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Unmasking the Abuser - The PodcastUnmasking the Abuser - The PodcastEpisode 51 - Setting Yourself Up for Trouble?Abusers are master manipulators, wielding cunning tactics to ensnare their prey -but what makes you a target? In this gripping episode of Unmasking the Abuser, I peel back the curtain on the hidden beliefs and behaviors that leave you vulnerable to predators, no matter how much you know about their schemes. From subtle habits to deeply held convictions, discover the surprising ways you might be unknowingly inviting danger.This isn’t about politics, culture, or religion - abusers adapt their methods to exploit anyone, anywhere on the spectrum. Join me as we uncover the critical blind spots th...2025-06-2241 minUnmasking the Abuser - The PodcastUnmasking the Abuser - The PodcastEpisode 50: Your Superpower Cheat-Sheet!Dive into the riveting world of Unmasking the Abuser with our milestone 50th episode! Now in its electrifying 5th season, this podcast, hosted by renowned social psychologist Dr. Dina McMillan, is your ultimate weapon for outsmarting manipulators and abusers. Dr. McMillan masterfully distills complex graduate-level social psychology into a powerful, concise cheat sheet, blending fresh insights with a dynamic recap of the most impactful concepts from past episodes. The information is straight from her internationally celebrated "Unmasking the Abuser" education program, the first prevention program in the world.This episode isn’t just another podcast - it’s a...2025-05-0137 minthe radical centerthe radical centerWe Don't Apologize for Taking Our World Back, with Dr. Dina McMillanDr. Dina McMillan is an internationally recognized social psychologist, educated at Stanford University. She has over 20 years of expertise in both community and professional program development, policy improvement and all levels of training. She specializes in domestic abuse and violence prevention and improved response, bias reduction, and gambling harm. Dr. McMillan excels at simplifying complex concepts and aligning programs with organizational and legislative goals. A globally recognized author, program architect, legal regulator, media-savvy presenter, and podcast host, Dr.McMillan’s influence spans diverse domains.As a leading communications expert, she has designed and delivered innovative programs for organizations like th...2025-04-151h 23Unmasking the Abuser - The PodcastUnmasking the Abuser - The PodcastEpisode 49 - Does Being Woke Make You Vulnerable to Abusers?For years, I’ve seen a gap in understanding manipulation, hesitant to address it until now. Compassionate, trusting people are preyed upon — not just by romantic Abusers, but also by some social and political movements. These groups mirror the worst Abusers: demanding blind loyalty, erasing boundaries, and punishing dissent or even questions with brutal ferocity. Some are able to hide in plain sight like the most charming of Abusive partners, relabeling their actions as good and righteous, definitions that would never survive objective scrutiny of their actions or demands.I can’t ignore this anymore. In Unmasking the Ab...2025-03-2738 minAwake at the WheelAwake at the WheelUnmasking Manipulation & Bias: Dr Dina McMillan on Abuse, DEI, and EmpowermentAwake at the Wheel | Ep 80In this powerful episode of Awake at the Wheel, social psychologist Dr. Dina McMillan takes us on a deep dive into the hidden dynamics of manipulation, bias, and abuse. She shares her personal journey through academia, the challenges of confronting bias, and her mission to educate the public on recognizing and resisting coercive tactics in relationships. Dr. McMillan also critiques current DEI initiatives, advocating for a more balanced and effective approach to addressing discrimination. Drawing from her Healing the Rift program, she explores how understanding bias can transform team dynamics and foster...2025-03-051h 03Unmasking the Abuser - The PodcastUnmasking the Abuser - The PodcastEpisode 48 - Key Components of Coercive Control Part 1Coercive control has been a hot topic in recent years, with some jurisdictions even making it illegal. Lawmakers recognize the serious risks victims face - even without victims being subjected to frequent bouts of physical violence.But what exactly is coercive control? How does it take hold in a relationship, and why do victims often accept it without realizing the danger? Are they willing participants, or is something far more insidious at play?In this episode of Unmasking the Abuser, we break down the definition of coercive control and reveal the subtle, deceptive tactics used...2025-02-1436 minUnmasking the Abuser - The PodcastUnmasking the Abuser - The PodcastEpisode 47 - Too Clever to Fool!We all like to think we're too smart to fall for the same mistakes twice. But the truth is, some devious manipulation tactics can slip past our defenses again and again -especially if we don't recognize them, if we're distracted, or if we believe our past experiences make us immune.In this eye-opening episode of Unmasking the Abuser, we dive deep into the most effective manipulation tools used in romantic relationships and in society at large to influence, persuade, and sway you - whether it's to agree, to comply, or to buy.Stop leaving it...2024-12-2744 minUnmasking the Abuser - The PodcastUnmasking the Abuser - The PodcastEpisode 46 - Safely Navigating the Holidays with Strength and SanityThe holiday season often brings joy, smiles, and shared meals, but for those in toxic relationships, it can also mean stress, conflict, and emotional strain. In this episode of Unmasking the Abuser, we go beyond offering sympathy to provide practical, actionable advice for managing an abusive partner or family member during the festive season.Staying true to the solution-focused approach you’ve come to expect, I share simple yet effective strategies to help you navigate the emotional minefield of holiday gatherings. These tips are designed to protect your sanity and strengthen your family relationships, not just for Ch...2024-12-1930 minThe DailyClout NetworkThe DailyClout NetworkHeart & Mind: "The Influence Equation Part II"Previously, Dr. Dina McMillan explored the concept of using specific moves to gain your cooperation or compliance, shared through the lens of social psychologist Robert Cialdini's groundbreaking work. In this episode, Dr. McMillan dives deeper, breaking it down into simple, memorable insights - perfect for the high-pressure buying season leading up to Christmas and New Year’s resolutions. Discover how to recognize and resist the most persuasive tactics, so you can keep control of your spending and set realistic expectations for the year ahead.Watch Now:Follow 'Heart & Mind' on Rumble: https://rumble.com/c/He...2024-12-0659 minThe DailyClout NetworkThe DailyClout NetworkHeart & Mind: “Girls Gone Weird”Dr. Dina McMillan continues to explore the growing wave of extreme reactions from Democrat women in the wake of Trump’s election win. From public displays of anger to self-victimization, these actions may seem empowering but could