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WRFH/Radio Free Hillsdale 101.7 FM
Wherefore Art Thou, Romeo?: FACES: Examples of Other Relationships
This week on Wherefore Art Thou, Romeo?, Greg and Emily continue discussing John Van Epp's getting-to-know-you, FACES, acronym. They move into 'E,' Examples of Other Relationships whether those be relationships with siblings, parents, and friends or previous romantic relationships.
2025-10-27
22 min
Wherefore Art Thou, Romeo?
FACES: Examples of Other Relationships
This week on Wherefore Art Thou, Romeo?, Greg and Emily continue discussing John Van Epp's getting-to-know-you, FACES, acronym. They move into 'E,' Examples of Other Relationships whether those be relationships with siblings, parents, and friends or previous romantic relationships.
2025-10-27
22 min
WRFH/Radio Free Hillsdale 101.7 FM
Wherefore Art Thou, Romeo?: FACES: Compatibility Potential
Today, Greg and Emily explore John Van Epp's third letter in the getting-to-know acronym, FACES: Compatibility Potential. What are those make-or-break issues that make you compatible or incompatible with someone? Stay tuned till the end for the answer to a special question Emily has for Greg.
2025-10-18
22 min
Wherefore Art Thou, Romeo?
FACES: Compatibility Potential
Today, Greg and Emily explore John Van Epp's third letter in the getting-to-know acronym, FACES: Compatibility Potential. What are those make-or-break issues that make you compatible or incompatible with someone? Stay tuned till the end for the answer to a special question Emily has for Greg.
2025-10-16
22 min
Be With Me: 7 Minutes of Biblical Wonder
How to avoid TRUSTING a JERK S30e40 Psalm 25
There is a wonderful book that I often recommend:How to avoid marry a JERK. by John van Epp. The idea is to use the dating period to get a current and past track record of data, and not discount red flags and turn them into pink flags. Do a hard target investigation into the character of your dating partner, so as to reliably predict the future with them. Ferret out whether they are a JERK, or their character is trustworthy enough to marry. I’m going to steal that idea spiritually:...
2025-10-05
06 min
WRFH/Radio Free Hillsdale 101.7 FM
Wherefore Art Thou, Romeo?": FACES: Attitudes and Actions of the Conscience
Join Greg and Emily as they discuss the second step in getting to know someone; learning about the foundation for their actions. In John Van Epp's book, How to Avoid Falling In Love with a Jerk (or Jerkette), he discusses the acronym, FACES, and A stands for attitudes and actions of the conscience. This can be anything from political standing to matters of faith. Greg and Emily explore what to watch for when considering becoming more serious with someone.
2025-10-03
22 min
WRFH/Radio Free Hillsdale 101.7 FM
Wherefore Art Thou, Romeo?: FACES: Family Background P.2
Emily and Greg continue their conversation about John Van Epp's 'getting-to-know' acronym, FACES, and the role of family in your relationships. Are you doomed to be your parents? How does your family effect your own relationships and what does it say about how you deal with problems? Hear about this and more on today's episode.
2025-10-03
22 min
WRFH/Radio Free Hillsdale 101.7 FM
Wherefore Art Thou, Romeo?: FACES: Family Background P.1
In John Van Epp's Book, How to Avoid Falling in Love with a Jerk, Van Epp uses the acronym, FACES, to explain how best to get to know a person. Greg and Emily work through the first letter, F for Family Background. What roles do your parents play in your future relationships? Hear about this and more on today's episode.
2025-10-03
22 min
Wherefore Art Thou, Romeo?
FACES: Attitudes and Actions of the Conscience
Join Greg and Emily as they discuss the second step in getting to know someone; learning about the foundation for their actions. In John Van Epp's book, How to Avoid Falling In Love with a Jerk (or Jerkette), he discusses the acronym, FACES, and A stands for attitudes and actions of the conscience. This can be anything from political standing to matters of faith. Greg and Emily explore what to watch for when considering becoming more serious with someone.
2025-10-01
22 min
Wherefore Art Thou, Romeo?
FACES: Family Background P.2
Emily and Greg continue their conversation about John Van Epp's 'getting-to-know' acronym, FACES, and the role of family in your relationships. Are you doomed to be your parents? How does your family effect your own relationships and what does it say about how you deal with problems? Hear about this and more on today's episode.
2025-09-29
22 min
Wherefore Art Thou, Romeo?
FACES: Family Background P.1
In John Van Epp's Book, How to Avoid Falling in Love with a Jerk, Van Epp uses the acronym, FACES, to explain how best to get to know a person. Greg and Emily work through the first letter, F for Family Background. What roles do your parents play in your future relationships? Hear about this and more on today's episode.
2025-09-29
22 min
Cypress Church Weekly Teaching
How To Date God's Way In A Swipe-Right Culture | Relationships
What does the Bible really say about singleness? In Week 1 of our Relationships teaching series, we discover how Scripture honors singleness, why it can be a season of freedom, and how your true worth is not found in relationship status but in your identity in Christ.Paul reminds us in 1 Corinthians 7 that singleness is a gift and can be lived wholeheartedly for God. Singleness may be for a season or a calling, but either way, it provides space to grow in intimacy with Christ and live with fewer distractions.We also explore Dr. John Van Epp’s Relational Attachment Mo...
2025-09-14
32 min
Cypress Church Weekly Teaching
The Truth About Being Single | Relationships
What does the Bible really say about singleness? In Week 1 of our Relationships teaching series, we discover how Scripture honors singleness, why it can be a season of freedom, and how your true worth is not found in relationship status but in your identity in Christ.Paul reminds us in 1 Corinthians 7 that singleness is a gift and can be lived wholeheartedly for God. Singleness may be for a season or a calling, but either way, it provides space to grow in intimacy with Christ and live with fewer distractions.We also explore Dr. John Van...
2025-09-07
34 min
Relationship Prescriptions with Dr. Carol
Jerks, Red Flags, and God's Design for Healthy Lasting Relationships
In a culture where relationship longevity is at an all-time low, even within the church, how can we build relationships that truly last? In this insightful conversation, Dr. Carol talks with Dr. John Van Epp, a leading relationship expert, pastor, professor, and creator of curricula for singles, engaged couples, and married couples. With over a million people impacted by his programs in both faith-based and secular settings, Dr. Van Epp brings much practical wisdom rooted in research and Scripture. Together, they explore the Relationship Attachment Model (RAM) and how it offers a framework for making wise, emotionally healthy choices...
