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Who Am I Really?106 – Beautiful TruthFor Shelby, growing up as a Korean adoptee left her feeling “othered” as she didn’t quite fit into her community. The Korean school her parents tried to raise her in wouldn’t accept her either. She was forced to live in between her culture and what Americans would or would not let her be.On a heritage trip to South Korea she experienced the heavy emotions of reunion with her birth mother, the challenge of remaining a secret, and witnessed the frustrations of her brother who couldn’t locate his biological family. Shelby also gained a real compassion f...
2025-07-0545 min
Who Am I Really?113 - I Was Loved Everyday By People I Didn't KnowCarrie called me from Lynchburg, Virginia. In her journey you’ll hear her talk about the moment she realized she was found, and how she was in contact with her birth parents at the same time one the same day. Carrie talks about two amazing reunions: one where she got to see her birth mother in competition, the other where she got to meet her maternal and paternal siblings together. She also talks about herself as an adoptive mother to a special young man who came into her life at a time when he needed her most. This is Carri...
2025-03-2948 minWho Am I Really?103 – Fixing The FatesDiane called me from St. Petersburg, Florida, but her’s is a story that originated in Germany. Diane tells the story of her parents wanting to form a family with her, but her grandmother frequently talking about her adoption such that no one could ever move on. On a trip back to Germany, Diane stood in the orphanage where her story originated, but answers to her questions were not to be had. It turned out that her birth father was her first connection, and he led her back to her birth mother’s family. Diane met her birth mother’s widower...
2025-03-1552 minWho Am I Really?108 - On The Outside Is Where I've Always BeenPam, from Emeryville, CA, told me her desire to search started when she was a kid, but it was Oregon’s laws that changed everything for her search. When she met her birthmother she encountered a woman who couldn’t relay the details of her past, leaving Pam with only her paternal side of the story. He says that what is alleged against him is not true, but Pam is having a hard time forgiving the man. This is Pam’s journey.Pam (00:04):So I thought that from the time I was 19, until I started meeting peop...
2025-03-0833 minWho Am I Really?085 – A Bad Truth Is Better Than A Good LieAfter the adoptive father she loved so much died, Alison learned her birth father, Tim, was looking for her and she took it as a good sign of things to come. Sadly she found herself disappointed in him, and later in her birth mother, Jean, whom he contacted without telling her. Alison had no idea her birthmother struggled with mental illness, so their contentious relationship was inexplicably challenging. After Alison took legal action to gain access to her adoption records from the agency that refused to turn over her information, she finally laid eyes on the detailed context of her...
2025-03-011h 16Who Am I Really?095 – I Tested Her To See If She’d Give UpLaura called me via Skype, would you believe, from Falkirk Scotland. Laura told the story of her childhood knowledge that she might have siblings out in the world, and her quest to meet them. When she met her biological mother things started slowly as Laura tested the woman to make sure she wasn’t going to leave again — and she didn’t — then she did. Laura’s developed a great connection with her paternal sister, even though Laura never got to meet her biological father. This is Laura’s journey.The post 095 – I Tested Her To See If She’d Give Up appe...
2025-02-0846 minWho Am I Really?109 - You Can't Change The PastDan has barely told anyone the his whole story until this episode. He shared that he was in the neonatal intensive care unit (NICU) as an infant. Then his son's rare medical condition and his wife’s ability to share her heredity while he could not was a catalyst for his search. Dan is thankful for the warm welcome he’s received in his paternal family, and is still hoping that his birthmother will come around to wanting to know him. This is Dan's Journey.Dan (00:04):I kind of find it ironic that now that I foun...
2025-02-0139 minWho Am I Really?083 – An Unbelievable Emotional Roller Coaster For MeBefore becoming an adoptee advocate Rich was searching for his own identity. As a child, his older adopted sister vengefully told him their mom wasn’t his real mother. It made him wonder who the other woman could be. When he was in college, his adoptive parents gave him an envelope of non-identifying information. Many years later they handed him another document that revealed his birth name. Rich found himself resenting their decision to withhold information from him that he clearly wanted. When he found his maternal aunt they discussed his birth mother enough to realize she wasn’t the only...
2025-01-2541 minWho Am I Really?099 – We Were Both Missing Something In Our LivesJoseph is a really outdoorsy guy who lives in Edmonds, Washington, about 30 minutes north of Seattle. He likes mountain biking, trail running, camping and skiing. Joseph grew up in a family of several children, some biological, and one other adoptee you might already know. He told me that he never could have pinpointed what it was, but he always seemed to be searching for something. Joseph started his journey searching for answers from his biological mother about his adoption. Instead he found mystery surrounding her life, unanswered questions and a connection to his brother that means the most to him...
2025-01-1856 minWho Am I Really?089 – I’m Reconciling This Feeling of HurtSteve, from London, Ontario, Canada shares his story of being adopted after his mother lost a child. Steve and his mother never connected, in fact, she stifled his social development and seemed to be holding him back because he didn’t look like their family, and didn’t fit in. As a teen, Steve was out on his own in the streets when he learned that he had fathered a child – that’s when he became a single father.In reunion, he found a connection to his birth mother, but her empty promises ended with rejection that surprised him.
2025-01-1159 minWho Am I Really?070 – I Don’t Think She Can Move Forward From The PainKyle tells the story of growing up, towering over his mother and sister and looking very different from them, but being loved. Locating his birth mother he was amazed to see someone he looked like but struggled to get along with as she battled her own pain. In the end, he was able to truly connect to his Native American heritage while discovering the pain that was deep within him. His experience inspired him to write two songs.Read Full TranscriptKyle: 00:03 And that’s the thing is she’s a great person. It was just very hard towards the end to have the relationsh...
2024-12-1441 min
The Adoption Roadmap PodcastFinding Your Roots, Part 2, with Damon DavisIn this episode of the Adoption Roadmap Podcast, host Rebecca Gruenspan continues a deep conversation with guest Damon Davis about mental health, adoption, and the complex emotions surrounding the journey to find biological family members. Damon shares his personal story about growing up with an adoptive mother who struggled with paranoid schizophrenia and dementia, and how her mental illness affected their relationship. He discusses the emotional challenges of searching for his biological mother while grappling with his adoptive mother’s deteriorating health. The episode explores themes of self-reflection, balancing expectations, and the importance of preparing mentally for potential outcomes in...
2024-10-021h 12
The Adoption Roadmap PodcastFinding Your Roots: Discovering Identity and Connection in Adoption with Damon DavisIn this episode of The Adoption Roadmap, host Rebecca Greenspan interviews Damon Davis, creator of the podcast Who Am I Really? Damon shares his personal adoption story, including the emotional journey of reuniting with his biological family and the challenges of navigating relationships with both his adoptive and birth parents. He also discusses the importance of adoptees finding community, the complexities of identity, and the varied experiences of adoptees on their journeys. Damon emphasizes the need for adoptive parents to prepare for future conversations about their child's adoption, highlighting the importance of being supportive when adoptees search for their...
