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Get Your Marriage On! with Dan PurcellGet Your Marriage On! with Dan Purcell7 Candid Answers To Prepare You For A Thriving Sex Life I read an excellent book a few years ago. It's for parents talking to their kids about sex. There was a chapter towards the end of the book titled Honeymoon Horror Stories, which really caught my eye and changed the way I think about the importance of getting and teaching our next generation a solid sex education as part of their research for the book. The authors collected many true stories of Christian couples about their struggles with their first experiences with sex and other sexual struggles earlier in their marriage. As I read these sad stories, I...2025-05-0253 minGet Your Marriage On! with Dan PurcellGet Your Marriage On! with Dan PurcellTwo Truths and a Lie: Marriage Edition, with Sheila and Keith Gregoire  Ever play the game "Two Truths and a Lie"? (A person makes three statements, and you guess which two are factual and which one is false.) Well, we get to play that game today on our episode with my guests Sheila Wray Gregoire and her husband Keith (return guests to the Get Your Marriage On Podcast). The Gregoires completed extensive research, surveying thousands of Christian couples, and recently published their findings in a new book called The Marriage You Want. I've read this book and I think it's really well done, so I in...2025-04-1133 minGet Your Marriage On! with Dan PurcellGet Your Marriage On! with Dan PurcellOptimal Sexual Experiences: 8 Factors Backed By Research with Dr. Peggy Kleinplatz If you were to pause and think about your very best sexual experiences that you've ever had, can you identify what made them so great?  For many years, academics studying human sexuality at universities were primarily interested in figuring out what goes wrong in the bedroom so they can fix it and get back up to baseline functioning.  But, the guest I interview in this episode took a very different approach: she didn't just want to study people who are experiencing sexual dysfunction, she wanted to study people with extraordinary sex lives and what they were doing righ...2025-02-2825 minGet Your Marriage On! with Dan PurcellGet Your Marriage On! with Dan PurcellWhy Perfect Sex is Ruining Your Love Life (And What to Do Instead)Do you ever feel like a failure at sex?  In this episode, I'll be breaking down why perfectionism is the enemy of good sex and how you can build a virtuous cycle of intimacy with small, consistent wins. I'll share real stories, practical strategies, and a fresh way to think about sex that takes the pressure off and brings the pleasure back. If you're ready to ditch the pass fail mentality in the bedroom and start experiencing deeper connection with your spouse, you won't want to miss this episode. Resources: Intimately Us...2025-02-2026 minGet Your Marriage On! with Dan PurcellGet Your Marriage On! with Dan Purcell222: An Honest Conversation About BDSM (Hint: It's Not What I Expected) - Part 1Like many of you, I've had questions about BDSM for a long time. I've had preconceived ideas of what it was and wondered how it fits into my faith and the style of intimate play my wife and I enjoy.   I have also received emails and DMS from many of you listeners asking me about BDSM in the context of a faithful Christian marriage. I've been hesitant in doing an episode about this for a long time, until I found the right guest.   I used to think BDSM was dark and evil--a thinly disguised form of...2025-01-1146 minGet Your Marriage On! with Dan PurcellGet Your Marriage On! with Dan PurcellQ&A - "Help! My Wife is Vanilla When it Comes to Sex"Ever feel like you wish your wife was a little less vanilla? Every wish your spouse would be more enthusiastic about trying new things in the bedroom (or out of the bedroom for that matter)? Ever ask your spouse what their fantasies are, and they look at you with a blank stare or an "I don't know"? Ever get frustrated when, after a discussion about your sex life and things get better for about a week or so, and then fizzle and go back to the way they used to be? A husband recently emailed me with...2025-01-0328 minGet Your Marriage On! with Dan PurcellGet Your Marriage On! with Dan PurcellBlack Belt Sex Tips 4.0 I studied martial arts for 13 years when I was younger and I became proficient in three different styles of Karate and Kenpo. As you progress towards being a black belt, the fundamentals don't change, but your ability to be more precise and skilled in using those fundamentals improves dramatically.  Like in my martial arts training to being a better lover, the fundamentals such as communication, touch and being present with arousal, and so on don't change. But your ability to use those fundamentals to be better at sex hat's deeply connecting as well as giving and receiving ple...2024-12-2756 minGet Your Marriage On! with Dan PurcellGet Your Marriage On! with Dan PurcellQ&A - Erotic literature, overweight husband, discussing trying new things, and wooing your spouseI get so many questions through the anonymous question form on my website, so it's time to answer some more. We address these topics today: A husband doesn't feel like his wife values sex and intimacy in their marriage Spouses wondering if erotic literature has a place in a Christian marriage A husband wanting more novelty in a sexual relationship, but don't know how to talk about it A wife feeling turned off by an overweight husband A spouse unwilling to try new things in the bedroom A wife wanting ideas to woo her husband These are...2024-08-0240 minGet Your Marriage On! with Dan PurcellGet Your Marriage On! with Dan Purcell192: Why is it Hard to Keep Sex Passionate When You've Been Married for a Long Time? with Jenn Pinkerton & Dan PurcellFor most couples, there's a lot of hot passion and excitement during the early dating and engagement time and for a while after the wedding. But over time, we develop routines, scripts, and become habituated to each other. This is normal and serves a good purpose. However, herein lies the challenge: how do you create an intimate marriage with lots of passion long term? This is the very thing I research, teach, and coach about in my program and at my retreats. And I was a guest on the Redhead Reveal podcast. The host, Jen Pinkerton, is...2024-06-2139 minGet Your Marriage On! with Dan PurcellGet Your Marriage On! with Dan PurcellCultivating Healthy Eroticism in Long-term Marriages, with Dan PurcellFor a lot of us, we associate the word "eroticism" with something that's distasteful or something that we probably shouldn't want as a Christ-loving people, right?  We don't go embracing the things we see on Las Vegas billboards, for example. So eroticism to to some is kind of something hard to hear.  Now, this is a concept I teach towards the end of our retreats and my program because there's a lot of groundwork to cover first to understand it. And I understand that we generally don't talk about eroticism because it's very personal. But wh...2024-06-0732 minGet Your Marriage On! with Dan PurcellGet Your Marriage On! with Dan PurcellThe Art of Dirty Talk (SPOILER ALERT: it's not actually dirty), with Melanie StudleyLet's get one thing out of the way right up front: dirty talk isn't dirty. It's actually an intimate form of communication to let your spouse into your heart and mind. It's a way to express the erotic part of you with your lover. It's about using your words to arouse. The nice thing about married sex, is that it's a place you can go where things don't always have to be so cleaned up, you don't have to be so buttoned up. You can be less formal with each other and use language with each other...2024-05-1045 minGet Your Marriage On! with Dan PurcellGet Your Marriage On! with Dan PurcellThe Anatomy Of A Sex Date, with Dr. Glenn & Phyllis HillAfter recording last week's episode, but Dr. Glenn and Phyllis hill, we stayed on and chat a little longer. We got started talking about sex dates and how Glen and Phyllis look forward to this time. So I suggested we record another episode to share this fun and creative concept with you. If you miss last week's episode, we talked a lot about emotional connection. This week's episode is all about this sexual connection, and it's a fun one and full of so many nuggets!  