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Pick Your BattlesBattle of Finances During DivorceSince Dayna did her interview with Sarah alone, it's Kaela's turn to take the mic and chat with her "other half"...Jamie! In this episode, Kaela dives into the finances of it all. Who pays for travel baseball? If the kids are 3 years old today...who the hell pays for college 15 years down the road?! Find out here!2025-05-1429 min
Pick Your BattlesBattle of Contemplating DivorceThis is an episode about the "D word"...divorce.This episode Dayna chats with Sarah from Jacob’s Berger Family Law Firm in New Jersey. They talk about all aspects of family law, specializing in divorce and much more. Dayna asks about the ins and outs of being in this field of work, what’s the rewarding and hard parts of the job. As well as some tips for making co-parenting a little easier. Whether you know someone going through a divorce or going through this yourself, some of these questions are great to k...2025-04-3041 min
Pick Your BattlesBattle of Taking Road Trips with KidsIT'S SEASON 3 BABY!Thank you to all of our listeners who have been around since Season 1 Episode 1,c and those who are listening for the first time today. This is out fun little passion project and we are so thankful for another season dedicated to picking our battles. This episode, were chatting about ROAD TRIPS. Kaela and her husband, Zander, took the kids to visit their Aunt and Uncle in Florida over spring break. Rather than spend an arm and a leg for plane tickets, they risked their sanity and decided to drive! 2025-04-1622 min
Pick Your BattlesBattle of Being a Single MomBeing a parent isn't easy, and being a SINGLE parent, certainly takes the cake. On this episode of Pick Your Battles, we have the pleasure of talking with Erin, a single mom of two boys who is also a mental health nurse practitioner in south Jersey. Erin opens up about her navigating having two different fathers to her boys, co-parenting with them (or lack-there-of) and what she does to set boundaries and give herself some time to focus on her. She also recently started her own business called Reign Over Struggles where she provides help and guidance...2025-04-0228 min
Pick Your BattlesBattle of Posting Your Kids on Social MediaTo post or not to post? That is the question. Social media is such a huge part of today's society, you really cant escape it. However, you can shelter your children from it. In a previous episode we talked about the "appropriate" ages for kids to be on social media. This episode, we're focusing on whether or not parents post their children on social media. With outside opinions and insights from Paula at The Balanced Mom, Candace Monacelli (a former west MI meteorologist), Krissy Bold from Mom Identity Project and more!...2025-03-1929 min
Pick Your BattlesBattle of the TrollsYou know you've "made it" when the trolls come out to comment on your shit...right?? If that's the case, count us as "MADE IT" because that's exactly what happened. Dayna created (what we thought) a very funny video that landed on the wrong side of TikTok. Those finger warriors had a lot to say about her parenting or lack thereof, and that CPS should pay her a visit?? We are counting this as a milestone achieved as well as gaining over 1,000 followers on Instagram and a tease when it comes to some PYB merch!!...2025-03-0516 min
Pick Your BattlesBattle of Growing a Podcast (and celebrating 80 episodes!)We have hit some big milestones recently including....drum roll.... HITTING 80 EPISODES! That's wild! Although this is a short one, we wanted to make sure we celebrate with everyone and give you a look into all the work we have been doing, and of course the battles we picked, to get to this point. Thank you to all of our listeners, our social media followers, and our friends and family who are supporting us along the way! Here's to 80 more!Just remember - it's ok to pick your battles, and it's ok if you pick the wrong...2025-02-2605 min
Pick Your BattlesBattle of the Sick SeasonLet’s hear it parents, how long has your family been sick this season? Whether it’s Influenza, Covid, RSV, you name it- it’s been rough! This episode Dayna and Kaela chat about the sickness that ran through their families, days out of school and more. We’re (not so) patiently waiting until spring and will gladly take the spring time allergies! 2025-02-1922 min
Pick Your BattlesBattle of New Technology for Babies- Part 2The Elora is a smart baby monitor that is revolutionizing the way we gather and use AI technology when it comes to parenting! Founder and CEO of Littleone.care, Ami Meoded, join us for part two where we further dive into the AI technology that is used in this baby monitor and how beneficial it can be for parents! This revolutionary baby wellness monitor is a revolutionary way to provide an added sense of security for parents and also provide data that parents can use daily. Thank you to Ami and everyone at...2025-02-0522 min
Pick Your BattlesBattle of New Technology for BabiesThe Elora is a smart baby monitor that is revolutionizing the way we gather and use AI technology when it comes to parenting! Fouder and CEO of Littleone.care, Ami Meoded, joins the show all the way from Tel Aviv, Israel and explains how the technology works, how parents and caregivers can use the data and information as a partner to parenting, and how the device got it's name and logo! This is a two-parter, so stay tuned for part 2, coming out soon! In the meantime, follow the links below to learn more about Littleone.care and...2025-01-2227 min
