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Engaging WalkEpisode 64: CommunicationIn this week's episode, Drake and Rubie are back after a bit of a sabbatical while they cared for their first baby. We continue on with communication as part of the five c's of connection. Drake will address issues like growing in your capacity for open dialogue, important topics to discuss, and the trajectory of communication development as it parallels the varying levels of commitment in a long-term relationship. We're so glad to be back!2025-04-2327 min
Engaging WalkEpisode 63: ChemistryIs Chemistry important in a relationship? Is it more important than compatibility, shared values, and a shared vision? What is chemistry in a relationship? Can the relationship be successful without it? Tune in to this week's episode, as Drake discusses these ideas and more. 2024-11-1220 min
Engaging WalkEpisode 62: Family CultureIn this week's episode, Drake discusses the importance of developing, maintaining, and protecting your family culture. 2024-10-2220 min
Engaging WalkEpisode 61: MotherhoodThis weeks episode features the return of Rubie! She is back to discuss her perspective on motherhood. We will resume the five c's of connection next week. Rubie is back and discusses all the things she learned from pregnancy, child birth, and raising a little human being as a first time mom. You won't want to miss this episode!2024-09-2836 min
Engaging WalkEpisode 60: CompatibilityIn our first episode of the Five C's of Connection series, Drake discusses "Compatibility" and provides an in-depth analysis of the different and essential aspects of what makes couples compatible and how they can maintain their compatibility over the course of their relationship. 2024-07-2530 min
Engaging WalkEpisode 59: The Five C's of ConnectionIn this week's episode, Drake discusses the Five C's of Connection: 2024-07-1215 min
Engaging WalkEpisode 59: How Do we Forgive Our Parents? In this special episode, Drake discusses the importance of forgiving our parents, reconciling the past, and recognizing the fact that our parents were human. Some acts may be difficult to forget, but moving on is important, especially when you start your own family. Drake discusses this and more in today's episode. 2024-07-1225 min
Engaging WalkEpisode 58: How Do We Forgive Our Parents? In this week's episode, Drake discusses the process of coming to an understanding, forgiving, and reconciling with our parents in order to have a healthy relationship with boundaries as adults. 2024-06-1725 min
Engaging WalkEpisode 57: Why Parenting is So Difficult and How We Can Make it EasierWe're back! In this week's episode, Drake covers some of the leading research on the challenges of being a parent, and some strategies and tactics to be the best parent you can be. www.engagingwalk.com2024-06-1440 min
Engaging WalkEpisode 56: The Greatest Benefit of Marriage On today's episode, Drake discusses the greatest benefit of marriage. Out of the many advantages, benefits, and blessings that come with marriage, nothing beats this one!www.engagingwalk,com2024-05-1117 min
Engaging WalkEpisode 55: Why Should Men Get Married in Today's Society When it Seems Like They Shouldn'tMany of the social media influencers have a cult-of-personality celebrating a life of hedonism and a playboy lifestyle. While these men may have pleasure in the moment, they are missing out on the spiritual and emotional growth and healing that occurs when a man takes a woman to be his lawfully wedded wife. On today's episode, Drake discusses the dangers of marriage for men in 2024, but provides some context on how to navigate those waters and the rewards of marriage. www.engagingwalk.com2024-05-1027 min
Engaging WalkEpisode 54: What Makes a Healthy Family? May 8, 2024. In today's episode, Drake discusses the importance and composition of a healthy family. What makes up a healthy family? Why is it important that our families are healthy? How have perspectives changed over the recent generations in terms of developing a healthy family? www.engagingwalk.com 2024-05-0816 min
Engaging WalkEpisode 53: Common Problems in MarriageIn this week's episode, Drake has recently gone spelunking into marriage Facebook groups and identified some of the most common issues according to the group members and how these problems can be corrected with a shift in perspective. You won't want to miss out on this week's conversation. 2024-05-0717 min
Engaging WalkEpisode 52: Who Should Apologize First? In this week's episode, Drake discusses the importance of identifying who should apologize first in the relationship when there is a conflict, misunderstanding, or miscommunication. Make sure you tune in! www.engagingwalk.com 2024-05-0612 min