If you're like, we should totally do a sex date, bu...2024-04-2648 minGet Your Marriage On! with Dan PurcellGet Your Marriage On! with Dan Purcell4 Pillars to Take Intimacy From Sub-optimal to First-Rate, Both In and Out of the Bedroom, featuring Dr. Juli SlatteryPicture this. The journey of building an intimate marriage is much like a road trip through winding paths and scenic routes. Sometimes there's traffic jams. Sometimes there are stretches of long, boring highways or lonely, dark nighttime drives. Sometimes there are flat tires and detours. And then there are beautiful vistas, new destinations at thrilling speeds, and awe-inspiring, jaw-dropping scenes that move you in a profound way, leaving you forever changed. My guest today is Dr. Julie Slattery of Authentic Intimacy. She's a psychotherapist that helps Christian women embrace their sexuality. You'll get to hear Dr. Slattery o...2024-04-0542 minGet Your Marriage On! with Dan PurcellGet Your Marriage On! with Dan PurcellThe Secret to Transforming Your Marriage Isn't So Hidden After All: A Conversation with Dan, Amy, Tammy, and GregI feel called to this important work that I do in Get Your Marriage On! It is extremely important and meaningful work to me. The changes I've experienced in my own marriage were too good to keep to myself, and I wanted to share it with others. In some ways, I feel like I'm a missionary again--sharing the good news of the gospel to others. In fact, I strongly believe that there are many parallels between sexual development and spiritual development, and I'm not alone in sharing that opinion.  Today, I invited Amy, Greg and Tammy, who a...2024-03-2950 minGet Your Marriage On! with Dan PurcellGet Your Marriage On! with Dan PurcellWhy Christians Should Be Having the Best Sex, Featuring Francie WinslowCan you relate? Growing up in a good, Christian family, you conversations about sex were mostly about biological reproduction or God's word on chastity.  Perhaps those conversations served you well as a teenager, but after married, you're left with a lot of questions and maybe even painful experiences as the realities of sex and marriage didn't fit with what you thought it would be.  I used to think sexuality and spirituality were incompatible. However, after digging into our own Christian theology, I came to understand that it supports embodiment, sensuality, and sexuality in a...2024-03-1539 minGet Your Marriage On! with Dan PurcellGet Your Marriage On! with Dan Purcell177: Coaching A Couple Through Resurrecting Their Dead Sex Life, with Dan Purcell & Amy Langford For anyone listening that wishes intimacy was less conflict and more connection, this episode is for you! I messed up Two weeks ago, I released a podcast episode about dead bedrooms. I read an email from a man who is in a lot of pain around his relationship. So I addressed areas where I could see that he could work on in his relationship, but unfortunately, that episode lacked compassion and I was wrong. So I want another chance to do it again properly this time. 2024-03-0848 minGet Your Marriage On! with Dan PurcellGet Your Marriage On! with Dan PurcellPregnancy & Postpartum Sex, Sexting, Swinging, and Meddlesome Masturbation Habits - Q&A with Dan PurcellToday we get to talk about some really exciting topics as we answer your questions from the anonymous question form on our website:  How to deal with sex and intimacy while you're pregnant and postpartum. What to do when you're hesitant about taking sexy photos or nude photos of each other. What to do when you have a spouse as obsessed with swinging and you disagree with it. What to do when a masturbation habit is interfering with intimacy and pleasure for the couple.  I really appreciate your willing to open your heart and trust me with som...2024-03-0131 minGet Your Marriage On! with Dan PurcellGet Your Marriage On! with Dan PurcellResurrecting Dead Bedrooms with Amy Langford & Dan Purcell It's an understatement to say that it's frustrating being in a marriage where sex is non-existent or very infrequent. According to Justin Lee Miller, PhD, who's a sex researcher, about one in seven Americans are in relationships with little to no sex. I believe good sex is healthy for a thriving growing marriage relationship. Sex is bonding, contributes to your overall health, and not to mention really, really fun and exciting. I'm on a mission to eliminate poverty and bedrooms everywhere. I want to help couples overcome their challenges that inhibit them from fully receiving all the...2024-02-2351 minGet Your Marriage On! with Dan PurcellGet Your Marriage On! with Dan PurcellDirty Talk, Bondage, Masturbation and More - Q&A with Dan PurcellI'm excited to answer some anonymous questions I have received from listeners. Some topics we cover include the following: Learning to dirty talk and flirt more How to deal with undesireable sexual side effects from medications Self-Soothing Overcoming gridlock The use of bondage in a marriage bed When grief affects sexuality Masturbation and more! If you would like to submit an anonymous question for me to answer on the podcast, on Instagram, or in an email, you can do so on our website.  --- We have an exciting new program coming u...2024-02-1629 minGet Your Marriage On! with Dan PurcellGet Your Marriage On! with Dan PurcellCreating Space for Moms (and Dads) to Feel Like They Are in Control Again with Ariel Finlinson Picture this: It's a typical day. You're lying in bed. Snoozing your alarm clock for the third time, your resolve to get to the gym weakening. You were interrupted again last night from a child that needed you. And as you awake the demands of the day, press on you. Lists appear in your mind what shopping needs to be done, which child has which appointment, the field trip that you volunteered to go on, the assignment at church you agreed to do, and so on and so on. You get out of...2023-12-0839 minGet Your Marriage On! with Dan PurcellGet Your Marriage On! with Dan PurcellHow to Keep Your Marriage Hot in the Middle of Raising Little Kids with Kingdom SexualityOne pernicious thought the often gets in the way of our intimacy is a thought that we can put the romance and desire side of our marriage on the back burner while we raise our children. The reality is the greatest gift we can give our children right now is for us as parents to have a thriving marriage and erotic relationship that feels alive. Prioritizing desire in our relationship, within reason, has done wonders for our marriage.  So today I've invited three, yes, three guests onto my podcast. This trio is part of Kingdom S...2023-11-2449 minGet Your Marriage On! with Dan PurcellGet Your Marriage On! with Dan PurcellI Don't Need You (But I Want You), and Mindful Loving Oftentimes in our quest to have a deeper, more intimate marriage, it's really not a question of whether you want to be loved or loved more. It's really a question of a capacity to love or be loved more. In my work with couples and individuals, helping them grow intimately in their marriages, one of the very first things I teach them is how to be more mindful. Most of us cruise through the day on autopilot, not quite aware of the thoughts that go through our head.  