2025-07-29
56 min
Wherefore Art Thou, Romeo?
Relationship Attachment Model (RAM) and Long-Distance Part 2
In this episode, Emily and Greg finish discussing John Van Epp's RAM board and use it as a reference in their conversation about long distance relationships. They ask the question, "Can long distance relationships be successful?"
2025-07-26
21 min
Wherefore Art Thou, Romeo?
Relationship Attachment Model (RAM) and Long-Distance Part 1
In this episode, Emily Schutte and Marriage Therapist, Greg Schutte discuss John Van Epp's RAM board or the Relationship Attachment Model as a means of explaining how to pace a healthy relationship.
2025-07-26
24 min
Daniela Faour
#13: ¿Cómo evitar enamorarte de un idiota?
¿Te enganchas con chicos que sabes que no te convienen? ¿Te obsesionas con alguien que apenas conoces? ¿Te cuesta soltar a ese que te gusta pero sabes que no es para ti?💥 En este episodio te explico el modelo que cambió mi manera de entender las relaciones: el Relationship Attachment Model (RAM) del psicólogo John Van Epp.Aprenderás:✅ Por qué te apegas tan rápido a alguien✅ Cómo conocer bien a una persona antes de confiar y comprometerte✅ La regla de los 3 meses para evitar relaciones tóxicas...
2025-06-05
19 min
By the Book
Ep. #14: “How to Avoid Falling In Love with a Jerk” w/ Ava Turner
In this episode we talk about the book “How to Avoid Falling in Love with a Jerk” by John Van Epp with Ava Turner. Ava is currently a senior in her undergraduate program studying Marriage and Family Studies at BYU Idaho, where she found her passion for relationship education & mental health, & family advocacy. She now works as part of BYU-Idaho's Hope Council, doing mental health advocacy, awareness, and education & as a T.A. for a Child & Family Advocacy class on campus. After graduation, Ava hopes to empower individuals & families as a Family Life Educator & Christian Family Advocate—helpin...
2025-05-27
21 min
Dr. Sheryl‘s PodCouch
Episode 082 - A Better Share with Dr. Morgan Cutlip
Dr. Morgan Cutlip is a mother of two, married to her high school sweetheart, and she has worked in the field of relationship education for over 15 years alongside her father, Dr. John Van Epp, who is the founder of Love Thinks and developer of multiple relationship education courses that have been taught to over a million people worldwide. She is “on a mission to help women feel empowered in all of their relationships so that they feel whole, light, and deeply connected to those they love.”Her new book, A Better Share: How Couples Can Tackle the Ment...
2025-04-29
28 min
I'd Rather Be Reading
Dr. Morgan Cutlip on Why Understanding the Mental Load Is Critical to the Success of a Relationship
We are in for such a fun conversation today with Dr. Morgan Cutlip, author of A Better Share: How Couples Can Tackle the Mental Load for More Fun, Less Resentment, and Great Sex, which is out April 8. In today's episode, Morgan teaches us why understanding the mental load is so important to a successful partnership. She teaches us that the mental load is comprised of three parts—physical, cognitive, and emotional, and we talk about that, as well as the cycle of unmet needs, the PAR acronym and what it means for both men and women, and what the de...
2025-03-30
30 min
Keeping It Young
Thoughts for Singles about Finding a Spouse Part 3
Part 3: 3. Be wise in your approach Questions that should be asked before a relationship becomes serious Not all of these are deal breakers, but they need wise examination and counsel Your spiritual testimony No Unequal yoke with someone who is not a believer Virginity Porn Drugs/alcohol Debt Your friends saw the red flags. Your family voiced their concerns. But you were so caught up in the excitement of new love that you missed all the warning signs. Now you're stuck in a relationship that's making you absolutely miserable. Why does this happen? According to researchers a...
2025-03-23
31 min
Relationships Talk
Relationship Attachment Model
Learn about Dr. John Van Epp's Relationship Attachment Model (R.A.M) with Corinne Patterson.
2025-03-22
37 min
Truth Tok Podcast
Morden Dating - s2 e4 Ps Jack Should broke guys date | Online dating work | Girlfriend allowance
Truth Tok Podcast on Sacred Screens with Ps Jack – "Send Pics (Love on a Server)"Welcome to this week’s deep-dive episode of Truth Tok Podcast on Sacred Screens with Ps Jack! In this provocative installment, we tackle modern relationship challenges head-on. Get ready for a candid conversation where no topic is off limits—from the ins and outs of dating in a digital age to the timeless debates over arranged marriages versus dating for marriage.In This Episode You’ll Explore:Dating Dilemmas:• Should broke guys date?• When is a guy really ready for a committed relationship?• Do girlfriend allowances hel...
2025-03-20
1h 00
Truth Tok Podcast
Morden Dating - s2 e4 Ps Jack Should broke guys date | Online dating work | Girlfriend allowance
Truth Tok Podcast on Sacred Screens with Ps Jack – "Send Pics (Love on a Server)"Welcome to this week’s deep-dive episode of Truth Tok Podcast on Sacred Screens with Ps Jack! In this provocative installment, we tackle modern relationship challenges head-on. Get ready for a candid conversation where no topic is off limits—from the ins and outs of dating in a digital age to the timeless debates over arranged marriages versus dating for marriage.In This Episode You’ll Explore:Dating Dilemmas:• Should broke guys date?• When is a guy really ready for a committed relationship?• Do girlfriend allowances hel...
2025-03-18
1h 00
Relationships Talk
What is a Jerk?
In this episode, we will be discussing Dr. John Van Epp's definition of a Jerk and how to be aware of what it is. Our guest is Ava Turner.
2025-03-15
36 min
Church Life Today
Nationwide Study on Faith and Relationships, with J.P. De Gance
Wouldn’t it be fascinating if the most current social science research discovered not some new and unheard-of things but rather ancient and even biblical truths? The nonprofit organization Communio is reporting that this is indeed what is happening. Through their Nationwide Study on Faith and Relationships, they have found that family structure is the most important indicator for the religious commitment of those raised in that home. Alongside that, of course, we regularly find people who do better in school, who are more successful in work, who are healthier, and who can manage relationships better on their own. It...