Engaging WalkEpisode 51: What it Has Been Like to Become ParentsDrake and Rubie now have a newborn at home - their first child. In this week's episode, Drake discusses what it has been like to transition into parenthood. You'll hear some of the challenges, joys, and new perspectives on life that he has gained by becoming a parent for the first time. www.engagingwalk.com 2024-05-0325 min
Engaging WalkEpisode 50: Gottman 7 Principles of Marriage - Principle 7: Create Shared MeaningIn this week's episode, Drake covers the final of the seven principles for making marriage work by Gottman.www.engagingwalk.comwww.gottman.com2024-04-0619 min
Engaging WalkEpisode 49: Gottman 7 Principles of Marriage - Principle 6: Overcome GridlockIn this week's episode, Drake gives an overview and commentary of the sixth principle for Gottman: overcome gridlock. Drake talks about the most relevant and important aspects of this chapter and gives his own insights to the significance of recognizing your spouse's dreams in order to maintain clarity for the family vision. Engaging Walk is not affiliated with Gottman in any way. www.engagingwalk.comwww.gottman.com2024-03-1918 min
Engaging WalkEpisode 48: Gottman 7 Principles of Marriage - Principle 5: Solve Your Solvable Problems In this week's episode, Drake discusses the significance of Gottman's fifth principle of making marriage work: solve your solvable problems. For Gottman, this includes a discussion around the solvable and unsolvable problems in marriage, as well as a discussion around solving the solvable problems. Drake gives his perspective on this principle and some of the important factors in being able to solve our solvable problems. Engaging Walk is not affiliate with Gottman in any way. www.engagingwalk.com www.gottman.com2024-03-1633 min
Engaging WalkEpisode 47: Gottman 7 Principles of Marriage - Principle 4: Let Your Partner Influence You In this week's episode, Drake and Rubie discuss the significance of Gottman's fourth principle: letting your partner influence you. They also give some commentary about how this relates to conflict resolution, being present in the relationship, and give some concrete examples. You won't want to miss this week's Monday episode! Engaging Walk is not affiliated or sponsored by Gottman Institute.www.engagingwalk,comwww.gottman.com2024-03-1133 min
Engaging WalkEpisode 46: Gottman 7 Principles of Marriage - Principle 3: Turn Towards Each OtherIn this week's episode, Drake gives us a review of Gottman's third principle: turn towards each other. He also provides his insight as to why this is so important in marriage and in relationships. You won't want to miss this episode! Engaging Walk is not affiliated with Gottman in any way. www.engagingwalk.comwww.gottman.com2024-03-0822 min
Engaging WalkEpisode 45: Gottman 7 Principles of Marriage - Principle 2: Nurturing Your Fondness and Admiration In this week's episode, Drake and Rubie have a discussion about the second principle of Gottman: nurturing your fondness and admiration in the relationship. Drake and Rubie also give their reaction to how this principle can be implemented in the marriage and why they believe it is so important. You won't want to miss this week's episode!www.engagingwalk.com www.gottman.com 2024-03-0434 min
Engaging WalkEpisode 44: Gottman 7 Principles of Marriage - Principle 1: Love MapsI this week's Friday episode, Rubie is back! She and Drake give an in-depth analysis and have a conversation about the first of seven principles in Gottman's research into marriage. One year ago, Drake and Rubie were first introduced to Gottman's research during a marriage retreat. This time, they have a new understanding of what Love Maps are, and why they are important to understand in the success and failures of marriage. You really won't want to miss this episode! Stay tuned for the next five weeks, as this is only the first of ten episodes diving into Gottman's...2024-03-0126 min
Engaging WalkEpisode 43: Is Jealousy Healthy in the Relationship? In this week's episode, Drake discusses the significance of jealousy in the relationship. When is it justified to feel jealous? Is jealousy innately bad? How can we use the feeling of jealousy to strengthen the relationship? 2024-02-2617 min
Engaging WalkEpisode 42: Dating and Politics In this week's Friday special, Drake discusses the importance of discussing political leanings in dating in order to determine compatibility. 2024-02-2324 min
Engaging WalkEpisode 41: Do's and Don'ts of the First Date In this week's episode, Drake discusses the importance of the do's and don'ts of the first date for men and women. This includes leading up the first date, the first date itself, and how to determine if the relationship is worth pursuing. www.engagingwalk.com2024-02-2021 min