2024-09-2558 minWho Am I Really?102 – It’s Always MaybeBreanna learned that she was fostered then adopted but for financial gain and she described her home as a hostile environment. Her adopted mother was abusive, and Breanna ultimately ran away from home to the military. But before bootcamp she contacted her birth mother, and learned the hard truth about her conception. In reunion, she was forced to watch her birth father’s judgment for his actions.The post 102 – It’s Always Maybe appeared first on Who Am I...Really? Podcast.Breanna (00:05):She feels really guilty and I think that's why she doesn't want me to...
2024-09-1437 min
Who Am I Really?087 – A Journey To Find Out Where I Came FromWhen he was a kid, Bill saw clues here and there that he was adopted, but no one ever actually said it. It wasn’t until he called an uncle he’d never met before that the truth was revealed, turning Bill’s world upside down. Reunion with his birth mother was an emotional event with a woman who was told never to speak of his existence again. Bill talks about how he felt toward the father he grew up who took the secret of his adoption to his grave, and how redemptive it’s been to be accepted by his birt...
2024-08-1043 minWho Am I Really?104 – You’re Obviously One Of UsKaren is from Stratford, Ontario, Canada. She shares her story of growing up a woman of color who stood out in her family and community.Locating her birth mother she found little connection and a bit of tension, but ultimately she wants to keep the relationship going. That’s partially because her paternal reunion, while fulfilling in the most heartwarming ways, was sadly too brief. This is Karen’s journey.The post 104 – You’re Obviously One Of Us appeared first on Who Am I...Really? Podcast.Karen (00:04):I was so sad at the tim...
2024-07-2749 minWho Am I Really?My Two MomsWendy, from Massachussetts, was adopted through Louise Wise, an agency with a notorious reputation. Separately, the tragic murder of Lisa Steinberg triggered her adoptive mother to give Wendy open permission to find her birth mother to let her know she’s ok. On her search, Wendy found her birth father first, but connecting with her birth mother is where she’s found similar interests and a relationship that continues to grow as she introduces her birth mother to her family. This is Wendy’s journey.Wendy (00:02):You know I called my adopted mom and said, you know...
2024-07-2040 minWho Am I Really?053 – Seeing The Life That Could Have BeenMeredith had enough adoptees around her growing up that adoption was no big deal. Yet, her parents never felt comfortable actually discussing adoption. After getting pregnant, and spurred on by her mother-in-law’s intuition that Meredith wanted answers, she started searching. When her social worker found her biological parents, they were married with children. Her reunion has filled her with mixed emotions because she’s thankful for the life she’s led but’s she’s seen the family photos for the life that could have been.The post 053 – Seeing The Life That Could Have Been appeared first on Who Am...
2024-07-0636 minWho Am I Really?079 – There Are Wins And LossesPaul grew up in a family where he didn’t look like his parents, his father was Mexican and his mother was Japanese. In his childhood, his mother turned incredibly harsh and abusive, especially toward his sister. Searching for his birth mother, Paul made a misstep when he didn’t follow the advice of his search angel, and it cost him a valued relationship. Luckily he was able to connect with his half-siblings on both sides, but one relationship ended abruptly when a spouse fired his gun at Paul! All told, Paul found links to his personal history, and that’s given him...
2024-06-2942 min
Investing RNDamon Dillard: Overcoming Financial Hardship | First Family MillionaireSend us a textIn this episode of the Investing RN Podcast, Damon Dillard shares his remarkable journey from financial struggles to becoming a successful entrepreneur in the insurance industry. Despite not starting in nursing, Damon connects deeply with nurses by offering essential guidance on enhancing their financial futures through supplemental income opportunities. His insights into personal development and the power of shifting one's mindset resonate with anyone looking to change their economic trajectory. Don't miss this transformative discussion—tune in on all major podcast platforms and catch the next episode for more invaluable insights!I...
2024-05-0759 min
City On A Hill SermonsThe Power of Prayer: Strengthening Faith and Confidence - Damon DavisIn this empowering episode of the City On A Hill podcast, Pastor Damon Davis explores the transformative power of prayer in nurturing faith and confidence in God. Drawing from biblical passages such as Luke 6:16 and Hebrews 5:7, Pastor Davis reflects on the significance of prayer in the life of believers.
Listeners are invited to consider the profound impact of prayer on their spiritual journey, as highlighted in 1 John 3:21-22. Through heartfelt prayers and supplications, individuals can experience a deep connection with God, finding solace and strength in times of trial and uncertainty.
As Pastor Davis delves...
2024-04-2833 min
Discovery Diaries with Damon Davis000 - Discovery Diaries with Damon DavisEverywhere we go. We have so many opportunities to gather remarkable insights from the captivating people around us. When I meet people through work with friends or randomly throughout my travels. I often leave conversations with a sense of wonder thinking, "wow, that person has such intriguing perspectives and unique experiences."I believe this life is an exhilarating journey and adventure punctuated by encounters with remarkable people. I invite you to join me as we embark on this adventure together, exploring the lives and paths of an array of individuals eager to share their stories with you.
2024-04-0102 minWho Am I Really?077 – I’m A Wounded Healer With My Father’s EyesLinda’s childhood was tumultuous after her mother’s death as she was raised in what she thought was her grandmother’s home. When she learned the truth about her life from the neighbor’s kids, at age 10, Linda immediately wanted to find her birther father. She endured years of abuse in her grandmother’s home with no love. She characterizes her story, not as an adoption, she thinks of herself as stolen from her biological father.You can find Linda’s book at LindaBlackmer.com or you can search “My Father’s Eyes: A Story of Stolen Lives” on Amazon
2024-03-2334 minWho Am I Really?This Is What I Hoped You'd Be LikeGinger who lives in Los Angeles, began her reunion journey as a teenager who found her birth mother, saw her picture, emailed her, but never made the leap to meeting the woman. In adulthood Ginger had given birth to twins who emotionally impacted her and reminded her of the story of her own birth shared by her birth mother via email many years before, so she resurrected their relationship. This episode is unique because we captured Ginger’s story in the lead up to her cross country reunion, then we followed up shortly after to see how things were in...
2024-02-1751 minCity On A Hill SermonsUnderstanding the Divine Work of Salvation - Damon Davis In this thought-provoking sermon, Pastor Damon Davis delves into the theological concepts of Monergism and Synergism, unraveling the intricate dynamics of God's work in the salvation of individuals.
Monergism, as Pastor Damon expounds, asserts that the regeneration of an individual is exclusively the work of God through the Holy Spirit. The sermon contrasts this with synergism, a perspective suggesting that the human will collaborates with God's grace for the process of regeneration.
Key scriptures, including John 6:44, are explored to illuminate the divine invitation (Klesis) extended to humanity, inviting them to embrace the salvation offered by...
