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hpy hourFrom Trauma to Trust: Redefining Relationships for High Performers with Dr. Sarah SchewitzOn this episode of Hpy Hour, @anuragagarwalla sits down with Dr. Sarah Schewitz, a licensed psychologist who helps high achievers build the same success in their personal relationships that they’ve created in their careers.Dr. Schewitz brings deep expertise in attachment theory and trauma-informed care, sharing why even subtle emotional wounds—what she calls “little t” trauma—can impact how we connect with others. Together, they unpack how past experiences shape relationship patterns, and why nervous system regulation is key to emotional resilience.They also dive into the common struggles high performers face in love and c...2025-08-0557 min
Imperfect LoveHealing From Narcissist Abuse And Co-Dependency with Expert Dr. Sarah SchewitzDo you struggle with co-dependency? Is there a narcissist in your life whose abusive tactics are eroding your joy, self-confidence, and energy? Unfortunately, issues like these are widespread in today's world, and they affect people of all ages and genders. And given the prevalence of both narcissistic abuse and co-dependency, it's likely that you or someone you know has encountered--or currently is wrestling with--these extremely challenging and destructive dynamics. Yet in my clinical work and research, I've found that it's certainly possible to gain the awareness, strength, and courage that it takes to grow and heal. Today, I'm joined b...2025-06-2746 min
Imperfect LoveHealing From Narcissist Abuse And Co-Dependency with Expert Dr. Sarah SchewitzDo you struggle with co-dependency? Is there a narcissist in your life whose abusive tactics are eroding your joy, self-confidence, and energy? Unfortunately, issues like these are widespread in today's world, and they affect people of all ages and genders. And given the prevalence of both narcissistic abuse and co-dependency, it's likely that you or someone you know has encountered--or currently is wrestling with--these extremely challenging and destructive dynamics. Yet in my clinical work and research, I've found that it's certainly possible to gain the awareness, strength, and courage that it takes to grow and heal. 2025-06-2746 min
The Dude TherapistFrom Success to Struggle: Why High Achievers Struggle in Relationships with Dr. Sarah SchewitzWhy do high achievers often struggle in relationships? It’s not about success—it’s about unresolved emotional patterns.In this episode of The Dude Therapist, licensed psychologist Dr. Sarah Schewitz, founder of Couples Learn, breaks down why high-achieving individuals often bring attachment wounds, emotional avoidance, and miscommunication into their relationships.We dive deep into how therapy, self-awareness, and co-regulation can transform the way high performers love and connect.🔍 In this episode, we explore:Why high achievers struggle in relationships and where it stems fromHow attachment styles and past emot...2025-06-2544 min
Create with FranzHow to avoid Narcissistic Relationships: red flags and boundariesHave you ever felt drawn to someone who later revealed a manipulative or destructive side? This episode is dedicated to understanding and avoiding narcissistic individuals in your life. Join us as we speak with Dr. Sarah Schewitz, a Licensed Psychologist and Founder of Couples Learn, who specializes in helping people build healthy relationships. We'll explore the subtle qualities that attract narcissistic individuals and, more importantly, learn how to identify red flags early on. Dr. Sarah will equip you with actionable strategies to recognize these traits and protect yourself from emotional harm. This episode cuts through...2025-04-2737 min
i am Ekho008: Understanding Trauma in Pathological Love Relationships with Sarah SchewitzIn this conversation, Dr. Sarah Schewitz discusses the concept of Pathological Love Relationships (PLRs), focusing on the characteristics of individuals with Cluster B personality disorders and the impact of these relationships on victims. The discussion delves into the cycle of toxic relationships, the role of childhood trauma, cognitive dissonance, and the traits that often define victims of PLRs. The conversation emphasizes the importance of understanding these dynamics for healing and recovery. Ekho and Sarah delve into the complexities of personality traits and their impact on relationships, particularly in the context of pathological love relationships (PLRs). The discussion highlights how...2025-03-2250 min
Women Winning Divorce: A Lawyer’s Guidance On Navigating An Unhappy Marriage & Protecting Your Financial Assets With Heather B. Quick, Esq.#126 Marriage, Pathological Love Relationships, and Coercive Control: Legal Insights on Divorcing A Narcissist With Sarah SchewitzHave you ever wondered why you keep finding yourself in toxic relationships despite your best efforts to avoid them?Understanding the dynamics of pathological love relationships, including those involving narcissistic partners, is crucial for anyone navigating the complex emotional and psychological aftermath of a breakup or divorce. This episode delves into how these relationships form and persist, offering insights that could change how you approach healing and personal growth.By listening, you'll learn how to identify the traits that make individuals vulnerable to toxic relationships, understand the manipulative cycle of abuse, and discover effective strategies...2024-07-2957 min
