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Focused on the FutureHow Douglas and Heather Boneparth Combine Love, Money and PurposePartnership in life and business takes communication, balance and understanding, and when money enters the mix, the stakes are even higher.
In this episode of the Focused on The Future podcast, host Suzanne Siracuse talks with Douglas and Heather Boneparth, the husband-and-wife team behind Bone Fide Wealth, about how their personal and professional lives intersect, the inspiration behind their new book Money Together, and the lessons they’ve learned about partnership and purpose.
Douglas and Heather share how real-life challenges shaped their firm’s people-first mission, why emotional awareness matters as much as financial planning, and...
2025-11-0537 min
Love, Happiness and Success with Dr. Lisa Marie BobbyWhen Does “My Money” Become “Our Money”? | Money and Relationships | E482Have you ever asked yourself, “When does ‘my money’ become ‘our money’?” It’s one of those questions couples don’t really face until tension starts to build. And by then, it’s rarely about the dollars. It’s about fairness, power, and feeling seen.
In this episode, I’m joined by Heather and Douglas Boneparth, the power couple behind Bone Fide Wealth Management, and co-authors of their new book, Money Together: How to Find Fairness in Your Relationship and Become an Unstoppable Financial Team. We talk about what really happens when love meets money - the unspoken expectati...
2025-11-0355 min
Love, Happiness and Success with Dr. Lisa Marie BobbyWhen Does “My Money” Become “Our Money”? | Money and Relationships | E482Have you ever asked yourself, “When does ‘my money’ become ‘our money’?” It’s one of those questions couples don’t really face until tension starts to build. And by then, it’s rarely about the dollars. It’s about fairness, power, and feeling seen. In this episode, I’m joined by Heather and Douglas Boneparth, the power couple behind Bone Fide Wealth Management, and co-authors of their new book, Money Together: How to Find Fairness in Your Relationship and Become an Unstoppable Financial Team. We talk about what really happens when love meets money - the unspoken expectations, the invisible labor, and t...
2025-11-0351 min
MoneyWatch with Jill SchlesingerMoney Together: An Unstoppable Financial TeamToday we're joined by Heather and Douglas Boneparth, co-authors of the recently released book, Money Together: How to find fairness in your relationship and become an unstoppable financial team.
In Money Together, Heather and Douglas, financial gurus and married couple, help couples in every era of their lives approach money with greater fairness, sustainability, respect, and love.
With help from leading financial experts, couples therapists, psychologists, and more, they offer a fresh, human perspective on a taboo topic that leaves too much unsaid.
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2025-11-0137 min
Money Unplugged with Chris HillHeather Boneparth’s Path from Having $200,000 of Debt to Becoming Financially UnstoppableWhen she was 8 years old Heather Boneparth got into an argument about money with her grandfather. It’s just one of the memories from her childhood that left a financial imprint on her, lasting into adulthood. Now an attorney and the director of business & legal affairs at Bone Fide Wealth (a wealth management firm she runs with her husband Douglas), Heather opens up about:- Why “money doesn’t hold a flame to time”- The backstory on Money Together, the new book she and her husband wrote- What relationships and “money conversations” have in comm...
2025-10-3132 min
The Long ViewDoug and Heather Boneparth: How Couples Can Find Financial HarmonyToday on the podcast, we’re going to be chatting with Heather and Doug Boneparth. They’re co-authors of a new book called Money Together: How to Find Fairness in Your Relationship and Become an Unstoppable Financial Team. Heather and Doug know a little something about money in relationships. As you may have guessed, they’re married. Heather worked as a lawyer for more than a decade before joining the family business as Bone Fide Wealth’s Director of Business and Legal Affairs. She also co-authored the couple’s first book, The Millennial Money Fix. Doug is a certified financial...
2025-10-2854 min
Women's Money WisdomEpisode 295: Money, Marriage & Fairness: Building an Unstoppable Financial Team with Heather & Douglas BoneparthWhat happens when money dynamics shift inside a relationship—and how do couples find fairness when life, careers, and income change?In this episode, Melissa Joy, CFP® sits down with Heather and Douglas Boneparth, the powerhouse couple behind Money Together: How to Find Fairness in Your Relationship and Become an Unstoppable Financial Team.Heather, a former corporate lawyer, and Douglas, founder of Bonafide Wealth in New York City, open up about how their own experiences as partners, parents, and business owners inspired the book—and why talking about money as a team...
