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Make Love To YouEpisode 108: “Tiny Altars Everywhere” — Roots & Rituals series Part 5What if your most sacred ritual isn’t something you do, but something you are?In this episode of Make Love To You, Darnell Davis invites us to stop searching for the perfect routine and start remembering the truth: your body is an altar. Your breath is a prayer. Your attention is the offering.For anyone who’s ever felt unsure about where to begin with ritual—or quietly wondered if they even have one—this is a gentle reminder that you already carry the sacred within you. No incense, playlist, or morning journal required.We...
2025-07-1108 min
The Make Love To You PodcastEpisode 108: “Tiny Altars Everywhere” — Roots & Rituals series Part 5What if your most sacred ritual isn’t something you do, but something you are?In this episode of Make Love To You, Darnell Davis invites us to stop searching for the perfect routine and start remembering the truth: your body is an altar. Your breath is a prayer. Your attention is the offering.For anyone who’s ever felt unsure about where to begin with ritual—or quietly wondered if they even have one—this is a gentle reminder that you already carry the sacred within you. No incense, playlist, or morning journal required.We explore:Why ritual begins with pre...
2025-07-1108 minMake Love To YouEpisode 103 – “Becoming Your Own Home” Series: Home Within (Part 7 of 7)There’s a moment after the storm—when the door closes, the silence sets in, and you realize… you’re alone. Again.In this final episode of the Home Within series, Darnell tells the raw, emotional story of coming home to an empty apartment after a toxic relationship ended. A relationship that once looked like luxury and compatibility—matching fits, Faena beach days, and curated aesthetics—but was really chaos in disguise.Through vivid storytelling, reflection, and humor, Darnell unpacks the deeper truth behind our attraction to emotionally unavailable people—and the fear that waits for us in soli...
2025-07-0610 minThe Make Love To You PodcastEpisode 103 – “Becoming Your Own Home” Series: Home Within (Part 7 of 7)There’s a moment after the storm—when the door closes, the silence sets in, and you realize… you’re alone. Again.In this final episode of the Home Within series, Darnell tells the raw, emotional story of coming home to an empty apartment after a toxic relationship ended. A relationship that once looked like luxury and compatibility—matching fits, Faena beach days, and curated aesthetics—but was really chaos in disguise.Through vivid storytelling, reflection, and humor, Darnell unpacks the deeper truth behind our attraction to emotionally unavailable people—and the fear that waits for us in solitude. What do you do when...
2025-07-0610 minMake Love To YouEPISODE 99 – “Mistaking Red Flags for Six Flags” Home Within series — Part 3What do you do when the red flags look like Six Flags?When your heart races, your stomach flips, and your intuition goes silent—all because you mistook chaos for chemistry?In this raw and revealing Part 3 of the Home Within series, Darnell Davis opens up about the emotionally destructive situationship that almost consumed him—a roller coaster he built, defended, and called love, even when every piece of it screamed otherwise. It wasn’t just about the married woman. It was about the wound he was chasing. The addiction to intensity. The deep nervous system...
2025-07-0208 minThe Make Love To You PodcastEPISODE 99 – “Mistaking Red Flags for Six Flags” Home Within series — Part 3What do you do when the red flags look like Six Flags?When your heart races, your stomach flips, and your intuition goes silent—all because you mistook chaos for chemistry?In this raw and revealing Part 3 of the Home Within series, Darnell Davis opens up about the emotionally destructive situationship that almost consumed him—a roller coaster he built, defended, and called love, even when every piece of it screamed otherwise. It wasn’t just about the married woman. It was about the wound he was chasing. The addiction to intensity. The deep nervous system wiring that taught him love h...
2025-07-0208 minMake Love To YouEpisode 97 – “You Are Not Your Panic” (Home Within, Pt. 1)New Series: The Home WithinAfter unmasking our fears in the last series, there’s only one place left to go: home—but not the kind you can find on a map.In this opening episode of The Home Within, Darnell Davis guides us back to the body, the breath, and the quiet places we’ve been running from. Because after fear is faced… after the fight is over… your nervous system still needs somewhere safe to land.This episode is a love letter to everyone who’s ever felt like th...
2025-06-3010 minThe Make Love To You PodcastEpisode 97 – “You Are Not Your Panic” (Home Within, Pt. 1)New Series: The Home WithinAfter unmasking our fears in the last series, there’s only one place left to go: home—but not the kind you can find on a map.In this opening episode of The Home Within, Darnell Davis guides us back to the body, the breath, and the quiet places we’ve been running from. Because after fear is faced… after the fight is over… your nervous system still needs somewhere safe to land.This episode is a love letter to everyone who’s ever felt like they are their anxiety—like their racing heart and spiraling...
2025-06-3010 minMake Love To YouEpisode 95 – “The Life You Miss While Hiding” Part 6 of the Fear Beneath It All seriesWhat does it cost you to stay hidden? In this follow-up to the deeply personal Episode 94, Darnell gets real about the silent grief and missed opportunities that come from dimming your light. We often tell ourselves we’re just waiting for the “right moment,” but truthfully—fear has us locked in the shadows, watching life pass us by. In this heartfelt episode, Darnell reflects on how staying small feels safe… but it also keeps you from the love, purpose, and freedom your soul is begging for.This one’s for the people who know they’re gifted but...
2025-06-2808 min
The Make Love To You PodcastEpisode 95 – “The Life You Miss While Hiding” Part 6 of the Fear Beneath It All seriesWhat does it cost you to stay hidden? In this follow-up to the deeply personal Episode 94, Darnell gets real about the silent grief and missed opportunities that come from dimming your light. We often tell ourselves we’re just waiting for the “right moment,” but truthfully—fear has us locked in the shadows, watching life pass us by. In this heartfelt episode, Darnell reflects on how staying small feels safe… but it also keeps you from the love, purpose, and freedom your soul is begging for.This one’s for the people who know they’re gifted but keep second-guessing their shine. F...
2025-06-2808 minMake Love To YouEpisode 93 – “Fear and Stillness” Part 4 of the series: The Fear Beneath It AllStillness sounds beautiful—until you’re actually in it.In this raw and reflective episode, Darnell Davis, aka The Nell Man, takes us inside the quiet moments we often avoid. What happens when the world slows down just enough for you to hear everything you’ve been running from? What rises to the surface when the distractions fade and all you’re left with is the truth?This isn’t a lesson. It’s a confession.A mirror held up to the soul.And an invitation to finally stop running.We explore...
2025-06-2607 minThe Make Love To You PodcastEpisode 93 – “Fear and Stillness” Part 4 of the series: The Fear Beneath It AllStillness sounds beautiful—until you’re actually in it.In this raw and reflective episode, Darnell Davis, aka The Nell Man, takes us inside the quiet moments we often avoid. What happens when the world slows down just enough for you to hear everything you’ve been running from? What rises to the surface when the distractions fade and all you’re left with is the truth?This isn’t a lesson. It’s a confession.A mirror held up to the soul.And an invitation to finally stop running.We explore how stillness can feel like peace—or like panic—dependin...
2025-06-2607 minThe Make Love To You PodcastEpisode 91 – The Fear You Inherited (Part 2 of “The Fear Beneath It All” Series)Some of the fear you carry didn’t start with you.It was passed down—like a last name, like a story, like survival.In this powerful second installment of The Fear Beneath It All series, host Darnell Davis explores the deep roots of inherited fear. Not just trauma, but the rules and roles we were given before we even had the language to question them. The fear that told us to be quiet, to stay small, to play safe. The fear that made love conditional and made freedom feel dangerous.This episode dives into how fear moves generationally—through silenc...
