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DON'T PICK THE SCAB PODCASTWhy Having friends is so important in your divorce recovery - LeeAnn Blanchard || DPTSP #103 || David M. WebbWelcome to the 'Don’t Pick the Scab Podcast,' the go-to show for men over 40 navigating life after divorce! In this episode, host David Webb sits down with the inspiring Leanne Blanchard, a community-building expert and founder of Adventure Us. With over 15 years of experience as a Meetup organizer, Leanne shares her insights into why men often struggle to rebuild friendships after divorce and how they can take practical, actionable steps to form meaningful connections. 💪Divorce can leave men feeling isolated. Their social structures—family, friends, and community—are often fractured...2025-06-1143 min
The Divorce Devil PodcastLetting go of the past, finding peace and creating new traditions in your divorce recovery || DD #222 || David and Rachel🌊 Welcome to the 'Don't Pick the Scab Podcast,' Episode 222! 🌟In this heartfelt episode, host David and Rachel reflect on the emotional journey of divorce recovery. . Returning to old traditions like a vacation at the beach, Rachel shares the struggles of revisiting the past while creating new memories in the present.Are you struggling with letting go of your pre-divorce life? Do you feel stuck between cherishing old memories and building a new future? You’re not alone. ❤️Rachel opens up about finding peace in the chaos of divorce, navi...2025-06-0728 min
DON'T PICK THE SCAB PODCASTDivorce Recovery 101: The Truth About Keeping the House 🏡 - Divorce and Real Estate || Jody Bruns || DPTSP #102 || David M. Webb💔 Divorce can feel like the end of everything, but it doesn’t have to be. In this powerful episode of the “Don’t Pick the Scab Podcast,” host David Marcus Webb sits down with Jody Bruns, founder of the Divorce Lending Association and a pioneer in divorce mortgage planning. With over 35 years of experience in finance and real estate, Jody has helped thousands of professionals and families navigate the complexities of divorce with clarity, strategy, and compassion. 🚀Jody’s personal journey through divorce inspired her mission to educate others, create innovative solutions, and empower families to make smart fi...2025-05-3025 min
The Divorce Devil Podcast🎙️ Why We Do This Podcast? || So Many Reasons!! 💔 Divorce Devil Podcast #220 || David and Rachel🎙️ Divorce Devil Podcast – Episode 220! Hosted by David and Rachel, this episode dives deep into the raw truths of divorce recovery for people over 40. Yesterday, Rachel turned 51, and it made her reflect on the journey of rebuilding life after divorce.✨ Why We Do This:This podcast is a safe space where we unpack the complexities of healing, growth, and rediscovering purpose after divorce. Whether it's navigating new chapters, reflecting on core memories, or learning from past mistakes, we’re here to remind you that you’re not alone.2025-05-2327 min
DON'T PICK THE SCAB PODCASTChange your beliefs and change your behavior in your Divorce Recovery - Hana Gala || DPTSP #100 || David M. WebbFeeling stuck after divorce? You're not alone. In this episode of the "Don't Pick the Scab Podcast," host David Webb welcomes Dr. Hana Kabela-Gala, a business professor turned transformational neuro coach, to discuss practical strategies for men over 40 to regain confidence, let go of guilt, and reset their lives.Dr. Hana specializes in helping high achievers break free from limiting beliefs, overthinking, and mental gridlock using her groundbreaking Rapid Transformational Neuro Coaching (RTNC) method. Through a powerful combination of neuroscience, hypnosis, and mindset hacks, she helps men overcome the emotional chaos...2025-05-2138 min
DON'T PICK THE SCAB PODCASTStop Feeling Stuck After Divorce: Transformative Tips for Men from Elizabeth Jane 🚀 || DPTSP #099 || David M. WebbAre you a man over 40 struggling to recover after a divorce? You're not alone, and this episode of the "Don't Pick the Scab Podcast" is here to guide you through the challenges and opportunities of post-divorce life. 🌟💔In this episode, David sits down with the inspiring Elizabeth Jane, a transformative speaker, author, and healer, who shares her personal journey of self-discovery after a 25-year marriage ended abruptly. From her profound experiences in an Indian ashram to the tools she developed in her book, "Free and First: Unlocking Your Ultimate Life", Elizabeth offers a roadmap for healin...2025-05-1632 min
DON'T PICK THE SCAB PODCASTRecovering After Divorce: John Wayne S. III Opens Up About Creativity, Co-Parenting & Healing 💡|| DPTSP #098 || David M. Webb💔 Divorce is one of life's toughest challenges, especially for men over 40. On this episode of the "Don’t Pick the Scab" podcast, David sits down with filmmaker, producer, and storyteller John Wayne S. III, who shares his deeply personal journey of rebuilding his life after divorce. From navigating co-parenting struggles to rediscovering his own identity, John’s story is raw, real, and relatable for any man trying to find his footing again.🎥 With over 20 years of experience in filmmaking, John opens up about how his creativity was stifled during the divorce pr...2025-05-0933 min
DON'T PICK THE SCAB PODCASTThe Power of Stoicism for Divorced Men | Reclaiming Strength and Identity 💪 - Augustus V. || DPTSP #097 || David M. WebbWelcome to the Don’t Pick the Scab Podcast, where we tackle the raw and real challenges faced by men over 40 navigating life after divorce. Hosted by David, this episode dives deep into healing, masculinity, and rediscovering your identity with poet, philosopher, and advocate Augustus Vaughn.📚 What You'll Learn in This Episode:✅ What is Stoicism? Discover how the ancient philosophy of self-control can transform your emotional recovery.✅ Why Men Struggle Post-Divorce: The societal programming that undermines masculinity—and how to break free...2025-05-0832 min
The Divorce Devil PodcastSetting Boundaries: One of the most important steps of Divorce Recovery || DD217 || David and RachelWelcome to the "Don't Pick the Scab Podcast" with your hosts, David and Rachel! 🎙️ In this illuminating episode, we discuss a vital aspect of divorce recovery for men over 40: the importance of setting boundaries. 💔Going through a divorce can leave you feeling lost in a state of "limbo," where you may not know what to do or how to move forward. One of the most powerful tools you can have during this challenging time is the ability to set clear boundaries. 🛡️Boundaries help you take control of your life and emotions. They allow you to...2025-05-0225 min
DON'T PICK THE SCAB PODCASTDivorce Coach for Dads: Jeff Kolez Shares His Transformation 🚀 || DPTSP #095 || David M. WebbWelcome to the Don’t Pick the Scab Podcast! 🎙️ In this transformational episode, host David sits down with Jeff Kolez, a tech professional turned divorce coach for fathers, who shares his powerful story of transformation. Jeff’s mission is simple yet profound: to help men rebuild their lives after divorce, reclaim their power, and create a meaningful future. 💪Jeff opens up about his personal journey, including his struggles to master himself after divorce forced him to confront his pain. He shares how he went from giving away his energy to his ex to finally taki...2025-05-0129 min
The Divorce Devil Podcast"Finding Your Life Buoys: 🛟 Navigating Divorce After 40" || DD216 || David and Rachel"🎙️ Welcome to the 'Don't Pick the Scab Podcast' with your hosts, David and Rachel, This episode dives deep into the concept of 'Life Buoys' 🛟 – those essential tools, habits, and people that help you stay afloat during the stormy seas of divorce recovery. For men over 40, navigating life after divorce can feel overwhelming, but you're not alone, and there is a path forward.🛟 What You'll Learn in This Episode:The importance of building and leaning on your village of support 👥.Why therapy (individual or group) can be a game-change...2025-04-2527 min
DON'T PICK THE SCAB PODCAST💪 Men's Mental Health After Divorce: Unlocking Strength & Self-Discovery || DPTSP #092 || David M. WebbWelcome to the Don't Pick the Scab Podcast! 🎙️ I'm your host, David, and today we have an enlightening conversation with Ives T. Mukanya, a remarkable mental health counselor and transformational coach. Originally from the Democratic Republic of Congo, Ive brings a wealth of experience from the pharmaceutical industry and a deep commitment to helping men navigate the emotional challenges that often accompany divorce.In this episode, we delve into the often-overlooked struggles that men face after divorce, including stress, depression, and low self-esteem. 💔 Many men suffer in silence, internalizing their pain ins...2025-04-1433 min
The Divorce Devil PodcastThe Limbo of Divorce: Signs It’s Time to Move On || Divorce Devil Podcast #214 || David and RachelWelcome back to the Divorce Devil Podcast! 🎙️ Join your hosts, David and Rachel, in Episode 214, where we dive deep into the often-unspoken topic of "Limbo" in divorce recovery.Are you feeling stuck in a cycle of indecision about your marriage? You’re not alone. In this episode, we explore the various stages of limbo, from questioning whether to file for divorce to grappling with the emotional aftermath. We discuss the importance of understanding your own needs and how to weigh the pros and cons of your situation.💡 Key Points We Cover:2025-04-1219 min