However, when we develop the s...2023-11-1046 minGet Your Marriage On! with Dan PurcellGet Your Marriage On! with Dan PurcellHow a Sexy Bedroom Game Took Our Sex Life to the Next Level with Dan & Emily PurcellRETREAT FLASH SALE: We've sold out of the main hotel (Hotel Lucy), but we're offering some spots at an overflow hotel next door at a discounted rate! It's $300 off right now through Sunday, September 24. PLUS, if you send us a DM on Instagram @getyourmarriageon, we'll send you a code to get another $100 off! This is the best price you'll get, so don't delay! Get the details here. *** We're going back in time a couple years today as I'm bringing back an episode from our archives. I'm doing this for a few reasons: We have...2023-09-2242 minGet Your Marriage On! with Dan PurcellGet Your Marriage On! with Dan PurcellYes Dear, Size Does Matter (if we're talking about your heart) featuring Dr. Clifford and Joyce PennerMy wife and I both grew up in good homes, but stereotypical to most that grow up in a conservative Christian culture in the 80s and 90s, conversations around sex were usually limited to biological reproduction or staying pure from sexual thoughts. These messages served me well before we were married but after we were married, we realized that these models led to anxiety about sexuality and difficulty with our sexual relationship. These issues didn’t really surface until after a decade into our marriage, when we weren’t so entrenched in survival mode from raising a young family any...2023-07-2849 minGet Your Marriage On! with Dan PurcellGet Your Marriage On! with Dan PurcellExpressing Your Preferences Without Offending, Sex Ed for Your Kids, Novelty & Pleasure - Q&A My friend Hailey Reidhead from the She's a Lady podcast recently reached out to me about a number of topics related to sex and intimacy in marriage. I love these questions. They're genuine and honest. And I'm grateful to Hailey for allowing us to share this discussion on the Get Your Marriage On! Podcast today because I think you might be wondering about many of the same questions that Hailey was asking, such as these: How do you talk to your kids about sex and intimacy? If you're single or recently divorced, how can...2023-07-0751 minGet Your Marriage On! with Dan PurcellGet Your Marriage On! with Dan PurcellExpressing Your Preferences Without Offending, Sex Ed for Your Kids, Novelty & Pleasure - Q&A My friend Hailey Reidhead from the She's a Lady podcast recently reached out to me about a number of topics related to sex and intimacy in marriage. I love these questions. They're genuine and honest. And I'm grateful to Hailey for allowing us to share this discussion on the Get Your Marriage On! Podcast today because I think you might be wondering about many of the same questions that Hailey was asking, such as these: How do you talk to your kids about sex and intimacy? If you're single or recently divorced, how can...2023-07-0751 minGet Your Marriage On! with Dan PurcellGet Your Marriage On! with Dan PurcellTalking to Your Teenagers About Sex with Sheila Wray GregoireI have six children, including 3 daughters, and I want to raise them well. I want to set them up for success in their future marriages. Research shows how we talk to our children, especially our daughters, about dating, sex, and relationships can affect the type of person they marry and how satisfied they’ll be in their marriage. After doing this interview you’re about to hear, I realize there are a few areas I can improve in..  Sheila Wray Gregoire is a friend of mine, as well as the author of several books on the topic of se...2023-05-1932 minGet Your Marriage On! with Dan PurcellGet Your Marriage On! with Dan PurcellPraying For Your Sex Life with Dan PurcellToday. I just want to get honest with you and talk about marriages and why they are really difficult sometimes. Frankly, marriages take a lot of work. A wedding may have just been a day; but building a marriage, especially an intimate marriage, is a lifetime pursuit. And let’s be honest, there’s a lot of pain and suffering that goes on inside of a lot of marriages. I can’t think of anything more challenging, stretching, testing, and at the same time, more fulfilling than trying to build an intimate marriage. In reality, at least for me...2023-04-2818 minGet Your Marriage On! with Dan PurcellGet Your Marriage On! with Dan PurcellCultivating "Biblical Eroticism" with Dr. Jennifer DeglerIn our Christian culture, we’re sometimes afraid of the word “erotic,” thinking it has something to do with unsavory media or loose morals. Many of us grew up in a culture where anything sexually exciting was considered less-than worthy or shameful.  However, our erotic natures are actually a beautiful part of being human and a way of experiencing the divinity within us. When cultivated, our erotic nature can draw us closer to our spouse in very special ways.  I hear stories from couples where sex is considered a necessity to satisfy the other partner rather t...2023-03-2440 minGet Your Marriage On! with Dan PurcellGet Your Marriage On! with Dan Purcell117: From Purity Culture to Developing One's Eroticism with Brandi K. HarrisThe older I get and more experience I gain, the more I’ve come to appreciate my eroticism as a part of me. I haven’t always been this way though. In all of its good intentions, sometimes people internalize the heart of the purity message by being void of sexual feelings or urges, as if it’s a virtue to not have any sexual thoughts or feelings. The reality is that just as we are spiritual, mental, emotional, and physical beings, we’re also sexual beings. We can grow sexually as we grow spiritually.  And my se...2023-01-1344 minGet Your Marriage On! with Dan PurcellGet Your Marriage On! with Dan Purcell113: How Men Can Have Multiple Orgasms with Dan Purcell With practice patience, determination, and mindfulness men can prolong the pleasure they feel by resisting ejaculation and prolonging their pleasure and orgasm period. So today I wanted to show you that orgasm and ejaculation are actually two separate physiological processes in the body. And how it's the ejaculation that is responsible for the start of their refractory period. And I want to offer you some tips on how to enjoy multiple orgasms without ejaculating. Here are the links to the events and programs mentioned in the episode: 6 Weeks to Multiple Male...2022-12-1621 minGet Your Marriage On! with Dan PurcellGet Your Marriage On! with Dan Purcell96: Thoughts on Loving WellIn this episode, Dan shares lessons learned about what it means to love someone well. He discusses reflections about courage and creating an intimate marriage where there's room for two people to thrive. He shares other thoughts from his mother, who passed away from cancer a few weeks ago. 2022-08-1915 minGet Your Marriage On! with Dan PurcellGet Your Marriage On! with Dan Purcell86: Initiating Sex with Dan PurcellInitiating sex can be a very powerful way to communicate love and desire to your spouse. Initiating is a powerful bid for connection. It’s a way of saying, “I want to connect with you.” Initiating can be very intimate. And it’s very validating to be wanted sexually. To prepare for this episode, I ran an informal survey of our Instagram followers to get a better idea of what other couples struggle with when it comes to initiating. The answers were enlightening and I saw several patterns in the responses.  I hope you find this epis...2022-06-1030 minGet Your Marriage On! with Dan PurcellGet Your Marriage On! with Dan Purcell84: When the Higher Desire Spouse is Anxious For Sex with Dan PurcellIn every marriage, there is a spouse with higher desire for sex and a spouse with lower desire for sex. In this episode, I'll talk about the benefits of being higher or being lower desire. As the high desire spouse in my marriage, I know what it's like to feel anxious or "needy", and it's not attractive. I'll share some thoughts on what we can do about our anxieties to improve intimacy and connection in our marriages coming from a place of strength rather than weakness. 2022-05-2723 minGet Your Marriage On! with Dan PurcellGet Your Marriage On! with Dan Purcell80: When You Don't Feel Validated By Your Spouse with Jessica VaughanIt’s normal to seek validation from our spouse in marriage. By validation I mean to get a sense of our legitimacy as a person and a spouse, such as being told we’re sexy enough, pretty enough, and desirable. And it’s normal to seek that validation. But what do you do when you don’t feel it? What do you do when you feel like your spouse isn’t interested in you romantically or sexually? What about those times you don’t feel cherished or respected?  