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SexologyEP465 - Childhood Wounds: Why Your Bedroom Patterns Are a MirrorWelcome to Episode 465 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I’m excited to be joined by Jessica Baum, who speaks to me about how attachment styles shape our sexual connection and intimacy within long-term relationships. In this episode, we explore how attachment theory helps us understand why so many couples struggle with maintaining desire over time. We discuss how patterns rooted in early childhood, such as anxious, avoidant, and disorganized attachment, influence not only our emotional connection but also our erotic lives. Jessica explains how couples often repeat familiar relational scripts, sometimes mistaking intensity or chaos for...
2025-11-1828 minSexologyEP464 - Sexual Expression: Lessons in Life and LoveWelcome to Episode 464 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I’m excited to be joined by Riana Milne, who speaks to me about emotional disconnection, communication breakdowns, and their impact on sexual desire in relationships. In this episode, Riana and I explore how emotional safety and communication are at the heart of sexual connection. We discuss why unresolved conflicts and stress responses, like fight, flight, or freeze, can suppress desire, and how couples can learn to reconnect through conscious communication and emotional regulation. Riana Milne MA is a Certified, Global Life and Lo...
2025-11-1138 minSexologyEP463 - Virtual Vibes: Sexting and ConsentWelcome to Episode 463 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I’m excited to be joined by, Hily Dating App's sexologist and sexuality educator, Dr. Mindy DeSeta, who speaks to me about flirting, sexting, and the art of digital consent in modern dating.In this conversation, we discuss how to move from casual conversations to more intimate ones, without it feeling awkward or forced. Dr. DeSeta shares how flirting and sexting are forms of vulnerable communication, not just sexual expression, and why pacing, consent, and emotional awareness are vital. We also touch upon the nuances of read...
2025-11-0431 minSexologyEP462 - Your Brilliant Body: The Heart-Sexuality SplitWelcome to Episode 462 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I’m excited to be joined by Ali Mezey, who speaks to me about ‘The Heart Sexuality Split’, a powerful framework she uses to help clients understand how love, desire, and trauma shape our most intimate connections.In this conversation, we explore the concept of ‘The Heart Sexuality Split’, how many people find themselves loving but not desiring their partners. Ali explains her Personal Geometry model, which uses physical mapping to externalize inner dynamics, offering profound insight into where we may feel emotionally blocked or disconnected. She also sha...
2025-10-2848 minSexologyEP461 - How to Choose and Use Your Sex ToysWelcome to Episode 461 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I’m excited to be joined by Alicia Sinclair a renowned sex coach and founder of several leading sexual wellness brands, including B Vibe and Le Wand. Alicia and I explore how sex toys can be a tool for enhancing both psychological and physical arousal, whether through role play, sensation play, or simply adding novelty to the bedroom. We also unpack the common fears and misconceptions couples have when introducing toys into their relationship, and how to approach these conversations with openness and curiosity rather than insec...
2025-10-2134 minSexologyEP460 - Cock Energy: Sex Rituals to ReconnectWelcome to Episode 460 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I’m excited to be joined by Lianna Walden, who speaks to me about how men and couples can deepen intimacy and connection through embodiment, sexual energy work, and practical worship rituals.In this conversation, Lianna and I explore the often-overlooked challenges men face in today’s evolving sexual landscape. We discuss her concept of “lingham activation”, a tantric-inspired approach to connecting with sexual energy through breathwork, embodiment, and intentional control. Lianna explains how many men have become disconnected from their bodies due to technology, stress, and socie...
2025-10-1428 minSexologyEP459 - Sexual Confidence: Porn, Kink and HypnotherapyWelcome to Episode 459 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I’m excited to be joined by Matthew Bennett, who speaks to me about life as a porn creator, the realities of OnlyFans, and how kink skills can translate into everyday life and even the workplace.In this conversation, Matthew opens up about his unexpected journey into adult content creation, sharing both the challenges and rewards of working on platforms like OnlyFans and JustForFans. We talk about how fetish and kink content often push against mainstream limitations, the misconceptions around creator earnings, and the importance of und...
2025-10-0737 minSexologyEP458 - Dating and Sex: A Divorce Attorney’s GuideWelcome to Episode 458 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I’m excited to be joined by Sarah Intelligator, a divorce attorney and author who brings such a fascinating perspective on dating, relationships, and why so many marriages end the way they do.Sarah shares how two decades in family law, and her own journey through divorce and remarriage, have shaped her perspective on why relationships break down. She has seen the same patterns repeat themselves in countless cases, and she is passionate about helping people understand those pitfalls before it’s too late. S...
2025-09-3028 minSexologyEP457 - Is It Cheating? The Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell AgreementWelcome to Episode 457 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I'm excited to be joined by Kevin Patterson who speaks to me about polyamory, representation, and emotional literacy.In this conversation, Kevin shares his journey into consensual non-monogamy and the inspiration behind Poly Role Models, a project designed to broaden representation of polyamory beyond narrow stereotypes. Kevin Patterson is an active member of the Philadelphia polyamory community. He's been practicing ethical nonmonogamy since August of 2002 after opening up a relationship that eventually became his marriage. In April of 2015, Kevin was inspired to...
2025-09-2327 minSexologyEP456 - Expert Insights: What Women Wish Men Knew About SexWelcome to Episode 456 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I’m excited to be joined by Allana Pratt, Annette Benedetti, Caitlin V, Dr. Margaret Cochran, Rob Kancler, Susan Bratton, and Sylvia Solit who help me answer one powerful question: What’s one thing women wish men knew about sex, but almost never say out loud?Across this conversation, our guests share profound insights into how women truly experience desire and intimacy. You’ll hear why slowing down, building safety, and creating emotional connection are essential foundations for passion. We discuss the hidden fantas...
2025-09-1619 minSexologyEP455 – Soloamory: The Ultimate Self-Love RelationshipWelcome to Episode 455 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I’m excited to be joined by Dr. Elisabeth Sheff who speaks to me about consensual non-monogamy, polyamory, and soloamory.In this episode, Dr. Eli shares her personal journey navigating relationships with both monogamous and polyamorous partners, and how those experiences shaped her professional research. We talk in-depth about "soloamory" which refers to prioritizing one's relationship with themselves, often in the form of self-love. It is a form of autosexuality/autoromance and a conscious choice to live a single life, valuing autonomy and personal growth over traditio...
2025-09-0944 minSexologyEP454 - A Sexual Revolution: Hookups, Hiccups and HappenstancesWelcome to Episode 454 of the Sexology Podcast! Today, I’m excited to be joined by Sam L. Feldman, who speaks to me about ethical non-monogamy, swinging, and the evolution of sexual liberation across the decades.In this episode, Sam shares insights from his book Hookups, Hiccups and Happenstances, which reflects on the changing landscape of sexuality from the 1960s and 70s through to today. We discuss the social shifts that empowered women during this period, the origins of swinging, and how personal boundaries and communication have shaped Sam’s own 62-year marriage.
2025-09-0231 minSexologyEP453 - Just Watch Me: A Hotwifing StoryWelcome to Episode 453 of the Sexology Podcast! Today, I’m excited to be joined by Serenity Cox and partner Timothy of WIFEY, who speak with me about their journey into the hotwifing lifestyle and how it has shaped their relationship.In this episode, Serenity and Timothy share how their interest in hotwifing began as fantasy and roleplay, before eventually evolving into real-life exploration. We discuss the turning point in their relationship during the pandemic, how they navigated their first experiences, and the emotional challenges and growth that came with moving from imagination into reality.
2025-08-2632 minSexologyEP452 - Relationship Anarchy: Breaking the NormsWelcome to Episode 452 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I’m excited to be joined by Roy Graff who speaks to me about relationship anarchy, consensual non-monogamy, and the importance of communication in alternative relationship structures.In this episode, Roy shares his deeply personal journey from decades of serial monogamy to embracing polyamory as an orientation and ultimately finding resonance in the philosophy of relationship anarchy. We explore the difference between open relationships and ethical non-monogamy, the role of emotional maturity, and how boundaries and communication can transform romantic connections. Roy G...