The Divorce Devil PodcastImposter Syndrome and Divorce: Why you Sometimes Feel LIke a Fraud After 40 || DD#213 || David and RachelDavid and Rachel, the hilarious and insightful co-hosts of The Divorce Devil Podcast, tackle the complex issue of Imposter Syndrome in this episode. With their signature mix of humor, raw honesty, and relatable anecdotes, they explore how imposter syndrome manifests during divorce recovery and how to overcome it. Here's a quick breakdown:Key Highlights of Episode 213🎙️ What is Imposter Syndrome?Defined as a persistent feeling of inadequacy despite your achievements.Common during divorce recovery: self-doubt, perfectionism, comparison, and emotional toll. 💔🌪️ David and Rachel’s...2025-04-0530 min
DON'T PICK THE SCAB PODCASTHow Men Can Thrive Financially After Divorce | Expert Advice for Men 40+ || DPTSP #091 || David M. Webb💬 Welcome to the "Don't Pick the Scab" Podcast, where host David helps men over 40 heal, thrive, and conquer life after divorce! In this episode, we're joined by financial expert Steve Schleupner, a seasoned planner with over 20 years of experience specializing in divorce transitions. 💼Steve dives deep into the unique challenges men face when managing their finances post-divorce, from housing transitions to understanding retirement accounts and tax implications. He shares actionable advice to help you navigate the storm and rebuild your wealth with clarity and confidence. 🌟💡 Topics we cover in this episode:The #1 financial mistake men...2025-03-3032 min
DON'T PICK THE SCAB PODCASTFrom Divorce to Strength: Lessons from Ninja Warrior Finalist Shawn Richardson || Don’t Pick the Scab Podcast #090 || David M. WebbIn this heartfelt episode of the "Don't Pick the Scab Podcast," David interviews Shawn Richardson, a fitness trainer, audiobook narrator, and former Ninja Warrior finalist, about his journey through resilience, healing, and self-improvement. The podcast starts with a different flavor - the importance of flossing your teeth. Really? But eventually, Shawn shares his experiences with overcoming the challenges of divorce, including coping with depression, rebuilding his life after a house fire, and navigating the complexities of fatherhood. He emphasizes the importance of discipline, humor, and faith while discussing his fitness philosophy, therapeutic endeavors, and the role forgiveness plays in pe...2025-03-2839 min
The Divorce Devil PodcastWhy Grey Healing and Grey Divorce Are Different Entities? || Divorce Devil Podcast #212 || David and RachelWelcome to "Divorce Devil," a dynamic and candid podcast series hosted by David and Rachel. In this thought-provoking episode, we delve into the concept of "Gray Healing" — a phase of emotional recovery that isn’t black and white but exists in the gray areas of growth. Together, David and Rachel bring humor, raw honesty, and personal experiences to explore the complexities of post-divorce life, relationships, and self-discovery.In this episode, Rachel and David share their perspectives on navigating the ups and downs of healing, drawing on real-life analogies like fishing tackle boxes and speedbumps in a parking lot...2025-03-2825 min
The Divorce Devil PodcastNavigating the Hoe Phase: Embracing Sexual Freedom After Divorce || DD#211 || David and RachelWelcome to the "Divorce Devil Podcast," where hosts Rachel and David delve into the complex world of post-divorce recovery for individuals over 40. In this episode, they tackle the often-taboo subject of the "hoe phase," a time when newly single individuals explore their sexual freedom and redefine their identities after a major life change. Rachel and David share personal anecdotes, insights, and advice on navigating this transformative period. They emphasize the importance of communication, self-exploration, and safety in dating. Tune in as they discuss the emotional rollercoaster of dating post-divorce, the challenges of rekindling confidence, and how to embrace this...2025-03-2229 min
DON'T PICK THE SCAB PODCASTTurning the 'Sh!t Show' into Success: Co-Parenting Tips for Divorced Dads - Jack Kammer || DPTSP #088 || David M. WebbIn Episode #88 of Don't Pick the Scab Podcast, host David welcomes guest Jack Kammer, a seasoned advocate for male gender issues with over 40 years of experience. Together, they tackle the complex landscape of divorce recovery, fatherhood, and co-parenting for men over 40. Jack shares his unique perspective as a social worker and former Executive Director of the National Congress for Men, shedding light on the societal pressures and evolving roles of fathers in the aftermath of divorce. Despite not being a father himself, Jack passionately discusses the importance of fatherhood and the societal challenges men face, such as the stigma...2025-03-1544 min
The Divorce Devil PodcastDemons, Pirates, and Squirrels: Surviving the Ghosts of Divorce || Divorce Devil Podcast #210 || David and RachelIn Episode 210 of the Divorce Devil Podcast, Rachel and David dive into the concept of the "Ghosts of Divorce"—the lingering emotional baggage, fears, and unresolved issues that often haunt us post-divorce. These "ghosts" can manifest in new relationships, friendships, and even in our self-perception. The hosts discuss their personal experiences with these ghosts, from fears of loneliness to feelings of inadequacy, and explore how these challenges resurface in everyday life.Through humor and honesty, Rachel and David reflect on how these ghosts shape their growth and relationships. They emphasize the importance of communication...2025-03-1424 min
DON'T PICK THE SCAB PODCASTSustainable Change After Divorce: Victor Giusfredi’s Insights for Men Over 40 || DPTSP #087 || David M. WebbIn this insightful episode of the Don’t Pick the Scab Podcast, host David interviews Victor Giusfredi—a certified life and wellness coach with over 20 years of experience in mindset and behavioral psychology. Victor, also an internationally certified neuro-linguistic programming (NLP) practitioner, shares his transformative journey from emotional struggles to becoming an expert in sustainable change. As the author of No Grail Without Dragons and the upcoming Marriage by Design, Victor dives deep into the challenges men face during divorce recovery and personal growth. During the conversation, Victor explores the subconscious patterns of men deali...2025-03-1231 min
The Divorce Devil PodcastBreaking Free: Overcoming Self-Sabotage After Divorce || Divorce Devil Podcast #209 || David and RachelIn this transformative episode of the Divorce Devil Podcast, Rachel and David dive deep into the challenges and triumphs of rebuilding life after divorce. With humor, insight, and raw vulnerability, they explore the impact of self-sabotage, the importance of mindset, and the power of setting realistic goals during recovery. This episode provides a roadmap for listeners to identify personal barriers, embrace vulnerability, and create a new, empowering narrative for their lives.Key topics include recognizing the patterns of self-sabotage, the role of mindfulness and self-care practices, and the necessity of building a strong support...2025-03-0827 min
DON'T PICK THE SCAB PODCASTHealthy Masculinity, Mental Health and Co-Parenting in Divorce Recovery/ Michael Read || DPTSP #086 || David M. WebbThe podcast episode from Don't Pick the Scab Podcast hosted by David M. Webb features guest Michael Read, a men's coach specializing in healthy masculinity, mental health, and co-parenting. The discussion centers on helping men over 40 recover from divorce, navigate co-parenting challenges, and embrace healthier masculinity. Michael shares insights from his personal journey, including his exploration of attachment theory and the patterns that shape relationships. He emphasizes the importance of self-awareness, emotional regulation, and building supportive male communities.The conversation also delves into the psychological impact of being a second-generation divorcee, the challenges of co-parenting without effective...2025-03-0734 min
The Divorce Devil PodcastKyle 2.0 - Part Two of His Divorce Recovery || Divorce Devil Podcast #208 || David and RachelIn this episode of the Divorce Devil Podcast, Rachel and David welcome back guest Kyle for what they humorously call "Kyle 2.0." The episode dives into the raw and emotional terrain of post-divorce life, focusing on personal recovery, self-awareness, and the importance of authentic communication.The conversation begins with Kyle discussing his recovery process, how his sleep has been so much better, and how he's been navigating life after divorce. He shares insights about the challenges of dealing with a breakup, from the emotional turmoil to the practicalities of day-to-day life. He reflects on his journey of h...2025-03-0135 min
