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Beyond Success
#39: The Human Shield Excuse: Why Goodness Dies When We Stop Taking Responsibility
Let's stop pretending this is just a problem for soldiers and politicians. The "human shields excuse" isn't just some abstract wartime tactic—it's the same twisted reasoning people use every day to justify hurting others, dodging accountability, or compromising their integrity. It's what lets you blow up a relationship and blame the other person for making you do it. It's how you rationalize crossing a line—then sleep at night because technically, it wasn't your fault. In war, this excuse gets innocent people killed. In your life, it's killing your peace of mi...
2025-06-06
28 min
Beyond Success
#37: The Books That Helped Me Stop Proving Myself and Start Living for Real
The Achiever's Curse is a deadly one. It starts subtle at first. But left unchecked long enough, it seeps into every aspect of your life, stealing joy and fulfillment every step of the way. Too many achievers don't realize this insidious curse until they feel the intense pangs of regret on their deathbed. Far too late, in other words. I want to help you avoid this terrible fate… I have read well over 1,000 books in my life - spanning across psychology, philosophy, leadership, business, religion, spirituality, personal growth, and more. Most of them were...
2025-05-23
41 min
Beyond Success
Encore Episode: Why Your Ego Is Not The Enemy
Socially awkward guys don't get girls, that's the cold, hard truth. But hiding your social awkwardness and anxiety isn't the answer either. When you repress, exile, and cut out your social anxiety in order to feel good about yourself, you force it further into your subconscious. And when you cram it into the depths of your brain? It's still active, and it's still there sabotaging your success, but now you're no longer aware of it. That's the bad news. The good news? You can leverage your social anxiety and awkwardness to m...
2024-08-23
30 min
Beyond Success
Encore Episode: Self-Criticism vs. Self-Acceptance
Do you buy into the myth that success alone brings happiness and fulfillment? The techniques 95% of Americans use to strive for success, growth, and personal development guarantees they won't be fulfilled in the long run. There is a completely different and unique way to approach success. And it's imperative you discover this way to gain personal happiness, success, and insane amounts of growth in your life. In today's episode, you'll discover how to experience success and growth — while also being happy, fulfilled, and not having to wait until you succeed in order to be happy....
2024-08-16
45 min
Beyond Success
Encore Episode: 7 Steps for Men to Overcome Neediness
From a young age, attractive women become masters at sniffing out neediness. Most men don't discover this fact about life until they've sabotaged their dating lives and relationships. But here's the good news: There's a proven system for overcoming your neediness. It won't happen overnight, but it will free you from the sadistic grip neediness has over you. In this episode, you'll discover the 7 steps to obliterate your neediness for good. Listen now. Show Highlights Include: - How your fear about relationships dupes you into making relationship-ending mis...
2024-08-09
33 min
Beyond Success
Encore Episode: How to Access Your Natural Attractiveness
In order to find a loving relationship, you need to become somebody you're not. You need to rock a new haircut, fill your wardrobe with designer clothes, and hit the gym 24/7. You need to morph into Sean Connery's James Bond. Charming, handsome, seductive, and irresistible to modern women. Here's the thing: If you're seeking a long-term relationship, this is easily the worst advice you could ever listen to! Now, if you're optimizing your life for a short-term fling, have at it. Be the "player." But I'm assuming you're reading t...
2024-08-02
35 min
Beyond Success
How to Find Your Ideal Partner Naturally and Authentically
A lot of guys struggle with dating for a fundamental reason: They don't even know themselves well enough to attract a kindred spirit. Relationships and dating become much easier when you have similar interests and values as your partner. This is particularly true at the beginning of the dating process. And it doesn't rely on you getting lucky on a dating app. But how do you discover yourself and your true interests? And how does this naturally attract your ideal partner to you? Well, here's some good news: This self-discovery process is f...
2024-07-26
33 min
Beyond Success
Stop Striving to be an Alpha Male: It's Sabotaging Your Life
Do you ever wish you were more alpha? It's a big buzzword thrown around in forums by bitter and resentful men. And if you keep striving to be more alpha, you'll suffocate your relationships, suppress your emotions, and sabotage your happiness. Why? Because the pop culture view of the alpha male couldn't be further from the truth about how real alphas operate. It's not about being feared or dominating, it's about leading with compassion, connection, and empathy. If you want to be a true alpha and embody real masculinity, you have to s...
2024-07-19
36 min
Beyond Success
Why You're Not Broken: Live Caller Interview on Healthy Anger & Boundaries
Today I'd like you to meet Ryan. Ryan's a first responder with a strong sense of fairness, and he loves to help people who need it. Those are both noble qualities, so on the surface it all sounds great. But as Ryan processed the end of a marriage he tried to make sense of why some things bothered him so much, and why certain patterns kept repeating in his life. He turned to me to talk about it, and together we explored how even great qualities can cause problems when they're driven by u...
2024-07-12
49 min
Beyond Success
How 'Inside Out 2' Can Help You Master Your Emotions
Inside Out 2 gives you a brilliant in-depth look into your inner world. Just by watching the movie, you'll better understand yourself, your emotions, and how to handle emotions better. But if you pair this movie with this podcast episode, you'll also discover the actionable steps you can take today to balance your emotions, access your higher self, and lead the various parts of you more effectively. The result? You'll become more attractive. You'll have an easier time dating. You'll develop healthier and stronger relationships. And you'll create a better life for yourself all ar...
2024-07-05
31 min
Beyond Success
Forget the Red Pill: Here's How to Truly Thrive in Your Relationships
Perhaps the biggest lie spread by the Red Pill community is how humans are simple slaves to our biology. This is how they rationalize the obviously irrational myth that a woman will leave you as soon as she finds a more attractive, wealthier, or higher-status man. Not only does this myth corrupt your relationship with women, but it can even corrupt the relationship you have with yourself. The sad truth is falling for the Red Pill lies is a fast way to end up lonely, miserable, and hopeless. That's the bad news. The goo...
2024-06-28
31 min
Beyond Success
Why Courage and Compassion Are the Ultimate Life Hacks
There are two specific virtues characteristic of your higher self. These two virtues can turn your inner demons into inner supporters. They help you overcome deep-seated trauma and pain that keeps sabotaging your relationships. They can reduce your anxiety and depression. And they can make every aspect of your life—whether in relationships, in your career, or anything else—more fulfilling and enjoyable. So, what are these two virtues? Courage and compassion. While courage is generally considered masculine and compassion feminine, the combination of the two is the only way to heal you of your...
2024-06-21
33 min
Beyond Success
Why Traditional Psychotherapy Often Fails for Men
Most men, especially hypermasculine men, feel like therapy doesn't work for them. Or worse yet, that therapy could never work for them. And I get it. Not only are up to 80% of mental health workers women, but traditional psychotherapy operates through a feminine lens that further alienates masculine men. When men go through traditional therapy, they often feel discouraged, angry, and unheard. Because the feminine approach doesn't account for their lifelong conditioning about how emotions make you weak. But nothing could be further from the truth: Not only do emotions add all the spi...
2024-06-14
30 min
Beyond Success
Live Caller Interview with an Achiever Raised as a Parentified Child
This week's episode is a special episode, especially if you're an achiever (like most of our listeners are). Leon, a long-time fan from South Africa, reached out for a one-time session that doubles as a podcast interview. While your situation might not be exactly the same as Leon's, if you're an achiever or struggle with abandonment issues or neediness, there will likely be several themes that apply to both your life, as well. I treated this interview like an initial consultation. Listening will give you insights into how you could accept your inner child parts th...