2024-02-1537 minCity On A Hill SermonsRewriting Our Story: The Promise of a New Beginning - Damon Davis Pastor Damon Davis delves into the transformative narrative of Genesis 15:1-7, where Abraham, facing his own struggles, is offered by God the chance to rewrite his story. In this powerful sermon, Pastor Damon draws parallels to our lives, highlighting God's universal offer for us to redefine our narratives.
The core message is clear: our current circumstances need not dictate our future. God's promise transcends our past, and, as Pastor Damon passionately communicates, there's an invitation to look up, echoing the hopeful sentiments found in Lamentations 3:21-25. The reassurance of God's unfailing compassion, renewed every morning, becomes the...
2024-02-1140 minWho Am I Really?107- From A Place Of LoveDavid from Columbus, Ohio said he was practically at the front door of reunion, but drove away. Years later he finally found some siblings who looked almost exactly like him, and others who’s genetic connection was undeniable. David admitted he’s not an emotional guy, but the rollercoaster of his adopted mother sparking his curiosity, his fear of what he might face on a search, inaction when he had the chance, and the combinations of acceptance and rejection were a lot to bear over the years. This is David’s journey. David (00:08):And like I said, by na...
2024-02-1040 minCity On A Hill SermonsRedeemed for Glory: Understanding the Riches of God's Grace - Damon DavisJoin Pastor Damon Davis in an insightful exploration of Ephesians 1:7-12 as he unravels the profound meaning behind redemption and the riches of God's grace. This sermon takes us on a journey through the scriptures, revealing the transformative power of Christ's blood in providing redemption and the forgiveness of sins.
Ephesians 1:7 serves as a cornerstone, emphasizing that in Christ, we have been released from the guilt of sin, achieving redemption through the payment made by His sacrificial blood. The riches of God's grace are abundant, serving as a compensation for our defects, ultimately leading to our acceptance...
2024-02-0840 minWho Am I Really?098 – Trained In TraumaDr. Julie Lopez lives and works in Washington, D.C. Julie’s early childhood was happy at home, but it was her circle of friends that made her question just what was wrong with being adopted? When she graduated college, her need for information, for professional reasons, made her stumble across an old document she’d seen before, which impulsively steered her down the path toward reunion. Along hat road she found trauma that she was already prepared to handle and disappointment that she’s also thankful for because the whole experience keeps her grounded.Dr. Lopez runs the...
2024-02-0339 minWho Am I Really?067 – Part Of The Gift Has Been The Work I’ve Done On MyselfChristie was a shy child who wanted to participate in activities but held herself back from engaging. It wasn't until she was an adult that her adopted brother unexpectedly suggested Christie might want to search. That’s when their mother shared her adoption information. When she found her birth father, he openly acknowledged their relationship and explained that he and her birth mother would have been very young parents with no parents of their own. He introduced Christie to her birth mother, and the women took it slow, getting to know and trust one another. The biggest reunion surprise fo...
2024-01-2041 minWho Am I Really?225 - Damon Davis, Adoption: The Making of MeIn collaboration with my friends, Louise Brown and Sarah Reinhardt I'm bringing you a conversation we had a while back when I appeared on their show "Adoption, The Making of Me. Sarah and Louise are both adoptees with unique stories of their own. These two friends and former business partners Launched adoption, the making of me to open up more frank, honest conversations about adoption with a unique twist. In each episode of their podcast, they recap a chapter of a book that focuses on adoption. Today, I'm sharing with you my story from season...
2024-01-061h 21
Thriving Adoptees - Let's ThriveA Healing Mindset With Damon DavisMindset is rarely talked about in adoptee circles, it's trauma all the way. And yet it's a big part of what helps us heal according to Damon who's interviewed over 200 adoptees for his podcast. Listen in as he shares what he's learned through his own experience and listening to all those other fellow adoptees.Here's the link to Damon's previous episode:https://thriving-adoptees.simplecast.com/episodes/with-damon-davisHere's a link to the Adoptee Therapist Directory:https://growbeyondwords.com/adoptee-therapist-directory/A Little About Damon Davis"I had the...
2023-12-0653 minCity On A Hill SermonsRestoration Beyond Brokenness - Damon DavisIn this powerful sermon, Pastor Damon Davis delves into the profound narrative of Mark 3:1-6, where Jesus encounters a man with a withered hand in the synagogue. As we navigate our way through a world filled with brokenness and challenges, Pastor Damon explores the concept of brokenness, not just as a physical ailment but as a state of emotional pain that can disrupt our lives.
Drawing from the Scriptures and the grace of God, Pastor Damon emphasizes that man is born broken and must live by mending. He beautifully illustrates how the grace of God serves as...
2023-09-1033 minWho Am I Really?105 – I Call Her IncubatorMy guest asked that I maintain her anonymity, so I’ll refer to her as Nina. She shared her story growing up with dedicated parents who embraced her challenges and gave her the foundational support she needed. Her birth father found her through a reunification registry and while he has his own struggles, he’s a very dear friend to Nina. However, her birth mother started down the path of secondary rejection, won’t take responsibility for not getting Nina pre-natal care, and is overzealous with her dedication to her religion, driving a wedge between Nina and the woman. This is Nina...
2023-09-0946 minWho Am I Really?090 – It’s Not Your Fault, I Made It ThroughLori was adopted after her biological mother lived with her adoptive parents, desperately trying to escape the tyranny of her abusive husband. The abuse her birth mother suffered would be a recurring theme in her own life when her mother’s drinking got worse. Lorie tells the story of growing up reminded of the privilege she lived with but wanting only to be herself, not keep up appearances for her mother. When she found her birth mother, she was able to share her own sons with their new grandmother, a woman who missed out Lori’s youth.Read Fu...
2023-09-0237 minWho Am I Really?100 – Purely Loving IntentionsHaley Radke, Host/Producer of the Adoptees On podcast is my special guest for this special 100th episode!Haley shared her story of gaining access to her open adoption record in Canada when she was 18 and quickly connecting with her first mother via email. They met soon after, but that rapid connection at Haley’s young age had its challenges. After secondary rejection, she was much more cautious with her reunion with her birth father. Hard work in therapy saw them through to a good place and inspired her offer therapeutic information for free through her own podcast th...
2023-08-2652 min
Who Am I Really?094 – Why Would You Spend This Much Time Searching?Barry always knew he was adopted, but before he ever launched a search, he was found by his older sister. He tells the story of meeting her, and subsequently meeting his birth mother, both of whom welcomed him into their hearts. Hearing stories about why he was placed for adoption, Barry learned that he may have been lucky to escape his birth parents, but his younger siblings were not. This is Barry’s journey.Read Full TranscriptBarry: 00:00 I decided at that point, prior to going in to meet her, at some point I will just call her mom. So I said it as I was leavi...
