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The CrossCounsel Podcast174 | O Death, Where Is Thy Sting?In this episode of the CrossCounsel Podcast, we sit down with Byron Guerra, youth pastor at Thrive Church in Oconomowoc, WI, and his longtime friend, mentor, and CrossCounsel facilitator, Chuck Schroeter.Byron didn’t begin in ministry — his early years were spent as a land surveyor and doing tree work. The conversation kicks off with a funny, forgotten story from Chuck, and a powerful moment where he shares how Byron’s grandfather led him to Christ.A few months ago, Chuck encouraged Byron to step into The MELT Process, which became a turning point in facing...2025-04-1750 minThe CrossCounsel Podcast165 | School Shooting / Declaration of HopeWe’re coming to you today with heavy hearts in light of the recent tragedies in Madison, Wisconsin, and the heartbreaking school shooting that occurred on Monday, December 16. These events have shaken our community and reminded us, once again, of the brokenness in the world.As we head into 2025, we’re creating and building the 100 Club—a community of partners giving $100 monthly to support CrossCounsel’s mission. Whether you’re a new supporter or already give monthly, consider joining this effort or increasing your support to at least $100 per month.It will be stewarded well and will m...2024-12-1819 minThe CrossCounsel Podcast151 | In the In BetweenHello friend! On this episode of the podcast, Jon and Steve talk about what can be done in the time between sessions, and bring up 3 ways you can prepare for your next session with CrossCounsel. A few of the topics covered:6:30 - Tuned in to the pain;8:48 - What to do in between sessions;13:05 - Social anxiety;24:13 - Jon's experience.If you have questions about our ministry, want to know how to donate, or want to schedule a ministry session, please go to crosscounsel.com for more details.2024-07-2929 minThe CrossCounsel PodcastEp. 149 - The Truth Within the Story (Part 2)Hello friend! On this episode of the podcast, we finish out interview with Terry Harris, discussing her experience with CrossCounsel, and how that experience influenced one of her novels. You won't want to miss it!A few of the topics covered:0:30 - Conversation continues;8:25 - What are the takeaways;11:20 - Fictional characters, real resources. If you have questions about our ministry, want to know how to donate, or want to schedule a ministry session, please go to crosscounsel.com for more details.You can contact Terry directly at terrytamashiroharris.com...2024-07-1518 minThe CrossCounsel PodcastEp. 148 - The Truth Within the Story (Part 1)Hello friend! On this episode of the podcast, we sit down with Terry Harris to talk about her experience with CrossCounsel, and how that experience influenced one of her novels. You won't want to miss it!A few of the topics covered:1:00 - Introducing Terry;9:55 - Sharing through characters;12:00 - Love Remains.If you have questions about our ministry, want to know how to donate, or want to schedule a ministry session, please go to crosscounsel.com for more details.Don't forget to hit follow, and we'll see you on...2024-07-0817 minThe CrossCounsel PodcastEp. 147 - Healing Around the WorldCrossCounsel is privileged to bring Training and Ministry in the MELT process to Pastors and leaders in India! Today we will be talking to Sheila who, along with her husband Abraham, have a major influence in the churches in India. Mary and Carol are training a team of ministers who will join them at the ASIA Summit in Malaysia in August.A few of the topics covered:3:25 - Similarities between India and Malaysia;7:55 - Why India needs this ministry;17:45 - Everything is explainable, but not everything is excusable. If you have questions a...2024-07-0131 minThe CrossCounsel PodcastEp. 146 - Removing Obstacles to Identity (Part 3)Hello friend! On this episode of the podcast, Jon and Steve finish their discussion with Mary & John Henry, talking about their experience with CrossCounsel, college ministry, and the importance of identity. You won't want to miss it!A few of the topics covered:0:50 - Some questions from Steve;6:00 - Young adults leaving the church;9:50 - The fear of the Lord;15:08 - How to help.If you have questions about our ministry, want to know how to donate, or want to schedule a ministry session, please go to crosscounsel.com for more d...2024-06-1718 minThe CrossCounsel PodcastEp. 145 - Removing Obstacles to Identity (Part 2)Hello friend! On this episode of the podcast, Jon and Steve continue their discussion with Mary & John Henry, talking about their experience with CrossCounsel, college ministry, and the importance of identity. You won't want to miss it!A few of the topics covered:0:40 - Conversation continues;2:40 - It's about your story;5:20 - College ministry;11:40 - New starting points;15:45 - Seeds of cultural change;19:00 - Changing methods for changing times.If you have questions about our ministry, want to know how to donate, or want to schedule a ministry session, please go t...2024-06-1024 minThe CrossCounsel PodcastEp. 144 - Removing Obstacles to Identity (Part 1)Hello friend! On this episode of the podcast, Jon and Steve sit down with Mary & John Henry and talk about their experience with CrossCounsel, college ministry, and the importance of identity. You won't want to miss it!A few of the topics covered:1:40 - Introducing our guests;3:00 - Jon's many nicknames;5:50 - Discussion starts;15:45 - Mary's experience with our online classes. If you have questions about our ministry, want to know how to donate, or want to schedule a ministry session, please go to crosscounsel.com for more details.Do...2024-06-0321 minThe CrossCounsel PodcastEp. 142 - How Do We Actually Change? (Part 1)Hello friend! On this episode of the podcast, Steve and Jon interview Pastor Pher from First Free Church, and learn about his journey with CrossCounsel.A few of the topics Jon, Steve & Pher cover:3:40 - Discussion begins;10:00 - Opportunity for growth;21:25 - Jon's thoughts.If you have questions about our ministry, want to know how to donate, or want to schedule a ministry session, please go to crosscounsel.com for more details. Don't forget to hit follow, and we'll see you on the next one!CrossCounsel We...2024-05-2025 minThe CrossCounsel PodcastEp. 