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Parents Who ThinkJealousy and Sex with Erica JongWhat happens when a woman writes the truth the world isn’t ready to hear? In this episode of Parents Who Think, host Danusia Malina-Derben joins Erica Jong, novelist, poet, and unapologetic icon, in a conversation about the power and price of honesty. They explore how female jealousy gets buried in family and friendship, how mothers and daughters carry inherited pain, and why admitting negative emotions is still radical. Erica reflects on the terror of writing Fear of Flying, the myth of zipless fucks, and why she’s always preferred warm and cuddly sex to bodice-ripping fantasy. 2025-07-1914 minParents Who ThinkA Grown-Up Conversation About Manhood with Ken MossmanIn this episode of Parents Who Think, Danusia Malina-Derben joins Ken Mossman for a layered and moving conversation about modern masculinity, emotional maturity, and what it means to be an integrated man. Ken brings wit and wisdom to topics most men were never taught to face: how to play, how to feel, and how to take responsibility without shame or performance. They explore why so many men exile parts of themselves, like their inner child or rebellious adolescent, and what’s possible when those voices are finally welcomed home. Ken also shares what it looks like to me...2025-07-1214 minParents Who ThinkMummy was a Secret Drinker with Clare PooleyParents Who Think host Danusia Malina-Derben joins Clare Pooley in an unflinching conversation about motherhood, sobriety, and the silent unraveling that so often hides behind ‘wine o’clock’.” Together, Clare and Danusia speak frankly about alcohol as a socially sanctioned drug, the seductive myths around moderation, and the messy, non-linear journey of quitting. Clare offers sharp insights for those wondering if their drinking has crept too far, and shares what it means to live fully, vividly, and without blurring the edges. Discover more from us: • Join PWT community on Substack • Follow us on Instag...2025-07-0514 minParents Who ThinkOn Grief, Justice, and Legacy with Stuart LawrenceIn this episode of Parents Who Think, Danusia Malina-Derben talks with Stuart Lawrence, teacher, author, and younger brother of Stephen Lawrence, about what it means to carry grief and use it as a tool for change. Stuart reflects on stepping into a leadership role in his family after Stephen’s murder, navigating the long and painful road toward justice, and discovering his own purpose through education and public speaking. He shares intimate memories of his brother, the confusion and pain of dealing with systemic failure, and how his mother’s strength and clarity became the foundation for ever...2025-06-2814 minParents Who ThinkOn Home Education and Redesigning Success with Rosie SherryDanusia Malina-Derben talks with Rosie Sherry about what it really means to educate and parent outside the system. Rosie, a home educator and founder of a global tech community, shares the story of pulling her children out of school—not out of rebellion, but out of radical care. What followed wasn’t just a change in schooling—it was a reordering of her entire life. Together, Danusia and Rosie talk about the mismatch between modern schooling and real children, the pressure for constant peer socialising, and why introverted kids often get left behind. Rosie also reflects on buildi...2025-06-2114 minParents Who ThinkOn Harm, Healing and Radical Accountability with Eldra JacksonEldra Jackson doesn’t soften the truth. And he doesn’t offer redemption stories tied up in a bow. In this conversation, he speaks openly about the crimes that led to his 24-year prison sentence and the deeper inner work that began long after the bars closed behind him. Danusia Malina-Derben, host of Parents Who Think, joins Eldra to explore what happens when men are taught that power depends on domination—and what unfolds when trauma goes unnamed. And what it means to take full responsibility not just for your past, but for the impact you still have o...2025-06-1414 minParents Who ThinkOn Stillness, Grief, and Letting Life In with Suzy WalkerWhen Suzy Walker began a mindfulness course, she didn’t expect it to unearth a lifetime of suppressed grief. But in conversation with Danusia Malina-Derben, host of Parents Who Think, what unfolds is a raw, honest reflection on what happens when we stop running, and start listening. Danusia and Suzy explore the seductive trap of busyness, the spiritual disorientation of stillness, and the hidden grief we mask with productivity. Together, they unpack what it means to be present in a culture that values performance over peace, and why women, especially mothers, struggle with simply being. Fr...2025-06-0714 minParents Who ThinkOn Lone Fatherhood and Equality with Michael RayWhat does real equality look like when you're parenting solo? In this moving conversation, Danusia interviews Michael Ray, a father who’s raising his daughter on his own after her mother stepped away from their lives. What might sound like a tough beginning becomes a powerful dialogue on parenting, presence, and the messy realities of gendered expectations. Michael shares what it means to parent with depth and integrity—how he built his work life around his daughter’s needs, and why respect for her mother remains non-negotiable. We talk about how men are still applauded for showing up as...2025-05-3114 minParents Who ThinkOn Menopause with Meg MathewsIf you think menopause is just hot flashes and mood swings, Meg Mathews is here to set you straight. In this unfiltered episode, Meg opens up about how menopause knocked her sideways—crippling anxiety, misdiagnosis, zero libido—and how it took years before anyone mentioned hormones. That journey led to Meg’s Menopause, a platform busting taboos and pushing for real education, access, and self-respect. We cover it all—testosterone, bone health, dry everything, and the identity shifts no one warns you about. Meg tells it like it is: women aren’t broken, they’re just not being told t...2025-05-2414 minParents Who ThinkFatherhood Without the Patriarchy with Jordan ShapiroWhat does it really mean to be a good dad in a world that’s (finally) rethinking power, privilege, and gender? Jordan Shapiro offers a fresh framework—one that demands more than just ‘helping out’ or being ‘the fun one.’ In this episode, we talk about radical inclusivity, critical consciousness, and why patriarchal manliness needs a total rethink. Jordan doesn’t dodge the difficult stuff—he names the creepy undercurrents of the “daddy as first boyfriend” trope and unpacks why so many men feel attacked when the cultural tide changes. We cover big ideas, big shifts, and the kind of inner work modern...2025-05-1714 minParents Who ThinkShe’s Not Selfish, She’s Self-Full with Meredith MasonyWe’re told to be selfless. To give everything for our children. To die to ourselves for the sake of being a “good” mother and parent. But what if that’s not the answer at all? In this fierce, funny, and deeply real conversation, Danusia is joined by Meredith Masony —a woman who came back from a health crisis with one loud, clear truth: she was done putting herself last. They talk about the myth of the perfect mum, what happens when you carry the entire domestic load for a decade, and why sometimes the most radical thing a mo...2025-05-1015 minParents Who ThinkFrom Homeless Teen to Entrepreneur with Simon SquibbThis episode, I speak with Simon Squibb, founder of HelpBnk and author of What’s Your Dream? We dive into cultivating luck (hint: it’s not random), why desperation can be a creative superpower, and how his mother kicking him out of the house became the very thing that made him. Simon shares his raw take on privilege, failure, and the myth of the A-grade life. We talk