2024-08-19
35 min
The ProfNoctis Weekly Show
What can we learn from Character Creators and Healthy Relationships in games? | PNWS Ep. 1
For our first episode, Wade (aka ProfNoctis) and Evan (aka Whiskers) introduce the show and how it's all about helping you enjoy the things you enjoy more and springboarding you into the life you want. Next, we have part one of our special three-part Character Creator segment (00:01:01-00:26:53) where we explore the history, psychology, and what it says about us and our play depending on the characters we make— including personal experiences from Final Fantasy XIV, the Sims, and WWE games. As a break between segments, we have our Mini Game Stretch Break (00:26:54-00:34:55) where we consult the Bingo Wh...
2024-06-25
1h 09
A TE PODCASTOD
#017 - EU helyett Visegrádi Unió? - Nagy Dénes András
Az EP választás közeledtével nagyon sokan az Európai Unióval foglalkoznak, de van egy másik szervezet, ami még közelebb áll hozzánk, és épp ezért hatalmas lehetőségeket rejt. "Lengyel-magyar két jó barát, együtt harcol, s issza borát" – van egy ilyen mondás magyarul és lengyelül is. Csehországban, Prágában járva mindenhol gulyást, lángost és debreceni kolbászt látni, Szlovákia történelmi kapcsolódásait Magyarországhoz pedig talán nem is kell magyarázni. Magyarország ezzel a 3 országgal együtt alkotja a Viseg...
2024-06-04
1h 37
Parallaxis Univerzum
Matematikai magyarázat a nyakkendőnk rondaságára (Egy csodálatos elme) | Parallaxis #108
1947-et írunk: John Nash megérkezik a Princeton egyetemre, hogy matematikát tanuljon. A különc fiút egyetlen dolog érdekli: egy egészen eredeti ötlet megtalálása. A matematika szakon könyörtelen verseny folyik, és sokan szívesen látnák Nash bukását. Mégis épp a rivalizálás adja meg neki a kellő lökést: egy este a helyi bárban megfigyeli, hogyan versengenek a fiúk egy szőke lányért, és az ötlet, mely oly régóta kísérti, megfogan, és megírja dolgozatát a játékelméletről, a versengés matematikáj...
2024-05-09
50 min
Parallaxis Univerzum
Matematikai magyarázat a nyakkendőnk rondaságára (Egy csodálatos elme) | Parallaxis #108
1947-et írunk: John Nash megérkezik a Princeton egyetemre, hogy matematikát tanuljon. A különc fiút egyetlen dolog érdekli: egy egészen eredeti ötlet megtalálása. A matematika szakon könyörtelen verseny folyik, és sokan szívesen látnák Nash bukását. Mégis épp a rivalizálás adja meg neki a kellő lökést: egy este a helyi bárban megfigyeli, hogyan versengenek a fiúk egy szőke lányért, és az ötlet, mely oly régóta kísérti, megfogan, és megírja dolgozatát a játékelméletről, a versengés matematikáj...
2024-05-09
50 min
HetiVálasz
Amerika segítségéről és a (világ)háborúról: Ukrajna megmenekült, de fordulat aligha lesz – vendégünk Jójárt Krisztián
Szombaton a washingtoni képviselőház, szerdára virradóra pedig a szenátus is elfogadta az Kijevnek szánt, 61 milliárd dolláros katonai segélycsomagot. Ezzel újraindulhat a fegyverszállítás Ukrajnába. De pontosan milyen fegyverek? Nincs-e túl késő ehhez? Fordulhat-e a háború menete, és mennyi realitása van a világháborús veszélynek, aminek felemlegetése a magyarországi választási kampányban lassan olyan, mint a levegővétel? Erről szól a HetiVálasz 223. adása; vendégünk Jójárt Krisztián a Nemzeti Közszolgálati Egyetem John Lukács...
2024-04-25
1h 02
Self Evident
What Women Should Look For – A Dissection of Intentional Dating | Guest: Dr. Karl Benzio (SE #66)
This is Part II of our conversation with Dr. Karl Benzio, a Christian psychiatrist and co-founder of Honey Lake Clinic in Florida. in this episode, Dr. Benzio expounds how different people are wired for dating, and much more. Resources & References: Part I: A Psychiatric Evaluation of Community & The Dating Scene | Guest: Dr. Karl Benzio How to Avoid Marrying a Jerk: The Foolproof Way to Follow Your Heart Without Losing Your Mind | John Van Epp… Continue Reading
2024-04-17
35 min
No Regretz Marriage
A Great Tool to Assess Your Relationships
We are always looking for great tools to help couples build a better marriage. We are also continually learning and training so we can help couples and churches. One of the tools we are currently pursuing traing in is RAM - Relationship Attachment Model developed by Dr. John Van Epp. In this episode we discuss the basic concept of RAM and how you can apply them to your relationships.
2024-04-02
27 min
Magyar Hang podcastok
Nem Trumpon múlik, mennyi pénzt adhat Amerika Ukrajnának a háborúra – Reptér Csizmazia Gáborral
A „szuperkedd” után egyértelművé vált, újra Joe Biden és Donald Trump küzd meg egymással az amerikai elnöki székért. Hogy áll a kampány, hogy áll a két, 80 körüli jelölt? Miért épp a migráció és a vele összefüggő nagyvárosi közbiztonság lesz a kampány központi témája? Mi akar Trump és mit Biden? Tényleg nem fog majd egy pennyt se adni Trump Ukrajnának az orosz invázió elleni harcára, ahogy arról a volt elnökkel találkozó Orbán Viktor beszélt? Egyáltalán min...
