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The Smart Divorce PodcastThe new rules to keep your divorce out of courtSend us a textIn this episode, Tamsin discusses with Karin Walker the new Family Procedure Rules, from 29th April 2024, being implemented to keep more couples out of court and using the wide range of non-court dispute resolution options to agree their financial settlement. Karin is not only a family solicitor but also a mediator, collaborative lawyer and arbitrator.Karin WalkerKarin Walker is a family lawyer, based in Woking, Surrey. She is a solicitor, mediator, collaborative practitioner, neutral evaluator, and arbitrator. Having previously been a partner in a la...2024-06-2141 min
The Smart Divorce PodcastFair or Achievable - Spending your money in the right way when divorcing a narcissistSend us a textIn this episode, Tamsin talks to family solicitor (among other things) Karin Walker, who is an expert on Narcissistic Personality Disorder, about where to spend your money wisely if you are divorcing a narcissist.Karin WalkerKarin Walker is a family lawyer, based in Woking, Surrey. She is a solicitor, mediator, collaborative practitioner, neutral evaluator, and arbitrator.Having previously been a partner in a large Surrey based firm, she set up the award-winning firm, KGW Family Law, in January 2012. All of the firm’s solicitors ar...2023-12-2242 min
Narcissists in Divorce: The Narcissist TrapDr Craig Malkin talks Narcissism - Part ThreeIn this episode Harvard psychologist and narcissism expert and author Dr Craig Malkin talks with Dr Supriya McKenna and Karin Walker about how one can protect their children from becoming narcissistic, even when they have a narcissistic parent. They also discuss the difficulties encountered in dating when one has had a previous narcissistic relationship, to do with attraction, chemistry, trust and relating in new ways. Dr Supriya is an Amazon no 1 bestselling author in the subject of narcissism, and the author of the new books Narcissists in Divorce: From Love-Locked to Leaving and The Narcissist Trap :The M...2022-12-0428 min
Narcissists in Divorce: The Narcissist TrapDr Elinor Greenberg talks about narcissism - Part 3In this episode Dr Supriya McKenna and Karin Walker continue their conversation with world renowned psychotherapist and educator Dr Elinor Greenberg. Elinor explains how to manage a narcissist using her 'narcissistic sandwich' technique. Karin describes how she uses this technique herself in her role as a family lawyer and a mediator, and highlights why it is so important for family law practitioners to understand that they are dealing with a narcissist, so that they can facilitate negotiations effectively. They discuss the concept of 'hoovering' and give tips for preparing to leave the narcissist, and how to prepare for narcissistic rage...2022-08-1427 min
Narcissists in Divorce: The Narcissist TrapDr Elinor Greenberg talks about narcissism - Part 2In this episode Dr Supriya McKenna and Karin Walker talk to internationally renowned Narcissism expert and psychotherapist Dr Elinor Greenberg. They delve into what 'healthy narcissism' is, how people become narcissists, and what determines whether a child will become a narcissist. Elinor differentiates narcissists from psychopaths and gives her view on the idea that narcissists are 'evil' - and she recommends her psychology.com article "Narcissistic Judo" for those who wish to try to keep things smooth with a narcissist. Dr Supriya is an Amazon no 1 bestselling author in the subject of narcissism, and the author of...2022-08-1420 min
Narcissists in Divorce: The Narcissist TrapPart Two - Conversations with barrister Nicholas WilkinsonIn this episode narcissism expert Dr Supriya McKenna and solicitor Karin Walker speak with acclaimed barrister Nicholas Wilkinson, from One Hare Court Chambers. Nick has a deep understanding of Narcissistic Personality Disorder, and has been involved in many high conflict cases. He even successfully represented Princess Haya of Jordan in her recent high profile divorce from the Ruler of Dubai. They discuss how common it is, in Nick's experience, for solicitors to be unaware that narcissism is at play in their cases. They also talk about how difficult it is to spot a covert (closet) narcissist in court proceedings...2022-05-3027 min
