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FriDudes - Getting Real. Pursuing Truth.
Best Of...Kids' Christmas Special
Yes! You are in. Back in the day, we used to go to restaurants and we liked it. This is a priceless recording, in 2019, of several brave kids willing to shine some Light. My how much can change in just one year. If you have kids, please listen with them and praying for a Merry Christmas for you. If it is dark, then you need some Hope and Light. Praying that you will hear and see the Light from these young ones.Love that! Thank you Poppy, Lauren, Aly, Adam, Levi, Eva, Savannah, Daulton, Alyssa Paige!! Your voices li...
2020-12-21
32 min
FriDudes - Getting Real. Pursuing Truth.
Christmas: Your Plan vs. God's
Is Christmas 2020 going exactly as you planned, wished and hoped for? 99.5% of you are saying no. This is exactly what we tackle today.Word! Things that make you go hmmmmmm. If that resonated, and you want to further tackle God's plan for your life. We have a gift for you. Hit us up at FriDudes.com at the 'Contact' page, put GtSurf in the message box. The FriDudes will pay for you. Ignore the pricing on the GtSurf.org page and we got your back this round. If you would like to hear more of the Play...
2020-12-18
26 min
FriDudes - Getting Real. Pursuing Truth.
Deeper: Wondering about Wonder
Wondering about wonder or Mary did you know? Those were the two titles to this deeper series. Casey aka Jogging Jesus is back and gives his latest message on Wonder. If you dig the universe, that is wondrous. Casey ties that in with a Deeper message. Here you go...Word! Thank you Casey. And thank you for checking in. If you think worthy, thank you so much for sharing this with someone else that is having a tough time this Christmas. You shine Light. You encourage where you can.BTW, for those curious, Casey spoke at Hosanna...
2020-12-15
31 min
FriDudes - Getting Real. Pursuing Truth.
What's Your Stick?
What's Your Stick?For many of you, the Bible sounds like a bunch or fairy tales. For me, confession, I struggle with certain stories in the Bible. The Immaculate Conception can be one of them. That is a trip; for lack of better words. A baby conceived between a woman and a Holy Spirit is mind boggling. At least for us humans that think too much. For some of you, you have the gift of a simple faith. For most of us, we think too much. We are critical thinkers and natural skeptics. The more we do that, the...
2020-12-12
31 min
FriDudes - Getting Real. Pursuing Truth.
What Happens When You Die? Part 2 of 2
There's a sequel to "What Happens When You Die?". Yes, a bit ironic. Remember in previous episodes where I say we are all flawed? Well, I didn't like the way Part 1 ended. I went back in to adjust the song and add some additional words of hope and ended up deleting the whole group conversation in the master copy. The group conversation lives on in the cloud and the podcast published on December 4th. Some of you are saying that's what you get..haha! You may be be right. At least, I get a shot at a sequel o...
2020-12-07
12 min
FriDudes - Getting Real. Pursuing Truth.
What Happens When You Die? Part 1 of 2
To be frank, we haven't tackled this subject enough. What happens after you die? For those that lost loved ones, this is so important for you to hear. You need Hope. You need evidence. Thus far, we've fallen short on discussing proof of life after death. Here you go...Word! We love Hope. FriDudes are in the Hope and encouragement business. It's one thing for a random podcast to give Hope, which by the way I believe is no accident you are listening. How about millions of Americans that can vouch for what happened after they died and befor...
2020-12-04
30 min
FriDudes - Getting Real. Pursuing Truth.
At Times This World Can Really Suck
Yes! You are in. Just you and me today. I know. They'll be back. Casey is blessed with work and a deadline. The other dudes are investing time with their wives and kids. That is how we roll. As we reflect and many have given thanks, there are some of you...actually...a lot of you that are struggling out there. How do I know that? Well, half of our country is medicated..at least. We have an epidemic in our youth with a wave of depression and anxiety like I've never seen before. BTW, that was all before C...
2020-11-29
13 min
FriDudes - Getting Real. Pursuing Truth.
Giving Thanks even if Your Dad is a Bad Driver
Yes! You are in for a little Thanksgiving Treat! Levi (9) and Daulton (9) and sweet little Savannah (6) help bring in some smiles and laughter into this episode. Whether you are listening to this in November or July. This is a Priceless perspective for everyday. Here is your "Play of the Day"So sweet! Thank you Savannah and Daulton and Levi for sharing some light and laughter and perspective on what is a darker Thanksgiving for many.Phil 4: 6-8, that is one of my favorite gotos in trying to find thanks in more challenging times. You lift what yo...
2020-11-25
26 min
FriDudes - Getting Real. Pursuing Truth.
People LOVE to...Judge
Yes! You are in! We humans love to play God. We love to judge. I'm not just talking about atheists either. Almost all of us. You frustrated with people judging you? You like to judge others? Here is your 'Play of the Day'...Words to reflect and live by. Matt 7: 1-6 that is. And please listen to my confession, much easier said than done. The ego loves to control. Humans love to control. Some of you are technically correct. The key question is, are you handling it like Jesus or Pharaoh or a Pharisee? If you are versed and dee...
2020-11-21
26 min
FriDudes - Getting Real. Pursuing Truth.
Deeper: A Look in the Mirror
Deeper is back and Casey has some deep takes. If you are willing to look into the mirror and reflect, here you go...Word! So how are you doing? Are you encouraging or attacking? I'm serious with that question for you and I both. If your ego gets the best of you, welcome to the club which is also the rest of the world. Have you been mocked for your beliefs in Christianity? Well, then you are in good graces. It is exactly what Jesus say will happen to you. Check Matt 5:11 or Luke 6:22.If you are m...
2020-11-16
49 min
FriDudes - Getting Real. Pursuing Truth.
Broken Pieces into Works of Art
Yes! You are in! We love stories of victory. Some of you are feeling absolutely broken. Truth, we are all broken in some way. Need some encouragement or know someone that does, please share this Play of the Day.Word! So good. As the avid listener knows I like to say, easy to debate God. Very, very hard to argue results. FriDudes are in the hope and encouragement business! If you have a testimony of brokenness to wholeness and would like to share on FriDudes, please hit us up at fridudes.com at the contact us page.Play...
2020-11-14
30 min
FriDudes - Getting Real. Pursuing Truth.
Giving Thanks for our Freedoms and Veterans
Whether you are listening to this on 11/11 or many days after, I strive to give thanks everyday for our freedoms and veterans and others that sacrifice for our freedoms. We have veterans in this FriDude mix and beyond like Milk Man, Peter or Young Buck Matt or the other Matt aka Tattoo Matt or aka Mouthy Matt in El Paso, TX.For the listeners in the U.S. and those outside, here is some food for thought. If you listen to some, you would guess that the United States is the worst country in the world. So wha...