2025-08-1941 minSexologyEP451 - Coloring Outside the Lines: Freedom in PolyamoryWelcome to Episode 451 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I’m excited to be joined by Dr. Joli Hamilton who speaks to me about navigating non-monogamy, jealousy, and building healthy polyamorous relationships.In this conversation, I invite Joli to share the very human, very messy path she took from a long-term monogamous marriage into consensual non-monogamy. We talk about how a simple crush, paired with new language for polyamory, sparked courageous but complicated conversations, the pitfalls of working with clinicians who default to monogamy, and the painful social narratives that cast open-relationship exploration as “cheating” even whe...
2025-08-1246 minSexologyEP450 – Monogamish: Exploring Intimacy and FreedomWelcome to Episode 450 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I’m excited to be joined by Carrie Jeroslow who speaks to me about exploring monogamish relationships, communication, and relationship diversity.In this conversation, Carrie unpacks the term “Monogamish,” originally coined to describe a space between strict monogamy and fully open relationships, and shares how transparency, not secrecy, became the cornerstone of her own early experiences with non‑monogamy. We talk through the realities behind the “ish”: clunky starts, learning curves, aftercare, and the deep inner work that jealousy often invites.International B...
2025-08-0541 minSexologyEP449 - Sex and Self-Image: A Pleasure JourneyWelcome to Episode 449 of the Sexology Podcast! Today, I’m excited to be joined by Jackie Goldschneiderwho speaks to me about eating disorders, body image, recovery, and how all of this intersects with sexuality and pleasure.In this conversation, Jackie shares the raw, unglamorized realities of living with anorexia for two decades, much of it while in the public eye. We explore her “inherited food trauma,” the cultural pressure of the 90s, and how secrecy, rules, and constant tracking kept her illness alive. Jackie opens up about the pivotal moment at 45 when health scares and a s...
2025-07-2931 minSexologyEP448 - Connection and Pleasure: Reclaim Lost DesireWelcome to Episode 448 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I’m excited to be joined by Dr. Kate Balestrieri, who speaks to me about navigating low desire and reigniting intimacy in long‑term relationships.In this conversation, Kate and I normalize the reality that everyone, including sex therapists, experiences fluctuations in sexual desire. She shares the multifaceted story behind her own temporary drop in libido, touching on burnout, perimenopause, pandemic stress, and relationship “growing pains.” Dr. Kate Balestrieri, Psy.D is a Licensed Psychologist (Clinical and Forensic) in CA, FL, NY and IL...
2025-07-2226 minSexologyEP447 - The Mother of Sex Coaching: Wanting Love, Finding YourselfWelcome to Episode 447 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I’m excited to be joined by Dr. Patti Britton, who speaks to me about her new memoir Chasing Sex, the life events that shaped her as a pioneer in sex coaching, and how we can all cultivate pleasure and transcendent intimacy at any age.In this heartfelt conversation, Patti traces the winding path from her “little girl named Patti” to the globally known “Dr. Patti.” She opens up about the matriarchs who modeled sexual confidence, the traumas she survived, and the counter-culture influences that called her to sexo...
2025-07-1548 minSexologyEP446 - Feminist Porn: Producing PleasureWelcome to Episode 446 of the Sexology Podcast! Today, I’m excited to be joined by Inka Winter, who speaks to me about her journey from surviving a sex cult to pioneering feminist, female-gaze erotica that centers women’s pleasure and authentic consent.Inka Winter is an erotic filmmaker and founder of ForPlay Films, an independent, all-woman porn production company. Spending her formative years living in an alternative artist commune in Austria gave Inka a critical eye for what constitutes sexy, consensual female pleasure and set the foundation for her creative endeavors in erotic filmmaking. Her ba...
2025-07-0841 minSexologyEP445 - How to Have Mindful MasturbationWelcome to Episode 445 of the Sexology Podcast! Today, I'm excited to be joined by Darshana Avila, who speaks to me about mindful masturbation as a form of self-care and erotic exploration. In this conversation, Darshana and I dive into why so many of us default to the same quick, goal-oriented masturbation routine and how that habit is wired into our neural pathways. We explore the power of slowing down, setting an intention, and treating solo pleasure as a ritual, complete with an opening, body-centered exploration, and a conscious closing.Best kn...
2025-07-0138 minSexologyEP444 - Exploring Sex Tech Trends and Listeners’ Most Asked Q&AWelcome to Episode 444 of the Sexology Podcast! Today, I'm excited to be joined by Lisa Schaefer VP of Marketing at Promescent, who speaks to me about the biggest trends reshaping sexual-health products and sex-tech innovation. In the first half of the episode, I dive into three listener questions and unpack why fantasy is perfectly healthy, offer concrete scripts for sharing kinks without shame, and celebrate self-pleasure as a lifelong birth-right, while sprinkling in resources, exercises, and confidence-building tips you can try tonight. Then, Lisa joins me to map out the fast-evolving land...
2025-06-2435 minSexologyEP443 - Somebody Hold Me: Single and Touch StarvedWelcome to Episode 443 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I'm excited to be joined by Epiphany Jordan who speaks to me about the essential role of nonsexual, nurturing touch in our lives and how it intersects with wellness, relationships, and even trauma recovery. In this rich and deeply personal conversation, Epiphany shares her journey from studying sacred sexuality to creating structured touch experiences aimed at fostering connection and healing. We explore the cultural, religious, and psychological factors that shape how we experience touch, especially in societies where physical affection is often conflated with sexuality. ...
2025-06-1746 minSexologyEP442 - Dance Naked: The Joy of Sexual FantasiesWelcome to Episode 442 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I'm excited to be joined by Eleanor O’Brien who speaks to me about exploring erotic fantasies through creativity, theater, and self-expression. In this conversation, Eleanor shares how her personal journey with fantasy evolved from taboo-fueled curiosity to embodied empowerment. We explore the fascinating world of erotic storytelling, from her theater adaptations of fantasy monologues to the value of devising your own erotic scenes through selfies, writing prompts, and roleplay. Eleanor O’Brien is the artistic director of Dance Naked Creative, a sex-posit...
2025-06-1044 min
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2025-06-0335 minSexologyEP441 - Falling In Love Again: Bringing Erotic to Your EverydayWelcome to Episode 441 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I'm excited to be joined by Dr. Alexandra Stockwell who speaks to me about cultivating intimacy in long-term relationships, navigating sexless marriages, and reigniting erotic connection between partners. In this episode, we explore what truly keeps the spark alive in long-term relationships and why the common advice of compromise may actually undermine deep connection. Dr. Stockwell introduces her approach of Uncompromising Intimacy, which champions full self-expression over self-suppression in partnerships. Alexandra Stockwell, MD, aka “The Intimacy Doctor,” is widely known for her ability...
2025-06-0336 minSexologyEP440 - Sexual Power: Go All Night LongWelcome to Episode 440 of the Sexology Podcast! Today, I'm excited to be joined by Jeff Abraham, CEO of Absorption Pharmaceuticals, whose lead product is Promescent. Jeff speaks to me about the deeply misunderstood topic of premature ejaculation (PE) and the emotional, relational, and physiological dimensions behind it.In this enlightening conversation, Jeff and I unpack the complex web of stigma, shame, and misinformation that surrounds early ejaculation. We discuss the difference between perceived and clinically defined PE, the real physiological roots beyond just anxiety or lack of willpower, and the often-overlooked arousal gap between pa...
2025-05-2747 minSexologyEP439 – The Number One Mistake People Make in the BedroomWelcome to Episode 439 of the Sexology Podcast! Today, I'm thrilled to have a panel of leading sex therapists and relationship and intimacy experts from around the world. They’ll discuss the most common mistakes people make in the bedroom and how to address them. A big thank you to Dr. Emily Jamea, Ariel Anderssen, Dr. Lori Bisbey, Catherine Auman, Candia Raquel, Dr. Stephanie Bathurst, Dr. Avrum Weiss, and Elliot Katz.In this episode, we explore the habits that often go unnoticed but can have a lasting impact on sexual satisfaction and emotional connection. You'll hear a var...