132 - Hippies, Haircuts, and the Holy Spirit (Part 1)Hello friend! On this episode of the podcast, Steve and Jon bring on a special guest to talk about his testimony, and how CrossCounsel helped change his life.A few of the topics Steve, Jon & Kenton cover:2:45 - What is Kenton's world like today;6:15 - Life before Jesus;26:00 - The fear of being alone. If you have questions about our ministry, want to know how to donate, or want to schedule a ministry session, please go to crosscounsel.com for more details.Don't forget to hit follow, and we'll se...2024-03-1129 minThe CrossCounsel PodcastEp. 125 - Being a Friend of GodHello friend! On this episode of the podcast, Jon, Steve & Mary talk about CrossCounsel's 2024 Class, and what it means to become a friend of God. A few of the topics Jon, Steve & Mary cover:6:50 - A friend of God;13:55 - Watching the MELT process;23:00 - Millennials. If you have questions about our ministry, want to know how to donate, or want to schedule a ministry session, please go to crosscounsel.com for more details. Don't forget to hit follow, and we'll see you on the next one!Cro...2024-01-2231 minThe CrossCounsel PodcastEp. 118 - Distortion, Abuse, And Being Unforgiving - Best of 2022All of us here at CrossCounsel wish you a happy Thanksgiving!Since we were all off celebrating Thanksgiving with our families, we're running one of our favorite podcast episodes from last year, where we answered questions directly from you all. A few of the topics Steve, & Mary cover:2:00 - Distorted memories18:00 - Unpacking emotional abuse23:30 - "You're not forgiving enough" If you have questions about our ministry, want to know how to donate, or want to schedule a ministry session, please go to crosscounsel.com for more details.Don't fo...2023-11-2737 minThe CrossCounsel PodcastEp. 115 - We Do Things DifferentlyHello friend!On this episode of the podcast, Steve and Jon talk about one of CrossCounsel's big goals for the year, look at a powerful testimony, and discuss how CrossCounsel does things differently than traditional therapy.A few of the topics Steve and Jon cover:3:30 - Our big goal;10:28 - "I'm glad I went through with that";19:40 - A testimony;27:45 - We do things differently. If you have questions about our ministry, want to know how to donate, or want to schedule a ministry session, please go to crosscounsel.com for more d...2023-11-0635 minThe CrossCounsel PodcastEp. 114 - MELTing in BoliviaHello friend!On this episode of the podcast, Steve and Jon chat with Mary and Wes Carlton about their recent trip doing hands on ministry in Bolivia, and CrossCounsel's relationship with House of Hope International. You won't want to miss it!A few of the topics Steve, Mary & Jon cover:2:35 - What brought CrossCounsel to Bolivia;17:40 - The ministry of work and play;38:15 - What we do cuts across all cultures.If you have questions about our ministry, want to know how to donate, or want to schedule a ministry session, please go...2023-10-3041 minThe CrossCounsel PodcastEp. 109 - A World of FrustrationHello friend! On this episode of the podcast, Steve, Mary and Jon talk about our increasingly frustrated world, holding grudges and and some of the signs of long-held bitterness.A few of the topics Steve, Mary & Jon cover: 5:50 - An epidemic of frustration; 12:50 - New eyes of compassion; 23:30 - Numbing out/asking why.If you have questions about the ministry, want to know how to donate, or want to schedule a ministry session, please go to crosscounsel.com for more details.Don't forget to hit follow, and we'll s...2023-09-2528 minThe CrossCounsel PodcastEp. 107 - “That’s as Far as I Can Go, Lord.”Hello friend!On this episode of the podcast, Steve, and Jon sit down in the new La Crosse office with Carol Mitzelfeldt and talk about how she first found out about CrossCounsel, and how it has changed her life.A few of the topics Steve, Jon & Carol cover: 4:40 - Carol and Theophostics; 11:00 - Proverbs 4; 18:15 - "That's as far as I can go, Lord"; 24:30 - Changes in relationships. If you have questions about the ministry, want to know how to donate, or want to schedule a ministry session, please go to cro...2023-09-1130 minThe CrossCounsel PodcastEp. 106 - Are You Giving Ground to the Enemy?Hello friend!On this episode of the podcast, Steve, and Jon sit down with Lucy Galvez and talk about how CrossCounsel has helped her find real and lasting peace. A few of the topics Steve, Jon & Lucy cover: 12:00 - Coping mechanisms vs lasting peace; 19:30 - "How much ground would you like the enemy to have in your life?"; 24:15 - God's grace is sufficient for us; 31:15 - Lucy's journal. If you have questions about the ministry, want to know how to donate, or want to schedule a ministry session, pl...2023-09-0533 minThe CrossCounsel PodcastEp. 101 - Fully Armed and OperationalHello friend!On this episode of the podcast, Steve and Jon sit down with long time friend and guest star Dwight Clough to talk about his newest book! Join us as we talk about how his experiences with CrossCounsel not only shaped his book, but his family as well. You won't want to miss it!A few of the topics Steve, Dwight & Jon cover: 8:20 - Armed and fully operational children11:00 - How would your book be different without the MELT process?18:10 - The importance of mentors22:45 - What is different about this book?33:15 - c...2023-07-3137 minThe CrossCounsel PodcastEp. 100 - Why Is Pain Important?Hello friend!On this episode of the podcast, we sit down with special guest Wes Carlton and talk about his experience with CrossCounsel, and how he received freedom from negative emotions, and experienced lasting peace!A few of the topics Steve, Wes & Jon cover:9:30 - Jon and Steve talk about their favorite parts of the conversation14:00 - We don't teach you to cope19:00 - What we do differently28:00 - Getting tough enough to get close to GodIf you have your own questions about the ministry, go to crosscounsel.com and click...2023-07-2434 minThe CrossCounsel PodcastEp. 