2025-06-2408 minMake Love To YouEpisode 91 – The Fear You Inherited (Part 2 of “The Fear Beneath It All” Series)Some of the fear you carry didn’t start with you.It was passed down—like a last name, like a story, like survival.In this powerful second installment of The Fear Beneath It All series, host Darnell Davis explores the deep roots of inherited fear. Not just trauma, but the rules and roles we were given before we even had the language to question them. The fear that told us to be quiet, to stay small, to play safe. The fear that made love conditional and made freedom feel dangerous.This episode dive...
2025-06-2408 minThe Make Love To You PodcastEpisode 90: “The Fear Beneath It All” – Fear Is the Root SeriesWhat if the chaos we’re witnessing in the world isn’t just political… or racial… or generational—but deeply emotional? What if beneath all the anger, division, and hate… is fear?In this powerful opening to our new series The Fear Beneath It All, host Darnell Davis (aka The Nell Man) pulls the curtain back on what’s really driving the madness of today’s world. From viral headlines to quiet moments of self-doubt, fear is the common thread—and it’s been hiding in plain sight.This episode is a spiritual wake-up call and a soul-level vibe check. You’ll learn:How fea...
2025-06-2307 minMake Love To YouEpisode 90: “The Fear Beneath It All” – Fear Is the Root SeriesWhat if the chaos we’re witnessing in the world isn’t just political… or racial… or generational—but deeply emotional? What if beneath all the anger, division, and hate… is fear?In this powerful opening to our new series The Fear Beneath It All, host Darnell Davis (aka The Nell Man) pulls the curtain back on what’s really driving the madness of today’s world. From viral headlines to quiet moments of self-doubt, fear is the common thread—and it’s been hiding in plain sight.This episode is a spiritual wake-up call and a soul-level vib...
2025-06-2306 minMake Love To YouEpisode 89 – “The Assignment” (Final Episode of the PLU: People Like Us Series)We’ve talked about the world. We’ve talked about the pain.We’ve talked about the people—People Like Us.But now it’s time to talk about the assignment.In this final chapter of the PLU: People Like Us series, host Darnell Davis (aka The Nell Man) brings everything home with clarity, fire, and a direct call to the soul. For weeks, we’ve been identifying who we are and who our people are—unpacking the divine traits we once mistook for flaws. But that knowing was never the endgame. It was just the b...
2025-06-2208 minThe Make Love To You PodcastEpisode 89 – “The Assignment” (Final Episode of the PLU: People Like Us Series)We’ve talked about the world. We’ve talked about the pain.We’ve talked about the people—People Like Us.But now it’s time to talk about the assignment.In this final chapter of the PLU: People Like Us series, host Darnell Davis (aka The Nell Man) brings everything home with clarity, fire, and a direct call to the soul. For weeks, we’ve been identifying who we are and who our people are—unpacking the divine traits we once mistook for flaws. But that knowing was never the endgame. It was just the beginning.The assignment? It’s to be pre...
2025-06-2208 minMake Love To YouEpisode 88 – “Don’t Call It Isolation—It’s Initiation” PLU SeriesEver feel like the more “informed” you try to be, the more disconnected you actually feel?In this powerful episode of The Make Love To You Podcast, host Darnell Davis (aka The Nell Man) takes us deep into the emotional and spiritual toll of today’s media-saturated world. We’re talking news cycles, doomscrolling, social media algorithms, and the kind of overstimulation that’s numbing our intuition and dulling our souls.But this isn’t just a warning—it’s a wake-up call. Because what might feel like isolation isn’t punishment. It’s preparation. It’s initiation. And...
2025-06-2107 minThe Make Love To You PodcastEpisode 88 – “Don’t Call It Isolation—It’s Initiation” PLU SeriesEver feel like the more “informed” you try to be, the more disconnected you actually feel?In this powerful episode of The Make Love To You Podcast, host Darnell Davis (aka The Nell Man) takes us deep into the emotional and spiritual toll of today’s media-saturated world. We’re talking news cycles, doomscrolling, social media algorithms, and the kind of overstimulation that’s numbing our intuition and dulling our souls.But this isn’t just a warning—it’s a wake-up call. Because what might feel like isolation isn’t punishment. It’s preparation. It’s initiation. And it’s sacred.Darnell breaks...
2025-06-2107 minThe Make Love To You PodcastEpisode 87 – “People Like You Are the Medicine” PLU: People Like Us SeriesThere’s a reason you’ve been feeling like the world is heavier lately.It’s not just the news. It’s not just the politics.It’s a cultural and spiritual shift—and you’re not imagining it.In this episode, we go all the way in.Darnell (aka The Nell Man) unpacks how the current state of the world isn’t just chaotic—it’s contagious. And when you’re sensitive, awake, or energetically tuned in, it can feel like you’re drowning in other people’s disconnection.But here’s the truth:People like you are not the problem. You’re the medi...
2025-06-2008 minMake Love To YouEpisode 87 – “People Like You Are the Medicine” PLU: People Like Us SeriesThere’s a reason you’ve been feeling like the world is heavier lately.It’s not just the news. It’s not just the politics.It’s a cultural and spiritual shift—and you’re not imagining it.In this episode, we go all the way in.Darnell (aka The Nell Man) unpacks how the current state of the world isn’t just chaotic—it’s contagious. And when you’re sensitive, awake, or energetically tuned in, it can feel like you’re drowning in other people’s disconnection.But here’s the truth:
2025-06-2008 minMake Love To YouEpisode 85: “You’re Not the Only One: Finding Your People in a World That Pretends They Don’t Exist” Series: PLU — People Like UsEver felt like the only one who sees the world the way you do? Like you’re the only person in the room asking deeper questions, feeling energy shifts, or craving soul-level connection while everyone else seems content with the surface?You’re not the only one.And you never were.In this third installment of the PLU: People Like Us series, Darnell peels back the loneliness that often comes with being a seer, a feeler, a knower—and offers a powerful reminder: your people do exist. The world just taught you to look i...
2025-06-1806 minThe Make Love To You PodcastEpisode 85: “You’re Not the Only One: Finding Your People in a World That Pretends They Don’t Exist” Series: PLU — People Like UsEver felt like the only one who sees the world the way you do? Like you’re the only person in the room asking deeper questions, feeling energy shifts, or craving soul-level connection while everyone else seems content with the surface?You’re not the only one.And you never were.In this third installment of the PLU: People Like Us series, Darnell peels back the loneliness that often comes with being a seer, a feeler, a knower—and offers a powerful reminder: your people do exist. The world just taught you to look in the wrong places.We talk about...
2025-06-1806 minMake Love To YouEpisode 84: “The Gift They Tried to Shame Out of You” Series: PLU — People Like UsThey called it weird.They called it too much.They called it demonic, dramatic, overly sensitive, or just plain “not normal.”But what if what they tried to shame out of you… was actually your gift?In this episode of Make Love To You, Darnell dives deep into the pain of growing up spiritually gifted in environments that didn’t know how to hold your brilliance. Whether you were the child who saw too much, felt too deeply, or just knew things before they happened—this one’s for you.We talk ab...