have lasting, damaging consequences. Dr. McMillan breaks down what’s really going on and offers thoughtful suggestions for how to navigate this emotional and political turbulence. Tune in for an eye-opening discussion on the costs of such radicalization and how we might move forward over the coming months and years.Watch Now:Follow ‘Heart & Mind’ on Rumble: https://rumble.co...2024-11-2159 minThe DailyClout NetworkThe DailyClout NetworkHeart & Mind: “Completely Unhinged: Democrat Women Disintegrate”Dr. Dina McMillan dives into the intense emotional fallout from the 2016 election, exploring the extreme reactions of many Democrat women in the wake of Donald Trump’s victory. From head-shaving to vows of celibacy and even threats of violence, Dr. McMillan breaks down the hysteria, the outrage, and the deeper psychological currents at play. Tune in for a candid, live discussion on this powerful emotional upheaval. Watch Now:Follow ‘Heart & Mind’ on Rumble: https://rumble.com/c/HeartAndMindPlease Support Our Sponsors:Birch Gold Group: “A Gold IRA from Birch Gold Group is...2024-11-141h 00Unmasking the Abuser - The PodcastUnmasking the Abuser - The PodcastEpisode 45 - Setting You Up for Manipulation Part 1Ever feel like your decisions were made for you before you even knew it? It’s not magic—it's a set of cunning maneuvers social psychologist Robert Cialdini calls "Pre-Suasion". In this episode, we dive into the clever, subtle tactics that influence how we make choices long before a pitch is even made. From strategic questions to the power of background music, we examine the hidden methods Persuaders and Influencers of all kinds use to nudge you into saying yes. This includes playing off your feelings, desires and fears in a quiet yet stun...2024-11-0927 minUnmasking the Abuser - The PodcastUnmasking the Abuser - The PodcastEpisode 44: Circles of Intimacy - the Key to Deciphering Your Relationship HealthEver wonder just how much you care for the people in your life - or how much they truly care for you? Discover a straightforward approach to finding out, no awkward conversations or confrontations required. Join us for an eye-opening episode and strengthen the bonds that matter most. The Circles of Intimacy is a simple tool that allows you to gauge the strength of your feelings for the people in your life and gives you rare insight into what they feel about you. Simple, accessible and surprisingly accurate, the Circles are an important first step to healthier r...2024-11-0141 minUnmasking the Abuser - The PodcastUnmasking the Abuser - The PodcastEpisode 43 - Key Secret Uses of FearFear is a powerful tool of manipulation. But equally potent is the art of calming those fears to gain control — a tactic Abusers and Manipulators know all too well. In this episode of Unmasking the Abuser, we’ll expose how abusers exploit the power of reassurance, distraction, and false security to make you ignore genuine threats.From minimizing risks to offering protection, these strategies are subtle yet dangerous, often leaving you oblivious to the red flags. Join us as we break down these tactics, empowering you to spot them and take back control over your life....2024-10-2533 minThe DailyClout NetworkThe DailyClout NetworkHeart & Mind: "The Secret Weapon of Control: Willful Blindness"In this episode of ‘Heart & Mind’, Dr. Dina McMillan returns to the crucial topic of fear as a tool of effective manipulation. Dr. McMillan explores how encouraging us to normalize, ignore, or downplay danger has contributed to many of the challenges facing Western society today. Join us as she offers rare insights on reclaiming your power by refusing to play along.Watch Now:Follow 'Heart & Mind' on Rumble: https://rumble.com/c/HeartAndMindPlease Support Our Sponsors:Birch Gold Group: "A Gold IRA from Birch Gold Group is the ultimate inflation hedg...2024-10-2441 minUnmasking the Abuser - The PodcastUnmasking the Abuser - The PodcastEpisode 42 - Misusing the power of FEAR In this crucial episode, Dr. Dina McMillan dives into one of the most powerful weapons in a manipulator’s toolkit—fear. Fear is a natural, protective instinct that helps keep us safe. But once manipulators learn what makes your heart race and your stomach drop, they can exploit it to control you. In this episode, Dr. McMillan explains the different types of fear and the main strategies employed by those seeking to take advantage of this fundamental drive. She offers real-life examples where those looking to gain control purposely distort reality to alter your beliefs and behaviors and cr...2024-10-1841 minThe DailyClout NetworkThe DailyClout NetworkHeart & Mind: "Ask Your Questions About Healing Family Division"Social psychologist Dr. Dina McMillan begins her first 1-hour live episode with a look back at the challenges of the COVID era. She delves into the conflicts and strained relationships that emerged during the pandemic, offering thoughtful insights on how to navigate differences and foster healing in its aftermath.Watch Now:Follow 'Heart & Mind' on Rumble: https://rumble.com/c/HeartAndMindPlease Support Our Sponsors:Birch Gold Group: "A Gold IRA from Birch Gold Group is the ultimate inflation hedge for your savings in uncertain times. To see how to protect...2024-10-111h 00Unmasking the Abuser - The PodcastUnmasking the Abuser - The PodcastEpisode 41 - The Lasting Damage from the Covid EraIn this compelling episode of Unmasking the Abuser, we explore an event that touched everyone’s lives—the Covid pandemic. More than just the fear of the virus itself, we dive into the emotional and social rifts caused by differing responses to mandates and directives. How has the Covid era shaped our world today? Can the wounds it opened be healed? And how prepared are we for the next potential crisis?Join us as we step back to reflect on these pivotal questions and, as always, sharpen our understanding of the motives behind the actions of those arou...2024-10-1135 minThe Jokeress is a state of mind.....The Jokeress is a state of mind.....Episode 142: Lesions on Lakso's BrainSwann spots lesions on Lakso's brain with her odd vision. Swann: Sandra J McMillan Calista: Dina Stinson Lawson Louise: Margret Henderson The Jokeress audio series is an adaptation of The Jokeress indie ebook series by Bryan Follins and Margaret Henderson. Podcast produced, created, written, and edited by Bryan Follins. Copyright 2024 Bryan Follins. A Shadowvectors presentation2024-10-0401 minUnmasking the Abuser - The PodcastUnmasking the Abuser - The PodcastEpisode 40 - Missed Info about the First Tactics on The ListIn this episode, we dive into one of the most overlooked but crucial phases of manipulation: Testing and Training. While tactics like Love Bombing and Gaslighting grab headlines, these initial maneuvers — Testing and Training — lay the groundwork for all the other manipulative strategies. Without successfully testing new targets and then training them to comply, Abusers and Manipulators wouldn't be able to acquire the control they need to take advantage and misuse. They'd be thwarted from the start.Even if you're unaware, manipulators are keenly aware of