2025-05-2022 minSexologyEP438 - Sex and Conflict: The 4-Minute ExerciseWelcome to Episode 438 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I'm excited to be joined by Dr. Glenn and Phyllis Hill, who speak to me about emotional regulation, co-regulation, and their transformative journey in creating a stronger sexual connection through emotional attunement.In this heartfelt episode, Glenn and Phyllis share their personal story of early sexual struggles and emotional disconnect in their marriage, which eventually led them on a lifelong quest for answers. Married since 1982, they recount decades of feeling lost and misunderstood, highlighting how a lack of emotional education contributed to sexual dissatisfaction and relational d...
2025-05-1350 minSexologyEP419 - Expert Insights: Avoid These Top Mistakes in Your Sex LifeWelcome to Episode 419 of the Sexology Podcast! Today is a special New Year's Episode, where I’m excited to be joined by six experts to uncover the most common mistake people make in their sex lives. We’ll explore strategies for achieving a more exciting and passionate sex life, as well as sharing personal advice, emphasizing the importance of seeking help early for sexual concerns and the availability of various resources to improve sexual health.The episode will feature insights from Dr. Stephanie Buehler, a psychologist and sex therapist whose...
2024-12-3119 minSexologyEP389 – Secretly Suffering: How to Reboot Your Sexless RelationshipWelcome to episode 389 of the Sexology Podcast! I'm Dr. Nazanin Moali, and today I'll be delving into the crucial topic of sexless relationships, discussing their prevalence, effects, and solutions. In this solo episode, I'll explore the significant impacts of a sexless relationship, the contributing factors, and potential solutions. I’ll also share perspectives from our viewers' experiences, explore the concept of asexuality, and emphasize the importance of communication and therapy. Key highlights include feelings of resentment, lowered self-esteem, emotional and physical disconnection, and an increased risk of affairs and divorce. Additionally, I’ll p...
2024-06-0444 min
The Bad Girls Bible - Sex, Relationships, Dating, Love & Marriage Advice#52 Sexless Marriages, Solutions & Causes with Dr. Nazanin MoaliSo many relationships struggle with sexlessness and many couples aren’t aware of the fact that they can get help and save their relationships! Today on The Bad Girl’s Bible, sex therapist and podcast host, Dr. Nazanin Moali joins us to discuss causes and solutions for sexless relationships. In this episode, you’ll hear all about Dr. Moali’s fascinating background, what made her want to be a sex therapist, her podcast, Sexology, her Farsi podcast, and so much more! We discuss what a sexless marriage or relationship is and what may cause it before talking about infidelity, pornogra...
2024-05-1543 minSexologyEP375 - Overcoming Sexual Rejection: Resilience and Growth with Marissa NelsonWelcome to episode 375 of Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to be speaking with Marissa Nelson. In this episode, Marissa discusses the issue of sexual rejection based on a story she shared in her TED Talk, how trauma and other life changes can impact sexual functioning and the importance of seeking support from a sex therapist or coach. Marissa Nelson, an experienced therapist, has helped numerous couples overcome life's challenges and strengthen their connection. With her extensive knowledge of couples' issues and her approachable style, she makes couples and sex therapy engaging, warm, and enjoyable.
2024-02-2740 minSexologyEP374 - Unraveling the Secrets to a Thriving RelationshipWelcome to episode 374 of Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to be speaking with Dr. Sara Nasserzadeh. In today's episode, Dr. Sara Nasserzadeh discusses her book and her new model of emerging love. The model focuses on six main ingredients for a successful relationship: attraction, trust, shared vision, respect, compassion, and acts of being loving towards one another. She expands on the role of attraction and the concept of building on physical chemistry to create sexual harmony. Dr. Sara Nasserzadeh, a distinguished expert in Sexuality, Relationships, and Intercultural Fluency, is recognized for her global contributions as...
2024-02-2038 minSexologyEP369 - Unlocking Pelvic Power: Overcome Erectile Dysfunction & Enhance Intimacy at Any AgeWelcome to episode 369 of Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to be speaking with Dr. Stephanie Bathurst. In today's episode, we discuss various aspects of pelvic floor function, emphasizing how aging and factors like obesity, constipation, and physical trauma can weaken it, consequently affecting sexual health and leading to issues like erectile dysfunction and chronic pelvic pain. Dr. Stephanie Bathurst is a dedicated clinician and coach, celebrated for her role as the founder of Bathurst Family Therapy™. She thrives in her role as a support system and guide for healing, aspiring to assist others through the...
2024-01-1633 minSexologyEP368 - Embracing Intimacy Across Cultures: Navigating Desire and Tradition in RelationshipsWelcome to episode 368 of Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to be speaking with Katherine Bejanyan. In today's episode, we discuss how cultural and religious backgrounds shape individual expectations in relationships, the impact of early family dynamics, societal norms on intimacy, and the importance of effective communication. Katherine Bejanyan is deeply passionate about relationships and is dedicated to helping others in this realm. Her professional activities include providing relationship counseling for both couples and singles. In her role as a relationship expert and consultant for an exclusive dating agency, Bejanyan offers speci...
2024-01-0937 minSexologyEP367 - Balancing Parenthood & Intimacy: Keeping The Spark AliveWelcome to episode 367 of Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to be speaking with Dr. Ricky Arenson. In today's episode, Dr. Arenson will be sharing his expertise on his recently published book titled "Women are Superior to Men." We will delve into the motivations and revelations that inspired his work, as well as delve into the complexities of relationships and the significance of comprehending dynamic interactions. Dr. Ricky Arenson, raised under the shadow of Table Mountain in Cape Town, was deeply influenced by the societal divisions of Apartheid, fueling his commitment to bridging gaps in to...
2024-01-0342 minSexologyEP366 – Sex Tips for the New YearWelcome to episode 366 of Sexology Podcast! Today we're delving into New Year's resolutions and their impact on relationships. Our expert guests share tips to revitalize your connection, making 2024 a year of passion. In this episode you will hear from Dr. Laurie Petito, Dr. Jess O'Reilly, David Khalili, Ken Page, Dr. Lonnie Barback, Dr. Laurie Mintz, Diane Gleim and Gigi Engle who share their insightful thoughts on new year's tips and resolutions for 2024 that include: New Year's resolution tips on sexual health and advocacy Tips to simplify complex sexual health and relationship subjects Key sk...
2023-12-2621 minSexologyEP365 - Desire Discrepancy with Amy Baldwin and April LambertWelcome to episode 365 of Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to be speaking with Amy Baldwin and April Lampert of the Shameless Sex Podcast. In this episode, we delve into the significance of embracing shifts in our sexual identity, suggestions for discovering trustworthy adult toys, and confidently expressing our desires without any sense of shame. Amy is an expert in the field of Sex and Relationship Coaching and Sex Education. She is dedicated to spreading the message of embracing pleasure-focused sexuality education without any shame. On the other hand, April is not...
2023-12-1949 minSexologyEP364 - Why Vacation Sex is What You Need for Your Relationship with Emily JameaWelcome to episode 364 of Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to be speaking with Emily Jamea. In this episode, we discuss the special nature of vacation sex, emphasizing the benefits of breaking routine, reducing stress, and fostering emotional connection. With over fifteen years of experience in sex and relationship therapy, Dr. Emily Jamea, a licensed marriage and family therapist, LPC, and AASECT Certified Sex Therapist, has earned recognition for her expertise, featured in esteemed publications such as Oprah Magazine, CNN, USA Today, NBC, CBS, Men’s Fitness, SELF, and Women’s Health. Actively contributing to Psychol...
2023-12-1233 minSexologyEP363 - Learn to Give Amazing Head with Heidi GeeWelcome to episode 363 of Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to be speaking with Heidi Gee. In this episode, we discuss overcoming discomfort with oral sex, how to approach the 69 position and learning to gently approach to clitoris. Heidi Gee is a dedicated Sexologist and Relationship Therapist, who brings over 15 years of experience to her passionate mission. In her unwavering belief, EVERYONE, irrespective of background, gender, religion, sexual preference, or pizza topping choice, deserves a fulfilling relationship and sex life. Driven by personal growth, navigating heartbreaks, and overcoming challenges, Heidi found her c...