2025-06-1708 minThe Make Love To You PodcastEpisode 84: “The Gift They Tried to Shame Out of You” Series: PLU — People Like UsThey called it weird.They called it too much.They called it demonic, dramatic, overly sensitive, or just plain “not normal.”But what if what they tried to shame out of you… was actually your gift?In this episode of Make Love To You, Darnell dives deep into the pain of growing up spiritually gifted in environments that didn’t know how to hold your brilliance. Whether you were the child who saw too much, felt too deeply, or just knew things before they happened—this one’s for you.We talk about:Why your intuition, sensitivity, and knowing were never flawsH...
2025-06-1708 minMake Love To YouEpisode 82: “The Truth Will Cost You People”What happens when you stop pretending? When you stop minimizing, sugarcoating, or swallowing your needs just to keep the peace?In this episode of The Make Love To You Podcast, Darnell gets real about the cost of honesty—and why it’s worth it. With powerful storytelling and emotional clarity, he shares the true story of a couple who looked like “relationship goals” on the outside, but were unraveling on the inside. When one of them finally spoke up, everything changed.Through this story—and his own reflections—Darnell explores how telling the truth can shift relati...
2025-06-1508 minThe Make Love To You PodcastEpisode 82: “The Truth Will Cost You People”What happens when you stop pretending? When you stop minimizing, sugarcoating, or swallowing your needs just to keep the peace?In this episode of The Make Love To You Podcast, Darnell gets real about the cost of honesty—and why it’s worth it. With powerful storytelling and emotional clarity, he shares the true story of a couple who looked like “relationship goals” on the outside, but were unraveling on the inside. When one of them finally spoke up, everything changed.Through this story—and his own reflections—Darnell explores how telling the truth can shift relationships, clear the room, and force us...
2025-06-1508 minThe Make Love To You PodcastEPISODE 81: “WHAT YOU WATER WILL GROW” Season 2 – Loving Out Loud SeriesSome friendships don’t end with a fight.They end with a realization: this isn’t growing anymore—and neither am I.In this episode, Darnell shares the raw and deeply personal story of walking away from a decade-long friendship that looked solid on the outside but was silently draining him on the inside. It’s a story about access, ego, unspoken jealousy, and what happens when you start choosing peace over proximity.Because sometimes the most self-loving thing you can do is stop watering a relationship that only blooms when you’re shrinking.This isn’t about cancel culture or being pet...
2025-06-1408 minMake Love To YouEPISODE 81: “WHAT YOU WATER WILL GROW” Season 2 – Loving Out Loud SeriesSome friendships don’t end with a fight.They end with a realization: this isn’t growing anymore—and neither am I.In this episode, Darnell shares the raw and deeply personal story of walking away from a decade-long friendship that looked solid on the outside but was silently draining him on the inside. It’s a story about access, ego, unspoken jealousy, and what happens when you start choosing peace over proximity.Because sometimes the most self-loving thing you can do is stop watering a relationship that only blooms when you’re shrinking...
2025-06-1408 minMake Love To YouEPISODE 80: The Cost of Loving Yourself Out Loud Season 2 – Loving Out Loud SeriesWhat does it really cost to choose yourself? In this powerful episode, Darnell opens up about the high price of protecting your peace—even when it means walking away from big money, major opportunities, or relationships that no longer serve you.From turning down high-profile clients to setting boundaries that confused the people around him, Darnell shares what it looks like to love yourself out loud… even when it’s not applauded. Even when it’s misunderstood. Even when it costs you.Because self-love isn’t always soft. Sometimes it’s a firm “no.” A quiet exit. A de...
2025-06-1309 minThe Make Love To You PodcastEPISODE 80: The Cost of Loving Yourself Out Loud Season 2 – Loving Out Loud SeriesWhat does it really cost to choose yourself? In this powerful episode, Darnell opens up about the high price of protecting your peace—even when it means walking away from big money, major opportunities, or relationships that no longer serve you.From turning down high-profile clients to setting boundaries that confused the people around him, Darnell shares what it looks like to love yourself out loud… even when it’s not applauded. Even when it’s misunderstood. Even when it costs you.Because self-love isn’t always soft. Sometimes it’s a firm “no.” A quiet exit. A decision to disappoint other...
2025-06-1309 minMake Love To YouEPISODE 78: “LOL Season” (Loving Out Loud) Welcome to Season 2. Let’s make some noise.We’re back—and this time, we’re louder. Not just in volume, but in power, presence, and love. Season 1 was the healing. The crying-in-the-bathtub, journaling-at-2AM, finding-yourself-in-the-dark kind of season. But Season 2? Season 2 is what healing looks like in public.This is the LOL Season—but not “laugh out loud.” We’re talking Loving Out Loud.The unapologetic, fully expressed, don’t-dim-your-light kind of self-love.In this fiery kickoff episode, Darnell aka The Nell Man sets the tone for a brand new season of walking your healing out into the real world—relationships, wor...
2025-06-1111 minThe Make Love To You PodcastEPISODE 78: “LOL Season” (Loving Out Loud) Welcome to Season 2. Let’s make some noise.We’re back—and this time, we’re louder. Not just in volume, but in power, presence, and love. Season 1 was the healing. The crying-in-the-bathtub, journaling-at-2AM, finding-yourself-in-the-dark kind of season. But Season 2? Season 2 is what healing looks like in public.This is the LOL Season—but not “laugh out loud.” We’re talking Loving Out Loud.The unapologetic, fully expressed, don’t-dim-your-light kind of self-love.In this fiery kickoff episode, Darnell aka The Nell Man sets the tone for a brand new season of walking your healing out into the real world—relationships, work, brunch, traffic, and everywhere in between. You’ll he...
2025-06-1111 minMake Love To YouEpisode 68 — “Why You Were Born” The Embodiment Series: Becoming Who You Actually AreSometimes purpose doesn’t show up as a lightning bolt.Sometimes… it shows up during a casual grocery run at a local Fresh Market.In this deeply personal episode, Darnell shares a chance encounter with an employee during a quick grocery run that unexpectedly turned into a mirror—and a mic drop. What began as a casual compliment turned into a moment of divine reflection: What if this is who I’ve always been? And what if this is why I was born?This episode is about purpose—not the kind you strive for, but t...
2025-06-0110 minThe Make Love To You PodcastEpisode 68 — “Why You Were Born” The Embodiment Series: Becoming Who You Actually AreSometimes purpose doesn’t show up as a lightning bolt.Sometimes… it shows up during a casual grocery run at a local Fresh Market.In this deeply personal episode, Darnell shares a chance encounter with an employee during a quick grocery run that unexpectedly turned into a mirror—and a mic drop. What began as a casual compliment turned into a moment of divine reflection: What if this is who I’ve always been? And what if this is why I was born?This episode is about purpose—not the kind you strive for, but the kind you embody.It’s about the...
2025-06-0110 minMake Love To YouEpisode 67: “Pleasure, Power & Permission” The Embodiment Series: Becoming Who You Actually AreWhen was the last time you let yourself feel good—without guilt, without shrinking, without trying to justify it?In this episode, Darnell explores the sacred intersection of pleasure, power, and self-permission. He invites you into a deeper conversation about why so many of us—especially those who’ve survived trauma—struggle to feel safe in our joy. Why we second-guess softness. Why we downplay our radiance. And why feeling good can sometimes feel… dangerous.With humor, honesty, and a few mic-drop moments, Darnell dismantles the lie that you have to earn your pleas...