2023-08-1940 minWho Am I Really?092 – Paternally UnrelatedCindy knew she was adopted, but she believed the men in her life where of biological relation – she thought she was adopted within the family. She lived decades with what she calls a lie. DNA testing revealed that her biological father was someone else entirely, and her search for her birthmother hasn’t returned any details about where the woman might be. She has developed two amazing relationships with a sister and cousin, but her 11 half siblings want nothing to do with her.Read Full TranscriptCindy: 00:02 I think that, even though I, I’m one that needs to know the truth, I can deal with things in time if I kn...
2023-08-1229 minWho Am I Really?073 – It Hurts That Someone Took Her From This WorldAshley shares her story growing up in adoption and having a positive outlook on her life because she felt she was placed for a reason, living life according to God’s plan. Ashley had two sisters, one adopted, one genetic to her parents but she bonded most over adoption with her lifelong school friend, also an adoptee. She searched off and on for 19 years with periodic focus, but it was a quick lunch break internet search that changed everything. The name she had for her birth mother was one of many aliases. She learned that her birth mother had been...
2023-08-0526 min
Who Am I Really?088 – Being Biracial Never Occurred to MeIn Kenneth’s family all of siblings were adoptees, each fostered in their parents home before their adoption were made final. That scenario worked out great for Kenneth, but not so much so for his oldest sister who never bonded with their mother. Seeking reunion, Kenneth carefully approached his half-sister and learned the truth about his brith mother’s institutionalization which led to his sister’s adoption, and his own conception.Kenneth was still seeking answers as to his birth father’s identity at the time of our interview… for now at least he knows more about where he came...
2023-07-2933 minWho Am I Really?082 – The Only Thing That Divides Us Is The MississippiAnn has an array of experiences from being kidnapped briefly from her adopted family to learning she celebrated the wrong birth date for 22 years. She said she was raised not to question God’s plan in relation to her adoption — so she did so quietly. When she met her biological mother things started out well but turned and remain sour. Fortunately, her birth father’s easygoing acceptance was a welcome surprise that could not have come on a more special day for Ann.Read Full TranscriptAnn: 00:01 I want my Dad on my original birth certificate that myself and others in my shoes should not have to take an act...
2023-07-2946 minWho Am I Really?072 – Amazing Intuition, One Cousin ConnectionRecalling her early family life, Ann said she felt like her parents were sucked into feeling like they had to have a family, and while they were focused on creating a better world in their professional lives, that didn’t necessarily translate to their home life. She always had the feeling her parents cared more about appearances than about who their children were in their uniqueness. Ann sought out her birth mother, but found her maternal grandmother instead. The woman’s receptivity to Ann’s return seemed to be a good sign but ended with secondary rejection. There has only been...
2023-07-1531 min
Unraveling AdoptionUnraveling Adoption's Complexities as Both an Adoptee and an Adoptive Parent with Damon Davis - Ep 101Navigating Adoption's Complexities as an Adoptee and an Adoptive Parent with Damon Davis In this episode of Unraveling Adoption, guest Damon Davis shares his personal journey both as an adoptee and as an adoptive parent, shedding light on the complexities and challenges faced by adoptees and their families. Don't miss this gripping episode that explores the highs and lows of adoption and the power of resilience. In this episode, you will be able to: Traverse the paths of Damon's adoption experiences, acknowledging the multifaceted complexities entwined. Champion adoptive children's yearning for their biological...
2023-07-1046 minWho Am I Really?060 – Its Like Ripping The Wounds Off Over And OverAlisa describes her life as the child of Latvian refugees who escaped the brutality and destruction of World War II. They raised Alisa in the ways of their heritage and while she identifies with her community and her upbringing, she admits she struggled with being an imposter. In reunion, her birth parents had an odd request for her that I’ve never heard before, and that she wasn’t comfortable fulfilling. Over time she began to feel like a disappointment to them. Thankfully, in the middle of it all, Alisa was able to express her love and gratitude to her adopted f...
2023-07-0839 minWho Am I Really?056 – I Feel Whole… Finding Him Was The KeyEvery day Leslie’s birth mother called the orphanage where she was left for adoption. So when Leslie located her birth mother 30 years ago, then tried again to connect with her six years ago, it was shocking that the woman wanted no contact with her. Leslie’s birth mother left her with no clues about her birth father’s identity, but DNA helped her settle the mystery. It turned out that the closure Leslie need came from meeting her birth father, whom she simply calls Dad.Read Full TranscriptLeslie: 00:03 She’s had a lot of time to make all the choices and I’m now in control and so...
2023-07-0132 minWho Am I Really?016 – Shall we Cry? No, Let’s Just Laugh!Jennifer had a very happy childhood and always felt special because she was an adoptee; she knew her parents really wanted her. Their family was heavily involved with the Children’s Home Society in Los Angeles where her mother did fund-raising work. Jennifer so appreciated her loving parents for their lifetime of love and support, but as she got older, she had a feeling that she would be close to her birth mother and that she was likely more like her than her adopted mother. After her own son had a positive reunion experience with a daughter he fathered years...
2023-06-2424 min
Fostering ChangeBest of Season 4 | Damon Davis shares his journey through life as an adoptee to becoming an adoptive parent himselfPlease note that this episode initially aired in November, National Adoption Awareness Month. We acknowledge all, such as our guest Damon Davis, who continue raising awareness about adoption.In this week's episode of Fostering Change, Rob Scheer talks with author and podcast host Damon Davis. Host of the "Who Am I Really?" podcast (www.whoamireallypodcast.com) Damon interviews people who share their stories of adoption and their attempt to find their birth families. He has interviewed nearly 200 adoptees from an array of life experiences from awful adoptions and amazing reunions to inspiring adoptions and unfortunate reunions.
2023-06-1334 min
Who Am I Really?075 – I’m Good On My Own, I Know Who I AmIn her adopted family Tameko’s parents just assumed that as an adoptee, she was misbehaving, but when her older adopted brother showed up he actually started framing her for terrible things, trying force her out. Even worse, he abused her. On her search, she read a description of her birthmother that humanized her, but the first pictures Tameko saw online documented the hardening of a once beautiful woman.Read Full TranscriptTameko: 00:05 this is turning her into a real person and I’m like, I’ve never, I’ve never looked at my mom like that. It’s always somebody was always trying to make her see...
2023-02-1143 minWho Am I Really?091 – I’m In The Middle Of Two StoriesAshley had one of those moments where talking to her biological sister felt so familiar it was like texting and and responding to herself. But her birth mother’s pain and uneasiness over Ashley’s desire to learn anything about her birth father was too much for the woman, and their relationship suffered. When she found her birth father Ashley, predictably, learned that he didn’t know she existed. But incredibly he learned that his wife, who was not Ashley’s birth mother, already knew her husband had a child out there, even though he didn’t. Read Full...
2023-02-111h 11Who Am I Really?084 – There’s A Certain Sense of CompletenessNeal’s search didn’t take off until he was 66 years old! He got a DNA kit for his birthday and within months he was in touch with his paternal family. Ohio’s open original birth certificate help him learn his birth mother’s name, but he couldn’t find a single maternal connection during his search. This episode was just about to be wrapped up to go live, when Neal circled back to share some big news.Read Full TranscriptNeal: 00:01 He didn’t really remember very much about my biological mother and that’s a, that’s a search that continues to this day. Um, and sort of like, uh...