2023-12-0525 min
Sober Powered: The Neuroscience of Being SoberE118: Your Guide to Sober Sex With Dr. Nazanin MoaliSober sex can be very intimidating, especially if you believe alcohol helps you feel more confident, comfortable, and in the mood for sex. I’m joined by Dr. Nazanin Moali, host of the Sexology Podcast, to discuss why we think alcohol is essential for sex, why sober sex can be so scary, and tips for singles and couples who are trying to get comfortable with sober sex. Dr. Moali shares strategies for anyone to begin implementing in their sex life whether you are single or in a relationship, and we touch on situations where someone might have a history of...
2022-09-2346 minSexologyEP300 - Between the Sheets: Desire Issues and Open Relationship Red FlagsWelcome to episode 300 of the Sexology Podcast! Today is a special episode where Dr Nazanin Moali answers your questions around desire discrepancy, improving an unhealthy open relationship, overcoming performance challenges and how pornography can cause erectile dysfunction. Dr. Moali also reflects hosting Sexology Podcast for five years and how the podcast has changed Dr. Moali as a clinician. In this episode, you will hear: Analyzing a desire discrepancy between a couple Ways to manage differences in sexual drive between partners Understanding your baseline desire Overcoming challenges of remaining present during...
2022-09-2032 min
Light After TraumaRedux: Intimacy After Sexual Trauma with Dr. Nazanin Moali, Ph.D.We are reaching back into our archives this week for an episode redux with Episode 34! Dr. Nazanin Moali is a public speaker, psychologist, and sex and relationship expert. Dr. Moali is also the host of her own podcast, titled "Sexology", where she dives into the psychology of sex and intimacy. In this week's episode, Dr. Moali and Alyssa discuss the impact that sexual trauma can have on us as well as the hope that comes with reclaiming our sexuality and discovering pleasure again. Learn more about Dr. Moali and check out her podcast ...
2022-08-2340 min
SexologyEP280 - How to Initiate SexWelcome to episode 280 of the Sexology Podcast! Today is a solo episode where we discuss the best ways to initiate sex. In this episode, you will hear: How couples in long term relationships can learn new ways to initiate sex Ways you can add novelty into your relationship The importance of reciprocation for a healthy sexual relationship Understanding the arousal gap between men and women Analyzing the responsive model of desire How partners can become resentful of things that happen in a relationship Using communication to improve your sex life with your partner How a good...
2022-05-0326 min
SexologyEP254 - Revving Up Men's Sex Drive Welcome to episode 254 of the Sexology Podcast! Today is a solo episode where Dr. Nazanin Moali discusses ways in which men can rev up their sex drive, how sexual desire differs between different genders and ways in which you can address and overcome issues of when your partner starts to drift from you sexually. In this episode, you will hear: The challenges men face with low libido Looking at the misconceptions that men always being ready and wanting sex What is sexual desire? How sexual desire differs between different genders Looking at hyperactive sexua...
2021-11-0225 min
SexologyEP225 - Self Compassion and Sexual Health with Chris Germer, PhD Welcome to episode 225 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I'm delighted to welcome Chris Germer, PhD to the podcast. In this episode, Dr. Germer talks to me about self-compassion, the power of kindness and how you can learn to let go of your expectations. Chris Germer, PhD is a clinical psychologist and lecturer on psychiatry (part-time) at Harvard Medical School. He co-developed the Mindful Self-Compassion (MSC) program with Kristin Neff in 2010 and MSC has since been taught to over 150,000 people worldwide. They co-authored two books on MSC, The Mindful Self-Compassion Workbook and Teaching the Mindful Self-Compassion Progr...
2021-04-1329 min
Light After TraumaIntimacy After Sexual Trauma with Dr. Nazanin Moali, Ph.D.Dr. Nazanin Moali is a public speaker, psychologist, and sex and relationship expert. Dr. Moali is also the host of her own podcast, titled "Sexology", where she dives into the psychology of sex and intimacy. In this week's episode, Dr. Moali and Alyssa discuss the impact that sexual trauma can have on us as well as the hope that comes with reclaiming our sexuality and discovering pleasure again. Learn more about Dr. Moali and check out her podcast Check out the Light After Trauma website for transcripts, other episodes, Alyssa's guest appearances, and mor...
2021-03-2340 min
Sexologyروابط زناشویی موفق به اپیزود شماره 20، پادکست فارسی سکسولوژی خوش آمدید. پادکست های سکسولوژی در دو بخش فارسی و انگلیسی در پادگیر ها در دسترس شماست. ضمن تبریک عید باستانی نوروز به شما هم وطنان عزیزم و آرزوی سالی سرشار از لذت جنسی برای یکایک شما، در این اپیزود به پاسخ سوالات شما در زمینه رابطه جنسی پرداخته ام. همانطور که می دانید از ابتدای اپیزود 18، یک مسابقه جذاب با هدیه ای خاص برای مخاطبینی که در آمریکا زندگی می کنن برگزار کردیم. شرایط شرکت در مسابقه این پست به شرح زیر می باشد و تنها تا اپیزود بعد فرصت برای شرکت در این مسابقه وجود دارد. شما اگر شما بالای 18 سال دارید و ساکن آمریکا هستید برای امتحان کردن شانس خود در این قرعهکشی می توانید پس از فالو کردن اکانت اینستاگرام فارسی من در مجموع 3 امتیاز به روش های زیر کسب کنید: نوشتن مرور برای این پادکست در هر جایی که این پادکست رو گوش می کنید و ارسال اسکرین شات آن به اکانت اینستاگرام من @sexologypodcast اگر به پادکست انگلیسی من هم گوش کنید و برای یکی از اپیزودهای انگلیسی من مرور بزارید و از مرور خودتون عکس گرفته و به اکانت اینستاگرام من @sexologypodcast ارسال کنید. استوری کردن یکی از اپیزودهای اخیر من و تگ کردن آیدی اینستاگرام من در آن استوری و ارسال اسکرین شات آن به اکانت اینستاگرام من @sexologypodcast. متاسفانه ارسال این هدیه به ایران ممنوع می باشد و هزینه ارسال آن به خارج از آمریکا بسیار بالا می باشد، به همین خاطر قرعه کشی برای کسانیکه در آمریکا هستند و یا آدرسی در آمریکا دارند برگزار خواهد شد. در این اپیزود، شما خواهید شنید: درد در زمان دخول رابطه جنسی وقتی که مجرد هستیم وسواس فکری، علل آن و اثر آن در رابطه جنسی معاشقه طولانی با همراه و رعایت قانون 20 و 20 تعریف معاشقه و مواردی که در آن باید لحاظ کنیم استفاده از لوبریکنت ها و روغن های جنسی انواع وسواس فکری و راه های درمان آن اشتهای جنسی و تفاوت آن در زوج ها و راهکارهای آن خود ارضایی در افراد متاهل و مجرد خیانت و خارج شدن از رابطه اهمیت شناخت بدن در رسیدن به رابطه خوب لوازم و اسباب بازی های جنسی آیا کمک کننده هستند؟ اگر سوالی در مورد سکس توی ها یا اساب بازی های جنسی دارید برای من ارسال کنید. درباره دکتر نازنین معالی دکتر نازنین معالی ، روانشناس بالینی و پژوهشگر روابط جنسی، دارای بورد فوق تخصص در بیمارستان کایزر هستند. هم اکنون مطب ایشان در شهر لس آنجلس به صورت ویدئو تراپی پذیرای درمان مدد جویان می باشد. دکتر معالی با مطالعات و تحقیقاتی گسترده در زمینه های گوناگون روانشناسی، فرهنگی و ساختارهای اجتماعی، مشتاقانه در پی نشر تجربیات و دانسته های خود از طریق رسانه های اجتماعی برای عموم مخاطبین فارسی زبان هستند. مطالب مرتبط: https://likeakitten.com/product/the-signature-box/ https://sexologypodcast.com/subscribe/ صفحه پادکست انگلیسی: http://www.sexologypodcast.com ما را در صفحات اجتماعی دنبال کنید: https://www.instagram.com/sexologypodcastfarsi https://www.instagram.com/sexologypodcast https://www.facebook.com/oasis2care https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOY2iUlua_CmhqBQ9PpfNDA لینک دریافت وقت مشاوره ویدئویی با دکتر نازنین معالی: https://oasis2care.com/contact-nazanin-moali-psychologist
2021-03-2221 min
SexologyEP219 - Yes, You Are Right. The System Is Rigged Against You! with Katherine Angel Welcome to episode 219 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I'm delighted to welcome Katherine Angel to the podcast. In this episode Katherine talks about her new book, Tomorrow Sex Will Be Good Again, what the inspiration was behind the book, looking at issues of consent and how you can empower your desires. Katherine Angel is the author of Tomorrow Sex Will Be Good Again (Verso), Daddy Issues (Peninsula Press, Verso), and Unmastered: A Book on Desire: Most Difficult to Tell (Penguin, FSG). She runs the MA in Creative and Critical Writing at Birkbeck College, University of Lo...
