtful dating myths, and offers you 7 new and improved strategies to help you flirt and connect with incredible women… and help you find the dream girlfriend you want. Listen now!2024-09-2330 minHow to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett10 Flirty Questions to Ask Women When You ApproachNot knowing what to say is the biggest thing that stops you from approaching women in bars, coffee shops, or at your gym. And if you talk to women sometimes, do you flirt correctly? Or do you come off as boring, or even creepy? It’s hard to know! In this episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, dating coach Connell Barrett gives you 10 flirty questions to ask women when you approach, so you can confidently know exactly what to say when you approach… and get numbers and dates. Listen now! And remember to approach with AUTHENTICITY! Because women like you for...2024-05-1525 minHow to Get a Girlfriend with Connell BarrettThe Top 10 Flirting Mistakes You Make… and 10 Instant Fixes!If you struggle to flirt with women, guess what: You’re likely making some common flirting mistakes, and you don’t even know it! If you fall into any of these 10 flirting traps, you’ll get ghosted or friend-zoned. But if you FIX these flirting mistakes, you'll start making sparks fly and find your dream girlfriend. Dating coach Connell Barrett shares the 10 most common flirting mistakes men make, and he gives you 10 instant fixes—so you can flirt with confidence and authenticity, with ZERO pickup-artist sleaziness. Listen now!FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO A...2024-04-1539 minHow to Get a Girlfriend with Connell BarrettAsk the Dating Coach: “HELP! A Catfish Has My Nude Pics and is Blackmailing me for $1,000!”Have you ever been scammed or catfished on a dating app? It’s infuriating and scary! In this episode, dating coach Connell Barrett advises an unlucky guy who’s being “sextorted” for $1,000 by a scammer from a dating app. Plus, Connell helps a lonely listener get over the bitterness and resentment he feels toward women. Listen now!FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN:http://www.datingtransformation.com/contactGET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR...2024-04-1224 minHow to Get a Girlfriend with Connell BarrettThe NEW Way to Flirt with Women: 10 Tested Tips to Make Sparks FlyIf you aren’t sure how to talk to women… if you run out of things to say… if dates end with you trapped in the “friend zone,” then this is the episode for you. Connell is about to give you the secret weapon to STOP running out of things to say and START confidently flirting with cool, cute girls. It’s called Man-to-Woman Communication, a powerful, turbo-charged way of romantically connecting with women. Your dating life is about to change. Listen now!FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WO...2024-04-0833 minHow to Get a Girlfriend with Connell BarrettAsk the Dating Coach: ‘I’m Short! Should I Have My Legs Broken to Help Me Get Dates?’Are you five-feet-eight or shorter? Does that make you feel less confident around tall, attractive women? Do you struggle on the apps because you feel women want taller guys? In this episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, Connell Barrett helps you fix those issues. How? By coaching a lonely, five-foot-five listener who’s considering a drastic step: breaking and lengthening his legs to become more attractive to women. If you’re on the shorter side and you want to confidently attract a wonderful girlfriend, this is the episode for you. Listen now!FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH...2024-03-2623 minHow to Get a Girlfriend with Connell BarrettHow to Get Over a Breakup, with ‘Letting Go of Your Ex’ author Cortney WarrenHave you ever had a painful breakup? Have you been so obsessed with your ex that you didn’t want to date? Have you felt, “I’ll never find someone as good as her”?Today’s special guest can help!Dr. Cortney S. Warren is a bestselling author, clinical psychologist and an expert in getting over a bad breakup. Cortney joins Connell in this episode to share simple, powerful tips from her bestselling book, “Letting Go of Your Ex: CBT Skills to Heal the Pain of a Breakup and Overcome Love Addiction.” She also offers some pr...2024-03-2249 minHow to Get a Girlfriend with Connell BarrettHow NOT to Be Creepy: The 7 Mistakes Men Make that Creep Women OutYou want to meet wonderful women, make some moves, and get those sparks flying, right? But what if you do or say something creepy, and she rejects you? That would hurt. No one wants to feel like a creep. Here’s some help. In this episode, dating coach Connell Barrett counts downThe top 7 things that men do that make women go “Eww!” Are you making any of these common, creepy mistakes? Listen now to find out, fix it, and start dating some wonderful women.FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEA...2024-03-1828 minHow to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett5 “Aha!” Moments that Took Me from Dateless to Dating Wonderful WomenThe reason dating coach Connell Barrett can fix any dating problem is because he had EVERY dating problem—and he overcame them. In this episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, Connell shares 5 game-changing “Aha!” moments he experienced that helped him get great at flirting, approach women with