2020-11-11
09 min
FriDudes - Getting Real. Pursuing Truth.
Accountability is Annoying!
Accountability is annoying. You really want to step your game up? Learn from what works and what doesn't. This is what we pursue today. Here you go...Word! Hard to argue results, right? When you are stuck and stay stuck, you keep hitting the accelerator and spinning your wheels, the more stuck you get. What if you had some guys on the back. Some on the front, pushing and pulling. What if you had a guy show up with a truck and a tow strap? Of course, that would help. Why are you rejecting that?For those d...
2020-11-06
25 min
FriDudes - Getting Real. Pursuing Truth.
Deeper: The LA Rams vs. The GOAT?
Deeper. Some of you are ready to go Deeper. I don't care how old you are or how long you've been going to Sunday school, there is always something deeper that you can learn. There is always room for improvement. We get into more history, Casey brings more, here you go!Word! So good. Have you ever considered why certain historical figures or events get debated? If you really study it, good vs. evil is behind it. What other force would try to change history that the holocaust never existed, think about it? What other force would try to st...
2020-11-02
46 min
FriDudes - Getting Real. Pursuing Truth.
Stranger Evidence
If you want to know if something is true, the wise will look for evidence or lack there of. That's how our court system works. That's how science works. That is how investigative reporters should work. Here is some 'Stranger Evidence', hard to argue results, here is your play of the day...Word! So, who are you going to encourage this week? Next week? Next month? For the rest of your life? If you dig, we are in the Hope and encouragement business. You know this broken depressed planet needs more Hope. What are you doing about it?R...
2020-10-30
35 min
FriDudes - Getting Real. Pursuing Truth.
Deeper: History and Truth Foretold by Danny Boy
Yes! You are in. We are a bunch of flawed dudes pursuing Truth. Are you walking it like you talk it? Listening to previous intros and I'm going to correct myself. We are flawed so we are going to do that from time to time. Instead of saying that I'm picking on Christians, better to clarify that I'm picking on myself and those like me. I can talk a very good game. How am I walking it? My wife can be one of my toughest critics and I'll say rightfully so. She knows me better than just about anybody. To her and...
2020-10-26
49 min
FriDudes - Getting Real. Pursuing Truth.
Change Your Mind
Yes! You are in. What do you think of when you hear the word repent? If you are like me, your knee-jerk reaction may be to - run! I think of going to Metallica concerts and seeing guys holding signs and screaming repent or hell fire. I never liked those guys. Wrong approach. Jesus did not meet people that way. He met them where they were at, met them with love and asked questions he already knew the answers to. As for repent, I have never heard the word explained this way before. I'm curious if you have? Here is your 'Pl...
2020-10-24
26 min
FriDudes - Getting Real. Pursuing Truth.
When Politics Become Your Religion
Yes! You are in! Politics, man some of you are so obsessed. If not you, then you know who they are. 'Play of the Day' goes back to Pastor Ricky Jenkins on the subject of politics. Here you go...Word! So, are politics your religion? Here is a quick survey that will help answer that for you. 1. Do you invest more time into the news/politics vs. prayer, reading the Bible, being in community, Christian podcasts or music? 2. When you gather with friends/family are you more apt to talk politics or love on them? 3. On social media, are you more apt to r...
2020-10-20
16 min
FriDudes - Getting Real. Pursuing Truth.
Your Choice.
Moving forward, are you a Negative Nelly or a Positive Pete? Guess which one most people like to be around? Hint: most people like being around encouraging people. As for the negatives, misery loves company. So the Owner's Manual of life definitely has something to say about this. Here is your "Play of the Day", back to the Daily Hope well. Full episode details will be available at the end of the show. Here you go..."Why You Need to Think About What You Think About?" Part 1, published on 10/14/20. Go to PastorRick.com/listenWord! So good. ...
2020-10-16
26 min
FriDudes - Getting Real. Pursuing Truth.
Deeper: Why Tough Times for Good People?
Yes! You are in! More Jogging Jesus! Casey speaks to a group of high schoolers at Hosanna, Shakopee, Minnesota, oh yeah, you betcha!!...meeting COVID guidelines of course...if I could have every youth in this world listen to this...I would. For a full-time engineer. He really knows how to be real, raw and shine Light.Word! If you have a teenager or college age kid, will you listen to this with them or share and then discuss? So important. Depression and anxiety are more real and more prevalent than ever these days. If you have either, y...
2020-10-14
33 min
FriDudes - Getting Real. Pursuing Truth.
Worrying is Futile
Yes! You are in! "Worrying is Futile", it is inevitable at times and it is also futile. Unless you have magic powers to change something - you don't. So here is the Play of the Day. Another Dr. Lorrits. If you dig, full show details where you can find that entire message at the end of this episode. Here you go...Word! Joker mentioned Phil 4:8 last week. That you need to Phil 4:8 it. I'll say Phil 4-6-8 it. Do not worry about anything. Pray about anything. There is your worship instead of worry mindset. Turn worry into worship e...
2020-10-09
26 min
FriDudes - Getting Real. Pursuing Truth.
Deeper: Jogging Jesus Speaks...More
You are in. You get a special snack treat today. Way more Jogging Jesus today. This is one of Casey's first sermons. The man has some chops. Amazing that he is a full time engineer. Here is your Play of the Day....Word! Thank you Casey aka Jogging Jesus! Getting Deep and pursuing and shining Truth.I love the way he opened up about the oceans currents and the ways of the world. There are not absolute Truths?! Saying there is no absolute truth is...well...an absolute truth! Put that into your intellectual pipe and smoke i...
2020-10-05
29 min
FriDudes - Getting Real. Pursuing Truth.
Dust off. Stand up. Step in!
You are in! Up top! We have a treat for you today. Ricky Jenkins bringing some serious heat for our 'Play of the Day'!. Check it out. If you dig, the whole message by Ricky will be made available at the end of this pod or can be found on our show page. Word! So good! You see what happens when a bunch of flawed dudes show up and pursue Truth?If we have our 'A' game going we are encouraging you. Then you go out and encourage someone else. Chain effect in full effect. Your choice...
2020-10-02
25 min
FriDudes - Getting Real. Pursuing Truth.
Deeper: Who Is Trying to Steal Your Identity?
Getting deep and calling an audible. We are going to open with a 'Play of the Day', this is Rick Warren from Daily Hope, Don't Let Anyone Steal Your Identity, published 9/25/20, this is from minute 13:30 - 15:45.Word! You looking for a group, hit is up at FriDudes.com 'Contact Us' page. Tell us what you need. Skeptics, we will also challenge you to give us your toughest questions. You can also do that at FriDudes.com or email Casey direct at 10spelledout@gmail.com.So, who are you making priority #1 that defines you. Daniel was clear...