2021-03-0233 min
SexologyEP218 - Why is Sex Important in a Relationship? with August McLaughlin Welcome to episode 218 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I'm delighted to welcome August McLaughlin to the podcast. In this episode August speaks with me about sexual connections in long term relationships, accessing your sexual power and ways in which we can discover our sexual values. August McLaughlin is a nationally recognized journalist, media personality, author of Girl Boner and host and producer of the podcast, Girl Boner Radio, which has been compared to “Sex in the City” meets NPR’s “Fresh Air.” Her articles and expertise have been featured in a range of publications...
2021-02-2337 minSexologyدرمان بی ميلی جنسی و سرد مزاجی به اپیزود شماره 16، پادکست فارسی سکسولوژی خوش آمدید. پادکست های سکسولوژی در دو بخش فارسی و انگلیسی در پادگیر ها در دسترس شماست. در این اپیزود به علل شایع کاهش میل جنسی، بی میلی و سرد مزاجی و روش های درمانی آن پرداخته ام. در این اپیزود، شما خواهید شنید: علت کاهش تمایل جنسی در همراه رواج کاهش میل جنسی در آقایان سلامت جسمی و ارتباط آن با بی میلی جنسی اثرات جنبی داروها در کم شدن میل جنسی موقتی یا همیشگی بودن کاهش شوق جنسی شرایط محیطی و فصول سخت از منظر روان و اثرات آن بر شوق جنسی مدل های بر انگیحتگی جنسی افکار منفی و تاثیر آن بر لذت جنسی تفکرات منفی درباره اندام خود و راهکارهای مقابله با آن ها اهمیت زبان عشق و اثر آن بر همراه خودشناسی و پیدا کردن موانع ذهنی در رسیدن به اوج لذت جنسی درباره دکتر نازنین معالی: دکتر نازنین معالی ، روانشناس بالینی و پژوهشگر روابط جنسی، دارای بورد فوق تخصص در بیمارستان کایزر هستند. هم اکنون مطب ایشان در شهر لس آنجلس به صورت ویدئو تراپی پذیرای درمان مدد جویان می باشد. دکتر معالی با مطالعات و تحقیقاتی گسترده در زمینه های گوناگون روانشناسی، فرهنگی و ساختارهای اجتماعی، مشتاقانه در پی نشر تجربیات و دانسته های خود از طریق رسانه های اجتماعی برای عموم مخاطبین فارسی زبان هستند. مطالب مرتبط: https://sexologypodcast.com/subscribe/ صفحه پادکست انگلیسی: http://www.sexologypodcast.com ما را در صفحات اجتماعی دنبال کنید: https://www.instagram.com/sexologypodcast https://www.facebook.com/oasis2care https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOY2iUlua_CmhqBQ9PpfNDA لینک دریافت وقت مشاوره ویدئویی با دکتر نازنین معالی: https://oasis2care.com/contact-nazanin-moali-psychologist
2021-02-2222 min
SexologyEP217 - Psychedelic Assisted Therapy with Dee Dee Goldpaugh Welcome to episode 217 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I'm delighted to welcome Dee Dee Goldpaugh, LCSW to the podcast. In this episode Dee Dee talks to me about psychedelic assisted therapy, how it can be used safely, and the benefits people can experience from it when done properly with a therapist. Dee Dee Goldpaugh, LCSW (they/them/theirs) is a psychotherapist in private practice in New York City and Woodstock, NY. Their practice specializes in queer, sex and body-positive psychotherapy, and psychedelic integration, a form of therapy that assists clients in processing and applying the lessons fr...
2021-02-1630 min
SexologyEP216 - Valentine’s Day Ideas from a Sexpert Welcome to episode 216 of the Sexology Podcast! Today is a solo episode where I look at different things you can do to spice up your sex life for this year's valentine's day! In this episode, you will hear: How can we keep things exciting in a long-term relationship? Understanding your sex life requires time, effort and energy Why most people aren’t having exciting novel sexual experiences Analyzing the link between passion and great sex How it’s easy for us to become lazy in a settled relationship Viewing valentine's day as an opportunity to spice t...
2021-02-0917 min
SexologyEP215 - Navigating First Time Sex in a New Relationship with Connell Barrett Welcome to episode 215 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I'm delighted to welcome Connell Barrett to the podcast. In this episode, Connell speaks with me about ways we can navigate our first-time having sex in a new relationship, the importance of play and Why being present is so important. Dating coach Connell Barrett has one mission: help men defeat loneliness and attract their soulmates, as their most authentic, confident selves. The founder of Dating Transformation and a coach with The League dating app, Connell spent years training with the world’s best relationship and self-development experts.
2021-02-0238 min
SexologyEP214 - Birth Control: The Good, The Bad, and The Ugly with Dr. Sarah E. Hill Welcome to episode 214 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I'm delighted to welcome Dr. Sarah E. Hill to the podcast. In this episode, Dr Hill speaks with me about the issues around birth control and sex, how birth control affects sexuality, the side effects of birth control and recommendations on the best practices for women to follow. Dr. Sarah E. Hill is at the forefront of research on the effects of the pill on women’s psychology. A star psychologist with a PhD from the University of Texas, she is currently a researcher and professor with more th...
2021-01-2629 min
SexologyEP213 - Awakening Deep Intimacy with Maci Daye Welcome to episode 213 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I'm delighted to welcome Maci Daye to the podcast. In this episode, Maci speaks to me about ways to make sex more exciting in a long-term relationship, re-engaging with your partner to have more passionate sex and the importance of healing in a relationship to improve sexuality. Maci Daye is a licensed professional counselor, certified Hakomi therapist, and certified sex therapist. In addition to clinical practice, she is on the faculty of the Hakomi Institute and teaches in the United States and Europe. She is th...
2021-01-1938 min
SexologyEP212 - Becoming an Extraordinary Lover with Dr. Peggy Kleinplatz Welcome to episode 212 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I'm delighted to welcome Dr. Peggy Kleinplatz to the podcast. In this episode Dr. Kleinplatz talks to me about learning to be present to have more fulfilling sex, how you can learn to be more present and how this is possible for anyone to achieve. Peggy J. Kleinplatz, Ph.D., is Professor in the Faculty of Medicine and Director of the Optimal Sexual Experiences Research Team at the University of Ottawa, Canada. Please see She is a Certified Sex Therapist and Educator. Kleinplatz has edited fou...
2021-01-1231 min
SexologyEP208 - Islam, BDSM and Social Justice with Dr. Ali Mushtaq Welcome to episode 208 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I'm delighted to welcome Dr. Ali Mushtaq to the podcast. In this episode Ali talks to me about BDSM and social justice, incorporating spirituality into sexuality and steps you can take if you’re interested in exploring BDSM. Dr. Mushtaq has his PhD in Sociology from University of California: San Francisco and Masters in Social and Demographic analysis from University of California: Irvine. He is Mr. Long Beach Leather 2016 and has been profiled by numerous editorials, including the New York Times. Ali also has written several op-eds and schol...