2024-03-19
1h 17
Women's Hot Topics with Shug Bury
#243 The Do's & Don'ts of Dating
What do you expect when dating? Are you being up front and honest? Whether you're young, looking for your life partner, divorced or widowed… this show is for you. Shug Bury sits down with Dr. John Van Epp, relationship expert, author and President/Founder of Love Thinks, LLC, to discuss the do's and don'ts of dating. To learn more about our show, go to him4her.org. To watch our shows, go to our Women's Hot Topics with Shug Bury YouTube channel.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
2023-09-20
35 min
Women's Hot Topics with Shug Bury
#242 Dating In This Crazy World
Is your dating life bombing? What questions should you ask, what should you look for in a date? Whether you're young, looking for your life partner, divorced or widowed… this show is for you. Shug Bury sits down with Dr. John Van Epp, relationship expert, author and President/Founder of Love Thinks, LLC, to discuss WHAT NOT TO DO in your dating relationships! To learn more about our show, go to him4her.org. To watch our shows, go to our Women's Hot Topics with Shug Bury YouTube channel.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
2023-09-06
32 min
HERself
195. The Secrets to Long-Term Partnership with Dr. John Van Epp
It always feels good to get advice from those who are two steps ahead of us in life. And that’s exactly what today’s episode is. We have the pleasure of interviewing Dr. John Van Epp, developer of evidence based relationship programs. He also has his PhD in counseling and psychology. Dr. John Van Epp has over 44 years of marriage experience himself and has raised two daughters who are also in healthy marriages. You might even recognize one of his daughters; Dr. Morgan Cutlip, who has been on the show twice before!
2023-08-21
1h 00
Our Journey To Eden
How To Choose The Right Marriage Partner w/ John Van Epp Ph.D. EP 40
Tired of ending up in bad relationships? The disastrous dating scene is a milieu of hookups and situation-ships. Divorce statistics are shocking and on the rise. Cohabitation does not produce the results you would think or hope for. I asked myself what is going on in this upside-down world. Enter...John Van Epp Ph.D. the President and Founder of Love Thinks. *You can watch this episode on Youtube and see John demonstrating the Relationship Attachment Model. ''Van Epp and his innovative Relationship Attachment Model (RAM), books, and relationship courses were awarded the Smart Marriage Impact Award (2008), the National Association of R...
2023-06-29
1h 25
Stronger Marriage Connection
A Better Approach for Dating & Marriage | Dr. John Van Epp | #42
On today’s episode, Dr. Dave and Dr. Liz talk with Dr. John Van Epp who brings to light some of the most important things we can do when selecting a life partner as well as how to strengthen those relationships over time. We learn some of the predictors of how long-term relationships will turn out as well as some principles to help navigate both red and green flags within our relationships.Timestamps:0:00 – Introduction: Who is John Van Epp?2:42 – Life-partner selection process11:58 – Predictors of getting to “know” and getting to “no”13:33 – Media love vs True love
2023-06-19
52 min
Ben Thinking
#33 - Cameron Smith - Mormon, ADHD, Mental Health, Coming Out
Cameron talks about his story coming away from the Mormon church and how his family and friends treated him during his separation of the Mormon church and now coming out as Bisexual. Cameron discusses what practices he uses to keep his mental health in a safe place. - "Emotional Blackmail" by Susan Forward https://www.amazon.com/Emotional-Blackmail-People-Obligation-Manipulate/dp/0060928972/ref=sr_1_1?crid=EO9IXXS590SP&keywords=emotional+blackmail&qid=1679430789&s=books&sprefix=emotional+blackmail%2Cstripbooks%2C124&sr=1-1 - "Come as You Are" by Emily Nagoski https://www.amazon.com/Come-You-Are-Surprising-Transform/dp/1476762090 - "How to Avoid Falling in Love With a Jer...
2023-05-15
1h 28
BE BETTER PODCAST
BE BETTER with INTIMATE RELATIONSHIPS
Life is short, but relationships don't have to be. I share Dr. John Van Epp's Relationship Attachment Model (R.A.M.) to strengthen your intimate relationship and keep you and your partner moving in the right direction. Take a listen.
2023-03-04
34 min
BE BETTER PODCAST
BE BETTER with INTIMATE RELATIONSHIPS
Life is short, but relationships don't have to be. I share Dr. John Van Epp's Relationship Attachment Model (R.A.M.) to strengthen your intimate relationship and keep you and your partner moving in the right direction. Take a listen.
2023-03-03
28 min
Broken to Breathtaking
Four Things To Know Before Falling In Love
In this episode we're going to discuss just four things to learn and to know before entering the dating realm. Of course, there are many more and I will happily share some of them in the future! But for today, we're keeping it simple with the first four things that you can easily learn and research in order to set yourself up for the most success in relationships. Resources:~How to Avoid Falling in Love with a Jerk by John Van Epp~The Runaway Bride~The mentor I reference in this...
2023-02-08
28 min
The Yellow Pill Podcast
Bonus: Practical Love and a Framework
In this bonus episode, Tobi shares his thoughts about what he describes as "a gentle kind of practical and efficient love". He also gives a quick overview of the areas to seek to know a person as highlighted by the Relationship Attachment Model (RAM) created by John Van Epp in his book "How To Avoid Falling in Love with a Jerk" . . As always, if you love listening to the podcast, here's how you can show us some love! Leave us a review where you're listening right now! 💫 Follow us on Twi...
2022-11-28
23 min
Mama Knows
Relationship Drama dissected by two Psychologists w/Dr. Morgan Cutlip & Dr. John
Mama Knows listeners sent in their relationship drama and Dr. Morgan Cutlip & her dad Dr. John, Psychologists, unravel what in the world is going on and how you can fix it?https://lovethinks.com/https://www.mylovethinks.com/online-courses/https://www.instagram.com/drmorgancutlip/Morgan Van Epp Cutlip developed an interest in romantic relationship health at a young age, and traveled with her father when he first started teaching the How to Avoid Falling for Jerk program over 20 years ago.Since, Morgan has completed her Bachelor’s degree in psychology at Mi...
2022-10-18
47 min
My Healing Village
Breaking the Cycle of Abuse
Let’s face it, we all have our fair share of traumas, most commonly because of something our parents did. Yes, our very own parents. While most parents mean well, there are some who may not know how to raise a child in a loving or nurturing environment. They can be stubborn, unwilling to listen, and would even disregard their children’s feelings. Oftentimes, these types of parents grew up in households with parents who were similarly unaffectionate or disconnected from them. They most likely didn’t receive the kind of love and care that can also lead th...
