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School Of Attraction PodcastA Female Dating Coach's Perspective - How To Approach Women?In this powerful and no-fluff episode, Damien sits down with world-renowned relationship expert Susan Winter to dismantle the outdated myths holding men back in modern dating. From why confidence without authenticity turns women off, to how practicing with zero-pressure conversations can transform your social life, this episode is packed with gold. Susan shares insights from her decades of coaching, media appearances, and bestselling books to help you finally understand what women really want—and why your mindset matters more than your pickup lines. Whether you’re shy, introverted, or just tired of dating apps, t...2025-04-271h 00School Of Attraction PodcastCONFIDENCE FAIL! 5 Myths You Need to Stop BelievingAre common myths about self-confidence holding you back? I'll dive into the top 5 misconceptions about self-confidence that are making it harder to build genuine self-assurance. Discover the truth behind these confidence myths, understand what self-confidence really is (and isn’t), and learn practical tips to break free from these limiting beliefs. Whether you're struggling to feel more confident or want to stop comparing yourself to seemingly "confident" people, this video will give you the clarity and tools to boost your self-esteem. Don't let false ideas stop you from becoming your best self!1:1 Zoom Coac...2025-04-1615 minSchool Of Attraction PodcastSelf-Perception vs Reality: What Holds Men BackIn this video, we dive deep into the hidden ways self-perception shapes your dating life and how it impacts your success with women. Many men unknowingly hold themselves back due to negative beliefs and false narratives about "what women want." Drawing from a groundbreaking experiment in sports coaching, we reveal how changing your mindset can drastically improve your results in dating and life. 🧠Whether you believe you're not tall enough, rich enough, or good-looking enough, this video will show you why these thoughts are holding you back. 💯 You'll learn actionable tips to shift your perception, silence the social...2025-04-1313 minSchool Of Attraction PodcastWhy Men Rage Quit Dating: The 3 Barriers Holding You BackWhy do so many men rage quit the dating game? In this video, we dive into the 3 biggest psychological and emotional barriers that hold men back from finding success with women. Whether it’s fear of rejection, frustration with the process, or feeling stuck in your head, these roadblocks can sabotage your dating confidence and keep you single. Watch now to learn how to identify and overcome these barriers to build real connections and transform your dating life.1:1 Zoom Coaching Sessions With Damien:https://schoolofattraction.com/phone-coaching/?utm_source=youtu...2025-04-0916 minSchool Of Attraction PodcastHow To Stop Getting Instantly Rejected By WomenStruggling with instant rejection when approaching women? You’re not alone. Many guys feel like women are dismissive or unfriendly during initial interactions in bars and clubs. But here’s the kicker: my students don’t face this issue as much as you'd think!In this video, I’ll reveal why most men experience cold responses and how my clients are able to connect more naturally—by simply avoiding common approach mistakes that most guys overlook.I’ll break down the 7 key reasons behind quick rejections, like not smiling, failing to “lock in,” and mismatched energy levels. P...2025-04-0617 minSchool Of Attraction PodcastThe Ultimate Tinder Strategy for 2025: 3 Steps to Win Big3 steps to getting more matches on Tinder even in 2025 when competition is stronger than ever before. I'll show you the exact steps I take to get matches and dates for my own clients. This Online Dating advice may seem controversial, but it works. So stop getting lost in the crowd and start getting more matches. 1:1 Zoom Coaching Sessions With Damien:https://schoolofattraction.com/phone-coaching/?utm_source=youtube&utm_medium=video&utm_campaign=Tinder20252025-04-0212 minSchool Of Attraction PodcastShould Men Avoid Marriage? The Statistical EvidenceIs it adviseable that men get married? Or has marriage become a lot more trouble than it's worth? How do men and women fair in divorce? How do we go financially, emotionally, healthwise? I'm going to look at the statistics of marriage and long term relationships, to work out how bad men really have it in committed relationsihps. 1:1 Zoom Coaching Sessions With Damien:https://schoolofattraction.com/phone-coaching/?utm_source=youtube&utm_medium=video&utm_campaign=MenAvoidMarriage2025-03-2617 minSchool Of Attraction PodcastDo Age Gap Relationships Work?We've all seen women try to shame men who date much younger females, but is this all just sour grapes? Or is there a valid reason women often see problems with men who prefer to date in a lower age bracket?How about older women with younger men? Can these age gap relationships work in the real world? Can a man date a much younger woman from another country and both individuals genuinely fall in love? Or is there always exploitation?1:1 Zoom Coaching Sessions With Damien:https://schoolofattraction.com/phone-coaching/?ut...2025-01-0928 min
The Sex Reimagined PodcastDamien Diecke: Dating After #MeToo - How to Stay Authentic While Reading Women's Energy | #112Send us a text & leave your email address if you want a reply!Meet Damien Dieke, founder of the School of Attraction and Dangerous Men Retreats. After experiencing his own painful breakup and journey through the pickup artist world, Damien discovered a more authentic path to masculine development. Today, he guides men worldwide in integrating their full spectrum of masculine energy - from sensitivity to healthy aggression.EPISODE HIGHLIGHTSWhy "nice guy" behavior actually masks manipulation and resentmentHow to stay connected to your desires while reading others' energyThe importance...2024-11-051h 12School Of Attraction PodcastDo Women Hold All The Power When You Approach Them?When you approach a cute girl in a bar, at a house party, or out during the day? You'd be forgiven for thinking women hold all the power in dating because they have the ability to accept or reject the guy, and he has to put in all the effort. But if you continue to feel powerless when approaching women, then you'll always be giving your power away. I want to show men how to feel empowered when picking up women1:1 Zoom Coaching Sessions With Damien:https://schoolofattraction.com/pho...2023-03-2013 minSchool Of Attraction Podcast7 Ways To Build Sexual Tension With A WomanSo you've been flirting with a girl at a bar or house party, but you want to know how to start creating some sexual tension and really get her craving to be intimate with you - where do you start? I'm going to share 7 of my favourite ways I share with all my clients to build sexual tension. 