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Crossover EventTurd de Farce - The Best Bad MoviesYou take the good, and you take the bad, and there you have some movies that most people agree are pretty bad. But we love them all the same! Check out our list of the best bad movies! Martin Thomas: DoubleToasted.com @martin_nofro Harris O'Malley DrNerdLove.com @drnerdlove Chris Cox: OneOfUs.net @chriscoxcritic2022-08-2236 minCrossover EventSuperheroes That Bring The HilaritySuper hero movies and comics aren't always doom and gloom. Some super heroes are hilarious and just downright funny. Today on Crossover Event, we take a look at some of our favorite comedic super heroes. Get ready for a wild episode. It goes off the rails a few times. Watch the full episode on YouTube. Danni Danger: ScreenFanatic.com @DanniDanger Martin Thomas: DoubleToasted.com @martin_nofro Harris O'Malley DrNerdLove.com @drnerdlove2022-08-2025 minCrossover EventOur Favorite Anything Animated!Animation is such a broad topic that EVERYONE has a favorite piece of animated media. With such a wide array of animation to choose from how will we ever decide our favorites! Watch the full episode on YouTube. Martin Thomas: DoubleToasted.com @martin_nofro Harris O'Malley DrNerdLove.com @drnerdlove Chris Cox: OneOfUs.net @chriscoxcritic2022-08-1728 minCrossover EventPicking The Greatest Detectives Is Not So ElementaryIt might not be true crime, but these detectives are the greatest in their fields. Get the first aid kit for this episode, there are some deep cuts here. Watch the full episode on YouTube. Martin Thomas: DoubleToasted.com @martin_nofro Harris O'Malley DrNerdLove.com @drnerdlove Danni Danger: ScreenFanatic.com @DanniDanger2022-08-1522 minCrossover EventThe Legends That Made UsEveryone is talking about The Northman, us included! Which got us thinking, what are our favorite myths and legends that helped influence ourselves, but also the media we enjoy? Come find out! Watch the full episode on YouTube. Chris Cox: OneOfUs.net @chriscoxcritic Harris O'Malley DrNerdLove.com @drnerdlove Danni Danger: BellOfLostSouls.net @DanniDanger2022-08-0927 minCrossover EventThe Strange Influences of Stranger ThingsStranger Things has has a lot of influences and has since influenced even more things! So, today we discuss those influences. Where Stranger Things came from and what has come from it. Watch the full episode on YouTube Martin Thomas: DoubleToasted.com @martin_nofro Harris O'Malley DrNerdLove.com @drnerdlove Chris Cox: OneOfUs.net @chriscoxcritic2022-08-0830 minCrossover EventOur Comic Book Origin StoriesThis week, the Crossover Crew discusses what first got each of them into comics. Cartoons, questionable posters, and traumatizing spiders each played a role in getting the gang to where they are today. Ms Marvel Will Kick Off Misfit Teen Summer || Trailer Reaction & Discussion: https://youtu.be/q2eWMQInvkc Martin Thomas: DoubleToasted.com @martin_nofro Danni Danger: ScreenFanatic.com @DanniDanger Harris O'Malley DrNerdLove.com @drnerdlove2022-08-0638 minCrossover EventSo Many Trailers, So Little Time... and Space With the arrival of the Suburb Owl, we have tons of new trailers to check out! Join us on this journey through some of our favorite universes and glimpse into what the future holds! Watch the full episode on YouTube. Chris Cox: OneOfUs.net @chriscoxcritic Harris O'Malley @drnerdlove drnerdlove.com youtube.com/user/drnerdlove Danni Danger: BellOfLostSouls.net @DanniDanger2022-08-0224 minCrossover EventPaul Thomas Anderson Defends The MCUThe Crossover Gang is split this week with a new guest. This week Martin is joined by friend of the show, Harris O'Malley. Together they review a couple of new trailers, before getting into some news about The Kingsman 3, but maybe not the one you're thinking of. Then, getting into the latest of movie directors giving their thoughts on the MCU, but with a surprisingly upbeat twist. Then wrapping up with discussion about the Marvel What If...? series spinoff, staring Captain Carter. Martin Thomas: @martin_nofro doubletoasted.com loosecanoncomics.com Harris O'Malley2022-07-3118 min
Paging Dr. NerdLoveStop Being Afraid of RejectionRejection hurts... but the fear of rejection can often hurt even worse. In fact, when we give into the fear of rejection, we often set up a pattern that can affect us throughout our lives. Rejections we've experienced in the past can end up affecting us NOW. When we give into the fear of rejection, we can end up reliving that fear, long after it's happened... feeling the pain as though it's happening to us again, right now. When that happens, it becomes a way that we almost give up our free will; life becomes a series of steps t...2020-09-0923 min
Paging Dr. NerdLoveHow Do You Know She's Right For You?What makes one relationship last, while another falls apart? Why do you seem to have found your dream relationship, only to have it turn into a nightmare? Your partner may seem perfect, but it takes more than shallow commonalities to make a relationship work. Just because things are amazing in the beginning doesn't mean that everything is going to work out on it's own. If you've ever wondered whether she's "the one", or you want to know if your relationship has what it takes to go the distance, then you need to answer these questions. S...2020-08-2723 min
Paging Dr. NerdLoveWhat Avatar: The Last Airbender Can Teach Us About Finding RedemptionIt's very easy to feel like you’re forever going to be defined by your worst decisions or your biggest mistakes. But while you can't change your past, you can change your future. By examining one of the best redemption arcs in modern media, we can learn how Prince Zuko overcame trauma and earned his redemption... and find how we can learn to find our own in the process. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS: How our response to trauma can shape our lives... and why it can transform us into different people Why a desire for acceptance can turn peo...2020-08-1326 min
Paging Dr. NerdLoveHow To Talk to Anyone (At Any Time)One reason why a lot of guys have a hard time meeting women is because they’ve put ALL of their focus on ONLY talking to women, and even then, only women that they’re attracted to. The truth is that the most popular and socially successful men — the ones who do the best with women — tend to be the ones who talk to everyone. Part of the secret to their success is that they know how to connect with people and build relationships that lead to the results they’re looking for, whether it’s networking, making new fr...2020-07-2316 min
Paging Dr. NerdLoveThe Problem With "Nice Guys"Women often say that they want a nice guy, so why do so many of them think that nice guys are THE WORST? The trouble is that Nice Guy's behavior works against them; what they see as positive and respectful is actually pushing people away. Here's why being a Nice Guy drives women away... and why it can be so hard to STOP being a Nice Guy. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS: What "Nice Guy" behavior says about them Why "treating her like a queen" is actually unattractive How Nice Guys ruin their relationships The #1 m...2020-06-1816 min
Men, Sex & Pleasure with Cam Fraser#9 The New Dating Rules For Men (with Harris O'Malley)In this episode I chat with Harris O’Malley, a dating coach who provides geek dating advice at Paging Dr. NerdLove, as well as on Kotaku and elsewhere. He and his work has been featured on Nightline, Vice, The Guardian, New York Magazine, The Huffington Post, Wired, Sex Nerd Sandra, Daily Life, Slate, The Austin-American Statesman, Austin Monthly, Geek and Sundry, Boing Boing, Everyday Feminism, Buzzfeed, The BBC, The New Yorker, The New York Post, The Daily Dot, The Washington Post, Kotaku, Lifehacker, NeilStrauss.com, The Good Man Project, MTV’s Guy Code, The Harvard Business Journal, and many othe...2020-06-181h 05