resilience, drive, and what it means to burn the boats and go all in—even if you don’t know how to hold a garden spade. You’ll leave t...2025-05-0315 minParents Who ThinkCreating an Equitable Home with Eve RodskyIn this episode I sit down with Eve Rodsky, author of the groundbreaking book Fair Play, to discuss the often invisible and unequal labour dynamics that play out in our homes. We get into why women frequently become the "she-fault" parent, shouldering the brunt of domestic responsibilities and emotional labour, often at the expense of their own well-being and careers. Eve doesn't just identify the problem; she offers solutions. Drawing on her own experiences and extensive research, she introduces us to the Fair Play system, a practical and insightful approach to rebalancing domestic labour and creating a mo...2025-04-2615 minParents Who ThinkFemale Masturbation with Hollie McNishIn this episode of Parents Who Think, Danusia gets into into a juicy conversation with Hollie McNish—award-winning poet, author, and performer. The focus? Female masturbation, sexuality, and shedding the centuries of shame surrounding women’s pleasure. One of Hollie’s books, Slug and Other Things I’ve Been Told to Hate, serves as the jumping-off point for this honest chat. Danusia and Hollie cover it all, from why society can't handle women who prioritise their own pleasure, to surprising moments of erotic awakenings (hairdressers and dentists, anyone?). Hollie shares deeply personal reflections, like conversations with her...2025-04-1914 minParents Who ThinkSwitching Gender Roles with Priscilla McKinneyWhat happens when a woman is the breadwinner and her husband takes the lead at home? Apparently, a lot of raised eyebrows, unsolicited opinions, and a bizarre mix of pity and praise. Entrepreneur and mother Priscilla McKinney joins me to talk about flipping the script on traditional gender roles, how she and her husband Steve made the switch, and what it really means to thrive in a setup that works for them—not society’s outdated rulebook. We get into the hilarity of watching people fumble over the idea of a stay-at-home dad (spoiler: they eithe...2025-04-1214 minParents Who ThinkSex Toys with Sarah ForbesSex toys: ancient history, cultural icon, and—if Sarah Forbes has anything to say about it—essential to our understanding of sexuality. This week, Danusia sits down with the anthropologist and former curator of the Museum of Sex in New York to talk about the rise (and rise) of sex toys, the deep-rooted taboos around pleasure, and why we need to stop acting like vibrators were invented last week. We get into it all: the women who curate collections of sex toys like others collect fine wine, the psychology of private vs. shame, and why inves...2025-04-0514 minParents Who ThinkLies About Working Parenthood with Christine Armstrong We've been sold a lie: that working parents can “have it all” if they just work hard enough. Today, we’re tearing that fantasy to shreds. Danusia Malina-Derben PWT host is in conversation with journalist and author Christine Armstrong. They get brutally honest about the impossible expectations of juggling kids, careers, and sanity. Burnout isn’t a personal failure—it’s a rigged system that needs changing. They talk about the silent struggles, the real costs of trying to “do it all,” and why it’s not you failing, it’s the structure. Tune in to blow up the myth and start de...2025-03-2914 minParents Who ThinkFrom Self-Doubt to Self-Love with Jeanette LeblancFrom Self-Doubt to Self-Love with Jeanette Leblanc Ah, the old “you’re too much” conundrum. Too loud, too opinionated, too ambitious, too everything—and somehow, simultaneously, not enough. If you’ve ever felt stuck in this impossible tug-of-war, you are not alone. Joining Danusia today is Jeanette Leblanc, writer, coach, and self-proclaimed champion of “too muchness.” They get into what it means to reclaim our full, unapologetic selves—without waiting for permission. Jeanette shares her own path from self-doubt to radical self-love, including the messy, gut-wrenching, but ultimately liberating process of breaking free from the boxes we’re shov...2025-03-2214 minParents Who ThinkFrom Divorce to Dating with StephMotherhood and sexuality—two things we’re told don’t belong in the same sentence. But who made that rule? And why are we still following it? Steph wasn’t about to. After decades of marriage, she found herself single, re-entering the dating world with a libido very much intact. But society had a different script for her: midlife divorce means fading into the background. Sex? Desire? Not for women past a certain age. Well. About that. In this episode, Steph shares what really happens when you stop putting yourself last—how desire...2025-03-1513 minParents Who ThinkHormones, Health, and Happiness with Dr. Shahzadi HarperDanusia Parents Who Think host, gets real with Dr. Shahzadi Harper about hormones, libido and why women’s sex lives shouldn’t have an expiration date. Shahzadi, a badass in women’s health, spills the tea on how hormonal changes—hello, perimenopause—mess with your libido, energy, and self-confidence. But it’s not all doom and gloom. They unpack how testosterone (yep, women have it too), oestrogen, and orgasms—partnered or solo—can reignite that inner fire. Dr. Shahzadi talks about beating libido crashes with lifestyle tweaks, hormone therapy, and simply learning to put yourself first. Think of libido as you...2025-03-0813 minParents Who ThinkFemale ‘Empowerment’ and Motherhood with Emma SayleWhat happens when a woman builds an empire that shatters every outdated idea about female sexuality, and then dares to become a mother? Today, we feature Emma Sayle—founder of Killing Kittens, global disruptor, and all-around unapologetic powerhouse. We’re talking about breaking taboos, rewriting the rules of partnership and parenting, and why self-care isn’t a luxury—it’s a damn necessity. Emma shares how she built a community where women take control, how motherhood collided with societal expectations of her, and why ‘just asking’ is the most underrated relationship strategy. We also tackle the myth of the self-sa...2025-03-0113 minParents Who ThinkJoy After Trauma with Shoshana GarfieldJoin Host, Danusia Malina-Derben brings you a powerful conversation with Dr Shoshana Garfield, a survivor of childhood torture and sexual abuse. Shoshana shares her journey of healing and self-reclamation, highlighting the importance of forgiveness, self-compassion, and relentless kindness. This episode explores the long-term impacts of trauma and the process of overcoming adversity to create a life filled with freedom and joy. Shoshana also discusses her work as an expert in torture rehabilitation and the power of energy psychology in her own healing journey. Discover more from us: • Join PWT commu...2025-02-2214 minParents Who ThinkNo Kids, No Apologies with Rachel PessoIn this episode of Parents Who Think, Danusia is in conversation with Rachel Pesso, brand designer and unapologetic truth-teller, about her choice to skip motherhood—despite the relentless pressure to conform. Rachel gets real about the fear of judgment, the selfish-woman stereotype, and those infuriating "you'll change your mind" conversations. Spoiler: she hasn’t. Together, they blow up the outdated myth that motherhood is the only path to fulfillment. Rachel opens up about navigating anxiety, holding onto her ambitions, and the deeply ingrained expectations that make women feel like they have to disappear when they becom...2025-02-1514 minParents Who ThinkStyle Unleashed with Yvadney DavisDanusia is joined by Yvadney Davis to explore the magic of fashion as self-expression. Whether it’s metallic joggers, kaftans, or Katharine Hepburn-inspired classics, Yvadney serves up insights on owning your