this process, using it to gauge your resp...2024-10-0333 minThe DailyClout NetworkThe DailyClout NetworkHeart & Mind: "Testing and Training: A Powerful Set of Persuasion Tactics"Dr. Dina McMillan exposes another powerful set of persuasion tactics: testing and training. These subtle moves often go unnoticed, but when used with skill at the start of a new relationship, they lay the groundwork for total submission to a cunning manipulator. Dr. McMillan brings these moves into the light, helping audience members recognize them and protect themselves from falling into a manipulator's trap.Watch Now:Follow 'Heart & Mind' on Rumble: https://rumble.com/c/HeartAndMindPlease Support Our Sponsors:Birch Gold Group: "A Gold IRA from Birch Gold Group is...2024-10-0233 minUnmasking the Abuser - The PodcastUnmasking the Abuser - The PodcastEpisode 39 - Finishing the eBook: Key Tactics of Abusers DefinedIn this vital episode, we wrap up the eBook, Brief Overview of Abusers' Strategies and Tactics, covering Chapter 7: "Tactics of Abusers," Chapter 8: "Honorable Mention Tactics," and the concluding section.Just like the eBook itself—available for only $10 at www.drdinamcmillan.com—this episode gives you the essential tools to recognize and counter abusers' most insidious strategies. Every tactic is explained clearly and concisely, including those that earn an "Honorable Mention." These may be less common but are still powerful, such as "gaslighting" and the increasingly recognized "DARVO."This episode is an...2024-09-2836 minThe DailyClout NetworkThe DailyClout NetworkHeart & Mind: "Distraction and Rebranding"In this episode, Dr. Dina McMillan exposes methods to distract your attention away from crucial issues, and distort your thinking by rebranding key concepts. She calls these “Les Mis” - Misdirection (purposely turning your attention away) and Misattribution (redefining key concepts a manner that benefits the Influencer).Watch Now:Please Support Our SponsorsBirch Gold Group: "A Gold IRA from Birch Gold Group is the ultimate inflation hedge for your savings in uncertain times. To see how to protect your IRA or 401(k), get your FREE info kit on gold by texting the word...2024-09-2734 minThe DailyClout NetworkThe DailyClout Network"Heart and Mind: Becoming Smarter""Social psychologist Dina McMillan explores some of the simplest methods for increasing intelligence, improving resilience, and reducing the feelings of threat that can occur when confronted with challenges and failures."Please Support Our SponsorsBirch Gold Group: "A Gold IRA from Birch Gold Group is the ultimate inflation hedge for your savings in uncertain times. To see how to protect your IRA or 401(k), get your FREE info kit on gold by texting the word 'DAILYCLOUT' to 989898."The Wellness Company: https://dailyclouthealth.comUse code DAILYCLOUT for 10% off!2024-09-2033 minUnmasking the Abuser - The PodcastUnmasking the Abuser - The PodcastEpisode 38 - Establishing the GroundworkIn this crucial episode, we delve further into the explosive insights unveiled in my latest eBook, "Brief Overview of Abusers' Strategies and Tactics."We explore chapters four through six, uncovering not just the selection process —how Abusers pinpoint their romantic victims based on specific traits — but also the deceptions, strategies, and facades they employ to conceal their true intentions. We examine the sly methods Abusers use to dodge rejection in the initial stages of a relationship.This eBook reveals the actions of abusers, their successful tactics, and the choreography of these maneuvers. It also...2024-09-1931 minUnmasking the Abuser - The PodcastUnmasking the Abuser - The PodcastEpisode 37: Discussing the New Book - Brief Overview of Abusers' StrategiesI put a lot of thought into creating my eBook, Brief Overview of Abusers' Strategies and Tactics. I'm excited to dive into its key insights in this episode and the next.Research shows that the more often you engage with information across different formats, the better you retain it — especially when you pair it with a visual reference. This is exactly why I’m breaking down the eBook here on the Unmasking the Abuser podcast.The eBook is under 60 pages, designed to be read in less than an hour. It focuses specifically on what...2024-09-1330 minThe DailyClout NetworkThe DailyClout NetworkHeart & Mind: "Tools of Deception" w/ Social Psychologist Dr. Dina McMillanSocial psychologist Dr. Dina McMillan exposes how those trying to influence us can get around our self-protective measures. Dr. McMillan emphasizes that although most of us don’t think about it, understanding these tactics is useful if you are trying to maintain your own values and beliefs.Watch Now:Follow ‘Heart & Mind’ on Rumble: https://rumble.com/c/HeartAndMindPlease Support Our SponsorsBirch Gold Group: “A Gold IRA from Birch Gold Group is the ultimate inflation hedge for your savings in uncertain times. To see how to protect your IRA or 401(k...2024-09-1237 minThe DailyClout NetworkThe DailyClout NetworkHeart & Mind: "Hidden Influences: How Your Brain is Being Manipulated"Dr. Dina McMillan, a social psychologist, delves deeper into the intricate workings of the brain and the powerful influence tactics that subtly shape our thoughts and behaviors. She breaks down the mind into four key areas—conscious, subconscious, unconscious, and gut instincts—revealing how only a small percentage of our decisions are made consciously. Dr. McMillan also uncovers the hidden mechanisms behind social messaging, storytelling, and authority, and explains how these tools can be used to persuade, manipulate, or even indoctrinate us, often without our awareness. Tune in for a fascinating exploration of the unseen forces that guide our live...2024-09-0633 minThe DailyClout NetworkThe DailyClout NetworkHeart & Mind: "Unlocking the Mind: Understanding Social Psychology and the Power of Influence"Dr. Dina McMillan is back with the second episode of 'Heart & Mind', emphasizing the importance of self-protection against manipulation. She introduces herself as a Stanford-educated social psychologist, explaining that her field of study delves into how people are influenced, indoctrinated, and manipulated. Dr. McMillan refers to social psychology as the "evil science" due to its potential to control behavior, but she uses this knowledge for good, aiming to educate viewers on safeguarding themselves and their families. She stresses that intelligence alone isn't enough to protect against powerful influence mechanisms. Instead, she advocates for a combination of knowledge and protective...2024-08-2936 minThe DailyClout NetworkThe DailyClout NetworkHeart & Mind: "Making Yourself Manipulation-Proof With Social Psychologist Dr. Dina McMillan"Social psychologist and internationally published author Dr. Dina McMillan hosts 'Heart & Mind' with the goal of empowering listeners to understand how the human brain is influenced, identify indoctrination tactics, and learn how to make themselves manipulation-proof. Watch Now:Follow 'Heart & Mind' on Rumble: https://rumble.com/c/c-6682874Please Support Our SponsorsThe Wellness Company: https://dailyclouthealth.comUse code DAILYCLOUT for 10% off!NativePath: Collagen supplements help you replace what you stop producing — and the studies speak for themselves. Visit https://getnativepath.com/dailyclout for a MASSIVE 45% discount plus free sh...2024-08-2128 minThe Jokeress is a state of mind.....The Jokeress is a state of mind.....Episode 140: Results of the T-19 on LaksoThe scientists observe the results of the T-19 on Lakso. Swann: Sandra J McMillan Louise: Margaret Henderson Calista: Dina Stinson Lawson The Jokeress audio series podcast is an adaptation of The Jokeress indie ebook series by Bryan Follins. The podcast is created, written, edited, and produced by Bryan Follins. Copyright 2024 Bryan Follins. A Shadowvectors production. 