Paging Dr. NerdLoveUse This Mindset To Overcome Your Self-Limiting BeliefsOver the course of my career, I’ve dealt with a lot of people who haven’t had much dating experience — from people who’ve only had one or two girlfriends in their lives to literal 40 year old virgins. They all had in one thing common: they had the same fears, beliefs and anxieties regarding dating and women that made them give up. Here's how to break through your dating fears, conquer your anxiety and overcome your self-limiting beliefs. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS: How we project our anxieties onto other people How self-limiting beliefs hold us...2020-06-0418 min
Paging Dr. NerdLoveAsk Dr. NerdLove Anything!This week, we have a special bonus episode: a live episode where my patrons got to ask me anything — from dating advice to moving to Austin to what shows I've been binging during the lockdown. Plus guest appearances from Mr. Senior Kitty! If you want to take part in the next AMA, be sure to support the podcast by becoming a Dr. NerdLove patron! SIGN UP FOR THE DATING ACCELERATOR PROGRAM Don’t forget to subscribe and review us on iTunes , Stitcher and on YouTube. Like the podcast? Become a Dr. NerdLove p...2020-05-281h 24
Paging Dr. NerdLoveThe Art of Sexting Like A GentlemanSexting and knowing how to flirt over text is a skill that’s invaluable whether you have a friends-with-benefits relationship, a long-distance relationship, or if you and your partner are looking to keep things exciting. In fact, knowing how to start sexting with someone the right way may be one of the most invaluable skills you can develop for keeping the spark in your relationship. But you have to know how to get things started the right way. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS: How to lay the groundwork to start sexting with your partner Why th...2020-05-2117 min
Paging Dr. NerdLove5 Things You Need To Get Your Life TogetherHow happy are you with your life right now? If you're like most people, you probably have a list of major changes you’ve wanted to make. You may even have looked at the current pandemic as your chance to work on yourself and get your life where you want it to be. Now tell me, how far HAVE you gotten on that list? The odds are not very far. You probably attacked it like a man possessed… only to find your motivation and desire drained away. Now you’re basically back where you started, just more frustr...2020-05-0721 min
Paging Dr. NerdLoveHow To Get Your Ex Back... The RIGHT WayLast time, we talked about the recent trend of folks reaching out to their exes, why it’s happening so frequently and why it can be comforting to try to rekindle an old relationship. But it's far too easy to fall back to old patterns and old routines with your ex, which means you're going to make the same old mistakes that lead to new pain. Today, I'm going to teach you the RIGHT way to get your ex back. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS: Why the most popular ways to get your ex back DO...2020-04-2914 min
Paging Dr. NerdLoveShould You Get Back Together With Your Ex?With the stress and the chaos of the COVID-19 pandemic, more and more people are reaching out to their exes for comfort, for connection and something more. But is it ever a good idea to get back with your ex? If you're thinking of trying to get your ex back — or reaching out to them again — then you need to be able to answer these 5 questions first. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS: Why we look to our past relationships when times are hard When an old relationship is better left in the past... and when it's worth tryi...2020-04-2318 min
Paging Dr. NerdLoveHow To Help Your Relationship Survive the COVID-19 QuarantineSelf-isolation can be a trial for even the happiest lovers. Couples under quarantine are starting to feel the strain on their relationship. Relationships are rarely tested the way that they’re being tested now, and many people are discovering their relationship isn't as happy or as strong as they they thought. In some parts of the world, divorce rates are starting to skyrocket as soon as quarantine orders have been lifted. Don't let that happen to YOUR relationship. In this free workshop, I'll teach you what it takes to keep your relationship happy, healthy, safe and strong, so...2020-04-151h 07
Paging Dr. NerdLoveLove, Sex and Dating During QuarantineThe COVID-19 pandemic doesn't mean that your love life has to be put on hold. In fact, relationships are more important than ever. People are still meeting, dating and even falling in love during social distancing. The coronavirus pandemic has forced us to think about dating in new and different ways. In this replay of the live workshop, Dr. NerdLove will talk about how dating has changed, how we can change with it and how the current crisis has the potential to make us more desirable dates, better lovers and incredible partners. SIGN...2020-04-081h 09
Paging Dr. NerdLoveHow To Have An Amazing Social Life During COVID-19Loneliness is one of the unspoken side-effects of sheltering in place. And yet, we need our social connections more than ever. How can you build and maintain a social life when social distancing is the rule? In my latest live, free seminar, I talk about how to build and maintain those important social connections, meet new people and strengthen the friendships you already have. Want to take part? The next seminar is on 4/7 at 3 PM CST. Join me at facebook.com/DrNerdLove and join NerdLove Academy at facebook.com/groups/DrNerdLove DOCTOR'S NOTE...2020-04-0151 min
Paging Dr. NerdLoveHow To Have An Amazing Social Life During COVID-19Loneliness is one of the unspoken side-effects of sheltering in place. And yet, we need our social connections more than ever. How can you build and maintain a social life when social distancing is the rule? In my latest live, free seminar, I talk about how to build and maintain those important social connections, meet new people and strengthen the friendships you already have. Want to take part? The next seminar is on 4/7 at 3 PM CST. Join me at facebook.com/DrNerdLove and join NerdLove Academy at facebook.com/groups/DrNerdLove DOCTOR'S NOTE...2020-04-0151 min
Paging Dr. NerdLoveHow To Make A Long Distance Relationship WorkI’m answering your most important dating questions! If you have a question about love, sex or dating, then be sure to leave a comment. Maybe the next question I answer will be yours! This week: he and his girlfriend have been stuck in a long-distance relationship because of the COVID-19 pandemic. How can they keep their relationship alive while they're apart? Book a private coaching session with Dr. NerdLove Virtual Museum Tours Virtual National Park Tours Free Metropolitan Opera Live Streams 15 Broadway Musicals and Plays You Ca...2020-03-1816 min
Paging Dr. NerdLoveThe 5 Things You Need To Get Over A BreakupThe reason why you have such a hard time getting over your ex is because most folks have the wrong idea about breakups. The pain of a break-up is equal parts mental and physical. When you’re struggling with how to get over your breakup, you’re almost never handling BOTH halves of the equation. Getting over your ex quickly and successfully requires that you address both sides of the breakup. So today I want to give you the 5 things you MUST do in order to get over your breakup and move forward. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:...2020-03-1119 min
Paging Dr. NerdLoveYou Are Your Own Worst EnemyThe reason why so many people struggle with dating isn't because of their looks, their height, their genes or their hairline. It's because they are caught in a cycle of bad habits and practices that destroy your confidence and sabotages your ability to improve. Here's how you can break out of this negative cycle and build the habits that will improve your willpower, your self-esteem and help you find the dating success you deserve. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS: How self-limiting beliefs cause you to fail before you've even begun Why negativity is so powerful and seductive...2020-02-2622 min