1:1 Zoom Coaching Sessions With Damien:https://schoolofattraction.com/phone-coaching/2023-03-1323 minSchool Of Attraction PodcastSexual Esclation Vs Sexual Tension - A Mistake Many Guys MakeDo you know what the difference is between sexual tension and sexual esclation? I get men contacting me every week asking me how to sexually escalate with a woman they've started dating, or a woman they'v ejust met in a bar. But this is the wrong question to ask, because more men should be focussing on building sexual tension with women instead. And the two are not the same thing. In fact, if you sexually escalate when there's no tension, you can actually turn a woman off of you forever! 1:1 Zoom C...2023-03-0611 minSchool Of Attraction PodcastHow Bad Are Racial Dating Preferences? - A Critique Of The ‘OK Cupid’ StatisticsHow bad is racism when you're dating? OK Cupid released some shocking statistics a few years ago, which have led many men and women to presume dating for them could indeed be hopeless. But statistics can be misleading - and there is a lot more going on behind the scenes determining the sexual and romantic preferences of men and women both offline and online. 1:1 Zoom Coaching Sessions With Damien:https://schoolofattraction.com/phone-coaching/2023-02-2714 minSchool Of Attraction PodcastWhy One Night Stands Are A BAD Casual Sex StrategyWhenever most guys think about getting casual sex, they often think about trying to get one-night stands - They picture going to a bar, finding a cute girl to talk to and trying to get her home that night. But this can be the worst strategy to have sex - it takes a long time, there are lots of ways to get rejected - and most women aren't looking to find met to sleep with this way. Book A 1:1 Zoom Coaching Session with Damien: https://schoolofattraction.com/phone-coaching/2023-02-1312 minSchool Of Attraction PodcastIs Tinder Gold Worth It In 2020?Is it worth getting Tinder Gold in 2020? Many men get really frustrated with Tinder, and especially with Tinder Gold, if they don't end up getting any results. Which happens quite often. In fact, as many as 80% of guys who pay for tinder gold get barely any results at all. This isn't a random effect, however, and there are some very good use case scenarios when paying to upgrade your tinder account is well worth it, and you can improve your results dramatically.In this video, I'll show you both the pros and...2020-08-1013 minSchool Of Attraction PodcastOnline Dating Vs Cold Approaching - Which Is Better?Is online dating better than cold approaching? Which modality of attraction is best for you? That's actually not as simple as it sounds, for some guys, jumping onto Tinder or Bumble and crafting a really amazing online dating profile is the best way to go - for other guys, it'is worth it to invest time learning to approach and attract women out in the real world. In this video, I'm going to discuss the pros and cons of different ways of meeting cute girls, whether it's online or out in the real world - This is...2020-08-0418 minSchool Of Attraction PodcastWhy Should You Join A Men's Group?Men's group sare one of the powerful ways to men to work on their self-development and discover their masculinity in a safe compassionate space of other men who are there to serve you. When I was a younger man, wanting to work on my masculinity and stop being such a pushover nice-guy - men's groups really helped me to discover what it was that I was doing wrong. We live in a climate where feminists and other women are trying to control the dialogue on what a 'real man' really is, and teaching our boys wh...2020-07-2812 minSchool Of Attraction PodcastIs An Open Relationship Right For You?Why do I think most couples aren't ready for an open relationship? What are some of the hidden dangers of a polyamorous lifestyle? What are some of the massive benefits to be had from having an open marriage? Today I'm going to discuss my experiences both with my partner and being around many other couples who are experimenting with open relationships and swinging, and what I've seen working and not working which has caused them to thrive or fall apart. 2020-07-2118 minSchool Of Attraction PodcastDealing With Rejection - I Wish I Knew This 20 Years AgoHow we deal with Rejection and Failure is one of the biggest determining factors in whether we are going to go and accomplish all the things we dream about in life. But the truth is that most of us give up after a couple of failures or brutal rejections, and some of us are so frightened of the pain that we never even try in the first place. But there is a deceptively simple strategy to breaking through and dealing with rejection in a way that prevents it from having a lasting effect on your em...2020-07-1410 minSchool Of Attraction PodcastIs Love Transactional? Yes - But Not How You ThinkIt may surprise you to hear me suggest that romantic love is based largely on a transaction between two or more people, and that if someone doesn't keep living up to their end of the bargain - then the relationship will fail. It may also surprise you that I still think that love is very real and romance is still alive and well in both men and women, and isn't going anywhere. I want to tell you why understanding the true transactional nature of love can be incredibly empowering and help you to have much mo...2020-07-0710 minSchool Of Attraction PodcastOnline Dating Tips For Men Who Want something Casual4 Online dating tips to help guys get casual sex relationships with women from their dating apps. When looking for dating advice for men - it's often focussed on how to get dates, rather than how to create a casual hookup - which is exactly what so many guys are really after. As a dating coach of over 11 years, I'll show you 4 important things you need to do with your online dating profiles to consistently find new friends with benefits. 2020-06-3014 minSchool Of Attraction PodcastHow The Choice Paradox Is Ruining Dating And RelationshipsWhy are men feeling increasingly frustrated with dating? Could it be because both men and women have too many choices? What does the choice paradox outlined by Barry Schwartz have to do with dating and relationships? As it turns out, it could tell us quite a lot about why finding women to date can be so frustrating in this day and age. 2020-06-2315 minSchool Of Attraction PodcastStop Self Sabotaging With WomenDo you find yourself sabotaging all chance of success when you really like a girl? It's true that most men I work with have gotten very good at self-sabotaging their own success, and even though they have all the requirements to be quite good with women, they always find a way to fail just before they can get success. The worst thing is that our internal reasons for sabotaging ourselves live in our sub-conscious and so they are often great big dating blind spots for us. I'm going to show you how to spo...2020-06-1611 minSchool Of Attraction PodcastGuide To Taking Your Own Epic Tinder PhotosMy complete guide to going out and getting fantastic Tinder profile photos that guarantee you'll get matches and dates. The most difficult part of any Tinder profile is getting the right photos is having access to good quality shots - but most men aren't lucky enough to have any lying around. This guide will help you get out there right now and get some great shots you can use to give your profile that much needed boost.2020-06-0911 minSchool Of Attraction PodcastFriends With Benefits - EASY ProcessLearn how to get a friend with benefits relationship EASILY. How can you know if a woman is open to casual sex? How can you create a friends with benefits relationship with her? How can you maintain a casual sex relationship?I'm going to show you how to find, attract, and establish friends with benefits relationships without making the kinds of mistakes most men regularly make with women. 