The Divorce Devil PodcastValentine’s Day and Your Divorce Recovery || DD #207 || David and RachelIn episode 207 of "Divorce Devil," David and Rachel discuss the complexities of Valentine's Day, especially for those navigating divorce or separation. They acknowledge the emotional challenges this holiday can bring, particularly for those in the middle of or recovering from a divorce. The conversation highlights how societal expectations around Valentine’s Day often exacerbate feelings of loneliness, loss, or inadequacy for individuals going through such transitions.David and Rachel explore the idea that holidays like Valentine's Day often become pressure points in relationships, with expectations sometimes leading to disappointment or conflict. They emphasize the im...2025-02-1618 min
DON'T PICK THE SCAB PODCASTGetting Un-Stuck in Your Divorce Recovery - Dr. Ben Ritter || DPTSP #081 || David M. WebbIn this episode of the Don't Pick the Scab Podcast, host David interviews Dr. Benjamin Ritter, a leadership and career coach with over a decade of experience working with top companies like Amazon, Google, and Pinterest. Dr. Ritter specializes in helping individuals align their values with their careers and navigate life transitions, such as divorce or job loss. The conversation focuses on the parallels between losing a job and going through a divorce, both of which can leave individuals feeling stuck, lost, and disconnected. Dr. Ritter emphasizes the importance of self-awareness, self-care, and intentional living to overcome these challenges.2025-02-1329 min
The Divorce Devil PodcastManaging Your Sh!tshow of Divorce Recovery while the world around you is a Sh!tshow || DD206 || David and RachelTen Key Takeaways:Prioritize Self-Care: Focus on your own well-being rather than external distractions.Establish Boundaries: Saying "no" is a complete sentence, and boundaries are vital for protecting energy.Healing Takes Time: Divorce recovery is non-linear, and progress may not always be visible.Control What You Can: Don’t waste energy worrying about uncontrollable factors, like external events or your ex’s actions.Humor Helps: Finding humor in tough situations can lighten the emotional load.Av...2025-02-0825 min
The Divorce Devil PodcastThe Divorce Wall - what to do when you hit it || Divorce Devil #205 || David and RachelIn Episode 205 of the Divorce Devil Podcast, Rachel and David dive into the concept of "The Divorce Wall"—the emotional and mental obstacle many face during divorce recovery, especially when triggered by memories, songs, or life events. They share personal anecdotes about their struggles, the raw emotions that arise in recovery, and the tools they’ve both used to heal. Whether it's hearing a wedding song or navigating life’s “firsts” post-divorce, the episode emphasizes that recovery is a non-linear, deeply personal process.Rachel discusses how recovery often begins without realizing it and the importance of feeling em...2025-01-3125 min
The Divorce Devil PodcastElizabeth Part Two - Dating, Boundaries, Communication and Practical Tools || Divorce Devil Podcast #204 || David and RachelIn this episode of the Divorce Devil Podcast, hosts David and Rachel welcome back guest Elizabeth to dive into the complexities of post-divorce life, dating, and personal growth. The conversation is a candid exploration of the emotional, mental, and relational challenges that arise after divorce, with Elizabeth sharing her personal journey of healing, self-discovery, and navigating new relationships. The trio discusses the importance of setting boundaries, recognizing trauma responses, and learning to communicate effectively in relationships. Elizabeth opens up about her experiences with dating after divorce, the lessons she’s learned, and how therapy has played a pivotal role in...2025-01-2549 min
DON'T PICK THE SCAB PODCASTCombating the emotional and mental toll of Divorce Recovery - Michelle Davies / Healer || DPTSP #075 || David M. WebbIn this episode of the Don't Pick the Scab Podcast, host David dives into the challenges of divorce recovery for men over 40 with special guest Michelle Davies, an internationally acclaimed healer and author of Mental Clarity: Daily Habits to Clear Brain Fog and Improve Focus. Michelle shares her expertise in natural osteopathy and energy-based techniques, offering practical advice to help men regain mental clarity, reduce stress, and rebuild their lives after divorce. From understanding the gut-brain connection to adopting daily habits like proper hydration, sleep, and mindfulness, Michelle provides actionable strategies to combat brain fog and improve overall well-being...2025-01-1728 min
The Divorce Devil PodcastDivorce Recovery in the Trenches - Kyle’s Journey of Heartbreak, Growth and Self-Discovery || DD#203 || David and RachelWelcome to Divorce Devil Podcast, Episode 203! In this insightful and heartfelt episode, your hosts David and Rachel sit down with guest Kyle to dive deep into the journey of healing after divorce. Kyle, a friend of the podcast, courageously shares his personal story of heartbreak, growth, and self-discovery. Together, they explore the emotional and practical challenges of moving forward after a marriage ends. This episode is packed with raw honesty, humor, and actionable advice for anyone navigating the rocky road of divorce and self-reinvention.Kyle opens up about the moment his marriage unraveled, the struggles of embracing...2025-01-1740 min
DON'T PICK THE SCAB PODCASTNavigating life post-divorce / The real deal! - Dr. Larry Waldman || DPTSP #074 || David M. WebbIn this insightful episode of the "Don’t Pick the Scab Podcast," David welcomes Dr. Larry Waldman, a seasoned clinical forensic psychologist with over 45 years of experience, to discuss divorce recovery for men over 40. Dr. Waldman draws from his extensive background in family law, mental health, and even yoga to provide practical advice for navigating the emotional, psychological, and logistical challenges of divorce. He shares wisdom from his books, including "Love Your Child More Than You Hate Your Ex" and "Silver Sex: Insights into Senior Sexuality," emphasizing the importance of self-reflection, healing, and prioritizing what truly matters post-divorce....2025-01-1738 min
The Divorce Devil PodcastA Divorce and Recovery Journey with Elizabeth || Divorce Devil Podcast #202 || David and RachelIn episode 202 of the Divorce Devil Podcast, David and Rachel are joined by Elizabeth, who shares her personal journey of navigating divorce, co-parenting, and relationships after separation. The conversation delves into the complexities of divorce recovery, particularly for individuals over 40, with a focus on the emotional and logistical challenges involved. Elizabeth candidly discusses how communication breakdowns and lack of attention were pivotal in her marriage's collapse, leading to infidelity and eventual divorce. She emphasizes the importance of maturity, accountability, and learning from past mistakes to build healthier relationships post-divorce.Co-parenting is highlighted as a central theme, with...2025-01-1038 min
DON'T PICK THE SCAB PODCASTThe Concepts of Self-care and Self-compassion in your Divorce Recovery / David Rosenthal || DPTSP #070 || DavidThe podcast episode features David Rosenthal, a divorced, remarried former rabbi and relationship coach, who shares his deeply personal journey through divorce and his strategies for helping men over 40 recover from similar experiences. David discusses the challenges he faced during his 16-year marriage, the amicable yet difficult separation process, and how his faith helped him grow emotionally and spiritually. He emphasizes the importance of emotional regulation, self-compassion, and self-care in the healing process while providing actionable advice for co-parenting, managing emotions, and rediscovering personal identity after divorce. Drawing on his experience as a rabbi and coach, David also explains...2024-12-3129 min
The Divorce Devil PodcastA Journey in Healing and Humor || Divorce Devil Podcast Episode #200 || David and RachelCelebrating 200 Episodes of Divorce Recovery Insights: A Journey in Healing and HumorHey everyone, David and Rachel here, welcoming you to a special blog post where we're diving into the highlights of our 200th episode of the "Divorce Table" podcast. It's been a journey filled with laughter, lessons, and a lot of growth. Today, we're reflecting on some of the profound insights and humorous escapades we've shared along the way.Embracing the Healing ProcessOne of our all-time favorite discussions revolves around the concept of "Giving No Fucks" from...2024-12-3043 min
The Divorce Devil PodcastReach out to us!!! Help us Help you! || DD199.5 || David and RachelDavid and Rachel, hosts of Divorce Devil, reflect on their journey as they prepare for their 200th episode milestone. In this informal "episode 199.5," they candidly brainstorm ideas for the upcoming celebration and seek input from listeners. The duo admits feeling stuck in a creative rut and uses the episode to revisit the core purpose of their podcast: helping people navigate the challenges of divorce and relationships.They reflect on the transformative nature of divorce, likening it to a form of grief or death, as individuals lose relationships, routines, and their envisioned future. Personal anecdotes highlight how divorce...2024-12-2021 min