2024-06-07
1h 21
Beyond Success
Stop Playing the Blame Game: How to Own Your Sh*t & Transform Your Life
One problem that haunts every relationship, career, and life is falling into a victim mindset. When you blame others for your problems and fail to acknowledge your role, you remain stuck and helpless in this vicious cycle. Worst part? As your relationships start to crumble, you'll likely experience a heightened sense of anxiety and depression. And if you don't address this, your life becomes a series of missed opportunities, and unfulfilled dreams, leaving you with a sense of regret and dissatisfaction. That's the bad news. The good news? While it...
2024-05-24
34 min
Beyond Success
Why Your Self-Worth Isn't Tied to Achievements & Chasing Success Won't Fulfill You
When was the last time you felt true joy and fulfillment in your life? For many achievers, this is something that they never experience. Each achievement and accomplishment is followed by another pursuit, always keeping happiness just out of your reach. The worst part? This relentless pursuit of success makes finding lasting happiness and fulfillment impossible. But it's possible to break free from this toxic cycle. In fact, there are 5 simple ways to help you break free from this cycle that I reveal in this episode. If you're constantly feeli...
2024-05-17
30 min
Beyond Success
Why Your Achievements Make You Feel Miserable: The Harsh Truth
Neediness plagues every relationship, and achievers tend to be more needy than other people. Why? Well, the achiever's desire to achieve often stems from neediness itself. Achievers think they have to earn every bit of love and approval in their lives. And then the success you achieve from this mindset tricks you into believing that this is a good trait. However, look closely into a successful achiever's life, and you'll see that no matter how much they achieved, there's a deep void of loneliness in their lives. Look closely into their relationships, and th...
2024-05-09
35 min
Beyond Success
The 6 Secrets to Attract & Keep a Woman in a Relationship
Here's a harsh truth for many men to understand, especially the pleasers and fixers: It's not your job as a man to continuously attract your woman or to make her happy. Instead, it's about understanding the elements that naturally cultivate attraction and happiness within a relationship. But this approach to dating and attraction is a lot harder because it requires improving yourself at the deepest levels instead of putting on a façade. But you know what? Despite it being harder, it leads to a more fulfilling relationship. And yes, this incl...
2024-05-02
37 min
Beyond Success
Conquer Fear of Failure: Proven Steps from Modern & Ancient Wisdom
One of the most common and deadly fears people have is the fear of failure. And this fear in particular has dire consequences: It creates a life where every decision is clouded by the terror of making a mistake. Where opportunities are left unexplored because the risk of failure looms too large. A life shackled by the fear of failure leads to stagnation—professionally and personally. Even your relationships suffer because a fear of failure prevents you from being your true self. Living with this fear for too long means never truly knowing the full extent of yo...
2024-04-25
29 min
Beyond Success
Shattering the Silence: Sexual Shame & the Hidden Struggle of Modern Men
There's a certain problem that touches the core of men's struggles, but it often flies under their radar. This problem sabotages intimacy, confidence, and connection, leaving only anxiety and depression in its wake. I'm referring to sexual shame—and it's something that happens to men both unconsciously and consciously. That's why in this episode, I'm going to help you understand where sexual shame comes from, why it has persisted over centuries, and give you the roadmap to break free from these chains. Listen now. Show Highlights Include: How sexual shame not o...
2024-04-18
35 min
Beyond Success
Cultivating Self-Worth: Why You Don't Need Others to Validate You
One of the best ways to become more attractive to women, to feel more fulfilled in your life, and to generally boost your happiness is by building up your internal self-worth. But this practice is easier said than done. And men today often make the mistake of trying to build their self-worth on external sources, like needing attractive women to be attracted to them. This not only backfires, but creates an unrelenting source of neediness that's waiting to poison any relationship they get into. That's the bad news. The good news? Ev...
2024-04-11
29 min
Beyond Success
How to Overcome Complex PTSD & Unlock Your Inner Strength
There's a psychological condition that's been flying under the radar for too long. It's a form of PTSD that builds up from more minor-seeming traumas you experienced throughout your life. And it may be the saboteur of your dating life and relationship success. Worst part? Most men have no idea it's lurking in the shadows of their psyche. So, what's this condition? It's something called Complex PTSD, or c-PTSD for short. It makes the work seem like an endlessly challenging place. But by understanding it, you can learn to lessen its gr...
2024-04-04
30 min
Beyond Success
How to Transform Neediness into Unconditional Love
There's often a fine line between love and neediness, especially for men. Women have a sixth sense to sniff out neediness, which can leave you confused and unconvinced unconditional love even exists. But when you look closely into the differences between love and neediness, you'll see how diametrically opposed these two states are. Love comes from a place of abundance, neediness from lack. Love is based on internal validation, neediness on external validation. But if you can't even tell the difference between the two, it's impossible to bridge the gap from neediness to lov...
2024-03-28
36 min
Beyond Success
How Sadness Unlocks Growth (and Self-Pity Sabotages Your Life)
Many men don't understand the difference between sadness and self-pity. And this lack of understanding comes with a big cost: You sacrifice joy and growth when you confuse sadness for self-pity. Now, this isn't your fault, per se. Most modern men grew up believing toxic masculinity myths like that crying is a sign of weakness. Not only is this false, it's objectively wrong and science has proved this. When you embrace and process sadness in a healthy way, it's no longer an emotion to be feared but an opportunity for growth. But when you ignore, ne...
2024-03-21
32 min
Beyond Success
How To Foster a Balanced, Growth Oriented Relationship
A relationship is an investment from both parties. When these investments tip to one side or another, it plants the seeds of resentment and destruction. This is why nice guys and people pleasers who bend over backwards for their partner find themselves cheated on and heartbroken. While bad guys get the girl (even though it doesn't blossom into true love). The best way to ensure a relationship is growth-oriented and fulfilling is by balancing the investment scales. But how do you do this in a non-manipulative way? That's what we discuss in today's ep...
2024-03-14
36 min
Beyond Success
How To Elevate Your Mating Value On The Spot
We're wired to value what we work for more highly than what comes easily. This especially applies to relationships. But a lot of men accidentally plant the seeds of resentment in their relationships because they have a desire to prove their worth to their girlfriend or wife. But when you do everything for her, you're actually robbing her of her ability to connect with you on the deepest level. A better solution is doing the opposite: The more your partner invests in you and your relationship, the more she will value it. Now, th...
2024-03-07
33 min
Beyond Success
How Morality Can Improve Every Aspect of Your Social Life & Relationships
There's a lot of modern men, especially those who frequent Red Pill and manosphere blogs, forums, and websites, that are deeply unhappy and unfulfilled. But instead of using this as an opportunity to grow, they use it as a way to let their anger percolate. What happens to these men is they let their anger blind them from the possibilities life presents: Happiness, fulfillment, love. There's another, often overlooked, path if you find yourself living an unfulfilled life. This rarely trotted path? Morality. In today's episode, you'll discover how moral...
2024-02-29
37 min
Beyond Success
How to Take Control of Your Emotional and Psychological Growth
Nothing is more impactful to your overall happiness and fulfillment—both in relationships and outside of them—than a new concept called "Therapeutic Coaching." What's "Therapeutic Coaching?" It's when you mix the best of life coaching with the best of psychotherapy—and unlock profound growth in the process. Why? Because not only does it show you how to address your life's ultimate challenges and worries, but it also helps you actively work through them. So, instead of just talking about your challenges without an action plan, therapeutic coaching helps you incorporate them into...