99 - Stop Getting Flat Tires And Trying So HardHello friend!On this episode of the podcast, we sit down with special guest Wes Carlton and talk about his experience with CrossCounsel, and how he received freedom from negative emotions, and experienced lasting peace!A few of the topics Steve, Wes & Jon cover: 4:30 - A look back at the 12th Annual Golf Classic10:00 - "Instead of someone talking with you, the Lord talks TO you. 13:00 - an example of "almost truth"20:00 - Virus removal of the soulIf you have your own questions about the ministry, go to crosscounsel.com and cli...2023-07-1723 minThe CrossCounsel PodcastEp. 98 - MELT or Medication?Hello friend!On this episode of the podcast, We tackle another question we received at our orientation event at SomaChurch in Tyler, Texas! Join Mary and Steve as they start to answer questions from the community, and clarify what exactly it is we do here at CrossCounsel.A few of the topics Steve, & Mary cover:3:30 - Medication shouldn't be the first solution15:00 - Chemically manipulating emotions22:00 - Being at peace vs being numbIf you have your own questions about the ministry, go to...2023-07-1031 minThe CrossCounsel PodcastEp. 97 - Testing, Healing, and Ministering to Non-BelieversHello friend!On this episode of the podcast, We start to tackle the MANY questions we received at our orientation event at SomaChurch in Tyler, Texas! Join Mary and Steve as they start to answer questions from the community, and clarify what exactly it is we do here at CrossCounsel.A few of the topics Steve, & Mary cover:7:00 - What if the pain persists?16:00 - "Applying the teaching"19:00 - "Would you use the MELT process with non-believers?"If you have your own questions about the ministry, go to...2023-07-0332 minThe CrossCounsel PodcastEp. 95 - What You Don't Want To RecycleHello friend!On this episode of the podcast, Steve, Mary and Jon look back at another early episode that kicked off our show. A couple of the topics covered:An inspiring session The heart of God vs. the mind of GodWhy is it tough for men to dig into CrossCounsel?If you have questions about the ministry, go to crosscounsel.com and click on the Contact button to write to us directly. Don't forget to hit follow, and we'll see you on the next one!Just clic...2023-06-1931 minThe CrossCounsel PodcastEp. 94 - Transformation Vs. InformationHello friend!On this episode of the podcast, Steve and Jon look back at the VERY FIRST episode that kicked off our show. Join us as Steve talks about where the ministry was back then, and where we are now.A couple of the topics covered:The state of CrossCounsel when the first podcast episode premieredIt's not "go get em, tiger!"If you have questions about the ministry, go to crosscounsel.com and click on the Contact button to write to us directly. Don't forget to hit follow, a...2023-06-1225 minThe CrossCounsel PodcastEp. 88 - Does My Pastor Need Healing, Too? (Part 3)Hello friend!On this episode of the podcast, Steve, Mary and Jon continue interviewing pastors close to the CrossCounsel family. This week, our special guest is Melissa Herring from SomaChurch in Tyler, Texas! A couple of the topics covered:How Melissa got started with CrossCounselHow transformational prayer affected the SomaChurch staffThe Lord's heart for freedomIf you have questions about the ministry, go to crosscounsel.com and click on the Contact button to write to us directly. Don't forget to hit follow, and we'll see you on the next on...2023-05-0143 minThe CrossCounsel PodcastEp. 87 - Does My Pastor Need Healing, Too? (Part 2)Hello friend! On this episode of the podcast, Steve and Jon continue their conversation with Pastor Pher Lois from First Free Church in Wisconsin, talk about his journey with CrossCounsel, and discuss how pastors need healing as much as anyone else. A couple of the topics covered:“you're mine”Gen Z and PlatitudesWhere the water isIf you have questions about the ministry, go to crosscounsel.com and click on the Contact button to write to us directly. Don't forget to hit follow, and we'll see you on the next...2023-04-2429 minThe CrossCounsel PodcastEp. 86 - Does My Pastor Need Healing, Too? (Part 1)Hello friend!On this episode of the podcast, Steve and Jon interview Pastor Pher Lois from First Free Church in Wisconsin, and talk about his journey with CrossCounsel, and how pastors need healing as much as anyone else.A couple of the topics covered:Becoming a dadHidden angerA memory from childhoodIf you have questions about the ministry, go to crosscounsel.com and click on the Contact button to write to us directly. Don't forget to hit follow, and we'll see you on the next one!CrossCounsel W...2023-04-1725 minThe CrossCounsel PodcastEp. 83 - Experiencing Our Good Father's EmbraceHello friend!On this episode of the podcast, Steve and Jon take a look at Nate's testimony with CrossCounsel, and talk about the importance of not only knowing our faith, but experiencing it as well.A couple of the topics covered:The boys have car troubles“I'll just take the recipe”Relationship “trickle-down” effectsIf you have questions about the ministry, go to crosscounsel.com and click on the Contact button to write to us directly. Don't forget to hit follow, and we'll see you on the next one!Cros...2023-03-2725 minThe CrossCounsel PodcastEp. 80 - Genuine ConfidenceHello friend! On this episode of the podcast, Steve and Jon take a look at a CrossCounsel testimony, and discuss what it means to find confidence through Christ A couple of the topics covered:Mike's success storyExamining anxietyRemembering what is importantIf you have questions about the ministry, go to crosscounsel.com and click on the Contact button to write to us directly. Don't forget to hit follow, and we'll see you on the next one!CrossCounsel WebsiteCrossCounsel on Face...2023-03-0625 minThe CrossCounsel PodcastEp. 79 - Mr. Spock And Church Leadership Hello friend!On this episode of the podcast, Steve and Jon are joined by Jason Hoffman, and talk about church leadership, among other things. A couple of the topics covered:StoicismCrossCounsel's online classesThe cost of leadershipIf you have questions about the ministry, go to crosscounsel.com and click on the Contact button to write to us directly. Don't forget to hit follow, and we'll see you on the next one!CrossCounsel WebsiteCrossCounsel on Facebook2023-02-2735 minThe CrossCounsel PodcastEp. 