The Menopause Mindset100 Divorcing a Narcissist with Diana JordanAm I going mad? That's the question on many women's minds who are struggling to leave narcissistic relationships. Trigger warning - the content in todays podcast might stir up a few emotions so only listen if you're feeling strong and ready to fight the good fight. My guest today is an ex family solicitor who helps people struggling to leave abusive relationships and litigate in person (that means, attend divorce court without a solicitor). She says, that when it comes to divorce, women are blamed for EVERYTHING and she believes women woul...2022-04-2555 min
Narcissists in Divorce: The Narcissist TrapConversations with Dr Caroline Logan, personality disorder diagnostician and Consultant Clinical Forensic Psychologist - Part Two.In the second part of this interview, Dr Supriya McKenna and solicitor Karin Walker chat with Dr Caroline Logan. Dr Logan is a Consultant Clinical Forensic Psychologist in the NHS and she trains psychiatrists and psychologists in exactly how to make accurate and robust personality disorder diagnoses. In this episode they discuss being 'duped' by pathological narcissists, and what narcissistic parenting means for the children. Dr Supriya is an Amazon no 1 bestselling author in the subject of narcissism, and the author of the new books Narcissists in Divorce: From Love-Locked to Leaving and The Narcissist Trap :The Mi...2022-02-2030 min
Narcissists in Divorce: The Narcissist TrapConversations with Dr Caroline Logan, personality disorder diagnostician and Consultant Clinical Forensic Psychologist - Part One.In the first part of this interview, Dr Supriya McKenna and UK solicitor Karin Walker discuss the differences between healthy narcissism, pathological narcissism and psychopathy with Dr Caroline Logan. Dr Logan is a Consultant Clinical Forensic Psychologist in the NHS and she trains psychiatrists and psychologists in exactly how to make accurate and robust personality disorder diagnoses. Dr Supriya is an Amazon no 1 bestselling author in the subject of narcissism, and the author of the new books Narcissists in Divorce: From Love-Locked to Leaving and The Narcissist Trap :The Mind-Bending Pull of the Great Pretenders. Supp...2022-02-0936 min
The Smart Divorce PodcastDivorce and Narcissistic Personality Disorder - Supriya McKennaSend us a textTamsin talks to Dr Supriya McKenna, a former GP and leading expert on Narcissistic Personality Disorder, about the disorder itself, how it manifests in relationships and how to divorce someone who has this. Dr Supriya McKenna is a former GP, and is one of the UK's leading experts in the field of Narcissistic Personality Disorder. She works exclusively in the area of narcissistic relationships, including in the areas of separation, divorce and post separation abuse. She works directly with the victims of such relationships, and also regularly trains family lawyers, mediators...2022-02-0454 min
Narcissists in Divorce: The Narcissist TrapCyberstalking with cybersecurity expert Rory Innes - Part Two.In this episode cybersecurity expert Rory Innes explains to narcissism expert Dr Supriya McKenna and solicitor Karin Walker why it is that blocking a cyberstalker can lead to an escalation of stalking behaviour, potentially to dangerous levels. Rory explains the different categories of stalker, and outlines the difference between stalking and harassment, and why more training needs to given to the police to help them recognise and manage these criminal offenses. Dr Supriya is an Amazon no 1 bestselling author in the subject of narcissism, and the author of the new books Narcissists in Divorce: From Love-Locked to...2022-01-1727 min
Narcissists in Divorce: The Narcissist TrapCyberstalking with cybersecurity expert Rory Innes - Part One.In this episode narcissism expert Dr Supriya McKenna and UK solicitor Karin Walker talk with cybersecurity expert Rory Innes about cyberstalking - a common tactic employed by narcissists in the separation/divorce period. Rory is founder and CEO of The Cyber Helpline, which provides free help to those experiencing suspected cybercrime. They discuss the commonest types of cyberstalking, and what to be aware of. Dr Supriya is an Amazon no 1 bestselling author in the subject of narcissism, and the author of the new books Narcissists in Divorce: From Love-Locked to Leaving and The Narcissist Trap :The Mind-Bending P...2022-01-0727 min