2022-10-09
39 min
Ladylike - 巫婆之水
ep23 如何避免愛上渣(上)- 告白玩在一起還是要思考捏
哈囉 大家今天張弦月 是從新月開始月亮轉了90度, 這是一個躁動和浮躁的時刻,也是我們審思自己、拋開過去,採取必要的初步行動的時刻。 例如避免渣男/女/非二元性別,等垃圾人的時間 我們為何會愛上渣,為什麼身邊總是有個朋友總是鬼遮眼一直處在一段不舒服的關係? 一而再再而三地重複,約翰·范·埃普 (John Van Epp)博士用自己臨床的經驗尋找背後的成因, 想要找到健康戀愛指南並寫出「如何避免愛上渣」這本書。 T&S也在新的一集 分享一路戀愛中的人型垃圾圖鑑 這集也是 如何找到愛的延續,大家不要忘記回去複習一下ㄅ 也可以分享你們最垃圾的經驗有哪些?
2022-09-05
1h 01
Marriage Champions
#25: Dr. John Van Epp. President and Founder of Lovethinks. Author, "How to Avoid Marrying a Jerk". RAM Model: Relationship elements : know, trust, rely, commit, and touch. Couple check in meetings.
· 00:00 Background of How to Avoid Marrying a Jerk book and title. · 05:25 Background as church planter, pastor, marriage counselor, creator of relationship programs for singles, dating and married couples in and outside churches. Training military chaplains working with singles. · 18:59 Impact of marriage and relational breakdown on loss of faith. Relational problems are major felt need in American society. Major opportunity for churches to engage society. · 29:48 Marriage trends in 20thcentury. Decline of marriage in 1920s and 1960s. · 40:01 Head and heart working together in dating relationship. · 50:47 Role of romance in relationships in the We...
2022-08-15
2h 00
Love Thinks Podcast
Enneagram 101 with Christa Hardin
Have you heard about the Enneagram and wonder what it is all about? Christa Hardin joins Dr. John and Dr. Morgan to clearly explain this tool that has helped so many individuals and couples. For years, she has provided enneagram coaching and resources specifically for couples in marriage(https://www.enneagraminyourmarriage.com).If you’ve ever wondered how someone discovers their Enneagram type, you’ll love how Christa breaks down the key questions to ask to discover yours and helps John figure out his Enneagram type during the episode.
2022-05-25
41 min
Love Thinks Podcast
Going from Partners to Parents: Marriage After Kids with Tricia and Dave
In this episode of the Love Thinks podcast, Dr. John Van Epp and Dr. Morgan Cutlip sit with Tricia Fox and Dave Ransom who are a married couple of two young children. Dave and Tricia share their experience transitioning from a couple to parents and what married life was like after kids. They share relatable moments and struggles and how they navigated through growing stronger and more connected.
2022-05-18
38 min
Auditórium
Baló Dániel: Nem mindig a megújuló a fenntartható
Baló Dániel építész, egyetemi oktató, a Murum Stúdió alapítója, a MOME StudioB és a TIMBOO társalapítója. Tanulmányait a budapesti Moholy-Nagy Művészeti Egyetemen, a Lisszaboni Műszaki Egyetemen és Koppenhágában, a Dán Királyi Képzőművészeti Akadémia építész karán végezte. Diplomája előtt Európa több jelentős tervezője mellett próbálhatta ki magát építészként, így dolgozott a Pritzker díjas svájci Peter Zumthor, a spanyol RCR Arquitectes és a brit John Pawson irodájában is.2016-ban...
2022-05-17
37 min
Love Thinks Podcast
Get to know Dr. John Van Epp and Dr. Morgan Cutlip
Dr. John Van Epp and Dr. Morgan Cutlip share their story and how they began working together as a father-daughter team to help people in their relationships. They share stories of some of the earliest experiences of Dr. Morgan's life and how they shaped her interest in helping people develop healthy relationships and how Dr. John inspired and nurtured this interest.
2022-05-04
33 min
Love Thinks Podcast
Handling the mental load a solo parent with Dr. Brooke Weinstein
This is our third podcast interview on the topic of the “mental load.” Dr. Brooke Weinstein joined Dr. John and Dr. Morgan to share how she has successfully learned to carry her mental load while keeping her own self-care a high priority. Her story is inspiring with many diverse and challenging chapters: a wife with a husband struggling with depression; a mother of two boys (now 8 and 5); a working mom with a thriving practice; an almost divorced and later, widowed solo-parent. And yet, through all these experiences she has been resilient to continue to deepen her joy and love of l...
2022-05-04
38 min
Love Thinks Podcast
A couple shares about healing from a betrayal
It takes courage to share aspects of your life and marriage on a podcast, and something beyond courage to talk about personal failures. Peter and Alex personify this exceptional courage, as they share about a dark time of betrayed trust in their marriage and how they were able to build back their love and trust. Dr. John and Dr. Morgan sat down with Alex and Peter, parents of three kids, ages 5-9, and were amazed at the grace and wisdom they expressed in their relationship over the last few years of working through an emotional affair.
2022-04-27
36 min
Love Thinks Podcast
How to not freak out when your 8 year old tells you they have a crush
Most parents will eventually face the day when their young kid admits that they have a crush or someone has a crush on them. Many parents feel anxious and unequipped for the conversations that may need to follow. Dr. John and Dr. Morgan are a father-daughter team, and they are in a really unique position to discuss this often-overlooked area of how parents can engage with their elementary kids about their crushes... and yes, they said “elementary” kids! They discuss how to engage young kids in meaningful conversations when their child shares that either they have a crush, or someo...
2022-04-20
39 min
Love Thinks Podcast
How a married couple shares the mental load
Dr. John and Dr. Morgan sat down with Charity and Ted to explore how they deal with their mental loads. They have been married 20 years and are in the hectic season of raising four kids, ages 9-16. Although no one is perfect, they are a wonderful couple and through this interview they share several tips for tackling the mental load together throughout all stages of a relationship.
2022-04-13
46 min
Love Thinks Podcast
A man's perspective on the mental load
One of the biggest challenges faced by couples is how they carry and express their “mental loads.” In this first of several podcasts on the topic, Dr. John and Dr. Morgan sat down with Jonathan to explore how he handles his own mental load, and the ways he and his wife work together to support each other’s mental loads as they raise their four kids, ages 7, 5, 3, and 1.