2020-06-0216 minSchool Of Attraction PodcastWhat A Sugar Daddy Website Taught Me About Online DatingI joined a Sugar Daddy online dating website (seeking arrangement) to see what it was all about.As it turned out, I had a really fascinating experience that taught me quite a bit about the current state of women's online dating as well as the true nature of human relationships. I've definitely learned things that can be directly applied to other online dating apps like Tinder, Bumble, and Hinge. So what did I learn? Keep listening to find out2020-05-2515 minSchool Of Attraction PodcastHow To Know If She's A Good Catch - 3 Points To ConsiderHow do you know if a woman you've just started dating is actually a good catch? Is there a way to tell if she's about to make your life a living hell once you get into a long term relationship? Today I want to share the 3 relationship flags that every man should think about prior to getting serious about a new woman in his life. This is the dating advice that I wish someone had given me when I was a younger man. 1. What are her friends like?2. What is her...2020-05-2511 minSchool Of Attraction PodcastInteresting Online Dating Trends I've Noticed During The ApocalypseHow has online dating changed during the coronavirus outbreak? Do women use Tinder or Bumble differently? Do they look for different kinds of men? What are the most curious ways that women have now changed their dating behaviours? With Covid-19 on the top of everyone's mind, we are all coping with the current situation in different ways. I've noticed some very curious changes that have happened in the way women are using online dating apps, as well as the kinds of men they're looking for. 2020-05-2110 minSchool Of Attraction PodcastHow Your Attachment Style Impacts Your Relationships With WomenWhat is your attachment style? How does that attachment style determine whether you're going to face an ongoing string of bad relationships, or whether you're going to find an incredible woman?Attachment theory has been around for over 50 years, and it studies the ways in which our early childhood impacts our anxiety levels around relationships as adults, and can have a massive impact on the quality of the relationships that we have. 2020-05-1811 minSchool Of Attraction PodcastHow To Stop Neediness With Women2 powerful strategies to help you stop being needy around women. Women consistently rate neediness as being one of the biggest turn-offs - and yet so many guys find it hard to reduce the amount of needy behaviour that finds its way into their interactions. Imagine if you could stop feeling so 'thirsty' for women and instead started focussing on what you really wanted from a woman and being willing to walk away. It's a myth that women are the gatekeepers of sex - in fact you should be your own gatekeeper as well, and...2020-05-1412 minSchool Of Attraction PodcastWhat If Self-Confidence Isn't A Real Thing?What if self-confidence doesn't really exist? What if people who are trying to learn to be more confident are going about it all wrong? Almost all of us want to know how to be more confident, and in this video, I want to show you how the key to becoming more confident might be to STOP trying to act more confident, and instead focus on being whatever you are when you let go of your insecurities. 2020-05-1008 minSchool Of Attraction PodcastEmpowered Vulnerability Vs Emotional WeaknessWe've all heard that women are turned off by weak men - And that the best way to keep a woman attracted is not to show any weakness at all, to remain stoic and alpha. But most men feel a lot of conflict about this solution (rightfully so). After all, one of the reasons to have a long term partner is for emotional support and intimacy. So what's a better solution? How can you share your vulnerabilities and weaknesses with women - and indulge your emotionally insecure moments without losing her respect and attraction? ...2020-05-0612 minSchool Of Attraction Podcasthttp://The Cheerleader Effect - Its A Trap!Do you find yourself fixating on being able to attract those women who seem to be the hottest in any room? The ones who work for hours to look as good as they do? The ones who work hard to ensure they have every man's eyes on them? Getting fixated on these women is actually a dangerous trap that many men fall into - and they get fixated on the wrong women for the wrong reasons, and often this can lead to a huge amount of dating and relationship pain.Learn how to avoid falling i...2020-05-0410 minSchool Of Attraction PodcastWhat Do Women Want In A Man? It May Surprise You...What do women want in a man? Do they want the bad boy? Do they want the rock star? Do they want the strong and silent type? No matter where you look online, trying to work out what kind of man turns women on is complicated, and you're likely to get mixed messages, and that's frustrating. As it turns out there are many different kinds of men that women like, many stereotypes of guy that girls get excited about. Because not all women just like one kind of guy. 2020-04-3015 minSchool Of Attraction PodcastWhy Do Women Play Games With Men? - 2 Key ReasonsWhen women play games with and try to manipulate you, it's frustrating, and angering - and very often it makes us feel mad at the woman, and sometimes women in general. Last week I went on a few dates with a woman who started to play games with me, and I felt like it was a fantastic learning opportunity for both myself and my audience. When you can understand the deeper reasons why women play games with men, then you can often find yourself becoming less frustrated because you can really see the human element beh...2020-04-2719 minSchool Of Attraction PodcastYour Attraction Blind Spots - Heuristics in DatingA lot of our dating frustrations have their roots in our blindspots. Our blindspots are the results of the rules of thumb we have about women, about yourselves, about sex, and about attraction - And if these rules that we hold for ourselves are mal-adaptive, then it can prove to be very difficult to attract women. I want to go over where these rules of thumb come from, what some of the most common rules of thumb are, and also how to begin to let go of our subconscious rules we have about the world ar...2020-04-2311 minSchool Of Attraction