2025-05-3108 minThe Make Love To You PodcastEpisode 67: “Pleasure, Power & Permission” The Embodiment Series: Becoming Who You Actually AreWhen was the last time you let yourself feel good—without guilt, without shrinking, without trying to justify it?In this episode, Darnell explores the sacred intersection of pleasure, power, and self-permission. He invites you into a deeper conversation about why so many of us—especially those who’ve survived trauma—struggle to feel safe in our joy. Why we second-guess softness. Why we downplay our radiance. And why feeling good can sometimes feel… dangerous.With humor, honesty, and a few mic-drop moments, Darnell dismantles the lie that you have to earn your pleasure. He reflects on the body’s memory, th...
2025-05-3108 minThe Make Love To You PodcastEPISODE 66 – “Let Yourself Be Seen” The Embodiment Series: Becoming Who You Actually AreYou’ve done the inner work. You’ve cried the tears. You’ve broken the generational curses and left the old version of you behind.But now comes the part that terrifies most people:Letting yourself be seen.In this raw and liberating episode, Darnell dives into the truth about visibility—the fears that keep us hiding, the ways we shrink to stay safe, and what it really means to show up in your full light without apology.Because healing isn’t just about who you used to be.It’s about learning how to embody who you actually are—out loud, in p...
2025-05-3007 minMake Love To YouEPISODE 66 – “Let Yourself Be Seen” The Embodiment Series: Becoming Who You Actually AreYou’ve done the inner work. You’ve cried the tears. You’ve broken the generational curses and left the old version of you behind.But now comes the part that terrifies most people:Letting yourself be seen.In this raw and liberating episode, Darnell dives into the truth about visibility—the fears that keep us hiding, the ways we shrink to stay safe, and what it really means to show up in your full light without apology.Because healing isn’t just about who you used to be.It’s about...
2025-05-3007 minMake Love To YouEPISODE 65: “Make Peace With the Mirror” The Embodiment Series: Becoming Who You Actually AreYou’ve done the journaling. You’ve cried in the bathtub. You’ve healed your inner child.But now it’s time to face the one person you still flinch around… you.In this laugh-out-loud, deeply honest episode, Darnell invites you to stand in front of the mirror—not just to see your reflection, but to actually see yourself. The real you. The evolving you. The you who doesn’t need fixing, shrinking, or filtering.Together, we unpack how shame distorts your self-image, why self-love isn’t just affirmations and candles, and what it truly means t...
2025-05-2906 minThe Make Love To You PodcastEPISODE 65: “Make Peace With the Mirror” The Embodiment Series: Becoming Who You Actually AreYou’ve done the journaling. You’ve cried in the bathtub. You’ve healed your inner child.But now it’s time to face the one person you still flinch around… you.In this laugh-out-loud, deeply honest episode, Darnell invites you to stand in front of the mirror—not just to see your reflection, but to actually see yourself. The real you. The evolving you. The you who doesn’t need fixing, shrinking, or filtering.Together, we unpack how shame distorts your self-image, why self-love isn’t just affirmations and candles, and what it truly means to make peace with the skin you’re...
2025-05-2906 minThe Make Love To You PodcastEpisode 64: “Your Body Remembers the Truth” The Embodiment Series: Becoming Who You Actually AreYou can’t think your way into healing.You have to feel your way back home.In this powerful opening to The Embodiment Series, Darnell invites you to stop bypassing your body and start listening to its wisdom. Because the truth is—your body has been keeping score. Of every heartbreak you swallowed. Every “I’m fine” you didn’t mean. Every time you abandoned yourself to be accepted.This episode is about learning to stop running from your body, and instead return to it with reverence. You’ll explore what it means to treat the body not as a project to fix...
2025-05-2809 minMake Love To YouEpisode 64: “Your Body Remembers the Truth” The Embodiment Series: Becoming Who You Actually AreYou can’t think your way into healing.You have to feel your way back home.In this powerful opening to The Embodiment Series, Darnell invites you to stop bypassing your body and start listening to its wisdom. Because the truth is—your body has been keeping score. Of every heartbreak you swallowed. Every “I’m fine” you didn’t mean. Every time you abandoned yourself to be accepted.This episode is about learning to stop running from your body, and instead return to it with reverence. You’ll explore what it means to treat the b...
2025-05-2809 minThe Make Love To You PodcastEpisode 63: “The Becoming” of The Rebirth Series: You’re Not Who You Used to Be:This is the moment it all leads to—the sacred becoming. In the final episode of The Rebirth Series, Darnell invites you into the quiet, powerful truth that healing doesn’t make you someone else… it brings you back to who you’ve always been. This isn’t about fixing yourself. It’s about finally seeing yourself clearly.Through story, soul, and a series of transformational reflections, this episode unpacks what it means to embody the version of you that’s no longer performing, proving, or shrinking. You’ll learn why “arrival” isn’t a destination—it’s a daily decision.You’ll be reminde...
2025-05-2706 minMake Love To YouEpisode 63: “The Becoming” of The Rebirth Series: You’re Not Who You Used to Be:This is the moment it all leads to—the sacred becoming. In the final episode of The Rebirth Series, Darnell invites you into the quiet, powerful truth that healing doesn’t make you someone else… it brings you back to who you’ve always been. This isn’t about fixing yourself. It’s about finally seeing yourself clearly.Through story, soul, and a series of transformational reflections, this episode unpacks what it means to embody the version of you that’s no longer performing, proving, or shrinking. You’ll learn why “arrival” isn’t a destination—it’s a daily decision....
2025-05-2706 minThe Make Love To You PodcastEpisode 61 – “Grieving the You They Won’t Get to Know” The Rebirth Series: You’re Not Who You Used to BeYou’ve grown. You’ve healed. You’ve evolved.But not everyone made the trip with you.In this raw and freeing episode, Darnell invites you into the sacred, often overlooked process of grieving the relationships that couldn’t meet the reborn version of you. Whether it’s family, friends, or lovers—you’ll explore what it means to release the need for others to “get it” and make peace with being misunderstood.This episode is for anyone who:Spent years trying to be seen by people committed to their old versionFelt guilt for outgrowing what once felt like homeNeeds a permis...
2025-05-2511 minMake Love To YouEpisode 61 – “Grieving the You They Won’t Get to Know” The Rebirth Series: You’re Not Who You Used to BeYou’ve grown. You’ve healed. You’ve evolved.But not everyone made the trip with you.In this raw and freeing episode, Darnell invites you into the sacred, often overlooked process of grieving the relationships that couldn’t meet the reborn version of you. Whether it’s family, friends, or lovers—you’ll explore what it means to release the need for others to “get it” and make peace with being misunderstood.This episode is for anyone who:Spent years trying to be seen by people committed to their old versionF...
2025-05-2511 minMake Love To YouEpisode 60 – “The Quiet Power of Self-Belief” The Rebirth Series: You’re Not Who You Used to BeReal belief doesn’t need a microphone—it needs movement.In this grounding, heart-opening episode, Darnell breaks down the myth that confidence has to be loud, flashy, or instant. Using the powerful image of a baby learning to walk, we explore how true self-belief is built: not by hype, but by history—by showing up again and again, even when you’re unsure.If you’ve ever doubted yourself, delayed a dream, or felt like you needed to “feel ready” before beginning, this episode is your medicine. You’ll learn:Why the loudest person in the room isn’...