confidence, escape the Friend Zone, and more. Listen now!FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: http://www.datingtransformation.com/contactGET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE...2024-03-1229 minHow to Get a Girlfriend with Connell BarrettHinge and Humor: The Top 10 Funniest Prompts to Get Matches and Dates on HingeIf you’re struggling to get matches on Hinge, Bumble or any app that uses prompts, this episode of the Dating Transformation Podcast is up for your alley. Dating coach and host Connell Barrett shares his 10 funniest prompts to use on the apps, so you can STOP getting ghosted on the apps and START to get women laughing… and wanting to date you! Listen now.FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: http://www.datingtransformation.com/contactGET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING S...2024-02-2031 minHow to Get a Girlfriend with Connell BarrettThe 5 Dating Superpowers: Use these 5 powerful moves for more dates and more confidence…instantly!Did you know that there are 5 dating superpowers that you can start using TODAY to confidently attract wonderful women? In this episode of the Dating Transformation Podcast, dating coach and host Connell Barrett takes you through these 5 superpowers and shows you how to use them to attract your dream girl… and to do it with integrity and authenticity. Listen now!Quotes"When you text her with the mindset of already being in a relationship, you shift from trying to impress her to genuinely expressing yourself."- Connell BarrettFeatured in the ep...2024-01-2237 minHow to Get a Girlfriend with Connell BarrettThe Top 10 Flirting Moves You Need to NOW to Make Sparks Fly with Wonderful WomenIf you’re not sure how to flirt with women, this episode of the Dating Transformation Podcast is for you. Dating coach and host Connell Barrett has had 1,000 dates (literally!), so he knows exactly how to help you connect with women.Listen in as he shares his Top 10 flirting moves to help you attract your next girlfriend, and do it with class and authenticity. You’re about to learn…2:17 The first rule of flirting4:30 How to use your voice to create a connection7:31 The right posture and eye contact8:45 The charming, consensual, NON-CREEPY way to...2024-01-1537 minHow to Get a Girlfriend with Connell BarrettClient Transformation! How John went from LOW Confidence to Dating INCREDIBLE Women…and How You Can, TooIf you struggle with how to flirt with women, or your dates don’t go anywhere, or you’re not meeting the kinds of women you’re into… listen up!In this episode of the Dating Transformation Podcast, dating coach and host Connell Barrett talks with his superstar client John, who’s been having some incredible dates with some incredible women… and he’s done it all with RADICAL AUTHENTICITY (no creepy pickup movesneeded.)John—a true, classy gentleman who likes and respects women—has gone from low confidence to an abundance of dating options...2024-01-0546 minHow to Get a Girlfriend with Connell BarrettLIVE COACHING! What to Say When You Approach Women, to Be Charming and NOT CreepyIf you wonder what it’s like to work with a renowned dating coach, this episode is for you. Because dating coach Connell Barrett takes you “behind the curtain” and lets you listen in on a coaching session with his new client Ryan.If you’re like Ryan, you struggle with flirting, or you have self-confidence. Or you want to approach women but it’s difficult for you? You’re about to learn…• How to overcome “approaching anxiety” so you can meet some wonderful women• What to say when you want to approach and not seem creepy2024-01-021h 00How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett5 Ways to Flirt, Connect and Make Sparks Fly with Your Ideal WomanYou know what’s worse than a big hunk of coal in your Christmas stocking? Approach anxiety, getting ghosted, and getting locked up in the friend zone after a first date. Ho-ho-NOOO!In this episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, dating coach Connell Barrett helps you fix all of those problems by taking some questions from listeners. You’re about to learn…Connell’s personal formula for taking massive approaching actionA texting tip you’ve NEVER heard beforeThe biggest dating mistake he ever made, which led to his biggest breakthroughHow to NOT get ghostedA confidence...2023-12-1325 minHow to Get a Girlfriend with Connell BarrettThe 6 Game-Changing Photos to Get More Matches on the AppsPop quiz, dating app user! Do cute, quality women match with you about as often as Halley’s Comet visits Earth? Yeah, I thought so.It’s downright debilitating to grab your phone, check the app, and… crickets and tumbleweeds. No matches… no GOOD ones, anyway.The good news? This is fixable! You just need to realize the cause of your problem: Your photos SUCK! It’s time to upgrade your photo game and see the matches pour in.In this episode, dating coach Connell Barrett gives you the 6 Game-Changing Photos that you need to get a L...2023-12-0824 minHow to Get a Girlfriend with Connell BarrettA Dating Coach Rates the Rom-Coms: ‘Love Actually’‘Love Actually’ is now 20-years-old, and dating coach Connell Barrett is here to review the classic rom-com in terms of dating strategy. Listen in as he shares some lessons that YOU can use to improve your love life.So… let’s go get the sh*t kicked out of us by