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Indigenous Sexual FuturesEp.8: Indigiqueer Futures with Joshua WhiteheadEp.8: Indigiqueer Futures with Joshua WhiteheadIn Episode 8, Doris invites Joshua Whitehead, Oji-Cree/nehiyaw, Two-Spirit/Indigiqueer member of Peguis First Nation (Treaty 1) to the table to share what underpins his writings and their connections to Indigenous Futurisms. While studying at the University of Winnipeg as a youth and beginning to contemplate writing, he recalls how very little representation there was of two-spirit characters in books and wanted youth to see themselves depicted, “I wanted Indigenous readers, specifically Indigenous youth to see themselves represented”, and says that they were not being fully represented in that contemporary/urba...2024-11-0756 min

Thanks For AskingEP 35: No bandwidth..The proof of life episode where I once again, explain my unexplained silence for the past couple of months. Well, it's just two words and an exclamation mark - no bandwidth!. On this one, I muse about some things that have been on my mind and all the fun little life changes have that have been happening. At the end of the day, 'everyone was once a baby' - remembering this helps us appreciate how hard people have had to work to get where they are, and how possibly, there's still a giant baby in everyone! Enjoy xx 2023-08-2639 min

Thanks For AskingEP 34: Only Take What You NeedThis new episode is about "unpopular opinions” that should remain as that - or should they? I invite you to listen as I explore some random thoughts on identity and also share some insightful learnings from the Indigenous peoples of Canada. I do agree that not everything I say on this episode would resonate with everyone, so only take what you need..see what I did there? ;) This podcast is an attempt to make sense of some of the utterly ridiculous questions we ask ourselves and others daily. We also discuss light hearted topics and...2023-06-0454 min

Thanks For AskingEP 33: Let's try this again..You came into this world crying…why stop now? These were my words after I faced an obstacle so huge that it threatened my sanity but ultimately changed my attitude towards failure. Welcome back to Thanks for Asking. This podcast is an attempt to make sense of some of the utterly ridiculous questions we ask ourselves and others daily. We also discuss light hearted topics and explore everyday experiences deserving of a wider audience. Instagram: (@thanksforaskingpodcast) Leave us a 5-star rating and a written review on...2023-04-1854 min

Thanks For AskingEP 32: Love Don't Cost A ThingHeartbeats sound a lot like clock ticking if you lay down and just focus on the steady taps, and in a way it is. It counts down until you draw your final breath. On that jarring note, I welcome you to the last podcast episode of 2022. What a year!! Let's wrap it up talking about the cost of finding love. For some people, love shouldn't cost a thing, but for others.. paying $25,000 is just the starting point. On this fun episode, I explore some of your views on dating and remind us all why we must enjoy...2022-12-3143 min

Thanks For AskingEP: 31 New Friends & BenefitsToday, I am joined by Akinlowo [@lowoslens] and we discuss making new friends with or without benefits, and toxic relationships and Toronto.. in no particular order. Join us for a very hilarious episodes where we unpack childhood memories, traumatic experiences and our day-to-day lives as Canadian immigrants. This podcast is an attempt to make sense of some of the utterly ridiculous questions we ask ourselves and others daily. We also discuss light hearted topics and explore everyday experiences deserving of a wider audience. Instagram: (@thanksforaskingpodcast) Leave us a 5-star rating and a written...2022-12-1156 min

Thanks For AskingEP 30: Plug & PlayOn this episode I share my career transition story which was plug & play literally.. This podcast is an attempt to make sense of some of the utterly ridiculous questions we ask ourselves and others daily. We also discuss light hearted topics and explore everyday experiences deserving of a wider audience. Instagram: (@thanksforaskingpodcast) Leave us a 5-star rating and a written review on Apple Podcasts and Spotify. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/thetfapodcast/message 2022-10-0738 min

Thanks For AskingEP 29: Catch Flights Not FeelingsAnother day, another brand new hilarious podcast! The pandemic was a crazy time for us all but imagine undertaking a trip half way around the world to a new country in the midst of the global lockdown...yeah, you're gonna need some wine for this! On today's very hilarious episode, Doris sits down with Veronica Chiamaka Vincent to discuss her travel story to Canada, first impressions after arriving and the journey so far. This podcast is an attempt to make sense of some of the utterly ridiculous questions we ask ourselves and others daily. We also discuss l...2022-09-1657 min

Thanks For AskingEP 28: New DispensationGuess who's back, back again - Shady's back, tell a friend! Can we pretend that I didn't leave you guys in radio silence for four months? Can we pretend that I've been publishing podcasts back to back and that a catchup episode isn't necessary? No? Okay... Hello everyone, welcome to season 3. It's the same ol' Doris but with a different post code. I am deeply sorry. Life happened and as with every new experience, I have been going through the various stages of change and have hopefully reached the point of acceptance. This episode shares...2022-09-0435 min