Pick Your BattlesBattle of Winter BreakParents, how did you survive winter break? Whether you battle with working from home, a SAHM with all the kids home, or need to hire a sitter…sometimes it just feels like you’re surviving until school is back in session. The holidays are so crazy, but those moments spent with family and friends are so precious. Our kids are still young enough where the holidays are magical, and it’s such a special time. Listen in to see how Dayna and Kaela spent their winter break! 2025-01-0826 min
Pick Your BattlesBattle of Holiday TraditionsThe holidays are marketed as a joyous time or a time to laugh and be together. But let's be honest, it's usually filled with stress, driving from place to place, and being annoyed by people. Hopefully we can all make an effort to enjoy the time together and respect other's choices and healthy boundaries, like Kaela talks about! Also, what about the Elf on the Shelf?? Did your family commit to this tradition?2024-12-0515 min
Pick Your BattlesBattle of Kids in SportsIt’s here…. Dayna has found herself in the land of children’s sports. What kind of parent is she going to be? The loud, mouthy one? The supportive and easy going one? Listen in as Dayna shares what sports Wyatt is currently interested in and hoe they are helping to foster that relationship to continue his love of sports! 2024-10-3024 min
Pick Your BattlesBattle of the First Days of SchoolDoes anyone else feel like the summer flew by? And now we’re already over a month into the school year… mind blown! This year Wyatt and Maesyn both started preschool, so we chat about what that transition has been like. From early mornings, meltdowns and some great stories to tease Wyatt about for the rest of his life. 2024-10-1629 min
Pick Your BattlesBattle of Habits From Other KidsImagine this - you're at the park and your child found an instant-bestie. Amazing, right? Only problem is, now they using words and saying things they never have and don't in your home. To make things more difficult, you were getting along with the parents at the park while they were playing. What would you do?? Kaela ran into this very problem recently...listen to find out what she did and what Dayna would do.2024-09-2627 min
Pick Your BattlesBattle of Talking About Puberty - Part 2With more information than we could stuff into one episode, we’re back for part two! Talking about puberty can be so awkward and uncomfortable. Yes, they touch on it in middle school- but there’s so much more for our kids to know. What conversations can we have, as parents, to help prepare our kids along the way? Also touching on what chemicals we should stay away from and look for in our daily self care products. A huge thanks to Kimberly Grustas, founder of Good For You Girls, for joining us and teaching us s...2024-09-1128 min
Pick Your BattlesBattle of Talking About Puberty - Part 1This episode we tackle a topic we’ve had on our list since the very beginning- puberty!With special guest Kimberly Grustas, founder of Good For You Girls cosmetics, sharing her expertise on hormones and tackling these conversations. We are so grateful to Kim for talking with such passion about her products and sharing her knowledge with us. Stay tuned for part two- where we will ask more questions and dive deeper into these conversations! 2024-08-2829 min
Pick Your BattlesBattle of Summer ShenanigansIt’s been a wild summer! From traveling with Kaela’s two toddlers, to Wyatt’s dental mishaps- these kids have kept us on our toes. Dayna & Kaela will be lounging on a beach, with a drink in their hands, when this episode airs- for a well deserved all inclusive vacation! Don’t forget to follow us on social media and subscribe on whatever platform you listen to our episodes! 2024-08-1432 min
Pick Your BattlesBattle of Writing A Children's BookWho doesn't love an adorable children's book?! Well, "Welcome to Winterberry Grove" is just that! Linda, the author and in all sense of the term 'brainchild' of this book series, reached out to us to be interviewed and it turns out that her story, and the story of Clover the mouse, is one of a kind. Order your copy of "Welcome to Winterberry Grove" below!https://www.amazon.com/Welcome-Winterberry-Grove-Linda-Updyke/dp/196301300X/ref=sr_1_1?crid=27A1AYQEXM8B2&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.bBJMylh-mIgPtjzZZwuLGA.r4ykwxRrWAGB9QKmYAQA4C4ml0fI3WMherTqxOOtJmw&dib_tag=se&keywords=welcome+to+...2024-07-1723 min
Pick Your BattlesBattle of the Sh*t Kids SayThere’s always some level of unpredictability that comes with raising a toddler. The unknown of what the hell is going to come out of their mouth, is one of them. Have you ever been in a public place and your child says just about the most mortifying thing you can imagine? Yeah, us too! How do you handle it? Laugh, make it a learning moment, ignore it completely? Whatever your tactic may be- we’re right there with you…crossing our fingers and hoping our kids don’t say some embarrassing sh*t, too. 2024-06-1925 min
Pick Your BattlesBattle of Pediatric CancerGrab you tissues friends...Although this episode is a tough one to talk about, it's an important one. Pediatric cancer is a parent's biggest fear. Getting a diagnosis like that can feel like your world is caving in, and our guests on this episode, Griffin and Britt Coxe, know that feeling all too well. Their daughter Perry (such a cute name by the way) was diagnosed with a Wilms tumor on her right kidney when she was almost 5 years old. Thankfully, Perry made it through 49 weeks of chemo and radiation to help her beat cancer, but we...2024-05-2935 min