2024-08-0501 minDr. Naomi Wolf\'s OutspokenDr. Naomi Wolf's Outspoken"Is the COVID Era an Abuser?"Dr. Dina McMillan is an American social psychologist and domestic violence specialist. She received her BA from Hunter College in New York and both a master's and doctorate in social psychology from Stanford University in California.In 2007, after moving to Australia, Dr. McMillan developed a ground-breaking program called ‘Unmasking the Abuser’. For the first time, the precise manipulation tactics used by Abusers to entice new partners into toxic relationships are exposed. Abusers’ methods are incredibly effective – and surprisingly simple.Dr. McMillan wrote a book on this topic called, 'But He Says He Loves Me', published by Allen...2024-07-2859 minThe DailyClout NetworkThe DailyClout NetworkOutspoken: "Is the COVID Era an Abuser?"Dr. Dina McMillan is an American social psychologist and domestic violence specialist. She received her BA from Hunter College in New York and both a master's and doctorate in social psychology from Stanford University in California.In 2007, after moving to Australia, Dr. McMillan developed a ground-breaking program called Unmasking the Abuser. For the first time, the precise manipulation tactics used by Abusers to entice new partners into toxic relationships are exposed. Abusers’ methods are incredibly effective – and surprisingly simple.Dr. McMillan wrote a book on this topic called, 'But He Says He Loves Me', published by A...2024-07-2659 minThe Jokeress is a state of mind.....The Jokeress is a state of mind.....Episode 138: Swann does skin work on LaksoSwann works on Lakso's face Swann: Sandra McMillan Louise: Margaret Henderson Calista: Dina Stinson Lawson. The Jokeress audio series podcast is an adaptation of The Jokeress indie ebook series by Bryan Follins and Margaret Henderson. The podcast is created, produced, written, and edited by Bryan Follins. Copyright 2024 Bryan Follins. A shadowvectors production.2024-06-2801 minUnmasking the Abuser - The PodcastUnmasking the Abuser - The PodcastEpisode 36 - Making Yourself Manipulation-ProofThis is another key episode with a slightly different twist. Most of the time we discuss ways to recognize efforts to take advantage of you, using slick words and clever moves to influence, persuade and exploit.This time we stand back and discuss three core factors that can improve your shield against these devious efforts. These simple moves can make it less likely any tactics of persuasion will be effective, whether the person using the maneuvers is a potential romantic partner, a friend, a family member, a work colleague, a salesperson, or an advocate for a political...2024-05-1829 minThe Jokeress is a state of mind.....The Jokeress is a state of mind.....Episode 134: Calista finishes carving LaksoCalista finishes carving on the face of Lakso. Swann: Sandra McMillan Louise: Margaret Henderson Calista: Dina Stinson Lawson. The Jokeress audio podcast is an adaptation of The Jokeress indie ebook series by Bryan Follins and Margaret Henderson. The podcast is created, produced, written, and edited by Bryan Follins. Copyright 2024 Bryan Follins. A Shadowvectors production.2024-04-0401 minThe Jokeress is a state of mind.....The Jokeress is a state of mind.....Episode 133 ..Liar LiarCalista carves the word LIAR on Lakso's face Calista: Dina Stinson Lawson Louise: Margaret Hnderson Swann: Sandra McMillan The Jokeress audio series is an adaptation of The Jokeress indie ebook series by Bryan Follins and Margaret Henderson. Podcast created, produced, and edited by Bryan Follins. Copyright 2024 Bryan Follins.2024-03-1901 minUnmasking the Abuser - The PodcastUnmasking the Abuser - The PodcastEpisode 35 - The First 30 DaysSome of the most crucial information about abusive relationships is how they start. What are they like at the very beginning? Most victims and survivors don't recognize the manipulation that happened at the start. That's why this can be a key to preventing new victims in the future.This episode provides a general overview of the manipulative moves and maneuvers that are used most often - and most successfully - to entice a new target into a relationship with an Abuser.This is one episode no one should skip.This is the...2024-03-1932 minThe Jokeress is a state of mind.....The Jokeress is a state of mind.....Episode 132: Calista Terror and LaksoCalista revels in terrorizing Lakso Calista: Dina Stinson Lawson Louise: Margaret Henderson Swann: Sandra McMillan The Jokeress audio series is an adaptation of The Jokeress indie ebook series by Bryan Follins and Margaret Henderson. Created, produced, written and edited by Bryan Follins. Copyright 2024 Bryan Follins. A Shadowvectors production2024-03-0401 minThe Jokeress is a state of mind.....The Jokeress is a state of mind.....Episode 131: "Some Settling"Swann makes a suggestion to Calista about Lakso. Swann: Sandra McMillan Calista: Dina Stinson Lawson Louise: Margaret Henderson. Podacast is an adaptation of The Jokeress indie ebook series by Bryan Follins and Margaret Henderson. Podcast copyright 2024 Bryan Follins. A shadowvectors production. 2024-02-1701 minUnmasking the Abuser - The PodcastUnmasking the Abuser - The PodcastEpisode 34 - Oops! I Did It Again! The Valentine's Day ChapterImportant Valentine's Day Episode - no roses required.Most of our episodes are about choosing a better romantic partner. This episode is all about YOU, whether you're female or male, in a relationship or single. It guides you as you identify any beliefs or behaviors that are holding you back, causing you or your partner pain.  