Momma Has GoalsBreaking Generational Patterns with Dr. Sarah SchewitzI'm thrilled to welcome Dr. Sarah Schewitz, a powerhouse in relationship dynamics. We dive into how parental relationships shape our children and explore the early influences that carve our personal journeys. Dr. Schewitz busts some common myths in relationship therapy and highlights when to seek support, revealing the vital role self-worth plays in our connections.Communication is a must in every area of life, from the home to the workplace. We discuss handling aggressive feedback professionally and the importance of teaching kids effective communication. Apologies and boundaries can be tricky, but we tackle them head-on, discussing gaslighting...2024-07-1655 min
The Divorce Survival Guide PodcastEpisode 271: Pathological Love Relationships with Dr. Sarah SchewitzDr. Sarah Schewitz returns to the podcast to talk about pathological love relationships. Dr. Schewitz helps us understand what this type of relationship is, how to know if you’re in one, why these types of relationships can be so devastating, and what is necessary to recover and heal. Dr. Sarah Schewitz is a licensed psychologist specializing in love and relationships. She is the founder of the successful online psychology practice, Couples Learn, which was named by Forbes Health as one of the top 3 online marriage counseling services in 2023. She specializes in healing attachment trauma, understanding the imp...2024-06-0648 min
Why does this thing exist? (Podcast)Episode 77: “Christmas Special 2: Christmas Roadshow” (with Liam Schewitz, Dan Thomas, Sarah Breese and Carys Eleri)In this episode, Dean and Simon take to the road to do some Xmas drop-ins on a smattering of the year’s guests. First, they call in on Liam Schewitz to find out about how reviewing a Pork advert from the 80s has had an impact on his life and to get his opinion on some of the meat products that have been covered on the podcast since his last appearance. Then they head off to meet with Dan Thomas and Sarah Breese to taste test some items that Sarah has tracked down and they finish off by calling round at...2023-12-271h 03
Mayim Bialik's BreakdownDr. Sarah Schewitz: How Your Childhood Wounds Are Affecting Your RelationshipsMayim and Jonathan do therapy with Dr. Sarah Schewitz, licensed psychologist specializing in love & relationships! Dr. Schewitz leads a real time Imago workshop with Mayim and Jonathan to illustrate the benefits of Imago dialogue. She helps them get to the root of their podcast disagreements, from interrupting and correcting each other to cracking jokes at inappropriate moments, learning why they react the way they do. Dr. Schewitz also helps us break down healing attachment trauma, the impact of childhood wounds on relationships, and practical ways to transform communication methods. She explains why couples therapy can put an abused partner...2023-04-041h 42
The Jon Dabach ShowSpecial Guest: Sarah SchewitzDr. Sarah Schewitz is a licensed psychologist specializing in love & relationships and founder of the successful online psychology practice, Couples Learn. She has been working with couples and individuals to improve their love lives for over 15 years now and has advanced training in the areas of attachment, conflict management, communication, rebuilding trust after infidelity, and treating attachment trauma. Dr. Sarah and Couples Learn have been featured in outlets such as Forbes, CNN, The Washington Post, Women’s Health, Bravo TV, and more.Interested in working with Jon directly? Find him at https://MrSpirituality.com2023-03-2426 min
REAL-ationship Talk: The Podcast with Teresha Young (Dating and Relationships)Saving a Relationship that is Falling Apart with Dr. Sarah Schewitz | RT020// OUR REAL-ATIONSHIP TALK PODCAST GUEST //
Dr. Sarah Schewitz is a licensed psychologist specializing in love & relationships. She is the founder of the successful online psychology practice, Couples Learn, which was named by Forbes Health as one of the top 3 online marriage counseling services in 2023.
Dr. Sarah has been working with couples and individuals to improve their love lives for over 15 years. She specializes in healing attachment trauma, understanding the impact of childhood wounds on your relationships, helping couples transform their communication, and rebuilding trust after betrayal.
Dr. Sarah and Couples Learn have been...2023-03-1257 min
Emancipate Your Mind Archives - Mormon Discussions Podcasts - Full LineupEmancipate Your Mind: 102: Resolving Values Conflicts With Those We LoveOften, some of the most difficult conflicts of values we’ll face is with the people we love the most. Many of us were taught through codependent patterns and practices that love means always agreeing with one another on the things that matter most.