Pick Your BattlesBattle of Being a Stay at Home MomWe hope everyone felt pampered on Mother’s Day! This episode we not only touch base on our Mother’s Day, but also Kaelas “newish” role as a Stay At Home Mom. All the good, bad and ugly! Don’t forget to subscribe on your preferred listening platform so you don’t miss any upcoming episodes. 2024-05-1529 min
Pick Your BattlesBattle of Traveling with ToddlersRaise your hands if you have traveled with toddlers. Now raise your hands if it was fun and enjoyable. Anyone? No? Yeah, we didn't think so. In this episode, Kaela talks about her trip flying from Michigan to Florida to visit her brother and sister-in-law and Dayna recalls the work trip she took with Wyatt flying out to California. Buckle up...there will be some turbulence here! 2024-02-2928 min
Pick Your BattlesBattle of Hosting for the HolidaysHappy 2024!!We hope you all had a great holiday season and are off to a fabulous start of the new year! It is no secret that the holidays are the most stressful time of the year. Whether you are traveling around to every family member's house or hosting and having all of those family members come to you - it's tough. Kaela hosted for the first time in her beautifully renovated house and Dayna traveled to her in-laws despite being in the process of moving out of their house and moving to an apartment.2024-01-1822 min
Pick Your BattlesBattle of DAYNA Deciding to MoveAs if we don't have enough going on...but since we last talked to you guys...DAYNA decided to jump on the "sell our house" bandwagon! There were lots of little battles within this process like having to keep a. house in prestine condition because there could be a showing at any time, or being willing to be flexible around dinner or bath time (also thanks to random showings), but in the end, it will all be worth it. Listen to episode 24 to hear about Kaela's life since her big move and where Dayna (and Jimmy and Wyatt of...2023-12-0625 min
Pick Your BattlesBattle of Deciding to MoveLots of life updates in this months episode. The biggest one being- Kaela and her family are moving! Prepping a house to be sold and going through showings is crazy, throw in two under two- and it's a little insane! Listen in on their reasoning why they decided to move, the challenges they faced getting the house ready for listing and the battles they will have to pick along the way. 2023-08-0922 min
Pick Your BattlesBattle of Being a DadHappy Father’s Day to all the amazing dads out there!This episode is special to us because both Jimmy and Zander have agreed to play along with our shenanigans. We ask these dads a few questions about fatherhood, in our version of The Newlywed Game.Listen in to see if we guessed what their answers would be!2023-06-1424 min
Pick Your BattlesBattle of SharingYou think sharing as an adult is hard, imagine being a toddler! This episode we chat about what works for us when it comes to teaching our kids to share. Until kids learn to play together, sharing is such a hard thing for them to grasp. We also have an announcement to share with our listeners, so listen in for some podcasting news! 2023-05-2419 min
Pick Your BattlesBattle of Being a Grandparent part 2Our Mothers day special- featuring the best Yaya, Malinda!Kaela and her mom sit and talk about the good, the bad and the ugly of parenting. From their favorite things, the hardest parts and the differences in raising kids. Though times and rules have changed over the years, she gives her input of how to turn babies into successful adults.Listen in to hear more!2023-05-1722 min
Pick Your BattlesBattle of Starting a BusinessThis episode, we interview Chesley- owner of Say Cheese GR. Not only is she a mom, but she found a passion and turned it into a thriving business! If you’re thinking of taking a leap and believing in yourself- do it! 2023-05-1018 min
Pick Your BattlesBattle of Understanding Toddler Talk I think we can all agree that it’s the cutest when toddlers are learning to talk, even if you don’t understand majority of the words coming out of their mouths. Then they talk more and more and as their parent, you start to understand what each incoherent word means. So while someone may not understand what your child is so desperately trying to say, you know from across the house that they’re asking for their favorite show. Who doesn’t love when a toddler talks their ear off?! 2023-05-0314 min
Pick Your BattlesBattle of Bath Time & Swim LessonsIf you’re like Kaela, your toddler struggles with everyday ordinary things. For example, bath time! Same time, every single day- yet lately she’s been throwing a fit! Unsure what to do or how to help, Kaela enrolls her in swim class! Listen to this weeks episode to hear more about the struggles and hopes of breaking this new found fear of water! 2023-04-2612 min
Pick Your BattlesBattle of Skipping Nap TimeBefore you have kids, you don’t truly understand the crucial role of nap time. Not only for babies and toddlers, but for parents! This episode we talk about the battle of choosing to skip nap and being flexible with plans. We know it’s hit or miss with kids around nap time- you never know how it’ll go! Listen in to see how Dayna and Kaela both handled skipping naps. 2023-04-1914 min
Pick Your BattlesBattle of Going Back to SchoolThis episode, our special guest is our best friend, Becca! Becca is not only a mom of two but is going back to school to be the best version of herself she can be. Becca is at Grad school at Michigan State University, to complete her doctorate degree. If that’s not dedication- we don’t know what is! Listen in to hear more about WHY Becca went back & the advice she gives for those thinking of taking a step to better themselves. 2023-04-1221 min