It helps expose the mistakes you repeat - no matter how much you promise that you won't - that may be keeping you from manifesting your happily-ever-after.The steps will get you started on substantially improving your relationships, romantic a...2024-02-1035 minUnmasking the Abuser - The PodcastUnmasking the Abuser - The PodcastEpisode 33: I Want You Back!This is one of the most important Episodes we've done. Inspired by a request from a podcast audience member, this Episode explores the tricks and maneuvers used to entice a mistreated partner to return to an abusive relationship.How is it done? What does it take for someone who's fed up and perhaps deeply afraid to dive back into a highly volatile and even dangerous situation? What strings are Abusers most likely to pull? Are there ways to tell if someone is genuinely trying to heal and change - or just pretending to get their p...2024-01-2238 minUnmasking the Abuser - The PodcastUnmasking the Abuser - The PodcastEpisode 32: Surviving Family Gatherings - A Holiday SpecialThis short podcast needs to be bookmarked and saved somewhere convenient. It contains key tips for emotional survival during the holiday season - or any time your family gets together. If you have a volatile partner, a difficult relative, a troublesome partner of a relative, don't go into their lair without protecting yourself. That's what this Episode is all about.All always, the crucial tips are simple, accessible and effective. Be prepared as you head into the holidays, so your day isn't ruined. This is the podcast series that does so much more than e...2023-12-2121 minYou Must Be Some Kind of TherapistYou Must Be Some Kind of Therapist86. Gender Clinics, Journalism, and “Conversion Therapy” Bans Around the World, with Bernard LaneToday I’m joined by Bernard Lane, an independent Australian journalist who covers the international debate over youth gender medicine. We discussed the state of gender clinics and laws in Australia, as well as the challenges faced by journalists in reporting on this topic.We also discussed the influence of environment on youth vulnerability to gender ideology, the situation in California, and the current status of the Tavistock clinic in the UK. One of the key issues we explored was the impact of conversion therapy laws in Australia and their potential consequences. Bernard highlighted th...2023-12-041h 36The Jokeress is a state of mind.....The Jokeress is a state of mind.....Episode 126: Weaponizing ventilation in the CryptThe three scientists discuss weaponizng the ventilation system in the Crypt. Swann: Sandra McMillan Louise: Margaret Henderson Calista: Dina Stinson Lawson Adaptation of The Jokeress indie ebook series by Bryan Follins and Margaret Henderson. Podcast created, produced, written and edited by Bryan Follins. Copyright 2023 Bryan Follins.2023-11-2101 minThe Jokeress is a state of mind.....The Jokeress is a state of mind.....Episode 124..Video functions of the KnifeCalista expounds on the video functions of her knife. Louise and Swann talk about weaponizing the ventilation system of the Crypt. Calista: Dina Stinson Lawson Swann: Sandra McMillan Louise: Margaret Henderson.2023-11-0301 minThe Jokeress is a state of mind.....The Jokeress is a state of mind.....Episode 123: Visual Knife ScanCalista uses her knife to create a visual scan of Lakso's brain. Calista: Dina Stinson Lawson Swann: Sandra McMillan Louise: Margaret Henderson2023-10-1601 minUnmasking the Abuser - The PodcastUnmasking the Abuser - The PodcastEpisode 31: Exposing a Secret DangerThis is still the only podcast series that exposes the specific tactics used by Abusers to lure in and trap romantic partners. It offers rare insight into manipulation that's relevant everywhere in your life, not only in romance.But have you ever wondered if we've missed something - another risk factor that could be significant?In this explosive episode, we discuss a crucial danger that's backed by decades of research yet seems to remain a relative secret. It's unknown by most people going about their lives and even by those who work in the field...2023-10-1430 minFirst Hustle Then BrunchFirst Hustle Then Brunch39. How to Spot an Abuser with Dr. Dina McMillan | Domestic Violence Awareness MonthOctober is Domestic Violence Awareness Month, and for the entire month, we're raising awareness and speaking out against DV. In this episode, Dr. Dina McMillan shares how you can spot an abuser before committing to them. That includes exposing some of the manipulation tactics abusers use to lure and trap their victims.  Dr. Dina McMillan is a social psychologist and internationally published author, public speaker, and content creator. She holds a B.A. from Hunter College in New York and both an M.A. and doctorate from Stanford University in California. Dr. McMillan is best known for he...2023-10-111h 17The Jokeress is a state of mind.....The Jokeress is a state of mind.....Episode 120: Calista carves up LaksoCalista carves on Lakso's face.. Calista: Dina Stinson Lawson. Louise: Margaret Henderson Swann: Sandra McMillan Adaptation of The Jokeress indie ebook series by Bryan Follins and Margaret Henderson. Created, written, and produced by Bryan Follins. Copyright 2023 Bryan Follins. A Shadowvectors production2023-09-2301 minBreakfast with Vinnie!Breakfast with Vinnie!Episode 31 - Special Guest Dr. Dina McMillan Part Two!This episode features Dr. McMillan discussing her new book "Fascination with the devil-why women love emotionally dangerous men", as well as socio political issues on micro and macro levels. www.drdinamcmillan.com 2023-09-111h 22Real Talk with ZubyReal Talk with Zuby#273 Dr. Dina McMillan - Ignorance Vs. HatredDr. Dina McMillan is a social psychologist, an internationally published author and a podcast host. She specializes in all types of interpersonal relationships as well as effective bias reduction.​Follow Zuby - https://twitter.com/zubymusicFollow Dr. McMillan - https://twitter.com/drdina1SPONSOR: The Wellness Company - Doctors & supplements that put you firstVisit https://twc.health and use promo code ZUBY at checkout for 15% offSubscribe to the 'Real Talk With Zuby' podcast on Apple Podcasts, Spotify & mo...2023-09-011h 07HeterodorxHeterodorxCorinna & Nina talk ICONSThe Dorx do a quick review of the 2023 ICONS International Women's Sports Summit in Denver, among whose speakers were many former Heterodorx guests like Carole Hooven, Colin Wright, Helen Joyce, Kara Dansky, and Kim Jones; plus Suzanne Vierling, Dina McMillan, Riley Gaines, Jennifer Sey, and countless other badass women, including tall otherworldly young athletes, elder Olympic champions, lawyers, writers, policy-makers, conservatives, liberals, and spectral beings. There were even some men, like Jon Pike⁠, ⁠Ross Tucker⁠, Corinna, and at least one cute security guy. The theme was WINNING, and we're going to, just like Nina wins an argument with Corinna about...2023-07-2841 minThe Jokeress is a state of mind.....The Jokeress is a state of mind.....Episode 115: Swann and Calista discuss MildredSwann describes Mildred to Calista. Swann: Sandra McMillan Calista: Dina Stinson Lawson Adaptation of The Jokeress indie ebook series by Bryan Follins and Margaret Henderson. A Shadowvectors production. Copyright 2023 Bryan Follins2023-07-2701 minYou Must Be Some Kind of TherapistYou Must Be Some Kind of Therapist67. Dating After Abuse: Rediscovering Inner Trust with Dina McMillanDating in the modern world has changed drastically with dating apps, swipe culture, loosened norms, a cultural divide, and a political ideology coloring the landscape of human values. There’s no wonder why it’s so difficult to find a trustworthy long term partner with these detrimental trends becoming increasingly wide-spread. How can survivors of domestic violence and emotional abuse learn to trust again, and avoid falling into the same traps with new dating partners? This week, Dina McMillan shares her perspective to