love!FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: http://www.datingtransformation.com/contactGET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO...2023-11-2824 minHow to Get a Girlfriend with Connell BarrettStruggling with Flirting? How To Go from Brutally Boring to Confidently CharismaticEver had what you thought was a good date or conversation with a woman, only to find out she just wasn’t interested?And you have no idea what you did wrong!Odds are, your conversation was too boring. And if you bore women, your dating life will suffer.Dating coach Connell Barrett knows this all too well. As an introvert, he used to struggle with flirting. He didn’t know what to say. He bored women, who chose more charismatic guys over him.And then he fixed it! How?In this epis...2023-11-1739 minHow to Get a Girlfriend with Connell BarrettMy 7 Biggest “Aha!” Dating Moments… RevealedIf your love life is stuck in a neutral, well, dating coach Connell Barrett has been there. He battled every dating problem in the book, from low confidence to approach anxiety to a lack of matches on the apps.And he fixed them all!In today’s episode, Connell shares 7 of the biggest “Aha!” moments he had on his journey from “the King of the Friend Zone” to becoming, as the New York Post calls him, “the real-life Hitch.”Listen now so you can have your own “Aha!” moment, and attract a wonderful girlfriend into your life.2023-11-1441 minHow to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett7 Flirting Secrets Women Want You to Know with Melanie SutrathadaCue the confetti! Dating coach Connell Barrett welcomes a very special guest for this episode: the fun, funny, talented, effervescent Melanie Sutrathada!Melanie is an actor, TV host and lifestyle expert who’s appeared on “Good Morning America” and “Today.” She’s also a single woman who knows what women want from single men! And she has a LOT of wisdom to share.Connell and Melanie team up to talk about…8:45: Why travel makes you more attractive14:20: How activity dates make it easier to go for the first kiss22:00: What to say to your...2023-11-1054 minHow to Get a Girlfriend with Connell BarrettSober Dating, Part 2: 7 Ways to Confidently Attract Women, without Using AlcoholDating coach Connell Barrett specializes in helping sober single men like YOU confidently attract a wonderful girlfriend… completely booze-free.Is it hard for you to meet women, because you’re sober… and alcohol and dating are closely linked?Are you worried that women may not be interested in you, once they learn that you’re sober?Do you struggle to feel confident without the help of liquid courage?In part 2 of Connell’s series on sober dating, he shares 7 strategies on how to confidently attract the right woman for you, sans alcohol. You’re about to...2023-11-0737 minHow to Get a Girlfriend with Connell BarrettSober Dating, Part 1: How I (Finally!) Quit Drinking, and How YOU Can Confidently Date without BoozeDrinking and dating go together like Scotch and soda. But are you a guy who uses alcohol as a crutch? Do you need a drink or two (or five!) to relax when talking to a woman? Do you depend on “liquid courage” to approach a woman, but you’re running low on ACTUAL courage? Sober dating coach Connell Barrett helps men confidently flirt, date and find love… without a drop of alcohol. In this special episode, Connell talks about his decade-long struggle to quit drinking (he was downing a gallon of whiskey each month), the moment he hit bottom, and how he f...2023-10-3134 minHow to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett15 Dating Tips in 15 Minutes!We’re breaking the format in this episode as dating coach Connell Barrett knocks out not one, not two, but 15 (!!) quick dating tips in 15 minutes. You’re about to learn…How to confidently approach, how to compliment women on dates, how to send a flirty opener on the apps, how to stop “running out of things to say,” how to get phone numbers the RIGHT way, how to flirt with lots of charm and zero creepiness, and a LOT more.So listen now to get 15 practical tips in 15 hot minutes.FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH...2023-10-2428 minHow to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett5 Ways to Be More FUN with Women and Escape the Friend ZoneIf you’re like most single guys, you’re not sure how to be fun on your dates or when talking with women you’re into. What do you say? How do you make her laugh? What if you seem boring and she loses interest? Sadly, if your date or conversation is dull, she won’t be attracted to you—and you’ll be missing out on romance.So let’s amp up the fun factor.In this episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, dating coach Connell Barrett shares 5 tools you can use to make your dates and conv...2023-10-2041 minHow to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett3 Dreaded First-Date Mistakes to Avoid, and What to Do InsteadDo you struggle to make sparks fly on first dates? Do you think it might be “creepy” to go for a first-date kiss? Do you TRY to be funny and interesting and cool, but you fall short… and women just don’t want to have another date?Let’s fix this!In this episode, dating coach Connell Barrett shares the three most common first-date mistakes that you’re making… and you don’t even know it. He also gives you the RIGHT three moves to correct things. And he shares an incredible client success story, about a