This kind of thinking is reinforced through scripture that tells us that husband and wife should be “one flesh”- which was often interpreted to mean that you should become like one person. We also hear this kind of ideology when referring to the church community or the “body of Christ”. We are referred t...2023-03-0534 min
Mormon Discussion Podcast: Leading With FaithEmancipate Your Mind: 102: Resolving Values Conflicts with Others
Often, some of the most difficult conflicts of values we’ll face is with the people we love the most. Many of us were taught through codependent patterns and practices that love means always agreeing with one another on the things that matter most.
This kind of thinking is reinforced through scripture that tells us that husband and wife should be “one flesh”- which was often interpreted to mean that you should become like one person. We also hear this kind of ideology when referring to the church community or the “body of Christ”. We are referred t...2023-03-0534 minEmancipate Your Mind – Emancipate Your MindEmancipate Your Mind: 102: Resolving Values Conflicts with Others
Often, some of the most difficult conflicts of values we’ll face is with the people we love the most. Many of us were taught through codependent patterns and practices that love means always agreeing with one another on the things that matter most.
This kind of thinking is reinforced through scripture that tells us that husband and wife should be “one flesh”- which was often interpreted to mean that you should become like one person. We also hear this kind of ideology when referring to the church community or the “body of Christ”. We are referred t...2023-03-0534 minEmancipate Your Mind Archives - Mormon Discussions Podcasts - Full LineupEmancipate Your Mind: 101: Resolving Internal Values Conflicts
Have you ever experienced that feeling of being pulled between two competing values?
It can feel like you’re in the middle of a huge game of tug of war as you wrestle between two values that mean so much to you. No matter what you choose, it feels like you lose something important. Sometimes the fight is so fierce that we feel stuck or paralyzed between the choices- choosing in essence not to make a choice. Sometimes we feel guilty or resentful no matter which we choose.
In this episode, we explore why it ca...2023-02-2647 minEmancipate Your Mind – Emancipate Your MindEmancipate Your Mind: 101: Calming Internal Values Conflicts
Have you ever experienced that feeling of being pulled between two competing values?
It can feel like you’re in the middle of a huge game of tug of war as you wrestle between two values that mean so much to you. No matter what you choose, it feels like you lose something important. Sometimes the fight is so fierce that we feel stuck or paralyzed between the choices- choosing in essence not to make a choice. Sometimes we feel guilty or resentful no matter which we choose.
In this episode, we explore why it ca...2023-02-2647 minMormon Discussion Podcast: Leading With FaithEmancipate Your Mind: 101: Calming Internal Values Conflicts
Have you ever experienced that feeling of being pulled between two competing values?
It can feel like you’re in the middle of a huge game of tug of war as you wrestle between two values that mean so much to you. No matter what you choose, it feels like you lose something important. Sometimes the fight is so fierce that we feel stuck or paralyzed between the choices- choosing in essence not to make a choice. Sometimes we feel guilty or resentful no matter which we choose.
In this episode, we explore why it ca...2023-02-2647 min
Virginia Is For LaughersThe 100th Episode! Highlight Reel of Comedians on the Podcast So Far! {Ep 100}Celebrating our 100th Episode with you! Need a laugh? Love fun? Like stories, games, and discounts? Then join us for this special episode made just for you and grab your promo code for some delicious munchies. Get a behind the scenes peek into the lives and funny minds of this diverse line up of 42 comics. They are some of the local, regional, and national touring comedians seen on our hilarious X2 Comedy shows! From JMU’s New & Improv.’d troupe to LA comic Lachlan Patterson who performed in our first cave comedy shows, tune in to a playful, interesting, informative epis...2023-02-081h 21
Dear LivLiving Out Your Vision & Developing Your Intuition With Spiritual Mentor Briana BortenI’m joined by Briana Borten, a spiritual mentor who guides visionary leaders to become spiritually-rooted stewards of wealth. In our conversation, we cover how to differentiate your ego from your intuition, and chat about the importance of energy attunement in your spiritual journey. We explore generational trauma and different healing modalities, which I covered a little bit with Dr. Sarah Schewitz on last week’s episode. Briana also has a really helpful analogy for explaining how past life memories and regression work, and I share how that’s shown up in my life as well.