help women gain the confidence to trust their gut feelings and know their worth.2023-07-241h 34Find Best-Selling Full Audiobooks in Health & Wellness, Relationships & IntimacyFind Best-Selling Full Audiobooks in Health & Wellness, Relationships & IntimacyBut He Says He Loves Me by Dina L McmillanPlease visithttps://thebookvoice.com/podcasts/1/audiobook/697279to listen full audiobooks. Title: But He Says He Loves Me Author: Dina L Mcmillan Narrator: Dina L Mcmillan, Anthony Howell Format: Unabridged Audiobook Length: 3 hours 35 minutes Release date: July 6, 2023 Genres: Relationships & Intimacy Publisher's Summary: Effective and powerful, this chilling exposure of the psychology behind emotionally abusive relationships proves to be an invaluable resource for women in the dating pool or those questioning their current partnership. Identifying the traits, traps, and manipulations that abusers employ, this authoritative guide aids readers in recognizing red flags early on, allowing them to get out early and avoid...2023-07-063h 35The Jokeress is a state of mind.....The Jokeress is a state of mind.....Episode 113: The different voices of Louise VannLouise continues to morph using her voice. Calista wonders about Mildred. Swann: Sandra McMillan Calista: Dina Stinson Lawson. Adaption of The Jokeress indie ebook series by Bryan Follins and Margaret Henderson. A Shadowvectors production. Copyright 2023 Bryan Follins.2023-07-0301 minCTA PodcastCTA PodcastCynical Therapies Book: Dr. Dina McMillan - Critical Race Therapy in the Therapist's Chair - Part 2Dr. Dina McMillan, PhD, is an American social psychologist and academic currently based in Brisbane, Australia. She specialises in domestic abuse prevention and effective bias reduction. In 2020 Dina developed a unique programme called Healing the Rift, designed to reduce racism and other types of bias without using blame-and-shame methods that may increase divisions and exacerbate intolerance. In this episode, we discuss the chapter Dina authored in the book,  Cynical Therapies - Perspectives on the Antitherapeutic Nature of Critical Social Justice. Critical Race Theory is being personified as a client at a counsellor's clinic. Dina describes the characteristics of...2023-07-0247 minThe Jokeress is a state of mind.....The Jokeress is a state of mind.....Episode 112: Calista and Mildred banter..Calista and Mildred banter; Swann worries about Louise Calista: Dina Stinson Lawson Swann: Sandra McMillan The Jokeress audio series is an adaptation of The Jokeress indie ebook series by Bryan Follins and Margaret Henderson. Copyright 2023 Bryan Follins. A Shadowvectors production.2023-06-2300 minCLARYficationCLARYficationCLARYfication PODCAST 05.12.23 - Healing the Rift with Dr. Dina McMillanGooood Saturday morning! Here's what James Clary covers this morning: James brings on Dr. Dina McMillan. Dr. McMillan is an American social psychologist and domestic violence specialist. After moving to Australia, Dr McMillan developed a ground-breaking program called Unmasking the Abuser. James and Dr. D talk about woke ideology, gender identity, and more. You can find more information about Dr. D on her website. You can also follow her on Twitter and listen to her podcast! https://youtu.be/1QjIbQ2fzuw See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.2023-05-1244 minUnmasking the Abuser - The PodcastUnmasking the Abuser - The PodcastEpisode 30 - An Exciting Journey through a Lived Experience with A. GarciaI'm always learning. This episode is an incredible shared experience with A. Garcia, a woman who's experienced severe abuse and violence.  She decided to use what happened to her as a platform to help others. The interview was via Zoom, not in a studio, but I promise you'll get so caught up you won't mind.Please listen as A. discusses what she endured, and how she is a big proponent of PTG, post-traumatic growth, that encourages us all to use our painful life events to make ourselves stronger. She also includes her contact details if yo...2023-04-0152 minUnmasking the Abuser - The PodcastUnmasking the Abuser - The PodcastUnmasking the Abuser Episode 29 - Crucial Info about ChangeIn the last Episode we looked at the efforts made to help Abusers to change. Batterers' Intervention Expert Kevin Tarrance from the Department of Children and Families in Florida shared his insights. He offered the various stages he believes Abusers have to traverse in order to fundamentally alter their expectations and behaviors in their intimate relationships. In this Episode we look at change and YOU - the core principles to help you understand what change is and how it's achieved. We include key tools that can help you change whatever is hurting you or holding you back. T...2023-01-0740 minUnmasking the Abuser - The PodcastUnmasking the Abuser - The PodcastEpisode 28 - About Abusers Examining Change PART 1This is an exciting episode, and not only because I had to quickly learn how to use a virtual interview on Zoom as a podcast episode.  Whether or not Abusers can change is the #1 question I'm asked by those who've been involved with these individuals. Yes and no.  That's the answer and why it takes two episodes to discuss it.I interviewed my first guest, Kevin (Michael) Tarrance, an experienced Domestic Violence Intervention Specialist in Jacksonville, Florida.  Kevin has been put in charge of monitoring and certifying Florida's Batterer's Intervention Programs (BIPs). He discusses whether or...2022-11-1238 minBraver Dogs PoddenBraver Dogs PoddenSanningen om dominans och kontrollTanken att leva ett mer jämställt liv tillsammans med sin hund kan synas vara en utopi, för är inte hunden avlad till att vara människans fogliga vän?Att samarbeta eller att styra det är frågan. I det här avsnittet synar vi gamla sanningar i sömmarna och upptäcker att det finns en hel del myter att slå hål på.“Om hunden drog i kopplet eller ville ligga i soffan var den definitivt dominant” (01:21)“Många hundar skulle må bättre av att få lära sig att ta fler beslut själva” (0...2022-10-1119 minBreakfast with Vinnie!Breakfast with Vinnie!Episode 23 - Special guest Dr. Dina McMillan Dr. Dina McMillan is an American social psychologist and domestic violence specialist. She received her BA from Hunter College in New York and both a masters and doctorate in social psychology from Stanford University in California. In 2007, after moving to Australia, Dr McMillan developed a ground-breaking program called Unmasking the Abuser. Dr. McMillan wrote a book on this topic called, But He Says He Loves Me, published by Allen & Unwin, that’s currently sold in 14 countries. It’s become available in audible form. In 2020 Dr. Dina began a podcast seri...2022-06-301h 15Real Faith with Eric SkatteboReal Faith with Eric SkatteboDr Dina McMillan – Domestic Abuse and Violence Series – Part 2Dr Dina McMillan is a social psychologist and the creator of the ’Unmasking the Abuser’ domestic abuse and violence prevention program. She wrote the forward to Xenia Schembri’s book and will provide insights into Xenia’a story - and how similar abusive relationships can be prevented. Dina is also the author