2020-12-1539 min
SexologyEP207 - Breaking Up with Evangelical Christianity and Reclaiming Your Sexuality with Lucy Rowett Welcome to episode 207 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I'm delighted to welcome Lucy Rowett to the podcast. In this episode Lucy speaks to me about reclaiming sexuality after being raised as an Evangelical Christian, learning to challenge negative sex messages and dispelling the myth that having sexual feelings is sinful. Lucy Rowett is a sexologist and intimacy coach based in Brighton, UK. She describes herself as an Evangelical Sexologist and pleasure advocate, who is passionate about empowering women to liberate their bodies and souls from the shackles of shame. She uses a fusion of "neck up"...
2020-12-0838 min
SexologyEP206 - Are You Dating A Sexual Narcissist? with Dr. Kathryn Klement Welcome to episode 206 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I'm delighted to welcome Dr. Kathryn Klement to the podcast. In this episode Dr. Klement speaks with me about sexual narcissism, its effects on relationships, early signs and red flags and exploring sexual boundaries with your partner. Dr. Kathryn Klement (they/them) is an Assistant Professor of Psychology of Women & Gender at Bemidji State University. Their primary teaching interests are human sexuality, gender, and research methods. Their major research interests include sexual violence, how transphobia relates to other systems of oppression, and transgender patients’ experiences in healthcare. They have als...
2020-12-0130 min
SexologyEP205 - Charm School: Learning to Talk to Women with Tripp Kramer Welcome to episode 205 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I'm delighted to welcome Tripp Kramer to the podcast. In this episode Tripp speaks with me about how men can learn to better talk to women, the traps men fall into when trying to initiate sex too quickly, and understanding the role and importance of emotional safety. Tripp Kramer is an internationally known dating coach and founder of Tripp Advice, a men's dating advice company. He is also the creator of the popular YouTube channel "Tripp Advice", which teaches men how to become more attractive to women an...
2020-11-2439 min
SexologyEP204 - Rekindling Your Sexual Spark with Ian Kerner, PhD Welcome to episode 204 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I'm delighted to welcome Ian Kerner, PhD, LMFT to the podcast. In this episode Ian speaks with me about the psychological reasons men have low desire, the negative consequences shame can have on your sex life and learning to reconnect with your sexual self. Ian Kerner, PhD, LMFT is a licensed marriage and family therapist and nationally recognized sexuality counselor who specializes in sex therapy, couples therapy and working with individuals on a range of relational issues. Ian is the New York Times best-selling author She Comes Firs...
2020-11-1728 min
SexologyEP203 - Sexual Arousal & Desire with Dr. Judson Brandeis Welcome to episode 203 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I'm delighted to welcome Dr. Judson Brandeis to the podcast. In this episode Dr. Brandeis talks to me about the issues of low testosterone, how can you increase your testosterone levels and analyzing how a healthy lifestyle will lead to a better sex drive. Dr. Judson Brandeis is a board-certified urologist specializing in men's sexual medicine. Brandeis has always been on the cutting edge of Urology. Dr. Judson Brandeis has been voted by SF Magazine as a Top Urologist in the SF Bay Area from 2014 to 2020. In February...
2020-11-1037 min
SexologyEP202 - Keep That Gun in the Holster, Cowboy! with Jeff Abraham Welcome to episode 202 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I'm delighted to welcome Jeff Abraham to the podcast. In this episode Jeff speaks to me about premature ejaculation and erectile dysfunction, common questions that men bring up when talking about these issues and we take a look at the scientific studies and credentials around Promescent. Jeff Abraham is the CEO of Absorption Pharmaceuticals, whose lead product, Promescent, is addressing a global need for men suffering from Premature Ejaculation and Erectile Dysfunction. He and his team are dedicated to bringing innovative products to market that solve sexual perfor...
2020-11-0341 min
SexologyEpisode 201 - Halloween Sex Tips from SexpertsWelcome to a bonus Halloween episode of the Sexology Podcast! On this episode, I talk about how you can get playful with Halloween themes in the bedroom with my guest, sex therapist and host of Sex Talk with Erika, Erika Miley. Erika Miley is the founder and practice owner of The Center for Mental and Sexual Health. She believes in accessible, confidential, and comfortable therapy. Erika graduated from Whitworth University with a Master’s of Education in Clinical Mental Health. She has worked in public agencies, prisons, and in her own private practice. Erika’s speci...
2020-10-3151 min
SexologyEP199 - How To Overcome Religious Shame with Dr Tina Welcome to episode 199 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I'm delighted to welcome Dr. Tina Schermer Sellers to the podcast. In this episode Dr. Tina speaks with me about overcoming religious shame around sex, taking a look at the historical context of abstinence and learning how to remain within your religion whilst having a healthy sex life. Dr. Tina is a vibrant thought leader around issues of sexuality, intimacy, and spirituality. Her life’s work is centered around rooting out the causes of sexual shame and providing tools that disarm and demystify all the negative messages that we receiv...
2020-10-2034 min
SexologyEP198 - Are We Ready to Have Sex with Robots? Featuring Dr. Rebecca Gibson Welcome to episode 198 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I'm delighted to welcome Dr. Rebecca Gibson to the podcast. In this episode Rebecca speaks with me about sex robots, how people become attracted to them, why they won’t help you with relational skills and what the future holds as technology and AI continue to improve. Rebecca Gibson is an adjunct professor at American University and Indiana University South Bend. Her published works include "Desire in the Age of Robots and AI: An Investigation in Science Fiction and Fact" (Palgrave Macmillan 2019) and "The Corseted Skeleton: A Bioarchaeology of Binding"...
2020-10-1327 min
SexologyEP197 - Sex and Creativity with Dr. Stephen Diamond Welcome to episode 197 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I'm delighted to welcome Dr. Stephen Diamond to the podcast. In this episode Dr. Diamond talks to me about how we can best use the daimonic in our lives, analyzing the underlying reasons for our sexual fantasies and different ways we can engage with our fantasies. Dr. Stephen Diamond is a licensed clinical and forensic psychologist practicing in Los Angeles, CA. A former pupil and protégé of existential psychoanalyst Rollo May, he is the author of Anger, Madness, and the Daimonic: The Psychological Genesis of Violence, Evil, and...
2020-10-0631 min
SexologyEP195 – Tips for Creating the Perfect Dating Profile During COVID with Erika Ettin Welcome to episode 195 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I'm delighted to welcome Erika Ettin to the podcast. In this episode Erika talks to me about online dating, the best practices you can use to meet people online and things to consider for yourself and the person you’re engaging with when dating online. Erika Ettin is the Founder of A Little Nudge, a consulting company that helps people navigate the world of online dating, from first click to first date. She is also the author of the book Love at First Site and the co-host of the popu...
2020-09-2231 min
SexologyEP194 – Between the Sheets V3 Welcome to episode 194 of the Sexology Podcast! Today is a solo episode where I answer your questions about ways in which you can improve your sex life. We’ll look at issues such as sexual trauma re-enactment, improving your sex life after the honeymoon period and the importance of intimacy after sex. In this episode, you will hear: Why we engage in trauma re-enactment and ways to overcome those behaviors Learning to confront what happened in the past The importance of body work that can be healing How power play and BDSM can help overc...
2020-09-1522 min
SexologyEP193 - What You Need to Know about STIs with Ariel Watriss Welcome to episode 193 of the Sexology Podcast! Today it’s my pleasure to welcome Ariel Watriss to the podcast. In this episode, Ariel speaks to me about how she became involved working around the STIs, misconceptions people still have about STIs and analyzing the risks around sex. Ariel Watriss (she/hers) is a nurse practitioner currently working in college health at Tufts University Health Services. She started there in 2013 and in June 2018 was promoted to be the Sexual health specialist for the clinic. She received her bachelor’s and master’s degrees in nursing...