Paging Dr. NerdLoveAsk Dr. NerdLove: How Do You Handle Being "Just Friends"? I’m answering your most important dating questions! If you have a question about love, sex or dating, then be sure to leave a comment. Maybe the next question I answer will be yours! This week: Everyone's heard the "let's just be friends" speech from someone they've been attracted to. But how do you make a friendship work with someone you're attracted to? How do you keep sex from getting in the way of your friendship? Book a private coaching session with Dr. NerdLove The Secret to Being "Just Friends" Why "Men...2020-02-1916 min
Paging Dr. NerdLoveWhat Do Women Find Sexy In Men?Do you know what women find sexy in a man? Not attractive, not aesthetically pleasing but what makes a woman want to peel a man’s clothing off with her teeth. A lot of guys… don’t. In fact, a lot of guys have the absolute WRONG ideas about what turns women on. If you want to be sexier than other guys, then you should know what draws a woman to a guy... and why she says YES to sleeping with one guy and no to the rest. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS: What men DON'T...2020-02-1220 min
Paging Dr. NerdLoveHow Can You Learn To Love Being Single?I’m answering your most important dating questions! If you have a question about love, sex or dating, then be sure to leave a comment. Maybe the next question I answer will be yours! This week: Valentine's Day is coming, and it's stressing people out. How can you learn to be happy when you’re single, especially when it seems like the universe is determined to remind you that everyone else is coupled up and you’re not? Book A Private Coaching Session With Dr. NerdLove The Secret to Being Successful With Women2020-02-0518 min
Paging Dr. NerdLoveThe Secret To Being Successful With WomenHere's something nobody will tell you about being successful with women: nobody is "naturally" good with women. Nobody is born with an instinctual ability to get dates. Everyone — people who seem to be naturally gifted and people who learned later in life — all developed their skills the same way. That's why all the people who are successful with women have the same things in common. If you want to learn how to have the love life you deserve, then you want to master the four key components to developing the skill to meet, connect with and date amaz...2020-01-2918 min
Paging Dr. NerdLoveHow Do You Keep The Spark In Your Relationship?I'm answering your most important dating questions! If you have a question about love, sex or dating, then be sure to leave a comment. Maybe the next question I answer will be yours! This week: How do you keep your relationship from fading into boredom? What's the secret to keeping the spark making your long-term relationship feel as fresh and hot and alive as when you first met? Book A Private Coaching Session With Dr. NerdLove Transcript available at doctornerdlove.com Don’t forget to subscribe and review us on i...2020-01-2213 min
Paging Dr. NerdLoveHow To Flirt With Women on Social MediaWe live more and more of our lives online, and that means that more of our relationships start there too. But most guys don't know how to flirt effectively on Facebook, Instagram or Snapchat. If you want to be the guy that women like to talk to and enjoy hearing from, not just another thirsty dude trying to slide into her DMs, then you want to follow these rules for flirting with women on social media. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS: The three deadly sins of flirting on social media How to get women to want to respond to...2020-01-1520 min
Paging Dr. NerdLoveHow To Take The Perfect Tinder PhotoI’m answering your most important dating questions! If you have a question about love, sex or dating, then be sure to leave a comment. Maybe the next question I answer will be yours! This week: What are the best pictures for dating apps like Tinder, Hinge, Bumble and OKCupid? And how can guys look more photogenic and get more matches? Book A Private Coaching Session With Dr. NerdLove Transcript available at doctornerdlove.com Don’t forget to subscribe and review us on iTunes , Stitcher and on YouTube. Like the podca...2020-01-0812 min
Paging Dr. NerdLoveHow To Find the PERFECT GirlfriendHow do you find someone who's the RIGHT girlfriend for you... and how do you make sure that YOU are the guy that SHE'S looking for? We're going to talk about what you can do to turn 2020 into the year you meet someone who is your perfect match, and how to be the exact right man for her as well. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS: Why online dating is the WRONG approach for trying to find the perfect girlfriend How men sabotage their own success when they go out to meet women Why even successful, socially skilled men meet...2020-01-0118 min
Paging Dr. NerdLove3 Tips For Flirting Like A MasterDR. NERDLOVE MERCHANDISE: https://nerdloveacademy.com/shop/ One of the biggest reasons why people have a hard time flirting successfully is that they don’t understand how flirting is supposed to work. But when you understand the overall philosophy of flirting, you’re in a much better position to fine tune your flirting style to one that works for you and lets you adapt to whomever you’re trying to flirt with. These three unusual tips will teach you how to flirt like a master. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS: What guys get wrong about how to...2019-12-1820 min
Paging Dr. NerdLoveASK DR. NERDLOVE: How Do You Meet More Women? I'm answering your most important dating questions! If you have a question about love, sex or dating, then be sure to leave a comment. Maybe the next question I answer will be yours! This week: How can you meet more women when you live in a small town? And how do you stop having a fear of missing out on the "perfect" relationship? Book a Private Coaching Session With Dr. NerdLove Transcript available at doctornerdlove.com Don’t forget to subscribe and review us on iTunes , Stitcher and on YouTube. Like the podcast? Become a...2019-12-1113 min
Paging Dr. NerdLoveHow To Get Over Your Fear of RejectionWhat would you do if you weren't afraid of being rejected? How would your life change if you could approach people you were attracted to without the fear of rejection? Eliminating your fear of rejection could create a profound transformation in your life. You can do this. You can learn to be absolutely fearless when it comes to meeting new people. It’s just a matter of making a very simple change in your life. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS: Why a fear of rejection is about a fear of loss How a sc...2019-12-0420 min
Paging Dr. NerdLoveAsk Dr. NerdLove: Should You Tell Your Date That You're A Virgin?I'm answering your most important dating questions! If you have a question about love, sex or dating, then be sure to leave a comment. Maybe the next question I answer will be yours! This week: Should you tell women that you're a virgin, or is it better to keep it a secret. And is dating your co-worker a good idea? The Virgin's Guide to Great Sex Book a Private Coaching Session With Dr. NerdLove Transcript available at patreon.com/DrNerdLove Don’t forget to subscribe and review us on iTun...2019-11-2713 min
Paging Dr. NerdLoveAsk Dr. NerdLove: Should You Tell Your Date That You're A Virgin?I'm answering your most important dating questions! If you have a question about love, sex or dating, then be sure to leave a comment. Maybe the next question I answer will be yours! This week: Should you tell women that you're a virgin, or is it better to keep it a secret. And is dating your co-worker a good idea? The Virgin's Guide to Great Sex Book a Private Coaching Session With Dr. NerdLove Transcript available at patreon.com/DrNerdLove Don’t forget to subscribe and review us on iTun...2019-11-2713 min