76 - What's My Motivation?Hello friend!On this episode of the podcast, Mary and Steve continue talking about the international ministries CrossCounsel is partnered with, and start a discussion about motivation. A couple of the topics covered:Essential oils“Well done, good and faithful servant”Conviction vs shameParenting If you have questions about the ministry, go to crosscounsel.com and click on the Contact button to write to us directly. Don't forget to hit follow, and we'll see you on the next one!CrossCounsel WebsiteCrossCounsel on Facebook2023-02-0629 minThe CrossCounsel PodcastEp. 74 - Touching On LonelinessHello friend,On this episode of the podcast, Mary and Steve talk about loneliness, and how to address it. A couple of the topics covered:Jon talks about the loneliness epidemic among young menEmotional fragilityThe importance of having loving communities If you have questions about the ministry, go to crosscounsel.com and click on the Contact button to write to us directly. Don't forget to hit follow, and we'll see you on the next one!CrossCounsel WebsiteCrossCounsel on Facebook...2023-01-2323 minThe CrossCounsel PodcastEp. 73 - Training Up Godly SticklersHello friend!On this episode of the podcast, Mary and Steve talk about CrossCounsel's online courses and how excited we all are about the opportunities they present! A couple of the topics covered:Being passionate vs being diligent“It's not an information transfer, it's transformation”Staying focused on Kingdom things If you have questions about the ministry, go to crosscounsel.com and click on the Contact button to write to us directly. Don't forget to hit follow, and we'll see you on the next one!...2023-01-1631 minThe CrossCounsel PodcastEp. 72 - The Freitag FamilyHello friend!On this episode of the podcast, Jon interviews a bunch of Freitags! We are joined by special guests Jenni and Brynn Freitag and learn about how transformational prayer helped them early on in life before CrossCounsel even started! A couple of the topics covered:Conflict resolutionGrowing up in a Christian homeAn update with BrynnIf you have questions about the ministry, go to crosscounsel.com and click on the Contact button to write to us directly. Don't forget to hit follow, and we'll see you on the next on...2023-01-0943 minThe CrossCounsel PodcastEp. 71 - Waiting on God vs InactionHello friend!Mary and Steve talk about the things that stop people from coming back for a second session. A couple of the topics covered:New Year's ResolutionsWaiting on God vs InactionIf you have questions about the ministry, go to crosscounsel.com and click on the Contact button to write to us directly. Don't forget to hit follow, and we'll see you on the next one!CrossCounsel WebsiteCrossCounsel on Facebook2023-01-0236 minThe CrossCounsel PodcastEp. 70 - What Stops People From Coming Back?Hello friend!On this episode of the podcast, Mary and Steve talk about the things that stop people from coming back for a second session. A couple of the topics covered:Everyone has a different first experienceHealing often comes in layers, not all at onceJon's experience after his first sessionIf you have questions about the ministry, go to crosscounsel.com and click on the Contact button to write to us directly. Don't forget to hit follow, and we'll see you on the next one!CrossCounsel WebsiteCrossCounsel on F...2022-12-2639 minThe CrossCounsel PodcastEp. 69 - Merry Christmas, and Happier Holidays!Hello friend!On this episode of the podcast, Mary, Steve and Jon talk about their experiences around Christmas, and talk about what's really important during this time of year. A couple of the topics covered:Jon's experience growing upThe incarnation of ChristThe best gift we can give is obedience to Jesus If you have questions about the ministry, go to crosscounsel.com and click on the Contact button to write to us directly. Don't forget to hit follow, and we'll see you on the next one!Cros...2022-12-1925 minThe CrossCounsel PodcastEp. 68 - Why Minister To The Nations?Hello friend!On this episode of the podcast, Steve and Mary talk about the importance of CrossCounsel's international missions, and the awesome ways they've seen God move through the ministry on a global scale. A few of the topics Mary & Steve cover:The importance of international ministryBolivia missions trip If you have questions about the ministry, go to crosscounsel.com and click on the Contact button to write to us directly. Don't forget to hit follow, and we'll see you on the next one!CrossCounsel Website2022-12-1229 minThe CrossCounsel PodcastEp. 67 - How Do I Handle Truth-Based Pain?Hello friend! On this episode of the podcast, Steve and Mary go through more community questions sent in by our listeners! A few of the topics Mary & Steve cover: Separating truth-based pain, and lie-based painTesting what God tells us If you have questions about the ministry, go to crosscounsel.com and click on the Contact button to write to us directly. Don't forget to hit follow, and we'll see you on the next one! CrossCounsel WebsiteCrossCounsel on Facebook2022-12-0532 minThe CrossCounsel PodcastEp. 66 - Layers of LiesHello friend!On this episode of the podcast, Steve and Mary go through more community questions sent in by our listeners! A few of the topics Mary & Steve cover:Dealing with layers of liesTesting what God tells usIf you have questions about the ministry, go to crosscounsel.com and click on the Contact button to write to us directly. Don't forget to hit follow, and we'll see you on the next one!CrossCounsel WebsiteCrossCounsel on Facebook2022-11-2842 minThe CrossCounsel PodcastEp. 65 - End The DivideHello friend! On this episode of the podcast, We interview Dwight Clough and talk about his new book; End The Divide. A few of the topics Dwight & Steve cover:Dwight's new book Continuous healing "Making it fair" If you have questions about the ministry, go to crosscounsel.com and click on the Contact button to write to us directly. Don't forget to hit follow, and we'll see you on the next one!CrossCounsel WebsiteCrossCounsel on Facebook2022-11-2146 minThe CrossCounsel PodcastEp. 64 - Supplementing With ScriptureHello friend! On this episode of the podcast, Mary and Steve recap our long weekend full of events, and start answering some of the questions sent to us during our La Crosse Orientation event. A few of the topics Mary & Steve cover:Weekend event recap! Who answers us in our prayer? Supplementing with Scripture If you have your own questions about the ministry, go to crosscounsel.com and click on the Contact button to write to us directly. Don't forget to hit follow, and we'll see you on the ne...2022-11-1433 minThe CrossCounsel PodcastEp. 