2025-05-2408 minThe Make Love To You PodcastEpisode 60 – “The Quiet Power of Self-Belief” The Rebirth Series: You’re Not Who You Used to BeReal belief doesn’t need a microphone—it needs movement.In this grounding, heart-opening episode, Darnell breaks down the myth that confidence has to be loud, flashy, or instant. Using the powerful image of a baby learning to walk, we explore how true self-belief is built: not by hype, but by history—by showing up again and again, even when you’re unsure.If you’ve ever doubted yourself, delayed a dream, or felt like you needed to “feel ready” before beginning, this episode is your medicine. You’ll learn:Why the loudest person in the room isn’t always the most confident...
2025-05-2408 minThe Make Love To You PodcastEpisode 59: “Becoming Unavailable to What No Longer Serves You” Welcome back to The Rebirth Series: You’re Not Who You Used to Be.In this transformative episode, Darnell peels back the layers of old conditioning, toxic loyalty, and soul-suffocating habits to ask a bold question: What if your growth isn’t about becoming more, but about finally letting go?We’re diving deep into the sacred art of release—not with bitterness, but with clarity. Not with ego, but with love. Because sometimes, elevation requires separation.From people-pleasing patterns to dead-end relationships, unspoken family expectations to outdated versions of self—this episode invites you to lovingly unplug from what’s been dimming your light. You’ll learn how to recognize when your spirit is outgrowin...
2025-05-2307 minMake Love To YouEpisode 59: “Becoming Unavailable to What No Longer Serves You” Welcome back to The Rebirth Series: You’re Not Who You Used to Be.In this transformative episode, Darnell peels back the layers of old conditioning, toxic loyalty, and soul-suffocating habits to ask a bold question: What if your growth isn’t about becoming more, but about finally letting go?We’re diving deep into the sacred art of release—not with bitterness, but with clarity. Not with ego, but with love. Because sometimes, elevation requires separation.From people-pleasing patterns to dead-end relationships, unspoken family expectations to outdated versions of self—this episode invites you to lovingly unplug from what’s been dimming your light. You’ll learn how to recognize...
2025-05-2307 minThe Make Love To You PodcastEPISODE 58 – “Reclaiming Your Power, Pleasure & Voice“You weren’t born disconnected—you were taught to be. In this powerful episode of The Rebirth Series, we go back to the version of you that existed before the world told you who to be. The child who danced without shame, spoke without fear, and felt everything deeply. That version of you didn’t need fixing—they needed permission to stay free.Darnell guides you through a heartfelt exploration of how the Inner Child Chronicles prepared us to rise into our rebirth—where we remember our original power, reclaim our capacity for joy, and resurrect the voice we once silenced t...
2025-05-2208 minMake Love To YouEPISODE 58 – “Reclaiming Your Power, Pleasure & Voice“You weren’t born disconnected—you were taught to be. In this powerful episode of The Rebirth Series, we go back to the version of you that existed before the world told you who to be. The child who danced without shame, spoke without fear, and felt everything deeply. That version of you didn’t need fixing—they needed permission to stay free.Darnell guides you through a heartfelt exploration of how the Inner Child Chronicles prepared us to rise into our rebirth—where we remember our original power, reclaim our capacity for joy, and resurrect the voice we o...
2025-05-2208 minMake Love To YouEpisode 57: “The Death of Who I Had to Be” The Rebirth Series: You’re Not Who You Used to BeWelcome to the first chapter of The Rebirth Series—a powerful new journey into the version of you that’s been waiting to rise.In this soul-shifting episode, Darnell invites you into a sacred farewell. It’s time to lay to rest the version of you that was shaped by survival—the overachiever, the people-pleaser, the one who said “I’m fine” when you were anything but. With guided reflection, emotional storytelling, and a beautiful new ritual, you’ll release who you had to be… to make space for who you were always meant to become.If The Inner Chi...
2025-05-2107 minThe Make Love To You PodcastEpisode 55: “Reparenting 101”The Inner Child Chronicles – Part 6What if healing meant becoming the parent you always needed?In today’s episode, Darnell Davis breaks down the powerful practice of reparenting—a gentle, intentional way of tending to the wounds your inner child still carries. This isn’t about blaming your parents. It’s about seeing the gaps… and choosing to fill them with love.Darnell shares a personal story about growing up in a home where survival came before softness—and how a simple lunch at a friend’s house exposed him to a completely different way of being loved. That moment planted a seed t...
2025-05-1908 minMake Love To YouEpisode 55: “Reparenting 101”The Inner Child Chronicles – Part 6What if healing meant becoming the parent you always needed?In today’s episode, Darnell Davis breaks down the powerful practice of reparenting—a gentle, intentional way of tending to the wounds your inner child still carries. This isn’t about blaming your parents. It’s about seeing the gaps… and choosing to fill them with love.Darnell shares a personal story about growing up in a home where survival came before softness—and how a simple lunch at a friend’s house exposed him to a completely different way of...
2025-05-1908 minThe Make Love To You PodcastEpisode 54: “Strong Too Soon: The Cost of Growing Up Fast”What if the “mature” version of you is really just the child who had to grow up too fast?In this powerful episode of The Inner Child Chronicles, Darnell Davis explores what it means to take on adult responsibilities as a child—and how many of us were praised for our independence while silently drowning in emotional neglect. From cooking dinner at 9 years old to raising younger siblings before you knew how to care for yourself, this conversation unpacks the hidden cost of early responsibility.Darnell reflects on his own story as the oldest of three—navigating grief, silence, and the weig...
2025-05-1808 minMake Love To YouEpisode 54: “Strong Too Soon: The Cost of Growing Up Fast”What if the “mature” version of you is really just the child who had to grow up too fast?In this powerful episode of The Inner Child Chronicles, Darnell Davis explores what it means to take on adult responsibilities as a child—and how many of us were praised for our independence while silently drowning in emotional neglect. From cooking dinner at 9 years old to raising younger siblings before you knew how to care for yourself, this conversation unpacks the hidden cost of early responsibility.Darnell reflects on his own story as the oldest of three—...
2025-05-1808 minMake Love To YouEpisode 53 –“ Let That Baby Cry“In this powerful and heart-stretching installment of The Inner Child Chronicles, Darnell Davis returns to the mic with raw truth and tender courage as he explores the grief many of us were never allowed to feel—let alone express.Titled Let That Baby Cry, this episode digs into the emotional repression passed down through generations, especially for those raised to believe that vulnerability was weakness and tears were a luxury no one could afford.Darnell shares deeply personal reflections, including the devastating loss of his mother and the unspoken family rules that taught him—and so m...
2025-05-1707 minThe Make Love To You PodcastEpisode 53 –“ Let That Baby Cry“In this powerful and heart-stretching installment of The Inner Child Chronicles, Darnell Davis returns to the mic with raw truth and tender courage as he explores the grief many of us were never allowed to feel—let alone express.Titled Let That Baby Cry, this episode digs into the emotional repression passed down through generations, especially for those raised to believe that vulnerability was weakness and tears were a luxury no one could afford.Darnell shares deeply personal reflections, including the devastating loss of his mother and the unspoken family rules that taught him—and so many others—that there was no...