2020-09-0842 min
SexologyEP192 - Sexual Enhancement Medication & Procedures with Amir Mohebbi Welcome to episode 192 of the Sexology Podcast! Today it’s my pleasure to welcome back Amir Mohebbi to the podcast. In this episode Amir and I talk about medical treatments for sexual dysfunctions, looking at the issues that cause sex to be painful and learning to change your lifestyle to improve your sex life. Amir Mohebbi is a proud Iranian-American currently completing his psychiatry residency at St. Louis University. He trained under mentorship from world-renowned forensic psychiatrists, Drs. William J. Newman and Brian J. Holoyda, whom co=authored a review related to his interests in sleep med...
2020-09-0135 min
SexologyEP191 - What You Need to Know About Male Sexual Abuse with Dr. Kelli Palfy Welcome to episode 191 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I’m excited to welcome Dr. Kelli Palfy to the podcast. In this episode Dr. Palfy talks to me about male sexual abuse, the stigma around this issue and understanding that recovery is possible. Dr. Palfy has a unique background in working with victims of sexual abuse. She obtained her Ph.D. in Counseling Psychology from the University of Alberta in 2016. When conducting her doctoral research, she examined the reasons why males do not commonly disclose sexual abuse. She was well-prepared to research this topic from the experience she...
2020-08-2532 min
SexologyEP190 - Stay Firm: Secrets of a Lasting Erection with Tim Norton, LCSW Welcome to episode 190 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I’m excited to welcome Tim Norton to the podcast. In this episode Tim speaks with me about erectile dysfunction, ways in which you can begin to tackle this issue, connecting with how sex feels rather than how we perceive it to be and myth busting the idea that bigger is always better when it comes to penis size. Tim Norton is a Los Angeles-based sex therapist working in private practice, and host of a podcast on erectile issues and male sexuality - Hard Conversations. He obtained his ba...
2020-08-1832 min
SexologyEP188 - How to Have "The Talk" with Your Child with Dr. Lanae St. John Welcome to episode 188 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I’m excited to welcome Dr. Lanae St. John, to the podcast. In this episode Dr. Lanae speaks with me about how to have better conversations with our kids around sex, empowering them with the tools and knowledge they will need and how parents can better understand sexual orientation and gender identity. Dr. Lanae St John, known as The MamaSutra, is a board-certified sexologist, certified sex coach, and sexuality educator. She is author of “Read Me: A Parental Primer for “The Talk”. Lanae lives in the San Francisco Bay Area...
2020-08-0441 min
SexologyBonus Episode: Sex in the Time of CoronavirusWelcome to this bonus episode of the Sexology Podcast. In this episode, we answer some of the burning questions that you have around sex in the time of coronavirus. In this episode we discuss: Is it okay to have sex? What are some of the ways to have hot sex that minimizes your exposure? How to effectively manage your anxiety during this time so it wont ruin your sex life How to use this time of quarantine to elevate your sex life Previous episodes mentioned in this show:
2020-03-2028 min
SexologyEP155 - Sexual Anatomy and Arousal with Fiona O'Farrell LMFT Welcome to episode 155 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I’m excited to welcome Fiona O'Farrell to the podcast. In this episode Fiona speaks with me about paper dolls, how they can be used as a vehicle for self-pleasure and understanding you can still be sexual when not reproductive. Fiona O'Farrell is a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, Sex Educator and AASECT Certified Sex Therapist. In her practice, she works with clients on issues relating to sexual identity, dismantling sex negative messages, and enhancing pleasure and intimacy. She is the coordinator of the Sexuality...
2019-12-1739 min
SexologyEP152 - The Good Girl’s Guide to Casual Sex Welcome to episode 152 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I’m delighted to welcome Dr. Shannon Chavez to the podcast. In this episode she speaks with me about casual sex, how to best use dating sites like Tinder and emotionally preparing yourself for casual sex. Dr. Chavez is a Licensed Clinical Psychologist and AASECT Certified Sex Therapist with a private practice, SHAPE (Sexual Health and Pleasure Enhancement) Center in Beverly Hills, California where she provides individual and couples therapy, sex and relationship coaching, and workshops on sexual health and wellness. Her work focuses on adult...
2019-11-2635 min
SexologyEP148 - Between the SheetsWelcome to episode 148 of the Sexology Podcast! Today’s episode is a solo episode during which I will respond to listeners’ pre-recorded questions. Here are the questions that I will answer in this episode: Why do so many women have spanking fantasies? How common are BDSM fantasies? How hard should a “normal” erection be? How do I know if I am “hard enough”? What do I do if I can’t get “hard enough”? How can you get your partner to initiate sex more often? How do you ask your partner to have sex without sounding desperate? If you’ve got question...
2019-10-3124 min
SexologyEP146 - Sex & Disability Welcome to episode 146 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I’m excited to welcome Jose Luis Tapia-Fuselier Jr to the podcast. In this episode he speaks to me about sex and disability, the effect a chronic illness or physical disability will have on a person's sex life, and sex tips for individuals and couples. Jose Luis Tapia-Fuselier Jr. (pronouns: he, him, his) is currently a third-year doctoral student in counseling education and supervision at the University of North Texas. Jose’s research is focused on clinical interventions for interabled couples in couples’ and sex therapy. Specifically, Jose focuses on...
2019-10-2239 min
SexologyEP144 - Getting Off Without Checking Out with Jessica GrahamEP144 - Getting Off Without Checking Out with Jessica Graham Welcome to episode 144 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I’m delighted to welcome Jessica Graham to the podcast. In this episode she speaks to me about incorporating fantasy in a healthy way, how sexuality is connected to spirituality, and using mindfulness to increase your desire Jessica Graham is a meditation teacher, sex, relationship, and spiritual guide for couples and individuals, speaker, and author of Good Sex: Getting Off Without Checking Out. She is a contributing editor of the meditation blog, Deconstructing Your...
2019-10-0836 min
SexologyEP142 - Is It Okay to Fantasize About Others Even When You're in a Relationship? Welcome to episode 142 of the Sexology Podcast! Today's episode is a solo episode where I discuss fantasizing about others while you're in a relationship, understanding from the fantasy what you want more of in your relationship, the way our sub-conscious plays a role in this issue, and how this is a very common issue for lots of couples. In this episode, you will hear: Is it normal to fantasize about someone else while in a relationship? The importance of communication and dialogue when defining the parameters of your relationship The stigma attached to non-monogam...
2019-09-2427 min
SexologyEP140 - Kinky Couples with Stefani Goerlich Welcome to episode 140 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I’m delighted to welcome Stefani Goerlich to the podcast. In this episode she speaks to me about working with non-traditional couples, the sexual challenges they face and understanding what it means to be kink aware. Stefani holds a Masters in Social Work from Wayne State University, where she specialized in Cognitive Behavioral Therapy. She has over fifteen years' experience in working with poly/kinky individuals, swingers, commercial sex workers, and child and adult survivors of sexual trauma including human trafficking. Stefani has served as a guest lecturer on m...
2019-09-1034 min
SexologyEP139 - Sex, Relationships & ADHD with Dr. Ari Tuckman Welcome to episode 139 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I’m delighted to welcome back Dr. Ari Tuckman to the podcast. In this episode he speaks to me about his new book (adultADHDbook), navigating the challenges that couples with ADHD will go through, creating fairness and managing expectations and how an overall good relationship balance will lead to great sex. Ari Tuckman, PsyD, CST has given more than 350 presentations across America and in nine countries. His fourth book, ADHD After Dark: Better Sex Life, Better Relationship, was just published and is the first to examine how ADHD im...
2019-09-0335 min
SexologyEP137 – How To Last Longer In Bed Welcome to episode 137 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I’m delighted to welcome Caitlin V to the podcast. In this episode she speaks to me about what men can do to last longer in bed, the underlying issues of premature ejaculation and techniques that men can learn to help with this issue. Caitlin V is a sex and relationship coach who helps men become amazing lovers and incredible partners. Formerly a sexual health researcher and policy analyst, she was catapulted into internet stardom after a video featuring her went viral. She works with...