63 - Consenting To Feeling InferiorHello friend! On this episode of the podcast, Mary and Steve talk about how harsh words can affect us, and how we can deal with them. A few of the topics Mary & Steve cover:Barney Fife What makes us feel inferior? If you have your own questions about the ministry, go to crosscounsel.com and click on the Contact button to write to us directly. Don't forget to hit follow, and we'll see you on the next one!CrossCounsel WebsiteCrossCounsel on Facebook2022-11-0729 minThe CrossCounsel PodcastEp. 62 - Feeling Our Pain Through Others Hello friend! On this episode of the podcast, we talk about how busy we have been lately! CrossCounsel has two different events coming up, and we are VERY excited for both! First, for our Midwestern friends in the La Crosse area, we have an in-person orientation happening on the morning of November 5th. Come join Mary and Steve and learn about what exactly it is we do at CrossCounsel, and ask us questions directly. Please remember to register online at the link below. Space is limited! Register here for La Crosse Orientation Event W...2022-10-3136 minThe CrossCounsel PodcastEp. 61 - How Should We Handle Suffering?Hello friend!On this episode of the podcast, we talk about how busy we have been lately! CrossCounsel has two different events coming up, and we are VERY excited for both!First, for our Midwestern friends in the La Crosse area, we have an an in-person orientation happening on the morning of November 5th. Come join Mary and Steve live and learn about what exactly it is we do at CrossCounsel, and ask us questions directly. Please remember to register online at the link below. Space is limited!Register here for La Crosse O...2022-10-2433 minThe CrossCounsel PodcastEp. 60 - Is God With Me?Hello Friend! On this episode of the podcast, Jon and Steve interview Vanessa and learn about her journey with Jesus, and how Crosscounsel fits into it! Vanessa was a great guest and is filled with passion for her walk with Christ. You won't want to miss it! A few of the topics Jon, Steve & Vanessa cover:God does not forget about us Validation though Christ If you have your own questions about the ministry, go to crosscounsel.com and click on the Contact button to write to us directly. 2022-10-1741 minThe CrossCounsel PodcastEp. 59 - Fear Of The Lord, Or Terror Of The Lord?Hello friend!On this episode of the podcast, Jon and Steve interview CrossCounsel's Office Administrator, Lucy Galvez! Lucy is an integral part of the team and is a huge blessing to all of us here at CrossCounsel. Join us for this special episode where we talk with Lucy and learn about how Jesus has used CrossCounsel's ministry in her own life. You won't want to miss it!A few of the topics Jon, Steve & Lucy cover:Pastoral families, and judgemental churchesExperiencing God's loveOpening your hear to G...2022-10-1033 minThe CrossCounsel PodcastEp. 58 - Traditions, and Reconciling Our Own Bad DecisionsHello friend! On this episode of the podcast, We tackle another round of community questions! Join Mary and Steve as they start to answer questions from the community, and clarify what exactly it is we do here at CrossCounsel. A few of the topics Steve, & Mary cover:Traditional approaches Reconciling our own bad decisions If you have your own questions about the ministry, go to crosscounsel.com and click on the Contact button to write to us directly. Don't forget to hit follow, and we'll see you on the ne...2022-10-0327 minThe CrossCounsel PodcastEp. 57 - Shame, Demonic Oppression, and VisualizingHello friend! On this episode of the podcast, We tackle another round of community questions! Join Mary and Steve as they start to answer questions from the community, and clarify what exactly it is we do here at CrossCounsel.A few of the topics Steve, & Mary cover:Dealing with shameDemonic oppression Difficulty visualizingIf you have your own questions about the ministry, go to crosscounsel.com and click on the Contact button to write to us directly. Don't forget to hit follow, and we...2022-09-2630 minThe CrossCounsel PodcastEp. 56 - Past Trauma, and Brain TraumaHello friend! On this episode of the podcast, We tackle another round of community questions! Join Mary and Steve as they start to answer questions from the community, and clarify what exactly it is we do here at CrossCounsel.A few of the topics Steve, & Mary cover:Is it always my childhood?Brain injuriesDo we need to access specific memories every time?If you have your own questions about the ministry, go to crosscounsel.com and click on the Contact button to write to us...2022-09-1935 minThe CrossCounsel PodcastEp. 55 - Dealing With the Past When Its “Under the Blood”Hello friend! On this episode of the podcast, We tackle another round of community questions! Join Mary and Steve as they start to answer questions from the community, and clarify what exactly it is we do here at CrossCounsel. A few of the topics Steve, & Mary cover:Past events that are "under the blood" Steve talks about flippant theology The armor of God If you have your own questions about the ministry, go to crosscounsel.com and click on the Contact button to write to us directly. Do...2022-09-1225 minThe CrossCounsel PodcastEp. 54 - Discerning Spirits, and Unpacking Overwhelming EmotionsHello friend!On this episode of the podcast, We tackle another round of community questions! Join Mary and Steve as they start to answer questions from the community, and clarify what exactly it is we do here at CrossCounsel.A few of the topics Steve, & Mary cover:4:45 - Discerning Spirits14:15 - Jon talks about spiritual gifts19:00 - Unpacking overwhelming emotionsIf you have your own questions about the ministry, go to crosscounsel.com and click on the Contact button to write to us directly. 2022-09-0531 minThe CrossCounsel PodcastEp. 