2023-02-0426 minWho Am I Really?074 – I Feel Some Of It TooSerena told me she had a similar experience to what a lot of adoptees feel, even though she grew up with her birth mother. I’m always talking about empathizing with others, so I wanted to hear her story. Serena told me about her birth on a Native American reservation in Arizona then her mother moving away. She was adopted by her father when he married her mother, but Serena never knew her biological father. When her paternal family called to say her birth father was ill, she was too stunned to act quickly, so she only met his relatives a...
2023-01-2823 minWho Am I Really?066 – I’ve Had A Lot Thrown At Me, But I’m A Happy Human BeingRick’s birthmother relinquished him into foster care where he was terrorized as a toddler. He was eventually adopted around age 6 but always felt like an outsider. At 16 years old he reunited with his maternal family who informed him his mother was institutionalized for paranoid schizophrenia. Their reunion didn’t go at all how he had hoped. When he found his birth father, the man was incarcerated but welcoming. Eventually, Rick distanced himself from his birth father and when he tried to reconnect, it was too late.Read Full TranscriptRick: 00:03 Like this was part of her schizophrenia, you know, so she believes that she had another c...
2023-01-1451 minWho Am I Really?029 – A Lifetime of Interveners Saw Me ThroughBorn in the Panama Canal Zone, Stephanie was adopted by a US military family stationed there in 1961. She was never told she was adopted, but she always knew there was a family secret. When she was 43 years old Stephanie discovered the secret was her own adoption.Because she was born in the Panama Canal Zone, her adoption records were available through a Freedom of information Act request (FOIA). Unfortunately, that didn’t lead to a reunion with her biological mother. After 13 years, she has never heard from her biological mother.Fortunately, she reunited with her birt...
2023-01-0759 min
Fostering ChangeDamon Davis Shares His Journey Through Life as an Adoptee to Becoming an Adoptive Parent HimselfPlease note that this episode was initially scheduled to air in November, National Adoption Awareness Month. We acknowledge all, such as our guest Damon Davis, who continue raising awareness about adoption.In this week's episode of Fostering Change, Rob Scheer talks with author and podcast host Damon Davis. Host of the "Who Am I Really?" podcast (www.whoamireallypodcast.com) Damon interviews people who share their stories of adoption and their attempt to find their birth families. He has interviewed nearly 200 adoptees from an array of life experiences from awful adoptions and amazing reunions to inspiring adoptions...
2022-12-2034 min
Wandering Tree ®, LLC PodcastS2:E17 Reunion Musings with Damon DavisIn the third of a four part series on adoptees attending biological family reunions, Host Lisa Ann and podcaster Damon Davis have a great conversation. They cover the blessing of a fairytale reunion with a biological mother to the all-in aspects of a family reunion event. Wandering Tree was so grateful for the time these two spent in fellowship and looks forward to the next opportunity. Here is a bit more about our guest: Damon Davis is the host of the "Who Am I Really?" podcast (www.whoamireallypodcast.com) where...
2022-09-0857 min
The Black Adoption PodcastS3E32: "Who Am I Really?" x Damon Davis"I consider myself to be on the far end of the scale of good reunions." - Damon DavisEvery search and reunion story is unique, and Damon Davis knows this well. More than 150 adoptees have shared their stories on his popular "Who Am I Really? Podcast" and his own search and reunion stories (plural) made our hearts swell (you'll definitely want to read his memoir and be prepared for a good, ugly cry).Damon was raised by two Black parents and for most of his life he had no desire to search for his biological...
2021-12-071h 23
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2021-12-0612 minWho Am I Really?069 – I Lived As A Secret, That’s Not HealthyHonor described a childhood in isolation, so much so that it impacted her health when she started school. Wondering about her biological parents, she developed a romantic story in her mind that they were in love but simply couldn’t keep her. It took her many years to track down her real story which was far more complex, and at one point she thought that one of her worst fears was true. When she found her birth mother, they only had a passing anonymous introduction to one another and when they met again years later, the woman was unable to re...
2021-09-1148 minWho Am I Really?080 – It’s Not About How You Got HereRachel is a Hispanic woman of Chilean descent, raised in a Jewish family. She shared her feelings of otherness trying to connect with other Spanish speaking children with her limited proficiency. Rachel describes her father’s blindness to her heritage, and her unbelievable luck to have strangers who went out of their way to help her meet her birth mother in Chile.Read Full TranscriptRachel: 00:03 It took me a while to sort through it. I remember talking to my grandmother about it and she said, you know, Rachel, it’s not about how you get here, It’s about what you do with yourself once you’re h...
2021-08-2845 min
Who Am I Really?076 – What Would My Life Be Like In Korea?Kim is a Korean born adoptee raised in an all-white community. She shared how she always pushed down her desire to search for her birth mother until the recent political climate brought out the true colors of her adoptive mother. I’ve heard stories of Asian adoptees having trouble making connections overseas, but Kim’s connection was quick and easy. But building a relationship through a translator, secrecy, and secondary rejection have left Kim with a broken heart.Read Full TranscriptKim: 00:06 And we look very, very much like really? That was very emotional for me because growing up in a place where there weren’t a...
2021-08-0735 minWho Am I Really?065 – Two Years Too Late, Then I Was ShockedDana received her original birth certificate and when her husband looked up her birth mother’s name they found her obituary. It took her two years to find an address for her surviving aunt and a year to find the courage to write to her. Her Aunt gave Dana a name for the man who could be her birth father, but he was also deceased. Luckily DNA testing told a different story.Read Full TranscriptDana: 00:03 She never knew about me. She thought that she was an only child for her her entire life. So finding out that she has an older sister that came as kind of l...
2021-07-2428 minWho Am I Really?061 – I Know They May Not Love Me…Stephanie grew up in a very wealthy family in South Carolina and you’ll hear discuss the family’s fortune, but pause before you pass judgment on how easy life must have been. Her story is filled with manipulative behavior, malicious intentions, and a foundation created from lies. You’ll also hear Stephanie’s intelligence and tenacity to get her through the tough times as she learned the truth about her adopted family’s feelings towards her, the story of how she arrived in her aunt’s care, and the tough road to connect with her sister.Read Full Tra...
2021-02-0659 minWho Am I Really?131 - I'm More Confused Now, I'm BrokenElissa, from Hilton Head, South Carolina, said never bonded with her adopted mother. She did find a second home with her horseback riding coach and the horses she adored. Finding her biological mother gave Elissa a glimmer of hope that the woman stokes and extinguishes in a torturous cycle. Speaking with her birth father only once, she confirmed the story of his own paternity, but Elissa never heard from him again. Relying on her husband, the first person she’s shared real love with, Elissa wishes reunion didn’t leave her so confused and feeli...
