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Podcast Picks with Jim the Podcast SherpaSherpa Selects: Dating Coach Rick Soetebier!Rick is STILL busy to this day, making broken hearts happy! Check out his websitem if this interests you!________________________________________________________________________________________________My bulb might have gone out during my conversation with Rick, but it was an enlightening conversation. (Oh, he did not just write that...) I'm always amazed by the different perspectives presented by my guests on dating and relationships. I guess it's why they say men are from Mars and women are from Venus. And why I'm still not welcome in Space Camp. I think if I had a dating coach when I was single, I...2025-04-1940 min
Big Facts No CapSpoilers!Spoiler alert! You're about to listen to a kick ass episode of BFNC. Welcome to the big dawg den. This week the lads discuss adorkable vikings, the predictability of YA novels, and the stark and fascinating differences among the star wars trilogies. The boys then tackle two spoiler based advice columns before doing a third segment all about media plot twists.
Article 1: Dr. Nerdlove
https://kotaku.com/ask-dr-nerdlove-my-girlfriend-is-too-intense-about-sp-1831871569
Article 2: Dear Abby
https://www.eagletribune.com/news/lifestyles/dear-abby-womans-shocking-discovery-puts-man-in-unmarked-grave/article_0a6b4714-c0f9-5c18-9bd3-b875421e30ce.html2022-05-061h 11
Breaking Mayberry91: A Little More Hoot, A Little Less Nanny (w/ Dr. Nerdlove)Dating and relationship expert Harris "Dr. Nerdlove" O'Malley stops by to watch this awful My-Fair-Lady-pastiche redeeming one of Mayberry's most unredeemable characters - Ernest T. Bass.Marty asks important questions, Harris tries to answer them, and Dan explains why the Vietnam war was a great time to be an old dirtbag.More of Dr. Nerdlove: https://www.doctornerdlove.com/Marty on Twitter: https://twitter.com/SchneidRemarksDan on Twitter: https://twitter.com/theluddsSUPPORT BREAKING MAYBERRY ON PATREON: https://www.patreon.com/breakingmayberryMusic by Max Ludwig: twitter.com/sleeptalkyFollow...2021-09-091h 17
Productivity AlchemyEpisode 185 - New Planner, Dr. NerdloveSo the time has come for Kevin to replace his planner with one he can actually see. We'll talk about that, our productivity for the week, and the talk with the most awesome Harris "Dr. Nerdlove" O'Malley about how he stays productive! Links for this Episode:2021-05-291h 15Big Facts No CapWhole New World OrderThe boys leave the old world and head to the new. Paul and Adrian discuss the death of Daft Punk, discourse markers, and the optimal diet for a baby. Due to a nonsensical theme, we discuss everything from modern dating to first wave feminism to goofy golf. Be sure to enter our raffle by leaving a five star review with your theme suggestions.
Article 1- Ask Dr. Nerdlove
https://kotaku.com/ask-dr-nerdlove-is-approaching-women-fundamentally-un-1821331835
Article 2- Dorothy Dix
https://news.google.com/newspapers?nid=1981&dat=19491230&id=UUQuAAAAIBAJ&sjid=0NkFAAAAIBAJ&pg=817,5118199
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Productivity AlchemyEpisode 185 - New Planner, Dr. Nerdlove So the time has come for Kevin to replace his planner with one he can actually see. We'll talk about that, our productivity for the week, and the talk with the most awesome Harris "Dr. Nerdlove" O'Malley about how he stays productive! Links for this Episode: Charity Spotlight: Xerces Foundation for Invertebrate Conservation Dr Nerdlove on Twitter Dr Nerdlove website Kevin's New Planner - TUL 8.5x11 Monthly TUL Charging Notebook Cover Kevin's New Hobby Binder Photos of the new planner IFTTT Zapier...2021-02-041h 15
The Engadget PodcastTech tips to make dating, relationships and breakups easierThis week, Cherlynn is joined by senior editor Jessica Conditt and special guest Harris O’Malley aka Dr. NerdLove to talk all about the ways tech affects dating, relationships and breakups. Will Google Photos, Facebook and Instagram ever stop sending us “memories” of our exes? What are the newest ways to be “Facebook Official”? Are there etiquette rules on when or whether you should remove your ex’s pictures from Instagram? Then, our hosts share what they’ve been working on, including coverage of Qualcomm’s Snapdragon 888 news and upcoming game reviews.
Navigating relationships, breakups, and their digital footprint with D...2020-12-0452 min
Paging Dr. NerdLoveThe 5 Things You Need To Know About DatingThe #1 reason why so many men struggle with dating is very simple: they don't know what it takes to be successful with women. Attraction isn't a checklist; having all the right "stats" isn't going to magically make you attractive to women. Learning to succeed with women isn't about having the right car or the right body, it's about learning how to become your best, most desirable self. That's why this week, I'm going to teach you the 5 things YOU need to know in order to succeed with women, become the man you've always wanted to be and b...2020-09-2422 min
Paging Dr. NerdLoveThe 5 Things You Need To Know About DatingThe #1 reason why so many men struggle with dating is very simple: they don't know what it takes to be successful with women. Attraction isn't a checklist; having all the right "stats" isn't going to magically make you attractive to women. Learning to succeed with women isn't about having the right car or the right body, it's about learning how to become your best, most desirable self. That's why this week, I'm going to teach you the 5 things YOU need to know in order to succeed with women, become the man you've always wanted to be and b...2020-09-2422 min
Paging Dr. NerdLoveStop Being Afraid of RejectionRejection hurts... but the fear of rejection can often hurt even worse. In fact, when we give into the fear of rejection, we often set up a pattern that can affect us throughout our lives. Rejections we've experienced in the past can end up affecting us NOW. When we give into the fear of rejection, we can end up reliving that fear, long after it's happened... feeling the pain as though it's happening to us again, right now. When that happens, it becomes a way that we almost give up our free will; life becomes a series of steps t...2020-09-0923 minBig Facts No Capcatfish stew in kathmanduAn episode for the ages. The boys talk about catfishing. Does anyone actually read these descriptions?