Narcissists in Divorce: The Narcissist TrapOurFamilyWizard - an effective way to communicate with a narcissistic co-parent.In this podcast episode, Dr Supriya McKenna and top UK lawyer Karin Walker talk to the UK and USA branches of the parenting app 'OurFamilyWizard.' They find out why exactly it is that this communication tool is so effective with narcissists, and James and Racheal address concerns regarding whether it can be used as a further tool of abuse by a narcissistic co-parent. They delve into the specific features available, and explain in detail how they work to limit instant back and forth exchanges, ultimately limiting the provision of narcissistic supply to the narcissist - and exactly how t...2021-10-1344 min
Narcissists in Divorce: The Narcissist TrapConversations about narcissism with Clinical Psychologist Dr Daksha Hirani - Part 4In this episode Narcissism expert Dr Supriya McKenna, UK solicitor Karin Walker and Clinical psychologist Dr Daksha Hirani discuss how common Narcissistic Personality Disorder is in the population, and why it might be on the increase. They talk about whether Narcissism is more prevalent in certain cultures and whether Narcissists can be 'cured' of their NPD. Dr Hirani cautions how some narcissists use therapy as a means to learn how to change their behaviour in order to escape detection. Finally, they discuss the tricky concept of whether narcissists are able to experience love. Dr Supriya is an...2021-09-1017 min
Narcissists in Divorce: The Narcissist TrapHow are narcissists made?In this episode, Narcissism expert Dr Supriya McKenna discusses with UK solicitor, Karin Walker, why people become narcissists. She outlines the main types of parenting that can cause a child to develop narcissistic defences, and, when a parent is narcissistic themselves, she highlights the role of the other parent (who might otherwise be an enabler of the abuse) in limiting the damage to the children. Dr Supriya is an Amazon no 1 bestselling author in the subject of narcissism, and the author of the new books Narcissists in Divorce: From Love-Locked to Leaving and The Narcissist Trap :The Mi...2021-08-0218 min
Narcissists in Divorce: The Narcissist TrapWhen a narcissistic parent wants 'shared care' of the childrenIn this, the first episode of Season 2, Narcissism expert Dr Supriya McKenna and UK solicitor Karin Walker discuss the concept of 'Shared Care', in particular with regards to a narcissistic parent. Dr Supriya is an Amazon no 1 bestselling author in the subject of narcissism, and the author of the new books Narcissists in Divorce: From Love-Locked to Leaving and The Narcissist Trap :The Mind-Bending Pull of the Great Pretenders. Support the showIf you've found the podcast helpful please do consider supporting the show with a small monthly donation here. Narcissists in Di...2021-07-2129 min
Narcissists in Divorce: The Narcissist TrapCohabitation and the 'Common Law' - the facts for victims of narcissistic relationships.In this episode, UK solicitor Karin Walker and Dr Supriya McKenna talk about the financial issues one needs to consider when cohabiting, whether you are currently cohabiting with a narcissist or whether you have left a narcissistic relationship and are looking to live with a new partner. They discuss the concept of 'common law', and how one might protect themselves when it comes to buying property with a cohabitee. Dr Supriya is an Amazon no 1 bestselling author in the subject of narcissism. Her most up-to-date books are: Narcissists in Divorce: From Love-Locked to Leaving Narcissists in Div...2021-06-2421 min
Narcissists in Divorce: The Narcissist TrapCommunication issues in Narcissistic Divorces and The Grey Rock TechniqueIn this episode, Dr Supriya McKenna and UK solicitor Karin Walker discuss the communication issues that occur in narcissistic divorces as a result of the narcissist's narcissistic injury and rage. Dr Supriya is an Amazon no 1 bestselling author in the subject of narcissism. Her most up-to-date books are: Narcissists in Divorce: From Love-Locked to Leaving Narcissists in Divorce: From Leaving to Liberty – The Truth, The Whole Truth and Nothing But The Truth and The Narcissist Trap: The Mind-Bending Pull of the Great Pretenders Support the showIf you've found the podcast helpful please do conside...2021-06-0910 min