If you’re hoping to feel inspired today, you’ve c...2022-04-2934 minGet Your Marriage On! with Dan PurcellGet Your Marriage On! with Dan Purcell78: Libido, Sexual Desire, and Food with Dan Purcell  When it comes to sexual desire, there’s a lot we can learn from our stomachs. Hey, we’ve eaten food our whole lives!   In this podcast, I will discuss 5 lessons I’ve learned about sexual desire from food. I want to encourage you to honestly discuss the differences you have in your sexual "appetites" or desires and learn how to be a good partner to your spouse.   #getyourmarriageon #sexeducationpodcast #malesexeducation #christianmarriage #christiansexeducation  2022-04-1523 minGet Your Marriage On! with Dan PurcellGet Your Marriage On! with Dan Purcell76: Lets Ask a Sexpert with Manda Carpenter I had the privilege of being a guest on Manda Carpentner’s podcast called A Longer Table, and wanted to share that interview here because I think the things we discussed are super valuable for you to hear. In this interview, we talk about a number of topics such as:  Purity Culture What to do when you feel the need to manage an other’s sexuality How important is sex, really? What is your definition of sex, and does it have to involve intercourse? If you’re struggling sexually, what advice...2022-04-0140 minGet Your Marriage On! with Dan PurcellGet Your Marriage On! with Dan Purcell75: Amazing Intercourse with Ruth BuezisFor many individuals, myself included, intercourse can feel very pleasurable. Couples can find deep meaning through intercourse as well: feeling intimate, personal, sweet, and bonding.  However, intercourse isn’t always fireworks for both people. And how can you make intercourse better for both people?  That’s what we want to talk about in today’s episode! I learned a lot from this episode and I hope you do too! Ruth Buezis is a gifted educator that has taught thousands of people how to improve their sex lives from a Christian perspective. She was a guest...2022-03-2535 minGet Your Marriage On! with Dan PurcellGet Your Marriage On! with Dan Purcell73: Life is short. Have great sex. with Al CarrawayAl Carraway is probably the most optimistic and positive person I’ve ever met. Just being with her for an hour was life-changing. “Life is too short to stay unsatisfied.” and “Stubbornly refuse to have a bad sex life.” are two quotes that have rung in my head ever since our conversation. Al is from New York, and became a Christian in her early 20s. She’s a mother, wife, award-winning motivational speaker, and author of three books, including one about marriage. She’s inspired millions of people through her message. I hope you enjoy this podcast episode!2022-03-1140 minGet Your Marriage On! with Dan PurcellGet Your Marriage On! with Dan Purcell72: Date Nights and Scoring "Home Runs" with Kate and Eric MacDougallHow does your current marriage dynamic help or hinder intimacy? Are you good at expressing your desires within your marriage? How does growing into your best version of yourself translate into a deeper connection with your spouse? And how can these things contribute to really good sexual experiences? These are the questions I’ve had on my mind as I reached out to Eric and Kate MacDougall, founders of Evolved Marriage. They’re marriage and relationship coaches, and I hope you learn as much as I did from this conversation.2022-03-0436 minGet Your Marriage On! with Dan PurcellGet Your Marriage On! with Dan Purcell71: How to Talk to Your Spouse About Sex with Amanda AmmonsTalking about sex with your spouse is not easy for most of us. Whether it’s about preferences, desire level differences, pornography use, physical difficulties, or a number of issues, many of us find it easier to just resent our spouse rather than see the situation honestly as it is and take responsibility for our role in the matter. I enjoyed this interview with Amanda Ammons. You’ll get to hear us discuss practical and helpful strategies on how to discuss sexual issues with your spouse and how to design the kind of sex life you want for...2022-02-2534 minGet Your Marriage On! with Dan PurcellGet Your Marriage On! with Dan Purcell70: What to Do If Your Spouse Isn't Interested with Dan PurcellWhat if your spouse isn't enthusiastic about the same things you are? I get this question often. Specifically, what to do if your spouse isn’t on board with your desires sexually. I have five thoughts about this that I want to share. There is much more that can be discussed here, as every person’s situation is complex, but I hope some of these ideas can help!2022-02-1817 minGet Your Marriage On! with Dan PurcellGet Your Marriage On! with Dan Purcell69: Overcoming Hang-ups with Oral Sex with Dan PurcellThis is episode #69, and in honor of everyone’s favorite two-digit sexy number, I thought we’d have some fun and do an episode all about oral sex! The best sex is intimate sex, and if you have the right mindset, oral sex can be very intimate, leading to deep connection and relationship satisfaction. There’s something very intimate about opening your heart and letting yourself be known to your special someone in this way. From a practical standpoint, oral sex is also very pleasurable, which we’ll talk about. As Dr. Ian Kerner, an American...2022-02-1135 minGet Your Marriage On! with Dan PurcellGet Your Marriage On! with Dan Purcell68: How I Fixed My Husband with Laura Doyle The thing that stood out to me the most in this interview you’re about to hear is how important it is to focus on being our best selves if we want to fix our marriage. Also how important it is to shed our egos. And when we married, we signed up to love our spouse: meaning, to be their champion and cheerleader, not their critic. Laura Doyle is The New York Times best-selling author of several books, including The Empowered Wife. She’s also the star of the Amazon Prime series Empowered Wive...2022-02-0443 minGet Your Marriage On! with Dan PurcellGet Your Marriage On! with Dan Purcell67: Pursuing Desire Together with Alana & Paris: Kingdom SexualityPassionate marriages require a healthy tension between two forces that paradoxically are at odds with one another: Security which is love and intimacy and Growth which is desire, autonomy, and adventure. In this episode, I had the privilege of interviewing Alana and Paris from the Kingdom Sexuality Podcast. We discussed how one can navigate love and desire in marriage and cultivate more desire & erotic energy in your relationship. Alana and Paris have a cool story. They were friends as youth, attended the same church, but each moved away, married, and started a family of their o...2022-01-2838 minGet Your Marriage On! with Dan PurcellGet Your Marriage On! with Dan Purcell66: Developing Gourmet Sex Skills with Cami HurstPart of being an adult is unlearning the things that no longer serve you, and learning new things that bring richer meaning to your life.  When it comes to sex, there’s a lot that isn’t helpful that we can unlearn, and a lot we can learn to bring deeper meaning and joy to our most important intimate relationships.  