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Dr. nerd love-
https://kotaku.com/ask-dr-nerdlove-i-was-catfished-and-i-don-t-know-what-1782168111
Cia's ask molly-
https://www.cia.gov/news-information/blog/2019/ask-molly-february-14-2019.html
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Paging Dr. NerdLoveHow Do You Know She's Right For You?What makes one relationship last, while another falls apart? Why do you seem to have found your dream relationship, only to have it turn into a nightmare? Your partner may seem perfect, but it takes more than shallow commonalities to make a relationship work. Just because things are amazing in the beginning doesn't mean that everything is going to work out on it's own. If you've ever wondered whether she's "the one", or you want to know if your relationship has what it takes to go the distance, then you need to answer these questions. S...2020-08-2723 min
Paging Dr. NerdLoveWhat Avatar: The Last Airbender Can Teach Us About Finding RedemptionIt's very easy to feel like you’re forever going to be defined by your worst decisions or your biggest mistakes. But while you can't change your past, you can change your future. By examining one of the best redemption arcs in modern media, we can learn how Prince Zuko overcame trauma and earned his redemption... and find how we can learn to find our own in the process. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS: How our response to trauma can shape our lives... and why it can transform us into different people Why a desire for acceptance can turn peo...2020-08-1326 min
Paging Dr. NerdLoveHow To Talk to Anyone (At Any Time)One reason why a lot of guys have a hard time meeting women is because they’ve put ALL of their focus on ONLY talking to women, and even then, only women that they’re attracted to. The truth is that the most popular and socially successful men — the ones who do the best with women — tend to be the ones who talk to everyone. Part of the secret to their success is that they know how to connect with people and build relationships that lead to the results they’re looking for, whether it’s networking, making new fr...2020-07-2316 min
Paging Dr. NerdLoveThe Problem With "Nice Guys"Women often say that they want a nice guy, so why do so many of them think that nice guys are THE WORST? The trouble is that Nice Guy's behavior works against them; what they see as positive and respectful is actually pushing people away. Here's why being a Nice Guy drives women away... and why it can be so hard to STOP being a Nice Guy. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS: What "Nice Guy" behavior says about them Why "treating her like a queen" is actually unattractive How Nice Guys ruin their relationships The #1 m...2020-06-1816 min
Men, Sex & Pleasure with Cam Fraser#9 The New Dating Rules For Men (with Harris O'Malley)In this episode I chat with Harris O’Malley, a dating coach who provides geek dating advice at Paging Dr. NerdLove, as well as on Kotaku and elsewhere. He and his work has been featured on Nightline, Vice, The Guardian, New York Magazine, The Huffington Post, Wired, Sex Nerd Sandra, Daily Life, Slate, The Austin-American Statesman, Austin Monthly, Geek and Sundry, Boing Boing, Everyday Feminism, Buzzfeed, The BBC, The New Yorker, The New York Post, The Daily Dot, The Washington Post, Kotaku, Lifehacker, NeilStrauss.com, The Good Man Project, MTV’s Guy Code, The Harvard Business Journal, and many othe...2020-06-181h 05
Paging Dr. NerdLoveUse This Mindset To Overcome Your Self-Limiting BeliefsOver the course of my career, I’ve dealt with a lot of people who haven’t had much dating experience — from people who’ve only had one or two girlfriends in their lives to literal 40 year old virgins. They all had in one thing common: they had the same fears, beliefs and anxieties regarding dating and women that made them give up. Here's how to break through your dating fears, conquer your anxiety and overcome your self-limiting beliefs. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS: How we project our anxieties onto other people How self-limiting beliefs hold us...2020-06-0418 min
Paging Dr. NerdLoveAsk Dr. NerdLove Anything!This week, we have a special bonus episode: a live episode where my patrons got to ask me anything — from dating advice to moving to Austin to what shows I've been binging during the lockdown. Plus guest appearances from Mr. Senior Kitty! If you want to take part in the next AMA, be sure to support the podcast by becoming a Dr. NerdLove patron! SIGN UP FOR THE DATING ACCELERATOR PROGRAM Don’t forget to subscribe and review us on iTunes , Stitcher and on YouTube. Like the podcast? Become a Dr. NerdLove p...2020-05-281h 24
Paging Dr. NerdLoveAsk Dr. NerdLove Anything!This week, we have a special bonus episode: a live episode where my patrons got to ask me anything — from dating advice to moving to Austin to what shows I've been binging during the lockdown. Plus guest appearances from Mr. Senior Kitty! If you want to take part in the next AMA, be sure to support the podcast by becoming a Dr. NerdLove patron! SIGN UP FOR THE DATING ACCELERATOR PROGRAM Don’t forget to subscribe and review us on iTunes , Stitcher and on YouTube. Like the podcast? Become a Dr. NerdLove p...2020-05-281h 24
Paging Dr. NerdLoveThe Art of Sexting Like A GentlemanSexting and knowing how to flirt over text is a skill that’s invaluable whether you have a friends-with-benefits relationship, a long-distance relationship, or if you and your partner are looking to keep things exciting. In fact, knowing how to start sexting with someone the right way may be one of the most invaluable skills you can develop for keeping the spark in your relationship. But you have to know how to get things started the right way. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS: How to lay the groundwork to start sexting with your partner Why th...2020-05-2117 min
Paging Dr. NerdLove5 Things You Need To Get Your Life TogetherHow happy are you with your life right now? If you're like most people, you probably have a list of major changes you’ve wanted to make. You may even have looked at the current pandemic as your chance to work on yourself and get your life where you want it to be. Now tell me, how far HAVE you gotten on that list? The odds are not very far. You probably attacked it like a man possessed… only to find your motivation and desire drained away. Now you’re basically back where you started, just more frustr...2020-05-0721 min
Modern Manhood: The Podcast"There's no such thing as Positive Masculinity" Intro to Multiple MasculinitiesAsk people to define what Positive masculinity is? Well, you’ll get a variety of answers, from being virtuous to being self-reliant, but not too self-reliant; being emotionally open, being a good father, or being a good partner. It gets confusing, especially if we’re looking for examples! There’s a lot! But I get why we as men who really want to relieve ourselves from toxic masculinity want to look for what is positive masculinity. We want to be better, we want to be the opposite of toxic. At the same time, we get stuck with the de...2020-05-0441 min
Paging Dr. NerdLoveHow To Get Your Ex Back... The RIGHT WayLast time, we talked about the recent trend of folks reaching out to their exes, why it’s happening so frequently and why it can be comforting to try to rekindle an old relationship. But it's far too easy to fall back to old patterns and old routines with your ex, which means you're going to make the same old mistakes that lead to new pain. Today, I'm going to teach you the RIGHT way to get your ex back. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS: Why the most popular ways to get your ex back DO...2020-04-2914 min
Paging Dr. NerdLoveHow To Get Your Ex Back... The RIGHT WayLast time, we talked about the recent trend of folks reaching out to their exes, why it’s happening so frequently and why it can be comforting to try to rekindle an old relationship. But it's far too easy to fall back to old patterns and old routines with your ex, which means you're going to make the same old mistakes that lead to new pain. Today, I'm going to teach you the RIGHT way to get your ex back. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS: Why the most popular ways to get your ex back DO...2020-04-2914 min