2024-02-22
28 min
Beyond Success
From Anxious to Secure: Proven Strategies to Transform Your Relationships
Today, we're discussing perhaps one of the most important aspects of not only dating success, but to your entire life: Your attachment style. If left unchecked, your attachment style can lead to a cycle of unhealthy relationships, constant anxiety, and an underlying sense of insecurity and unhappiness. It's like living in a house with a foundation that's cracking, but choosing to ignore it. Ignore it long enough, and the whole structure is at risk. If you have an anxious attachment style—one of the most popular types for listeners of this show—then it e...
2024-02-15
27 min
Beyond Success
How to Set Healthy Boundaries & Be More Assertive for Emotional Health
Nothing can kill an otherwise good relationship as quickly as not having healthy boundaries in place. Without these boundaries, toxic interactions start to infect the relationship. Over time, resentment builds as the relationship becomes unbalanced and draining. The problem is, setting healthy boundaries is a difficult task, especially if you struggle with being assertive. You want to have empathy for your partner, and boundaries seem like a selfish short-cut. But this is a myth. In fact, setting healthy boundaries is a selfless act: It tells your partner that while you're there to support her, you re...
2024-02-08
30 min
Beyond Success
The Root Cause of Most Dating & Relationship Challenges (Hint: It's Deeper Than You Think)
Most men don't realize that the patterns they see in their relationships almost always trace back to their core insecurities and emotional baggage. This may be hard to hear at first, but it's actually an empowering approach to fixing unhealthy dating patterns. If you constantly find yourself stuck in a cycle of unsatisfying or unfulfilling relationships, instead of searching for quick fixes or dating advice on YouTube, reflect on how your internal psychology is sabotaging your relationships. For example, low self-worth and unresolved trauma actively work to rip your relationship apart from the ins...
2024-02-01
24 min
Beyond Success
How Group Therapeutic Coaching Fast Tracks Your Personal Growth & Development
Imagine a life where you understand yourself and your relationships deeply. Where you're no longer stuck in unfulfilling patterns because you have the tools and the experience to build genuine, lasting connections. Imagine you're confident and skilled in expressing yourself and your needs. You know how to navigate relationships with empathy, compassion, and assertiveness. And when challenges arise, you have the skills and the courage to tackle them head on. While this may seem like a pipe dream for men who have only gone through individual therapy or none at all, it's the reality for th...
2024-01-25
28 min
Beyond Success
Unlocking Emotional Freedom: Stop Repressed Feelings from Ruining Relationships
There's a catch-22 that happens in almost every long-term relationship: The more intimate your relationship becomes, the more it triggers unresolved, unconscious issues. This may explain seemingly random explosions of anger over minor disagreements or waves of sadness and low self-esteem. Despite our wishes, repressing painful emotions doesn't make them disappear into thin air. Instead, they simmer under the surface, and pop up when you least expect it. The problem is, these explosions of repressed trauma can sabotage even the healthiest of relationships. That's the bad news. The good news? ...
2024-01-18
28 min
Beyond Success
The Secret to Building Lasting Passion & Growth in Modern Dating & Relationships
The modern dating scene is responsible for why so many people—both men and women alike—struggle with creating meaningful connections. Dating apps treat love like a slot machine, epitomizing this problem. Then, the red pill movement capitalizes on this, duping you into sacrificing your love life and mental health and worse. But there's a silver lining… Everyone is searching for connection. And by focusing on showing up as your authentic self, you put yourself leagues ahead of other men in the modern dating scene. In this episode, you'll discover why authenticity is crucial...
2024-01-11
22 min
Beyond Success
The 4 Different Attachment Styles & How They Impact Your Relationships
Having an Avoidant Attachment Style—or dating someone with one—can wreak havoc throughout your relationship. It can cause an otherwise healthy relationship that's headed towards marriage and children into utter destruction. Why? Well, people with an Avoidant Attachment Style, while they crave intimacy like everyone else, the more intimate you become, the more fear the avoidant partner feels. But here's the good news: Having an Avoidant Attachment Style isn't a life sentence. In fact, there are ways you can overcome your Avoidant Attachment Style or help your partner deal with theirs...
2024-01-04
34 min
Beyond Success
Emotional Maturity (not Sexual Attraction) is the Key to a Lasting Relationship
When a relationship hinges on sexual attractiveness, it's doomed to fail. Yet despite all the scientific evidence about attractiveness fading over time, the first step most men take when their relationship falters is improving their attractiveness. They think that if only they had a 6-pack or more designer brand clothes that this will magically make their partner fall back in love with them. But nothing is further from the truth. Do you think that an elderly couple still obviously in love with each other is fueled by attraction? Of course not. But still, many men mi...
2023-12-28
33 min
Beyond Success
How To Undo Deep-Seated Repression & Resolve Inner Conflict
There's a pervasive myth in society today, especially among high achievers. And that myth is that repression is a reliable and sustainable tool for success. Why is this myth so pervasive? Well, this strategy sort of works in the short-term, fooling high achievers into thinking that it's a sound strategy. But over time, as your protective parts work harder and harder to repress these nasty emotions, they end up resurfacing and causing more trouble than they ever did. This is what leads to isolation, loneliness, burnout, and a sense that you'll never experience true joy. ...
2023-12-21
32 min
Beyond Success
Breaking Free: Overcome Emotional Repression for Success in Love, Work, and Life
Your emotions are like the GPS to your psyche. They're the signposts that help you lead a life of happiness and fulfillment. But the problem most achievers have is that they've learned to repress their emotions in order to achieve success. This is an insidious Catch 22—by repressing your emotions you cannot fully celebrate your accomplishments. This nasty habit of emotional repression also extends to your dating life and relationships. Repressed emotions deter you from creating deeper connections, plaguing you to a life of loneliness. That's the bad news. The good news? ...
2023-12-14
30 min
Beyond Success
What Makes or Breaks Intimate Connections & Lasting Attraction
Most men lack a certain "skill" that explains many relationship and dating problems modern men have. It explains anxiety before and during dates, emotional isolation when you lose intimacy over time, and it even explains why couples have so many arguments. The skill? Presence. But the problem is, most men think presence only means physical presence. But it means so much more than that. In fact, presence is the key skill to strengthen the bond between partners, enhance your emotional intimacy, build trust, solve conflicts (and de-escalate rising conflicts), and build lasting attraction.
2023-12-07
32 min
Beyond Success
The Truth Behind Marriage and Babies as Relationship Fixes
One of the most damaging societal myths we believe is that marriage or having a baby can fix underlying relationship issues. This myth isn't only misleading, but it creates more significant issues down the road. For example, breaking up is much easier (mentally and financially) than getting a divorce. Bringing a child into this world under the wrong pretenses can burden your children with deep-seated trauma that takes decades to fix. The truth? Marriage and parenthood aren't solutions to your relationship problems. In fact, they heighten these issues. And jumping into marriage or pa...
2023-11-30
32 min
Beyond Success
How To Become More Attractive To Your Wife Or Girlfriend
There's a myth that many guys believe: that looks, status, or wealth are the keys to a lasting relationship. But this isn't true. And if you fall for that myth, you'll wind up in a loveless and eventually boring and sexless relationship. While these attributes might have created that initial spark of attraction for each other, as your relationship matures, other attributes become much more important. In fact, I call these attributes the "Four P's." Besides keeping the fire alive in your long-term relationship, the "Four P's" also create a thriving sex life tha...
2023-11-23
49 min
The DTPHD Podcast by David Tian, Ph.D.