2020-10-1755 minWho Am I Really?046 – I Am Adopted, It Is Who I AmJennifer is a reunited adoptee from Pittsburgh. She’s a petite, white blonde of European descent whose adoptive parents are a Spanish man and a Mexican woman. Through her search, she found both of her natural parents are deceased, and she had half brothers on both sides, both named Tom. Unbeknownst to Jen, her maternal half-brother attended the same high school she did and bullied her! On her maternal side, she experienced secondary rejection which will never be resolved because her grandmother developed dementia and passed away.The post 046 – I Am Adopted, It Is Who I Am appeare...
2020-09-1953 minWho Am I Really?063 – I’m Really Glad You Came, But It’s Gonna Be A WhileBrenda was born in California, grew up on the east coast and lives in Texas. She’s the child of a military family that has lived all over. When a school project required her to ask her adoptive mother about her family tree at eight years old, she was shown her non-identifying information for the first time. While the offer was open to review her information anytime, Brenda felt like the topic of her adoption was stressful for her mother, so she never asked. After the birth of her first son, Brenda sought her birth parents, definitively identifying her birth...
2020-09-1255 minWho Am I Really?033 – My Sister Reunited Too, But Didn’t Know About MeJenny journaled about her birth mother from an early age. She grew up in a loving family, but the urge to find her birth family was always there. When Ohio opened it birth records, she obtained some vital information that led her to her birth mother on Facebook and later to her birth father. But she never expected to learn she had a full sister!The post 033 – My Sister Reunited Too, But Didn’t Know About Me appeared first on Who Am I...Really? Podcast.Jenny (00:02):I called them and I told them who I w...
2020-09-0524 minWho Am I Really?064 – The Truth Is Stranger Than FictionJulie describes herself as very independent from her parents’ influences and drastically different than her older adopted brother. She tells the story of finding her birth mother thanks to open access legislation in Australia and the gentle influence of a psychic she visited for fun. When her birth mother shared that her birth father could only be one person because there were only two men in her life, it took a long time, a bit of disappointment, and some DNA investigation and luck to determine there had to be a third man. Listen as Julie tells her story of going...
2020-08-0848 minWho Am I Really?051 – The Black Sheep Rocks The BoatMegan says she put her adopted mother through the ringer emotionally when she was a teenager. She thinks that’s partially because of her anger with her birth mother over her relinquishment. Most adoptees have no clue whom they’re setting out to find when searching for biological relatives, but Megan knew precisely who her birth mother was and what she looked like. In reunion, she found her half-brother who knew Megan’s birth father’s identity, because they were friends.The post 051 – The Black Sheep Rocks The Boat appeared first on Who Am I...Really? Podcast.Megan...
2020-08-0138 minWho Am I Really?044 – She Never Met Me, But She Saw MeAngie lived a split life as a child in small-town Mississippi. During the week her mother had her in all kinds of activities and her stepfather was her rock. On the weekends her dad exposed her to alcohol, drugs, and abuse. Through it all, she suspected that she was adopted but her mother lied about it for 19 years. In reunion, Angie learned that her birth mother had seen her several times as a little girl on the Gulf Coast of Mississippi. She got healing from her birth mother who said she always loved Angie and developed a cherished bond...
2020-07-2552 minWho Am I Really?026 – I’ve Got A Second Mom And I Can Love Them BothAt 16 years old, Ron decided to satisfy his curiosity about his first family. But his search was challenging. He was born on a South Carolina Air Force Base that had closed, the internet didn’t have the reach that it has now, and AncestryDNA’s connections didn’t help. He recruited the help of a search angel who recognized important information in the search that Ron hadn’t seen before. In the end, his mother was glad to be found, and he got some answers about himself and his family. Check out Ron’s site FindingTrueFamily.comThe post 026...
2020-07-1829 minWho Am I Really?112 - My Whole Life Is a SuccessAndrew called me from Connecticut after a move from Maryland. He told me that he’s been through a lot in his life. He’s a transracial, international adoptee who grew up in a predominantly white community there in Connecticut. He shares how he strode to overachieve in athletics and performing arts to try to overshadow his brown skin, the unmistakable mark of being an adoptee in his community. However he credits his strong Catholic faith for getting him through everything, including coming out as a gay man. This is Andrew’s journey. Andrew (00:02):On top of all...
2020-03-1428 min
Immerse Yourself In A Full Audiobook That Is Simply Vivid.Who Am I Really by Damon DavisPlease visithttps://thebookvoice.com/podcasts/2/audible/168998to listen full audiobooks.
Title: Who Am I Really
Author: Damon Davis
Narrator: Damon L. Davis
Format: mp3
Length: 6 hrs and 18 mins
Release date: 02-04-20
Ratings: 5 out of 5 stars, 21 ratings
Genres: Adoption & Fostering
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"Who am I, really?" is a question many adoptees ask when they realize they have another family of genetic relation. Damon L. Davis shares his journey through life as an adoptee to becoming an adoptive parent himself. He explores his desire to find his birth family as sparked by the flood of emotions that accompanied the birth of...
2020-02-046h 18Who Am I Really?055 – I’ve Found My Answers And Fulfillment Helping Other PeopleKatelyn followed her older adopted sister into rebellion against their adopted mother’s rule. Years later her husband suggested they do DNA tests when she got pregnant. Seeing relationships online she hadn’t considered before, she searched for her birth parents, uncovering family secrets and helping other adoptees in the family tree find theirs. At times, the search left Katelyn very puzzled, even totally dejected. She found her birth mother and sisters happy to meet her, and her birth father in prison.Read Full TranscriptKatelyn: 00:05 I was never asked about my adoption in any depth it was mentioned, but I always feel like my therapies...
2020-01-1843 minWho Am I Really?059 – I’m Heather 1Vonni learned from the neighbor’s child that she was adopted, but she was too young to know what it really meant. In her teen years, the yearning to understand her adoption led her on a journey an hour away to the adoption agency for her non-identifying information. It contained a horrible terrible story, that seemed to be questionable according to the social worker who documented her adoption. In the years that followed, Vonni continued to drive a long way to search the yearbook archives for her birth mother, only to be linked with her birth father first. When she f...
2020-01-0445 min
Who Am I Really?062 – One Month Of Bonding Helped Me With A Lifetime In AdoptionTim was adopted into a Lutheran family and his curiosity about his roots started when he was very young. When he met his biological mother, she portrayed her husband as Tim’s father, but the truth came out when her daughters suggested a different version of the truth. It wasn’t until Tim’s early 70’s that he made paternal links and solved the mysteries of his lifeRead Full TranscriptTim: 00:01 So they were staying with me and then they brought me along to the convention, into the Party afterwards and brought me to the party and these are old friends of theirs saying, well, who is thi...