Paging Dr. NerdLoveWhy Women Won't Text You Back (And What You Should Do)Why did she stop replying to your texts? Why won't she text you back? Is time to panic? When when stop responding to your texts, it can feel like she doesn't like you any more. But that's not always the case. If your text conversations are drying up before you can get her out on a date, then you may be having one of these common issues. Here's why women won’t text you back… and what you can do about it. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS: Why most reason why women won't text a guy b...2019-11-2017 min
Paging Dr. NerdLoveWhy Women Won't Text You Back (And What You Should Do)Why did she stop replying to your texts? Why won't she text you back? Is time to panic? When when stop responding to your texts, it can feel like she doesn't like you any more. But that's not always the case. If your text conversations are drying up before you can get her out on a date, then you may be having one of these common issues. Here's why women won’t text you back… and what you can do about it. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS: Why most reason why women won't text a guy b...2019-11-2017 min
Paging Dr. NerdLoveAsk Dr. NerdLove: What Do You Do If She Gives You A Fake Number?I'm answering your most important dating questions! If you have a question about love, sex or dating, then be sure to leave a comment. Maybe next week the question I'll answer will be yours! This week: Why do so many women have empty online dating profiles? And what do you do when a woman's given you a fake number? Transcript available at patreon.com/DrNerdLove Don’t forget to subscribe and review us on iTunes , Stitcher and on YouTube. Like the podcast? Become a Dr. NerdLove patron at Patreon.com/DrNerdLove Get...2019-11-1308 min
Paging Dr. NerdLoveAsk Dr. NerdLove: What Do You Do If She Gives You A Fake Number?I'm answering your most important dating questions! If you have a question about love, sex or dating, then be sure to leave a comment. Maybe next week the question I'll answer will be yours! This week: Why do so many women have empty online dating profiles? And what do you do when a woman's given you a fake number? Transcript available at patreon.com/DrNerdLove Don’t forget to subscribe and review us on iTunes , Stitcher and on YouTube. Like the podcast? Become a Dr. NerdLove patron at Patreon.com/DrNerdLove Get...2019-11-1308 min
Paging Dr. NerdLoveWhy Online Dating SUCKS (and 5 Ways To Make It Better)Online dating sucks. Doesn't matter if it's Tinder, Bumble, OKCupid or Christian Mingle. Men get next to no matches, women get flooded with awful messages, bots, trolls and zombie profiles run rampant on most apps... it's like trying to find a diamond in a pit of sewage. Most dating apps seem designed to be frustrating to ANYONE who wants to date someone of the opposite sex. But it doesn't have to bet that bad. Here's why online dating is so awful... and 5 ways you can make it better. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS: What science...2019-11-0619 min
Paging Dr. NerdLoveWhy Online Dating SUCKS (and 5 Ways To Make It Better)Online dating sucks. Doesn't matter if it's Tinder, Bumble, OKCupid or Christian Mingle. Men get next to no matches, women get flooded with awful messages, bots, trolls and zombie profiles run rampant on most apps... it's like trying to find a diamond in a pit of sewage. Most dating apps seem designed to be frustrating to ANYONE who wants to date someone of the opposite sex. But it doesn't have to bet that bad. Here's why online dating is so awful... and 5 ways you can make it better. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS: What science...2019-11-0619 min
Paging Dr. NerdLoveAre You Trapped In An Abusive Relationship?Toxic relationships can be hard to recognize. Are you being stubborn and selfish? Or is something actually wrong? Toxic people don't look like cartoon abusers, gloating about how great it is to manipulate folks. Learning how to recognize the signs of a toxic relationship — and how to avoid them in the first place — will strengthen your relationships, improve your confidence and make you 100% happier. Learn to recognize these signs and how to drive toxic people out of your life. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS: Why toxic relationships are so hard to recognize How toxic people trade on myth...2019-10-2317 min
Paging Dr. NerdLoveAre You Trapped In An Abusive Relationship?Toxic relationships can be hard to recognize. Are you being stubborn and selfish? Or is something actually wrong? Toxic people don't look like cartoon abusers, gloating about how great it is to manipulate folks. Learning how to recognize the signs of a toxic relationship — and how to avoid them in the first place — will strengthen your relationships, improve your confidence and make you 100% happier. Learn to recognize these signs and how to drive toxic people out of your life. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS: Why toxic relationships are so hard to recognize How toxic people trade on myth...2019-10-2317 min
Paging Dr. NerdLoveWhy Women Don't Like Nice GuysWhy do women say they want to find a nice guy, but never seem to want to date them? The answer is that what women are not saying is actually more important. Whenever a woman says “I wish I could find a nice guy”, there’s the unspoken modifier: “I wish i could find a nice guy… who actually excites me." Here's how men can stop being so "nice", and start being amazing. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS: What women REALLY mean when they talk about finding a nice guy Why women aren't attracted to "nice" guys...2019-10-1020 min
Paging Dr. NerdLoveWhy Women Don't Like Nice GuysWhy do women say they want to find a nice guy, but never seem to want to date them? The answer is that what women are not saying is actually more important. Whenever a woman says “I wish I could find a nice guy”, there’s the unspoken modifier: “I wish i could find a nice guy… who actually excites me." Here's how men can stop being so "nice", and start being amazing. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS: What women REALLY mean when they talk about finding a nice guy Why women aren't attracted to "nice" guys...2019-10-1020 min
Paging Dr. NerdLove5 Things Men Do That Women HATEAre you ruining your chances of meeting incredible women before you even start? Women HATE it when the guys they meet do these 5 things. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS: How guys turn women off before they even say a word Why trying to impress women you're attracted to is the wrong move How to demonstrate REAL value and status when you're flirting Why you don't want to have TOO much in common How men manage to turn a win into a loss with this ONE mistake ...and so much more. RELATED LINKS: 5 Signs Women...2019-09-2516 min
Paging Dr. NerdLove5 Things Men Do That Women HATEAre you ruining your chances of meeting incredible women before you even start? Women HATE it when the guys they meet do these 5 things. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS: How guys turn women off before they even say a word Why trying to impress women you're attracted to is the wrong move How to demonstrate REAL value and status when you're flirting Why you don't want to have TOO much in common How men manage to turn a win into a loss with this ONE mistake ...and so much more. RELATED LINKS: 5 Signs Women...2019-09-2516 min
Paging Dr. NerdLoveConquer Your Social Anxiety and Develop Bullet-Proof Social ConfidenceConfidence isn’t about being 100% sure of your inevitable success, it’s simply feeling that you know how to handle the situation.