2019-08-2032 min
SexologyEP136 - Changing Your Sexual Schema Welcome to episode 136 of the Sexology Podcast! Today we have a solo episode where I discuss how you can change your sexual schema. In this episode, you will hear: How do you change your schema of sex? A personal story from Nazanin to help further unpack this issue How a lack of sex education impacted Nazanin’s life The conflicting messages on sex from society and religion How these messages become instilled as part of your development The feelings of guilt from wanting to experience sex The importance of values within acceptance commitment therapy ...
2019-08-1332 min
SexologyEP132 - Women with Sexual Interest/Arousal Disorder Relational Challenges Welcome to episode 132 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I’m happy to welcome Dr. Natalie Rosen to the podcast. In this episode she speaks to me about female sexual interest arousal disorder (FSIAD), the impact of FSIAD on partners and understanding self-expansion and how it can help. Dr. Natalie Rosen is an Associate Professor in the Department of Psychology and Neuroscience at Dalhousie University, Halifax, Nova Scotia. Her research interests focus on understanding how individuals, and especially couples, cope with sexual problems or changes to their sexual relationship, including low sexual desire. She is an Associate Editor of the journ...
2019-07-1632 min
SexologyEP126 - My Wife Doesn't Want To Have Sex, What Should I Do? Welcome to episode 126 of the Sexology Podcast! Today is a solo episode where I answer a listener's question on what to do when his wife doesn’t want to have sex anymore. In this episode, you will hear: The definition of a sexless marriage How this is a global issue How sex is a form of attachment The way in which no sex can be a by-product of relationship dissatisfaction Why couples refrain from sex The need to repair the relationship before tackling the issue of lack of sex Understanding the need to reflect on your own wa...
2019-06-0428 min
SexologyEP120 - How To Have Tough Conversations Around Sex Welcome to episode 120 of the Sexology Podcast, today I’m delighted to welcome Jonathan Miller to the podcast, in this episode he speaks about ways in which can start to have difficult conversations around sex, the importance of communication and to be clear about what you want sexually and understanding the sensitive nature of these issues and the need to be mindful of your partner's thoughts and emotions. Jonathan helps high-performing couples upgrade their communication skills to have fight-free relationships. As a speaker, coach and trainer, Jonathan is dedicated to empowering others to communicate mindfully. He trul...
2019-04-2345 min
SexologySex Resolutions for The New YearIn this episode of Sexology, Dr. Nazanin Moali talks about the importance of setting up sex resolutions, why people’s resolutions’ fail and what are some of the best ways to transform your sex life according to the latest research. In this episode, you will hear: The barriers on improving your sexual life The importance of length and type of foreplay for experiencing a mind blowing sex How mindfulness and yoga can aid your libido Relationships between sexual function and sleep Three tips on tracking and improving your sleep The first step you need to...
2019-01-0134 min
SexologyEP64 - Sexuality and Aging with Dr. Stacy Welcome to episode 64 of the Sexology Podcast, today I’m delighted to welcome back Dr. Stacy who appeared in EP07 of the podcast. In this episode, she speaks to me about how our sexuality changes we get older, practices we can use to alleviate discomfort around sexuality as we age and how sex can be better when we're older as we've become more confident with ourselves and our identity. Dr. Stacy got into the field of Clinical Sexology because of her passion for helping people better connect and experience the best sexual intimacy with themselves or with their partne...
2018-03-2739 min
SexologyEP63 - Painful Sexual Intercourse with Liz Dube MFTWelcome to episode 63 of the Sexology Podcast, my guest today is Liz Dube who talks to us about painful sex during intercourse, potential causes that might lead women experience painful intercourse and the link between sex and power in sexual harassment. Liz Dube – Is a Sex and Relationship Therapist, Speaker, and Blogger who is passionate about helping others increase intimacy and sexual satisfaction in their relationships. She loves speaking on any topic related to sex and intimacy and she has a private practice in Long Beach & Huntington Beach, CA where she helps men, women, and couples get emp...
2018-03-2036 min
SexologyEP56 - Deeper Story of Attraction with Ken PageWelcome to episode 56 of the Sexology Podcast, today I am delighted to be joined by Ken Page who speaks to me about falling in love with people who aren’t good for us, becoming more self-assured and emotionally available and learning to attract people who love you for who you really are. Ken Page, LCSW, is a renowned psychotherapist, leading Psychology Today blogger, Huffington Post blogger and author of the bestseller Deeper Dating: How to Drop the Games of Seduction and Discover the Power of Intimacy. He has been featured in O, The Oprah Magazine, The New Yo...
2018-01-3043 min
SexologySexual Chemistry & Dating with Dr. Sharon CohenWelcome to episode 55 of the Sexology Podcast, today I am delighted to be joined again by Dr. Sharon Cohen who talks to us about why sexual chemistry is a necessity for any relationship to thrive, learning to enjoy the stability of relationships and the technological impacts that apps like Tinder have had on modern relationships. Dr. Sharon Cohen is a Relationship and Love Consultant in Newport Beach, California. She works with women who can’t seem to find the right relationship or who aren’t sure they are in the right relationship. Sometimes clients who come to her...
2018-01-2332 min
SexologyEP39 - Everything You Need to Know About OrgasmWelcome to episode 39 of the Sexology Podcast, my guest today is Laurie Mintz, Ph.D. who talks to us about orgasms, the different types of women's orgasm, common factors that may attribute to not experiencing orgasms and the importance to have open communication to improve your sexual life. Dr. Laurie Mintz is an author, therapist, professor and speaker whose life’s work has been committed to helping people live fuller, richer lives through the art and science of psychology. As a tenured Professor at the University of Florida, she teaches the Psychology of Human Sexuality to...
2017-10-0334 min
SexologyEP37 - Sexual Performance Anxiety with Dr. SixWelcome to episode 37 of the Sexology Podcast, my guest today is Dr. Six who speaks to me about sexual performance anxiety, the different ways it manifests between men and women and knowing when it’s time to seek professional help with this issue. Dr. Six has 25 years as a practicing Clinical Sexologist, and is a successful sex therapist who has helped thousands of people find their authentic selves and enjoy a more fulfilling relationship. Her approach is unique, and her style is warmly engaging, putting her clients and workshop attendees at ease. Her credentials include an M.A...
2017-09-1929 min
SexologyEP36 - Psychological Growth Following AdversityWelcome to episode 36 of the Sexology Podcast with your host Dr. Nazanin Moali. In this episode, Dr. Moali talks about the important topic of psychological growth following experiencing sexual assault or rape. Furthermore, she discusses how sexual trauma may produce positive growth for individuals in various areas of their lives including their ability to relate to others, their general appreciation of life, and their ability to see new possibilities and changes in their spiritual life. In this episode, you will hear: How people overcome adversity after sexual assault Why people can view the...
2017-09-1220 min
SexologySex After Divorce with Dalila Jusic-LaBerge LMFTWelcome to episode 32 of the Sexology Podcast. In this show, Dr. Nazanin Moali, Ph.D. is joined by relationship-counselor, Dalila Jusic-LaBerge LMFT who helps women find peace and happiness after divorce and separation. During this interview, we examine steps that one would need to take before re-entering the dating scene and the keys to having great sex after divorce. Dalila Jusic-LaBerge is the owner of Be Here & Now Counseling. She helps women and teenage girls heal from trauma and emotional wounding so that they can enjoy life and love. Dalila specializes in working with accomplished prof...
2017-08-1536 min
SexologyUnlocking Your Erotic BlueprintWelcome to episode 31 of the Sexology Podcast. In this show, we discuss various components of the arousal template and explore the origin of our erotic yearnings and desires. In this episode, you will hear about: The benefits of knowing your arousal type. The erotic core template and its changes throughout your life. The distinctive love-map that is unique to each of us. The concept of love-map as designed by sex researcher John Money. The importance of identifying your eroticized feelings as core component of arousal template. The integration of your fantasies as a way to...
2017-08-0824 min