2025-10-2838 min
Modern Husbands PodcastMoney Together: A Conversation with Experts and Authors Douglas and Heather BoneparthWelcome to the Modern Husbands podcast, where any combination of Dr. Bruce Ross, Christian Sherrill, and Brian Page host national experts who share winning ideas to manage money and the home as a team.I’m Brian Page, founder of Modern Husbands. Sometimes our listeners want more support than a podcast can give, individual or couple support, which I now provide. Details can be found at modernhusbands.com or you can email me at brian@modernhusbands.com. For today’s podcast we welcome Heather and Douglas Boneparth, a powerhouse couple blending financial expertise with real-life rela...
2025-10-2144 min
So Money with Farnoosh Torabi1891: Faith, Privilege, and Power: The Hidden Forces Behind Couples’ FinancesMoney touches every part of a relationship — from who pays the bills to who feels free to spend, to how faith, privilege, and even family expectations shape the way we see our financial roles. But for many couples, these conversations stay on the surface — focused on budgets or account balances — instead of the deeper emotions and power dynamics underneath.My guests today, Heather and Douglas Boneparth, set out to change that. They’re the husband-and-wife duo behind the new book Money Together, a guide that goes beyond financial planning to explore the real forces that drive how coup...
2025-10-1335 min
Common Cents on the PrairieMoving Past Your Money Mistakes ft. Heather & Douglas BoneparthThere may be no winning the ever-changing game of money. Heather and Douglas Boneparth, authors of the new book "Money Together," share how moving past your money mistakes can help you improve your personal finances by changing the game instead.Pre-order Douglas and Heather's book, Money Together.You can find more episodes of Common Cents on the Prairie™ on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, YouTube, Amazon Music, and on our website.Watch every episode on YouTube, and subscribe to First National Bank's channel!Follow First National Bank on FacebookFollow First National Bank on...
2025-10-0950 min
Common Cents on the PrairieMoving Past Your Money Mistakes ft. Heather & Douglas BoneparthThere may be no winning the ever-changing game of money. Heather and Douglas Boneparth, authors of the new book "Money Together," share how moving past your money mistakes can help you improve your personal finances by changing the game instead.Pre-orer Douglas & Heather's book, Money Together.
2025-10-0950 min
Everyone's Talkin' MoneyMoney Together: Building Love, Equity, and Wealth Without Keeping ScoreMoney and love don’t come with a rulebook—but they do come with plenty of emotions, power dynamics, and unspoken expectations.
In this episode of Everyone’s Talkin’ Money, I sit down with Heather and Douglas Boneparth, the husband-and-wife team behind the new book Money Together.
Heather, a lawyer-turned-writer, and Douglas, a nationally recognized financial advisor, share candid insights about the real challenges couples face when it comes to money—and how to turn those challenges into stronger, more equitable partnerships.
You’ll hear:
Why “trust” isn’t enough when one partner disengages...
2025-10-0358 min
A Fresh StoryFresh Reads: Money Together by Heather and Doug BoneparthThe first time money breaks something you love, it doesn’t sound like coins; it sounds like silence. In this intimate Book Talk, we sit with Heather and Douglas Boneparth—partners in marriage, parenting, and work—who wrote Money Together because they lived the gap between what couples say about money and what they can’t bear to say out loud. The episode opens where most advice books don’t: inside the messy, human moments—doors closing, calendars clashing, one person carrying the weight of “contribution” without a paycheck to show for it.Heather, a recovering corporate attorney turned...
2025-09-0132 min
HelloPrenupHow to Build a Financial Dream Team with Your PartnerIn this episode, we sit down with Heather and Douglas Boneparth to dive into the intersection of love and money. From early money memories to navigating financial power shifts in a relationship, they share insights from their new book, Money Together, and offer actionable advice for couples wanting to build a fairer, more transparent financial future. Pre-order Money Together here — every link helps!Heather and Douglas Boneparth are financial and relationship experts behind Bone Fide Wealth in NYC and co-authors of Money Together — you can find them at bonefidewealth.com, on social @averagejoelle and @dougboneparth, and in thei...
2025-08-0746 min
HelloPrenupHeather Boneparth + Doug Boneparth on How To Build a Financial Dream Team with Your PartnerIn this episode, we sit down with Heather and Douglas Boneparth to dive into the intersection of love and money. From early money memories to navigating financial power shifts in a relationship, they share insights from their new book, Money Together, and offer actionable advice for couples wanting to build a fairer, more transparent financial future. Pre-order Money Together here — every link helps!Heather and Douglas Boneparth are financial and relationship experts behind Bone Fide Wealth in NYC and co-authors of Money Together — you can find them at bonefidewealth.com, on social @averagejoelle and @dougboneparth, and i...