2020-09-29
33 min
FriDudes - Getting Real. Pursuing Truth.
Covenant Amidst the Chaos - Finding Your Thank You's
Thanks for checking in Russia, England, to Virginia to Iowa to California and wherever you are today. Humbled that you would give this rag tag group pursuing Truth a shot. The 'Play of the Day', going back to Pastor Ricky Jenkins. You can find more of him at Southwestchurch.com, this is from "Vision Days, Week 1, Find Your Thank You". 9/21/20. Minute 40:50 - Minute 43:50. Here you go...So good! Pastor Ricky Jenkins is quickly becoming one of my favorites. Mentored by one of my other new favorites, Dr. Bryan Lorrits. Can you find your 'thank yo...
2020-09-25
12 min
FriDudes - Getting Real. Pursuing Truth.
Deeper: What's Your Fire? Which part of life sucks the most?
You want go Deeper? You are in the right place. Any of you going through fires in life, this is your episode. Casey, brings the heart. Buckle Up! Here you go...Deep! If you are looking for a Dudes Group, will you let us know at FriDudes.com. We will help build you up. If you have your own Dudes group and open to taking more, will you let us know? You can also reach Casey direct at 10spelledout@gmail.com. Can you imagine this world with more hope and restoration?Ending on a song note, Case...
2020-09-21
39 min
FriDudes - Getting Real. Pursuing Truth.
Who Are You Trying to Make Happy?
Who Are You Trying to Make Happy? That's what we tackle this week. 'Play of the Day' goes to Jace Robertson and the 'Unashamed' podcast. Here you go...Short and sweet! Just like the Play of the Day. BTW, if you would like to hear more of Jace. You can find them at the 'Unashamed' podcast. That quip was from the tail end of Episode 144. Comment comes at tail end after Phil shares a young woman declaring that she was going to start putting Jesus first over her worship of politics.BTW, whichever side you may fall...
2020-09-18
17 min
FriDudes - Getting Real. Pursuing Truth.
Deeper: Daniel 3, Are You Kidding Me?!
Deeper! Back at it and digging deep for some more truth and perspective. Casey has some more nuggets for you and you can hear him strive to get them in for you. In due time, here you go...Word! Did you ever think we could get this much material out of just a few chapters? The Owner's Manual says to be slow and soak up the Word. Meditate on it. For that reason, we are not rushing through it. Think about a fine wine. An expert will not slam it. Slow. Or Christmas gifts around the tree. ...
2020-09-14
32 min
FriDudes - Getting Real. Pursuing Truth.
Drowning? Talking best practices on how to rise up.
What up? You walking it like you talk it? Stepping up, loving God and better loving and serving others. 9/11 today and a humble reminder of another dark day and time. So what ever darkness or pit you are experiencing, question, did we move forward? Did good come out of bad? Depends on your perspective. I absolutely saw good come out of bad. If in doubt, check out the deeper series. For now, Rom 8:28 is your promise. God will make good out of bad...for those that seek Him. God is in the Hope business. If you are looking for encouragemen...
2020-09-11
29 min
FriDudes - Getting Real. Pursuing Truth.
Deeper: Daniel 2 Leads to Who?!
Welcome back to the Deeper Series! If you are new to the series, you can find three more Deeper episodes preceding this one. Debut episode was on August 18, 2020. Casey has some cool nuggets that I hope will blow your mind. You think the Bible isn't historical. Well, here you go history buffs...Word! Thank you Jogging Jesus...aka Casey. You down? Depressed? You are not alone. Please don't believe those lies in your head that you don't matter. You absolutely matter! Look how God rises up Daniel from the depths of despair. God uses tough times and bad...
2020-09-08
35 min
FriDudes - Getting Real. Pursuing Truth.
Are You More Horizontal or Vertical?
Alright! Thanks for checking in CA, MI, KS, OH, TX and wherever you may be today. You are not listening to this by accident. Most of you are very striving to get more real and pursue some Truth. Implement what works on this broken planet and avoid what doesn't. We got 2 plays of the week for you! 2! Double your money. Going to start off things with Gemechis Buba talking about 'Horizontal vs. Vertical' thinking and your mindset in life. Then going to relay it back to Dr. Bryan Lorrits. He is quickly becoming an All-Star FriDude and a favorite here. You...
2020-09-05
12 min
FriDudes - Getting Real. Pursuing Truth.
Deeper: Daniel Who?!
You ready to go Deeper? If yes, you are in the right place. We are going to talk about a dude named Daniel and the crap sandwich he was given. You think life is unfair? Check out Daniel. Then check out the greatness that comes out of that darkness. Here you go...Word! Thank you Casey! If you are feeling down or heavy, welcome to the club. Casey wanted to make sure to encourage you. What we tackle is heavy but the end of the story is triumphant and amazing. We are set free by Jesus in John 3:16-1...
2020-08-31
33 min
FriDudes - Getting Real. Pursuing Truth.
You Really Want Change?
You are in! For those coming back, you are either on the Hope train or striving to find it. As frustrating as this world can be, there is Truth and Hope for those willing to read and listen. Man, shootings and riots and Covid and __________. You want change? It starts in the heart. So what's feeding your heart? Is your heart bitter or are you looking for what's better? This week, we are going back to the Ricky Jenkins Well, Pastor of Southwest Church in Indian Wells, CA. If you dig, stick around and we'll share where you can hear his entir...
2020-08-28
31 min
FriDudes - Getting Real. Pursuing Truth.
Deeper: Why?
What are your toughest questions?How do we know the Bible is true?Which books of the Bible befuddle you the most?The 'Deeper Series' continues. Jogging Jesus is back. We discuss 'Why'. One more appetizer before we get intoto some main courses. Let's go...Thanks for joining us this week. You want IN? What's your toughest question. Can you let us know? Just hit us up at the 'Contact Us' page at FriDudes.com. How do we know this is true? One, I don't want to waste my time or yours. I'm...
2020-08-24
31 min
FriDudes - Getting Real. Pursuing Truth.
What in the World is Going On?!
Hey, hey, hey! Special shout out to our listeners in Pakistan and Ireland and in Virgina and California to name a few. Wherever you may be today, I bet many of you are asking "What in the world is going on?!" You've been beat down? For those that have stuck with us long enough, you will be challenged. You are not listening to this by accident. You have a purpose and we will encourage you. For today, we are going back to the Dr. Bryan Lorrits well. He helps explain how we can be different during the tougher times on this bro...