2022-04-06
43 min
Love Thinks Podcast
When to Back Down From a Fight Part 2
At one time or another many of us have felt that we either backed down from a fight too soon or pushed too strongly.In part two of this episode we explore how to make the decision of whether or not to back down from a fight.
2022-03-30
22 min
Consecrating Your Life
Janiece Seegmiller: An Optimistic Mindset about Sex
Are single people aware that it's OK to desire sex? While we know about the law of chastity and the dangers of pornography, we don't always talk about the beautiful side of our sexuality. My friend Janiece and I talk about sex in a positive way. We hope to open the discussion about sex to be more optimistic, and that you will seek more information about your own sexual appetites and on how to teach the rising generation about sex. Some resources we referenced: Fostering a Positive Perspective of Sexuality (from the Liahona, A...
2022-03-27
40 min
Love Thinks Podcast
When to Back Down From a Fight Part 1
In this episode, Dr. John Van Epp and Dr. Morgan Cutlip have a conversation on what you can do to help yourself back down from an argument. Some of the topics discussed are: embracing humility, skills for calming yourself (aka self-regulation), tools for identifying your emotions as they begin to escalate, understanding your triggers, and so much more.
2022-03-23
37 min
Love Thinks Podcast
Married to a partner struggling with their mental health
We are honored to be joined with Kelly, a mother of two young kids aged 2 and 4 months old. Kelly has been married for seven years but is currently separated. She wrote in because her husband struggles with depression and anxiety and she’s found that there’s little space for her to express her own needs without him either taking it as a personal attack or spiraling into a depressive episode. We discuss solutions and approaches that could help Kelly and her husband to team up as one and treat depression as an intruder in their relationship. We enc...
2022-03-16
28 min
Love Thinks Podcast
Finding Yourself After Divorce with Marcus
Life after divorce can be a difficult and confusing experience to navigate. In this episode Dr. John and Dr. Morgan sit down with Marcus, a recently divorced individual who is learning how to develop a new sense of self after his marriage ended. Marcus discusses his anxious attachment style and Dr. John and Dr. Morgan share some ways his attachment style may show up in his future relationships as well as make suggestions as to what Marcus can do during this time of self-discovery to be more prepared for his next relationship.
2022-03-09
27 min
Love Thinks Podcast
Dating After Divorce with Lindsey
Lindsey talks about her experience being single and entering the dating world again. She expresses difficulty setting boundaries and knowing when to invest more in the relationship versus when to cut ties. Dr. John and Dr. Morgan help Lindsey develop a game plan for her next relationship and discuss what blind spots she may have to pay more attention to.
2022-03-02
37 min
The Lilly Elizabeth Podcast
How to Avoid Falling in Love with a Jerk
Lilly discusses the RAM Model from Dr. John Van Epp's "How to Avoid Falling in Love with a Jerk."Find the book on Amazon (highly recommend reading and taking notes): https://www.amazon.com/How-Avoid-Falling-Love-Jerk/dp/0071548424
2022-02-24
53 min
Love Thinks Podcast
Boundaries over minor issues
Dr. John Van Epp and Dr. Morgan Cutlip discuss setting boundaries over minor issues. They explore ways expand your options beyond just boundary setting and factors to consider whether or not a boundary needs to be set. Dr. John and Dr. Morgan give practical ways of approaching boundaries over minor issues.
2022-02-23
32 min
Women's Hot Topics with Shug Bury
#169: How to Avoid Falling in Love with a Jerk - Part II
Tired of the drama? Listen in as Shug Bury gets to the bottom of relationship issues with expert John Van Epp, PhD, in the second of a two part interview discussing How to Avoid Falling in Love with a Jerk.Listen to HIM4Her Radio: Women's Hot Topics on Salem Network's AM 980 The Mission every Saturday at 11:00AM CT, Sundays at 3:00PM CT and Tuesdays at 6:00PM CT. After airing, you can listen to HIM4Her Radio: Women's Hot Topics wherever you get your podcasts. Don't forget our interviews on the HIM4Her Ministries YouTube page! To support...
2021-10-23
25 min
Women's Hot Topics with Shug Bury
#168: How To Avoid Falling in Love with a Jerk - Part I
AVOID THE JERKS AND FIND "THE ONE" WHO'S RIGHT FOR YOU! Join Shug Bury and her guests, John Van Epp, PhD and his daughter, Morgan Cutlip, PhD, as they discuss How to Avoid Falling In Love with a Jerk. Listen to HIM4Her Radio: Women's Hot Topics on Salem Network's AM 980 The Mission every Saturday at 11:00AM CT, Sundays at 3:00PM CT and Tuesdays at 6:00PM CT. After airing, you can listen to HIM4Her Radio: Women's Hot Topics wherever you get your podcasts. Don't forget our interviews on the HIM4Her Ministries YouTube page! To support o...
2021-10-16
25 min
Valley Real Life Sermons
REALationships | Week 1
Kick off our REALationship series with John Van Epp, author of the RAM Series. Take the first step in building healthy, Godly relationships with those around you by walking through this 6 week study.
2021-09-12
36 min
The Balanced Parent Podcast
069: The Mental Load and How to Ease It with Dr. Morgan Cutlip
I don't know about you, but before I became a mom I had no idea how heavy the load would be. Not just the day-to-day tasks of feeding and caring for a family, but all the unseen, unspoken, invisible labor that is a part of modern motherhood. The planning, the home organization, the lists, the mental maps, the appointments... EVERYTHING seems to fall on us at times. If you ever felt this way, I want to send you compassion and grace for what you are going through. As a mom, I know how it...
2021-07-27
34 min
Girls Gone Gab
#41. What’s Up & Book Club
This is a lengthy episode so grab a snack before you settle in for this one! Mackenzie and Cierra begin the episode with a recap of events following last week’s encounter with the spirit world. They also discuss Mackenzie’s continued vaccine love saga, Netflix’s The Circle, and former Bachelor, Colton Underwood’s, recent announcement. The second half of the episode (beginning at 45:41) introduces our new book club series exploring John Van Epp, Ph D ‘s “How to Avoid Falling in Love with a Jerk: The Foolproof Way to Follow Your Heart Without Losing Your Mind”. Chapters 1-4 touch on topic...