Paging Dr. NerdLoveShould You Get Back Together With Your Ex?With the stress and the chaos of the COVID-19 pandemic, more and more people are reaching out to their exes for comfort, for connection and something more. But is it ever a good idea to get back with your ex? If you're thinking of trying to get your ex back — or reaching out to them again — then you need to be able to answer these 5 questions first. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS: Why we look to our past relationships when times are hard When an old relationship is better left in the past... and when it's worth tryi...2020-04-2318 min
Paging Dr. NerdLoveShould You Get Back Together With Your Ex?With the stress and the chaos of the COVID-19 pandemic, more and more people are reaching out to their exes for comfort, for connection and something more. But is it ever a good idea to get back with your ex? If you're thinking of trying to get your ex back — or reaching out to them again — then you need to be able to answer these 5 questions first. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS: Why we look to our past relationships when times are hard When an old relationship is better left in the past... and when it's worth tryi...2020-04-2318 min
Paging Dr. NerdLoveHow To Help Your Relationship Survive the COVID-19 QuarantineSelf-isolation can be a trial for even the happiest lovers. Couples under quarantine are starting to feel the strain on their relationship. Relationships are rarely tested the way that they’re being tested now, and many people are discovering their relationship isn't as happy or as strong as they they thought. In some parts of the world, divorce rates are starting to skyrocket as soon as quarantine orders have been lifted. Don't let that happen to YOUR relationship. In this free workshop, I'll teach you what it takes to keep your relationship happy, healthy, safe and strong, so...2020-04-151h 07
Paging Dr. NerdLoveHow To Help Your Relationship Survive the COVID-19 QuarantineSelf-isolation can be a trial for even the happiest lovers. Couples under quarantine are starting to feel the strain on their relationship. Relationships are rarely tested the way that they’re being tested now, and many people are discovering their relationship isn't as happy or as strong as they they thought. In some parts of the world, divorce rates are starting to skyrocket as soon as quarantine orders have been lifted. Don't let that happen to YOUR relationship. In this free workshop, I'll teach you what it takes to keep your relationship happy, healthy, safe and strong, so...2020-04-151h 07
Paging Dr. NerdLoveLove, Sex and Dating During QuarantineThe COVID-19 pandemic doesn't mean that your love life has to be put on hold. In fact, relationships are more important than ever. People are still meeting, dating and even falling in love during social distancing. The coronavirus pandemic has forced us to think about dating in new and different ways. In this replay of the live workshop, Dr. NerdLove will talk about how dating has changed, how we can change with it and how the current crisis has the potential to make us more desirable dates, better lovers and incredible partners. SIGN...2020-04-081h 09
Paging Dr. NerdLoveLove, Sex and Dating During QuarantineThe COVID-19 pandemic doesn't mean that your love life has to be put on hold. In fact, relationships are more important than ever. People are still meeting, dating and even falling in love during social distancing. The coronavirus pandemic has forced us to think about dating in new and different ways. In this replay of the live workshop, Dr. NerdLove will talk about how dating has changed, how we can change with it and how the current crisis has the potential to make us more desirable dates, better lovers and incredible partners. SIGN...2020-04-081h 09
Paging Dr. NerdLoveHow To Have An Amazing Social Life During COVID-19Loneliness is one of the unspoken side-effects of sheltering in place. And yet, we need our social connections more than ever. How can you build and maintain a social life when social distancing is the rule? In my latest live, free seminar, I talk about how to build and maintain those important social connections, meet new people and strengthen the friendships you already have. Want to take part? The next seminar is on 4/7 at 3 PM CST. Join me at facebook.com/DrNerdLove and join NerdLove Academy at facebook.com/groups/DrNerdLove DOCTOR'S NOTE...2020-04-0151 min
Paging Dr. NerdLoveHow To Have An Amazing Social Life During COVID-19Loneliness is one of the unspoken side-effects of sheltering in place. And yet, we need our social connections more than ever. How can you build and maintain a social life when social distancing is the rule? In my latest live, free seminar, I talk about how to build and maintain those important social connections, meet new people and strengthen the friendships you already have. Want to take part? The next seminar is on 4/7 at 3 PM CST. Join me at facebook.com/DrNerdLove and join NerdLove Academy at facebook.com/groups/DrNerdLove DOCTOR'S NOTE...2020-04-0151 min
Paging Dr. NerdLoveManaging Your Emotional Health During COVID-19How do you manage anxiety in the middle of a pandemic? How is living under quarantine affecting you? In my first LIVE teleseminar, I talk about how to manage stress and maintain your emotional health during the COVID-19 pandemic. Want to take part? The next seminar is on 3/31 at 3 PM CST. Join me at the Dr. NerdLove Facebook Page and be sure to join the NerdLove Academy group! DOCTOR’S NOTE: So since I did this over Facebook Live, there’s a little funkiness with the audio. I’ve done my best to clean it up but so...2020-03-2757 min
Paging Dr. NerdLoveManaging Your Emotional Health During COVID-19How do you manage anxiety in the middle of a pandemic? How is living under quarantine affecting you? In my first LIVE teleseminar, I talk about how to manage stress and maintain your emotional health during the COVID-19 pandemic. Want to take part? The next seminar is on 3/31 at 3 PM CST. Join me at the Dr. NerdLove Facebook Page and be sure to join the NerdLove Academy group! DOCTOR’S NOTE: So since I did this over Facebook Live, there’s a little funkiness with the audio. I’ve done my best to clean it up but so...2020-03-2757 min
Paging Dr. NerdLoveHow To Make A Long Distance Relationship WorkI’m answering your most important dating questions! If you have a question about love, sex or dating, then be sure to leave a comment. Maybe the next question I answer will be yours! This week: he and his girlfriend have been stuck in a long-distance relationship because of the COVID-19 pandemic. How can they keep their relationship alive while they're apart? Book a private coaching session with Dr. NerdLove Virtual Museum Tours Virtual National Park Tours Free Metropolitan Opera Live Streams 15 Broadway Musicals and Plays You Ca...2020-03-1816 min
Paging Dr. NerdLoveHow To Make A Long Distance Relationship WorkI’m answering your most important dating questions! If you have a question about love, sex or dating, then be sure to leave a comment. Maybe the next question I answer will be yours! This week: he and his girlfriend have been stuck in a long-distance relationship because of the COVID-19 pandemic. How can they keep their relationship alive while they're apart? Book a private coaching session with Dr. NerdLove Virtual Museum Tours Virtual National Park Tours Free Metropolitan Opera Live Streams 15 Broadway Musicals and Plays You Ca...2020-03-1816 min
Paging Dr. NerdLoveThe 5 Things You Need To Get Over A BreakupThe reason why you have such a hard time getting over your ex is because most folks have the wrong idea about breakups. The pain of a break-up is equal parts mental and physical. When you’re struggling with how to get over your breakup, you’re almost never handling BOTH halves of the equation. Getting over your ex quickly and successfully requires that you address both sides of the breakup. So today I want to give you the 5 things you MUST do in order to get over your breakup and move forward. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:...2020-03-1119 min
Paging Dr. NerdLoveWhat Letterkenny Can Teach Us About Positive MasculinityI’m answering your most important dating questions! If you have a question about love, sex or dating, then be sure to leave a comment. Maybe the next question I answer will be yours! This week: With all the talk about toxic masculinity, what does POSITIVE masculinity look like? Here's what we can learn about being better men from the hicks, jocks and skids of Letterkenny. What Does Positive Masculinity Look Like? Book a private coaching session with Dr. NerdLove Listen Here Download Here Transcript available at doctornerdlove.com2020-03-0415 min