2020-08-22
33 min
FriDudes - Getting Real. Pursuing Truth.
Deeper: Getting Ready
Welcome to the 'Deeper Series'. We alluded to it in the Fringe 10 episode. Some of you are ready or are already deeper. We are going to dig deeper. In search of more wisdom and truth. This episode more sets the stage. Make not mistake...we will be going deep. Thanks for giving it a shot. Now, you may know us a bit better. Next up, we are going to better tackle 'Why' of deeper. Can't wait to share those insights with you...stay tuned. Ending on a song note, Casey's choice, this is Cody Davenport, "Set a Fire". Sta...
2020-08-18
29 min
FriDudes - Getting Real. Pursuing Truth.
Is Forgiveness Weak?
Alright, on to a deeper path. Do you think forgiveness is weak? If yes, I will say you are in the majority. If you are in the majority, does that make you right? Deep! Put that in your 'I'm always right pipe" and smoke it. We discuss it. Flawed dudes, striving for Truth and wisdom. Here you go!Word! Thank you for joining this week. Do you feel a bit wiser? I hope so. That is our goal. Truth works. So, what hurt are you holding on to like a blankey? Many of you haven't thought of it that way hav...
2020-08-14
27 min
FriDudes - Getting Real. Pursuing Truth.
How are we Doing?
Well hello! Thank you for giving this rag-tag-bunch of flawed dudes a shot as they pursue Truth. Thank you for your willingness to pursue Truth. What works in life and what doesn't. When it is worthy, thank you so much for sharing this podcast. Special shout out to the UK, India, New York, Virginia and wherever you may be today. How are we doing is the question. How are we doing with this flawed podcast. How are you doing? How are we doing as a world? Depending on your news source, you may be very well in deep depr...
2020-08-11
03 min
FriDudes - Getting Real. Pursuing Truth.
Best Of...Fringe 8: Patrick
Well hello! Thank you for giving this rag-tag-bunch of flawed dudes a shot as they pursue Truth. Thank you for your willingness to pursue Truth. What works in life and what doesn't. When it is worthy, thank you so much for sharing this podcast. Special shout out to the UK, India, New York, Virginia and wherever you may be today. How are we doing is the question. How are we doing with this flawed podcast. How are you doing? How are we doing as a world? Depending on your news source, you may be very well in deep depr...
2020-08-11
56 min
FriDudes - Getting Real. Pursuing Truth.
Give It Away, Give It Away, Give It Away Now!
Good day! Well, last week we tackled the Prosperity Gospel. Tackling frustrations with churches and pastors obsessed with money over heart. As per Casey's suggestion, what about the other side? Are you frustrated with this world and want to change it for the better? Giving to churches and non-profits that are helping serve the poor and encouraging and building people up and the greater community, sharing the true gospel? Some very interesting case studies and takes on how others give and receive. Word! Thanks for joining this week. Let me say something a bit counterintuitive, personally, I'm not telli...
2020-08-08
41 min
FriDudes - Getting Real. Pursuing Truth.
Best Of...The Fringe: Don't be a...Preface
#2 most-listened-to-episode of the popular 'Fringe' series. For those new, what is the Fringe? Those on the sidelines or off the grid of Christianity due to frustration and hypocrisy. So if you are frustrated on the religious front? Do you know someone that is being a dick in person or on social media? This is your listen. And perhaps an episode you can share with the one that frustrates you. So, without further ado, the very next episode is the Best of...Don't Be a Dick episode in its entirety.
2020-08-06
01 min
FriDudes - Getting Real. Pursuing Truth.
Best Of The Fringe...Don't be a Dick
#2 most-listened-to-episode of the popular 'Fringe' series. For those new, what is the Fringe? Those on the sidelines or off the grid of Christianity due to frustration and hypocrisy. So if you are frustrated on the religious front? Do you know someone that is being a dick in person or on social media? This is your listen. And perhaps an episode you can share with the one that frustrates you. So, without further ado, the very next episode is the Best of...Don't Be a Dick episode in its entirety.
2020-08-06
34 min
FriDudes - Getting Real. Pursuing Truth.
Money, Health vs. Love and Truth
Although technically this is not a 'Fringe' episode, how many of you are frustrated with churches/pastors being more about money? Well, this is your listen. Some call it the 'Prosperity Gospel' and it draws in many and pushes away many. Here you go...Heck, my wife and I don't agree on everything. I do take his words seriously and I will further vett this. Just know it is okay to question. Faith does not exist without doubt. May a pastor never be considered greater than Jesus. May a building never become greater than the Bible. You heard me say it before...
2020-08-01
50 min
FriDudes - Getting Real. Pursuing Truth.
Fringe 10: Knock It Off!
Yes, Fringe, you are hanging in there and do we have a grand finale of fireworks for you! Vaquero brings it! For those frustrated with too much religion, stumbling blocks and not enough heart, here you go...Word! Thank you Vaquero. Thank you for the ride of ups and downs. Thank you for your heart and insights. Thank you Fringe for sticking with us, even when we don't always agree. As we discussed, Jesus was very frustrated with the religious elite. In fact, it was the religious elite that nailed Jesus to the cross. So if you have been...
2020-07-28
51 min
FriDudes - Getting Real. Pursuing Truth.
Operation: Bitter or Better?
Thanks for joining us this week. You frustrated with others lately? Angry? Depressed? Anxious? This is your listen. If not, you know someone that is and perhaps you can share and help encourage them? Here you go...Word! You ready to change what you can change? G has a blueprint and program that works. If you would like to join and help shape the program and yourself, please sign up at FriDudes.com and put in the message box, "Operations: Bitter or Better". You cannot control everything around you. You can definitely control you and how you react. That...
2020-07-25
40 min
FriDudes - Getting Real. Pursuing Truth.
Best Of...The Fringe: Preface
Are you frustrated with religion? Welcome! This is your episode. I love Vaquero's heart on this one. It is the most listened to episode of the Fringe. Give it a shot. If you know anyone frustrated with religion, will you please share?
2020-07-21
01 min
FriDudes - Getting Real. Pursuing Truth.
Best Of...The Fringe: A Critical Look at Religion
If you are frustrated with religion, this is your episode. A critical take from a PK (pastor's kid). As of 7/21/20, this is the most listened to Fringe episode. If you dig, can you please share with anyone else you know that is frustrated with religion?
2020-07-21
32 min
FriDudes - Getting Real. Pursuing Truth.
Greetings from Avalon Beach
Greetings and refections from Avalon Beach.
2020-07-17
03 min
FriDudes - Getting Real. Pursuing Truth.
Best Of...Phil and Amy
What works and doesn't in marriage.
2020-07-17
42 min
FriDudes - Getting Real. Pursuing Truth.