IN...2022-12-0638 minDear LivRebuilding Trust After Infidelity, Treating Generational Trauma & Exploring Somatic Healing With Psychologist Dr. Sarah SchewitzInfidelity is often a black-and-white situation, especially in the social media discourse. I’m joined by Dr. Sarah Schewitz, a psychologist specializing in couples therapy, to talk about the gray area and what it’s like to rebuild trust in a relationship after betrayal.
Dr. Sarah breaks down the steps to get back to a place of vulnerability and intimacy, and shares her top strategies for dealing with resentment. We discuss the factors that tend to support a couple’s success after infidelity and advice for anyone who is supporting a loved one through a tumultuous time in thei...2022-11-2950 min
Dear LivHow To Create Healthy Relationships With Dr. Sarah Schewitz, Licensed Clinical Psychologist And Founder Of Couples LearnI’m joined by Dr. Sarah Schewitz, Licensed Clinical Psychologist and founder of Couples Learn, a online therapy company that focuses specifically on couples therapy and attachment wounding. We talk about working through toxic behaviors in a relationship, understanding your attachment style, and her recommendations for couples who are considering starting therapy. Dr. Sarah highlights ways to address your blindspots and get curious about your own behavioral patterns both inside and outside of therapy. We also dig into signs that relationships will fail or succeed and the biggest mistakes that she sees couples make when they go to therapy.
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The Not So Fit Couple PodcastRelationship Therapy - Only Fans, Cheating & When To Walk AwayIn this very special episode of the Not So Fit Couple Podcast we are sitting down in our very own couples therapy with clinical psychologist and relationship therapist extraordinaire Dr. Sarah Schewitz. Sarah is joining us over zoom from her home in LA this afternoon as we sit down to discuss the details of married life, how best to deal with jealousy and hurt feeling in a relationship. When it's best to throw in the towel, whether men and woman have different sex drives, and how the modern world can really F**k with your relationship. Big thanks to...2022-05-261h 15
Women's Health and Beyond with Dr. David GhozlandSigns of a Healthy Relationship with Dr. Sarah SchewitzIn today's podcast, Dr. Ghozland sits down with Sarah Schewitz, a licensed clinical psychologist and founder of "Couples Learn" in Los Angeles. They start their conversation by talking about Dr. Schewitz's background and what drew her to the field of psychology, as well as how her practice operates solely via online sessions. From there she discusses the critical role love and relationships play in our lives, especially during our formative years and their impact on future relationships, going in-depth on various red flags to look out for. They also talk about personality type compatibility, learning the important things about...2020-10-0741 min
Love Intently Podcast with Sophie KwokHow to Heal and Create Conscious Love with Dr. Sarah SchewitzThere are two buzzwords that have been thrown around in the realm of dating and relationships lately that are often misused: narcissism and codependency. How do you know if you are a narcissist or codependent? How do you know if you’re dating one? - Dr. Sarah Schewitz is a licensed clinical psychologist in Los Angeles, and founder of Couples Learn, a successful online therapy practice for individuals and couples wanting to work on love and relationships. She has been working with couples and individuals since 2008 and has advanced training in the areas of attraction, attachment, conflict mana...2020-08-1251 min
Healin PodcastHealing Couples with Imago Therapy with Dr. Sarah SchewitzI had an energetic conversation with Licensed Clinical Psychologist specializing in love and relationships, Dr. Sarah Schewitz where we discussed that we all bring unresolved childhood issues into our relationships without knowing it and how couples can learn through Imago Therapy to communicate better, connect and grow.2020-06-2934 min
Spiritual AssholeEpisode 25: "You Repeat What You Don't Repair"It's the Michael Jordan of Couples Episode! Brendan talks with the incredible, expert couples therapist, Dr. Sarah Schewitz of Couples Learn, about the state of modern relationships. The duo dives deep into the importance of healing trauma from your childhood why it affects your choice of a partner. They also discuss how couples get can unstuck in negative patterns, positive and affirming words and strategies to use to one another, and why Newark, New Jersey is the perfect place for a breakup retreat. Support the show2020-06-2456 min
Mental Health Monthly's PodcastCouples Therapy with Dr. Sarah Schewitz at Couples LearnWelcome to the Mental Health Monthly podcast. I am you host Dr. Dwight Norman Jr. I am a clinical psychologist licensed to practice in the state of California. Once a month I will provide stimulating conversation surrounding mental health diagnosis, treatment, and resources. This weeks interview is with Dr. Sarah Schewitz, PsyD. We talk about how to keep your relationship happy and positive using communication, attachment, and love. Want tip on ways to help manage your romantic relationship? 2020-05-0240 min
Grow and TellEp2. How to Deal with Conflict in Your Relationship.Dr. Sarah Schewitz joins us on Grow and Tell to talk about how to deal with conflict in relationships. Does your partner bring up things from your past when you two are arguing? Are you someone who needs to take a little time away from an argument before returning to it? Are you fighting all the time and unsure if your relationship is working or if it is right? Dr. Schewitz answers all your questions about communicating with a partner when things aren't smooth sailing.