2019-12-2846 minWho Am I Really?039 – I’m An Adult, But They’re Acting Like ChildrenMitch’s parents adopted his older brother, then him. Then they got a surprise addition to the family. They had a great life outside of Chicago, but Mitch did feel somewhat sidelined by the attention paid to his youngest sibling. He learned as a teen that not everyone in his family was supportive of adoptions, and his attempts at reunion have been a frustrating set of rejections.The post 039 – I’m An Adult, But They’re Acting Like Children appeared first on Who Am I...Really? Podcast.Mitch (00:03):And I pulled up my shirt an...
2019-12-2143 minWho Am I Really?027 – I Got A Picture Of My Mother’s Sadness Though Other PeopleAs a kid, Rebecca was considered quirky. Unbeknownst to her, that quirkiness was an after effect of fetal alcohol syndrome. She tells the story of learning her birth mother’s lonely and troubled past, and the closure she finally got after she learned of her mother’s death.The post 027 – I Got A Picture Of My Mother’s Sadness Though Other People appeared first on Who Am I...Really? Podcast.Rebecca (00:03):I went to bed that night and I woke up and I went back to the picture and I'm like, Oh my God. I wa...
2019-12-1438 minWho Am I Really?002 – When the Law is in the Way, Try DNALaura became a dear friend when we quickly bonded over being adoptees while working together. Laura had been searching for her family of origin for years, before the age of the internet, and the promise of consumer DNA testing linking long lost relatives. In this episode Laura reveals her childhood challenges to bond with her adopted family who were open about her adopted status in unhealthy ways. Their mental health issues and the emotional childhood that Laura lived, drove her desire to find her family origin, as the wondered about her biological mother every day.The post 002 La...
2019-12-0739 min
Who Am I Really?096 – The Safe Space That’s Don’s PlaceSinger Song writer Jenni Alpert, commonly referred to by her birth name, Cami had a wonderful life supported by her adoptive parents as she pursued the performing arts. After her adoptive father passed away, she learned that her biological mother had too. Her maternal connections went well over time, but her paternal side remained a mystery. Locating her birth father was one thing… doing reconnaissance, ensuring her safety, and tapping into over a decade of her various volunteer experiences with people who’s lives were in the streets was something different. In their story you’ll hear the dedication of a da...
2019-08-241h 01Who Am I Really?054 – I Just Want To Sit And Be At PeaceAfter 52 years in adoption, Mary never had a desire to locate her birth family. Her feeling was they had given her up, so she didn’t really want to share how well she turned out. Still, Mary obtained her non-identifying information in 1999, to satisfy medical history curiosity. On Christmas eve 2017 she emailed her birth mother who replied within hours, and the two were connected. The only thing left was to reach out to her birth father, who didn’t know she was alive.The post 054 – I Just Want To Sit And Be At Peace appeared first on Who Am I...
2019-07-2740 minWho Am I Really?018 – What I Gained Through Reunion Is ContextRebecca always knew she was adopted, but she also recognized that she didn’t quite fit with her adopted family. While she loved them a lot, she noticed physical and personality differences between them. She was taller with a different skin tone than them. She’s an extrovert raised by introverts and she calls herself a circuitous thinker that was raised by linear thinkers.When her own child was born, then got sick, Rebecca thought to herself “I’ve got to find these people” and began her reunion journey. But the laborious process to try to uncover identifyin...
2019-07-2025 minWho Am I Really?025 – I Feel So Lucky, I Got Way More Than I Bargained ForWith extra time on her hands, Jennifer used a Search Angel to locate her biological relatives. She connected with her maternal Aunt over Facebook Messenger, simultaneously emailing her birth father using his contact info from LinkedIn. Hoping for a connection to her biological mother, the pendulum swung in the other direction after her mother rejected her. Jennifer recovered almost immediately with a loving connection to her biological father whom she has a natural bond with.I hope you’ll remember David’s amazing story, in episode 15 “We Wish We Could Have Grown Up Together”. He remembered the day, when h...
2019-07-1330 minWho Am I Really?022 – I’m Still On This Journey, Using My Experience to Help OthersMarni grew up in Madison, WI in a transracial family that lived a predominantly white community. Everywhere they went, they were stared at for the heterogeneity they brought to the community. The attention their family received was a constant reminder of their own racial diversity, but Marni’s father seemed to have wise and crafty ways to turn the tables to make his own children feel more comfortable. Still, Marni’s family had some internal dysfunction that fed her desire to search for her biological family always wanted to find her biological family.
Initially, she thought things with her biological mother were...
2019-06-2234 minWho Am I Really?028 – Working Out The Puzzle Pieces Helped Me Feel WholeElise has always been into genealogy and loved looking at family photos & records when she was a child. As a child of adoption, she wondered where her family of origin was? Reunion has had its ups and downs for Elise. The experience with her birth father’s family has been great over the last 20 years. She’s used her genealogy skills to solve a mystery about her paternal grandfather. Elise keeps a door open for communication if her mother or maternal family want contact, yet she understands and accepts that her mother may not be in a position to have a...
2019-06-1540 minWho Am I Really?023 – I’ve Found My JoiGrowing up Joi tried to convince herself that being adopted didn’t bother her because she had such a great family. But in reality, great parents did not erase the fact that she didn’t know her birth parents. She laments that never saw anyone who looked like her, and of course, she could never answer a doctor’s questions about her health history.After connecting with a close cousin on AncestryDNA, they began a search through the family tree to locate her birth mother. After the state of New Jersey opened adoptee birth records, the cousins learne...
2019-05-2547 minWho Am I Really?081 – I’ve Got The World By The TailSandee shared the story of her life with an adopted brother who was coddled by their mother, so much so, that it reinforced her own natural position as a Daddy’s girl. That favoritism forced Sandee’s independence from her mother, but also created a bit of a rift between them. Locating her birth mother happened very quickly once she was offered some search assistance. But when those same volunteers couldn’t find anything about her birth father, Sandee questioned whether her birth mother had been honest about her conception. Luckily, when the truth was finally revealed through DNA, Sandee...
2019-02-2344 minWho Am I Really?081 – I’ve Got The World By The TailSandee shared the story of her life with an adopted brother who was coddled by their mother, so much so, that it reinforced her own natural position as a Daddy’s girl. That favoritism forced Sandee’s independence from her mother, but also created a bit of a rift between them. Locating her birth mother happened very quickly once she was offered some search assistance. But when those same volunteers couldn’t find anything about her birth father, Sandee questioned whether her birth mother had been honest about her conception. Luckily, when the truth was finally revealed through DNA, Sandee...
2019-02-2344 min
Who Am I Really?078 – I’m In Recovery, I’m In A Good Place Megan grew up in an affluent suburb of Chicago and was comfortable with her adoption, but curious about her start in life. After pregnancy, “I struggled with mental health problems and became addicted to narcotics and anti-anxiety meds.” When she met her maternal relatives, things went well until her aunt shunned her for her addiction recovery. On her paternal side, that same news, being in recovery, was met with acceptance, because we all have our challenges. More than anything, Megan is thankful to finally have a sister, and it’s someone listeners already know. (http://www.whoamireallypodcast.com/071-i-wo...