2025-05-1707 minMake Love To YouEpisode 52: “Your Inner Child is Not a Problem to Fix”We’ve been taught to silence our feelings, push past our pain, and “grow up” like that’s supposed to mean abandoning the softest parts of ourselves. But your inner child was never the problem. The problem was the world that told you tenderness was weakness and survival meant self-betrayal.In this powerful episode, Darnell dives into the shame loop many of us got stuck in: the belief that our needs were too much, our feelings too loud, and our existence too inconvenient. He opens up about his own story of abandonment, hyper-independence, and how the fear of being...
2025-05-1608 minThe Make Love To You PodcastEpisode 50: “Wait… I have a child living inside me?”THE INNER CHILD CHRONICLES SERIESWe’re kicking off The Inner Child Chronicles with a deep, honest, and hilarious reality check:Yes—your inner child is real.And no—they’re not just some cute metaphor.In this powerful opening episode, Darnell Davis (aka the big brother your inner child’s been waiting on) unpacks what the inner child actually is, how it shows up in our adult lives, and why healing that relationship might be the most important work you’ll ever do.This episode is your gentle, loving call to slow down… and finally check in on the kid you used to be...
2025-05-1408 minMake Love To YouEpisode 50: “Wait… I have a child living inside me?”THE INNER CHILD CHRONICLES SERIESWe’re kicking off The Inner Child Chronicles with a deep, honest, and hilarious reality check:Yes—your inner child is real.And no—they’re not just some cute metaphor.In this powerful opening episode, Darnell Davis (aka the big brother your inner child’s been waiting on) unpacks what the inner child actually is, how it shows up in our adult lives, and why healing that relationship might be the most important work you’ll ever do.This episode is your gentle, loving call...
2025-05-1408 minMake Love To YouEpisode 49: I’m Not Lonely, I’m Free — Becoming the Love You’ve Been Waiting ForWelcome to the final chapter in our 7-part series on codependency and loneliness.In this closing episode, Darnell is shifting the story—from heartbreak to healing, from waiting to becoming. This is not about finding “the one.” It’s about realizing you are the one you’ve been waiting for.Host Darnell Davis shares the moment everything changed—the morning silence stopped feeling like a punishment and started feeling like peace. You’ll hear the truth about loneliness, the myth of needing someone to complete you, and what it really means to become the love you’ve been se...
2025-05-1307 minThe Make Love To You PodcastEpisode 49: I’m Not Lonely, I’m Free — Becoming the Love You’ve Been Waiting ForWelcome to the final chapter in our 7-part series on codependency and loneliness.In this closing episode, Darnell is shifting the story—from heartbreak to healing, from waiting to becoming. This is not about finding “the one.” It’s about realizing you are the one you’ve been waiting for.Host Darnell Davis shares the moment everything changed—the morning silence stopped feeling like a punishment and started feeling like peace. You’ll hear the truth about loneliness, the myth of needing someone to complete you, and what it really means to become the love you’ve been seeking.If you’ve ever aban...
2025-05-1307 minThe Make Love To You PodcastEpisode 47: “The Mirror Is the Medicine” — Healing the Inner ChildThis episode is a gut check.If you’ve ever stayed in something toxic and called it loyalty…If you’ve ever bent over backward for someone who only met you halfway…If you’ve ever mistaken control for care, or chaos for chemistry—This one’s for you.In Episode 47 of Make Love To You, Darnell Davis takes us deep into the roots of codependent relationships and exposes the heartbreaking ways we confuse survival tactics for love. From early childhood roles to romantic entanglements, we unpack why we keep giving the best parts of ourselves to people who don’t know what to d...
2025-05-1107 minMake Love To YouEpisode 47: “The Mirror Is the Medicine” — Healing the Inner ChildThis episode is a gut check.If you’ve ever stayed in something toxic and called it loyalty…If you’ve ever bent over backward for someone who only met you halfway…If you’ve ever mistaken control for care, or chaos for chemistry—This one’s for you.In Episode 47 of Make Love To You, Darnell Davis takes us deep into the roots of codependent relationships and exposes the heartbreaking ways we confuse survival tactics for love. From early childhood roles to romantic entanglements, we unpack why we keep giving th...
2025-05-1107 minMake Love To YouEPISODE 46: “The Guilt Trip You Don’t Owe Anyone”EPISODE 46: “The Guilt Trip You Don’t Owe Anyone”Ever felt bad for doing what’s best for you? For setting a boundary? Saying no? Choosing rest? That’s guilt—and it’s one of the most manipulative tools in the codependency toolbox. In this episode, Darnell peels back the layers on how guilt disguises itself as loyalty, love, and maturity, but really keeps us stuck in emotional debt. He gets personal about growing up needing to be liked, performing for approval, and learning the hard way that being needed isn’t the same as being loved. If you’ve ever f...
2025-05-1007 minThe Make Love To You PodcastEpisode 45: “Trained to Be Useful: The Roots of Codependency”In this emotionally raw and revealing episode of Make Love To You, Darnell Davis dives deep into the early conditioning that shapes so many of our codependent patterns. From childhood roles that rewarded self-sacrifice to the unspoken belief that love must be earned through usefulness, Episode 45 unpacks how our earliest relationships can teach us to abandon ourselves in order to feel safe, wanted, or worthy.Darnell reflects on his own story—being the oldest sibling, stepping into a caretaker role at a young age, and equating love with responsibility. But this isn’t just personal. This is a conversation for...
2025-05-0907 minMake Love To YouEpisode 45: “Trained to Be Useful: The Roots of Codependency”In this emotionally raw and revealing episode of Make Love To You, Darnell Davis dives deep into the early conditioning that shapes so many of our codependent patterns. From childhood roles that rewarded self-sacrifice to the unspoken belief that love must be earned through usefulness, Episode 45 unpacks how our earliest relationships can teach us to abandon ourselves in order to feel safe, wanted, or worthy.Darnell reflects on his own story—being the oldest sibling, stepping into a caretaker role at a young age, and equating love with responsibility. But this isn’t just pers...
2025-05-0907 minThe Make Love To You PodcastEpisode 44 – Losing Yourself to Be Loved: The Lie of Codependent LoveIn this episode, Darnell Davis explores the painful truth behind codependent love—the kind that asks you to shrink, sacrifice, or silence yourself just to feel wanted. Many people confuse being needed with being loved, but Darnell reveals how that dynamic leads to emotional depletion, loss of identity, and the slow erasure of self.Through vulnerable storytelling and deep reflection, Darnell shares how childhood patterns and people-pleasing habits shape adult relationships, often creating cycles where one person gives too much while the other expects too little. This episode is a call to recognize when love becomes performance—and to reme...
2025-05-0808 minMake Love To YouEpisode 44 – Losing Yourself to Be Loved: The Lie of Codependent LoveIn this episode, Darnell Davis explores the painful truth behind codependent love—the kind that asks you to shrink, sacrifice, or silence yourself just to feel wanted. Many people confuse being needed with being loved, but Darnell reveals how that dynamic leads to emotional depletion, loss of identity, and the slow erasure of self.Through vulnerable storytelling and deep reflection, Darnell shares how childhood patterns and people-pleasing habits shape adult relationships, often creating cycles where one person gives too much while the other expects too little. This episode is a call to recognize when lo...