Narcissists in Divorce: The Narcissist TrapThe Narcissist's New Partner (or 'Supply')In this episode, Narcissism expert Dr Supriya McKenna and UK solicitor Karin Walker explain why it is that narcissists move so quickly from one partner to the next, without needing to grieve from the loss of the relationship. They also discuss why the former partner of a narcissist should refrain from trying to save the narcissist's new partner from the narcissist. Dr Supriya is an Amazon no 1 bestselling author in the subject of narcissism, and the author of the new books Narcissists in Divorce: From Love-Locked to Leaving and The Narcissist Trap :The Mind-Bending Pull of the G...2021-05-2512 min
Narcissists in Divorce: The Narcissist TrapThe cycle of idealise and devalueDr Supriya McKenna and UK solicitor Karin Walker discuss one of the hallmarks of a narcissistic relationship - the addictive cycle of idealise and devalue, and how that can present - one of the key things to look out for for anyone trying to determine whether their partner is a narcissist. Dr Supriya is an Amazon no 1 bestselling author in the subject of narcissism. Her most up-to-date books are: Narcissists in Divorce: From Love-Locked to Leaving Narcissists in Divorce: From Leaving to Liberty – The Truth, The Whole Truth and Nothing But The Truth and The Narcissist Trap...2021-05-2417 minNarcissists in Divorce: The Narcissist TrapTips for divorcing a narcissist from family lawyer Karin WalkerIn this episode, family lawyer Karin Walker shares her insights into how to best navigate the Family Court process where a narcissist will be manipulating the system. Useful not just for the spouse of the narcissist, but also for lawyers and mediators, she explains the realities and pitfalls of the court system, and how exactly a narcissist will exploit it. She delves into the issue of how narcissists will weaponise the children by withholding contact from the other parent, by making false allegations against them, and how the courts will deal with this. She advises caution, and explains how...2021-05-2426 min
Narcissists in Divorce: The Narcissist TrapAvoiding court delays in narcissistic legal battlesIn this episode Narcissism expert Dr Supriya McKenna and UK solicitor Karin Walker discuss the delays in the family court and how best to get out of the system. They talk about how moving over to the private system will yield a faster, fairer and cheaper resolution, if the narcissist can be persuaded to agree. They explain how to do this, and why it is that your lawyer might not yet be aware of these better options for your case. Dr Supriya is an Amazon no 1 bestselling author in the subject of narcissism. Her most up-to-date books a...2021-05-2028 minNarcissists in Divorce: The Narcissist TrapBBC Radio Sussex and Surrey talks with Karin Walker about the difficulties faced when divorcing a narcissistIn this episode, originally broadcast by BBC Radio, top UK family lawyer Karin Walker discusses the difficulties faced when one is divorcing a narcissist. She explains why it is so important to raise awareness of Narcissistic Personality Disorder, and how a narcissist will not be different with their new partner, regardless of how things may seem. More resources for you: You can check out our Amazon number one bestseller, 'Divorcing a narcissist - the Lure, the Loss and the Law' here. It's available in paperback, and, for discretion, as an audiobook and Kindle Edition too. C...2021-05-0516 min
Narcissists in Divorce: The Narcissist TrapIs there a type of person who is particularly attractive to (and attracted to) narcissists?In this podcast, Narcissism expert Dr Supriya McKenna talks with UK solicitor Karin Walker about the personality traits of people who narcissists find particularly attractive, and why feeling 'chemistry' can be a red flag in people who have had a narcissistic parent. Dr Supriya is an Amazon no 1 bestselling author in the subject of narcissism, and the author of the new booksNarcissists in Divorce: From Love-Locked to Leaving Narcissists in Divorce: From Leaving to Liberty – The Truth, The Whole Truth and Nothing But The Truth and The Narcissist Trap: The Mind-Bending Pull of the Great Prete...2021-04-2109 min
Narcissists in Divorce: The Narcissist TrapLiving with your narcissistic ex during divorceIn this episode narcissism expert Dr Supriya McKenna and UK solicitor, Karin Walker, discuss strategies for coping if you have to co-occupy the same house during your separation and divorce when your ex is a narcissist. In this detailed and informative podcast amongst other things they explain why it can be difficult to have your abusive ex removed from the house, how a narcissist will increase their boundary violations, and how to limit communication with the narcissist to protect oneself emotionally and legally. Dr Supriya is an Amazon no 1 bestselling author in the subject of narcissism. Her mos...2021-04-1226 min