I had the pleasure of interviewing Cami Hurst, a talented and passionate certified sex therapist out of Boise Idaho. We talk about how to make sex more “nutritious” and “gourmet” for the couple, why motives (or the why) ar...2022-01-2155 minGet Your Marriage On! with Dan PurcellGet Your Marriage On! with Dan Purcell65: Goals, God, and How To Have Romantic GetawaysA few years ago, I was sitting around a campfire with other dads, hearing their stories of exciting trips and getaways they've been on with their wives. I was depressed, thinking, "woe is me!" With 6 young kids, and on a budget, all I could think of was reasons why I would never be able to enjoy that kind of an experience. Fast forward six months later, I was sitting on a beautiful beach in Florida with my wife, just the two of us, enjoying one of the most intimate and romantic moments of our marriage up until...2022-01-1428 minGet Your Marriage On! with Dan PurcellGet Your Marriage On! with Dan Purcell64: Improving Intimacy is an Inside Job with Jeff and TomThe quickest way to improve your relationship with your spouse is to first work on yourself. However, working on ourselves can be hard. Participating in a high-quality group coaching program can often be just the thing to get you going in the right direction. Last week we shared an inspiring story from Mark and Mindy. This week I have two inspiring guests, Tom and Jeff. Tom and Jeff were part of the last cohort for my Men’s Intimacy & Desire coaching program. Both Tom and Jeff are successful in their careers and have seen quite a...2022-01-0734 minGet Your Marriage On! with Dan PurcellGet Your Marriage On! with Dan Purcell63: From Brink of Divorce to Intimate Lovers with Mark and MindyIn today's podcast, you’ll have the privilege of meeting one of my favorite couples on the planet, Mark and his wife Mindy! Mark was in my most recent Men's coaching cohort. Six months ago Mark and Mindy were on the brink of divorce after 25 years of marriage. However, they have worked really hard and with God’s help, and a little bit of effective coaching, they had grown a lot in a short time. I'm excited for you to hear their story! If you’re interested, the next cohort for my coaching program starts on Jan...2021-12-3146 minGet Your Marriage On! with Dan PurcellGet Your Marriage On! with Dan Purcell62: Sex is For Both Of Us, Not Just For Him: Maegan Denotter's Sextimony I hope you’ve enjoyed the slight change of pace over the last couple of episodes. Rather than interviewing professionals, I want to share stories from real ordinary couples about how they’ve transformed their marriages into something extraordinary. Their stories are real, raw, vulnerable, and inspiring.  This is our third and final “Sextimony” episode in our three-part Sextimony series, where we’re sharing stories from ordinary couples about how they’ve transformed their marriages and found great joy and connection from a satisfying sex life.  Maegan and her husband Sam ha...2021-12-2935 minGet Your Marriage On! with Dan PurcellGet Your Marriage On! with Dan Purcell61: How We Gained Confidence In The Bedroom: Faith and Brennan's SextimonyI’ve personally gained a lot from courageous couples opening up to me, in appropriate ways, how they’ve found deeper connection and joy in their sex lives. I want to share stories from real ordinary couples about how they’ve transformed their marriages into something extraordinary. Their stories are real, raw, vulnerable, and inspiring. These four couples talk about mindset shifts that lead them to better sex. We’ll call this a “Sextimony” series! This is our second installment in our four-part Sextimony series. Our guests today are Faith and Brennan West. They’re such a great couple...2021-12-2234 minGet Your Marriage On! with Dan PurcellGet Your Marriage On! with Dan Purcell60: I Took Charge of My Orgasm: Sharon Williams's SextimonyI’d like to be part of changing the stigma around talking about elevating sex in marriage. I’ve personally gained a lot from courageous couples opening up to me, in an appropriate way, how they’ve found deeper connection and joy in their sex lives. So far in this podcast, we’ve generally interviewed experts in marriage or sex-related careers to one degree or another. I want to switch gears for the next three episodes. Rather than learn from professionals, I want to share stories from real ordinary couples about how they’ve transformed their marriages into somet...2021-12-1549 minGet Your Marriage On! with Dan PurcellGet Your Marriage On! with Dan Purcell59: Intimate Communication and Sex As A Language with Dan Purcell We communicate a lot about who we are and how we feel about our spouse by the way we engage (or avoid) sex. Intimacy is about a willingness to let ourselves known, and that can be scary sometimes.   If you're new around here, welcome! We are thrilled to have you. My wife and I hosted a couple’s retreat in beautiful St. George Utah! It was in the mountains, with a lake, and each couple had their own private cabin or stayed at a nearby hotel. Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife was the instructor and she did phenomenally! She taught us for all...2021-12-0828 minGet Your Marriage On! with Dan PurcellGet Your Marriage On! with Dan Purcell58: Improving Intimacy with Sex Toys with Teresa & BlairOk, I’m just… really curious. I have a ton of questions about sex toys. Teresa and Blair are the owners of the website, Romantic Blessings, and were gracious to have a frank conversation with me about vibrators and sex toys. I’ve had this view that sex toys were dirty, bad, and all about solo masturbation. I had this stigma that they were unsavory. But I’m learning they can be a great addition to you and your partner’s sexual experience. In the right context, they can add to the bonding and intimacy that makes sex fulfil...2021-12-011h 04Get Your Marriage On! with Dan PurcellGet Your Marriage On! with Dan Purcell57: Finances and Intimacy with Ashlee Binderim I’ve heard it said that issues relating to money are the second leading cause of divorce in America. Although we focus a lot on sexual intimacy on this podcast, with Christmas and the financial stress it brings to marriages right around the corner, I thought addressing how to get on the same page with your spouse regarding money would be a good topic to address.   And that’s when I found Ashlee Binderim on Instagram. Ashlee and her husband Dave started their marriage with over $225,000 in debt. They were both working part-time, going to college full time, and barely makin...2021-11-2426 minGet Your Marriage On! with Dan PurcellGet Your Marriage On! with Dan Purcell56: Commuter Marriages with Elaine & Abe RomeroDo you or your spouse live apart for part of the time? How do you keep your marriage strong when you may not see each other every day? And can distance really make the heart grow fonder? If you’re wondering these things too, you’re going to love this episode. Roughly 4 million American couples live apart for some of the time, whether for military, pilots, artists, traveling salespeople, medical professionals, or for other reasons. Elaine, a licensed marriage & family therapist, and her husband Abe, found themselves in a commuter marriage through some unique circumstances. They help othe...2021-11-1733 minGet Your Marriage On! with Dan PurcellGet Your Marriage On! with Dan Purcell55: When Infertility Interferes with Intimacy with Sadie BanksAbout 1 in 8 couples have trouble conceiving. Infertility can become a real struggle for couples, sometimes interfering with intimacy and impacting their sex life. I’m was fortunate enough to meet Sadie Banks, a mother of one (soon to be two) who has dealt with years of struggles revolving around infertility and the impact it’s had on her marriage. In this episode, Sadie shares what she’s learned and offers helpful tips on how to keep your marriage growing through it all. If you or someone you love is struggling with intimacy during infertility, I hope this episod...2021-11-1031 minGet Your Marriage On! with Dan PurcellGet Your Marriage On! with Dan Purcell54: Media's Impact on Sexual Desire and Intimacy with McCall BoothModern electronic media has had a big impact on relationships, especially in the last two decades. It’s never been easier to stay in touch with loved ones or improve real-time communication. Like many things in life, media use can be helpful and harmful on our relationships, depending on how it’s used. I got in touch with McCall Booth, a super-smart Ph.D. candidate at Indiana University that researches the media's impact on marriage and families. I hope her insights help you and your lover draw closer intimately with wiser media choices.2021-11-0329 minGet Your Marriage On! with Dan PurcellGet Your Marriage On! with Dan Purcell53: Praying For Your Husband Daily with Julie BenderBuilding a strong marriage requires each individual to also be strong on their own. We also want to feel free in our relationships, which requires a lot of maturity and personal growth. My guest today is Julie Bender. I love her story because she illustrates what growing and maturing in a relationship can look like. Julie's shares how she's learned how to embrace her story, and in that, found healing and her true self. To learn more about Julie check out The Julie Bender Show Podcast and the This Grit and Grace Life Podcast which she co-hosts...2021-10-2735 minGet Your Marriage On! with Dan PurcellGet Your Marriage On! with Dan Purcell52: Black Belt Sex Tip Roundup with Dan PurcellThis episode, #52, marks 1 year of podcast episodes for Get Your Marriage On!  