Pick Your BattlesBattle of Solo ParentingIt’s SPRING BREAK, which in Kaela’s case means no daycare and a crazy week at work. Oh, did we mention her husband took a trip to Florida? Single parents, how do you do it?! From juggling two kids and work this mama is EXHAUSTED. Cheers to you, I see you and bow to you! 2023-04-0517 min
Pick Your BattlesBattle of Being a GrandparentThis week not only do we have a special guest, but we also have a guest co-host! A nasty stomach bug is going around West Michigan and Kaela, Maesyn, and Atlas all got it. Dayna's husband Jimmy had it the week before, but thankfully she, Zander, and Wyatt avoided it (for now...#prayerhandsemoji) In order to not miss a week, Dayna's mom Joanne, more commonly known to most as "JoJo", joined Dayna in the closet and talked about what it's like being a grandparent and a parent to a daughter with a kid of her own. Don't worry, although...2023-03-2922 min
Pick Your BattlesBattle of Adult FriendshipsThis episode is dedicated to all the friends who put forth the extra effort and give grace to those of us learning to balance being a parent and friend! Do you ever get a text, read it, and then NEVER respond? Same. It’s not because we don’t want to chat- it’s because a kid is crying, needs help going potty or wants a snack. Our guest (and Kaela’s Sister in Law), Kelsey, talks about what she has learned having her friendships change. She’s watched many friends have kids and seen first hand...2023-03-2224 min
Pick Your BattlesBattle of Transitioning to a Big Kid BedWas transitioning your toddler to a “big kid” bed easy or difficult? Dayna shares her story about Wyatt’s transition so far, and shares a funny story from over the weekend. Though transitions like this can sometimes be nerve wracking, it’s something we all have to prepare for! 2023-03-1518 min
Pick Your BattlesBattle of Swearing Around Your KidsIn case you haven't noticed yet, we love a good old-fashioned F-bomb...and S-bomb...and MF-bomb...a lot of swearword "bombs". Now that there are kids in the picture, it's been a tough habit to break. Both Wyatt and Maesyn are at the age where they are picking up on everything we do as parents so we are trying to make sure that our foul-language-mouths aren't one of those habits. It's been pretty fucking hard though...2023-03-0815 min
Pick Your BattlesBattle of College ApplicationsImagine sending your baby off to college- okay, now take a deep breath. The first step is all those college applications.Our guest Meghan (who is actually Dayna's boss!), talks about what life has been like working through all the details- from college tours, applications, and acceptances.If you’re nearing this stage, listen in to hear some great tips Meg has discovered that might make your life a little easier!2023-03-0126 min
Pick Your BattlesBattle of the Cabin FeverAs this episode is being uploaded, we are in the middle of a winter storm warning here in Michigan which includes freezing rain, snow, and an ice storm. So it's only appropriate that this week's episode is about that feeling of cabin fever when you have kids and can't go outside to play. Depending on where you live, there might be some great options to entertain (and let's be honest, most importantly tire out) your kids during crappy weather. If you have more ideas than the ones we talk about, please let us know so we can add them...2023-02-2219 min
Pick Your BattlesBattle of the Picky EatersWe’ve all been here, right? One day your child loves carrots and green beans and the next they think it’s the most disgusting thing in the world. You’re not alone! Do kids do better when you introduce them to many different cuisines and flavors? Or do we all eventually end up begging them to eat the chicken nugget?2023-02-1518 min
Pick Your BattlesBattle of a Quick Recap One year of Pick Your Battles the Podcast! This episode we celebrate by announcing our giveaway winners. We’ve had such a fun year and persevered even during our busy times of year. We also touch base with Kaela, who talks about her first day back at work. Did she cry? Listen in to find out! 2023-02-0913 min
Pick Your BattlesBattle of the Postpartum JourneyThis episode is a follow up to the Postpartum depression episode. We talk with postpartum coach, Jaree Williams, who speaks on how to balance life after birth. Whether it’s maintaining open communication with your spouse, finding your village or finding time in the day to put yourself first. Jaree offers a variety of services to parents to help them navigate their new life and help make the transition a little easier.You can follow Jaree and learn more about her services on Instagram: @jaree.williams2023-02-0132 min
Pick Your BattlesBattle of Postpartum DepressionThis episode might be a tough one to listen to. The "baby blues" or "postpartum blues" affects 60-80% of all new moms. Postpartum depression affects between 10-20% of all new moms. Dayna is one of those 10-20%. Although Dayna and Kalea have been best friends for years, there is a lot Kaela doesn't know about Dayna's struggle with depression. This episode includes some laughs, but also a lot of tears. We hope that this honest, raw, and real conversation helps those who are also struggling or even those of us who think we might know someone struggling, find the...2023-01-2532 min
Pick Your BattlesBattle of Going Back to WorkMaternity leave, some hate it and others love it. Catch up on Kaela’s maternity leave before she wraps up and goes back to work. Find out the difference from one to two kids and how no two babies are the same! 2023-01-1819 min