The Divorce Devil PodcastOwning Your Own Sh!t with Friends and Family - Part 3 || DD199 || David and RachelIn this episode of the Divorce Devil Podcast (Episode 199), David and Rachel focus on navigating toxic relationships during divorce recovery, particularly with friends, family, and acquaintances. They discuss the importance of setting boundaries, owning your actions, and recognizing patterns of harmful behavior in relationships. David and Rachel emphasize the challenge of dealing with toxic family members, who often feel entitled to access and respect due to shared history. They argue that respect is earned, not automatically granted based on familial ties.Rachel shares personal experiences about growing up in a toxic environment, dealing with narcissistic behavior, and...2024-12-1618 min
The Divorce Devil PodcastGetting Hurt Again After Divorce Recovery Part 2 || DD198 || David and RachelWelcome to Divorce Devil Podcast, Episode 197, hosted by Rachel and David. In this heartfelt Thanksgiving Sunday special, we dive into a topic that resonates deeply with many going through divorce recovery: navigating new hurt after initially finding healing. Often, after surviving the storm of divorce, you can find yourself blindsided by fresh pain from unexpected places—relationships, friendships, or even family dynamics. In this raw, candid conversation, Rachel and David share personal experiences, humor, and insight about how to recognize, process, and heal from these moments of renewed heartbreak.This episode, titled "Getting Hurt Again After Di...2024-12-0824 min
The Divorce Devil PodcastGetting Hurt Again In Your Divorce Recovery || DD197 || David and RachelWelcome to Divorce Devil Podcast, Episode 197, hosted by Rachel and David. In this heartfelt Thanksgiving Sunday special, we dive into a topic that resonates deeply with many going through divorce recovery: navigating new hurt after initially finding healing. Often, after surviving the storm of divorce, you can find yourself blindsided by fresh pain from unexpected places—relationships, friendships, or even family dynamics. In this raw, candid conversation, Rachel and David share personal experiences, humor, and insight about how to recognize, process, and heal from these moments of renewed heartbreak.This episode, titled "Getting Hurt Ag...2024-12-0728 min
DON'T PICK THE SCAB PODCASTUnlocking and Unleashing the Hero Inside of You in Your Divorce Recovery - Mark Collins || DPTSP #063 || David M. WebbHey there, warriors of the heart! Welcome to "Don't Pick the Scab Podcast," where we dive deep into the raw, real, and sometimes painful journey of divorce recovery for men over 40. I'm your host, David, and today, we have a truly transformative conversation lined up for you. If you're feeling stuck, lost, or simply searching for a new path after a major life shift, you're in the right place. Our special guest today is Mark Collins, a beacon of hope and transformation. Mark is the mastermind behind the "Freedom For Life" initiative and the author of "Life Mastery: Living...2024-11-2933 min
DON'T PICK THE SCAB PODCASTDivorce Recovery with a Past Life Energy Healer - Wendy Rose Williams || DPTSP #061 || David M. WebbWelcome back to the "Don't Pick the Scab Podcast” the podcast for men over 40 looking to bounce back from divorce with a sprinkle of humor and a dash of spiritual healing. Host David kicks off an enlightening and amusing conversation with Wendy Rose Williams, a certified past life energy healer. Think of her as the Marie Kondo for your soul, tidying up anxiety, depression, and those emotional cobwebs from yesteryears.Wendy shares her journey into spiritual healing, revealing how hypnotherapy helps release the emotional baggage we didn't even know we had. Di...2024-11-2233 min
DON'T PICK THE SCAB PODCASTMen’s Divorce Recovery: Bugs, Beans and Laughter / Seriously? - Cathy Nesbitt || DPTSP #060 || David M. WebbIn this unique episode of Don't Pick the Scat podcast, host David interviews Cathy Nesbitt, who offers unconventional approaches to healing after divorce. Cathy shares her journey from worm composting advocate to laughter yoga teacher, explaining how laughter can be a powerful tool for managing stress and emotional healing. She discusses the science behind "love drugs" - natural chemicals like dopamine, oxytocin, serotonin, and endorphins that are released during laughter. The conversation explores how these natural compounds can help with divorce recovery and co-parenting challenges. Cathy emphasizes the importance of self-care practices, including morning routines and connecting with...2024-11-1732 min
DON'T PICK THE SCAB PODCASTDivorce Recovery with Emotional Intelligence and Restoring Your Identity - Michael Ayala-White || DPTSP #059 || David M. WebbWelcome to "Don't Pick Scab Podcast," where host David takes you on a hilarious yet enlightening journey to help men over 40 heal from divorce. This week, we're joined by the extraordinary Michael Ayala-White, a trauma-informed coach who isn't afraid to tackle the tough questions—like whether his degree in Biblical Studies from Moody Bible Institute helps him navigate life's trickiest dilemmas! Michael shares his unique insights into restoring identity and purpose, revealing why your childhood argument with your mom might not be the trauma you thought it was. Grab your oxygen mask because we're diving into self-care, emotional in...2024-11-1633 min
The Divorce Devil PodcastSetting healthy boundaries in your Divorce Recovery || DD196 || David and RachelWelcome to the Divorce Devil Podcast with our dynamic duo, David and Rachel! Where the almost 200 episodes of wisdom, humor, and the occasional snow day rant converge into the perfect storm of post-marital hilarity. Picture this: David, the voice of reason, with a penchant for turning life's lemons into a comedy sketch, and Rachel, the fierce advocate of self-love, who can find joy even in a Colorado snowstorm - which is actually going on at this moment. Together, they tackle the chaos of exes, in-laws, and personal growth with the precision of a surgeon and the heart of a...2024-11-1028 min
DON'T PICK THE SCAB PODCASTEmbracing masculine traits in your divorce recovery - Kevin Anthony || DPTSP #057 || David M. WebbIn episode 57 of the "Don't Pick the Scab Podcast," host David talks with guest Kevin Anthony, a certified sexologist and relationship coach, about the challenges men over 40 face post-divorce. Kevin emphasizes the importance of self-confidence, navigating new dating technologies, and understanding modern relationship dynamics. He discusses common issues such as erectile dysfunction and premature ejaculation, often rooted in psychological factors. Kevin advises men to embrace their masculinity while being caring and communicative while stressing awareness and action to break negative patterns in relationships for healthier futures. Even if you’re not having a sexual relationship yet, please listen to...2024-11-0334 min
The Divorce Devil PodcastUnpacking and Shoveling Your Sh!t on Your Path to Divorce Recovery - Junie Moon || DD195 || David and RachelGuest time! Welcome Junie Moon to the show. She is a Global Love Mentor, author, speaker and a Certified Shadow Work Coach. Her superpower is helping people unpack their past and move onto a better future. Discussions of the movie Ghost, unpack and heal from the past, risk manager, hopelessness, space junk and dating research. This is not an episode to miss, men and women. It was a fun podcast. Like a couple of friends having coffee. Thanks Junie, Jersey Gurl!Topics of:Fend off the Saber cats...2024-10-2542 min
The Divorce Devil PodcastCo-Parenting Part 2 - When it ain’t the Brady Bunch || Divorce Devil Podcast || David and RachelIn this episode of Divorce Devil, David and Rachel delve into the complexities of co-parenting and blended family dynamics. They discuss the challenges of introducing new partners into the parenting equation, the importance of setting boundaries, and the necessity of open communication. The conversation highlights the need for respect and understanding among all family members, emphasizing that both parents and children must navigate their roles thoughtfully. The episode concludes with a call to action for listeners to take ownership of their situations and strive for better relationships within their blended families. It probably won’t be a very Bra...2024-10-1127 min
DON'T PICK THE SCAB PODCASTA Divorce Coach’s personal journey with divorce - Jason Scriven || Don’t Pick the Scab Podcast || David M. WebbIn this episode of the Don't Pick the Scab Podcast, host David speaks with divorce coach Jason Scriven about the challenges men over 40 face during and after divorce. They discuss the importance of self-care, rediscovering one's identity, building connections, and navigating the emotional aspects of separation. Jason shares insights on setting boundaries, creating new memories, and the realities of dating after divorce. He also outlines a four-week program designed to help men master their separation and make informed decisions for their future. Jason gave us some nice pearls and advice. I’m definitely going to have him back on t...2024-10-1127 min