guy who went fro...2023-10-1725 minHow to Get a Girlfriend with Connell BarrettFor Dating Confidence, Unleash the Power of Radical AuthenticityYou’re not sure what women want, or how to connect with them, right? Plus, there’s so much dating advice out there from so-called “experts” that you’re not sure what to do. Act like an “alpha male”? Be a nice guy? Wear a “man of mystery” mask?You’re drowning in information, but you’re starved for wisdom. It’s confusing and frustrating.Here’s the solution: Show women your best, most authentic self. Because girls like you for YOU!In this episode, dating coach Connell Barrett shares the groundbreaking philosophy that his entire coaching empire is based on: Radica...2023-10-1326 minHow to Get a Girlfriend with Connell BarrettUse these 5 Escalation Secrets to Escape the Dreaded Friend ZoneYou’ve probably had first dates that you thought went well, with good conversation and no awkward silences. And then when you ask her out again, she lowers the boom: “Hey, I just didn’t feel a spark. But we can be friends.” Or maybe she just ghosts you! It’s so frustrating.Your problem? Odds are, you’re not “escalating” on dates in the 5 core ways that dial up romantic connection. If you don’t know these Escalation Secrets, you’ll likely struggle on dates and not even know why.In this episode, dating coach Connell Barrett lays out the...2023-10-1024 minHow to Get a Girlfriend with Connell BarrettHow to Become a Man of Authentic Action… and Attract Your SoulmateDo you feel stuck in your dating life? Would you like to approach beautiful women, but something holds you back? Do you consume dating tips on YouTube, but you’re STILL not “shooting your shot” with your types of women? Do you feel like the wheels of your love life are spinning in mud?Here’s the problem: You’re trapped in Information Mode. And you need to get into Action Mode.In this episode, dating coach Connell Barrett gives you a simple strategy to go from “stuck” to taking the right action and getting real dating momentum, so you can do...2023-10-0627 minHow to Get a Girlfriend with Connell BarrettThe Power of Presence: 6 Ways to Get Out of Your Head and Flirt with CharmYou know what’s frustrating? When you’re talking to an attractive woman—say, on a date or at a social event—and you get stuck in your head. You overthink. You judge yourself. You worry, “What do we talk about next? What if I run out of things to say?” This hurts your confidence and leads to awkward conversations. Yikes.Well, those days are over. It’s time to unleash the power of presence! Dating coach Connell Barrett has had over 1,000 dates, and in this episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, he unveils 6 tested moves to help you get out of...2023-10-0332 minHow to Get a Girlfriend with Connell BarrettDo THIS to Make Dating a Lot Less Painful and a Lot More FunIs dating just not fun for you? Do you judge yourself harshly after dates or interactions with women? Do you struggle with flirting and talking to cute girls, and you’re not improving?Let’s get this handled! In this episode, dating coach Connell Barrett shares a simple mindset drill called the Coin of Self-Assessment. It’s a simple mental tip you can apply every day to make dating a LOT more fun, while helping you get better at flirting, approaching, and connecting on first dates.Listen now, and flip the Coin of Self-Assessment, so you can stop hating...2023-09-2922 minHow to Get a Girlfriend with Connell BarrettThe Magic Move to Get Quality Online-Dating MatchesSwiping and swiping. Lack of quality matches. Women who ghost. Fake accounts. Chances are, online-dating just doesn’t work for you. But it’s NOT because you’re unattractive.It’s because you’re making a big dating-app mistake… and you’re not even aware of it! So let’s fix this.In today’s episode, dating coach Connell Barrett reveals the truth about online-dating, so you can STOP swiping without success, and START getting matches and dates with wonderful women. If you want to turn your phone into a date-generating machine, listen now!FOR A FREE STRATEGY CA...2023-09-2631 minHow to Get a Girlfriend with Connell BarrettUse these 5 Moves for Great First DatesFirst dates can be scary. Will she like you? Will you run out of things to say? Will there be awkward silences? Will she dump you for the cool bartender with the man bun? Questions, questions…Fear not. Your host, dating coach Connell Barrett, has had more than 1,000 first dates. In this episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, he shares the 5 essential moves that he and his clients use to have great dates with wonderful women.Stop going on lame dates and start making sparks fly. Listen now!FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CO...2023-09-2227 minHow to Get a Girlfriend with Connell BarrettHow to Become a Man of ActionYou know what sucks worse than Mondays and paper cuts? Wanting to “make a move” with a woman you’re into and then freezing up. It’s frustrating.You want to talk to that cutie at your gym, but you’re stuck in your head. You’d like to ask out your crush, but what if she says no? It’s frustrating, because you’re tired of being lonely, but you can’t seem to get going.It’s time to stop spinning your wheels and start taking action! In this episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, Connell tel...2023-09-1929 minHow to Get a Girlfriend with