2019-02-0245 minWho Am I Really?071 – I Would Give Anything To Hear His VoiceAmanda describes her childhood with a father she considered to be a hero and a mother whom she loves despite her physical and mental abuse while showing favoritism toward her sister. She always wanted to search for her birth parents, scouring her house for information about herself when she was a kid. Unable to endure the abuse against herself and her brother Amanda called social services, after which she was disowned. When she finally obtained her adoption records she found one birth parent was deceased, and the other didn’t want contact yet.Read Full TranscriptAmanda: 00:02 I want him to contact me when he wants to be a...
2018-10-2046 minWho Am I Really?068 – I Don’t Feel Lost, I Know Where I Come FromDaniela was born in a small mining town in Chile. Adopted by a German family who moved from South America to Miami, she never felt like she belonged. While struggling as a teenager and burning to know more about her own heritage she was psychoanalyzed and medicated by doctors, and she wanted to end it all. When she found her maternal sisters online their reunion in Chile was lovely. Later when Daniela’s paternal sisters found her online, the maternal family said they never wanted to hear from her again. Daniela’s reunion with her paternal family has helped her get...
2018-09-2942 minWho Am I Really?058 – I Feel Like I’ve Found My TribeNicole was adopted into a military family, the structure of which ran against her freewheeling nature. She’s an interracial woman with interracial adopted parents, so they looked like a natural family. In reunion, Nicole is facing secondary rejection from her birth mother, but her maternal grandparents and uncle have accepted her with open arms. She’s learned that her birth father wanted to keep her, and her paternal family feels so natural, Nicole feels like she’s found her tribe.Read Full TranscriptNicole: 00:05 I feel like I’ve found my tribe. These are, these are the people that like I fit. I feel like I’ve found peac...
2018-05-2650 minWho Am I Really?057 -My Acceptance Is Etched In StoneKendra’s story is filled with peaks and valleys of emotion. After running far, far away in her teens, Kendra’s adopted mother blamed her for her adopted father’s demise. She and her mother were estranged for years until her adopted mother’s mortality changed their relationship. In reunion, her birth mother accepted her return but kept Kendra a secret. Decades later she had an amazing reunion with her siblings, only to find things were turning upside down at home.Read Full TranscriptKendra: 00:05 I think that’s why I never really talked about my childhood with my kids. I just thought I’m just going to lock it up...
2018-05-1942 minWho Am I Really?052 – Little Who?Kandi grew up in a loving Christian home, an adoptee with one older sister who was biologically related to their parents. Kandi found her biological mother living in Gulf Port, Mississippi where she was lucky to spend time with the woman before losing her a few months later. Today, Kandi’s family reflects the structure of her own childhood—-she has 6 biological children, and one adopted daughter, who is actually her biological niece.The post 052 – Little Who? appeared first on Who Am I...Really? Podcast.Kandi (00:03):I've never faulted her for putting me up for...
2018-04-1439 minWho Am I Really?050 – Dem Smell De Blood, They Know Who You AreKennon was raised by in the lumber town of Mattawa, Canada, where he was one of the only people of color in the community. Growing up in a predominantly white community, he later had trouble assimilating into the black and Jamaican communities when he moved to Toronto. Struggling to find himself, Kennon journeyed to the land of his roots, Jamaica, discovered Rastafarianism, and ultimately found the love and acceptance he missed his entire life.The post 050 – Dem Smell De Blood, They Know Who You Are appeared first on Who Am I...Really? Podcast.Kennon: (00:05)...
2018-03-3145 minWho Am I Really?035 – Interview w/ A Search Angel – For Every Answer You Get, There Are More QuestionsNovember is National Adoption Awareness Month, so I’m bringing you a different perspective from the adoption community. On prior episodes you’ve heard adoptees talk about the amazing work that they’re search angels have done with them. Today I’m introducing you to one of those search Angels. You’ve already heard about her work in my interview with Stephanie (in episode 29) where she lauded the work of her amazing spouse AND Search Angel, Diana. Diana has always been into family history and exploring genealogy, so when Stephanie’s search for her birth relatives began Diana was all in. Diana sh...
2017-11-1837 minWho Am I Really?031 – Finding HopeJamie grew up an only child with her wonderful adoptive parents in the suburbs of Atlanta, GA. She was happy to hear in reunion that her birth parents had already talked about her existence with their families. Living in Tennessee, she found her birth mother right back in Atlanta, in the same county where she lived as a girl. Jamie shares some truly special moments she was blessed to share with her birth father including a special dance, and an epic celestial event.The post 031 – Finding Hope appeared first on Who Am I...Really? Podcast.Jami...
2017-10-2142 min
Who Am I Really?030 – Don’t Fall For “I Can’t Talk To You On The Phone”Jen had a very nice childhood with her parents and never really wanted to search for her birth parents until her friends started having kids. But the ultimate spark that ignited her desire to search came from a family tragedy.In the aftermath Jen located her birth mother and they connected over social media, but Jen could never get her mother on the phone and that gave her a bad feeling. While she’s thankful for the few answers she did get about her past, Jen wishes she had not been deceived and has a warning for other...
2017-10-1441 minWho Am I Really?024 – I’m Deeply Hurt, But I Hope You’re HappyLouise was one of four a dual heritage children raised by white parents in England. She had a fantastic childhood. So much so that she has adopted twice. But along her impulsive journey into reunification, Louise was exposed to uncomfortable situations including her biological grandfather’s impending death, overt racism in her mother’s family, and total rejection by her biological father. Unfortunately, Louise’s mother’s withholding of facts also prevented her from knowing her sister, who once was interested in reunification.The post 024 – I’m Deeply Hurt, But I Hope You’re Happy appeared first on Who Am I...R...
2017-09-0236 minWho Am I Really?021- With Every Heart Break, My Heart Gets BiggerMarcie finally felt plugged into her biological family after years of divisive behavior from her adopted mother. Her mother never nurtured a bond between Marcie and her adopted siblings and had a hard time overcoming some of her own childhood issues. In reunion, Marcie connected with her biological father who amazingly helped solidify a deeper connection to Marcie’s aunt, his sister. Marcie and her aunt both share an innate connection to their own spirituality. Even though her biological mother was not in a place to be part of Marcie’s reunion with her father, she was able to make...
2017-08-1234 minWho Am I Really?000: Welcome to Who Am I Really?I’m devoting this program dedicated to helping people placed into adoption to explore their own emotions, desires, and questions about reuniting with their biological family by asking others like us to tell their own true stories. I’m so thankful for the life that my adopted parents gave me, but I also had the incredibly good fortune to be reunited with my biological mother in 2009. Our story is amazing to me because our reunification unfolded in a way that I never could have predicted. However everyone’s search and discovery journey is different and we’ll share an array of storie...
2017-03-0409 min