The True Meaning of Life - David Tian's Personal Journey (So Far)
In this interview, you're going to hear me open up in a way that many of my followers have likely not heard before. This video is about my experience of discovering the only thing truly worth living (or dying) for. Unconditional love is a strange concept for a lot of guys. They think they know what "unconditional love" means. But only when you begin to love all your most vulnerable parts unconditionally -- the ones holding the shame, fear, sadness, etc. -- are you then able to love an intimate partner unconditionally. Unconditional...
2021-06-25
12 min
The DTPHD Podcast by David Tian, Ph.D.
How to Know If Your Meditation Is Effective | DTPHD Podcast Episode 34
***** Join the launch of Stefan Ravalli's "Self-Made Mind" here: https://tenshin.mykajabi.com/free-mindfulness-course ***** Join David Tian on the “DTPHD Podcast” as we explore deep questions of meaning, success, truth, love, and the good life. Join our private Facebook group here: https://www.facebook.com/groups/dtphdpodcast/ ***** Get free access to Stefan and David’s new mantra meditation course here: https://www.tenshinmindfulness.com/
2020-09-23
32 min
The DTPHD Podcast by David Tian, Ph.D.
The Achiever’s Curse: Why The Pursuit of Significance is a Dangerous Trap | DTPHD Podcast 33
***** Join David Tian on the “DTPHD Podcast” as we explore deep questions of meaning, success, truth, love, and the good life. Join our private Facebook group here: https://www.facebook.com/groups/dtphdpodcast/ ***** Get free access to Stefan and David’s new mantra meditation course here: https://www.tenshinmindfulness.com/ ***** For over a decade, David Tian, Ph.D., has helped hundreds of thousands of people from over 87 countries find happiness, success, and fulfillment in their social, professional, and love lives. His presentations - whether keynotes, seminars, or worksh...
2020-08-27
54 min
The DTPHD Podcast by David Tian, Ph.D.
What An Unconditional Love Relationship Is Like Between Two True Selves
***** This talk is a short excerpt from a private Zoom seminar in May 2020 as part of the Aura Mastermind. The accompanying text for this seminar is Richard Schwartz, “You Are The One You’ve Been Waiting For”: https://ifs-institute.com/store/37 ***** Join David Tian on the “DTPHD Podcast” as we explore deep questions of meaning, success, truth, love, and the good life. Join our private Facebook group here: https://www.facebook.com/groups/dtphdpodcast/ *****
2020-08-12
1h 09
The DTPHD Podcast by David Tian, Ph.D.
Should You Meditate? | DTPHD Podcast 32
***** Join David Tian on the “DTPHD Podcast” as we explore deep questions of meaning, success, truth, love, and the good life. Join our private Facebook group here: https://www.facebook.com/groups/dtphdpodcast/ ***** Get free access to Stefan and David’s new mantra meditation course here: https://www.tenshinmindfulness.com/ ***** For over a decade, David Tian, Ph.D., has helped hundreds of thousands of people from over 87 countries find happiness, success, and fulfillment in their social, professional, and love lives. His presentations - whether keynotes, seminars, or worksh...
2020-07-28
47 min
The DTPHD Podcast by David Tian, Ph.D.
Your True Self & Your Sub-Personalities: How to Get to Know Your Many Inner Parts
***** This talk was originally filmed in late 2019 in at the W Taipei hotel. ***** Join David Tian on the “DTPHD Podcast” as we explore deep questions of meaning, success, truth, love, and the good life. Join our private Facebook group here: https://www.facebook.com/groups/dtphdpodcast/ ***** For over a decade, David Tian, Ph.D., has helped hundreds of thousands of people from over 87 countries find happiness, success, and fulf...
2020-05-12
42 min
The DTPHD Podcast by David Tian, Ph.D.
Stop Being Needy in Life How to Meet Your Own Needs for Connection in Healthier Ways | DTPHD Podcast 31
***** Join David Tian on the “DTPHD Podcast” as we explore deep questions of meaning, success, truth, love, and the good life. Join our private Facebook group here: https://www.facebook.com/groups/dtphdpodcast/ ***** Get free access to Stefan and David’s new mantra meditation course here: https://www.tenshinmindfulness.com/ ***** For over a decade, David Tian, Ph.D., has helped hundreds of thousands of people from over 87 countries find happiness, success, and fulfillment in their social, professional, and love lives. His presentations - whether keynotes, seminars, or worksh...
2020-04-10
28 min
The DTPHD Podcast by David Tian, Ph.D.
How to Find Certainty in Uncertain Times w/ Henry Chong | DTPHD Podcast 30
***** Join David Tian on the “DTPHD Podcast” as we explore deep questions of meaning, success, truth, love, and the good life. Join our private Facebook group here: https://www.facebook.com/groups/dtphdpodcast/ ***** For over a decade, David Tian, Ph.D., has helped hundreds of thousands of people from over 87 countries find happiness, success, and fulfillment in their social, professional, and love lives. His presentations - whether keynotes, seminars, or workshops - leave clients with insights into their beha...
2020-04-08
26 min
The DTPHD Podcast by David Tian, Ph.D.
Why Judging Isn’t Always Bad w/ Stefan Ravalli | DTPHD Podcast 29
***** Join David Tian on the “DTPHD Podcast” as we explore deep questions of meaning, success, truth, love, and the good life. Join our private Facebook group here: https://www.facebook.com/groups/dtphdpodcast/ ***** Get free access to Stefan and David’s new mantra meditation course here: https://www.tenshinmindfulness.com/ ***** For over a decade, David Tian, Ph.D., has helped hundreds of thousands of people from over 87 countries find happiness, success, and fulfillment in their social, professional, and love lives. His presentations - whether keynotes, seminars, or worksh...
2020-03-27
36 min
The DTPHD Podcast by David Tian, Ph.D.
Gratitude Drives Out Fear (w/ Stefan Ravalli) | DTPHD Podcast 28
***** Join David Tian on the “DTPHD Podcast” as we explore deep questions of meaning, success, truth, love, and the good life. Join our private Facebook group here: https://www.facebook.com/groups/dtphdpodcast/ ***** Get free access to Stefan and David’s new mantra meditation course here: https://www.tenshinmindfulness.com/ ***** For over a decade, David Tian, Ph.D., has helped hundreds of thousands of people from over 87 countries find happiness, success, and fulfillment in their social, professional, and love lives. His presentations - whether keynotes, seminars, or worksh...
2020-03-25
47 min
The DTPHD Podcast by David Tian, Ph.D.
The Practice of Practice: Mindful Training for Success & Happiness w/ Stefan Ravalli | DTPHD Podcast 27
***** Join David Tian on the “DTPHD Podcast” as we explore deep questions of meaning, success, truth, love, and the good life. Join our private Facebook group here: https://www.facebook.com/groups/dtphdpodcast/ ***** Get free access to Stefan and David’s new mantra meditation course here: https://www.tenshinmindfulness.com/ ***** For over a decade, David Tian, Ph.D., has helped hundreds of thousands of people from over 87 countries find happiness, success, and fulfillment in their social, professional, and love lives. His presentations - whether keynotes, seminars, or worksh...
2020-02-21
35 min
The DTPHD Podcast by David Tian, Ph.D.
Physical Fitness & Lifestyle in Your Psychological Healing & Growth w/ Ted Ryce | DTPHD Podcast 26
***** Join David Tian on the “DTPHD Podcast” as we explore deep questions of meaning, success, truth, love, and the good life. Join our private Facebook group here: https://www.facebook.com/groups/dtphdpodcast/ ***** Get free access to Stefan and David’s new mantra meditation course here: https://www.tenshinmindfulness.com/ ***** For over a decade, David Tian, Ph.D., has helped hundreds of thousands of people from over 87 countr...