DR. SARAH SCHEWITZ (COUPLES LEARN) WEBSITE: https://coupleslearn.com/
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The Divorce Survival Guide PodcastEpisode 64: Imago Therapy with Dr. Sarah SchewitzIt’s therapy month on the Divorce Survival Guide podcast! ICYMI: I’ve decided to organize podcast episodes into monthly themes, and right now, we’re in the middle of Therapy Month! Joining me to discuss all things Imago Therapy for couples is Dr. Sarah Schewitz. Dr. Sarah Schewitz is a licensed psychologist specializing in love and relationships and is the founder of the successful online psychology practice, Couples Learn. Imago therapy is a specific style of relationship therapy designed to help conflict within relationships become opportunities for healing and growth. My ex-husband and I were in...2020-03-1755 min
Discover A Better You#71 Couples Learn with Guest Expert Sarah SchewitzLicensed Clynical Psychologist Sarah Schewitz gives us her expert insight when it comes to Relationships. She dives into Self Love, Healing, Inner Child Reparenting, and fundamentals of a healthy relationship. She also offers two bonus quizzes if you visit her on Instagram @CouplesLearn! To contact her directly, email her at DrSarah@CouplesLearn.com2020-01-2316 min
Sex Talk with Erika MileyAsk Erika ft. Dr. Sarah SchewitzThis episode is all about the new segment called Ask Erika. Erika is joined by return guest Dr. Sarah Schvitz, who is a love and relationships psychologist. Erika and Dr. Sarah tackle all sorts of common questions that they receive and give you the advice you are looking for. Full show notes here.
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What I Love About Sex#119 Helping you feel safe to love again with Dr. Sarah SchewitzDr. Sarah Schewitz is a licensed psychologist specializing in love & relationships and founder of the online psychology practice, Couples Learn. She has been working with couples and individuals to improve their love lives for over 10 years now and has completed advance trainings in both Imago Couples Therapy and Gottman Method Couples Therapy. Dr. Sarah’s private practice is relatively unique in that she is one of the only doctoral level couples therapists who’s practice is 100% online. Sarah is regularly featured in articles for outlets such as Readers Digest, CareerBuilder, Playboy, Refinery29, Bustle, ConnectWithLife, AskMen, Self, and more.Sara...2019-10-1928 min
A Brave New Man9 | Dr. Sarah Schewitz – The Four Horsemen of the Relationship ApocalypseAre you communicating in the best possible ways in your romantic relationship? Relationships have the potential to make us happy, but they also have the power to bring out the worst in us. One reason is that we might still be trying to heal our childhood wounds through our relationship, but it might also be because we simply don’t know how to communicate. In this episode we explore how to assess for communication pitfalls in our romantic relationships, as well as how to heal those divides in order to get back to our most loving essence. Our interview wi...2019-05-1300 min
Stronger in the Difficult PlacesGetting Through Hard Times in a Relationship - When the Going Gets Tough ... Sex | Dr. Sarah SchewitzDr. Sarah Schewitz is a Licensed Psychologist and a couple’s specialist who is making her second appearance on the show. When Dr. Schewitz was originally on the podcast, we talked about how your childhood impacts your relationships. Today, we’re talking all about the role sex plays when you’re going through a difficult time in your marriage. Specifically, Dr. Schewitz explains why a lack of sex is typically one of the first indications your marriage is going through a rough patch, why you should try to have sex with your partner even if you’re...2018-05-1538 min
Stronger in the Difficult PlacesHow Your Childhood Affects Your Relationships | Dr. Sarah SchewitzDr. Sarah Schewitz and I discuss how your childhood affects your current relationship- why you chose your spouse to begin with and how the lense of your childhood affects how you interact with your partner and most importantly, what you can do about it. To learn more about Dr. Sarah Schewitz and the resources mentioned in this episode, visit https://drzoeshaw.com/18 Don't forget! Text the word “join” to 38470 to get on my newsletter for monthly inspiration, tips, and encouragement for sometimes struggling superwomen. 2017-12-2852 min