style unapologetically. From experimenting with bold looks to raising kids who feel confident in their clothing choices, this episode is a celebration of individuality. Yvadney even shares how motherhood gave her the ultimate confidence boost: “If I can give birth in front of strangers, I can dress however I want.” This is your reminder to have fun with fashion, embrace your uni...2025-02-0814 minParents Who ThinkRaising Consciousness About Race with Uju AsikaToday, host Danusia Malina-Derben is joined by author Uju Asika. She shares her powerful story of navigating childhood racism, the lessons it taught her, and why hope is at the heart of her work. We talk about when kids start noticing race, why “colorblind” parenting doesn’t work, and how we can have honest, age-appropriate conversations about race. Uju also challenges us to lovingly examine our own lives and the unconscious messages we’re passing on. This is a conversation about healing, growth, and the power of the next generation to make change. Don’t miss Uju’s...2025-02-0114 minParents Who ThinkTeen Mom to Netflix Star: Mary Bonnet’s Story of Grit and GlamourIn this episode of Parents Who Think, Danusia interviews Selling Sunset star Mary Bonnet about her inspiring journey from being a teen mom to becoming a powerhouse in high-end real estate. Mary opens up about the challenges she faced raising her son at 15, the grit it took to thrive, and how she’s still raising the bar. They discuss the work ethic Mary developed as a teen mom and how it shaped her success, overcoming societal expectations and the realities of juggling ambition and motherhood, and tackling double standards, from ageism to gender dynamics in bus...2025-01-2513 minParents Who ThinkAsking for What You Want with Emer BradyWhy is asking for what we want so hard? In this episode, host Danusia Malina-Derben gets into this question with guest Emer Brady, exploring the barriers many women face when advocating for themselves. From the subtleties of language to the power of body language, this conversation is packed with practical tips for anyone looking to show up stronger—especially in the workplace. You'll hear why apologetic language holds us back, how to communicate assertively without losing authenticity, and the importance of preparation before asking for what you need. Plus, there’s a fascinating discussion on the r...2025-01-1814 minParents Who ThinkReframing Mother-Daughter Dynamics with Harriet Malina-DerbenIn this episode, Danusia is joined by her daughter, Harriet Malina-Derben, for a candid conversation about the complexities of mother-daughter relationships. Together, they unpack the generational patterns that can trap these bonds in negativity, from societal expectations that pit women against each other to the stereotyped idea of “tricky” mother-daughter dynamics. This heartfelt exchange dives into the importance of recognizing mothers as fully human—flaws, history, and all—and explores how adult daughters can shift their perspective to foster a deeper, more mutual connection. Harriet offers insights on how viewing mothers through a lens of empathy c...2025-01-1112 minParents Who ThinkGood Enough Parenting with Dr Joanna FortunePerfection is overrated—especially in parenting. In this thought-provoking episode, Danusia Malina-Derben sits down with Dr Joanna Fortune, child psychotherapist and author, to challenge the myths of perfect parenting and embrace being “good enough.” Joanna shares about the concept of parental stamina—how to recharge your tank without guilt—and why your own self-care isn’t just essential but a powerful teaching tool for your kids. From playful strategies (hello, dance breaks!) to the importance of taking time-outs (for parents too!), you’ll discover practical ways to lighten the load without compromising connection. And here’...2024-12-1414 minParents Who ThinkHaving It All & Tackling Imposter Syndrome with Caroline FlanaganDanusia Malina-Derben takes on the myth of “having it all” with Caroline Flanagan, author of Be the First and all-round powerhouse. Together, they shred the outdated idea that women need to do everything to have it all—and dig into what your “all” could look like. But that’s not all. Imposter syndrome? They’re calling it out for the fraud it is. Caroline shares her real-life experience of feeling like she didn’t belong and how she flipped the script to reclaim her power. This isn’t about perfection or keeping up appearanc...2024-12-0713 minParents Who ThinkUnlocking Self-Love at Any Age with Jane WykerWhat if you could feel more alive in your 80s than ever before? Meet Jane Wyker, the unstoppable force behind Soul Selfish: The Awakening of a Good Girl. Jane’s story is proof that it’s never too late to prioritise yourself, let go of toxic baggage, and embrace joy at every stage of life. Danusia and Jane unpack the inner work of shedding the “good girl” identity, balancing self-love with motherhood, and yes, even the realities of sex, dating, and pleasure in your 80s. Jane’s advice on “inner housekeeping” is a game-changer—because let’s face it, no...2024-11-3012 minParents Who ThinkReframing Disability Narratives with Rebekah TaussigDanusia Malina-Derben sits down with Rebekah Taussig, author of Sitting Pretty: The View from My Ordinary, Resilient Disabled Body, to unpack the complexities of living with a disability. In this episode, Rebekah challenges the oversimplified narratives that often surround disabled lives and calls for a more inclusive, open-hearted perspective. From embracing her body to navigating pregnancy, Rebekah shares stories that illuminate the richness, challenges, and ordinariness of disability—pushing past stereotypes of pity or inspiration. They discuss how society’s fear of disability limits understanding and how breaking those barriers starts with recognizing the nuance in ev...2024-11-2310 minParents Who ThinkEmbracing Motherhood and Poetry with Kate BaerWant your heart to skip a beat? Danusia Malina-Derben sits down with poet Kate Baer—three-time New York Times bestselling author of What Kind of Woman, I Hope This Finds You Well, and her latest, And Yet. They get real about everything from raw realities to anger simmering beneath the surface. Kate opens up about finding her voice amidst parenting, the poets who inspire her (think Mary Oliver and Sharon Olds), and tackling taboo topics with honesty and wit (yes, including poems like "The Pope's Penis"). They delve into the visceral experience of being a wom...2024-11-1612 minParents Who ThinkOn Guilt with Jo Wimble-GrovesGuilt—it’s the nagging companion of parenthood. Jo Wimble-Groves, creator of Guilty Mother, joins host Danusia Malina-Derben to unpack why so many parents feel this way and how to start shifting that guilt into something useful (yes, it’s possible!). From screen time to sandwich choices, Jo’s refreshing take on embracing imperfection and rethinking what it means to care will leave you feeling lighter. If you’re tired of feeling like you’re never doing enough, this episode offers some much-needed relief. Tune in to discover why guilt doesn’t equal love and...2024-11-0913 minParents Who ThinkThe Secret to Winning in Life with Wies BratbyThis week, Danusia Malina-Derben brings in Wies Bratby—founder of Women in Negotiation and self-proclaimed “women’s butt kicker”—to break down why every woman needs to own her worth in the world of negotiation. It’s not just about more zeros on the paycheck; it’s about freedom, choices, and doing life on your own terms. Wies shares her wisdom on the art of asking for what you deserve—without the guilt trip. From salary boosts to the (often trickier) negotiations at home, she dishes out practical tips for women ready to stand up, speak up, and sto...2024-11-0215 minParents Who ThinkRaising Body-Happy Kids with