Pick Your BattlesBattle of Potty TrainingPotty training- something we all have to do but there is no clear cut way to do it. While some children learn through rewards and treats, others may not. Some catch on quickly and others may take time. You know what…THAT’S OKAY! There is no right way to potty train, as long as you are consistent and trying your best! We’re right there with you in the thick of it. You got this! 2023-01-1118 min
Pick Your BattlesBattle of the HolidaysWe’re baaacckkkk! Happy new year! What a better way to kick off a new year and new season than to talk about the holidays.Whether you stayed home, traveled, got sick or stayed healthy- we all know the holidays can be stressful. Throw in some kids, and now you’re really in for a treat. Dayna and Kaela recap it all- from Thanksgiving to Christmas. Don’t forget to listen in every Wednesday for new episodes and topics. IT’S SO GOOD TO BE BACK! 2023-01-0424 min
Pick Your BattlesBattle of the Traumatic BirthGiving birth- quite literally a labor of love. They ask for your birth plan and you prepare yourself mentally for what’s ahead. But what about when your birth goes NOTHING like you planned? Well then, we’re in the same boat. This bonus clip is the story of Atlas’s birth, how he quickly came into our world and left his mama speechless. Though the birth may have been traumatic, we are thankful for a healthy baby boy. 2022-12-0827 min
Pick Your BattlesBattle of Wrapping up Season OneWe've hit 40 episodes & we're wrapping up Season 1! What a better way to celebrate than looking back at our favorite moments, what we would do differently, and what we're most excited for in Season 2. We cannot thank all of our followers, supporters and listeners enough! The past 40 episodes have been so much fun and we have learned so much. We also get to experience the highly requested, Zander Zone as a farewell to season 1. We won't be gone long, just long enough for Kaela to learn how to juggle life with 2 kids. 2022-11-0924 min
Pick Your BattlesBattle of Switching DaycareFinding the perfect daycare can be tricky. What questions should you ask? What happens if you no longer like the services? And sometimes, you find the PERFECT spot but still need to switch!This episode Dayna and I both battle with switching our kids daycare, for very different reasons.Pick Your Battles drops weekly on Wednesdays and can be listened to on Apple Podcasts, Spotify or anywhere else you listen to your podcasts!2022-11-0217 min
Pick Your BattlesBattle of Pregnancy and Infant Loss Part 2Part two of our first-ever round table interview- Pregnancy and infant loss.This episode you'll get to hear about how everyone grieved, what they do to honor their babies, and what they've learned from their experiences. They also share what NOT TO say to someone battling loss!We are super appreciative of Janice, Lindsey, Lauren & Ryan for sharing their stories and sharing their hearts. We love that even though this may be a difficult topic, we were still able to create some laughs along the way.2022-10-2624 min
Pick Your BattlesBattle of Pregnancy and Infant Loss Part 1October is many things, breast cancer awareness month, Halloween, but did you know it’s Infant Loss Awareness Month? 1 in 4 women in the U.S. experience a miscarriage, stillbirth or infant loss. Chances are, someone you know has been through this, even if they aren’t publicly sharing.This episode we do our very first “round table” interview. We chat with Lindsey, Janice, Lauren & Ryan about their journeys with loss. In part one of two, we get to hear each of their stories and what exactly they’ve been through.Stay tuned as part 2 will air next w...2022-10-2030 min
Pick Your BattlesBattle of Crying it OutIt's 9pm and your baby has been asleep for 2 hours...then...out of nowhere...the start screaming! They aren't hungry because they had a bottle before bed, they aren't in pain because you gave them Tylenol just in case their teeth start to hurt, and a little bit of pee in their diaper doesn't phase them anymore. So what's the problem!?We've heard of the "cry it out" method, right? Well, this episode is all about that. It's short, sweet, and too the point - much like we all hope for bedtime to be!2022-10-1310 min
Pick Your BattlesBattle of Pacifiers and Brushing TeethCreating healthy habits from an early age is so important- especially when it comes to oral hygiene! This episode we learn when to schedule that first dentist appointment, how often to brush your child teeth, when to start flossing and more.We also ask the dreaded question- when do we need to give up the pacifier? If you're in the same boat as us, this may be step you're not looking forward to. Our guest, Dr. Amanda, D.D.S, share's some tips and tricks to help make that transition fun and smooth.2022-10-0627 min
Pick Your BattlesBattle of Parenting with GratitudeThis episode we talk with Stef Tousignant, author of The Middle of the Night book & a gratitude nerd! Stef teaches us all about incorporating gratitude into parenting and our everyday lives. She even gives out some pointers on how you can easily do this and start to change your habits.Give Stef a follow on Instagram @parent_differently or visit her website parentdifferently.com to learn more about parenting with gratitude!2022-09-2828 min
Pick Your BattlesBattle of the Adoption: Part 2Part two of our adoption interview with Phil & Josh.We got to hear about how Josh felt when Phil went back to work, and I know it’s something we all can relate to. Also, the worries of becoming a first time parent!A huge thank you to Josh & Phil for being so open and vulnerable about their experience and sharing it with us!2022-09-2120 min