Paging Dr. NerdLoveAsk Dr. NerdLove: How Do You Handle Being "Just Friends"? I’m answering your most important dating questions! If you have a question about love, sex or dating, then be sure to leave a comment. Maybe the next question I answer will be yours! This week: Everyone's heard the "let's just be friends" speech from someone they've been attracted to. But how do you make a friendship work with someone you're attracted to? How do you keep sex from getting in the way of your friendship? Book a private coaching session with Dr. NerdLove The Secret to Being "Just Friends" Why "Men...2020-02-1916 min
Paging Dr. NerdLoveAsk Dr. NerdLove: How Do You Handle Being "Just Friends"? I’m answering your most important dating questions! If you have a question about love, sex or dating, then be sure to leave a comment. Maybe the next question I answer will be yours! This week: Everyone's heard the "let's just be friends" speech from someone they've been attracted to. But how do you make a friendship work with someone you're attracted to? How do you keep sex from getting in the way of your friendship? Book a private coaching session with Dr. NerdLove The Secret to Being "Just Friends" Why "Men...2020-02-1916 min
Paging Dr. NerdLoveHow Can You Learn To Love Being Single?I’m answering your most important dating questions! If you have a question about love, sex or dating, then be sure to leave a comment. Maybe the next question I answer will be yours! This week: Valentine's Day is coming, and it's stressing people out. How can you learn to be happy when you’re single, especially when it seems like the universe is determined to remind you that everyone else is coupled up and you’re not? Book A Private Coaching Session With Dr. NerdLove The Secret to Being Successful With Women2020-02-0518 min
Paging Dr. NerdLoveHow Can You Learn To Love Being Single?I’m answering your most important dating questions! If you have a question about love, sex or dating, then be sure to leave a comment. Maybe the next question I answer will be yours! This week: Valentine's Day is coming, and it's stressing people out. How can you learn to be happy when you’re single, especially when it seems like the universe is determined to remind you that everyone else is coupled up and you’re not? Book A Private Coaching Session With Dr. NerdLove The Secret to Being Successful With Women2020-02-0518 min
Paging Dr. NerdLoveHow Do You Keep The Spark In Your Relationship?I'm answering your most important dating questions! If you have a question about love, sex or dating, then be sure to leave a comment. Maybe the next question I answer will be yours! This week: How do you keep your relationship from fading into boredom? What's the secret to keeping the spark making your long-term relationship feel as fresh and hot and alive as when you first met? Book A Private Coaching Session With Dr. NerdLove Transcript available at doctornerdlove.com Don’t forget to subscribe and review us on i...2020-01-2213 min
Paging Dr. NerdLoveHow Do You Keep The Spark In Your Relationship?I'm answering your most important dating questions! If you have a question about love, sex or dating, then be sure to leave a comment. Maybe the next question I answer will be yours! This week: How do you keep your relationship from fading into boredom? What's the secret to keeping the spark making your long-term relationship feel as fresh and hot and alive as when you first met? Book A Private Coaching Session With Dr. NerdLove Transcript available at doctornerdlove.com Don’t forget to subscribe and review us on i...2020-01-2213 min
Paging Dr. NerdLoveHow To Take The Perfect Tinder PhotoI’m answering your most important dating questions! If you have a question about love, sex or dating, then be sure to leave a comment. Maybe the next question I answer will be yours! This week: What are the best pictures for dating apps like Tinder, Hinge, Bumble and OKCupid? And how can guys look more photogenic and get more matches? Book A Private Coaching Session With Dr. NerdLove Transcript available at doctornerdlove.com Don’t forget to subscribe and review us on iTunes , Stitcher and on YouTube. Like the podca...2020-01-0812 min
Paging Dr. NerdLoveHow To Take The Perfect Tinder PhotoI’m answering your most important dating questions! If you have a question about love, sex or dating, then be sure to leave a comment. Maybe the next question I answer will be yours! This week: What are the best pictures for dating apps like Tinder, Hinge, Bumble and OKCupid? And how can guys look more photogenic and get more matches? Book A Private Coaching Session With Dr. NerdLove Transcript available at doctornerdlove.com Don’t forget to subscribe and review us on iTunes , Stitcher and on YouTube. Like the podca...2020-01-0812 min
Paging Dr. NerdLove3 Tips For Flirting Like A MasterDR. NERDLOVE MERCHANDISE: https://nerdloveacademy.com/shop/ One of the biggest reasons why people have a hard time flirting successfully is that they don’t understand how flirting is supposed to work. But when you understand the overall philosophy of flirting, you’re in a much better position to fine tune your flirting style to one that works for you and lets you adapt to whomever you’re trying to flirt with. These three unusual tips will teach you how to flirt like a master. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS: What guys get wrong about how to...2019-12-1820 min
Paging Dr. NerdLove3 Tips For Flirting Like A MasterDR. NERDLOVE MERCHANDISE: https://nerdloveacademy.com/shop/ One of the biggest reasons why people have a hard time flirting successfully is that they don’t understand how flirting is supposed to work. But when you understand the overall philosophy of flirting, you’re in a much better position to fine tune your flirting style to one that works for you and lets you adapt to whomever you’re trying to flirt with. These three unusual tips will teach you how to flirt like a master. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS: What guys get wrong about how to...2019-12-1820 min
Paging Dr. NerdLoveASK DR. NERDLOVE: How Do You Meet More Women? I'm answering your most important dating questions! If you have a question about love, sex or dating, then be sure to leave a comment. Maybe the next question I answer will be yours! This week: How can you meet more women when you live in a small town? And how do you stop having a fear of missing out on the "perfect" relationship? Book a Private Coaching Session With Dr. NerdLove Transcript available at doctornerdlove.com Don’t forget to subscribe and review us on iTunes , Stitcher and on YouTube. Like the podcast? Become a...2019-12-1113 min
Paging Dr. NerdLoveASK DR. NERDLOVE: How Do You Meet More Women? I'm answering your most important dating questions! If you have a question about love, sex or dating, then be sure to leave a comment. Maybe the next question I answer will be yours! This week: How can you meet more women when you live in a small town? And how do you stop having a fear of missing out on the "perfect" relationship? Book a Private Coaching Session With Dr. NerdLove Transcript available at doctornerdlove.com Don’t forget to subscribe and review us on iTunes , Stitcher and on YouTube. Like the podcast? Become a...2019-12-1113 min
Paging Dr. NerdLoveAsk Dr. NerdLove: Should You Tell Your Date That You're A Virgin?I'm answering your most important dating questions! If you have a question about love, sex or dating, then be sure to leave a comment. Maybe the next question I answer will be yours! This week: Should you tell women that you're a virgin, or is it better to keep it a secret. And is dating your co-worker a good idea? The Virgin's Guide to Great Sex Book a Private Coaching Session With Dr. NerdLove Transcript available at patreon.com/DrNerdLove Don’t forget to subscribe and review us on iTun...2019-11-2713 min
Paging Dr. NerdLoveAsk Dr. NerdLove: Should You Tell Your Date That You're A Virgin?I'm answering your most important dating questions! If you have a question about love, sex or dating, then be sure to leave a comment. Maybe the next question I answer will be yours! This week: Should you tell women that you're a virgin, or is it better to keep it a secret. And is dating your co-worker a good idea? The Virgin's Guide to Great Sex Book a Private Coaching Session With Dr. NerdLove Transcript available at patreon.com/DrNerdLove Don’t forget to subscribe and review us on iTun...2019-11-2713 min