Rules vs. Love
Yes! You're here. Question for you? You ever feel like you were judged for not following the rules? Ever been frustrated with the moral police? Has it kept you from church or avoiding certain family members? This is your episode. Here you go...Rules. Okay, rule followers, yes, we do need structure. Structure does help. Society and order are nice to have. You know who else has a lot of rules and order? North Korea, China, Iran, Saudi Arabia. Do you want more rules or do you want more heart? Do you enjoy being married to an a-hole that ne...
2020-07-10
35 min
FriDudes - Getting Real. Pursuing Truth.
Strange Love
Yes! You are in! You ready for some strange love? This is one of the best messages I have ever heard on the subject of love. So good, that is my dream that all in this world will hear it, understand it and best of all practice it...Strange Love by Dr. Lorrits…Amazing! Strange Love. You need it. I need it. They need it. Everyone needs it. You want to live in a fractious home or society? Of course not. Christians, it should start with you. You are commanded to do this…strange love. You may th...
2020-07-04
46 min
FriDudes - Getting Real. Pursuing Truth.
Please Don't Kill Math
Preface: At FriDudes we seek truth. What works and doesn't in life. You'll also see that we admit we are flawed. Truth, we are all flawed to some degree. Hence, why we need guidance and seek wisdom. Sometimes we get it right. Sometimes we get it wrong. As for this editorial opinion, some FriDudes may agree with me, some may not. May we never cease to pursue Truth. Here you go...Please don't kill math! "But, I just feel..." Emotions and feelings over statistics can be a scary thing. Wait, is this a Christian or...
2020-06-27
17 min
FriDudes - Getting Real. Pursuing Truth.
Fathers, Flaws, Jon, Denzel, Maya and The Way: What works and doesn't in life.
Yes, you pushed play and you are about to receive a gift. Some of you had terrible or absent Dads. There is hope and you are not done yet. What works in life and what doesn't, we pursue Truth, here you go...Man! So good! Thank you Dad! Skeptic, how many societal problems could we solve with men like that? This is the Order. We have the blue print. Yet, as humans we love to do it 'our' or 'my' way. God's way works...if you are properly tuned in. Getting the pull to some of you that didn't...
2020-06-19
50 min
FriDudes - Getting Real. Pursuing Truth.
Fringe 9: Down but Not Out
Another look at race, legislation, solutions, hearts, the Fringe, Christianity.
2020-06-17
29 min
FriDudes - Getting Real. Pursuing Truth.
Are You Afraid to Die?
Are you afraid to die? If you say yes, you are the majority of this world. This group is clearly not the majority. Their answers may very well surprise you. Why? Here you go...Thanks for joining FriDudes this week. Are you still afraid to die? It's okay. It just means you are human and not sure of all this. Or maybe you're sure or kind a sure yet you are having a good time on this broken planet. As hard as life can be on this earth, and yes it can be brutal and some of you have l...
2020-06-13
37 min
FriDudes - Getting Real. Pursuing Truth.
Do You Really Want to Solve Social Injustice?
First of all, what is social justice? What does that mean? We humans love to brand things. According to Oxford Languages Dictionary...justice in terms of the distribution of wealth, opportunities, and privileges within a society."individuality gives way to the struggle for social justice"If you listen to the previous episode, you'll hear HotRod question why we are talking about fathers or stats when we should laser focus on social justice right now. So, do we really want the solution to social justice? Do we...
2020-06-10
15 min
FriDudes - Getting Real. Pursuing Truth.
Viva Denzel Washington...and Fathers Stepping Up!
Despite the mayhem, you are here! Thank you! We strive for peace. We strive for solutions to racial harmony and justice. We start off with some wise words from Denzel Washington. Here you go...Word! Thank you Mr. Denzel Washington and your words on the importance of fathers in the home. That is part of the solution. As for us, we are flawed Dudes seeking Truth. Sometimes we get it right, sometimes wrong. Ideally, and this is the operative word 'ideally', a father (properly tuned in) will help guide and raise the child in the way they should go...
2020-06-06
32 min
FriDudes - Getting Real. Pursuing Truth.
Fringe 8: Patrick from Minneapolis, Facing White Supremacists, Anarchists and AR-15s
Despite the mayhem, you are back! Thanks for joining another special sesh. Racists, white supremacists, anarchists causing hurt and destruction. On the other side, you got people like Patrick. I believe he is part of the solution. Pulling night shifts with his neighbors, loving and protecting in N Minneapolis. Word! Fringe you can debate God and Jesus and best path forward, very, very hard to argue results. Do you want a world with more hate or more love? Do you want a selfish/a-hole as a neighbor or someone like Patrick or Vaquero? If Patrick, he would stay up wi...
2020-06-02
56 min
FriDudes - Getting Real. Pursuing Truth.
George, Racism and Destruction
Heavy week at FriDudes as many of these guys live in the Minneapolis/St, Paul area. George Floyd's life was taken and a societal bomb went off in the Twin City area and beyond. What do we have to say about racism? Here you go...Thanks for joining us on this heavy week. We will tackle brutal. We will tackle the biggest problems that ravage our world. What if we all did that? What if we all stood for peace and love and harmony? If you are a Christian, that is your mandate. If you know a Christian...
2020-05-30
27 min
FriDudes - Getting Real. Pursuing Truth.
Fringe 7: What Happens When We Get It Wrong?
Yes! Vaquero Guapo is back! You are in. Fringe 7. What happens when we get it wrong? Thanks for joining the Fringe this week. What happens when we get it wrong? A lot! It's why many of you have stayed away from church. A church becomes more about jumping through hoops or protecting the abuser vs. the abused. It can go sideways fast. That's why I firmly believe in the separation of church and state, and that's coming from a Jesus believer. For your favorite Fringer that you know has been pushed away or ran away from church, would you sh...
2020-05-27
27 min
FriDudes - Getting Real. Pursuing Truth.
Kicking It Old School
Welcome back to FriDudes. Bunch of flawed dudes getting real and pursuing Truth. Today we go Old School. Reflecting on what happened and was written thousands of years ago and how it applies and helps us better understand what you are going though right now. Thanks for joining us this week. It an honor to reflect with these Dudes. Did you hear their wisdom? Versed and wise. This is what we strive for...what works and doesn't in life learning from kings and prophets thousands of years ago that still applies today in life. Knowledge is one thing. W...
2020-05-23
27 min
FriDudes - Getting Real. Pursuing Truth.