Molly ForbesHost Danusia Malina-Derben gets real with Molly Forbes, author of “Body Happy Kids: How to raise children who love the skin they're in” for adults and “Every Body” for children. They’re talking about one thing every parent worries about—how to raise kids who love their bodies in a world obsessed with diet culture. Spoiler: It’s not about looking “pretty.” Molly dishes out her no-BS take on raising confident kids, from smashing beauty ideals to using her household mantra “It’s not my job to be pretty.” You’ll learn how to dodge diet culture’s sneaky traps...2024-10-2612 minParents Who ThinkSarah Peck on Postpartum Sex + a Naked SwimIn this minisode of Parents Who Think, host Danusia Malina-Derben sits down with Sarah Peck, CEO of Start Up Parent, to discuss the often unspoken realities of postpartum sex and recovery. Sarah shares her personal experiences, from healing after childbirth to the surprising physical challenges that follow. Danusia and Sarah also talk about living brazenly, including Sarah’s daring naked swim from Alcatraz, and what it means to push past conventional metrics of success. This episode offers a fresh, unfiltered look at life after giving birth and how to embrace boldness in a...2024-10-1914 minParents Who ThinkCan Detachment and Love Coexist? A story about the stoic parentIn this episode of Parents Who Think, host Danusia Malina-Derben explores Stoicism and its relevance to parenting. Drawing on her experience as a mother to 10 children, she reflects on how Stoic principles like control, patience, and detachment have shaped her approach to raising kids. But it’s not just about personal resilience ~ Danusia also gets into the limits of Stoicism, especially when it comes to addressing the broader systemic challenges that families face. Through thoughtful reflections, she balances Stoic ideas with insights from feminist and care ethicists like bell hooks, Audre Lorde, and Carol Gilligan, sho...2024-10-1212 minParents Who ThinkThe Caregiver Crisis with Anna PawlowiczIn this episode of *Parents Who Think*, host Danusia Malina-Derben interviews Anna Pawlowicz, CEO of Humankind, about the often invisible role of caregivers in society. Anna opens up about the challenges faced by those who provide care, whether for children, elderly family members, or those with medical complexities, and why caregivers remain undervalued and unsupported. They explore the heavy toll caregiving takes on mental health, work, and personal relationships, and question why governments and workplaces aren’t doing more, despite the fact that caregiving touches us all at some point in our lives. 2024-10-0514 minParents Who ThinkThe Undercover Self-Care Habit with Danusia Malina-DerbenIn this rare solo episode, Danusia shares a self-care secret that’s hiding in plain sight: cuddling a teddy bear. Yep, you heard right. We’re talking about the comfort of snuggling up to a stuffed toy, and why it’s not just for kids anymore. From CEOs sneaking plushies into bed to Supreme Court judges traveling with their own teddy, we unpack how this simple, often hidden habit can be a game-changer for stress relief and better sleep. We get into the science, real stories, and some surprising facts about why this soft, squishy form of...2024-09-2812 minParents Who ThinkNo Nonsense: The Lucy Werner Guide to Self-PromotionIn this week’s minisode Parents Who Think host, Danusia Malina-Derben chats with PR expert and author Lucy Werner about the art of self-promotion. Known for her straightforward, no-nonsense approach, Lucy shares tips from her books "Hype Yourself" and "Brand Yourself," offering a fresh take on how to be seen without feeling cringe. Danusia and Lucy dive into the often daunting world of self-promotion, unpacking why it feels so tricky and how to make it work for you - without losing yourself in the process. Lucy’s insights are perfect for anyone wanting to boost their...2024-09-2113 minParents Who ThinkClover Stroud on Intimacy, Motherhood, + WritingIn this minisode of Parents Who Think, host Danusia Malina-Derben revisits conversations with British author, journalist, and fellow podcaster Clover Stroud. Known for her raw, beautiful prose on motherhood, trauma, and grief, Clover has crafted a voice that resonates with readers who seek honesty in life’s most complex experiences. In this episode, Danusia and Clover get into the complexities of writing about motherhood and life’s messy truths. Clover reflects on the challenges of crafting authentic stories while living through the realities of being a mother to five. She shares candidly how motherhood reshapes every...2024-09-1415 minParents Who ThinkPost Summer TrailerWe’re back after the summer break, and Parents Who Think is ready with some exciting changes! Host Danusia Malina-Derben returns with a fresh format - short, 15-minute episodes with thought-provoking questions from parents who don’t just raise kids, they question the future. While we’ve lightened the load from our weekly debates, we’re not leaving them behind. Starting now, those edgy debates you love will happen quarterly, with the next one dropping in January 2025. Join us on September 14th for the first micro-episode featuring literary powerhouse Clover Stroud! Discover m...2024-09-0703 minParents Who ThinkWhole Debate 5: Should Parents Let Their Underage Children Drink Alcohol?This special episode is perfect for binge listeners! Dive into the full "Should Parents Let Their Underage Children Drink Alcohol?" debate and enjoy an uninterrupted exploration of this complex topic. Three parents share their unfiltered thoughts and opinions, holding nothing back. We kick off with guests presenting their brief 200-word LIFE STORIES, then move to THE P THAT FITS ME segment, where they reveal whether they see themselves as Progressive, Predictable, or Polarising. Host and mother of ten, Danusia, shares her experiences in the DISHING THE DIRT segment before diving into the main discussion in G...2024-07-012h 22Parents Who ThinkShould Parents Let Their Underage Children Drink Alcohol? Part 1Opinionated parents sound off about whether underage kids should drink alcohol. Who are the three parents in this hot debate? Do they have predictable, progressive or polarising opinions? What’s the link between their childhood and what they think about underage kids drinking booze? Have your say at team@parentswhothink.co.uk or over at the PWT Youtube channel PWT Guests featured in this debate are: Keiyia Jackson-George +Dave Wilson+ Casey McMurray Discover more from us: • Join us on PWT Substack • World Health Or...2024-06-1551 minParents Who ThinkWhole Debate 4: Should Smacking be Banned in England & Northern Ireland?This special episode is perfect for binge listeners! Listen to the complete "Should Smacking be Banned in England & Northern Ireland?" debate and enjoy an uninterrupted exploration of this thought-provoking topic. Three parents share their unfiltered thoughts and opinions, holding nothing back. We start with guests presenting their quick 200-word LIFE STORIES, then move on to THE P THAT FITS ME segment, where they disclose whether they see themselves as Progressive, Predictable, or Polarising. Host and mother of ten Danusia shares her experiences in the DISHING THE DIRT segment before diving into the main discussion in G...2024-05-312h 18Parents Who ThinkShould Smacking be Banned in England & Northern Ireland? Part 3Join us for the final episode of the “Should Smacking be Banned in England and Northern Ireland?” debate. Our three guests tackle tough questions head-on as they openly discuss their views on smacking and whether it should be banned. From examining its impact on children to exploring the cultural acceptance of smacking, we delve into the consequences in our IF THIS THEN THAT segment. Next, we reveal