PodcastStop Your Tinder Match Rate From DroppingSick and tired of your tinder match rate constantly dropping, and it eventually seems like no women in your area are going to be interested in you ever again?Working on my own Tinder, I found a really fantastic strategy for both halting the Tinder ranking decay, and for increasing the variety of women that end up matching with you. Sometimes focussing on a tighter niche of women can prove to be the better way to get women more interested in you. This strategy also works on other dating apps like Bumble and Hi...2020-04-2008 minSchool Of Attraction PodcastHow To Maintain Casual Sex RelationshipsEstablishing and Maintaining Casual Sex Relationships can be tricky at the best of times. Today I'll be bringing Lloyd from TheSingleGuy channel to discuss some critical insights on the big mistakes guys make when it comes to keeping casual relationships healthy. If you've ever had a woman fall for you and you only wanted to keep things casual, or if you've had women in the past get angry or jealous at you even though you never lied to them, then this is the video for you. 2020-04-1611 minSchool Of Attraction PodcastMy Open Relationship Journey - Emotional Zeroing OutOpen relationships can be emotionally complicated at the best of times, and I've learned the critical importance of a technique called emotional zeroing out which has really helped keep my partner and I happy even when things get complicated. A few nights ago at a swingers party, I felt myself getting triggered by a few things that were going on. Rather than get mad at my partner and lash out at her, I took some space to emotionally zero out, and really get to the core of what I was feeling and why so I could come t...2020-04-1312 minSchool Of Attraction PodcastAre Weekend Pickup Bootcamps A Ripoff?Are you thinking about doing a pickup Bootcamp over a weekend? Are you getting really excited by all the hype and positive reviews you're seeing on the company's website? Today I want to talk about why most men should be very wary of doing a weekend pickup Bootcamp - and why I rarely ever run them myself. And under what circumstances I DO run them.For guys who want to learn to be more successful with women, or learn to be pick up artists (PUA) there are usually quite a few dating coaches available in mos...2020-04-0911 minSchool Of Attraction PodcastWhy Would Women Want To Date You? Critical Mindset Shift!When you meet a woman, why should you expect her to want to go on a date with you? This is a confronting question that many men fail to ask themselves. Today I'm going to be discussing the dating mindset that guys need to have before trying to learn to attract women. Because sometimes the best strategy is to work on yourself as a man first before trying to pick up girls. This is the dating advice that more men need to be hearing because there can be a lot of failures that men...2020-04-0610 minSchool Of Attraction PodcastShould You Lower Your Standards With Women?If you're struggling to get the women you ideally want, and your feeling lonely, should you lower your standards with women to get some attention? The whole notion of lowering standards to attract women is based on the social pressure and judgement men put on each other to only date physically attractive women, even if you can't meet any and end up feeling frustrated. In fact, when you do lower your standards, there are many very important skills you'll learn along the way that will quickly make you more successful with women2020-04-0211 minSchool Of Attraction PodcastAre you REALLY Introverted? Or Are You A Shy Extrovert?Did you know that quite a few people who think of themselves as being introverts aren't really introverts at all? There's a lot of confusion about what being an introvert or being an extrovert is really all about - and sometimes that can play a big role in defining how we see ourselves and our social capabilities. From its early beginnings with Carl Jung, to its present-day place in modern personality profiling systems, Introversion has become an extremely popular term in pop culture and the media. One of the most life-changing realisations you can...2020-03-3009 minSchool Of Attraction PodcastWhy Hypergamy Is A Useless (And Outdated) MindsetIs Hypergamy really something men need to conern themselves with? Is there solid science behind the term?If you aren't wealthy or good looking, are you doomed to be alone and unloved for the rest of your life?There's a trend in our current society to make men believe that women are only interested in men who are good looking, tall, and wealthy - and even though the science clearly shows this isn't the case, the mindset persists. I want to reach out in this video today and help men to see that t...2020-03-2611 minSchool Of Attraction PodcastMy Proven Strategy For Solo Approaching Women At NightDid you know that with the right strategies in place, solo approaching women can be just as much fun as going out with a bunch of wingmen? For most guys, the idea of going out to meet women all alone is completely alien, but I'm going to show you a strategy that has proven to get me MORE success than going out with friends, and frequently includes women trying to set me up with their friends as well! It has worked for me over the last 13 years, and still works an absolute treat today.2020-03-2310 minSchool Of Attraction PodcastTinder Is Online Advertising - Here's The Truth About Online Advertising....Tinder, Bumble, Hinge and all other online dating platforms are all just different kinds of online advertising mediums. Online advertising has its own success philosophy, and if you want to get lots of dates in your online dating profiles, then you should adopt the same kinds of mindsets as you would if you were advertising on Google Adwords or Facebook. Online dating apps like Tinder and Bumble have a lot of competition between men, all trying to market themselves to the available women. I'm going to help you stand out from that crowd.2020-03-1913 minSchool Of Attraction PodcastMy Personal Battle With Anxiety And DepressionI Want to share my life-long battle with anxiety and depression with my viewers - Too many men and women struggle with anxiety disorders on a daily basis, and it's easy to feel all alone. Anxiety can strike any one of us at any time, and it's important that more people talk openly about their experiences no matter how unflattering they may be. I myself felt a lot of shame about the anxiety that I suffered with, and it left me feeling even more isolated and alone than I already was, which led me to fe...2020-03-1619 minSchool Of Attraction PodcastThe 6 Core Traits Women Look For In Men - Which Do You Have?What do women REALLY want in a man? What traits do you need to have to attract a woman in your life? That seems to be a debate that has been raging amongst guys for a long time, but there really isn't a debate - the answers have been well understood by sociologists and psychologists for quite some time. Today I'll be sharing the 6 most attractive features that men look for in women - These are the traits that turn women on the most. 2020-03-1214 minSchool Of Attraction Podcast4 Tricks To Master Speed DatingI'm going to give you four strategies you should be using every time you attend a speed dating event to start filling up your match cards with women's numbers. Speed dating has been around for decades, and I've had a lot of viewers message me asking if I could make a video about speed dating. The great news is that it's actually not that hard to get really incredible results from your speed dating sessions if you know what to do to get women to want to tick YES to you on their ranking cards. 