Thanks For AskingEP 27: It's Giving Tears..Not much to say... goodbyes are hard so you may call this the cry me a river episode. This one is for me, and for everyone having major doubts before a huge decision - what if it turns out to be such an unforgettable experience? Well, Lagos was. This podcast is an attempt to make sense of some of the utterly ridiculous questions we ask ourselves and others daily. We also discuss light hearted topics and explore everyday experiences deserving of a wider audience. Instagram: (@thanksforaskingpodcast) Leave us a 5...2022-04-0947 min

Thanks For AskingEP 26: Okay. But Are You Happy?On this episode, we welcome back Jennifer Ugorji for a light-hearted chat about choices, trade-offs, children, work, men and everything in-between. As you can guess, this conversation was random but thoughtful and full of many belly laughs. Listen and play the games along with us and let me know how you did. Have I mentioned how Jennifer threw some questions at me and for the first time...I discuss my ideal man (at least what he looks like in my head - and no, he doesn't have to drop from the sky holding a lightsaber ). Find Jennifer on instagram...2022-02-2656 min

Thanks For AskingEP 25: How About NO! - An ode to The Tinder Swindler.."If it seems too good to be true, it probably is a lie" - These are words to live by when you meet someone new. The Tinder Swindler has us all amazed as to how he pulled off a Ponzi scheme to amass millions of dollars from women around the world. Everyone is talking about the new documentary on Netflix yet somebody somewhere is about to fall victim to another con artist just because they do not want to say NO and mean it.. On this episode, I share tips yet again on how to u...2022-02-1037 min

Thanks For AskingEP 24: My Favourite F wordIt's Friend! Oh yes, my favourite F word is Friendship...what did you think my favourite F word would be? Food? haha I’ve been accused of romanticizing friendship, and it’s true, I do. I really love my friends and I’m not ashamed to admit that my friends are amazing. It’s difficult to organize your life around friendship in a world that’s built for couples, and it’s doubly difficult when your time with friends is seen as a fun extracurricular activity instead of a basic human need. Friendships are so much more and we grow...2022-01-3042 min

Thanks For AskingEP 23: What's Your Flavour?On this episode, I have a good ol' chat with my buddy Emeka [@no1_wordsmith] and we talked about dating in your 30s, dating in Lagos, and dating spring chickens (apparently, that's some people's flavour *side eye*). Well, Emeka answered some of the burning questions I have always wanted to ask men and he shares his very interesting views on the most random things. Listen to laugh and catch up with all the fun we had on the pod. This podcast is an attempt to make sense of some of the utterly ridiculous questions we ask ourselves...2022-01-1544 min

Thanks For AskingEP 22: Skipping “Breakfast” In The New YearYou shouldn't skip breakfast they say.. It's the most important meal of the day (debatable). But what about when the "Breakfast" in question is a callous meal served with a sword straight through the heart? That's right...I am talking about heartbreaks and the very wicked games people play with the emotions of others. How do we avoid being taken for a ride on the make-believe express? Happy New Year Folks..Listen as I discuss a topic that hits close to home and had me fascinated at the lengths people would go to be deceitful. This podcast is an attempt...2022-01-0636 min

Thanks For AskingEP 21: Making Dreams Come TrueNot sure if you can tell but baby, everywhere you look on the internet..someone is either getting engaged, married or celebrating a wedding anniversary. Let’s not even talk about all the matching red pyjama photos that we drowned in over Christmas.. Well, the happily-ever-after starts with a wedding ceremony and we hear stories of wedding vendors who catastrophically disappoint their clients on the big day and leave a trail of tears. On this episode, Doris chats with Queen Ohamara, CEO @qmaravieplanners about how she helps couples make their dreams come true, what to do...2021-12-3058 min

Thanks For AskingEP 20: Thanks For Asking About Black TaxHello guys, Onwa December is in full swing and as Christmas approaches, the black taxes go through the roof. Wondering what that means? Black tax is money spent to support your extended family and friends. A lot of Millennials especially of black origin know the financial obligations that we face once we start working and earning. It is also difficult not to pay 'black tax' because many of us at one point or the other were supported in our education/career by family/relatives and thus it is hard not to return the favour. Whilst some see it as...2021-12-0934 min

Thanks For AskingEP:19 ThirtyishThirtyish - The Grown & Sexy Episode What would like to know about life in your 30s? Listen to Doris and Ann as they delve into becoming grown and sexy women living and enjoying life in their thirties. This episode explores friendship, careers, dating, favourite Tv shows, boring men and the whole shebang!! This podcast is an attempt to make sense of some of the utterly ridiculous questions we ask ourselves and others daily. We also discuss light hearted topics and explore everyday experiences deserving of a wider audience. Instagram: (@thanksforaskingpodcast) Leave u...2021-12-0249 min