the ONE HABIT each guest has developed based on their stance on children being smacked. Get an inside look at how these strong beliefs shape their everyday actions and a...2024-05-2542 minParents Who ThinkShould Smacking be Banned in England & Northern Ireland? Part 2Parents Who Think (PWT) guests Jo, Roma and Nicole “Get Up On Their High Horse” in our “Should Smacking be Banned in England and Northern Ireland?” debate. Didn’t listen to episode one of this debate? Don’t worry. If you’ve a newcomer to PWT debates you can catch up on details in a quick 10-minute episode, telling you how these PWT debates work and meet host, Danusia Malina-Derben. But if you're in a rush, just dive into this episode where Danusia and three parents discuss whether smacking should be banned in England and Northern Ireland...2024-05-1849 minParents Who ThinkShould Smacking be Banned in England & Northern Ireland? Part 1For our "Should Smacking be Banned in England & Northern Ireland?" debate, host Danusia Malina-Derben speaks with Roma Norriss + Jo Bull + Nicole Ratcliffe . Two guests firmly advocate for a ban (but for different reasons), while one urges us to tread carefully before implementing these measures. Part 1 kicks off by delving into the lives of these three debate parents when they share the heart of their Life Stories in 200 words. Then the conversation unfolds, as Danusia opens up about her personal journey with smacking in the Dishing the Dirt segment, setting the stage for the challenging dialogue to come. De...2024-05-1148 minParents Who ThinkWhole Debate 3: Should Schools Teach about Gender Identity & Sexual Orientation?This special episode is for those who love a binge listen. Here’s the “Should Schools Teach About Gender Identity and Sexual Orientation?” debate in one convenient download. Expect a seamless exploration of this thought-provoking debate as three parents share their raw thoughts and opinions without holding back. We kick things off with guests sharing their quick 200-word LIFE STORIES, followed by the THE P THAT FITS ME segment where they reveal if they see themselves as Progressive, Predictable, or perhaps Polarising. Host Danusia also dishes her take in the DISHING THE DIRT segment, before diving i...2024-04-302h 31Parents Who ThinkShould Schools Teach About Gender Identity & Sexual Orientation? Part 2This episode Parents Who Think (PWT) guests Amy, Jane and Virginia continue debating the “Should Schools Teach About Gender Identity and Sexual Orientation?” topic. Didn’t listen to episode one of this debate? Don’t worry. If you’ve a newcomer to PWT debates you can catch up on details in a quick 10-minute episode, telling you how these PWT debates work and meet host, Danusia Malina-Derben. But if you're in a rush, just dive into this episode where Danusia and three parents discuss whether schools should teach about gender identity and sexual orientation, or not. 2024-04-2059 minParents Who ThinkShould Schools Teach About Gender Identity & Sexual Orientation? Part 1We kick off the "Should Schools Teach About Gender Identity & Sexual Orientation?" debate today. If you're new to Parents Who Think, this 10-minute episode, gives the lowdown on how PWT debates work and introduces you to host, Danusia Malina-Derben. Don't let her demeanor fool you; she's genuinely a mother to ten! In episode one, we meet our next three debate parents as they share about their lives in a quick-fire segment called Guest Life Stories. Then, Danusia Dishes the Dirt on her background with gender identity and sexual orientation, setting the stage f...2024-04-1344 minParents Who ThinkDebate 2: The Sharing Episode This special PWT Sharing Episode is for people who like a binge listen. Here’s the “Are we Creating Mollycoddled Kids?” debate in one convenient download. Prepare yourself for an uninterrupted exploration of this thought-provoking debate - three parents share their candid thoughts and opinions from start to finish, leaving no stone unturned. Unlike other debate shows, PWT guests don’t name-call or shame each other despite their differing opinions. There are plenty of surprises but no personal attacks. We start out with guests sharing their quick fire 200 word LIFE STORY, followed by THE P THAT F...2024-03-302h 08Parents Who ThinkAre we Creating Mollycoddled Kids? Part 3 Join us for the last episode of this meaty debate on “Are we Creating Mollycoddled Kids”?! Our three guests certainly don’t shy away from tough questions as they share their candid insights on mollycoddling. From dissecting its impact on society to the rise of entitled kids, we confront the consequences head-on in our "IF THIS THEN THAT" segment. Tune in to discover the ONE HABIT each of our guests has developed in response to their stance on coddling children. Peek behind the scenes as we explore how these deeply held beliefs inform their day-to-day actions.2024-03-2345 minParents Who ThinkAre we Creating Mollycoddled Kids? Part 2Last episode on Parents Who Think, we threw down the start of the debate on whether we're making our kids too soft. If you missed it, don't sweat it. If you’ve never listened into a PWT debate you can catch up on details in a quick 10-minute episode, telling you how these PWT debates roll and meet host, Danusia Malina-Derben. But if you're in a rush, just dive into this episode where Danusia and three parents get real about whether we're coddling our kids too much. In this episode, we kick things off by defi...2024-03-1641 minParents Who ThinkAre we Creating Mollycoddled Kids? Part 1Welcome to another Parents Who Think debate, where we dive deep into the hot topics of parenting. This episode, we're kicking off the "Are we Creating Mollycoddled Kids?" debate, and it's set to be quite the ride! If you're new to Parents Who Think, don't sweat it. In this 10-minute episode, we'll give you the lowdown on how PWT debates work and introduce you to host, Danusia Malina-Derben. Don't let her laid-back demeanor fool you; she's genuinely a mother to ten! In episode one, we get into the subject of Mollycoddled Ki...2024-03-0943 minParents Who ThinkDebate 1: The Sharing Episode This special PWT Sharing Episode is for listeners who want to dive into all three episodes of Debate 1 in one convenient download. Prepare yourself for uninterrupted exploration of this thought-provoking debate on “Is Having a Favorite Child Okay?” Three parents share their candid opinions from start to finish, leaving no stone unturned. Unlike other debate shows, PWT guests don’t name-call or shame each other despite their differing opinions. There are still plenty of surprises but no personal attacks. -We start out as guests share their quick-fire 200 word LIFE STORY, followed by THE P THAT FIT...2024-02-242h 09