The Divorce Devil Podcast5 negative and 5 positive components that can go wrong or right in your co-parenting journey || DD193 || David and RachelIn this episode, David and Rachel discuss the complexities of co-parenting after divorce, sharing both positive experiences and challenges. With concentrating on 5 negative and 5 positive things that involve co-parenting, they emphasize the importance of communication, understanding children's perspectives, and maintaining boundaries. The conversation highlights the emotional struggles parents face and the need to prioritize children's well-being over personal grievances. Through personal anecdotes, they provide insights into effective co-parenting strategies and the significance of loving children more than harboring resentment towards an ex-partner.Takeaways:Co-parenting requires a s...2024-10-0626 min
The Divorce Devil PodcastWhat would I tell my younger self in my divorce recovery? || DD#192 || David and RachelIn this episode of Divorce Devil, hosts Rachel and David discuss the importance of self-reflection and the lessons learned from their experiences with divorce. They explore the complexities of relationships, the harsh realities of financial independence post-divorce, and the necessity of owning one's responsibilities. The conversation emphasizes the significance of self-care, healing from past trauma, and embracing emotions during the divorce process. They also highlight the value of effort in relationships and the importance of recognizing one's role in the dynamics of a marriage. Ultimately, the episode encourages listeners to prioritize their happiness and personal growth.2024-09-3030 min
DON'T PICK THE SCAB PODCASTNavigating and accepting those corrosive emotions in Divorce Recovery - Patrick Eilers, MA, LPC || DPTSP#054 || David M. WebbWelcome to the show - Patrick Eilers. He comes to us from the great state of Michigan and his superpower is the application of psycho-education regarding anxiety and depression. Discussions of the corrosive qualities of emotions, solitude vs isolation, self-care, a destination for self-care, allow yourself to feel the feels, and empathy. There are so many great suggestions and advice tidbits in this podcast. Enjoy!Takeaways:NarcissismYour divorce storySingle identityDivorced David2024-09-2931 min
DON'T PICK THE SCAB PODCASTOwnership vs Victim-ship in your Divorce Recovery - David Nordel CMSgt, USAF (ret), RN, BSN, MS || DPTSP#050 || David M. WebbWelcome David Nordel to the show. After a distinguished career in the Air Force, he developed his superpowers of transitions and mental health challenges of veterans. He has written two books on leadership. We did discuss the similarities between veteran PTSD and men going through a divorce. Some of the parallels are interesting. Discussions of quitting in the face of adversity, tools to embrace personal growth, preparing for change, and recognizing the value in others are all broached in this podcast. It was like the two Davids were reuniting after a long friendship. Thanks, David. Hope to get you back...2024-09-0631 min
The Divorce Devil PodcastThe 3 Part Divorce Recovery Survival Guide / Part 1 - The Beginning Phase || DD#185 || David and RachelWell, here it is - what to do when the divorce is fresh or hasn’t even started yet. Even though we are not professional therapist, we have a list of things, looking back, we wished we would have know about and/or done. We would ask for forgiveness with the crazy start -but that is just part of the show. That’s the way it starts sometimes! Discussions of a divorce song, sex on the beach, 30 seconds plank, divorce word as a weapon, tools in your belt, left foot stomp, half of 20 is not fifty, David’s divorced f...2024-08-0230 min
DON'T PICK THE SCAB PODCASTBeing a better version of yourself during or after your divorce - Bill Simpson || Don’t Pick the Scab Podcast #040 || David M. WebbBill Simpson has been a professional coach for over 20 years and has seen his share of clients struggling through or after divorce. His superpower is helping men be the best versions of themselves. His insights come from having mostly women clients. They gave him insight into what they were looking for from a man in a relationship. Discussing men’s lack of empathy and vulnerability, being a better listener, taking a pause before responding, a love mission, taking time to be kinder to ourselves, and a divorce sometimes being worse than a death - my podcast with Bill create...2024-06-1329 min
DON'T PICK THE SCAB PODCASTDivorce and Mediation: Respect vs Nurturing - Mac Pierre-Louis || Don’t Pick the Scab Podcast #039 || David M. WebbWelcome Mac Pierre-Louis to the show. He is an attorney who specializes in mediation for the states of Texas and Florida. His superpower is bringing two sides that were so far apart in the beginning eventually together to compromise through mediation. His messages included walking a fine line without being a therapist, patterns of human nature, and taking a pause at the beginning of the conflict of your divorce. The podcast was much more interesting than I thought it would be. Mac was an excellent guest. Made it very fluid and understandable. Simple conversation with simple concepts. Thanks, Mac!2024-06-0839 min
The Divorce Devil PodcastTaking full responsibility, EMDR and Loneliness / Dawn Wiggins, Ed.S. || Divorce Devil Podcast #177 || David and RachelIn this episode of the Divorce Devil Podcast, David and Rachel interview therapist Dawn Wiggins, a licensed marriage and family therapist who shares her holistic approach to helping people recover from divorce. They discuss topics such as childhood trauma, the importance of failure in the recovery process, loneliness, and the role of grace in healing. Dawn explains the concept of Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) and how it can help unlock and heal traumatic memories. They also explore the victim triangle and the importance of setting healthy boundaries. Dawn also discusses the importance of taking responsibility for o...2024-05-2552 min
DON'T PICK THE SCAB PODCASTHigh Value Man - Taking the Higher Ground / Jonnie Jensen || Don’t Pick the Scab Podcast #038 || David M. WebbJonnie Jensen is a man who has achieved remarkable success in building his business, providing for his family, and reaching milestones that many only dream of. However, despite these accomplishments, there is a lingering emptiness that success alone hasn't been able to fill. Like countless modern men, Jonnie has dedicated so much of himself to everything else that he has lost touch with his own voice and sense of self. He finds himself questioning how much worse things will get and how much longer he can wait for fulfillment. It becomes clear that what is missing from his...2024-05-2437 min
DON'T PICK THE SCAB PODCASTIn your divorce, your past conditioning, unless revised, is your life sentence - Martin Hristov || DPTSP #037 || David M. WebbMartin Hristov is a man who defies definition, believing that limiting oneself to a single identity is a restriction. Known by those close to him as a modern mystic, yogi, biohacker, philosopher, esoteric scholar, polymath, and entrepreneur, Martin has dedicated his life to pushing the boundaries of human potential. Every day, he passionately lives out the principles he preaches.Professionally, Martin is a self-published author, an inspirational speaker, a bliss coach, and an expert in holistic well-being. He specializes in helping successful men who find themselves in midlife crises, and individuals who are...2024-05-1936 min
DON'T PICK THE SCAB PODCASTKeeping it real in the divorce space from a law perspective - Sara Khaki, J.D. || Don’t Pick the Scab Podcast #036 || David M. WebbWelcome to "Don’t Pick the Scab," the podcast that brings you real-world insights and advice on the complexities surrounding divorces among men over 40. In this episode, I sit down with Sara Khaki, a renowned family law attorney based in Atlanta, GA, who shares her wealth of knowledge and experience in the field. Join us as Sara and I dive into a candid conversation that feels like two friends having coffee. With topics ranging from narcissism and self-responsibility to getting ahead of things and understanding grandparent's rights, this episode promises to deliver valuable information that will resonate with my...2024-04-2635 min
DON'T PICK THE SCAB PODCASTWhat is the best interest of the child? - Marlene Bizub, Psy.D. || Don’t Pick the Scab Podcast #035 || David M. WebbWelcome, Dr. Marlene to the show. She is a practicing psychotherapist who specializes in helping contentious divorcing parents get the best mutual agreement in their co-parenting space. We connected on Linkedin and realized we are here in the same city, Colorado Springs, CO. Her discussions of safety concerns, grandparents' rights, and not using the kids as pawns lead the conversation on the podcast. I feel we only scratched the surface with our interview, and definitely have Dr. Marlene back for some more words of wisdom for my men over 40. Additional subjects:2024-04-2619 min