Engaging WalkEpisode 40: The Art of Charm - Command Appeal in the ConversationIn this week's episode, Drake and Rubie discuss how to approach the conversation in dating. Join in as they discuss topics like being authentic in the conversation, maintaining appeal, and driving at deeper understanding while elevating how others perceive you. These topics work for dating, friendship, and business relationships. Make sure to tune in! 2024-02-1335 min
Engaging WalkEpisode 39: Comparing Modern and Traditional DatingIn this week's episode, Drake and Rubie continue with their dating series. As we are in the season of Valentine's Day, let's take a moment to compare how dating used to work, versus how works now - particularly in the west. Is a more traditional approach better in terms of long-term stability? Can modern dating establish proper boundaries? How do gender roles come into play with modern and traditional style dating? Drake and Rubie cover these topics and more. Make sure to tune in!www.EngagingWalk.com2024-02-0550 min
Engaging WalkEpisode 38: Supporting Your Wife Through PregnancyIn this week's Friday Special, Drake discusses the importance of providing your wife or partner with the support they need through pregnancy. Pregnancy can be really challenging for mom and dad. But, as men, we have a different set of challenges and expectations in supporting our woman as she goes through so many changes. How do we get the information we need? What happens at each trimester? What do I need to know? Drake covers these topics and more. Tune into the conversation!2024-02-0241 min
Engaging WalkEpisode 37: Is Online Dating Worth the Trouble? In this week's episode, Drake and Rubie discuss all things online dating. Is online dating stigmatized? Is it a good way to find a long-term partner? What does the latest data show about online dating? Join in on the conversation!2024-01-2948 min
Engaging WalkEpisode 36: I.S.S. Movie ReactionIn this week's Friday Special, Drake gives a reaction of the I.S.S. movie released on January 19, 2024. Engaging Walk Podcast is all about relationships, marriage, and maintaining connection. Drake and Rubie go on weekly date nights to ensure they never stop dating, even in marriage. During a recent date night, they saw the I.S.S. movie, and Drake gives his reaction to the film in this Friday Special. What does the film have to teach us about relationships, trust, and communication? This film shows us how deep intimacy established over prolonged periods of time can be severed...2024-01-2633 min
Engaging WalkEpisode 35: How to Grow Closer to Each OtherIn this week's episode, Drake and Rubie discuss the fourth part of their vision series, which highlights of importance of growing together - not apart. Couples need to ensure that their plans, vision, and goals for the future take each other into account. 2024-01-2242 min
Engaging WalkEpisode 34: Overcoming Obstacles and Staying Motivated on the Path to Your GoalsIn this week's episode, Drake and Rubie discuss how to overcome obstacles and stay motivated on the path to your goals, particularly by celebrating small successes on your path. This is a relationship and marriage podcast, so it wouldn't be complete without discussing how we accomplish our goals as a couple and maintain our connection throughout the process. www.engagingwalk.com2024-01-1640 min
Engaging WalkEpisode 33: The Power of Goal Setting: How to Make Your Dreams a Reality and Aligning Your Goals With Your VisionIn this week's episode, Drake and Rubie discuss the second part of four in their vision series. Having a vision and goals for your life can change when you're in a relationship. How do we grow together without growing apart? Drake and Rubie are a married couple from San Diego, California. Join them as they discuss this important relationship topic and more. www.engagingwalk.com2024-01-0929 min
Engaging WalkEpisode 32: Strategies for Success and Visualizing Your Dreams - Reflecting on the Past Year: Lessons Learned and New Goals for the FutureIn this week's episode, the first of 2024, Drake and Rubie discuss meaningful ways in which couples can establish a shared and individual vision and act in ways to accomplish your goals. You won't want to miss this new episode of the New Year! 2024-01-0327 min
Engaging WalkEpisode 31: Reflecting on 2023 and Getting Ready for 2024In this week's episode, Drake and Rubie reflect on 2023, which was a huge year for them. They talk about the importance of reflecting on the year, taking note of the positive notes and learning from the lows. They also put this into the context of being a married couple and growing together throughout the year. www.engagingwalk.com2023-12-1846 min