I’ve had the privilege of interviewing many sex experts over the previous year. In many of the episodes I ask them what black belt sex tips they’d give to a couple in a healthy marriage up the quality of connection and pleasure in the bedroom.  I’ve rounded up my favorite 20 tips. Ready? Let’s go!2021-10-2034 minGet Your Marriage On! with Dan PurcellGet Your Marriage On! with Dan Purcell51: How to Talk to Your Kids About Sex with Tammy HillHave you ever wondered how do you talk to your kids about sex? Why does talking about sex with our kids feel awkward most of the time? What's the best approach to talk about dating relationships, our bodies, and everything in between? What about the hard topics? Well, if this has been on your mind, you're in for a treat today, as I am able to sit down with Tammy Hill. Tammy is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and an adjunct professor of Family Life at Brigham Young University.2021-10-1346 minGet Your Marriage On! with Dan PurcellGet Your Marriage On! with Dan Purcell50: Sharing your Load with Dr. Morgan CutlipHave you ever noticed that there’s something almost invisible and intangible that interferes with our ability to connect with our spouses sometimes? According to our expert guest today, it affects women more than men. It’s about the mental load we carry, how our minds are constantly buzzing with all the things that need to get done. Couples that develop the skill of “bearing one other’s burdens so that they may be light” find more room to connect and find happiness in their relationship. Morgan Cutlip has a PhD in counseling psychology from the University of Akron a...2021-10-0633 minGet Your Marriage On! with Dan PurcellGet Your Marriage On! with Dan Purcell49: How to Listen So Your Spouse Will Talk with Oliver & Denise MarcelleAhhhhh, communication in marriage. It’s so important, and also a source of frustration in our most important relationships! We don’t always know how to talk, and more importantly, listen to one another, especially when emotions run high. Learning to talk about intimacy in marriage is also a skill we can develop. My guest today is Denise and Oliver Marcelle founders of Denoli LLC. They mentor couples on improving their communication skills for deeper intimacy and connection. They’ve been married for 20 years and have 3 children.2021-09-2943 minGet Your Marriage On! with Dan PurcellGet Your Marriage On! with Dan Purcell48: Grief and Sex with Cecilie OttWe all experience times of loss and grief. I received an excellent question from a listener in regards to this: "My wife and I are grieving due to loss and it is something we are trusting God with and through but this is an odd space to be in to think about or bring up sex. I know things need to look different but help to navigate this would be helpful. Can you do a podcast episode or a blog or something on how to think about intimacy while walking through grief?" So today's podcast...2021-09-2237 minGet Your Marriage On! with Dan PurcellGet Your Marriage On! with Dan Purcell47: Self Care & the 3-2-1 Rule with Dan PurcellTaking care of yourself is part of taking care of your relationship. Join me for this SOLO episode and learn how to use the 3-2-1 rule to enhance yourself and your relationship with your spouse.2021-09-1515 minGet Your Marriage On! with Dan PurcellGet Your Marriage On! with Dan Purcell46: Joy's Journey: Overcoming Shame, Porn, and Painful SexDan interviewed Joy Skarka from Authentic Intimacy. Joy's story can be described in one word: freedom. She is passionate about creating spaces to free women from shame. Tune in to hear how Joy found freedom from sexual abuse, sexual addiction, and how she navigates painful sex. Joy is the Authentic Intimacy's Director of Discipleship. To learn more about Joy and her work visit Authentic Intimacy.2021-09-0834 minGet Your Marriage On! with Dan PurcellGet Your Marriage On! with Dan Purcell45: Everything Isn't Terrible with Dr. Kathleen SmithClose romantic relationships are often fraught with anxiety. It just comes with the territory, and it’s a beautiful part of what makes us human. How we deal with that anxiety is a different story though. I read Dr. Kathleen Smith’s excellent book, “Everything Isn’t Terrible” and learned sooo much about how my family’s dynamic affects the way I show up in my marriage and other relationships. Tune in to hear my interview with Dr. Smith on how differentiation - a term she uses to describe a mature way to deal with anxiety -- leads to better relat...2021-09-0140 minGet Your Marriage On! with Dan PurcellGet Your Marriage On! with Dan Purcell44: Mindfulness & Sex with Dr. Chelom LeavittMindfulness is a buzzword these days, but its roots are deep. In this podcast, I interview Dr. Chelom Leavitt, PhD, an impressive woman that researches the link between mindfulness practice -- the ability to be fully present -- and sexual satisfaction in long-term married couples. Your full presence is one of the greatest gifts you can give another person. When you're mindful you can be with the person you love in mind, body, and spirit -- especially in our most precious intimate moments!2021-08-2543 minGet Your Marriage On! with Dan PurcellGet Your Marriage On! with Dan Purcell43: Is It OK to do ____ in bed? with Daniel BurgessA common question we get at Get Your Marriage On! is what is okay to do in the bedroom. When faith, values, and personal desires collide it can be confusing or even discouraging. People often seek a checklist of do's and do not's. In this podcast, Dan interviewed clinical Psychologist Daniel Burgess who specializes in Marriage and Family Therapy and has a passion for helping couples navigate sexual intimacy. Dr. Burgess challenges us to grow and become curious about our physical intimacy as he explains why understanding our values and relationship with God is important when it comes to...2021-08-1840 minGet Your Marriage On! with Dan PurcellGet Your Marriage On! with Dan Purcell42: Religion and Positive Male Sexuality with Dr. Anthony HughesOne huge factor in enjoying a life-giving sex life is your overall attitude towards your own sexuality. Today, we have the privilege of interviewing Dr. Anthony Hughes.  