Connell BarrettLip Service: 7 Ways to Confidently Go for the First KissIt’s the scariest moment of a date: Going for the first kiss. You probably don’t how to read her signals to know if you can kiss her. If you move in to lock lips too soon, you’ll creep her out. If you wait too long or don’t even try, hello, “friend zone.” Ouch!And if your kiss attempt is awkward, she’ll likely reject you and give you the cheek… and there won’t be another date.No worries—dating coach Connell Barrett can help. In this episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, Connell sha...2023-09-1539 minHow to Get a Girlfriend with Connell BarrettHow to Charm Beautiful Women: 7 Simple Flirting MovesThere’s a good chance you struggle with what to say and how to flirt with women. You get stuck in your head. You doubt yourself. Maybe you fall into dreaded “interview mode” with a woman and interrogate her. The consequences? She either disappears, or she says, “You seem great, but I didn’t feel a spark.” Either way, she’s lost interest. And this can kill your confidence.Never fear—7 new flirting moves are here! In this episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, dating coach Connell Barrett shares some of his favorite ways to make sparks fly with women, whet...2023-09-1228 minHow to Get a Girlfriend with Connell BarrettUse the “3 Times Rule” and Stop Getting GhostedSo you’re texting a cool, cute girl, and then… silence. Tumbleweeds. She vanishes! It’s frustrating to get SO close to a date, only to have her disappear. It can feel devastating, like there’s something wrong with you—and make you want to delete the apps for good.The good news? You can fix this! It’s time to STOP getting ghosted and START getting dates. How? Use the “3 Times Rule,” a simple, tested texting system that gets results. In this episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, dating coach Connell Barrett shows you how the “3 Times Rule” can get a gi...2023-09-0837 minHow to Get a Girlfriend with Connell BarrettAre You Man Enough to Be Feminine? How to Truly Connect with WomenYou may think that women want a bold, brash “alpha male” to show her who’s boss. But think again! The truth is, women love men who are in touch with their feminine sides. Embracing that side of yourself doesn’t rob you of your masculine essence. It balances it, making you more complex, complete and attractive to women.Yes, a “real man” approaches and makes moves. But he also empathizes, listens, and shows compassion for women.In this episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, host Connell Barrett helps you smash out of the toxic “man box” you may b...2023-09-0531 minHow to Get a Girlfriend with Connell BarrettRisky Business: For Instant Confidence, Become a Bold RisktakerOdds are, you’re making a BIG mistake with a woman and you don’t even know it: You’re playing it safe. Being timid. Not going for it.Sure, you’re a nice guy and a true gentleman, and you don’t want to “creep women out.” That’s a good thing! But if you play it too safe in dating, you convey low confidence or come off as boring. And this repels women. Why? They don’t want a safe, timid guy. They want a confident risk taker. Hello, friend zone and rejection and loneliness.Never fear—da...2023-09-0126 minHow to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett“How Do I Get More Dates on the Apps?” Your online-dating questions answered!It’s another installment of “Ask the Dating Coach!” This week, your host Connell Barrett helps you solve your trickiest online-dating problems. Today’s questions include: “How long should I text a girl on an app before I ask her out?”, “Should I boost my profile, or is that a waste of money?”, “What’s a smooth way to ask for her digits?” And much more.Yes, online-dating is challenging, and you’re probably struggling in some areas. But Connell has ALL the answers. (Got a question for him? Email him at Connell@datingtransformation.com.)It’s time to STOP swiping without lu...2023-08-2940 minHow to Get a Girlfriend with Connell BarrettRevealed! The 4 Pillars of Instant Dating ConfidenceDo you lack dating confidence? Do you feel that women of a certain beauty are out of your league? Do you struggle with what to say to girls and how to flirt? It’s frustrating, especially when you see other, more outgoing guys dating the kinds of women you’d LOVE to be with.Let’s fix this! The great news? EVERY woman is attracted to confidence, and today you’re going to take yours to a whole new level. In this episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, host Connell Barrett shares the 4 Pillars of Dating Confidence. Use these four pra...2023-08-2536 minHow to Get a Girlfriend with Connell BarrettHow to Flirt with Women: the Wrong Way (DON’T do this) and the Right Way!Chances are, you struggle with how to talk to women. You’re just not sure the right way to flirt or what to say, and you get stuck in your head. Or perhaps you come across as boring or not charismatic. And women just don’t seem to feel romantic sparks with you. It’s frustrating!You’re in luck. In this episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, dating coach Connell Barrett shares the two BIGGEST mistakes that men make when trying to flirt with women. (Make sure you’re not doing them!) He also shares the RIGHT way to flirt w...2023-08-2230 minHow to Get a Girlfriend with Connell BarrettAsk the Dating