2020-02-20
50 min
The DTPHD Podcast by David Tian, Ph.D.
How to Grow Out of Your Comfort Zone Naturally (w/ Stefan Ravalli) | DTPHD Podcast 25
***** Join David Tian on the “DTPHD Podcast” as we explore deep questions of meaning, success, truth, love, and the good life. Join our private Facebook group here: https://www.facebook.com/groups/dtphdpodcast/ ***** Get free access to Stefan and David’s new mantra meditation course here: https://www.tenshinmindfulness.com/ ***** For over a decade, David Tian, Ph.D., has helped hundreds of thousands of people from over 87 countries find happiness, success, and fulfillment in their social, professional, and love lives. His presentations - whether keynotes, seminars, or worksh...
2020-01-31
31 min
The DTPHD Podcast by David Tian, Ph.D.
Achievement v. Fulfillment. Significance v. Love. Instrumental v. Intrinsic | DTPHD Podcast 24
***** Join David Tian on the “DTPHD Podcast” as we explore deep questions of meaning, success, truth, love, and the good life. Join our private Facebook group here: https://www.facebook.com/groups/dtphdpodcast/ ***** Get free access to Stefan and David’s new mantra meditation course here: https://www.tenshinmindfulness.com/ ***** For over a decade, David Tian, Ph.D., has helped hundreds of thousands of people from over 87 countr...
2019-12-12
50 min
The DTPHD Podcast by David Tian, Ph.D.
Rewards of a Long-Term Relationship for a Masculine Man | DTPHD Podcast 23
***** Join David Tian on the “DTPHD Podcast” as we explore deep questions of meaning, success, truth, love, and the good life. Join our private Facebook group here: https://www.facebook.com/groups/dtphdpodcast/ ***** For over a decade, David Tian, Ph.D., has helped hundreds of thousands of people from over 87 countries find happiness, success, and fulfillment in their social, professional, and love lives. His presentations - whether keynotes, seminars, or workshops - leave clients with insights into their beha...
2019-11-07
46 min
The DTPHD Podcast by David Tian, Ph.D.
JOKER: The Persona, Shadow, & One-Down Narcissism - A Psychological Analysis | DTPHD Podcast 22
***** This episode is a psychological analysis of the Joker 2019 movie and touches on the shadow, persona, Codependent Narcissism (One-Down Narcissism), and some broader societal issues. Join David Tian on the “DTPHD Podcast” as we explore deep questions of meaning, success, truth, love, and the good life. Join our private Facebook group here: https://www.facebook.com/groups/dtphdpodcast/ NOTE: This the amended version of the video, which originally had synching issues. *****
2019-10-29
1h 05
The DTPHD Podcast by David Tian, Ph.D.
You're Probably A Bit F**k'ed (So Was I) & Here's What To Do About It: The Hidden Power of Recovery
***** In this talk in February 2019 in San Diego -- originally entitled, "The Hidden Power of Recovery for Life & Love" -- I reveal how the underlying insecurities behind our core neediness are the same ones that lead not only to well-known addictions like alcohol, sex, and drug addiction, but also to more socially acceptable addictions like money, fame, social validation, show-off experiences and things, narcissistic ego supply, etc. The same pathway that has left many men unsuccessful with women, dating, relationships, and life overall... is the same thing that the famous 12-step groups seek to heal...
2019-08-13
2h 08
The DTPHD Podcast by David Tian, Ph.D.
Good v. Evil, Light v. Dark Triad, PUAs & Red Pill: Morality in the Survival of the Fittest
***** "Good vs. Evil, Light vs. Dark Triad: The Evolution of Morality" was part of a full-day seminar I gave at the Intercontinental Resort Bali on 1 June 2019. In this keynote talk to a group of private coaching clients, I give my personal perspective on the age-old question of "Why be moral?" informed by evolutionary psychology, Asian and Western philosophy, clinical psychology, and life experience. The talk begins with an examination of the Light Triad scale proposed by Scott Barry Kaufman as a counterpoint to the Dark Triad. I then argue...
2019-07-15
1h 33
The DTPHD Podcast by David Tian, Ph.D.
How To Get Yourself To Take Action | DTPHD Podcast 21
***** Join David Tian on the “DTPHD Podcast” as we explore deep questions of meaning, success, truth, love, and the good life. Join our private Facebook group here: https://www.facebook.com/groups/dtphdpodcast/ NOTE: This the amended version of the video, which originally had synching issues. ***** For over a decade, David Tian, Ph.D., has helped hundreds of thousands of people from over 87 countries find happiness, success, and fulfillment in their social, professional, and love lives. His presentations - whether keynotes, seminars, or workshops - leave clients with insights into...
2019-06-11
58 min
The DTPHD Podcast by David Tian, Ph.D.
Values, Virtues, Vice, and Dating: Ethics as the Missing Link to Love, Happiness, & the Good Life
***** "Values, Virtues, Vice, and Dating" is part of a full-day seminar I gave at the Le Meridien Bangkok on 8 December 2018. In this keynote talk to a group of private coaching clients, I reveal how morality is the missing piece in the puzzle of dating, mating, love, happiness, and life overall. I also propose a virtue ethical approach to life and values, informed by a deeper understanding of moral philosophy from both eastern and western traditions. And I argue that we evolved a moral sense as an adaptive mechanism for forming smarter, more efficient, more trustworthy...
2019-03-21
1h 43
The DTPHD Podcast by David Tian, Ph.D.
How Enlightened Hypocrisy is the Key to Joy & Success | DTPHD Podcast 20
***** Join David Tian on the “DTPHD Podcast” as we explore deep questions of meaning, success, truth, love, and the good life. Join our private Facebook group here: https://www.facebook.com/groups/dtphdpodcast/ ***** For over a decade, David Tian, Ph.D., has helped hundreds of thousands of people from over 87 countries find happiness, success, and fulfillment in their social, professional, and love lives. His presentations - whether keynotes, seminars, or workshops - leave clients with insights into their behavior, psychology, and keys to their empowerment. His training methodologies are the...
2019-03-12
32 min
The DTPHD Podcast by David Tian, Ph.D.
"You Are Enough" - A Message To Achievers
***** So many of us are afraid that if we stop beating ourselves up, forcing ourselves to strive and achieve… that we’ll then just end up being lazy bums. And some of us are so afraid of failing that we don’t even try, we just procrastinate forever… because we fear that if we fail, it would *prove* that we’re not worthy. But, what if you were to stop all striving, all working so hard to gain what you already have, how would your life...
2018-10-24
04 min
The DTPHD Podcast by David Tian, Ph.D.
Develop Smarter Heuristics to Succeed in Life | DTPHD Podcast 19
***** Join David Tian on the “DTPHD Podcast” as we explore deep questions of meaning, success, truth, love, and the good life. Join our private Facebook group here: https://www.facebook.com/groups/dtphdpodcast/ ***** For over a decade, David Tian, Ph.D., has helped hundreds of thousands of people from over 87 countries find happiness, success, and fulfillment in their social, professional, and love lives. His presentations - whether keynotes, seminars, or workshops - leave clients with insights into their behavior, psychology, and keys to their empowerment. His training methodologies are the...
2018-09-24
50 min
The DTPHD Podcast by David Tian, Ph.D.