2021-04-23
1h 25
What About Therapy
6. How To Create a Strong Relationship: R.A.M.
In this episode, Enoch talks about the Relationship Attachment Model, otherwise known as the R.A.M. The R.A.M. was developed by John Van Epp, Ph.D. and he talks about it in his book How To Avoid Falling In love With A Jerk. (Link down below!). Enoch teaches how the R.A.M. works, and how to keep it balanced to form the strong healthy bonds that successful relationships are made of. Link for the R.A.M. picture: http://www.codependencynomore.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/06/Relationship-Attachment-Model-2.gif Li...
2021-03-25
35 min
What About Therapy
5. Ingredients For Change
In this episode, Enoch talks about 4 (4.5) key ingredients that are required for change when it comes to unhealthy emotional needs or even addictions. He references the book How to Avoid Falling In Love With A Jerk by John Van Epp, Ph.D. The link for the book is down below! The 4.5 ingredients are: 1. Insight Into Yourself 2. New Information To Direct Change 3. Motivation 4. Time 4.5 Patience If you know of anyone who can benefit from this episode, please share it with them! Thank you all so much for your...
2021-03-10
25 min
Single to Sealed
NCMO? No more!
Episode NotesHi there! Thanks for tuning into this episode with us.We hope this episode helps those of you with questions about the issue of NCMO's. Our desire is to guide you to find truly fulfilling and successful relationships, built with the building blocks that secure a firm and healthy relationship for you and your partner.Dr. John Van Epp and his RAM model:https://dating.lovetoknow.com/Interview:_How_to_Avoid_Marrying_a_JerkD&C 58:26 - "Slothful Servant, commanded in all things."D&C 121:45 - "Let virtue garnish...
2021-01-11
16 min
Francoinformador
Primer debate presidencial en EE.UU
PRIMER DEBATE EN EE.UU. Después de meses de diatribas, el presidente estadounidense Donald Trump y su rival demócrata en la carrera por la Casa Blanca, Joe Biden, se enfrentaron este martes en el primer debate de una campaña que transcurre bajo alta tensión. Faltan 34 días para las elecciones en Estados Unidos.Decenas de millones de personas siguieron atentos el choque verbal entre el presidente republicano, de 74 años y el exvicepresidente demócrata, de 77. Si bien el impacto sobre los comicios es limitado, estos encuentros marcan el ritmo d...
2020-09-30
00 min
Heart of Dating
S5 Ep86: 086: How to Avoid Falling in Love With a Jerk with John Van Epp
Heart of Dating is kicking off a BRAND NEW Season with a BRAND NEW Episode! We welcome Season 5 with an incredible conversation with John Van Epp! We are grieved, heartbroken, and sick over the injustices and acts of hatred regarding the murders of George Floyd, Ahmaud Arbery, Breonna Taylor, and countless others within the black community...murders and injustices that have been going on not just in this last year, but for hundreds of years. Not only do we mourn, but we are committed to doing even better as a community, podcast, and ministry when it comes t...
2020-06-10
1h 17
Love, Life, Legacy: A Show About Sex
Are You Ready for Marriage? | Tim Rarick
Join Andrew as he interviews Tim Rarick, a professor and a speaker at BYU Idaho, who seeks to make complex ideas simplified. In this episode Tim helps to explain why people struggle with deep emotional issues and how ties can be mended through focusing on being integrity to what we yearn for in relationships. An introduction of Tim Rarick [0:11] Who does Tim work with? [3:00] Is dealing with porn a global issue? [4:30] What are the main causes of problems for families? [8:20] What ways can parents help their children inherit healthy...
2020-05-27
50 min
ALLWays Another Way
Ep:97 How to Avoid Falling in Love with a Jerk — John Van Epp
First off, the term jerk is genderless. . This book should be required reading for all people that are of dating age and reread again after any unsatisfactory relationship. . The world would be a healthier place indeed. . I’ve listened to this book and chapters of this book 5 different times on @audible. . I’ve recommended this book to countless friends that have loved it! . No one is taught relationship skills. Maybe your parents talked about it. Maybe they didn’t? . You definitely watched your parents relationship behavior and those around and drew knowledge and behavior from that. . Not all of us had go...
2020-03-06
49 min
The Art of Manliness
#584: How to Avoid Falling in Love With the Wrong Person
Why do people sometimes fall in love with someone who is all kinds of wrong for them? Their friends and family see lots of red flags about their partner, but they themselves miss these warnings entirely, sometimes to catastrophic consequences. My guest today argues that these kinds of errors in relational decision-making happen when someone lets his heart rule without also heeding his head. His name is John Van Epp, and he's a therapist and the author of the book How to Avoid Falling in Love with a Jerk. We begin our conversation discussing what society's default template for creating a s...
2020-02-12
1h 01
The Art of Manliness
#584: How to Avoid Falling in Love With the Wrong Person
Why do people sometimes fall in love with someone who is all kinds of wrong for them? Their friends and family see lots of red flags about their partner, but they themselves miss these warnings entirely, sometimes to catastrophic consequences. My guest today argues that these kinds of errors in relational decision-making happen when someone lets his heart rule without also heeding his head. His name is John Van Epp, and he's a therapist and the author of the book How to Avoid Falling in Love with a Jerk. We begin our conversation discussing what society's default...
2020-02-12
59 min
America's Health Crisis
Fathers and Families Coalition of America Paulette Young 858-769-4936 press 1
Families and Fathers Coalition of America is a nonprofit 501(C)(3) established in 1996. Established in 1996, transitioned in 2010 as a National and International Professional Development and Advocacy Agency. Dr. James Rodriguez is the CEO and founder of this organization. Tonight we will feature some of the speakers that are taking part in the 21st Families and Fathers Coalition of America National Conference schedule for February 24-27, 2020. The speakers for tonight is as follows: Dr. James Rodriguez, Wendy Thelese Tally (KW Essential Services CEO),Barbara Coloroso (Internationall best selling author and for the past 44 years an International speaker and consultants on parenting/teaching...