Paging Dr. NerdLoveAsk Dr. NerdLove: What Do You Do If She Gives You A Fake Number?I'm answering your most important dating questions! If you have a question about love, sex or dating, then be sure to leave a comment. Maybe next week the question I'll answer will be yours! This week: Why do so many women have empty online dating profiles? And what do you do when a woman's given you a fake number? Transcript available at patreon.com/DrNerdLove Don’t forget to subscribe and review us on iTunes , Stitcher and on YouTube. Like the podcast? Become a Dr. NerdLove patron at Patreon.com/DrNerdLove Get...2019-11-1308 min
Paging Dr. NerdLoveAsk Dr. NerdLove: What Do You Do If She Gives You A Fake Number?I'm answering your most important dating questions! If you have a question about love, sex or dating, then be sure to leave a comment. Maybe next week the question I'll answer will be yours! This week: Why do so many women have empty online dating profiles? And what do you do when a woman's given you a fake number? Transcript available at patreon.com/DrNerdLove Don’t forget to subscribe and review us on iTunes , Stitcher and on YouTube. Like the podcast? Become a Dr. NerdLove patron at Patreon.com/DrNerdLove Get...2019-11-1308 min
Paging Dr. NerdLoveWhy Online Dating SUCKS (and 5 Ways To Make It Better)Online dating sucks. Doesn't matter if it's Tinder, Bumble, OKCupid or Christian Mingle. Men get next to no matches, women get flooded with awful messages, bots, trolls and zombie profiles run rampant on most apps... it's like trying to find a diamond in a pit of sewage. Most dating apps seem designed to be frustrating to ANYONE who wants to date someone of the opposite sex. But it doesn't have to bet that bad. Here's why online dating is so awful... and 5 ways you can make it better. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS: What science...2019-11-0619 min
Paging Dr. NerdLoveWhy Online Dating SUCKS (and 5 Ways To Make It Better)Online dating sucks. Doesn't matter if it's Tinder, Bumble, OKCupid or Christian Mingle. Men get next to no matches, women get flooded with awful messages, bots, trolls and zombie profiles run rampant on most apps... it's like trying to find a diamond in a pit of sewage. Most dating apps seem designed to be frustrating to ANYONE who wants to date someone of the opposite sex. But it doesn't have to bet that bad. Here's why online dating is so awful... and 5 ways you can make it better. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS: What science...2019-11-0619 min
Paging Dr. NerdLoveWhat REALLY Makes Men Attractive?Does personality matter, or are looks the only thing that's important? Why do guys have a hard time understanding what makes a man attractive to women? SHOW HIGHLIGHTS: How much your physique ACTUALLY matters to women Why "attraction triggers" and evolutionary psychology give men all the wrong answers How we let self-limiting beliefs sabotage our dating success Why attraction is about more than biology How we confuse power fantasies for sexual ones ... and so much more. RELATED LINKS: The Myth of What Women Want What Matters More, Looks Or P...2019-08-1417 min
Paging Dr. NerdLoveWhat REALLY Makes Men Attractive?Does personality matter, or are looks the only thing that's important? Why do guys have a hard time understanding what makes a man attractive to women? SHOW HIGHLIGHTS: How much your physique ACTUALLY matters to women Why "attraction triggers" and evolutionary psychology give men all the wrong answers How we let self-limiting beliefs sabotage our dating success Why attraction is about more than biology How we confuse power fantasies for sexual ones ... and so much more. RELATED LINKS: The Myth of What Women Want What Matters More, Looks Or P...2019-08-1417 min
Han and Matt Know It All#119: Han and Matt Carpool to SeaHan and Matt tackle questions from some of their favorite advice sources from the week of June 9th, 2019, and beyond, including: NOTE: We're changing the $20 Patron Hangout Perk to be a 1-Time Hangout Effective Immediately Ask Ellie: "Wife's request for quiet time 'mindless' TV watching confounds husband" "Harry Potter Totally Sucks" Ask Ellie: "My true love might walk away because of my ex's meddling" Carolyn Hax: "My pregnant friend's husband needs to shut up already about her weight gain" Ask a Manager: "I ran into my new boss in the apartment of my one-night stand" Ask Dr. NerdLove: "Wh...2019-06-191h 05
Paging Dr. NerdLoveThe Dr. NerdLoveLine SpecialYou've been waiting patiently, and it's finally here! This week, the Doc - and special guest host Crystal Donovan - take your questions from the NerdLove Hotline and dispense wit, wisdom, dating advice and digressions into side topics. Loved this episode? Have a dating question you'd like to hear answered on here? Call your question in to 512-522-6513 and leave a voice mail! Show Highlights: How do you talk about being an older virgin? What about when your friends want to talk about sex and you feel anxious? How do you approach women d...2019-05-091h 04
Paging Dr. NerdLoveThe Dr. NerdLoveLine SpecialYou've been waiting patiently, and it's finally here! This week, the Doc - and special guest host Crystal Donovan - take your questions from the NerdLove Hotline and dispense wit, wisdom, dating advice and digressions into side topics. Loved this episode? Have a dating question you'd like to hear answered on here? Call your question in to 512-522-6513 and leave a voice mail! Show Highlights: How do you talk about being an older virgin? What about when your friends want to talk about sex and you feel anxious? How do you approach women d...2019-05-091h 04Han and Matt Know It All#117: Han and Matt Embrace Cryptid RomanceHan and Matt tackle questions from some of their favorite advice sources from the week of April 28th, 2019, and beyond, including: WEST-COAST MAY MEETUPS: San Francisco Meetup: May 19th, time/location tbd Portland Meetup: May 27th, time/location tbd Seattle Meetup: May 30th, time/location tbd [CW: Self-Harm] Ask a Manager: "What to say if a coworker asks about my self harm scars" Ask a Manager: "Should I say something about my coworker’s old self-harm scars?" Dear Prudence: "I'm in a Happy Relationship With My Boyfriend but I Still Want to Date Women" SPONSOR: care/of: A monthl...2019-05-0859 min
Martha and Colby Grow UpThe DETAILS about ONLINE DATINGAre you DTF or DTR? Whatever you're looking for in life, I'm pretty sure you can find it online. Listen to this episode to hear reviews of Hinge, Tinder, OKCupid, and Bumble. I share my tips and tricks to get you on and OFF the apps as quickly as possible as well as how to date confidently. After all, everyone deserves a little bit of love, right?"I feel like if you have a fish pic in your profile, you're compensating for something." CLICK TO TWEET: https://ctt.ac/vd9t2HELPFUL LINKS:http...2019-04-1737 min
ManTalks PodcastDr. NerdLove - Pick Up Artists, Navigating Modern Dating, And Rekindling Romance
Harris O’Malley (AKA Dr. NerdLove) is an Austin-based, syndicated advice columnist and dating coach who provides geek dating advice at Paging Dr. NerdLove and his bi-weekly advice column “Ask Dr. NerdLove” on Kotaku.He and his work has been featured on Nightline, Fusion TV, The Guardian, New York Magazine, The Huffington Post, Wired, Sex Nerd Sandra, Daily Life, Slate, The Austin-American Statesman, Austin Monthly, Geek and Sundry, Boing Boing, Everyday Feminism, Buzzfeed, The Daily Dot, The Washington Post, Kotaku, Lifehacker, NeilStrauss.com, The Good Man Project, MTV’s Guy Code, The Harvard Business Journal, and many others.N...2019-04-151h 03
ManTalks PodcastDr. NerdLove - Pick Up Artists, Navigating Modern Dating, And Rekindling RomanceHarris O’Malley (AKA Dr. NerdLove) is an Austin-based, syndicated advice columnist and dating coach who provides geek dating advice at Paging Dr. NerdLove and his bi-weekly advice column “Ask Dr. NerdLove” on Kotaku.
He and his work has been featured on Nightline, Fusion TV, The Guardian, New York Magazine, The Huffington Post, Wired, Sex Nerd Sandra, Daily Life, Slate, The Austin-American Statesman, Austin Monthly, Geek and Sundry, Boing Boing, Everyday Feminism, Buzzfeed, The Daily Dot, The Washington Post, Kotaku, Lifehacker, NeilStrauss.com, The Good Man Project, MTV’s Guy Code, The Harvard Business Journal, and many others.