Taking away the fear of social awkwardness helps build bullet-proof social confidence. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS: Why your attitude is the key to your social success How you accidently cripple your in-person social skills Why MeetUps, mixers and networking is better for developing your social skills than cold approaches at bars How to block out social anxiety by avoiding the Spotlight Effect How to make it easier for other people to approach YOU ... and so much mo...2019-09-1219 min
Paging Dr. NerdLoveConquer Your Social Anxiety and Develop Bullet-Proof Social ConfidenceConfidence isn’t about being 100% sure of your inevitable success, it’s simply feeling that you know how to handle the situation.
Taking away the fear of social awkwardness helps build bullet-proof social confidence. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS: Why your attitude is the key to your social success How you accidently cripple your in-person social skills Why MeetUps, mixers and networking is better for developing your social skills than cold approaches at bars How to block out social anxiety by avoiding the Spotlight Effect How to make it easier for other people to approach YOU ... and so much mo...2019-09-1219 min
Paging Dr. NerdLoveThe 5 Things That Make You Irresistible To WomenWhat does it take to be someone that women want to date? It's not about looks, status or money. It's about understanding the secret behind why we fall in love and with whom. Show Highlights: Why guys focus on surface issues... and miss the most important parts of attraction Why women will reject you BEFORE getting to know the real you How guys turn off women long before they ever start talking to her Why you keep meeting the WRONG women What makes a woman decide INSTANTLY whether she will EVER sleep with somebody ...and so...2019-08-2821 min
Paging Dr. NerdLoveThe 5 Things That Make You Irresistible To WomenWhat does it take to be someone that women want to date? It's not about looks, status or money. It's about understanding the secret behind why we fall in love and with whom. Show Highlights: Why guys focus on surface issues... and miss the most important parts of attraction Why women will reject you BEFORE getting to know the real you How guys turn off women long before they ever start talking to her Why you keep meeting the WRONG women What makes a woman decide INSTANTLY whether she will EVER sleep with somebody ...and so...2019-08-2821 min
Paging Dr. NerdLoveWhat REALLY Makes Men Attractive?Does personality matter, or are looks the only thing that's important? Why do guys have a hard time understanding what makes a man attractive to women? SHOW HIGHLIGHTS: How much your physique ACTUALLY matters to women Why "attraction triggers" and evolutionary psychology give men all the wrong answers How we let self-limiting beliefs sabotage our dating success Why attraction is about more than biology How we confuse power fantasies for sexual ones ... and so much more. RELATED LINKS: The Myth of What Women Want What Matters More, Looks Or P...2019-08-1417 min
Paging Dr. NerdLoveWhat REALLY Makes Men Attractive?Does personality matter, or are looks the only thing that's important? Why do guys have a hard time understanding what makes a man attractive to women? SHOW HIGHLIGHTS: How much your physique ACTUALLY matters to women Why "attraction triggers" and evolutionary psychology give men all the wrong answers How we let self-limiting beliefs sabotage our dating success Why attraction is about more than biology How we confuse power fantasies for sexual ones ... and so much more. RELATED LINKS: The Myth of What Women Want What Matters More, Looks Or P...2019-08-1417 min
Paging Dr. NerdLoveWhat Does A Real Man Look LIke?Men feel immense pressure to look a particular way and they're breaking themselves, physically and psychically to try to get to reach those ideals.
As bodies are marketed to us as products and men are sold self-loathing, we have to ask: what does a REAL man look like? SHOW HIGHLIGHTS: How male celebrities are getting the body-shaming treatment from the media Why the idea of what makes a "real" man is always in flux How the "perfect" body has changed over time What men get wrong about trying to achieve the perfect body Why the...2019-08-0120 min
Paging Dr. NerdLoveWhat Does A Real Man Look LIke?Men feel immense pressure to look a particular way and they're breaking themselves, physically and psychically to try to get to reach those ideals.
As bodies are marketed to us as products and men are sold self-loathing, we have to ask: what does a REAL man look like? SHOW HIGHLIGHTS: How male celebrities are getting the body-shaming treatment from the media Why the idea of what makes a "real" man is always in flux How the "perfect" body has changed over time What men get wrong about trying to achieve the perfect body Why the...2019-08-0120 min
Paging Dr. NerdLoveDating Tips for Short MenWhen Chris Morgan had a meltdown at the Bagel Boss in Long Island, he was tapping into real frustrations short men have in dating. Here's how short guys can learn to get the girl. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS: How the body shaming of Jason Momoa and the Bagel Boss meltdown are symptoms of the same problem Why your height isn't the deal breaker you think it is What Tom Cruise, Robert Downey Jr., Donald Glover and Bruno Mars have in common Why women like tall men How to seem taller than you really are ...and so much...2019-07-1819 min
Paging Dr. NerdLoveDating Tips for Short MenWhen Chris Morgan had a meltdown at the Bagel Boss in Long Island, he was tapping into real frustrations short men have in dating. Here's how short guys can learn to get the girl. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS: How the body shaming of Jason Momoa and the Bagel Boss meltdown are symptoms of the same problem Why your height isn't the deal breaker you think it is What Tom Cruise, Robert Downey Jr., Donald Glover and Bruno Mars have in common Why women like tall men How to seem taller than you really are ...and so much...2019-07-1819 min
Paging Dr. NerdLoveHow To Be Instantly Magnetic to WomenCharisma and personal magnetism aren't about being the handsomest or most impressive person in the room. It's about knowing how to connect with people in ways that other folks can't. Understand how to build the right connections with people and amazing women won't be able to stop thinking about you... instead of someone else. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS: What the story of one man's failure teaches us about personal magnetism and charisma Why your presentation matters more than your looks How your body language affects your connection with others Why intensity and authenticity is so important What most...2019-07-0420 min
Paging Dr. NerdLoveHow To Be Instantly Magnetic to WomenCharisma and personal magnetism aren't about being the handsomest or most impressive person in the room. It's about knowing how to connect with people in ways that other folks can't. Understand how to build the right connections with people and amazing women won't be able to stop thinking about you... instead of someone else. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS: What the story of one man's failure teaches us about personal magnetism and charisma Why your presentation matters more than your looks How your body language affects your connection with others Why intensity and authenticity is so important What most...2019-07-0420 min
Paging Dr. NerdLoveLearning the (Love) Lessons of End of EvangelionNow that Neon Genesis Evangelion is available on Netflix, what can we learn about love, life and loneliness from Shinji Ikari? SHOW HIGHLIGHTS: Why so many fans relate to Shinji Ikari How the End of Evangelion and "The Beast That Shouted AI at the Heart of the World" represent two paths for Shinji... and us Why our fear keeps us from making the relationships we most need How loneliness can turn to anger and violence Why we're (not) alone ... and so much more RELATED LINKS: Pacific Rim and Lessons i...2019-06-2824 min