DON'T PICK THE SCAB PODCASTLife’s puzzle of spreadsh*ts - A journey of self-improvement / Andrew Dewar || Don’t Pick the Scab Podcast #034 || David M. WebbWelcome Andrew Dewar, CPA to the podcast. He runs a personal development company and podcast called Five Year You. He engages others in their power of self-improvement. His obstacles in life created this superpower. While directing people to peel the onion-like layers back to find out who they are, Andrew offers us the theory that we are doomed to repeat the negativities in our lives if we don’t learn from the lessons that got us here. This is a very insightful interview. Thanks, Andrew. Discussions of:Reiki Th...2024-04-1432 min
DON'T PICK THE SCAB PODCASTVisualizing your better, higher self - Robb Brooks || Don’t Pick the Scab Podcast #033 || David M. WebbWelcome coach and businessman Robb Brooks. He penned two books to help men get through divorce and divorce recovery. With his mess in the message - he provides men to experience their greatest comeback from the devastation of divorce. Discussions of modern day kidnapping, being the best father you can be, being friends with your ex, male meltdown mode, and it’s hard to avoid the storm all play a part of this podcast. We are pretty equally yoked in our thoughts and views of divorce and divorce recovery. It was a fresh air to find someone as such. ...2024-04-0630 min
DON'T PICK THE SCAB PODCASTThe Healing Power of Music in Divorce Recovery - Rick DellaRatta || Don’t Pick the Scab Podcast || David M. WebbRick DellaRatta, an award-winning jazz pianist, discusses the healing power of music, particularly in the context of recovering from divorce or heartbreak. He emphasizes the importance of embracing music as a personal journey and a way to raise one's personal game while suggesting that individuals explore different genres and artists, such as jazz, to find solace and enlightenment. Highlighting the role of music in complementing other forms of therapy and support systems, Rick encourages individuals to take action, empower themselves, and find activities that enhance their healing journey. Check out his Jazz for Peace website!2024-03-3038 min
DON'T PICK THE SCAB PODCASTThe Concept of Overlap in Men’s Divorce Recovery - Trevor Petersen, PhD || Don’t Pick the Scab Podcast || David M. WebbWelcome Trevor to the podcast. He is a professor of psychology at Oregon Tech and a licensed clinical psychologist. His concept of Overlap (and his book) explores the need for men to connect more with living things in order to achieve more joy and happiness. A very interesting concept. Trevor, the king of analogies, was very gracious in his ability to project his advice and concepts with a divorced man listening to this podcast. He feels that man need to step out more of the ‘man box’ and be open and maybe seek outside therapies like counseling. Thanks Trevor for...2024-03-2334 min
DON'T PICK THE SCAB PODCASTDivorce Recovery and Trauma Coach - Alberta Jordan || Don’t Pick the Scab Podcast #030 || David M. WebbWelcome to the show, Alberta Jordan. She is a divorce recovery and trauma coach who can and has walked the walk and talked the talk. Her superpower is getting trauma unstuck in her clients thus enabling them to go through a transformation to a more positive state. Topics of the perpetual victim, toxic relationships, health boundaries, narcissism, advocating for yourself, loving yourself, empowered identity, focusing releasing your trauma from your and more sassy now are all explored in this informative podcast. I feel that Alberta directly speaks to my men over 40 in their quest for healing and a new...2024-03-2226 min
DON'T PICK THE SCAB PODCASTKeep Your Eye On The Ball in Your Divorce Recovery - John Leister || Don’t Pick the Scab Podcast #029 || David M. WebbI don’t know how to even start to explain this one. This podcast was so very interesting. I thought, ‘what can a self-published author contribute to a divorce recovery podcast for men over 40”? But I was quite surprised. Welcome John Leister to the mic. His challenging life has shaped his current view and zeal for experiencing life. His basic and thought-provoking advice for men divorcing or divorced over the age of 40 is very genuine. He emphasizes the importance of mindset, self-belief, and the power of creativity in healing and moving on from devastating events. With a slow start to the s...2024-03-2232 min
The Divorce Devil PodcastDay 7 of the 10 Day in feeling better in your divorce recovery: Financial check-in || Divorce Devil Podcast #168 || David and RachelIn this episode, David and Rachel discuss the financial changes that occur after divorce. They share personal experiences and insights on topics such as living a comfortable life, making financial decisions as a couple, and considering the future. They also discuss the challenges of surviving financially after divorce, the importance of financial awareness and responsibility, and the emotional aspect of financial changes. The episode concludes with advice on financial independence, finding stability, and preparing for the unexpected.They have to apologize for the sound quality up front. Not being in the studio because of...2024-03-1629 min
DON'T PICK THE SCAB PODCASTMediation in the realm of divorcing men over 40 - Isaac Gruenebaum / Divorce Mediator || DPTSP #028 || David M. WebbIsaac Gruenebaum, a mediator, discusses the process of mediation and its benefits in divorce cases. He explains the difference between mediation and arbitration, highlighting the voluntary nature of mediation and the role of a third party in arbitration. Isaac emphasizes the importance of attitude and mindset in mediation, particularly for men over 40 going through divorce. Isaac also advises keeping the focus on the future and not dwelling on the past while considering the role of control, communication, and willingness in successful mediation. He shares insights on handling contentious issues, such as religious differences and child custody disputes. Isaac...2024-03-1439 min
DON'T PICK THE SCAB PODCASTFrankenstein Therapy in Men Over 40 Divorce Recovery - Lair Torrent, L.M.F.T. || Don’t Pick the Scab Podcast || David M. WebbWelcome to the show, Lair Torrent. He is a marriage and family therapist and author of the book THE PRACTICE OF LOVE. His superpower is uniting eastern-based mindfulness practices and western clinical models and creating a unique approach to healing. It does get a little crazy and fun towards the end of the podcast, but it lends itself to the fact we are all human and a little laughter is good for the soul. Besides, who doesn’t want the big piece of chicken?Mindfulness.. Taking a pauseStop a habi...2024-03-0125 min
DON'T PICK THE SCAB PODCASTSetback or Stepping Stones in Divorce Recovery - Wayne Faulkner || DPTSP #026 || David M. WebbWayne, a personal development coach and content creator, discusses his book 'Setback or Stepping Stones: It's Your Choice' and shares insights on overcoming setbacks and turning them into opportunities. This subject can really be applied to the divorce recovery space. While emphasizing the importance of self-care, managing negative self-talk, and building self-confidence, he also highlights the role of community and the power of turning pain into purpose. Overall, his book and coaching approach aim to inspire and empower individuals to live their best lives.Takeaways and important points:2024-02-2420 min
The Divorce Devil PodcastDay Two of the 10 Podcast Episode Challenge to feel better in your divorce recovery - New Beginnings || DD164 || David and RachelDavid and Rachel are podcasting about day two of the ten day challenge to feel better in your divorce recovery. Day two deals with your new beginnings. In this episode of the Divorce Devil podcast, David and Rachel discuss the process of envisioning a positive future after divorce. They share their personal experiences of healing and processing, emphasizing the importance of embracing both the positive and negative aspects of the journey. The conversation also explores the transition from being a divorcee to being single, and the impact of divorce on one's identity. The episode concludes with the key ta...2024-02-1326 min
DON'T PICK THE SCAB PODCASTThe Reality of Undeletable Dads - Tracy Poizner || Don’t Pick the Scab Podcast 024 || David M. WebbEpisode 024 is a special one to me. I think the coparenting realm is not discussed enough in divorce recovery. I know there are wins and losses. The losses are so devastating to dads. Welcome Tracy Poizner to the show. She is a mind/body wellness expert that focuses on counseling men dealing with child alienation during or after divorce. So many questions - what is it, how does it happen, advice to handle it, how to manage it? She discusses all that and more in this podcast. Take a listen….Takeaways and Topics:...2024-02-1049 min
DON'T PICK THE SCAB PODCASTCo-parenting and communication for the sake of the child - Gabriel Thomas Spartan || Don’t Pick the Scab Podcast || David M. WebbGabriel comes to us from the Superbowl city of Las Vegas. Being a first time father, he has developed special skills to assist men and women in their battles and differences in co-parenting. In this episode of the Don't Pick the Scab podcast, Gabriel, a parenting coach and author, joins the host to discuss co-parenting and raising children after divorce. Gabriel shares his personal journey and mission to help first-time parents and those co-parenting. While emphasizing the importance of communication, stability, and normalcy in co-parenting relationships, Gabriel also highlights the significance of self-care for divorced dads and the nee...2024-02-0946 min