New Game Plus: Th...2019-04-151h 02Han and Matt Know It All#108: Han and Matt Practice Safe SmoochingHan and Matt tackle questions from some of their favorite advice sources from the week of February 17th, 2019, and beyond, including: WINTER MEETUP: Washington, DC, Busboys and Poets on K Street March 16th, 6 PM - 10 PM Facebook Event Miss Lonelyhearts: "Does new girlfriend have eyes for hers or hims?" Listener Wants to be Supportive, but Doesn't Want to Offend: "How to respect someone's gender if you're not sure they're transgender" Listener Mary, Veiled Reckoner: "How Do You Keep the Germs From Spreading Around Your Polycule?" Listener Sabrina: "Can I Wear an Unethically Produced Shirt That Advocates for Equality Wi...2019-02-271h 03
Everything and AnythingEpisode Sixteen - Valentine's Day Special! Love, Relationships & Cliches!Timestamp:00:00 - 00: 43 Introduction of episode00:44 - 04:46 Valentine’s Day and what it means to us04:47 - 25:04 Article on love cliches25:05 - 33:08 Top 3 things to be successful in a relationship33:09 - 46:14 Questions about relationships46:15 - 57:00 Dr. NerdLove letter analysis57:01 - 58:00 Outro2019-02-1400 minHan and Matt Know It All#101: Han and Matt Appreciate Their GiftsHan and Matt tackle questions from some of their favorite advice sources from the week of December 23rd, 2018, and beyond, including: Ask Dr. NerdLove: "Am I Just Being Jealous?" Dear Miss Lonelyhearts: "'Confirmed bachelor' should enjoy his freedom" Miss Manners: "Two Breakfast Items? How Dare You" Social Q's: "What's Wrong With Books for Christmas?" Dear Prudence: "Help! My Mom Made an Epic Reply-All Blunder, and Oh What a Mess." SPONSOR: Podigy: The podcast editing service we partner proudly with! Listener Sad Sister: "How Can I Support My Suffering Sister?" WSJ: "How Can You Help Someone Who Is Depressed?" Sh...2019-01-0257 min
Paging Dr. NerdLoveIs She Flirting or Just Being Friendly?How do you tell the difference between when someone's flirting with you and just being polite? And why are we so bad at telling the two apart in the first place? SHOW HIGHLIGHTS: How men and women both misjudge flirting behavior in others Why "Straight Dude Thinking" gets in the way of flirting success Why we mistake politeness and friendliness for interest How to recognize the signs that someone is flirting with you The number one key to recognizing that someone is interested... and not just being friendly. RELATED LINKS: Ask Dr. Ne...2018-11-2213 min
Paging Dr. NerdLoveIs She Flirting or Just Being Friendly?How do you tell the difference between when someone's flirting with you and just being polite? And why are we so bad at telling the two apart in the first place? SHOW HIGHLIGHTS: How men and women both misjudge flirting behavior in others Why "Straight Dude Thinking" gets in the way of flirting success Why we mistake politeness and friendliness for interest How to recognize the signs that someone is flirting with you The number one key to recognizing that someone is interested... and not just being friendly. RELATED LINKS: Ask Dr. Ne...2018-11-2213 minHan and Matt Know It All#92: Han and Matt Haunt Your BallsHan and Matt tackle questions from some of their favorite advice sources from the week of October 21st, 2018, and beyond, including: Carolyn Hax: "Your husband may be cranking the hostility to 11" Ask a Manager: "my employee keeps adjusting himself while were talking" Ask Dr. NerdLove: "When Do I Disclose My Mental Illness?" Ask APW: "Is The Sexism Of The Wedding Industry Mirrored In My Relationship?" A Practical Wedding: "This Is How I've Learned To Deal With Emotional Labor" Queer Abby: "I Think I'm A Lesbian But I Don't Fit The Stereotypes" SPONSOR: Podigy: The podcast editing service we pa...2018-10-311h 01
Make More Love Not WarDating Advice Women Want Men to Know | Dr. NerdLoveWhen you hear the term “Pick Up Artist” you may picture a cheesy guy telling embarrassingly bad lines to a girl like….”Did it hurt? When you fell from Heaven?” Or “If I could rearrange the alphabet I would put U and I together.” Or even more ridiculous “Are you from Tennessee? Because you’re the only 10 I see!” I’m pretty sure that these so-called “Pick Up Lines” never actually picked anyone up. Best case they got a laugh but most likely they were dealt an EPIC eye roll from the extremely unimpressed lady that had the misfortune to hear them. I’m not even s...2018-10-221h 29Han and Matt Know It All#87: Han and Matt Burst Into FlamesHan and Matt tackle questions from some of their favorite advice sources from the week of September 16th, 2018, and beyond, including: Dear Prudence: "My Boyfriend Thinks I'm Not Trying Hard Enough to Orgasm From Vaginal Penetration Alone" Ask a Manager: "my coworker gives everyone the silent treatment for weeks" Ask Polly: "Should I Quit My Day Job to Write a Book?" Tough Love: "Help! I Hate My Girlfriend's Armpit Hair" r/relationships: "I[30] am having a mastectomy due to breast cancer but am choosing no reconstruction and my boyfriend [29] of 4 years is having a hard time with my de...2018-09-261h 03
A Leap of Doubt#024: On Sex, Love, and Dating (feat. Harris O'Malley (aka Dr. NerdLove)There are all manner of misconceptions and potentially harmful myths surrounding what women want, what men want, and about how best to navigate romantic relationships, from flirting to dating to long-term relationships. On this episode, I speak with special guest Harris O’Malley, aka Doctor NerdLove, to dive into these issues and set the record straight on the complications and nuances of love, sex, and dating in the 21st century.
We talk about toxic masculinity and how to break away from it, why many men today are afraid of forming emotional bonds with other men. We discuss the...2018-08-2900 minHan and Matt Know It All#79: Han and Matt Mull Monogamish MysteriesHan and Matt tackle questions from some of their favorite advice sources from the week of July 15th, 2018, and beyond, including: Ask Dr. NerdLove: "Do I Need To Fire My Friend?" Susan Fowler: "Reflecting On One Very, Very Strange Year At Uber" Refinery29: "Feminist Apparel CEO Fires Entire Staff After They Learn He's An Admitted Sexual Abuser" Daily Beast: "Ousted Billboard CEO John Amato Being Probed for Sexual Misconduct" The Cut: "Thinx Ex-Employee Accuses Miki Agrawal of Sexual Harassment" NY Mag: "Vice Media Was Built on a Bluff" Savage Love: "Her Husband Demanded a Monogamous Commitment but Describes Th...2018-07-251h 08Han and Matt Know It All#73: Han and Matt Slay the DemonsHan and Matt tackle questions from some of their favorite advice sources from the week of May 27th, 2018, and beyond, including: Dear Abby: "Hard Work in Gym Pays Off With Arm-Wrestling Triumph" Ask a Manager: "My Coworker Has Started Faking a British Accent" "Bust a Nut" Clip from My Brother, My Brother and Me Dear Mariella: "My Boyfriend Wants Me to See Other People for Romance and Sex" Dear Prudence: "Help! a Senior Colleague Asked Me, the Intern, to Help Translate His Animated Porn." Friendshipping!: "Please Respect My Bedtime" Listener Ila Seledria, Adrenaline Seeker: "Should I Address My Fr...2018-06-051h 07Han and Matt Know It AllThe Easiest Question We Could Find in the Inbox | Opinion Overflow #39In this week's Overflow episode, we apologize for several missteps, gush over some of the wildest advice column questions this year so far from Ask a Manager and Dan Savage, and much more! Begin your journey here: New Fan Subreddit and Two Fan Spin-Off Facebook Group HaMKIA Has a Subreddit (listener-created) Learn to Know it All: Makeup and Fashion (Facebook, listener-created) Learn to Know All the Self-care: HAMkittens Taking Care of Themselves (Facebook, listener-created) Several Listeners Got the Hated Musical Guess Right Before the Episode Aired Well done! Badges have been awarded. Apology: It's "Indigenous Children" and Not "Nat...2018-05-1623 minHan and Matt Know It All#70: Han and Matt Hang Provocative ArtworkHan and Matt tackle questions from some of their favorite advice sources from the week of May 6th, 2018, and beyond, including: Ask a Manager: "My Coworker Has a Podcast About Sex" Ask Dr. NerdLove: "My Boyfriend Is Spying On Other Women" Asking for a Friend: "We’re White. Can We Adopt a Black Child?" NPR: "Incentives And Cultural Bias Fuel Foster System" Dear Abby: "Couple Disagrees On Etiquette Of Curating Their Bathroom Art" Time: "Immersions (Piss Christ)" My Brother, My Brother and Me (fan video): "play with me!" r/relationships: "I (28f) found out my husband (28m) is getti...2018-05-1454 min
Polygamer – A Podcast of Equality & Diversity in Gaming & Video GamesPolygamer #77: Dr. NerdLove on gaming & datingA podcast interview with Harris O'Malley, aka Dr. NerdLove, about online dating, video gaming, being a geek, and healthy relationships.