2025-06-1246 min
Healthy Love and MoneyThe Invisible Labor of Love: Couples Defining Contribution Beyond Income with Doug and Heather BoneparthIn this intimate and thought-provoking episode of the Healthy Love and Money Podcast, Ed sits down with powerhouse couple Doug and Heather Boneparth—co-founders of Bonafide Wealth and co-authors of an upcoming book that dives deep into the intersection of love, money, and trauma. But this isn't just a story of professional success—it's a raw, unfiltered look at the real journey behind the scenes: a couple navigating early adulthood in the throes of a recession, redefining roles around ambition and financial contribution, and learning to recalibrate their relationship through the evolving seasons of marriage, parenthood, and business. From grap...
2025-04-0942 min
Everyone's Talkin' Money"Money Won’t Be the Thing That Fixes Your Life"Since you were a kid, you were taught that money equals success. That a big paycheck means you’ve made it. That if you just work hard enough, earn enough, or save enough, you’ll finally feel secure, confident, and happy.But let me tell you something no one else will—money won’t be the thing that fixes your life.If it did, millionaires wouldn’t be miserable.If it did, six-figure earners wouldn’t feel like they were drowning in student loan debt.If it did, women wouldn’t question their...
2025-02-1141 min
The Human Side of Money126: Love & Money: The Keys To Financial Success As A Couple with Doug and Heather BoneparthDoes money talk strengthen your relationship—or strain it?
Doug and Heather Boneparth, a dynamic husband-wife team and experienced financial advisors, share the inside scoop on what makes relationships tick—financially and emotionally. Drawing from personal experience, they reveal practical ways for couples to redefine financial responsibilities, appreciate non-monetary contributions, and set shared goals for the future.
For advisors, Doug and Heather break down how to create balanced, inclusive conversations that engage both partners, tackling emotional undercurrents to strengthen relationships along the way.
What You’ll Learn:
Tools to create inclus...
2024-11-131h 30
The Human Side of Money126: Love & Money: The Keys To Financial Success As A Couple with Doug and Heather BoneparthDoes money talk strengthen your relationship—or strain it?
Doug and Heather Boneparth, a dynamic husband-wife team and experienced financial advisors, share the inside scoop on what makes relationships tick—financially and emotionally. Drawing from personal experience, they reveal practical ways for couples to redefine financial responsibilities, appreciate non-monetary contributions, and set shared goals for the future.
For advisors, Doug and Heather break down how to create balanced, inclusive conversations that engage both partners, tackling emotional undercurrents to strengthen relationships along the way.
What You’ll Learn:
Tools to create inclus...
2024-11-131h 30
Love & other assetsThe power of shared goals featuring Douglas and Heather BoneparthThis episode of the Love & other assets podcast features a conversation with power couple Douglas and Heather Boneparth. The Boneparth's, authors of "Millennials and Money" and a forthcoming book on navigating power struggles in couples’ finances, offer invaluable insights into the dynamic between love and money, particularly for couples amid career changes, parenthood, and the ever-evolving landscape of modern finances.They share their story of meeting in college, navigating their careers and the recession, and ultimately coming together to build their business. The Bonaparth's discuss the challenges and joys of working with your spouse, especially when navigating pa...
2024-06-2645 min
Mindful Money105: Heather and Douglas Boneparth - From Corporate to Co-Founders: The Journey to Financial CollaborationUpcoming Event!How Can Mindfulness Help You Reach Financial Independence?Do you want to reduce money anxiety, but don’t know who to trust?Would you like to learn how to set up and manage your own retirement plan?Do you want to know how we create a passive income stream you can’t outlive?If yes, join us and learn how to answer the 4 critical financial independence questions:Am I on track for financial independence?What do I need to do to get on track?How do I de...
2024-05-0146 min
Earn & InvestMoney Dynamics and Power Struggles in Relationships with Heather and Douglas BoneparthJoin us in this insightful episode as we delve into the intricate world of couples' money beliefs with Heather and Douglas Boneparth, authors of The Joint Account newsletter. Together, we explore the core of relationship struggles tied to financial power dynamics, unraveling the impact of differing money philosophies on the strength of a partnership.#MoneyBeliefs #RelationshipStruggles #CouplesFinance #TheJointAccount #PowerStruggles #FinancialWellness #MoneyTalks #LoveAndMoney #PodcastEpisode #MoneyMindset Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
2024-01-1556 min
Common Cents on the PrairieHow We Money: Merging Financial LivesFor Heather and Douglas Boneparth, this isn’t just a money story. It’s a love story. Find out how these college sweethearts, who grew up with vastly different money experiences, overcame all obstacles to merge their financial lives — and how they’re using the lessons they learned to help others do the same.