Coach! “Help! How Do I Stop Getting Friend Zoned on First Dates?”We open up the “Ask the Dating Coach” mailbag to help you solve your most vexing dating questions. “How do I flirt over text?” “How do I stop getting friend-zoned on first dates?” “Why do women not reply to my openers?” “How do I stop fearing rejection so I can confidently approach?” And more. Dating coach Connell Barrett has fixes to all of these problems, so you can take your dating life to the next level. Listen now!FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: http://www.datingtransformation...2023-08-1138 minHow to Get a Girlfriend with Connell BarrettHow to Make Her Your Girlfriend, in 7 Easy MovesSo you’ve been dating an incredible woman (YES! You deserve it!). But you’re not sure how to go from “just dating” to “boyfriend-girlfriend”? Should you bring it up, or should she? How many dates until you suggest being a couple? What if she turns you down? Could you end up losing her? It’s confusing.When you feel you’ve found The One, it helps to have a plan. In this episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, dating coach Connell Barrett give you the playbook to turn the wonderful woman you’re seeing into your romantic partner. How? He s...2023-08-0830 minHow to Get a Girlfriend with Connell BarrettThe Right Way to Approach Women, with Confidence and CharmYou often see intriguing women in bars, cafes, or at the gym, and you WANT to talk to them, but fear holds you back. You think, “What if I creep her out? What if she rejects me?” This anxiety feels paralyzing, and is costing you confidence and romance.Real talk: If you can’t walk up to a woman and flirt, you have room to grow as a man. So… let’s fix it!In this episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, dating coach Connell Barrett shares the No. 1 way to approach women in a confident way that g...2023-08-0426 minHow to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett8 Tested Tips to Escape “Interview Mode” on Dates and Create a ConnectionHave you ever fallen into “interview mode”? That’s when you ask your date lots of boring questions (“How was your day? What’s your job? How many siblings do you have?”) that lead to bad dates. Instead of connecting with her, you interrogate her. And there’s no second date because she “just didn’t feel a connection.”Interview mode is frustrating, but you can fix it… TODAY! In this episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, dating coach Connell Barrett shares 8 tested tips to help you become magnetic to your next date, so you can spark a romantic, authentic co...2023-08-0131 minHow to Get a Girlfriend with Connell BarrettThe 5 Super Shifts to Gain Confidence and Start Attracting Wonderful WomenIf you’re like most single men, you doubt your attractiveness to women. You think you’re not handsome enough or not tall enough or not outgoing enough—not SOMETHING enough—to connect with cool, cute girls. This hurts your confidence, costs you dates, and just bums you out.The great news? Today you can stop doubting yourself and start dating wonderful women. In this episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, dating coach Connell Barrett shares the 5 Super Shifts to help you banish doubt and confidently attract the kinds of women you’re into… and find a great girlfriend!2023-07-2828 minHow to Get a Girlfriend with Connell BarrettDo THIS to Be Fun and Flirty on Dates + 5 More Myths BustedDon’t you hate it when you meet an attractive woman and you want SO badly to be funny, witty, charming… but you spend the whole date “stuck in your head”? There are awkward silences, and you can tell she’s not that into you. Odds are, you’re making a common mistake that’s keeping you from being your most confident, witty, authentic self. Let’s fix this!In today’s episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, dating coach Connell Barrett smashes another five myths that are hurting your confidence, and shares the one thing you need to do on your next...2023-07-2533 minHow to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett7 Dating Disasters to Avoid: How to Connect with Women in the #MeToo Era, Part 2There are 7 “deadly dating sins” that many men commit in the #MeToo era that will get them ghosted. Make sure you’re not making any of these mistakes. In this special episode of the Dating Transformation Podcast, host Connell Barrett tells you what they are, so you can avoid these dating pitfalls. Plus, Connell shares a raw, personal story about a woman he once date who is survivor of sexual assault. He explains how she opened his eyes about the importance of the #MeToo movement, and how she helped him become more empathetic to this overdue movement. Listen now.F...2023-07-2124 minHow to Get a Girlfriend with Connell BarrettConsent is Sexy! How to Connect with Women in the #MeToo Era, Part 1The #MeToo era has made dating more confusing than ever. As a good-hearted guy, you’re caught between two extremes. On one hand, you don’t want to do anything inappropriate. On the other, you fear that doing nothing will land you in the Friend Zone. And you’re just not sure… Can you still approach, or is that harassment? Should you ask for her number? Can you go for a first kiss, or is that creepy? It’s confusing!In this episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, host Connell Barrett shares 15 tested tips to help you