Paging Dr. NerdLoveThis is Why Your Life Isn't Getting Better... And How To Fix It.Incels are spending tens of thousands of dollars on plastic surgery to become Chads and they're still miserable. Here's why your life isn't getting better... and how to fix it. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS: Why there are no external solutions to an internal problem How a micro-revolution can give you back control over your life Why you're stuck in your comfort zone... and how to escape it Why it's important to embrace The Pain Period How to change the world around you to fix YOUR future ... and so much more. RELATED LINKS: Unlearning...2019-06-2018 min
Paging Dr. NerdLoveThis is Why Your Life Isn't Getting Better... And How To Fix It.Incels are spending tens of thousands of dollars on plastic surgery to become Chads and they're still miserable. Here's why your life isn't getting better... and how to fix it. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS: Why there are no external solutions to an internal problem How a micro-revolution can give you back control over your life Why you're stuck in your comfort zone... and how to escape it Why it's important to embrace The Pain Period How to change the world around you to fix YOUR future ... and so much more. RELATED LINKS: Unlearning...2019-06-2018 min
Paging Dr. NerdLoveThe Secret to Successful FlirtingFlirting with amazing women is far less complicated or difficult than people think it is. Here's the secret. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS: Why we rarely recognize flirting when we see it The key to finding your flirting style What makes the difference between conversation and flirting How to make women become addicted to you An underused secret technique for successful flirting ...and so much more RELATED LINKS: How To Use Humor In Your Flirting The Subtle Things That Make Men More Attractive The Most Attractive Aspect of a Man...2019-06-0715 min
Paging Dr. NerdLoveThe Secret to Successful FlirtingFlirting with amazing women is far less complicated or difficult than people think it is. Here's the secret. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS: Why we rarely recognize flirting when we see it The key to finding your flirting style What makes the difference between conversation and flirting How to make women become addicted to you An underused secret technique for successful flirting ...and so much more RELATED LINKS: How To Use Humor In Your Flirting The Subtle Things That Make Men More Attractive The Most Attractive Aspect of a Man...2019-06-0715 min
Paging Dr. NerdLoveThe Mistakes That Are Costing You DatesThis common belief is ruining your relationships and making it impossible to find the dating success you want. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS: How one simple change in your mindset means the difference between romantic success and failure How guys sabotage their own chances with women What Doctor Horrible's Sing-Along Blog teach us about Nice Guys and Bad Boys Why being wrong can help you connect with women Why women REALLY choose the "Bad Boy" over the "Nice Guy" ...and so much more. RELATED LINKS: 5 Simple Ways To Jumpstart Your Life What...2019-05-2319 min
Paging Dr. NerdLoveThe Mistakes That Are Costing You DatesThis common belief is ruining your relationships and making it impossible to find the dating success you want. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS: How one simple change in your mindset means the difference between romantic success and failure How guys sabotage their own chances with women What Doctor Horrible's Sing-Along Blog teach us about Nice Guys and Bad Boys Why being wrong can help you connect with women Why women REALLY choose the "Bad Boy" over the "Nice Guy" ...and so much more. RELATED LINKS: 5 Simple Ways To Jumpstart Your Life What...2019-05-2319 min
Paging Dr. NerdLoveWhy Are Millennials Having Less Sex?Millennials in general and Millennial men are having less sex than ever. Why? And what does this have to do with #metoo and the recent #sexstrike? SHOW HIGHLIGHTS: What the Economist gets wrong about Millennials and sex Why #MeToo IS to blame for the "sex recession"... kind of Why a "sex strike" is bad activism How our attitudes towards sex affects our ability to please our partners The REAL reason why men are having less sex ...and so much more RELATED LINKS: F*ck Like A Gentleman The Unbelievable...2019-05-1611 min
Paging Dr. NerdLoveWhy Are Millennials Having Less Sex?Millennials in general and Millennial men are having less sex than ever. Why? And what does this have to do with #metoo and the recent #sexstrike? SHOW HIGHLIGHTS: What the Economist gets wrong about Millennials and sex Why #MeToo IS to blame for the "sex recession"... kind of Why a "sex strike" is bad activism How our attitudes towards sex affects our ability to please our partners The REAL reason why men are having less sex ...and so much more RELATED LINKS: F*ck Like A Gentleman The Unbelievable...2019-05-1611 min
Paging Dr. NerdLoveThe Dr. NerdLoveLine SpecialYou've been waiting patiently, and it's finally here! This week, the Doc - and special guest host Crystal Donovan - take your questions from the NerdLove Hotline and dispense wit, wisdom, dating advice and digressions into side topics. Loved this episode? Have a dating question you'd like to hear answered on here? Call your question in to 512-522-6513 and leave a voice mail! Show Highlights: How do you talk about being an older virgin? What about when your friends want to talk about sex and you feel anxious? How do you approach women d...2019-05-091h 04
Paging Dr. NerdLoveThe Dr. NerdLoveLine SpecialYou've been waiting patiently, and it's finally here! This week, the Doc - and special guest host Crystal Donovan - take your questions from the NerdLove Hotline and dispense wit, wisdom, dating advice and digressions into side topics. Loved this episode? Have a dating question you'd like to hear answered on here? Call your question in to 512-522-6513 and leave a voice mail! Show Highlights: How do you talk about being an older virgin? What about when your friends want to talk about sex and you feel anxious? How do you approach women d...2019-05-091h 04
Paging Dr. NerdLoveOvercoming Self-Limiting BeliefsAlmost every man who struggles with dating, is holding on to these self-limiting beliefs: beliefs and assumptions about yourself and the world that hold you back from achieving your true potential. It's time to break free from the lies we tell ourselves and discover what we're truly capable of. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS: How to understand what self-limiting beliefs really are How to recognize our own self-limiting beliefs Why our beliefs are a self-fulfilling prophecy What it takes to break free from the cycle Why compassion is the most important trait for self-improvement RELATED LINKS: These Sel...2019-04-2518 min
Paging Dr. NerdLoveOvercoming Self-Limiting BeliefsAlmost every man who struggles with dating, is holding on to these self-limiting beliefs: beliefs and assumptions about yourself and the world that hold you back from achieving your true potential. It's time to break free from the lies we tell ourselves and discover what we're truly capable of. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS: How to understand what self-limiting beliefs really are How to recognize our own self-limiting beliefs Why our beliefs are a self-fulfilling prophecy What it takes to break free from the cycle Why compassion is the most important trait for self-improvement RELATED LINKS: These Sel...2019-04-2518 min
ManTalks PodcastDr. NerdLove - Pick Up Artists, Navigating Modern Dating, And Rekindling Romance
Harris O’Malley (AKA Dr. NerdLove) is an Austin-based, syndicated advice columnist and dating coach who provides geek dating advice at Paging Dr. NerdLove and his bi-weekly advice column “Ask Dr. NerdLove” on Kotaku.He and his work has been featured on Nightline, Fusion TV, The Guardian, New York Magazine, The Huffington Post, Wired, Sex Nerd Sandra, Daily Life, Slate, The Austin-American Statesman, Austin Monthly, Geek and Sundry, Boing Boing, Everyday Feminism, Buzzfeed, The Daily Dot, The Washington Post, Kotaku, Lifehacker, NeilStrauss.com, The Good Man Project, MTV’s Guy Code, The Harvard Business Journal, and many others.N...2019-04-151h 03
ManTalks PodcastDr. NerdLove - Pick Up Artists, Navigating Modern Dating, And Rekindling RomanceHarris O’Malley (AKA Dr. NerdLove) is an Austin-based, syndicated advice columnist and dating coach who provides geek dating advice at Paging Dr. NerdLove and his bi-weekly advice column “Ask Dr. NerdLove” on Kotaku.