2023-12-1453 min
Common Cents on the PrairieHow We Money: Merging Financial LivesFor Heather and Douglas Boneparth, this isn’t just a money story. It’s a love story. Find out how these college sweethearts, who grew up with vastly different money experiences, overcame all obstacles to merge their financial lives — and how they’re using the lessons they learned to help others do the same.You can find more episodes of Common Cents on the Prairie™ on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, YouTube, Amazon Music, and on our website.Watch every episode on YouTube, and subscribe to First National Bank's channel!Follow First National Bank on FacebookFollow...
2023-12-1453 min
An Internet of PeopleBridging Web2 and Web3 with Joelle BoneparthIIn this episode, we talk about what it takes to start a business in the Web3 world. Joelle explains how to make connections between Web2 (or the internet as we know it) and Web3 as well as shares what Web3 business models can look like and provides some unique challenges that come with building and hiring for a Web3 business.
Joelle Boneparth is an attorney and writer. She is the co-author of The Millennial Money Fix: What You Need to Know About Budgeting, Debt, and Finding Financial Freedom, a book she and her husband, millennial finance expert...
2023-01-1947 min
Infinite LoopsDouglas A. Boneparth — Building the Web 2.0 to 3.0 BridgeDouglas A. Boneparth is the President at Bone Fide Wealth, Founder at CryptoDrip, and co-author of the book 'Millennial Money Fix'. Follow Douglas on his Twitter at https://twitter.com/dougboneparth, CryptoDrip at https://twitter.com/cryptodripxyz and know more about Bone Fide Wealth here: https://bonefidewealth.com/ Show Notes: Writing a book with your spouse "Killing your darlings" Humor as a marketing strategy Generating leads with Twitter and SEO Scaling a financial planning business Demystifying financial jargon Dealing with the 2020 crisis Doug's introduction to...
2022-03-311h 18
Danley and FriendsDouglas Boneparth - Wealth Management CEO, CFP, Twitter AssassinFor more than a decade, Douglas A. Boneparth has helped his clients negotiate sales of businesses; establish legacies for future generations; purchase new homes; pay off debt and achieve financial independence. But while servicing the needs of his diverse book of business, he noticed a gaping hole in the financial services industry: financial planning and advice for Millennials, his peers. So while everyone else was chasing old money to invest, Douglas started finding young people to invest in.With a passion to improve the financial lives of those around him, Douglas founded Bone Fide Wealth, a firm...
2021-06-0756 min
We Should Be SleepingCaring More With Sara MauskopfThis week, the hosts are over winter and guest Sara Mauskopf, CEO and Co-Founder of https://winnie.com/ (Winnie), shares how her frustration with the long search to find child care resulted in her taking matters into her own hands by creating one of the largest online marketplaces for it. Today, Winnie is used throughout the United States and is helping connect millions of parents with high quality child care.
2021-02-2244 minWe Should Be SleepingSpending With Purpose With Mandy BowmanThe week, the hosts break down the GameStop madness and why "narratives" played an important role in the meme stonk circus. Guest Mandy Bowman, founder of https://officialblackwallstreet.com/ (Official Black Wall Street), shares the importance of spending with purpose and supporting your community to build generational wealth.
2021-02-0438 minWe Should Be SleepingMastering Your Craft With Oz PearlmanDoug's love of watching Elena of Avalor with his kid prompts a discussion about shared interests between parents and their children. Guest https://www.ozpearlman.com/ (Oz Pearlman), Emmy-Award-Winning Mentalist, discusses how he left the corporate world to master his craft and follow his dreams to become one the world's best magicians.
2021-01-2851 minWe Should Be SleepingReaping Prosperity With Maria PalacioThe hosts share their thoughts on current events. Heather calls out Doug's fast food problem. Guest Maria Palacio, Co-Founder and CEO of https://progenycoffee.com/ (Progeny Coffee), shares how she disrupted the Colombia coffee supply chain to bring prosperity to local coffee farmers.
2021-01-1346 minWe Should Be SleepingDaring To Try With Anthony PomplianoDouglas and Heather take inventory of the kitchen appliances they registered for long ago but have never used and discuss their (lowered) expectations for the new year. Guest https://twitter.com/APompliano (Anthony Pompliano) shares his journey as bitcoin poster boy and how creating good content is about being willing to try.
2021-01-0746 minWe Should Be SleepingCutting New Deals With Olivia Landau & Kyle SimonHeather and Douglas give the only 2020 recap worth doing (the TV shows that gave them life). Guests Olivia Landau and Kyle Simon, Co-Founders of https://theclearcut.co/ (The Clear Cut), share how they are disrupting the diamond industry and why buying engagement rings online is the future of the business.