Narcissists in Divorce: The Narcissist TrapWhat is narcissistic ‘hoovering’?In this episode narcissism expert Dr Supriya McKenna explains to UK solicitor, Karin Walker, the phenomenon of ‘hoovering’ (the predictable ways in which a narcissist will try to suck their spouse, who is on the verge of leaving, back into the relationship). Dr Supriya is an Amazon no 1 bestselling author in the subject of narcissism, and the author of the new booksNarcissists in Divorce: From Love-Locked to Leaving Narcissists in Divorce: From Leaving to Liberty – The Truth, The Whole Truth and Nothing But The Truth and The Narcissist Trap: The Mind-Bending Pull of the Great Pretenders...2021-04-0409 minNarcissists in Divorce: The Narcissist TrapRadio interview with Karin Walker and Dr Supriya McKenna - part 3.In this radio interview top UK lawyer Karin Walker outlines narcissistic personality disorder from the lawyer’s perspective. Dr Supriya McKenna explains the difficulties with trying to get a narcissistic individual diagnosed and they both give their top tips for those separating from a narcissistic spouse. More resources for you: You can check out our Amazon number one bestseller, 'Divorcing a narcissist - the Lure, the Loss and the Law' here. It's available in paperback, and, for discretion, as an audiobook and Kindle Edition too. Click here if you'd like to read Chapter One for fre...2021-03-2818 minNarcissists in Divorce: The Narcissist TrapRadio Interview with Karin WalkerIn this radio interview, the second of the three part series, leading family lawyer Karin Walker explains how a narcissistic individual will behave in the divorce process, what you as the spouse need to be aware of and what the divorce lawyer needs to understand. She touches on out of court dispute resolution methods, and specifically why classic mediation and the collaborative method are best avoided when one of the couple has Narcissistic Personality Disorder. She also explains why Hybrid Mediation is a better way to keep the matter out of court, and why it's so important to let...2021-03-1815 minNarcissists in Divorce: The Narcissist TrapSeparating from a narcissist? Some tips to help you prepare.In this episode Narcissism expert Dr Supriya McKenna and UK solicitor Karin Walker discuss just some of the important things you need to consider as you move into the separation phase of your divorce with a narcissist. New relationships, the need to look for a balanced outcome and what to be prepared for are just some of today’s topics. Dr Supriya is an Amazon no 1 bestselling author in the subject of narcissism. Her most up-to-date books are: Narcissists in Divorce: From Love-Locked to Leaving Narcissists in Divorce: From Leaving to Liberty – The Truth, The Whole Truth an...2021-03-0812 minNarcissists in Divorce: The Narcissist TrapWays for the lawyer to spot a narcissistic clientIn this episode Narcissism expert Dr Supriya McKenna and solicitor Karin Walker discuss key things to look out for as a family lawyer trying to identify a narcissistic client. Narcissistic clients cause havoc in the legal system, and need careful management by their lawyer in order to prevent complaints, protect their own professional reputation and avoid becoming a tool of abuse against the narcissistic client’s spouse in the divorce process. Dr Supriya is an Amazon no 1 bestselling author in the subject of narcissism, and the author of the new books Narcissists in Divorce: From Love-Locked to Lea...2021-02-2812 minNarcissists in Divorce: The Narcissist TrapOut of court dispute resolution - the do’s and don’ts in narcissistic divorcesIn this episode solicitor Karin Walker shares with Narcisissm expert Dr Supriya McKenna the best ways to keep the narcissistic individual out of the expensive UK court system during the divorce and financial resolution process. They also discuss those methods of dispute resolution that do not work with narcissists, and why. Dr Supriya is an Amazon no 1 bestselling author in the subject of narcissism. Her most up-to-date books are: Narcissists in Divorce: From Love-Locked to Leaving Narcissists in Divorce: From Leaving to Liberty – The Truth, The Whole Truth and Nothing But The Truth and The Narcissist Trap: The Mi...2021-02-1522 min