Pick Your BattlesBattle of the Adoption: Part 1Although only 2% of the US have adopted a child, studies show that 1/3 of couples have talked about building their families through adoption. This week, our guests Josh and Phill fall into both groups!We had such a great interview with them that we had to turn this episode into two parts! In this episode, you'll learn about how their relationship started, what a non-negotiable was for Josh when he was looking for a partner, and how long it took (or didn't) to get to hold their baby boy Oliver.2022-09-1422 min
Pick Your BattlesBattle of the Daycare GermsIt’s completely inevitable- daycare germs. All those snotty, sick kids in one building…of course your child is going to catch it at the most inconvenient time. While it’s almost like a right of passage, this episode we talk about how Mae got Hand Foot Mouth and what a stressor it has been. Taking time off work & keeping her entertained & happy. Building up our babies immune system is never easy! 2022-09-0719 min
Pick Your BattlesBattle of the First Time DadYou know what they say - it takes two to tango...aka make a baby...and we are celebrating our 30th episode milestone with our first DAD guest! Being a first time mom is no walk in the park, but what about all the daddy-o's out there? We talk to Dan, who has a 3-month-old baby girl named Ella, and he tells us how he first reacted to his wife telling him she is pregnant, what his biggest mistake has been so far, and what makes him the best dad. 2022-08-3121 min
Pick Your BattlesBattle of the DisciplineNo two children react the same to discipline, you just have to find what works! I’m this episode we chat about what works for us and what we hope to get out of disciplining. We also chat about our friends & family disciplining our child and how we feel about that. It can definitely be a tough situation, but communication is key! Listen in and let us know what works best for YOUR family! 2022-08-2419 min
Pick Your BattlesBattle of Vacationing without Kids: THE POST-TRIP RECAPWe’re baaaaaccckkkkk! Unfortunately, our Spanish is not any better but the memories made were unforgettable! Listen here for our post-Mexico updates.Did Kaela cry? Who was nearly left in Mexico? You were stuck in Dallas for how long? All that and more in this episode!2022-08-1725 min
Pick Your BattlesBattle of Not Knowing What to ExpectNot your typical "What to expect when you're expecting" episode. We talk about all the things we had no idea about when pregnant with our first babies. From hair loss, to delivering a placenta, listen in to find out some of the things that surprised us!2022-08-1026 min
Pick Your BattlesBattle of Vacationing Without KidsWe are off to Mexico for a "parents only" trip and it turns out, even when the kids aren't coming, there is still SO much to get ready for them!Between daycare needs, their favorite shows and snacks, and morning and bedtime routines, there is a ton you have to make sure is set and organized before we leave!Once all of the prep is done, and we are sitting on the beach with our toes in the Caribbean sand, it will be all worth it!Stay tuned to see if Kaela actually...2022-08-0313 min
Pick Your BattlesBattle of Running a PodcastWe hit a pretty awesome milestone recently - WE HIT 2,000 downloads - and we are proud of ourselves dammit! Between both having full-time jobs, caring for our kids (and husbands to be fair), and just daily life, we are still trying to figure out how to run this passion project of ours!This short and sweet episode gives us a chance to brag about ourselves which we are both not great at! Thanks to all of our listeners, followers, and fellow mamas out there just trying to make it all work!2022-07-2708 min
Pick Your BattlesBattle of Being a Military MamaFirst of all - big shoutout and thank you to ALL of the men and women serving or who have served in the military! You are all heroes and we appreciate your service! There is also another member of the military that might not wear a camouflage uniform but is fighting battles behind the scenes - the military moms and dads!On this episode, we talk to Ashlynn, a longtime friend of Kaela's whose husband is actively serving in the army and has been for just about 10 years. The struggles that military spouses face on...2022-07-2123 min
Pick Your BattlesBattle of the Family TripsTraveling with kids has its challenges for sure but adding other family members into the mix like grandparents, cousins, aunts and uncles, is a whole different story. Whoever says going on a "family vacation" is relaxing is a liar. On this episode, we break down our family TRIPS (which is different than a vacation because they were anything but relaxing - i.e. a vacation) that we both went on over the July 4th holiday. At least for Dayna, this was the last family trip her family will be going on for years to come!2022-07-1323 min
Pick Your BattlesBattle of the Family PicturesPicture this: It's family picture day! You picked out the perfect outfits for you and your family, you have the perfect venue, you arrive basically on time (you're only 5 minutes late), and then you remember you're doing this with children...so this should be a real treat. Family photos make great memories but let's be honest, they never go as planned. Someone is always hungry, someone is always tired, and they all don't want to be there. That's where the professional photographer comes in to save the day!On this episode, we enjoy some quality...2022-07-0621 min