Thanks For AskingEP 18: How's Your Head?EP 18: How’s Your Head? November is men’s mental health awareness month and on the podcast today, we talk about mental well-being, seeking help and the benefits of therapy. Doris is joined by Pauline, a mental health first aider, counsellor and founder of T.A.L.K Initiative. She also brings in Jennifer to discuss her experience going into therapy and why it is one of the best decisions you can make. To anyone reading this, please prioritise your mental health. Talk to friends and family when you’re down, do what makes you happy, try to enj...2021-11-2547 min

Thanks For AskingEP 17: Read The RoomReading the room is getting a sense of your surroundings. What is the mood? How are people feeling? and importantly how should your behaviour be adjusted? For example, lets say you just got some great news! You won an all expense paid vacation to your dream location over the weekend. You get to work on Monday bubbling with excitement, wanting to shout out to everyone that you won but no one is looking up. They are quietly working, or shuffling around the office, the mood is very somber. Do you shout out about your winnings, or do you quietly...2021-11-1827 min

Thanks For AskingEP 16: DealbreakersWhat are your dealbreakers? When do you say F this!! Do we become less ballsy as we grow older? What would your younger self do that you most likely won’t do? This episode explores what’s really important to us and what things we are absolutely not willing to compromise on. These dealbreakers could be in relationships, jobs, everyday living, family and friendships. Doris is joined by Yinka Ajose (@theyinx) and they discuss career choices, women in the workplace and everything in between. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/thetfapodcast/message 2021-11-1153 min

Thanks For AskingEP 15: Not a Birthday SpecialBut a very special Birthday!!! It's my birthday today and I decided "on a whim" to create an episode where I answer some of the questions I throw to guests on the show. I also share my personal growth journey, my funny dreams, quirky thoughts and talk about checking out of Hotel California. Enjoy!! This podcast is an attempt to make sense of some of the utterly ridiculous questions we ask ourselves and others daily. We also discuss light hearted topics and explore everyday experiences deserving of a wider audience. Instagram: (@thanksforaskingpodcast) Leave...2021-11-0437 min

Thanks For AskingEP 14: UnlearningOn this episode, Doris sits down with Jennifer [@jeneeffah] to discuss unlearning aspects of everyday life that do not serve us in today's world. E.g. Why can’t we celebrate our successes without the fear of being perceived as conceited?…Why must women wait on somebody’s son? And why, pray tell, did we learn Shorthand in secondary school??? Listen to this episode to hear them discuss this and more over bottomless wine and loads of laughter. This podcast is an attempt to make sense of some of the utterly ridiculous questions we ask ourselves and others...2021-10-2847 min

Thanks For AskingEP 13: Terrible First DatesHey guys…Thanks For Asking is back and we are kicking off Series 2 with war stories from the dating battlefield as requested on our Instagram poll. I mean, modern dating is a minefield and we've all experienced some wild and crazy things. We try to put on the best possible version of ourselves when we go out on a date, we wear our nicest clothes, try to pick a great spot to meet up, and hope some kind of real connection is born. However, this does not always go according to plan and they make for hilarious stories. On th...2021-10-2143 min

Thanks For AskingEP 12: Thanks For Asking About Minding The GapSummer Holidays are Back! Not without some unnecessary hassle but we’ll take what we get in these Covid times. What’s your favourite city?… What do you do when you travel?…These are some of the questions I receive when I share holiday photos. On this episode, I discuss spending my summer vacation in London and why it’s one of my favourite cities. This podcast is an attempt to make sense of some of the utterly ridiculous questions we ask ourselves and others daily. We also discuss light hearted topics and explore everyday experiences deserving of a wider...2021-08-3138 min

Thanks For AskingEP 11: Thanks For Asking If Any Is Better Than NoneOn this episode, Doris hosts Jennifer of @jennyssweeteats and they discuss becoming grown women, adulthood and failed expectations. The popular saying goes - a bird in hand is worth more than ten in the bush, but is that really the case? Should you take your chances with the available or wait for what might come? In this chat, they discuss all of this over loads of laughter and send letters to their 16-year old selves. Really interesting stuff...Go on, listen & enjoy. This podcast is an attempt to make sense of some of the utterly ridiculous questions w...2021-08-2249 min

Thanks For AskingEP 10: Thanks For Asking About Chevening ScholarshipsOn this episode, Doris sits down with Joshua Idoko - an energy, infrastructure and finance lawyer at one of the premier law firms in Nigeria. As Chevening alumni, Doris & Joshua share tips on how to ace the four essays required in the application process for the Chevening Scholarship Awards. This podcast is an attempt to make sense of some of the utterly random questions we ask ourselves and others daily. We also discuss light hearted topics and explore everyday experiences deserving of a wider audience. Instagram: (@thanksforaskingpodcast) Leave us a 5-star rating and a...2021-08-121h 16