flirt with charm...2023-07-1835 minHow to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett“Women Only Want Hot Guys” + 4 Other Dating Myths Demolished!You may think that desirable women only want to date handsome men, or perhaps guys who are tall or rich. But the truth is, most women just want a confident, authentic man who has his life together. But believing these outdated beliefs can crush your confidence and cost you dates. After all, it’s hard to talk to and ask out a woman if you think she’s out of your league.In this episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, host Connell Barrett takes a sledgehammer to 5 debilitating dating myths that are hurting your love life, and he shar...2023-07-1438 minHow to Get a Girlfriend with Connell BarrettLIVE COACHING! The secret to avoiding awkward silences on dates + how to go for the kissGetting dates is great (yes!) What’s NOT great? Struggling with what to say, and dealing with long… awkward… silences (nooooo!) In this episode of the Dating Transformation Podcast, listen in on a coaching session that coach Connell has with his client Tom. Tom has gone from getting ZERO dates to landing as many as FIVE DATES a week! Just one problem: He’s still struggling with what to say and how to flirt. Listen now, as Connell gives some practical tips to avoid awkward silences and keep the conversation flowing and flirty. Plus: how to go for the first kiss!2023-07-111h 07How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett4 Ways to Stop Fearing Rejection and Start Feeling ConfidentWhen you see an attractive woman you’d love to meet, fear of rejection likely holds you back. “What if she doesn’t like me?,” you think. Or if you want to go for a first-date kiss, the R-word paralyzes you, and you worry, “What if she turns away?” Hello, Friend Zone. In dating, fear of rejection is the Big Bad Wolf. It costs you confidence and romantic success. In today’s episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, dating coach Connell Barrett helps you cure your fear of rejection, so you can confidently approach women, make the right moves on dates, and att...2023-07-0736 minHow to Get a Girlfriend with Connell BarrettWhat’s Your Dating Superpower? 6 Ways to Spark Connections!Do you get stuck in your head when talking to women? Do you doubt yourself and think, “What would she see in me?” Do you send boring texts that make girls ghost you? If so, then it’s time to use your dating superpowers!That’s right! EVERY guy has a dating superpower. You just have to harness it. This week, dating coach Connell Barrett helps you uncover YOUR special dating skill. He also shares 6 powerful tools that you can use to get more dates and more confidence. Listen now so you can make sparks fly and attract your dre...2023-06-3026 minHow to Get a Girlfriend with Connell BarrettYour biggest dating problems… solved!Do you struggle with texting women? (Check.) Does approaching seem scarier than a haunted house? (Check.) Do your dates go nowhere, leading to the dreaded “friend zone”? (Check please!) Help is on the way. This week, dating coach Connell Barrett helps you solve some of your toughest dating problems by opening up the Dating Transformation mailbag. Listen to Connell answer your questins, so you can send flirty messages, approach with steely confidence, make sparks fly on first dates... and attract your dream girlfriend!Quotes"Personalized openers spark interest and engagement by offering jokes, compliments, or fun ques...2023-06-2337 minHow to Get a Girlfriend with Connell BarrettHow to Be a Better Man, Featuring Alex Manley, author of “The New Masculinity”As a single man, you likely battle fear from time to time—and not just on the dating scene.Maybe you’re afraid to be emotionally vulnerable with people because you’ve been told it’s a sign of weakness.Perhaps you get angry—at women, the world, yourself—and you can feel the shackles of toxic masculinity tighten around your wrists.And you might be confused about how to date and flirt in the #MeToo Era (“Can I still make moves, or is that harassment?”)Today’s special guest can help you navigate what...2023-06-131h 07How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell BarrettFirst Date Topics to Create a Strong ConnectionYou know what sucks more than rainy Mondays and popup ads? Running out of things to say on dates.You’ve been there, right? After “Hey, nice to meet you,” you get stuck in your head. What should you talk about? Her job? Your dog? The weather.And the only thing worse than boring conversation is when your date is filled with….um [pause]… awkward [errrrr]… silences.And you know what that means: No second date.If you struggle coming up with good first date topics, you’re in the right place! In this episod...2023-06-0923 minHow to Get a Girlfriend with Connell BarrettHow to Be an Attractive Man, with Dr. Robert Glover and “The Big Stick” Author Tony EndelmanWARNING! Listening to this episode may lead to you getting hit with a big stick! (In a good way.)Just a wild guess: You want more confidence and passion in your life, not just in dating but in many areas, right? But deep down, you sometimes question your worth, both to women and to the world. And desirable women tend to see you as a “nice guy” or friend, not as a lover.It can make you wonder if you’ll ever reach your potential as a man, and perhaps never attract the kind