The COVID Quandary
Welcome back to a special edition and recording for a COVID update. Warning this is part reported fact and part opinion/reflection. These are my reflections and not of all the Dudes. That I can promise you. Fringe lovers, no worries, we'll get Vaquero Guapo back. He has some work to do at his real job. Contrary to what many of you may think with this amazing production quality, sarcasm alert, this is not our daytime job. We don't make a dime. In fact, it costs us money and time. We won't be quitting our day time jobs soon.19th...
2020-05-19
12 min
FriDudes - Getting Real. Pursuing Truth.
To Live or Not to Live
Heat! If you make it to the end, you are going to hear some carolina and ghost pepper talk. How passionate are you for life? For those that say one death is one too many, you are going to be challenged. This is a test. Here you go...Whether you are missing church like Jared or experiencing frustration with a bunch of entitled, crabby people crammed in a space demanding their food or you miss just hanging in a bar with some buds, burgers and suds, you are not alone. We are all sacrificing to a certain degree...
2020-05-15
32 min
FriDudes - Getting Real. Pursuing Truth.
Fringe 6: What's the diff between Santa and Jesus?
Oh man, I can't believe it. You are back! Two weeks of eating vegetables and the darkness of politics and you are still here?! Yes! The good news, we are moving forward...Word! Thanks for joining the Fringe this week. Thank you Vaquero! That was a breath of fresh air. We are not afraid to take the tough/crticical questions. How about you? Think about your friend family member or colleague that is super defensive. I guarantee you the more defensive the more insecure. A well educated and versed individual will listen, cross examine in a logical, truthful way...
2020-05-13
37 min
FriDudes - Getting Real. Pursuing Truth.
Fighting for a Job and/or ___________?
Love these Dudes! Do you have that group that will strengthen you in a great way? You have a group where you can go DEEP? Talk life/marriage/family best practices? What works in life, what doesn't? You looking for a job? Perfect. This pod's for you! Here you go...Word! Love these Dudes! And we care for you and thank you for giving us a shot. If you made it this far, odds are you feel stronger. You feel more 'gung ho' to tackle the day. Each day is a gift. Even in the toughest of times. For it...
2020-05-08
31 min
FriDudes - Getting Real. Pursuing Truth.
Fringe 5: Woke to Awake
Welcome to Fringe 5 and a shot at redemption. Listen, when you attempt to tackle politics, one can fall and get hurt at times. We won't stay here forever. Just have some very important bridge builders to contemplate with Woke to Awake. Here you go!Thanks for joining the Fringe this week. Love that Vaquero Guapo! He is great quality control for me. Point. Counterpoint. Point. Counterpoint, Well for some on the fringe, hopefully you learned that not all "Christians" are as far right as you thought. We are called to care about this earth, the poor, the widows, huma...
2020-05-06
34 min
FriDudes - Getting Real. Pursuing Truth.
Impact Like Mike
Yes! Welcome back to FriDudes and good to see you again! Oh hey, you’re new. You need a lift? Striving to better understand this broken planet? Need some hope amidst hopelessness? You have the right pod. Today, we give tribute to Mike. A good reflection for you and your own life. Mike bet on hope. Mike impacted/encouraged many. How about you? Here you go...Deep! Thank you Bold Brian! Thank you Mike for your impact. Thank you that God can use a man that most listening to this didn't even know and it still inspires them to be better...
2020-05-02
29 min
FriDudes - Getting Real. Pursuing Truth.
The Fringe: Eating Vaquero Vegetables
Oh no, you clicked play on this one. I'm not sure you want to listen. It's going to get really uncomfortable. I'm warning you, if you are weak or thin-skinned please bail right now. Fine, ok, you want to stick around. That's on you. We are going to eat some Vaquero vegetables. Here you go...Ummmmm, can I have some dessert please to help wash down the taste of these vegetables? Thanks for joining this week. You fall somewhere on this political spectrum. Wherever you fall, are you at peace or angry. Based on recent comments, the media and s...
2020-04-29
36 min
FriDudes - Getting Real. Pursuing Truth.
Hopelessness Sucks!
Oh yeaaaaaah! You are in! The Deeper side of FriDudes as we take a hard look and strive to make sense of this broken planet. What works in life and what doesn't.Thanks again for joining us this week. If you made it this far, I bet you feel lighter. Hopefully a bit wiser. Some of you have been affected by COVID-19 big time! You or someone you know is fighting for their lives or livelihoods. Truth, this is Life. Prior to COVID-19 we had people fighting for their lives or livelihoods or painfully experience major loss. Certain Du...
2020-04-17
35 min
FriDudes - Getting Real. Pursuing Truth.
The Fringe: Ruffling Feathers
Thanks for joining the Fringe this week. There's plenty on this segment to think about. Why do you always want more? Why do you always want to be right? Why are we willing to be so right that we will damage a relationship for it? Skeptics let me equip you some more. If you know someone that calls themself a Christian yet is boastful/strongly opinionated ask them the following. 1. You are a Christian right? 2. You believe in this Jesus Dude? 3. What did he say were the two greatest commandments? (pause, wait and see if they actually know the answer to it...
2020-04-15
31 min
FriDudes - Getting Real. Pursuing Truth.
Easter: Hope vs. Hopelessness
Right on! You pushed play. You're back! Special thanks to those joining for the first time. Special edition today. Easter - Good Friday FriDude edition. Many of you know the history. Some of you have read it. I bet most of you have not heard it read like this. Here you go...Word! Word backed up with real results. Real case studies. You can debate history. Very hard to argue results. Can you argue having more G's and Jeff's in the world? Striving to be better husbands and fathers and neighbors. This world needs more G's and Jeff's and you s...
2020-04-10
53 min
FriDudes - Getting Real. Pursuing Truth.
The Fringe: Thou Shall Not Be a Dick
Yes! Welcome back to the Fringe series. As we further delve, this is going to get more uncomfortable. We look at the good, bad and the ugly. If you are looking for a squeaky clean, perfect pod, you've got the wrong one. Here you go...Thank you so much for joining The Fringe this week. We are real. We are raw. NZ Emily is right, we really do care and we try to see this and empathize with both sides of the Fringe. We are not afraid to look in the mirror. How about you? You willing to admit when you are wro...
2020-04-08
34 min
FriDudes - Getting Real. Pursuing Truth.
Do We Really Want to Raise a Bunch of Brats and Narcissists?
Welcome back to FriDudes! May what you are about to listen make you and those you love stronger. If not, we don't deserve your return. That's the truth Ruth. Here you go...Word! Thank you so much for joining us. Do you feel a bit stronger? A bit lighter, better. If so, can you share it with the ones you know could you use a lift? Maybe even create your own Dudes group. Back to the thick of it, tough times suck. So does lifting weights or running farther than you have ever before or studying for a law degre...
2020-04-04
38 min
FriDudes - Getting Real. Pursuing Truth.