Pick Your BattlesBattle of the Fur BabiesThis was the hardest episode we have recorded so far. Pets are a part of our families - no question - but when it comes to them crossing the rainbow bridge, there are few things harder.On June 20th, we said goodbye to our big black lab Oakley. He was Kaela's brother-in-law's dog of 9 years. He got him when he was just 8 weeks old and lived a great life and was loved by so many. Oakley lived with Dayna and her husband Jimmy for 3 years while Zak was pursuing his career in the U.S...2022-06-2919 min
Pick Your BattlesBattle of the Surprise PregnancyWelcome to episode 20!It's crazy to think that we've had our shit together enough to get 20 WEEKLY episodes out and live! We thought for this big milestone we would make a big announcement - Kaela is pregnant...yes...AGAIN! No, this was not planned but yes her and Zander are excited to add a baby boy to the family!Also, if you missed our segment "The Zander Zone", we brought him back with silly and random questions for your listening pleasure. Thank you for listening to these 20 and here's to 20 more!2022-06-1525 min
Pick Your BattlesBattle of the GiftsYes, we're talking about birthday parties again...but this topic all started after Dayna & Stephanie had a brief disagreement about the gifts received. Do you hide the presents and bring them out later, as a new toy? Or, do you have your child open them right away? No wrong answer here- but it's interesting to see what others think! What are good gifts to give kids? There's so many options and we dissect a few in this episode! 2022-06-0818 min
Pick Your BattlesBattle of the TechnologyIt's 2022 and technology is everywhere. We drive it, we watch it, we hold it in our hands. We use it to set the thermostat, keep our house safe, and entertain children while out in public...AND THAT IS FINE!This is a very common battle we pick as parents when it comes to screen time. We firmly believe that if you need to put on some Baby Shark, or Elmo, or Cocomellon in order to have a quiet dinner - DO IT! If you are on the other end of the spectrum and refuse to cave and...2022-06-0119 min
Pick Your BattlesBattle of the BabysitterAs parents, sometimes it can be hard to leave your kiddos with someone else so you can enjoy a date night, or time alone at Target! Finding a good babysitter can be tricky whether it's a family member or a high school or college kid looking for some easy cash.On this episode, Kaela talks about her feelings about Maesyn's first babysitter, and Dayna shares a story from her days as a nanny. 2022-05-2521 min
Pick Your BattlesBattle of Drinking as a ParentTo drink or not to drink...that is the question.When you turn into a parent, the repercussions of drinking seem to outweigh the benefits of drinking. Yet sometimes, a drink is a necessity. Listen to our drunken stories post baby, how we handled the pump and dump (if at all), and about Kaela’s first weekend away from Maesyn! Stick around for the ending where you’ll likely hear the cutest baby giggle there ever was. 2022-05-1915 min
Pick Your BattlesBattle of Celebrating Mother's DayHappy [belated] Mother's Day!No matter who or what you're a mom to, we hope you were all spoiled with hugs, kisses, and coffee! In this episode, we talk about the gifts we got (or didn't get) and how we like to celebrate the holiday...you know the one that is really EVERYDAY!?2022-05-1118 min
Pick Your BattlesBattle of the Tough ConversationsAs a parent, or even as a close family member or friend, there are topics that are tough to talk about with kids. No, this isn't just the sex talk, that's for another episode. Things like social media, drinking, drugs, or other stupid or scary shit that is on the internet.Because our conversation with Daria Dugar, LPC was so good, we decided this topic needed its own episode! She was previously featured on Episode 11: Battle of the Covid Blues and she not only taught us about what she is seeing in her patient's mental health but...2022-05-0414 min
Pick Your BattlesBattle of the TravelTraveling with your kids....need we say more?! Whether they’re 2 months or 2 years old, it can be scary. We get it and we’ve been there. From the anxiety behind flying with a child to feeling like you need to apologize to everyone around you…it can be hard to buy that ticket. This episode, we give you our advice and insight having both been in this situation. Our biggest piece of advice?! BUY THE TICKET! 2022-04-2829 min
Pick Your BattlesBattle of Being SickBeing sick is terrible no matter what. Sure, maybe you lose a couple of pounds, but other than that, it sucks. Now throw kids into the mix...it SUPER SUCKS! In this episode, we talk about our worst illnesses since becoming parents and what we did to manage. It's weird how even when you're sick, the kids don't cut you any slack!We also celebrate a big milestone - 1,000 downloads!!Thank you to everyone who has listened, is going to listen, and everyone in between! (not sure what that means exactly...but you get the...2022-04-1417 min
Pick Your BattlesBattle of the Covid BluesHi friends!Join us in as we talk to Daria Dugar, a licensed professional counselor. Daria has navigated starting her own telegraphy business from home, with her husband and twin boys.This episode Daria addresses the many battles others have been having with COVID blues, teens that have been affected and the advice she gives them.If you feel you’ve had an increase in anxiety or depression, please reach out and talk to someone!2022-04-0721 min
Pick Your BattlesBattle of Being ReadyWhy not celebrate our 10th episode with the 'mother' of all battles when it comes to kids...KNOWING WHEN YOU'RE READY TO HAVE THEM! Of course, this depends on each person and each family, but is there a right time to start? Is there a moment you should get or feel that lets you know it's time? What if you and your partner aren't on the same page?This week, we talk to Kaela's sister Krystal about this very battle. She and her husband Alex just got married in May of 2021 and moved from the midwest to...2022-03-3022 min