Seraphina SpeaksBehind The Scenes Bulletin - On FailureMishaps. Flops. Missteps. Things that don’t hit the mark and downright blunders. We all experience failures in life. This episode is a nod to this commonplace ‘event’ that dominates much of our waking thought. In the Main Episode and the Behind The Scenes Bulletin you’ll learn about: • Where the word failure comes from • How the concept of failure has changed over time • Why some schools need to redesign how they treat different ability groups • Ways to rethink failure • What the acronym FAIL means •...2024-02-2304 minSeraphina SpeaksOn FailureMishaps. Flops. Missteps. Things that don’t hit the mark and downright blunders. We all experience failures in life. This episode is a nod to this commonplace ‘event’ that dominates much of our waking thought. In the Main Episode and the Behind The Scenes Bulletin you’ll learn about: • Where the word failure comes from • How the concept of failure has changed over time • Why some schools need to redesign how they treat different ability groups • Ways to rethink failure • What the acronym FAIL means •...2024-02-2216 minParents Who ThinkIs Having a Favourite Child Okay? Part 3Dive into the last episode of this juicy debate on “Is Having a Favourite Child Okay”?! Our three guests certainly don’t sugarcoat things as they share their real-life opinions about the potential fallouts of favouritism. From bruised self-esteem to strained relationships, the consequences are laid bare in our "IF THIS THEN THAT" segment. But hold on, it's truly not all doom and gloom! Love still reigns supreme amidst it all. Discover the "ONE HABIT" that these parents developed based on their stance on favourite children. Peek behind the curtain as we explore how their...2024-02-1752 minSeraphina SpeaksBehind The Scenes Bulletin - On DisneyWhether you're a kid or a kid at heart, prepare to be enchanted, entertained, and enticed by all things Disney. We explore the happiest (and most profitable) place on Earth! From Mickey's iconic ears to Frozen fever, Disney has mastered the art of turning dreams into dollars. In the Main Episode and the Behind The Scenes Bulletin you’ll learn about: • The Disney Life where talking animals reign supreme and princesses break into song • The mouse in the room - the ‘quirks’ of Disney storytelling • Gender norm defying charact...2024-02-1622 minSeraphina SpeaksOn DisneyWhether you're a kid or a kid at heart, prepare to be enchanted, entertained, and enticed by all things Disney. We explore the happiest (and most profitable) place on Earth! From Mickey's iconic ears to Frozen fever, Disney has mastered the art of turning dreams into dollars. In the Main Episode and the Behind The Scenes Bulletin you’ll learn about: • The Disney Life where talking animals reign supreme and princesses break into song • The mouse in the room - the ‘quirks’ of Disney storytelling • Gender norm defying charact...2024-02-1521 minParents Who ThinkIs Having a Favourite Child Okay? Part 2The Parents Who Think debut debate “Is having a Favourite Child Okay?” landed last episode. Prime yourself with the mini episode called “HOW PARENTS WHO THINK DEBATES WORK’ and episode 1 before tuning in unless you like wondering, "What's even going on, and what am I in for?" Meet PWT host, Danusia Malina-Derben and the three parents as they begin to spill tea on this emotive debate topic. In episode 2 guests share whether they were favourite children or not, then jump straight into the GET UP ON YOUR HIGH HORSE segment where the core back-and-for...2024-02-1041 minSeraphina SpeaksBehind The Scenes Bulletin - On Questions to Ask Tweens + TeensThe answers you get depend on the questions you pose. This episode is about the questions grown ups ask vs the ones that might be better to ask tweens and teens. In the Main Episode and the Behind The Scenes Bulletin you’ll learn about: • The type of questions adults ask • How the question mark came about • What an Interrobang is • Why adults might be asking the questions they ask • Sample questions to steal and try out • How to tell the difference between...2024-02-0804 minSeraphina SpeaksOn Questions to Ask Tweens + TeensThe answers you get depend on the questions you pose. This episode is about the questions grown ups ask vs the ones that might be better to ask tweens and teens. In the Main Episode and the Behind The Scenes Bulletin you’ll learn about: • The type of questions adults ask • How the question mark came about • What an Interrobang is • Why adults might be asking the questions they ask • Sample questions to steal and try out • How to tell the difference between...2024-02-0818 minParents Who ThinkHOW PARENTS WHO THINK DEBATES WORKWelcome to this episode which is an introduction to the workings of the PWT debate show. You’ll learn about PWT debate segments and a little about Danusia Malina-Derben, the host. It’s not mandatory to know about either but debates will make much more sense if you know what you can expect out of the show. PWT is debate done different, where real opinions meet real parents! Discover more from us: • Join PWT on Substack • Follow us on Instagram • Connect with Danusia 2024-02-0310 minParents Who ThinkIs Having a Favourite Child Okay? Part 1The Parents Who Think debut debate has arrived. Join us for “Is having a Favourite Child Okay?” We break down what PWT debates are all about in this episode, so you're not left wondering, "What's even going on, and what am I in for?" Meet PWT host, Danusia Malina-Derben. Instead of hitting you with a boring bio, she spills some real-deal stats about herself. Yep, these numbers are no joke, totally legit! After an intro to the general subject of favourites, Danusia DISHES THE DIRT on her background with favourites, setting the stage for the...2024-02-0334 minSeraphina SpeaksBehind The Scenes Bulletin - On Being Happy To Be DifferentAccepting and celebrating our differences helps us get comfortable in our own skin. But if you’ve ever felt like YOU were the problem, that you were different, and things would be easier if you changed to “fit in” then this episode is a gift for you. In the Main Episode and the Behind The Scenes Bulletin you’ll learn about: • What being different means and what the opposite of this is • Why people try to not be different • What Herd Mentality is • The two biggest costs of try...2024-02-0105 min
Parents Who ThinkHere's a short 3rd Trailer for Parents Who ThinkParents Who Think debate show is here! Well. almost. This is the third Trailer for the show. On PWT you’ll hear debates on hot button parenting topics. Three parents per debate chew over their opinions and spit out their reasons for them. In this trailer meet Danusia Malina-Derben, your host. You’ll learn when you can expect the first debate to drop, reflect a bit on why PWT is needed and what you can expect out of the show. PWT is debate done different, where real opinions meet real parents! ...2024-02-0103 minSeraphina SpeaksOn Being Happy To Be DifferentAccepting and celebrating our differences helps us get comfortable in our own skin. But if you’ve ever felt like YOU were the problem, that you were different, and things would be easier if you changed to “fit in” then this episode is a gift for you. In the Main Episode and the Behind The Scenes Bulletin you’ll learn about: • What being different means and what the opposite of this is • Why people try to not be different • What Herd Mentality is • The two biggest costs of try...2024-02-0121 min
Parents Who ThinkHere's a short 2nd Trailer for Parents Who ThinkParents Who Think debate show is here! Well. almost. This is the second Trailer for the show. On PWT you’ll hear debates on hot button parenting topics. Three parents per debate chew over their opinions and spit out their reasons for them. In this trailer meet Danusia Malina-Derben, your host. You’ll learn when you can expect the first debate to drop, reflect a bit on why PWT is needed and what you can expect out of the show. PWT is debate done different, where real opinions meet real parents! ...2024-01-3003 min