of the book, 'But He Says He Loves Me: How to avoid being trapped in a manipulative relationship.'Your support sends the gospel to every corner of Australia through broadcast, online and print media: https://www.vision.org.au/donateSee omnystudio.com/listener for priv...2022-06-1127 minUnmasking the Abuser - The PodcastUnmasking the Abuser - The PodcastUnmasking the Abuser Episode 27: Crucial BeginningsThis is a must-listen Episode. I discuss why my book, But He Says He Loves Me, is still essential knowledge for anyone wanting to quickly and clearly spot the signs of an abusive relationship. I've just finished production for the audio version of the book - out soon - and offer some exciting previews for my listeners.The book, But He Says He Loves Me, was written in two voices: myself as a domestic abuse expert, and the voice of an Abuser (a fictional blend of real men) who offers men lessons on manipulation and m...2022-04-0235 minUncomfortable Conversations with Josh SzepsUncomfortable Conversations with Josh Szeps"Are We Training Victimhood?" with Dr. Dina McMillanThe latest in of Permission To Think, a collaboration with the University of Technology Sydney - Josh speaks with social psychologist and the host of the podcast Unmasking The Abuser, Dr. Dina Mcmillan. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.2021-11-301h 40Unmasking the Abuser - The PodcastUnmasking the Abuser - The PodcastUnmasking the Abuser Episode 26 Special Holiday Edition!The holidays are here! Well, if you count family birthdays, reunions and other special events, the holidays are always here. How do you get through with your sanity intact? How can you still grab joy even if some family members insist on being difficult? Is it even possible?This special holiday edition is filled with tips on how to handle difficult people and situations during family get-togethers. How do you prepare? What do you keep telling yourself so you can remain in control? How do you shield yourself from tantrums and attempts by others to ruin the...2021-11-2223 minUnmasking the Abuser - The PodcastUnmasking the Abuser - The PodcastUnmasking the Abuser Episode 25 - Broad Brush StrokesIf you only listen to one Episode of this series, this podcast Episode is it. We cover the basics of the entire abuse prevention program: Selection, Main Tactics and Honorable Mentions.  All of Abusers' secret and most effective tactics laid bare for you to examine.The insights here offer a powerful review session for regular listeners and can bring new listeners up to speed.In addition, the information in this podcast are available to anyone who requests it. Just email me at unmaskingpodcast@gmail.com.This is the podcast series that does s...2021-10-1841 minBraveHeart with Remi Pearson (Formerly Perspectives Podcast)BraveHeart with Remi Pearson (Formerly Perspectives Podcast)Dr. Dina McMillan – Fight Ignorance With Knowledge | Perspectives PodcastJoin me on my #Perspectives podcast with Dina McMillan, a sociologist and social psychologist passionate about overcoming domestic violence and racism in the world. We explore:  - Fighting Ignorance with Knowledge- Universal Manipulation Tactics- Critical Race Theory Dina McMillian graduated from Stamford University with a PhD in the nineties and is one of the smartest women you will come across. My conversation with Dina was far reaching. A lot of the work she does now is in...2021-10-061h 53Into YouInto YouThe Science Behind A Toxic MindIn the final of our three-part series on domestic abuse, Fern speaks to psychologist and researcher Dr. Dina McMillan to uncover the science behind toxic relationships. Dr. Dina shares why people become abusive, what to look out for in a potential partner and offers some tips and tricks she has used in dating in order to avoid getting involved with an abusive person. Dr. Dina's passion for spreading the message about abuse and helping people find happy, healthy relationships is infectious and her insight into the psychology and dynamics behind domestic violence is invaluable. All that and more on this...2021-08-0532 minUnmasking the Abuser - The PodcastUnmasking the Abuser - The PodcastUnmasking the Abuser Episode 24 - Tricks of the TradeWe've discussed Abusers' tactics at length. I thought it would also be useful to cover some of their most common tricks - smaller moves that may be part of a bigger tactic.  The 15 most common tricks are included in this Episode.These tricks are sinister, effective, and can cause a lot of trouble.  That's the bad news. The good news is these moves are often easy to spot. They're scripted ploys that help Abusers gather in a new Target, get a Victim to back down, or convince a Target, Victim or Survivor to return to the toxic re...2021-07-1230 minUnmasking the Abuser - The PodcastUnmasking the Abuser - The PodcastUnmasking the Abuser Episode 23 - Protecting Your New SuperpowerWith previous Episodes you've done a lot of work to develop a new superpower, a set of valuable skills that help you identify Abusers early, to spot the tactics of manipulation, coercion and unfair persuasion in romantic and non-romantic settings.In this Episode we talk about how to protect your new knowledge, how to shield yourself from influences that would try to prevent you from using what you know. We look at some simple mistakes that can easily be avoided, and why your brain is your most precious gift.  Knowledge that isn't used is just potential, and I...2021-05-1738 minTRIGGERnometryTRIGGERnometry"Burning and Looting Doesn't Make People Less Racist" - Dr Dina McMillanDr Dina McMillan is an internationally known social psychologist and relationship expert. Join our exclusive TRIGGERnometry community on Locals! https://triggernometry.locals.com/  OR Support TRIGGERnometry Here: https://www.PayPal.me/triggerpod https://www.subscribestar.com/triggernometry https://www.patreon.com/triggerpod Bitcoin: bc1qm6vvhduc6s3rvy8u76sllmrfpynfv94qw8p8d5 Buy Merch Here: https://www.triggerpod.co.uk/shop/ Advertise on TRIGGERnometry: marketing@triggerpod.co.uk Join the Mailing List: https://www.triggerpod.co.uk/sign-up/2021-05-0955 minUnmasking the Abuser - The PodcastUnmasking the Abuser - The PodcastUnmasking the Abuser Episode 22 - The Key to Resilience, Part 2As promised, this is the crucial second Episode on Resilience, filled with crucial insights and key tips to start building this central core life skill right away. No life is without pain, trouble, disappointment, regret. Resilience is the ability to thoughtfully regain your strength and determination after facing situations of uncertainty, loss, failure, crises or major disruption to your life. You'll learn how to push through your initial, visceral reactions to the empowered place where you can decide what comes next. Resilience allows you to thrive and survive instead of falling apart.Everyone should know a...2021-04-0141 minUnmasking the Abuser - The PodcastUnmasking the Abuser - The PodcastUnmasking the Abuser Episode 21: Resilience Part 1Resilience is such an important topic, yet it gets far too little attention. It's often included in expensive leadership courses, but what