2019-10-16
1h 01
Cairn.fm
Dr. John Van Epp – Follow Your Heart without Losing your Mind
The post Dr. John Van Epp – Follow Your Heart without Losing your Mind appeared first on Cairn University.
2019-09-27
00 min
Cairn University Chapels
Dr. John Van Epp – Follow Your Heart without Losing your Mind
The post Dr. John Van Epp – Follow Your Heart without Losing your Mind appeared first on Cairn University.
2019-09-27
34 min
Cairn.fm
Cairn 10: Summer Love Tune-Up (with John Van Epp)
Summer love gets a tune up with Cairn alum Dr. John Van Epp ’80, president of LoveThinks. This audio and video podcast explores what has and has not changed in recent years in dating and relationships. The post Cairn 10: Summer Love Tune-Up (with John Van Epp) appeared first on Cairn University.
2019-07-11
00 min
Viclondonban
S06E14 A Forradalmat távolról bámulva
Ami a John Oliver anyagból kimaradt, s ahogy én innen a távolból látom a szemünk előtt kibontakozó forradalmi eseményeket..... Legyetek hangosak és dühösek! DONÁTH ANNA JÚLIA·MONDAY, DECEMBER 17, 2018 Én akkor váltam “a tüntető lánnyá”, amikor csütörtökön letepertek a rendőrök. És miért? Mert kifejeztem a véleményemet - egy viszonylag érdekes formában. Hangosan, mérgesen és látványosan. De ezzel nem voltam egyedül, és azzal sem voltam egyedül, hogy elvittek. Rengeteg olyan fiatalt is bevittek, akik csa...
2018-12-17
43 min
The Struggle is Real: Modern Parenting
Preparing them for Puppy Love feat. Dr. John Van Epp
The current cultural trend in America is for children to begin dating at earlier and earlier ages. This means that now, perhaps more than ever, it is crucial for parents to begin teaching their children about relationships sooner rather than later. It’s important to take a holistic approach that integrates love, dating, marriage, sex, and everything in between into an ongoing conversation about relationships. Tune in for more. Special Guest: Dr. John Van Epp, Author & Creator of Love Thinks Resident Expert: Dr. Alicia La Hoz Hosts: Omar Ramos & Veronica Avila
2017-09-25
50 min
Don’t Miss Into A Next-Level Full Audiobook On Your Commute.
How to Avoid Falling in Love with a Jerk: The Foolproof Way to Follow Your Heart Without Losing Your Mind by John Van Epp
Please visithttps://thebookvoice.com/podcasts/1/audiobook/315995to listen full audiobooks. Title: How to Avoid Falling in Love with a Jerk: The Foolproof Way to Follow Your Heart Without Losing Your Mind Author: John Van Epp Narrator: Alexander Cendese Format: Unabridged Audiobook Length: 9 hours 3 minutes Release date: May 9, 2017 Ratings: Ratings of Book: 3.8 of Total 5 Ratings of Narrator: 5 of Total 2 Genres: Relationships & Intimacy Publisher's Summary: Based on years of research on marital and premarital happiness, How to Avoid Falling in Love with a Jerk (previously published in hardcover as How to Avoid Marrying a Jerk) will help you break destructive dating patterns...
2017-05-09
9h 03
Explore New Full Audiobooks in Health & Wellness, Relationships & Intimacy
How to Avoid Falling in Love with a Jerk: The Foolproof Way to Follow Your Heart Without Losing Your Mind by John Van Epp
Please visithttps://thebookvoice.com/podcasts/1/audiobook/315995to listen full audiobooks. Title: How to Avoid Falling in Love with a Jerk: The Foolproof Way to Follow Your Heart Without Losing Your Mind Author: John Van Epp Narrator: Alexander Cendese Format: Unabridged Audiobook Length: 9 hours 3 minutes Release date: May 9, 2017 Ratings: Ratings of Book: 3.8 of Total 5 Ratings of Narrator: 5 of Total 2 Genres: Relationships & Intimacy Publisher's Summary: Based on years of research on marital and premarital happiness, How to Avoid Falling in Love with a Jerk (previously published in hardcover as How to Avoid Marrying a Jerk) will help you break destructive dating patterns...
2017-05-09
9h 03
Faith & Family Bible Podcast with Steve Wood
Episode 043 - How to Avoid Marrying a Jerk - Part 2
The struggles young people have in relationships, leading to eventual heartbreak, is HUGE. And there aren’t a lot of solutions out there. That’s why every Catholic parent should prepare to head off future problems by listening to and heeding the advice given by host Steve Wood and his guest, Dr. John Van Epp, author of the blockbuster book, How to Avoid Marrying a Jerk. A companion CD for this book can be purchased at Dads.org.
2017-03-10
27 min
Faith & Family Bible Podcast with Steve Wood
Episode 042 - How to Avoid Marrying a Jerk - Part 1
A critical question for parents is: “How do you get the anti-cohabitation message across to people whose hearts and minds are closed to the truth?" Listen to host Steve Wood and his guest, Dr. John Van Epp answer this very important question as they discuss Dr. Van Epp's blockbuster book, How to Avoid Marrying a Jerk. A companion CD for this book can be purchased at Dads.org.
2017-03-03
27 min
Rabbitt Stew Comics
Episode 067
Batman Annual, Superman Annual, Justice League of America 10, DC New Talent Showcase, Ghost Rider 1, IvX 0, Savage 1, Fantastic Beasts, Nocturnal Animals, Mr. Marvel, Deadly Class, ResurrXion creative teams (Weapon X, X-Men Blue, X-Men Gold, Iceman, Jean Grey, Generation X), Guardians of the Galaxy trailer Details: Batman Annual by Tom King, David Finch, Scott Snyder, Ray Fawkes, Declan Shalvey, Paul Dini, Neal Adams, Steve Orlando, Riley Rossmo, Scott Wilson, Bilquis Evely; Superman Annual by Peter Tomasi, Pat Gleason, Jorge Jimenez; Justice League of America 10 by Bryan Hitch, Tony Bedard, Tom Derenick; Ghost Rider by Felipe Smith, Danilo Beyruth, Tradd...
2016-12-09
1h 29