Parents Who ThinkHere's a short 1st Trailer for Parents Who ThinkParents Who Think debate show is here! Well. almost. This is the first Trailer for the show. On PWT you’ll hear debates on hot button parenting topics. Three parents per debate chew over their opinions and spit out their reasons for them. In this trailer meet Danusia Malina-Derben, your host. You’ll learn when you can expect the first debate to drop, reflect a bit on why PWT is needed and what you can expect out of the show. PWT is debate done different, where real opinions meet real parents! ...2024-01-2703 minSeraphina SpeaksBehind The Scenes Bulletin - On Celebrity Special TreatmentWe can’t calculate exactly how many celebrity-ish people there are in the world but it seems that these people get special treatment wherever they go. In the Main Episode and the Behind The Scenes Bulletin you’ll learn about: • What celebrity is and how people become one • Whether King Charles III is a celebrity • What VIP Syndrome is • Why celebrities have responsibilities to their fans • What can happen when a celebrity is unhappy with their special treatment • The step-by-step plan to becoming a self...2024-01-2506 minSeraphina SpeaksOn Celebrity Special TreatmentWe can’t calculate exactly how many celebrity-ish people there are in the world but it seems that these people get special treatment wherever they go. In the Main Episode and the Behind The Scenes Bulletin you’ll learn about: • What celebrity is and how people become one • Whether King Charles III is a celebrity • What VIP Syndrome is • Why celebrities have responsibilities to their fans • What can happen when a celebrity is unhappy with their special treatment • The step-by-step plan to becoming a self...2024-01-2522 min
Parents Who Think[Pre-Trailer] Welcome to the Parents Who Think PodcastParents Who Think (PWT) is coming soon! Consider this the pre-trailer to the trailer to the show. It’s designed to get you pre-excited(!) for the show. Discover more from us: • Join us on Substack • Follow us on Instagram • Connect with Danusia • Leave us a review on Apple Podcasts • Advertising Inquiries here Credits: • Hosted by Danusia Malina-Derben • Edited, Mixed + Mastered by Roger Heathers • Assisted by Marie Kruz • Cover art by Anthony Oram2024-01-2000 minSeraphina SpeaksBehind The Scenes Bulletin - On Being a Tween: Body OdourAnyone who thinks they don’t smell is kidding themselves. Body odour is a gift that keeps on giving. In the Main Episode and the Behind The Scenes Bulletin you’ll learn about: What it takes to be an expert and why Seraphina calls herself one Who smells of cheese and who smells oniony What “bunny sniffs” are How our body odour is affected by what we eat The signature smell we each have How to tell someone they smell The link between disgust for body odo...2024-01-1806 minSeraphina SpeaksOn Being a Tween: Body OdourAnyone who thinks they don’t smell is kidding themselves. Body odour is a gift that keeps on giving. In the Main Episode and the Behind The Scenes Bulletin you’ll learn about: What it takes to be an expert and why Seraphina calls herself one Who smells of cheese and who smells oniony What “bunny sniffs” are How our body odour is affected by what we eat The signature smell we each have How to tell someone they smell The link between disgust for body odo...2024-01-1814 minSeraphina SpeaksBehind The Scenes Bulletin - On PocketsPockets are political. They’re not a small item in clothes, though it could seem that way. In the Main Episode and the Behind The Scenes Bulletin you’ll learn about: The importance of pockets for girls and women The history of pockets How pockets became a feature then shrank The link between women’s pockets and the gender pay gap The Show about Science is reviewed and you’ll hear from fellow child host Nate who shares what he loves about being a veteran p...2024-01-1104 minSeraphina SpeaksOn PocketsPockets are political. They’re not a small item in clothes, though it could seem that way. In the Main Episode and the Behind The Scenes Bulletin you’ll learn about: The importance of pockets for girls and women The history of pockets How pockets became a feature then shrank The link between women’s pockets and the gender pay gap The Show about Science is reviewed and you’ll hear from fellow child host Nate who shares what he loves about being a veteran p...2024-01-1120 minSeraphina SpeaksBehind The Scenes Bulletin - On LyingOpening this Season with a Big Bang: On Lying. In the Main Episode and the Behind The Scenes Bulletin you’ll learn about: • Seraphina’s Whopper Lie and how it was received • How often people lie • Who lies most and how often teens lie to their parents • Different ways to think about truth telling and lies • Social rules that expect us to lie yet to be honest also • The most common lie • The biggest lie of all time The Dream Big family fr...2024-01-0404 minSeraphina SpeaksOn LyingOpening this Season with a Big Bang: On Lying. In the Main Episode and the Behind The Scenes Bulletin you’ll learn about: • Seraphina’s Whopper Lie and how it was received • How often people lie • Who lies most and how often teens lie to their parents • Different ways to think about truth telling and lies • Social rules that expect us to lie yet to be honest also • The most common lie • The biggest lie of all time The Dream Big family fr...2024-01-0416 minSeraphina SpeaksSeason 2 TrailerSeason 2 of Seraphina Speaks: For Children Who Think is coming soon! This is a trailer to let you know that early next month we'll begin dropping eight regular-season episodes again. In this trailer you’ll learn about which topics I’m tackling this season. Plus you’ll also hear from a mighty legend of a podcaster who is one of my featured guests this season! Want to get involved? Become a Correspondent Email me Join us on Substack Follow us on Instagram Leave us a review on A...2023-12-0705 min
Parents Who ThinkThe Episode I was Too Afraid to Publish Danusia reflects on the only episode she didn’t publish and the reasons why. Join her in celebrating, and closing out the last episode of the pod – and hear about what’s in store in the next chapter. In this episode you’ll hear: > What happened when Danusia made a tiny list of guests she didn’t want on the pod - and how Katie Hopkins (no.1 slot) became her guest; > How the Katie Hopkins interview went and why it sat unpublished on Danusia’s podcast shelf for so long; > Moments from this interview that left Danusia...2023-10-1135 min
Parents Who Think#168: What’s the Worst That Can Happen?SFM host Danusia Malina-Derben takes on the role of guest on the “What’s the worst that could happen?” podcast. Hosted by multi-award winning business lawyer Suzanne Dibble, Danusia chats to her about the worst-case legal scenarios that have, and unfortunately did, rear their ugly head, and importantly how she dealt with them – this is all covered in a fun and light-hearted way, but with serious undertone. Danusia reveals what happened when IP for a mega media project was taken and in a separate corporate project when as advisor to a CEO, her client died unexpectedly. Both instances are not run of the...2022-09-2832 min
Parents Who Think#167: Modernising FatherhoodSFM host Danusia Malina-Derben takes on the role of guest on the “Father Daughter Dance” podcast hosted by Tim Taylor. Together we discuss the path forward to take on the challenges of being the best Dad possible. We talk about how a reframing of fathers roles and responsibilities is something that’s widely desired by many men but only slowly being enacted. Of course we talk about how women can, and must help and ways that we hurt efforts to ‘get there’. Lastly, we also touch on my relationship with my father and how it evolved particularly towards the end of his li...2022-09-211h 09
Parents Who ThinkAlcohol Free Life - SUNDAY SUPPLEMENTSFM host Danusia Malina-Derben takes on the role of guest on a brilliant podcast about sober life, One for the Road, hosted by Grey area drinking coach, Dave Wilson. You can find him on insta @soberdave and while you’re there follow us on @school.for.mothers.podcast. “I love School for Mothers, it’s an injection of badass” 2022-07-171h 03
Parents Who Think#163: BOND: The Power + Influence Of The Mother-Daughter Relationship - Harriet Malina-DerbenWhat does the BOND between a mother and daughter mean when they’re *both* adults? I’m joined by Harriet Malina-Derben, my right-hand-woman and eldest daughter, for a candid conversation exploring the importance of that bond. Harriet shares why she’s keen to keep the matriarchal line strong and how she sees her role of adult daughter. We talk Shrill (no spoilers, promise), angsty teen years and hormones. Read the full show notes over on our website School for Mothers Website ● School For Mothers Private Facebook Group ● School for Mothers Instagram2022-02-1628 min