Pick Your BattlesBattle of the Birthday PartiesIsn't it funny how the older you get, the harder it is to remember your age? Also, at what point did we stop "going out" and celebrating our birthdays to being content with a good dinner and bed by 9pm?!This episode we talk not only about getting older, but also the joys of your kid's FIRST BIRTHDAY! Lets be honest, it's a big deal! Whether you threw a big party, a small get-together at home, or didn't do anything, the first birthday is definitely more for the adults.Don't forget to check out our...2022-03-2315 min
Pick Your BattlesBattle of the Pandemic PregnanciesExactly two years ago, basically to the day, everyone's lives changed. The novel Coronavirus shut the world down. We were forced to stay inside for days, which turned into months, and then years. During Covid, we had babies - something that a tiny franction of the population will get to experience (lucky us). If you asked us what we thought the world would be like when Wyatt and Maesyn entered the world, it sure as shit wouldn't have included a global pandemic!! Restrictions seemed to change by the week, so we both had different experiences during the...2022-03-1617 min
Pick Your BattlesBattle of the Big RevealsEven though we're best friends, we may not always know everything about each other. This episode we dive deep and ask each other questions, so our listeners can get to know us more too. From the traits that've changed the most about us, to the biggest postpartum fights... we're leaving it all on the table! This episode we have some BIG REVEALS and our first Podcast Exclusive! We also recap our first month as Podcast Hosts! Listen in as we discuss our favorite moments, the struggles, and what are ultimate goal is with our passion project. 2022-03-1022 min
Pick Your BattlesBattle of What to AskThere is no such thing as a dumb question, right? We've all been told that since elementary school, but when it comes to your children it doesn't feel that way!Imagine sitting in the pediatrician's office with a crying baby or a bratty teenager. The routine exam is done, information is thrown at you, and your provider asks, "Do you have any questions?" At this point your mind does two things - one, it goes blank, and everything you wanted to ask goes out the window. Or two, that one question you've been wanting to ask, you're...2022-03-0220 min
Pick Your BattlesBattle of the Judgy MomsWe've all been there - out in public when your kid decides to be a total asshole. If you don't have kids, you've at least witnessed these meltdowns.Our special guest this week turned her son's outburst at Olive Garden into a TikTok phenomenon and now creates news reports based on real events. Kayla Sullivan, a former news reporter, is creating videos that anyone can relate to and she has a public service announcement for those "judgy moms" out there...just don't.Follow Kayla on:Instagram: @kaylamariesullyTikTok: @kaylareporting2022-02-2323 min
Pick Your BattlesBonus Episode - Battle of the HoroscopeDo you believe in zodiac signs or astrology? In Battle of the Speech our guest Stephanie revealed that her son is a "triple Gemini"...making our heads spin. What the hell does that mean!? This is a part of that conversation that we originally cut out from episode 4, but decided it was too good not to share. 2022-02-2105 min
Pick Your BattlesBattle of the SpeechWhat was your child's first word? Mama? ...Dada?...Gleebah? Any Friends fans out there? But for some kiddos, words don't come right away, and as parents, what do you do? This can be a very stressful time filled with comparisons, "advice" from outside your household, and constant worrying about what you as a mom or dad could have done differently. This episode features our first guest - Stephanie Winn, WHNP - who shares her battle with her son's speech delay and how he is thriving after working with a speech professional. 2022-02-1718 min
Pick Your BattlesBattle of the FeedingWe have all heard the saying "breast is best"...but is it really? Is it best if it takes a mental toll on you? Or your physical health? Or your relationship? What if your milk never comes in? This is an important topic to talk about and normalize the saying "FED IS BEST."This episode also includes the launch of - The Zander Zone! This is really a chance for Kaela's husband and Maesyn's dad to join in on the fun!2022-02-1021 min
Pick Your BattlesBattle of the DaycareTo daycare...or not to daycare...THAT is the question.For some of us, there wasn't a battle about daycare - the kid(s) have to go! Or, the opposite, it's too damn expensive - forcing you to have to stay home! Whatever end of the spectrum your family is on, the "battle of the daycare" is REAL!On this episode, we unpack the drop-offs, the pick-ups, and every moment in between.Don't forget to follow the fun on Instagram! @pickyourbattlesthepodcast2022-02-0715 min
Pick Your BattlesThe First BattleHi Friends!Thanks for listening to Pick Your Battles! We are two best friends who sit in a closet together and talk about everything from sleep regressions, to wardrobe malfunctions, and everything in between.We offer professionally UNprofessional parenting advice for anyone who wants to listen or just needs a laugh.In this episode, you'll get to know us and learn about our biggest parenting fails (to date...we're sure there will be more).ENJOY!https://www.instagram.com/pickyourbattlesthepodcast/2022-02-0216 min