He and his work has been featured on Nightline, Fusion TV, The Guardian, New York Magazine, The Huffington Post, Wired, Sex Nerd Sandra, Daily Life, Slate, The Austin-American Statesman, Austin Monthly, Geek and Sundry, Boing Boing, Everyday Feminism, Buzzfeed, The Daily Dot, The Washington Post, Kotaku, Lifehacker, NeilStrauss.com, The Good Man Project, MTV’s Guy Code, The Harvard Business Journal, and many others.
New Game Plus: Th...2019-04-151h 02
Paging Dr. NerdLoveThis Is Why Women Won't Date You (And How To Fix It)Young men are having less sex than ever. But what's more important is how you respond to that information. Here's what's ruining your chances with women. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS: ▶︎ How "why are men having less sex" is the wrong question ▶︎ The #1 reason why men ruin their chances with women ▶︎ How your attitude affects your love life ▶︎ The problem with "women are too picky" ▶︎ What a toxic waste monster can teach you about attraction RELATED LINKS: ▶︎ This Is Why You Fail With Women ▶︎ The Trouble With Incels ...2019-04-1116 min
Paging Dr. NerdLoveThis Is Why Women Won't Date You (And How To Fix It)Young men are having less sex than ever. But what's more important is how you respond to that information. Here's what's ruining your chances with women. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS: ▶︎ How "why are men having less sex" is the wrong question ▶︎ The #1 reason why men ruin their chances with women ▶︎ How your attitude affects your love life ▶︎ The problem with "women are too picky" ▶︎ What a toxic waste monster can teach you about attraction RELATED LINKS: ▶︎ This Is Why You Fail With Women ▶︎ The Trouble With Incels ...2019-04-1116 min
Paging Dr. NerdLoveThe Truth About Women and Casual SexWhy aren't more women interested in casual sex? What can guys do to find women who're interested in a no-strings hook-up? It's time to talk about the TRUTH about women, casual sex and how to find it... SHOW HIGHLIGHTS: ▶︎ Why women prefer relationships to hook-ups and casual partners ▶︎ How the orgasm gap affects our relationships ▶︎ Why being The Cool Girl works against women AND men ▶︎ Why "casual" sex is BAD sex ▶︎ What men can do to find more casual, no strings hook-ups ...and so much more RELATED LINKS: ▶︎ The...2019-03-2912 min
Paging Dr. NerdLoveThe Truth About Women and Casual SexWhy aren't more women interested in casual sex? What can guys do to find women who're interested in a no-strings hook-up? It's time to talk about the TRUTH about women, casual sex and how to find it... SHOW HIGHLIGHTS: ▶︎ Why women prefer relationships to hook-ups and casual partners ▶︎ How the orgasm gap affects our relationships ▶︎ Why being The Cool Girl works against women AND men ▶︎ Why "casual" sex is BAD sex ▶︎ What men can do to find more casual, no strings hook-ups ...and so much more RELATED LINKS: ▶︎ The...2019-03-2912 min
Paging Dr. NerdLoveThis Is The Worst Dating Advice In The World (And You Need To Follow It)"Just be yourself" is some of the worst advice that you can give someone who wants to get better at dating. It's also the most important. So here's how to quit being yourself and learn how to become your BEST self. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS: ▶︎ Why "just be yourself" is useless advice ▶︎ What we REALLY mean when we say "just be yourself" ▶︎ How you can learn to change who you are ▶︎ Why most people fail at changing themselves ▶︎ Why you should fake it 'til you make it ...and so much more. RELATED LINKS...2019-03-1417 min
Paging Dr. NerdLoveThis Is The Worst Dating Advice In The World (And You Need To Follow It)"Just be yourself" is some of the worst advice that you can give someone who wants to get better at dating. It's also the most important. So here's how to quit being yourself and learn how to become your BEST self. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS: ▶︎ Why "just be yourself" is useless advice ▶︎ What we REALLY mean when we say "just be yourself" ▶︎ How you can learn to change who you are ▶︎ Why most people fail at changing themselves ▶︎ Why you should fake it 'til you make it ...and so much more. RELATED LINKS...2019-03-1417 min
Paging Dr. NerdLoveThe Virgin's Guide To Great SexMany virgin men-- especially older virgins -- believe that no woman’s going to want to sleep with a guy who has no experience… but they can't they get that experience without having sex. So let’s ruin any chance of this episode being monetized and talk about what anyone — even a virgin — can do that will make them an amazing lover. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS: What women REALLY think of male virgins Why understanding YOUR needs can help you fulfill HERS The one thing men DON'T do (but they SHOULD) before their first time Why you need t...2019-02-2817 min
Paging Dr. NerdLoveThe Virgin's Guide To Great SexMany virgin men-- especially older virgins -- believe that no woman’s going to want to sleep with a guy who has no experience… but they can't they get that experience without having sex. So let’s ruin any chance of this episode being monetized and talk about what anyone — even a virgin — can do that will make them an amazing lover. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS: What women REALLY think of male virgins Why understanding YOUR needs can help you fulfill HERS The one thing men DON'T do (but they SHOULD) before their first time Why you need t...2019-02-2817 min
Paging Dr. NerdLoveWho REALLY Holds The Power In Dating?The power dynamics of dating directly affect your dating success. But who REALLY holds the power when it comes to dating? Why do so many people get the power dynamic of dating wrong and what's the REAL power when it comes to love, sex and romance? Show Highlights How many of the "rules" about dating are self-limiting beliefs in disguise What we're REALLY talking about when we ask who has the power in dating Why women DON'T have it easier than men... and how that helps YOU How to control the interaction How understanding the power...2019-02-1419 min
Paging Dr. NerdLoveWho REALLY Holds The Power In Dating?The power dynamics of dating directly affect your dating success. But who REALLY holds the power when it comes to dating? Why do so many people get the power dynamic of dating wrong and what's the REAL power when it comes to love, sex and romance? Show Highlights How many of the "rules" about dating are self-limiting beliefs in disguise What we're REALLY talking about when we ask who has the power in dating Why women DON'T have it easier than men... and how that helps YOU How to control the interaction How understanding the power...2019-02-1419 min