In this episode you'll learn to embrace your sexuality and not be ashamed of cultivating and sharing this powerful force within our marriages. Dr. Anthony Hughes is a sex therapist and founder of Covenant Sex Therapy. He is also a professor at Brigham Young University, a private religious school. Tune in to hear his view of sexuality from a faith and spiritual standpoint. Spoiler alert: it’s very positive!!2021-08-1136 minGet Your Marriage On! with Dan PurcellGet Your Marriage On! with Dan Purcell41: From Doing It Out of Duty to Desire with Dan PurcellIn today's podcast episode I hope to share a message of hope and understanding to those that feel like the intimacy they experience in the bedroom is duty sex. I want to talk about what duty sex is and what it isn’t, why couples fall into the pattern of duty sex, and what you can do about it.   2021-08-0425 minGet Your Marriage On! with Dan PurcellGet Your Marriage On! with Dan Purcell40: Dating Your Spouse After Kids with Tara CarsonThe difference between an ordinary marriage and an extraordinary marriage is the little 'extra'." When you say "I Do", it's not the end of your dating years: it's just the beginning of a lifetime of growing and learning together. There's no one else I know who's more dedicated to making it easy for couples to keep dating after marriage than Tara Carson, the founder of The Dating Divas. In this episode we'll discuss how to come up with great date ideas, how to keep dating when you have little children, how to find great babysitters, and other...2021-07-2843 minGet Your Marriage On! with Dan PurcellGet Your Marriage On! with Dan Purcell39: What a Boudoir Photographer Taught Me About My Body with Caley NewberryHave you ever thought about hiring a Boudoir photographer? Even the thought of having boudoir photos taken can be uncomfortable. Being willing to be photographed, as you are, imperfections and all says a lot about your willingness to accept and love yourself for who you are. What an admirable trait. Listen in as Caley Newberry Caley Newberry Studios a Nashville Boudoir photographer shares her story and how boudoir can bring you joy and a newfound love for your body.  Enjoy!2021-07-2138 minGet Your Marriage On! with Dan PurcellGet Your Marriage On! with Dan Purcell38: Rewriting Your Sex Script with Dr. Ian KernerLike any good story, every sexual encounter has a beginning, a middle, and an end. Most normal marriages have a few "scripts" they follow when it comes to their sex routine. In this episode Dr. Ian Kerner, a New York Times Best Seller and famous sex therapist, walks us through how we can analyze our scripts to improve the quality of sexual experience. In this episode we also discuss challenges that most monogamous couples face, incorporating both intercourse and "outercourse" into our scripts, ideas for closing the orgasm gap, and much more! Enjoy!2021-07-1431 minGet Your Marriage On! with Dan PurcellGet Your Marriage On! with Dan Purcell37: Scheduling Sex with Tony and Alisa DiLorenzoJoin Dan this week as he discusses scheduling sex with Sexperts Tony and Alisa DiLorenzo from ONE Extraordinary Marriage. Tony and Alisa share how scheduling sex into their busy lives changed their marriage. They also address common concerns with scheduling sex, such as loss of romance. Tune in to learn more!   2021-07-0734 minGet Your Marriage On! with Dan PurcellGet Your Marriage On! with Dan Purcell36: Desire, Fantasy, and Foreplay with Dr. Laurie WatsonWant to spice up your love life but don't know how? Desire, fantasy and foreplay are natural part of sexual intimacy. Sharing your desires and fantasies with your spouse is a fulfilling way to brings more passion to your marriage. Join Dan and our Sexpert Dr. Laurie Watson's to learn more tips on overcoming common difficulties surrounding foreplay, desire, and fantasy! Dr. Laurie Watson is a nationally acclaimed sex therapist, author, blogger, and co-host of the Foreplay Radio podcast. 2021-06-3037 minGet Your Marriage On! with Dan PurcellGet Your Marriage On! with Dan Purcell35: More than Just a Body with Ariel FinlinsonThis week on Get Your Marriage On! Dan talks with Ariel Finlinson from @ladies.talkinglove about misconceptions some people grow up with about their bodies and sex. Ariel shares some personal experiences with how she perceived her sex prior to marriage and how that changed once she was married. Spoiler alert! - Intimacy in marriage is way better than what the world teaches.2021-06-2333 minGet Your Marriage On! with Dan PurcellGet Your Marriage On! with Dan Purcell34: Horizontal vs Vertical Novelty with Dan PurcellOf course we want our marriages to be a lifetime source of happiness, fun and excitement! However, after you've been married for a while, it's so easy to get used to each other and our regular patterns that even sex can seem boring at times. It's natural to want to infuse newness and novelty into your relationship. But how? In this episode we discuss two ways of thinking about novelty: horizontal (by broadening your repertoire) and vertical (diving deep to find hidden treasures within your spouse). We also discuss how to keep things in balance for a long-lasting and "...2021-06-1618 minGet Your Marriage On! with Dan PurcellGet Your Marriage On! with Dan Purcell33: Sexual Agency with Carlie Palmer-WebbThis week on Get Your Marriage On! Dan interviews the The Christian Sex Educator, Carlie Palmer-Webb, MS. Carlie is a licensed Psychologist and Sex Researcher. Together Dan and Carlie discuss the importance of Sexual Agency within Marriage. 2021-06-0933 minGet Your Marriage On! with Dan PurcellGet Your Marriage On! with Dan Purcell32: Purity Culture's Impact on Your Marriage, with Dr. Camden MorgantePurity Culture has impacted many of our lives. This week on Get Your Marriage On! Dan speaks with Dr. Camden Morgante. Dr. Morgante shares a few myths she actively works to dispel as a licensed clinical psychologist.2021-06-0234 minGet Your Marriage On! with Dan PurcellGet Your Marriage On! with Dan Purcell31: Getting In Touch With Your Sexuality with April DavisApril Davis is a sex educator and runs the popular Instagram page called "the Vagina Blog". Join Dan as he and April discuss desire, arousal, sexual health, limiting beliefs, and making your sexuality a priority. 2021-05-2651 minGet Your Marriage On! with Dan PurcellGet Your Marriage On! with Dan Purcell30: Fixing the Fairness Trap in Marriage with Dr. Nate & Kaley KlempAll marriages struggle with "fairness" within marriage at one point or another. Join Dan this week as he interviews Nate and Kaley Klemp from 80/80 Marriage on how to not get stuck competing with one another in the name of fairness. 2021-05-1932 minGet Your Marriage On! with Dan PurcellGet Your Marriage On! with Dan Purcell29: 'I Want You' vs. 'I Want Sex' with Dan PurcellSex at it's very best is intimate. Join Dan this week by listening to his first solo podcast! Dan talks about initiation of sex and how that can differ from marriage to marriage or within a marriage over time! When you change your mindset from 'I want sex' to 'I want you' the very best intimacy occurs. Also! Tune in to hear 2 EXCITING things Get Your Marriage On! has happening this year! Whoot Whoot! You won't want to miss it.2021-05-1219 minGet Your Marriage On! with Dan PurcellGet Your Marriage On! with Dan Purcell28: Understanding Your Spouse using the Enneagram with Christa HardinDo you know your Enneagram number? Join Dan this week as he interviews Christa Hardin the Founder of Enneagram + Marriage! Christa is a Clinical Therapist and Life Coach. Tune in to hear Dan and Christa discuss the benefits of knowing your Enneagram and how it can impact or improve your marriage.  If you are curious as to what your enneagram type is here are some resources:  https://www.enneagramandmarriage.com/ https://www.yourenneagramcoach.com/ https://app.trueself.io/ https://www.truity.com/test/enneagram-personality-test2021-05-0529 minGet Your Marriage On! with Dan PurcellGet Your Marriage On! with Dan Purcell27: For High Desire Wives Did you know that the wife is the high desire partner in 15-20% of marriages? It's not uncommon for women to have a higher desire for sex than men!   This week Dan sat down with J Parker - a Christian Sex Author, Speaker, Blogger, and Podcaster. J discussed what it's like to be a high desire wife. She also discussed how the common assumption that men are always the higher desire partner is simply not true. Tune in to find out more!   2021-04-2837 minGet Your Marriage On! with Dan PurcellGet Your Marriage On! with Dan Purcell26: 'Maturing in Marriage with God' with Dana CheThis week on Get Your Marriage On!, Dan interviews Dana Che. Dana is a relationship and marriage coach. Together they discuss how God can help you overcome common struggles within marriages while living true to your identity. 