2020-03-0914 minSchool Of Attraction PodcastHow To Be Successful - The SOA FormulaThe secret success formula that allows anyone to become successful at anything in a surprisingly short amount of time. Learning how to become successful with women, or in business can often prove very hard work, and leave many people feeling like they're in a rut that they don't know how to get out of. For many of us, success can feel completely unobtainable, and we don't know how to get there. Today I'm going to share with you the COMPLETE SOA formula for success, including all the elements required to become successful at ANY...2020-03-0521 minSchool Of Attraction PodcastNoFap - Amazing - But Also Potentially DangerousDid you know that going NoFap can have potentially dangerous side-effects? It's really important to understand the underlying reasons why you masturbate frequently so that you can learn to best manage your symptoms when you go NoFap. Going NoFap can actually cause men to take on other forms of addictions as a way of compensating for struggling to manage one's own stresses and frustrations in life. So today is a bit of a guide as to how you should get started with NoFap while being mindful of avoiding some of the potential pitfalls alo...2020-03-0210 minSchool Of Attraction PodcastWhy Playing Hard To Get Is A Terrible Dating MindsetIs playing hard to get really the best dating strategy for men? Should we pretend to be less available, take longer to reply to texts, act mildly disinterested to make women like us? I believe this is a terrible dating strategy that will ruin many more chances of success than it will help you to be more successful with women. In fact, if you want to get more women to chase you and be attracted to you, you're going to need to learn to BECOME harder to get, rather than spend time trying to PRETEND to...2020-02-2709 minSchool Of Attraction PodcastThe Online Dating Problem (2019)Is online dating rigged? Are apps like Tinder, Bumble, and Hinge, purposely screwing with you to make you pay for matches? Today I'm going to explore what's happening below the hood for online dating apps and websites, so you can better understand why things are so frustrating. But don't be too alarmed, there is a silver lining. As it turns out, just because it's hard to get matches and right swipes from cute girls online - There is actually a way to get much better results than you're used to. 2020-02-2410 minSchool Of Attraction PodcastToxic Femininity - Yes It's Real!Toxic femininity is the evil twin sister of toxic masculinity that many women pretend doesn't really exist. In this video, I take the time to explore the world of toxic femininity, first outlining some of the more dangerous lessons our society teaches to young women, then to look at how we should handle cultural baggage that men and women bring to their dating lives. It can be hard to know how to find a good quality partner in a world that seems to be so full of anti-male propaganda, but I'm going to provide a bi...2020-02-2018 minSchool Of Attraction PodcastDon't Lose Faith In Tinder And Online DatingDid you know that your Tinder profile could be right on the verge of getting a tonne of matches? Tinder and other online dating apps can be very frustrating, but when you realise that they are actually really similar to other kinds of online advertising, and you start treating your Tinder profile like an online ad, all of a sudden you can use the same principals to radically change your profile. The trick with Tinder and online dating apps is that sometimes small changes can have MASSIVE results, and sometimes big changes might not impact yo...2020-02-1710 minSchool Of Attraction Podcast5 Worst Flirting Mistakes Men Need To ChangeWhat are the worst flirting habits that cause men to get rejected? How many are you guilty of? In this video, I'm going to look at 5 bad dating habits that I consistently see are causing men to get rejected by women. Whether it's because they're boring the women to death, or because they're making them feel nervous or uncomfortable. If you want better results in your dating life, then these are the changes you'll have to make. Be sure to check out number 5, because many guys don't realise just how damaging this really is...2020-02-1114 minSchool Of Attraction PodcastWTF Is a "Tinder Maybe" And Why Should You Embrace It?Imagine if you could get women to start chasing you on Tinder rather than you having to put in all the work?Most men don't realise how differently women use tinder compared to how we use it - Once you understand the completely different mindest women have when swiping on guys, then you can better understand the frustrating things that women sometimes do. But More importantly, you can start to use the "Tinder Maybe" strategy yourself, to massively boost how attractive women find you, and how hard they'll work to get you to like them b...2020-02-0409 minSchool Of Attraction PodcastHow To Avoid The Friend Zone - Rather Than Escape ItFind out how to avoid falling into the friend zone ever again. Getting into the friend zone sucks, there's a girl you like, and you've been hanging out with her for months now, and you finally find the courage to tell her how you feel, and she says, I really like you "LET'S JUST BE FRIENDS". But when you have a crush on a girl, it's really important not to wait too long to let her know how you feel, or falling into the friendzone will just become the inevitable and there won't' be anything you...2020-01-2807 minSchool Of Attraction Podcast5 Easiest Ways For Introverts To Meet WomenWhere can introverts easily meet women?So you're an introverted or shy guy - and you want to meet women, but you're really not feeling like going to bars and clubs to approach random girls, or approaching random girls on the street?Fortunately, there are lots of alternatives for men to meet women that won't require any cold-approach at all. Introverted dating can best be enjoyed by becoming part of a small social group that engages in hobbies/passions/sports together because it removes the requirement of engaging in lots of small talk, a...2020-01-2110 minSchool Of Attraction PodcastWhy Did She Leave You? Value Exchange Theory Of Mate SelectionWhy did your ex leave you? How can you be more attractive to a woman? What do women want in a man? Are women just hypergamous? Why do