The post Polygamer #77: Dr. NerdLove on gaming & dating first appeared on Polygamer - A Podcast of Equality & Diversity in Gaming & Video Games.2018-05-0951 min
NW NERD: Fandom-powered geek magazineBonus Episode: Geek Dating and Relationship AdviceIn a special bonus episode of NW NERD, we return to our dating / relationships panel from episode 38 -- Jay Edidin, Stacy Rost, and Harris O'Malley aka Dr. Nerdlove. There were a few more listener questions we didn't get to and they have some advice to relate. This bonus episode comes just as Emerald City Comic Con takes over Seattle, so take a listen while you're walking the floor.2018-03-0225 minHan and Matt Know It All#56: Hannah and Matt Romance Dr. NerdLoveHannah and Matt interviewed Harris O'Malley of "Dr. NerdLove" fame for the Monday episode and tackled listener questions all about dating! Dr. NerdLove Why Hannah and Matt Love Reading Harris' Advice Dr. NerdLove on Kotaku Dr. NerdLove's Homepage Kotaku: "Help, I've Got A Crush On A Twitch Streamer" Listener The16thReasonImSingle: "I'm 26 and Have Never Had a Good Relationship. Help!" Listener Aedalyn, Diviner of Roses: "How Do I Present My Lolita Fashion Sense On Dating Sites Without Coming Off as Defensive or Embarrassed?" Listener Kirin, the Unmaker: "Should I Be Upfront About My Ball-Jointed Dolls Hobby With People...2018-01-2951 minHan and Matt Know It All#53: Hannah and Matt Work From HomeHannah and Matt tackle questions from some of their favorite advice sources from the week of December 31st, 2017, and beyond, including: Ask Dr. NerdLove: "Second Place, First Loser" Ask a Manager: "Coworker Hasn't Touched His Work in Months" Ask APW: "Is My Boyfriend Cheap, or Is He Controlling Me with Money?" Dear Prudence: "Our Friends Never Reciprocate Meal Invites" Dear Abby: "Other Woman Cheats on Man Who's Cheating on His Wife" Ask Amy: "Man Leaves His Cheating Wife, Starts Dating Her Twin Sister" Listener None of that High Fantasy Nonsense: "How Do I Talk My Partner Out of Qu...2018-01-0851 minHan and Matt Know It All#51: 2017's Best & Worst Advice Questions (Ft. The Bad Advisor)In a very special 2017 Year in Review episode, Hannah and Matt welcome Andrea Grimes of The Establishment's "Bad Advice" fame to reminisce about the questions that most warmed our hearts and those that most made us want to burn everything to the ground. It was a very fiery year, to put it lightly. Enjoy?? Andrea's "Warmed My Heart" Award pick Captain Awkward and Friends of Captain Awkward: "When Spouses Don't Agree About Birth Control" Andrea's "Set It on Fire" Award pick Misc.: Please May I Keep Boning This Racist? (Carolyn Hax December 2nd, Dear Abby February 13, Savage Love August...2017-12-2555 min
Everything is Awesome with Jeff and ?Hitting the Wall ft Harris O'Malley AKA Dr Nerdlove In which Jeff and KC call up Harris O'Malley AKA Dr Nerdlove; Harris starts in the pickup artist community; Harris hits the wall and confronts his false artificial identity; he reads every book; he starts doing advice for the league of extremely ordinary gentlemen; this week's blog; "women pure, men good"; dude book great, lady book bad; everyone lost their damn minds; we have to keep rediscovering the clitoris; kc interviews for an internship; bout week goes well; Harris finds Alan Moore and Batman; Crisis on Infinite Earth #7 changes his life; the sexy streets are paved with go...2017-11-271h 38
Life on the Swingset - The Swinging & Polyamory PodcastSS 305: Designing Your Perfect Relationship, with Dr. NerdLove We’ve all spent a big chunks of our your lives trying to transform relationships from “kind of okay” into “good”. Most of us wait to have big conversations about what our relationships will look like until, well, long after they’re already a problem, but what if we could, instead, do that work early instead of just assuming that everyone is playing by the same guidelines? Dr. NerdLove joins the Swingset panel of Dr. Liz, Dirty Lola, and Mike Joseph to discuss designing your perfect relationships, talking about how to get what we all want, in advance! You can fi...2017-11-011h 11
The DildorksEpisode 52: Clowning AroundThis week we're joined by Sunny Megatron and Ken Melvoin-Berg, kink educators and fellow sex podcasters! We talked with them about humiliation, clowns, and much more. It's also our one-year podcastiversary, so we reflected on our fave memories from a year of Dildorks!
Sick Voices | #BirthdayBruises | Anniversaries | 4/20 | Cunnilingus | Our Brand | Nude Dicks | Online Dating | Bex-isms | Dream Guests | Dr. Nerdlove | Dirty Talk | American Sex Podcast | ROUGH BS | Dark Odyssey | Humiliation | Clowns | Play Theory | Fear | Negotiation | Aftercare | Editing | Impostor Syndrome | Best Friendz 4Ever
Giveaway rules:-Open only to residents of the U.S. and Canada-Tag @TheDildorks in...2017-09-131h 16Han and Matt Know It All#32: Hannah and Matt Fund Your HoneymoonHannah and Matt tackle questions from some of their favorite advice sources from the week of August 6th, 2017, and beyond, including: Dear Prudence: "Twin Q-and-A"; Let Us Sex-plain: "How Do I Get My Boyfriend to Stop Playing a Certain Podcast During Foreplay?"; horizontal with lila; The Ethicist: "Is It O.K. to Protest Trump by Withholding Taxes?"; Ask Dr. NerdLove: "I'm Nonmonogamous and Having Trouble Finding Dates, So How Long Can I Withhold This Info?"; Listener Ann: "How Can I Nudge My Friend Towards Being More Vulnerable With Me?"; Listener Mary: "Is It Okay to Ask for Only Mon...2017-08-1438 min
Kotaku Splitscreen91: Finding Love In Splatoon 2Super-sized episode! Kirk and Jason start by talking about how much Jason's loving Final Fantasy Tactics on his phone and how impressed Kirk is with the opening hours of Hellblade: Senua's Sacrifice. Then they talk about the news of the week (22:21), from Shadow of War microtransactions to a Pokémon MMO hidden within another game. After that Kirk sits down with Kotaku's longtime advice columnist Harris "Dr. NerdLove" O'Malley (35:43) to talk about dating, pickup artists, and how movies lie to us about love. Finally, fellow Kotakuites Patricia Hernandez and Gita Jackson join the show to geek out with Kirk about th...2017-08-101h 51Han and Matt Know It All#24: Hannah and Matt Flirt With GuestsHannah and Matt tackle questions from some of their favorite advice sources from the week of June 11th, 2017, and beyond—and are joined this week by special guests Gigi Engle and Mike Fishbein of the relationship advice podcast 'Dirty Sexy Monogamy'—including: Dirty Sexy Monogamy (March 1, 2017): "Would You Ask Your Mom for Sex Advice?"; Dirty Sexy Monogamy (March 15, 2017): "How Do You Know If a Guy Is Actually into You?"; Dirty Sexy Monogamy (February 22, 2017): "Can I Be Sexually Empowered Without Having Sex?"; Saturday Night Live: "Girl at a Bar"; Huffington Post: "12 Moms Share Gross Stories Of Getting Catcalled While With The...2017-06-191h 11Han and Matt Know It All#20: Hannah and Matt Discuss Young LoveHannah and Matt tackle questions from some of their favorite advice sources from the week of May 14th, 2017 and beyond, including: Asking for a Friend: "I Have a Fancy Law Degree, But No One Will Hire Me to Do Good!"; Carolyn Hax: "This Wedding Plus-One Kerfuffle Just Doesn’t Add Up"; Ask Gigi: "Can I Meet Someone IRL Anymore?"; Ask Dr. NerdLove: "Help, My Drunk Friend Is Hitting On Me"; Ask Bear: "Be Glad in Love"; Submit your favorite questions or questions you may have for the podcast to hanandmattknowitall@gmail.com, anonymously at bit.ly/askhanandmatt, or to...2017-05-2253 min
The DildorksEpisode 17: Whisper Tweet NothingsOur hearts are all a-twitter over the fine art of social media flirting! In this episode, we share tips for communicating interest in timeline posts and tweet-sized chunks. Find out why Bex loves giving flirting advice, how Kate met her fave FWB on Twitter, and why tweet-liking is our favorite secret flirt code.