The Fringe: A Critical Look at Religion (Take from a PK)
Yes! You clicked play. Thank you so much for giving the Fringe Series a shot. If you are frustrated with religion, this is your podcast. We are going to take a hard look. Tackle the brutal that has pushed many of you away. Here you go...
2020-04-01
32 min
FriDudes - Getting Real. Pursuing Truth.
How Do I Know What's True?
Yes! You are back! Thank you!! Thank you for sharing! First timers, welcome! Buckle up. You are about to listen to a bunch of flawed Dudes striving to figure out this broken planet and what is True. Here you go...Word! Thanks again for your repeated listens and sharing. Whether you believe in God or not, do you believe this world would be a better place with more love? Taking care of each other? That is what we do. You can crack on religion. ...
2020-03-27
35 min
FriDudes - Getting Real. Pursuing Truth.
Another HypoChristian?
Thank you so much for joining us at FriDudes! You keep coming back! Despite our flaws. Together, we seek Truth. Well, we are Virtual FriDudes this week due to COVID 19. We are living history. Since we are virtual, maybe you'll join us someday. Would love to have listener input and questions. If interested, stick around for my email at the end of the show. Deep. Dark. Light. You could feel the somberness, no? Even the strong in Faith will be challenged. We will...
2020-03-20
27 min
FriDudes - Getting Real. Pursuing Truth.
Freaking Out and Fully Known
Welcome back to FriDudes! Bunch of flawed dudes getting real and pursuing Truth. For the newbies, thank you so much for giving us a shot. As for the understatement of perhaps year if not decade, very interesting times lately. We are living history. Here you go...Thank you so much for joining us. Special thanks to Vaquero Guapo to help set those free that are bogged down in some worry, anxiety or depression. You are not alone. Tough times will test the best of us. As stated, just ask Peter. If he can freak out and do...
2020-03-13
29 min
FriDudes - Getting Real. Pursuing Truth.
Why to Believe in God? Or Why Not?!
What? Your back again? Thanks for coming back. If you are new with us, thanks for giving us a shot. This pod is a bunch of flawed dudes getting real and pursuing Truth. This week, Bold Brian comes back profoundly. He had a wake up call at 3AM and a major download. Now, you get to listen to it, share it, validate it or debate it. Whoa! Bold Brian! Okay skeptic, Brian is either crazy or that was absolutely a download from God. I'm betting on the latter. As Rockin Rick astutely observed, is what Brian saying matching wit...
2020-03-06
36 min
FriDudes - Getting Real. Pursuing Truth.
Coronavirus Breakdown
Welcome to a special edition of FriDudes. Today, just one dude, DJTommyP, getting real and pursuing Truth. Why? Well, I was on the road, CO, UT and AZ this week for work. So I don’t have the luxury of the other dudes to lean on. So, solo special this week. As I fly and see more people in protective masks more than ever, we are going to tackle coronavirus this week. You can’t avoid it in social media or conversation - it is everywhere! Growing up with the threats of Zika, SARS and other vi...
2020-02-29
15 min
FriDudes - Getting Real. Pursuing Truth.
Why Can Marriage be so Hard? If You Haven't Had Issues, You Haven't Been Married Long Enough
Thanks for joining FriDudes this week! Bunch of flawed dudes getting real and pursuing Truth. If you are married or want to get married, buckle up. This is your episode. Right on! You can debate God. Very, very hard to argue results. If you are married, you will have storms. If you tell me everything is perfect, amazing, puppy dogs and fairy tales, I'm going to tell you that is a red flag. You haven't been married long enough. Speaking of logic and Truth, I have the stats to back me up. In our society, 50+% of first marriages di...
2020-02-21
32 min
FriDudes - Getting Real. Pursuing Truth.
Love Letters
Thanks for joining us at FriDudes! We are a bunch of flawed guys getting real and pursuing Truth. What works in life and not. Today is St. Valentine's Day, so of course we continue talking about love. No matter how hard and cold you or someone that you know may be, you/they are wired for love. We get into what many say is the greatest Valentine's promise ever. Stick with us and Strong John ends with a love letter from his Grandma - brilliant!Love is greatest of all. Some of you listening are down and out. P...
2020-02-14
36 min
FriDudes - Getting Real. Pursuing Truth.
LOVE is a Choice?
LOVE - one of the best topics to discuss. Everyone wants it. We are all wired for it. Whether you are married or not, have kids or not, this applies to you. Truth, love requires work and action. Whether you are hopeless right now or hopeful, this listen is for you. Love will give you/increase your hope. So good! Thank you for joining this week. Whether you agree with everything stated in this episode, I can guarantee you one thing. You want to be loved. Whether you want to admit it or not. You are wired to be loved...
2020-02-07
32 min
FriDudes - Getting Real. Pursuing Truth.
Tackling Abuse and Molestation: Making Lemonade Out of Lemons.
Thank you for joining us at FriDudes. Where you get to listen to a bunch of flawed dudes getting real and pursuing Truth - what works and doesn't in life. This week, John (age 28), steps up to talk about his trauma as a child (being abused and molested). Either you or someone you know needs to listen to this. For any weighed down on this front, you are definitely not alone. Lifting it will bring you strength...check it out...Man, thank you so much John for leading the charge this week. When something goes bad in life...
2020-01-31
35 min
FriDudes - Getting Real. Pursuing Truth.
Put That in Your Spiritual Pipe and Smoke It
Hey, welcome back to FriDudes! For those joining us for the first time, thanks for giving us a shot. Disclaimer, we are a bunch of flawed dudes pursuing Truth. Not everything that comes out of our mouths is right. Normally, I'm pumped to post up an episode like 'Bold Brian'. This week I feel heavy. We tackle abortion. If you boldly listen, can you do me a favor and make sure to listen until the very end for my recap? HINT: the above title aims at Christians (or better stated HypoChristians) that love to pick on others flaws without considering their own...
2020-01-24
28 min
FriDudes - Getting Real. Pursuing Truth.
Bold Brian! How to Deal with a Brain Injury/Disease...
Thanks for joining us at FriDudes! This week we are led by Bold Brian. Forgive me as we had some recording challenges in the beginning, but we got most of his story on his brain injury and how he is handling it. Very moving! Powerful! We end in a showdown between Rockin Rick Ravage and Vaquero Guapo. Listen in and judge for yourself. Here you go...Wow! First and foremost, thank you Bold Brian for opening this podcast with impact. Some of you know someone dealing with a brain injury or dementia or alzheimer's or ____________. Maybe it's you...
2020-01-17
40 min
FriDudes - Getting Real. Pursuing Truth.
You Wanna Fight?!