relationships end? Today I'm going to explore the Value Exchange Theory of Mate Selection, which goes a long way to explaining why some couples thrive while others fall apart. It will also help men to better understand not just their past failed relationships, but also how to build themselves up into the kind of men that women are going to value more highly in the future2020-01-1411 minSchool Of Attraction PodcastHow To Approach Girls - Without Being CreepyToday I want to tell you how to successfully approach girls - but most importantly I want to tell you how to do it without being creepy, scary, or intimidating. Unfortunately, the internet is full of guys approaching women in ways that are hyper-aggressive, sleazy, or just plain creepy, and man men are left feeling like this is the only way to approach a cute girl and have any kind of success.So if you're holding back on approaching women because you don't want to be THAT GUY that makes women feel weirded out, or u...2020-01-0714 minSchool Of Attraction PodcastHow Introverts Should Flirt - The Introvert's Super PowerDid you know that Introverts can flirt with and attract women just as effectively as extroverts can? Unfortunately, most dating advice out there is designed for extroverted guys, so sometimes it never feels like it's going to work for you. Today I'm going to show you how some of the introvert's superpowers, these are the strengths inherent to introverts that allow them to attract cute girls without having to pretend to be someone their not. This is the dating advice introverts need to hear!2019-12-1714 minSchool Of Attraction PodcastOne Night Stands - Why They're Probably Not Your Best StrategyDid you know that trying to sexually escalate early with a woman in a bid to get a one night stand or casual sex relationship is probably the wrong strategy for you right now? Most guys get focused on their sexual escalation skills rather than the rest of their attraction skills, and as a result, they miss out on a lot of interactions that may have led to sex eventually because they pushed too hard when they weren't ready for it yet. Today I'm going to look WHY you may well be better of waiting un...2019-12-1013 minSchool Of Attraction PodcastAttraction Is Not Negotiable - Or Is It.. Why Am I A Dating Coach?Attraction is not a choice! This is a phrase you've probably heard around the place - Frequently on my Youtube comments, I'll have men decrying dating coaching as a scam activity because you can't negotiate with attraction. So is this dating mindset patently wrong? Is that what I believe? Is that what I tell myself to sleep well at night as a dating coach for over a decade? Oddly enough, I think there's a lot of truth to the basic notion - But today I want to talk about this concept and why there's so muc...2019-12-0313 minSchool Of Attraction PodcastDo Women Go For Bad Boys? Yes, No, It's Complicated..Why do women always seem to go for bad boys? Is this actually true? or is it just something people say without much proof? Well it's certainly true for many women - but like many things related to the psychology of sexual attraction, the truth is more complex and varied than the stereotypes implyIn this video, I'm going to compare the stereotype of men liking trashy dumb women to the stereotype of women liking bad boys, and demonstrate why it's actually a sign of low self-esteem in both genders that drives this st...2019-11-2613 minSchool Of Attraction PodcastNo More Tinder Matches? The Tinder Saturation Problem...Trying to get matches on Tinder can sure be frustrating, but rarely is it more frustrating when your matches suddenly drop to almost 0, and you have no idea why it happened. As it turns out, there is a very real tinder saturation problem - this is an issue that will affect all online dating apps, and could well be happening to you.So what can you do to fix the problem? If you've suddenly noticed your tinder matches crash?2019-11-1910 minSchool Of Attraction PodcastStop Picking Up Women - Start Having Fun With Them InsteadTrying to go out regularly picking up women in bars and clubs can be mentally draining - While you try to learn all these social skills, you are constantly facing a barrage of rejection, and you can quickly find yourself worn out andThe truth is that what many men forget while trying to learn to attract women, the most important thing they should be doing is having fun. If you're not having fun with women, then they're not going to want to go on a date with you. I'm going to tell you my o...2019-11-1414 minSchool Of Attraction PodcastWomen Want Empowered Men - So How do You Get There?How can a man become more empowered? Many people confuse having power with being an empowered human being, and yet the two often don't occur at the same time. Women are turned on by empowered men, it's one of the top 5 traits women want to find in a man, but so often we walk around feeling dis-empowered because we focus so strongly on the things we don't have any control over. 2019-11-1114 minSchool Of Attraction PodcastWhy The Science Of Attraction Is Complicatedith so many supposed studies out there about the science of attraction, many of which contradict each other, how do we find out which scientific dating research we can trust, and which we should ignore? Human sexuality is incredibly complex and diverse, and as it turns out humans are very prone to misinterpreting all kinds of data, but most significantly we misinterpret statistical data. Unfortunately, we are prone to a host of psychological biases which color how we view the dating world. In today's podacst I'm going to discuss some of those biases and...2019-11-0720 minSchool Of Attraction Podcast1 Simple Dating Trick Changes Everything!Are you getting frustrated with going on dates with women and they never seem to want to catch up a second time, and you're going crazy trying to work out why? Well thanks to some fantastic research from the only Psychologist to win a Nobel Prize - Daniel Kahneman, I'm going to show you a simple trick you need to be using to dramatically change how she feels about you after a first date.When you apply the Peak End rule to your date, you'll end up with far more second dates because women will h...2019-11-0410 minSchool Of Attraction PodcastHow To Get A Perfect Girlfriend - It's NOT What You Think!What's the secret to getting a perfect girlfriend?Are you struggling to find girls that you think are worth dating? Does it seem like the world is full of bad eggs? Have your past relationships taught you that women aren't all that they seem when the relationship starts? Perhaps you are just on the hunt for a great partner and came across this video. Today I want to talk to you about why most men have the completely wrong approach to finding an amazing partner, and this approach usually leads to a HUGE am...2019-10-3113 minSchool Of Attraction PodcastHow To STOP Being a Nice Guy - Without Being An A-HoleHow can you STOP being a nice guy? Have you ever got the impression that women walk all over you because you're too nice? Do you constantly get thrown into the friend zone? Do you feel like even your mates are taking advantage of you? Does your long term partner lose sexual interest in you really quickly? Odds are, you could be suffering from nice guy syndrome, and Today I'm going to show give you a deep look into what lies at the core of your condition, and most importantly how to stop doing this WI...2019-10-2813 minSchool Of Attraction Podcast7 Dating Psychology Books You Must ReadIn this video, I'm going to share with you 7 dating psychology books that weren't written by pick up artists that every man needs to read if he wants to become more successful with women. This list of books will help you develop a keen understanding of human psychology which you can learn to apply to attract more attractive women - The best part is that these books are written by real experts and not just guys who think they have the social skills required to get women. 