about everyone else? What about our need to understand, develop and use this key tool in our ever-changing lives?Resilience is important enough to deserve two episodes. Episode 1 provides the crucial foundation, offering a clear, detailed description of resilience and how to start weaving it into your life. Part 2, soon to follow, will demonstrate specific steps to become more resilient now, no matter how you've handled challenging situations in your past or even your present.2021-03-2930 minUnmasking the Abuser - The PodcastUnmasking the Abuser - The PodcastUnmasking the Abuser Episode 20 - The Gift of FearI think the concept of fear has been misrepresented in recent years. After all, if we don't feel fear we'll take unnecessary or even foolish chances. We'll ignore the instincts that tell us to get away from something or someone dangerous.This series has never tried to dampen all fear. We've honed those instincts, sharpened them with specific knowledge of tactics, and applied this key knowledge to gain more effective ways to shield from harm.In this Episode, we take the same concepts we apply so skillfully to our romantic lives and examine our lives...2021-02-2443 minUnmasking the Abuser - The PodcastUnmasking the Abuser - The PodcastUnmasking the Abuser Episode 19 - Between the SheetsSex is an important part of adult relationships. In this Episode, we look at sexuality and Abusers: what sex means to them, how they treat their partners sexually, the sexual weapons they'll use if the relationship ends.  Sex definitely doesn't mean intimacy.  It involves manipulation, coercion, humiliation and pain. Sex can also be used as an enticement in the beginning, another important tool offered as a reward or a punishment.  This can make it difficult for the unwary to recognize the huge red flag being waved over their new romance.Listen and learn about what take...2021-02-0640 minUnmasking the Abuser - The PodcastUnmasking the Abuser - The PodcastUnmasking the Abuser Episode 18 - Secrets and LiesThis Episode covers some crucial information about how secrets can make you vulnerable to manipulation and the way secrets always grow into bigger and more harmful lies.We also chat about ways to get back into the romance game after you've been hurt - some simple but powerful tips to keep you from repeating your past mistakes, or jumping into love with someone who will quickly make you regret your haste.Included in this Episode is talk about the importance of help and sharing, and some key insights into building or joining an Unmasking the...2021-01-1529 minUnmasking the Abuser - The PodcastUnmasking the Abuser - The PodcastUnmasking the Abuser Episode 17 - Getting to Know YouAre you interested in finding out some simple ways to get to know a new potential romantic partner? Ever wondered what you should ask, or wish you had a a few tips of what to do?That's what this Episode is all about. We start with some insights from Robert Greene's book, "The Art of Seduction", exposing some ploys to be aware of when you're out and about.Then, stepping a little away from issues and problems, this Episode reveals some quick and easy tips to establish whether you and a new person are compatible...2021-01-0840 minUnmasking the Abuser - The PodcastUnmasking the Abuser - The PodcastUnmasking the Abuser Episode 16 - Circles of IntimacyHave you ever thought about your relationships and wondered how much you really care for the people in your life - or worried about how much they truly care about you? The Circles of Intimacy is a simple set of 2 small tests with a few questions that can help you know. Test 1 helps you establish how you feel about each person in your life. Test 2 gives you important insight into how much the people in your life care about you.There's no judgment, no blame, no harshness. Just a few simple questions that can help you establish...2020-12-1839 minCalmversationsCalmversations319 | Bypassing Bias with Dr. Dina McMillanDr. Dina resources:  https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/unmasking-the-abuser-the-podcast/i  @DrDina1 on twitter   Tune in for more videos by the Dynamite Dr: https://www.youtube.com/user/drdina22  Support this channel: https://www.paypal.me/benjaminboyce  Follow me on twitter @BenjaminABoyce2020-11-211h 06Unmasking the Abuser - The PodcastUnmasking the Abuser - The PodcastUnmasking the Abuser Episode 15 - Strengthening Our ShieldI believe it's incredibly valuable to expose the specific tactics used by Abusers to manipulate their targets into relationships. But this knowledge cannot work alone. Potential targets must also recognize where they're vulnerable. They have to explore where their beliefs, values, even fantasies will unwittingly encourage them to ignore the wisdom that can keep them safe.  This Episode is crucial for anyone who wants to make sure they're not subtly walking themselves into a trap. As always, it's highly solution-focused with key methods for strengthening any fragile spots and heightening resilience.This is the podcast s...2020-11-0837 minUnmasking the Abuser - The PodcastUnmasking the Abuser - The PodcastUnmasking the Abuser Episode 14 - Toxic RelationshipsThis episode continues our important discussion on troublesome relationships that aren't romantic.  They can be family, old friends, and even work relationships. Some are simply challenging others would qualify as toxic. How do you know for certain?I'll show you in this Episode. We go through a short number of questions you can ask yourself about your relationship with anyone. Each type of question is worth a certain number of points on the toxicity scale. Then you add up the points at the end. You can determine if the other person is too negative, too selfish so y...2020-10-1131 minUnmasking the Abuser - The PodcastUnmasking the Abuser - The PodcastUnmasking the Abuser Episode 13 - Widening the ScopeWe've talked a lot about abusive relationships and how to avoid choosing an abusive partner. But what about Abusers you don't choose - your family member, a neighbor, a work colleague, a boss? What about an old friend or a new friend who seems great at first?Episodes 13 and 14 will explore the dynamics and the key warning signs of abusive relationships that aren't romantic. These toxic pairings can still destroy your life - or that of a loved one - if you're not careful. We look at how they're formed and how easily people can be fooled...2020-09-0435 minUnmasking the Abuser - The PodcastUnmasking the Abuser - The PodcastUnmasking the Abuser Episode 12 - Pretty Woman (about Female Abusers)In this Episode, I fulfill a promise I made to my male listeners and discuss the means and methods used by female abusers when pursuing male targets. Most of their ploys and maneuvers are identical to those used by abusive males - so listening to previous Episodes is a must. But there are some differences due to gender roles and cultural norms that are highlighted here.In the second part of this Episode, we define both positive and toxic masculinity, and confirm the reasons toxic masculinity isn't harmless - it sits squarely on the abuse continuum. As...2020-08-2031 min