Mindfulness or Mantra Meditation: What’s the Difference? | DTPHD Podcast 18
***** Join David Tian on the “DTPHD Podcast” as we explore deep questions of meaning, success, truth, love, and the good life. For the show notes, go here: https://www.davidtianphd.com/podcast/mindfulness-or-mantra-meditation/ Join our private Facebook group here: https://www.facebook.com/groups/dtphdpodcast/ ***** For over a decade, David Tian, Ph.D., has helped hundreds of thousands of people from over 87 countries find happiness, success, and fulfillment in their social, professional, and love lives. His presentations - whether keynotes, seminars, or workshops - leave clients with insights into thei...
2018-09-18
45 min
The DTPHD Podcast by David Tian, Ph.D.
Why You Should Be Antifragile & Not Just Strong | DTPHD Podcast 17
***** Join David Tian on the “DTPHD Podcast” as we explore deep questions of meaning, success, truth, love, and the good life. Join our private Facebook group here: https://www.facebook.com/groups/dtphdpodcast/ ***** For over a decade, David Tian, Ph.D., has helped hundreds of thousands of people from over 87 countries find happiness, success, and fulfillment in their social, professional, and love lives. His presentations - whether keynotes, seminars, or workshops - leave clients with insights into their beha...
2018-08-29
53 min
The DTPHD Podcast by David Tian, Ph.D.
The #1 Secret to Happiness | David Tian, Ph.D.
***** This 80-year Harvard study found the key to happiness… …isn’t in more money or luxuries… or in being popular or high status… or in how physically fit or healthy or intelligent you are. Rather, the most important factor for a happy life is… Watch this video for the answer! It’s so easy to get caught up in things that aren’t meaningful. I hope this video reminds people of the one thing that truly matters. I’m also proud to shar...
2018-08-01
06 min
The DTPHD Podcast by David Tian, Ph.D.
How The Vantage Point of Trust Helps You Succeed | DTPHD Podcast 16
***** Join David Tian on the “DTPHD Podcast” as we explore deep questions of meaning, success, truth, love, and the good life. Join our private Facebook group here: https://www.facebook.com/groups/dtphdpodcast/ (This video experienced technical issues during recording.) ***** For over a decade, David Tian, Ph.D., has helped hundreds of thousands of people from over 87 countries find happiness, success, and fulfillment in their social, professional, and love lives. His presentations - whether keynotes, seminars, or workshops - leave clients with insights into their behavior, psychology, and keys to t...
2018-07-12
54 min
The DTPHD Podcast by David Tian, Ph.D.
What Limits Your Development? The Invisible Asymptotes of Your Life | DTPHD Podcast 15
***** Join David Tian on the “DTPHD Podcast” as we explore deep questions of meaning, success, truth, love, and the good life. For the show notes, go here: https://www.davidtianphd.com/podcast/what-limits-your-development/ Join our private Facebook group here: https://www.facebook.com/groups/dtphdpodcast/ (This video experienced technical issues during recording.) ***** For over a decade, David Tian, Ph.D., has helped hundreds of thousands of people from over 87 countries find happiness, success, and fulfillment in their social, professional, and love lives. His presentations - whether keynotes, semi...
2018-07-10
48 min
The DTPHD Podcast by David Tian, Ph.D.
Is Love Enough? Why Passionate Love Becomes Toxic
***** You can find Parts 2-4 of this series in the "Secret for a Successful Relationship" FREE Masterclass available here: https://www.davidtianphd.com/masterclass Most of the world has idealized "love" as the solution to all life's problems, but their lives are still messed up because they lack a clear, realistic, and accurate understanding of what "love" actually is, where it comes from, and what it does. This is the first part in a multi-part series called, "The Secret for a Successful Relationship."...
2018-06-11
1h 08
The DTPHD Podcast by David Tian, Ph.D.
Practical Psychology for Extraordinary Living 4: Your Inner Child, True Self, & Inner Critic
***** "Practical Psychology for Extraordinary Living" is a special seminar series continuing the themes explored in the "Modern Mating Explained" video series, exploring the practical implications of deeper reflection on psychology for the art of living. ***** For over a decade, David Tian, Ph.D., has helped hundreds of thousands of people from over 87 countries find happiness, success, and fulfillment in their social, professional, and love lives. His presentations - whether keynotes, seminars, or workshops - leave clients with insights into their behavior, psychology, and keys...
2018-05-23
57 min
The DTPHD Podcast by David Tian, Ph.D.
The Key To Focus: The Power Of Your Primary Question | DTPHD Podcast 14
***** Join David Tian on the “DTPHD Podcast” as we explore deep questions of meaning, success, truth, love, and the good life. For the show notes, go here: https://www.davidtianphd.com/podcast/the-key-to-focus/ Join our private Facebook group here: https://www.facebook.com/groups/dtphdpodcast/ (This video experienced technical issues during recording.) ***** For over a decade, David Tian, Ph.D., has helped hundreds of thousands of people from over 87 countries find happiness, success, and fulfillment in their social, professional, and love lives. His presentations - whether keynotes, semi...
2018-05-21
44 min
The DTPHD Podcast by David Tian, Ph.D.
Goodness over Pleasure | David Tian, Ph.D.
***** I learned this important life lesson from Star Trek :P ... If you want lasting fulfillment in life, choose goodness and truth over pleasure. Choose the truth and the good over feelings. ***** For over a decade, David Tian, Ph.D., has helped hundreds of thousands of people from over 87 countries find happiness, success, and fulfillment in their social, professional, and love lives. His presentations - whether keynotes, seminars, or workshops - leave clients with insights into their behavior, psychology, and keys to their empowerment.
2018-05-08
04 min
The DTPHD Podcast by David Tian, Ph.D.
Seek Good Character: A Reminder To Us All
***** Study good character. Decide which character traits are most important to you. Learn the signs of good character. And study harder to learn how manipulative people mimic these traits when they don’t actually possess them. Discern clearly and without apology. Recognise your own immaturity. Actively work to heal, grow, and mature. But never let your partner convince you to consider your own personal flaws as a valid reason to overlook theirs.
2018-04-26
01 min
The DTPHD Podcast by David Tian, Ph.D.
Love vs. Freedom: To Love is to be Vulnerable | David Tian
***** For most of my adult life, I valued freedom and autonomy above all else. But as I matured, I discovered something even more important was missing... Love anything and your heart will be wrung and possibly broken. If you want to make sure of keeping it intact, you must give it to no one. Ultimate freedom entails freedom from attachments, anything that could tie you down and make you vulnerable to hurt or sadness. Think of the image of a self-reliant man in the wilderness, independent, autonomous, free.
2018-04-26
05 min
The DTPHD Podcast by David Tian, Ph.D.
Living in the Present: A Challenge to Think Smaller
***** Most people live their whole lives perpetually in pursuit of the rainbow’s end, never brave, nor kind, nor happy NOW… but always putting off into the Future all the gratitude, appreciation, or enjoyment offered them in the Present. ***** For over a decade, David Tian, Ph.D., has helped hundreds of thousands of people from over 87 countries find happiness, success, and fulfillment in their social, professional, and love lives. His presentations - whether keynotes, seminars, or workshops - leave clients with insights into their beha...
2018-04-26
02 min
The DTPHD Podcast by David Tian, Ph.D.
Does Toxic #MeToo Violate Men's Boundaries? | David Tian, Ph.D.