Parents Who Think#141: STRIDE: Getting What you Want - Michelle Griffith-RobinsonWhat does it take to be an Olympian? In this week's episode STRIDE, Michelle Griffith-Robinson former Olympic athlete shares how she finds focus, builds inner strength and goes after what she wants in life. Listen to this powerful and uplifting conversation on resilience and how the Olympic values impact her approach to life. WHAT WE COVER Michelle’s Olympic journey What it is REALLY like to be a high performer and elite athlete Danusia shares why she didn't (!) let her daughter go to dancing lessons Michelle shares how she teac...2021-09-0149 min
Parents Who Think#139: STILL HOT! - Danusia Malina-DerbenEvery menopause has its own story - and here’s mine. In this episode I share a part of my own journey - which was included in Kaye Adams and Vicky Allan’s book STILL HOT! As Kaye and Vicky say “Let's rejoice as we step free of the menopausal closet. The menopause is not one story, but many and diverse . . . and, whatever your experience, you are not alone.” My story was included alongside household names like Lorraine Kelly, Baroness Warsi, Anthea Turner, Michelle Heaton and Trinny Woodall and many more. Buy Kaye Adams & Vicky Allan’s bo...2021-07-1416 min
Parents Who ThinkMotherhood & Identity - Dr Aurelie Athan - SUNDAY SUPPLEMENT“The mother is the beginning of everything yet she’s often the last called to the table” Dr Aurelie Athan joins me for an episode about motherhood, identity, and so much more. Aurelie’s a reproductive psychologist and faculty member at Columbia University where she’s revived the term Matrescence. Her work is revolutionary - unlike the majority of academic studies into motherhood she focuses on the actual mother (not their children). She studies mothers' development holistically, both their thriving AND distress. In this episode we explore how her work on matrescence led her to new work around reproductive identity.2021-03-2843 min
Parents Who ThinkNOISE: A Manifesto Modernising Motherhood - Danusia Malina-DerbenHow can I be a Mother and be Me? That's what my upcoming book, NOISE: A Manifesto Modernising Motherhood, is all about. On the one hand, this book is about being a mother, but it's also about how, once we become mothers, we're not allowed to be ourselves. NOISE is a powerful dismantling of the barriers and central tenets that hold women back. This manifesto was built to start a conversation; it's a call-to-arms to get ideas flowing through our communities, and an invitation to think differently about what we're repeatedly told about motherhood. ...2021-03-1411 min
Parents Who Think#68: Mother Daughter Bond - Harriet and Danusia Malina-DerbenWhat does the BOND between a mother and daughter mean when they’re *both* adults? I’m joined by Harriet Malina-Derben, my right-hand-woman and eldest daughter, for a candid conversation exploring the importance of that bond. Harriet shares why she’s keen to keep the matriarchal line strong and how she sees her role of adult daughter. We talk Shrill (no spoilers, promise), angsty teen years and hormones. Read the full show notes over on our website School for Mothers Website ● School For Mothers Private Facebook Group ● School for Mothers Instagram2020-02-1228 min
Parents Who Think#52: FIRST Birthday - Danusia Malina-DerbenThe SFM podcast is 1! To celebrate our first year of podcasting, I share tech tips, some insider secrets and more in this celebratory ep. Listen in if you’ve ever wondered whether *you* should take the plunge and start a podcast (I vote yes!) Read the full show notes over on our website School for Mothers Website ● School For Mothers Private Facebook Group ● School for Mothers Instagram2019-10-2318 min
Parents Who ThinkMISTAKES – SUNDAY SUPPLEMENTMaking mistakes is 100% a normal part of life - and motherhood. In this ep Danusia considers the mistakes she's made along the way. Some of us might say that mistakes are only learning and growth - which Danusia certainly agrees with! Listen in to hear the 7 big mistakes that turned into transformational stuff. Read the full show notes over on our website School for Mothers Website ● School For Mothers Private Facebook Group ● School for Mothers Instagram2019-09-2918 min
Parents Who Think#48: COUNT – EMILY KUMLER KAPLANMaking work COUNT. Emily Kumler Kaplan joins Danusia for a power packed episode all about making big things happen in our careers and beyond. Danusia and Emily explore “tenacious focus”, talking out and Emily’s mission to empower women to make informed decisions about their health. Read the full show notes over on our website School for Mothers Website ● School For Mothers Private Facebook Group ● School for Mothers Instagram2019-09-251h 27
Parents Who ThinkFREEING OUR FEARS WITH GOSIA GORNA - SUNDAY SUPPLEMENTWhat’s behind our biggest fears? Success, according to Danusia’s guest, Gosia Gorna. This ep is all about grabbing a hold of your fears and moving through them. Gosia takes Danusia through her technique, The Expansion Game; a pioneering and powerful method for releasing fear. Listen out for some epiphanies (after all, Danusia doesn’t usually air her soul) Read the full show notes over on our website School for Mothers Website ● School For Mothers Private Facebook Group ● School for Mothers Instagram2019-09-1555 min
Parents Who Think#18: WORTH - Wies BratbyLet's talk salary and career negotiations! Danusia is joined by Wies Bratby, founder of Women in Negotiation and lawyer-turned-HR-director-turned-women’s-butt-kicker. Hear Danusia and Wies discuss all things negotiation and the impact of opportunities that often pass women by, yet need not. WHAT WE COVER What sparked her to start a coaching and consulting company teaching women to negotiate their worth The surprising truth on what prevents women from negotiating salary and career Her go-to process when teaching women negotiation skills for at work AND at home Simple reframes for EXACTLY why women have special negotiating talent ...2019-02-2759 min
Parents Who Think#17: FORCE - Heledd KendrickSupporting your partner and their career takes on a new meaning when you are a military spouse. In episode 17, entitled FORCE, Danusia is joined by Heledd Kendrick, CEO and Founder of the multi-award winning social enterprise, Recruit for Spouses. Danusia and Heledd discuss the realities of being a military spouse and the importance of empowering women who often give up careers to be by their partners’ side. WHAT WE COVER What sparked Heledd creating Recruit for Spouses. The role of military spouses in the armed forces and beyond. Danusia´s own exp...2019-02-2049 min
Parents Who Think#15: STRIDE - Michelle Griffith-RobinsonWhat does it take to be an Olympian? In this week's episode STRIDE, Michelle Griffith-Robinson former Olympic athlete shares how she finds focus, builds inner strength and goes after what she wants in life. Listen to this powerful and uplifting conversation on resilience and how the Olympic values impact her approach to life. WHAT WE COVER Michelle’s Olympic journey What it is REALLY like to be a high performer and elite athlete Danusia shares why she didn't (!) let her daughter go to dancing lessons Michelle shares how she teac...2019-02-0649 min
Parents Who Think#Intro: BIRTH - Danusia Malina-DerbenJoin mother of 10 and entrepreneur, Danusia Malina-Derben, as she chats with badass women (who happen to have children) who are defining & redefining themselves — instead of letting our noisy culture define their identity for them. Yeah, it’s pretty #revolutionary.2018-10-2603 min