53 - Family, Psychosis, and Being ProactiveHello friend! On this episode of the podcast, We tackle another round of community questions! Join Mary and Steve as they start to answer questions from the community, and clarify what exactly it is we do here at CrossCounsel. A few of the topics Steve, & Mary cover:0:30 - Jon is the best grandma ever. 3:30 - Encouraging friends/family to try it out 10:00 - Psychosis If you have your own questions about the ministry, go to crosscounsel.com and click on the Contact button to write to us directly. 2022-08-2923 minThe CrossCounsel PodcastEp. 52 - Distortion, Abuse, And Being UnforgivingHello friend!On this episode of the podcast, We tackle another round of community questions! Join Mary and Steve as they start to answer questions from the community, and clarify what exactly it is we do here at CrossCounsel.A few of the topics Steve, & Mary cover:2:00 - Distorted memories18:00 - Unpacking emotional abuse23:30 - "You're not forgiving enough"If you have your own questions about the ministry, go to crosscounsel.com and click on the Contact button to write to us directly. Don...2022-08-2237 minThe CrossCounsel PodcastEp. 51 - MELT or Medication?Hello friend!On this episode of the podcast, We tackle another question we received at our orientation event at SomaChurch in Tyler, Texas! Join Mary and Steve as they start to answer questions from the community, and clarify what exactly it is we do here at CrossCounsel.A few of the topics Steve, & Mary cover:3:30 - Medication shouldn't be the first solution15:00 - Chemically manipulating emotions22:00 - Being at peace vs being numbIf you have your own questions about the ministry, go to crosscounsel.co...2022-08-1530 minThe CrossCounsel PodcastEp. 50 - Testing, Healing, and Ministering to Non-BelieversHello friend!On this episode of the podcast, We start to tackle the MANY questions we received at our orientation event at SomaChurch in Tyler, Texas! Join Mary and Steve as they start to answer questions from the community, and clarify what exactly it is we do here at CrossCounsel.A few of the topics Steve, & Mary cover:7:00 - What if the pain persists?16:00 - "Applying the teaching"19:00 - "Would you use the MELT process with non-believers?"If you have your own questions about the mi...2022-08-0831 minThe CrossCounsel PodcastEp. 49 New Update, Not So New TriggersHello friend!Recently, Mary and Steve hosted an event at SomaChurch in Tyler, Texas and wow, what a great time it was! We had so many questions at the Q&A that we couldn't get to all of them at the event. So instead, in the coming weeks we will be answering some of those questions here on the podcast! The whole team is very excited to hear from the community and we hope you're excited to have those questions answered.In other news, we had a fresh podcast ready for you today, but after r...2022-08-0247 minThe CrossCounsel PodcastEp. 48 Can I Be Angry At God? (Part 2)Hello friend!Have you ever been angry at God? Have you ever been ashamed about being angry at God? Often times, we believe the way out of this anger is to either confess to God that we are angry (while failing to understand why we feel that way) and ask for that feeling to be taken away, or we ignore the feeling entirely; choosing to bury it deep within ourselves, but never truly resolving it. If you can relate to any of those feelings, than this episode is for you. Join our hosts as they exp...2022-07-2525 minThe CrossCounsel PodcastEp. 47 Can I Be Angry At God? (Part 1)Hello friend!Have you ever been angry at God? Have you ever been ashamed about being angry at God? Often times, we believe the way out of this anger is to either confess to God that we are angry (while failing to understand why we feel that way) and ask for that feeling to be taken away, or we ignore the feeling entirely; choosing to bury it deep within ourselves, but never truly resolving it. If you can relate to any of those feelings, than this episode is for you. Join our hosts as they exp...2022-07-1826 minThe CrossCounsel PodcastEp. 46 Freedom From Striving (Part 2)Hello friend!On this two-part episode of the podcast, we take a look at an inspiring testimony from someone who received healing and freedom in Christ via CrossCounsel. Join Mary, Steve and special guest Becky Longoria as they share their insight on Keturah's powerful testimony, and if you want to watch the whole testimony without our commentary, you can watch it on our YouTube page!A few of the topics Steve, Mary & Becky cover:7:00 - God takes us as we are20:45 - Peace comes from truth28:30 - G...2022-07-1138 minThe CrossCounsel PodcastEp. 45 Freedom From Striving (Part 1)Hello friend!On this two-part episode of the podcast, we take a look at an inspiring testimony from someone who received healing and freedom in Christ via CrossCounsel. Join Mary, Steve and special guest Becky Longoria as they share their insight on Keturah's powerful testimony, and if you want to watch the whole testimony without our commentary, you can watch it on our YouTube page!A few of the topics Steve, Mary & Becky cover:8:00 - Trouble accepting compliments17:30 - Being honest with yourself and God22:30 - It g...2022-07-0527 minThe CrossCounsel PodcastEp. 44 Does Transformational Prayer Work Internationally?Hello friend!On this episode of the podcast Mary returns and talks about her time down in Honduras, and all the cool ways God is continuing to build up the ministry there.A few of the topics Steve and Mary cover:9:00 - The global application of the MELT process13:00 - Cultural misconceptions19:45 - "The Rock of revelation"If you have your own questions about the ministry, you can go to crosscounsel.com/contact and write to us directly. Don't forget to hit follow, a...2022-06-2725 minThe CrossCounsel PodcastEp. 43 Two Days After 9/11Hello friend! On this episode of the podcast we have a chat with Dwight Clough, a long time friend of the ministry, and hear about the various ways that transformational prayer ministry has changed his life via the healing found in Christ. A few of the topics Steve and Dwight cover:10:30 - Everything changes 16:45 - The kitchen table 27:45 - God's tools If you'd like to check out some of Dwight's writing, you can check out his online book store at https://dwightclough.com/dwights-books/ and if you want to co...2022-06-2135 minThe CrossCounsel PodcastEp. 