Pungle Cruise | Flirting Mind Palace | Courtesy Swipes | Dr. Nerdlove | Facebook Flirting | Strategic Tweet-Faving | Sliding Into DMs | Creeping Selfies | Adding Value | Read the Room | Conversation Skills | Red October | Cognitive-Behavioral Strategies | Creepy vs. Direct | "Is This a Good Time to Flirt With You?" | Self-Deprecating Humor | Flirt Fetis...2017-01-1154 min
Geek to Geek PodcastS1E22 - Pokemon GO - “Eevee Candy From a White Van”Pokemon GO! In this episode: Pokemon Go launched this week, and like everyone else in the world, we went crazy for it. However, despite our nerdlove for the app, there is a decided lack of documentation and tutorials, so we want to help other people make sense of what we’ve learned this week. We discuss how the game works How do to use pokestops and why you need them How to fight/train in gyms and the rules for it You can fight alongside other players on your team at the same time! What does bat...2016-07-151h 07
Sex Nerd SandraThe Nice Guy with Dr. NerdloveOWN YOUR DESIRE! Dating advice expert, Harris O'Malley, a.k.a. Dr. Nerdlove chimes in on solutions, struggles and pitfalls of the nice guy. TOPICS: Pickup Artists, Erotic Masquerade Drama, Kino Escalating, Rejection, Cognitive Dissonance, Transactional Friendships, "Pretty in Pink," Duckie, One-Sided Affection, Is nice good enough?, Confirmation Bias, The Dark Triad of Psychopathy, Machiavellianism & Narcissism, Douchbags, Captain Jack Harkness of Dr. Who & Torchwood, Halo Effect, Social Engineering, Letting it Go and When to make your move!2014-10-031h 00
Sex Nerd SandraThe Nice Guy with Dr. NerdloveOWN YOUR DESIRE! Dating advice expert, Harris O'Malley, a.k.a. Dr. Nerdlove chimes in on solutions, struggles and pitfalls of the nice guy. TOPICS: Pickup Artists, Erotic Masquerade Drama, Kino Escalating, Rejection, Cognitive Dissonance, Transactional Friendships, "Pretty in Pink," Duckie, One-Sided Affection, Is nice good enough?, Confirmation Bias, The Dark Triad of Psychopathy, Machiavellianism & Narcissism, Douchbags, Captain Jack Harkness of Dr. Who & Torchwood, Halo Effect, Social Engineering, Letting it Go and When to make your move!2014-10-031h 00
Sex Nerd SandraThe Nice Guy with Dr. NerdloveOWN YOUR DESIRE! Dating advice expert, Harris O'Malley, a.k.a. Dr. Nerdlove chimes in on solutions, struggles and pitfalls of the nice guy. TOPICS: Pickup Artists, Erotic Masquerade Drama, Kino Escalating, Rejection, Cognitive Dissonance, Transactional Friendships, "Pretty in Pink," Duckie, One-Sided Affection, Is nice good enough?, Confirmation Bias, The Dark Triad of Psychopathy, Machiavellianism & Narcissism, Douchbags, Captain Jack Harkness of Dr. Who & Torchwood, Halo Effect, Social Engineering, Letting it Go and When to make your move!2014-10-031h 00
Rebel FMRebel FM Episode 219 - 06/06/14This week we've got a special episode with a special guest: the internet's own Dr. Nerdlove joins us for an all relationship letters cast!
This week's music:
The Postal Service - Nothing Better2014-06-071h 28
1d4Cast PodcastEpisode 15 – Spreading the NerdLoveIt’s February and we have been bitten by the love bug. No not in that way. We make a few shout outs to some other podcasts and conventions. We talkContinue readingEpisode 15 – Spreading the NerdLove2013-02-241h 32
Sex Nerd SandraExiting the Friend ZoneEPIC NERDY LOVE STORY! Dating advice podcaster Harris O'Malley a.k.a. Dr. Nerdlove & wife Catherine Burke O'Malley (LEOG podcast) shares how he married out of the friend zone! TOPICS: Green Lantern Rings, Ancient Online Dating, Attraction in Friendship, Nice Girls & Boys, "Death Camp for Penis," Harris's Pickup Artist Phase, Seduction vs Coercion, the Hot Best Friend, Gay Parallel, Neato Time Dilation Effect, First Kiss, Friend Zone Philosophizing, the "Nice Guys of OKC" tumblr, Nice vs Good, Pedestals, Fish Tacos and the awkward turtle emoticon! Harris O’Malley is an Austin based blogger and dating coach who runs run the geek...2013-01-301h 10
Sex Nerd SandraExiting the Friend ZoneEPIC NERDY LOVE STORY! Dating advice podcaster Harris O'Malley a.k.a. Dr. Nerdlove & wife Catherine Burke O'Malley (LEOG podcast) shares how he married out of the friend zone! TOPICS: Green Lantern Rings, Ancient Online Dating, Attraction in Friendship, Nice Girls & Boys, "Death Camp for Penis," Harris's Pickup Artist Phase, Seduction vs Coercion, the Hot Best Friend, Gay Parallel, Neato Time Dilation Effect, First Kiss, Friend Zone Philosophizing, the "Nice Guys of OKC" tumblr, Nice vs Good, Pedestals, Fish Tacos and the awkward turtle emoticon! Harris O’Malley is an Austin based blogger and dating coach who runs run the geek...2013-01-301h 10
Sex Nerd SandraExiting the Friend ZoneEPIC NERDY LOVE STORY! Dating advice podcaster Harris O'Malley a.k.a. Dr. Nerdlove & wife Catherine Burke O'Malley (LEOG podcast) shares how he married out of the friend zone! TOPICS: Green Lantern Rings, Ancient Online Dating, Attraction in Friendship, Nice Girls & Boys, "Death Camp for Penis," Harris's Pickup Artist Phase, Seduction vs Coercion, the Hot Best Friend, Gay Parallel, Neato Time Dilation Effect, First Kiss, Friend Zone Philosophizing, the "Nice Guys of OKC" tumblr, Nice vs Good, Pedestals, Fish Tacos and the awkward turtle emoticon! Harris O’Malley is an Austin based blogger and dating coach who runs run the geek...2013-01-301h 10