Welcome back to FriDudes...where we strive to Walk it like we Talk it. Bunch of Flawed Dudes getting real and pursuing Truth. This week, with Iran in the news and constant shootings, we ask and tackle why do we fight? And picking on the "Christians" and those that call themselves that, we should be fighting a lot less if we follow what we are commanded. Thanks for joning and check it out....Thanks for joining the FriDudes this week. BTW, whether in person or via pod, you are a FriDude...
2020-01-10
27 min
FriDudes - Getting Real. Pursuing Truth.
Do you Netlix and Chill?
Welcome back to FriDudes or aka FlawedDudes, getting real and pursuing Truth. Do you Netlix and chill? Ha! I swear to you, often I have no idea what we are going to talk about. We went from Acts 4 to Netlix in an instant. Whether you agree with Rockin' Rick or not. Make sure to listen all the way through then make a call.
2020-01-03
26 min
FriDudes - Getting Real. Pursuing Truth.
I don't wanna go!
Welcome back to FriDudes! For you first-timers, buckle up. We are a bunch of Flawed Dudes, getting real and pursuing Truth. This week we tackle 'I don't wanna go!' Most of you didn't or still don't want to go to church. Maybe the church sucked or maybe you just aren't/weren't ever in the mood. Maybe you think this is a complete waste of time. We talk about our kids but make no mistake. We are talking you and me as well. Most, if not all of us go through this season of the 'Church of Me' and doubt.
2019-12-27
42 min
FriDudes - Getting Real. Pursuing Truth.
Kids and Christmas Special...Hope and Light for All!
Merry Christmas and welcome to a very special, bonus kid edition of FriDudes. Some select brave and bold kids will be reading the original Christmas story. I love the innocence and sweetness of their voices. As for us parents, you know your heart for your kids. Share this listen with them and discuss? As I like to say, this story is either totally true or bull. You get to choose. I choose true. If true, then this is one of the most important lessons we can teach our kids. As Rod says, we bet on hope. This is a message an...
2019-12-23
32 min
FriDudes - Getting Real. Pursuing Truth.
God's not in a hurry.
Leading into Christmas. We take a look at the beginning of Matthew. A long, long, time ago, there was a savior/messiah promised. The greatest names back in history that the Jewish, Muslim and Christian faiths admire (Moses, David, Isaiah, etc.) prophesied this would happen. Many, many years it happened. Our own calendars reflect it. Today, you get to choose.
2019-12-20
38 min
FriDudes - Getting Real. Pursuing Truth.
I don't want to freak you out.
Bless your hearts that want to share with and encourage others. If you are hesitant, you are absolutely not alone. You don't want to freak people out. On the flip side, you don't want to miss an opportunity to encourage someone. Reminds me of the time Rick shared on seeing a mutual friend of his wife's. They small talked and one week later that guy died. Rick regretted/wondered if should have share more/offer prayer. I feel him. Personally, I've missed many opportunities by being in a hurry or chickening out. When in doubt, pray, serve them in love, the...
2019-12-13
39 min
FriDudes - Getting Real. Pursuing Truth.
God, Why Don't You Always Heal? Why Is Life So Hard? No more tears.
If we are bringing our A game, you should be stronger after every listen. If not, we don't deserve you. For the Christian believers to the atheist/skeptics, there will be points in life in which you ask why. God, if you are real, why do kids get cancer? Why did my loved ones have to die? Why are things so hard for me and easier for others? These are legit questions. Please know even Jesus asked why. Google Matt 27:46. Life on this earth can/will be brutal. This is a broken planet. The greatest people in the Bible all had har...
2019-12-06
42 min
FriDudes - Getting Real. Pursuing Truth.
Phil and Amy: A Marriage Case Study...What Works...What Didn't
Phil and Amy have been married for 14+ years and counting. They have three young children. They get real about the challenges of marriage. How they started out awesome and then found themselves in a very dark/challenging spot. They courageously share what works in their marriage and what didn't.
2019-11-27
42 min
FriDudes - Getting Real. Pursuing Truth.
Truth. What pushes you away?
A hard look at religion and what pushes people away. On the flip side, what keeps others coming back. We discuss Truth and the gospel. What really is the Good News? Why is it so simple yet we humans make it so complicated?
2019-11-22
38 min
FriDudes - Getting Real. Pursuing Truth.
Taking a Bitterness/Poison Pill and Hoping the Offender Dies First
Thanks for joining FriDudes this week. This week we tackle bitterness. If you have lived on this planet long enough, you have been hurt by others. In some cases, really hurt maybe even brutally hurt. In this sesh, we ask what are you doing with that hurt? How much time/attention do you invest into the hurt/negatives vs. the positives in your life? That's the paradigm shift. Some hurts are so profound that you won't forget. We tackle what do with those hurts. If you embrace grudges and bitterness...
2019-11-15
30 min
FriDudes - Getting Real. Pursuing Truth.
Would You Want to be Married to YOU?!
Would You Want to be Married to YOU?! Love this question. When we get into a disagreement or especially when we attempt to justify divorce, we point the fingers at the other side. This question makes you look in the mirror. We discuss this. What has worked in our marriages and what has not.
2019-11-01
42 min
FriDudes - Getting Real. Pursuing Truth.
Dreaming vs. Making It Happen
Welcome back to FriDudes, a bunch of flawed dudes getting real and seeking truth. Question, do you really want positive change in your life? This week we talk about the importance of writing stuff down and sharing with trusted others to hold ourselves accountable. Give it a listen, then start writing down and doing. Otherwise, as Tim astutely states, it's just a dream.
2019-10-25
42 min
FriDudes - Getting Real. Pursuing Truth.
Addiction and Pride
Wow! Heavy lift session, the price and challenge of addiction and pride, as several in this group needed to stop using and/or drinking or ____________. Hey, it's very easy to debate if God exists or not. It is very hard to argue results. Many of these FriDudes saved and fortified their marriages by breaking the chains of addiction and/or destructive behavior. Some were too little too late. You can learn from their mistakes as well. Give it a lesson and please feel free to share with others that have changed or want to change for the better. Tune into what...
2019-10-18
38 min
FriDudes - Getting Real. Pursuing Truth.
Bullies
Bullies! A bunch of flawed dudes discuss bullies and how to address. High road? Low road? Take a hit. Strike back?
2019-10-11
44 min
FriDudes - Getting Real. Pursuing Truth.
Real Change. Positive Impact...in North Minneapolis.
Getting real with Patrick Ray! We talk about hypocrisy of certain churches chasing money vs. churches that strive for real, positive impact in their neighborhoods. Patrick shares on what he sees not working and what does in his North Minneapolis neighborhood.
2019-10-05
44 min