2019-10-2410 minSchool Of Attraction PodcastTinder VS Cold Approach - How Approaching Women Change My LifeWhich is better? Tinder and all it's online dating cousins? Or putting in the time to learn to cold approach women? Well as it turns out, learning to cold approach women during the day or night is about so much more than just having a life full of beautiful women. It's about embarking on a journey of self-improvement. So much of what you discover when you're learning to cold approach women in bars/clubs and on the street, are skills that you'll use in almost all aspects of your life, not just when talk...2019-10-2116 minSchool Of Attraction PodcastStop Picking Up Women - Start Having Fun With Them InsteadTrying to go out regularly picking up women in bars and clubs can be mentally draining - While you try to learn all these social skills, you are constantly facing a barrage of rejection, and you can quickly find yourself worn out andThe truth is that what many men forget while trying to learn to attract women, the most important thing they should be doing is having fun. If you're not having fun with women, then they're not going to want to go on a date with you. I'm going to tell you my o...2019-10-1714 minSchool Of Attraction PodcastHow Women Rate Attractiveness Differently To MenDid you know that woman have a completely different way of rating a guy's attractiveness to the way men rate women? This difference is cause for a lot of confusion for guys wanting to learn how to attract women, and make a really good first impression.Once you understand how women go about assessing a man's attractiveness, then you can learn to make changes to the way women first perceive you and suddenly start being a whole lot more attractive to women. 2019-10-1708 minSchool Of Attraction PodcastDevelop This One Trait - And Women Will Gravitate To YouDid you know that more than having money, and more than being attractive, there's one trait that you absolutely MUST have to attract women? Did you know that even if you're a good looking guy with a decent job, that without this trait then women aren't going to want to date you? What is this trait? And how does it help men attract women? The trait is empowerment, and after giving dating advice to men for over a decade, it's one of the single sexiest qualities a man can have. The moment a man...2019-10-1410 minSchool Of Attraction PodcastEverything You Know About Female Sexual Selection Is WrongWhat do women want? What kind of men do women date? What kind of men do women sleep with? Are women supposed to be monogamous? Are women genetically meant to seek out men for safety? Many questions like this about female sexual selection are based on stories that we hear growing up, and then stories we hear online and from our friends. Very often, these stories are completely wrong - and lead us to try approaching women in ways that hurt our chances of success rather than help. Fin...2019-10-1014 minSchool Of Attraction PodcastThe Tinder Arms Race - Why You Don't Get MatchesWhen Tinder launched in 2012, it was super-easy to get matches and dates. You simply got a small batch of decent photos, threw them into your Tinder profile, and started matching with women in your area. But in 2019, that has all changed - The sheer volume of Tinder users has created an arms-race of competition among men who have to find better and better profile shots for their online dating profiles in order to get women to pay them any attention. 2019-10-0714 minSchool Of Attraction Podcast10 Psychological Tricks To Get A Girl To Like YouToday I'm going to share with you 10 scientifically proven ways to get a girl to like you using the power of human psychology. Be careful with this advice because they are subconsciously and subliminally powerful and need to be used responsibly. 1. Smell amazing2. Use Smiling As A Reward3. Tell Her A Secret About Yourself4. Make Strong Eye Contact5. Make Your Shoulder : Waist Ratio As Dramatic As Possible6. Lower Your Voice7. Pitch Your Questions Downwards8. Tease Her Plenty9. Use Your Fr...2019-10-0315 minSchool Of Attraction PodcastWhy The Heck To Women Do this???Have you ever had a woman do something that just leaves you exasperated thinking Why the heck to women do this??Whether it's pretending to have a boyfriend rather than saying they aren't interested, taking forever to reply to text messages, cancelling dates at the last minute, Stealing your food instead of ordering their own, or pulling away from sex at the last minute. In this video I'm going to look at why these behaviors are so common, and most importantly what you can learn and what you can do to stop it happening again i...2019-09-3019 minSchool Of Attraction PodcastBiggest Mistakes Guys Make On TinderToday I'm going to share with you some of the biggest mistakes guys regularly make on Tinder. Because trying to get matches, and text women, and get them out on dates can be difficult or downright impossible if you're doing these few things wrongly. In this podcast I'm going to look at the 3 topmost frustrating reasons guys don't get results on tinder. 1) Women don't respond to your first message2) Women respond but the conversation always fizzles out and you can't get them out on a date. 3) You just can't get any matc...2019-09-2614 minSchool Of Attraction PodcastHow To Make Women Want You SexuallyWomen feel sexually attracted to men who behave in very specific ways. When you're learning to pick up women because you want to get laid or because you're looking for a relationship, you're going to discover very quickly that if you have the wrong approach and the wrong dating mindset that women will easily friend-zone you. So today I'm going to discuss 5 strategies to make women want you sexually.2019-09-2320 minSchool Of Attraction PodcastHow I Overcame Chronic Anxiety - 3 Powerful StrategiesWhen I was in my early 20s and late teens, I suffered with debilitating anxiety and was trapped in my parents house for months. Today I want share with you the strategies I used to overcome my anxiety. What worked? What didn't?I'm going to share my 3 top strategies for dealing with anxiety once and for all, whether it's social anxiety, or health anxiety, or any other kind you can imagine. 