42 Deep Physical and Emotional Pain Lifted (Part 2)Hello friend! On this special (two part) episode of the podcast, we take a look at a beautiful testimony from someone who received healing and freedom in Christ via CrossCounsel. Join Mary and Steve as they share their insight on Dusty's powerful testimony, and if you want to watch his whole testimony without our commentary, you can watch it here on our YouTube page! A few of the topics Steve and Mary cover:815 - Walking in peace 14:00 - "We walk in the beliefs we have experienced" 25:15 - Jon's thoughts...2022-06-1335 minThe CrossCounsel PodcastEp. 41 Deep Physical and Emotional Pain Lifted (Part 1)Hello friend! On this special (two part) episode of the podcast, we take a look at a beautiful testimony from someone who received healing and freedom in Christ via CrossCounsel. Join Mary and Steve as they share their insight on Dusty's powerful testimony, and if you want to watch his whole testimony without our commentary, you can watch it here on our YouTube page! A few of the topics Steve and Mary cover:6:45 - The importance of church support 17:45 - Changing the grid we see the world through 27:30 - Emotion...2022-06-0638 minThe CrossCounsel PodcastEp. 40 Why Is It Easier to See Other People’s Faults?Hello friend! On this episode of the podcast, we discuss why it is so much easier to see other people's faults while ignoring our own. Can we really be honest about helping others find healing and freedom, if we ourselves are not seeking that same healing and freedom?A few of the topics Steve and Mary cover:7:45 - Politics18:00 - Changing the grid we see the world through20:15 - Jesus called people hypocritesIf you have your own questions about the ministry, go to crosscounsel.com a...2022-05-3027 minThe CrossCounsel PodcastEp. 39 Am I Actually Healing, or Just Feeling Better?Hello friend!On this episode of the podcast, we have an extended discussion of what it means to actually be healed, versus just feeling better. We discuss the benefits of things like working out, and while those can certainly help us feel better for a time, do they actually bring lasting emotional healing? A few of the topics Steve and Mary cover:0:45 - Funerals16:45 - Working out31:00 - "The body remembers"If you have your own questions about the ministry, go to crosscounsel.com and click on...2022-05-2340 minThe CrossCounsel PodcastEp. 38 What If I Can't Focus?Hello friend! On this episode of the podcast, we continue looking into what lie-based thinking is, and talk about being distracted during sessions. Join us this week as Mary and Steve explain one of the foundational beliefs of our ministry.A few of the topics Steve and Mary cover:9:15 - Helping people understand what their minds are doing11:30 - The trap of victim mentality15:30 - "I'm just not worth it"If you have your own questions about the ministry, go to crosscounsel.com and click on the...2022-05-1629 minThe CrossCounsel PodcastEp. 37 What Is Lie-Based Thinking?Hello friend! On this episode of the podcast, we answer a question from one of our listeners: What exactly is "Lie-based thinking"? How does it manifest in our lives? Join us this week as Mary and Steve explain one of the foundational beliefs of our ministry.A few of the topics Steve and Mary cover:6:00 - Lie-based thinking vs God's truth10:00 - Wes receives healing22:15 - Jon talks about lie-based thinkingIf you have your own questions about the ministry, go to crosscounsel.com and click on...2022-05-0932 minThe CrossCounsel PodcastEp. 36 Is Christianity a Crutch?Hello friend! On this episode of the podcast, we discuss the popular question: is Christianity a crutch? It is certainly a common sentiment found in the secular world. And if it is a crutch, is that a bad thing? Tune in to this week's podcast to see what our hosts have to say!A few of the topics Steve and Mary cover:6:45 - A Christian litmus test11:40 - Misconceptions about faith18:30 - Fear of deathIf you have your own questions about the ministry, go to cr...2022-05-0324 minThe CrossCounsel PodcastEp. 35 How Can Spiritual Healing Affect My Family?Hello friend! On this episode of the podcast, we talk about how transformative prayer and emotional healing can affect your relationships (specifically family relationships) in real and profound ways. A few of the topics Steve and Mary cover:12:30 - Parents are on a journey17:45 - Picky eaters24:15 - Participating as a creatorIf you have your own questions about the ministry, go to crosscounsel.com and click on the Contact button to write to us directly. Don't forget to hit follow, and we'll see yo...2022-04-2529 minThe CrossCounsel PodcastEp. 34 How Can Spiritual Healing Affect Romantic Relationships?Hello friend! On this episode of the podcast, we talk about how transformative prayer and emotional healing can affect your relationships (specifically romantic ones) in real and profound ways. A few of the topics Steve and Mary cover:6:45 - Jon stumbles onto something16:00 - Relationships and pushing buttons21:30 - When emotions are running highIf you have your own questions about the ministry, go to crosscounsel.com and click on the Contact button to write to us directly. Don't forget to hit follow, and w...2022-04-1829 minThe CrossCounsel PodcastEp. 33 How Can Spiritual Healing Affect the Body?Hello friend!On this episode of the podcast, we talk about how physical healing can sometimes accompany the inner healing people experience at CrossCounsel, and how closely connected our physical health is to our spiritual health. You won't want to miss it!A few of the topics Steve and Mary cover:1:00 - Pablo the rooster12:30 - Stress and perception27:00 - "Well I've prayed about it"If you have your own questions about the ministry, go to crosscounsel.com and click on the Contact button to write...2022-04-1130 minThe CrossCounsel PodcastEp. 32 Since You Asked... (Part 2)Hello friend!We recently received some questions from our podcast listeners, and are excited to to answer them. This week, Steve an Mary will be discussing what 3 components of TPM they consider most important for understanding and sharing with others. We love answering questions from the community, so feel free to write us!A few of the topics Steve and Mary cover:6:15 - Manifesting feelings12:45 - The difference between forgiveness and reconciliation17:00 - The Sunday morning experienceIf you have your own questions about the ministry, g...2022-04-0423 minThe CrossCounsel PodcastEp. 