2020-12-3046 minWe Should Be SleepingDreaming In Color With Melissa Ben-IshayDouglas and Heather ask their vaccine questions and reveal their daughter's expectations for the holidays. Guest Melissa Ben-Ishay, Co-Founder and CEO of https://www.bakedbymelissa.com/gifts/holiday.html?mkwid=s_dc&pcrid=480725317626&pkw=bakedbymelissa&pmt=e&utm_source=google&utm_medium=cpc&utm_campaign=&gclid=CjwKCAiAz4b_BRBbEiwA5XlVVtaFtcaEUmEtmLN5OyDGPF9CpkzwCA7MT8qRNePIr4yxtz2Vo_4XThoCx3sQAvD_BwE (Baked by Melissa), shares her recipe for success in doing what she loves and scaling her miniature cupcake empire.
ICYMI: Last week, listeners were asked to share their favorite hype songs. You can check...
2020-12-2350 minWe Should Be SleepingWriting Your Ticket with Morgan HouselSeason One of We Should Be Sleeping kicks off. Heather defends why her 6,000 unread emails don't make her a sociopath, and the couple shares their top hype songs for the ages. Guest Morgan Housel, award-winning author of The Psychology of Money: Timeless lessons on wealth, greed, and happiness, discusses his evolution as a "blogger," and if people can ever truly have enough.
2020-12-1654 minWe Should Be SleepingMini-Series Finale: Sticking with Takeout, Shark Tank with Friends and Coffee TalkThe hosts wrap up WSBS mini-series by discussing why takeout is still the best way to support your favorite restaurants, "investing" in their friend's side hustle, the #freebritney movement, declining pre-mature birthrates and, of course, why coffee is life.
2020-08-0500 minWe Should Be SleepingProjects, Cheese Boards, and Ignoring Kayne WestThis week, our hosts share why different projects keep them sane, how much they miss cheese boards and why ignoring Kanye West's "presidential bid" is a must for democracy.
2020-07-1400 minWe Should Be SleepingWhy YOUR Child Cried, Gator Bait and When Clutter Actually WorksOn this episode, the hosts turn the table on their listeners to find out why their children cried, share their reactions to their college's #1 cheer getting cancelled and discuss why minimalism really doesn't work in the age of Rona.
2020-07-0100 minWe Should Be SleepingFriends With Doctors, Boomer Safety and Personal Risk PolicyOn this week's episode, the hosts discuss if they can befriend their doctors, wonder if Boomers are taking the same precautions and safety measures with COVID-19 as their Millennial children and explain why developing a personal risk policy can safe you stress and time when making decisions in a pre-vaccinated world.
2020-06-1600 minWe Should Be SleepingBLACK LIVES MATTERAcceptance. Allyship. Education. Action.
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2020-06-0600 minWe Should Be SleepingBrand Loyalty, Balloon Arches and Stan for PelotonOn this week's episode, the hosts question whether Doug is brand loyal or just OCD, why Heather made a celebratory balloon arch to troll her husband and their unpaid endorsement and love for Peloton.
2020-06-0200 minWe Should Be SleepingThe Birds, Stay at Home Resolutions and Why Cash is KingThis week on We Should Be Sleeping, the hosts explain why waking up to birds is, well, for the birds. Heather shares her quarantine resolution and Douglas dives into why holding cash can help you sleep well at night, whenever that is.
2020-05-2600 minWe Should Be SleepingSensible Chinos, The Netflix Model and Cleaning for SportThings get silly this week as Heather and Douglas discuss the demise of "business casual" attire, questionable Netflix movies, more cancelled culture and Douglas's idea for a house cleaning game show.
2020-05-1800 minWe Should Be SleepingNods, Influencer Fatigue and What’s Left of the College ExperienceThis week, Heather and Douglas talk about nodding to your neighbors, the sad state of Instagram influencers, why their child cried and the changing landscape of higher education amid coronavirus.
2020-05-1100 minWe Should Be SleepingWelcome to We Should Be SleepingDon’t call it a prequel! Okay, it’s a prequel. Join Douglas and Heather Boneparth as they introduce their new show. On this mini-episode, they discuss what food related practices are getting cancelled, the hilarity that’s “SNL From Home” and their thoughts on when working parents will say “when.”
2020-05-0423 min
School for Startups RadioSeptember 11, 2017 Ordinary People Karen Friedman, Millennial Money Fix Douglas Boneparth and FabSeptember 11, 2017 Ordinary People Karen Friedman, Millennial Money Fix Douglas Boneparth and Fabulous Life Heather Picken
2017-09-1054 min