2019-09-1916 minSchool Of Attraction PodcastIs Learning Pick Up Totally Wrong For You?Are you getting increasingly frustrated with learning pickup?Are you starting to feel your self-esteem going downward rather than upwards because you're feeling like nothing you can do can get you any success with women? Are you feeling like maybe every dating coach and pick up artist out there is just feeding you lies? Perhaps right now is the wrong time to be thinking about girls completely - Perhaps most dating coaches don't realise that without a base level of social skills - trying to learn to attract women is just going to end...2019-09-1612 minSchool Of Attraction PodcastFind Your Purpose And Women Will Be Drawn To YouOne of the most important things every man needs in his life is a passion for the things that he does week to week. These passions lead a man to discover his purpose, the thing in life that makes him want to get out of bed in the morning and gives him resilience against life's ups and downs. When you're trying to learn how to attract women, it's usually more important to first spend time developing yourself as a man before you start learning how to talk to and flirt with women.2019-09-0511 minSchool Of Attraction PodcastThink Like a CEO – Date Like a RockstarWhat are the key skills that CEOs, top sales executives, and entrepreneurs have in common that men who want to learn to become more successful with women need to know? As it turns out, there's a lot we can learn from the corporate world about consistently improving our results in a highly competitive market. 2019-09-0154 minSchool Of Attraction PodcastWhy PUA Deception And Manipulation Will Hurt You Long TermI first got involved in the Pick Up Artist community 15 years ago just after I read the book 'the game'. After a lot of initial excitement and some initial success, I realized that while I was talking ]to women, and I was getting some dates, and I was getting laid, I still wasn't feeling completely confident or happy. In this Podcast, I'm going to talk you through my pua journey and give you the dating advice for how to meet girls that I wish someone wouldn't have given me when I was on this journey. 2019-08-2913 minSchool Of Attraction PodcastWhen She Doesn't Text Back - What To Do (And Why It Happens)When a girl doesn't text you back, it can be extremely frustrating. Especially when she seemed happy to give you her number in the first place. There are a number of reasons why girls give out their numbers but then never end up going on dates with guys, and in this video, we're going to explore those reasons. We're also going to look at what you can do to ensure you don't get flakey behavior ever again and make women feel compelled to message you back almost every single time. 2019-08-2613 minSchool Of Attraction Podcast5 Keys To Be Amazing In Bed - What Men Need To Know5 Lessons about Sex that every man needs to know to be better in bed. Most men waste energy trying to learn a whole range of sex techniques so that women will be more satisfied. But the key to being amazing in bed and giving a woman mind-blowing sex is to understand that her most erogenous zone is her brain. If a man can tap into a woman's mind to make her feel extremely aroused during sex then she'll walk away feeling like she's had an incredible experience.2019-08-2218 minSchool Of Attraction PodcastMaster The Art Of Witty BanterDid you know that witty banter with women is rated as one of the sexiest traits a man can have? But how do you go about improving your ability to tease women, and keep interactions playful? More importantly, how do you go about doing that without accidentally insulting women, or come across as a dancing monkey or an outright tryhard?2019-08-1959 minSchool Of Attraction PodcastInterview With Mentor Royce (Asian Ex-Student)I interview one of our ex-students Royce who talks about his experience learning pickup as an Asian student - some of the most important lessons he learned on his journey as well as some of his personal favorite experiences. 2019-08-1534 minSchool Of Attraction PodcastOvercome Fear Of Failure - The Surprising Origins For Smart PeopleThe fear of failure is one of the biggest impediments to truly becoming successful at anything. We all know that in order to succeed, then you need to repeatedly fail at things over and over again until you get really good at them. But knowing this fact, and actually LIVING this fact are very different. I want to talk about why the fear of failure and the belief that we are smart are intimately linked, along with the way we were raised and taught as children.Then I'm going to show you step-by-step ho...2019-08-1216 minSchool Of Attraction PodcastDamien Diecke & Steve Mayeda | The Men's Movement BeginsIn this interview with Steve Mayeda, we're cover a ton of bases. Feminism, Male Empowerment and Liberation. The Myth of Male Power, and let me tell you, if you want a Men's Movement ... here it is!2019-07-291h 19School Of Attraction PodcastIncrease Your Social Intelligence - No Woman Will Be Out Of Your LeagueStop approaching women out of your league and first start focussing on your social intelligence. So many guys who are just starting to learn to attract women get focussed on approaching women who are too far up the social hierarchy and wonder why they're failing so frequently.Social Intelligence is a trait that any guy can learn which will help him attract the hot girls he always wanted. But unfortunately learning this skill set takes time. Damien Diecke will show you exactly how you can increase your social IQ and start attracting the wo...2019-07-2212 minSchool Of Attraction PodcastDeveloping Your Masculine - That Elusive Quality That Drives Women CrazyWhat do women want? What do women want in a man? What is a masculine man? What is a feminine woman? What is Masculine Sensitivity? These are questions which get asked a lot, and in this day and age, it can be a very tricky question for some to answer. In this Podcast, Damien Diecke and Diviya Nand discuss some of the powerful aspects to being the kind of man that women sit up and take notice of. Sexual polarity is getting forgotten in the modern world. Getting to the core of masculinity is what is d...2019-07-0254 minSchool Of Attraction PodcastHow To Get Her Interested In Casual Sex - The Biggest Mistakes Guys Are makingKnowing how to get her interested in casual sex is a critical skill most guys struggle with. The reason the struggle so much is that they don't understand what's in it for the girl. When it comes to casual sex for women the truth is that it's NOT just about the sex. It's about a complex emotional journey that women want to go through before they will WANT no strings attached casual sex. So join Dee from http://solvingme.com/blog/ and Damien the School of Attraction host, for a great interview2019-06-0607 min