31 Since You Asked... (Part 1)Hello friend!We recently received some questions from our podcast listeners, and are excited to to answer them. This week, Steve an Mary will be discussing what 3 components of TPM they consider most important for understanding and sharing with others. We love answering questions from the community, so feel free to write us!A few of the topics Steve and Mary cover:13:30 - Accountability16:45 - Witch trials18:00 - Head belief vs heart beliefIf you have your own questions about the ministry, go to crosscounsel.com a...2022-03-2819 minThe CrossCounsel PodcastEp. 30 What Stops Me From Stepping In? (Part 2)Hello friend! On this 2nd episode of our 2-part series, we continue to tackle some common lie-based thoughts that keep people from experiencing victory over their negative emotions. Join us on the journey as Steve and Mary dispel some of the obstacles/lie-based thoughts that they hear the most. A few of the topics Steve and Mary cover: 7:30 - "Just let it go."15:00 - Spiritual maturity26:15 - Digging up the pastIf you have your own questions about the ministry, go to crosscounsel.com and click on the...2022-03-2137 minThe CrossCounsel PodcastEp. 29 What Stops Me From Stepping In? (Part 1)Hello friend! On this episode of the podcast we tackle some common lie-based thoughts that keep people from experiencing victory over their negative emotions. We had so much to say we made it a 2-part series! Join us on the journey as Steve and Mary dispel some of the obstacles/lie-based thoughts that they hear the most. A few of the topics Steve and Mary cover: 7:30 - Can you really put your past behind you? 13:30 - Mike Rowe and safety 23:30 - What if the person who hurt me is no longer alive...2022-03-1440 minThe CrossCounsel PodcastEp. 28 Can I Really Be Free From Negative Emotions?Hello friend! On this episode of the podcast we discuss our slogan "Negative emotions should not run your life" and talk about how its more than just a phrase, its a declaration of how Christ wants us to live; transformed by His love. A few of the topics Steve and Mary cover:7:30 - Worldly peace vs. God's peace12:30 - A story about Wes & Mary25:00 - The more freedom we receive, the more we can help othersIf you have your own questions about the ministry, go...2022-03-0732 minThe CrossCounsel PodcastEp. 27 Is There Hope for the Younger Generation?Hello friend! On this episode of the podcast we interview Hillary, and talk about her journey with Christ, and some of the transformational healing she experienced in her own life. It's an episode you don't want to miss!A few of the topics Steve and Hillary cover:8:30 - Sleeping Beauty12:30 - Panic attacks23:00 - Reaching out to Gen ZIf you have your own questions about the ministry, go to crosscounsel.com and click on the Contact button to write to us directly. Don't fo...2022-02-2833 minThe CrossCounsel PodcastEp. 26 What Good Is the "I" Doing?Hello friend! On this episode of the podcast we talk about the "international" aspects of CrossCounsel International Ministries, and the importance of spreading God's love to every tribe and every nation. A few of the things Steve and Mary cover:9:30 - A powerful testimony from Nicaragua16:30 - The importance of international ministry28:00 - "Why not just stay local?"If you have your own questions about the ministry, go to crosscounsel.com and click on the Contact button to write to us directly. Don't forget t...2022-02-2136 minThe CrossCounsel PodcastEp. 25 Could This Help Me if I’ve Done Counseling?Hello friend! On this episode of the podcast we discuss some frequently asked questions we here from people who are considering CrossCounsel but may not be familiar with what we do.A few of the things Steve and Mary cover:8:00 - The internal monsters we create13:30 - Football17:00 - Working with children and teensIf you have your own questions about the ministry, go to crosscounsel.com and click on the Contact button to write to us directly. Don't forget to hit follow, and w...2022-02-1429 minThe CrossCounsel PodcastEp. 24 What if I’m Dealing With Addiction?Hello friend! On this episode of the podcast we talk about how CrossCounsel helps people handle addictions, and the important and biblical principles applied in the 12-step program. A few of the things Steve and Mary cover:5:30 - The 12 Step Program12:00 - Seinfeld and "serenity now"19:00 - "Courage to change the things I can"So get ready to talk about addictions, finding healing, and making popcorn.Don't forget to hit follow, and we'll see you on the next one!...2022-02-0728 minThe CrossCounsel PodcastEp. 23 What if I'm Doing Okay?Hello friend! On this episode of the podcast we talk about how CrossCounsel can help you experience healing, even if you are in a good place in life and everything's just "okay". A few of the things Steve and Mary cover:4:00 - Confessing to one another. 8:00 - King David's relationship with God 11:00 - Confession versus repentance So get ready to talk about the importance of confessing to one another, and how we can still be affected by transformational healing, even if everything in life is going okay. Don't f...2022-01-3129 minThe CrossCounsel PodcastEp. 21 What Are “Walls” and How Do I Overcome Them?Hello friend!On this episode of the podcast we get to know Jenni and learn about what she does in CrossCounsel, and talk a bit about overcoming "walls" that can get in the way of transformational healing. A few of the things Steve and Jenni cover:1:00 - Who is Jenni? What are intro calls?10:00 - Jenni's first time experiencing transformational prayer23:00 - Running into emotional/psychological "walls"So get ready to meet Jenni and learn about how she helps lead people through the onboarding process, and...2022-01-1833 minThe CrossCounsel PodcastEp. 20 Getting to Know Jon and His First Session SurpriseHello friend,Meet Jon, our new host!A few of the things covered in today's episode:01:00 - Introducing the new guy from up north07:00 - Experiencing transformational ministry for the first time13:00 - The lasting healing we can experience through the love and truth found in ChristSo get ready to meet Jon and hear about his first time at CrossCounsel, and don't forget to hit follow and we'll see you on the next one!CrossCounsel WebsiteCrossCounsel on Facebook2022-01-1118 min