DON'T PICK THE SCAB PODCASTThe advantages of seeking professional help - Dr. Anthony Young || Don’t Pick the Scab Podcast || David M. WebbDr. Tony is my first in-studio podcast guest. It was refreshing not to deal with any technical problems for the first time! We have been friends for over 30 years so getting him on the show is really special. His wellness and healing background is immense. It was like we didn’t leave any stones unturned in our discussion that couldn’t help men over 40 healing from the devastating effects of divorce. From his F*ck It Attitude to forgiving yourself and your ex, I appreciate all the value he brought to the podcast. Scratching the surface allows us to have hi...2024-02-0732 min
DON'T PICK THE SCAB PODCASTThe MIndset and Confidence Coach - Yannick Picard || Don’t Pick the Scab Podcast 021 || David M. WebbYannick Picard, a mindset and confidence coach, discusses various topics related to personal growth and recovery after divorce. He emphasizes the importance of self-love, overcoming self-doubt, and developing resilience and self-confidence. Exploring the concepts of perfectionism, fixed mindset vs growth mindset, and the role of transformative emotions, he encourages individuals to tap into their boundless potential and have the courage to take steps towards their goals. Throughout the conversation, Yannick emphasizes that individuals going through divorce are not alone and that their past does not define their future. Thanks for the knowledge Yannick!2024-02-0429 min
DON'T PICK THE SCAB PODCASTThe Emotions Doctor - Ed Daube, Ph.D. || Don’t Pick the Scab Podcast 020 || David M. WebbEmotions are one of the facets of men over 40 going through or in a post-divorce recovery state that can throw him for a loop. It can be dealing with coparenting or just going through a divorce. Most men have no clue how to handle the sometimes overwhelming nature of emotional turmoil. I have found and interviewed The Emotions Doctor - Ed Daube, Ph.D. Coming from sunny California, his mission is educational, for most people have no clue how to handle some of our out-of-control emotions. Not just in divorce but in life in general.2024-02-0333 min
DON'T PICK THE SCAB PODCASTI Just Want This Done - Raiford Palmer, J.D. || Don’t Pick the Scab Podcast 019 || David M. WebbThe book ‘ I Just Want This Done’ by Raiford Palmer, J.D. helps smart, successful people get divorced without losing their kids, money and minds. I was stoked to get him on the podcast and talk about his guide, his professional and personal take on divorce - especially from a man’s over 40 point of view. Having gone through a divorce himself, Raiford’s experience is backed by him walking the walk and talking the talk. For men over 40 struggling with their before, during and/or post-divorce - this is one of those podcasts you can’t go without liste...2024-01-3134 min
DON'T PICK THE SCAB PODCASTIgniting the best in all of us - Kashaun Cooper || Don’t Pick The Scab Podcast 018 || David M. WebbKashaun comes to us from the warm city of Atlanta, GA where he is a motivational speaker, exceptional author and founder of Champion Nation - an organization dedicated to transforming the lives of men, women and children everywhere. It felt like two friends having coffee discussing all about the healing and wellness spaces. After sharing his history from childhood on, Kashaun dives into some of his favorite topics - the ABC’s of self-motivation, ‘we are built to last’ story and reality, and the 5 C’s to building confidence and self-esteem. Hanging with Mr. Cooper has never been so much fun...2024-01-3039 min
DON'T PICK THE SCAB PODCASTGetting emotionally ‘BUFF’ in your divorce and divorce recovery - David Enevoldsen || Don’t Pick The Scab Podcast 017 || David M. WebbEmotional embuffination - what is it? David Enevoldsen comes to us from Phoenix with just that premise…. Get your emotions buff. Being a former divorce attorney and being divorced himself, David witnessed first hand how emotions ran toxic during and after a divorce process. With a psychology background, he developed a program and tactics to make people more suited to emotionally overcome conflict. We discuss numerous techniques to de-escalate conflict or prevent it from even happening. Though some of them are so simple, they may be complex in relation to each other. Take a listen to his knowledge. Some of yo...2024-01-2136 min
DON'T PICK THE SCAB PODCASTFinding the right one - it’s you / Eli Schostak || Don’t Pick the Scab Podcast 016 || David M. WebbEli comes to us from a clinical social worker background in which he transformed into a relationship coaching practice. After working on himself, he found that he knew exactly what singles needed to find the right one - themselves. Discussing healthy dating, Eli explained why ‘my friend’ stayed in relationships too long and put off the breakups so long. I found that you don’t have to find the one that completes you or allows you to love better, the one is you. Love comes from you. Thanks Eli.Topics of:2024-01-1928 min
DON'T PICK THE SCAB PODCASTPut your damn ego on the shelf during your divorce and recovery - Seth Nelson, Esq. || DRMO40 015 || David M. WebbWelcome Seth Nelson, Esq. to the podcast. While being a practicing family attorney in Tampa Bay, Florida he prides himself in getting the best and fairest settlement and/or result for his clients. Seth has seen clients struggle and argue over the most unimportant issues in their divorce while the underlying reasoning for their position is still unresolved. We discuss common misconceptions, key factors for a successful divorce settlement, creative settlement strategies, communication during and after divorce, child custody considerations, prioritizing mental health and well-being, available resources and support networks, letting go of ego, dispute resolution methods, and suc...2024-01-1429 min
The Divorce Devil PodcastRecap of 2023 and some of our favorite subjects and/or divorce recovery podcasts || Divorce Devil Podcast #158 || David and RachelIn this episode, David and Rachel recap the year 2023 and discuss their top episodes. They also talk about setting divorce resolutions and the importance of setting boundaries with adult children. While diving into the topic of combating narcissism in divorce and recovery, as well as coping with emotions and practicing self-care, they address common misconceptions about divorce recovery and share their thoughts on finding love and looking towards the future. David and Rachel end the episode with parting words for the new year.Takeaways and crazy subjects…...2023-12-2930 min
The Divorce Devil PodcastBattling the holiday blues during your divorce recovery Part 2 || Divorce Devil Podcast #155 || David and RachelRachel and David discuss strategies for getting through the holiday season after divorce - again. DD151 started the talk and this podcast will close it out. They also discuss setting boundaries, the importance of self-care, the lack of Christmas spirit, creating new traditions, and finding ways to honor your feelings. They also encourage acts of kindness, reflect on the positives, and the importance of mindfulness and gratitude journaling while maybe exploring new hobbies. Key Takeaways:The holiday season after divorce can be challenging, but it's important to find ways to take care of yo...2023-12-1629 minDON'T PICK THE SCAB PODCASTBeing a strong man during and/or after your divorce - Elliott Katz || Divorce Recovery Men Over 40 Podcast 003 || David M. WebbHow can a man be strong during and/or after a divorce? Elliott Katz’s theories dive into that reality. He says the most important part of recovering from a divorce is to look at yourself and realize what you need to learn from it. Blaming the other person won’t get you down the healing path you need to be on. How should you have been different? Getting back to the basics of the men being hunters and gatherers works on this premise. Elliott says men need to take charge more and make more decisions and with themselv...2023-12-1131 min
The Divorce Devil PodcastWays to combat loneliness during divorce recovery || Divorce Devil Podcast #154 || David and RachelDavid and Rachel discuss their experiences with loneliness after divorce. They talk about how the feeling of loneliness can start before the divorce is finalized and continue even after leaving the marital home. They emphasize the importance of reaching out to others and seeking support during this challenging time. They also discuss unhealthy coping mechanisms, such as excessive drinking and serial dating, and suggest healthier alternatives like spending time with friends and family, volunteering, and seeking counseling. They share personal anecdotes and offer advice on how to combat loneliness and find happiness after divorce.