Engaging WalkEpisode 30: Managing Stress and Being Present During the HolidaysThe holidays can be a stressful time for many. For some, we have too many people to see, gifts to buy, and parties to attend. For others, they're lonely transplants, on deployment, or don't have family or friends to see during the holidays. On this Friday special, Drake and Rubie discuss ways in which you can manage stress and be present during the holiday season. www.engagingwalk.com2023-12-1533 min
Engaging WalkEpisode 29: Fathers and the Role of Men in the FamilyIn this week's episode, Drake takes on the topic of what it means to be a father. With a newborn on the way, he discusses the importance of sacrifice, discovering who you are as a man, and how imperative it is to put your old self aside and embrace your new role as the head of the family. 2023-12-1224 min
Engaging WalkEpisode 28: Special Addition: Pregnancy!In this week's episode, Rubie and Drake discuss exciting news: a new addition to their family! 2023-12-0431 min
Engaging WalkEpisode 27: Navigating "The One" Part III: Seeking Advice and Counsel from Mentors and Role ModelsIn this week's episode, Rubie and Drake further discuss how you can identify a suitable romantic partner by seeking advice from an outside perspective. It's necessary to seek counsel from role models and mentors to make sure your heart and your mind are both making an informed decision.2023-11-2739 min
Engaging WalkEpisode 26: Navigating "The One" Part II: Asking Your Partner Deep Questions In this week's episode, Drake and Rubie go further into their "Navigating the One" series by discussing what it means to ask your partner deep questions. Asking deep questions in the dating stage can save you a lot of heartache in the future. Make sure that the person you are investing your time into is a good match for you! You won't want to miss this discussion!2023-11-2052 min
Engaging WalkEpisode 25: Navigating "The One" by Investing in Yourself In this week's episode, Drake and Rubie discuss the idea of finding the person who is "The One" for you. Before you know who is right for you, you have to really know who you are and what you bring to the table. You won't want to miss this week's episode and the new series from Engaging Walk Podcast!www.engagingwalk.com 2023-11-1532 min
Engaging WalkEpisode 24: Protecting Your Family Norms Through Boundaries and Maintaining StandardsDrake and Rubie go into their third part of the family norms series. First episode (Episode 22) discusses the importance of establishing and cultivating your family norms. The Second episode (Episode 23) discusses the importance of implementing your family norms into action. In this week's episode, Drake and Rubie discuss the importance and methods of protecting your family norms through boundaries and maintaining standards. www.engagingwalk.com2023-11-0639 min
Engaging WalkEpisode 23: Implementing Family NormsIn this week's episode, Drake and Rubie are back with a discussion of family culture and norms. They discuss how to implement steps into your routine to establish a positive and connection-based culture in your household.2023-11-0135 min
Engaging WalkEpisode 22: Cultivating Family Norms In this week's episode, Rubie and Drake go into the important topic of how and why you should set up your family norms!www.engagingwalk.com2023-10-1632 min
Engaging WalkEpisode 21: Marriage MilestonesIn this week's episode, Drake and Rubie discuss new and exciting milestones in their relationship, and how these milestones will shape their relationship.2023-10-0923 min
Engaging WalkEpisode 20: Boba the Corgi Drake and Rubie have now had the immense pleasure of raising up their dog named Boba. Boba is a Corgi who absolutely loves to play, hang out with mom and dad, go to dog parks, and brings so much love and joy to everyone she meets. Drake and Rubie discuss what it has been like to introduce a dog into their lives, and what lessons they have learned from taking care of Boba.2023-09-2534 min
Engaging WalkEpisode 19: Intimacy Part 4In this week's episode, Drake and Rubie discuss the importance of spending quality time together. www.engagingwalk.com2023-09-1827 min
Engaging WalkEpisode 18: Intimacy Part 3In this week's episode, Drake and Rubie discuss the importance of providing our loved ones with gratitude and recognition for what they bring to the table in our relationships. www.engagingwalk.com2023-09-1125 min
Engaging WalkEpisode 17: Intimacy Part 2This week, Drake and Rubie discuss the benefits of small gestures and how these actions can deepen intimacy in your relationship.2023-09-0417 min
Engaging WalkEpisode 16: IntimacyIn this week's episode, Rubie and Drake discuss the important topic of intimacy in the relationship. You won't want to miss this!2023-08-2833 min
Engaging WalkEpisode 15: Oppenheimer ReactionIn this week's episode, Drake and Rubie react to the film Oppenheimer! You have been notified of the spoiler alert!2023-08-2141 min