***** When the #metoo movement became toxic, it violated emotional boundaries. Many think Boundaries are just about preventing people from taking advantage of you. Like, your mom shouldn’t be interfering in your dispute at work. Or your patient shouldn’t be showing up at your kid’s birthday party. Or you shouldn’t just let strangers invade your private space. But that’s not the most important definition of Boundaries in psychology. Healthy psychological boundaries mean that you take full responsibility for your actions and emotions… and do not take responsibility for the acti...
2018-04-26
02 min
The DTPHD Podcast by David Tian, Ph.D.
"You're just an ANT!" he said - How Not To Be Intimidated By Those You Want To Impress
***** He told me, "You're just an ant!" And from this, I learned how not to be intimidated by people I want to impress. Sure, you can trick people in the short-term. But if you want your life to go well in the long run, be open and forthright. If they’re worthy of impressing, then they should be able to see right through your attempts to impress them. So just assume they can see everything, and be transparent and honest with them and most importantly, with yourself.
2018-04-26
05 min
The DTPHD Podcast by David Tian, Ph.D.
Has #Metoo Become Toxic? Thoughts on Tony Robbins, Aziz Ansari, & The Aims Of #Metoo | DTPHD Podcast 13
***** Join David Tian on the “DTPHD Podcast” as we explore deep questions of meaning, success, truth, love, and the good life. For the show notes, go here: https://www.davidtianphd.com/podcast/metoo-become-toxic/ Join our private Facebook group here: https://www.facebook.com/groups/dtphdpodcast/ ***** For over a decade, David Tian, Ph.D., has helped hundreds of thousands of people from over 87 countries find happiness, success, and fulfillment in their social, professional, and love...
2018-04-26
1h 13
The DTPHD Podcast by David Tian, Ph.D.
Practical Psychology for Extraordinary Living 3: Your True Self
***** "Practical Psychology for Extraordinary Living" is a special seminar series continuing the themes explored in the "Modern Mating Explained" video series, exploring the practical implications of deeper reflection on psychology for the art of living. ***** For over a decade, David Tian, Ph.D., has helped hundreds of thousands of people from over 87 countries find happiness, success, and fulfillment in their social, professional, and love lives. His presentations - whether keynotes, seminars, or workshops - leave clients with insights into their behavior, psychology, and keys...
2018-04-23
1h 16
The DTPHD Podcast by David Tian, Ph.D.
You are a Hotel A Powerful Metaphor for Dating and Relationship Success DTPHD Podcast 12
***** Join David Tian on the “DTPHD Podcast” as we explore deep questions of meaning, success, truth, love, and the good life. For the show notes, go here: https://www.davidtianphd.com/podcast/you-are-a-hotel/ Join our private Facebook group here: https://www.facebook.com/groups/dtphdpodcast/ ***** For over a decade, David Tian, Ph.D., has helped hundreds of thousands of people from over 87 countries find happiness, success, and fulfillment in their social, professional, and love...
2018-04-09
40 min
The DTPHD Podcast by David Tian, Ph.D.
The Meaning of Life & Death 4: On Becker’s “Denial of Death” (Pt. 4/4)
***** "The Meaning of Life & Death" is a special seminar series inspired by Ernest Becker's Pulitzer Prize-winning book, "Denial of Death." The series comes from footage taken during a day-long session from an Aura Mastermind gathering in New York City. This seminar series explores the themes of life purpose, the meaning of life, the search for immortality, and the significance of death in human psychology and cultures. This video series was also a bonus component in the 8-week course "Lifestyle Mastery," which examines the purpose of life and many other...
2018-04-02
47 min
The DTPHD Podcast by David Tian, Ph.D.
The Meaning of Life & Death 3: On Becker’s “Denial of Death” (Pt. 3)
***** "The Meaning of Life & Death" is a special seminar series inspired by Ernest Becker's Pulitzer Prize-winning book, "Denial of Death." The series comes from footage taken during a day-long session from an Aura Mastermind gathering in New York City. This seminar series explores the themes of life purpose, the meaning of life, the search for immortality, and the significance of death in human psychology and cultures. This video series was also a bonus component in the 8-week course "Lifestyle Mastery," which examines the purpose of life and many other...
2018-04-02
56 min
The DTPHD Podcast by David Tian, Ph.D.
The Meaning of Life & Death 2: On Becker's "Denial of Death" (Pt. 2)
***** "The Meaning of Life & Death" is a special seminar series inspired by Ernest Becker's Pulitzer Prize-winning book, "Denial of Death." The series comes from footage taken during a day-long session from an Aura Mastermind gathering in New York City. This seminar series explores the themes of life purpose, the meaning of life, the search for immortality, and the significance of death in human psychology and cultures. This video series was also a bonus component in the 8-week course "Lifestyle Mastery," which examines the purpose of life and many other...
2018-03-20
1h 04
The DTPHD Podcast by David Tian, Ph.D.
The Meaning of Life & Death: On Becker's "Denial of Death" 1
***** "The Meaning of Life & Death" is a special seminar series inspired by Ernest Becker's Pulitzer Prize-winning book, "Denial of Death." The series comes from footage taken during a day-long session from an Aura Mastermind gathering in New York City. This seminar series explores the themes of life purpose, the meaning of life, the search for immortality, and the significance of death in human psychology and cultures. This video series was also a bonus component in the 8-week course "Lifestyle Mastery," which examines the purpose of life and many other...
2018-03-19
53 min
The DTPHD Podcast by David Tian, Ph.D.
Practical Psychology for Extraordinary Living 2: Neurosis, Your Inner Child, & Grief Work
***** "Practical Psychology for Extraordinary Living" is a special seminar series continuing the themes explored in the "Modern Mating Explained" video series, exploring the practical implications of deeper reflection on psychology for the art of living. ***** For over a decade, David Tian, Ph.D., has helped hundreds of thousands of people from over 87 countries find happiness, success, and fulfillment in their social, professional, and love lives. His presentations - whether keynotes, seminars, or workshops - leave clients with insights into their behavior, psychology, and keys...
2018-03-09
1h 06
The DTPHD Podcast by David Tian, Ph.D.
Modern Mating Explained 4: The Achiever, Pleaser, Rebel, Recluse Neurotic Relationship Strategies
***** "Modern Mating Explained" is a special seminar series that explores the deeper psychological bases for mating in the modern world. ***** For over a decade, David Tian, Ph.D., has helped hundreds of thousands of people from over 87 countries find happiness, success, and fulfillment in their social, professional, and love lives. His presentations - whether keynotes, seminars, or workshops - leave clients with insights into their behavior, psychology, and keys to their empowerment. His training methodologies are the result of over a decade...
2018-03-06
55 min
The DTPHD Podcast by David Tian, Ph.D.
Masculine - Feminine Polarity, Energy, & Gender Identity | DTPHD Podcast 11
***** Join David Tian on the “DTPHD Podcast” as we explore deep questions of meaning, success, truth, love, and the good life. Access the show notes here: https://www.davidtianphd.com/podcast/masculine-feminine-polarity/ Join our private Facebook group here: https://www.facebook.com/groups/dtphdpodcast/ ***** For over a decade, David Tian, Ph.D., has helped hundreds of thousands of people from over 87 countries find happiness, success, and fulfillment in their social, professional, and love lives. His presentations - whether keynotes, seminars, or workshops - leave clients with insights into their beha...
2018-03-02
54 min
The DTPHD Podcast by David Tian, Ph.D.