Key Takeaways:
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The Divorce Devil PodcastOur favorite pros and cons on dating during and after divorce || Divorce Devil Podcast #153 || David and RachelDavid and Rachel are the hosts of the Divorced Devil Podcast, a show that provides a humorous and honest take on divorce recovery. They share their own experiences and insights to help others navigate the challenges of divorce and find healing.
In this episode of the Divorced Devil Podcast, David and Rachel discuss the pros and cons of dating during and after divorce. They emphasize the importance of being ready before entering the dating scene and caution against rushing into new relationships. They also highlight the need to set boundaries and prioritize the well-being of children...2023-12-0133 min
The Divorce Devil Podcast10 POSITIVES FOR DEVELOPING A BETTER FUTURE VISION IN DIVORCE RECOVERY || Divorce Recovery Podcast #152 || David and RachelRachel and David discuss the positive aspects of divorce recovery and how it can lead to personal growth and a positive future vision. They talk about the importance of self-discovery, fostering resilience, and finding motivation during the difficult process of divorce. Rachel shares her own experience of finding her identity and learning to be positive even in the midst of challenging circumstances. They also touch on the importance of surrounding yourself with a supportive community and learning to let go of negative influences. The discussion of how men and women differ in ‘faking it’ is priceless!
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The Divorce Devil PodcastCombating the Holiday Blues During Divorce Recovery || Divorce Devil #151 || David and RachelRachel and David are hosts of the Divorce Devil Podcast, where they share their personal experiences and insights on navigating divorce and co-parenting. They provide support and advice to individuals going through divorce, helping them overcome the challenges and find happiness in their new lives.
Summary:
Rachel and David discuss the challenges of dealing with the holiday blues during and after a divorce. They share their personal experiences and offer advice on how to combat the feelings of sadness and loneliness that can arise during the holiday season. They emphasize...2023-11-1726 min
The Divorce Devil PodcastWhat is a Gray Divorce? || Divorce Devil Podcast #150 || David and Rachel
In this episode, David and Rachel discuss the topic of "gray divorce," which refers to divorces that occur later in life, typically among individuals who are 50 years old and above.
They explore the unique aspects of gray divorce, such as the reasons behind it, including growing apart, wanting more independence, and a desire to explore new experiences.
The hosts also highlight the financial impact of gray divorce, as well as the emotional impact on both the divorcing couple and their adult children.
They emphasize the importance of planning and communication when considering a gray divorce, and encourage listeners to seek...2023-11-1128 min
The Divorce Devil PodcastCommon Misconceptions About Divorce Recovery After 40: Debunked || Divorce Devil Podcast #149 || David and RachelDavid and Rachel discuss common misconceptions about divorce recovery after the age of 40. They emphasize that finding love again is possible at any age and that companionship can be found in various ways. They also debunk the belief that the grief from divorce will last forever and highlight the importance of healing and moving forward. The hosts address the concern that children will never accept a divorce, explaining that while it may be a difficult adjustment, children can adapt to new family dynamics. They also challenge the notion that financial stability is unattainable after divorce, emphasizing the importance of...2023-11-0330 min
The Divorce Devil PodcastEx-Etiquette - Every day is Christmas || Divorce Devil Podcast #148 || David and Rachel
Rachel and David discuss the challenges of maintaining a relationship with an ex-spouse and navigating shared friendships and events after divorce. They share personal experiences and offer practical advice on managing these situations while prioritizing healing and civility.
**Key Takeaways:**
- Divorce can be especially challenging when there are shared friendships and events involved.
- It's important to set boundaries and communicate your needs and feelings with your ex-spouse.
- Each situation is unique, and what works for one person may not work for another.
- It's crucial...2023-10-2731 min
The Divorce Devil PodcastDivorce Recovery and Hate: Two steps forward and three steps back || Divorce Devil Podcast #147 || David and Rachel
David and Rachel are the hosts of the Divorce Devil Podcast, where they discuss various aspects of divorce recovery and provide advice and support to those going through the process.
Summary:
David and Rachel discuss the topic of hate during and after divorce. They explore how anger can be both positive and negative, and how it can motivate individuals to make changes in their lives. They also discuss the importance of communication and not making assumptions about the other person's feelings. Rachel shares her personal experience of feeling unimportant in her marriage and how it...2023-10-0628 min
The Divorce Devil PodcastTop 10 positive habits to cultivate after a divorce || Divorce Devil Podcast #146 || David and RachelAbout The Hosts:
David and Rachel are the hosts of the Divorce Devil podcast, a local podcast in Colorado Springs that aims to help people heal from divorce while adding their humorous flair. They share their personal experiences and provide advice and support to those going through or just out of a divorce.
Summary:
In this episode, David and Rachel discuss 10 positive habits to cultivate after a divorce. They emphasize the importance of laughter, spending time outdoors, and practicing gratitude. They also encourage listeners to join support groups, prioritize self-care, and foster new fr...2023-09-3028 min
The Divorce Devil PodcastTop 10 ways journaling can help in your divorce and/or divorce recovery || Divorce Devil Podcast #145 || David and Rachel**About The Hosts:**
David and Rachel once again spin their divorce experiences and real-world advice into ways to help others heal from the trauma of divorce.
**Summary:**
In this episode of Divorce Recovery, the hosts discuss how journaling can help in the process of divorce recovery or even your ongoing divorce. They emphasize the importance of emotional release, self-reflection, stress reduction, problem-solving, tracking progress, validation and empowerment, gratitude and positivity, setting goals and intentions, and creating a private space for self-expression. Journaling allows individuals to process their emotions, gain insights into their thoughts...2023-09-2232 min
The Divorce Devil PodcastTop 10 reasons not to make radical decisions at the end of and just after a divorce. || Divorce Devil Podcast #144 || David and RachelSorry for the 2 week hiatus. David got married and Rachel took a vacation. Just some normal stuff!! But they are BACK with a vengance to provide the freshest and innovative ways, advice and methods to take your divorce recovery to the next level. David and Rachel are the hosts of the Divorce Devil Podcast. They share their personal experiences and insights on divorce recovery, offering support and advice to those going through similar situations. They are not trained professionals, just two friends with some real-life and/or real-world experience that may be able to help others in their recovery jour...2023-09-1629 min
The Divorce Devil PodcastTop Ten ways to reel in your emotional rollercoaster in your divorce or divorce recovery || Divorce Devil Podcast || David and RachelWe realize any ways to reel in your out of control emotions is worth a discussion. Rachel takes time out in the beginning to voice her concern with her concern with parents not paying attention to their school age children's health needs. Being a nurse, this is a passionate subject for her. It’s a different departure but we feel it is a necessary one.
Why you ask, do you need to keep those emotions in control? With divorce being a turbulent time, feelings of anger, sadness, fear, etc. are normal but le...2023-08-1930 min
The Divorce Devil PodcastRachel’s and David’s Laws of Divorce Recovery (Part 2, #9 - #16) || Divorce Devil Podcast #134 || David and RachelWell, let's get the 9 final David's and Rachel's Laws of Divorce Recovery out of the way. They can apply to all no matter what stage of your divorce you are in.Have you ever felt like you're riding an emotional rollercoaster, with ups, downs, twists, and turns that leave you breathless and exhausted? That's the reality for many people experiencing divorce. From anger to sadness, acceptance to defiance, the emotions can be overwhelming. Yet, it's crucial to honor each one without getting caught in a toxic cycle. We'll be sharing our personal journeys and struggles, helping y...2023-07-0830 min
The Divorce Devil PodcastOUR TOP 7 DIVORCE RECOVERY " LAWS" || DIVORCE DEVIL PODCAST #133 || David and RachelWhat a treat - the top 7 Rachel and David’s laws of divorce recovery. What is so interesting about this podcast, it can be applied to all phases of divorce - prior, during, and post-divorce. Are you ready to navigate the choppy waters of divorce recovery? With raw honesty, we promise to guide you on this journey, offering hard-won insights and tried-and-true strategies to help you find your footing and move forward with resilience and grace. This episode delves deep into the laws of divorce recovery, starting with the foundation of all healing - self-compassion. We explore how vit...2023-07-0129 min