Engaging WalkEpisode 14: Understanding Your Partner's CallingIn this week's episode, Drake and Rubie discuss the importance of understanding your partner's calling, their hopes, dreams, and what they believe they were put on this Earth to accomplish. Knowing and supporting your partner's dreams and goals is crucial to having a healthy relationship.2023-08-1431 min
Engaging WalkEpisode 13: Love MapsThis week, Rubie and Drake discuss the importance of reflecting on your relationships and developing love maps, which serve as a daily reminder of how far you have come and accomplished as a couple. Join them as they discuss how they created a love map in their home and why you should too!.2023-08-0721 min
Engaging WalkEpisode 12: Growing in FaithIn this week's episode, Rubie and Drake discuss the importance of faith combability, growing in faith together, and establishing the understandings necessary to maintain a common goal and higher purpose to your relationship.2023-07-3141 min
Engaging WalkEpisode 11: Finding New Activities as a CoupleIn this week's episode, Drake and Rubie discuss the importance of finding new activities and hobbies to do together as a couple.2023-07-2420 min
Engaging WalkEpisode 10: Boba the CorgiIn this week's episode, Rubie and Drake discuss the process of raising their puppy, Boba the Corgi. She was named after Rubie and Drake's love of boba tea. Listen in for the important lessons they learned bringing a puppy into their home!2023-07-1724 min
Engaging WalkEpisode 9: Familial ProblemsIn this week's episode, Drake and Rubie discuss how to handle problems within the family, especially problems with in-laws that may arise. Tune in to learn more!2023-07-1021 min
Engaging WalkEpisode 8: Family Norms and RolesIn this week's episode, Rubie and Drake discuss the important concept of establishing family norms and roles in the relationship. What sorts of things should we do all the time as a couple? What keeps us connected? What sorts of things become our family traditions? Listen in to learn more!2023-07-0322 min
Engaging WalkEpisode 7: Work-life BalanceIn this week's episode, Rubie and Drake discuss the importance of maintaining work-life balance in the relationship, tips on managing priorities, and maintaining balance of work-life responsibilities. Tune in!2023-06-2629 min
Engaging WalkEpisode 6: Breaking Down BarriersJoin Drake and Rubie, a married couple from San Diego, CA, as they discuss all things marriage and their practice of going on an Engaging Walk. Take time to connect with your significant other today during an Engaging Walk, where you can have deep conversations, grow as individuals, and as a couple. Follow us on Facebook, Instagram, subscribe to our YouTube channel, and check out our website for more content. Our podcast Engaging Walk is available on Spotify, Apple, Google, and much more! Join us on our Engaging Walk and join in on the conversation. www.engagingwalk.com music performed...2023-06-1928 min
Engaging WalkEpisode 5: Learning About Your Partner and YourselfJoin Drake and Rubie, a married couple from San Diego, CA, as they discuss all things marriage and their practice of going on an Engaging Walk. Take time to connect with your significant other today during an Engaging Walk, where you can have deep conversations, grow as individuals, and as a couple. Follow us on Facebook, Instagram, subscribe to our YouTube channel, and check out our website for more content. Our podcast Engaging Walk is available on Spotify, Apple, Google, and much more! Join us on our Engaging Walk and join in on the conversation. www.engagingwalk.com Music performed...2023-06-1247 min
Engaging WalkEpisode 4: Love LanguagesIn this week's episode, Drake and Rubie discuss the five love languages and how knowing the ways in which your partner needs to receive love is very helpful in daily life and especially during conflict.2023-06-0522 min
Engaging WalkEpisode 3: Marriage Retreat Special In this week's episode, Drake and Rubie go on a marriage retreat which was sponsored by the US Navy. Drake and Rubie share their experiences and lessons learned from their quality time together.2023-05-2931 min
Engaging WalkEpisode 2: Intentionally Living TogetherBeing intentional in your relationship is of the utmost importance. In this week's episode, Drake and Rubie discuss being intentional in marriage. From planning dates, trips, events, vacations, goals, shared visions, and dreams, being intentional in how your household runs makes a huge difference. You don't want to miss this week's discussion!2023-05-2321 min
Engaging WalkEpisode 1: Engaging WalkDrake and Rubie, a married couple from San Diego, California, discuss their marriage culture and how they go on Engaging Walks. Join them on this first episode where they talk about how they enjoy spending time together, ask each other engaging questions, and go on an Engaging Walk together.2023-05-2216 min