Personas, Radical Feminism, & Men’s Anger | DTPHD Podcast 10
***** Join David Tian on the “DTPHD Podcast” as we explore deep questions of meaning, success, truth, love, and the good life. Access the show notes here: https://www.davidtianphd.com/podcast/personas-feminism-anger/ Join our private Facebook group here: https://www.facebook.com/groups/dtphdpodcast/ ***** For over a decade, David Tian, Ph.D., has helped hundreds of thousands of people from over 87 countries find happiness, success, and fulfillment in their social, professional, and love...
2018-03-01
57 min
The DTPHD Podcast by David Tian, Ph.D.
Practical Psychology for Extraordinary Living 1: Toxic Shame & The Courage of Vulnerability
***** "Practical Psychology for Extraordinary Living" is a special seminar series continuing the themes explored in the "Modern Mating Explained" video series, exploring the practical implications of deeper reflection on psychology for the art of living. ***** For over a decade, David Tian, Ph.D., has helped hundreds of thousands of people from over 87 countries find happiness, success, and fulfillment in their social, professional, and love lives. His presentations - whether keynotes, seminars, or workshops - leave clients with insights into their behavior, psychology, and keys...
2018-03-01
1h 11
The DTPHD Podcast by David Tian, Ph.D.
The right way to think about your goals | DTPHD Podcast 9
***** Join David Tian on the “DTPHD Podcast” as we explore deep questions of meaning, success, truth, love, and the good life. Access the show notes here: https://www.davidtianphd.com/podcast/think-about-your-goals/ Join our private Facebook group here: https://www.facebook.com/groups/dtphdpodcast/ ***** For over a decade, David Tian, Ph.D., has helped hundreds of thousands of people from over 87 countries find happiness, success, and fulfillment in their social, professional, and love...
2018-03-01
26 min
The DTPHD Podcast by David Tian, Ph.D.
How to guarantee you take action on your goals | DTPHD Podcast 8
***** Join David Tian on the “DTPHD Podcast” as we explore deep questions of meaning, success, truth, love, and the good life. Access the show notes here: https://www.davidtianphd.com/podcast/take-action-on-your-goals/ Join our private Facebook group here: https://www.facebook.com/groups/dtphdpodcast/ ***** For over a decade, David Tian, Ph.D., has helped hundreds of thousands of people from over 87 countries find happiness, success, and fulfillment in their social, professional, and love lives. His presentations - whether keynotes, seminars, or workshops - leave clients with insights into their beha...
2018-03-01
36 min
The DTPHD Podcast by David Tian, Ph.D.
Principles vs. How-to Tactics | DTPHD Podcast 6
***** Join David Tian on the “DTPHD Podcast” as we explore deep questions of meaning, success, truth, love, and the good life. Access the show notes here: https://www.davidtianphd.com/podcast/how-to-tactics/ Join our private Facebook group here: https://www.facebook.com/groups/dtphdpodcast/ ***** For over a decade, David Tian, Ph.D., has helped hundreds of thousands of people from over 87 countries find happiness, success, and fulfillment in their social, professional, and love lives. His presentations - whether keynotes, seminars, or workshops - leave clients with insights into their beha...
2018-02-01
34 min
The DTPHD Podcast by David Tian, Ph.D.
Why the Android Approach to Life & Learning Is the Biggest Problem | DTPHD Podcast 7
***** Join David Tian on the “DTPHD Podcast” as we explore deep questions of meaning, success, truth, love, and the good life. Access the show notes here: https://www.davidtianphd.com/podcast/android-approach-to-life/ Join our private Facebook group here: https://www.facebook.com/groups/dtphdpodcast/ ***** For over a decade, David Tian, Ph.D., has helped hundreds of thousands of people from over 87 countries find happiness, success, and fulfillment in their social, professional, and love...
2018-02-01
25 min
The DTPHD Podcast by David Tian, Ph.D.
Modern Mating Explained 1: Growth & Maturity for Reformed Players & PUAs (Pick Up Artists)
***** "Modern Mating Explained" is a special seminar series that explores the deeper psychological bases for mating in the modern world. ***** For over a decade, David Tian, Ph.D., has helped hundreds of thousands of people from over 87 countries find happiness, success, and fulfillment in their social, professional, and love lives. His presentations - whether keynotes, seminars, or workshops - leave clients with insights into their behavior, psychology, and keys to their empowerment. His training methodologies are the result of...
2018-02-01
57 min
The DTPHD Podcast by David Tian, Ph.D.
What Does A Successful Relationship Look Like? | DTPHD Podcast 5
***** Join David Tian on the “DTPHD Podcast” as we explore deep questions of meaning, success, truth, love, and the good life. Access the show notes here: https://www.davidtianphd.com/podcast/successful-relationship/ Join our private Facebook group here: https://www.facebook.com/groups/dtphdpodcast/ ***** For over a decade, David Tian, Ph.D., has helped hundreds of thousands of people from over 87 countries find happiness, success, and fulfillment in their social, professional, and love...
2018-01-16
27 min
The DTPHD Podcast by David Tian, Ph.D.
Relationship Communication Tips And Why They Don’t Matter Much | DTPHD Podcast 2
***** Join David Tian on the “DTPHD Podcast” as we explore deep questions of meaning, success, truth, love, and the good life. Access the show notes here: https://www.davidtianphd.com/podcast/relationship-communication-tips/ Join our private Facebook group here: https://www.facebook.com/groups/dtphdpodcast/ ***** For over a decade, David Tian, Ph.D., has helped hundreds of thousands of people from over 87 countries find happiness, success, and fulfillment in their social, professional, and love live...
2018-01-04
23 min
The DTPHD Podcast by David Tian, Ph.D.
Status, Status Anxiety, Success & Life Fulfillment: How Are They All Related? | DTPHD Podcast 3
***** Join David Tian on the “DTPHD Podcast” as we explore deep questions of meaning, success, truth, love, and the good life. Access the show notes here: https://www.davidtianphd.com/podcast/status-anxiety/ Join our private Facebook group here: https://www.facebook.com/groups/dtphdpodcast/ ***** For over a decade, David Tian, Ph.D., has helped hundreds of thousands of people from over 87 countries find happiness, success, and fulfillment in their social, professional, and love lives. His presentations - whether keynotes, seminars, or workshops - leave clients with insights into their beha...
2018-01-04
49 min
The DTPHD Podcast by David Tian, Ph.D.
Motivation, Discipline, Drive, Success – What’s the Truth? | DTPHD Podcast 4 with Henry Chong
***** Join David Tian on the “DTPHD Podcast” as we explore deep questions of meaning, success, truth, love, and the good life. Access the show notes here: https://www.davidtianphd.com/podcast/motivation-discipline-drive/ Join our private Facebook group here: https://www.facebook.com/groups/dtphdpodcast/ ***** For over a decade, David Tian, Ph.D., has helped hundreds of thousands of people from over 87 countries find happiness, success, and fulfillment in their social, professional, and love lives. His presentations - whether keynotes, seminars, or workshops - leave clients with insights into their beha...
2018-01-04
38 min
The DTPHD Podcast by David Tian, Ph.D.
David Tian & Henry Chong On How To Be Happy, Wealthy, & Wise | DTPHD Podcast 1
***** Join David Tian on the “DTPHD Podcast” as we explore deep questions of meaning, success, truth, love, and the good life. ***** For over a decade, David Tian, Ph.D., has helped hundreds of thousands of people from over 87 countries find happiness, success, and fulfillment in their social, professional, and love lives. His presentations - whether keynotes, seminars, or workshops - leave clients with insights into their behavior, psychology, and keys to their empowerment. His training methodologies are the result of over a decade of coaching, therapy, and education of thousands of stud...
2018-01-04
47 min