2025-05-0808 minThe Make Love To You PodcastEpisode 43 — “The Dependence Detox” - Reclaiming Your WholenessWelcome to a brand-new series on Make Love To You that goes straight to the heart of codependency and loneliness. In this kickoff episode, Darnell Davis opens up about the patterns we rarely recognize but deeply feel—how we trade our peace for people, our needs for approval, and our sense of self for the illusion of connection. Through powerful storytelling and soul-stirring insight, Darnell explores what it means to grow up feeling responsible for others, to confuse being needed with being loved, and to constantly hustle for validation.This episode is both a mirror and a guide: a re...
2025-05-0708 minMake Love To YouEpisode 43 — “The Dependence Detox” - Reclaiming Your WholenessWelcome to a brand-new series on Make Love To You that goes straight to the heart of codependency and loneliness. In this kickoff episode, Darnell Davis opens up about the patterns we rarely recognize but deeply feel—how we trade our peace for people, our needs for approval, and our sense of self for the illusion of connection. Through powerful storytelling and soul-stirring insight, Darnell explores what it means to grow up feeling responsible for others, to confuse being needed with being loved, and to constantly hustle for validation.This episode is both a mi...
2025-05-0708 minMake Love To YouEpisode 42: You Are the Miracle: A Crown Chakra CelebrationIn this radiant finale of the chakra series, we rise into the energy of the crown—the place of divine connection, surrender, and spiritual clarity. This episode is more than just a reflection on healing—it’s a full-circle moment. Darnell takes us through the truth that most of us spend our lives searching for something outside of ourselves: love, peace, validation, purpose. But the real power begins when you realize—you are the thing you’ve been looking for.This isn’t about fixing yourself. It’s about remembering yourself.In one of the most soulful a...
2025-05-0608 minThe Make Love To You PodcastEpisode 42: You Are the Miracle: A Crown Chakra CelebrationIn this radiant finale of the chakra series, we rise into the energy of the crown—the place of divine connection, surrender, and spiritual clarity. This episode is more than just a reflection on healing—it’s a full-circle moment. Darnell takes us through the truth that most of us spend our lives searching for something outside of ourselves: love, peace, validation, purpose. But the real power begins when you realize—you are the thing you’ve been looking for.This isn’t about fixing yourself. It’s about remembering yourself.In one of the most soulful and elevated episodes yet, Darnell s...
2025-05-0608 minThe Make Love To You PodcastEpisode 39: When Love Feels Like a Chase - The Heart ChakraIn this episode of Make Love To You, we journey into the most tender—and often most turbulent—center of all: the Heart Chakra.Host Darnell Davis opens up about the search for love, validation, and belonging in all the wrong places. From chasing approval to confusing survival with connection, this episode is a raw, poetic reminder of what happens when our hearts are out of balance—and what it takes to bring them back home.You’ll learn how the heart chakra influences your relationships, your sense of worth, and your deepest desires. And you’ll be invited to...
2025-05-0308 minMake Love To YouEpisode 39: When Love Feels Like a Chase - The Heart ChakraIn this episode of Make Love To You, we journey into the most tender—and often most turbulent—center of all: the Heart Chakra.Host Darnell Davis opens up about the search for love, validation, and belonging in all the wrong places. From chasing approval to confusing survival with connection, this episode is a raw, poetic reminder of what happens when our hearts are out of balance—and what it takes to bring them back home.You’ll learn how the heart chakra influences your relationships, your sense of worth, a...
2025-05-0308 minMake Love To YouEpisode 38: The Power to Be YouIn this powerful episode, The Nell Man opens up about the struggle to find identity in a world full of expectations. From religion to race to rigid rules at home, he paints a raw picture of what it feels like to never quite fit in — and the emotional toll of constantly shrinking, shape-shifting, and second-guessing just to belong.As he explores the energy of the solar plexus chakra, Darnell helps listeners reconnect with their own sense of self-worth and inner power. This episode is for anyone who’s ever felt unseen, unworthy, or unsure of who they trul...
2025-05-0207 minThe Make Love To You PodcastEPISODE 37: The Superpower of Energy in Motion- Emotion (Sacral Chakra)In this soul-stirring episode of Make Love To You, Darnell Davis explores the emotional depth, spiritual tension, and creative power of the sacral chakra — the second energy center in The 7 Wonders of Me.This chapter of the journey is all about feeling. Not just the joy and pleasure we’re taught to seek, but also the pain, the rage, the vulnerability we’ve been conditioned to suppress. Darnell opens up about a time in his life when emotions weren’t just inconvenient — they were survival.Listeners are invited to reflect on their own relationship with emotion:Have you ever shut down how y...
2025-05-0108 minMake Love To YouEPISODE 37: The Superpower of Energy in Motion- Emotion (Sacral Chakra)In this soul-stirring episode of Make Love To You, Darnell Davis explores the emotional depth, spiritual tension, and creative power of the sacral chakra — the second energy center in The 7 Wonders of Me.This chapter of the journey is all about feeling. Not just the joy and pleasure we’re taught to seek, but also the pain, the rage, the vulnerability we’ve been conditioned to suppress. Darnell opens up about a time in his life when emotions weren’t just inconvenient — they were survival.Listeners are invited to reflect on their own relationship with emotion:
2025-05-0108 minThe Make Love To You PodcastEpisode 36 — The Ground You Stand On (Root Chakra)In this powerful and transformational episode, Darnell kicks off his brand-new series, The 7 Wonders of Me, where he helps listeners recognize and unlock the superpowers they never even knew they had. This episode dives into the very first of those wonders — the Root Chakra — and the vital superpower of grounding.Through sharing the raw and emotional story of losing both of his parents at just 10 years old, Darnell reveals how grounding became not just a concept, but a matter of life and death. He teaches listeners what real grounding looks like — far beyond trends or clichés — and how it become...
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Make Love To YouEpisode 36 — The Ground You Stand On (Root Chakra)In this powerful and transformational episode, Darnell kicks off his brand-new series, The 7 Wonders of Me, where he helps listeners recognize and unlock the superpowers they never even knew they had. This episode dives into the very first of those wonders — the Root Chakra — and the vital superpower of grounding.Through sharing the raw and emotional story of losing both of his parents at just 10 years old, Darnell reveals how grounding became not just a concept, but a matter of life and death. He teaches listeners what real grounding looks like — far beyond trends or cli...
2025-04-3009 minMake Love To YouEpisode 35: Loving Me Was the Real Love StoryIn the powerful finale of the Relationship Rehab series, Darnell brings it all home with a message that hits straight to the heart: you didn’t lose love — you became it.This episode is a celebration of the journey back to yourself after heartbreak, betrayal, and self-abandonment. It’s about realizing that self-love isn’t the consolation prize — it’s the grand prize.Darnell mixes raw honesty, humor, and real talk to show you how the greatest love story you’ll ever live is the one you create with you.If you’ve ever thought hea...
2025-04-2907 minThe Make Love To You PodcastEpisode 35: Loving Me Was the Real Love StoryIn the powerful finale of the Relationship Rehab series, Darnell brings it all home with a message that hits straight to the heart: you didn’t lose love — you became it.This episode is a celebration of the journey back to yourself after heartbreak, betrayal, and self-abandonment. It’s about realizing that self-love isn’t the consolation prize — it’s the grand prize.Darnell mixes raw honesty, humor, and real talk to show you how the greatest love story you’ll ever live is the one you create with you.If you’ve ever thought healing was lonely, this episode will remind you...