of woman you wa...2023-06-061h 29How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell BarrettHow to Describe Yourself on a Dating App: 15 Moves for More MatchesSo you’re trying to write your online-dating profile, but you’re just staring at an empty screen. What do you write? How do you talk about yourself?If you do this wrong, you can kiss matches and dates goodbye.If you do it RIGHT, well, you’ll be kissing your next date very soon.If you don’t know how to describe yourself on the dating apps, you’re in the right place. In this episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, host and dating coach Connell Barrett shares 15 of his best tips for what to wr...2023-06-0237 minHow to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett12 Tips on Dating as an Introverted Man, with Anthony RecenelloOK, a quick joke.How much does an introvert weigh? Not enough to break the ice. (Rim shot!)Humor aside, dating can be hard if you’re an introverted guy. It’s difficult (and feels impossible!) to cold-approach an intriguing woman at a bar, party, or social occasion. And you may think that women want outgoing, charismatic men—not quiet, thoughtful guys like you. And that can hurt your confidence.Well, if you feel you’re at a dating disadvantage as an introvert, here’s some good news. A LOT of wonderful women are very attracted...2023-05-301h 27How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell BarrettLIVE COACHING! How to Get Out of the Friend Zone on Dates and Make Sparks FlyIf you’re stuck in the Friend Zone with women, dating coach Connell Barrett has been there. He didn’t just live in the Friend Zone—he owned real estate there.But he learned how to escape. And in this special LIVE COACHING episode with his client, Chris, Connell will give you a practical plan to stop getting “friend zoned” and start igniting sparks with women you’re interested in.That’s right! This episode is the second-best thing to working with a great dating coach, because you get to listen in and use ALL of the tips.2023-05-151h 04How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell BarrettHow to Date Wonderful Women without Approaching or Using AppsSo you want to attract a wonderful woman into your life, for love, companionship and hate-watching “Emily in Paris” together. BUT… dating apps don’t work for you. And the thought of approaching random women makes you more anxious than an IRS audit.Well, what if you could get great dates and find your ideal girlfriend, and never have to swipe on an app, or nervously hit on random women?In today’s episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, host Connell Barrett welcomes Robbie Kramer, a dating expert who helps men meet women by using their social cir...2023-05-121h 15How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell BarrettHow to Be Flirty and Funny—and Never Run Out of Things to SayYou know what sucks more than a Vin Diesel movie? When you’re talking to (or texting) a woman you’re into, and you just know you’re being boring. You’re stuck in your head. You ask dull questions in “interview mode.” You’re not sure what to say.You can feel her losing interest in you, and sure enough—she goes off to find a flirty guy who can make her laugh.It can make you feel boring, unattractive, and get you stuck in the dreaded “friend zone.”In this episode of the Dating Transform...2023-05-0923 minHow to Get a Girlfriend with Connell BarrettLIVE COACHING! How Connell’s client went from fearful to confidently approaching women…and getting dates!Pop quiz! Do you want to confidently approach and date beautiful women? (OK, that was adumb question—sort of like, “Do gingers have souls?” Of course they don’t!)But chances are, fear keeps you from breaking the ice with women you’d love to meet… and it’scrushing your confidence and costing you dates. Let’s fix this!You’re about to listen to an actual coaching session, in which (soulless ginger) dating coachConnell Barrett helps his client overcome his fear of approaching women.Xavier, 31, was struggling with “approach anx...2023-05-051h 28
How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell BarrettHow to Flirt with Girls OnlineHow to Flirt with Girls OnlineDo you struggle with how to flirt with girls online, not to mention when you approach and when you’re on dates? Do you think your conversation might be boring to women, causing them to ghost you or reject you? Not knowing how to flirt with girls online can cost you lost confidence and fewer dates.But we got you! Today’s incredible guest will help you learn how to flirt with girls online, whether you’re approaching, messaging on an app, or texting before your big date.Instag...2022-09-2759 min
How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell BarrettHow to Gain Confidence and Attract Your Dream GirlfriendHow to Gain Confidence and Attract Your Dream GirlfriendDo you struggle with your love life? Do you lack dates, lack confidence, and even lack hope? Do you want to approach attractive women, but you never do? Maybe you get lonely at times, too.Help is on the way! Dating coach Connell Barrett can help you fix ALL those problems, starting TODAY, using the power of “radical authenticity.” The Dating Transformation podcast will teach you how to gain confidence, flirt with charm, and find a great girlfriend—and do it all as your best, authentic self… NOT some...2022-09-271h 15