Paging Dr. NerdLoveDid #MeToo RUIN Flirting?Did the #MeToo movement change flirting forever? Can men no longer approach women? What makes the difference between flirting and harassment in this day and age? SHOW HIGHLIGHTS: The two types of complaints about #MeToo The goal behind the meme that men can't flirt anymore How men are getting the point of #MeToo wrong The MOST important part of flirting How to avoid being yet another creeper RELATED LINKS: What Does It Take To Be A Good Man? Perpetuating a Toxic Culture The Difference Between Flirting and Harassment Henry Cavill and Flirting in The #M...2019-01-3113 min
Paging Dr. NerdLoveDid #MeToo RUIN Flirting?Did the #MeToo movement change flirting forever? Can men no longer approach women? What makes the difference between flirting and harassment in this day and age? SHOW HIGHLIGHTS: The two types of complaints about #MeToo The goal behind the meme that men can't flirt anymore How men are getting the point of #MeToo wrong The MOST important part of flirting How to avoid being yet another creeper RELATED LINKS: What Does It Take To Be A Good Man? Perpetuating a Toxic Culture The Difference Between Flirting and Harassment Henry Cavill and Flirting in The #M...2019-01-3113 min
Paging Dr. NerdLoveIs Masculinity A Mental Illness?Don’t forget: I’m taking your questions for the NerdLoveLine special! Call (512) 522-6513 and leave a voicemail with your question! The American Psychological Association updated it's guidelines for the treatment of boys and men to say that toxic masculine ideologies are bad for men. Does this mean that masculinity is now a mental illness? Or is this an acknowledgement of the difficulties that men and boys face in modern society? SHOW HIGHLIGHTS: How being a man leads to unique mental and physical health issues Why men have a difficult time receiving effect...2019-01-1715 min
Paging Dr. NerdLoveHow To Keep Going (Even When It Feels Pointless)Don't forget: I'm taking your questions for the NerdLoveLine special! Call (512) 522-6513 and leave a voicemail with your question! Tell me if this has ever happened to you: you’ve started off trying to make some major change your life. You want to get better at dating, be more social, learn how to approach women, flirt a bit more... but once you’ve gotten started, nothing seems to be improving. Maybe you’ve made some minor progress, but the major changes, those big, life-changing moments, just aren’t happening. While any journey is easy at the star...2019-01-0319 min
Paging Dr. NerdLoveOffset, Cardi B. and The Wrong Way To Win Back Your ExThere are the right ways of getting back with your ex. And then there are the wrong ways. And then there’s what Offset did to Cardi B., which is one of the most astoundingly stupid ways of trying to get your ex back. Here's why those "grand romantic gestures" aren't romantic at all. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS Why it's so hard to let go of an ex Why "Grand Romantic Gestures" are actually creepy How public proposals backfire What Offset's "apology" says about him Why grand gestures are the WRONG way to win someo...2018-12-2014 min
Paging Dr. NerdLoveIs Masturbation Bad For You? Understanding The NoFap MovementTo fap or not to fap... that is the question. Are there health benefits to giving up masturbation? Is porn addiction a real thing? And just what is the NoFap movement, anyway? It’s time talk about sex with someone you love… yourself. Show Highlights: Why the “dangers” of masturbation haven’t changed in hundreds of years
The connection between testosterone and masturbation Why NoFap gives "super powers" Why stigmatizing masturbation can be dangerous Why the real problem is shame, not masturbation …and so much more. Important News: I'm taking ans...2018-12-0620 min
Paging Dr. NerdLoveThis is Why You Can't Get Over HerFriends, do you suffer from uncontrollable longing for someone who barely knows you’re alive? Are you unable to get over that break up, even after months or years? Do you have the sinking feeling that nobody in the world could be as right for you or mean as much as she does? Are you afraid that this was your last chance for true love? Then you may suffer from a disease known as Oneitis. Symptoms include heart palpitations, hopelessness, anxiety, terminal loneliness, embarrassing Spotify playlists, failed romantic relationships and a tendency to seek out pornstars that lo...2018-11-2916 min
Paging Dr. NerdLoveIs She Flirting or Just Being Friendly?How do you tell the difference between when someone's flirting with you and just being polite? And why are we so bad at telling the two apart in the first place? SHOW HIGHLIGHTS: How men and women both misjudge flirting behavior in others Why "Straight Dude Thinking" gets in the way of flirting success Why we mistake politeness and friendliness for interest How to recognize the signs that someone is flirting with you The number one key to recognizing that someone is interested... and not just being friendly. RELATED LINKS: Ask Dr. Ne...2018-11-2213 min
A Leap of Doubt#024: On Sex, Love, and Dating (feat. Harris O'Malley (aka Dr. NerdLove)There are all manner of misconceptions and potentially harmful myths surrounding what women want, what men want, and about how best to navigate romantic relationships, from flirting to dating to long-term relationships. On this episode, I speak with special guest Harris O’Malley, aka Doctor NerdLove, to dive into these issues and set the record straight on the complications and nuances of love, sex, and dating in the 21st century.
We talk about toxic masculinity and how to break away from it, why many men today are afraid of forming emotional bonds with other men. We discuss the...2018-08-2900 min
Sex Nerd SandraExiting the Friend ZoneEPIC NERDY LOVE STORY! Dating advice podcaster Harris O'Malley a.k.a. Dr. Nerdlove & wife Catherine Burke O'Malley (LEOG podcast) shares how he married out of the friend zone! TOPICS: Green Lantern Rings, Ancient Online Dating, Attraction in Friendship, Nice Girls & Boys, "Death Camp for Penis," Harris's Pickup Artist Phase, Seduction vs Coercion, the Hot Best Friend, Gay Parallel, Neato Time Dilation Effect, First Kiss, Friend Zone Philosophizing, the "Nice Guys of OKC" tumblr, Nice vs Good, Pedestals, Fish Tacos and the awkward turtle emoticon! Harris O’Malley is an Austin based blogger and dating coach who runs run the geek...2013-01-301h 10