2021-04-2138 minGet Your Marriage On! with Dan PurcellGet Your Marriage On! with Dan Purcell25: What a Pelvic Floor Therapist Taught Me About Sex with Dr. Becky Allan and Dr. Corrie MaguireDo you know what a Pelvic Floor Therapist does? This week on Get Your Marriage On!, Dan sits down with Pelvis Floor Therapists Dr. Becky Allan and Dr. Corrie Maguire. Dr. Allan and Maguire share a plethora of information about the importance of pelvic floor health and dismiss some common assumptions. If you are experiencing pain during intercourse, erectile disfunction, have had a baby, or are planning to have a baby this is the episode for you!2021-04-1451 minGet Your Marriage On! with Dan PurcellGet Your Marriage On! with Dan Purcell24: Putting Pleasure in its Proper Place with Danielle SavoryThis week Dan talks with sexpert Danielle Savory a trained neuroscientist and mindfulness coach. They discuss why people unintentionally settle for mediocre sex.  Danielle shares some of her expertise on how to increase your mental awareness in the bedroom to enhance pleasure during sex.2021-04-0745 minGet Your Marriage On! with Dan PurcellGet Your Marriage On! with Dan Purcell23: How A Bedroom Game Changed Our Marriage with Dan & Emily PurcellThis week on Get Your Marriage On! we did things a little bit differently. Dan and Emily were interviewed by Ariel Finlinson is the host of the Ladies Talking Love Podcast. Dan and Emily share their story of how a bedroom game changed their marriage. If you feel stuck in a rut or your sex life seems dismal, check out this episode for some tips on how to Get Your Marriage On!!2021-03-3142 minGet Your Marriage On! with Dan PurcellGet Your Marriage On! with Dan Purcell22: Are We Roommates or Lovers? with Dr. Chavonne PerotteThis week on Get Your Marriage On!, Dan sits down with Dr. Chavonne Perotte to discuss what to do when you are living like a roommate with little intimacy or meaningful connection. If you're often disappointed that your needs aren't being met or that you are always compromising but still feel the same this is the podcast for you.  Dr. Chavonne Perotte is a Life and Marriage Coach with a doctorate degree from John Hopkins University. To find out more about Dr. Chavonne's work check out her website here.2021-03-2434 minGet Your Marriage On! with Dan PurcellGet Your Marriage On! with Dan Purcell21: How To Do A Sexy Lap Dance with Keelie & Austin ReasonHave you ever wanted to have the confidence to give your spouse a sexy lap dance? Join Dan Purcell and Keelie and Austin Reason, authors of the Love Hope Adventure blog on the podcast this week as they discuss how to do a Sexy Lap Dance step by step. By end of the podcast, you'll know all the dos and don'ts of a sexy lap dance.2021-03-1743 minGet Your Marriage On! with Dan PurcellGet Your Marriage On! with Dan Purcell20: Dealing with Desire Level Differences with Jessa ZimmermanThis week on Get Your Marriage On!, Dan sits down with Jessa Zimmerman a Certified Sex Therapist from Seattle to discuss desire level differences. Jessa helps expand the definition of what "sex" is and some of the traps higher desire and lower desires spouses fall into. If you struggle with rejection as a high desire partner or pressure for not desiring sex often this is the episode for you! To learn more about Jessa visit her website  https://www.seattlesextherapist.com/ or check out her Intimacy With Ease course and transform your sex life from your own h...2021-03-1028 minGet Your Marriage On! with Dan PurcellGet Your Marriage On! with Dan Purcell19: Defying the Odds to Create a Confident Marriage with Sean and Jessica WeeksJoin Dan Purcell on the podcast this week as he discuss honesty, overcoming obstacles, and creating a confident marriage with Sean and Jessica Weeks. Sean and Jessica Weeks run a business called "The Confident Marriage" where they share their story, tools, and resources to help couples create a confident marriage they have always wanted. Follow Sean and Jessica Weeks @confidentmarriage or check out their website https://www.theconfidentmarriage.com to learn more about them.2021-03-0318 minGet Your Marriage On! with Dan PurcellGet Your Marriage On! with Dan PurcellYour Entitlement Hinders Your Intimacy with Seth & Melanie StudleyThis week on Get Your Marriage On!, Dan sits down with Seth and Melanie Studley, from Anatomy of Marriage, to discuss entitlement and how it hinders not only intimacy but also your relationship.  You can learn more about Seth and Melanie and their work at Anatomy of Marriage.  If you enjoy this episode, make sure to check out our app - Intimately Us! 2021-02-2437 minGet Your Marriage On! with Dan PurcellGet Your Marriage On! with Dan Purcell17: Awakening Your Sexuality with Ruth BuezisJoin Dan on the podcast this week to discuss awakening your sexuality with Ruth Buezis. Together they discuss some common myths that people are taught about sex and how Christian culture surrounding sex can conflict with what the Bible actually says about it. 2021-02-1740 minGet Your Marriage On! with Dan PurcellGet Your Marriage On! with Dan PurcellAll About LubeFor this Sexpert Interview, Dan sits down with Sarah Belzer. Sarah is the President of Coconu, an all natural personal care company. Dan and Sarah discuss all things lube and there's a lot more that goes into lube than you may think!2021-01-1314 minGet Your Marriage On! with Dan PurcellGet Your Marriage On! with Dan PurcellLimiting Beliefs & Intimate Breakthroughs with Amanda LouderAmanda Louder is a Certified Life Coach & Intimacy Coach that helps conservative Christian women embrace their sexuality and love their sex life for themselves. In short, she's an expert at helping individuals identify and overcome limiting beliefs so that they can live with more joy. We cover topics such as: How limiting beliefs affect ourselves, our potential, our sexual and spiritual capacities, and other areas of our life How we can identify what our limiting beliefs are The link between living a life of integrity & being honest with ourselves and our spouse...2020-12-3030 minGet Your Marriage On! with Dan PurcellGet Your Marriage On! with Dan PurcellSelf Confidence Leads to Confidence In The BedroomDan speaks with Belah Rose, internationally acclaimed sexual intimacy expert, coach, author, speaker and founder of Delight Your Marriage.  Belah is the author of "Delight Your Husband". She’s also created the Delight Your Husband Video Course, The Seduction Course™, The Delighted Wife Program™ and Masculinity Reclaimed Program™. She sure knows how to keep busy!  In this episode, Belah speaks about how how self confidence leads to confidence in the bedroom. She talks about how her own marriage woes lead her on the path to discover more self confidence which strengthened her marriage and her sex life!2020-12-0934 minGet Your Marriage On! with Dan PurcellGet Your Marriage On! with Dan PurcellOvercoming Female Sexual Dysfunction with Dr. Jessica McCleeseDr. Jessica McClease is a professional marriage counselor and sex therapist with a specialty in helping women overcome sexual issues. She often says sex is a reflection of the goodness and creativity of a loving God and sex in your marriage is a reflection of the relationship that you’ve already developed with your spouse. In this episode, we talk about: The fact that every person on the planet experiences sexual dysfunction at some period in their life, and that solutions are within reach Problems with sexual dysfunction that are unique to some individuals growing up in...2020-11-2531 minMarriage and Intimacy Tips for Christian Couples: Secrets of Happily Ever AfterMarriage and Intimacy Tips for Christian Couples: Secrets of Happily Ever AfterIntimately Us with Dan PurcellDo you want to rock the sexual dimension of your marriage? Then join us today to hear from my good friend, Dan Purcell from Get Your Marriage On. Dan and his wife have been married for over sixteen years, have six children, and they are on a mission to strengthen marriages intimately. This journey started when their own marriage went through a transformation. They thought what they were learning was too good to keep to themselves, so they started sharing it. They have put on events, written blogs, and have even created two apps that have been...2020-08-0324 min