Thanks For AskingEP 09: Thanks For Asking How To Unpack..Unpack...a word that is often used on this podcast. Well, on this episode, Doris finally unpacks the word and gives insights on how to hold conversations with yourself - the fine art of Self-Reflection. This helps us make our successes repeatable and also prevents us from repeating mistakes of the past such as loaning money to the wrong people (we've all been there) but never again!! This podcast is an attempt to make sense of some of the random questions we ask ourselves and others daily. We also discuss light hearted topics and explore everyday experiences...2021-07-3123 min

Thanks For AskingEP 08: Thanks for Asking About Karma’s Expedited Shipping ServiceWhat's buzzing? I’ll tell you in a bit.. This segment of the Thanks For Asking podcast explores happenings on Social Media, TV and popular culture generally. As a self-proclaimed reality-TV junkie, Doris discusses happenings in the Love Island UK Villa and why the statement - You Lose ‘Em How You Get ‘Em has never been more true. She also shares her take on chivalry and why it is okay to change your energy when you see wrongdoing. This podcast is an attempt to make sense of some of the utterly ridiculous questions we ask oursel...2021-07-2426 min

Thanks For AskingEP 07: Thanks For Asking About Finding Your SparkOn this episode, Doris has a fireside chat with Dr Ezinne Okwulehie (@drezinneokwulehie) who is a Self-actualisation Pundit and Mind Reformer. As a practicing Optometrist, Ezinne not only helps people optimise their physical vision, but their mental & spiritual vision. In this lighthearted chat, they discuss fashion, honing your sense of agency and finding that thing that makes you spark from the inside out… This podcast is an attempt to make sense of some of the utterly ridiculous questions we ask ourselves and others daily. We also discuss light hearted topics and explore everyday experiences deserving of a wi...2021-07-2228 min

Thanks For AskingEP06: Thanks For Asking About Doris In The City..This episode is all about the L word…haha - not the usual one but Lagos or Eko Miami if you’re boujee!...Doris debunks fears about living in Lagos Nigeria, and shares tips for surviving, thriving and keeping sane in a city that is determined to break you. This podcast is an attempt to make sense of some of the utterly ridiculous questions we ask ourselves and others daily. We also discuss light hearted topics and explore everyday experiences deserving of a wider audience. Follow @thanksforaskingpodcast on Instagram. Leave us a 5-star rati...2021-07-1638 min

Thanks For AskingEP05: Thanks For Asking About Fame & Friendships with Frank iTomOn this magical episode, Doris brings on the incredible Frank iTom (@iamitom) - who you may call the Digital Genie. They discuss navigating the murky waters of fame, balancing day and night jobs and play some "wicked wicked games"... Listen to find out what they have in common and why you need a phone not a Bible if you’re ever shipwrecked.. Instagram: (@thanksforaskingpodcast) This podcast is an attempt to make sense of some of the utterly ridiculous questions we ask ourselves and others daily. We also discuss light hearted topics and explore everyday experiences de...2021-07-0847 min

Thanks For AskingEP 04: Thanks For Asking About The Monsters You MadeLAUNCH DAY...What's buzzing? This segment of the Thanks For Asking podcast explores happenings on Social Media, TV and the news. As a self-proclaimed TV junkie, Doris gives her take on the BBNaija Lockdown Reunion and her encounter with a first-time movie goer. I mean, how else do you explain the craziness? --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/thetfapodcast/message 2021-07-0124 min

Thanks For AskingEP 03: Thanks For Asking Why I'm Not FamousThis podcast is an attempt to make sense of some of the utterly ridiculous questions we ask ourselves and others daily. In this episode, Doris talks about her "interesting" history with a Grammy Award winner...and why fame is frightening! --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/thetfapodcast/message 2021-06-3027 min

Thanks For AskingEP 02: Thanks For Asking About Doing You BooThis podcast is an attempt to make sense of some of the utterly ridiculous questions we ask ourselves and others daily. In this episode, Doris discusses Choices and why it's ridiculous to assign gender identities to inanimate objects. She also gives tips for planning great solo/group holidays and "peppering" them on the gram... --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/thetfapodcast/message 2021-06-3029 min

Thanks For AskingEP 01: Thanks For Asking About DorisI FINALLY DID IT! This podcast is an attempt to make sense of some of the utterly ridiculous questions we ask ourselves and others daily. In this first and very rough episode, Doris tells a little about herself (good & bad) and explains the motivation behind the podcast. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/thetfapodcast/message 2021-06-1817 min