2025-04-2907 minThe Make Love To You PodcastEPISODE 33 — Closure Is a ScamIn today’s episode of Make Love To You: The Podcast, Darnell Davis pulls the curtain back on one of the biggest myths we were ever sold: the idea that we can’t heal until someone explains why they hurt us. Spoiler alert? Closure is a scam — and Darnell is here to break it all the way down.If you’ve ever sat by your phone waiting for an apology that never came, or rehearsed speeches in your head for conversations that never happened, this episode is the reality check you didn’t even know you needed. Darnell dives deep into...
2025-04-2708 minMake Love To YouEPISODE 33 — Closure Is a ScamIn today’s episode of Make Love To You: The Podcast, Darnell Davis pulls the curtain back on one of the biggest myths we were ever sold: the idea that we can’t heal until someone explains why they hurt us. Spoiler alert? Closure is a scam — and Darnell is here to break it all the way down.If you’ve ever sat by your phone waiting for an apology that never came, or rehearsed speeches in your head for conversations that never happened, this episode is the reality check you didn’t even know you n...
2025-04-2708 minThe Make Love To You PodcastEpisode 32 – You Can Miss Them and Still Move OnIn this powerful and permission-giving episode, Darnell Davis dives deep into the emotional aftershock of letting go. We all know that ache—the moments when the absence of someone hits harder than expected, and you wonder if missing them means you made a mistake. Spoiler alert: it doesn’t.With his signature blend of real talk and raw truth, Darnell unpacks the complicated grief that follows toxic love, and the sneaky way our insecurities convince us to run back to what broke us—just because it’s familiar. This episode is a gentle but honest reminder that longing is not a sign t...
2025-04-2608 minMake Love To YouEpisode 32 – You Can Miss Them and Still Move OnIn this powerful and permission-giving episode, Darnell Davis dives deep into the emotional aftershock of letting go. We all know that ache—the moments when the absence of someone hits harder than expected, and you wonder if missing them means you made a mistake. Spoiler alert: it doesn’t.With his signature blend of real talk and raw truth, Darnell unpacks the complicated grief that follows toxic love, and the sneaky way our insecurities convince us to run back to what broke us—just because it’s familiar. This episode is a gentle but honest reminder that longing...
2025-04-2608 minMake Love To YouEPISODE 28: You Are the PurposeWhat if the thing you’ve been chasing isn’t something to find—but something to remember? In this powerful closing episode of the “Discovering Your Purpose” series, Darnell brings it all home with a truth that changes everything: you are the purpose.This isn’t another self-help slogan—it’s a soul-level shift. Forget the pressure to produce, to perform, or to prove your worth. This episode is an invitation to stop searching for a destination and start embodying who you already are.With humor, heart, and a few truth bombs, Darnell helps you release the idea...
2025-04-2207 minThe Make Love To You PodcastEPISODE 28: You Are the PurposeWhat if the thing you’ve been chasing isn’t something to find—but something to remember? In this powerful closing episode of the “Discovering Your Purpose” series, Darnell brings it all home with a truth that changes everything: you are the purpose.This isn’t another self-help slogan—it’s a soul-level shift. Forget the pressure to produce, to perform, or to prove your worth. This episode is an invitation to stop searching for a destination and start embodying who you already are.With humor, heart, and a few truth bombs, Darnell helps you release the idea that purpose is some distant...
2025-04-2207 minMake Love To YouEPISODE 27: Your Purpose Will Piss People OffEverybody wants you to live your truth—until your truth disrupts the version of you they liked better. In this episode of Make Love To You, Darnell unapologetically breaks down what happens when choosing your purpose means losing people, disappointing expectations, or becoming the “villain” in someone else’s story.Whether it’s family, friends, or followers, not everyone is going to clap for your alignment—and that’s okay. Darnell dives into the growing pains of purpose: the quiet exits, the judgment, the sideways comments from people who don’t understand your evolution.If you’ve ever shru...
2025-04-2108 minThe Make Love To You PodcastEPISODE 27: Your Purpose Will Piss People OffEverybody wants you to live your truth—until your truth disrupts the version of you they liked better. In this episode of Make Love To You, Darnell unapologetically breaks down what happens when choosing your purpose means losing people, disappointing expectations, or becoming the “villain” in someone else’s story.Whether it’s family, friends, or followers, not everyone is going to clap for your alignment—and that’s okay. Darnell dives into the growing pains of purpose: the quiet exits, the judgment, the sideways comments from people who don’t understand your evolution.If you’ve ever shrunk to stay likable or de...
2025-04-2108 minMake Love To YouEPISODE 26: YOU’RE NOT CRAZY, YOU’RE CALLED (TRUST THE FIRE YOU FEEL)In this episode, The Nell Man speaks directly to the part of you that’s been second-guessing your calling. That tug in your belly? That whisper in the quiet? That ache for more? It’s not anxiety. It’s alignment. And it’s time you stopped brushing it off.Darnell breaks down the truth about purpose—it’s not polite, it’s not always pretty, and it will absolutely disrupt the version of you that’s been performing instead of becoming. With soulful storytelling, hard truths, and some edge-snatching clarity, he invites you to stop waiting for permission and s...
2025-04-2010 minThe Make Love To You PodcastEpisode 24: Stop Asking for Directions to a Place Only You Can GoYou keep asking for directions to a place only you were meant to go.That’s why you feel stuck.In this episode of Make Love To You, Darnell Davis delivers a loving but honest message about purpose, clarity, and the trap of seeking approval from people who were never meant to understand your vision. Your dream wasn’t sent out in a group chat. Your purpose didn’t come with a roundtable discussion or a panel of judges.So why are you still shrinking your soul to fit someone else’s map?This is the episode for anyone who’s been hes...
2025-04-1807 minMake Love To YouEpisode 24: Stop Asking for Directions to a Place Only You Can GoYou keep asking for directions to a place only you were meant to go.That’s why you feel stuck.In this episode of Make Love To You, Darnell Davis delivers a loving but honest message about purpose, clarity, and the trap of seeking approval from people who were never meant to understand your vision. Your dream wasn’t sent out in a group chat. Your purpose didn’t come with a roundtable discussion or a panel of judges.So why are you still shrinking your soul to fit someone else’s map?Thi...
2025-04-1807 minMake Love To YouEpisode 21: Let Them Go (So You Can Be Free)Sometimes the bravest thing you can do isn’t hold on—it’s walk away.In this episode of Make Love To You, Darnell breaks down why letting go isn’t giving up—it’s choosing yourself. From the ego traps that keep us stuck, to the lies we tell ourselves to stay, to the emotional exhaustion of carrying someone else’s healing—we’re getting all the way real.If you’ve ever found yourself trying to fix someone who doesn’t want to be fixed, or felt guilty for outgrowing a connection, this one...
2025-04-1508 minMake Love To YouEpisode 19: Healing Is Not s Team Sport. (You’re playing offense, they’re not even on the field.)You can’t drag someone to healing like it’s a group retreat they didn’t sign up for. In this episode of Make Love To You, Darnell unpacks the emotional exhaustion that comes from trying to save people who are not ready—and maybe don’t even want—to be saved. We’re talking emotional boundaries, unsolicited TED Talks, and why your love won’t override their resistance. It’s time to put the cape down and remember: their healing is their journey. Yours is yours.
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